Whatever Happens I Trust Myself to be Okay

Confidence Matters · Sep 24, 2026 · 5m

This is the final post in this months theme of building confidence.Week 1 - All I Wanted Was to Be Susan’s Friend and to Own a PonyWeek 2- I Didn’t Only Build My Confidence, I Uncovered Who I WasWeek 3 - If You Wait Until You Are Confident, You Will Never Take the Leap

I started this month wanting Susan to choose me. I end with the realisation that I can choose myself.

Carla was super confident. She was six feet tall too, which made her even more imposing.

When I first met her, I thought she had the kind of confidence I wanted. The kind that lets people know you are in the room.

At that time…