31 // WHY YELLING AT YOUR KIDS DOESN’T WORK SERIES (PT. 2) | It breaks connection and trust & it creates shame

The Raising Kids with Purpose Podcast · Sep 17, 2026 · 23m

In Part 1, Adriane broke down the brain science behind why yelling backfires — and shared the story of the backyard scream that landed her with shingles. In this episode, she goes past the brain science into what yelling actually costs you: your connection, your child's trust, and — if left unaddressed — deep-rooted shame that can follow them into adulthood.

In this episode:

A quick recap of Part 1 and what's ahead in this 3-part series

Reason #4: It Breaks Connection and Trust — why kids are biologically wired to seek safety in their caregiver, and what happens to that attachment when the…