Latest / Straight Talk With Tracy L - Navigating The World Shifts / Stop Over Giving
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- Tracy L Clark: Welcome everybody. We had a little bit of a hiccup there. So welcome to Straight Talk with Tracy L. So happy to have you here today. We're going to talk about overgiving and how overgiving today. If you looked at the energy of frequency of the podcast last week, I went through the D three different areas of frequency. If you didn't get yours, you can go to tracylclerk.com and take the frequency test. It's also below in the show notes. But overgiving says You know, a lot of times you're like, well, I think I'm pleasing. I'm saying yes, but overgiving is not generosity. Overgiving is a survival strategy, and that's all it is. So today we're going to talk about that. We're going to talk about what it looks like. Make sure you like, subscribe, share, and say hello wherever you are. In in this world, we want to make sure you say hi and welcome to being here. We had some issues with the links, but say hello. Let me know. We're gonna shift some energy together. We're going to go through what overgiving is. I'm going to pull some body regen cards and I'm going to shift that energy. So like, share, subscribe. We're going to talk about overgiving, what that frequency is. We're going to dive deeper into it. If you were with me last week with all the three areas of overgiving, what we talked about in the frequency, maybe you're a frozen energy. But we're gonna look at what that is, why that's there, and then answer your questions. As always here, you know, I've been awake for over 25 years. You guys know that. And you know what? Not only have I been awake for over 25 years, but you know, it's been it's been a growth and we're in the new world. We're heading into this new energy. And one of the things that I found that I really didn't like about energy work in this world, I stay in my bubble. I love hearing what people have to say to help lift and motivate. But you can get into the fluff and there's no fluff. I want to tell you like it is. I want you to shift. I want you to change. And by doing this, spreading the word, it helps me show up every day. And we can hype that. You can do whatever you need to do there. But it helps, you know. And so many people will be like, swirl the light. It's not about swirling the light. If you're gonna do this work and you're gonna do it right, you have to get real, get real with what's going on in your life, get real with who you are and why you do the patterns the way you do. So it's great to have you here. We're gonna shift some energy. We're going talk about overgiving and why that overgiving, again, take the frequency test, is telling you exactly what you're doing in your life. So I, you know, if you can comment in the comments of what that looks like for you, but it's really crazy because one of the things people do when they overgive, and I can relate, if you can relate, comment below. But you're anticipating needs before they're spoken from other people. You want to make sure you're ahead of that curve and then. You feel guilty if you if you don't, you'll start to feel guilty. And this isn't a good way to be, but we know we've all been there. If you can say you've been there, you've been there. You will you will also start to understand that there is this place where exhaustion becomes a part of life. You get so exhausted because you give and you give. But where is it coming back? Where where does that energy come back to you? So you're draining your energy. It's depleting you. It's releasing out of you. So like do a quick, like check internally where have you found yourself giving to people over and over, but there's nothing coming back. And you're like, why am I doing this? Like, what what is the purpose here? And you're like, what is the point? I have a pop-up here that I want to make sure gets pulled down, but You start to go, what's what's the point here? But also, where was it learned? Usually when there's overgiving and you know you've learned this. So I learned to overgive, and many of my clients have learned to overgive because usually there was some love that we wanted to have, right? Like see me, appreciate me. So I'm gonna give and give and give. And then you'll start to have resentment that builds up in your energy pattern. But the frequency, it's not your your action. Your actions coming from a frequency inside the body that is really telling your mind, if you overgive, you'll be loved, you'll be accepted, you'll be appreciated. And that's the energy that you want to start to release and let go and release and let go. And how many of you can really, yeah, you can relate to that, right? It's a safety mechanism. And it also becomes a safety mechanism that is. you think is to be useful. Like if I overgive, I'm gonna get love. And but how many times you overgive and that person just craps on you. They're like, I want more. Or you know, you you used your overgiving as a weapon and and it gets manipulated against you when you didn't do anything. It was just like this is this. So and and the nervous system becomes the safety mechanism for an overgiver. So we have to look at the nervous system and say, okay, wait a minute. Why am I still doing this? But there's a fear that will come up in the nervous system. If you stop overgiving, then you might be abandoned or you'll be, you know, people are gonna not want to be with you anymore. Like there's a legit fear. How many of you can relate? If you stop overgiving, there's a legit fear that something's gonna fall apart. It becomes an expectation. Yes, you're so right. So That energy, we're gonna remove some of that today. And it's so important that you start to understand that it's okay to let it go, but the nervous system's like, no, I can't, I can't. It's a safety. And then you find yourself in overgiving. How many times do you find yourself doing it again? Then you beat yourself up. You're like, my gosh, why? Why? And then you get frustrated because you realize it is to keep you safe. It is to keep you safe. And the minute you can start to realize where you started doing that and when is the minute that you step out of that safety energy frequency. Everything, you guys know me, being awake for over 25 years, rabbit holes. I was my first test subject. Everything stems from a frequency. The reason you don't learn this in school is they don't want you to be empowered. They the energies want to keep you in fear and stifled. And so we overgive, we people please, we're like, okay, okay, I can see what that person wants. So if I step up and we take it in our own, like I've had clients who are like, wow, I realize that I'm always being proactive, but then they're getting frustrated. Because when they do it, it is not being seen because those people are meant to reflect back to you to stop. That's why people keep taking from you. And I've experienced, you can say if you've experienced it, keep taking because the lesson is to stop allowing them to keep taking from you. That is the lesson. And when we can say stop allowing to take from me, and you say no more, that's how the frequency in the pattern breaks. So I'm gonna do a body regen card. You know, they're my cards that I created to help people understand energy and learn energy. There is a video, you get a video membership on it, but the reason I use them is a lot of people and my clients would come to me, especially they were like, What is the frequency in my body I need to shift and why? So it's a base. You you pull a card and it'll tell you what frequency. Ask a question, what card you need. That's what we're gonna do today. You're going to tap your heart, you're going to be like, yes, I'm going to receive that energy or no. It's up to you, you take it or not. But it was to help people start to learn how to read the energy in their body. It's why I created these. And they're really cool because they always tell you what you require. So if I asked for the audience watching now or listening later, what would be the energy we need to shift for everybody watching who is in an overgiving pattern? To release in the frequency. So that's what I do. He, see, feel here. 25 years, right? And moving the energy with you to create massive transformation in your life. People say, What do you do? I change your life. I'll make your life better. I change it. That's what we do together. Okay. Change your frequency, change your life, right? Change your energy, change your life, right? What do we need? Okay. I love this. Increase spiritual connection. And this card is so true. So you can receive the energy. The more connected you are to the truth of who you are, not who somebody else programmed you to be, not the fears that other people keep pushing on you. But when you have a strong connection to spirit and you make spirit number one, you will see the manipulation in others, you will see the justification in others. And you will start to realize that you no longer need to overgive, over please, overanalyzing. You will take back your life because when you have a strong spiritual connection, you will run from your intuition. So this is what's huge, right? It's like, and it is generational. You're exactly correct. It becomes generational. Because you see it. But if you go back to all the people that you see, including yourself, of overgiving, it doesn't it doesn't serve anyone. It just leaves heartache and heartbreak and pain. It doesn't serve anyone. So good morning. Great to see you here. So take this energy right now. Just take that in and say, I receive that, right? It's really, really important. Because this is where the shift becomes so visible in your life. Because you'll catch yourself, like, wait a minute, I'm not gonna over please. That's not working for me. That's for them, right? So what you want to do is let's also ask, if you're looking and you go to the root cause, is it something you witnessed? So these are how you back it out energy. Is it something you witnessed in the in the energy growing up? Is it something that you remember being disconnected from and you wanted that parent to love you so much? Or maybe some people I see at my clients where they've had really bad heartbreak and it's usually early on in life, not just their family, but maybe you know, they had a boyfriend or a girlfriend that broke up early, then it's that heartbreak and that heartache, and that's what they were working on and that trauma. And trauma is very different for people. It's It comes in many, many, many, many different ways. And sometimes it's I always say when I'm teaching in Brightside, you can have two kids and you can say, Don't touch the cookie, and the one kid's like, Yeah, okay, I won't touch the cookie. Then you go to the other kid who says, Don't touch the cookie, and they're like, my God. You know, they're freaking out and that's the trauma for the rest of their life, right? So yeah, when you start to look and you say, Okay, so your father, here you say it's your father, it was yourself, your twenty two year old daughter. So you can see the pattern. But when you start to see the pattern, this is where you can stop it. See, when I stopped overgiving, the people in my life were mad at me and they were they then didn't know what to do. And then it was an expectation. So now I'm the villain in their story because I'm not doing what they want. Yet they're leading very unhealthy lives. And when you start to realize that there's a place to give is when the harmony, the giving and the receiving. must be in balance, must be in harmonious balance. So and you know what? So it's like when you give, there's something coming back, right? It becomes, you can see where people will get mad at you when it becomes an expectation. So now that you will know that on the frequency level, it'll be hard to say no or I'm sorry I'm not able to do this at this time. And it's that energy we want to clean out. So let me just pull another card. So to break the generational trauma and to release the energy of the fear of letting go of overgiving. What can we actually so we can be free? What's one of the energies we can release, spirit? Let's pick another card and see. Cut the cords. This is a really cool energy. So you should you can say you receive this. So there's energetic imprints from you to the people you learned this from. And they ping pong the energy back to you. So it's literally like we're gonna remove the cording, the energy that moves from you to them. So when we say cut cords, it's moving the energy that moves from you to them and them to you. You to them and them to you. Thank you. Yeah. If you hit the like button and you share, subscribe, it does support me. So thank you, Crypto Beauty, for saying it does, you know, like. We see a lot of people watch this and listen to this after we're done. And it's so easy to do to support us for the algorithms and all creators out there. So it means a lot to be able to show up. And yeah, it it's it's there. So thank you. And this so when you're when you are cutting the cord, you're cutting a frequency cord. It from you to the person that, you know, made you feel that and that them to you. So that's what you're cutting. So like, yeah, letting it go. You're letting it go. And when you start to acknowledge the energy, then the energy in the body can start to shift. It can start to move. And you can start to be released from that energy because you'll start to be aware that, wait a minute, this really isn't serving me, right? So when you start to look at that and you start to say, what part of this frequency of overgiving have I distorted? For what I require or feel I require in my body. So because everything's energy, every organ in your body is telling a story. It's why I call it the body regeneration method. Every story in your body is connected to a frequency, and that is playing out. You are the creator of your reality. And the more you start to talk to your body and talk to the energy. And forming that strong connection to the God of your understanding, the stronger you will become in creating the things you desire in your life. It's only when you pull back and say no, then you can look. Can you look back in your life and see where you made those shifts? Although they were challenging, those shifts allowed you to expand into something better and to generate and create something better in your life. So I wanna, I'm gonna pull one more card because to release the energy. So let's pull a card. Just hold on to something that you're ready to let go of in your life. What you just say what it is for you, and I'm gonna start to, I'm gonna pull a card. What would be the biggest theme energetically, spirit, that we need to release out of everybody listening if you agree? out of the body energetically to strengthen you into the new path of what you're asking for to create in your life. Integrate truth. I love this card. It's come up a lot today with my clients. Integrating the truth is the truth as to why you do this. And when you can fully receive that energy as to why you keep attracting the pattern. A lot of times people don't want to hear something different than their narratives. You know the know it alls. Nope, this is what it is. Nope. It's like I live in Canada and my God, I'm gonna give you a something that w when you look at the narratives that are spun out there, let's look at the boogeyman here and there, rather than looking in your own back door, right? It's easier to point the finger at somebody far away and get everyone on board with the story than it is to actually energetically go within and say, Wow, what's really going on in a in in our own house? People will look outside their own house to distract the things that they know are truth that need to be looked at. So how many times in your life have you looked outside? You're like, it's that person's fault or it's this person's fault, rather than your own. And when you integrate the truth, you go, wow, I made every choice. Every choice I made for something that I wanted, whether it's when I'm dealing in bright side and we're talking about the energy of money. They'll be like, well, I made that choice because yeah, I needed to make more money. It was a greedy choice. And then they didn't it it went sideways. Or, right? Or it's like a friend or a lover. Well, I don't want to be alone. I don't want to be alone. Okay. So you'd rather be sick with someone else than be alone. Well, no, no. They and then they find and justify all the things that they might think are good. We've all done it. I've done it in that relationship, but you know you're just fooling yourself. Or perhaps it's a career where you're like, Yeah, well, the benefits are good. I have a pension. But meanwhile, you know the truth is if you look inside, you get up every day and you are not skipping to work. You're feeling really sad. And this is the energy when we talk about integrating the truth. When you integrate the truth of who you are and your connection to spirit, I say God, you might say universe or divine. When you integrate that connection to God, what happens? You will go. I'm jumping, I'm taking a leap of faith because now you know that if you do something, you're passionate about it's all gonna work out. It doesn't mean you're not gonna fear about it, but you know it's gonna work out. Then you get the dream job, then you get the dream partner, then you get the dream financial overflow. It's all energy. So if you're overgiving and you're stuck in it, you've got to integrate the truth of what you require in your life. And that's where you're gonna have a game changer, like a huge, huge game changer. And that's where also things when you look in your life that way, you're gonna be like, my God, everything is so much different. Like so different, right? So again, if you haven't taken the frequency distortion test, it's below the frequency alignments, a quiz. It'll show you which kind of you know quadrant you land into, which is really, really positive. And if you are that overgiving archetype and it feels more like a wound, we wanna shift that. And that tells you. That you're ready to change. You're ready for something different. You're ready to break the cycle. And that's not always easy, right? That is not always easy. For sure, for sure. So these patterns, it's what we help you break health, wealth, and intuition. Straight talk. Okay. I want to take a few quick minutes to say thank you to our sponsor, which is Super Patch. And you know what? I love them. It's drug free wellness. This one's not open because I just I'm doing peace. I love peace. I wear it all the time. I have a different package that's open. And it's basically like a sticker with a fingerprint you put on your body and it starts to read your energy. And what I always say when I'm teaching the energy of super patch, I align me to the energy, the energy to me. It is something you will get peace. If you were feeling unsettled, throw one of these on. All of a sudden your body's just gonna go, Whew, it's gonna be so good. And so check it out more. 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I talk about this in bright side all the time. where that's Brightside Academy is where people come when they want real community and support and and we're there like seven days a week pretty much helping each other. There's a school community, kind of like a Facebook, but it's school where you can ask your questions and stuff. But what I I love so much that we're talking about is that how you can see the channelings and the energy since 2016. There has been a lot of communication in that in that space in the Brightside Academy about the financial systems changing, the energy behind that, getting the energy prepped and then getting your emotional energy and frequency aligned. Because as we move into this 28 to 2030 of new financial systems, new ways of health care, new ways of and not sick care, moving out of sick care into healthcare where we're drug-free wellness like Super Patch comes in, where we're moving into light frequencies, energy healing. Because all these systems that have been there for thousands of years are collapsing and dying. They're just trying to hold on by a thread. But we we in the community have been talking very vocally for 10 years now about how to shift, how to prepare. But most of all, as much as people say, you know, you need to move your finances this way and get your water and your food, the number one shift that will get you through into the higher vibration isn't external. It's the shift that you will make internally. It is how you make the God of your understanding your best friend. It is about how your connection and intuition will expand so much in the next five years that you will start to get messages and information. And all of a sudden, everything you start to see, feel, hear. I know for me, it's just coming so fast. I see it in my clients every day where they're growing so quickly. And making new choices. And I see people making all these new choices because their vibration is no longer spending time in the old energy, the old world. They've already moved over to the new world. So you will be light years ahead by being able to grasp this new energy and run with it. And the more you can run with it and grasp it, and people will just be like, I don't care. that's woo-woo. You don't want to be in that camp. And you also have to be in a space. This is why you don't want to be overgiving right now, where you are gonna be able you gotta be able to walk away from people because they'll pull you down. They'll pull you down. And sometimes people say, I kicked them to the curb, or we've all had that, right? When you're the villain in their story, but then you're like, Wow, my life got really good since you left. Like if if that's happening to you, if people are cutting you out left, right, and center, but your life is skyrocketing. You know they were being removed because they were holding you back. And now your life's skyrocketing because you have new energy to allow it to skyrocket. Like you got to think about this because when you can feel that and integrate, you will become unstoppable. You will become a new version of you every minute of every day. You will shift, you will move, you will align. This is where you want to go. This is where the energy and it's the energy that you want to hold on to. So lunar ecrypse energy is increasing truth and emotional energy. Yes, on a personal level. It is so true. And I'm so happy you shared that because it is extremely, extremely positive and true. So you can't ignore it. And the reason you can't ignore it is because we are meant to be living authentically and in truth. So I am gonna pull another card. What is the other card that we, as everybody watching this now and later, Let's shift some more energy and ask what when it comes to the new energy, when it comes to health, wealth, intuition, what is it that we can shift at a deeper level for everyone watching to help all of us manage the new energies and not get pulled down by people or places or things that are needing to be pushed away. Uh-huh. Curses, witchcraft, spells, black magic. Thank you, God. You can say I'm receiving this. I love this. The reason this is coming up is right now you are gonna you could have a very hard time discerning what is truth and what is not. You can see it in the public realm of the smoke and mirrors game, where for thousands of years there has been all of this energy that has been manipulated and how many people are basically waking up from the sleep. So this is also where people in your life have been, you know, speaking ill will about you, trying to pull you down. This can be also where you maybe have been speaking ill will about yourself, but they're showing me right now in a broader sense, spirit showing how what we need to do is understand that there will be a lot of illusions that are being manipulated behind the scene one last time. So we need to, I always bindcast, curse that energy out. So what you would do is all spirit and I will help move that together, but tap the heart and just like I'm releasing that and letting that go, overriding and speaking in. See what I'm doing. It's like overriding and speaking in the strength of the power of your God connection. The God connection always allows that to be the bigger energy. So that energy can always keep moving and shifting out of the nervous system. Remember, the frequency out of your body is always driving the mental state. It's not the other way around. Shift the frequency, shift the mental state, shift what is outside of you. So if you can go into your body and you start to say, okay, I'm responsible for everything I'm creating, what is it truthfully I need to uncreate? What is it truthfully I need to uncreate? I find this as a businesswoman working with people and their businesses. A lot of times what happens is they get into overgiving mode because they're afraid of losing a client or they're afraid. I see this with a lot of spiritual business women, is what I do in Rise Up. Is they're afraid that if they actually stop overgiving, they'll lose clients. Which if they actually stop over giving, they lose the needy client. So if that's you and you have a business out there and you're like something to think about in the business. So if you if you want to take your business to an next level, there's rise up. If you wanna work on your soul, your spirit, your health, wealth, and intuition, that's bright side. And if you just want some tools that you can learn to shift that I've used for twenty five years and worked well for me, that's just rewire. There's fifty two tools there. So Make sure you go to tracylclark.com. We have our Soul Sunday on September 13th. We're shifting in the energy. And one of the messages that started to come through for Soul Sunday, I'll give you a sneak peek. I start to move the energy before and we get into this channeling. And what what happened, and I saw it even bigger today, was that the energy, remember, there's this energy that has been created like go to school, get a job, you know, get your house, downsize your house, retire and You know, go live in a senior's home and not be treated very well. And I say that honestly, because we've all had parents that have been there and it's sad what's over there. And you know, just sort of dwindle away. that's the old paradigm of the illusion of the energies that wanted to keep people in in fear. As we're breaking to the new energy, there's these messages coming through about creation, new creation, new ways of living until your last breath on earth. And that's where we're gonna go in and shift. It's ninety minutes in the spirit of shifting that energy to allow you to really be refreshed for the week. And if anybody here has been on Soul Sundays, comment below what your thoughts were. If you like them, you love them. But September 14th, that's also you can find that where they're they're really thank you. The TLC community is like no other. We care. We're there. It's honest conversation. You know, you can go and Here's the thing I find that's hard for people when they're shifting energy that people don't talk about is you can listen to all the stuff you want, but if you don't truthfully learn how to shift it for yourself and integrate it, not just gloss over. Like to do this work, you're gonna have ugly cries. It's gonna hurt, you're gonna have dark nights of the soul. But that means you're really having breakthroughs and you're gonna go through trauma. I I deal with so many clients who have So much trauma, including myself. You know my story. If you read my book, God Where Are You, It's Me. But I'm telling you that the amount of breakthroughs that you can have right now, but you gotta integrate it. You gotta shift it. You gotta feel it. But most of all, you must need to know it. You have to know it in the core of where you're going at all costs. Where you're going at all costs. So I'm gonna pull one more card. Just to see where we're at. One more. Thank you, God. To shift for the community. Starts your week off in a great way. Thank you, Cindy Marie. So happy to hear that. All right. It really is. We're really a unique, a unique group because we can definitely support and help each other. And we're always growing. I do all the tools I teach you guys, right? Yeah. It's like the X-Men School of Energy. You're so cute. Tracy is Xavier. So cute. Well, we keep growing, right? We look at where we are and how many times, if you're here and you can resonate, how many times you know you might be wanting to check out. And we we kept getting pulled back in because you're all here to make a difference in the world. So you gotta remember that. All right, let's shift one more energy shift for everyone today. Increase communication. So tap the heart, you're gonna receive the increase of communication. But what spirit's saying, this is communication with yourself and communication with spirit. So increasing how you ask spirit. So if you're releasing overgiving, it's like I what I would say is thank you, God. Show me the truth of where I need to stop overgiving and why I do it. And allow that energy to start to move and shift and open up. Yeah, at all costs, so worth it once you start, you'll see it come together. It is at all costs and letting go of the fear. And the more you increase how you're communicating with spirit, which is just what we're talking about, the more you'll start to see your life open up with ease and grace. Like things will just start showing up. Spirit showed me very clearly over the last few weeks the more you lean in, things will just like show up. But here's the flip in the energy right now. If you're in the path and you're increasing the communication. It will become over time here more effortless and effortless and effort. It's just you're gonna be like, it's almost like your wish is your command kind of thing. You will see the people struggling, but it's not your job. It's your job to help where you can, but not at the overgiving. Each person needs to take their own step. So I said to someone today, one of my clients, she was talking about someone she loved, and I said, Unfortunately, they're making that choice. They're making the choice and you can't choose something different for someone else. The only thing you can do is make a new choice for you. And when we learn that, when I learn that, when my clients have learned that, this is where I've seen the greatest transformation where people's lives change miraculously and almost overnight where you start to get exactly what you've been asking for. So it's a real gift. So thank you. And thank you, Real crypto beauty. So much love. Thank you for saying that and sharing my gifts and teaching and being here. I know it's an odd time people want later, but it's the time in my schedule right now. Thank you to everyone that listens and shows up live but listens later. I appreciate each and every one of you. If you'd like to take the frequency test, you can go to tracylclark dot com. Everything's below as well. And I hope you'll come and join us, especially Soul Sunday. Figure out a little bit more. But that's where We get so in the spirit and so guided and everything I do, there's no scripts. People ask me, are there scripts? I'm like, no, there's no scripts. I don't have scripts. It's just whatever spirit tells. And that's what makes every session so unique is when you're channeling the information, is what does that group require? What do the people listening require? And that's where spirit just leads the way. And that's what's what's so beautiful. So thank you everyone for being here. We will be here next week, same time, same place, every Tuesday at twelve p.m. Eastern. I know there were some problems with some links. We got to go over and check them again. It does happen. It's technology, but we just got through some beautiful eclipse and full moon energy and hold on for the ride because you thought 2026 the first half was a little crazy. The second half is going to, let's just say, be the icing on the cake and into 2027. But The the place that can be, I hope, comforting to all of you is if you remember not only is the old collapsing in the world, the old is collapsing inside of you, or you wouldn't be here. So you are letting go of who you who you were. And if you're in Bright Side with me, I talk about avatars. Well, you're that new avatar is jumping in. Get ready, because you're putting on a new suit. Have a great day, everyone, and I'll see you next week.