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Episode 69"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: The tree is real. It's about to go down. Wa
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Speaker 1: wake up, wake up and turn it down. You know,
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Speaker 1: if you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight, because so
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Speaker 1: who did? I don't lost? The worst thing you can
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Speaker 1: deal with tracts. Welcome to the follow Alert Show featuring
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Speaker 1: your lifestyle specialists, Ain't Burns So Long and Ferrari Simmons.
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Speaker 1: The true is like Skinny Burns. I gonna have her cord. Boy,
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Speaker 1: I ain't. I don't want me. It was I was late.
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Speaker 1: I got you. Yeah, school, I didn't do it as
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Speaker 1: good as real. How y'all doing babies? It's cool? Everything good?
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Speaker 1: That my celebrity basketball game this past weekend and go
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Speaker 1: to Freako. Yeah, I raised a whole bunch of money
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Speaker 1: for the So I was to cab Varsity Girl, they're
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Speaker 1: gonna get some shoot a whole bunch of good stuff.
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Speaker 1: Who Team Ferrari one against Team Holiday? Holiday lost? You
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Speaker 1: only a thousand dollars? But cool? That was a bet.
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Speaker 1: That's a nice, bad bad betty. And he didn't want
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Speaker 1: to pay up. How bad? Well, he didn't have a
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Speaker 1: cash is what you're trying to say. He want to
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Speaker 1: he had a cash on on him because he thought
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Speaker 1: he was gonna win. Oh, but you don't get your
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Speaker 1: back today. Yeah, we'll see. Stay tuned. We're going to
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Speaker 1: report that it's an apb out for the day. Holiday
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Speaker 1: put his face on the screen. That would he looked like,
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Speaker 1: that's exactly what he looked like. Run that back, Holiday,
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Speaker 1: We know you got it. He owes Ferrari one thousand dollars.
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Speaker 1: And I wanted in five dollar bills of Abraham Lincoln's
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Speaker 1: if not a video of him righting man didn't go.
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Speaker 1: I don't want no parts of that video that will
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Speaker 1: not go on. Swe You got a good weekend, see
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Speaker 1: what's going on with it? No, no, see this weekend though. No. Saturday, Saturday,
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Speaker 1: my friends actually surprised me with a surprise brunch because
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Speaker 1: I'm going through some transitional things professionally that are actually
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Speaker 1: really amazing. So they surprised me. And no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: I like to run up people. No, definitely, no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: it's not that at all. No no. Um. So anyway,
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Speaker 1: then they kidnapped me and they made me drink for
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Speaker 1: the rest of Saturday, so I tapped out at eleven pm.
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Speaker 1: I was like, y'all, like, I have to go home.
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Speaker 1: So I was in bed at midnight, like wiping the
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Speaker 1: makeup off week as well. Your friends go hard. My
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Speaker 1: friends go hard for your friends hard, and I'm talking
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Speaker 1: about they work hard. Those are the associates the friends. Yeah, no,
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Speaker 1: my friend's friends friends like not ANR friends, but they're
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Speaker 1: not mine. The want my intimate friends that like I
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Speaker 1: tell my secrets and all that stuff too. But um,
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Speaker 1: you know, people have different spaces in your life. Um.
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Speaker 1: And then Sunday was fine. Cash and I did a
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Speaker 1: single Tomorrow party um in Brooklyn, Brooklyn Kitchen and Lounge,
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Speaker 1: which is this new place that we're hooked to. I
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Speaker 1: went to a treaty y'all to lunch. Yes, after the show.
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Speaker 1: I spent money at the new Black Business. He want
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Speaker 1: to hang out with us. It was like, yeah, I'll pay,
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Speaker 1: and we was like, you know, the bill was a
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Speaker 1: hundred sixty three enough. We wanted your time. They had
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Speaker 1: drinks the Who and when I do I stopped buying
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Speaker 1: page and he taking us to lunch again today and
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Speaker 1: I'm an order of double. Yeah, that's what's going on.
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Speaker 1: It was good with the party. The party was great.
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Speaker 1: We did three days of promo casse she and not
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Speaker 1: really killed it. Um. Brooklyn is amazing, Like, I'm looking
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Speaker 1: forward to doing some more things there. Cash she would
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Speaker 1: be doing happy Hour, yes, Cash Cash she did the
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Speaker 1: IVY Gala. Yeah, same person. So well we do doing
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Speaker 1: a couple of things at Brooklyn, which I'm really keep
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Speaker 1: it going by when it stops. You know when you stopped,
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Speaker 1: it stopped, so keep going. Uh lajam. I have incredible weekend.
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Speaker 1: I was at the Kentucky Derby for the first time ever. Kentucky.
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Speaker 1: Thank you. I appreciate that the Kentucky Although my outfit
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Speaker 1: next year, I'm gonna kill a asses you know what
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Speaker 1: time I'm on the fashion game because they didn't tell
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Speaker 1: me about my color palette. Everybody they had these amazing
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Speaker 1: colors and I was, I mean, I was cleaning the
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Speaker 1: Board of Health, but I didn't have you know, I
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Speaker 1: didn't really get him a you know, kb on. I
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Speaker 1: just could have did some whole No, it's fine, but
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Speaker 1: it was amazing. I want to shout out the Bridgeman family.
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Speaker 1: Big shout to the Bridgeman family. Uh. Junior Bridgman and
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Speaker 1: his kids are phenomenal. The actual event was called the
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Speaker 1: Trifecta Gala, which trife to standard stands for the three
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Speaker 1: kids UM, and they had did things for UM, the
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Speaker 1: West End School there in Louisville. They did stuff for
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Speaker 1: the v Foundation for the Cancer Research U. And it
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Speaker 1: was when I tell you, like they took the casc
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Speaker 1: Center and like they had like this whole like vendor
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Speaker 1: set up and then on the inside they had Usher,
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Speaker 1: They had Steve Harvey, the Zap Band, remember Roger Trauman
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Speaker 1: and zapp I don't want to be in had Shirley
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Speaker 1: Murder come out and saying with anyway. So it was amazing.
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Speaker 1: But they had took the CASS Center, they made this
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Speaker 1: better thing. In the lobby you had the whole red
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Speaker 1: carpeting and then on the inside they blacked out the
5:24
Speaker 1: sides right because they didn't need the whole video. So
5:26
Speaker 1: it's like Phillips, right, So they blacked it out, and
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Speaker 1: they had couches so everyone that bought like they had
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Speaker 1: like sections and it was dope and it was all facing.
5:35
Speaker 1: Then they had a rise on east side of the the stage.
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Speaker 1: And when I tell you, it was so dope disco ball,
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Speaker 1: I mean, it was beautiful and I had you know,
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Speaker 1: I've never been a Derby, don't know anything about the celebrities.
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Speaker 1: That come out because I just never been. But everybody
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Speaker 1: came out. It was beautiful US perform. A matter of fact, um,
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Speaker 1: four minutes before he went on stage, he was like, yo,
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Speaker 1: I got this DJ set. In the middle of the set,
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Speaker 1: can you come out? And rocked the joint while you know,
6:02
Speaker 1: I'm saying change. I was like, sure, how long is it?
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Speaker 1: You know? And then he was like, U's like nine minutes.
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Speaker 1: But all of the songs that he had me come
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Speaker 1: out on, all my favorite Usser songs, like I'm like,
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Speaker 1: why aren't you superstar? You remind me? And I'm up
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Speaker 1: there and it was nuts and no, but I wasn't hosting.
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Speaker 1: I was there to do the red carpet, That's what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like I was. Once you got on stage
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Speaker 1: with him, you probably was like if you just have
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Speaker 1: to go, Yes we have yes we have footage. But
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Speaker 1: you know, for me, though, I tell you this, and
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Speaker 1: this is something for all you young entrepreneurs out there,
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Speaker 1: Like I was turning down bags and dirty because all
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Speaker 1: I was getting was like boosey city girls. You know,
6:43
Speaker 1: I'm trying to not separate myself, but liked the more prominent,
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Speaker 1: you know, events and this this was a nice and
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Speaker 1: burning show opportunity at first, and because they did Usher,
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Speaker 1: you know he calls a bag because it is Steve
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Speaker 1: Hervey super bag. They didn't have the budget right left
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Speaker 1: over right, So then it was last minute, two days
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Speaker 1: before they can you come through the red car pet
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Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I was like, what's the bad? And
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Speaker 1: then it was, you know, it wasn't really what I wanted,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But I was like, you know,
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Speaker 1: let me go. I'm gonna meet these new people I
7:12
Speaker 1: do not know. And when I tell you the head
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Speaker 1: of diversity for Papa John's um Kanye Orlanda, like all
7:16
Speaker 1: the big wigs in the black sphere, you know I'm
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Speaker 1: talking about, we're there. And they was so impressed with
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Speaker 1: the job I did. And because I you know, went
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Speaker 1: the extra mile, because it was you know, interviewed the
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Speaker 1: celebrity and you know, the stuff I do. But then
7:29
Speaker 1: it was like the extra stuff. The father and the
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Speaker 1: mother were there and making sure they were good, just
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Speaker 1: running around the venue smiling and making sure people felt
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Speaker 1: good and then coming out with Usher. So he was
7:38
Speaker 1: clocked in. He was clocking in. I was, but I
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Speaker 1: was so focused because like again, first of all, something
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Speaker 1: do you see black excellence like that the nine times out?
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Speaker 1: And then when I tell you black sponsorship as well,
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Speaker 1: like I mean the you know essence the guy that
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Speaker 1: owned shade moreisharw that ball essence. Like all these people
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Speaker 1: were there and I'm talking, I'm talking a bag so
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Speaker 1: big shout to the Bridgeman's all the people they give
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Speaker 1: him something was all the people they brought out were
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Speaker 1: black excellence at his finess. And that was the highlight
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Speaker 1: of my weekend, besides the rabbits in my front front lawn.
8:08
Speaker 1: Jessica got this. She got I don't know if you
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Speaker 1: saw it on her story, but this baby rabbit got
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Speaker 1: caught in the net because she put these nets over
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Speaker 1: her roses because the deer's kept eating them. Right, So
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Speaker 1: the four little rabbits and the one little baby rabbit
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Speaker 1: got caught in the thing and we literally had to
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Speaker 1: go up perform surgery. We had to get the she
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Speaker 1: got the gloves she was holding the rabbit. I'm cutting
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Speaker 1: around rabbit. So that was another highlight because you know,
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Speaker 1: love Land is really animal kingdom and that's tough boy.
8:35
Speaker 1: In case you missed you, ladies, gylemen, Happy birthday to
8:42
Speaker 1: Chris Brown and Meek Neil too of my favorite of
8:45
Speaker 1: getting up on one time. Yeah, you know, I got
8:48
Speaker 1: the Post brees at the Posted meet this morning. But
8:50
Speaker 1: happy birthday, y'all. And Chris is just turning thirty. I
8:53
Speaker 1: feel like he's been in the culture. Whatever he just
8:56
Speaker 1: turned he probably his life was poor. Yeah, he dropping
9:01
Speaker 1: an album with thirty songs. Thirty but that boy like
9:07
Speaker 1: Mike Jackson man kind of vibe. The majority of it
9:10
Speaker 1: is going to be like R and B hip hop.
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Speaker 1: Is it something you're like making love to or is
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Speaker 1: it something question? You know that just because songs like
9:21
Speaker 1: that's like a set play like that. I want to
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Speaker 1: hear more of that. I do want to hear more
9:27
Speaker 1: of that from Chris. I want to hear more song song,
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Speaker 1: just more on one album like that. I mean, I
9:34
Speaker 1: can't even imagine what the rage would be like, but
9:36
Speaker 1: I definitely want to hear that. Yeah, I'm sure you
9:39
Speaker 1: got it coming, ladies and gentlemen. Facebook bars far right leaders,
9:44
Speaker 1: including Minister Facon. You know, I haven't heard um, let's say,
9:52
Speaker 1: white bashing from fair Con in years. I mean, he's
9:55
Speaker 1: definitely there's an audio of him out there, But over
9:57
Speaker 1: the last decade, it's pretty much been facts, right, like
10:03
Speaker 1: this happens, So why would they ban them? Because it's
10:07
Speaker 1: he's teaching us the things that they won't teach us
10:08
Speaker 1: to school, and clearly they don't want us to know.
10:11
Speaker 1: And the people that work from Facebook are okay, yeah,
10:15
Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, but that's that's that's the conspiracy that
10:18
Speaker 1: I agree, right, Like, but you gotta imagine how much
10:22
Speaker 1: information they have on us, So, like, do you realize
10:25
Speaker 1: every picture we post their own, every phrase that we
10:28
Speaker 1: say on that platform. I mean it's I don't know,
10:31
Speaker 1: but it's almost like a world functioning without social media
10:34
Speaker 1: is impossible. I'm telling you. Remember we talked about this
10:37
Speaker 1: like maybet episodes ago early, like if all social media
10:42
Speaker 1: went away for like two months, and people will probably
10:45
Speaker 1: go crazy for real, yeah, because you know mothers like
10:50
Speaker 1: they'll post on social media before they even brush their teeth.
10:53
Speaker 1: I have to force myself to put my phone on
10:55
Speaker 1: the charger and leave it in another room. That's how
10:58
Speaker 1: addictive the phones are because it's always something going on.
11:00
Speaker 1: You always got to be on this text, email, social media.
11:03
Speaker 1: I mean for us, we get paid to do That's
11:05
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I try to like yeah, tone and
11:09
Speaker 1: I cut my phone off at night, my phone off,
11:12
Speaker 1: and you ain't got the whole number. You can't get me.
11:15
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just gone. And sometimes I go to
11:17
Speaker 1: bed to ten. Third Ladies and Gentlemen, third season of
11:20
Speaker 1: John Singing to Snowfall, one of my favorite shows. It's
11:24
Speaker 1: set them this summer. He's still getting executive reduced on
11:28
Speaker 1: the show, so his family will obviously continue royalties from man,
11:32
Speaker 1: that show is amazing, and it's a period piece which
11:34
Speaker 1: are hard to kind of they're hard to kind of
11:37
Speaker 1: keep up, you know what I'm saying. But he's killing it.
11:41
Speaker 1: You ain't seen it, haven't You haven't seen Snowball. You
11:44
Speaker 1: gotta go one season one real quickly, bench one day definitely.
11:48
Speaker 1: I mean is in the season ten? No three? Season three?
11:54
Speaker 1: Know how many episodes in this per season? Um, I
11:58
Speaker 1: don't even think it. I don't think it's that many.
12:00
Speaker 1: I can knock him out, so can you? White? You
12:03
Speaker 1: can lay down like literally from Tender Tender, probably knock
12:05
Speaker 1: him out. Speaking of people's favorite shows, and y'all see
12:09
Speaker 1: the Starbucks coffee cup in a Game of Thrones y'all
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Speaker 1: don't see that. I don't watch of Thrones. I don't
12:15
Speaker 1: watch it either, but I saw it on the next
12:17
Speaker 1: funny you saw that. How is this set? The set
12:21
Speaker 1: designer is fired. They did not have Starbucks? Are you kidding?
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Speaker 1: In two thousand b C. So it was a mistake. Absolutely.
12:30
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones is like medieval like it's old, like
12:34
Speaker 1: where the hell did Starbucks come from? Working a lot man?
12:37
Speaker 1: You know, it was money that was basically Ethiopian coffee,
12:41
Speaker 1: and they just forgot to take it out the Starbucks cup.
12:43
Speaker 1: Oh lord, um, ladies and gentlemen, more black excellence. Excuse
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Speaker 1: me black? Uh? Black women have been crowned Miss USA
12:52
Speaker 1: this year, Miss teen USA and Miss America. Give it
12:56
Speaker 1: up for these beautiful but black women doing anything big
13:01
Speaker 1: out the v c's Miss d c Cordi Cranshaw, We
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Speaker 1: see you, baby. You did your thing. You didn't take
13:06
Speaker 1: it home, but you didn't think I want to answer that.
13:09
Speaker 1: I don't remember their names, but there were two out
13:11
Speaker 1: of the three women had natural curly hair, So it
13:14
Speaker 1: was really nice to see black women with natural curly
13:18
Speaker 1: hair crown Like. I just felt the imagery, like the
13:23
Speaker 1: relatability that that that gave to so many little girls
13:26
Speaker 1: like that set out to me so much, man. And
13:29
Speaker 1: one of the girls actually came out and said that
13:31
Speaker 1: they were trying to pressure her to straighten her hair
13:33
Speaker 1: for it, strain your hair for this, and she was like, no,
13:36
Speaker 1: I want to wear my curly hair. And she got
13:38
Speaker 1: the damn crown. That's awesome. And she's from North Carolina
13:41
Speaker 1: to Miss USA, correct, I believe? So yeah, so big
13:44
Speaker 1: up to everyone who won. We are proud of you, all,
13:47
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Marjorie Harvey. Did everyone know her husband
13:51
Speaker 1: or her right? Right? But did everybody know she he
13:56
Speaker 1: was a gangster? Yeah, the real gangster. So he's apparently
14:00
Speaker 1: writing a tell all and he's not holding back on
14:04
Speaker 1: speaking on Marjorie and you know, so crazy. I was
14:08
Speaker 1: there because they were there and whatever. And that night
14:10
Speaker 1: they put up a video like, oh we supposed getting
14:12
Speaker 1: the boy. So y'all saw the video, right, and and
14:15
Speaker 1: it was like this energy of floating around like it's
14:17
Speaker 1: anything cool. They you see him together? Way they at like,
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Speaker 1: So it was kind of like, but this is the
14:21
Speaker 1: reason be a headache. You can tell all hell hot
14:25
Speaker 1: girls secrets what you know. But there's listen, y'all, because
14:28
Speaker 1: you know everybody got a pass. Oh he is, he is? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you know I had her on Athan fifth, she was caring. Yeah,
14:37
Speaker 1: it was one time we got pulled over. She put
14:39
Speaker 1: it inside her. Everybody calmed down. That's his wife. Everybody
14:45
Speaker 1: calmed down. Yeah, put this okay, all right, on to
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Speaker 1: the next speaking of putting it in Vagina Clairemont answer
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Speaker 1: jug permission to go on the case before turn itself
15:01
Speaker 1: in because they put you know what I'm saying, it's
15:06
Speaker 1: not thoughtness, it just maybe their professional You know, I
15:11
Speaker 1: didn't know it was so many prostitutes. No, listen, man,
15:14
Speaker 1: I did not know that job. I mean I knew that,
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Speaker 1: but I didn't. I didn't want to say that. It
15:18
Speaker 1: is a real job. It's legal in many places. It's
15:20
Speaker 1: it's it's considered a real job for some people. It's
15:24
Speaker 1: fascinating by the guy with the biggest winter take advantage
15:28
Speaker 1: of him and go to this guy, how can you
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Speaker 1: pay for for excuse my frish, I don't understand how
15:35
Speaker 1: you can pay. I'm not gonna say you you got
15:37
Speaker 1: a wife or you got a girlfriend, but how can
15:41
Speaker 1: you ask you normally get you know, the box as
15:44
Speaker 1: often as they should think that they should get. Once
15:49
Speaker 1: they start making a little money, they'd be like, hey,
15:51
Speaker 1: you know what I gotta give you. My white partners say,
15:55
Speaker 1: any millionaire celebrities, we don't call it married a prostitutes.
15:58
Speaker 1: But my white potter saying, easier of a transition. You
16:01
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, They say, ain't cut you go
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Speaker 1: to money. It's really good. It's like you're ordering let
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Speaker 1: me get the sloppy toppy side like it it's like
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Speaker 1: a menu from you. In fact, it's a sex menu,
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Speaker 1: and you'd rather just pay for it. And I got
16:24
Speaker 1: a question for y'all. I was having a conversation with
16:27
Speaker 1: a couple of my homeboys, and they were saying that
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Speaker 1: they cannot envision their wife doing some of like the
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Speaker 1: really nasty they pay for somebody else to do it.
16:39
Speaker 1: Is that a real thing? Like I got some Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I got some partners that do that. What is the
16:43
Speaker 1: real thing that you don't see your wife doing the
16:45
Speaker 1: real sexual video? Like they don't want to see their
16:47
Speaker 1: wife like they don't want to do that. Yeah, they
16:50
Speaker 1: pay somebody else. You know. I've had partners tell me, like,
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Speaker 1: you know the things she used to do to me
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Speaker 1: kind of. I don't want her mouth for my children.
16:57
Speaker 1: But that's you know, I'm just saying what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, what they said, not me. I want sloppy,
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Speaker 1: let us see. No, but I'm just saying. I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: What I'm saying is stop. That's what That's what some
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Speaker 1: of my partners I've said, myners. That was so interesting
17:17
Speaker 1: because I was like, what did you want? What did
17:19
Speaker 1: you want your life partner to be able to satisfy
17:22
Speaker 1: you all that I want my life partner to do
17:23
Speaker 1: everything she did when she met. That's what I want.
17:27
Speaker 1: I don't want. And that's the problem with y'all out
17:29
Speaker 1: there in the street. Some of y'all, oh, oh, you
17:32
Speaker 1: gotta be y'all need your opinion on this too. So
17:35
Speaker 1: this is a little thing I had participated last week too,
17:39
Speaker 1: and no, no, I gotta ask your opinion. Yeah, I
17:42
Speaker 1: had some sloppy toppy, absolutely, but my point, this is
17:46
Speaker 1: my point to you just you just made me think
17:50
Speaker 1: of something. So last week we had um Anaton and
17:54
Speaker 1: Steve Canal had that exhibit. Great big shout to them,
17:57
Speaker 1: by the way, and it turned and I needed you
18:00
Speaker 1: you there. I needed you that it turned into a
18:03
Speaker 1: whole thing because Tracy still was on the panel, right,
18:08
Speaker 1: and Tracy is like my homie, but every time I'm
18:10
Speaker 1: with her, we always get into these relationship conversations. So
18:14
Speaker 1: I had I was because she's not in one. And
18:17
Speaker 1: I was actually speaking to women, like in my opinion,
18:20
Speaker 1: being a merriedman, and there were only merried men on
18:23
Speaker 1: the panel, and so we were talking about you know,
18:25
Speaker 1: just like you know, women and professionals like you feel
18:28
Speaker 1: like you need to just do you so much that
18:30
Speaker 1: you forget about you know other you know, needs versus wants,
18:33
Speaker 1: so Farth and song. Anyway, it went to this big
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Speaker 1: discussion and we're gonna do this thing, uh for women
18:38
Speaker 1: only with all male panel, And I want to know
18:40
Speaker 1: your opinion because I think when women get this this
18:44
Speaker 1: game right, they get it from each other. Therefore, as biased,
18:48
Speaker 1: you don't have any men in the mix giving you
18:50
Speaker 1: male perspective, And you think about it like when you
18:53
Speaker 1: go here like the when it's women speaking to women,
18:56
Speaker 1: it's empowerment. We are this. We don't need nothing to know.
19:00
Speaker 1: It's definitely important to understand the other side issue. That's
19:06
Speaker 1: all I needed. I just think there needs to be
19:08
Speaker 1: some diversity on the panel. It can't be all gods
19:12
Speaker 1: the same. No, no, no, no, no, it's it's married
19:14
Speaker 1: men for single women only. Cool. I'm just saying you'll
19:17
Speaker 1: need to be diverse. Everybody can. Women are diverse, and
19:23
Speaker 1: I love that. In a matter of fact, don't think
19:24
Speaker 1: I'm putting friends of mine that are love doctors that
19:28
Speaker 1: don't have no women. If they love doctors had no women.
19:30
Speaker 1: To be honest, they can't be on this panel because
19:32
Speaker 1: it's you're not in a relationship, and so the whole
19:34
Speaker 1: goal is to talk to men in relationships to kind
19:38
Speaker 1: of give advice versus the if I'm glad you co
19:40
Speaker 1: signed because I know you're all in your okay. Alright,
19:44
Speaker 1: Speaking of cool, Chris Harry and Megan Marco have a
19:47
Speaker 1: baby boy. That means that there will be a black
19:49
Speaker 1: man at the Hell of the United Kingdom at some point,
19:52
Speaker 1: giving up one man they identified. No, they're going to
19:59
Speaker 1: call if he's dark skinned. You can't help it. You
20:02
Speaker 1: don't know. We don't know. We ain't seen the baby.
20:05
Speaker 1: It might be had a light skin, but it might
20:07
Speaker 1: brown round brown. He's gonna be he's gonna be half African.
20:13
Speaker 1: American African American, right, and one thing about us, we tamed.
20:16
Speaker 1: So his ass getting that slid right, So Mega Marco's daddy,
20:19
Speaker 1: m year, he don't play polo. He's gonna have some
20:24
Speaker 1: dad is white, trust some melanin in his skin. So
20:27
Speaker 1: when his ass going outside, it's gonna get a little tip.
20:30
Speaker 1: Listen to me, My granddad was blue black. Ain't none
20:33
Speaker 1: of my kids somebody downline, like you know, you know,
20:37
Speaker 1: yeah like this, Yeah, it's gonna get a little tent Okay.
20:40
Speaker 1: So that's all I'm thinking. Maybe he's a look like
20:42
Speaker 1: curious to see though, how how he grows up? Like
20:44
Speaker 1: is he going to be in tune with his African
20:46
Speaker 1: American side? Is his mom like going to bring him
20:48
Speaker 1: around to see his family for the cookouts? Like how
20:51
Speaker 1: African American is he going to be? That's how African? Well? Yeah,
20:57
Speaker 1: she's where is she from? She from London from you
21:00
Speaker 1: could call she got an accent, she could have been
21:09
Speaker 1: all right, y'all. Rasby joins the cast of Love and
21:11
Speaker 1: Hip Hop. I don't know how I feel about that, Yeah,
21:14
Speaker 1: because he's so he's so mentally not stable. I don't
21:17
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good thing. I think it
21:19
Speaker 1: couldn't show which one just had the domestic thing. He
21:23
Speaker 1: just had the domestic thing. Not a good idea, But
21:26
Speaker 1: I know that's why that that's probably why they put
21:27
Speaker 1: him on there so you can talk about it. We
21:30
Speaker 1: have list. We have to figure out the medium. I
21:32
Speaker 1: know it's entertainment. I know these people just but te people. Man,
21:36
Speaker 1: it's like they're being bred and putting the system to
21:39
Speaker 1: be the ruin themselves. I think, you know, a franchise
21:43
Speaker 1: like love and hip hop sometimes will manipulate situations to
21:48
Speaker 1: make people overreact, and I think that they sometimes don't
21:50
Speaker 1: consider people's like real mental state. Like I think it's
21:56
Speaker 1: an outlet for him to kind of give people a
21:59
Speaker 1: different side of him. I think that would be awesome,
22:01
Speaker 1: I really do. But I feel like it may turn
22:04
Speaker 1: into almost like abusing. You know, this is my thing.
22:08
Speaker 1: I think I agree because I don't feel like his
22:12
Speaker 1: body of work in the public eye has been stable.
22:16
Speaker 1: It has not. I mean, he's been so unstable from
22:19
Speaker 1: the Chris Stokes allegations and what happened as a child group,
22:23
Speaker 1: and I think it was true, true, and how partnering
22:26
Speaker 1: for everybody to come on you telling us to shut
22:29
Speaker 1: the funk up, and yea, he needed to get that out,
22:31
Speaker 1: you know. In my opinion, Um, he did amazing on
22:35
Speaker 1: the Millennium tour, Like I was looking at the group
22:39
Speaker 1: did amazing, like like his dance moves or something. You're
22:44
Speaker 1: kidding me, Like he did amazing, And I felt so
22:46
Speaker 1: bad for him because like anytime he had solos, it
22:49
Speaker 1: just kind of, you know what I'm saying, the participation
22:51
Speaker 1: went down and I was just like, are y'all not
22:54
Speaker 1: watching how well he's doing? Like, honest to god, he
22:57
Speaker 1: was amazing because it was actually maybe so you know,
23:01
Speaker 1: but I feel like talent wise, like we're here watching
23:04
Speaker 1: somebody leave it all on the stage like celebrate that,
23:08
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We don't really know what's
23:09
Speaker 1: going on his personal like for real that he's on
23:12
Speaker 1: the show, though I believe it. I hope that they
23:14
Speaker 1: allowed him to tell his story, like truthfully, I really
23:18
Speaker 1: I hope they depicted the right way. I want something
23:22
Speaker 1: good in fact, and I want people to just you know,
23:27
Speaker 1: I know, people got to get paid and get changing
23:29
Speaker 1: the third but dude's best for your soul young man, ladies,
23:32
Speaker 1: gem it's time footballer now my baller males has been liddy.
23:39
Speaker 1: I saw you going active to your stories to making
23:42
Speaker 1: it on my ig story man, because just because I'm
23:44
Speaker 1: over here, because I'm getting so much, I was like,
23:46
Speaker 1: since some of them may not make ball alert, but
23:48
Speaker 1: this one right here. As soon as I read it,
23:50
Speaker 1: the lady bad said, Jesus exactly what I said. She's like,
23:57
Speaker 1: it's not me spelling l A W d Ellen lawd Jesus.
24:02
Speaker 1: She was like, Hey, my cousin was scared to write
24:05
Speaker 1: you guys, so I'm doing it for her. Okay. She
24:09
Speaker 1: was talking to this guy for like three months and
24:11
Speaker 1: she found out he was engaged, but when she asked
24:14
Speaker 1: the dude about it, he said the engagement was off.
24:17
Speaker 1: So they continued to talk. Things were getting pretty deep.
24:22
Speaker 1: It had to have been maybe nine months now, and
24:25
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, he pops up married. She shocked her,
24:29
Speaker 1: et cetera. But somehow he got in her head and
24:31
Speaker 1: they continued talking. He's sicking, he's sickening her head up,
24:37
Speaker 1: that's what she wrote. Like, he ain't feeling the marriage
24:41
Speaker 1: and he really wants to be with her. Then the
24:45
Speaker 1: wife pops up pregnant, and my cousin lost it. She
24:49
Speaker 1: was so hurt, but he got in her head again
24:53
Speaker 1: and they continued to talk. A couple of months went
24:55
Speaker 1: by and he telling her this pimping. He's telling her
25:02
Speaker 1: you're about to leave her, and he actually does. It
25:05
Speaker 1: ends up being with my cousin. There they together, they
25:09
Speaker 1: are they have been together for a couple of months,
25:12
Speaker 1: and she ends up getting pregnant. So both are pregnant
25:16
Speaker 1: at the same time. Now she doesn't know what to do.
25:20
Speaker 1: What advice should we give her. I think you should
25:23
Speaker 1: have I think should take care of yourself while you're pregnant,
25:27
Speaker 1: make sure you and the baby are healthy, and get
25:31
Speaker 1: that man out your beds. Well, we are together now though,
25:34
Speaker 1: right he's with his wife and he needed to have
25:41
Speaker 1: they having hood twins, two girls a pregnant hood twins twins. Okay, yeah,
25:49
Speaker 1: I've heard up. So they have babies at the same time.
25:53
Speaker 1: He left a wife and now he's with her. Yeah,
25:55
Speaker 1: so you see with her right now? Yes, he's with
25:58
Speaker 1: the cousin and both girls a pregnant. No, it doesn't
26:03
Speaker 1: sound like they've divorced. It just sounds like they're not
26:06
Speaker 1: together at the moment. And he went to old girl
26:09
Speaker 1: and got her pregnant too. I personally do not want
26:11
Speaker 1: to be with a man like that ever in life.
26:14
Speaker 1: I don't understand how you created a home and a
26:19
Speaker 1: family there and before you even saw that family into fruition,
26:22
Speaker 1: like you went somewhere else. Like that's a man that
26:24
Speaker 1: scares me, Like you could do that to us at
26:28
Speaker 1: any time. You can leave us at any moment, and
26:31
Speaker 1: I just I couldn't do it. I could not do it.
26:33
Speaker 1: Yeah he uh, he didn't put the pimp game's I don't.
26:38
Speaker 1: I don't know how Hello, she's she's dickmatized. I don't.
26:42
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't see a win, you know what
26:43
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I mean he's still married, right? Is he
26:46
Speaker 1: still married? Technically? Okay, so he's still married. Baby on
26:50
Speaker 1: the way, you're now living together because the baby the sorry,
26:54
Speaker 1: the wife is now put you out. You're now with
26:57
Speaker 1: the side joint, which which you are in all and
27:00
Speaker 1: all actuality. The wife takes him back exactly, didn't what
27:04
Speaker 1: he don't go back? Yeah, I just don't, you know,
27:08
Speaker 1: says I'm sorry that you the situation, and I probably
27:11
Speaker 1: wish the best for you and your family. It sucks
27:15
Speaker 1: to be in that situation. The only advice is, you know,
27:17
Speaker 1: hopefully is a good dad and that takes care of
27:19
Speaker 1: his responsibilities as a man. Outside of that, if I
27:22
Speaker 1: was you, I would not stay bad dad. Example number one,
27:26
Speaker 1: He already did that. She's pregnant though I need, I
27:32
Speaker 1: need help. Well, my thing is hopefully he is a
27:35
Speaker 1: man with some type of morals that he's going to
27:38
Speaker 1: be a good father. So at least, I mean, we
27:40
Speaker 1: can hope for that. Yeah, we definitely get hope. I mean,
27:43
Speaker 1: because kids need their their dad, you know. So what
27:46
Speaker 1: about that dude that was posted on Instagram He had
27:49
Speaker 1: two twins pregnant at the same time. Twins man. Yeah,
27:59
Speaker 1: he has sisters, both of them, and they both cool
28:03
Speaker 1: with it. Well, I mean, think about it though we've
28:06
Speaker 1: we've already heard future twins, you know what I'm saying.
28:10
Speaker 1: So now at this point, if if y'all are both
28:11
Speaker 1: dating and twins, is itself with the ship though, because
28:16
Speaker 1: they were with the Yeah, first time twins have have shared,
28:23
Speaker 1: uh experience that time though, Yeah, I've experienced that. So
28:28
Speaker 1: he over there, boom boom boom cool, boom boom boom cool.
28:32
Speaker 1: You want to make sure this is the same probably all,
28:34
Speaker 1: they probably three some minutes. I want to do it.
28:37
Speaker 1: Ain'tels got the world sucked up? The world up? You know,
28:43
Speaker 1: it looks like declaring my twins is going on again
28:49
Speaker 1: out here in the streets man. And then you know
28:52
Speaker 1: you saw the other baller. Man. We didn't get to it,
28:54
Speaker 1: but it was. I mean, I'm pregnant by my side dude,
28:57
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend doesn't know what should I do? Like,
29:00
Speaker 1: there's a whole bunch of side dude. What is the rawdness?
29:03
Speaker 1: What in the rawdness is happening? You know there's a
29:06
Speaker 1: thing called hib and age, don't you you know herpes?
29:11
Speaker 1: Is that a thousand percentile up out in this motherfucker
29:15
Speaker 1: you're and you out here going raw? Just random rawness acts,
29:20
Speaker 1: a random rawness hot dog in the pack, that is,
29:24
Speaker 1: I mean, as listen, man, it's gonna be look hello,
29:28
Speaker 1: scary'a gotta take care of your business, strap up because
29:31
Speaker 1: y'all are here, raw dog? What what I just say? What?
29:37
Speaker 1: Random acts of rawness? And now it's time for coming
29:40
Speaker 1: creeping creep creep that's Cassine. Tony says, can you break
29:49
Speaker 1: up without saying it? And all of a sudden, since
29:53
Speaker 1: Santana ROMs to this person that I don't think she
29:57
Speaker 1: knows and says actions speak louder than words. People have
30:01
Speaker 1: months broken up and don't even know it, but God
30:05
Speaker 1: reveals all truths. Broke up, well, that has already been
30:10
Speaker 1: swirling around. There haven't been like photos of them being posted. Um,
30:18
Speaker 1: so they probably are s carring up for the next
30:20
Speaker 1: level of next season of whatever it is that they're doing. Well.
30:23
Speaker 1: She could be trolling and they're not broken up there together,
30:25
Speaker 1: but you know that maybe so who knows. But I think,
30:30
Speaker 1: just like in treating her response, I'm thinking, like, whatever
30:33
Speaker 1: their situation was, somebody did something bad and instead of
30:36
Speaker 1: telling that person, hey, I can't be with you, we're
30:38
Speaker 1: not together, you are you checked out emotionally, And I
30:41
Speaker 1: think maybe that's kind of what she was saying, like
30:44
Speaker 1: you can break up without words because I was already
30:46
Speaker 1: kind of out. I don't know, I've had emotional breakups before.
30:50
Speaker 1: You guys didn't know. How do you expect to have
30:52
Speaker 1: a relationship keep putting all your business out there though,
30:55
Speaker 1: playing or not trolling or not setting up episodes, and
30:58
Speaker 1: how do you expect the key your relationship if every
31:01
Speaker 1: bit of your relationship is in the public because love
31:03
Speaker 1: and hip hop. New York is next, because Atlanta's on
31:06
Speaker 1: right now, It's gonna be New York because that we're
31:09
Speaker 1: Atlanta's at the Miami Atlanta Miami Atlanta, New York setting
31:15
Speaker 1: it up that check check does. Don't sacrifice your integrity
31:21
Speaker 1: or your real life for check promised to me. It
31:23
Speaker 1: doesn't pay off. I mean, how do you deal with
31:25
Speaker 1: the real life repercussions of that, Like if you guys
31:27
Speaker 1: are out together and people are like, oh, I thought
31:29
Speaker 1: you was broken, Like, like, do you even want that
31:31
Speaker 1: kind of attention around? Because words are the most powerful things.
31:36
Speaker 1: You can bring that to fruition even if it wasn't true.
31:38
Speaker 1: That's why I didn't understand why Stephen Marjorie did that
31:41
Speaker 1: video after them, Like you spend why would you even
31:44
Speaker 1: put that out there? Like it is nobody's business. They
31:48
Speaker 1: had put out a video literally, uh Saturday night that
31:53
Speaker 1: we get a divorce. Oh you spend all the money?
31:56
Speaker 1: Well yeah, they put out a video playing on the rumors.
31:59
Speaker 1: But my thing is, like playing on the rumors, why
32:01
Speaker 1: why would you even acknowledge if it's not true? Because
32:03
Speaker 1: that only adds fuel to the fire. Then what then
32:07
Speaker 1: there's actually issue because we all know Marjorie spending that
32:10
Speaker 1: bag very time you look up. You know what I'm
32:13
Speaker 1: talking about, and Steve got nineteen jobs for really over
32:19
Speaker 1: all over my TV. I would have a no bullshit,
32:26
Speaker 1: y'all know I'm a very giving person, right I spoil
32:29
Speaker 1: all of them? I would have a serious problem my wife.
32:34
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, My wife spinning like that
32:36
Speaker 1: because it be the I mean, it just be the unnested.
32:40
Speaker 1: She might not even be spinning though, to eat your
32:42
Speaker 1: own and not be spending it. They might be sitting.
32:44
Speaker 1: They want her to be photographed. No man shots, that's fine, girls,
32:50
Speaker 1: go ahead and shot. Friend. Yes, head wants you to
32:58
Speaker 1: be married and happy. Man, she is likely man man
33:03
Speaker 1: When nineteen jobs says, if that man, let you go
33:06
Speaker 1: ahead and shops, this is a man to listen. They
33:14
Speaker 1: aren't together, go shopping? You want to go get it?
33:19
Speaker 1: You just you just did a three sixty change in
33:21
Speaker 1: your opinion. That's not telling what she what their relationship.
33:25
Speaker 1: So it's like, yeah, we don't know what the relationship
33:28
Speaker 1: and tells like, ain't nobody in counter but that's what
33:31
Speaker 1: you're good with? You good what I'm just saying, no,
33:33
Speaker 1: y'all can't keep putting it out there and think it's
33:35
Speaker 1: not hard to look and dressed just as she did
33:38
Speaker 1: when they first met. Or he's making sure she stays
33:40
Speaker 1: lick because he likes she got up. I'm sorry she
33:44
Speaker 1: had it's kind of bag before. I am sorry. That's fine.
33:47
Speaker 1: Steve didn't either, but he wants he did. He was
33:51
Speaker 1: already paid when they met. What is you talking about,
33:53
Speaker 1: y'all need get ahold y'allsels women That drug dealer she
33:56
Speaker 1: was with kept her lacey and he's locked up. The
33:59
Speaker 1: money went by, he went by, but then she went
34:01
Speaker 1: upper echelon and it was like, ok, the coach to
34:05
Speaker 1: the channel, you know, to the birkin like she she
34:07
Speaker 1: took it up as as her man went up. I
34:09
Speaker 1: got the perfect for all of this, Steve. They have
34:11
Speaker 1: all those jobs, but I think Sha got him beat.
34:14
Speaker 1: Though Shack is ridiculously checked that a lot of jobs.
34:18
Speaker 1: He's just money. We're rich, and everybody like jobs like
34:24
Speaker 1: icy hut her insurance. But the party had the general. No,
34:35
Speaker 1: he had a phone party here in Atlanta recently weekend
34:38
Speaker 1: and it was remember them over there. Yes, he just
34:45
Speaker 1: got we're talking about family few, we're talking about he
34:50
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show, American Page earning, and that's the t
34:57
Speaker 1: NT NBA inside, it's TNT. The thing about stuff is
35:01
Speaker 1: he could literally not step foot out his house and
35:04
Speaker 1: still begetting the income. Steve got to go to his jobs.
35:07
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, no and that and
35:09
Speaker 1: that's great. Yeah, no, that's great. They both have to
35:11
Speaker 1: what works best for them and they're doing amazing. Go ahead,
35:15
Speaker 1: black man, go ahead, kings. Steve doing the thing that
35:19
Speaker 1: radio Chuck. He syndicated that Steve Harvey. We and he
35:25
Speaker 1: made eight million dollars something over the weekend. And um no,
35:32
Speaker 1: no one's tripping. It's just that he was just I'm
35:36
Speaker 1: saying that. I'm saying again. All I am saying is
35:41
Speaker 1: when something comes out like this and then you address it,
35:45
Speaker 1: you start to tear down all the pieces. That's what
35:48
Speaker 1: That's what the public does. Okay, I got something for this,
35:51
Speaker 1: and now time working. Fucius says, you gotta do it,
35:57
Speaker 1: and now it's time fucking fucious vollination. The truth is
36:07
Speaker 1: the only option. You're prolonging the inevitable by lying, especially
36:16
Speaker 1: to yourself. See the problem I have with it all
36:19
Speaker 1: is that you look in the mirror every day and
36:23
Speaker 1: you know you're lying, and more importantly, you're lying to yourself.
36:29
Speaker 1: So please find the truth within because if you don't,
36:33
Speaker 1: you're never gonna get what you came for. I love
36:36
Speaker 1: you peace. You know who lying for real? Whoever bought
36:40
Speaker 1: these skinny fidjeans and the size forty two because it's
36:52
Speaker 1: Will