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43 - Why Your Wife Doesn't Want to Have Sex
In this solo episode, Alex Charfen explores why a wife who wants less sex may not actually have a libido problem.
For years, Alex and Cadey experienced the same dynamic that affects countless couples: he wanted more sex, she wanted less, and every rejection created more frustration, pressure, and disconnection.
Alex initially thought the issue was desire. After years of studying intimacy, nervous-system regulation, Tantra, relationship dynamics, and his own behavior, he came to understand something very different.
Desire does not exist in a vacuum.
A woman's willingness to open sexually can…
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