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Yoreh De’ah 232:18-233:1. Vows: When Binding, Understood Conditions; At What Age, Adults or Minors · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK Ray Shalam bet he'll host nadarium see if your hat shoot
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  Tafim Shiberu Dianim Bikoa herim all right so two guys are
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  arguing little dispute how to deal with it and they say we're
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  going to you know, choose a based in choose this rabbi 3
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  Dianim whatever it is with the herim that if we back out back
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  down and not want to use this this these three people or
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  person based in whatever it is and make a theorem they agree to
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  it. The qayim mashed Igzuru alayim
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  that they're going to accept whatever they're told to do OK
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  the akharc, the ekhad mihem masar mudah shalak Kibel Allah
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  and ivarim. Now one of them he let's see, he
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  wrote it down. He made he wrote some I don't
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  know. He wrote it down, told someone
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  in secrecy that really or in his mind I'm not really accepting
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  these rabbis or this based in I don't I don't rely on them.
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  I'm not going. I only said this Ella kadeshi
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  tamet Mashakhayavlo shahya shahya yare Shama Yahish Shahid
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  one second Shama Yahish Shahid Khilomar.
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  In other words, I needed to do this because if I didn't show
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  how serious I am and I'm willing to pick someone, then the guy
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  was going to get out of it or lie or something.
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  And or, or, or he might think, whatever the case is, you might
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  think that those dayanim are going to listen to whatever he
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  says. Maybe he donates money to them,
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  he's friendly with them. He thought he had an ace in the
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  hole and he knew he figured it out.
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  Whatever it is. He didn't tell us that that was
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  just in his mind or he wrote it down somewhere.
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  The the Akhar Shagazru. And then they make their they
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  make their din, these, these three people and Ivarium.
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  And then he whips out the piece of paper from his pocket or he
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  gets someone to testify for him here.
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  Ah Moda Azo to and he, he shows this Moda that he really wasn't
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  serious. The Amar shenur de la cabella
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  mashi adin Allah but Diana kahal but didn't.
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  So OK, we'll save it for Khoshi and Mishpat, but well, whatever
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  I must. I believe even if there's Adim
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  but I'm not, I can't tell. I can't say it for sure.
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  In other words, he did. He made this harem with this guy
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  and he's not disagreeing with the harem.
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  He made the harem and there was nobody else in the room and he
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  didn't, he didn't take back his word at the time.
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  He was, he said it seriously. And if afterwards he wrote it
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  down or afterwards he told Adium, I don't think it makes a
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  difference. But I can't tell you for sure.
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  The Kabbalah's harem was just between him or witnesses that
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  all saw them make the harem. There was no question about the
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  harem anyways. So then after, bottom line, the
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  issue is after he properly accepts upon the harem, upon
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  himself, let's say there were Adrian who saw the harem.
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  Make it simple. Everyone knows there's a harem.
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  There's no question about it. The Adrian were there and there
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  was no mode at the time. He didn't protest or take back
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  what he said. He, he, he signed the deal that
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  he's going to accept this arbitration or whatever the case
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  might be, these rabbis. Then afterwards he goes, you
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  know what? I never really accepted it.
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  I only did it in order to maybe get you to give in and then
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  hopefully you would just give in and the whole thing would
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  settle. He did it for whatever reason,
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  but he's explaining to that to us after he already accepted the
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  theorem. Well, that doesn't help.
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  Even if you had it in his mind, we learned divine should believe
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  in him. Divine doesn't work.
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  So right, Unless it's something that we all assume it's divine.
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  Well, unless we all assume he's not being serious, that's
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  another story. But here it looks like he was
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  serious and he didn't say so. Therefore you can't afterwards
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  now say you know I wasn't serious.
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  I'm only going to accept what the basin of the cities tells me
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  to do, not just these three random people.
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  Kevin Shakib al Allah baharim asur Lok restored dinam.
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  So the laha is the kharim is binding and he must follow
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  through or he's stuck with this. OK, let's go on to you Tet me.
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  Shapira should be shot. Nidro alma net Nadar I raise it
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  Kitola nidro be OTA dava. OK, now these last few cases are
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  not exactly cases where it's these are not cases where it's
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  not Khal, right? We had the four, Arba Nadarian,
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  Kilo. It's not exactly 4, but we'll
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  call them Arba Nadarian, where it's never even Khal to begin
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  with. So we see Yutet and Kaf the the
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  Nadarian. I mean, yeah, the Nadarian
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  Arkhal. OK, so let's see what the case
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  is here. When he made the Nader he put
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  in, he said exactly why he's making the Nader.
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  So if at the same moment you say the words of the Nether, you
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  also say why you're making the Nether, then that's Kilu.
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  You made a tanai on the Nether. Because everybody in the rooms,
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  on the issue of Dwarim Shibbolevi Dwarim, everyone in
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  the room understands and right, well, common sense, what your
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  intention was. So therefore, it's right, it's
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  not a case of Chicago. It's just a case of here you
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  have a tonight. So the nether is is what it is.
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  But The Tonight is there. It's as if you made The Tonight
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  verbally without making you don't have to say a lush on of a
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  tonight. You just have to say why you're
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  making the nether. And it's as if you said the
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  words on, on the following condition, the Imanis Kayamada,
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  Varshanishva Biglalo and he made the nether, you know, because if
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  something should happen, you know, I'm going to make because
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  my family is coming to visit me here tomorrow or for the
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  holidays. I'm making a shivuah to do
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  something. So I didn't say it's on The
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  Tonight that they're coming. I said because they're coming,
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  I'm making a shivuah. So now if their trip gets
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  cancelled, there's a war on, the planes aren't coming, whatever
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  the case might be, then the Nedders or Shivua is not Khal.
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  Because it was as if you made the words tonight mutter Kegon
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  Shalmar Shanino said to Pelonid. Like what her person says, I'm
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  going to, I'm not going to marry this woman.
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  I'm making a Shivua Shavira because her father is wicked,
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  this sham O Shamet, and then he finds out that the father died.
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  OSHA ASA chuva, or he did chuva before he made the nether.
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  In other words, today he's not raw.
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  He's a good person. Aim Sari Khatara is either a
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  good person alive or not alive. But he's not.
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  He's not a bad person anymore. Filu met.
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  What does the shock say? A filu met OSA chuva ahar
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  haneder ain't sorry hatara. In other words, it is Khal.
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  If he's not alive, then it's Khal immediately.
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  If he is alive and he is raw, then it then it is Khal.
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  Sorry. Then it is Khal and he's not
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  allowed to marry her until he changes what he changes or dies,
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  right? When he changes or dies, then
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  he's allowed to marry her. And you don't have to do Ataris
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  Nadarin. You say Mazato when he dies.
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  OK, very funny. OK, Ansari Katara.
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  Then you don't have to do Hatara based on his clear intent.
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  That's how we understand what the shuvuwa is.
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  And either it's not Hal or it is Hal and then it could be it
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  could end. It could be a tokef at
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  expiration date depending on if it's a facts change.
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  The havoc evil piration noder al Zaha tonight is if you
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  explicitly said The Tonight OK when she needs bottle needs
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  bottle and neder and when the tanai is bottle then the neder
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  is bottle. So it depends when it's
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  nitbatal. If the Tanais nitbatal before
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  the nether starts, then it never the nether never started.
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  If it's nitbatal later on, then it is Khal immediately, but then
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  it disappears later on depending on the nether.
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  Fine, let's go on to Kaf, the ode Schneider schein sari
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  khatara. Here's another case that you
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  don't have to do Ataris Nadarian for again, it is a real Ned
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  there. That's Khal, but you don't it
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  ends without it can end without doing Ataras Nadarian.
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  What do we mean? OK, go on.
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  Right. The Arba Nadarian, they were
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  never Khal to begin with, right? In general, that's the case.
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  Those are that's the traditional cases here.
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  So here these are cases where it is Khal, but it's it's
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  disappears on its own. Kegon shamar lakavero konam
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  shahani nahena laka. You may not tell me many ka VE
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  ka. So he says to his friend,
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  listen, I'm going to make another.
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  I'm not going to benefit from you at all if you don't take
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  from me such and such like this is really a, this is from the
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  Mishnah and Khet Zain where it says if you don't want you to
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  take this core of wheat or these barrels of wine and give it to
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  your son. And if you don't take from me,
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  I'm what I'm giving you as a gift for your son, then I'm, I'm
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  making a Ned there that you, I'm not going to benefit from you.
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  Basically he's saying, listen, come here, I want to give you a
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  gift. Give it to your son.
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  I don't know your newlywed son, your child.
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  And if you don't take it from me, I'm going to be so mad at
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  you. I'm never going to talk to you
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  again. It was I'm going to make another
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  against you. But Kilo, he's serious, right?
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  So then let's keep reading. So then there's a there is a way
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  out, right? We're saying the Ned there is
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  hall now. I'll just stop right now for a
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  SEC. So the question is, wait, maybe
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  this is a Ned thereof. Come on, help me out.
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  Zeros, zeros in. So therefore we learned one of
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  the main categories that it's never hall is if it's zeros in.
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  So we're talking about a case where it's not another of zeros
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  in we're teaching you. I mean, it's it's in the
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  mission. We're teaching you a another
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  way. We're teaching you a new halacha
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  over here. Let's say it's a case of not a
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  nether zeros. It's a real nether.
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  Either you specify by the way, you just the way you learned.
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  As long as you tell the guy, listen, this is not another
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  zeros. I'm being serious.
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  Then that's not another zeros. That's a real nether or the
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  Gemara really asks the question. The Gomara asks how come this is
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  not a case of zeros? So the Gomara says it's on
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  kaftalid, even though the Gomara is in the Psalm, the mission is
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  in Psalm of Gomara isn't kaftalid.
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  And it says that's just the taz point set out.
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  I don't know Shahs Bahar. So anyways, the the he says it's
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  the Gomara says how come it's not a case of zeros?
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  But we must be talking about a case where the guy's always
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  taking from him. I mean, it depends on which case
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  we're going to see the converse. But they're always taking from
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  each other. The guy's always getting gifts
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  from this one guy. Yeah, right.
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  The one who usually who wants to give, now he's usually taking
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  from the other guy. He's regularly getting.
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  So the the mission is like, so that's the case.
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  So basically the Gamara Gamara has an expression and says like
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  the guy basically tells him I'm not a dog who's just a taker and
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  a taker and a taker. Yeah, so that's what I said.
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  And Kalba, I'm not a Kalba and I'm not just going to take my
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  whole life from you. I'm putting my foot down.
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  I'm always taking it right now this time you take this gift and
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  give it to your kids. I want to reciprocate.
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  I want to also give to you. I don't want to be in a one way
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  St. It doesn't feel good.
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  So therefore we see since he's always taking we know that he's
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  not joking around over here. It's not a zeros he's being this
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  is a real nether. OK, whatever the case is that we
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  we talk or whatever, it's whenever it's established, it's
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  not a case of zeros. So that's when the salaha comes
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  up and we saw this, we saw we're going to see this in a minute.
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  So what's how do how do we be matir it?
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  How does it expire without it happening?
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  So Yahoo lahatir nidro so his friend who he was making the
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  nedro with, he can tell him, his friend tells him Shiloh alpi.
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  OK, wait a second. Yahoo lahatiro and nidro Shiloh
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  alpi hakam his friend could be matir his nether for him without
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  doing without, without doing. Hataras nadarim.
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  How could he be matirat? How could he end the nether?
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  Shyo Marlow Klum edarta El his friends tell him, listen, I
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  understand you are honoring me. You want to give this present to
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  my son or to my child, But whoever it is, because you want
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  to honor me, right? And he says, like this, Wizzo,
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  Quavodi, Shalo Atamimka, his friend says, no, no, no, it's my
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  honor that I'm not going to take from you.
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  That's how I feel good. I feel good about and honored
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  when I'm not taking from you. And so therefore, since your
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  intention was to honor him, he is getting honored.
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  He's honored by being asked to take it and to have the option
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  and, and, and the, the opportunity to refuse and says
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  now I'm really happy and and honored and thank you so much.
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  So then that is if he got it because he did get the honor and
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  that's enough. We had a similar case to to that
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  with the money. I think.
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  I think it's going to come up, but basically with the money
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  also you could just say Quibalti.
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  Remember we had a case when you have to make a Shibuya to give
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  somebody money and you don't actually have to give the money.
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  The guy can say I got the money, we'll assume, we'll assume he
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  got the money and you don't have to pay me anymore and that'll
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  resolve A chivua. So it's just like this, the filo
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  in a madrama buffet. Even if the Madrid didn't tell
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  him explicitly why you know what he that you know that it's for
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  the cover or why he's making such another and it just he just
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  tells them to him without any explanation and it's fine.
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  And it's and it's, it's called, but it's also ends with him when
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  he says that, when his friend tells him that or the converse,
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  the guy says OK, enough, enough. I'm making another against you
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  that if you don't give me such and such for my child, then I'm
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  also going to make another here. It's like the opposite
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  direction. It doesn't matter either way.
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  Yeh Shlo Hatara. Afterwards he can just take it
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  back or be a mati or kilo again. You're not really doing ataris
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  in the Darian. You're just making the nether
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  end, the Loch Ayla Kaham without doing it.
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  The real Hataris, the Darian MI ikara shiyo marlo harehi harehu
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  kiyo kibalti. If the nedra was on the was, if
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  he doesn't give me or give it to him.
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  And who's ever on the receiving end, he can just say the words
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  kibalti, right? That we had earlier before with
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  a Cove of paying money haggah. OK, yesh omrim.
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  Now this is interesting and it's not exactly clear to me which
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  Yesh omrim is more more followed than the other.
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  We have two yeesh omrims, yeesh omrim dafka vidavarqiyum masse
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  Yahoo lomar kiloa city. Now when can you tell the guy?
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  It says if I did it as if I accepted it as if I did it.
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  So he says one opinion says you can only do that on when you
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  need to do something and then you're supposed to do that
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  action. And then you said, well, it's as
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  if I did the action, right? It says, let's say with money.
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  That's an easy way to understand.
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  You say you have to pay a certain amount and then you say
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  it says if I got the money. So then that's when we say the
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  nedger's over. Everyone agrees to the halacha,
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  fine, Ababa, but to take back an an action that was physically
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  done and like Kilo, go back in time or pretend it never
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  happened. So that may not be possible to
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  do such a thing. Kagon, what are we saying?
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  I'm making an Ed there for my possessions.
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  To you I am Taylor Lamacomploni. If you go there, in other words,
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  I don't want you to go there. And if you go there, then you're
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  offending me. You're making me very upset.
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  You're going to embarrass me, you know, around the rogues with
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  that person. Don't go to that person's house.
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  If you go, then then that's it. We're we're not friends anymore.
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  You, you, you can't touch my stuff.
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  That type of Neder. Well, you hello Marla.
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  Afterwards, he goes there and he now the Shibua Neder becomes
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  binding. You can't again, when you call
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  it zeros and not zeros, that's a whole not always so simple, but
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  let's just go on. Let's say it's a case where he
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  was serious and he meant it and it's a nether and it's hall you.
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  So then the hava le Ki ilu loha lachta.
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  You can't just say afterwards, you know, I'm going to pretend
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  like you never went and then the shibua was never hall.
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  The guy went there. You can't change the facts of
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  reality to go back and to undo an action that was done.
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  OK, Vyesh Omrim de Angelik. And the other opinion says, what
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  do you mean? There's there's no difference if
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  you can say that it's as if you got it.
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  You can say it says if you never went there.
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  And OK, So those are the two opinions.
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  Nicole Tanai Shihuatova Tanoder Yahoo Lomar Hireli Kiyamta or
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  Kayamata tonight and whenever it's for his benefit, so that
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  whoever is benefiting can say it's as if it was fulfilled.
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  Misha amarcona matanelli IME nata noten levni kakbekak A
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  person makes a neder on the condition that he gives it to
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  his son. Imaben somer al shokan Aviv.
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  Now this son is relying sustained from his father.
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  His father supports him so then imke inhabit Kavin le Tobato.
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  So then the father when he says for his son, then really he
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  means also for himself the Yukalo marky with kabalti.
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  So then the father who's supporting the son on the son's
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  behalf can say Ki le with kabalti, right?
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  Because it's like the same pocket the in love.
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  But if the father has no connection to the son
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  financially in well, not complete connection, you know,
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  helping out a little bit every month is not it's probably not.
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  Well, actually I don't know. That's a good question.
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  But if you help out a little bit, Kavua.
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  OK, good question. The imlav inhab Yahoo lomarkov
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  Rakhaben. But if the father doesn't
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  support the son, giving gifts does not count.
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  But there's certainly no connection on a regular basis.
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  So then the father certainly can't say kilo Kibaldi for the
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  son when the the whole Tanai and the whole nether was based on
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  the son receiving, not the father.
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  OK, let's do the next Simon Raish Alamad Gilmel.
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  Oh, not Nadarian Mazarul in a cava.
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  What about what age does it start?
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  OK, funny question, right? It's a little bit of a surprise
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  here. OK, this is from the Mishnah
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  NIDAI Khatan Ben Stan Stemiseri Shana Vyom Ekhar.
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  Now you have a young boy. Well, young man or an old boy,
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  whatever it is, he's 12 years old, a khatan, 12 years old.
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  Now normally when do we say you're bar mitzvah?
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  For a boy it's 13, and for a girl it's 12, Right?
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  So here, now, that's generally for all mitzvahs and for
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  everything, you have to be 12 or 13, girl or boy with two pubic
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  hairs, stay saros. So here cotton bench, when it
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  comes to the darn, believe it or not, it's when you're a year
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  younger, the year before you turn bar mitzvah for a boy is
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  starting from age 12 and from a girl starting from age 11.
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  Now the Gemara in Tamura has a question they learn from.
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  There's a drasha from the Pasak ish Kiafli Neder and the the the
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  way it's worded, because of the way it's worded, maybe a little
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  bit longer, the order of it. The Gemara has a drasha and it
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  says Mufla has some of the ish. So it's the one who's expressing
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  the Ned there who's close to an ish.
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  So you see from the drusha means the year before.
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  Sometimes we say psalmak is 30 minutes, 30 days, but here it
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  means a year. OK, alright, so then for that
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  entire year there is potential for them to give a Ned there.
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  So we're going to keep reading. Now the Gomorrah over there is a
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  machlotus, Duraisa Durabanon. So it's unclear.
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  Well, myself, we're talking about Duraisa Durabanon
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  especially if in order for it even for their opinion and says
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  it's dareisa, it might need 2 hairs or it might even be a
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  dentarisa without the two hairs. That's anyways all this is a
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  sorry even exactly. But here let's go to the halacha
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  part. Well, maisa, what are we saying?
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  So it depends when they're a year early, it depends EM yodim
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  machine MI drew venishbu nidreyam nidrehem Nagar ushigua
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  Tam shirua. If they understand what kind of
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  an what nether they're making and what the ramifications.
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  So then we say it is khal there is or there abandoned.
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  That's the mahlokas. But if they don't know alpha P
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  shalohe vyush thesaurus. Even if they didn't bring 2
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  pubic hairs, if they understand what they're doing, then we say
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  it's Khal 100% and they have to keep to it to both King schnat
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  Schlotzsche, Hazakar us schnat Schdeme estre Lena Keva.
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  But and once and and that whole year you have to check when they
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  make the nether just because you know, you check at the beginning
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  of the year. It might change during the year
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  with what they understand and pubic hairs whatever, but we're
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  primarily we're concerned about if they understand.
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  That's really what's the main issue is here.
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  Fiddly yielding the shame Me no dream ain't no nether the year
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  before, like a year and a half before they turned bar mitzvah
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  right. For a guy incidents before he's
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  12 and for a girl it's before she's 11.
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  So then even if they understand it makes no difference.
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  It's not an EDA. That rasha is only for one year
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  and not longer. The ramas is Gordian baham
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  bumaki notan shoyomadu ishonam benedarium ishiguos.
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  But we tell them even if it's not an EDA, we tell them how to
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  behave and not to say nadarium, the imudava katan, the kao, the
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  inui nephesh, omri mahem, shyamdu, benedrama, shiguatan,
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  and sometimes as a kanas type of thing, in order to teach them,
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  we tell them they should keep their neder and shibuaka.
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  They show you a gilu otsman bazer so that they don't
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  continue being callous with brilliant with spewing nadaria.
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  Mishloche srei V OK, here it is. Mishloche srei V Yom ekhad.
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  Once they turn 13, veleche bazaar ushde mesrei Omaha ekhad
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  le nakheva. Once they're 12 for a girl, once
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  they're barbat mitzvah alpha Pisha A yodema shame me no dream
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  be dreaming that there. So then it's 100% binding.
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  The shock points out even if they don't have hairs.
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  So again, that might only be there about on.
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  Either way, it's for sure call.