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EP #55 - How To Win An Argument Against The Wifey (We Did It!) + Bussin’ Dad Combine Recap| For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 2: Pt. Sikas, Welcome to another episode of For the Dads.
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  Speaker 2: You have myself Sherman Young, father of one, Scarlet Streling Young.
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  Speaker 2: That's my eleven month old daughter. You have to the
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  Speaker 2: left of me, Willie c will Young Compton, the third,
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  Speaker 2: father of two, William Irle Compton, William father of two,
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  Speaker 2: Oh Cyrillium Bell, Scottie Joe Lee. Yes, sir, our his
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  Speaker 2: to you daughters. Scotty Joe Lee is eighteen months.
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  Speaker 2: you look fabulous? This is this isn't this from the closet.
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  Speaker 2: This ain't from the rack. You're where's the clause? This
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  Speaker 1: This this might be on the APR with the wife,
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  Speaker 1: but I want to say this was like, this was
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  Speaker 1: a Father's Day gift, maybe the first one.
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  Speaker 2: Really. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It's got Sirrulian Bell on the back. It's a little
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  Speaker 1: Saint Christopher Peace.
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  Speaker 2: It's so cool, dude. I'm I'm actually quite jealous of that. Yeah, like,
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  Speaker 2: I want some jewelry. I hope Jill got being a
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  Speaker 2: little something something for Father's Day. Oh yeah, well we'll
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  Speaker 2: get it.
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  Speaker 1: And people listen to this right now we are recording
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  Speaker 1: it is June seventeenth, on a Wednesday, so before the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: This is the week right before Father's Day. Next week
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  Speaker 1: is insanely busy, so it's hard to figure out to
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  Speaker 1: do a post Father's Day episode. So we're just gonna
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  Speaker 1: do a preview of our Father's Day hopes and dreams
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  Speaker 1: of Father's Day. We can also recap the dad combine
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  Speaker 1: that we did because on last week's episode we had
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  Speaker 1: our dads on the podcast, which, by the way, I
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  Speaker 1: was absolutely I don't know if you saw the visuals,
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  Speaker 1: but I was just mogging my old man next day.
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  Speaker 3: You see the difference in size there. He was slumped
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  Speaker 3: a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: I watch it I'm like, man, why did I never
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  Speaker 1: take a shot at the title?
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  Speaker 2: The way he was sitting in his chair. You do
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  Speaker 2: look twice the sides of him. I know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it was like the camerangle. I'm closer to the camera,
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  Speaker 1: but I was absolutely magging him. But we'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: are you gonna post amething on that.
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  Speaker 2: I might have to.
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  Speaker 1: I might have to, but I but yeah, we'll do
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of a preview of the father's day,
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  Speaker 1: like what our hopes and dreams are? Talk Father's Day? Talk,
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  Speaker 1: all these comments? What better week two? If you are
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  Speaker 1: on international soil too? Right into the email because the
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  Speaker 1: World Cup going on right now in a Marriica. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's true.
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  Speaker 2: But we'll dip into all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I have a I have a mom and dad had
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  Speaker 1: a nice little date night that went south fast the
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  Speaker 1: night Yes because of pt Siko father in law.
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  Speaker 2: I look at you know, I'm not in the game
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  Speaker 2: point fingers, No.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 3: But it was one of those where I'm quietly driving home. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and even my.
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  Speaker 1: Wife Charles like, do you not have anything to say?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, God, just kind of let you've been sweetheart.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with you on every You're doing the thing.
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  Speaker 1: I agree with you on everything you're saying, But we
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  Speaker 1: got one of them stories.
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  Speaker 2: You look so beautiful, by the way when you make
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  Speaker 2: when you chain together, so many good points all in
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  Speaker 2: one little do You're gorgeous.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love you. No music's playing, it's just
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  Speaker 3: one of them quiet rides home.
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  Speaker 2: It's dark out. We're driving home.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck, they're the worst. They're the worst human ever.
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  Speaker 1: Yet the in law's dropped the ball. Yeah, honey, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the in law's dropped the ball at home. That's the
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  Speaker 1: big story I got on my docket for you.
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  Speaker 2: Big story went to Dayton, Ohio. Shout out the Schaffers.
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  Speaker 2: That's Jill's second cousins up in Ohio. Their wonderful family
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  Speaker 2: went to a wedding there, and a lot took place.
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  Speaker 3: A lot took place, And we'll get in all that.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get in, Dad hack shoutouts, follow us, beat the
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  Speaker 1: six community emails, call ins, all of it.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome to for the dads. We're fired to hell up.
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  Speaker 2: Should we start with some follow ups? Because I caught
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  Speaker 2: some flack in my follow up.
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  Speaker 1: I have a dad shot out. I just want to start.
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  Speaker 1: I want to rip off the top not from right
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  Speaker 1: ends just my boy, my best man, my best friend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, he just had their third child. They
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  Speaker 1: waited to figure out the gender until delivery day.
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  Speaker 3: But Luela Ann was just born nine pounds. She's a
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  Speaker 3: let me see you.
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  Speaker 1: I got the dats right here, stats three fifty am,
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  Speaker 1: nine pounds, five ounces, twenty one inches long.
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  Speaker 2: Baby baby girl, baby girl, baby.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, Luilla and you gotta be filling the hey guy,
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  Speaker 1: And they started to idy eate the name Luela when
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  Speaker 1: we were talking about Luela on for the dads. But
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to shout out, my boy, Nick Callet, that
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  Speaker 1: is my that is my that's my number one, that's
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  Speaker 1: my ace.
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  Speaker 2: For for any listeners. Nick is constantly brought up here
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  Speaker 2: as Will's best childhood friend. I got the news through
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  Speaker 2: a text message where we were actually texting about then
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  Speaker 2: Dominican sue story that I told you about in the
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  Speaker 2: parking which we may have to save for my all
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  Speaker 2: this to say, I want to get Nick Hallett on
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  Speaker 2: the pod bad. I'm putting it out there into the universe.
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  Speaker 3: He's listening right now, you know, he smiled.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I hope, hockey boy, I hope you had
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  Speaker 2: a great bother's day. Do you want to talk about
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  Speaker 2: some Willie ce gold mine stories that I've gotten from
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  Speaker 2: this guy via text? Or call Nick Nick.
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  Speaker 3: Nick's the one too, Nick, as Nick knows me better.
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  Speaker 2: Than good storyteller, good story, good storyteller. I okay, So
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  Speaker 2: I caught some flak and I'm really glad that you're here,
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  Speaker 2: will because you're the perfect person to bounce this off of. Okay, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we had our sweet friend and I'm trying to think
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  Speaker 2: of the way to say her name correctly. How did
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  Speaker 2: we say it? Being a lope? Our sweet friend pen Lope?
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  Speaker 2: I had a pen a lope situation last week.
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  Speaker 3: Jess.
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  Speaker 2: Her last name is spelled h A L B L
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  Speaker 2: E I B. She she provided me, I'll be. She
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  Speaker 2: provided me with a phonetically correct way to pronounce her
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  Speaker 2: last name last week, and I read that name. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: Apparently I read the phonetically correct way to say her
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  Speaker 2: last name incorrectly. Jess said, I'm dying at the way
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  Speaker 2: Sherman pronounced our last name. But happy almost birthday to
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  Speaker 2: my hubby and best girl dad ever, Cody.
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  Speaker 3: So are we saying happy birthday to Cody? You said
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  Speaker 3: you want to run something by me.
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  Speaker 2: What do you what's I messed it somehow I messed
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  Speaker 2: up a phonetically correct way to say her last name.
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  Speaker 1: You just you just chop it up. You just keep
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  Speaker 1: it moving, Yeah, you keep it moving. Well, you said
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  Speaker 1: at the very top of the episode. We're not experts,
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  Speaker 1: we're not listening. We know blunders are coming on. I
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  Speaker 1: see one here, this one right here from Zachary deson
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  Speaker 1: eighteen sixty four.
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  Speaker 3: This on YouTube.
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  Speaker 1: Vandel just released the odds for a willy one self
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  Speaker 1: to be able to read every email on the next
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  Speaker 1: episode without messing up at plus twenty five hundred. I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking it. I had Zachary decent. He said, I have
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  Speaker 1: faith in the boy. Disrespectful by Fangel to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: It's got Well, we're off to a hot start, Off.
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  Speaker 3: To a hot start.
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  Speaker 1: All pronunciation dad brain shit, Yes, I'll think a greasy gummies.
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  Speaker 3: It's because I got I got a.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out, no free shout out, actually, no free shoutouts
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  Speaker 1: of this brain. By the way, they should they should
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  Speaker 1: be with for the dads. And when they RPT six.
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  Speaker 3: Is gonna love them.
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  Speaker 2: They they gonna be reading everything just right.
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna be tuning into the episode while popping the
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  Speaker 1: gummies I got.
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  Speaker 2: I could already see the custom socials.
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  Speaker 1: You want to read the bedtime story the Little Little Guy? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, they have got to They've got to
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  Speaker 1: be a partner with the boys.
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  Speaker 2: They're just having a tough time reading a bedtime story.
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  Speaker 2: They pop three of those creates. All of a sudden,
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  Speaker 2: the reading glasses are on the bridge of the net.
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  Speaker 1: We hit a roll call photo, come on on X
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  Speaker 1: and just you got the gummies popped in ready to go.
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  Speaker 3: Truly a bedtime story.
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  Speaker 2: They they taste really good. I just house three of them.
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  Speaker 1: JJ Smith here, JJ Smith says, showed my wife the
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  Speaker 1: football game clip last week.
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  Speaker 2: Her words, I would never do that to you. That
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  Speaker 2: math in that situation ain't mathing. He should be going
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  Speaker 2: to that game taking Sharam's side. We're a Michigan family,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, go Blue and go Lions. A lot
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  Speaker 2: of people sided with the boys.
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  Speaker 3: Sherm out there, I got a segue.
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  Speaker 2: We have a follow up from the follow up, that's
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  Speaker 2: my whole wedding weekend story. Oh we got a second.
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  Speaker 1: Will need to start practicing the shermacs. And this from
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  Speaker 1: Tucker Casinger four sixty nine on YouTube. I'll work on
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  Speaker 1: the I'm reading that past because I want to hear
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  Speaker 1: is there a new there a new rendering to your
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  Speaker 1: football weekend?
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  Speaker 2: We got some news we got we got some news
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  Speaker 2: that we got a job.
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  Speaker 3: Did Papa Team six win you a battle?
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  Speaker 2: I I will say this, Papa Team six opened the
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  Speaker 2: eyes to my wife for compromising, for carrying out her
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  Speaker 2: husband's side, that her husband isn't selfishly looking to go
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  Speaker 2: to this football game because he thinks it's more important.
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  Speaker 2: That we had already locked in some plans and bought
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  Speaker 2: some and there was some purchase tickets, and we were
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  Speaker 2: a little excited.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because that planning happened months ago.
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  Speaker 2: And there's there also is some opportunities for us to
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  Speaker 2: split up and conquer both. There are some opportunities there.
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  Speaker 2: It's not like it's impossible. Jill and I had a
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  Speaker 2: great little whisper battle on the way up to dateon
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  Speaker 2: Ohio as our sweet Scarlet Dad hack for anybody if
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  Speaker 2: you got drive through the night, battime and battime straight
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  Speaker 2: into car seat and you're off to the races on
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  Speaker 2: the red trip, Scarlet slept all five hours to date,
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  Speaker 2: Ohio from Nashville.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, good for you.
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  Speaker 2: It was incredible. Jill and I whisper battled back and forth.
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  Speaker 3: Like a whisper argument.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like a little whisper argument. And honestly, it wasn't
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  Speaker 2: about the wedding stuff. It was about me prioritizing family.
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  Speaker 2: It was about Jill wanting to be heard on certain
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  Speaker 2: situations that I was doing a poor job. And this
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  Speaker 2: is me truly saying this. I was doing a poor
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  Speaker 2: job of.
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  Speaker 3: Is she being vulnerable with the community.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's being vulnerable with the community. She was having
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  Speaker 2: some great points on that. I then was able, not
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  Speaker 2: in a manipulative way, but I used a great example
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  Speaker 2: of the football game as a do you see from
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  Speaker 2: my perspective how I could feel some way about that?
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  Speaker 2: And I have agreed that I would go to the
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  Speaker 2: to the birthday Yeah, but could you see that I
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  Speaker 2: could feel some type of way about the football game
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  Speaker 2: based on the things that you just told me? Sooner?
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  Speaker 3: I'm hearing you, But are you are you also here?
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  Speaker 5: Literally, I'm like, honey, I'm not mad at all. I'm
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  Speaker 5: going to the birthday party. You make a lot of
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  Speaker 5: great points, and you aren't making all the best.
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  Speaker 2: Points in the entire world.
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  Speaker 5: And by the way, you look very pissed off right now,
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  Speaker 5: in a very beautiful way.
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  Speaker 2: You look gorge Swiss.
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  Speaker 3: Do you feel hurt?
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  Speaker 2: Just before I see my next thing? Do you feel heard? Sweetheart?
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  Speaker 1: And when she says it, okay, great, okay, good, okay,
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  Speaker 1: if we can just pivot, do you also hear me
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  Speaker 1: with a football game?
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  Speaker 5: And when you feel hurd how does that make you feel?
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  Speaker 5: That probably makes you feel really really good. And when
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  Speaker 5: you don't feel heard, it sounds like from what you're
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  Speaker 5: telling me, that makes you feel really bad.
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  Speaker 2: That makes you.
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  Speaker 5: Feel like you're not a priority to me. How do
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  Speaker 5: you think I might feel if I'm not feeling hurt
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  Speaker 5: about some things?
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  Speaker 2: You're always talking about the football game. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 2: scarlet back there. Oh she's good, she's good. Yeah, keep
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  Speaker 2: it low. It's not about the football game.
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  Speaker 5: That's just an example that is very impertinent to this situation.
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  Speaker 2: But guess it was very recent. But what about the
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  Speaker 2: football game? What are you saying? So then we talk
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  Speaker 2: a little bit more once we get to Dayton. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she says to me, you getting to go do what
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  Speaker 2: you want to do and that what your interests are
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  Speaker 2: is very important to me. I want you to have
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  Speaker 2: things that you are passionate about and that you can
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  Speaker 2: dive into. I also want to have things that I'm
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  Speaker 2: passionate about and want to dive into. And these things
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  Speaker 2: are important to us as separate human beings. Of like,
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  Speaker 2: we are married together, we are one person, but we
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  Speaker 2: have our separate interests, and we do bodies, two bodies,
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  Speaker 2: one heart, one heart, and we want to be able
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  Speaker 2: to pursue these things. And so Jill being able to
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  Speaker 2: voice that to me in a really healthy way and really,
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  Speaker 2: you know, opening my eyes up to hey, I do
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  Speaker 2: need to do a better job of like giving Jill
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  Speaker 2: the opportunity to prioritize herself and to lean into these
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  Speaker 2: interests and her realizing, oh damn, the football game really
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  Speaker 2: is a perfect example of that, because we could split
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  Speaker 2: that up. So mother in law Lisa shout out, Lisa
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  Speaker 2: shout out. Lisa says, what if I went with Jill
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  Speaker 2: to the birthday party, she would be she would have
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  Speaker 2: an extra set of hands in San Diego. I could
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  Speaker 2: fly with her from Nashville. You know, I could drive
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  Speaker 2: up to Nashville and we fly together, or I could
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  Speaker 2: fly and connect to Nashville. However we want to do it,
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  Speaker 2: and I get some solo time with my daughter. I go, Lisa,
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  Speaker 2: you also look very beautiful when you say things like this,
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  Speaker 2: not just when you say things like this, you look
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  Speaker 2: beautiful all the time, but wow, you look stunning and you.
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  Speaker 1: And to be clear, you're just speaking from your heart.
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  Speaker 1: You're not thinking manipulation at all. Oh about her looking
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  Speaker 1: beautiful or this.
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  Speaker 2: Situation, all of it. Correct, Yes, you're just speaking your mind,
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  Speaker 2: speaking my mind, but with like on a serious note,
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  Speaker 2: because we are telling the line between bit and seriousness,
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  Speaker 2: like Lisa coming in and being like, I think Truman.
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  Speaker 1: Should, like you should go to that football game. He
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  Speaker 1: is very excited. He could bring a friend. Like now
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  Speaker 1: is you three sitting there talking?
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  Speaker 2: This is a separate conversation with her and Jill. And
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  Speaker 2: then you hear her mom. You heard her mom comes
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  Speaker 2: up to me and the lobby like late because her
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  Speaker 2: mom and her have this conversation. And then Jill and
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  Speaker 2: I have this conversation about I'm gonna go with my mom.
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  Speaker 2: I then run into Lisa down the lobby and she
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  Speaker 2: gives me one of these goes You're welcome. Got you?
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  Speaker 3: Does does Jill know you guys high five?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah she knows we high five?
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm wondering if Lisa says this, oh, I can
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  Speaker 1: do the X, Y and Z. You just you're probably
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  Speaker 1: standing there and you're probably looking at Lisa.
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  Speaker 3: And then you just go.
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  Speaker 2: And how does that make you? Honey? How does that
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  Speaker 2: make you feel? Do you still? Do you feel wonderful
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  Speaker 2: and loved?
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: In treasured? So do I get to go to the
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: football game.
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: I'm going to the football game, baby, No way, I'm
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: going to the football game.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: And I'm taking papashroom and dude, really cool moment because
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: my dad has blessed me my entire life with like
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: a just a ton of opportunities, trips, fun, you know,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: tickets to games, blah blah blah. And I was like,
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: I haven't gone on a solo trip with my dad
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: since high school. I'm gonna take my dad. I was like,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: that would be really fun. College football is a love
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: language for him. His favorite moment with his dad was
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: getting to buy tickets and fly his dad. It was
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: very close to his dad passing to the rose ball
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: when TCU beat Wisconsin they're both horn Frogs, diehard horn Frogs.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: And he flew my dad to the rose Ball and
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: they got to watch that game together. And he has
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: pictures from that trip in every room of his house.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: That was like one of his greatest moments with his dad.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I want to do the same,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: and I want to take my dad to this game.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: That would be really fun. I called him, and dude,
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: it was just like the best phone call ever. I
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: could tell he was really excited. He is such a
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: game planner. So he's just hopping already on you know,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: the interwebs and pulling up the rowback Polo saying he
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: needs to get a new golf bush. Sure do you
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: need to want to dad? I'm fine. I got Baylor gear.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much. You worry about you. You're fine.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: I can pay for the hotel room. Please don't pay
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: for the hotel room. Where it's okay? He showing your boy. Yeah.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Uh So he's gonna come up and stay with me
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: in Nashville. We're going to drive down together to Atlanta,
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: go to the football game, and then drive back up
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: to Nashville and spend Labor Day weekend with each other.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: Jill is going to spend Labor Day weekend with her
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: mom out to San Diego, and all parties are very
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: happy about the situation. My god man, and I was
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: on stub Hub about this close to selling it, like
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: I really was. I was gonna no questions ask, I
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: was gonna sell the tickets. But all said and done,
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: this wedding was really really a sick weekend because one
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Jill's family's incredible got to hang out with them. No
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: baby's allowed at the wedding, which I'm fine with that rule. Like,
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: no part of me is upset about that. We got
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: a babysitter locally, that's a family friend of hers. Jill
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: went to the ceremony. I stayed back at the hotel
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: with Scarlet, got dressed while Scarlet's ripping around the room,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: put Scarlet down to bed, and her little sleep pod
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: babysitter comes in. Thank you, thank you so much. You're
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: the best. But why I'm gonna go to the wedding,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: She goes, By the way, I get to go to
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: the football game, now going to Atlanta. I'm going to Atlanta.
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: George, No, no, no, no, Baylor, Auburn, Baylor.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Listen to the fourth of Dad's episode, so last weeks
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: and you'll know what I'm talking about, big way, Thank
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: you so much.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: She was the sweetest old lady in the entire world.
• 20:14
  Speaker 5: It goes, she goes, I just want to let you
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: know I got my church clothes on. So if you
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: guys aren't back to like nine thirty am, it's just
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: gotta be nine thirty am, because then I can leave
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: here and make the ten o'clock service tomorrow.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: I go, I promise we can be back before. Of
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: course you do. Yeah, I promise we'll be back before
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: nine to thirty am. We'll be back so you can
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: enjoy the Sabbath. I love you, love, but dude, it was.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: It was just a really really good weekend. Like splitting
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: up to crush the scarlet stuff, wedding goes great, Jill's like, hey,
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: we can compromise here. This doesn't have to be a thing.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: I didn't even bring it up as an issue, like
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: it was just like a It just kind of came
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: up on its own. Just good communicat. It was great communication.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: All the universal lesson that is the universal for BT
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: six right now.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: Communicado, dude, communicado. Yeah.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: And also if we don't make it back. We got
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: some grape juice in the fridge and there's crackers in
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: the pantry. If you got it, If you know and
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: go down.
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: To the lobby, just tell them five twenty eight, don't
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: room numbers five twenty eight, and you get whatever the
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: hell you want.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: We don't care you get it. That's awesome, man, it
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: was fun. Dude, is that the dad win? That's the
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: dad win? The trenches was like just being that's the
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: dad win. That's an obvious dad win. Yeah, yeah, I
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: beat six going off in the chat right now, they're
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: going off in the comments. And also the preliminary trip
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: like driving to Ohio that's just one hour short of
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: the drive down to Florida. So it was a great
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: practice run of our vacation in July, and we're gonna
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: do the same thing. Bathtime, car seat drive through the night?
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: How how far was it? Toho five and some change
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: to Dayton and then it's like six and some change.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Nope, it's like seven and a half sixty five. We'll
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: have traffic too. I'm warning, I'm thirty yeah to thirty eight,
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: Oh well then that I mean still, that's fine.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: I'm just throwing that out there. He's got my he's
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: got your back, he's got my mat he's got your back. Yeah,
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: if we're if we're cooking with another extra hour, yeah,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: you know, just make sure you know there there might
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: have come.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: There might have to be a week where Chef's dad
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: is just in Chef's pod. Chef's not on the podcast.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: So that way, it's just like we got Chef in
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: thirty years.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: We pulled up the thumbnail picture of all the dads.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: That's one of my favorite thumbnails of all to broy
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: just that day.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Doing the pod, the dad had combine. We all walked
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: out of here and all the dads are ready to
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: go for another couple hours, Like everybody started to warm up,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: and because it was kind of calm, it was kind
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: of you know, guys, the boys were reserved when we
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: first sat down here. Yeah, then you just felt the
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you felt the juice with the dads as that pod
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: got going with all of our dads and everybody was
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: ready to go. But made for a great combine the
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: combine day at the Luwan household.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: It was a great day.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: And man, I shout out Papa shurre M. I do
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: wish he was there.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, dude, had a great conversation with him two days
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: ago about that of just he was asking how everything went.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: I was I'm telling we missed him.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I told him that your dad specifically a
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: second time pulled me off to the side and said, hey,
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: tell your dad. I said, hey, though, like really tell me.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: He was like, Bill, I got I'm gonna I'm gonna.
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: Tell you his number I can give you to hear
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: from you.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh uh, mister Comstock, Sad has planned they got
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: my dad and him got each other's numbers and they
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: are going to get like dinner at lunch together. His
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: uh business stuff brings him to where my dad lives
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: in Midland sometimes and he's like, I'd love to connect
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: with Papa Shurm And I told Papa Shurman. He was like,
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, oh my gosh, yeah, let me get his number. Dude.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Doesn't that just warm your heart? His dad's connecting.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like us getting to do the dad combine, like
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: having the reason and essentially excuse of we're going to
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: do content for a day, but let's get everybody's dad
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: in town and essentially we just get to.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: Hang with our dads for an afternoon. It rocked.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's so sick. And the also, by the way,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: the handings on a ton of the competitions, I feel
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: like we're scoring pretty high.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I had the handings. I had his dad, Yeah, Papa Chef.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: He was in my running for MVD.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I gave the nod to h to Comstock. Just veteran respect,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: veteran respect. But McPherson, Papa mcpheerson is the one who
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: won well. And talk about a dad.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Dude. That picture of McPherson that I sent into the
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: Bust and group chat with all the smoke around the
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: grill and he's got the spatue and he's got the sunglasses,
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: the mustache. I mean, it's truly like you want a
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: poster of like Michael Jordan tongue out dunking of a dad. Yeah, boom.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: The New Balance wants a logo on the side of
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: the shoe.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: It's that.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: It's that, It's that silhouette.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: It's the spatula with the smoke and the reaching out
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: for the meat. Tred. That's a dad.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: That was a lot of fun, man, Oh dude, it
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: was a lot of fun one day. This is kind
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: of a darker way to think about about it. But
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: also like I in my brain, I also think a
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: cool way to think about it one day when our
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: dad are gone crazy to say no. But you have
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: those videos, those moments and memories like in a rolodex
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: to go and watch.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: Oh hell yeah, just that episode with all you guys
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: sitting there and your dad's talking about you. That was
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: a special moment for me. People that I've only known
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: you personally for about two and a half years. Yeah,
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: a little less for these guys, but like sitting there
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: and really getting to like see the guys that raised y'all,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: see little bits and pieces of y'all in them, them
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: talking you guys, of them jabbing at you.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Got like that was a very special moment. Like that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: was really cool.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: It was really cool. Thank you guys for lett us
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: do that. I know Derek if you feel the same way.
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: But it was fun to watch.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: All right, what I say nothing nothing is it's just
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: made a face, but you keep going.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: It was special to be a part of.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to say, like wax poetic about you guys.
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: Thank you so much. The old man was nervous all week.
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: I told him he would be fine. He watched it
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: this morning, sent me a little text said, not as
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: bad as I thought. I really enjoyed doing that. And
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: another update, my little brother texted me. He said, when
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: he's coming home, we're fighting. So did he listen to
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: the pod? Yeah, he listened to it this morning.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: He just texted.
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: He goes, when I get home, I'm kicking your ass.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: So you could try just like the old days.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: How big a bull are you?
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: John's just gonna be in the backyard with his arms
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: crossed and the lollipop in his hand, just smiling, Just say,
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: come on back.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't whoop passing here. Wait the
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: boy winner.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Gets the change, we'll start. I got the ring in
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: the backyard ready for you, chef. When y'all, when y'all
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: have your little battle for the belt, got it all
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: ready for you. What's going on with this situation that
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: you brought up at the top of the Oh, they're
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: in laws. What's going on there?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: So the wife and I I got his tickets to
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: down in South Hall. They're doing like the They have
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: like a couple of little pop up concerts throughout the summer,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: and the one that they had was Dashboard Confessional, Big
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Dashboard Confessional and I mean I enjoyed their music when
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I was younger, back in high school, middle school, high school.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: Dash Board Confessional is awesome.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Dashboard Confessional is one of my wife's favorite bands.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Like when we're ripping songs.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Of Dashboard, she knows all the lyrics to all the
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: songs and she's so hyped. So I guess these tickets
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: for this intimate concert is that we're we're outside. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: we're outside. There's only maybe a couple hundred people. A
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: few hundred people. Dang, that's like, okay, that makes way
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: more sense in the scenery of her product's beautiful. Yeah yeah, yeah.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: And Chris the singer, the musician, but he sounds just
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: like he sounds just like he did and he's got
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: so many songs that he's like, I'm gonna be up here.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: There's gonna be songs that you guys are gonna throw
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: out me that you want me to sing. Because he's
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: like he's engaging with the audience. He's like, let me
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: know what you want me to sing, and I'll sing it.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: There's no like, there's no lineup that he's going by,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: and he's like, there will be some songs that I'm
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: kind of forgetful of some of the lyrics. It's funny
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: because I wrote the lyrics. He's like, but we'll work
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: through it together.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: He was. He ripped, dude.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: It was awesome.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: They had some joy Lamburgers there at South Hall. Like
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: it's the the vibe, the scenery. Yeah, we're trying to
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: hold off there. You know, they're trying to get some
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: things in because rain was coming, a storm was coming.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: But then we just moved it inside. It was very intimate,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: like you're just listening to dashboard confessional. Just it was
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: it was a plus and we're listening to him singing.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: We're just having the best time. Like I can tell
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: my wife is super happy.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: And then all of a.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Sudden, when we're in when by the time we're in
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: the indoor and the storm's kind of hidden, we get
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: a message or she's starting to get messages from her
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: parents about like rue and bedtime, and you know she's
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: going back and forth a little bit. I can tell
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: it's kind of taking her attention off of I know
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: she's wanting to listen to music. It's like we got
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: them to babysit. Anytime you have a babysitter, like you
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: just you're open. They handled all situations unless there is
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: an emergency, obviously, but you you get the babysitter. So
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: you guys can go have your date night, So you
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: guys can just check out, so you can we can
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: enjoy mom and dad time together. Yeah, and anytime it's
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: like I just in my brain, I'm like when it's
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: your when it's the grandparents or in laws of any sort,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: babysit like there can always be something that pops up
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: and you're in this weird gray area because it's family
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: and you're trying to communicate and do all the things.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Like they're probably in their mind it's we're watching your kids,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean to where it's not like
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: and in our mind you're wanting like a service to
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: be done. We're thankful that it's our I'm thankful that
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: it's the in laws, but I'm thinking of my head.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: I need you guys to be dialed in locks so
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: we can just be here. Ruth's having trouble with her inhaler.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: She needed her in haler before bed. I want to
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: say I'm assuming here because there's a lot of bits
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: and piece, a lot of arguing a lot of back
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: and forth.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but Ruth's having trouble with her in Haler.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I want to say, Rue might have got it out
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: of the drawer, but all of a sudden, Inhaler ended
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: up in. It's one of those like like mask and
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Hailer's like, you hit it. It's got this little contraption
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: that goes here, and he's got the little mask over there. Yeah,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: from when she was young, but she still has a
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: little mask part on and he was just in four
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: pieces by the time. Uh, Lola gets it cool. Lola
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: can't figure it out. She's texting Charle on how to
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: figure it out. Charles trying to tell her here like
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: sending her she might have sent her a photo.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: She's trying to give her steps to like put it
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: back together. Because again we're sitting there listening to Chris
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: dashboard confessional. Yeah, it's we're toward the end, so some
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: of the men starting to play. We're getting comfortable yelling
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: out songs seeing uh stolen Yeah, hands down, you know, vindication,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: h what is it?
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: Anyway?
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: And then Charle has to get on the phone. Now
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Opah gets involved. Grandpa and They're going back and forth.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: They can't figure it out. This is a this is
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: an inhaler. It's four pieces. It's easy, it's easy, shirm.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: And you got you got Google, you got the website,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: you got your phone.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, watch a YouTube video.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, look at what.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: The brand is and just type it in how to
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: put this together? Because it's just four pieces. If you
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: can't just figure that part out.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I can hear it in his voice how easy it
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: really is.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: Could I couldn't, Charle go ahead?
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Could?
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Would you trust me to get it under a minute
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: first time? Looking at it? Type easy? Yes, okay in.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: My head and we're talking Willie one shall brain Yeah.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: Chro then gets up to leave to go get on
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: the phone, hoping it's only going to be a couple
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: of minutes, but apparently they're they're there. There's arguing going on,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: back and forth. Ru's crying, Ruse beside herself. I'm sitting
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: there listening to That's where conventional things.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: She's gonna be back in a couple of minutes.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: He plays the last song, hands down Charles's favorite. No,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Charle misses the entire thing. No, And then he does
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you know all this he's he's got his hands up,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: we're all clapping him.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: You're looking around, and there's part of me.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: I got a lot of anxiety because I'm like, damn, now,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: I feel like I should have took the call and
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: went out because this is for her and not me.
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: And then I go and look around for I can't
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: find her.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: I go outside, look around, kind of look in the hallways,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: say maybe she made it to the backside.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: So I go to the backside.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I meet this cat who went up there and singing song.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: His name is like Ryman. Uh.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: He did awesome. Chris brought him up on stage. He
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: met him locally in National and he let him play
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: a song in front of us and he ripped. But
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: I shave I shake his hand. I turn around, I see.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: Charro go over to her. She just asked the off question,
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: Is it over?
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: Everybody a walk?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's over, And she was so fucking pissed. Bro,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I'm talking mad man, and I understood. But you have
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: the head banging that you have with you know, with
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: your wife, ass with her parents, that you have with
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: your parents, like the whole just the whole family dynamic.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: You're out of the crosshairs that I'm out of the crosshairs.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: I'm more so thinking about as I'm driving home in silence,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: like I know how to put the shit together too.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: If it's like if I if I played the twenty
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: armchair quarterback and I could go back and I'm watching film,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, in my head, I should have gotten up
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: and went and handled it, because she she just needs
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: to be in the most. She needs to She needs
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: to love listening to dashboards confessional and in my head,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: she wasn't giving me that. But in my head that's
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: my dad loss.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: In her head, she's also thinking, the easiest way to
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: communicate with my two parents is by me doing it,
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: not will right.
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I mean they were texting her, yeah, yeah, because I
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: guess you got FaceTime and there's so much you don't
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: going back and forth. It's like I can't figure it out,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: and blah blah blah, and Charles like, if you just
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: give me a minute and listen to me, But there
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: was no listening. They were just arguing back and forth
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: all this different stuff to where they finally, once they
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: finally listened to Charrow, they got it figured it out
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: within a minute or within a couple of minutes.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: I was like, did you today.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, they figured out, but they just didn't
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: want to listen because she's like, you know, you know
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: parents with the FaceTime stuff. She's like, I'm like, I
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: need you to show me what you're looking at. She
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: would show her, but then she'd move. She's like, I
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: need you to keep the camera on it, stay on it.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man and buddy.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: That's got to be one of those dad with the
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: win was we were doing date Night and part of
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: we were kind of run down by the end of
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: the week because we got back from Florida. Yeah, that
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: entire week last week. We had the neutral shoot on Thursday,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: that was all day. We had the Dad combine on Wednesday,
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: that was all day. She's got stuff with bar three,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: like it's just all the stuff that all parents and
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: households goals go through.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: Before.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: We were at the end of the week and it
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: was like, Hey, are we going to dashboard tomorrow? And
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I got the tickets. His buddy lock, are
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: your parents coming over?
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: Huh?
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: This dashboard guy, Chris, Yeah, it seems like he lives
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: here in Nashville.
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: We can talk off camera. That was like a good
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: little opportunity for I saw Mother's Day or something. Oh,
• 36:28
  Speaker 6: I know she listens to the show.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: She listens to the show. Yeah, this part out, but man,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: what I tell you that drive.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: And for the dads out there, it's you just know
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: it's one of those ones. Like I wasn't saying nothing.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I saw how I saw that she was.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: It wasn't even it wasn't even a lane to like
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: give her optimism. Yeah, like I'm thinking in my head,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: we still did get to listen to dashboard like insanely
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: like for me to this camera, sat there watching him
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: and listening to him Charles throwing songs like we're vocal Like.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: It's just it was so sick.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: And we had so many great moments throughout that date night,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: but that one at the end when she missed hands down,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: and it's just, you know, you're sitting in the car
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: and I'm thinking you could give the perspective spin that
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: we still all encompassing great night.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: But I'm like, Willie boy, you just sit there man.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Nod No that yeah, because she was right like I'm
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: sitting there listen to her.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm getting a little pissed off.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck, why can't they Why can't you just
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: have your shit figured out? But then you're you have
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: gratitude and you appreciate that you have in laws, that
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: you have the parents that can come to the house
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: and watch them. But the whole point of getting childcare,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: if you just labeled childcare, not who it is, just childcare,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: you get childcare.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: And the only time you'd want to hear from is
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: if there is an.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Emergency you're expecting or you're hoping that whoever's doing the
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: childcare can figure out what can find the solves, Like
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: moments are gonna happen, You're gonna figure out the solve.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: That's why you're doing and offering it.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: So there's like this battle going on in my head
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: because I'm starting to get I'm like upset internally. I
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: know my girl she's she's pissed. But gentlemen, it was
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: it was those ones where you just know you're walking out,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: she's like a few steps ahead of me, kind of
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: hitting like a violent walk the weals rain hitting us.
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: I can't remember.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Oh buddy, when you start hearing that it was dark,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: rain's coming down, you wouldn't even you don't even give
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: a shit about the rain. She's a few steps ahead
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: of me. I'm walking behind the car. You see the
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: lights flicker on to unlock the doors. You kind of
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: get in, You're silent. I started up, I back it out.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I'm driving. You just hear the engine. She'll just you
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: She'll hit it a few times and I'm like yeah,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: a lot of nodding, a lot of yeah. And I
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: don't know what to say because I'm on her side.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: And I'm also like do I give a perspective thing?
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Or do I do I get with her in the
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: suck and just argue, or Willie boy, do you just
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: sit there? And I just chose option. See she did
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: she hit you with? Do you not have anything to say?
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: God? You look amazing?
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: Do you look incredible?
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: It was like, so, I'm kind of just letting you,
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: you know, I'm just letting you vent.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: I do agree.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: I agree with everything you're saying.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: I think it's all bullshit. What what do you want
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: me to do? A dad hack husband hack that I
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: use quite often is the phrase, oh man, really, that
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: will get you through any But.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: When it's already at a ten and the ten is
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: like the truth, It's like I already knew what was happening.
• 39:53
  Speaker 7: Yes, but as she's selling it to you that I'm
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: with you, oh yeah, and the oh man man, oh man,
• 40:04
  Speaker 7: So sorry, you're apologizing, but you have nothing to apologize
• 40:07
  Speaker 7: about to you. I did that sometimes of the oh,
• 40:11
  Speaker 7: I'm so sorry.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: We came to the house and I kind of just
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: kept my distance from everybody pretty much. I was about
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: to say, Judge, I was about to say, y'all came
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: home and they were still there is at that point
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, yes, and Ru was still awake. That
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: that's all. Rue was still awake. We're talking.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: It's past nine. It's past nine o'clock, Ben seven thirty eight.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Like when we got done, like you know she's doing,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: she wants to call him.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: We have to.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Now we're on speakerphone with Rue trying to calm her down.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: Dean Haler was put together. Now we just need her
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: to take Dianhalo.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but Rue is still worked up.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, why is everybody arguing in front of Rum
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: when Ru's already upset? Yeah, and then you got to
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: talk Rue off the lge.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Hey, take your and hailor.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: We're going to be home in thirty minutes. Yeah, I
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: want you home right now. That's not how it works, sweetheart.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: We'll be we're driving, we see the blue line. We're
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: gonna be home in thirty minutes, and then mama wants
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: you to do my bedtime. So then we get home,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: because then venting happens. Let me correct, let me step
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: back and correct. Rue did eventually fall asleep, and charge
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: just went upstairs the kisser good night. But after the
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: phone call and we had twenty five extra mention driving home, yea,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: then the venting of now I gotta go home and
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: do bedtime, yeah, takes place. And that's where I was like, yeah,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I get all the off this right now.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: I hear you.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: We're in the A gap and by the way, you
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: look gorgeous.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: We're in the A gap. Man, I just want to
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: say this really quick, and if this is a really
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: bad time to say it, you just let me know.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: But you look beautiful. You look really is good.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: So not only are you having that chaos, you missed
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: your favorite song the whole point like you just went
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: to it just went off a cliff. Yeah, then the
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: drive home, talk your four year old off a ledge
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: and then get off the phone and Beck, I still
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: have to do a responsibility with parenting when I get home.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: There's also there's a level of expectation that I think
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: is held for some in laws. I don't know what
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: that level of expectation is for yours. But like my mom,
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: Avid listener to this show. So I say this with love,
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: she knows this about herself. There was once a joke
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: in our family of she would get lost all the time,
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: really bad with technology.
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: Oh that's Bill Compton right with you know my dad.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: Direct quote from my dad as he's giving directions to
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: my mom is, honey, there's not gonna be a road
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: sign that says Amy, Bunny turn here. Okay, Like you
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: got to know the like the mile number, exit number.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: That's I'm telling you. It's my Lexit number sixty three.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: It just takes sixty three, like you kind of you know,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: get to that level.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: So with miss Amy, there's an expectation of like what
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: she can handle of certain tasks that I would never
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: give to my mom.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: And I say that with love. I wouldn't give it
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: to my mom. Where if I gave that job to
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: my dad, easy if my like if my dad wasn't
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: able to do that I'd be like, dad, where are
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: we doing? Like what you gotta lock in down?
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Hey, you understand
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: their weaknesses and blinds.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: And for me, my expectation with Opah is once once
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: friction gets going, he'll he'll he'll shut down. Yeah, whereas
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: he is very capable, so I have the I need
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: you to stay poised in the.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Pocket yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: And figure it out like you threw a pit because
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: I could tell he felt bad when Troe calls like
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: I missed the last like we missed the whole my
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: favorite song, I missed it. Yeah, And I could hear
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: it in his voice like he did feel bad. Yeah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: then he'll remember how he feels. It was just like
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: it was just a bad situation. And I think in
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: my head, Oprah, you're better than that. Yeah, he was all,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: you gotta be the adult in the room.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: When chaos is ensuing.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: He throws a pick on the field. He comes to
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: the sideline, you're a head coach. He gets on phone
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: with oh C Charo. Oh C lights him up. He's
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: all this on the sideline, now head down, blah blah blah.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: You're sitting there, give him a smack on the ask,
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: get back in there, go throw the ball, because I
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: know you can do it. We can't you. None of this,
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: none of that.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, none of that.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: That's a lot.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: That's a tough line to toe, dude, tough line to toe.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: My parents out there, all Papa team six. No, Like,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: there's just a lot. There's a there's a line, there's
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: a dan it's happening. Yeah, it's all family dynamic stuff.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Well that, dude, talk about a subject that Honestly, every
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: single listener at home, I would say probably eighty percent
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: of listeners at home have an in law that they
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: just despise, Yeah, or an in law that despises them,
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: Like I feel like that's a pretty common trope. Yeah,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: and we don't have that. And I was about to
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: say we don't have that either. I'd very much count
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: my blessings on that. But like that, that is something
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: that a lot of listeners at home are sitting there
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: and nodding their head of like thank God.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Like, if you have those resembment things, that's a notch
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: of evidence that builds your portfolio of.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: Despising so and so.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, we don't have that dynamic but I'm thinking in
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: my head, like if this is a babysitter or chalkcare person,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: it could have been their first time or second time
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: something like that happens. That's just that's a we have
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: to be on the same page because that that can't
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: happen again.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: Like, that's that's.
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: It's a fireball offense.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not fireball, just we won't call you back because
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: you can't have those moments.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: You can't have those moments. But you ain't gonna do
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: it with your in.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Laws because we have a great relationship and you also
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: love and need them. Yeah, it's true. It's it's so
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: you can't beat them up too much. Yeah, because we
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: need them to keep wanting to come back. We need
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: them when we're wanting to have those nights, those evenings. Yes,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: it is what you got.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: I saw you. I saw a couple of chips. My
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: only questions I know how you think, and I know
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: how I think.
• 46:33
  Speaker 6: We all think. We wanted to solve the issue. So
• 46:36
  Speaker 6: my brain goes in that situation, One did you teach
• 46:39
  Speaker 6: them when they got home, like how to do it?
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Or did they already know it?
• 46:42
  Speaker 6: And two are there things in the future that you're
• 46:44
  Speaker 6: gonna make like instructional videos about like, Hi, I'm will Compton.
• 46:48
  Speaker 6: Me and my wife are out to dinner and you're
• 46:49
  Speaker 6: watching our kids. Here's how to do all this ship
• 46:52
  Speaker 6: and just run through because I'm curious, Like, let's say
• 46:54
  Speaker 6: this comes up again in a certain situation. Are you
• 46:56
  Speaker 6: gonna you're gonna coach them up? Are you gonna show
• 46:58
  Speaker 6: them how to do the machine? The four pieces and ship?
• 47:01
  Speaker 6: Are there any other things you're worried around the house
• 47:03
  Speaker 6: that Opa just can't figure out on his own?
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: Opa can Annie?
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Opa can Opa?
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: Cana Lola?
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: Like that's the level of like if she gets confused
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: on a matter, I'm like, okay, I love love me some, Lola,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: but this is OPA's gotta know this.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Let's get game.
• 47:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, gotta go Scarious. How you hnt like the coaching?
• 47:22
  Speaker 6: Think you're gonna make it?
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: I went to my room, great move.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I just gotta keep walking back and forth. Hey do
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: I gotta get something out of the car. Let me
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: walk back to the room, go in my closet. Let
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: me change Wait? Did I acting?
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: Man? Acting?
• 47:37
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Just just check the tire, looking like I'm staying busy
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: because wife still I know she's still she's still hot.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, grass might need looked at, so she might have
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: showed them. Maybe not.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: But to your point, it might not be me making
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: a video high I'm really see your wife. You're watching
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: this video. You probably have a trouble with Ianhaler. Let
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: me show you how we pece haale together. But now
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to add the link to a YouTube video.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: Just in my note in my role of.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: That, well, just QR code. You could QR make a
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: little video for your thing. It could be that heck
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: heck good, that good, heck good that act. Hey also
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: that level expectation thing where you're talking about no coaching
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: for opah on Inhaler, Bill Compton gets a video of
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: how to walk into the dakh no exactly. Oh yeah
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: that's what I'm talking. Yeah, oh my god, I forgot
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: your staff.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, you gotta stay on my ass, chef.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: You're you're my guy.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: I don't care if you annoy me.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: Okay, because yesterday when I didn't come in, I was
• 48:34
  Speaker 4: a little it was like a very brief like what
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: do you want?
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: And I was just like can I get that?
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Because you were and I was just you were staying
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Let it go for the thing where you cracked the
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: door and you were kind of staying there.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: It sounded like you guys were having an important meeting. Yeah,
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: we were doing all we were doing one on one. Okay, Chef,
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: he's a good no's we get here. You might be
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: better Chef about telling me, and said you Chef boards Damn.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Wait, Chef, doesn't you brought up the instruction of video
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: my dad going to get on aout Chef yesterday clumping.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I were doing our U We're doing our weekly one
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: on one and kind of just talking shop. So this
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: door over here opened as we're sitting on the couch
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: over there, and when it opened, we paused talking and
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: we look at who's coming in. Yesterday was like Ryan,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: it was Chef, but Chef was standing there and we're
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: staring at Chef and I'm just waiting for him to
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: say whatever he's gonna say, but he doesn't say anything.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: He stands there and.
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: I just go, what do you need?
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: And he goes, Hey, whenever you get a minute, can
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you send me the video that you where you gave
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: your dad instructions. I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah, absolutely, I
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: say yes. You guys know how you guys know how
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: you got a lot going on. I say yes, but
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: then the day's going I leave. I'm nothing until we're
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: here right now.
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: That damn it.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: I forgot to send Chef that video. I was talking
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: to Deeke.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: On that point of expectations for parents and then all
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: of a sudden, but I turned back over here, what
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: are you doing? And I was like, what did Chef
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: just do? What happened?
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: Chef does work hard, and I know he's on top
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: of it, so I know he thinks about it. Like
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: when I left, I did some of the video. I
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: know those moments went through his brain and Will forgot
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: some in the video.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: Do I hit him up?
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: Do I not hit him up? You know what, It's
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: all good. He probably had a busy, he probably goes
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: to those mental gymnastics. But that's why I'll look at
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: him directly. I'm like, dude, you would annoy me like
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: you're I know, Chef.
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, for next time, I will, I'll I'll
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: keep pressing on it.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: It was like, hey, I could, I can't wait till
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: Wednesday to ask again.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, from the meeting.
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: I have bad eyesight, by the way, so if you
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: guys are on the other side of the shop, I
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: can't see if you guys are talking or looking at
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: me if I don't have my context in. That was
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: a yesterday thing, so that's probably why I just stared
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: at you look an idiot. And I was like, and
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: then I hear the door didn't.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: Even fully come all the way open. He didn't fully
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: come in.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: He didn't like he opened it enough to where he
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: I yeah, the contact thing.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: I felt like he saw what was going on.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: So he was in a spot to where I thought
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: he was gonna shut the door and be like, Okay,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I'll come back later, but he kind of kept it.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: He kind of got it open like this one and
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: he's just standing there.
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: For like eight Mississippi.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: It was one where I said, should I walk away
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: and close the door immediately? And I said, maybe if
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: I stand here, they'll look at me and address it.
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: But it looks very important, so I feel like it
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: was a very odd I was like, are they talking
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: serious ball right now?
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: And I need to get the fuck out and we'll
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: just wait and see Dad.
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  Speaker 6: Hack for chef. When I have those situations, I go,
• 51:33
  Speaker 6: you guys kissing? Yeah, yeah, he knows every time they're
• 51:37
  Speaker 6: they're doing like a secret.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: I go you guys kissing and they're like, yeah, we're issing.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Like God, I'll come back later.
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good note. You have years of experience
• 51:43
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  Speaker 1: But hey, but the instruction in the coach, the coaching
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  Speaker 1: for OPAH in my brain isn't anything technical. No, it's
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: the mentality when you're in the pocket and chaos is
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: going on. Yeah, I need you to stay in it,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: lean into it, stay calm for everybody else, and no
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: tucking tail, let that tail out, keep it waw, don't
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: get mad, and meets and meet the energy where the
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: energy's at. Yes, because now I'm losing you. You're too
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: good a player to lose yourself.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: That's that's the overarching theme there.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for everyone involved, stay poised.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: Not the charo Dennett she was fighting eight battles with.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: She's just trying to have a great, great date night.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah. We got Chalc here taking care of Thank god
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: that my parents want to come over swim with him
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: in the pool.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you stay poised by staying out of it.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: It sounds like Charles state poise of like she could
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: have really lost it on somebody over the matter.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: Like another thing that led into it is right before
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: we left, the kiddos were outside in the pool with
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: Lola and Open playing in the pool. Yeah, Lola was
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: on Scottie and she's sitting there with Scottie. I guess
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Scotty might have thrown a ball. I didn't see what happened.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: Scottie falls and cracks her head on the edge like
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: the corner part of the pool, like the hot top
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: part that leaks into the pool. She's crying, Me and
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: my like, me and Charle were upstairs. We're bandaging her up.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: She's got a little blood, she's she's upset. I was
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: wondering what happened. Hey, it's all good. We finally get
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: out of the house going date night. But then it
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: ends the way it ends. It's like, yeah, we're not
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: gonna go undefeated.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: No, you know what I'm saying. No, we're not gonna
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: go undefeated. There, but I needed that date night. That
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: was that was rivalry week, and you needed a W.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: I needed a fat W because then on Sunday, that's
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: when we were going to DC for the UFC two
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: fifty Freedom Fight Lord, and then I was in Chicago
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: on Monday, so I was traveling in that couple of days.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: Mom's gonna be on the responsibility, She's going to be
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: on the wall.
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I needed that night. We got Mama, ain't happy,
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: ain't nobody? Yeah, Okay. Because of time, we can jump
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: into dad hacks and then I think from dad hacks,
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: we go right into our voicemails and email just to
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: make sure we get everything.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: This one's from Eric Foss on Spotify Dad Hack of
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: the Week Eric Faust on Spotify. When traveling with younger kids,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: leave in the middle of the night so they can sleep.
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: The whole way might seem like a burden at the time,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: but worth than not having to go back to the
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: back of the car all the time. And by the way,
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: from my man, that's a fan duel. This isn't an email, bro, this.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: Is not any well did you miss reading it?
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: I kind of hit a couple of things, but I
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: would like they've also got to understand and I need
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: you to back me up on this. Some of the
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: some times there are misspellings in grammatical errors that disrupt
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: the flow of the sin. So you got to like
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: almost go back because I'm not reading these things before
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: we do the show. We read them on air, so
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: that way we can have natural reactions to So sometimes
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: the grammar and everything else is a little out of place.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: It's not just my brain shut. My brain can do that. Yes,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: I just want people to know it's it's it's trying
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: to pass the buck a little bit, dad hack to
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: get on the show. Use punctuation, use paragraphs, space it out.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: If it's one block of text. I'm not handing that
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: to Willie. See space it out. Let's use some punctuation, guys.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: Adult email does have a spell check feature.
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I can read. You can, dude, You're a
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: great reader. I can read damn it. Yeah, I heard
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: that's a quote. Graphic. Christopher Wall on Spotify says, little
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: wedding ringac froid, you're swimming, working in the yard, just
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: whatever you need to take it off, especially when not
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: at home. Get a little carabiner for your car keys
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: and you can just pop that sucker on that ring.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: And yeah, it's much easier to keep track of love that.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: Aaron Lyle on Spotify, here's a dad hack. Become a
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: pro with swaddowing those kiddos in the little burritos and
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: getting them to go down for naps in bed.
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: Instant shockwave coupon Boys Dude.
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  Speaker 2: Also huge shout out to my boy Brian Cox BC four,
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: who just had his daughter Lucy on July second, his
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: first couple of weeks or sorry on May twenty third. Hello,
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, she was almost my birthday twin, not
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: Scarlet's birthday twin. Yikes, But it sounds like the first
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: couple of weeks are going very well. And from everything
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: that he listened to the show, he said it prepared
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: him for worst case scenario. It hasn't gotten to that
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: point as far as like night watching everything, so he said,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: all the dad hacks everything they've been helping. He was like,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: I was expecting like just death every single day, and
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: because there's not that, I'm like, Okay, we're surviving. Yeah,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: and we're getting our little cat naps in here and there,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: so it's all good. I do also have.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: I hope he really took in the in law conversation.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, definitely there is.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: Something to that.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: There would there would always be before ru came. This
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: is always something that kind of like grinded my gears.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: But people would talk about how hard it is to
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: have kids. Just wait till you have kids. Oh, you
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: won't get to do that again, Wait till you have
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: gid Oh oh my kids.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: We'll make sure you get it done now.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: Because once the kids go, yeah, and then you almost
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: you're anchored so much there that when we were raising
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: rue and doing all this stuff, then you have Scotti,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: the people that when you only have one, the folks
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: that have too that just wait, wait till, wait till
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: there's two of them. Oh you think it's easy, now,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: wait till and then like you know, Charing are sitting
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: there dapping each other up on side because we're like.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: Dude, it just is like you just wait till they's
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: not that third one. Wait till there's a fourth.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, you're not out numbered yet, Wait till there's three.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: And it almost puts a little chip on your shoulder
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: to when you do get in the trenches in embrace,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you feel like my man coming out of it. So
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: that does fire me up. Yeah, And he listens to
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: us go on and on about all this stuff, and
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: he feels prepared towards like, oh, shit, they're not dying
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: all the time.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh okay, they just eat shit and sleep that. Oh.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: I just have to be on top of my shit. Yeah,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: And I'm prepared for them.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: And he's doing all the bottle feeds, dude, Yeah, he said,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: he takes care of all the bottle feeds. He's getting
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: the pump parts ready for the wife. He's on it.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: I have a quick survival kit and dad hack dad
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: hack or sorry survival kit. Baby car camera you can
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: get them for like twenty bucks. I'm talkingalking about the
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: wired ones, not the wireless ones. You can get like
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: a twenty dollars baby car camera so you can watch
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: your baby in the car seat for long road trips
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: and slash what doubles with that? A dad hack to
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: combo with that is get like an umbrella, a little
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: kid fishing pole, something that's got some length on it,
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: and a toy that you can clip on the end,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: and you just sit passenger seat so baby's right behind
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: you and you just dangle stuff in front of their
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: face and you can watch it on the baby cam.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: So much fun. Dude, Scarlets just sitting there like smiling
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: and trying to grab the little puppet thing that we're
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: so busy. Keeps you busy and you're not having to
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: get up, dude, You're just right there and the passenger
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: seat just burner. It was fun. I was like, dude,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: this kind of rips.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: That's a good dead heck. Yeah, good dead heck.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: I got a shout out here from Noah Peck what
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: you pack?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, friend to this know what japack?
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: What's up?
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: Boys?
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: Longtime Tides fan for the Boys listener and been listening
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: for the debts for a few months now. Ever since
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: I was a kid, I always wanted a family and
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: lots of kids.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: Come on.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: My wife and I got married in August of twenty five,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: just bought a house in March and found out on
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: May fourth, May the fourth be with you that we
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: are expecting our first baby. What Today my wife and
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: I went to our first appointment to see the little
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: pup and it is the second best day of my
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: life by marrying my beautiful wife.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: Our little one is due January tenth and twenty sixth.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: I am so excited to officially graduate from BUTTS training
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: to pet sicicos status. We're going to be finding out
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: the gender on July eleventh. Yeah, so we will keep
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: you all updated throughout the process. I'm assuming he met
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: January tenth, twenty twenty seven.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: Wait, wife and I got married on August of twenty five. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: he must have been twenty seven.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: You meant twenty seven, yeah, yeah, yeah, because twenty.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: Six are past.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: Still lives is still alive.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the ps already had my first dad loss got
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: permission the video the heartbeat during the ultrasound, I am videoing,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: trying not to cry and turn the video off. Then
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: I realized I had the flash on the whole time
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: in the dark room. Wifey and the doctor nurse got
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: a good laugh. That's the first of many more to
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: come from my iPhone. Good Noah, pack beautiful look out dude,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: shout that by the way, man, what a beautiful little couple.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: Grace.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: He smiles with his eyes. He's got a good set
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: of hair.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: Good flows on, dude.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: That rips strong jawel line. He's just talking about this.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: He's on his hell. He looks good.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: I have one more shout of this from Brian Friedman.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Here's a shout.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: Out that he deserves.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: Come on, I want to give a huge shout out
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: to my husband Jordan for his first Father's Day.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: Our sweet boy.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: He's only a few months old, but he's already won
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: the dad Lottery and I couldn't be more grateful to
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: be raising him alongside such an incredible man. He is
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: the backbone of our family and watching him love, care for,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: and show up for our son and myself every single
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: day has made embracing the suck so much easier. Thank
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: you for an amazing podcast that has given Jordan the
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: confidence to become the best first time father that I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: knew he could be. He deserves all the praise and
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: a shout out from the boys. Love you, guys. Empty
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: six three.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: I got Ryan macklin or also known as Ryan McCallan.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: If he's Irish. Yeah, Hailey, his wife and had her
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: birthday on June eleventh. Happy belated birthday. Belated birthday. And
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: you want to talk about beautiful families, boom baby, they
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: got their little baby there, they got the beautiful little family. Pick.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: I am sorry that we are flying through these shout outs.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: We are very tight on time. But one to make
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: sure that Ryan's birthday shout out to his wife. He
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: did get read Ryan. We would have read this, but
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: we had the dad episode last week. It's a little late.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: He sent it in on time, Hayley, He sent it
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: in on time.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: He said it in on time. He said it on time.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: Jake Kurney, just quick, this is a quick one. Quig
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: Kearney on Spotify. When the wife he threads to hire
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: a guy, that's when the beat fix comes out. Oh god,
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: you want dude. I'm being serious that I I'll keep
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: this short.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: Nothing makes me more mad when it's something that I
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: know I'm capable of. And Jill would go, do you
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: want me called Cody her stepdad? What if I just
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: called Cody? Do you think Cody would know how to
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: do fiting words? Hey, Cody, I love you. We don't
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: need to be calling Cody. What are we calling Cody
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: about I know how to do it.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: That's for me and you. That's I'm like, that's a
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: great idea, call Cody, call them.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: I love that because it really is like there's some
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: people take way too much pride in the fact that
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: they think that they could do it. AKA me and I, Oh, hey,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: guess guess what. Dog is still getting out. Got a
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: little ring notification from our sweet neighbor Katie of my
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: dog sitting on her front porch after I, Oh, I'm
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: gonna do the fence. I'm gonna put up all this stuff.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: We're not hiring somebody to do it. Dog's still getting out,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 2: Dogs still getting out.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: Love it.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: I got a voicemail for us hit it this like
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: so one of the dads, this one's called Mancola, dad loss.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: What up?
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: What up?
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 8: Mister fast staffer and wheely one shelf.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just here to report.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 8: Ah, he'd report a.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: Dad loss on my end of things over here. Had
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 2: the UH.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 8: Had my nearly two year old son on the camper
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 8: with me, were getting it ready for camping season out
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 8: here in Idaho, and we had our Mancala set just
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 8: sitting down on the table, and UH, I didn't think
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 8: twice about it, then double checked to make sure he
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 8: wasn't getting into the beads. About two days later, the wife,
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 8: if he's like, uh, bab, what's this look in the diaper? No,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 8: He's got like three man Cali beads in it. I'm like,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 8: oh no, I'm like that's bad. But he's okay. Nothing
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 8: happened to him.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: Good anyway.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 8: Yeah, y'all take care and uh, definitely don't keep it
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 8: under an hour.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: Audio definitely don't keep it under an hour. So question
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: what did he have in the diaper?
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: He had pieces from the board game mancla. If we
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: could bring up an image of that, what's a man
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: call it m A n c A LA.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 6: It's the game with the rocks that are colorful that
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 6: you put around a board and go in.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: And the baby got three and it went in and
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: came back out and the baby's fine.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 3: Apparently pooped it out.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: Oh shitty, ate them, he ate him. I thought we're
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: saying he just stuffed him in the diapers. Days later
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: he said he's okay. Oh past him, God past him.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Thank god he didn't joke on him. Bro.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: That's nightmare. Feel for my wife. That is choking is
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: like her dain. No way his wife was that chill
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: about it. What's this? How many more or less? My question?
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if there's a way to count, how many pieces coming?
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: Oh no, thank god he's all right, Thank got god.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Funny story that was very bored game, he shipped out, Yes.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, we do, Deek. I want to parlay this email.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 2: I feel like deserves really good treatment. Can we can
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: we pun it? Is that? Okay? We we have We
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: have fifteen minutes until ten fifty five. Okay, cool, so
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: we can dive there too. I should do the two
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: emails and we'll be good. Okay, cool, cool?
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 3: Do you have any do mine first or do you
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: want to go first? Because I don't know which one
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 3: you're talking?
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: You go for all right?
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: Hey, shoe time, showtime, showtime, lock in plus twenty five hundred.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: Excuse me?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Tiara Temple on email. Hey guys, my name is Tiara.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: My husband Jeordi is a huge fan and turned me
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: onto the pod. He's way too embarrassed to ride in himself,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: so like any good wife, I'm doing it for him. Go.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: This is his in the trenches story. I was sitting
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: on the couch holding our two month old daughter, our
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: first child. So I'll admit I was probably a little overprotective,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: and when I suddenly spotted a mouse casually sitting on
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: a log in our fireplace, naturally I called my husband
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: and gave him one job to do get rid of
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: the mouse. What followed was hours of absolute chaos. After
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: multiple failed attempts to catch it, the crafty little sucker
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: launched itself out of the fireplace and sprint it across
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: our living room floor. At that point I made my
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: husband turn the entire house upside down. There was no
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: chance I was going to sleep. Knowing a rodent could
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: be crawling around near our baby. He cut open the
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: lining underneath our couch to make sure the mouse wasn't
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: hiding inside traps everywhere. Meanwhile, I had barricaded myself and
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: the baby in our bedroom with towels stuffed under the
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: door good. By this point, I was furious and my
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: husband felt like a complete failure. Then around ten pm,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: we heard the most beautiful sound in the world.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: Snap.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: The mouse had fallen for a trap by the fridge.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: The relief was immediate. Come on, the mouse was gone,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: the baby was safe, and my husband could finally go
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: to sleep.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 3: No, I wasn't going to kill him.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: Come on, thanks for all you do, Tiara, Tiara, I'll.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: Tell you right now, Jill, listening to the episode just
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 2: relived PTSD, we have the exact same scenario happened at
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 2: the house. There is no worse feeling than just not
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: being knowing that the mouse is real, that the enemy
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: is real and it's out there and it's elusive and
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: you can't fucking catch it. Yeah, I was losing sleep.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: I was losing sleep, and when I saw him, I'll
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: try to keep it PG. But when I saw that
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: little body in the trap, I did. I danced. It's
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: like you little fuck you stand over him and hit
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: the hit the Oh my god, my stink they sink.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: Amanda Clark, this one is lengthy because her husband sent
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: an email it didn't get onto the show. Then there
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 2: was a further story that came with it, and Amanda
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: wrote in the further story into the show and it's
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 2: actually an epic one. Deeke did an awesome job finding
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: this one. I will dive in. Amanda Clark says, Hi,
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: dad's my name is Amanda, and my husband has been
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: a longtime fan of BWTB and more recent fan of
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: for the Dads since we found out that I'm pregnant
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: with our first baby boy. Congratulations. Brian emailed you guys
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: a few weeks ago about the bad motorcycle accident that
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 2: he was in at that exact same time that they
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: found out that she was pregnant. It would mean everything
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: to him to hear from you, especially during an incredibly
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: physically and mentally difficult recovery of his broken leg. I
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: also know from reading the email he sent to you
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: guys a he significantly underplayed how much your podcast had
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: impacted him over the past few months. I've seen it
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: firsthand and wanted to reach out and tell you about Brian.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: From my point of view, Brian and I have been
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: together for thirteen years and married for almost four We've
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: stayed together despite years of long distance moving to and
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: from Canada, and we've experienced a lot of ups and
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: downs in between. For the last thirteen years, Brian has
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: been my rock throughout complicated family dynamics, my significant mental
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: health challenges, and the stress caused by veterinary school and
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: specialty residencies. Brian's love and commitment to our relationship and
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 2: little family and future has never wavered. A lot of
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: things have changed over the years, but I've always been
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: able to count on Brian to be that constant, steady
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: force in my life. Brian started riding his motorcycles a
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: few years ago and instantly fell in love. It was
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: one of the ways he could relax and see the
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: beauty of the world, which was especially important during times
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: when life felt heavy. When we found out I was pregnant,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: Brian told me that he was going to give up
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: riding for the baby. We talked about the dangers and
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: risk of riding, but I didn't want him to give
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: it up because I saw how much he enjoyed it.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: It had quickly become a huge part of his life,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: and I couldn't take that away from him. Unfortunately, a
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: few weeks ago, Brian got into an accident while riding
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: his motorcycle to work. He got t boned by an SUV,
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: and even though he was only going thirty five, the
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: acceleration of the other car caused significant damage to his bike.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: He ended up to him and his bike. He ended
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: up breaking both bones in his lower right leg, which,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: according to that doctor, requires an incredible amount of force. Somehow,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: he was able to call me after he got hit,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: and I got him and I got to him before
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: the EMTs. I felt so helpless seeing him like that,
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: and it broke something in me and I don't think
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: I'll ever get back. Luckily, he stayed conscious despite being
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: in shock and in a lot of pain. Long story short,
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: His worst injury was his leg fracture, which required orthopedic
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: surgery and placement of a large metal rod through the
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 2: length of his tibia. He was lucky to walk away
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 2: from the accident with his life and without any head injuries.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: Brian has a long recovery in front of him. He's
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: had to rely on a walker and now it cane
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: to walk, and has been making progress walking longer distances
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: and even going upstairs. He's never been someone who relies
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: on other people for help, and he rarely even asked
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: for it. Transitioning from the mentality of constantly needing help
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: and being physically limited have taken a toll on him.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 2: He's making progress, but I know that he wishes things
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: would progress faster. He has done this at his best
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 2: to stay positive and has really only had brief moments
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: of negativity. Not really sure how he does it, but
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: I don't think i'd be able to in this situation.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: He has made the decision to stop riding motorcycles, which
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: is heartbreaking, but he realizes how lucky he is to
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: still be alive after the accident and thinks it's for
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: the best. This is where you guys come in. Brian
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 2: started listening or the Dads in April has continued to
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: listen every week. He has shared funny stories with me
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: that have been discussed on the podcast, and also relayed
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: some helpful parenting hacks that you've got you guys have shared.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: I think that your podcast is one of the reasons
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: that Brian has been able to stay positive during his recovery.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: He's so excited for our little guy to join the
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: world this December and has definitely given him something to
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 2: look forward to. He has learned so much from your podcast.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: Is pumped to have been prompted promoted from Seman Team
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 2: six to pop A Team six your podcast or pop
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: A Team six and training is what she put Your
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: podcast has been a ray of light during some difficult
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: times for him, especially in the last few weeks. I
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: think it would be really easy for him to let
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: the negativity overwhelm him. In this situation, but you guys
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: have helped put everything in perspective for him, especially in
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: context of being in a motorcycle ACCT with a baby
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: on the way. Thank you from the bottom of my
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: heart for all that you do and forgiving Brian so
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: much hope and optimism for his future as a member
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: of Papa Team six. He's going to be an amazing dad.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: I can't wait for our little boy to grow up
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: with Brian as his dad. I know that you probably
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 2: get a lot of these emails, but I've seen how
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: impactful your podcast has been on Brian. I know he
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: would be a static for a response from you in
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: a shout out on the podcast Amanda Milk Team six
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: in Training Let's Go. So that comes from Amanda Clark.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: Here's the picture of his leg. Dude. Oh, one point
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: that I want to point out, just because Jill was
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: in a pretty high trauma floor in hospitals. Yeah, and
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: something that she saw a lot of helmets. Helmets. Helmets, dude,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: saves lives. Anybody that needs to hear that wear a helmet,
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: wear a helmet because you look at the damage of
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: that helmet. Dude, Brian's on here. If he's not wearing
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 2: a helmet, Like that's just cut and dry. He's on here.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: If he's not wearing a helmet, Yeah, wear a helmet,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 2: but dude, what a stud just to show it looks
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: like a nice a nice compound.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 3: Frack a nice compound.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 2: Break who both of them burrow the bike?
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Look at the My god, I mean, thank god he's okay, dude,
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: Thank god Brian made it.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 3: Thank you for writing into.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for writing in. It's really exciting to
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: like hear stories of like these families before the kiddos come,
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: and it's very humbling to hear like, oh, my husband's
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: so excited, da da da, But it does it makes
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: me happy that, like my friend Brian that I'm on
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: the phone with this morning, Hey, the stuff in the
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: podcast blah blah blah. He hit me up before his
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: daughter Lucy was even here and was like, hey, what'd
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 2: you do during night shifts again? Run me through that,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: Like what does that look like? All those little tidbits
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: that we on a piece of paper are like, Okay.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: We got make sure we go over dad hacks. We
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: got to make sure we go over dad losses.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: Like those are truly things that like people take away
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: from this show and that's like crazy.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's cool, man, it's cool. And by the way,
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: just a corrector. PAPA Team six and training. He's now
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: in training, but he completed Buds training. He completed buds
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: just to round out the language.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was in Seeming Team six. Yeah,
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: hit buds train, hit budgs training, completed Buds training and
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: is now PAPA Team six in training or future pt
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: SIICO as we have said on the show. Yeah, pt
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 2: SICO to B pt sico to be p t siico
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 2: to letter B. Yeah, yeah, that's gonna be somebody's user
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: name PT six two B. Yeah.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 3: PT six two B.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: We just shortened that. We did, bro. We cooked right
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: there and we are right at the finish line on time.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: Hey, love you, Bri, and thank you Amanda. Thank you
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: for all the kind words. Thank you for also speaking
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: for Brian. Brian should always be excited to I can't
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: wait for Brian Brian call in. You should call it, Brian,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: give us an update with how you're doing.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 6: That'd be sick to tell me the number you're calling from,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 6: so it's easier to find if you Yeah, there you go. Okay,
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 6: those just to point out, those pictures came from if
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 6: anyone's curi as Brian's original email.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: So we did find it. We have it. Wife, he
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: sent pictures came from Brian call in.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: Sorry, Yeah, I would just I would love an update,
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: maybe a funny story, having some fun with it, because
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: thank god you are still here. Bro.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: This is also I did not have a conversation with
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: Deeke about this before I say this. Just want to
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  Speaker 2: put this out there for anybody that's written in calling
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  Speaker 2: in whatever of Deeke is one man, and I have
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  Speaker 2: that email connected to my phone, the six on one
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  Speaker 2: of the dad's at Gmail. Yeah, brother, I get eight
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  Speaker 2: notifications while I'm laying in bed every night, like new email,
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  Speaker 2: new email, email. There is only so many emails that
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  Speaker 2: this guy could read, and so if there are things
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  Speaker 2: that are missed, just know that we love you and
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  Speaker 2: we try to get everybody on the show. But there
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  Speaker 2: there's a lot coming in, which is also a great
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  Speaker 2: problem to have.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you also don't want somebody out there to
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  Speaker 1: feel like, damn, I've written in several times, how do
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  Speaker 1: they not see my email? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Eight a night, just laying there.
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  Speaker 2: I truly, I mean do you have your bed four
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  Speaker 2: since we started recording. Yeah, I mean, dude, I'm me
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  Speaker 2: three phone calls. I'm not trying to be dramatic. I've
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  Speaker 2: and it tells me which email it is. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying, I'm my banner. So I'll just be
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  Speaker 2: laying in bed and I'll at least every night I
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  Speaker 2: have four like banners come in of just pt six emails. Damn,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, dang, dude, they And so when I come
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  Speaker 2: in to record and Deeks like laying everything out, it's
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  Speaker 2: just like another reminder of like, God, here he read
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  Speaker 2: through all these Yeah, like not even the email, it's
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  Speaker 2: just like all the comments, all the crazy.
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  Speaker 3: You're a bast deke.
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  Speaker 2: Gotta love what you do. Come on, man.
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  Speaker 1: As far as Lesson goes, communication, communication, good reminder. This
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  Speaker 1: is this is one that I try to always go to.
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  Speaker 1: But in the moments of chaos, remember how you want
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  Speaker 1: them to be in thirty years, not the next thirty seconds. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because ooh moments, stay poised, Stay poised, stay poised, stay
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  Speaker 1: locked in.
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  Speaker 2: It may feel like the right thing to say or
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  Speaker 2: do in that moment. And trust me, I gave Jill
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  Speaker 2: one of those on the way up to Dayton gave
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  Speaker 2: her a little pop back verbally, of course, verbally something
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  Speaker 2: that felt right to say verbally, verbally that felt right
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  Speaker 2: in the moment, and then twenty minutes down the road,
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  Speaker 2: I'm already in my own head of why in the
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  Speaker 2: world do I say that? Why in the world do
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  Speaker 2: I say that? Yeah, I know it's not even true.
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  Speaker 2: Just stay poised, stay boys, man, stay boys, take out
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  Speaker 2: the trash. We will see you next week. We got
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  Speaker 2: some guests in the works. Good dude, stay locked in guys, cause, uh,
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  Speaker 2: these next three weeks are gonna be really fun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we have two guests coming up that we're really excited about.
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  Speaker 1: It makes sure you are subscribed in sharing with PT
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  Speaker 1: sixers that could be part of this group.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, love you, appreciate you.
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  Speaker 3: See you next week.