Sex Isn’t Optional: Why Wives Should Pursue Pleasure | Wife School #1 Tilly Dillehay

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark · Sep 1, 2026 · 1h 39m

Welcome to episode one of Wife School, a five-part series on everything no one tells you before you say "I do."

Today's professor is Tilly Dillehay — author, pastor's wife, homeschooling mom of four, and one of the most requested guests in Culture Apothecary history after her last episode exploded. This one is almost entirely driven by your questions: how to stop comparing your husband to other men, what submission actually looks like day to day, sexless marriages, difficult in-laws, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and what to do when you wake up feeling more like roommates than lovers…