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Can You Tell if Someone is Lying? · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:03
  Speaker 1: This might be my last day on this show, Gabe,
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: I might quit.
• 0:10
  Speaker 2: Really yeah. I have a structured settlement, but I need cash.
• 0:18
  Speaker 2: No last day, Ham, would you come into some money?
• 0:25
  Speaker 3: Of course I did. I finally got my settlement check.
• 0:29
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing, here's.
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: This is this part real? Do you actually have a
• 0:33
  Speaker 2: settlement check? I do have a settlement check. Yeah, And
• 0:36
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna need to work here anymore.
• 0:38
  Speaker 3: That's what I mean. I love you, Gabe, but I
• 0:42
  Speaker 3: just got.
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: So much money, honey, that I don't need to work anymore.
• 0:45
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing I got.
• 0:46
  Speaker 2: I have that show I've always dreamed of.
• 0:49
  Speaker 3: What Gabe, Go ahead, say it.
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: Gabe and the nobody just kidding, I'm just kidding.
• 0:59
  Speaker 1: I've I filed a claim years ago because all of
• 1:03
  Speaker 1: my personal information showed up in an Equifax data breach.
• 1:09
  Speaker 2: Okay this sounds real now, yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And so I found this, I mean years ago, and.
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that anything was gonna come of it.
• 1:18
  Speaker 1: I just kept getting emails asking for more information, more information,
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  Speaker 1: and finally I got the email yesterday that my settlement
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: is being paid out to me. Then I had to
• 1:29
  Speaker 1: do more hoops. I had to fill out more paperwork.
• 1:33
  Speaker 1: I finally got my settlement.
• 1:35
  Speaker 2: Oh where are we going to lunch?
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: We're going to cases to split one piece of pizza.
• 1:41
  Speaker 1: Bro it was seven dollars and forty four cents.
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  Speaker 2: Oh it's you didn't even get a tenor it doesn't
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  Speaker 2: have two digits in it.
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  Speaker 3: No, I lied to you. I'm not quitting. If anything,
• 1:53
  Speaker 3: I need to pick up more.
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  Speaker 2: Hours your your data was worth less than eight bucks.
• 2:00
  Speaker 2: When you put it like that, it's kind of sad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that made me feel worse.
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  Speaker 1: You know. The wild thing, though, is I was not
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  Speaker 1: lying about having to jump through all these swoops and
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  Speaker 1: fill out all this paperwork.
• 2:12
  Speaker 3: I had to.
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  Speaker 1: Do all kinds of things just for them to give
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  Speaker 1: me a virtual master card prepaid with seven dollars and
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  Speaker 1: forty four cents.
• 2:24
  Speaker 2: So they didn't even send you a hard copy of
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  Speaker 2: the car. You have to do like some online shopping.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's because the hard copy of the card would
• 2:32
  Speaker 1: have cost more than how.
• 2:33
  Speaker 2: Much was on it. Don't you think it's kind of funny?
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  Speaker 2: Your data was breached, most likely via some online deal,
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  Speaker 2: and now you have to redo some online shopping to
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  Speaker 2: use less than eight dollars.
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  Speaker 1: If anything, That just means I've got another settlement coming by.
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  Speaker 2: Way, Angie. What's your little victory today.
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: That I made it to work? And why is that
• 2:58
  Speaker 1: a little victory? Because my gas light being on and
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: I forgot, and I thought, I can't stop on my
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: way to work. I don't stop at gas stations when
• 3:07
  Speaker 1: it's dark out because I get.
• 3:09
  Speaker 3: Scared that I'll be murdered.
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  Speaker 1: So I just drove to work, living on a prayer,
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  Speaker 1: and I made it. But when we get out of here,
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  Speaker 1: I have to immediately go to a gas station.
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  Speaker 3: But I made it to work gaslight on.
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  Speaker 2: One of the worst choices you can make as an
• 3:24
  Speaker 2: adult is oh, i'll get gas tomorrow.
• 3:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'll get.
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: Gas in the morning. It's the worst choice you can make.
• 3:31
  Speaker 3: And I usually don't even do that.
• 3:34
  Speaker 1: But it's I just flat out forgot, is what the
• 3:37
  Speaker 1: problem was.
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  Speaker 3: So we'll see if I make it home.
• 3:42
  Speaker 2: You'll be all right. I'm sure my little victory. Yesterday,
• 3:45
  Speaker 2: my wife and I said on the couch and got
• 3:47
  Speaker 2: caught up on Handmade's Tail, which we watched pretty currently.
• 3:51
  Speaker 2: We I think we only had to watch like one
• 3:53
  Speaker 2: or two episodes, so it wasn't like we were way
• 3:55
  Speaker 2: behind but yeah, with the final episode is the next episode,
• 3:59
  Speaker 2: and I want to see how it ends, Yeah, because
• 4:01
  Speaker 2: I know they're based on a book, and there is
• 4:03
  Speaker 2: a tiny like part of me that wants to start
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  Speaker 2: to cheat and look up the book so I know
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  Speaker 2: what happened. Yeah, but I refuse to do it. So
• 4:12
  Speaker 2: we had a very just chill day yesterday, very laid
• 4:14
  Speaker 2: back at the Glynten house, watching Handmaids S Tales.
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  Speaker 3: That is a victory, you know what. I like?
• 4:18
  Speaker 1: Handmaid's Tale comes out like weekly, right, it's not a
• 4:22
  Speaker 1: binge series, and I feel like, oh no, you have
• 4:25
  Speaker 1: to wait. Yeah, yeah, can we get back to that.
• 4:28
  Speaker 1: I miss that because when you have to binge it
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: then spoilers everywhere, Like what if I couldn't get to
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  Speaker 1: it in time?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there is a ketchup. There is something about the
• 4:36
  Speaker 2: weekly like appointment viewing kind of episodes or you know,
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  Speaker 2: or you can watch them on your own time, but
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  Speaker 2: you can only get them once a week. I do
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  Speaker 2: kind of like that because then it feels like you're
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  Speaker 2: watching it with a bunch of people as a Yes, Saturday,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna burn through these six episodes real quick
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  Speaker 2: or whatever. But I'm yeah, I'm a fan of that too.
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  Speaker 2: I'm kind of with you. But instead of one, how
• 4:57
  Speaker 2: about give us two a week?
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  Speaker 3: Okay? I like that's compromise.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll meet somewhere in the middle. Now. I discovered
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  Speaker 2: this online, Angie. If there was one thing that gives
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  Speaker 2: away that you are lying, what do you think it is?
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  Speaker 2: Do you have a guess? No? What?
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  Speaker 3: Like? What would give away for sure that I'm lying?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, or at least there's something on your body that
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  Speaker 2: is dubbed the most honest I'll put it that way.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, all my hips because they don't lie.
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  Speaker 2: You know, there was a tiny part of me that
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  Speaker 2: once I said it, I knew I was in trouble there.
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  Speaker 3: Oh man, thanks for setting that one up for me.
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  Speaker 1: No, but I don't know what is what's dubbed the
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  Speaker 1: most honest body part?
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  Speaker 2: Well, according to one trained FBI expert, he says, the feet.
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  Speaker 2: They are the most honest part of your body, and
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  Speaker 2: they show your true intentions. If you're in a conversation
• 6:00
  Speaker 2: with someone you don't want to be in and you're
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  Speaker 2: trying to get going, your feet genuinely or generally will
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  Speaker 2: point like to the door or to the down the
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  Speaker 2: grocery aisle because you don't want to talk to whoever. Really,
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of hard to hide your intentions with your feet.
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  Speaker 1: Who said this anx FBI experts Okay, well, Gabe, as
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  Speaker 1: it so happens, I actually know an expert in lying.
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  Speaker 1: Really yeah, my ex husband. No, I'm kidding, no, But
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  Speaker 1: the thing is, I'm not the brightest person in the land,
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  Speaker 1: and so I surround myself with very bright people to
• 6:38
  Speaker 1: make myself feel better. And one of my close friends, Amy,
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  Speaker 1: she is some sort of a psychologist who has an
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  Speaker 1: expertise in lying. Really yes, And so I think we
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  Speaker 1: need to get her to dispel some myths about.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, how you can tell someone is lying.
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  Speaker 2: She works in something psychology, you said.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, some sort of psychology that has to.
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  Speaker 2: Do with lying. She sounds like a villain in a
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  Speaker 2: Batman movie or something. Oh that maybe she is. All right, Well,
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  Speaker 2: let's we'll get Amy here and we'll dispel some myths
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  Speaker 2: about lying. Plus, we want to reach out to you.
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  Speaker 2: How do you kind of tell if someone's lying? What's
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  Speaker 2: your alert? Alert alert? This person is full of it? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that that you've kind of picked up over your years. Well,
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  Speaker 2: there is an FBI trained expert who recently came out
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  Speaker 2: and said, your feet are dubbed as the most honest
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  Speaker 2: and will show your true intentions. It's hard to lie
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  Speaker 2: with your feet, And so we were curious this morning,
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  Speaker 2: what are some clues for you where your kind of
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  Speaker 2: lie radar goes off and you're like, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: think this person is full of it. Let us know.
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  Speaker 2: It's seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 2: What's something for you where you are like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: that doesn't feel honest.
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  Speaker 1: I can tell when my kids are lying, based on
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  Speaker 1: the little one in particular. He'll start a sentence like
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  Speaker 1: this a mom like he's already like trying to laugh
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  Speaker 1: and like, and so I know anything coming out of
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  Speaker 1: his mouth is going to be a bit of a lie. Sure,
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  Speaker 1: but with but that's like your own kids, you know, you,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you kind of develop a sense for
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  Speaker 1: like when they're lying, especially when they're little, like you
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  Speaker 1: can disprove their lives pretty easily, just pick them apart.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you, gabe.
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  Speaker 2: It is just a feeling, I think, you know what,
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I'll say. There's a big difference between a
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  Speaker 2: big giant lie, which I can't ever tell. I'll believe
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  Speaker 2: anything anyone tells me, basically, but if someone wants to
• 8:48
  Speaker 2: exaggerate the truth on a really cool story. You know,
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  Speaker 2: one of my buddies is out golfing and he's talking about,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the golf round of his life. I'll go
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  Speaker 2: ahead and let him sell that to me.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, you just.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know I played golf with you before, right right,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I know what that swing looks like. You
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  Speaker 2: didn't shoot a seventy three. But you can sell that
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  Speaker 2: to me, and I will accept it as the truth,
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  Speaker 2: all right. To me, it's just a gut feeling. If
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  Speaker 2: something sounds it's I go by that golden rue, golden rule.
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  Speaker 2: If it's too good to be true, it's probably the case. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Right well, we do have
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  Speaker 2: Cody on the line. Cody, how do you know if
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  Speaker 2: someone is lying or what's your kind of red flag?
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  Speaker 2: I can always tell that my brother is lying. As
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  Speaker 2: soon as he does, he gets really quiet, which is
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  Speaker 2: just super strange for him. My brother loves to talk,
• 9:39
  Speaker 2: but not when he lies. Though. Now we know how
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: to tell Fangie's fibbing. Here on the big fling show
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  Speaker 2: Miranda What about You.
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  Speaker 1: For me, it's over little cracks, like when someone I
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  Speaker 1: trust suddenly starts choosing your words too carefully, or what's
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  Speaker 1: at the wrong moment to cover the tension. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: what my kid does, the laughing at a weird moment
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  Speaker 1: where it's like, Okay, you're lying.
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  Speaker 3: Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: I happen to know an expert in lying.
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  Speaker 3: My good friend Amy is. I mean, I'll let her.
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  Speaker 1: I never get her title right, so I'll let her
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  Speaker 1: say what she is, but she will dispel some of
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  Speaker 1: the myths about lying and how you can tell when
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  Speaker 1: someone's lying.
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  Speaker 4: I am a cognitive psychologist with expertise in human memory,
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  Speaker 4: eye movements, and polygraphy. Polygraphy is the scientific study of
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  Speaker 4: lie detection. If you've ever heard of a polygraph test,
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  Speaker 4: that's what it's in reference to. Now, there's a lot
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  Speaker 4: of myths and beliefs surround our ability to be able
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  Speaker 4: to detect lies, and one of the most common ones
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  Speaker 4: is where your eyes look as you're speaking. These myths
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  Speaker 4: have been popularized by TV shows like Lie to Me,
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  Speaker 4: and one of the fallacies or one of the lies
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  Speaker 4: that are told about light detection is If you watch
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  Speaker 4: somebody's eyes and they go to the upper right, they're
• 11:00
  Speaker 4: accessing the creative part of their brain, and that means
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  Speaker 4: that they are making something up. Or if they're looking down,
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  Speaker 4: that means that they're accessing the emotional part of their brain,
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  Speaker 4: which means that they're feeling stressed or anxious. Therefore they're lying.
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  Speaker 4: I can tell you with absolute certainty that there is
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  Speaker 4: no foundation scientifically for these kinds of claims. We cannot
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  Speaker 4: as humans look at another human being and tell with
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  Speaker 4: any sort of certainty whether or not they're lying.
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  Speaker 2: Isn't that a little bit disappointing?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, except for now, if I'm lying, I can be like, no,
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  Speaker 1: you can't tell what I'm lying because science.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, am I the problem? The problem? This was a
• 11:50
  Speaker 2: great email.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got an email from Tyler. He needs to
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: know if he's the problem. Hi, gab An Angie. My
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  Speaker 1: name's Tyler and I just got married to my beautiful wife, Jenna.
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  Speaker 1: But we're all already having our first big fight. Like
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  Speaker 1: I said, we just got married, beautiful day, great memories,
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  Speaker 1: but there's one thing that had been bugging me. We
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  Speaker 1: had a guest RSVP yes to our wedding and even
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  Speaker 1: confirmed again a week before. Then the day of never
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  Speaker 1: showed up, didn't call her, text, just didn't show up.
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  Speaker 1: We paid per person for the reception, which wasn't cheap.
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  Speaker 3: Oh don't I know it. So I ended up.
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: Sending him an invoice for the cost of his plate.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: Nothing crazy, just a polite message with the breakdown and
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  Speaker 1: a note about why we were sending it. My wife
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  Speaker 1: thinks that was petty and doesn't like that I put
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: her name on the note either. She says, I'm starting
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: drama for no reason and burning bridges. But I feel
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  Speaker 1: like if you say you're coming, you should show up
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  Speaker 1: or at least let someone know if plans change. It
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: wasn't about the money as much as the principle.
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  Speaker 2: So I will say this is something I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I would ever do, but I won thousand percent respect
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  Speaker 2: this out of Tyler. I love this move.
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  Speaker 3: You wouldn't do it, but you support Tyler.
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  Speaker 2: Doing I would never do it. I wouldn't have the uh,
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  Speaker 2: we'll use the word gumption. I wouldn't have the gumption
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  Speaker 2: to do it. But I love that he did. Absolutely
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  Speaker 2: get your thirty bucks or whatever you thirty bucks.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure it was not thirty bucks per head per pleate.
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  Speaker 2: Thirty twenty something like that. If there's no way, it's
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  Speaker 2: like seventy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like the starting rate usually.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, send him another invoice and charge him for the tip.
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  Speaker 2: Hold on, I gotta do some googling.
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  Speaker 3: Here's the thing he had me.
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  Speaker 1: I was initially on his side, although I also wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have the stones to send the invoice. However, when I
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  Speaker 1: got to the bottom, to the part where he said
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't about the money as much as the principal,
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  Speaker 1: that's where for me it's like, Okay, I agree with
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  Speaker 1: your wife, Jenna now that it's like starting drama for
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  Speaker 1: no reason, because if the issue was listen time swiftly hard,
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  Speaker 1: the issue was paying per plate. It really feels like
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  Speaker 1: such a waste of money when someone doesn't show up
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  Speaker 1: and then you want that money back. I get wanting that,
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  Speaker 1: And even though I wouldn't do it, I understand sending
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  Speaker 1: the invoice. The fact that he says it was not
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  Speaker 1: about the money as much as it was the principle,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you could have addressed this a different
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  Speaker 1: way then, No, Tyler, do.
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  Speaker 2: You wish he would have just said it's about the money.
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  Speaker 2: I want my money back.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't respect it if he was like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a brokie. But because it's about the principle, then I
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  Speaker 1: think it's like, okay, well then maybe you could have
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  Speaker 1: called him, Like, sending an invoice does adut a layer
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  Speaker 1: of petty to it. Now. I do love petty for
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: a lot of things, but if it's causing a situation
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  Speaker 1: with your wife, you're a new wife, maybe you should
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  Speaker 1: pull back. I mean, the damage is done in that
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  Speaker 1: he already sent it. But I don't know, man, I
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: think you need to apologize.
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  Speaker 2: Dah, this is so wildly disrespectful that I kind of
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  Speaker 2: love it.
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  Speaker 3: Of course you do.
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  Speaker 2: Also though, like whose side is? Who was the person
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: who didn't show up? And it was like Tyler's friend
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  Speaker 2: or is it your wife's friend? Because if it's your
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: wife's friend, that's hilarious. If it's like your cousin, then
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: it's like, well just call her, text your cousin and
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: be like, dude, venmo me the money please.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Oh that's funny. Okay, we need your input.
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight oh one ninety eight seven
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  Speaker 1: Is Tyler the problem for sending an invoice for a
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: guest who didn't show up to his wedding.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: Britney Snow, who you might know from Pitch Perfect.
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  Speaker 3: She's also in The Night Ages.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, The Night Agent. I can remember it was called.
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  Speaker 2: But she was recently in an interview and she admitted
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: something that, frankly, I would never say out loud to anyone.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: Maybe ever, I'd call it quits. Actually probably if this happened.
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  Speaker 2: What Britney Snow came out and said that there was
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: a famous DJ who fell asleep while making out with her.
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  Speaker 1: Oh who was that more embarrassing for?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, David Ghettu Broke.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I have no idea. That's just the
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  Speaker 2: first one that came to mind.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, she's just keeping that on that.
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  Speaker 2: I would not How drunk do you have to beat
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  Speaker 2: to fall asleep making.
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  Speaker 3: Out with someone pretty drunk? I guess, But no, I can.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 3: I can't believe she admitted this.
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  Speaker 2: In an interview.
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  Speaker 1: Nonetheless, I would take that to the grave, because even
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: if it's like, well he must have been drunk or something,
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  Speaker 1: or am I that boring?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: That's embarrassing.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: Have you ever fallen asleep during something? Angie? That was
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: kind of embarrassing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I love how I was talking trash, but this
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  Speaker 1: is bad. I fell asleep, No, Gabe, I fell asleep.
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  Speaker 3: During a funeral.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think I know part of this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I no, not great. I mean it's not
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: like I was in the front row or anything, but
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  Speaker 1: I fell asleep. It was this long. It was like
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: a Catholic it was a mass church thing, and it
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: was really long. I mean I knew how it was
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  Speaker 1: going to end, so I fell asleep.
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: Don't look at me like that game. You're just gonna
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: let me sink here, aren't you?
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, when have you fallen asleep at an inopportune time? Seven?
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: One two one ninety eight seven?
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Please take me out of the ditch that I've duck
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: myself into.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Colin, When did you fall asleep in an inopportune time? Then?
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: I want fell asleep during a phone call with my girlfriend.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: It wasn't a super important call, but she yelled at
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: me for it. It took a lot of apologizing to
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: get past that one. Yeah.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because then you just think that you're boring.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, were they like stayed up late and talking. I
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: feel like I would understand if I was on the
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: phone with someone and it was kind of past our
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: bedtime and they fell asleep.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Imagine it was his lunch break.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah right, Adrian, When did you fall asleep when you
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: shouldn't have?
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Once during a zoom meeting with my camera one my eyes,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: but apparently I nodded off mid not.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: I got a screenshot of it in the group chat just.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: To remember it forever. I guarantee that she is not
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: the only person that has had that happen to them.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: You always have to have your camera off on the
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: zoom chat for that very reason.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I fell asleep during high school math test once.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: Oh, okay, that seems pretty normal.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I bet yeah. I failed that with flying colors. This
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: story is about a guy who lives in the Midwest,
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: and in specific this iwa man. He is one hundred
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: to seven years old, and this sounds like my type.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: And this past Sunday, he received a high school diploma
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: the one hundred seventy one hundred and seventy, the one
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: hundred and seven year old Orville received an honorary diploma.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: He was a World War Two Army veteran, and he
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: left school after eighth grade during the Great Depression to
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: work on his family's farm. Wow Principal Tony Tesco excuse
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: me to Tesco presented the diploma in recognition of his
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: decades of service and contributions to the community. Von Yuen
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: served in the US Army from nineteen forty two to
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: nineteen forty five and later opened a successful appliance store
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: with his wife. Looking back on his full life, he
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: credits kindness and a positive attitude as key to his success, saying,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: it pays to be kind, it pays to have a smile.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Friends and family collaborated with the school in his hometown
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: to make sure he was honored for his life's work.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: During the ceremony, Von Uan shared his appreciation for the gesture.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: He also offered advice to graduates about working hard and
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: enjoying life, saying that even though he missed high school
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: as a teen, receiving the diploma now was just as beautiful.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Better late than never. That's really sweet.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: That is very sweet. And we do have Memorial Day
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: coming up on Monday, so I thought this was a
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: great story for today to just remember why we celebrate
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Memorial Day and then the reasons behind that. I know,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: we get to enjoy a day maybe on the lake
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: or eating hotdogs or whatever you're going to do for
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Memorial Day, but it is important to remember why we
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: do have that day coming up on Monday. The world
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: is full of nice people. If you can't find one,
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: you gotta be one.