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Dirty Little Secret : “If you knew your best friend’s fiancé kissed someone else… would you tell her?” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off yours to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 3: You get a dirty little secret. Eight three three seven
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  Speaker 3: eight seven one oh two nine. Okay, let us know
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  Speaker 3: what your secret is. There she is enjoying her snacks.
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  Speaker 1: It was a secret till you told everybody.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I can't.
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  Speaker 3: All I can see is that little lump in your
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  Speaker 3: cheek and you're trying to pretend that you're not.
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  Speaker 4: Like she was dipping tobacco.
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  Speaker 3: She's trying to pretend that she's not eating, so she's
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  Speaker 3: only moving one side of her mouth.
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  Speaker 4: She's like, man, ashcash entything you want see ashkash nything. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: let me just put that beef jerkey stick over here. Anyways,
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  Speaker 4: it over here later.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, dirty little secret. I figure out when you let
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  Speaker 3: us know, now you have one, what is going on?
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  Speaker 2: So I decided I'm not going to one of my
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  Speaker 2: best friend's weddings. And she doesn't know yet what.
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  Speaker 4: You're not going to her wedding at all?
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  Speaker 2: I just I just can't why. So a couple months ago,
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  Speaker 2: my boyfriend came home quietly in that way that means he's, like,
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  Speaker 2: you know, carrying something that he shouldn't be and we
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  Speaker 2: were getting ready for bed when he finally just told
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  Speaker 2: me that he'd been out with my friend's fiance, you know,
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  Speaker 2: just like a guy's night, and he saw him kiss
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  Speaker 2: another woman at the bar.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So you're and your boyfriend saw this girl's fiance kiss
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  Speaker 3: another woman.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And he said it was just a drunk,
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  Speaker 2: quick kiss, like it made it any different, Like you know,
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  Speaker 2: it mattered, and it matters to me. And I know
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  Speaker 2: how excited she is, how safe she thinks she is
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  Speaker 2: in this relationship, and I know if I tell her,
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  Speaker 2: everything will explode, like the wedding, the friendships, this life
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  Speaker 2: she's building. And I just still't want to be the
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  Speaker 2: one who lights it on fire. And I promised my
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend that after he told me, I wouldn't say anything,
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  Speaker 2: But I just can't stand there, like watching her promise
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  Speaker 2: forever to this guy who's already crossed a firm boundary,
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  Speaker 2: right even if it was just once.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I agree, that's I'm not saying I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 3: I guess the tough part is is, how do you not?
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  Speaker 3: Because now it's going to be you're the bad guy
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  Speaker 3: if you don't show up at wedding like, what are
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  Speaker 3: you going to say? The whole thing is like you
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  Speaker 3: you know, and I would. The other question is I
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  Speaker 3: can't believe you're not going to tell your friend. But
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  Speaker 3: I do understand how you don't want to be the
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  Speaker 3: person to blow everything up.
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  Speaker 2: No, so I'm just gonna stay away. I'll make an excuse,
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  Speaker 2: I'll send her a gift. I just know I can't
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  Speaker 2: either and watch the scumbag marry my friend. You know,
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  Speaker 2: even if I did say something, I don't even know
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  Speaker 2: if she believed me at this point, and her fiance
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  Speaker 2: is obviously definitely gonna lie. So I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: that makes me a coward, maybe it makes me loyal.
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  Speaker 2: But all I know is I cannot pretend that I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what I know, right, And I just like
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  Speaker 2: can't live with being a part of this lie.
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  Speaker 3: I guess you just make up an excuse that you
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  Speaker 3: can't come for some odd of reason. I mean, it's
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  Speaker 3: got to be the crazy, big excuse use though, right,
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  Speaker 3: But what.
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  Speaker 1: If, like soon or in a couple of years, all
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  Speaker 1: this comes out, and then you could have prevented her
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  Speaker 1: from marrying this guy and being you know, living You've
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  Speaker 1: lived with this secret for years or whoever knows how long.
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  Speaker 4: Let me ask you this canvas.
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  Speaker 3: Let me ask candas because from a woman's perspective, because
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  Speaker 3: I know it's different from men.
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  Speaker 4: To me, it's not though cheating. It's cheating. Whether it's
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  Speaker 4: a quick russ let me say it was a quick
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  Speaker 4: drunk kiss.
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  Speaker 1: It's still something she deserves to know about. She can
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  Speaker 1: decide whether it's quick or whether it's you know, you kiss.
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  Speaker 3: Another person that is cheating. It's there's no blurred lines.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah I don't think so, I know, but it's not like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: he liked a girl in a bikini pick on Instagram.
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  Speaker 4: He kissed a girl he didn't know what he was.
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  Speaker 4: You're being in it. I'm just saying, really, you true
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  Speaker 4: because girls do it too. Girls slip up and you're
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  Speaker 4: the same.
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  Speaker 3: They should face the same consequence. And that's still cheating.
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  Speaker 3: Doesn't matter if who's doing it, what gender they are.
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  Speaker 3: To me, it's cheating. Is it forgivable? Okay, maybe that's different. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you didn't go all the way.
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  Speaker 4: With a woman.
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  Speaker 1: That's up for her to decide.
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  Speaker 4: That is up for her to decide.
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  Speaker 3: It still doesn't make it any better, though, you would
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  Speaker 3: let me ask you this, Pooh, Yeah, you would forgive
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  Speaker 3: a woman who's your fiance if you found out that
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  Speaker 3: she kissed another woman at Applebee's A man, I don't
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  Speaker 3: know my first place.
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  Speaker 4: I go down with those president.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm out and I see your your fiance, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: kiss another man?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? I come home, I call you, I text you.
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  Speaker 4: You don't tell me me and you ain't talking right?
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  Speaker 4: But why you don't think it's cheating? Yeah? But I'm sing?
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  Speaker 4: Would you make an excuse not to go to my wedding?
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  Speaker 4: I'm not going to your wedding either way? Yes you are?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, way to marry him?
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  Speaker 4: Neither of us are ever getting married again. Why are
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  Speaker 4: you gonna condemn me? I've never been married as far
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  Speaker 4: as we know.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, you think you're gonna stick to this or do
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  Speaker 3: you think you might change your mind?
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm sticking to this like I can't. I know
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  Speaker 2: I can't fake it, so I'm scared to you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm scared to show up and I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: ruin it.
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  Speaker 3: So okay, I mean, yeah, I'm sorry that you got
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  Speaker 3: to go through that. And you know, if you do
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  Speaker 3: change your mind, you end up telling her.
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  Speaker 4: Let us know. Because now let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 3: If you if you found out that it was more
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  Speaker 3: than a drunk quick kiss and it was him hooking up.
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  Speaker 4: With another woman, would you tell her then?
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  Speaker 2: M gosh, I don't know. I mean, on one hand,
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  Speaker 2: I would like to think that I would, but at
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  Speaker 2: the same time, like I'm not trying to blow everything up,
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  Speaker 2: like I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Well, all right, something to think about. Thank you so much,
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  Speaker 4: We appreciate you, and thank you for confessing.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you all right,