Latest / Gil I Am / Who is The Noble Woman? Proverbs 31:10
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- 0:00Speaker 1: The noble woman Proverbs thirty one ten, a wife of
- 0:05Speaker 1: noble character, who confined she is worth far more than rubies. Now, friend,
- 0:10Speaker 1: if you've ever searched for treasure, real treasure, you know
- 0:14Speaker 1: something important. Gold can be stolen, silver can tarnish, rubies
- 0:19Speaker 1: can be locked away in vaults. But character character is
- 0:23Speaker 1: forged where no jeweler can shape it. In tears, nobody
- 0:26Speaker 1: sees in sacrifices, nobody applauds in prayers whispered after midnight,
- 0:32Speaker 1: in loyalty tested by fire. And that is where our
- 0:35Speaker 1: story begins. Who as the woman of Proverbs thirty one
- 0:40Speaker 1: The verse says, a wife of noble character, who confined,
- 0:44Speaker 1: not merely a beautiful woman, not merely a wealthy woman,
- 0:48Speaker 1: not merely a talented woman. No, the Hebrew phrase for
- 0:53Speaker 1: noble character as often translated as virtuous, excellent, or even
- 0:57Speaker 1: valiant strength. This is not weakness wrapped in gentleness. This
- 1:02Speaker 1: is strength under control. This woman is trustworthy, faithful, wise, disciplined, compassionate,
- 1:09Speaker 1: god fearing. She is the kind of woman whose present
- 1:12Speaker 1: steadies a household, like and anchor steadies a ship in
- 1:15Speaker 1: a storm. And notice something remarkable. The writer does not
- 1:19Speaker 1: say she is common, He asks who confined? Because such
- 1:24Speaker 1: a woman is rare, rare, then rare now in a
- 1:27Speaker 1: world chasing appearances. Proverbs thirty one celebrates substance and friend
- 1:33Speaker 1: Substance lasts longer than beauty, ever will what is being
- 1:36Speaker 1: said here. At first glance, this sounds like a compliment
- 1:40Speaker 1: to wives. But it is more than that. It is
- 1:43Speaker 1: a declaration of value. The Bible compares this woman to rubies,
- 1:48Speaker 1: the ancient world's most prized treasures. Why because rubies are precious.
- 1:53Speaker 1: But rubies cannot raise children, Rubies cannot comfort a grieving husband.
- 1:58Speaker 1: Rubies cannot pray over a broken family. Rubies cannot build
- 2:03Speaker 1: peace inside a home. A noble woman can, the verse
- 2:06Speaker 1: as teaching something civilization desperately forgets. The true wealth of
- 2:10Speaker 1: a home is not found in the bank account. It
- 2:13Speaker 1: is found in the character of the people living inside it.
- 2:17Speaker 1: And the woman described here becomes the spiritual heartbeat of
- 2:20Speaker 1: her household, not through domination, not through vanity, but through wisdom, sacrifice,
- 2:27Speaker 1: and reverence for God. When was this written? The Book
- 2:30Speaker 1: of Proverbs is traditionally associated with King Solomon, the wisest
- 2:34Speaker 1: king in Israel's history. Proverbs thirty one appears near the
- 2:38Speaker 1: conclusion of the book, a fitting ending. Why because after
- 2:42Speaker 1: thirty chapters about wisdom, discipline, temptation, foolishness, money, speech, anger, pride,
- 2:49Speaker 1: and righteousness, the book ends not with a theory, but
- 2:53Speaker 1: with a person, a living example. Many scholars believe Proverbs
- 2:58Speaker 1: thirty one was instruction given to a king by his mother.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Think about that, a mother teaching a future ruler what
- 3:04Speaker 1: truly matters in a woman, not charm, not status, not seduction, character,
- 3:11Speaker 1: And thousands of years later, the lesson still stands because
- 3:15Speaker 1: societies rise or collapse largely upon the strength of families,
- 3:19Speaker 1: and families rise or collapse largely upon character. Where does
- 3:23Speaker 1: this story live Not in palaces alone, not merely in
- 3:27Speaker 1: ancient Israel. This verse lives wherever sacrifice lives. It lives
- 3:32Speaker 1: in kitchens where exhausted mothers still prepare meals, in hospital
- 3:36Speaker 1: rooms where wives refuse to abandon their husbands, in quiet
- 3:40Speaker 1: prayers whispered over sleeping children, in small homes where faithfulness
- 3:44Speaker 1: survives hardship. The proverb's thirty one woman is not confined
- 3:48Speaker 1: to one culture or century. She appears wherever godly strength exists.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Sometimes she is wealthy, sometimes poor, sometimes educated, sometimes simple,
- 4:00Speaker 1: but always marked by integrity and friend Integrity shines brighter
- 4:04Speaker 1: than diamonds. How does a woman become more precious than rubies?
- 4:09Speaker 1: Not overnight. Rubies form under pressure, so do people of character.
- 4:14Speaker 1: The Proverb's thirty one woman becomes noble through choices repeated daily,
- 4:18Speaker 1: Choosing faithfulness when betrayal would be easier, choosing gentleness when
- 4:23Speaker 1: anger would feel justified, choosing perseverance when exhaustion whispers quit,
- 4:28Speaker 1: choosing wisdom instead of impulse, choosing God over ego, And
- 4:32Speaker 1: perhaps most importantly, she understands her value does not come
- 4:36Speaker 1: from public applause. It comes from who she is before God.
- 4:40Speaker 1: That is why. Later in Proverbs thirty one, the writer says,
- 4:44Speaker 1: charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman
- 4:47Speaker 1: who fears the Lord is to be praised. Beauty fades,
- 4:51Speaker 1: time touches everyone, but reverence for God produces something eternal,
- 4:56Speaker 1: a beauty age cannot erase. Why does this verse matter
- 4:59Speaker 1: so much? Because modern culture often measures worth backwards. People
- 5:04Speaker 1: are valued for followers instead of faithfulness, appearance instead of integrity,
- 5:09Speaker 1: attention instead of wisdom. But Proverbs thirty one restores heaven's perspective.
- 5:14Speaker 1: God sees noble character as treasure. And perhaps there is
- 5:18Speaker 1: another reason this verse matters. It reminds men what to honor,
- 5:22Speaker 1: not merely attraction, not merely excitement, but virtue. And it
- 5:27Speaker 1: reminds women what truly endures. Not perfection, not impossible standards,
- 5:32Speaker 1: but a heart shaped by God. Friend, there are many
- 5:36Speaker 1: things money can buy, but it cannot by loyalty, It
- 5:39Speaker 1: cannot by wisdom, it cannot by peace, it cannot by
- 5:43Speaker 1: genuine love. Those things are rare than rubies. Thank you
- 5:47Speaker 1: for listening, Lord, have mercy, God be with you. Dot