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RHONY's Brynn Whitfield · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, Welcome back to the Get Them Lalla Podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I'm somewhat freaking the fuck out.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you know you are the signature giggle laugh voice,
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  Speaker 1: all the things that just like made all of us
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  Speaker 1: fall in love with you. I have Brynn Whitfield from
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of New York. I was telling you, Grin.
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  Speaker 1: I am very very picky about who I.
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  Speaker 2: Have come on the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Yea, I have the team sending me people all the
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  Speaker 1: livelong day. I'm like, I'm sure they're interesting to a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people, not to me. I've had one guest
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  Speaker 1: since we've done YouTube, which, by the way, we just
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  Speaker 1: hit ten thousand followers on YouTube. Not that not that
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  Speaker 1: I've had one person. I've had Stassy. So you're my
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  Speaker 1: second guest and I'm honored to have you all.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so I'm so thankful to be here. It's like
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  Speaker 3: she's like the cool chick in high school, like the
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  Speaker 3: kind of scary one you want you desperately want her
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  Speaker 3: to like you, Like that's you, Like I I'm the
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  Speaker 3: one that's honored.
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  Speaker 1: That's so crazy because that was not the actual reality
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  Speaker 1: really of me in high school.
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  Speaker 3: You seem like you would have been like the Regina George,
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  Speaker 3: like the most popular, the most beautiful, but kind of intimidating,
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  Speaker 3: scare scary, like girls wanted you to punch them in
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  Speaker 3: the face.
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  Speaker 2: Not at all.
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  Speaker 1: I was actually the theater geek who was like getting
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  Speaker 1: finger banged by the head of the football team.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, more more, and that's about it.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's as odd as cool as I got.
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  Speaker 3: Was like, oh my god, it was a finger fingerpanging.
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  Speaker 3: That's also the best. I was just having a conversation
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  Speaker 3: with this last week. That's like the best, most underrated.
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  Speaker 3: If they're good at it, it's the best, right, So
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  Speaker 3: do they have to be good at fingerbeing? I think
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  Speaker 3: fingerhanging is one that you don't you don't actually even
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  Speaker 3: like be a specialists, just like you don't shut it's
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  Speaker 3: not go ahead have the same as a hand job
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  Speaker 3: or like a handome. I feel like it's about how
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  Speaker 3: they like to do, and there's like a thing and
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  Speaker 3: whatever the same thing. I think is just more like
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  Speaker 3: how quantity over quality.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, really, oh, I totally disagree, because that could
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  Speaker 4: hurt If I'm fingered aggressively done, I'm passing up.
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  Speaker 2: There is there is if you're.
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  Speaker 3: Doing a good finger. It's like clittorus. They're getting around clitoris.
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  Speaker 3: Can I get it in a sentence? And you can
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  Speaker 3: be the root of the word clit taurus say it's
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  Speaker 3: so cute. But that's good to know. So you're just
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  Speaker 3: you're not You're not picky with the fingers. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: picky with the I mean, okay, it's it's more so
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  Speaker 3: like I just love the effect. You can do it anywhere,
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  Speaker 3: you know, that's table. That's the hottest thing. I once
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  Speaker 3: stated guy in Venice. He was crazy like Venice Beach
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  Speaker 3: are like actual cool man like Venice, nice Venus. And
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  Speaker 3: I remember I had on these like this cute mar
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  Speaker 3: Hoffman like jumpsuit. He's like, hang on one second. He
• 3:01
  Speaker 3: goes down to his garage, comes back up with the scissors.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, what the fuck, Like Andy, he's really intense,
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  Speaker 3: but I didn't get it. Hold out the pockets and
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  Speaker 3: I think cut the pockets out of my jumpsuit. And
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  Speaker 3: I was like, this is mar Hoffman sample sale, Like
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  Speaker 3: this can't be created and he's like no, so I
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  Speaker 3: can figure you a brunch, which god at the Rose
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  Speaker 3: restaurant and bed and I was like that I fell
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  Speaker 3: I'm still in love with that guy I did. I
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  Speaker 3: texted him in this weekend. I'm like, hey, I'm in town,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and he's like, nice, hear from you. Hope
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  Speaker 3: I got the hope you're doing well?
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  Speaker 2: Text Oh like I'm married with four kids.
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  Speaker 3: And now they able the vibe like he's aiding someone
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  Speaker 3: and he's like, hey, thanks, thanks for the invite. Can't
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  Speaker 3: do it. I hope you're doing well.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, give it a few months. They all
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  Speaker 1: start creeping at some point. I don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: the person they're creeping with, but like they all start
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  Speaker 1: to stray all right, where he's gonna be hitting you
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  Speaker 1: up and you're gonna be like, I'm good, I saw
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  Speaker 1: you on Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Hey.
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  Speaker 3: The second that you like, even like energetically or anything,
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  Speaker 3: you move on the I mean, they all just come in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: they can sense when you're happy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that to your life?
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  Speaker 1: And then they do because then you catch me in
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  Speaker 1: my closet in the dark with my vibrator.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait have you have you used your
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  Speaker 3: vibrator in secret?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Like, when you're with someone, in halfway with someone.
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  Speaker 2: I cannot creep around.
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  Speaker 1: So when I would see that dudes were sliding in
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  Speaker 1: the d M, and I knew I couldn't respond. It
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  Speaker 1: was so sexually frustrating that it's like, oh and then
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  Speaker 1: when the ring cameras went in, it was like, now
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  Speaker 1: I'm really fucked. Where am I supposed to do that?
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  Speaker 3: All of us masturbate in the privacy round class?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, So I have a couple episodes ago
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  Speaker 1: you spoke about swallowing and you were like, all you
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  Speaker 1: have to do is like gag on the day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 1: The BJ's So I was talking to my mom and
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  Speaker 1: my best friend, where's this going?
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  Speaker 2: I want to know? I want to know your thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: So my friend asked my mom were were you? Are
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  Speaker 1: you a swallower? And my mom was like, no, I
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  Speaker 1: never swallowed. My friends told me that come has way.
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  Speaker 2: Too many calories. No, do you know anything about this?
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  Speaker 3: She cares what her fit because I like, I'm mon keto, sweetie,
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  Speaker 3: I can't no, no, no, I need that.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think it is calories and sodium, right, maybe
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  Speaker 3: a lot of sodium. I do, so does the thing
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  Speaker 3: I really saw.
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  Speaker 2: That's how I know that I like someone is if
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  Speaker 2: you swallow it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I used to be a freaking gangster.
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  Speaker 1: I used to like give the beeja swallow and then
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  Speaker 1: grab the bottle of vodka because naturally they would have
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  Speaker 1: that near my bed at this point.
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  Speaker 2: In time and chase it with like bottom shelf vodka.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah that's hard. I used to be
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  Speaker 2: a bag of fun.
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  Speaker 1: Now someone puts that thing near my face and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I kissed my child with.
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  Speaker 2: It away from me.
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  Speaker 3: I I had a guy heard who told me we
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  Speaker 3: were telling like you're sharing her stories. He was like,
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  Speaker 3: this is the creepiest thing ever. He's like, don't ever
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  Speaker 3: do this. Did a girl give him a blowjob and
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  Speaker 3: she's trying to be really hot and I guess she
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  Speaker 3: like had it in her mouth and she goes like
• 6:14
  Speaker 3: watch this and winked and then no, gargled gargled, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: gargled it and then like and he was like he
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  Speaker 3: just told me, He's like, no, no one should ever
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  Speaker 3: do that.
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  Speaker 2: That's disgusting, right, that's like a bad point.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't thinking you have like a party trick and
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  Speaker 3: then it's like just false.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's also a teeth whitener though, so if
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  Speaker 1: you switch it around a bit.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like men made that up like a man
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  Speaker 3: was like a cures cancer can. It's great for your skin.
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  Speaker 3: It'll make it so much younger. Put it on your face.
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  Speaker 3: It's good for your skin. Breast milk literally heard that, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: heel ship Like I had a wedding one day, scrape
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  Speaker 3: myself and my friend's like just put some like and
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  Speaker 3: literally the next day it was fine. It literally cures
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  Speaker 3: like that's very and things and it's great for your skin. Right, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: not semen, see they light to us. It's always us
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  Speaker 3: curing answer.
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  Speaker 1: It's not them, No, but that is true with the
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  Speaker 1: breast milk because when I was pregnant with Ocean and
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  Speaker 1: my skin was freaking out, I would just literally just
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  Speaker 1: like squirt a little on my finger and put it on,
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  Speaker 1: and it like helped a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna see if I can squeeze them.
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  Speaker 1: Out a little later, like have any left over because
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  Speaker 1: I'm suffering from a breakout.
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  Speaker 2: So I I have.
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  Speaker 3: So many questions, let's go, let's have at it.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I want to know, because we were
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  Speaker 1: having this conversation before we started.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know what you're driven by.
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  Speaker 3: Personally me what I'm driven my life?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we just learned that you were a
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  Speaker 1: pre med student. My mind cannot even grasp that at all.
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  Speaker 1: Like you throw me into the wilderness, I'm fucking surviving, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you throw me into a college and bitch, I'm running.
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  Speaker 3: I think, well, at this point or twenty twenty three,
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  Speaker 3: like the wilderness would be actually more useful. I I
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  Speaker 3: don't know. I've always just answered to myself. I think
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  Speaker 3: that my grandmother raised me. But she wasn't very she
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  Speaker 3: wasn't hands on, you know, like we've turned her, we've
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  Speaker 3: canonized her into a saint. I think my brother and
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  Speaker 3: sister and I. But she wasn't by any means perfect.
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  Speaker 3: Shed a lot of shortcomings and staying on top of
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  Speaker 3: us or if you had your homework done or anything
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  Speaker 3: wasn't in her repertoire. So like she sat down and
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  Speaker 3: taught me how to do her signature so that she
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  Speaker 3: didn't have to sign papers and permission slips and things
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  Speaker 3: like that. Oh wow, be bothered. So she went shopped
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  Speaker 3: our games. She'd get mad at us if we didn't,
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  Speaker 3: you know, hit a home run or she's very tough
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  Speaker 3: on us. So it was more so like I had
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  Speaker 3: to kind of like create rules for myself and like
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  Speaker 3: what my expectations were, what was and I had to
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  Speaker 3: do it. I don't know, like I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: something inspires me. More so, it's just like I just
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  Speaker 3: don't want to be lazy. I don't like lazy people. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what drives me, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, some like I'm driven by the amount of Instagram
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  Speaker 1: followers I have.
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  Speaker 2: I'm driven by those money. I'm for those people.
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  Speaker 3: I think in a way, I'm driven by money. I
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  Speaker 3: think up until it was like up until I turned
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  Speaker 3: thirty and I started around company. I honestly, if you
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  Speaker 3: had asked me, I was like, you know, junior vice
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  Speaker 3: president or whatever. I was in my twenties, and had
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  Speaker 3: you asked me, I was always worried that I was
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  Speaker 3: still gonna work at McDonald's. I literally would go or
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  Speaker 3: see McDonald's like I could still end up there, like
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  Speaker 3: it was always chicken little and it's only taking me
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  Speaker 3: the past several years. Then now I finally don't have
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  Speaker 3: that feeling anymore of like I could be poor, could
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  Speaker 3: I might have to go back on welfare, I might
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  Speaker 3: have to do something like that, like that was always
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  Speaker 3: in me, so I was scared. But now I don't
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  Speaker 3: have that. I can honestly say I don't have that
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  Speaker 3: feeling anymore. And now it's like I've read all those
• 9:43
  Speaker 3: books about manifestation. I've done everyone from like Abranham Hicks
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  Speaker 3: to Eckart totally to whatever that the Tony Robbins guy,
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  Speaker 3: I've done all that stuff. So now I do believe
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  Speaker 3: like you are your thoughts, you create everything, Like what's
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  Speaker 3: for you is gonna come do you? Now I subscribe
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  Speaker 3: to all that Venus shit. I picked it up when
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  Speaker 3: I lived in Venice. Yeah, So now I'm just more
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  Speaker 3: like it's like I'm scared of nothing, and I've had
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  Speaker 3: so much fucked up shit happened to me in my life.
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  Speaker 3: I was telling someone, I was like, I'm fucking bulletp
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  Speaker 3: like I'm unafraid, Like I'm literally David Goggin says this thing.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, when the devil goes to sleep at night,
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  Speaker 3: make sure he's looking under the bed for you. And
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  Speaker 3: that's how I live. And I'm like, no, no, the
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  Speaker 3: devil's scared for me because I'm like, I've take I've dined,
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  Speaker 3: with the devil, like I picked up the tab, you know,
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  Speaker 3: Like yeah, so I'm like unafraid, Like I think that's
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  Speaker 3: like my superpowers too. Like I'm just like I don't
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  Speaker 3: give a fuck. I mean I do when I care.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not one of these like I don't give a
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  Speaker 3: fuck bitches. But I'm like there's something in me where
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  Speaker 3: it's confidence, but I can be I don't have confidence
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  Speaker 3: all the time, you know, Like I don't know, it's
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  Speaker 3: just this thing where like I'm not I think is
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  Speaker 3: the worst things in life that could have happened to
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  Speaker 3: a child or a woman. And like there's ten percent
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  Speaker 3: of my life I've shared on the show to date.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone's like, oh my god, your story. I'm not giving
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  Speaker 3: other people my full story. That's my story and I'm
• 10:57
  Speaker 3: going to share it over time. But I've only shared
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  Speaker 3: ten percent. I know what's happened in my life. I've
• 11:01
  Speaker 3: been the most fucked up shit happen.
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  Speaker 2: I have chills right now.
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  Speaker 3: I love. I feel like that's the way too. Even
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  Speaker 3: like how we've known each other, I've always picked up
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  Speaker 3: that from you, like you've like been through shit too,
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  Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I just feel always like you're
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  Speaker 3: kind of the same, Like, I don't know, I've just
• 11:15
  Speaker 3: felt that connection noice to you.
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  Speaker 1: I can't imagine, though, with what you went through because
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  Speaker 1: I had the luxury of growing up and so did Easton,
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  Speaker 1: of two phenomenal parents who loved each other, who there
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  Speaker 1: was never any pressure. Whatever we wanted to do in life,
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  Speaker 1: we could achieve. And if we didn't go to college,
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  Speaker 1: no big deal. If we didn't make a lot of money,
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: no big deal. Like they just wanted to see us
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  Speaker 1: happy and healthy, right, So we did have that luxury
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  Speaker 1: that not everybody has. There are things that have obviously
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: happened in my life that have shaped me and I
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  Speaker 1: personally have said, you know, I'm bulletproof, like you cannot
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  Speaker 1: take me out if this didn't take me out nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, And as we talk about that, is it
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  Speaker 2: the experience or does that come with age?
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  Speaker 3: I think it's getting both. I read somewhere the answers
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  Speaker 3: always both for a good question.
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  Speaker 2: I like that. I love the great.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's always like I think it's a little
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  Speaker 3: bit of both. Definitely with age. I thought I was
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  Speaker 3: I was confident. I thought I knew everything in my twenties.
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  Speaker 3: Now in my thirties. It's just crazy, whether it be
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  Speaker 3: life or my own self confidence or high and with men.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I just I was so like now like
• 12:28
  Speaker 3: I love like the each age I get older, I'm
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: like less dumb and I feel better about myself and
• 12:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is easier, and shit kind of
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  Speaker 3: goes into perspective. But I think it's also it's not
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: the experience. I think it's just getting through having the
• 12:41
  Speaker 3: experience and then not like dying or failing, you know,
• 12:45
  Speaker 3: or even to times when you felt and like I'd
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: feel like I wanted to do that, Like I think
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: getting through it and saying we like, for example, if
• 12:51
  Speaker 3: it's like a breakup, or if it's something you know,
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: anything or family or death or something and you're like
• 12:57
  Speaker 3: you were scared of that thing happening, or like, oh
• 12:59
  Speaker 3: we always say we had if a plane goes down
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  Speaker 3: with all my family and I won't be able to
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  Speaker 3: live right. And I've said this too. I love my
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: brother so much, and I remember one time I was
• 13:07
  Speaker 3: talking to him just thinking about I was like, well,
• 13:09
  Speaker 3: if you and my sister and grandma, if you guys
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  Speaker 3: all died, I'd kill myself too. I can't live after that,
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  Speaker 3: He goes, No, you you'd be sad for about a year,
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  Speaker 3: but then you move on because you have to. And
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  Speaker 3: now I feel that way, like I don't know, I
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so like on your page. It's so crazy because
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  Speaker 1: as you're talking, I it's when my dad passed. I
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  Speaker 1: as a child used to lay in bed and this
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  Speaker 1: is not normal for a child.
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  Speaker 3: And I would like and imagine and imagine how sad
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  Speaker 3: you'd be, right, Yes, yeah, I did that too.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, And listen to Celine Dion some song about like
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  Speaker 1: saying goodbye when your mom died.
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  Speaker 2: Saw me, I was like an elementary.
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  Speaker 3: S I listened to the way and I know you're
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  Speaker 3: shining down And I would lay and think about my
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: grandmother dying because I loved her so much.
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  Speaker 2: And you're like, how will I function?
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  Speaker 3: And sometimes I think that it's been two years and look,
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  Speaker 3: she was eighty two and it was fucked up. What
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  Speaker 3: happened with my family and stuff with her. They cremated
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: her against her last wishes, and then.
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  Speaker 2: No, God is devastating.
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  Speaker 3: She's in a storage unit, like a storage it's used
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  Speaker 3: to barrier. It's fucked up. That's a whole nother that's
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: a whole nother thing. But that's that's my family. But
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  Speaker 3: like I would, I was always so scared my whole
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  Speaker 3: life about she's gonna die, She's gonna die, and I
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: would like premeditate. I did with my dog too. I
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: was like so sad before it happened. And I think
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: sometimes the reason why I'm still like having trouble, like
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: you know, speaking sometimes about her, and like a lot
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: on camera too. For some reason, the camera's fucked with
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  Speaker 3: me and having to say things on camera, having to
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: say my grandmother's dead. I would start like just bawling, crying. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I made it real. I think in my self preservation way,
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: I just go about it and I tell my story,
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: and I'm a publicist and I can narrate things that
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: I can speak. But then all of a sudden, it
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: was like in the Confessionals and like still tells about
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: MEMI and I would just like start shaking. I was
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: like get away, Like I was like, fuck off, I'm
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: not talking about it. And we had to keep doing
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: confessionals and confessionals and they would wait the questions at
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: the end, and then finally I'd be like take like
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: three shots I come, only you go you have five
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: fucking minutes, and I'm like, and it's so crazy because
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: they're all weirded out because it's me for like like
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: and then I like abe, and then I was just like,
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: go answer the quote you have five minutes.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: Like you'd make it of you.
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and everyone's and then then then they're like get
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: her out of here, like is it? And then I
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: would just be like dark for two days, like it
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: was just very but but yeah, but I would do
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: the same thing. You just ad as a cave. And
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: I think that's one of the reasons why I think
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: it's like not glorifying of it. What's it called when
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: you keep you build it up so much in your
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: in your head. Like I'm not saying we're not as
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: sad as we are about parents dying.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: No, but you do find a way to move on,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Can I ask you? Do you believe in God or
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: a higher power?
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah. I grew very, very Catholic, but I've dabbled
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: in and I've fallen in love with a lot of
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: different religions. Okay a little. I've dabbled a little bit
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: of Islam. I've tried to convert three times to Judaism. Wow, Yeah,
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: I love religion. I think it's beautiful. I think everyone's
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: an idiot because we're all actually praying to the same shit, right,
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: and it's all the same. But then there's like we're
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: all fighting over it, but it's all the beautiful parts
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: of it. We're all wanting the same thing.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: I feel the exact same way Easton and I grew
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: up in Utah, so religion and scares me. Spirituality and
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: like the talks of God or a higher power it
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: felt very forced to where it kind of turned me off.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: But I also think that leaning into that when you
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: actually do experience loss instead of it just being something
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: you're imagining, like when this happens, I'm done, let's call
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: it a day, it happens, and then for me, God
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: has a very strange way of helping you compartmentalize. And
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: if you I'm not saying everyone is like this, just personally.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: If I can lean into that, there is a way
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: where I can remember, you know, my dad, the way
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: he deserves to be remembered, and I can move on
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: with my life yet still have the most vivid like
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: I remember every wrinkle, I remember the way his hands
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: look the way his hug feels, and I can.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Write it, write it down, Oh girl, I did. Yeah. Yeah,
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: when they come up little things, keep writing.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: And he's saying, yeah, yeah, all of that stuff.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: Things because you start to, like so many memories I've
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: come up over the past two years, little things about
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: her house or her hands or how she would touch something.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: And I was like, why where did this memory come from?
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: It?
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: And I don't know where it came from, but I
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: want to I just so therefore, I don't know where
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: it's going to go, so I want to keep it.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: So I always write, write them down now, and I
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: have like this long list of just the things she
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: used to do, how she used to snore, how she
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: used to live, all these little things.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that you do that your I love
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: that you call your grandma Mimi, because that was our grandma.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Her name was Mimi. Really, yes, And oh my god.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: It's so cute and just when you talk about her
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: and I know what you mean where you're like, I
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: know that this person wasn't perfect, but she was my Mimi,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: you know, and she took over in a time that
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: was like you were a little baby. I can't even
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: imagine let's talk about this part when she said, you
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: go to medical school to marry a doctor. First of all,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: who's getting into medical school to where they won't even
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: have the option, Yeah, to marry a doctor that way?
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Seriously, No, I remember. I wanted to be a doctor
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: my entire life. I just studied as a child, NonStop anatomy, physiology.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: I would watch I would watch like cardiac surgeries, like
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: I don't know how I got my hands on videos.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: I had a little white robe that said doctor Brenn
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: on it. I would do every book reporting school about
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: doctor Christian Minord. He was a South African doctor who
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: did the first human heart transplant, doctor Ben Carson. I
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: loved him, and not you know, politically now later on
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: in life, but I loved him. He did the brain transplant.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I was obsessed with because you're smart, dad, I was.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: I was obsessed with being a doctor. I go to Purdue,
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: and I went to Purdue because it's a good science school.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: It's like one of the top engineering schools. So I'm like, oh,
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna learn. I fucked myself over because I was
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: competing with people who are now working at like SpaceX
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: and they're rocket scientists. I'm smart, but I'm not like
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: fucked up like it took me. I had a study
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: for the sciences and those things I was. I was
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: an athlete when I was in elementary school. I loved math.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: I can't even add now, but but I wasn't as
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: good as science. I got really in my head. I
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: was with a very unsupportive boyfriend who basically was like, yeah,
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I don't think you can do it either. Yeah, yeah,
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: he was the worst. And yeah. I remember I called
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: my grandma and she was like, oh honey, She's like, yeah,
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: it's okay. You don't go to you know, just go
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: to marry a doctor. Like her biggest thing for me
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: would be to this day, I would think like if
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: I married a doctor, because in her generation, that was
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: like how you made it as a woman, you know,
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: like like marry the doctor, marry the lawyer, marry the
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: doctor the lawyer, and it's oh he's a lawyer, he's
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: a doctor. Like it was a very you know, but
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: now I'm like, Grandma, go he ipe owed his last
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: company a doctor. Just get a doctor.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Why would she think about you doing reality TV?
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: She would love it, and it's I'm gonna getchoked up.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: She would absolutely love it. So another thing that wasn't
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: maybe the best she didn't like Mimi wasn't a cultural like.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: She didn't she didn't like to leave her house a lot.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: She sat in front of a TV right a lot,
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: many hours per day, to the point where, like you know,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: she was one of those types. She'd fall asleep in
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: her lazy boy recliner and if you tried to move
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: the remote or turn the TV off, she'd be like
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: she'd wake up out of her end to you, no, no, don't,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: don't shut it off, just non stop that TV was
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: going on and on. So she's obsessed with television. And
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: one of the reasons why I did the show is
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: because I was like, if there is fucking heaven, and
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: if there's a fucking TV in heaven, then she can
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: watch it, because like there's one thing like not being
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: the President of United States, nothing like being on TV.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: She would have understood that, Like she loved TV too much.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Probably it was the whole good mid one. It was
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: like she just sat in front of the TV all
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: day long, and it was like the Today Show, than this,
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: then that, and then and then the five the five
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: PM News and then Oprah, and then the six pm
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: News and that everybody loves Raymond and the ten pm News,
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: and then I Love Lucy and all the sickond It
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: was just the TV was on NonStop talking up and
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: we could walk in front of the TV. You couldn't
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: do anything for the TV. So TV. She understood that,
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: So she would one hundred percent understand and she'd be
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: so happy.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: That makes my heart and soul sore. And we're all
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: so grateful that you decided to do it. So, speaking
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: of like the.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Dating and marrying of the doctor, are you dating anybody
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: right now?
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: I'm dating no one. How do we feel about that?
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: I'm okay with okay, Actually I'm great with it. The
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: only issue is I want to have a baby, and
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: unfortunately I need balls with sperm and stuff in it.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: So and I need, I need, and I don't. I'm
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: not at the point yet mentally where I I've seen
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: with my friends. I have a couple of friends or
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: single moms, and I see how hard it is, and
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: I know me and I know how I get about,
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Like when I had a dog and even going to
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: the vet, I wanted that person whoever I was dating
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: there with me to take care of the dog when
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I was upset. I'm not comparing dogs to babies, but I.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Think that's a totally fair.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: I want to partner. Everyone's like, yeah, but what if
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: you just, like, you know, what if you do really
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: really well with work or something, make a bunch of
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: moddy you can just have nannies and stuff. I'm like, no,
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: I think I want someone for once in my life.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: I want to be able to be like the week,
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: not the weak one, but I want to be like
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do it on my own. I've
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: done everything on my fucking own. And I just if
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a kid, which is going it's the
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: thing I'm going to take most seriously in life, Like
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a kid, and it's gonna have like
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: the best childhood. I'm gonna be the best mother. Everything
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: that I didn't get, I'm gonna give it to them,
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: and so I want it to be perfect. And in
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: my mind, in my old school mind, it's like, I
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: do want that person there. I want to be able
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: to lean on them. I want mommy and Daddy in
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: bed and I want them to like jump in bed
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: with us. It's made and maybe it's irrational or it's
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: not real realistic, and I won't get it. But I
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: think I'm still at the point where like, I'd rather
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: not have it than not have it the way that
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: I want it. You know.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: I have this conversation with my friend Katie all the time,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: and she craves having a family over having children. So
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: she said, if I don't have a partner, then I
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: don't need kids.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: I want a partner to create a family with that.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I'm like someone articulated like how I feel. I couldn't
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: put it. That's it. I want a family, not kid
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: not okay, the kids, yeah totally. And I yeah, okay,
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: that's it, that's what you want. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I obviously felt that way before I had Ocean, right,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: and now the universe and God worked in tandem to
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: put me in a different place then I expected myself
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: to be in. And now I just crave having children.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: But I also have the luxury of my mom picking
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: up her life and moving to LA to help me
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: with with my daughter. You know, so in a way
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I can't. I feel badly calling myself a single mom
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: or even trying to relate to actual single mothers because
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I have such a gang of support that I'm like
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: true like single parents, single mamas.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like those are superheroes. I can't even imagine you're.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: A superhero that you don't cut yourself. I mean, like you,
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: I that's amazing. The fact that you can even like
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: think of stuff like that is like speaks to your character.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: That's incredible to be able to say, like you are
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: technico legally or like objectively by the State of California's
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: single mother right right, So, but that's incredible for you
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: to say. I'm not gonna even claim that because I
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: know I'm so blessed because I have people around me
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: helping me, and I have community, and I have my
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: own mother and I have of course, it's incredible for
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: you to say that.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Well, I think it's important when you think, and I
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: think that's what my mom taught me, is like, when
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: you think you got a bad girl, there's people who
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: have it worse and they're picking up and moving on
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: and living life.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so figure it out.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: You can always find some mess, my grandma say, make
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: you can always find someone who's got it worse than you. Yeah,
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: And that's the Yeah, that's the truth.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: When you go out to like find a dude. Do
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: they have to be in a certain tax bracket? Do
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: they have to be rich?
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: They don't have to be much very much prefer it.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I've always been unapologetic about like this. It blows my mind. Okay,
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: I grew up poor, why would I want to be
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: I've you know, people say like, oh, you know you can't.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: Money can't buy your happiness, Yes you can.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: I fully disagree.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Every time people have said that, I'm like, I fully disagree.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Yes it can, mind you, it can't buy you certain things,
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: like it can't, but it can buy you, you know,
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: a vacations therapist, spot, you know, whatever, everything that you need, help,
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: nanny's whatever, to take the burden off. Like can it
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: literally just buy you straight up happiness like it's a
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: vending machine. Of course not, but nothing can. But I've
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: been I've been poor and I've been rich, and let
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: me tell you it's way better being rich. I think
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: it's like people just like we want someone wants to
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: keep someone people stupid and keep them down and keep
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: them small. No, so I don't have any And I'm realistic,
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Like I know how much children cost, I know how
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: much when I had my dog, how much of that
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: costs and how much children cost in private school tuition? Again,
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: the way that I want to dance lessons gymnastically. That
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: shit costs money, all the shit I and I know
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: how much because I didn't get to do any of it,
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: you know. So when I was told the reasons why
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: and the exact money costs, and I sat there and
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: I did my little math and I did so I
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: know exactly how much everything costs. So I again, I
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: want the family. So I've always been very unapologetic about
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: I'm looking for. Obviously, if someone's amazing and great, that yeah,
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. But I I a lot of the
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: times call me crazy. But money is associated with ambition.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: And if you're trust fund kid, that's different. But you know,
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: in order to make money, keep money, grow money. To me,
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: that shows a proof of concept like intelligence and ambition
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: and drive. And it's like that little Kim song, like
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: ambition makes me so horny. I love ambitious men like
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: I love like powerful, strong, smart, ambitious men.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: They're hard to they're hard to come by.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: They're hard to come by in LA and that's one
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: of the reasons why I moved.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Really tell me.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: I lived in LA and I went bounced back and
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: forth after college between LA and New York for jobs
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: and pre COVID. Six months before I was living on
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: Beverly Hills and I was engaged to Gideon. Then I
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: moved to my own place and uh in Beverly Hills,
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: and then I moved to Venice, and after two hours
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: in Venice, I was like, I have so many hundreds
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: of friends, but I feel lonely because I like can
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: be a lonely place. If you don't have, like you're
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: driving in your car a lot, you don't. It takes
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: like three months to make plans with friends. And if
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: it rains, everybody cancels. If there's a vallet, everybody cancel
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: totally idle friend lived like you can't. It was the
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: first question, yea, yeah, but yeah, I was like, I
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: don't have a lot. I didn't. I have so many friends,
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: but I went to see them and then and then
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: I would just go on these dates. And then I
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: even turned into the person I didn't like. I beat,
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: I turned into a flake like everyone. It's it is
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: very I will say this, it is very different dating
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: in New York, and it is better. LA is We're
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: a lot of flakes here and everyone's like writing or
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: doing something or finding themselves. You can date someone for
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: several months and you know, like I met a guy's
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: parents when I was practically living on his place, and
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: then I was like, yeah, well you know it's my boyfriend.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: He's like whoa. I was like, were you fucking king?
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Like your mom just texted me this morning?
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Like what you know? And then I did the same
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: thing to someone and I was like, whoa. Now I'm
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: turning into the thing that I hate because it's so easier,
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: and everyone's hot and everyone has like a cool car.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: It's just yeah. But in New York, everyone's dating with
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: more of a purpose, where there's kind of like the
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: expectation of this is how it goes, or if we
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: move in together, there's an expectation every there's more accountability there.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: It's a totally different dating scene. I much prefer New York.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Wait, do I need to like pack up my life
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: and move?
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you it's like, so I say New York
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: in La. New York is like the chick you marry.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: She's like ride or die. She's it's amazing, And LA's
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: your side chick. It's like, you.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: Don't want to be a side chick.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: But it's like it's more like it's more temporary, it's
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: more fun. It's more like you look better here. It's like,
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: you know, it's exciting, it's whatever. But LA is more
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: like people. It's just a different mentality. Settle down. You
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: really want to find a man. You go to London,
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: it's like fucking fishing in a stack pond over there.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: Ratio of dudes to women. I don't see women there.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: You don't see them. We're like thirties in London, like.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Hacking up, and they have accents.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: They're super chill. They almost all English dudes and like
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: UK dudes. They kind of I have like black dudes
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: or they're just like real cool.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: Done yeah yeah, I say, yeah yeah.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: They're always like kids who they're like, girl, you crazy,
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like that's kind of UK's
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: but they're like, uh, you crazy, that's a bad action.
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: But they're chill as fuck. Like they're chill. They're like
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: they think they just drink pints and like they're cool
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: and they're pretty hot. The accent's cute and they're all
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: like real jobs and they were suit.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: That's super hot. Yea, Where did you meet Gideon?
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: Gideon? I met in New York, Okay, and he lives there. Yeah,
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: he uh, he did live there when we met, and
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: then he moved to LA and then I moved to
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: LA with him, but then we broke up. I lived
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: in Venice and then I've moved back to New York since,
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: but he lives in LA.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Now see, I feel like for you, I'm.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: Going to set you up with Gideon.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, would be really bad. I think I
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: would be a little too much forgeting.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: No, no, if Gideon. If Gideon was good for me,
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: Gideon would be perfect for you then because we're all
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: kind of the same, you.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Know, but you're like pulled together and like sexy and
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: fun but like use big words and like pre med
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: student and I'm like, listen, I went to Slick Sully
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Community College. Most of the time, I'm just in a hoodie.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Now, you know, he's good with you have to I've
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: learned he's very good with his mother, whom my door.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: You have to find a guy that's good with their mother.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: That's one of the first questions I asked on dates too.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: What's your relationship, like with your mother. Obviously there's situations
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: like me, like I would hope no one would hold
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: my biological mother situation against me. But for the most
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: where you can tell with a guy if he's like, yeah,
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: I like her, like she drives me nuts, but I
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: love her and I always answer her phone calls. I'm like,
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: if he's good with his mom.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need him to say, I don't fuck with
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: my mom at all because there can't be two moms
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: involved because I got my own main bitch, my own.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna need you to not fuck with your
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: mom that much because my mom's gonna be like living
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: with one.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Do you think that?
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: Do you think you can maybe ever find someone who
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: had that? Would you be open if they're like if
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: their mom was cool, what if you could have like
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: two And what if your mom that could have like
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: a grandma? No one.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: By the way, if I find a dude who loves
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: his mama and our moms love each other and we
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: can punt them into like the poolhouse or something, they
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: can live together and then we can have like the big.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: House, yeah, oh I love it.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah you're yeah, because my whole thing is I want
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: to have like a compound, and I want Easton and
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: like the gays to move in. And then my dude
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: who has a cool mom and like maybe his family
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: want to move in, Like come one, come all, let's
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: just like create a pot of orcas.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and just thrive. I have a couple of crazy
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: wealthy girlfriends in New York and they're like, should we
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: just like buy Hampton's compound and we all live there
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: together and we have babies together and raise them together.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: Because I We're reading.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: This group of women and where do I find And.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you come hang out with us, but there,
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: and like they're like kind of honestly thinking about it.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: Like one of them is like, well, my parents will
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: just like give us one of their houses. And then
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: we're like, should we all as women? Just could you
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: imagine five women and we all raise our kids together? Little?
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: It would be It's my dream, it would be.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: It would be nice because whenever we're together with the kids,
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: we all naturally like you know, like oh, like the
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: kids crest and then I pick them up and I
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: feed him and then we passed it. It just happens organically.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: That's like biological too.
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: That used to be that used to be how it
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: was way of course, way way way when they were
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: like nomads, but it was tribal.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: All the women women took care of each other's baby.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they like breastfed other people.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: They have babies at the same time. I know that
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: even though if you haven't breastfed, if there is an
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: infant in here and you put it on the floor, okay,
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: and it's crying and it just laid there. Even though I,
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: for example, I have never breastfed before, within eight to nine hours,
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: I'll start lactating. Stop because the baby gives off a
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: ferm when it's in distress. And if your body can
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: do it, it will start doing it. We're animals. It's incredible.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: That's beautiful. So yeah, yeah, yes, wow maybe, but who's
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: tested this though? I read it like you tested that, like,
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: let's put your baby in the middle of the floors
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: and cries and to see if my nipples but you know,
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: comes out of them, like well, but I believe it.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: No, I believe it too.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: And also because I did, I had the luxury of
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: breastfeeding as well.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: I've had a lot of luxuries in life.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: I love that you reckon you see these things that
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: most people say, oh, I'm got a breastfed ahead, and
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: you're like, no, you had the luxury. You're very grateful.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: That's a good thing.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: Thank you. B Sobriety brought that to me. Nice, No,
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: but like it was.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: That's that's a thing where people will ask you, like
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: throwback women, like a different generation of like are you
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: gonna breastfeed?
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: And us because we're woke.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: It's like, well, I hope yeah, because you don't just
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: it doesn't just happen for every mama.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: So obviously for me, when you guys stepped onto the scene, right,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take a roney turn.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I was a little nervous because I had watched the
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: OG's on my TV for so long, gone back to
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Peacock or Hulu when when Housewives was on Hulu and
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: watched the most throwback episodes. So like the og cast
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: was in I think everyone's mind. I'll just speak for
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: myself right now, and I was like a whole new cast.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know about this.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: In fact, I actively told myself I can't cheat on
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: my OG's. Yeah, and then obviously I caved.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, damn.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I didn't even have to wait and it was like
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: it's on tonight, I'm watching and immediately fell in love
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: with actually all of you guys. There wasn't one person
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: who I was like, this feels forced. There were so
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: many natural like if for me, it felt like you
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: guys had been on camera for one hundred years. Really, yes,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: how did it feel for you? It was awkward, it
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: was weird.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: I mean I got it. So it came to me
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: so haphazardly. I just had wrapped up at a tech
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: company here in Culver City. Actually it was coming back
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: and forth in New York. I was like, Okay, I'm
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: in a position where I can take a year off
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: from work for the first time in my life, and
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna like travel and chill. The economy was
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: about to tank, so it's like, okay, I'll start looking
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: in spring for a new job. And then and I
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: was in I was in south of France and I
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: get this DM from a casting company and it's like
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: they're like, hey, we're at the real House ives in
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: New York. We like talk to you. And I thought
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: it was like a scam, you know, like a crypto
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: scamra one of those things. They're like, Okay, sure you
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: either like went to my spam because I was on private.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: I had like three thousand followers or something, and I
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: was like what is this? And then there was a
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: couple more messages and then my friend Savannah she messaged me.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: She's like dumbass. She's from the Delta, but she lives
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: in New York. She's hilarious. She's like, dumb ass. They're
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: trying to contact you for the housewhile and I was
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: like what, Like, I'm not you know, I'm not some
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: like rich Missus Bloomberg or something, you know that's like bored,
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Like what do they want with me? So I did
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: a few interviews all mine zooms. I did three. Now
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: I was like two two or three?
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: No?
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: Three zooms?
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Did you have to dress up in a gown in
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: one of them?
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: No? No, no, But they did say like, oh, can
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: you just like set up the camera so we can
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: like kind of see some of your apartment. But I've
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: obviously watched, so it's like, oh, I got this and
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: I have like at the corner. So I put the
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: thing and like I'm in marketing, I was like, I'll
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: just make it look this will be funny. But each
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: time I didn't think I did it because I was like, oh,
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: this is gonna be very funny to tell people, like, oh,
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: do you know that I interviewed my housewives, like here's
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: how it went down, you know. And I thought that
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: i'd meet Andy, but I didn't even interview with Andy.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: Everyone else had to. I didn't really. I didn't even
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: go into thirty rock. It was all the I give
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: good zoom?
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Do you That's rare?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: How many people do the moment I see zoom, I'm like,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: you got to get me in the room.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: I do my best work in the room.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: Well, I just got drunk before twe I was like
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: this is when I got And each time I get
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: on the zoo, I'm like I'm drunk and they're like
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: they're like good. And I remember at one point too,
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: they were asking me, so, what do guys like dating?
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: And they're like, what do you guys like? Tell you?
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: Is there any sort of like theme you always seem?
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know. This summer, every guy
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: that I meet is always like, you know, you remind
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: me a lot of Alexis from Shit's Creek because my
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: stories always like, well, one time I was on a
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: boat with Leo and then we were like smoking cigarettes
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: and me I was pretty, you know, like I have
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: the most random like and I got kidnapped with the
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: North Korean Army, like I have like random. I had
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: the crazy shit that's happening. People think I'm always fucking
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: lying in punishment. I'm like, no, I did. I loute
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: my stories to make them knock sound so crazy and fancy.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: But there a lot of men were telling me that
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: I remind them of Lexus and so they laugh. And
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: then I was like, and I love the song a
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: little bit of Lexis. And then I just I know
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: the routine. I'm a Lamborghini. Yeah, I start doing the routine.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: In my zoom interview for Housewives, I was like, I'm
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: a Lamborghini on a YouTube jet. I'm single even though
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: I'm not. I was like a little bit la la la,
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: la la la, a little bit of Alexis. I did
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: the whole thing, and literally they are just like, can
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: you start tomorrow and I'll say that they call me
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: the next day that but I was like, yeah, sure,
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: and then I just I thought it for and when
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: I got it, I was like, okay, but I still
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: can't do this. This is crazy, And then you read
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: the contract, you know, and you're like, because technically you do.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: It's like a typical video. It's like if someone has
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: to sign a video release form anywhere, if you're filming
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: Marvelous Missus Maisl's just it reads intense, even though it's
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: actually turns out that it's not. I'm sitting at the contract,
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: I'm like, am I really gonna do this? Am I
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: going to do this? And I was like, fuck it,
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Like who cares? And if it blows up my face?
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Because I love the Old Women too, not old but
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: like the original the Ogs one through four I own
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: on my TV. I still rewatch it all the time.
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: I think it's fucking hilarious. And I just thought, but
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: you know what I kept thinking. I was like, I've
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: worked in this industry for a long time. NBC the
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: only you know what, and this still like gives me hope, NBC.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: When you have a company like NBC Universal or Bravo,
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: they're so big, they're not going to fuck up, you
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. And that's how I've always felt.
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: With working with my large CPGs like John's, Johnson and Uniliver,
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: you always have the backing of like is this good?
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Is gonna work? Like they kind of they kind of
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: can't fuck up. I'm sure they all have.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: And what they touch turns to gold. Yeah, it's just they.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Have an eye for it and something that like I
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: don't have that gift. I don't have the gift of
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: being like this is going to translate perfect on TV.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: And then putting people together, did they ask you like
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: do you have any friends or did they have like
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: the lineup of chicks that they were meeting.
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: I knew I knew jessel Uh and I knew Side
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: from working with her, and I knew Uba from seeing
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: her a few times. But I knew of Jenna, I
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: didn't know Aaron and so no, it's just like when
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: they were when they were putting together. It's crazy as
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: we start, as we're filming and you get so close
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: because you're filming every day, and I mean ninety percent
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: of the stuff that we filmed they don't show. But
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: we realized there's so many times, even to this day,
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: we sit back when we're all in a good mood
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: and not fighting with each other or like they're fucking
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: geniuses because like all the things like how we each
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: had lost our mom. Like when we start filming, I
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: had just lost Mimi, but I was like deep in grief.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: It was like eighteen months, so I had lost her
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: mom that summer. Jenna had lost her mom like what
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: three or six weeks before, three weeks before I started filming. Uba,
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: also very close to her mother, had lost her mother
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: twelve years prior. Aaron's relationship with her mother and then
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Jessel's mother relationship there that's lovely. So it's like we're
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: all have these maternal mom stories and bonds, but there's
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: like thirty things like that that we all share, so
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: like how they but it all came out like slowly,
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: and it's just they're they're they're literally like geniuses.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: They're geniuses.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they're geniuses.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And watching you guys, it feels like such an
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: organic fit. And I actually really enjoy for the most part,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: when women on the show get together. I'm like, bitches stop,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: start like ripping each other's heads off, Like, yeah, ready
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: for that to happen now.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: You guys.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I actually like when you have those bonding moments. I
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: was living for Uba and I know you guys just
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: filmed the reunion. Yeah, so I don't want to get
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: you in trouble. I certainly get in trouble every other day.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: By Bravos, I'm gonna watch for my mouth as well.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: How did that get it?
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: I like it in trouble. Then I just tell them
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, but I like getting spanked, and they're like, oh, friend,
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: you know I'm that.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, well, we can tell you've been
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: around bread and works for.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: That bitch, and then they laughed. Then they forget that
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: they're supposed to yell at me. But your question was,
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: what about did you?
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Was the reunion? Was it intense?
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: I went in there thinking, honestly, leading up to it,
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: I was so nervous and I was like I felt
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: like I was going to like a funeral, like a
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: family funeral, like half the family didn't like each other
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: or something. I was really really nervous going into it,
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: like physically kind of sick and like I had anxiety
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: the days leading up to it, and again I had
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: this like what the fuck am I doing? Why am
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: I'm a grown ass woman? Why am I signing up
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: to go sit in a fucking dress and in a
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: studio and talk about I was like, this is like,
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: I'm a sane person. This is dumb. So going into it,
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: look I had I was sober the whole time. The
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: entire time. I was like, who can I a lease
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: have a drinks, have some mushrooms. I was like begging mushrooms. Yeah,
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: I do Handy. I was like, can you just microdose me?
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: He's like I can't. I can't do that. And I
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: was like, it's like a little bit, you know, just
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: a little bit. You don't tell me we're at work.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: But they But it was for me, it was easy.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: I enjoyed it at the end of it. Two. I
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: start every time that after we're done filming, especially on
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: the trips, and the crew would laugh like I would
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: do this thing where I rip off my mic and
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: I just start going fu fuck Cockball's dick Dick and
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: I run around like Kevin from Home alone and I'm like, ah,
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you can't get me now, you can't give
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: me now, fuck Cockball. Like my MIC's off. For some
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: recent they take the mic off. I like, it's like
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: an adrenaline rush. No, because I am kind of in
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: the back of my mind, I'm aware of it. But
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: but no. But I had a great time, and I
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: was like, was that it? That was it?
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Did everyone else go to no?
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: No? A couple of people exited the gift through the
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: gift shop immediately, and then there was like shit going
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: down on the group text. Oh you got a group
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: text going, we have a group text. I think people
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: would prefer if we didn't have a group text. And
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: the group text has been the past couple of weeks,
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: there's been some people have been like fun like, and
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: it's the group text has never been bad. It's always
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: it's been like we actually were we band together, we
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: share pictures, we first share funny shit. But the group
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: text in the past two weeks has been like fuck you,
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: you're a fucking bitch.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: Like because you guys have seen the whole season.
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: Now we've seen the whole season and many weeks, so
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: we have left I think three more three oh no, sorry,
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: three more of the regular season. This is episode eleven.
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: There's fourteen episodes. We have three three more regular episodes
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: and then two reunions.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I cannot wait.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: It's crazy, it's crazy. But yeah, it's been more. Look,
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: we all cried, we all cried a lot, we did yell.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: But again, I was pretty like I I got a
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: lot of apologies. Really yeah, people being like we over.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: I think now people and they know me and they
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: know that actually I'm I'm harmless and I'm silly. Like
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: they've now everyone enjoys me and loves me for exactly
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: what I am and they get me now. But I
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: think during last year they didn't. They were like who
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: is Like what is this bitch doing? And not understanding
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: that that comes out of my mouth. I'm is just
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: a joke. I speaking innuendos like a Vanity Farritis she
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: apparently speaks. She only seems to speaking innuendos like I
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: speaking innuendos or you know, I just metaphors and analogies
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: and like and I think so me, I just had
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: a I had a good old time at a lot
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: of time with Andy. I think I asked a couple
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: of times if I if I could like smack him
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: around a bit, and maybe it was just gie. Yeah,
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: I just had fun. But I think a couple of
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: the gals, yeah, they definitely, they definitely didn't. So it
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: was tough for some people.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Uba hitting one hundred in Anguilla.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: What did you think about it?
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: Well, I'd be pissed if someone took my phone because
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: I get super annoyed by things like that.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the fact that Aaron, my natural reaction is not
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: to get physical, right, That's I.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: Was raised too.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I was raised to use your words, your words, use
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: your words. I can cut deep as a knife.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: Me too. Same. Yeah.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: However, if someone's snatched something off of my face, I
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: think I would see red and I'd start swinging. Yeah,
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: so I respected Aaron in that regard. But Aarin and
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I like her, I like all of you guys actually,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: but watching this, it was like.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: She's it's like, don't start none, there roll be none.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: Right, Like, you keep talking shit about everybody behind their back.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Then you're like twisting things around and then you're crying
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: in the corner. No, you're a grown ass woman. You
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: fucked around. Everyone's now spoken. You're a common denominator. So
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it and you don't get to
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: cry about it.
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: And you fuck around and you find out. I feel
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: like with that too. Look do I feel I keep
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: iways tell her and like leave the jokes to me,
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: like I'm the prank storm and the jokes Like I
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: just think that honestly, I'm still to this day and
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: it's funny and just says this morning, I was on
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: the phone with Uba. We're going still back and forth
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: about this because she's every episode that comes out, it's
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: like she rewatches that, she relives it and she gets
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: all worked up all over again. So there was a
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: lot of text again to like, you know, when the
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: texta so long, it goes to notes. That's what it was. Like,
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: that crazy, that's when yeah, that's like essay, yeah, and
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: that's how it went today too, and like and it's
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: just how I feel about that. Okay. So I feel
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: like I think it was a dumb ass joke and
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: I think it like wasn't funny, which to me that's
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: the most insulting thing because I like humor. I'm like,
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: that's just that's not funny.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: What was the joke.
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: The joke is I'm gonna steal your phone as a prank.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: That's not a prank. A prank is like I like
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: bought a goat and tied it upside my friend's house
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: in the Hampton's. That's a rank because you can't get
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: rid of a goat in the Hampton and it's really
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: hard and you're like, yeah, the animal controls, like why
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: is there a goat here? You know, and you're like,
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: how did you get behind your gates? You know? And
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: then they get in trouble. So that's a funny, that's
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: a problem. Taking somebody's phone is not like a prank.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: And then it's just annoying. Yeah, it's annoying. I think
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: if she had done it to me, I'd be like, dude,
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: you're fucking lame, Like, don't fuck do that. I'd be
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: irritated with her. I don't think I would go again this,
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: so that I was like with Aaron then and I
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: and I experienced this, so this is literally I'm going
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: First I was like, okay, Aaron, you're being fucking dub
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: and I sided with Uba and then you know, and
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: then but then when Uber grabbed the glasses, that's when
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: I started to get like, because again I was raised,
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: you don't get physical. And then personally too, we're all
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: like New Yorker, so it's like that's called personal property, Like, oh,
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna call my lawyer. Then we can figure
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: it out that way. Like we're very yeah, like that's
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: technically like we get all legal andy, like legal ease
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: and whatever.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: I would thrive in New York. Yeah, oh I got.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: You would, yeah you would, yeah, everything. Yes, So I
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: didn't like that. But then yeah, then Aaron gets really
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: upset and it's kind of like okay, but then it's
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: just it just went back and forth. Then that to
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: experience that, you guys, it was like ten fucking hours
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: of them fighting.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like enough already, Yeah, no bullshit, Like
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: are we still talking about this?
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: Yesh? And like I keep, I keep, and I just
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: kept drinking all day, like because I'm bored, and it's
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: like there's like nineteen forty two sitting there. I'm like,
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: I'm on vacation people, you know. So I they just
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: kept going and going and they're just going in circles
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: and like they do love each other, but I just
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: I don't know. So at their union, Uba did face
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: like clarify a couple of things because Aaron kept saying
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: it was forty five minutes. She did have her phone
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: for like three or four hours.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it seemed long.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: It was a long time. So with the with the
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: single girl thing, I do relate to Uba in that
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: because it's like but at the same time, like, but Uba,
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: we're with the crews incredible. We had security, like security
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: guards of the thing. We have butlers, we have drivers,
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: like if you lose your phone or your diaphragm, like
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: one of the showrunners will go and get you a
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: new run. Like they protect us like little passenger princesses.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Total.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: You know. So I didn't like feel safe, like I
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: actually like felt the most safe in that environment. So
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know about that whole theory of like well
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: single And I've told her a lot of times, like
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: it's called like find my iPhone or like share your
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: location with your family, like like there's technical like there's
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: technology like so lusions where you don't have to literally
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: text your family or send a carrier pigeon to let
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: them know where you are, right, you know. Like, but
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: I think it's she likes to check into the family.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: She's a very Uba is. I don't like seeing Uba
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: get like that because that's not Uba Uba out of
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: all of us, is she she can get. She's actually
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: like the sweetest, but when she gets that mad, you
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: she's the I think she gets the most intense housewife
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: probably the franchise, and I've watched all of them. I relate. Yeah,
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: she she goes there, she gets to that point and
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: I think for her, she can't hear you, see you,
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: And people think, oh, it's because of and she's admitted
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: and she said it on the show too, like it's
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: not because of her religion. She doesn't drink. It's because
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: she's like she knows herself. She can't.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you about that, does she not?
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Is she like that off camera as well, where she
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: doesn't drink.
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: She doesn't drink. No, she doesn't drink. Wow. Yeah, And
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: it's and she has like uba when you have you
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: met her in person? No, she is the most. She
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: walks and she's she's an energy field. She's like, oh,
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: she's a force. She's larger than life in more ways
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: than one. Yeah, she's just one of those people. Like
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: she walks in the room. I've been in the same
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: room with someone like Cindy Crawford's You're just like, oh
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: my god, there's like a beam coming from them or
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: they're on Like she's like a she's like not an avatar,
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: she's like a she's like a like it's alien or something, right,
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: And like she just emits like she knows everyone. You
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: can't go around New York and ask one person. I say,
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: everyone knows Zuba. Everyone loves Uba, really, oh my god,
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: more than meat, more than anyone, more than Jenna anyone.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: Everyone knows Uba. She she gets into any private members club.
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: She's she.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: She she's a freaking I love watching her. She's funny
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: as ship. Yeah, she's also so incredible to look at.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah in person, the girls. I keep telling her, I
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: love the Uba. Ha It's it is delicious. It's like
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: a dip more though, I think than like a condiment.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: Oh I love a dip.
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I eat it. I'm like put it in a thing.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: I eat it like hummus with chips. That's how you
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: should eat. It's like a little so I'll have her
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: on your butt. She a hundred people. I love freaking stock.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: It's delicious, but I'm like, that's great. I love the
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: hot sauce. Can you make skincare her skin? She's fucking
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: photoshopped in real life, like she her skin is just
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: black mood like, she's stupidly beautiful in person, and then
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: she has this larger than life personality, like when she
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: enters the room, she's the most beautiful, captive, beautiful physically spiritual,
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: captivating person. She's just one of those types, like they
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: don't make them like that. Yeah, she's got this thing
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: about her. It's like, holy fuck. So but the only
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: issue is and then she knows this is that like
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: when she gets activated, it's like you.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: Can't, you can't talk to me.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah. We were with the producers because you know, she
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: was so quiet all season two and a couple of
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: times sometimes the cameras would go and then she'd get
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: a little fiery like that, and I was like, where's
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: this Uba And she's like, oh, I don't know. You know,
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: I don't want to get to like that. So when
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: we came back from Anguilla and we're standing at the
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: carousel to all get our luggage, and I see one
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: of our producers is like not standing by us. She's
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: so over us. She's fucking done with us. I have
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: a picture of her and she's like standing just staring
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: at the as the bed care. I'm like, I'm like, yo,
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: your luggage and she's like huh. And I go up
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: to here, I go, what's wrong? You turned your Uba
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: doll on that. You can't shut her off, can you?
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: And she looked at me. She was like yeah, because
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: we all were like, come on, where's opa at? Like
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: where's opa at you? Because we know she's she's a
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: little bit more vivacious, but that was like it's rare
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: for her, and I know she doesn't love that about herself.
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: And that's what I talked her about her today because
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: she's like she has so many people and her family friends,
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: even my niece has met her at the premiere and
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: they're obsessed with her. She gave them her phone number.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: She texts with my nieces. Yeah, she's that person, Like
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: she's like you can't make that shit up, you know,
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: like she's one of them.
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: She seems that way.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and like she's so thought and so kind and
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: so therefore she can get like that. She's usually good
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: about it and she's I wouldn't say she's embarrassed, but
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: she's she's upset that that happened, you know. I But
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: it's human. I'm always worrying on Like dude, it's human.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Like absolutely, Actually, I.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: Think it's more relatable because who the fuck is like
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: unless you're the Dalai Lama who's like happy and nice
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: and whatever every day.
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: I related to it, Like I go from like I'm chill,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: let's have the best time. The second someone does something
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: to like that doesn't sit right. Yeah, you cannot talk
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: to me and your tornado.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Through you k new bars that you and exactly like
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: in that regards.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: And then once I rip your head off, I'm like,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: didn't that feel so good? And they're like, yeah, You've
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: said the meanest things anyone's ever said to me, And
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: I know, but I feel so great.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I like you, yeah yeah, And it's a mind.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Fuck for people.
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: UBA's digs won't be so deep because I've seen your
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: digs and I can go where you go where. I'm like,
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: I didn't even know that I was studying. I knew that, yeah,
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: but I like, all of a sudden, I talk to
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: you for five minutes, I undiscovered you childhood fear and
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna rub it in your I'm gonna smash your
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: face in it. Like I get I'm because I had
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: to protect myself with my words as a kid, so
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: like I grew up doing that. UBA's not like that.
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: She doesn't go her thing is she's she's she's tyson
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: or whatever. She goes round, she goes twenty round. That's
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: a long ass match and she can go round after
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: round after round.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: I tuck her myself out.
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, me too. After a while, I'm like, I
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: don't care. I'm just like, fuck it, I don't care.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: But she she'll just keep keep going. She's the energizer.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: But you can't. Yeah, that's wild. Yeah, it's really really
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: wild to see you.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: I love cy you Uba and I Jussel, which Jessel
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: I was kind of like, Yeah, I was kind of
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: going back and forth at the very beginning and I
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: don't sleep on said.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: Since day one when we started filming, and I've said this.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: I called her. I remember there's this long bully story
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: center from London as at sew House and I was
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: like working and I was like I had this genius
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: marketing idea for her and stuff, and I keep telling her,
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you are the star of the show. It
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: is the justl show. Jessel's the funniest person on the show.
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Justsel in real life is out. She's out of her
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: fucking mind. She doesn't even know she's on it. I mean, no,
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: my thing would I say. I'm like, she doesn't know
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: she's on a TV show, Like I think she doesn't
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: know she's like, hey guys, it's just like let's do lunch. Ah,
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: my god, he're in the net. Oh my god, she's
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: coming here.
• 53:36
  Speaker 5: And my god, Laala, I love your podcast, your podcast,
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: give them Lala and she will have like never listened
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: to your podcast, but she went on your Instagram for
• 53:45
  Speaker 5: like five seconds thinks you're fab and it's like, oh
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: my god, you know say and so I love that,
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: you know.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: And she love her. She's so like come on. She
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: was like, Undie, like did you hear what she did
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: this past week with Watch your Habin's Life?
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: No, but you took her with you, right, No, she was.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: This bitch watcher Happened Live asked her to be on Wednesday. Okay, okay,
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: She's like no, She's like, no, I can't. I can't, Kyle,
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: I have to do blah blah blah. You know, she
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: has some she can't do it. So then they asked
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: me and I was like, oh, fine, sure whatever, I'll
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: do it. So I do it. And I was supposed
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: to be on with some comedian and then they text
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: me two days before and they're like Heybrin, and I'm like,
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: what are you guys doing? They're like actually, we're gonna
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: have Tyler Cameron Babeler who is that? Yeah he was
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: on the Bachelor. Oh and single? Yeah he's single. Yeah.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: So these fuckers, the Bravo gods are trying to stupe
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: it over here. So I was like, and I was like,
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: you fucking devil's I know exactly what you're doing, right.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: So they're like, okay, we're gonna have you on. So
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: I I didn't even know. I didn't tell the girls.
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: I'm just like going about my day and Jessel I
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: have this slot to text from Jessa. Oh my god,
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you hear who you're with? I
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: can't believe it. Literally, I'm not gonna be able to sleep.
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna throw up right now. My stomach's
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: doing some resaults. And she's having conversation with herself and
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: she's like wait, and then it's like, I see the dots.
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: Should I come? I think I should come? Should I
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: just say? And I'm gonna come? Do you think they're yeah?
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: I mean fuck it, I'm gonna come. What are you wearing?
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: Call me later like this? And I'm just like, what
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: just happened? So this bitch tells them she can't come, fine,
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: makes me take her spot, finds out it's gonna be
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: this hot dude, and then she shows up. She's never
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: on time for shit, and Jessel shows up like thirty minutes.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: They oh, hi, y high, and she's like I was Tyla,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: like you know, and then she was like, oh, I'm
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: Jessel like and she's and then I'm staying it and
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: Andy walk and Andy and are standing there. I'm like,
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: what's what? He's like, what's wrong? I'm like, what's wrong
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: with her? He's like, I don't know, I don't know.
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: Where's like really, Jessel, she does cat She's like Undie
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: but like, you know, I just had to like what
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: he's like, No, Jessel, you were supposed to be here.
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: You told us you couldn't do it. She's like, I know, Undie,
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: but like I just huffed it.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: And the action and the texture of her voice just
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: makes everything okay, Yes, yes, it's fat talk.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: She is so wild how she like goes around everywhere,
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: loves to do dinners and lunches, like she lives in
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: this version of New York that I don't know if
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: it even exists anymore, but like you know, of like
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: the who's who and the lunch and the things, and
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: like she's just like the no podcast, like you know,
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: like it's just love.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: She like keeps notes about whatever when I die. She's funny.
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: She's deleted them, but like she wait, you're telling me
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: shouldn't bring them out for reunion time.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: That's why I thought she was keeping receipts. I wonder
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: if she did that before she started filming.
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: A she she told us that she told us at
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: first of the note list, which they didn't all. But
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: the note list was absurd. It was hilarious. It was detailed.
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: And I worked at Corporate America, And I'm like, did
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: you have a boss that touched you or something? Because
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: you're really like documenting everything like the day, the time,
• 56:37
  Speaker 3: exactly what you do and how it made you feel
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: and did it done all the detail? But Jessa claimed
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: it was because so she She's like, well, I just
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: want to make sure I like I'm good in my
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: confessionals and I have that information. I'm like, bullshit, Like
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: you don't need that, Like you don't need that, you
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: fucking bitch that. Like it was like she was writing
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: it was like a dear diary situation. It's like we're
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: like a eleven year old writing like yeah, yeah, it.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: Wasn't she gives me that vibe.
• 57:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it was in details, Like it wasn't like
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: cliff notes to jog your memory for the meeting of
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: like oh I need to hit on the three points
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: or I need to remember these things or anything analytical.
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: And I was like scribbles and angry stuff and like
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: it was just it was so but she's so. But
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: that's just a though. She's so, she's so funny.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: It's crazy to me that people, because now you've told
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: me that she had very detailed notes. It's crazy that
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Uba writes so much that it goes in I'm telling
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: you more than like a couple of sentences.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: Don't send it. I'm not reading it. Don't send me
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: a voice note that's more than fifteen seconds.
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: My phone's always on notifications. I don't like phones. I
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: think the like tracking devices notifications are is off for me.
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: I can't stand like hit enter and just send me
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: a block. Don't do ding ding ding.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: I just don't get my biggest like text.
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: Messages were created for if you're in a fucking movie
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: theater or a meeting. Why are we like Charles call.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: Me on the phone so you can get it done
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: and then hang up and call it a day, and
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: a voice.
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: Like I don't my voicemail box has been closed for
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: like forever. I always laugh though, too, Like you know.
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: Then that's how people always know if I like them.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: If they're like, oh, Brin has a respun my text
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: about I'm like, but I respond if you tell me
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: something funny, I respond, yeah, you tell me like, oh
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: my god, I'm leaving this dude's house, I'm like, drop everything,
• 58:15
  Speaker 3: and I'm like just waiting, you know, and you can
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: send me paragraphs. But if it's not, if it's like, hey,
• 58:20
  Speaker 3: what are we doing next? And then they correct spell,
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: they because they said what are you doing? Three times
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: they misspelled it and they can keep I'm like, what's wrong?
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: No, That's why when we were texting, because I know
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: how annoying it is. First of all, I know it's
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: annoying texting in general, but then texting someone to do
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: their podcast is even more fucking annoying.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: Because you guys are married.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: No, you're so fun. But that's why I was like,
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: just lock it down, Cber. In a text, It's just like,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: here we are. This is the time.
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: I put it all in one too, because that's why
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: separated by paragraphs, so it's not a whole lot.
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: If she has someone that wants to deal with it,
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: so she doesn't have to. Like great, So before we leave, yes,
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: I do an ache and relief of the week.
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: Oh do you want to take a beat to think
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: of yours? Or do you have your ache? In relief?
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: Relief? What's a relief?
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: The relief is like?
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: So for mine, let me look, My ache is that
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: I went to DC and I was with the Humane
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: Society International for the Humane Cosmetics Act, which was absolutely beautiful, fantastic.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: We made a lot of progress and I'm looking because
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: I'm very excited for publications to pick this up. Doesn't
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: need to have my name attached to it.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: I don't care.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: I just want the Humane Cosmetics Act to be plastered everywhere. Yeah,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: and it's not coming through. But this stupid thing that
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: I fucking said on Amazon Live about Raquel and Tom
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Sandoval was everywhere, and that for me was such an ache.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, this is annoying, and I don't know why.
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: For just one second, you can write about that stuff,
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: but let's also write about things that matter.
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: As well.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: Or it's also like if I give you a bunch
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: of stuff that people do, can you at least just
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 3: do me a like do me a family include something
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: that's relevant, Well, why don't you like mix it up?
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: Why don't you mix it up like do one ce?
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: So then they can't break it up like right exactly,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 3: like just insert it, put it into one thing. They
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: have to write about it to read it like one
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: of those ad libs things when you're a kid or something.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to start doing. I'm going to
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: spill tea and talk about things I care about all
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: in one.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: So that's amazing.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: They went to Capitol Hill.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: It was absolutely incredible. I was so nervous.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: I did a congressional briefing and I literally had a
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: script and when I got up there, I just like
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: threw it out the window.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: I was like, we're just gonna like.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: Speak from the heart here, and I go in that moment,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: I was because I was praying to God again obviously,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: and my dad being like, I need you to take
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: over because my mind in my mouth, I can tell
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: are not because I'm so nervous, And it was just
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: so like I got to enjoy that moment. So often
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: I do things and I'm like, because you were so
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: nervous and treating it like a to do list, you
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: now don't look back on that and go, what an
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: incredible experience.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: And I just kind of black out when you're doing
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: it because you're exactly and you're like, I did it?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 3: Did it go okay? Did I say something stupid or
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: something like that? I always pray and I say, God,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: it's that one that from course of course of miracles? God,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: what would you where would you have me go? What
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: would you have me do? What would you have me say?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: And to whom? And I just say that like three
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: times and then like and it literally then I'm able
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 3: to be present and then the stuff just comes out
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: of my mouth and I don't have to like, wow,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: I love you.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: Text that to me.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure? What do you want me? Are you sure?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: Let me text it to your voice? No?
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: No, I want you to have a screenshot. And then
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: my relief of the week.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to be cheesy, but is having
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: you here, Oh my god, I've been looking forward to this,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: so I'm so happy to have you. That's how our
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: age relief works.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: Does anyone else have one? Or if you want to wait,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 3: we usually just go through it quick. You have your age.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah, my ache is going to be I feel like
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 6: I'm saying the name right, but it's.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: Lolita.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 6: It's the dolphin, though I.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: Don't know the dolphin. Are you talking about Miami Cea
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: in Miami Dade County?
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 6: So there's a h It's dolphin lee e l i
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 6: apostrophy I Okay, And it's been in this aquarium.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: It's not even running right now.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 6: It's so Dade County. They are saying that they have
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 6: to either rebuild it or destroy it. It's not even
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 6: open for public. So this dolphin is just swimming in
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 6: a dirty aquarium.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 6: And it has been in there since nineteen eighty eight.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, nobody about that.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, so that is my ache of the week. So
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 6: let's all try to do.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: Something about that.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: We're going to do something about that. And then no, Britan,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: I mean even he wants to know if you'll move
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: into his two bedroom apartment. Yeah, he's a very ambitious
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: gift card. Let's run it up.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: I'm an olive garden girl, but I'll do it.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: Ryan.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: I guess.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: About the gift card. Maybe now that you shouted them
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: out on the podcast, they'll send you one garden somewhere.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, just what's yours. My relief is I love that
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: your hair brand. But my relief is that the writers
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 4: strike is over.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: Officially it was a tentative or do they do it? No,
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: it's over.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: At the w g A, the A MPT AMPTP came
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: to an agreement yesterday, so that's over.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: I'm so excited.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: I'm so thrilled about this.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited, so happy for the writers.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 3: That's the relief. And my ache is I went to
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: Ed Sheeran on Saturday. That's all my ache. Ed Sheeran
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 3: was incredible, so much swag. By the way, did you
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: guys know like he's swage? No, no, no, he's sweat.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: But people, I was on the floor throwing out elbows
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 4: like no one's business at an EDG.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: Sheeron concert. It was the most wild thing I've ever experienced.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 4: Beer bottles were being thrown like Ed Cheron Acoustic on
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 4: Ed Sheeron, and people were like you could.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: Not like if you did a little elbow and try
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: and get ahead of someone they would throw you back.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh wild, No, this was that so fine?
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: And this was on Saturday. This is on the floor.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah well this was like on the floor.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: No, that's like paid so fine, doesn't have ga It
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: was on the floor.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 4: It was like right in front of the stage, so
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 4: people were yeah, yeah, yeah, it was wild. I was
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: not expecting that. It was hilarious but wild. So anyway,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: that's my really.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: Okay, my relief will being here is now, Like, yes,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: I would agree, being here is a huge relief thing.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: Thank you, I mean seriously, thank you. I'm I am honored.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: My other relief would be taking my god daughter to school.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: I like, I've been doing the school drop offs, pick
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: up and drop off, and I really really enjoyed that.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: It's she's so cute and like all the I love
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: the little school and the kids in their uniforms and
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: they run. It's so sweet. I actually have my past
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: and I have to give it back, like my family past.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: Oh so cute. Do you wash her in? Like yeah,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: they let Well she's she's a little bit older, so
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 3: I don't get to go like all the way into
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: the classroom. But you know, but I'm like, it's like
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: all the other SUVs, and I get out and I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: wore these things to take up.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: I like this, you know.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: I like that.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, with like my braw showing in the back,
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: I'm like, hi, honey, mommy's here. And then I treat
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: her friend who's my best friend from college, my freshman
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: year college room. I'm so friends with her and I'm
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 3: the mother now of her goddaughter. But I always like
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: then I treat her like she's the nanny, you know,
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, can you take the bag?
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: That is hysterical and I FREAKHINGM love this.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: So that's my okay, So that's my you're relief, my relief.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: What's like putting a b in your bonnet?
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: My ache?
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: This week?
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: I really I regret that I didn't like, really shoot
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: my shot with Tyler. We hung out afterwards, but I
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: didn't like hard courstion shit. Because here's the thing. When
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 3: I actually think like I'm the biggest flirt in the
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: world and I can be like that, you know, one
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: actually might actually like when I start to get a
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 3: little quiet and I don't, oh yeah, I get very
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 3: like quiet, and I'm not like, hey, what's up, big dick.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm not when I actually like might like someone,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh hey, like hey, what's up? Like hey dude, Like,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: I'm like kind of turned into a tomboy. Yeah, and
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: I get a little shy. Yeah yeah, that's why didn't
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: you do drinks and dinner something that could be lucy
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: because light? Oh no, we did drink a lot. We
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: drink yea day.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: Drinking is so fun. But did you get his phone on?
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he asked me for my phone.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: Should cut your pants? You're good? You should do like
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: I said, you should have cut your pant pockets.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: Oh wish I'm should text that like, hey, yes he's
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: going to cut my pants pockets. He's gonna be like
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: he's in construction.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: So hot?
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, so.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: You send him a message. Where does he live?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: He lives in Florida?
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: He does?
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: He lives in Florida. Yeah, weird. He's place in New York.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: What a random place to live?
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, well now we now he knows week out.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: What's his name again?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: Tyler? Tyler?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Tyler is slide in.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: Cameron right, Tyler?
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: Cameron?
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: You know I keep the I don't. I always call
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: him Cameron I think his name is Tyler.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: I guess we'll find that.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: Look, I don't care what his name is.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 6: I don't think either.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: I had the best time with you.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: Thank you, thanks for coming.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening to another episode of the
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: Give Them All the Podcast.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: I hope you enjoyed. I know you did, and I
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: will catch you next week.