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Colton's Premiere! · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with IR Radio. The stars
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  Speaker 1: have aligned, the people have come out, and we have
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  Speaker 1: started Colton season of the Batchelor. I'm here with my
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  Speaker 1: favorite co host, Ashley Kennetie, you don't have much of
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  Speaker 1: a choice. There a couple of years now and you
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  Speaker 1: hear a couple of laughs in the background. Please introduce yourselves.
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  Speaker 1: This is Garrett. You're going hello. I am Becka Kouffrin. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: your last name has never appeared on any Bachelor saying no,
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  Speaker 1: no one knows my last name. Nobody knows how to
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  Speaker 1: say your last name. Coop cooing, Okay, I think they
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  Speaker 1: may have gone over this on our podcast before. Yeah. Well,
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  Speaker 1: the reason I didn't introduce him is because I have
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  Speaker 1: no idea how to seek your last name. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: know we've got the cookfering thing on on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: but we've definitely knocked over how to say garrett sname. Garrett,
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  Speaker 1: say your lesson again. You're going, You're going in, You're
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  Speaker 1: going like you're going to the bathroom. Are you going
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  Speaker 1: to take that challenging name, Garrett? Um, Well, we've talked
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  Speaker 1: about hyphenating koufreing. You're going. I don't know how long
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  Speaker 1: that to your kids. That's what I talked to her
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  Speaker 1: mom about it, you know, and she said, well, she said,
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  Speaker 1: if you would like to hyphenate your name, but then
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  Speaker 1: it would be too complicated for the kids. I know,
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  Speaker 1: but I kind of want to keep both of us in.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the kids would have both, they'd have the
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  Speaker 1: hyphen name, I think, and you're going, we go with
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  Speaker 1: your going for the kids. Yeah, I literally cannot think
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  Speaker 1: of a harder last name for any poor child people
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  Speaker 1: on their toes. It'll keep the printing press in business,
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  Speaker 1: especially with the sweatshirts with the last name on the back.
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  Speaker 1: It'll be we'll make it work. Um, that's not a
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  Speaker 1: bad people, that's really good. That was good. Ever. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's gonna be great on this. So we've brought the
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  Speaker 1: two of them out to co host Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: as we love to during the Bachelor's season. We love
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  Speaker 1: to bring people and especially you know, some of the
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  Speaker 1: fans favorites. We saw a lot of fan favorites to
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  Speaker 1: night before we get into the episode. What did you
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  Speaker 1: all think? Obviously, Ashley, you just got done hosting uh
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  Speaker 1: an event here in Park City that we're all a
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  Speaker 1: part of. Um, what do you think of that? For
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  Speaker 1: the first episode? I think it was a pretty much
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  Speaker 1: a standard first episode. I feel like maybe they try
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  Speaker 1: to jazz it up with you know, the extra parties
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  Speaker 1: and all that, which is was a fantastic idea as
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  Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. But I do you think it
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  Speaker 1: was like a pretty formulaic premiere episode? Uh? There. I
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  Speaker 1: will say there wasn't that many standout exits, Like there
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  Speaker 1: wasn't like, oh my god, there was that girl who
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  Speaker 1: did that? S done? Or that's done? You know, not
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  Speaker 1: too many stunts this year and actually the only two
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  Speaker 1: stunts that really um jump out at me. Were two
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  Speaker 1: girls that were eliminated, and that was the sloth and
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  Speaker 1: the Cinderella Girl. I was hoping the sloth made it
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  Speaker 1: another round. I'm surprised she did it. You know, slow
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  Speaker 1: and steady wins the rate I'm gonna take out there.
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  Speaker 1: She committed to the sloth harder than Alexis committed to
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  Speaker 1: the Shark. She was. She was very dedicated to that,
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  Speaker 1: like she committed to it. I think she did herself
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  Speaker 1: an injustice by being a slot. What did you all
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  Speaker 1: think about having like the kind of breakouts across the country, having,
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  Speaker 1: you know, some a bachelination favorites hosting those. I think
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  Speaker 1: it was fun. I mean, it's the first one that
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  Speaker 1: we've ever taken part in, and it was fun too
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  Speaker 1: because I've watched the show for a while now. But
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  Speaker 1: to get the full audience reaction, I'm like, come on, people,
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  Speaker 1: we knew this was gonna happen or you could see
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  Speaker 1: that from a mile away, so it's kind of interesting
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  Speaker 1: to hear the gasps and laughs and all that. I
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  Speaker 1: have to say that some of the best moments of
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  Speaker 1: tonight's episode came from the live segments. There were the
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  Speaker 1: two proposals, which were emotion invoking. There was Sammy who
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  Speaker 1: lost her mind over you Ben. That was a fantastic
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  Speaker 1: movement and uh, I don't know, I liked it. It It
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  Speaker 1: was so much fun. The Garrett what do you think?
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  Speaker 1: I mean? You came out here, You're you've been fairly quiet, right,
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  Speaker 1: this isn't the world that you love to run around.
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  Speaker 1: And you don't want to be famous. That's been very clear.
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  Speaker 1: You know you've you've taken advantage with some co opportunities.
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  Speaker 1: You're a great partner of Rebecca, but the chasing after
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  Speaker 1: fame is definitely not what you're about. So you come
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  Speaker 1: out here tonight with I don't know how many three
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  Speaker 1: people in Park City. You stand that people are screaming
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  Speaker 1: and yelling at the both of you. What does that
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  Speaker 1: feel like? It's definitely overwhelming. In the beginning, I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: quite sure what we're gonna be doing tonight. I knew
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  Speaker 1: that would be celebrate in with quite a few people,
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  Speaker 1: and they were all they were really awesome tonight and
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  Speaker 1: everyone was really nice. But it is overwhelming getting consumed
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  Speaker 1: by so many people. Yeah, when you guys walk out,
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  Speaker 1: it's like a boy band. It's actually dreamed of, like everybody.
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  Speaker 1: People are screaming at you. I love people who are
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  Speaker 1: excited in the crowd really does it for me? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I brought two buddies. So I'm not here right now
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  Speaker 1: filming a show from BC called First Look, and it's
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  Speaker 1: I was able to bring two buddies with me and
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  Speaker 1: they've never been a part of any of this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: They came out just to kind of experience the whole
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  Speaker 1: First Look show with me tonight, Like we've never been
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  Speaker 1: around super fans. It's a whole new world, right. We
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  Speaker 1: watched the show when I was on it, when everybody
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  Speaker 1: else is on it together in a room. Super fans
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  Speaker 1: freak out there and that's the thing. It's like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not used to that much abundance of love and support.
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  Speaker 1: So that's been the cool part. But at one point
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  Speaker 1: I think Garret and I walked back from the crowd
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  Speaker 1: and He's like, were you scratching my back the entire time?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, No, that wasn't me, that was
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  Speaker 1: somebody else. Okay, I felt before we diving episode, I
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  Speaker 1: think we should catch up with Becky Garretty. What's one
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  Speaker 1: on in your life? Um, what are you all up to?
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  Speaker 1: What's what's some big updates just well, Moe Ding moving.
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  Speaker 1: That's the biggest thing so far. We uh figured out
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  Speaker 1: about a month and a half ago where we're going
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  Speaker 1: to live, which is Carl's Bad, California, to get some
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  Speaker 1: sunshine for a while. We've been there. We went there
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  Speaker 1: over the spring for their flower festival. You guys will
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  Speaker 1: experience this in the spring. They have like this big
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  Speaker 1: long table in the middle of the flower field. Oh wow, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm already. I'm already. The number one thing that I'm
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  Speaker 1: planning when we move is planting an orange tree and
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  Speaker 1: an olive tree. I'm not I don't really have a
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  Speaker 1: green film, so I don't know why I'm so all
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  Speaker 1: about that, but I'm excited fresh oranges and olive oil.
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  Speaker 1: This place looks incredible. I'm looking up right now. My
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  Speaker 1: phone festival is nice. Good for you. Yeah. Um. And
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  Speaker 1: Garrett has an exciting new career opportunity coming up with
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  Speaker 1: an outdoor company that he'll be Oh yeah, he'll be hosting.
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  Speaker 1: So if anyone wants to hunt and fish and get
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  Speaker 1: into the outdoors and have some laughs, he's going to
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  Speaker 1: be doing that throughout the year, which is exciting. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and just traveling like crazy. Honestly, we're all over the
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  Speaker 1: place living out of a suitcase still, so it'll be
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  Speaker 1: good to get settled. There's one thing that everybody says
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  Speaker 1: to me about Garrett, because we've met briefly in Tahoe
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  Speaker 1: it's American Century Championship and then tonight, is that you know,
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  Speaker 1: because I've been able to be around Denver in Denver
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  Speaker 1: with Blake and Colton and been around Jason, that you're
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  Speaker 1: the funniest guy they know person They really so yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm guessing a trip guided by you would be
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  Speaker 1: an absolute blast. So I hear that over and over again.
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  Speaker 1: I want him to break out some of the dad
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  Speaker 1: jokes right now, but I don't want to put him
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  Speaker 1: on the spot. I don't know how appropriate all past
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  Speaker 1: I had a good Christmas time one, but I don't
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  Speaker 1: know it it's that good. I know, I know when
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  Speaker 1: you're thinking it's not good. You know, to both of you,
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and Becca, you both have made real relationships work
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  Speaker 1: out of this. It's like really cool Jared sitting outside
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  Speaker 1: watching football right now. Um, you know, there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of love in this room and it's really cool for
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  Speaker 1: me to see because I do believe in the show
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  Speaker 1: I always have and watching you know, Colton tonight as
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  Speaker 1: he starts his bachelor journey, it does bring back memories
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  Speaker 1: for me. For both of you, I know, you know
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  Speaker 1: talking to you, actually, this feels it's real. You're preparing
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  Speaker 1: for a wedding. Um, Becca and Garrett? How did you
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  Speaker 1: make this thing feel real? Like you're this? Is it?
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  Speaker 1: Like you guys are moving in together? I know. I
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  Speaker 1: think just ordering everything, just the realization sinking in that
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  Speaker 1: we're moving in together, and then looking at furniture and
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  Speaker 1: then packing and all that, it's like, damn, we're really
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  Speaker 1: doing this together. Yeah. I think it's just having a plan.
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  Speaker 1: And while you're on the show, and even after the show,
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  Speaker 1: your life is turned upside out and something that you
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  Speaker 1: can never expect or plan for because there's so many
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  Speaker 1: cool things that come from it. But now that we're
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  Speaker 1: finally figuring out where do we want to live, how
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  Speaker 1: do we want to fill our home and combining that
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  Speaker 1: as our own, not just my place or his place,
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of what's pulling it all together where and
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  Speaker 1: I think you've been lately for the longest time, we
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  Speaker 1: weren't having any wedding plans, but now we're kind of talking, Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: what what month do we want to do it in?
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  Speaker 1: What year? Is it coming up quicker than we originally thought?
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  Speaker 1: So it's it's slowly coming together. Yeah. I like the
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  Speaker 1: number two, And I was just joking today, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: what if we did two to March, no, February? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's a good. Well, then you started to start planning
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  Speaker 1: in a month, okay. So I have so many questions
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  Speaker 1: for you now that you said this. Do you have
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  Speaker 1: like a fall, summer, winter idea? Like, what's your season?
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  Speaker 1: She likes the fall, and I think that it's important.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know for the I think she's dreamed ever
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  Speaker 1: since being like a little kid to have like this
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  Speaker 1: wedding and all this, and with the passing of her dad,
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  Speaker 1: it falls also in the fall, and so she's picked
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  Speaker 1: out that date, which would potentially be a good one
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  Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, I just love the fall. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: And I think we've talked about maybe doing it on
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  Speaker 1: the vineyard, and it's in California, it's beautiful, it's the
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  Speaker 1: perfect weather. So that's what I made in force when
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  Speaker 1: he said February. I was like, especially if it's in Minnesota,
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  Speaker 1: that might be too cool. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, see,
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  Speaker 1: you guys don't even know what state you would do
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  Speaker 1: it and yet Yeah, yeah, Jar and I are going
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  Speaker 1: to have a lot more people over to our place
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  Speaker 1: to entertain you. This week. We may have been involved
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  Speaker 1: I want to clarify something for people who don't follow
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  Speaker 1: your every single move on Instagram. How has the living
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  Speaker 1: situation been. You both have kept separate apartments, but you've
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  Speaker 1: always been together, so you just kind of bounced back
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  Speaker 1: and forth between the two. Yeah, so I'll give you
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  Speaker 1: the rundown. So when after the show ended, I was
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  Speaker 1: in Reno. She was in Minneapolis. She went to her
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  Speaker 1: sister's bachelotte party. I went to my brother's bachelor party,
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  Speaker 1: and then after that I went to Minneapolis, was there
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  Speaker 1: for a month. Then from there she came to Reno
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  Speaker 1: for a month, and then I went back to Minneapolis,
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  Speaker 1: and then we came back out to the West Coast
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  Speaker 1: and we've just been bouncing back and forth from each
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  Speaker 1: other's places, And I even bought a pop up closet
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  Speaker 1: for her apartment. What's a pop up closet? I got
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  Speaker 1: her on Amazon. It was little Cubbies, so I could
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  Speaker 1: put like my pants, my boxers, my socks, and then
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  Speaker 1: paying my shirts and then a couple of coats and
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  Speaker 1: then put my shoes on the bottom. Because her closet,
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  Speaker 1: She's like, hey, I left you some hangers and there
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  Speaker 1: was three hangers, Like do you have room. I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you have room. And he gets here, He's like, this
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  Speaker 1: is two inches. I'm supposed to hang one shirt and
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  Speaker 1: appear underwear over this. From the middle of August through
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  Speaker 1: the end of September, I lived out in my suitcase
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  Speaker 1: the whole time. That's yeah. So when I came back
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  Speaker 1: the second time, I bought a little pop made it work.
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  Speaker 1: It broke I think the last week he was there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I did. It started to tilt because the weight of
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  Speaker 1: the jackets and everything like that, and I pulled one
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  Speaker 1: and that just tumbled up. Yeah. Picture, and we just
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  Speaker 1: pulled a picture of the pop up closet. It's Amazon. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you could close it up so it's not just like
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  Speaker 1: close hanging in your living room and if you get
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  Speaker 1: in a fight, it looks like a fine place to
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  Speaker 1: zip up and sleeping at night. Yeah, I know, I
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  Speaker 1: throw my flash head in there. So you guys wasted
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  Speaker 1: no time. I mean this thing. As soon as the
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  Speaker 1: show was done, you're, you know, kind of somewhat living together.
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  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. You've never had a shared post
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  Speaker 1: Should we dig in? Should we talk about Colton? Questions from?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Let's I'm having a fun time. Listen to Barrack.
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  Speaker 1: I just got it. That's your wedding. Yeah, okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: why did you guys decide on San Diego? Girls? Bed?
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  Speaker 1: Did you want to take this one? So? She threw
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  Speaker 1: up Los Angeles? I thought you just said she threw
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: up Los Angeles. She did did? Actually, yeah, out out
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Los Angeles. But she wanted to maybe go there, and
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how. It's not for you. No, So,
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: but that's all of California that I really knew. Yeah,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: And I loved the sunshine. I was like, hey, it's warm,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: let's go. And then I love the mountains and uh
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: and fishing and just being outside and active and stuff
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: like that. And so we went down to my brother's
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: wedding down in North County, San Diego, and I was like,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I could live down here, and she's like you could.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: I was like yeah, She's like, let's do that. That's
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: crazy because I've always thought of San Diego as like
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: the most active city in the kind tree I think
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: of it. I just think of like people working out,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: being healthy, going paddle boarding, going running, going and biking.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: So yeah, he got there. So it's a little more
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: chill than l A. His family is close by, and
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: so I thought it was one one because it was California,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: get the sunshine and family. So this is my favorite
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: question to ask newly moved in couples. What is something
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: that you've learned about him when you moved in? Just
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: about his like home habits that drives you nuts, or
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: you find just unique both of you, both from both
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: of you. Okay, I would say in the bathroom that
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: after remind her because I like to stay super clean,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: that after reminder to squeegee the door. And then and
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: then she'll like leave makeup like spilled on the counter
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm like light that up and she's like, oh, Gary,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, don't call me Gary. First of all,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: you cannot get mad at me from my makeup because
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: he will shave or trim his beard and the hairs. No,
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: you do not, Mr, he does not. It's all over.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: It's I went there and I haven't been home in
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: a month, and he stills little remnants of his hairs.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: That that's a hard thing. I'm on with you, g
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: that's impossible. Yeah, It's like I get a little bit
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: each day. I'm like, oh, there's a couple more hairs,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: you know, get a little wet tallengesin um. One more thing.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: And I've said this since day one, but his family
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: loves paper towels and leaving paper towels all around. I've
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: made it a habit now that I'll go, even when
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: I'm just with him or with his mom or his brother,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: then I'll go and super zoom all of the paper
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: towels and they leave around the house because we go
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: through so many. I'm like, why do you leave this behind?
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Just throw it away or use a normal towel, But
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: they just I don't know what it is with their
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: paper products. I like to reuse it, so that's why
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I don't like I leave it there because I'm gonna
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: use it again. And then she tosses and then I
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: have to get a new one. More waste paper towel
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: in my pocket. Yeah every day. Yeah, in the morning,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I washed, shower up, I go out and I washed
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: my hands and brush my teeth, and I clean up
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: with the paper towel, and then I'll use that same
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: paper towel in my pocket. Does not pull apart. We
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: buy high quality paper towel. Why don't I just buy
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: you guys for Christmas? No, no, well, I use a
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: paper towel in your mouth instead of a regular towel
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: because I can use it all day. Paste. It's like,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: put it in your pocket like my nose, wipe up
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: something off the counter, that well blowing nose. I'll be
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: done with it for the day. But if I have
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: to wipe something off the counter, then it's still, in
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: my opinion clean. I'll stick it right back in my pocket.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: And you know what's fun about like relationships, You know
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: in the beginning, when you're afraid to tell couples something. Yeah,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: we've gotten to that point now where it's like we
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: just fired up right away. Actually, her shoes off one
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: day and I was like, do not sit on my
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: bed with those feet, Like someone just dump vinegar and
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: they weren't that bad. I'm I've been the exact same way.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I've always thought I'd be like the girl that was
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: like kind of on our best behavior, like very ladylike
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: until marriage. Nope, just all out there, all the grossness living.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: When someone changes it, like today, I will say I
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: learned what e W meant. He's gonna hate me for
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: saying this, but he's read. There's no going back now.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: It stands for endless wipe when you go like one
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: that you have to like flash the toilet a couple
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: of times. Wore what is going on? Day? Everyone? Yeah,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: there's a fix for that. Actually knows my fix. We've
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: talked about it often. Actually we've only alluded to it once.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: Dast Or a shower, Yeah, I mean, I'm never if
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: if that happens, like starts to happen for me and
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: I see it coming there, it's it's just an audible
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: right away and say it's time to shower. Yeah exactly.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah's apparently what is this like afordable the day that
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: you can put on? Garret's like, let's get this for
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: our apartment. I'm like, that's a little extreme. You can
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: it hides under the lid. It's amazing. Is there anything
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: before we dive into the first episode of Cold and
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Season the Bachelor, is there anything for each one of
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: you in here that you're still hiding from each other?
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: And if so, can you break the ice now until
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: your significant other? That's a fantastic question. Do you have one,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Ashley to start us? Get him warmed up? If I'm Jared,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: because as soon as we walk out of this room,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Jared is sitting thirty ft from us, You'll have to
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: tell him whatever you're about to tell me. Man tough, Yeah,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: because I'm I'm too freakishly honest. Like sometimes lately, lately,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: like this is this week, he's been really congested, so
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: he's been eating a lot with his mouth open, and
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I'll just stare at him and I'll be like, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: he's like, what, Like, you're chomping. It's disgusting. Sometimes you'll
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: like see it in his mouth. That's all that's really,
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: That's it. I know. I wish I could be more entertaining,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: but I don't hop on right now. There's a couple
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: of things I don't I don't do this. I have
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: so many weird, gross, disgusting habits. I gross myself out often.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: There is one that my buddy just told his wife
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: and he hit it from her for years. He when
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: he's in a car, he drives a lot for work
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: or whatever, and if he doesn't have a cleanex he
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: picks his nose and to get rid of it, he
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: wipes it underneath the driver's seat, which I don't think
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: is uncommon because I know other people that do do that.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: So that's one of those things I'm kind of thinking about.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: It's like that seems to be something that we gross
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: me out. I just asked, please don't do that. Yeah,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: underneath that you kind of like reach under He just
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: he just told her about the yeah, and then you
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: can clean it off. I feel like I'm kind of
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: like you. Actually, we're we're pretty honest just because we're
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: together twenty four seven that there's really nothing I can
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: get past this guy. But um sometimes and he actually
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: did realize this once when we were in Reno because
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: my allergies were terrible, terrible, my sinuses were so bad
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: and my nose was just running that I like, I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: like to do this on my own two but I'll
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: stick balls of toilet paper up my I do that
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: when I'm really you know, yeah, it catches it all.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: It's like I don't want to keep like blowing and
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: rubbing my nose because it hurts. I just stick it
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: up there. He finally saw it once and that's your
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: body telling you gotta get rid of it. Yeah, it is, Yeah,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: even if it's in your sleeve. Yeah. Yeah, I'll say that.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: This month, Jared and I have started saying like I
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: gotta go poop instead of saying like I gotta go
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: to the bathroom. It's just like, uh, sorry, don't go
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: in there. Bombed it. That's like a recent development, you guys,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: this is love. Why don't we okay, do you guys
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: remember on the show they would use code like ten
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: one to go, number one, ten to to go, And
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: so I'm like, why don't we just say that instead
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: of being like, I don't know. We were trying to
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: be secreted for a while, but we could have just
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: said that. I just you know, I know that it's
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: a normal bodily version, and I'm like, okay, I gotta go. Yeah.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: In his intro package, he showed the blowout bathroom. That
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: remember that that was impressed. I do remember that that
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: stood out to me it's weird so to kind of
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: transition out to the Bachelor. For all of us that
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: have been a part of the show, anybody listens, I
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: bet this episode I'm gonna do it over under. I
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: about this episode gets five listens. What do you think,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Eastern He's shaking his head. Yeah, no doubt. I'm gonna
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: say just on that dot and I think so too.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I think as we really close. But for any out
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: there listening, please right into bed An Ashley, iHeart media
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: dot com. Uh. Any of your weird habits that you
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: haven't told your partner you want to tell your partner,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: but a little behind the scenes on the Bachelor, as
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Becca was alluding to, you obviously have to use the restroom.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: There's two hundred people on the crew. When you're the
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: lead of the Bachelor Bachelorette, you have a whole team
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: of people around you most of the time. Actually, for me,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: they knew that my like weakness was I have to
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: get along. I don't do well around crowds. Forever. I
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: can do it for a while, but I so what
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: do they do? They stuck a person with me at
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: all times, when I went to the bathroom, when I
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: slept there, was somebody not with more like farther than
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: ten yards from me. So that brings up a good point, right,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: you have men and women that are become friends and family.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: At this point, I would say it's about ten people
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: around the bachelor. Bachelor at all times you have to
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: use the restroom, they all are gonna know. And then
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: they're not just gonna know, No, they're gonna send the
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: signal out, Hey, Ben's got a ten to for the
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: next twenty five minutes. Pause everything. So you do, you
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, You walk out to two people
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: with cameras just going like, how was it? It was good?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: But say sometimes when you need that alone time. I
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: used to say I need a tend to just so
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I could go and take a chill there, like my
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: time minutes. I haven't really just meditated in the bathroom.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: When I first met her, she took really long showers.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: But then I realized that she was the trick the
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: at the beginning of a relationship, it's always I'm gonna
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: hold this in until it's appropriate to take a shower,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: or I can't take a shower tice and it you know,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's so awkward. Loves such a weird thing. Yea.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I feel like though you get so used to it,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: like you guys get it because you're around people all
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: the time. Then now it's just like my norm. So
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I'll talk about it with my friends. Are Like even today,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: in front of all the strangers, I was like, sorry,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I got to go to the bathroom. Everyone's like okay,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: and I was like, yea, can you hide me in
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: the men's bathroom? Sorry. He was my bodyguard outside so
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: he wouldn't let any voice come in. I would say,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: the show got me a lot more comfortable being around
• 26:37
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• 26:40
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• 26:42
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• 26:56
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• 26:58
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• 27:27
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• 27:30
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• 28:50
  Speaker 1: a second, the dog is standing there beside Jared for
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: like two minutes before you notice Jared is watching TV.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: That dog then starts in to look at them. Now
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: that's a cute of thing. So anyways, if this makes it, um,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Jared is sitting out there, we have a big window
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: to where he's at. There's this random like kind of
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: like German shepherd looking dog that was standing right with
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: sign him and Jared didn't see him. And then the
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: dog like sniffed Jared's hand and Jared doesn't know we're
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: watching him, but he's just loving on this dog and
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: playing with this dog it is and Ashley is like,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I feel like it's getting
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: hot in here because Ashley is heated up with our
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: new baby dog, Like I look as if he's with
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: our baby girl. So it was very adorable. I think,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: did I tell you this that once we got this
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: girl dog and he's never had a girl dog before,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: he all of a sudden goes, I kind of want
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: a baby girl now, Like all of a sudden, he
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: wants to have a girl first. Jared just cut alright, Hey,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: we've got to dig in. We've got to get gossipy,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: we've got to get juicy. We've got to talk about
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor. That's why we're here. That's why you're listening.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Becca and Garrett. It's been great to catch up with
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: both of you. Congratulations on the next steps. You're here
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: to talk about the Bachelor now though, Okay, um, Colton
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: season just started. I think actually tell me if I'm wrong,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you lead this segment because you understand
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor a lot better than the Bachelor. That is
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: not true. That's actually good point. Let's start from the beginning. Okay,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: I think Colton walking in this storyline has been and
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: and most of the country is gonna say it tonight
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: way overplayed the virgin thing. I thought they would pull
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: back a lot for the episode. I really did. I
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: thought they would say I thought this show would be like,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: we get it, the storylines out there, and they just
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: pushed it forward. So there's two things I want to
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: talk about. One, is it too much? Is it intriguing
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: to you at all? Is it interesting? Second? Is there
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: a such thing as virgin shaming? So I think let's
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: start with hasn't been overplayed? Is it appropriate? And is
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: it intriguing? Okay, well, I guess I'll start. I. I
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: just think it's so overboard, especially at this point when
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: we've seen so many on the show. There was a
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Sadie Murray who was on our show. There is me
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: and Becca, there's Kristen, and now there's Colton. And it's like, okay, well,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: if you have like five from the past decade, why
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: is that so fascinating? Why do we have to continue
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: to harp on It's obviously not that rare of a thing.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: And maybe more I want to add, there could be
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: more virgins who just didn't feel like it was appropriate
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: to talk about it on national TV. You were comfortable
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: in it I'm glad you were used to up. We've
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: had many girls call in and say thank you, Ashley,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: but yeah, you can name five. I bet there's more.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there is, especially who like left early and
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: they never really divulged into their personal stuff, I think.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: And I told this to Colton when he first told
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: me that he was a virgin in the Bahamas, and
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: then even after that we talked at mental all and
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: we're friends zoned, so we've talked about it. And when
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: he told me that he felt he was in a
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: safe place, we were at the point in the relationship
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: where he wanted me to know, and to me, it
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: wasn't a big deal. And to me, that's just a
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: part of who someone is. It's their decision, but it
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: doesn't make up their entire person. And so it's like, yeah,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: of course he divulged that, but there's so much more
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: to Colton than just being the virgin. And so I
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: kind of hope and this would be my wish that like,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: so for my season they played up. The first night
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: was of course not only the breakup with Ari, but
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: the whole let's do the damn thing. Like I had
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: to say that so many times and I'm like, good, gracious,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: I never want to say this again, but for the
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: show aspect, you kind of have to play it up.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: It's like a one and done type thing. And so
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: maybe fingers crossed, that could be the case for this,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: or you know, he can have a conversation with a
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: girl or two that he gets into stronger relationship with.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: But I don't think it needs to be like the
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: entire storyline. I think, and I've read things like people
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: think that it's not going to be Colton's journey to
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: find love. It's going to be Colton's virginity story, and
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: that's not what it needs to be about. Do you
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: wish you wouldn't have told you? No, No, I'm glad
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: that he told me, and and like I said, we've
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: had conversations since then, and so I just feel humbled
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that he felt comfortable to tell me that. And so
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: if he felt comfortable in not only expressing it to me,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: but knowing it was going to be played out on
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: national television, then that's his prerogative. And um, you know, again,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: he knew it was for a TV show, so it
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: would be played up a bit. But I don't think
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: it needs to be as extreme as it is, and
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: there's one thing that's really upsetting me, then I want
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: to move in the virgin shaming and don't hear from
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: every ready. I don't like this, and I could be
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: completely off. I feel things sometimes it doesn't make sense.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I don't love that there's women on the show saying
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take his virginity, or when I'm gonna
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: when he loses virginat me, I'm gonna oil him up
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: to try to get him hot and bothered and all
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: that stuff. I feel really disgusted by that for some reason.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's we're crossing a bou Andre in
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: a line now where this is something Colton's held on too,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: And I think as we get through the season here,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: we're gonna learn a lot more of why he's a virgin. Right.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: It's not because he can't have sex with a woman.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I'm sure he's had his opportunities, um and I'm sure
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: he desires it, but it's been a personal choice by him.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: I hate that there's verbage and people out there on
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: the show, and also that they're playing it with the
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: women going I'm gonna take his virginity. Think about what
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: you're saying there. What you're saying is absolutely disgusting, um
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: and not okay with me. And I can't quite put
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: into words why it's so upsetting, but I know when
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: I watched the episode to night, there was something about
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: it that just made me feel dirty. Well, And I
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: think it's the fact that for people to say that,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: it's like, that's very one sided. If if a man
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: were to say that about a woman, he would be ridiculed.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, could you imagine how that would go over?
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: And so no, he wouldn't live it down. And so
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's right for just because it's a
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: girl or a female to say that that it makes
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: it okay. I think it's like, hey, people, it takes
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: two to tango. You both have to have a mutual
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: decision in us and so if Colton chose to do
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that with somebody, then hopefully you both have talked about
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: that and that's for the both of you. But for
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: somebody to be like I'm gonna take that, or I'm
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: gonna take this, or I'm gonna steal his virginia, it's
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: like that's not your place. You just met the guy, Like,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: feel it out a little bit. You know that's just
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: that's there for probably the wrong the wrong thing I
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: think for him too, And I don't know. Yeah, and
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: if it is discussing like you were saying that, you
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: just go on there and then you just throw it
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: around like I don't know, that's something that he's lived
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: by for a while. You know, you just go on
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: there and say, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna take it.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the one that does it. I'm gonna
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: pull him up, I'm gonna get him in there. I
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: can't wait to get him in the fantasy suits because
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna do. I don't think that's right.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I will say, like I've made comments in the past
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: where I've been like, oh, I'd kiss him, or like
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: I would do this or something. But to say like
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this or like I'm gonna steal that
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: that's something that's that important to someone, it's has a
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: different connotation. I think. I think, like you said, the
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: first episode, the first episode, in my opinion, is absolutely terrible.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: Actually knows this. I hate the first episode. I'd prefer
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: every season of every season, not just this season of
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: every season. I just think it's weird and awkward, but
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I hope that this stops. Like this is just feels dirty.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: I'm concerned it's not so I would think, Okay, we've
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: dealt with it on beck of season. We touched on
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: it a little bit in Paradise, and now, of course
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: we're gonna make the first episode about it and then
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: we should be done with it. But based on the
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: preview that we saw, I'm scared that it's far from done.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: And it's not just going to be a fantasy suite thing.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be it's I'm gonna it's gonna carry on
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: throughout the entire season. I actually I was doing a
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: press thing and I think this must be out there.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: In episode two, they go around the circle and I
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: don't know it's a circle, but the group date is
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: girls sharing their first time stories with Megan Malawe like
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: it's a joke, and it's just like, why do we
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: keep playing this theme? Here's where it's personal me though.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: So I was asked if I was a virgin during
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Caitlyn season. Nobody remembers it. I told her lovable in
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: her response, which there was more wording, but one of
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: her responses and I know. She didn't love this part
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: was are you a virgin? I responded in honest way
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: and said, no, I'm not. I don't know how that
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: has to do with me. I'm feeling unlovable, but whatever
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: that works, here's my issue. And this is where the
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: show gets personal. It shows funny, it's weird, it's awkward.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: You guys met, and like, that's awesome for all of
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: you in this room. There's love that can exist from
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: the show, and it identifies at the large piece piece
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: of my life, with or without a relationship. But there
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: are kids watching. They're teenagers watching this show. The show
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: knows that, right, ABC knows that, and there's kids out
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: there watching and seeing that. It's this thing that like
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Colton's a little bit kind of being made fun of.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: The women are kind of saying, I can't wait to
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: take his virginity. All the presses about is the a
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: virgin or not? Where it feels like to me being
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: a virgin, Yes, it might be maybe not the norm
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: or the majority, but it feels like something that is
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: so strange and weird. If I was a virgin, I'd
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: be questioning myself and and I'm a thirty year old man,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: I'd questioned myself, that's where for me, this whole thing
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: needs to stop, because there's kids, men and women both watching,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: going well, he's the bachelor, he's cool, and he's a virgin,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: and people making fun of him for it. So I
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: have so much to say about that because I think
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: that that's the way the show has portrayed it, being
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: like this is weird. It's so weird, we're going to
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: talk about it all the time, and we all I've
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: been pretty open about I'm not one to usually say
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: like there's editing involving blah blah blah. But that scene
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: of yours during last season, I imagine had which time
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: so it wasn't pure. Can we just say that scene
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: wasn't pure? And I got so fired up over that
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: because in that moment, I felt like they were virgin
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: shaming him. I will say that, even though it's brought
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: up a zillion billion times, what I do think the
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: audience takes away from it usually is, oh, Wow, this
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: person is really attractive and they're really cool, and they're
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: really open and honest about their virginity, and that makes
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: me feel okay about it. That's the response that I've
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: gotten lots of girls and moms coming up to me
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: and thanking me for being so open about it. But
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I do think that the show, for some reason doesn't
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: want to portray it the way that I'm losing My
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: train of you know what I mean? Is starting to
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: feel different. I just feel like every time the show
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: brings it up, they make it seem like it's a
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: weird thing. But then I hope that the people are
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: sitting at home think of it as a good thing
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: and they look beyond the way. I can't underestimate how
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: much this show influences people's thoughts. You can't. So that's
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: where this gets weird for me. There isn't that such
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: thing as very written shaming. I'm not going to claim
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: that the show is doing it. I think we're getting close.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: But did you want to say anything about that scene?
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I will just say I received a ton of backlash
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: and for how it was aired and throughout every single
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: day throughout the entire season. There are so many times
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: where I'll take a break to go to the bathroom,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: or the guy that I'm on a date with we'll
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, or we want to eat something,
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: or you have to break for interviews. So there's a
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: lot of weaving that happened. So that particular instance I
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: think came across poorly, which I've said before and again
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, I didn't judge
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Colton whatsoever for being a virgin. I respected him, I
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: think more for telling me that, and we had conversations
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: off camera more about it where he gave a little
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: bit more insight. And so at the end of the day, like,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: it's our relationship and and no one else. If he
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: were to be the one at the end of it, it
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: it would be no one else in that relationship with us.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: And so if we're okay moving forward and we both
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: accept each other for who we are, and then that's
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: really all that matters. And so um, yeah, the way
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: it played out, I didn't love um, But Colton I
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: had many conversations about it, and he's like, look, I
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: know how it went down. You know how it went down.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I respected your side of how you handle things, and
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: so that's really all that we can take from that.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: I think it's it's no one else in that relationship
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: at that point, Garrett, How was it standing beside your
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: woman as this whole Like all this went down kind of.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, she obviously is still a piece of this
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: season because Colton was on her season the batchlor how
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: was it stand upsider tonight or just in just in general,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: just in general? I mean, seeing like when people lash
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: out at her and stuff like that was always tough
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: because there's no way to defend that, I guess or
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to defend that. So just being
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: supportive and the same thing with her to me is
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: just being supportive of one another. But um, yeah, I
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: mean it was definitely something that I've never experienced before.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: And I think that that's something that we have in
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: common in this room, is that we've gone through relationships
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: that a lot of people haven't gone through before, where
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: everything is just looked through through like a magnifying glass,
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: and everything that you do is just like, I don't know,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: people pick it apart. Anything that you do is picked apart.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: So oh, that was definitely something new for me to
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: have to like figure that out and juggle that and
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: be by her side through everything and just knowing like
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: whatever she posted was gonna get picked apart, whatever she
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: wore was gonna get picked apart, what she said, how
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: she handled herself on the show the dates, how she
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: like let people go, so something that I had to
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: like grow in the relationship and do something completely different.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: It was really weird for me, to be honest. So
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: it's had a weird deal for anybody. Actually, I've said it,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: you know, as we've done the podcast. I don't know
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: how many seasons this has been. I mean, this has
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: been going on since forever, um the Almost Fased podcast.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: The true mark of a good lead is not how
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: charismatic they are likable, they are right, that's that can
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: all be. That's hard to display sometimes on television. It's
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: the response to difficult situations. How do they respond when
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: things get heated, tough, confusing when you know you're in
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: love with a bunch of people, you're trying figure out
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: who's right one at the end, and I thought, Becca,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you did really well with this One's particularly because this
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: is still a storyline, it exists today, and you handled
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: it really well. Yeah, that scene is different and you
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: know obviously didn't play out like it really was in
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: real life. But with all to say, that's not the
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: defining moment for your season, right, you end up with
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: this good looking guy over here and you guys. Um
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: to move on a little bit. I want to use
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: this segment to be critical of Colton. We were all
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: big fans of Colton. We think he did a great
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: job to night, but we have to be a little critical.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: So find something I'm gonna start. I think I think
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: Colton handled himself really well. I think Colton is going
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: to struggle through the season with what we're talking about
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: and how he responds to difficult situations. That's gonna be
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: really intriguing to me because it's it's he hasn't done
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: it great in the past. But I like Colton. He
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: uses the word awesome too much. To night. Every single
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: girl that walked by that was awesome. That dress is awesome.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: She was awesome, super awesome. So many awesome mine. So
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: we all have it right, You see that when you
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: when you do is I licked my lips all the
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: time when I would get nervous, and so you'd like,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: do this upload my face. I'm just like, I'm looking
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: my lips. I think I thought it was sexy. It
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: was just super awkward. Um, so we all have those
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: little things. That's my thing for Colton. He needs to
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: stop saying awesome. He said, awesome all the time. Actually, Okay, well, um,
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: I think we've seen it with Bachelor's in the past.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: They usually say you've interrupted enough, let this girl have
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: her time. He allowed that girl to interrupt four times,
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: which I think, you know, I mean, we all know
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: there will be the interrupter on night one, but he
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: never said it's enough down, just let it happen. I
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: think that's a good question. Okay, I'm not gonna lie.
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I didn't. That's actually the thing I said way too
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: much my season. I'm not gonna lie. But I didn't
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: see all that much of the episode ten because we
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: were with you guys at the party and there's a
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: lot going on with all of the fans. Um, so
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: the parts that I did catch, I couldn't really also
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: here because I'm kind of definite. Okay, what do you
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: think he will struggle out? I think the thing that
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: and I've talked to him about this before, is, I mean,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: everyone loves social media. It's very prevalent, and it's easy
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: to get wrapped up in the comments and what people
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: say and how they react to certain things. And I think,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: and this is what I learned too, is sometimes it's
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: okay to stay silent and to not respond and to
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: not get so invested and respond to everything that you want.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: And so I think it'll be a learning and experience
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: for him. And I think he has done a better
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: job too, and he's expressed that to me before. But
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: just taking a step back sometimes and realizing that the
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: majority of people hope, hopefully, hope for his happiness, want
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: the best friend, want him to find love and really
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: find a person that he's compatible with. UM. But there's
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: gonna be the haters, and there's gonna be the negative negativity, UM.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: And so just step away from that and not worry
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: and fix it on that as much. It's a good
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: lesson for anybody in this. You know, it's funny you
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: get likes and ten negative comments and you're sponding negative comments.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I do see that. What's it's a little side thing.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: You guys are all more up to this, and I don't.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: This is what I thought about today, and we'll jump
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: back into the back room. What's up with all these
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: people now responding on all the questions on Instagram? That
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: seems exhausting to me. I see, like Nick does it?
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: You know really well? I read his stuff because he's
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: wise and he's good and he responds great, but it
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: looks exhausting. You have like thirty questions that you're answering
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: all the day, like what well, my well, my favorite
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: podcasts and comedians. Chrystalia goes, you must be really obsessed
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: with yourself. You must have the biggest ego in the world.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: If you're like, ask me questions about myself, it's a thing.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Now say like, I'll do it. I try to make
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: it more like about beauty stuff or like wedding stuff,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: so it's not like ask me about me, but it
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: is kind of fun. It's fun, it is. Garrett and
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I did our first one. We had a we were
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: driving from northern California down to I think a layer
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: ocean side and it's a long drive and we were bored.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: Garrett had been driving for hours, and I was like, hey, guys,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: let us know what karaoke song you want us to sing?
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: And so we got a lot of responses with that,
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: so we kind of made it fun Terry's singing involved.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: So that's the first time. I didn't even know how
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: to find the responses. At first, It's like, how the
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: hell do I do this? But I couldn't figure that out. Yeah,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: that's weird. Is I think that people are clever in
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: a sense that what you just said, You're like, why
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: do people get ten negative comments and they take their
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: time to respond to those? People are clever. I think
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: that sometimes they'll write something so negative to to get
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: a response and be like, oh my god, then just
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: wrote me back, when really they don't even have that
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: much hates for you, but they just write something to
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: get a response because that's what they see. That's what
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: arouses your interests. This whole social media think exhaust me
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: now because I don't think it's cool. I wish I
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: was better. But as you're talking here, you you all
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: have fun with it. I read next every time because
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: he's wise and he's smart and he's witty, and all
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: these people are doing it. I'm not saying it's a
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: bad thing. I think if this is the new expectation
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: for people coming off the show, like if Colton is
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: now expected to respond to a thousand questions a day
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: on his Instagram, that's where I check out saying that's
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: definitely one of those things you do when you're born.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: You want to have, like play a game. I think
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: if it more as like a game, because you know that.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: I love the question game. Here, I'll ask random questions.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: I could go up to somebody on the street and
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: truly be interested in what their favorite movie is or
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: what their favorite food is. I don't know, it just
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: like a human curiosity. I love just questions and this
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: random nance game. My gosh, you and my mom would
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: get along. She is the question queen. I could just
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: go up to someone like, do you like talk about
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: or del taco? Do you like what McDonald's like? I
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: don't know. It's truly fascinates me. That's why actually is
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: the best co host. Why don't you guys play? Would
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: you rather we do? Right now? There's just so much
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: to talk about. It's literally on the Bachelor season. This
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: this episode is going to be a four hours long Um,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I have a five thirty am wake up calls. I know,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: so five th day in wake call. This is what
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: I'm doing. Fall those almost famous listeners and myself. By
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: the way, once again, being in Park City, I get
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: more people coming up to me when I'm out here
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: saying we listen to the podcast. It's still the weirdest
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: thing ever. So thank you all the Park City listeners.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Thinks all the people coming out tonight and let us
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: know that you still love this podcast. Hey, let's jump
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: into the girls here. We just gave Coulton a little criticism.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Let's just do a blanket statement, say we all think
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: he's gonna do great. Uh, it's night one. We don't
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: really have an opinion on what he's gonna do well
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: or not. Night one's just weird. It's just responding to
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: a bunch of people getting out of a limo. Will
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: continue to update you on what Colton is going to
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: do great as the season continues. Let's talk about the girls.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: One of my favorite parts about Night one is getting
• 49:34
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  Speaker 1: got a brain, a face, and a great fiance to
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: support him by his side. Um, let's move into the girls.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: She says, I don't have the hair though you got
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: green hair, but he'll bring the comedic relief. She's like,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: your hair is super puffy, and I was like, there's
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: nothing I can do. Butter it was like very high
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: tonight before he left, questioned, do you get offended if
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: she tries to fix your hair? Oh, Jared can't stand it. No,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I just this is the only thing that gets me though,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: is if she gets her fingers in there, and then
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what it looks. Just as
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: long as I know what it looks like, I don't mind.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah it looks good man, you have I like that.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: I like Ben's hair long. Yeah. I lost a lot
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: of hair after the show. I grew back. Did you
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: get any grays in there? Oh? I'm not kidding. I
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: literally I was looking at a picture actually this is
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: wild from like one of our first photo shootings, and
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: I looked, I've lost my hair and it grew back
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: because of the stress I was losing hair fat. You
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: really think you grew it all back or most of
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: the most of it back? Oh, definitely if you look
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: at compared like side by side pictures. I remember this
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: with Caitlin during her season The Bachelor. She got off
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: and I saw her and and she had like literally
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: would like her hair was so thin because of stress.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: Did you lose club hair now? I didn't lose hair.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Do you lose weight gain weight? Well, I gained weight too,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: I think right like those last couple of weeks, I
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: was okay. We were entiling in the Maldives, so I
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: was eating peter bread and rice and noodles NonStop. But
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: I think because of the stressful the last couple of weeks,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: I lost weight. But then I came back to the
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: States and gained it back right away, plump, because then
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: I was happy and in love. Yeah, yeah, and love.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: It is stressful. It's a stressful experience. These women that
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: got a woman and I are about to enter into
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: this whole beast of a world. We have women whose
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: moms are in federal prison. Is that Weir was a
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: walking phone calling her? Yeah? I agree, I saw that one.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: It's just a weird it's a weird, shocking. Next time
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: that I might get to see my mom might be
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: with Colton when she gets out of prison. Yeah, that's tough.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: I wonder how long she's been in jail? Did we do?
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: We know that. I don't think it was from bezzlement,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: tax fraud or something. You know, you never know with
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: how long does last. But it is crazy to think
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: of how that storyline now gets brought into a nine
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: million people's television. I'm gonna say, what do you guys
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: think like going out in the beginning and getting it
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: out there and the letting people know, or is that
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: something that once it gets there, then you let people know.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: I have this weird not weird. I have this theory
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: that you try to protect the people that didn't sign
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: up for the show. Yeah, as best you can. You're
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: obviously not gonna be do perfect. And I called out
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: my college girlfriend that I would love and it destroyed
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: her for a little. She's good with it now, we're
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: good friends. But at the time she's like, what the
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: hell are you doing? You called me a monster on
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor, Like, oh my god, you did I did
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: no monster, I broke my heart. Don't do that. Okay, okay,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: but this girl obviously got permission from her mom, and
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: her mom was probably like, yeah, you use me. It
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: will help you get on the show. Hopefully, Yeah, hopefully
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: she's gonna get a prison with a couple of things. Okay,
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: So with the we have a couple of misses on
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: this season. We have missed Carolina and then another one
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: was Miss Obama Alabama or something like that. Yeah, some
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: southern state. So there's there's obviously they hinted it at
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: like some drama between them. Well, I would say it's
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: light drama because Kaylin was the runner up, so obviously
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: in some form of life, she's already beat Hannah at something.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: And I think this is just a theory of mine
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: that this insecurity is going to follow Hannah throughout this experience,
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: especially after she sees that Kaylin got a kiss on
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: night one. It's gonna it's gonna rise up. I have theory.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: I'm making them up. I'm really making up for the
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: sake of drama. This is my theory. I actually it's
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: wild how many times you're right. You're pretty good at
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: this um. But there's a lot of mrs Miss Caroline
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: and Miss Alabama. They're they're they're in competition with each other.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: There was that glare a night when you saw it.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: Why were your sash? Why aspect of that? Why? How
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: would I did say that? I think Miss Colton Underwood
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: and it went from Miss um Miss South Miss Alabama
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: to Miss cold Underwood. I was like, excuse me, that
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: would be Mrs I didn't know that. Damn. Yeah, that's aggressive.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: That makes me turn around. There's a couple of sashes
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: night or did it turn around? It turned around? It
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: turned around? Little flip switch and pull it clever though,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: that little thing the sash um. Maybe the most intriguing
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: of the night is a sloth. She got sent home, obviously,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: but we talked about her. She bought it. I will share.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: I am a sucker for a costume. I think every season,
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: and people might hate me for saying this, every season
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: needs a costume. Well apparently so and um. When I
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: was on ri a season, I don't think any of
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: the girls were a costume. I mean, Amily's anilies came
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: in with the bandit mask, but that was you know,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: it wasn't a full costume. I was hoping for the
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: Alexis shark slash dolphin costume. We didn't get that. But
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: then I had David in the Chicken, which I just
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: appreciate it. And it keeps you warm because at night
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: it usually gets cold. They're so cold. Can we bring
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: up something that is so often forgotten? Jojo showed up
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: on your season wearing a unicorn masks us Jojo. She
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: covered her beautiful her face, but she'll be word out
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: of the limo, right, not something like a plastic thing.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: Didn't usually make you wear it all night. I think
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: it's I mean, I think it's up to you. The
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: slot just felt like she just bought in, which is
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: if you mean, for so many reasons, that's weird. It's
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: your first date. I will say. Here's the thing though,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: on my first one on one date with Colton, when
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: we were in where were we, oh Las Vegas, We're
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: writing camels, there was a sloth on the premise and
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: uh he Colton held the sloth and played with the
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: sloth and loved the sloth, and so he talked about that.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: So maybe the producers had some insight to help out
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: a little bit. I think because he mentioned, he goes
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: it's my second favorite animal behind dogs. Yeah, maybe the
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: next Bachelor of Bachelorette. Nobody should know and it should
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: be a costume. So when you get out of the
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: fantastic is it you can't see it all night? Sudden carrots?
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: We three slot twists. It is this is one of
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: the guys from the previous season. We're gonna mask him
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: and then um mask his voice. It's like, what's the
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: TV show? The proposal mixed with The Bachelor's weird because
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: the proposal was made by the same people that make
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor. So we are onto something. We are gonna
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: stop talking about this almost. Yeah, we're walking. This is
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: gonna be a late night for us. We're creating a
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: television show. We can pick up the costumes for everyone.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: We're not gonna need a wake up call. You're just
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: gonna go right. I'm gonna go right towards tomorrow. It's
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: going to the slot costumes and leaf um let's. Uh. So,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: we talked about the talk about the mrs. We talked
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: about federal prison, we talked about the virgin talk. Is
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: there anything else from night one that really stood out
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: to you? I'm gonna start guess who my favorite was. Oh, actually,
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: this is gonna be so easy for you, Brie. I'm
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: a brief fan. That's his look. That's really that's I'm
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: a brief fan. Yeah. She had an Australian accent tonight. Yeah.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know how far she'll go. I'm always wrong
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: on this stuff. I remember last I think it was
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: I think it was last year. Your favorite you would
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: choose already? Season my four top my top four on
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: this podcast all got eliminated Night one. So it's like
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: an accent like Breeze that you would make or keep
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: talking in that act. She should have stayed with that
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: for three or four weeks and then just dropped it
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: to see, yeah, and then see if they really liked
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: each other. Uh okay, So I was a fan of
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: bree Hannah was great. Who else stood out to you all?
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: I liked Calin. I think she's stunning, and I felt
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: like their connection was the most warm um natural. And
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: then that that kiss, to me felt more like it
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: was a kiss that was supposed to happen to Night one.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: The other two felt a little bit more forced. Me
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: mm hmmm. I didn't see that much. I saw the
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: Cinderella entrance, which I'm surprised that that hasn't happened earlier
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: in any of the seasons. I bet you could find
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: something like it. I know who you all like. I
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: was astonished how that hadn't happened. Yeah, you don't think
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: it's ever happened before, maybe like before we ever watched. Really,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: I'm surprised. And she left the shoe behind I thought,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, I thought that was good and clever, but simple.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, maybe gets kicked out. She's gone where he
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: opened the box and he's like, what's in here? No,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: the butterflies one was good. But the other one where
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: she's like, I got you, oh, your favorite underwear. That's
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: your favorite underwear and there's nothing in the box. That's good?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: That was that. I like that one. It wasn't too
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: dirty and it was it was. It was good. I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: also feel like he was more of himself. You kind
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: of saw this he I thought he did a good
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: job at night one of not being like too uptight.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: He kind of relaxed. But you really saw him relax
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: with the blonde when he started like touching his face. Cassie,
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Cassie Rudolph, I think here's her name. I really thought
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: that moment made me like her a lot because I
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: can see something there. It was really cute. You definitely
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: felt the chemistry in that moment. What I thought was
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: really distasteful was that girl who brought the balloon and
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: as a cherry and that I popped your cherry and
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: then he goes, I think that was an apple, which
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: I've obsessed with the fact that they said that. I
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: think he did because we talked to him a couple
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: of weeks ago, and he was telling us about some
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: of the entrances and he's like, dude, that one completely
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: went over my head. I did not get it that
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: first until she's like, oh, popped. It happens. There's so
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: much happening. There's so much going on and that, and
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: you want to be present, but you're super nervous. It's
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: just like you have to and and keep in mind,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: four other people are watching you in the limo as
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: you're interacting with these people. So there's just a lot happening.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: So like if I was in Golden's place, that would
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: have gone over my head too. There's a lot that
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: I missed night one. Trust me, I faked until I
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: made it. Um, we don't know we know who Colton
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: has slept with. We don't know where he sleeps. Wait,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: why we know that who he slept with? Nobody? Okay,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: speaking of going over your head, we don't know where
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: he sleeps. But if we had a choice or the
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: ability to recommend something to him, I would tell Colton
• 1:03:02
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• 1:03:04
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• 1:03:14
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• 1:03:17
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• 1:03:21
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• 1:03:26
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• 1:03:30
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  Speaker 1: with one? Ear two? It's one? All right, everybody, we
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  Speaker 1: gotta get Garrett and Becca to bed. I know Ashley's
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  Speaker 1: man is sitting outside the room petting a dog, waiting
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  Speaker 1: for her to get done. To finish up Pulton's night one.
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  Speaker 1: We would be missed to not talk about the preview
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  Speaker 1: for the season. I think that's how we should call
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  Speaker 1: us out. You know, there's a couple of things that
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  Speaker 1: sit out to us, Ashley and I. As we watched
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  Speaker 1: first episode, all the girls were in sequence right now,
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  Speaker 1: it must be a thing? Yes or no? Ashley? Is
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  Speaker 1: it a thing? Sequence are great for standing out, like
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  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift always wears them on stage. Just Taylor Swift
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  Speaker 1: might be doing something. You were a sequence. I apparently
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  Speaker 1: wore way too many sequence my season. Um. I love glitter.
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  Speaker 1: My dad used to hate me for it when I
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  Speaker 1: was a little, but I love it so but again, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's in in the right settings, which I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I always did know the Bachelorette is always the right
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  Speaker 1: setting first. So for those two months it was great.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't were in a sense, but the show I
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  Speaker 1: didn't know, we didn't know what sequence were, we're not
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  Speaker 1: going to get along really told me what it was
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  Speaker 1: actually all right, So the preview for the season, what
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  Speaker 1: do you all think this is? I mean, we saw
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  Speaker 1: some man tears. I mean those tears that we saw
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  Speaker 1: tonight are not They're not tears of a boy, their
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  Speaker 1: tears of a man. Are you all excited about what's
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  Speaker 1: to come? Yeah? I am. I want to know why
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  Speaker 1: he jumped over that fence. That's what I'm dying to know.
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  Speaker 1: And I hope it's over something good because if it's
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  Speaker 1: like over something live, I'm like, come on, you built
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  Speaker 1: that up. He ran down the driveway for like a
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  Speaker 1: mile and then over the thing. But it's like, that's
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  Speaker 1: the best pull up I've ever seen. I can't even
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  Speaker 1: do that. Like props from show has always been good
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  Speaker 1: at teasing us, like pumping up something and not. I
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  Speaker 1: have a feeling that what we saw when he jumped
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  Speaker 1: over the fence and Chris Harrison freaking out and Colden
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  Speaker 1: running down the road. Is going to live up to
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  Speaker 1: everything that we hope it does. I don't think it's
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  Speaker 1: just like something that happened. I think it's a big
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  Speaker 1: deal hopefully, because I mean, I will sound myself. Then
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  Speaker 1: they built up the whole ambulance scene and and and
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: I don't want to make light of the situation, but
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  Speaker 1: it was a fallout of a bed more. It was
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: like when you open the freezer and your chicken falls out.
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  Speaker 1: On Instagram. David he comes on the podcast all the
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: time for comic relief. We just love that guy. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just I want to know what that's all about. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a good season. Actually, do you?
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  Speaker 1: I do, I really do. I'm excited because you know,
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  Speaker 1: they keep telling us the most this one they really
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  Speaker 1: mean is the most dramatic. Yeah, I'm excited for what
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  Speaker 1: do we actually think the most dramatic season has been
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: so far? Jason has to be he did a switch
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't watch that season. That's the first one
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  Speaker 1: I've ever watched. It's so much it's your sort is
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  Speaker 1: like I was sit down and do it all is
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: just brutal, Like what a just savage move on his part.
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  Speaker 1: It's like I'm gonna wait and do this on live TV.
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  Speaker 1: Wild Dun Dun, dune brutal um. So we think it's
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  Speaker 1: many a great season. Yeah, I can't elaborate anymore. All
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  Speaker 1: we saw was a lot of like tanning oil in
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  Speaker 1: picking up women and showers and crying and fences. So
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  Speaker 1: we don't really have much to gather from that. And
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: again Night one is our least favorite. But we started
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: and this is where the almost famous podcast shines is now.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: From here on out, Night One's just weird. It's the same.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: We got to meet the characters. We have to meet
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: the people pursuing Coulton's heart. We've got to see how
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  Speaker 1: Colton responds. He's going to get better. They're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: more intriguing. The stories are gonna start taking place, Kisses
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  Speaker 1: are gonna start happening. It gets better from here on out.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Night one's not the best. Becca and Garrett, thank you
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  Speaker 1: so much for coming on. But before you go, we
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  Speaker 1: have an email from one of our listeners that I've
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: got to ask you all for some advice on um
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: make sure you listen next week to Almost Famous podcast
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: as we dive in once again the Colton season. But
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  Speaker 1: like we love to do, we love to read stuff
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  Speaker 1: from you. My boyfriend this says of six months and
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: I are very happy, and I've been on cloud nine.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: I found something on his phone that worried me. We
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: used his phone to take pictures on New Year's Eve.
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  Speaker 1: The next day, I grabbed his phone and told him
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: I was going to send myself the pictures, while doing
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  Speaker 1: so with his full knowledge, I might add, not snooping.
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  Speaker 1: I saw a naked picture he had taken in the
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  Speaker 1: mirror that morning. Immediately taken back. I kind of kept
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: it to myself, not wanting to embarrass him, but my
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: mind kept racing why did he take that? Did he
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: send it to someone? So eventually I just asked in
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  Speaker 1: His response was that basically he was trying to get
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  Speaker 1: back his self confidence after a holiday season of eating
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: and drinking like crap. He's also a personal trainer and
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: said he's been considering training for physique competitions this new year,
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: so he wanted a picture as a starting point. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know why below the waist would have been included
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  Speaker 1: in this, but whatever, She says, I don't have any
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  Speaker 1: reason not to believe him, but I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be naive. He said to great boyfriend, and I have
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: completely trusted him up until now. Am I just being paranoid?
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  Speaker 1: Or would you be worried to help? She says, I,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw this to you all. If it was
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: obviously the below the belt is the alarming part. He
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: saves himself a little bit by being a trainer, but
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: I still don't know why he has to have his
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: ding dong in there. Coming from somebody who has turned
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: to blay wan too many times in a past relationship,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: I would say keep keep your eyes and ears open um,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: don't don't necessarily turn a blind die um. Again, I
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: don't know him, so I don't know the situation. But
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: it is weird that it's full body what doesn't need
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: to be but private parts. Don't put on weight in
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: the holiday cover that up with box. He's starting to
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: get a self confidence back. Maybe he's quite well endowed.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: If it did, though, think about how cool that would be.
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  Speaker 1: I would make Garrett so much pasta If if this
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  Speaker 1: was one of my best friends, I would say, don't
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: be stupid and listen to your gut what do you think, Garrett.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: I think what Becca said is don't be stupid, listen
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  Speaker 1: to your gut. Um. But I mean, if this is
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: the first thing and the relationship has been good ever
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: since the beginning, I mean, just trust his word now,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: but definitely keep that in the back of your head
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: and stay aware. You know, I want to give him
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt here, so say I'm gonna
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: go down that path. Yeah, this is where I think
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: it separates is now it falls on him. He's got
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: to see that this is weird, right, no matter what
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: is intention. We all know we talked about a little
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: bit ago. Relationships are weird. We're all weird people. We
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: do weird things. You're partner is gonna fall in love
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: with you and deal with your weirdness. Like if Garrett's
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: loves taking pictures of himself and for the mirror because
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: it boost is self confidence. If you love Garrett, even
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: though you might be like, this is the weirdest thing ever,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be like, Garrett, just stop being weird. But
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: like that's fine. He just better send him to me
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: right after that piece of pie. But that this, this
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: is where my point here. It now falls on him.
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  Speaker 1: He needs to respond to you in a loving way
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  Speaker 1: and say, I get that this is weird, I get
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  Speaker 1: to this awkward. I'm telling you the truth, and let
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: me just prove it to you. You have, you have
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: full access to anything of mine, have nothing to hide
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: from here on out for a while, you know, if
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: not forever. You don't need to check. But just know
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: that you can trust me. And I want to prove
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  Speaker 1: that to you by my response, because yeah, you just
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: saw a picture of me butt naked in the mirror
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  Speaker 1: that I didn't send to you like, this is weird.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, So ask him communicate. I think it's healthy
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  Speaker 1: for relationship. Maybe just communicate on that level. Anyways, it
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