Latest / Networking Unleashed: Building Profitable Connections / Networking Unleashed: An Interview with Prya Marie Robert and Michael A Forman, Professional Speaker
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- 0:14Welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable
- 0:18Connections, the show where relationships stop
- 0:21being random and start producing real results.
- 0:25I'm your host, Michael Foreman. Let's be honest,
- 0:28most people are networking constantly. They're
- 0:32attending events, making introductions, collecting
- 0:35contacts, and staying busy, yet very little business
- 0:39actually comes from it. Why? Because networking
- 0:43without structure, often leads to conversations
- 0:46without outcomes. My guest today is changing
- 0:49that. We're talking about why most networking
- 0:52fails to create real growth, how referrals can
- 0:56become a predictable business channel instead
- 1:01of an occasional surprise, and why almost nobody
- 1:04teaches professionals how to intentionally build
- 1:07a referral team. This episode is about moving
- 1:11beyond random introductions and creating relationships
- 1:14that consistently generate opportunities. If
- 1:18you want your networking to finally produce measurable
- 1:21business growth, this episode is for you. I'd
- 1:25like to welcome you to my podcast, Priya. And
- 1:29I said before we went on. that you are so in
- 1:34line with what I talk about that I'm really looking
- 1:37forward to this podcast. So Priya, if you don't
- 1:40mind, introduce yourself and tell us, give us
- 1:43the clip notes of how you got here today. It's
- 1:47good to be here from Adelaide with you, Michael,
- 1:51and your audience. Thanks for having me. My journey
- 1:54was simply going into sales at a young age and
- 1:58we didn't have a huge budget in those days. So
- 2:01we were just sent into large networking events
- 2:03and told to go and make a sale. It was then I
- 2:07quickly learned that that is not what networking
- 2:10is about. And actually, it's very rare that people
- 2:14turn up to networking events to buy. Everyone's
- 2:17there to sell. It led to me understanding early
- 2:19that you had to develop a way of creating value.
- 2:24and letting people understand how you could support
- 2:27and actually help them. And that's been and served
- 2:30me well for the next 25 years across countries
- 2:33in different sales and marketing roles, and especially
- 2:36going into a country like Dubai. Being Australian,
- 2:39it was tough. Nobody really wanted to know me,
- 2:42and they didn't think I really had the goods,
- 2:44but I was able to. develop again, using my structure
- 2:48and system and start to form meaningful relationships,
- 2:52which then would become my referral partners
- 2:54that then would lead me to continued growth just
- 2:59through my networking. So yeah, it's, it's served
- 3:03me very well. I don't think you can see my gray
- 3:05hairs on the podcast, but I've certainly got
- 3:08enough skin in the game. I can tell you. Yeah.
- 3:11I've been in sales for about 40 years. And so
- 3:15I know exactly what you're talking about. I went
- 3:18to the school of hard knocks. I learned how to
- 3:20do everything wrong before I learned how to do
- 3:23it correctly. Sent me on this journey. But anyway,
- 3:26you say most networking doesn't lead to real
- 3:30results. What are people doing that keeps conversations
- 3:33from turning into opportunity? I think the thing
- 3:38that needs to occur is your mindset has to shift.
- 3:42So we need to shift from collecting contacts
- 3:45to building meaningful relationships. And what
- 3:48I mean by that is people are mistaking activity
- 3:51for outcomes. So they're attending lots of events,
- 3:55they're collecting business cards, then they're
- 3:58finding them on LinkedIn, which is a very popular
- 4:01platform, as you and I both know, and they feel
- 4:04really productive. But then there's crickets.
- 4:07Nothing's happening because there's actually
- 4:09no real strategy with why they were at that networking
- 4:12event in the first place, what meaningful connection
- 4:15were they looking to build, and how that was
- 4:19going to help them get into meeting more of their
- 4:21ideal clients. So I think a lot of the conversations
- 4:24as well stay very surface level. People spend
- 4:28time explaining what they do. rather than helping
- 4:33other people understand who they're best suited
- 4:36to help. And I'll say that again, because I think
- 4:39it's important that people start to share who
- 4:43they're best suited to help and how they do that.
- 4:46So what are the problems that they're solving?
- 4:47Because that's the real value that you're adding.
- 4:49And when to think of them. That's another great
- 4:52one is to teach people when they hear an opportunity,
- 4:57hey, that's a great time to bring us up. And
- 5:00move away from talking about the weather, how
- 5:03busy you are, and the football. I know we all
- 5:06love our sports, but it's a bit hard to develop
- 5:09a fast, meaningful relationship just based on
- 5:12those things. And I would probably also say my
- 5:15last point would be that people are talking too
- 5:18much and they're asking too little. So they lead
- 5:22with a rehearsed pitch, the elevator pitch about
- 5:26themselves rather than being curious about the
- 5:30other person. So better questions, as you and
- 5:34I both know, uncover the hidden gems, the opportunities,
- 5:38the challenges. And so if we don't ask better
- 5:42questions, you're never actually going to. dive
- 5:45deeper and find out what's under the surface
- 5:48level. So I always like to ask a question at
- 5:52a networking event when I'm meeting someone for
- 5:53the very first time and I like to say, if I could
- 5:57connect you with your ideal client, who would
- 6:00that be and why them? Immediately it changes
- 6:04the dynamic of the conversation because I'm not
- 6:07trying to sell you anything. I'm actually trying
- 6:08to learn about you and I'm hoping that I can
- 6:12support you by that connection. by actually asking
- 6:16who that ideal client is and maybe by understanding
- 6:18why I'm going to find out what's the goal, what
- 6:21separates you from your competitors. What I do,
- 6:26what I teach is an 80 -20 rule, right? You let
- 6:30the other person speak for 80 % of the time.
- 6:35You only speak for 20 % of the time. And while
- 6:40they're speaking, you're 20 % of the time, you
- 6:43should be trying to figure out questions to ask
- 6:46him about the 80 % of the time. Yes, totally
- 6:51agree. When you first walk into a networking
- 6:53event, you have to have what's called a servant's
- 6:57heart, right? You go in looking to help and not
- 7:01receive. And what does that do? That takes all
- 7:04the pressure off your shoulders. That takes all
- 7:07the pressure off. So you're walking in there
- 7:09trying to help people and refer them and put
- 7:12them with somebody else. So you're getting everything
- 7:16off your shoulders. Yeah. And all you're doing
- 7:18is trying to, and you actually enjoy yourself.
- 7:23And that's the thing. Yeah, 100 % I agree with
- 7:27you because the moment you go into that room
- 7:29and you think about, wow, I wonder who I could
- 7:31help connect today to my network. Because it's
- 7:34also about the network behind you that you're
- 7:36representing when you walk into a room. I think
- 7:38people forget that. They think, oh, I'm just
- 7:39here with my brand and my 50 business cards that
- 7:42I've got to hand out today. You don't have to.
- 7:45In a minute, you can release that fear and have
- 7:48that. That's what I'm saying. It's a mindset
- 7:49shift from the beginning. When I walk into that
- 7:51networking room, what are some of your objectives
- 7:54and KPIs? I think the people who get the best
- 7:57results from networking aren't necessarily the
- 8:00best talkers. They're actually the best listeners.
- 8:04Another part of what I coach is introverts and
- 8:08extroverts. Everybody thinks that extroverts
- 8:11are the best salespeople and everything else.
- 8:14And I try to tell them, no, it's introverts because
- 8:17they know how to listen more than speak. So there's
- 8:22a whole mindset shift with that. But one thing
- 8:25you have to remember when you're speaking to,
- 8:27when you're going into a networking event, you're
- 8:30not just speaking to those people. You're speaking
- 8:32to their network of people. So you have to think
- 8:36about all of that. So let me ask you a question.
- 8:39What separates someone who occasionally gets
- 8:42referrals from someone who creates a predictable
- 8:46referral engine? Yeah, it's a really good question.
- 8:52And I think we and the economy that we're in
- 8:54now with the rise of AI comes the rise of human
- 8:57interaction again, and looking at your whole
- 9:00business development system and saying, okay,
- 9:03we've got this great online strategies happening,
- 9:06but something you've got absolute control over
- 9:08your fingertips at your fingertips is networking
- 9:12and your offline structure. So I think moving
- 9:15from the hope to chance to a structured, reliable
- 9:17system. going to be more enjoyable. I think stop
- 9:21relying on the random referrals. The businesses
- 9:25generating consistent referrals don't leave it
- 9:28to luck. So what I mean by that is they're actually
- 9:31intentionally identifying a small group of people,
- 9:36could be three to four, three to five, who are
- 9:39actually regularly encountering your ideal clients.
- 9:44That's a really good takeaway. trying to put
- 9:47a structure behind your networking and looking
- 9:49at who you're spending time with to stop random
- 9:51referrals, spend time with three or four people
- 9:54who are actually already working with your ideal
- 9:57clients and who are a trusted partner. I think
- 10:00the next thing is once you identify those two
- 10:02or three people that really get your business
- 10:04and understand your value and, again, can put
- 10:07you in front of your ideal client, is educating
- 10:10them. So our role really is about how do I make
- 10:14it easier? for you to refer me. I want to make
- 10:18your life easy. I don't want to make it harder
- 10:20because I know you're busy. So I like to think
- 10:23one of the biggest mistakes is assuming people
- 10:25know the how to refer you part. I think that's
- 10:30where we fall down sometimes. We make a mistake
- 10:32or an error. So where I would suggest some points
- 10:35to if you can gain some clarity here and share
- 10:38this with your referral partners and have that
- 10:40system is who's your ideal client? So the industry,
- 10:45number of employees, maybe they're award winners.
- 10:48That's a great way to spot who you're looking
- 10:50for. The problems that you solve. So that really
- 10:54showcases your value. So all the different ways
- 10:56that you can relieve or create success. I love
- 11:01the trigger moment. So when I educate people
- 11:03about the trigger moments to listen for, I think
- 11:05in sales we've always called them buying signals.
- 11:07That makes it easy for people to go, oh, hang
- 11:10on a minute, that's a... That problem that you're
- 11:12having, Audrey, Michael can solve it or Priya
- 11:14can solve that. You should come and meet them.
- 11:16They're my friends and let me introduce you.
- 11:19And that's the bit we need to teach people. Do
- 11:21you prefer the lovely email? Is it an in -mail
- 11:24on LinkedIn so they can see your other testimonials
- 11:27and referrals? Do you prefer a phone? or messenger
- 11:30kind of system where you can start that group
- 11:33chat. Some people prefer that. It just saves
- 11:36them time because I don't know about you, but
- 11:37I get a lot of emails every day. So sometimes
- 11:40that's a bit easier. So, yeah, I think that predictable
- 11:45growth channel comes from structure. And once
- 11:49you've got two or three people in that small
- 11:51group, how do you set them up for success? That's
- 11:54what I've just covered. And I think from there.
- 11:57You create a rhythm. Once you've got that group
- 12:00together and everyone understands what they're
- 12:02there to do and they've got the material to lean
- 12:06on or access when you're not there to set up
- 12:08a referral for you and that's their job is they're
- 12:11actually happy and excited to do that when you're
- 12:14not there. That's the fun part about being a
- 12:16connector. I think then the next thing is to
- 12:19say how do we continue to catch up regularly?
- 12:24so that we can keep top of mind. And you want
- 12:27everyone to be referral ready. That's the fun
- 12:33bit, right? I'm really known in this area as
- 12:37being a connector or a super connector, somebody
- 12:40has said it, right? Because I make sure that
- 12:43I connect at least two people every week. Every
- 12:48week. I'm referring, I'm connecting, and some
- 12:52people like to do it on LinkedIn and others like
- 12:55to do it email. So I figure out which one is
- 12:59which, but I've been doing this for three or
- 13:01four years. So by now, everybody knows, well,
- 13:05oh, Michael gave me a referral, so I'm going
- 13:08to have to give referral back. That's not what
- 13:11I'm looking for, but it's nice that it's there.
- 13:14But I think that's how people work in business
- 13:16is thanks a lot for helping me and supporting
- 13:19me. What can I do for you? And therefore that's
- 13:24how it works. So I think referral shouldn't be
- 13:27something that occasionally happens to your business.
- 13:30They should be a channel that you've intentionally
- 13:32built. And that's why that system and structure
- 13:35is so important. But I think a lot of the time
- 13:39people do really need a little bit of education
- 13:41and support from you. And it's always good to
- 13:44go back. I always go back to my top referral
- 13:46partners and teams because that's obviously what
- 13:48I build and set up. And I always say to them,
- 13:51so what was working well this month? What did
- 13:53the material I provide? Was that helpful? Was
- 13:56it the event that I was running? Was it that
- 13:58Google review? That was really front and center.
- 14:01Or is there anything else I could be doing to
- 14:05make it easier for you to refer me and support
- 14:08my business growth? Because obviously as I'm
- 14:09growing, I'm bringing them along too, right?
- 14:12Because we're all complementary partners. What
- 14:16qualities should someone look for when identifying
- 14:19people to become part of your referral ecosystem?
- 14:24Yeah, great question. I prefer people, so when
- 14:29I'm clear about who my ideal client profile is,
- 14:31and for a lot of service providers, they might
- 14:33say accountants, what I become very aware of
- 14:37is then who is the trusted person for that accounting
- 14:40firm? Who does that accountant go to when it
- 14:43comes to legal advice, HR advice, recruitment,
- 14:47marketing? It's then that becomes my target.
- 14:52I then think to myself, when I'm going networking,
- 14:55I want to meet the top law firms and HR providers
- 15:00and marketing people that are supporting accountants
- 15:03because that then becomes my new ecosystem. That's
- 15:07one way to target. So ideally what you've got
- 15:10is your ideal client and their trusted suppliers.
- 15:15Yeah. The other flip side. The other flip side
- 15:18to it could be you're in a marketing situation
- 15:21and you do an exceptional job perhaps with Facebook
- 15:26advertising and lead gen, but you're not necessarily
- 15:30the best when it comes to graphic design, branding,
- 15:35videography, photography. So then what I would
- 15:38look for in that referral team and ecosystem
- 15:40is complementary value -add services. Because
- 15:46that way, in either scenario, we're not competing.
- 15:49We're all actually working together to support
- 15:52the ideal client profile. So that could be two
- 15:55selection criteria. And I would also make sure
- 15:59that... You're actually aligned as a referral
- 16:02partner. So your values, your timing, your, for
- 16:06example, I wouldn't put a team together where
- 16:08you've got two people who are close to retirement
- 16:10and thinking about succession planning and two
- 16:13people are who are going to dominate the world
- 16:15and, you know, global domination, et cetera,
- 16:18because they'll find that there's not a balance
- 16:20there. But the number one thing I always. Yeah.
- 16:23The number one thing I always say, though, if
- 16:25you can develop relationship with people you
- 16:29enjoy working with to start with is good and
- 16:32you're impressed by the work and you can see
- 16:33their value. But pick people who've already got
- 16:36and are working with and are trusted to the ideal
- 16:41client that you're targeting. OK, but what mistakes
- 16:45cause referral relationships to weaken or disappear
- 16:50over time? The initial understanding of the goal.
- 16:57So the people will come together, but you have
- 17:01to have a agenda. You have to have it like with
- 17:04any team you've got to form. So there's the early
- 17:07parts where you might think, oh, gee, this person
- 17:10looked really committed. But when we said that
- 17:13we were going to meet at nine o 'clock on a Monday,
- 17:15they're always late. Doesn't sound like a lot.
- 17:20it wears thin real quick because the other person
- 17:23starts to feel disrespected because their times
- 17:26are important. They start to think you're unorganized.
- 17:29The biggest one, it creates doubt in your professionalism
- 17:33because if you're doing that to them, are you
- 17:35going to do that to their referral partner or
- 17:37their client? And that's going to make them look
- 17:39bad. So I think commitment is a really big one.
- 17:43But I also think at the end of the day, it's
- 17:45also about your value and your goals, so where
- 17:48you're going. So I think as a group, if you don't
- 17:51sit down early and say, look, I really want to
- 17:53dominate this market or I want to be an advocate,
- 17:55I want to be global in the next three years,
- 17:58you've really got to break it down and explain
- 18:00to people what the vision is and what's the why
- 18:02behind all of this. I think if you don't understand
- 18:05people's why, money's not really the biggest
- 18:08motivator, if I'm honest, in all of the referral
- 18:11teams I've set up. It's always about providing
- 18:14for the family. And if it's not the kids or the
- 18:17partners, it's the fur babies, cats, dogs. It's
- 18:20the holidays. It's the extra time with mum and
- 18:23dad. We're part of the sandwich generation now.
- 18:25So we were taking care of the elderly parents
- 18:27along with the kids as well. So those are some
- 18:30of the things I see when things don't go well.
- 18:33That's why some of the fundamentals were missed.
- 18:38former military person. I was in the Air Force
- 18:41for nine years. And I have one major time thing.
- 18:47If I'm on time, I'm late. If I'm early, I'm on
- 18:51time. And you would think that this is not too
- 18:54difficult to do. I've been doing this my whole
- 18:57life. And my boys, who are 35 and 31 right now,
- 19:01they understand that if we're invited somewhere,
- 19:04I'm going to be early. right and they can't get
- 19:08over that because they're used to like no I won't
- 19:11get there right on time or it's a party we're
- 19:13going to get there a little late never I've in
- 19:1640 years I've never been late for anything important
- 19:18like that so it's really my dad my dad was an
- 19:22air traffic controller so his advice to me was
- 19:25Priya be whatever time they say you are there
- 19:28ready to go 15 minutes before As you get older,
- 19:32it ends up being 30 minutes. But what's nice
- 19:35about that is you're very relaxed on arrival,
- 19:37right? You're not stressing out about anything.
- 19:40Absolutely. You have time to think. You have
- 19:43time to relax. And you're not just rushed as
- 19:46soon as you go and meet somebody. You're just
- 19:48saying, hi. You're relaxed and you can talk to
- 19:52them and everything works out. Okay. Can professionals
- 19:57stay top of mind with referral partners without
- 20:00constantly checking in awkwardly? So I think
- 20:06it comes back down to the understanding of that
- 20:09person. And if you're in a referral partnership
- 20:11or a team, so a referral team is different because
- 20:14you're now a team with a common vision and goal
- 20:17that you're driving towards. Before the team,
- 20:19though, comes partnership. I can't tell you how
- 20:25many referral partners and they all like to communicate
- 20:29in different ways. I have a marketing person
- 20:32that 90 % of our communication is on Facebook
- 20:35Messenger. It's fast. It's quick. I have others
- 20:39who enjoy and as I don't like a long email or
- 20:42text, I much prefer a voice note. I can listen
- 20:45to that at my own speed and I can action that
- 20:47quickly. And I think it comes down to. finding
- 20:51the balance between the two parties and saying,
- 20:53okay, look, when I hand over, and I think that
- 20:56comes down to setting an expectation. So for
- 20:59me, before I set up a referral, I will call the
- 21:02person, I'll give them context. How do I know
- 21:05the person? How did I spot the opportunity? Where
- 21:08did I see the value add? How have I positioned
- 21:11it? And that's all done on a voice note. Then
- 21:14that person's got absolute clarity and then I
- 21:17tell them I'm now going to set up an email with
- 21:20your email signature. All of my referral partners
- 21:23already have a template. I don't want to sit
- 21:25there rewriting anything and I don't want to
- 21:27use the wrong language when I'm. referring them.
- 21:30So they have to make sure that's how my referral
- 21:33partners work with me. They don't get a referral
- 21:35unless that template is set up because I want
- 21:37to make them look professional from the minute
- 21:39that introduction is made. So I think those are
- 21:43some key things and you can ask people what their
- 21:45expectation is after that. Do they want a follow
- 21:48-up? So I don't want to be CC'd on every email
- 21:51then back and forth until they book the meeting.
- 21:54I would just prefer, yes, we met. This is the
- 21:57next point of action we're taking. And then to
- 21:59give me an update if it worked or it didn't work.
- 22:01I will also ask for feedback as well. So I think
- 22:06it's a good one is to let your future referral
- 22:08partners say. listen, I'll make the introduction,
- 22:11I'll set up the referral, but I'm also going
- 22:13to call that person for feedback and see how
- 22:15they felt in that experience with you just to
- 22:18make sure that I'm on point as well. So I think
- 22:21that's the way to work it out is to find out
- 22:23from that person, how do you, what's your expectation
- 22:27and what's your process when I give you a referral
- 22:30and when I receive a referral, how often do you
- 22:33want to be contacted and on which medium? So
- 22:37I think it's about setting, finding out what
- 22:40that other person wants. And honestly, once you
- 22:42get into a really good referral dynamic where
- 22:44this week alone on my whiteboard is about 17
- 22:48referrals that have been set up and we're not
- 22:50even halfway through the week, that's because
- 22:52my referral partners have set me up for success
- 22:55on how to spot a service for them. and then I've
- 23:00got the email templates ready to go so again
- 23:02they've made it easier for me to make that connection
- 23:05so certainly spend time with your people and
- 23:08check in with them I know it's very common sense
- 23:11what I'm saying it's amazing how common sense
- 23:14everything that we've said today is But if you're
- 23:17not practicing it daily, it's not a habit. Yeah,
- 23:21it's a good one to check in how people like to
- 23:23be connected. Me personally, I can't stand those
- 23:26group messages. I much prefer a quick voice note
- 23:28and an email to let me know what's going on.
- 23:30What about yourself, Michael? I find that people
- 23:34are generally lazy. Right. They want all the
- 23:38communication. They want all the kudos. They
- 23:41want all the success without really putting the
- 23:43work in. And what you're talking about is it's
- 23:46not a lot of work. It's just a little work. It's
- 23:49just a little bit. And the voice note on the
- 23:52email that I've been using for a while. And it's
- 23:55that it puts you a little bit ahead of everybody
- 23:59else who's referring. And I do that. And I also
- 24:02the follow up. with the referral is key. And
- 24:07I have a whole follow -up system. But the second
- 24:11day, I have all my students write a handwritten
- 24:16thank you note to the person. And that's what
- 24:21puts them different from everybody else. Like,
- 24:24oh my goodness, look at this. He wrote me a handwritten
- 24:28thank you note. Some of them have chicken scratch.
- 24:32Others have really nice handwriting. But the
- 24:35fact of the matter is they received it and it's
- 24:39not a bill. It's not something you have to take
- 24:42care of. It's just a thank you. And that goes
- 24:45a long way in keeping that person top of mind.
- 24:50That's all you want to do. And I have a whole
- 24:52structure on the follow -up system because I
- 24:55feel that follow -up is more important than actually
- 24:57meeting the person. right? Your follow -up is
- 25:00so key. And that voice notes definitely is on
- 25:04top. The handwritten thank you notes are on top.
- 25:07All these little things that you have to put
- 25:10just a little bit of effort into it, and it comes
- 25:13out so much better. Okay, so let's bring this
- 25:16party. Yeah, that's a really lovely, lovely thing
- 25:19to do, a handwritten note. I saw a great one
- 25:21the other day where they sent a small bouquet
- 25:25of flowers and they said, thank you so much for
- 25:28the referral. Each referral you give me, you
- 25:31give our business, helps us to bloom. And I just
- 25:34thought, wow, wow. That's just, again, because
- 25:37people are not expecting that. And do you know
- 25:40what? I think when that happens, they think.
- 25:42I want to refer this person again because the
- 25:44feeling is so nice. It's a great feeling when
- 25:47you've referred somebody and they're appreciative
- 25:50of the fact that you've heard. Now, regardless
- 25:53of where that referral goes, right? But the fact
- 25:57is that you referred them, that it was an honest
- 25:59referral. It makes you feel so much better. And
- 26:02all these little things, you just don't forget
- 26:04about the people that referred you. I hold a
- 26:08networking. group meeting every week at night
- 26:13at a restaurant. And I get between five and 15
- 26:17businesses per week. And we discuss everything
- 26:20that we're discussing. And each week I'm bringing
- 26:24in one little more nugget and I'm running out
- 26:27of things because we've been holding it for six
- 26:30months now, six or seven months. So I'm repeating
- 26:32some of the items, but they enjoy it. They really
- 26:36do. They sit down, they have a drink. where we
- 26:39discuss it, and then we discuss things like,
- 26:42okay, you're having a problem getting into this
- 26:46company. Does anybody have a contact within that
- 26:50company? And we can make it more personal. But
- 26:53anyway. I digress. Well, it's important. I think
- 26:56in this day and age, it's really good to know
- 26:58that something like that exists. I run my own
- 27:01once a month where we have about 30 to 40 of
- 27:04a combination of my network and my students and
- 27:07my graduates. And we too are practicing the same
- 27:10thing, which is how do you network where it's
- 27:13more than just an activity to throw business
- 27:16cards around. It's really about how do you turn
- 27:18it into a profitable system that brings you bankable
- 27:20clients every month and have fun doing it. well
- 27:23because there needs to be a commercial return
- 27:25networking can be a serious expense and investment
- 27:29in terms of time and activity i'm sure we anyone
- 27:31that would be listening to this would be nodding
- 27:33because they're networkers but yeah most people
- 27:35don't have a networking problem they don't have
- 27:39a referral they actually have a referral system
- 27:41problem so that's what we teach in my school
- 27:44absolutely absolutely so let's bring this podcast
- 27:49full circle if a listener wanted to build a referral
- 27:53-based growth system over the next 90 days, what's
- 27:58one relationship -building habit they should
- 28:00start immediately? The first thing I would say
- 28:05to you is get clear on the relationship you want
- 28:08to build and why. So really understand how you
- 28:12can bring value to that person, how you can give
- 28:15to them first, and then how they can then give
- 28:18to you and start targeting where you're going
- 28:21networking to start finding these people. It's
- 28:25a recruitment exercise. I'll tell you that now.
- 28:27You need to think through where you're going
- 28:29and networking. Let's stop the art of random
- 28:32networking events. Let's actually go and build
- 28:35and go with meaning and intention. Very good.
- 28:39Very good. Now, Priya, if somebody wanted to
- 28:43get hold of you, or what's the best way that
- 28:47they can get hold of either to talk to you, say
- 28:49hi to you, be mentored by you, be coached by
- 28:52you, whatever the case, what's the best way for
- 28:55them to get hold of you? So the best way right
- 28:58now is through social media. So PM Enrich is
- 29:02the name of the company. You can find us on Facebook
- 29:05and on LinkedIn. I'm on LinkedIn as well. So
- 29:08you can connect with me there and reach out and
- 29:12say hello. And if I can support you in any way,
- 29:14happy to know. But by following us, what will
- 29:17be exciting is you'll be the first then to hear
- 29:19when we're launching our online. international
- 29:21program which is going to be super exciting how
- 29:25we show people how to create an actual referral
- 29:27team so it's called the referral team playbook
- 29:30we're having great traction here in australia
- 29:32and i'd love to bring it over cities and maybe
- 29:35come to one of your networking nights michael
- 29:37absolutely as a matter of fact i put on two shows
- 29:41a year two business expos And the last show I
- 29:46put on, there's only 20 businesses. The next
- 29:50one's 25 businesses, but it's an event. The businesses
- 29:54get a table and I have about 250 people walk
- 29:59through and the business is being done all over
- 30:02the place. I'm also part of another business
- 30:05expo. It's in a huge building over here in September.
- 30:10It's called Dream Big and it's... Portals South
- 30:15building, whatever. But that's going to be a
- 30:17huge business networking event. And just that's
- 30:22what I do. I do all these events. It's awesome.
- 30:26I think more and more now as humans, we need
- 30:28to be able to find places to develop meaningful
- 30:32connections and to remember that doing business
- 30:35is still done in person. I think what you're
- 30:37teaching and what you're providing through your
- 30:40coaching and speaking and your events is fantastic
- 30:43because we're just not taught these things at
- 30:45school. Great to have a human being leading the
- 30:48way. Well done. Great. Thank you. This conversation
- 30:52is a reminder that referrals don't happen by
- 30:55accident. They happen through trust, consistency
- 30:59and intentional relationships. When people clearly
- 31:03understand who you help, trust how you operate
- 31:07and stay connected to you over time, referrals
- 31:11stop feeling random and start becoming predictable.
- 31:15Take one step this week. Identify one person
- 31:19in your network who could become a strong referral
- 31:22partner and invest in strengthening that relationship.
- 31:25One intentional partnership can change the direction
- 31:29of your business. If you found value in today's
- 31:33episode, make sure you like, follow, and subscribe
- 31:35to Networking Unleashed Building Profitable Connections
- 31:39so you keep getting the best insights on networking
- 31:42and communication. And share this episode with
- 31:45someone who is ready to turn networking into
- 31:48real business growth. If you'd help strengthening
- 31:51your communication and building relationships
- 31:53and build opportunity, visit michelaforman .com
- 31:57to learn how I work with professionals, teams,
- 32:01and organizations. So until next time, build
- 32:04trust intentionally, strengthen your referral
- 32:07network, and create connections that consistently
- 32:10move business forward. Priya, I want to thank
- 32:14you again. You are a magnificent guest. Thank
- 32:18you so much. And I hope all the listeners out
- 32:21there, I wish you happy networking or referral
- 32:24partner shopping, as I might say to you now.
- 32:26Good. Thank you. All right, folks. A huge thank
- 32:31you to our guests for sharing such incredible
- 32:33insights today. And of course, a big shout out
- 32:37to you, our amazing listeners, for tuning in
- 32:40and spending your time with us. If you're interested
- 32:43in my digital courses, being coached, or having
- 32:46me come and talk to your company, just go to
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- 32:53networking isn't about being perfect. It's about
- 32:56being present. So take what you've learned today,
- 32:59get out there, and make some meaningful connections.
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