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Scotty walked out of the Summer's most popular film because of THIS! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best music is mag ninety four nine and
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  Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered. Yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: I decided to go ahead and take myself out on
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  Speaker 1: a nice little movie date. Nice talked a little bit
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  Speaker 1: about it on the show today. I deeply regret it,
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  Speaker 1: and it felt like it could be a good way
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  Speaker 1: to start this conversation because everyone's been talking so much
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  Speaker 1: about that movie obsession.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's been all over my timeline
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  Speaker 2: as somebody who doesn't appreciate horror films. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I'm behind bars, Like I want to enjoy it and
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  Speaker 2: be a part of the conversation, but I know it's
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  Speaker 2: not something I'm going to enjoy.
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  Speaker 3: It was deeply disturbing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I heard.
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  Speaker 1: Because I like a good horror movie. I would say
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  Speaker 1: my style is, you know, like Penny Wise the Clown It.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen it?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I know what you're talking about, but I
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  Speaker 2: haven't seen it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't like scary movies, don't that's terrifying. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I like it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. The only scary movies I've kind of enjoyed are
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's the conjuring ones, but it's
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  Speaker 2: like the one with like the the Annabel doll. I
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  Speaker 2: do find those interesting because it's like historic and it's
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  Speaker 2: based off of something real.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Those one kind of scare me a little too
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  Speaker 1: much though, because if it's too real, then I think,
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  Speaker 1: could that actually happen to me? Yeah, where it's like
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  Speaker 1: Pennywise the clown. I know now in my older age
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  Speaker 1: that I'm not gonna get attacked by a clown. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I appreciate the artistic view of it and how
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  Speaker 1: they created it. I was like, oh, now that was
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  Speaker 1: well done, like got me Bravo. Yesterday I sat there
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  Speaker 1: and upset it and maybe I shouldn't have gone alone.
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  Speaker 1: I just had a free afternoon and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go and actually watch this big mistake because
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  Speaker 1: the entire movie. I'm not gonna give spoilers, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: because if you're in the scary movies, hey get it,
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  Speaker 1: go enjoy the adventures.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's doing so incredibly well. The budget was seven
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  Speaker 2: hundred and fifty thousand dollars and the last I'd heard
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  Speaker 2: was that it was on its way to making over
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  Speaker 2: thirty million.
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  Speaker 1: It's insane how intense the movie is because the whole
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  Speaker 1: time you were sitting on the edge of your seat.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll be honest, I felt like such a whimp
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  Speaker 1: because I had my hands over my eyes, because I
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  Speaker 1: could only watch like a corner of the screen, because
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  Speaker 1: I knew that something was gonna pop up, something was
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  Speaker 1: gonna hit the screen, some weird movement was gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: And it's constant where you can't even get a full
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  Speaker 1: breath in the whole time. But the part that I
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  Speaker 1: started to try to touch on, and it was very
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  Speaker 1: fascinating watching is it in a way touches on toxic
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  Speaker 1: relationships and dynamics between and so many of us have
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  Speaker 1: been in positions like this where you feel trapped in
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  Speaker 1: your relationship. Yeah, and this is like I was watching
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  Speaker 1: this and thinking this is years and years and years ago,
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  Speaker 1: so nobody that anybody would know for my radio career.
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  Speaker 1: But I sat there and I remembered what it was
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  Speaker 1: like to be in a relationship where you didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to bring up certain topics because God forbid, the person
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  Speaker 1: gets upset, or you felt like you couldn't hang out
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  Speaker 1: with friends because it would turn into a massive fight.
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  Speaker 1: And that movie brings those elements to life in almost
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  Speaker 1: a traumatic way. And I remember talking to my buddy
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  Speaker 1: after he saw the movie, and I didn't understand what
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  Speaker 1: he was talking about. He's like, Dude, I kind of
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  Speaker 1: wish I didn't see it because I feel like it
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  Speaker 1: brought up a trauma in me that I wasn't ready
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  Speaker 1: to dive into. I feel that same exact way twenty
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  Speaker 1: four hours later after watching that movie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and a lot of women I've seen talk about
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  Speaker 2: it have brought up the fact that it's also like
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  Speaker 2: what it's like to have guy friends. How it's like,
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  Speaker 2: no man is really friends with you without some kind
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  Speaker 2: of ulterior motive. And so I've seen a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people talk about that one specific scene where it gets
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  Speaker 2: a little bit more intimate, but it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's an intimate scene, but it's not like a good
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  Speaker 2: intimate scene. It's yeh, borderline, you know, wink wink. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's a very good point of the movie,
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  Speaker 1: is can you actually be friends with a guy and
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  Speaker 1: just have it be completely just friendship based?
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  Speaker 2: No, well it's not can you be friends with the guy?
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  Speaker 2: Can a man be friends with you? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Okay that yeah, Yeah, they're reverse on it, and I say,
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  Speaker 1: you know, if you are into those, I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I like thrillers and I like things that make me think.
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  Speaker 1: It didn't really make me think in a way of like, ooh,
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  Speaker 1: let me try to figure this out out. I just
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  Speaker 1: really walked away and I wanted to leave in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of the movie. I really did, I say, I
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  Speaker 1: stayed through the whole thing. I stayed through the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: I heard the ending is pretty harrowing.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: I mean the ending is like horrific it, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And if you don't like Gore, don't watch that movie,
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  Speaker 1: because the sounds, the sights you will leave feeling. I
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  Speaker 1: felt sick, and I was like, I need a break.
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  Speaker 1: I need to go watch what did I watch the
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna talk about this, but nah, now I'll
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  Speaker 1: wait on that one. But a good movie that made
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  Speaker 1: me feel a little bit better was Along Came Polly,
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  Speaker 1: a nice little rom com that's on Netflix that had
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  Speaker 1: like old school Jennifer Andiston and like the other dude
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  Speaker 1: Ben Stiller. Like that brought back my spirit and my
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  Speaker 1: soul to be able to go to bed at night.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes you need a palate cleanser.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I needed a big one after that.
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  Speaker 2: Especially when you watch something at night, you need to
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  Speaker 2: be reminded, like that's not reality. You need to be remembered.
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  Speaker 2: You need to be reminded what the real world looks like.
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  Speaker 1: And that's I think the problem though for me is
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  Speaker 1: like if parts of it, yes, I think it's exaggerated,
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  Speaker 1: parts of it are kind of like if you're in
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  Speaker 1: the wrong, horrible and like maybe even abusive relationship. Parts
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  Speaker 1: of that movie could definitely feel very real in your life.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think that's what makes really good horror movies
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  Speaker 2: feel so real and why these specific ones stick with people.
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  Speaker 2: Like I think about the most successful horror films like
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  Speaker 2: get Out, I know touches on a lot of topics. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that people feel represents a certain part of reality, like
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  Speaker 2: the conjuring for example, the annibal doll, Like that's real.
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  Speaker 2: So it's I think, you know, you know it's gonna
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  Speaker 2: hit if it's gonna have some some topical thing that
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  Speaker 2: could be real, but it's an exaggerated version of it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: See, I like the things that are like so far
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  Speaker 1: from reality. Like I can watch all the Friday the
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  Speaker 1: Thirteenth movies. I could watch it I could do that.
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  Speaker 1: I can't do the conjuring because I know there's like
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of element and possible truth there. I
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  Speaker 1: don't really like demonic stuff, because God forbid you do
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  Speaker 1: the wrong.
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  Speaker 2: What do they call the little boards of the Uigi boys? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I have heard horror stories about those from real.
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  Speaker 1: People who like legit things happening, And I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't even want to go down that route. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: very curious if anybody's listening has done a Wigi board
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  Speaker 1: and has seen something happen because of it, because I've
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  Speaker 1: had a friend that said her sister did it and
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  Speaker 1: she woke up with like scratches on her back.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, never if anybody ever breaks one out,
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  Speaker 1: I'm leaving.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm the same way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't even try to open up no spirital portal,
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  Speaker 1: because here's the thing, I don't know if it's real.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to stick around to find out if
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  Speaker 1: it is. I'd rather just live in my own little
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  Speaker 1: fantasy that, you know what, I'm not gonna mess with
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  Speaker 1: the spirits, and the spirits won't mess with me.
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  Speaker 2: It is just funny that the Ouiji boards it's made
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  Speaker 2: by like Milton Bradley. I mean, like the same people
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  Speaker 2: making Monopoly are the same people opening a portal to hell.
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  Speaker 3: See when you say it like that, then I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 3: maybe it's not that bad. But I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe that's their excuse to say, all right, you wanted
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  Speaker 1: to mess with us, we'll mess with you.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's maybe less about the manufacturer and more
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  Speaker 2: about like the reality of like what you're like. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: anything could be a wigi board, Like if we took
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  Speaker 2: much of Bonnie Yogurt and said, hey, spirits of the
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  Speaker 2: Cox Media Group Tampa building, yes or no? You know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: The lights flicker off that it's freaky. Yeah, those things
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  Speaker 1: mess with me. And I've maybe have talked about this,
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  Speaker 1: but I've had moments where it's like I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I've had moments with ghosts.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I've had moments with ghosts at the last Cox
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  Speaker 2: Media Group branch.
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  Speaker 3: Wait really, yea in the building?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I don't think we have prod studios here,
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  Speaker 2: but a lot of the offices were basically just production studios,
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  Speaker 2: and so I would be doing work in the production
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  Speaker 2: studios all the time, Like I was never in the studio,
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  Speaker 2: like how we're in the studio U and not in
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  Speaker 2: like a scary way. But I do think my mom's
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  Speaker 2: mom was haunting a specific production studio I was in,
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  Speaker 2: because I found out she died while I was in
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  Speaker 2: one of them. And I always used to joke and
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  Speaker 2: say it was the haunted prod studio because lights would
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  Speaker 2: flicker and stuff. But I remember one day I was
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  Speaker 2: in a production studio and I had a cup just
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  Speaker 2: like this in front of me, like one of these
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  Speaker 2: Styrofolm cups. And we had similar tables to what we
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  Speaker 2: have now where they're bolted to the floor, Like these
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  Speaker 2: are really sturdy tables. Yeah, And I was working in
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  Speaker 2: a prod studio and the lights were flickering, and then
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  Speaker 2: one of the coffee cups that I had just came
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  Speaker 2: like moving towards me and almost like fell off, and
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  Speaker 2: I just kind of pushed it back. It wasn't scary.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't feel like nervous in the moment, but I
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  Speaker 2: was kind of like, ooh, the ghosts are saying hi, hey,
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  Speaker 2: heya is water? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Oh god.
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  Speaker 2: So a lot of people say, well, was it the condensation?
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, this is a bolted down table like
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't just like dripping and moving around like these things.
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  Speaker 2: There's no tilt to.
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  Speaker 1: The table, that's true. There's no way it would be
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  Speaker 1: sliding like they're designed like that. So we don't spill
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  Speaker 1: things on the board and on our computers. See when
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  Speaker 1: those things happen, I don't necessarily get scared anymore. It's
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  Speaker 1: kind of like what you said's like, oh, hey, you know, I.
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  Speaker 3: See you, love that you're here. I will go about
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  Speaker 3: my way, you go about yours.
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  Speaker 1: And I also sometimes I talk to psychics, and I
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  Speaker 1: asked them, like, how do you go about this? And
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  Speaker 1: if you tell them this makes me sound so woo woo.
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  Speaker 1: But if you say, like, hey, just leave me alone,
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  Speaker 1: they're supposed to leave you alone.
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  Speaker 2: They're supposed to, that's what they say.
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  Speaker 1: But I have family members and friends that are like
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  Speaker 1: mediums that could speak to that second world that I
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  Speaker 1: have had had conversations with, And so I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the good graces with all the spirits and ghosts.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, because they know that you have the insight scoop.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, you don't want he knows Natalie. Yeah, we're
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  Speaker 2: mutual friends.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're good like.
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  Speaker 1: And you come for me, I'm gonna have a big
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  Speaker 1: conversation with your boss exactly, and we don't want to
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  Speaker 1: have one of those. So I mean yesterday. If you
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  Speaker 1: want to see a movie that's gonna have you on
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  Speaker 1: your edge, you just see that likes gore and weird obsessions,
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  Speaker 1: your cup of tea.
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  Speaker 3: If you're like me, I'm warning you right now.
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  Speaker 1: It could uncover some things that you haven't thought about
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  Speaker 1: in years, and maybe you don't feel comfortable watching.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, speaking of ghosts, have you been watching Love
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  Speaker 2: Island USA?
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  Speaker 3: Gosh no, no.
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  Speaker 1: I see clips online and the one clip that I
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  Speaker 1: did see online was I think they saw some of
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  Speaker 1: the characters on the show. And what I took away
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  Speaker 1: is that I know they're supposed to be hot, but
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  Speaker 1: they're stupid hot. They're hot in the way that makes
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  Speaker 1: me feel bad about myself. Oh yeah, yeah, they're like
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  Speaker 1: objectively hot. Yeah, we're all like, okay, yeah, you have
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  Speaker 1: flawless skin and a flawless body, and what you have
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  Speaker 1: the swagger of a tiger.
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  Speaker 2: But then you listen to them talk and you're like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 2: the universe bounced out.
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  Speaker 1: That's abstously a good point, like everyone has their flaws,
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  Speaker 1: and the way their brain works is their flaws.
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  Speaker 2: I know, I hate when people are hot and funny
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  Speaker 2: and smart.
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  Speaker 1: Have you been watching up to this moment of like
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  Speaker 1: because it's every every day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I am almost caught up. I think I'm getting
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  Speaker 2: to the part of the season where things are about
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  Speaker 2: to get really good because the first week everyone's trying
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  Speaker 2: to be good and communicate. And I will say, even
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  Speaker 2: though these are objectively some of the most toxic people
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  Speaker 2: in America and the hottest people in America, it is
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  Speaker 2: funny to see these people like communicate so well. They're
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  Speaker 2: like I need to like check in with my friend
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  Speaker 2: before I kiss you, and like I just want to
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  Speaker 2: make sure I'm doing things well. I'm like, oh, these
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  Speaker 2: are actually like really sweet people. But they're starting to
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  Speaker 2: switch around some of the more serious couples, Like some
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  Speaker 2: people are starting to realize like, oh, I only wanted
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  Speaker 2: to be with this person so I could hook up,
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  Speaker 2: So now I'm going to like explore a little bit more.
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  Speaker 2: And so it's weird seeing people not get ghosted in
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  Speaker 2: real time, but basically you can see the thought process
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  Speaker 2: of things that are probably happening in other people's real
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  Speaker 2: life dating lives and realize that's probably why you may
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: be getting broken up in real life, because maybe this
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  Speaker 2: person just wanted to hook up with you. But you're
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: watching like this Peatrie dish happen on Love Island, USA, Like,
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  Speaker 2: that's how it feels to me. It's very interesting to
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  Speaker 2: watch human interaction happen with like a narrator like Morgan
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  Speaker 2: Freeman's narrating it and seeing the mating rituals, seeing why
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  Speaker 2: people break up with certain people, seeing people go after
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  Speaker 2: their type, seeing people not go after their type.
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  Speaker 1: That's actually really fascinating because if you go about it
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  Speaker 1: from that perspective, it might be cool to understand why
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  Speaker 1: someone may have ghosted you or why someone may have
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  Speaker 1: broken up with you. What I like what you just
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  Speaker 1: said is it brings to life some of the most
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  Speaker 1: awkward moments in relationships, like if you've ever ghosted someone.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if I've ever ghosted someone. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I've ghosted one person and I thought incredibly guilty about
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  Speaker 1: it because they immediately hit me back up and they're like,
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  Speaker 1: is it just not working?
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  Speaker 3: Is it me? I'm like, damn it.
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  Speaker 1: They called me out on my own bs and it
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  Speaker 1: was very true. But now you can see what it's
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  Speaker 1: like for people that are going through that thought process
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  Speaker 1: of huh, I have to leave this person. And one
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  Speaker 1: of the most uncomfortable things in relationships if it's somebody's
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  Speaker 1: into you but you're not into them, how.
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  Speaker 3: Do you have that conversation?
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting to see their interest flip, like I
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: think the most recent episode, So sorry if you're not
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  Speaker 2: caught up on this. I'm not fully caught up on it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just seeing the discourse happen on social media. But
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: one of my favorite couples to watch up until this
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  Speaker 2: point is Casey and Anaya. Annia is like the daughter
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  Speaker 2: of a former NBA player. She's beautiful, she's very classy,
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  Speaker 2: but she's not sleeping with her partner and they've been
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  Speaker 2: together for like twenty days now, and he's like, well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm ready to explore. He like called her a grandma,
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  Speaker 2: And it's fascinating seeing the interest flip in real time,
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  Speaker 2: Like this is a couple I thought was really solid,
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  Speaker 2: and now we know where his interests lie. And it's
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  Speaker 2: like we're rooting for our girl and Aya and we
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  Speaker 2: want her to now find somebody different. Even though two
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  Speaker 2: episodes ago we were so for these two people.
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  Speaker 3: So because she didn't want to have sex, He's like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm out.
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  Speaker 2: Or hook up. I don't know if they've done anything sexual,
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  Speaker 2: but she like doesn't want to go all the way
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  Speaker 2: with them, You know what.
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  Speaker 3: I like that. I like that the show has different
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  Speaker 3: sides of people.
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  Speaker 2: You're watching everything change from day to day to day,
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  Speaker 2: and everybody's experience something like what they're going through in
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  Speaker 2: Love Island. It's just maybe in a more stretched out timeline,
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  Speaker 2: or you don't really get the full story because you
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  Speaker 2: don't know why that guy ghosted you, but he might
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  Speaker 2: have just wanted to use you for sex in the
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  Speaker 2: same way that Casey was maybe trying to use an
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  Speaker 2: eye for sex.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, that makes me kind of want to watch it
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  Speaker 1: because now that might be an interesting side to see
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  Speaker 1: of people.
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  Speaker 2: It is really fascinating, and it's like checking in on
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  Speaker 2: your sims.
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: You know, there you go, how are they doing today?
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: That's actually maybe a better way of phrasing it. It's
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: it's like you're checking in on your sims every day.
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: You're looking at their little house and seeing what they're doing.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: Are they woohooing. Are they like? What are the mating
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: rituals that they're doing? Like, my favorite thing to watch
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: is every single episode starts with the guys making breakfast
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: for the girls. It's just really sweet. It's literally like
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: watching a mating ritual, Like they'll they'll put the fruit
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: in a little hard and they'll make they'll ask what
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: they want for breakfast, and they bring it to them
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: while the girls are getting ready. It's just very like
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: cute and wholesome.
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: Do you think there's actually things that people could watch
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: and learn from the show.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: No, I think you're gonna get nothing from it. But
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: I'm watching it in a very interesting anthropological way and
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: not in like, oh I want to see them dry
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: hump kind of way.
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: Are they actually like getting it on the show?
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: Some people are. I don't know that they've gotten there yet,
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: but in previous seasons I've definitely seen some things happen
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: under the blanket.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And Love Island USA is also very different from
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: Love Island the UK. Like a lot of people prefer
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: the UK version. I don't have the VPN to watch it,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: but the UK version is a little bit less horny,
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: and the US version is like, Okay, we're just horned
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: up over here. There's dry humping every episode.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. What's the different? Okay, so what do they
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: just all love in the UK? Because I feel like
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: that's this is maybe stereotypical, but when you go to Europe,
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: like sex feels more fluid.
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: It's more just out in the open.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: Not literally, but the conversations are and people aren't so like,
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: you know, I guess stuck.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: Up, abroud it, I mean prudish, that's it.
• 14:56
  Speaker 3: That's the word.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: I think it's because they don't have a bad or
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: about charette or like a farmer wants a wife. So
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: this is like their one big love dating show. And
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: this is just an I don't actually don't know all
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: about UK TV, so this is just an observation. But
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: I would assume that Love Island for them is the
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: American equivalent for The Bachelor about charette, maybe a little
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: bit slutier. I think they do get a little bit spicy,
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: but it's nowhere near the US version.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay, I will watch one of the episodes
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: at least today.
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: What is it on?
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: It's on Peacock Okay, well, got it? Yeah, And The
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: problem is is I think we're on episode like twelve,
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: so it is kind of hard to get caught up
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: on if you miss an episode or two.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: Is it an hour long each?
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're about an hour long.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: Oh lord, okay, so I just need to see what
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: it's like.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there are things that I can take
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: away from it, Like even you said the breakfast thing,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: it seems so silly, but like bros make breakfast for
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: you lady, like put the fruit in a heart, like
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: that's cute.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is very It's again, it's like watching your sims.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: Now, how they flirt and what they say. I don't
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: know how that goes down. I remember there was a
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: show I once saw that was from the UK, and
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of what it was it was.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: Let me describe it.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Maybe note show I'm talking about where you literally only
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: see the person, like you start from the bottom.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: And oh, Naked Attraction.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: That's the one.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's the one from the UK that I
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: was like, what the heck? They show people's butt ass
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: naked bodies.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: And you can swear on their public TV as well.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: That's crazy to maake.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: I know. So I think when streaming happened in Love Island, USA,
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: was like, Oh, we can curse and we can be horny. Yeah,
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: let's go all the way.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that has to be such a weird world for
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: parents to be. I guess that's why they have kids
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: accounts on like Netflix and all these different things. But
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: the access that you have now to shows that could
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: say and do whatever wild, I know, like that's you
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: know what, I'll go ahead and say it. I put
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: on a show yesterday of and I'm not going to
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: go way into detail, but so.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: We know what you've been watching.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: Well, this one was Have you seen the show how
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: to Build a Sex Room? On Netflix?
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: No, Scott, I have not seen there is a TV
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: show how to Build a Sex Room? All right?
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Well, I just needed something to decompress, and so I
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: was curious because someody said the show is really funny.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: I was amazing.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: What about me, Gibbs, I need to build a sex room?
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: I'm going home? Oh my god? Oh people put it
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: on casually. It's like it's like a people Why is
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: the show popular?
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: It's not, Scott. I literally never heard of the show.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: It's like Home Improvement but for horny folks. Okay, but
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: it's very fascinating. On the show, they're allowed to talk
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: and show things that I have never seen on TV.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: It's wild to me.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: So how does one build a sex room?
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Well, you gotta find out. It's on Netflix. I'm only like,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Tell us anything. Is there? Like a swing?
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: This older woman comes in and designs the whole thing,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: puts together your style on what kind of fabric I
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: think you would like? What kind of toys I think
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: you would like?
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna build. I'm gonna start a YouTube channel called
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: how to Build a Sex Room. But it's just gonna
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: be like Egyptian cotton sheets. It's I'm gonna put like
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: his sleep Appia machine in this side table. Like it's
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: just gonna be me building a really sweet home.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: There.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: You know, this is my sex room and it's just
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: like creature comforts.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: It's fascinating.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: This is my chip in Joanna matching Dobet comforter from Target.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: You will learn all about the feathers, you know, what
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: feathers you might like to lay on, what kind of
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: leather you might want to have a couch made out of?
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I need a man to text me back first.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Well, you know what, let's start with that.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: But I would just say, if you know, I was
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: amazed by what they showed on the show. To go
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: back to Naked Attraction, to go back to Love Island.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: How about how to build a love and commitment? How
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: to build a house for your woman? See, well that.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Would be lovely. I think it kind of has elements
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: of it.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: But love her properly and bring out her freaky side,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: all in one, all in me.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: You can learn a lot from that show. Probably that's
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: my recommendation.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Your girlfriend's still with you, so it must be working.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: I'm doing something right now.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I know what. You wanted to move out of that
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: house and get you on God anyway, h speaking of
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Actually is your AC fixed yet? No? Absolutely not, So
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: you're just like sweat it up.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: So we have right now my AC is out in
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: my apartment and it's I don't it's not out. It's
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: just not working the way that it should. So during
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: the day my apartment gets to like, I guess you're
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: optimal temperature seventy eight love, oh God hate. You walk
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: in and it's like thick into the living room and
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: I have a very small apartment. It's a living room
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: right behind it is the bedroom and in the living
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: room is the kitchen. It's a very basic, but it
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: heats up. So they put in an portable AC unit
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: into my bedroom, so at least that could get down
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: to like sixty six.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: While we're trying to figure it out.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: The project today is like putting up blackout curtains to
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: just make sure the heat is not just rating eighting
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: in throughout the day, because I think that's the problem,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: which I think everyone has that problem though, especially in
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Florida where your.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Sons just going through your window.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: My icy works fine, well, our ace granted my AC
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: is also at seventy eight.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, your AC is not working at all.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: It doesn't feel like seventy eight. Like my parents' house
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: is really old. So I think the temperature whatever system
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: they have working AC wise, I think there's like a skew,
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: like mine is at seventy eight, but it feels like
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: a seventy three. That would be awesome if mine met
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: felt like a seventy three. Yeah, mine feels more like
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: a seventy three.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Gosh see, that feels like when I walk in like
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I never even left the outside, Like I immediately start sweating.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: If I cook because that's how I really figured it out.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: I was cooking and I had the oven on, and
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: so the oven's at like four twenty five, and then
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: the house is at seventy eight.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Next thing you know, it's creeping up to eighty and.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting at my little table coffee table because I'm
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: kind of I'm janky right now and I'm just sweating
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: while I'm eating. Not enjoyable at all. So the house
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: projects are not sex swings. They're ac units and blackout
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: curtains understood, but the blackout curtains will help for multiple things.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: So there you go, there you go.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Anyway, I was telling Abby also before we jumped on
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: here that there's a big discussion that I was having
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: with my girlfriend on it looks like it might be
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: time to do the hard launch on social media.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: This is a real time mating ritual.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: This is it's kind of exciting because I've never really
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: dragged it out this long.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Was when did you hard lunch your lastly?
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I think it was the same day that we actually
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: started dating, Okay, because it was like, oh surprise, ding,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: like I've never done.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: That's what I was posted. You're like, whatever, Oh no,
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: we posted.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Up like where we were and how it actually happened,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: how it unfolded, whereas this one and I told you
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago I tried to do it,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: the whole soft launch thing. I guess that was the
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: whole moment because I don't know how to soft launch.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Hey, you gotta the proroll out. You got to get
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: the people going, well, I can't wait to soft launch.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have so much fun with it.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: This a little hand.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: If you thought I was annoying teasing where I was
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: moving post bird show, think about when I get a boyfriend,
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: you guys, I want to be so obnoxious.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: What if he's not into the whole social media thing.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Well, then you could still like soft launch because he
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: he'll be like whatever you can show my hand.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Oh he better be. He would have to be like
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: in for it.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: I know this is a stretch, and we you know
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: somebody's text back in general, but are there like non
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: negotiables because some relationships, it would have to be somebody
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: that's comfortable with social media or do you care about
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: that kind of stuff.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I think it just kind of depends. I mean, ultimately,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: like if I find someone in there my person, I'll
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: do literally whatever. So I really do you think like
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: when you know you know? So I think that would
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: be a different discussion, But I would hope. I think
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: in a perfect world like, yeah, they're cool with social media,
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: they're not like uncomfortable. But those are just conversations you
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: have when you meet them.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: That's a good point because I think if it is
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: the right person, then those things are already encompassed. Yeah,
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: they like what you do, they support what you do,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: and they're not going to hold you back from you
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: doing it.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I like that.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Well, our conversation is now the hard launch on when
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: we're going to do it, how we're going to do it.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Is there even a point in putting together an entire
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: plan of it? Because the way social media works now
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: is you don't even remember what you last saw on Instagram.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: You guys are having marketing meetings about launching your relationship.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Well, it's kind of fun because now we're actually talking
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: about doing it. Yeah, where It's like I had a
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: buddy hit me up the other day. He's like, when
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: are you actually gonna put this thing online? I was like, dude,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: we're not in a rush. It's kind of cool having
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: it just be our little thing. And I think the
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: part of it that I've really enjoyed is having us
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: meet each other's people before the internet gets to meet us.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Does that make sense?
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Like it's like I have people in my life that
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I'd rather than meet her before they see online who
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: she is. Yeah, it's like they hear the stories from me,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: but now if you actually get to see her, Like
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: that's where we're visiting friends in July and we're going
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: over to Denver, Like I would like them to meet
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: her and then they could actually see oh, yeah, I
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: met her, and then there she is on Instagram and Facebook, yeah,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: and all the other things.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Well, once you make something public, then the narrative also
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: becomes public, and so you have to really take into consideration.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: If it doesn'tend. I'm not saying your relationship is going
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: to end, you also have to make that public as well.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: I think that's the determining factor as to when you
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: make something public is if you're comfortable with your relationship
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: being public, are you also comfortable with being public about
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: the breakup? Ooh, that's a very big question because if
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: you're not, if you're kind of like an if he
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Plays then maybe it's a better idea
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: to keep it secret. Wow.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: I mean for me, I'm not in any bit of
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: iffy at all.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: Which I know you guys aren't, which is why I'm
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: not being like, don't hard launch. I'm like, oh yeah,
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Like tell me about, like how you want a hard launch, Like,
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: what are your what kind of conversations are you having?
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Do you have like a plan of the photo you
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: want to post?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing is that we have so
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: many photos together from cool moments that we can't post
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: because we haven't had that moment of oh, hello world.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: We could just drop this and everyone could say, oh
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: my god, I had no idea.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Or we actually make it kind of something that's a
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: plan at least for the first one and then every
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: photo after that.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: Okay, when you want to post you get post.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: I kind of like the idea of you doing one
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: just photo dump of all the photos you wanted to
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: post but decided not to out of respect for wanting
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: to keep it private for a little bit, just and
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: you make the caption something like the last four months
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: have been great or whatever, yeah, along those lines. Yeah,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: and then people can scroll through and be like, Oh,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: I didn't know they went to the derby together. That's
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: so cute. I didn't know they went to the Raise
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: game together. That's so awesome.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I like that idea.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, catching you up with what's been happening, yes, and
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: what's cool. And this is what I noticed on Instagram
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: the other day, if you're in the podcast when you
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: were already caught up with everything, like you've been there
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: from the beginning to where we.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: Are right now. But even on Instagram, somebody.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: In my life put up something about me having a girlfriend,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: and so I put up a little ask me anything
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: on Instagram.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: And so many people were like, what you how's the
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: dating scene? You have a girl? Tell me about the
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: new girls?
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Like, oh wow.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of people that it's just because life
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: is so busy and sometimes we think all eyes are
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: on us at all the time.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, people have no idea. So I know I
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: still have people messaging me being like, so, where did
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: you end up. I'm like, it's literally in my profile.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: It literally says Magic ninety four nine. It's right there.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: You don't have to look that hard. And that's what
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: we kind of discussed, and I'm sure if you're on
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: the if you wanted to know, you could know. Yeah.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what we've kind of figured out.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: Like if you go on my Instagram, you could figure
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: it out within five seconds. It ain't that hard. But
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that are up in the
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: questions that are like, you're dating someone a girlfriend, how
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: is it? What's all the details? I was like, well,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: they will come in time, and then here's a link
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: to the podcast if you want to be caught up.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: People clicked, people were intrigued.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: So if there's any questions want to be caught up,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: the podcast is where to be. So y'all been caught
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: up with everything that's happening. But I'm thinking after our
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: visit in Denver in July, then we'll make it very exciting.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: It's a good moment that people are gonna go crazy.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be something I'm very curious, but I'm also excited,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: also excited to just not have to hide photos, go
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: out somewhere, take a cute photo, pop it up on
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: the story.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: I think that part's going to be the easy for sure,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: just the freedom of it, yeah, and.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Going out in public and not being like, who is
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: it y'all know, and whether or not I use their
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: name or not in stories, that's something that's kind of
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: fun to be able to discuss in the future too.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: Anyway, there's all my updates. Yeah, I'm all caught up.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Well, I feel like I might need to apologize to
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: the guy I went on a date with on Saturday
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: because our sales girl and her boyfriend who's also in
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: sales or sales girl and sales boy Sydney and Charlie
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: that relationship. They saw me on my date on Saturday
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: and they told me something about him that makes me
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: feel really bad. Actually, I was actually listening back to
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: the last couple of podcasts. I'm like, damn, I sound
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: really angry, and to be fair, I was hormonal and
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: also just pissed off, and so I understand where I'm
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: coming from. But I'm like, oh, I need to cool
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: it for a second, because I think me going on
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: a date with him on Saturday was kind of the
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: culmination of my dating frustrations. And I feel bad because
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: I think what ultimately would have been just like a rant,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: rant date ended up being kind of a bad date
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: because of how I was feeling.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: That makes sense when everything starts to stack on each other. Yeah,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: it's very easy to just throw your hands up and
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: just want to scream at the sky.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: And that's kind of how I felt. So just quickly
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: recap if you didn't listen to the last episode. I
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: went on a date with some guy on Saturday, and
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: it just like was not a great date. I didn't
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: really feel like I was getting a lot of energy
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: from him. I thought he was high at one point,
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: like that was just my perception. He didn't really have
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: a plan, and so I have I do feel a
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: little bit bad for just getting so worked up, but
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: I think I was just kind of at the end
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: of my rope. And at one point he did ask
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: me a very weird question where he was like, can
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I feed you steak? And I was like, that's an
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: insane thing to say, but whatever. So I eventually leave
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: the date after an hour becase I had friends with
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: plants or I had plans with friends that night, and
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I guess on my way out, Sidney and Charlie saw
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: us walking towards like the exit of Armature Works, and
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Sidney told me yesterday in the break room, She's like, yeah,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: I saw you, but like you were high. Tailing it
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: out of there, and the guy that you were with
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: that seemed like so disappointed, like seemed just like really
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: like just kind of.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: Like like whatever another.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: One kind of like oh I just fumbled this or whatever.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: And I was just like, oh god, I feel really
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: really bad. Like do I think I acted crazy on
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: that date? No, but I think I was. I probably
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: seemed like I'm kind of over this because I really
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: was on the date. Granted I wasn't getting a lot
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: from him, but I do feel kind of bad because
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe he was nervous and maybe I don't know,
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, absolutely, when you could see it from their
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: perspective and it's like you remember, like, oh wait, they
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: have things going on in their life too.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, it's one of those things.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: It's weird.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: But I almost wish you could leave a review and say, hey, guy,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: you're fine as a human. Yeah, here are the things
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: that I think you could really work on, or just
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: knowing where it went wrong, because I think what happens
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: in dating is you go on these dates and if
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out, you're left to just wonder what
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: the hell happened? Yeah, instead of actually knowing, Like imagine
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: if he actually knew, Hey, you're I mean, you're fine
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: as a human, but your energy was off and I'm
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: gonna be honest, it kind of felt like you were
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: high at some points and it's not you, but we
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: just didn't have any chemistry.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I personally, I also just don't understand why he
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: couldn't pick up on that. I think that's what I
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: get bothered about with guys, is like I'm not having
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: a good time, Like are you having a good time?
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Like that's the question I wish they would ask themselves
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: instead of just being like, well she's pretty, so like
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: I want to make it work, and I feel like
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: sometimes that's where these guys are coming from, where I'm like,
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm the match for him, and so
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I think I'm also sitting there thinking I don't think
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: he's that into me. I'm not that into him. Ultimately,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: like why don't we just both go home?
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: I wonder if it's the energy that I say this
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: for you, because I've also been in this position where
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: it's like, because we're so used to working with people
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: that it could come off like even if we're not
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: enjoying it, it looks like we're enjoying it.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Yeah, like I'm gonna have a good time
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: because I'm a good time. But I think that's what
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: it was. I think I was in my head because
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: I've done that so many times where I can carry
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: a conversation with anybody that I think I thought in
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: my head. I don't want to give him the impression
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I'm having a good time that's actually what it was.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: I do not want him in any way thinking that
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: this is I don't want him asking me out again.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I don't want to have to do the text where
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, I think you're agreeable. I like hate
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: sending that text.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: So like I'm I'm just gonna be I'm gonna ask
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: the questions. I'm gonna be a graceful human and be
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: a part of the state. But like, ultimately, I don't
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: want to give like a fifteen when I'm not feeling
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: this at all, and I don't think he's feeling it either.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: That's the social awareness part that always makes me wonder,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: what are you thinking and what are you picking up on? Yeah,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: but also you only sadly only get those skills when.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: You've been in those positions.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: So if he's somebody that hasn't been in those positions
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: to learn, like, what are the cues which I would
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: hope he would have been in thirty years of life
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: because you kind of gained those in elementary school and
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: then middle school, then high school. They kind of add
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: up together. It just makes me wonder. I'm like, you
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: should be able to pick those things up.
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think if he hadn't seen me on
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: my most exasperated dating day, it might have gone a
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: little bit smoother. So I do. I do want to
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: apologize to him if he's listening. Sorry, my guy. Somebody
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: I'm not giving any grace for is B who we
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: have to give.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: An update for Ash Okay, so I'm excited for this one.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: I will give grace to see. See I I could
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: have given five percent more. I just don't want to
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: give you the wrong impression that I was into this.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: Because I because of your past experiences to though.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: Because of my past experiences, and you also caught me
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: on a day where I was like, fuck, this really sucks,
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: and I just don't have the energy to want to
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: give one hundred and fifty percent to this.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: And that's very okay.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: So let me give you the update on B quick
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: recap on B I matched with him on Hinge. I
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: thought he was cute, but there were just a couple
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: of things about his profile that I was like, I'm
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: kind of getting the ick, Like he just had these
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: random selfies that just seemed like, why did you choose
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: this for your dating profile? And then he had in
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: his profile something like, oh, his love language was physical touch,
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: and I'm reading this on the podcast with Scotty and
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, only really horny people say that,
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: because we get it, like you like to bang, of course.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: And then he literally said that exact thing in his
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: profile that I read, and I was like, oh my god,
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: that's so funny. I literally just said, that's Scotty. So
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I was like, maybe we have a similar sense of humor,
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: so let's give him a chance. So anyway, the guy
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: would not ask me out, I'm giving him all the signals.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I'm lobbying him up to ask me out. I literally
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: agreed to a date when he asked me to go
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: to his friend's Simolier party or whatever. I said, Yeah,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: we should for sure do that, but like, let's meet
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: first before I meet all your friends like that's crazy.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, again, it just kind of feels like and
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: maybe this sounds narcissistic because I don't want it to.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: But sometimes it does feel like if a guy thinks
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: they're batting out of their league, they just want to
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: keep you around to be like, look I could I
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: pulled her. And so it feels like if you if
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: you just want to take me to that, it just
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: kind of seems like you just you don't really care
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: to get to know me, You just want to show
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: me off. If that makes sense.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: It definitely does.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Maybe that sounds self centered anyway, So he wouldn't ask
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: me out, Let me give you a recap on the conversation.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Oh boy, can get ready for this one?
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: So he said, actually, a friend of mine hosts a
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: wine night once a month because she's becoming a Somalia.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: You can be my date next time. Blah blah blah.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: I said, that could be fun. Do you want to
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: meet first and make sure we don't hate each other though? Lol?
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: And he said for sure, I was speaking it into
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: the universe. And I said, well, why don't you speak
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: it in the hinge chat EXAs? Since first great line.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: That is a great line, but also that I have
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: it's so easy here to see hello simply asked the question.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: I'm literally saying yes. I'm like, yeah, I'll go out
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: with you. Can you just ask me out? So I
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: say that, and then he waits like twelve hours and
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: he said, I actually was just manifesting in my dreams
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: last night, and I was like, I can't even dignify
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: that with a response like ask me out. Dude, like,
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: I'm literally, don't make it harder than it needs to be.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: So then he said, so when I didn't respond on
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: hours later, he said, do you have any plans this evening?
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: And I said I do have plans because it was
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: Friday night and I had a date. And then he said,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: but for the weekend. And I'm like, you got to
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: be more specific, like ask me out or don't like, hey, okay,
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: what about Saturday? Are you free Saturday? Are you free Sunday?
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. I said, you got to be more specific.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: So then he doesn't respond to that, and then let
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: me make sure I have the screenshof for it. I said,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: You've got to be more specific. On Sunday, at one
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning, he texts wake up Abby?
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: All right, now I just got I got the biggest
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: creep in my yeah, my gut right there.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: Oh and that was my last draw because now you've
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: turned me from oh I want to date and get
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: to know you too, booty call yep, and I'm just yeah,
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: that's not what I signed up for. What the so
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: I unmatched? I unmatched with be.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Like I just I've said this so many times, but like,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: guys do better. Like those are prime examples of why
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: so many women are frustrated with us.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Like that is disgusting.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: It makes me feel like a call girl, like you
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: texted me out, Like I'm a girl that you match
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: with on a dating app and you thought it was
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: acceptable to ask me to come over at one am.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: Like it's just so ichy and gross.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: It's just yeah, I mean at that point there would
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: be no more conversations. And I don't know, I just
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: got the creepiest feeling when he said wake up.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: Happy, Like is that I know?
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: Dude, I'm out with my friends.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I am doing what I want to do and
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: I'm not just some like what part of that conversation.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: This goes back to a conversation we had a couple
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: of days ago, where it's guys say something and live
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: a lifestyle in another way, don't tell me that you
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: are blessed and highly favored and that you are manifesting
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: in your dreams only to hit me up at one am.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: And maybe he is blessed and highly favored, like maybe
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: girls do answer to that text. Maybe he has hoes
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: and he's like, well, I want her to be my
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: fourth thoat hoe or whatever.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I just I'm so disappointed. I don't even know this dude,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: and I'm just so grossed out.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: I know, and I keep getting kicked out of the
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: are we dating the same guy? Pages because I keep
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: talking about it publicly. But I'm like, I want to
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: put these guys on blasts, like I wish I could
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: stop calling and being just be like this guy sucks,
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: Like yeah, this is how men are speaking to women,
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Like it's literally crazy.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: I wish there was bigger repercussions for it.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: There's not, and I think the only repercussions And I
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I'm really passionate about women's self worth, Like I think
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to say this in a way that doesn't
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: sound like condescending or like hating towards women, but we
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: have to as a whole women, we cannot accept behavior
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: like that, or we can't like just let men have
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: anything they want just because they're giving us a little
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: bit of attention, because ultimately, like that's why they think
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: they can send this, because there probably was some girl
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: who was like, well, he's giving me attention, Like maybe
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I will just let him come over, or maybe she
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: really enjoyed that experience. Like I'm by no means trying
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: to like hate on what women want, but I do
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: think there is an argument to be said that. I
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: think women as a whole are looking for someone to
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: love them and care about them, and we've just accepted
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: whatever comes our way. And I think ultimately we have
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: to we have to be the ones to raise that standard,
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: so they have to be expected to do more to
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: give us more.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: So I think that's so valid to say, and we've
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: said it before.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: It's like the bare minimum should not be the standard,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Like that should not be the thing that's on Instagram
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: of Like I cannot believe he did this what he
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: do put on a T shirt and he combed his hair.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, And I want to again give the disclaimer if you
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: want to have casual sex with guys on social media
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: or on hinge or whatever, like, go ahead and do that.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: Like that's not me saying you shouldn't be doing that.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: But I just I was clearly in a state of
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: I'm looking to date and then I got treated like
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: a like a call girl.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: But thenn't He's say in his profile, if I'm not
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: mistaken that he was also looking for something serious.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, in his profile he said, I'm looking for a
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: serious relationship with the right person. If you think I'm
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: your future girlfriend, do not treat me like I'm a
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: call girl.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Correct, Like, don't spew lies and then go back on
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: your word. Yeah, Like that's the disgusting behavior that makes
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: people want to say. And we talked about this the
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: other day. I'm not doing any more dating. I'm giving up.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and take a step back, and
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let the universe do. It's a mysterious thing.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: That's the frustrating part. Like, b you're a bee, Like
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: that's just so.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: He's a little bee.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: He's a little bee, a little bee.
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: A little bitch. I'm gonna say it, he's a little bitch.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: And I stand by what I said on the last
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: episode two, which I ended up leaping it out because
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I know, we have to be a little
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: bit more family friendly. Oh oh yeah, yeah, Karantip, this
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: is not a family friendly podcast.
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: That's true. It's literally called unfiltered.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: We're way past that. But yeah, stop being whoosies. Stop
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: being whoosies, ask out girls and step up to the
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: play a little bit more. Like there's an S and
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: L sketch that stands out to me. It's a parody
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: of the show Girls on HBO that Tina Fey start
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: in and I can't remember the exact lines, but I
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: will always laugh that this is how they phrased it.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: But she's playing this like Russian or Ukraine immigrant and
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: the world of girls, which is these upper middle class,
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: waspy women who are superficial and shallow, Like it's it's
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: kind of satirical, like there's this certain level of upper
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: middle class women who moved to New York and they
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: just have champagne problems and just complain about bullshit constantly.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: And so here's this woman from Ukraine being like, I'm
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: trying to make it in this in New York. And
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: she says to one of the characters who was like, oh, yeah,
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: I just like randomly slept with this guy and he
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: left and she goes, so he paid you for six
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: for one night And she goes, no, No, he just
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: came over and like we just hooked up one night.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: And she goes, you you had sex for free. You
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: were lower than dog. I'm like, yeah, that's kind of
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: how like, yeah, that's yeah, that's a pretty good analogy.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: It makes me wonder, like it's like the guy had
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: the courage to send that, but didn't have the courage
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: to actually ask you out.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: Well, that's what's crazy, Like you you lot, it was
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: more acceptable to send me a one am text be
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: like hey, I would like to see you an eight kid,
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: rather than hey I want to get to know you
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  Speaker 2: as a person.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that shows you how you see me.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: And I think that's the biggest part of Okay, I
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: wasted my time with you. Yeah, and how many times
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: have you done that to somebody else? Or and the
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: other standpoint, how many times does that happen to you?
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: That's the frustrating part. Well, that sucks. Well, yeah, unmatched,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I hope you stay on because one.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: I know it's good goodness, it is, but people are
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: gonna get burnt out and me complaining at some point
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  Speaker 2: because even I was annoyed with myself. I'm like, shut
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: up at me, like people are dying.
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: Well, that's true, there are other problems happening.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this is really a pain point for
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  Speaker 2: me right now.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: And yeah, what's a pleasure point for you right now?
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: A pleasure point that's actually a really great question. Wait,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: why did I just sound like that's a great question.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: The Jojo si Wa Cruz videos on social media, and
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: you know what, getting new Athletic War. Getting New Athletic
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: War has been such a joy for me because I'm
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: at such a good place with my body and it
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: has been years since I've been able to say that
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: I love that. I know, so I've been ordering this.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: So a pain point is I'm spending a shit ton
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: of money on on Athletic War. But a pleasure point
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: is I love getting new athletic wear and I love
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: that I love wearing it because I've not always been
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: able to say that.
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: That's a cool thing to realize.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to look at life and like pillars
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: like I look at it, like, how are my relationships,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: how is my job?
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: How is my health?
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: And I do feel like life is always kind of
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: fluctuating where your job may be high, but your relationships
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: may be low, or your health may be high, or your.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Intimate relationship may be struggling.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: And it's finding that balance where it's like, how could
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: I get all of them, not at the same level,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: but at least on the upper end of the level. Yeah,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: And it's cool to see at least like the health
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: sides up. That's cool, health side, career side. So health
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: is going well, Yeah, that's a pleasure point. Friendships are
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: going well, that's really good.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And relationships are not going well, and those.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: Are the ones that are down. Yeah, and then we
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: just find the ways to raise those up.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: My relationship rheumatic relationships have always been downe So I
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: think that's why I'm frustrated where I'm like, God, can
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I just get like, can I just get it like
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: a kith from someone I'm not repulsed by.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: My kiss from somebody that's actually respectable, nice wire guy Soducci.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: They're so bad.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Well, at least there's a cool trip coming up, and
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: that's the girls get away.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so excited. I like, the closer we get,
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: the more excited I get because more people are signing up.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh my god, I thank god people
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: want to sign up for this, because I really thought
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: like once the Bird Show ended, I'm like, no one's
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: gonna want to travel with me anymore. And that was
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: a really fun part of my job was organizing these
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: group trips. I'm like, no one's gonna care about me anymore.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I want to travel, So I'm excited that everyone wants
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: to come down to Tampa Bay and hang out, and
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: then I have Italy two weekends after that.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: That is wild.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: I literally cannot wait for Italy. I'm so excited.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: I am so jealous.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: My dad was just telling me about well, I got
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: a group text about another Zooma cruise happening in France
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: next year.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: That'll be fun. I think. I'm France is one of
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: the locations I'm looking into next year for my euro.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Summer trip that I think when I went to France
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: the first time, this sounds so pretentious. I got to
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: go to France twice. The first time we went to Paris,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: and I was underwhelmed.
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm gonna say, something too. I was
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: underwhelmed with Paris as well. I would like to go, oh,
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: here's do you want to hear about my hard launching strategy.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: I do have like this fantasy, this maladaptive daydream, that
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: when I finally get into a relationship, we're going to
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: do like a last minute weekend trip to Paris. And
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: that's a world hard launch because I do think Paris
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: would be fun to experience as an adult, where you
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: can drink and eat cheese, whereas in past times I
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: haven't been able to do that.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I think it was nice to have, like the I
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: went and sat on the lawn, had the wine, looked
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: at the Eiffel Tower.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: But that was the best part.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I thought the people were slightly rude because I didn't
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: speak French. Yeah, understandable that the restaurants were decent, the
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: food was okay. But the other parts of France that
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I went to only other one. I think it was
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: like the lower coast of it, like MARTHI I think
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: it's called Oh yeah, that part was beautiful.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: The south of France is really beautiful.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, Like I want to go there and like Bordeaux
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: and have like a whole wine experience. But Paris just
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: felt like a New York City with honestly, like some
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: ruder people.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: That's not saying a lot, yes, because.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: New York it's I mean, that's ress rough. I was
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: never somebody that was a big family. In New York
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: City it is rough. But France it was the same thing.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Still kind of messy, still kind of dirty, very loud,
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: very busy and rude.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you know what, this is not
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: my style.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have croissoans, but you do have Croissans
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: and you have delicious wine.
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: Oh we wei.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: That would be a cool trip to go on. I'm
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: jealous of the Italy trip. Hopefully I could go on
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: the next one for zoom. But in the France, the
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: south of France.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: We we we.
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: We all right, Well, enjoy that getaway. Get signed up.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: If you get an opportunity, you'll get to meet Alexia,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: You'll get to meet myself.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: My mom, I think is coming, Abby's mom.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what, if you've never met Abby's mom,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: she will get you connected with anybody you need to
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: be connected with in that vicinity.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: My mom gets recognized more than I get recognized. My
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: mom sends me selfies all the time. They're like, this
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: person came up to me and they said they know
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: you from the Bircho.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Your mom's a star. So if your mom's listening, which
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sure she is, she is, You're a star. Thank
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: you for who you are. Alexi, you're on the mic.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: You're getting ready to go.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: On the air. Yes, Happy Tuesday. Yeah, it's Tuesday, Tuesday,
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Tuesday Tuesday.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to have Alexia on as well because
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: there's been big things happening in Alexia's life with a
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: big house improvement.
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, there's a lot of updates. I'm like, I
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: feel like a chicken without a head.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: The people are very concerned about your pool. Please tell
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: them your pool has a filter. My pool has a
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: filter and it's it's amazing. Actually it's hydrogen peroxide, which
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: we use because I cut heels.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: Doesn't Yeah, it doesn't rust the pool and then it's
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: good for your skin and for the plants surrounding the area.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: And also we don't have kids, we don't have pets.
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: So it's just my husband and I soaking like two
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: turkeys and a basing tub.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: So it's not that deep.
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: So if you have like a bunch of kids.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: Like after the party, it got a little bit oily,
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: so we had to do some like scrubbing and cleaning.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: But it's fine.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: Have you and your husband gotten in there naked yet?
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: I've had my moments.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: I've had my moments.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: Have you banged in the pool yet? Listen not?
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: Because I've been scared of the hydrogen box side and
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: what it would do to the monkey.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: That's the monkey, My monkey. Wow, that's what you never
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: heard of.
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: It called me a monkey.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Why you know why the monkey? Because it's summer and
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: she's feeling wild. Oh and unshaven. Oh my god. Oh
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: she wants the banana. Oh that's a good one. All right,
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: that's the parr.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Alright, I have a great show, and tomorrow me anywhere,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Oh my lord.