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Abby's mom got in a bar fight with a Tampa Bay pro athlete! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic 94.9.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to a new episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out to the comments that keep the discussion going
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  Speaker 3: on previous episodes.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for commenting, people.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to go over some of them
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  Speaker 3: based off of the last couple episodes as thought starters for,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know where this conversation is going to go,
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  Speaker 3: but I do want to acknowledge y'all for going ahead
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  Speaker 3: and commenting because on one of the last episodes, you
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  Speaker 3: and I got into the discussion about our bodies and
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  Speaker 3: how we feel about them and.
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  Speaker 1: I was worried what the response to that would be.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly.
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  Speaker 1: Was it fine?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was fine.
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  Speaker 3: I think it was just a very valid comment. Hilla said,
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  Speaker 3: the way y'all talk about your bodies makes me so sad.
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  Speaker 3: I hope you can both find internal validation that a
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  Speaker 3: half a pound change will no longer affect you.
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  Speaker 2: And it's a valid comment.
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  Speaker 1: You really want to start the podcast off on this note?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I just want to acknowledge the comment right up
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  Speaker 3: front because I think what's very important is, one, thank
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  Speaker 3: you for that.
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  Speaker 1: Two. Yeah, thanks for being a part of the discussion.
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  Speaker 2: And like two, like I do love my body.
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  Speaker 3: Like that's the part that if you would have asked me, gosh,
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  Speaker 3: when I was, I don't know, in like middle or
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  Speaker 3: high school, I did not. I was not proud of
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  Speaker 3: who I was. I was not proud of how I
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  Speaker 3: looked and I did not want to look in the mirror.
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  Speaker 2: Now I can.
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  Speaker 3: And so as these changes come, like I just I
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  Speaker 3: think the conversation goes like I just have a certain
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  Speaker 3: standard in my mind of where I want to be
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  Speaker 3: that constantly pushes me to like, all right. Like we
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  Speaker 3: were just talking to an engineer in the break room.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, all right, I'm going to stay back
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  Speaker 3: from like, you know, the English muffin this morning. But
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  Speaker 3: that comment's very valid. Like I do have, I validate
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  Speaker 3: my body and how I feel. And I keep trying
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  Speaker 3: to turn up that knob. to just feel and look
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  Speaker 3: my best for myself.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, also, I really wish we had pushed. I
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  Speaker 1: thought we were going to be more fun. I was like, yee-haw,
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  Speaker 1: let's get in the pod. And I'm like, now we're
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  Speaker 1: getting into, like, the weeds again.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have to. I mean, we don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the last couple pods have been kind of depressing.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Dolly Parton died. Now we're talking about body
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  Speaker 1: image and death.
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  Speaker 2: We'll get into something positive in just a second.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also think, so if you missed that episode,
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  Speaker 1: it was... What was the episode? Was it last episode
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  Speaker 1: or the episode before that?
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  Speaker 2: It was the episode before the last.
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  Speaker 1: It was the episode before the last one. So go
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  Speaker 1: back two episodes. We were talking about body image and
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  Speaker 1: basically somebody had made a comment to you about your
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  Speaker 1: man boobs and made a joke about your boobs jiggling.
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  Speaker 1: And then I said something because this is the unfiltered podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I said, what's an unfiltered thought for my mind that
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  Speaker 1: I want to say right now? And basically it was,
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  Speaker 1: do you also feel overstimulated by your body? And that
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  Speaker 1: was the only thing that we were talking about was
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  Speaker 1: just sometimes, like, when you feel different than you normally do,
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  Speaker 1: it's an overstimulating experience.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: It's not, oh, my God, a half pound makes me
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  Speaker 1: feel like I hate myself. It's just sometimes it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: these jeans feel a little bit tighter. That doesn't make
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  Speaker 1: me feel great. Yeah. It doesn't mean my day is ruined.
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  Speaker 1: My life is ruined. I'm now going to go four
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  Speaker 1: days without eating. It's just sometimes when you have a
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  Speaker 1: couple of days where you eat more than you normally would,
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  Speaker 1: you feel a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Overwhelm strong word overstimulated that's like the best way like
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  Speaker 1: right now so for example i've been eating and drinking
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  Speaker 1: for three days straight and i can tell that i'm
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  Speaker 1: puffy but that's that's all in my head i'm like
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  Speaker 1: this is just a little bit of puff i feel
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  Speaker 1: a little bit i don't feel great i normally feel
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  Speaker 1: better when i get to eat my normal routine and
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  Speaker 1: that's it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah i like that because that's a better way to
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  Speaker 3: praise it it's like i do feel overstimulated and now
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  Speaker 3: at this point in the game like i know the
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  Speaker 3: ways to get back to okay i feel good like
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  Speaker 3: i feel good when i walk around not in like
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  Speaker 3: weird thing in my pants or my shirt.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad we got that out of the way.
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  Speaker 1: Cause I always, I get worried talking about body image
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  Speaker 1: of someone who's conventionally thin. Like I wonder if it's
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  Speaker 1: just really annoying to hear a girl that wears a
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  Speaker 1: size blank, you know, talk about her body that way.
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  Speaker 1: Like I, I get that. I understand that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I also, I want to, I think when people
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  Speaker 1: say things that make me feel so seen, like if
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  Speaker 1: that's a thought I would never say out loud and
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  Speaker 1: somebody else says it, it makes me feel less alone
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  Speaker 1: on this earth.
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  Speaker 3: Yes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And I've been thinking a lot about purpose and what
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  Speaker 1: I want to do with my life. And I think
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  Speaker 1: I felt that way so much growing up that I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: maybe what I'm doing in my life is to help
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  Speaker 1: the younger version of me that would have felt really, um,
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  Speaker 1: validated by someone saying something that maybe isn't popular, but
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  Speaker 1: is maybe something that is, that somebody else has thought
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  Speaker 1: to themselves at some point. It's like, Oh, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: some kind of weird, broken human that feels this way.
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  Speaker 1: Other people experience this. And then they can go about
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  Speaker 1: their day and be normal. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: I think that's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: You don't feel alone with it.
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  Speaker 3: That's so powerful in itself because I think what a
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  Speaker 3: lot of people forget is that everybody that is walking,
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  Speaker 3: unless you're like, I don't know, a sociopath, is thinking
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  Speaker 3: like some sort of thought in that vein of either
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  Speaker 3: trying to be enough, the fear of not being enough,
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  Speaker 3: feeling unfit in your skin, walking around this world like
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  Speaker 3: you're not seen.
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  Speaker 2: Like, We're all facing that.
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  Speaker 3: And so that's why I actually like these discussions because
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  Speaker 3: these are the discussions in this kind of arena that
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  Speaker 3: helped me get through the darkest days of my life
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  Speaker 3: where I was like, oh my God, thank God somebody
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  Speaker 3: else is dealing with this or thought through this or
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  Speaker 3: had to work through this. Because for me, it was like,
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  Speaker 3: oh wait, that's a light. I know there's a light coming.
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  Speaker 3: All right, I can do it. I just have to
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  Speaker 3: find the example of what I got to do in
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  Speaker 3: order to get through it.
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  Speaker 1: I also just saw a TikTok that someone said, me
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  Speaker 1: when somebody else overshares. Oh, thank God, a real conversation.
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  Speaker 1: And then me when I overshare, oh my God, everyone
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  Speaker 1: hates me. That was such a weird thing to say.
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  Speaker 1: They're judging me for saying that out loud. But and
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  Speaker 1: also I think just, and this is the last thing
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  Speaker 1: I'll say, because I want to get into fun stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I want to like, I have a couple of fun
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  Speaker 1: stories that I haven't told on the podcast yet. We
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  Speaker 1: talked about maybe last week, but I want to rehash
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  Speaker 1: them on the pod.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously, it's been a crazy weekend.
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  Speaker 3: You got to go to Austin, and I don't even
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  Speaker 3: know what happened in your life last week with your
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  Speaker 3: mom being in town, so there's a lot of things
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  Speaker 3: to rehash on your crazy travels.
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  Speaker 1: I'll quickly breeze through the Olivia Deen concert because that
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  Speaker 1: was pretty uneventful, except for the woman next to me
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  Speaker 1: who was having an exorcism. I don't know if you
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  Speaker 1: feel the same way, but I do think concerts are
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  Speaker 1: a place to be cathartic and to dance and to sing.
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  Speaker 1: But there was a woman next to me that I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I think you should be somewhere. And it's not an
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  Speaker 1: Olivia Deen concert. I think it's a therapist chair.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Because like what? She's just screaming.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. She was like, it wasn't like yelling or singing.
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  Speaker 1: It was like. I'm like, oh, my God. It sounded
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  Speaker 1: like angry, like the lyrics that she would sing. They
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  Speaker 1: were clearly pointed at somebody. And I'm like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think that person can hear you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't think Olivia can either.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think. But I can. My right ear can.
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  Speaker 2: You're not here. And I'm slowly going deaf.
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  Speaker 1: The longer that I stand here. But yeah, Olivia Deen
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  Speaker 1: was great. She looked beautiful. We were matching in her
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  Speaker 1: black and white polka dot dresses.
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  Speaker 2: That's incredible. I don't know how you guys got on
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  Speaker 2: sync for that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I DM'd her. I said, what are you wearing, girl?
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  Speaker 2: She DM'd you right back. Of course. Black dress, polka dots.
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  Speaker 1: Black dress and polka dots. She looked beautiful. She's like
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  Speaker 1: so unreal. It might be the best performer I've seen.
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  Speaker 2: Now that is a hell of a statement.
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  Speaker 1: And I know that's controversial because I've seen the greats.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen Beyonce.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: I've seen Taylor Swift. Yeah. I've seen Nelly.
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  Speaker 2: Nelly goes up there, legendary.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I've seen all the big performers. And what
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  Speaker 1: I really appreciated about Olivia Dean's concert compared to, and
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  Speaker 1: this is not me knocking on all the artists that
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  Speaker 1: I love.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: But she was so present. And if you go to
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  Speaker 1: a lot of live music shows, sometimes you can tell
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  Speaker 1: that somebody's just performing. And that's not a knock on them,
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  Speaker 1: because I would say the same thing about Taylor Swift. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I loved the Heiress tour, but I even remember standing
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  Speaker 1: there and going, oh, she's got this. Like, she could
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  Speaker 1: do this in her sleep.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like, she's gone through these reps so many times
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  Speaker 3: that it's not like it's a new experience for her.
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  Speaker 1: But that's a compliment, because she looked really great doing it.
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  Speaker 2: True.
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  Speaker 1: But when I was watching Olivia perform, she was there.
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  Speaker 1: She was getting emotional when she was singing songs. There
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  Speaker 1: was one song called Let Alone, The One You Love,
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  Speaker 1: where she started to tear up a little bit, and...
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  Speaker 1: She was just in the room with us and I
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  Speaker 1: could feel it and I appreciated that because there have
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  Speaker 1: been times in concerts where I'm like, they're just pressing
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  Speaker 1: play and they're doing their job. Listen, they're showing up
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  Speaker 1: to work.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're working.
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  Speaker 3: They've done it so many times that at this point,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I think of with that tangent. But I
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  Speaker 3: think of that with, like, the Jonas Brothers going on
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  Speaker 3: their 82nd concert, like, this year.
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  Speaker 1: I felt the way about the Jonas Brothers when I
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  Speaker 1: saw them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Where it's like, you've done this so many times.
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  Speaker 1: Because they've been on tour for seven years.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, they literally did it as their kids. They
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  Speaker 2: took a little break.
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  Speaker 3: Now they're doing it constantly as adults. And with that
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  Speaker 3: many shows, of course, it's going to be like, I
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  Speaker 3: can't imagine them probably getting butterflies before the show.
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  Speaker 2: I can't. I mean, maybe they do. I could be
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  Speaker 2: wrong with that.
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  Speaker 3: But you've done it so many times that you're like,
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  Speaker 3: all right, we're going to go in and do a thing,
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  Speaker 3: and we're going to have a little fun doing it.
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  Speaker 3: But there's an artist that you see where it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: you're into it. You're not only here with us, but
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  Speaker 3: you still feel the lyrics that you sing.
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  Speaker 2: That's cool.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's why I really appreciate it. This
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  Speaker 1: is probably the 50th time you've sang this song on
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  Speaker 1: this tour, and you're still tearing up about it. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I think it's just something that I noticed,
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  Speaker 1: and if you were in the room, you know exactly
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  Speaker 1: what I mean. But I think it's a testament, A,
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  Speaker 1: to our talent, Be to her generosity because how generous
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  Speaker 1: do you have to be to continuously give so much
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  Speaker 1: of yourself as a performer on Stop 50? But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just also maybe the fact that she's also a newer artist.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she's just really, really grateful and she's not jaded
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  Speaker 1: by the things that you get when you're an artist
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  Speaker 1: that gets to go on arena tours yet.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like this is her first real go. Obviously, she's
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  Speaker 3: been performing for, I mean, years. But at this level,
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  Speaker 3: that's the whole new stage for her. So love you,
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  Speaker 3: Olivia Dean.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for.
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  Speaker 1: forgiving so.
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  Speaker 3: Much of yourself that's cool like one of the best
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  Speaker 3: performers and i think that i think usually the younger
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  Speaker 3: artists are the ones that are able to bring it
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  Speaker 3: like the shows the quality of the production.
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  Speaker 2: Of like a taylor swift that's crazy like ain't nobody
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  Speaker 2: doing that sabrina carpenter ain't nobody doing.
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  Speaker 1: That beyonce's doing that when i saw the cowboy carter
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  Speaker 1: tour i was like damn this is this is a.
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  Speaker 3: Show she put in that thing oh she did but
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  Speaker 3: these other young artists like it's cool to see like
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  Speaker 3: they could i don't know there's a difference i think
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  Speaker 3: in the music world of like The voice quality, what
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  Speaker 3: you're bringing from your soul, like if you go see
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  Speaker 3: an Adele, that's going to be a little different.
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  Speaker 2: Than if you're going to go see a Dua Lipa.
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  Speaker 2: Where you're like okay.
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  Speaker 1: A Dua Leep.
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  Speaker 3: Like you're going for different reasons. And I think you're
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  Speaker 3: getting something out of it. From each show. That maybe
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  Speaker 3: one's a party. And one's therapeutic. Now for the girl
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  Speaker 3: that was yelling next to you. That's the part where
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  Speaker 3: I'm like.
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  Speaker 2: That's inconsiderate.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. It is funny because I was thinking
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  Speaker 1: about the duality of women of the most recent concert
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  Speaker 1: that I went to, which is a Five Seconds of
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  Speaker 1: Summer concert. Punk rock, very edgy. And to be fair,
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  Speaker 1: I probably sounded like that at the Five Seconds of
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  Speaker 1: Summer concert. So when she was doing it, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what?
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  Speaker 2: She needs this. Yeah, see, you got yours out, she
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  Speaker 2: got hers out.
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  Speaker 1: Very different environments.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say. Like, I mean, one's a rock
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  Speaker 2: concert where it's like you're literally screaming.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, one I was wearing boots, lace, and leather, and
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  Speaker 1: this one I was in a dress.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and you could sing without screaming.
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  Speaker 1: So I think that's why I was shocked that it was,
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  Speaker 1: she was so, I mean, I don't know how to
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  Speaker 1: properly convey it, because it wasn't like she was just loud. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It was like she wanted somebody to hear what she
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  Speaker 1: had to say. She was yelling at somebody.
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  Speaker 3: She had a demon she needed to release, and hopefully
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  Speaker 3: after that show... That demon is gone.
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  Speaker 2: Be gone, demon.
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  Speaker 1: She exercised it.
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  Speaker 2: There it is.
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  Speaker 3: So what happened the week before, though? Because you went
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  Speaker 3: out with your mom. You had a whole thing of
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  Speaker 3: sagas with that. I don't even know if we dove into.
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  Speaker 2: That on the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to decide. Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, now I'm just remembering. Yeah, yeah, now I'm remembering everything.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so this is the fun part, but now I
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  Speaker 1: feel like we're in too deep of like a... I
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  Speaker 1: feel like the vibe of this podcast is too low now.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we're only like 12 minutes in.
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  Speaker 1: Are we only 12 minutes in? Yes! It feels like
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  Speaker 1: I've been here for years.
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  Speaker 3: No, we got the whole day. The world is your
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  Speaker 3: oyster on.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever you want to share.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I have several stories. So, also, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: Italy next week, so I feel like... I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: figure out how many stories I want to divvy up
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  Speaker 1: throughout the week, because I feel like we've got to
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  Speaker 1: do five this week, because we won't have any next week.
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  Speaker 2: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: Unless you're going to have Alexia on.
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  Speaker 2: No, I think we should bring in Alexia, though, for
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  Speaker 2: this week. We'll bring her in.
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  Speaker 3: We'll ask her if she wants to come in, because
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  Speaker 3: she's had a ton of life changes that seem awesome
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  Speaker 3: to share.
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  Speaker 2: So we'll be able to bring her in.
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  Speaker 1: We'll have to bring her in tomorrow, because we have
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: our co-worker happy hour today.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's today?
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  Speaker 1: That's today.
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  Speaker 2: There's a happy hour?
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  Speaker 1: I know. I'm kind of upset about it. I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not in the mood to drink today.
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  Speaker 2: What the hell is this? Oh my god. Okay. Well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going. What is this?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god! Alexia's gonna go. So me and Alexia
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  Speaker 1: will have some fun stories.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. I wanna go to that. I can't stand the.
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  Speaker 1: Like- You've been texting me and Alexia for four weeks. Saying,
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  Speaker 1: let's go get drinks.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go to happy hours. In the middle of the week.
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: I need something to look forward to in the middle
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: of the week.
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: Actually, that's so funny that I do text you guys
• 12:19
  Speaker 3: and literally nobody responds.
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: I know. And I was like, well, we have a
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: happy hour.
• 12:23
  Speaker 3: I don't want to go have a happy hour with everybody.
• 12:24
  Speaker 3: I want to go with y'all and have our little
• 12:26
  Speaker 3: magic bonds.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: No, this is way more fun. I'm so excited, actually.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: I cannot wait.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: I think what I'm here is I'm not good. And
• 12:34
  Speaker 3: I know it's not a day of plan, but I
• 12:35
  Speaker 3: know people can relate to this. Now that those just
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: sprung on me day of, I'm like, I can't go.
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: No, I get it.
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, at 4 o'clock today?
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: What the hell?
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: I got bills to pay. I don't know. Emails to
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: write back.
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, go make conversation with the people who can help
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: get you paid. Okay. Anyway, I'm not going to convince
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: you to go because I don't want you to come
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: and be a loser.
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: I'm never a loser. I'm literally always the life of
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: the party.
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited because I love office drama, and someone
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: always gets a little drunk and tells me some office tea.
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: I always learn some lore. I, like, find out who
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: hooked up with who three years ago when I wasn't here.
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: I love learning that stuff.
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: What I find so fascinating about the office place, because we, this, yes,
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: it's a job. Yes, we get paid. But it's a
• 13:14
  Speaker 3: very different job. Like, we get to just express things
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: that are happening. Our job is literally to talk about stories.
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: Where I feel like in a real office environment, like,
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: they have a lot of pent-up things that go down.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: Like, secretive stuff that go down. Even in this building.
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: Like, half the building is people that just do normal stuff. Like,
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: bills and sales. And they make calls. Yeah.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: But they see coworkers.
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: As opposed to what we do.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we literally just pop on a mic and put
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: on a little circus act. And then we go out
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: and do events. And that's everything's needed. But I feel
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: like that's where it's cool for them to get out
• 13:41
  Speaker 3: where it's like, oh my God, finally get to let
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: my hair down and just.
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: Because they're more fun than us.
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: Because that is their fun. Whereas we made fun our job.
• 13:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: They're like, I don't get to have fun, so now
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: I'm going to have fun at work.
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: Well, think about it. For us, it's every day. It's
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: throw the show. Do the show. Be fun.
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: Where it's them, it's like, oh, my God. Especially the
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: young ones that are just into the new work environment.
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: I didn't get that. When I first came into the,
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: I guess, corporate life, I remember the promotions team. Because
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: I took this so seriously that I was just working
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: all the time. But the promotions team that I was on,
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: they would all go out. They would hook up. All
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: those different scandalous office drama moments, I just was never
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: a part of.
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: I heard about it, but in my stupid.
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: If I give advice to anybody that's like, I don't know,
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: let's see, how old was I?
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: 22?
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: I'm like, do not take it too seriously.
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: Enjoy those little chapters because that stuff goes away so quick.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: And don't hook up with anybody that can affect your paycheck.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't know if I've ever... No.
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: Do you and Jenna hook up? No. What about you
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: and Scary Jason? Scary Jason's our big, big boss. Oh,
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: my God.
• 14:44
  Speaker 4: Jesus.
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: No, but I've never had that where it's like you
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: have a breakup in the office and it's like, you
• 14:49
  Speaker 3: can't walk by that person. I worry about that with
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: people in the building. You do? Yeah.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, because we have so many couples in the building.
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: So many couples.
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: You guys, we have so many couples in the building.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: Where it's like, yeah, I'm glad you guys found love
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: in whatever the song is in a special place, but like.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: You found love in a hopeless place?
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Oh, and this has a lot of hope.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: That's the kids' bop version.
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: Wee-bop!
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: On love in a special place.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: Why does that sound so accurate?
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: No, it's because it is.
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: But that would be so awkward, though, because then somebody
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: has to leave. Like, if they break up, somebody has
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: to leave.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: No, because we've had a breakup in this building, I mean,
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: decades ago. But there was a salesperson and another salesperson
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: that dated. I was surprised by that.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: I wonder how long, though, because that also dictates, like.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: Well, if they saw each other naked, it doesn't matter
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: how long. Do you know what I mean?
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to think.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Did I ever.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: When I, no, I guess I never had that.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: I had a secret relationship in college when I was
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: like a first college girlfriend.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Ooh, a secret relationship.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: Well, it was, we were working on the same team,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: working in the office environment.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Gotcha.
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: And then we were like secretly dating and it was
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: a whole thing.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Like people found out, it became a whole thing. Had
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: to go to meetings where it's like, you're not allowed
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: to do this, but we kept doing it. It was
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: honestly way too much stress for the payoff. That's what
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: I'll say. Yeah.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: If you're going to date somebody in the office, that's
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: got to be it. Like, you have to be really sure.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: I was looking at the other comments where somebody said, Abby,
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: maybe you should date somebody that's, you know, shorter.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: You guys act like I only date guys that are 6'7. Like,
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: who do you think I'm going out with? The average
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: man is 5'10. And I go out on a lot
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: of dates.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: What happened to the... Okay, wait, wait. Can we go
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: take a step back? I don't know if we should.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: I have so much to recap on. I know.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: At least one of them has to do the job guy.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: The guy that you had a good job with, he
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: has a good job, and you met his best friend.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm talking about.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, you want me to tell that story? Yes. Because
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I also went on another date last week. I went
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: on a coffee date. You know what? Yes.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Could you please recap?
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Hang on. We're going to have to figure out how
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: we're going to plan out how we're going to tell
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: these stories because now we're all over the place. So
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: we just talked.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: About- Catch us up with a coffee date.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Olivia Dean. No, coffee date is not as interesting as
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: the story I'm about to tell you. What story is this?
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: How far deep are we into this?
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: All right, 20 minutes.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: We got another 30 minutes. All right, this is a
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: packed and loaded episode, you guys.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: We got a lot of good content.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: You got time. You know what?
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I'm going to stop with the scarcity mindset, and I'm
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: going to think that there are good stories that we
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: can tell every single day this week.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. You're literally doing a happy hour today.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to sprinkle them, okay? I'm trying to make
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: sure that we're not just overloading one sandwich to the
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: point where we have like one 20-minute episode and then
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: one that's like an hour and a half. Yeah, give
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: us one. Can you tell the Tampa Bay Athletes story?
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: 100%, yes.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: You guys, this is so crazy.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: This is the best story. This is crazy.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: This is literally the best story. Okay, so my mom
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: and my dad came into town this week on Thursday,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: and my mom has this thing about coming out on
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Thursdays where I think she comes specifically because she has
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: this idea in her head that we're going to go
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: out to channel side and we're going to find some
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: finance dude. And she's going to set me up with
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: the finance dude. She thinks she's a really good wing woman.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: She's not. Um, she's a really aggressive wing woman. Like
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: she gets in there, but it's not effective. I'm a
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: good wing woman. I know how to read a room.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: She's a good conversation starter. Like if you ever go
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: out and it's like you get nervous to like approach
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: a new group, your mom is fearless.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: She is a great conversation starter. So once she gets
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: me in, I'm great. So in theory, we're a great team.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Like we're doing a relay race.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Out of the bars.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Pass the baton. Let's go. Yeah.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: She's like real quick off the mark. And she's like, yeah.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: And then I can take it the distance. The problem is,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: is if she's if she goes to if she doesn't
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: pass the baton off fast enough.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Crap, yeah, you're off to the races.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: It's bad news bears. And so that's where we're going
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: to get into this. So my mom comes in Thursday.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: We decide to go to a happy hour at Bar Taco.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Shout out Bartender Mitch at Bar Taco in Hyde Park.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: We love Bartender Mitch.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Who the hell is this Mitch?
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: He was just like, please leave us a review. And
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I was like, okay. So now I feel like every
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: time I talk about him, he was so great to
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: us that I feel like I need to give him
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: another review.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Now I feel like I want to go just to
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: meet this guy. Because you said that a couple times.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, why is Mitch so great?
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: He was so lovely, very friendly. I wanted to order
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: a watermelon margarita, and he said, I get the sense
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: that you're not going to like it. And I was like, oh,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I appreciate that. He goes, I'm going to make it
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: differently for you. So he made it differently for me.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: He was just nice, and he said it really helps
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: me when I get good reviews. So I'm like, you
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: know what? I'll leave you a good review. You're very nice,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: and I feel like you deserve it.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Bar Taco in Tampa.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: See Mitch. So I'm thinking my mom and I are
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: going to have two margaritas, and we're going home. My mom,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: after drink number one, goes, let's go to Meat Market.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: So we go to Meat Market, and I'm thinking, okay,
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: we're at Meat Market. We're surely we're going to go
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: home now because I work super early mornings. So while
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: we're out and about, my mom and I are just
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: talking about my career path and what I want to do.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know, life just seems so discombobulated.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I don't really know, but I'm excited about some new
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: opportunities that are coming up. I was just talking to
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: somebody at the office about getting to do some work
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: with a specific team here in Tampa Bay. And I
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: might get to interview some of their players. And I'm like,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I love going to these games. This team is really good.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: And we're going through like all my videos from the games.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: that I've been to where I've watched where I've like
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: taken videos of like games I've been to I was
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: like oh my god this game was so fun like
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: the fact that this, I'm like, this is the coolest
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: moment in sports I've ever witnessed in person. And my
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: mom's like, oh yeah, that looks so cool. I'm like
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: going through the roster and she's like trying to find
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: one to set up, set me up with. I'm like, mom,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: like this is, that's not how it works.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: They are literally professional athletes.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: They're literally professional athletes. Like they have 70, 100 women
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: in their DMs. Like, This is just I'm just getting
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: excited about the fact that like I have a new
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: challenge in front of me. Yeah, I feel like I've
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: been needing a new something new to spice things up
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: in my life career wise. And so I'm just getting
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: really geared up about that. So I tell you that
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: because then we bop over to a dive bar on D.I.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: We're sitting there and we're making conversation with this new
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: friend who I will tell at a later date. That's
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: another side story of a fun conversation. Lots of content
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: this week. You're going to get fed before I'm in Italy,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: so eat up.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: That's good.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: So I'm having this conversation with this guy having really
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: good banter. Gay, not romantic. Don't go there. And I'm
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: sitting there with my mom, and I turn. I don't
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: know if I heard a bunch of people get out
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: of a car or whatever, but I just turn, and
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: I see these two guys stumble out of a vehicle,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: and I go, Mom! That's the guy from one of
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: the videos I just showed you.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Like the people that I'm going to be interviewing. And
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: she goes, what? And you know, my mom's, drunk yeah
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: you guys have now been at a couple places we've
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: been at four bars and so my mom's like we've
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: got to go talk to them they they have to
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: know who you are and so i'm like mom like
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: let's just chill but i'm thinking this is the coolest
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: thing ever because i just i was like so excited
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: well you hear.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: The lore about these moments in tampa like you do
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: where it's like oh you'll be at a place and
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: they'll just pop up and you're like.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: But i but this never happens to me like i
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: never see famous people in the wild the only context
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: i see famous people is when usher is coming to
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the birch show And so, like, I've seen famous people,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: but I never see them in the wild.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Not in the wild.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: And so the fact that I'm seeing this dude in
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the wild, after I literally just told my mom about
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: this opportunity two hours ago, and he was in one
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: of the videos, I'm like, look at this. Like, look
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: at this play. Insane. Like, I really feel like I
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: spoke him into existence.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: The universe is like, okay, you manifested. Here he is.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: He's a figment of my imagination. So we go into
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: this bar, and I'm trying to figure out, like, do
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I want to approach and, like, say— Hey, I work
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: for this radio station. You might know these people that
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I work with because of certain things. Anyway, they're clearly
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: broing out.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, you know, you read the room.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: It's 15 big ass athletes. I'm reading the room and
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'm like, my gut is just saying this. Don't. This
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: is not the vibe. So my mom cannot read a room.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: She recognizes a guy that knows everything.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: My cousin's husband and i'm telling you this because my
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: cousin's husband is the son of a very famous tampa
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: bay athlete so my mom loves to throw this in
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: anytime she like wants to say we're relevant so she
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: sees him and says hey i think we've met before
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: whatever and i guess they somehow recognize each other he
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: recognizes my mom and they have a conversation this is
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: some other dude like in the group though.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Not in the group though so he's connected to the he's.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Connected to the athletes but yeah not the one that
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: i was referencing that we'll get into so My mom
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: is talking to him and I guess he goes, hey,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: we're going to this bar down the street. Come with
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: or whatever. And so my mom, of course, is like,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: let's go. So we go in, we get our drinks,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: we sit down at a table and we're sitting behind
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: the table of some of the athletes that we I'd
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: shown my mom there. It's so crazy. They're literally just
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: sitting there and I'm. Respectful I can clearly see that
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: they're they're growing out something's happening Yeah, like they're having
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: a dude moment and the last thing I want to do.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: Is be that girl That's like hey guys. I'm a
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: really big fan of your team, and I think you're
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: really cute You mean like I'm not trying to have
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: like a wattpad moment. I just think this is like
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: the wildest thing ever And honestly, I've been having a
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: couple drinks. I was like you know what if we
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: chat we chat so my mom Can never play it cool.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Because I'm thinking at some point maybe I'll bop in and, like, say, oh,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: my God, I'm a fan. I work for this radio
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: station or whatever. Like, I'm trying to think of how
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I'm going to play it.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: Find the in.
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to find
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: an in that's organic and natural. My mom takes her
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: cell phone. Oh. And she pulls up my Instagram, Bayes
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: on Bayshore. And to some of the most elite athletes
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: in Tampa, I'm talking like household Tampa names, maybe not
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: household United States names or, you know, like whatever, but
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: like household Tampa names.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, millions of people do know who these
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: people are.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: A big deal in this world. starts showing these elite
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: athletes my base on Facebook or Instagram.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: She's so proud.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: She's scrolling through, and I'm like, these poor guys do
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: not give a fuck.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, like there's no chance.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: I'm humiliated because also it 100% looks like she's trying
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: to set me up with these guys. And I'm just
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: instantly like, I'm gonna crawl out of my skin. My
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: new friend is sitting there with me. So I literally
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: grab her by the purse strap and I yank her back.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: My mom is a fit little thing. If you've ever
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: seen my mom, she's freaking jacked. She doesn't move an inch.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: So at this point, they've now noticed me trying to
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: pull her away. I've got to now play into this.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Now I have to be like, oh, is this woman
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: bothering you? Oh, my God.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Let me jump in.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: And so I jump into the conversation and I'm just
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: really trying to smooth it over because also in the
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: back of my mind is I have to interview these
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: guys at some point.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: One day you will.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: One of these days I'm going to interview some of
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: these dudes or I'm going to have some kind of
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: professional interaction with them. And the last thing I want
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: to happen is for them to see me at one
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: of their games and be like, that's the girl that
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: tried to set herself up. With the page on page
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: four on Instagram, she thinks she's like an influencer. So
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I'm standing there and it's these. There's two of them
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: at this table. We're actually having a great conversation. But
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: about like five minutes in, they decide they're done with
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: the conversation and they just stand up and leave. I
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: think one of their girlfriends came or whatever. And so
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: obviously it looks a little weird. There's this girl having
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: this conversation with you. You don't know her. Anyway, they
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: go to another part of the bar. And my mom
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: is so upset by this.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: So that conversation was not enough for your mama.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: It was not enough for my mom.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: Was the big athlete name in that conversation?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: Yes, it was Big Athlete and his friend. That's crazy.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: It was Big Name Athlete and his friend.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: So you got to hang out with Big Athlete.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I got to hang out with Big Athlete. I mean, literally,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm trying to really actually push is just
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: how crazy this is for me in this moment. I'm
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: two hours before I'm showing my mom videos from this
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: game that I went to. where he had like a
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: big play that was a big deal for.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: That specific game.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, the dude's a badass.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, huge moment. So I'm really just tweaking that. Like,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I think this is the coolest thing ever. Oh, yeah,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: it is. So she's sitting there, and she's pissed. And
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: she looks over to her left where a big-name athlete
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: was just sitting, and his phone is sitting there. And
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I look at my mom, and I said, for the
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: love of God, do not do what I think you're
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: about to do. It's caseless. It's sitting there. It's locked.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: She picks it up. She looks at it. I'm actually
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: kind of more really curious. I'm like, ooh, I wonder
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: what's on the phone.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like just tap the screen to see.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, I'm like, this can't get
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: any worse except for if he comes over and sees
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: my mom on his phone. So I'm like, put the
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: phone down, put the phone down. She puts it in
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: her pocket.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, Mom.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Now you've not only mortified this man, you've stolen property
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: from him.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: No, she's mortified me. He's fine.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, he's good.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Okay. He's okay. I'm mortified.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: She puts the phone in her pocket and she goes,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I'm going to keep it. And I'm like, mom, you
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: can't keep the phone. Mom, please just put the phone back.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: He's going to come back for it because I'm thinking
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: he's going to realize he found he left his phone
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: and he's going to swing back around.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: And he's going to know that your mama took it.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: And he's going to know that my mom took it.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: And I still have to see this man at some point. Like,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: that's the thing. It's like it's not like, OK, I'll
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: never see big name athlete again. That day I was
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: having conversations about interviewing this.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Big name athlete. Like it's going to happen probably in
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: the next two months.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, maybe not now.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I got to tell our promo team just so they
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: kind of know what they're getting into. Just in case.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I actually think they won't remember any of this, but
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: it'll be because they were also hammered. They were celebrating something.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: So anyway, my mom at some point, I don't know
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: if she said I can't remember. I was actively trying
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: to block this all out because I'm humiliated. Oh, yeah.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: My mom goes over there at some point and I
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: try to pull her back again by her purse strap again.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: She's like a brick. Can't move her. I try and
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: pull her back. she goes straight into the fire. I'm like, whatever.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: She's a loose cannon.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: I can't do anything about this.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: You know, a couple minutes later, the friend, a big
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: name athlete who was just at this table comes over
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: to me and she goes, not she, he goes, I'm
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: so sorry if you thought we were being mean. Like
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I really, we didn't mean anything. And I'm like, sorry,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: what did she say? Like, no, no, no, you weren't
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: being mean. You weren't being rude. Oh, my God. Oh,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. What is
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: she saying? And I go over there. And I, again,
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: try to pull her back. She won't move. And I
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: just look at him. And I think I kind of
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: blacked this out. I think I was so embarrassed. I
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: can't even really remember what happened. I just remember seeing
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: red the second he said, I'm so sorry if you
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: thought we were being mean. Because now here's how I'm
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: feeling in this moment. Is now I feel like a
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: pathetic dork loser. who approached the big-name athlete trying to, like,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: have a conversation, and they left, and the mean, popular
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: kids walked away. Now my mom is sustained offer. That's
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: how I'm feeling.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Internally, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: And respectfully, I'm... I've got some stuff going on. I'm like,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I'm not in my big name athlete level, you know,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: with a massive contract. No. Am I living in my
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: parents' house for free?
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Maybe.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Maybe. But at the same time, I've done some great
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: things in my career. Like I'm not some, I'm not
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: some rando drunk fan girl just trying to get attention here.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: And so I'm like, I have to get out of here.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm thinking is I can't stand here anymore.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I am so embarrassed. I grabbed my mom by her shoulders.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: I walk her out. The second we leave the bar,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: she starts sobbing. Jesus Christ. She's like, they were so mean.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: They were really rude to us. and i'm like oh
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: my god mom what did you say to big name
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: athlete what did you say and she goes i just
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: thought they were so mean to us i'm running i'm
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: sprinting home i'm like they cannot see us this is
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: so embarrassing i finally get her home i get her
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: to bed she wakes up the next morning she is
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: so remorseful understandably And I'm just laying there trying to.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Go to bed.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I have to give up this part
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: of the job now. I have to go tell promotions
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I can't do this.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Forget it.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Scrap it. Throw it in the can. I can't look
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: these guys in the eyes. So yeah, that was my Thursday.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just a casual Thursday night out with your mom.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Casual Thursday. My mom trying to steal this big name
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: athlete's phone. Very mad that he didn't want to pay
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: attention to us. humiliated i'm like this is just not
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: the your name moment i wanted like this is i
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: wanted to be like oh we listen to.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: Your radio yeah we love you we love your podcast
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: we want to be on you're.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: So fun like you're so famous i've seen based on
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: base where i actually love it.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: I actually dm'd you never responded never responded i wanted
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: to be on your show that is the craziest situation
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: that could have happened in a night out in tampa it's.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Just and i just can't get over the fact that
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: it all happened the universe really is like one day
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: you want to kill yourself the next day you're having
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: conversations with people and promotions about going to this team
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: and interviewing some of their athletes, talking to your mom
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: about interviewing some of those athletes, and then they show
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: up to the same dive bar. Crazy.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: And at least you're memorable.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: No, I'm really I actually you know, I really hope
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: that they were so drunk that that that night that
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: they don't remember me.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: I don't think they would.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: And to be fair, I also didn't look like peak
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: full beat Abby. So I'm hoping when I have a
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: full beat on, I just look like a different person.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: You're like, oh my God, who am I?
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: This girl is so beautiful and hot and talented and interesting.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: And she's vaguely familiar, but in a way that's endearing
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: and not embarrassing.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: When you're talking to big name athlete, what is the, like,
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: what are you guys even talking about? Like, cause that's
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: a whole new level of stardom.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess kind of just, I just skipped over
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: the conversation. The conversation was fun. Like we were all
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: kind of roasting each other because I don't know, because again,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: of course my mom has to name drop the fact
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: that we know each other big name athlete that married
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: into our family oh yeah and so we were like
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: giving him a hard time that we like knew all
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: of his secrets and they're like no no no tell
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: us and you know oh that's fun yeah so it
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: was a fun conversation somehow it came up that we
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: that i went to uf and they said oh we
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: love fsu and i was giving them a hard time
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: because i think they just told us that they weren't
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: from florida i was like you're not even from florida
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: you didn't even go to florida state And so they
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: started doing the FSU chant. They did the, uh.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's funny.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: And so I was like, I was like trying to,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I was like, stop, stop, stop. But so it was funny.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: It was a good conversation. How tall is this dude?
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Like next to you? Or like, was it like, he
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: was sitting, they were both sitting and you guys are standing.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: So yeah, to paint the picture, which I guess I
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: didn't do well enough. They're sitting at these two high
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: top tables and my mom and I are both standing
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: and like.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: So they turned away from their group to chat with y'all.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Well, it was just two of them at this table.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: And then the rest of the group is at the
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: front of the bar. So they left us at this
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: table to rejoin their friends at the front of the bar.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, which makes perfect sense.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: It makes perfect sense.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: Good time to end the conversation.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I will say in the moment, it did feel like
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: an abrupt end. But also, I think it's important to
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: recognize when you talk to someone who's a public figure
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: or someone who is any kind of celebrity, I think
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: sometimes you have hypersensitivity to things that happen because you
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: want their approval so bad. You're like, oh, I want
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: this big-name athlete to think I'm, like, fun and cool.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I'm cool, too. Like, with you.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if this was just any other dude, you probably
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: wouldn't have thought anything about it. But because you're, like,
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: a fan of theirs, you're like, oh, no, this person
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: doesn't like me. And so I think that's why I joined.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: And we do that all the time, though. We do
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: that all the time, yes. Like, we're like, oh, no, no, no,
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: we're not like the other fans. Like, we're not like,
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: you know, we're the cool ones.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not weird and creepy. I need to just
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: talk about this opportunity where I'm going to get to
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: interview you guys and get really excited. I just didn't
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: talk about that for an hour with my mom. Yeah,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: I wasn't watching her highlight reel.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Like, that's fine.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I wasn't pulling up fan edits on TikTok.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: Super casual. We're just cool fans. I'm just cool. Invite
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: us to your friend group. It would be fun.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's be friends.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: I think, honestly, if there's ever an opportunity to have
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: a moment with a celeb, at least no punches were thrown,
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: no harsh words were said. I hope. No drinks were
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: tossed on me.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: No drinks were tossed. Thank God. I think my mom
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: just yelled at them. And so she just made me
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: look like a loser. So here's what I'm hoping. I'm
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: a cool, socially conscious human that I'm hoping if there
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: is any kind of recognition, if they go, you look
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: vaguely familiar, I'm hoping it's something I can be like,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: oh my God, yes, I met you at a bar.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: My mom yelled at you.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. And then it's like, oh, she's cool.
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: She's, like, cool. And then we have, like, a rapport.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Then she's like, oh, my God, you're the girl with the,
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: you know, funny bar story.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: And now you're actually memorable instead of just, like, every
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: other fan that they say hello to.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Because I'm not like other fans. No. I'm a fan
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: that has a press pass to meet you.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: Exactly. And that my mom yelled at you for.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: And my mom. Who can say that Carrie Murphy yelled
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: at them in a dive bar? See?
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: There's all things weirdly happen for a weird reason. But
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: what happened to the phone? Like, did you ever ask
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: your mom?
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: That's the part that drives me wild. She literally put
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: it in her pocket.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: I have to ask her what she did with the
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: phone because here's what I'm afraid. This is why I'm
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: afraid to ask her.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: Oh, boy.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I'm afraid that she yelled at him specifically when she
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: gave him the phone. Do you know what I mean?
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Because I'm pretty sure the way she's painted the picture
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: is that she yelled at the friend that she knew.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: before this all happened, the one that knows my cousin's
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: husband's dad, the one that told us to come to
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: this bar, I'm hoping she yelled at him. But I
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: think what really happened is she gave him the phone
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: back and then yelled at Big Name Athlete.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: For walking away.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: From, yeah, for walking away.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: Gosh, damn.
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: Well, that is insane because obviously, maybe not the top
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: wing woman, but definitely top conversation starter.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: She gets an A for conversations. No, because the, oh
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: my God, the Instagram thing is so embarrassing. Because you
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: want to know why? I think I'd be able to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: move on from this if they didn't know me as
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: the Bayshore girl now. Oh, shoot. Yeah.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: Because now you're forever. Like, not only is that the
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: case if they see it, but they will see it.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Because just the way your technology is, they said it
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: out loud. Yeah.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Their phone heard it.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Now they know who I am. And so every time
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: they see Bayshore, they're like, they're going to like send
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: it to friends. Oh, there's a girl that yelled at
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: us at the bar.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: I think they'll think it's cool. I think it actually
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: does give you a leg up of like, oh, no,
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: she is doing stuff in the community. She's not just
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: like some crazy.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Who's interviewing single dudes on Bayshore, you know, looking like
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get a boyfriend. But I think that's
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: what I'm worried it looked like. was that my mom
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: was like that's what i'm really embarrassed about do you
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: know what i'm trying to say yes like here's here's
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: her dating account here's my single daughter are you interested
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: are you interested yeah um but my mom does have
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: a tendency to do this i will say this is
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: not the first time she's done this you know what
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: she gets she doesn't you gotta play it cool carrie
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta dial.
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: It back And I think it's not the first time
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: it's happened to them either. Like if they're going to
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: go out in public, weirdly enough, it's like, oh, you're
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: kind of setting yourself up for that.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: That is so valid. And I so appreciate you saying
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: that because I'm like, you know what? That's actually so true. Yeah.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: And it could have been.
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm sure I'm actually I would bet my entire
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: twenty five dollars I have in my wallet that it
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: has happened way worse or it's like they've gone out
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: and it's like horrible things have happened.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: So anyway.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Can't wait to see those interviews.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah. This just adds to my lore.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: If you do have the interview, will you bring it up?
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: No. Let's say they don't bring it up. You won't
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: be the one that brings it up?
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Zero percent.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: You act like it'll never happen.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go, hey, I'm Abby from Magic 94.9.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: It's so great to meet you.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Big fan. And just leave it at that.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: And just leave it at that.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: And if they bring it up, then you'll go in.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: But if they don't bring it up, it never happened.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: It does just make me more nervous going into whatever
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: we're going to do. Because I don't know what they're
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: going to have me do. I don't know if they're
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: going to have me interview them or do content with them.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: And so I already know players hate doing press and
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. So I wonder if it's going to
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: be more of an eye roll. It's like, oh, my God,
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: here's the Bayshore girl again. Unbelievable. If it's going to
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: look like I've like tracked them down or something. Does
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: that make sense?
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: But I think at the same time, like we have
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: to remind ourselves that we're also doing our job. Yeah.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: I might need you to go with me or something.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Just like break the ice.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, hell yeah. I'm down for that.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: That'd be awesome. I'd love to be in that room.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: But it's like for us, I know a lot of
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: the celebrities, cause even we'll bring in, cause we brought in,
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: what is it? The band Camino the other day. And
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: it's like, to me, I think like, oh, this is cool.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: And.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: I also want to make it a safe, calm environment
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: because you literally are doing this all the time.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Not us.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: Them. They're talking to people all day, every day, answering
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: very similar questions, going through the very similar games. And
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: if I let that be the one voice that speaks
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: up in my mind, I'm like, oh, God, I don't
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: want to do anything. But if I let the other voice,
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: it's like, oh, this is literally what you signed up for.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: I have to do my job, too, sir. Then I
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: feel a lot better about it. Yeah.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: It's like that's how I'd go into the interview about press.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what?
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: You all literally signed up to be celebrities. This comes
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: with a job.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: Let me do mine well, too. And it looks really
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: good on your Instagram. It will.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: It looks... Get him out on Bayshore.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: Maybe they will.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: If they come shirtless, whatever.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: As they should. And that's going to be my final
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: piece about this. This is going to sound weird. I'm
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: going to say it weird for the statement of it.
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: Why haven't more men been shirtless on your Bays on
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Bayshore videos? I was like the only one.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Because I think men are equally as insecure. All roads
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: lead back to body dysmorphia. Welcome to unfiltered body dysmorphia
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: chat with Scotty and Abby.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: We're all struggling, I guess.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, men are struggling just as much as women, which
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: I love. This is the feminism I'm fighting for.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: That's an interesting way.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Oh, we missed a meeting. no we didn't yeah we
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: did what meeting do we have did you not get
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: the meeting alert for the 8 30 shuffleboard.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: Meeting i thought that's at 9 30 no 8.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: 30 a.m that's so funny oh whatever they don't need
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: us for that that's.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Four meetings in one day that's enough.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Don't they know we have bills to pay we gotta
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: do this podcast gosh.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: Darn it well anyway thanks for all those comments on
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: the spotify that led back to that road and a
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: lot of people are rooting for you saying that uh
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: you know, with all the dating stories that we shared
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: last week, I will share this one from Aaron who said.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Can you share a nice one?
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: This is a good one.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: You always share a comment and I'm like, we should
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: have talked about that before.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what? You're right. Absolutely right. But the
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: one that Erin said was really nice.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: It said, Abby, I was in the single trenches with
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: you the entire time you were at TBS and I
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: just recently found.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: My man on Hinge. A couple months ago.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, Aaron.
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: Keep trying and don't be scared to give a shorter
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: guy a shot. My man is my height and I
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: realize it doesn't matter.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Aw, shout out to you, Aaron. Thanks for leaving that comment.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I did go on a hinge date on Wednesday and
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: I will tell you about it tomorrow.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: We got another, I don't know what this name is,
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: but Tam something. Abby, I've been listening to you since TBS.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: You are the total package. Don't lower your standards. Don't
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: stop being who you are. Have fun and enjoy life.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Thanks, Tam. I'm going to find myself a nice Italian man.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you what.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: You can do that whole thing in Lady and the
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: Tramp where it's like you eat the spaghetti together and
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: you meet.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: In the middle.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I've been single. I just haven't been
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: to Italy yet.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Exactly. And now it happens in just a few days.