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Episode #298: Choosing Empowerment in Challenging Moments · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev.
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  Speaker 2: Good day, go day, Happy day.
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  Speaker 1: It's happening, sister.
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  Speaker 2: What's happening on? Actually a lot of what would you say, so.
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  Speaker 1: What's going on in your world?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: A lot of last conversations.
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  Speaker 2: So oh, I think it kind of went. I think
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  Speaker 2: it was balanced, honestly. No, I would say a lot
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  Speaker 2: of love and a lot of love for self. Honestly,
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  Speaker 2: these things that I feel now I've never felt before
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  Speaker 2: in my life, and it's pretty wonderful. We had a
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  Speaker 2: conversation around the house and talking about the things that
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  Speaker 2: you know, because I've talked about want and travel and stuff,
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  Speaker 2: but it's like, I really do, I really want to
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  Speaker 2: My main focus is to be loved, is to be love,
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  Speaker 2: to feel love, to have this constant flow within me
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  Speaker 2: and maintain that at all times. And so that's what
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  Speaker 2: I've been That's what I've been working on. That's the
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  Speaker 2: focus I've been working on. It's everything that kind of
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  Speaker 2: comes up. I set with it. I sit and feel
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  Speaker 2: whatever it feels like. If I feel whatever the emotion is,
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if it's a happier sad emotion. I
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  Speaker 2: set with it. I feel it. I just I be
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  Speaker 2: with it. And so I've been doing that a lot
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  Speaker 2: and it's and it's been very empowering for myself. It's
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  Speaker 2: very motivational.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 2: We talked a lot about AI and the second part
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  Speaker 2: of our thing last night. But it's like I too
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  Speaker 2: use chat GPT. It's like it's helped me. I'm creating
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  Speaker 2: a program right now of how to teach others to
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  Speaker 2: be able to be in this this business, this being
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  Speaker 2: state at all times and from a child perspective, because
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  Speaker 2: I think from a child perspective. By doing that, it
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  Speaker 2: helps everybody can understand from a child perspective. So it's
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  Speaker 2: like if I can do that with and I can
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  Speaker 2: and I'm doing it, so I'm like pumped up about it.
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  Speaker 2: So you're talking about all tho stuff that you're pumped
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  Speaker 2: up about it, it's like I feel you and it's
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  Speaker 2: like a it's a It's like it's like like this
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  Speaker 2: whole time I've been looking for following my passion and
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  Speaker 2: not knowing what passions were or what my passions were,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like if I kept focusing on that and
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  Speaker 2: and because that's still upside of myself in some ways
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  Speaker 2: it was because I was looking outside of myself for
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  Speaker 2: what without my passion is that is that it? Or
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  Speaker 2: maybe that's it over there? Looking around for that all
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  Speaker 2: the time, and it wasn't coming. And it's like the
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  Speaker 2: only way I could get here is by me focusing in.
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  Speaker 4: On the heart.
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  Speaker 2: And it's like there's a couple of videos that you've
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  Speaker 2: seen of being in the last I don't know, probably
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  Speaker 2: a couple of months.
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  Speaker 4: It's been going on since August.
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  Speaker 2: It's been there's been a lot of heaviness and a
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  Speaker 2: lot of emotion. But God, I am so grateful and
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  Speaker 2: thankful for all that because if I didn't go through
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  Speaker 2: that stuff, I wouldn't know more about me. Everything that
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  Speaker 2: I've experienced has led me back into myself because we're
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  Speaker 2: in a time space reality that you can't rely on
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  Speaker 2: the things outside of yourself, and I don't want to.
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  Speaker 4: I want to be within.
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  Speaker 2: Myself and creating the things that I want to see
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  Speaker 2: outside of myself. So it's like it's it's this journey
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  Speaker 2: has totally shifted for me. My life has totally it's changed.
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  Speaker 2: I have the same address, I'm still located in the
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  Speaker 2: same place, but my perspective on things are totally different
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  Speaker 2: and they're growing every single day. It's it's exciting, like
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  Speaker 2: you said, it's exciting. It's so this is not a
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  Speaker 2: place that I've ever been before, and I love it.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 2: Give me some more of that. And then it's so
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  Speaker 2: what I keep saying, because it's something we've talked about
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  Speaker 2: so much, And even when I feel good, or even
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  Speaker 2: if I feel not so good, I'm like, well, how
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  Speaker 2: can I get better than this? I'm constantly asking myself
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  Speaker 2: that all day long, and I'm constantly being shown how
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  Speaker 2: it could get better than that. It's like like, how
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  Speaker 2: like you just showed me that, Like, but okay, how
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  Speaker 2: can I get better for that? I don't even know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know, because it's really that it's the
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  Speaker 2: happiness from within. It's it's not about all the outside stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about the relationships. Because I don't have a
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  Speaker 2: good relationship within here, within myself, then the outside relationships
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  Speaker 2: are just reflecting what's inside of me. If I want
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  Speaker 2: to be the love and of you know, be this
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  Speaker 2: great love, I have to be the great love within myself.
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  Speaker 2: And so that's what I've learned, that's what I'm that's
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  Speaker 2: my journey and I'm loving it, yep.
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  Speaker 3: And last year was that nine year cycle for numerology,
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  Speaker 3: So twenty twenty five we went through the nine which
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  Speaker 3: is the end of a cycle, which is you know,
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  Speaker 3: the clearing and the wrapping.
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  Speaker 1: Things up and the.
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  Speaker 3: Ending of things, so new things could start in twenty
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  Speaker 3: twenty six and new beginnings. And sometimes those nine years
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  Speaker 3: are rough, sometimes are enough.
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  Speaker 2: For me, it was rough, it felt like it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So.
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  Speaker 3: We want to honor those times in our lives where
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  Speaker 3: we are experiencing what may seem difficult, heavy, chaos, hard,
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  Speaker 3: because on the other side of it, his growth, expansion, exhilaration, gratitude,
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  Speaker 3: like so much comes from those things that seemed so
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  Speaker 3: so hard. And and I had some moments last year
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  Speaker 3: as well where I just like, man, I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how, you know, I knew i'd get
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  Speaker 3: through it, but man, it just sucked, really.
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  Speaker 1: And then get it. On the other side of.
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  Speaker 3: It, it's like a breath of fresh air. The sun
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  Speaker 3: is shining and life keeps going and I'm a better
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  Speaker 3: person within myself, right, So it's like, okay, well, not
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  Speaker 3: that I really want to choose to keep doing that,
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  Speaker 3: but you know, the other side's been pretty amazing.
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  Speaker 1: So so.
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  Speaker 3: Uh having uh making the choice, I would say, making
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  Speaker 3: the choices we are We're always making choices every single day,
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  Speaker 3: all day long.
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  Speaker 1: We're making choices.
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  Speaker 3: Make a choice to be more mindful about experiences that
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  Speaker 3: may seem heavy, heavy, and choose to learn from them
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  Speaker 3: and not stay stuck in them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So here's a here's a prime.
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  Speaker 3: Example in it right now, minute, right now, Uh, about
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  Speaker 3: a week ago. It's going to be a little bit
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  Speaker 3: longer after this recording. Of course, this recordings are not
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  Speaker 3: going to come out till about mid January. But at
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  Speaker 3: the end of December. How's that end of December going
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  Speaker 3: into a new year.
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  Speaker 1: My mom went to the hospital, and.
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  Speaker 3: You know, at the at the beginning stages, you're getting
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  Speaker 3: the bits and pieces of what's being fed to you
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  Speaker 3: because we don't live in the same we're two states away,
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  Speaker 3: so getting bits and pieces of information as it comes
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  Speaker 3: from the doctor's and the and the relatives that are
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  Speaker 3: with her, and and you know, so you're trying to
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  Speaker 3: process this and and keep it together because you're in
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  Speaker 3: the you're in that space of unknown, and that's usually
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  Speaker 3: what wraps us, you know, gets us going is that unknown.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what's gonna happen, what's happening? And I
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  Speaker 3: started I'm so proud of myself because I started getting
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  Speaker 3: into the stories in my head of.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, what if this happens? What if that? Right?
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  Speaker 3: The whole doom and gloom going down a rabbit hole
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  Speaker 3: that I could have easily went down if I if
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  Speaker 3: I was going to choose to do that route. Those
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  Speaker 3: thoughts started coming in and I was like, hold on, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: you don't have all the information yet. You're creating stories
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  Speaker 3: that aren't even true. You're projecting something into the future
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  Speaker 3: that you don't want to happen. You're getting wrapped up
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  Speaker 3: in emotional stuff. That why are you getting wrapped up
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  Speaker 3: in emotional stuff? What's side all about?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: So that it's like, Okay, where are these emotions actually
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  Speaker 3: tied to? What emotions am I storing in my body?
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  Speaker 3: Or experiences am I storing in my body? There are
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  Speaker 3: being allowed to surface for me to look at that
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  Speaker 3: are past experiences, not current past. So I started going
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  Speaker 3: through that process. I was like, okay, and this is
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  Speaker 3: within one morning on my way to work, within like
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  Speaker 3: a five minute period, thoughts came in. I was like, nope,
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  Speaker 3: what is this really about? Start sifting through it, like, oh, okay, we're.
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  Speaker 1: Good, go about my day.
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  Speaker 3: And then it was more of the emotion of.
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  Speaker 1: Scared.
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  Speaker 3: Being scared is what I would say, scared. Okay, well
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  Speaker 3: can you control this? Do you have control over whether
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  Speaker 3: she stays or transitions? Do you like start asking myself
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  Speaker 3: all these questions that were based around control.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like nope.
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  Speaker 3: They answered across the board was nope, nope, nope.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well, what can you do? Well?
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  Speaker 3: I can visualize her well being. I can visualize the
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  Speaker 3: doctors or you know, of the that they are bringing
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  Speaker 3: their a game in her and taking care of her
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  Speaker 3: and this and the staff, and she has to have surgery,
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  Speaker 3: so the surgery.
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  Speaker 1: Goes well and right. So I can do that.
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  Speaker 3: And at the same time, my primary focus is this
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  Speaker 3: experience is for the highest and greatest good of all concerned.
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  Speaker 3: Whether she stays or goes, that is not the point.
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  Speaker 3: It's for the highest and greatest good of all of
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  Speaker 3: us who are in this experience and what each of
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  Speaker 3: us are going to get out of it. And for
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  Speaker 3: me it's already been personal growth. Yeah, I can't control it.
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  Speaker 3: I can only control my thoughts. I can recognize what
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  Speaker 3: my thoughts are actually conjuring up as far as my
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  Speaker 3: emotional state, Like I can control all that. I can't
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  Speaker 3: control if she goes into surgery and decides to transition,
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  Speaker 3: I have no control over that. What do I have
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  Speaker 3: control over? I can get there and go see her
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  Speaker 3: and be with her before the surgery.
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  Speaker 1: I can do that.
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  Speaker 3: I can have a few moments with her and enjoy
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  Speaker 3: our time together.
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  Speaker 1: I can do that. That's in my control.
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  Speaker 3: Can do my visualization of her well being, that's in
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  Speaker 3: my Like, I have control over a lot of things.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have control.
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  Speaker 3: Over what her and her spirits agreement is and what
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  Speaker 3: she decides to do. And so I had to really
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  Speaker 3: sift through that and be okay. And so I've had
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  Speaker 3: very minimal conversations outside in my personal world with people.
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  Speaker 1: I was with old group of.
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  Speaker 3: Women last night, never once mentioned anything about it, because
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  Speaker 3: what do people do, Oh, my gosh, when I had
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  Speaker 3: surgery or my husband had surgery, or this happened or
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  Speaker 3: that happened. Oh, And It's like I didn't want I
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  Speaker 3: didn't want the night to be dominated by that conversation
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  Speaker 3: or stories or oh, I'm so sorry. I didn't want
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  Speaker 3: any of that.
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  Speaker 1: We left. We had a good time. We were playing a.
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  Speaker 3: Game and it was great, and that's the energy that's
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  Speaker 3: important to hold and have. Then sitting in sorrow, misery
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  Speaker 3: and doom and gloom over something.
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  Speaker 1: I have no control over. So I am.
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  Speaker 3: I'm in it right now as we're recording this. I'm
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  Speaker 3: in this experience right now. So and if I was
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  Speaker 3: in my doom and gloom, I would have said, Bev,
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  Speaker 3: I don't have the wherewithal to do this video today
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  Speaker 3: and I need to reschedule, and.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know when it's when I'm where we're going
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  Speaker 1: to be able to come back. Like So, this is
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  Speaker 1: not a facade.
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  Speaker 3: This is not me putting on my big girl panties
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  Speaker 3: and showing up and getting this done.
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  Speaker 1: This you can tell the difference.
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  Speaker 3: And this is this is me showing up in my
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  Speaker 3: authenticity about this experience that's happening right now.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're walking the walk. Oh yeah, you know something
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  Speaker 4: else that came up.
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  Speaker 2: It's almost you know, we're talking in the last video
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  Speaker 2: about your AI and creating an image, just like creating
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  Speaker 2: an image where you can visualize your mom being the
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  Speaker 2: healthiest that she's ever been is being able to see that.
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  Speaker 2: And then during our last video, it also reminded me
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  Speaker 2: because it's still artwork. So when you're creating your art
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  Speaker 2: and you're all pumped up and you're like, yeah, this
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  Speaker 2: is so exciting and you're like getting so thrilled about
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  Speaker 2: it and you're creating that that's going to come out
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  Speaker 2: from that image that you created from that artwork. So
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  Speaker 2: that's another way that that energy is being shared to others.
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  Speaker 2: And now, like you said, do we have control over
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  Speaker 2: someone's health and well being?
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  Speaker 4: We do not, but we can't, but.
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  Speaker 2: We can certainly benefit them.
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  Speaker 4: We can feed.
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  Speaker 2: More positivity energy into that whole situation and it could
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  Speaker 2: shift everybody else. But it's like it's so true. There's
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  Speaker 2: it's out of our hands, and it's you're walking the walk.
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  Speaker 4: Really, you've spoke about all this stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And that's something too that I've had to learn, is
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  Speaker 2: we learn to walk what we've been talking about.
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  Speaker 4: And that's what I'm doing now.
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  Speaker 2: And it took me a long time to get into
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  Speaker 2: that space to recognize that, but now it's like it's implemented,
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  Speaker 2: it's part of the program. It's happening and it's showing
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  Speaker 2: up and I can see it in you, I can
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  Speaker 2: fill it in you. So it's it's just a wonderful
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  Speaker 2: space to be and it really takes a lot of
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  Speaker 2: responsibility off you. And also knowing that there was there's
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  Speaker 2: a bigger picture here, there's something bigger that we can
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  Speaker 2: learn from in this whole situation. Yeah, and not just
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  Speaker 2: for you, for so many other people that it gets
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  Speaker 2: to touch. Yeah, even the staff.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: And uh.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll say I didn't.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't bring it up at our group last night.
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  Speaker 3: There was a group of women we got together to
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  Speaker 3: play a game. I didn't bring it up, not one
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  Speaker 3: time with anybody at that.
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  Speaker 1: Event.
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  Speaker 3: What I did do on the external world is I
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  Speaker 3: have a Facebook group called Walking This Journey with Amy Wade,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm in a Mastermind group. And what I did
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  Speaker 3: do was say calling all prayer warriors, healers, reiki practitioners,
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  Speaker 3: and then gave them some information about what was going on.
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  Speaker 3: And then after that I said, this is my ask,
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  Speaker 3: please say a prayer or envision you know about the
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  Speaker 3: staff and the doctors and all that, and that my
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  Speaker 3: mom's medical experiences right now are being cleared, and there's
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  Speaker 3: ease and flow with the parts of her body. And
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  Speaker 3: I gave a little bit better description than that. I'm
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  Speaker 3: just being vague here, but gave them specific things onto
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  Speaker 3: what to focus on and hold the vision of her
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  Speaker 3: well being, and that this experience is for the highest
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  Speaker 3: and greatest good of all concern So there's over three
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  Speaker 3: hundred people in my Facebook group. I'm not sure the
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  Speaker 3: count on the Mastermind group, but there's a lot of
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  Speaker 3: people in that group, and I it's setting the intention
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  Speaker 3: of what I want and all the responses that I
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  Speaker 3: went through and read all the responses and they were
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  Speaker 3: like prayers, sending love and light, sending healing, Like that's
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  Speaker 3: what I want. I don't want the doom and gloom,
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  Speaker 3: the stories, the sad, and I don't want any of that.
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  Speaker 3: I want this to be a high vibrational energy experience,
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  Speaker 3: which means by me making those posts, people who would
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  Speaker 3: typically stay in the doom and gloom about something, they're
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  Speaker 3: seeing a different side of how to move through an experience,
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  Speaker 3: focusing on what you want, asking for what you want.
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  Speaker 3: And that's what I did, and now all those participants
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  Speaker 3: who have responded are part of that experience. They're a
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  Speaker 3: part of my mom's experience. Right now, I say, hey,
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  Speaker 3: my mom's surgery is on Wednesday. Please set an alarm
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  Speaker 3: on Wednesday at noon to whole division if you feel guided.
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  Speaker 3: It's always a choice, like, I'm not demanding it. I'm
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  Speaker 3: asking if you feel guided at this time on this.
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  Speaker 1: Day, please do this. Well.
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  Speaker 3: Her surgery got moved up to Monday, so I put
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  Speaker 3: it on there, Hey, if you feel guided, her surgery
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  Speaker 3: appointment has changed, and put it out there right So
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  Speaker 3: it's asking for what you want. I am doing that
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  Speaker 3: of physical human beings, but this is what we can
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  Speaker 3: do with the universe as well. When I'm putting it
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  Speaker 3: out there to them, I'm putting it out there to
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  Speaker 3: the universe. And again, it's not that I can control anything,
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  Speaker 3: but my job and what's in my control is to
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  Speaker 3: focus on what I want. And this is true for
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  Speaker 3: anything in your life. Finances, relationships, career, health, all of it.
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  Speaker 1: Focus on what you want.
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  Speaker 3: Ask for what you want, pull division of what you want,
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  Speaker 3: talk to people about what you want, like kis. Keep
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  Speaker 3: doing that, and again I just keep coming back to
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  Speaker 3: we are going into a fire energy and it is
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  Speaker 3: about action and whatever you focus on if you think
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  Speaker 3: that the stuff you have been attracting and creating and
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  Speaker 3: manifesting before, if you're focused on shit, think what's going
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  Speaker 3: to happen during a fire energy, How much more amplified
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  Speaker 3: and how much quicker it's going to come. So twenty
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  Speaker 3: twenty six, in the next twenty years, it's like, be
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  Speaker 3: very very very intentional about what you want and hold
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  Speaker 3: that thoughts about what you want and if you feel
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  Speaker 3: those thoughts coming up creeping in about the doom and
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  Speaker 3: gloom and how things suck, whooh, you better change it fast,
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  Speaker 3: change it fast.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Because it's going to come.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Whatever you think about, it's going to come, and it's
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: going to come hard, and it's going to get your
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: attention and then you get to choose what you want
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: to do with it. And I'm like, I'm like, I
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: my goals be very intentional this year with my time,
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: my energy, my focus, very intentional because for me to
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: accomplish what I want to accomplish, accomplish, I have to
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: be intentional and I want the universe on my side
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: helping me along the way.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: So that's my choice. So and we all have the choices.
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: We certainly do.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we certainly do. And then it goes back to conversations.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: We've had them, We've had them on it's been a while,
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: but just reminding ourselves the foods that we eat, the
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: things that we listen to, the things that we want,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: the things that we say, the songs that were singing, Like,
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: all this stuff is we're creating from that space, the
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: energy that you're feeling. So it's like finding ways to
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: uplift yourself and going back to the conversation of the
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: people that you chose to share this with. You knew
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: that this was going to come from everyone was going
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: to come from an uplifting, healing fashion instead of from
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: the I'm sorry this is happening to, you know, the
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: doom and gloom, the lower vibrational, the things that just
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: don't feel that good. And that's the same with anything
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: with your conversations. Knowing who you're speaking to about your creations,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: knowing who you're talking to about your life, and because
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: you want to up, you want to feel uplifted when
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: you're sharing this stuff. You don't want to feel anything
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: other than that. Honestly, Yeah, I mean it's not the
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: end of the world, but it's like feeling uplifted come on, guys,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: it feels a lot better than anything else. Let's be real,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: And until you start paying attention to that, that you
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: just don't know. But it's like taking the time and
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: having the awareness with yourself, checking in with how you feel,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: getting to know yourself.
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: All of this is a benefit to you. All of it.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Everything that we've spoke about is a benefit to you.
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: To all of us.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, for the greatest good of all.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: And we think, we think that things are just happening
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: happening to us, but really it's not just you. There's
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: so many other components to the experience that you like,
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: just move me moving through this experience. How many people
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: am I actually going to affect by it? By the
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: posts that I did, by other people reading those posts,
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: by conversations outside of you know, with people that like
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: how it's a wildfire, I have no idea it is.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: It's a confidence builder too. It's for each individual and
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: it gives them an opportunity to step in and be
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: that healer, to be able to say prayers for someone
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: for someone else, to feel like they've been empowered because
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: they can do something for somebody else, because they've wanted
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: to do something for someone else, And it's that simple.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: It's just that simple as holding space for somebody else
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: and a high vibrational frequency.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, uplifting.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: And to be honest, that wasn't even us having this conversation.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: What is an even a thought in my thought process
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: When I put the posts out there, it was listen,
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: this is what I want. I'm asking please do it
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: if you feel guided.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: That was the only place where my thoughts were until
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: you and I are having this conversation right now, where
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, this is this is affecting hundreds of people,
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: if not ending up thousands of people, if not millions
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: of people just from one experience and me putting that
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: out there for them to be involved if they want to.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: So so that's it.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: That's exciting.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I'm like, thanks mom for having this experience because like,
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: what's happening right it's.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Like that gratitude of it exactly, and it uplifts the
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: whole world. It uplifts the whole universe. It's like it's
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: a total shift.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: Here's what I'm going to point out because this is
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: such a great teaching moment and you and I recently
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: had this conversation as well. One of one of the
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: main things I teach is how to go from your
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: doom and gloom victimhood state to a space of joy.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: And we just I just walked you through the entire process.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: So if you didn't get it, go back and re
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: watch this video or listen to the audio.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Is first of.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: All, you're in the doom and gloom. My doom and
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: gloom was being in my thoughts, my emotions, you know,
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: getting starting to get balled up in all that, And
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: I was like, no, what's happening here? What am I
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: learning about myself? So first giving knowledge to whatever the
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: hell is the heavy, the heaviness, write it down, I say,
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: write it down. And because it's better to get it
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: out of your body out on paper, but write it down.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: If you got you got heaviness, write it down, get
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: it out of your body, get it out of your system.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: Then it's what is what am I learning from this?
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: So my process was what's actually causing this emotion? What
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: past experiences am I attaching this to or similar to,
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: or the fear of it that being scared, the little
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: girl maybe not feeling safe, rejection, abandonment could be wrapped
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: up in that. You know, here's my mom's going to
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: abandon me? Right, getting all feared fear based. It wasn't
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: that wasn't a thought, but it could have been. So
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: what am I learning about myself through this process? That's
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: step number two. Step number three, I express gratitude. You
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: know what, thanks mom for having this experience, because hundreds,
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: if not thousands, if not millions, of people are going
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: to be affected by this one experience just because I
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: put something out. Now, there are other family members wrapped
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: up in this experience, so any offshoots.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Of them are going to be affected.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: My mom's friends, offshoots of her is going and then
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: offshoots are the people involved in the groups that are
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: receiving these posts and doing the visualization. How much is
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: it going to amplify and help them in their own
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: growth and expansion of knowing what to focus on?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: So gratitude step step number three. So acknowledge the heaviness.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Acknowledge what it is you're learning about yourself through the process.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: Where's the gratitude? Find the gratitude the gratitude. Also, not
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: only are all these people going to be effected, but
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: the gratitude that I got to look at some other
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: parts of me that needed some healing. It's helping me
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: stand in this experience with more confidence, like what am
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: I learning about myself? Right than the gradue the gratitude.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Of all of that. So now it's not a oh,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: my god, my mom's in the hospital. She's gonna have surgery.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Oh crap, it's a wow, my mom went to the
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: hospital and all this crazy stuff happened because of it.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Whether she decides to stay or not, that is not
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: the point at this at this moment, because that's gonna
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: be a whole nother experience, right, So grateful, Well, my
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: mom went to the hospital, it's pretty cool that this happened,
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: and all these things are coming to light about it.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: And then you go, once you kind of do that process,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: step one, two and three is go do something joyful.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Go do something that's gonna lift you up, because you
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: just move through some heaviness. Yes, you came out into gratitude.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: Now keep amplifying that gratitude with some joy. So go
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: do something that lifts you up. Go play, go laugh,
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: go dance, go go be a nature or take a bath,
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: you know what, whatever, Just maybe just play a very uplifting,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: body moving song that you can sing your heart out
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: with that really lifts you up.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: So that's that's the last step.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: Four steps, and that's what my primary teaching is about,
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: is those four steps to move you from heaviness to joy.
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: Nice.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. We did the whole process, So
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: there you go.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: So save this video, save.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: The information, save the steps, and come back to it
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: every single time you start feeling and you're getting into
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: some heavy emotions, just come back to this and repeat
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: the steps. And there are gonna be multiple layers, so.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: It's okay with where you're at.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Just move through the steps because each time you release
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: and heal, the lighter you get. The lighter you get,
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: the lighter and the better you move through experiences with
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: ease without pulling all your baggage with you because you
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: release some So each time it gets a little easier.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: And faster you find yourself out in that space.
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: Very long, yep.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you said, it was five minutes that you
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: were processing this, like wait a minute, and then you
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: walk through the the journey of the whole thing in
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: a matter of a short amount of time from the
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: time you were driving to work less than the time.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: That you were driving to work, and by the time
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I got to work, because all of us work well
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: together in our office, by the time I got to work,
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: I was feeling okay, feeling better, not greatest, but feeling better.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: But then there was laughter in the office, so it
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: was like, okay, there you go, right.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Universe helped me out and just.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: Providing what it is that I desired in the time,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: and there was so let the universe.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Help you too.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: It's true, and it's an insight job though, because it's
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: like you were you You've practiced steps to walk through
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: a lot of this stuff, so it was already there,
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: so you're subconscious was aware of how to help you.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Unconsciously you're aware of it, and then brought it right
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: to the force, like, no, we didn't have to stay
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: in this place. We can walk right through this. We've
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: learned these things. And so it's like, be easy on
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: yourself for the others that are listening that sometimes you
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: might get a little bit caught up, as you know,
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: stop and go back and look at the look at
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: how you wrote everything down, and process through everything and
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: see how you feel afterwards, because it is gonna shift
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: and maybe they could do it more than one time.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: Yep, absolutely absolutely, all right, friends, that was full of information.
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: So I definitely save this this video for sure, and
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: also be resourceful share it with your friends, family, co workers.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: There's they're having these internal conversations that you may not
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: even know about, and so just by you open that
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: door and even if you just crack it a little,
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: that invites somebody in to have a conversation and you
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: can say, hey, you know when I watched this video.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Doesn't mean you have to be the coach, the teacher
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: or anything else. Just say hey this you know what,
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: I just listened to this video and or read this
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: book or listen to the spiritual teacher, like not just
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: saying BEV and I, but any other content out there
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: that's helping you. Share it because people are seeking this,
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: seeking help and you could be that person that's the
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: bridge between them and the resource.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: So you can.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: Find us on many platforms. So we're here on We're
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: on YouTube, Spotify, speaker podcast, attic, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok all over.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: We're everywhere almost there's a few we're not on, but
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: it's okay, So we're in enough places.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you so anyway, Jenny.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: Final words, Bev, enjoy the journey.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: You've been given a lot of different tools.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: In the last got a lot of our videos.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: You've been given a lot of different tools to make
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: this journey a lot more easy on you. It doesn't
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: have to be hard, even when it feels like it sometimes,
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: and it's there's always someone to talk to that you
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: can reach out if you can. If you don't have
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: someone to talk to, you have Amy and I. You
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: can reach out to us and we're here for you.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: So BEV does some coaching, I do some coaching, and
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: we're here. So if you have questions or comments, you know,
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: post them and we'll come back to them at our
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: uh the quick as we can. And if you have
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: any topics or maybe you have an experience that you're
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: moving through and you're seeking some guidance, and you can
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: you don't have to be detail oriented, but you can
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: definitely put something in the comments to give us an
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: idea of what you're moving through and then we can
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: talk about it. Otherwise, what we have found to be
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: beneficial is you know, when you're internally asking for guidance,
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: go pull go get a book that you've read, like
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: a personal growth, personal development book or spiritual book or.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: Any kind of book.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: That's helpful, and then just open the pages to some
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: just random page.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: A lot of times for Bev and I.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: It's a video of some podcast video or something pops
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: up on our feed and we'll listen to it and
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: it's like, oh, exactly what I needed right now. So
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: so you could do that too. Just go pick one
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: of our random video, you know, randomly, go pick one
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: of our videos and listen to it and let the
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: universe surprise you of what you learn.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, so fun.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: All right, friends, thanks for hanging out with us. Tea
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Timing eight with Amy and Bev, and we'll see you
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: next time.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: But