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Is Having A Work Wife/Husband A Red Flag? · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: Now, best morning show in Boston.
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  Speaker 2: Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a great start to my day.
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  Speaker 3: On Kiss 108.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if that's the case, so let's just get the
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  Speaker 1: show started, Lisa Donovan.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, we need to.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get the show started. It's going to be a
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  Speaker 1: weird weather day today. It's going to be very warm,
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  Speaker 1: but kind of weird.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's going to be cloudy. You'll see some sun,
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  Speaker 4: but like a high of 70. So that's good.
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  Speaker 1: I'll take 70 degrees. Maybe even a little warmer, I think.
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  Speaker 1: I'll take it. Could be the last day we see that, too.
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  Speaker 1: Just saying. Olivia Rodrigo double play is still going on.
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  Speaker 1: That means if you're new to the show, new to Kiss,
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  Speaker 1: and we get people every day, when you hear two
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  Speaker 1: Olivia Rodrigo songs in a row, you'll be caller 25.
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  Speaker 1: You get tickets to the show. She's in Boston this week.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Three shows. Tomorrow night, show one, right?
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: So two songs in a row. When you hear the
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  Speaker 1: two songs in a row, you'll be caller 25. You'll
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  Speaker 1: get tickets to the show, but you'll Qualify for the
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  Speaker 1: grand prize. That means you get tickets for all three
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  Speaker 1: shows here in Boston this week. Speaking of tickets, 710
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  Speaker 1: this morning sold out Jingle Ball tickets. Is there anything
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  Speaker 1: else we can do for you?
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  Speaker 6: Dude, you're coming out hot.
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  Speaker 4: We got everything.
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  Speaker 1: Is there anything else we as a show can do
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  Speaker 1: for you? Happy hump day. It's the mayor of the
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  Speaker 1: South Bend. I want to wish everybody today is National
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  Speaker 1: Dessert Day.
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  Speaker 4: And my favorite dessert is tiramisu. And I want to
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  Speaker 4: give a birthday shout out.
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  Speaker 1: Guess who's 48 today?
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  Speaker 7: Usher.
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  Speaker 8: He's 48 and still just like Billy Costa, sexy as ever.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy the good weather today. A couple of random things there,
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  Speaker 1: tiramisu and usher. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: National dessert day. Have a dessert. I like cream pies.
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  Speaker 6: Big fan.
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  Speaker 1: Cream pies.
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  Speaker 6: My favorite dessert.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 4: You have to try flowers. Chocolate cream pie.
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  Speaker 1: Is it good? Oh, it's the best. I love it.
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  Speaker 4: We have it at Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: That's Joanne Chang.
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  Speaker 4: She's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, I'll have to try.
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  Speaker 9: Yes.
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  Speaker 6: I'd love to try Joanne's cream pie.
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  Speaker 4: It's the best.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. That's a different show. Joanne Chang.
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  Speaker 10: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: We love her. One of the best chefs on earth.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Especially pastries.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out to her.
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  Speaker 1: Lisa, you've got book club news this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: So, I mean, Halloween's coming, right? And, you know, the
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  Speaker 4: movie Practical Magic, Practical Magic 2. Well, Alice Hoffman wrote
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  Speaker 4: Witches of Cambridge. It's her new book. It was based
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  Speaker 4: on That, that movie. So she's coming to my book
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  Speaker 4: club to close out the year. October 21st, we'll be
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  Speaker 4: at the Revere Hotel. Tickets are available. Just go to
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  Speaker 4: my Instagram, Lisa Donovan 108, or the Kiss Instagram. You
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  Speaker 4: got to get them while they're available. And it's going
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  Speaker 4: to be a spooky theme.
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  Speaker 1: Are you dressing up for the spooky theme? About ghosts
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  Speaker 1: and witches. I might be. Okay. Yeah. All right.
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  Speaker 6: It's a good Halloween event.
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  Speaker 1: It is.
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  Speaker 4: Alice Hoffman.
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  Speaker 1: And the final book club event of 2026.
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  Speaker 11: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: I want to get in on that. How do they
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  Speaker 1: do that again?
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  Speaker 4: Just go to Lisa Donovan 108. There's a link in
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  Speaker 4: my story. Just click on it. And you buy her
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  Speaker 4: book as your ticket in. And Christy Cashman will also
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  Speaker 4: be joining us. She has a new book out with
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  Speaker 4: a very sort of mystical, spooky theme, too.
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  Speaker 1: Mystical and spooky.
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  Speaker 6: She got Joanne Chang to bring some cream pies.
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  Speaker 4: You know what? Joanne, if you're listening, please.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, Joanne.
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  Speaker 1: Joan. Joan.
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  Speaker 12: No.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's Joanne Chang. Joanne Chang.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you know who DM'd me? Sarah from Maine is
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  Speaker 4: coming all the way down from Maine to come to
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  Speaker 4: the book club.
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  Speaker 1: Sarah from Maine?
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  Speaker 6: She just had a baby.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's... She's coming?
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  Speaker 4: She's coming. She got a babysitter and she's coming.
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  Speaker 1: You should welcome her over the cream pot.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my. Let's change gears, shall we? Rich Davey, he's
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  Speaker 1: the head of Massport, and he's coming in this morning
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  Speaker 1: at 910 with a surprise announcement on the Voice of
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  Speaker 1: Logan contest.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We have a surprise announcement.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, well, Monday, they're going to bring in the finalists.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: So he's going to call and kind of preview that.
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  Speaker 1: This is incredible.
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  Speaker 6: Special guests are expected. It's going to be a big deal.
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  Speaker 1: Yesterday, of course, we kicked off our second annual Local
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  Speaker 1: Legends contest. You want to go to kidsfromwonderway.com slash legend.
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  Speaker 1: Get all the information you need. All of it, of course,
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  Speaker 1: brought to you by our friends, our partners, Harvard Pilgrim Healthcare.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, they're already coming in. So if there is a legend,
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  Speaker 6: a person in your community, a nurse, a firefighter, a
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  Speaker 6: teacher that's doing amazing things, you want to nominate them
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  Speaker 6: so we can honor them. We can go maybe surprise
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  Speaker 6: them or bring them into the studio. Kiss108. com slash legends.
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  Speaker 6: And by the way, they'll win sold-out Jingle Ball tickets, too,
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  Speaker 6: and an invite to the pre-party at Big Night Live.
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  Speaker 4: This is huge. And it's just such a wonderful thing
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  Speaker 4: that we did last year.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, we had a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm so happy we're able to continue it because
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  Speaker 4: of Harvard Pilgrim Healthcare.
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  Speaker 1: And we got a DM from a listener. And as always,
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  Speaker 1: they're looking for our help, Lace.
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  Speaker 5: I know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know why, but they are.
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  Speaker 6: They send DMs. Listen, if you want to reach us,
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  Speaker 6: you can send DMs. You can leave talkbacks.
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  Speaker 1: People are always asking.
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  Speaker 3: I am a huge fan. Just wondering, how do we
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  Speaker 3: call in to recommend a topic or do we just
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  Speaker 3: do a talkback?
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  Speaker 6: You can leave a talkback or you can leave a
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  Speaker 6: DM like the one Lisa has.
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  Speaker 4: Right. Do you want me to read it, guys?
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  Speaker 1: Let's go. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Billy and Lisa, I need some help. Recently, my
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  Speaker 4: boyfriend has been texting his work colleague at night while
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  Speaker 4: we are in bed. I asked him last night about it,
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  Speaker 4: and he explained it was his colleague who was going
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  Speaker 4: through a separation. He said he was just trying to
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  Speaker 4: help her through it. I am not sure how comfortable
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  Speaker 4: I feel with it. And also, doesn't she have girlfriends
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  Speaker 4: and other people she can talk to? I trust him,
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  Speaker 4: but I've heard of affairs starting this way at work,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm nervous about it. Am I being crazy? Please
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  Speaker 4: help me. Love the show, by the way.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you. It's a red flag.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's a little strange.
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  Speaker 6: A little bit of a red flag. Well, we're talking
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  Speaker 6: about a work wife. That's what we're talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: The work wife.
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  Speaker 1: But like at bedtime, like middle of the night, if
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  Speaker 1: you're off in another room exchanging texts, it's a little odd.
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  Speaker 1: A little bit. A little bit.
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  Speaker 6: Just saying. I like the point about, you know, doesn't
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  Speaker 6: she have girlfriends she can text?
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  Speaker 4: Right. And then like the middle of the night.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: It's a little strange. It's a little bit of a
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  Speaker 4: red flag.
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  Speaker 1: Well, feel free to send us a talk back. You're
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  Speaker 1: dealing with this sort of thing. Late night exchange of texts.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like I've heard this story before.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: And sometimes it ends not good.
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  Speaker 4: Whether it's smoke, there's fire. From the Planet Fitness Kiss
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  Speaker 4: 108 studios, we're back with Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: And welcome back, everybody. A happy Wednesday to you. Going
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  Speaker 1: to be warm today, at least 70, maybe warmer, right, Lisa?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, but you'll see a lot of clouds around, maybe
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  Speaker 4: some breaks of sun later.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, warm. Ah, well, there you have it. So
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  Speaker 1: Calvin Harris is back. He's launching a full-on North American tour,
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  Speaker 1: and the tour kicks off here in Boston, the TD Garden,
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  Speaker 1: April 1st of next year. April Fool's Day, the TD Garden.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we were in meetings yesterday. We have a concert calendar,
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  Speaker 6: and I looked up at all the shows, and I
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  Speaker 6: saw Calvin. I was like, he's back.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let's face it. He's had a lot of hits
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  Speaker 1: just now. A lot.
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  Speaker 11: A lot.
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  Speaker 6: God, the guy's like a hit machine. Bob, you're tired
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  Speaker 6: this morning. You're not going to be tired anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, wake up.
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  Speaker 6: That's for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Wake up. And that drop happens. It's like everything's going
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  Speaker 1: to be okay.
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  Speaker 6: He's got to be the king of the drops.
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  Speaker 4: I think so, right?
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  Speaker 11: Right?
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  Speaker 6: Oh, God, I can keep going all day on this.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, let's keep going. When I met you in the summer.
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  Speaker 1: Love that song. So my heart beat sound. What was
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  Speaker 1: the one he did, Lisa?
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  Speaker 6: I know you love it with Migos. What's that one?
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  Speaker 6: I think it's, is it Slide?
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  Speaker 12: Yeah, Slide.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's Slide.
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  Speaker 5: I love this.
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  Speaker 1: This is a good one.
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  Speaker 6: That's a summer song.
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  Speaker 4: And then he did it with This Is What You
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  Speaker 4: Came For.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, yes, yes, yes. I don't have that one.
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 11: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good one.
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  Speaker 4: It was rumored that Taylor was a part of that
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  Speaker 4: whole song process.
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  Speaker 5: She was.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's confirmed now.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she was on it.
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  Speaker 6: Well, they dated.
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  Speaker 4: They did.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she's a part of his history now.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but then there was a little mishap.
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  Speaker 1: Well, there was a little massage parlor. I think it
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  Speaker 1: was in London. If I'm not mistaken.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not sure. But yeah, he got caught in a
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  Speaker 6: masseuse situation.
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  Speaker 1: So he's been doing a lot of festivals. Actually broke
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  Speaker 1: the record for largest attendance for a DJ set in
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  Speaker 1: beautiful Sao Paulo, Brazil. 1.6 million people there at the festival.
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  Speaker 6: He draws huge crowds.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, listen to the songs. Why wouldn't he? I know.
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  Speaker 4: One kiss with Dua Lipa.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, we got that. We'll get to that in a minute.
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  Speaker 6: There's a story there.
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  Speaker 11: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But he's been a longtime friend of Kiss Him On
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  Speaker 1: The Way, and he did our Jingle Ball in 2014.
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  Speaker 1: And Lisa, we talked backstage. When you started out, could
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  Speaker 1: you have imagined things going as well as they have
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  Speaker 1: for you? No, no way. I couldn't even imagine coming
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  Speaker 1: to America. I'm from Scotland.
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  Speaker 8: I know.
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  Speaker 1: Just doing shows here is enough.
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  Speaker 12: But something like this is insane.
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  Speaker 1: It's great. So what do you think was the changing
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  Speaker 1: moment when it all kind of turned and just blossomed
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  Speaker 1: for you?
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  Speaker 12: I mean, it feels like we found love when I
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  Speaker 12: made that record with Rihanna. A lot of people started
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  Speaker 12: maybe investigating what I did in the past and then
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  Speaker 12: radio started playing Feel So Close after that and things,
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  Speaker 12: you know, I kept making songs and the radio kept
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  Speaker 12: playing them. And I think that's how people got to
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  Speaker 12: know who I was and what kind of music I made.
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  Speaker 1: And don't forget, Lisa called it. He had this collaboration
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  Speaker 1: with Dua Lipa.
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  Speaker 2: Falling in love with me.
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  Speaker 1: Possibilities.
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  Speaker 4: I look like all you need.
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  Speaker 6: That's 2018 that song came out.
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  Speaker 5: That's a jam.
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  Speaker 1: And it was in 2018 that Dua Lipa headlined our
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  Speaker 1: Kiss concert and said, working with Calvin Harris. What's her dream?
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  Speaker 1: We talk backstage.
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  Speaker 5: Every time somebody would ask me, you know, who's someone
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  Speaker 5: that you would love to collaborate with, I feel like
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  Speaker 5: I've really put it out into the world.
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  Speaker 4: I kept going, oh, I'd love to work with Calvin Harris.
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  Speaker 5: I'd love to work with Calvin Harris in the hopes
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  Speaker 5: that he might actually hear it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, so every time you were asked, he was always
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  Speaker 1: top on your list?
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  Speaker 2: He was, yeah, he was up there.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it kind of worked, didn't it? It did.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of, it's like.
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  Speaker 5: A way of manifesting things into your life. And yeah,
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  Speaker 5: he's an artist that I just really love and admire.
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  Speaker 5: And I think he's a brilliant songwriter and a brilliant
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  Speaker 5: producer as well. And I feel so lucky to have
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  Speaker 5: gotten the chance to work with him and do a.
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  Speaker 1: Song like that. And is it one kiss all it takes? Really? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Take it easy, Bill. Lisa, I know what you're thinking.
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  Speaker 1: I can read your face. You're sitting right next to me.
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  Speaker 1: You're thinking, was that the interview with the boots?
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  Speaker 4: I think it was.
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  Speaker 1: It was. Can you confirm it, Justin? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: So it was that interview that before Dua Lipa came out,
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  Speaker 6: her manager came to me and said, Do is good
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  Speaker 6: to talk about anything, music, performing. just not the boots
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  Speaker 6: that she's wearing. Do not talk about the boots. So
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  Speaker 6: I went to Billy. We had a little huddle before
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  Speaker 6: she came out, and I told him. He said, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: no problem. So then Dua Lipa comes out with these
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  Speaker 6: boots that are like all the way up to her
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  Speaker 6: hips almost.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they were knee-high.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, and here comes Uncle Bill.
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  Speaker 1: Before we do anything, can you just step to your
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  Speaker 1: left a little bit? You cannot wear boots like that.
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  Speaker 6: So at that moment, I froze, and I see someone
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  Speaker 6: waving at me, and it's the manager saying, and he's
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  Speaker 6: doing like the cutthroat thing to me, like you're dead.
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  Speaker 1: Out of the world, see.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's very kind. They are very shining.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm going to ask the corny question, who are
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  Speaker 1: you wearing?
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what?
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  Speaker 11: I don't really know.
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  Speaker 6: I was told that. That was why. She got weird, yeah.
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  Speaker 6: She had no partnership with the brand.
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  Speaker 4: No, she had purchased them herself, and that's why she
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  Speaker 4: didn't want to give anyone credit.
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  Speaker 6: Unbelievable.
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  Speaker 4: And then he throws me under the bus.
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  Speaker 1: I know. Oh, that's what he does.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Because he knew he was going to get in trouble.
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  Speaker 4: My colleague Lisa Donovan over there would like to know
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  Speaker 4: where she can purchase them.
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  Speaker 1: He gave the full government name. Right.
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  Speaker 11: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I love about this, though? Calvin Harris
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  Speaker 4: is coming to Boston April 1st.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: Mayor Wu announced like last week that they're doing a
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  Speaker 4: Tartan Army week in April of next year.
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  Speaker 1: And he's Scottish. And he's Scottish.
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  Speaker 4: So he's kicking it off.
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  Speaker 1: He's going to be part of the Tartan Army. Yes.
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  Speaker 4: This is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, she's going to go.
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  Speaker 6: She has to go to the garden. She has to.
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  Speaker 1: Well, they're. There was a point in Calvin Harris' career
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  Speaker 1: where he kind of got a little weird. Do we
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  Speaker 1: have that clip, Justin? Yeah, his diet got kind of strange.
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  Speaker 12: I went full carnivore, like Texan, why eat vegetables when
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  Speaker 12: you can have testicles kind of thing, you know?
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 12: And this is the product of that.
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  Speaker 1: I got Charlie Puth.
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  Speaker 12: Taking crushed up ants from China to get him hyped up.
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  Speaker 12: So he sounded like Michael McDonald on this record. Like,
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  Speaker 12: this is why, this is what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, that wasn't a joke.
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  Speaker 11: No.
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  Speaker 1: He got Charlie Puth to eat ants. Here's Charlie. I
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  Speaker 1: no longer drink coffee. I eat ants for energy.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, this was a weird moment. We covered this on
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  Speaker 6: the show. I don't know what was going on there.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but Calvin Harris, man, he's a hit machine
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: for sure.
• 13:51
  Speaker 8: Good morning.
• 13:51
  Speaker 4: I missed the first part of that segment, but.
• 13:54
  Speaker 11: The music that was coming out was amazing. Way to
• 13:59
  Speaker 11: get my morning started.
• 14:01
  Speaker 10: Thank you so much.
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: Have a great day.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: Hey, welcome.
• 14:10
  Speaker 6: Oh God, looking at so many, so many songs.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: This is going to be a great show.
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: We have to go.
• 14:17
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: April 1st, right?
• 14:18
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 14:19
  Speaker 6: He's going to do an interview with Bill.
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: Here's another story behind the scenes. Calvin Harris wasn't going
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: to talk to anybody. He heard I was here. He said,
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: I want to do the interview with Billy Costa. No,
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: wait a minute. I was not hyperbolizing. That was a
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: real situation backstage. He's not doing any interviews, but he'll
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: do Billy.
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: I love that, Billy.
• 14:38
  Speaker 6: Did that really happen?
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah. What did we learn? Never listen to the manager people.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: No, no.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: Of the artist, okay? Just do your own thing.
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: Although we love the managers of all of the artists, right?
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: But weren't they trying to run a roadblock in front
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: of you with Jason Tatum the other night, Lisa?
• 14:53
  Speaker 11: No.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: And you just went over and got your own.
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: No, there were no roadblocks.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 14:57
  Speaker 6: No, sometimes they just want to control what's being asked.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 15:00
  Speaker 6: And Billy never listened. I shouldn't have even said anything.
• 15:02
  Speaker 6: If I never said anything to him about the boots-
• 15:05
  Speaker 6: He wouldn't have brought them up. It's the fact that
• 15:06
  Speaker 6: I brought them up.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I would have jumped right
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: on the boots. Probably.
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: They were fantastic.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: They were outrageous.
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: It was the entire outfit.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you couldn't look away.
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: By the way, they were Saint Laurent boots above the knee.
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: I'd say. Ballpark. Ballpark on those. How much? Oh, thousands.
• 15:25
  Speaker 6: Yeah, they were up to our chin.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. He went way up. We wanted to see more
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: of Dua Lipa. She was hidden inside the booth.
• 15:35
  Speaker 6: Hey, we love Calvin Harris. So many hits, right, Bill?
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Oh, so many.
• 15:39
  Speaker 6: We should go to the show, get an interview with him,
• 15:41
  Speaker 6: you know? That would be good.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Let's do that. What? No, he's always been a fun interview. Yeah,
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: he's a good interview.
• 15:53
  Speaker 12: The Candid Microphone, the program that brings you the honest
• 15:56
  Speaker 12: reactions of ordinary people.
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: Stop.
• 15:59
  Speaker 10: Secretly recorded.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: No one ever.
• 16:01
  Speaker 6: You think after this, he'll do an interview?
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: No, let's listen.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Who knows when he's talking into the Candid Microphone. So
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: you know what? I'm saying, hey, Calvin, interview me.
• 16:12
  Speaker 12: Okay?
• 16:12
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: In fact, while you're at it. Okay, Calvin is a
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: nerd out of the suburbs of Scotland. He wants to
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: go out of his way to make sure you know
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want to be there. Now, the entertainment update
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: with Billy Costa on Kiss 108.
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: Okay, we've got Jingle Ball tickets right now for caller 25, 877-617-1108.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: The number to call the Jingle Ball completely sold out.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: And by the way, Sold out faster than ever. You'll
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: need the key word, and the key word, Lisa, this
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: morning will be homewrecker. Homewrecker is the key word. And
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: that's the key word because Somber's homewrecker, the song, just
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: went platinum.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: It just went platinum last night, in fact. And he's
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: coming in for Jingle Ball, and he just released a
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: behind-the-scenes of him actually making that song.
• 17:12
  Speaker 11: Ooh.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: That's my favorite somber song.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Very cool.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: I love that song.
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: That's why Taylor Swift loves him so much, because he's
• 17:29
  Speaker 6: a real musician.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: He is.
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: Writes all his own music. He did that in his bedroom,
• 17:33
  Speaker 6: if you watch it. Looks like a bedroom.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really an inside piece there. I like
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: how he was.
• 17:37
  Speaker 6: Humming it along.
• 17:38
  Speaker 13: Yeah.
• 17:39
  Speaker 6: Too bad Bill's humming never led to anything, you know?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: That's Thriller, right? It is.
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: Who doesn't know it?
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: It is.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Marshall would have been proud. Good catch, Bill.
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: Didn't we do, like, Guess the Hum?
• 17:57
  Speaker 13: Oh, yeah.
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: We had a game. We should bring that back.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: That was hilarious. Oh, back to reality. Olivia Rodrigo is
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: in Boston this week for her completely sold-out shows, three
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: of them, and the double play is still going on.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Just yesterday, she announced a new remix of her song, Expectations,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: with Chapel Roan. That's coming out tomorrow. This was the original.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: They were playing a lot of head-bopping music this morning.
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: That's very cute.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: All of her songs have that kind of head-bop. He did.
• 18:31
  Speaker 6: Vibe to it.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. Well, don't forget, Olivia and Chapel Roan have
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: toured together. Chapel Roan was part of Olivia's Daisy Chain
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Festival this past summer.
• 18:40
  Speaker 11: Yes.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: That was an incredible festival. Mm-hmm. Oh, my God. So
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: that's going on. But also, Tate McRae's new song, Housewife,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: comes out this Friday. And I'm going to assume, Justin,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: you will have it as part of your new music
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Friday this coming Friday?
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll be playing it for sure. I heard it's good.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Well, she says she still gets stage fright when performing. Really?
• 19:03
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: And when she gets stage fright, I found this interesting. Yes.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: She just imagines Michael Jackson standing next to her. No way.
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: Is that what she hears, you think?
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: I actually love that for her.
• 19:19
  Speaker 10: Right?
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Boy, that kind of fit, didn't it?
• 19:24
  Speaker 11: It does.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: This show really writes itself.
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: It really does.
• 19:26
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Amazing.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: But I love that she gets, like, strength from him.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: From Michael?
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: I just watched the movie Michael.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: That's a great movie.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: It's such a good movie.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:35
  Speaker 6: Well, it can be motivational.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Come on, girl!
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, don't forget, at our Jingle Ball, she actually talked
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: about Boston being haunted. Check this out.
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: My brother goes to Dartmouth to school, and it's in
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: a place called Hanover near Boston.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: And this is... there's literally two hotels there.
• 19:51
  Speaker 7: And I go, we were like staying there with my
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: family and it was like New Year's and it was
• 19:55
  Speaker 7: my mom and dad. And I literally wake up in
• 19:58
  Speaker 7: the middle of the night screaming because I always wake
• 20:01
  Speaker 7: up screaming. Like I'm like, I'm like possessed in my sleep.
• 20:04
  Speaker 7: And my dad was like, oh my God, hey, like what's,
• 20:06
  Speaker 7: what's going on? He's like, just go to sleep, go
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: to sleep.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, no, he's right there. Wow. She
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: wakes up screaming in the night.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: She has night terrors.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: That must be a lot of fun. I know, right?
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: You got to keep one eye open if you're sleeping
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: next to her. And her brother went to Dartmouth.
• 20:24
  Speaker 11: Wow.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: That's cool.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Connections, so to speak. We mentioned Michael Jackson. Just enough.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: This is so cool. There's a documentary on the way
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: that shines the light. on Michael's Super Bowl halftime show
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: back in 1993. I'm getting the chills. Yeah, so good.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: I'm just getting the chills.
• 21:00
  Speaker 6: I was watching clips this morning.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Man. So this is a series coming to Hulu and ESPN.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Never before seen footage. We have a clip from the trailer.
• 21:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we do, Bill.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: Is that from the?
• 21:18
  Speaker 6: Oh, did I play the wrong? Oh, shut up, Michael. Sorry,
• 21:21
  Speaker 6: I played the wrong one there.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: My bad. How about a clip from the actual Super
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Bowl halftime performance?
• 21:30
  Speaker 6: My son, young Abel, is going to be Michael Jackson
• 21:32
  Speaker 6: for Halloween.
• 21:33
  Speaker 11: Oh, no way.
• 21:34
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Is he wearing the thriller jacket, the red leather one?
• 21:37
  Speaker 6: He's wearing, no, it's the black jacket.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 21:40
  Speaker 6: With the shiny shoes.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: And the little white socks. Yeah, I think it's the,
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: what video is that?
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: Well, that was the stage performance.
• 21:47
  Speaker 6: Yes, it's a black jacket with the white shirt. That's
• 21:49
  Speaker 6: where he moonwalked.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: And the hat, yes. Is he going to moonwalk?
• 21:53
  Speaker 6: I tried to get him to do it, didn't look
• 21:55
  Speaker 6: that good.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, he's got to work on it.
• 21:58
  Speaker 11: Wow.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: And by the way, here we are, and still... No
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: announcement on who the halftime show is going to be
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: at the Super Bowl. They're really. This is troubling. This
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: is very late. Does this mean they're having trouble finding someone?
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: I think so.
• 22:11
  Speaker 6: That was the story. And apparently it's true.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Is it because the artist doesn't get paid?
• 22:17
  Speaker 6: No, because they make a ton of money from just
• 22:20
  Speaker 6: the streams and the tours. Yeah, their music explodes. It's
• 22:23
  Speaker 6: not about the money. I don't know what it is.
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: It's going to be Jay-Z. He's going to do it himself.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: It seems like that's what the setup is.
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: Yeah, he's having trouble picking someone, so he's just going
• 22:33
  Speaker 6: to say, you know what, I'll do it.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: And bring in all his friends.
• 22:37
  Speaker 6: No, everyone will be there.
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Wow, boy, that's really big of him, huh? He's going
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: to do the halftime show, especially since he's the one
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: that makes the decisions. I know.
• 22:46
  Speaker 6: Seems to be a conflict there.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: It would be a good halftime show, though. Uh, we
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: got to talk about this Kelly Clarkson story. We talked
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: about it yesterday and now everybody is talking about it.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: It's getting worse.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: So there's a store in New York city. What's it called?
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: Art of play. It's in Brooklyn and they've raised the
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: price now of the bird that was not for sale
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: from 15,000 to 15 million.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Okay. How did they do that? Do they really think
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it was 15,000. It's a little bird.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: It mechanically sings and dances.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: It's actually very cool. The artist's name is Bliss, a
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: guy from Seattle. He lives in the woods. And it
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: sings six songs. It's a crank thing. And then it
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: makes all these. It's like a little songbird on your wall.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: So I can see why Kelly wanted it because she's
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: a songbird.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Well, it's very artistic.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: And it took a lot to build.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: It's beautiful.
• 23:35
  Speaker 6: All this fuss is about. A mechanical bird?
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: Yes, that sings.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: But it's the contraption below it.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: It's a box-shaped contraption with all kinds of gears and
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: wheels and everything. And you crank it.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very cool.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Okay. But.
• 23:49
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: But. Now there's outrage. Yes. Kelly took to social complaining
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: about the way she was treated in the store. And obviously,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson fans are outraged. And apparently, some of them
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: are showing up outside the store. And now the owner
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: is outraged because- He says there's an overreaction to what
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: may or may not have happened.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: He says it's asymmetrical social warfare. He's had to call
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: the police because people live like upstairs and there are
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: people on the, you know, screaming at customers and it's
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: just become really ugly.
• 24:21
  Speaker 6: He said he's like literally afraid of their safety, the customers.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: We are afraid for the safety of our shopkeepers. Kelly
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Clarkson has put us in danger. This is an insane misunderstanding.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Nothing happened in this shop to justify her scolding our
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: shopkeeper on the way out. If it is this intense
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: to be merely mentioned by Kelly Clarkson, I can only
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: imagine how intense it is to be.
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: Kelly Clarkson every single day.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: But things changed when she used her platform to attack us.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: When Kelly came in, the shop was crowded. We treated
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: her like a normal person, but apparently that did not
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: live up.
• 24:53
  Speaker 11: To her expectations.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: How does he see it like they treated her like
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: a normal person? Keep in mind, Kelly Clarkson is one
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: of the nicest people I've ever met. And it just
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: doesn't seem that she's possible to be confrontational. It doesn't
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: seem very Kelly Clarkson.
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: The thing that I'm confused about too is originally in
• 25:11
  Speaker 9: their statement, they said that it wasn't for sale. They
• 25:13
  Speaker 9: were like, she tried to buy something that wasn't for sale.
• 25:15
  Speaker 9: And then we found out it was $ 15, 000 and now
• 25:18
  Speaker 9: they're raising the price.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: So obviously it was for sale.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Why did they lie? Well, not only that, the store
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: owner is outraged and yet he's like, hike the price
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: to 15 million. So he's going to cash. If somebody's
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: crazy enough, if you were crazy enough to pay 15,000
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: and even crazier to pay 15 million, This guy makes out.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: He's the only one that does make out in the
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: whole thing.
• 25:40
  Speaker 6: It's literally like the scene in Pretty Woman.
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 25:44
  Speaker 6: They thought she was a nobody. She didn't have any money.
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: They kind of shamed her a little bit.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: They released video footage of her in the store, too.
• 25:50
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she had the backpack.
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's dressed like a celebrity.
• 25:55
  Speaker 6: They thought that she just didn't have the money to spend.
• 25:58
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 25:58
  Speaker 6: So, you know, get out of here.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 26:00
  Speaker 6: Turns out she does.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think it's going away anytime soon.
• 26:04
  Speaker 6: Every day is a new part of the story.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting for Kelly Clarkson to come out and talk
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: about it. Not on social, but you just sit and
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: talk about it and tell the story.
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: She should do a song. I mean, literally everybody's talking
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: about the bird.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, you know what I'm talking about this morning? The Bruins.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: They had a game last night. We got it here
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: at 11 o'clock at night. The game started at 11
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: o'clock in San Jose. They played the Sharks and they won.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: That's good.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Big win. The Bruins are looking good. This Minton kid.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: they paid him a lot of money and he's paying off.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: I'm so happy.
• 26:41
  Speaker 9: We finally have like a young core that is like
• 26:44
  Speaker 9: actually going to help us.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I'm yeah. So we got the speed we always needed, right?
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: They always talked about, we needed more speed.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Great ad.
• 26:53
  Speaker 9: I wasn't sure about him cause I didn't know anything,
• 26:55
  Speaker 9: but he's looking amazing for us.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Higgins, yeah. You want to talk about the new Bruins
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: merch that has all the guys like a boy band
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: on the t-shirt?
• 27:02
  Speaker 9: They're selling a shirt that's like a Millennials Dream shirt
• 27:05
  Speaker 9: that has five players on the front that looks like
• 27:08
  Speaker 9: a boy band.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: I showed it to Bill, like, look how cute the
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: shirt is. He went, who wants that?
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God, it's going to sell out.
• 27:15
  Speaker 9: There's people online from other states being like, I need
• 27:18
  Speaker 9: a Bruins ticket just so I can get this shirt.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: People help me out.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Actually, it's a very cool T-shirt.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 27:22
  Speaker 6: You know what, Riley? I'll hit the Venmo. Get Bill
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: a shirt.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I want one.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: He goes, do you know who these players are?
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: I'm like, yes.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I was just curious. Could you name all these players
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: dressed like boy band members? And she nailed it.
• 27:33
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah. She's dialed in on the Bruins.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Peyton Pritchard signed a two-year extension with the Celtics, $ 44 million.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: He earned his money the end of last season. Boy,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: he was hitting them from a parking lot outside. Yeah,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: what a great story. Talk about downtown.
• 27:49
  Speaker 6: What a great story that is, right?
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Coming off the bench and just the last couple of years.
• 27:54
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  Speaker 8: Hi, good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Carrie, you're caller 25.
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  Speaker 1: And so are you, Kelly. So congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. All right. Jingle Ball, December 13th.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Sold out. Billy and Lisa. Kiss 108. Question this morning.
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  Speaker 1: Is it a red flag if you've got a work
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: wife or husband while you're married? Is it a red flag? 877-617-1108,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: the number to call. Lisa, you got a DM on this.
• 28:57
  Speaker 13: All right.
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: So this listener said, hey, Billy and Lisa, I need
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: some help. Recently, my boyfriend has been texting his work
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: colleague at night while we are in bed. I asked
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: him last night about it, and he explained it was
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: his colleague who was going through a separation. He said
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: he was just trying to help her through it. I'm
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: not sure how comfortable I feel with it. And also,
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: doesn't she have girlfriends she can talk to? I trust him,
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: but I've heard of affairs starting this way at work.
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: And I'm nervous about it. Am I being too crazy?
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: Please help me. And then she says, love the show.
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Love the show. Is this a late night thing?
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: It seems like it. Yeah. They're in bed. And this
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: person is probably leaning over being like, who are you texting?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Oh, so he's doing it in bed. Yes.
• 29:39
  Speaker 12: Uh-huh.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Huh. Seems a little uncomfortable. I don't know. I think
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: it's a bit much. Why not just talk when you're
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: in the office?
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: Exactly. I think it's the other setup is a little strange.
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: Yeah, in bed is supposed to be the intimate time.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Right. You know, the door closes. It's your world.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: Exactly.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: You know, that's your world.
• 29:58
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but do you think it's okay to have a
• 30:00
  Speaker 6: work wife or work husband?
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: Definitely. I've got one sitting next to me.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: I know. I've been working next to Billy for 25 years.
• 30:07
  Speaker 11: Right.
• 30:07
  Speaker 6: Do you ever text him?
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: I don't text him at night in bed when I'm—no,
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: I don't.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I text her very late at night.
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 30:16
  Speaker 6: Well, you got the dogs in between you and your wife, Michelle.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: You don't want to wake the dogs.
• 30:20
  Speaker 6: We just text Lisa, see what's going on.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: Imagine in the dark, just whispering. So Lisa, how you doing?
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: What's crazy.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: That's, that's the part that I'm having a problem with.
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: It's not that you are friendly with someone that you
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: work with. It's like the setup of at night. And
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: also show some respect for your partner.
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: Well, and also, you know, she's, um, he's giving her,
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: you know, advice about a breakup.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Like what?
• 30:44
  Speaker 6: He's the shoulder to lean on.
• 30:45
  Speaker 10: Right.
• 30:46
  Speaker 6: And they're working that lead to.
• 30:47
  Speaker 13: Right.
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: And it's late night. It's kind of again, like maybe.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Over coffee in the morning at work.
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: You know, she might she might even have a problem
• 30:56
  Speaker 6: with that. That might even be too much as well.
• 30:59
  Speaker 6: I think I think the really the line that sticks
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: out is doesn't she have girlfriends to to talk to.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: About this. I have a long time here at the
• 31:07
  Speaker 6: radio station. I've had a work wife because I used
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: to work with her, Ashley, down the hall. We spent
• 31:11
  Speaker 6: many years together. And my wife calls her my work wife.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:15
  Speaker 6: You know, we text and all, you know, just like
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: anybody else. But I don't think my wife's concerned. I
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: think she's probably like, I don't think.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Well, some women don't even enjoy the term work wife.
• 31:28
  Speaker 11: Right.
• 31:28
  Speaker 10: You know.
• 31:30
  Speaker 6: Well, do you refer to Lisa as a work wife?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: I don't think so.
• 31:34
  Speaker 11: No.
• 31:34
  Speaker 13: No.
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: We're just friends.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Best friend? Like, you know.
• 31:38
  Speaker 6: I will say that several years ago, I was going
• 31:41
  Speaker 6: through a very hard time in my marriage, and we
• 31:44
  Speaker 6: were very close to splitting up and potentially getting a divorce.
• 31:48
  Speaker 9: What?
• 31:48
  Speaker 6: Very, very close. And it was a really tough time
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: in my marriage, and it was all me, right? I
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: couldn't see it, but it was me. It was my
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: head telling me things, and I leaned on my work
• 31:59
  Speaker 6: wife down the hall, and she talked. She, like, was
• 32:02
  Speaker 6: very blunt with me and told me, what I needed
• 32:05
  Speaker 6: to hear and realize that it was me and basically
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: help save my marriage. It was in that conversation changed everything.
• 32:13
  Speaker 6: And after that, we worked it out and I was
• 32:15
  Speaker 6: able to kind of see what I was doing. So
• 32:17
  Speaker 6: sometimes it's beneficial.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: And how was your wife dealing with it? With what?
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: Did she know these conversations were going on?
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: I told her.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: And she actually texted her and thanked her because she
• 32:26
  Speaker 6: couldn't get through to me.
• 32:27
  Speaker 12: Right.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: But she could. But she could. See, that worked out. Yeah.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: I think so.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: But other times, you know, it can be a little risky.
• 32:34
  Speaker 14: Hey, it's Sarah from Maine. And in terms of the
• 32:36
  Speaker 14: work colleague thing, that is an absolute no.
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: I don't know if anyone remembers.
• 32:40
  Speaker 14: The episode of Seinfeld where.
• 32:42
  Speaker 10: Jerry and Elaine.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: go after the friends that.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Are getting divorced and the line is you go from.
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: That baby she's got a newborn at home if you
• 32:52
  Speaker 6: don't know what that is yeah a.
• 32:53
  Speaker 14: Little mad i'm here for you to just i'm here
• 32:59
  Speaker 14: and i feel like that is exactly what your husband
• 33:02
  Speaker 14: is trying to do so shut.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: It down I thought she was saying to the baby,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I'm here for you. She probably should be. Honey, I'm
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: here for you. No, I'm right here.
• 33:14
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember that episode.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you that. There for you, crap, was a
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: stroke of genius. Oh, please. Never mind. Ah, come on.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: You're a genius. All right.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: So about your boyfriend cheating on you, like right next
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: to you in bed. Like that's pretty ballsy. And I mean,
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: I think it's exciting for him to do that because clearly,
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: I mean, this girl has some family that she could
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: speak to, I'm sure. Some friends. But he's like getting
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: an extra kick out of doing it right in front
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: of your face. You need to leave him and you
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: need to leave him fast.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Oh, God.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: I kind of agree with her in some ways. Like
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: he knows it's probably not appropriate and he's still doing it.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: Like they're trying to push their boundaries to see how
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: far how much he can get away with.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: And he must know that his wife's not happy about it.
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: Well, if she's writing into the Billy and Lisa show
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: on Kiss 108 asking for advice, there's clearly something going on.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Wow. You know what I mean?
• 34:15
  Speaker 11: I don't know.
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: Riley, what do you think?
• 34:18
  Speaker 9: I mean, I've always thought that the work wife, work
• 34:20
  Speaker 9: husband dynamic is very odd. I think if you're a coworker,
• 34:23
  Speaker 9: you can be friends with them, but sometimes it does.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Cross a line.
• 34:27
  Speaker 9: I actually took this as he was being honest when
• 34:30
  Speaker 9: she asked, which I thought was at least like a
• 34:33
  Speaker 9: little bit of a saving grace. Like she was like, hey,
• 34:35
  Speaker 9: who are you texting? And he was like, oh, my
• 34:37
  Speaker 9: coworkers going through this thing.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: He could have lied and.
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: Been like, oh, nothing.
• 34:40
  Speaker 9: And then like, you know, put his phone face down
• 34:42
  Speaker 9: or whatever. So in my head a little bit, I
• 34:44
  Speaker 9: was like, oh, well, at least like he's being honest
• 34:47
  Speaker 9: about it.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Is it weird?
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: But I don't know.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm.
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: Trying to say?
• 34:52
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: I think him being honest with it is him throwing
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: the ball in her court to see how she reacts
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: to it. I think now he's like making it like
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: her problem.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: And now is he going to have to be honest
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: with the co-worker because he knows his wife's not happy
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: about it. Oh, no.
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: That's never coming up.
• 35:07
  Speaker 12: No?
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: I don't think so. It doesn't sound like it.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: He doesn't go in and say, look, these late night conversations.
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: It doesn't sound like it.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: My wife's not comfortable. Yeah.
• 35:13
  Speaker 11: They're not.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, boy. Yeah.
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: Got to put the work wife to bed.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I think.
• 35:18
  Speaker 6: Well, not, we'll not take her today.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: Maybe he already has. Oh yeah. It's going to be
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: a red flag.
• 35:24
  Speaker 11: Uh, yeah, that's a big red flag.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: That's insane.
• 35:28
  Speaker 11: Like if my husband was ever texting the lady from
• 35:31
  Speaker 11: work at night like that, trying to help her, that's
• 35:36
  Speaker 11: crazy pants. I do not like the whole work wife,
• 35:40
  Speaker 11: work husband thing.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Hmm.
• 35:45
  Speaker 11: Oh, boy.
• 35:46
  Speaker 6: Well, you see these stories all the time. It all
• 35:48
  Speaker 6: starts there.
• 35:49
  Speaker 12: All right.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: This is longtime listener Oscar, like the baloney, to.
• 35:54
  Speaker 11: The caller or to the emailer or whatever it was
• 35:57
  Speaker 11: with the guy texting in bed to his coworker.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Well, he's gone.
• 36:03
  Speaker 11: No matter how you put it, he's in bed texting
• 36:06
  Speaker 11: another person, mainly a female.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: He's gone. Oh, boy. Is that the Oscar Mayer guy?
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Oscar Mayer Wieners, baby. Oscar Mayer Wieners. I like that.
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  Speaker 2: Billy and Lisa.
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  Speaker 1: discussion this morning has us talking. Lisa, you got a DM.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Let's read it one more time.
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: So this came from a listener and she says, Billy
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: and Lisa, I need your help. Recently, my boyfriend has
• 36:44
  Speaker 4: been texting his work colleague at night while we are
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: in bed. I asked him last night about it. He
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: explained it was his colleague who he who was going
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: through a separation that he was texting. And he said
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: he was just trying to help her through it. And
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: then this girl's like, I'm not sure how comfortable I
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: feel with that. And also, doesn't she have girlfriends that
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: she can talk to, especially at night? I trust him,
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: but I've heard of affairs starting this way at work,
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: and I'm nervous about it. Am I being crazy? She's like,
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: help me, please.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: And I don't know what's going on, but yes, affairs
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: have started this way, I'm sure. But let's go to Juanita.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: She's in Westford. Juanita, you want to join the conversation?
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: And I believe that you can't have a relationship with
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: somebody without the trust. And if he was honest with her.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: When she asked, then I believe she should trust her husband.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: And Riley pointed out, yeah, he was being honest. He said, yeah,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: I'm talking to a co-worker. She's going through something.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: I think it was just the timing of it and
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: where they were. That's sort of the issue.
• 37:42
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I can understand that side of it. Like maybe
• 37:45
  Speaker 9: wait until the next morning or like over lunch or something.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Well, Justin made a good point, too. He's like, you know,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: when you close the door to the bedroom at night,
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: it's it's your space. You know, like it's you can't
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: share that space unless it's an emergency.
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: Exactly. You know, unless it's an emergency.
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: Can't be giving breakup advice. to a woman you work
• 38:04
  Speaker 6: with in bed while you're laying next to your wife.
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: It just sounds bad.
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: It's just, yeah.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: You know what part I love the most is that
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: the listeners actually want our advice.
• 38:14
  Speaker 10: I know.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: I love that.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: We welcome it. Yeah. Yeah.
• 38:17
  Speaker 6: Let's go to Robin in North Cackalacka, North Carolina.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Hey, Robin, how's North Carolina treating you right now? It's good.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: How are you guys doing?
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: We're doing fine. What do you think about this situation?
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: You know, my husband and I always thought if you're
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: going to make any decision in life, you should always
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: put the shoe on the other foot.
• 38:36
  Speaker 10: And how would it make him feel if she were
• 38:38
  Speaker 10: doing the same thing?
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: I bet he wouldn't feel very good.
• 38:42
  Speaker 8: Exactly.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: So then the answer is wrong. Right.
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: It's just it's slightly disrespectful to the person he's laying
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: in bed with.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can hear it now. It's like, who are
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: you talking to? Right. Oh, I'm talking to Bobby at
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: the office. What?
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: Can't Bobby wait?
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Right. I know.
• 39:00
  Speaker 6: That is a good response, right? Like, what if it
• 39:02
  Speaker 6: was me?
• 39:02
  Speaker 11: Right.
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: You always put the shoe on the other foot.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 39:04
  Speaker 6: What if the roles were reversed?
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 39:06
  Speaker 11: This is Mercedes in response to the work-wife, work-husband thing.
• 39:11
  Speaker 8: Yes, it's fine if they're.
• 39:12
  Speaker 13: Like, 30 years older.
• 39:14
  Speaker 8: Like, a work-grandpa, a work-grandma is fine.
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: But call me crazy, but if my boyfriend was texting
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: somebody about their breakup, who was also their colleague, I
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: would be like, you're dogging me.
• 39:25
  Speaker 10: Get out of here.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, Producer Riley looked at me when she said 30
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: years older. She's like looking at me. Yeah, right.
• 39:35
  Speaker 11: What?
• 39:36
  Speaker 6: It was just a natural instinct. I saw her eyeballing you.
• 39:41
  Speaker 13: Work wives and work husbands are necessary, especially if.
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: You work in healthcare.
• 39:47
  Speaker 13: But I think that if you are texting in bed
• 39:52
  Speaker 13: at night, it only is allowed to be the tea
• 39:56
  Speaker 13: that's piping hot at work.
• 39:58
  Speaker 8: It can't be.
• 39:59
  Speaker 13: personal thing that's kind of odd that's where I would
• 40:03
  Speaker 13: draw the line T.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Fine I can see medical profession like you're both working
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: on a big surgery the next morning or something and
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: you have some last minute notes some last minute questions
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: of course that's you know that's different yeah that's not
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: what this was this was like I don't know whether
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: to break up with him or not what.
• 40:21
  Speaker 6: Well like she said only in bed I guess in
• 40:23
  Speaker 6: bed only if there's like good tea from work yeah
• 40:26
  Speaker 6: not personal stuff oh we love tea I mean, if
• 40:29
  Speaker 6: there's good tea.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Anytime of the day or night. Lisa, feel free to
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: call anytime.
• 40:34
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's never a bad time for some tea.
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: So it's one thing to have a work wife or
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: a work husband.
• 40:39
  Speaker 11: I have had, I've actually had a work wife and
• 40:41
  Speaker 11: a work husband.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: But when it crosses that line, it's.
• 40:45
  Speaker 11: No longer a work wife.
• 40:48
  Speaker 8: She has every right to be concerned.
• 40:52
  Speaker 11: And he's totally.
• 40:53
  Speaker 13: Disrespecting her by texting.
• 40:55
  Speaker 11: Another woman while they're lying in bed.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Run, honey. That's kind of like we're doing a poll.
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: It seems overwhelmingly that everyone's on her side.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Bad idea. Yeah. Put down the phone.
• 41:08
  Speaker 6: It's the bed thing.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: That's what it is. It's the setup.
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: That's the most intimate place.
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: Exactly.
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: Is to be is in bed.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: You could be watching a movie together, a TV show, or,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: you know, it could be showtime.
• 41:20
  Speaker 6: And, you know, it's the same thing has probably happened
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: to many people.
• 41:23
  Speaker 8: The same exact thing happened to.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: My now.
• 41:26
  Speaker 8: Husband, a couple of years ago, I saw him texting
• 41:29
  Speaker 8: a girl. He said it was a girl from work
• 41:31
  Speaker 8: and she was having some relationship trouble and she was
• 41:34
  Speaker 8: venting to him about it. And I'm a woman. I
• 41:37
  Speaker 8: know how women think. I stopped that real quick. She's
• 41:40
  Speaker 8: letting you know that she is going through a breakup
• 41:44
  Speaker 8: with her now husband so that she can get with
• 41:47
  Speaker 8: you after. That stopped really quick. He never texted her
• 41:51
  Speaker 8: after that again.
• 41:51
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: I think it's still overwhelming that, you know, put down
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: the phone. Actually, don't even have the phone with you.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: If you know the work person is calling, just have
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: the phone in another room.
• 42:05
  Speaker 6: Some people don't even bring their phone to bed.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: I got a bunch of messages about that. They keep
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: the phone in the kitchen.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife Michelle turns hers off.
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: So she doesn't even have her phone in the bed?
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: What about you? You're on your phone swiping away, aren't you?
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: I leave it on for the alarm.
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: Right, for the alarm.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: And she keeps saying, the alarm will go off. If
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: you turn down the volume. You know what?
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: I have that same fear. So I'm with you.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't believe it. Even if it's true.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: I'm like, God, but I have to get up early.
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: I got to put it on full volume. I'm with you.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: I would be suspicious that that's even why he was
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: texting her at night.
• 42:42
  Speaker 8: Like, really?
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: She's having a problem with her spouse or whatever. So
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: that's why she can text you late at night. Like,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: come on. I'm sure they're texting about other things.
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: That's just.
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: seems like an excuse.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: And by the way, if she's calling because she's having
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: a problem with her spouse, now she has an even
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: bigger problem, right? Because her spouse probably isn't happy that
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: she's talking to her co-worker about him.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, very true.
• 43:10
  Speaker 9: If they're texting in bed, they're texting all the time. Like,
• 43:13
  Speaker 9: it's not just that one text.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they had all day to exchange texts.
• 43:16
  Speaker 11: Exactly.
• 43:17
  Speaker 6: Oh, and she's complaining about her relationship and how she's
• 43:20
  Speaker 6: not happy with him. And what's he saying back? It's
• 43:24
  Speaker 6: going to be OK.
• 43:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 43:25
  Speaker 6: You'll find someone.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: It's like overwhelming.
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: People are like, this is not appropriate.
• 43:30
  Speaker 6: And then she says something like, I just want to
• 43:32
  Speaker 6: find someone like you.
• 43:32
  Speaker 11: Oh, my God.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: She'll say the words. I need someone like you. Oh,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: that happens. Yeah. Oh, man.
• 43:40
  Speaker 6: Oh, we got Pat, the couple's counselor here.
• 43:42
  Speaker 10: Hi, this is Pat, the LMHC and couples counselor. And
• 43:48
  Speaker 10: when it crosses the line, that's when it's not appropriate.
• 43:51
  Speaker 10: After work hours, when you get into personal things, emotional
• 43:55
  Speaker 10: support for going through a breakup or anything, that should
• 43:58
  Speaker 10: be handled by their personal supports, their friends, their counselors,
• 44:02
  Speaker 10: and it's crossing the line. And this is how affairs
• 44:06
  Speaker 10: can start. You never get connected to someone emotionally, and
• 44:09
  Speaker 10: if you lie to your partner about it, you've crossed
• 44:11
  Speaker 10: the line already.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, I think that pretty much said it all.
• 44:15
  Speaker 6: I love having a professional listen to this show. I
• 44:18
  Speaker 6: think he really is.
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I think so.
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: Billy, why would he lie about that?
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Well, he could have been a character for the Billy
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: and Lisa show. No, no.
• 44:25
  Speaker 6: I mean, actually, I don't know. He could be made up.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: That would be even funnier.
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: Right, the mayor of the South Bend is not really
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: the mayor of the South Bend.
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: No, he is not.
• 44:34
  Speaker 14: Right.
• 44:34
  Speaker 11: No.
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: And, you know, that's the beautiful thing about the Talkbacks.
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: You can be anybody you want.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: I think Pat really is a couple. He is. He's
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: an LMHC.
• 44:41
  Speaker 6: He sounds like it. A licensed mental health counselor.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: Got it. We need him around.
• 44:47
  Speaker 6: Yeah, stick around, Pat, will you?
• 44:49
  Speaker 8: I think the term work wife and work husband is
• 44:52
  Speaker 8: weird and icky.
• 44:54
  Speaker 13: But, yeah, sure, have friends of the opposite sex.
• 44:57
  Speaker 11: That's totally fine. It's normal.
• 44:59
  Speaker 5: You start texting my man in bed, though, we're going
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: to have a problem.