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A RUBBER FETISH FOR BOUNCY BALLS · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode.
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  Call me Mistress. I'm your Hostess.
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  Mistress Miaz, I have a special guest.
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  He's here with us. Let's call him Bouncy Ball Man.
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  Thank. You for having me on?
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  You are so welcome. So we have known you for a few
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  years now. We met on Fat Life and you are
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  kind of like borderline rubberist slash bouncy balls
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  slash a little latex and it's a really fun kink.
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  So when you came in to their last session it was hot as fuck
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  outside. Now you bring these bouncy balls
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  and one has like a built in pocket pussy.
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  OK, so I don't have it was actually AB12 all the one that
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  had OK. Say it.
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  So a lot, a lot of them I get there's like a special site that
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  sells specific inflatable toys for adults.
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  Yeah, what is that site? It's called Soshu and Amsterdam.
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  We just have to like dig through the Internet to like find stuff
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  like that. And I know I was like, no, I
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  brought one up to you that is like a Valentine wall that has
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  like a dodo on it. And I was telling you about it,
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  but I didn't get it because it's like over $100.
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  I'm saying I can just buy a dodo for like 20 bucks, like 9.
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  That's just like $10. Like stick it on top pop of a
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  yoga ball and use that. And but for me, it actually came
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  from a really more wholesome place.
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  It actually started like probably wait before anyone even
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  knows what sex even is probably Like for me, it started like I
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  was in preschool school, like I was like watching TV.
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  This was like probably 2000, 2001 and and I was like watching
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  like some preschool show and I saw like this like TV show.
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  I was in synologic. She was like way older, like in
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  her 20s. She was like super energetic,
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  like all this stuff and like, and she was bouncing on this
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  fancy ball and it was like I was like soup enamored by it's like,
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  I've never seen this kind of toy before.
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  Wettest. This is like super cool.
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  I will I want wine 1. And I thought it was just that
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  like a couple of years later, I ended up like convincing my mom
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  to get me one on my rest in peace.
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  And at first it was just, hey, hey, I, I love it.
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  It was my favorite toy, one of my favorite toys growing up.
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  But up. And then I accidentally
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  discovered that the rubber that these balls are made out of,
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  they feel kind of good when you rub them against shoes again.
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  Your Dick. Now at first I thought at first
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  like as a kid, you you're thinking, ohh, it's obviously
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  not textual to you. It's just like thinking this
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  just feels good. It just feels not nice.
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  But then as I got older and under puberty, I realized like
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  this feels it was a lot less of just feeling good and more like
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  feeling good. Yeah.
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  You. Had a sexual awareness towards
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  it. Now the one I had as a kid, I
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  ended up because I was like getting too small for me because
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  I was finally eating that gross. But but then it was around this
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  time when I discovered what masturbation was and what porn
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  was. And well, I didn't learn about
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  traditional porn. I did discover that this wasn't
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  my niche to be. I really wouldn't even call porn
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  or barely even softcore porn of just women like you were doing
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  in a bikini outsider. I just like cleaning with
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  cleaning like you with bouncy ball or maybe just a beach ball
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  or balloon or whatever. And it wasn't again until I was
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  an adult when I when I was able to like an adult size wine and
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  then. Like, Oh my God, yeah, wake this
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  bad boy back up. Yeah.
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  Well, I think a lot of rubberists feel that way too,
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  whether it's a bouncy ball or latex clothing or even a latex
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  back bed. I mean multiple people.
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  They consider themselves rubberists because they like to
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  rub their penis on rubber and latex.
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  For me, I guess the reason it felt good for me is because it's
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  like the rubber, it really kind of felt in a weird way, felt
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  kind of like human skin. And it felt like super smooth.
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  Yeah. It's like, if you're like
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  rubbing it against it, it's kind of like a dry young thing.
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  Gotcha. Now have you ever used the Sheen
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  spray where you know, brightens the rubber and it softens it a
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  little bit? Have you tried that before?
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  I actually haven't. In fact, I never even heard of
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  that. Yeah, I'll send you a link so
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  you can see it because we put it on our like our vac bed and our
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  rubber stuff and it just brightens it up and it
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  conditions it as well. Really works great.
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  People like it. So you were doing the session
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  with outside and here I was sitting in PVC pants.
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  I was out as fuck and I'm watching this and I was like,
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  I'm at one end of the pool, you are at the other end of the
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  pool. And then at one point, hey, can
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  we use this float? And I thought, oh, they're just
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  going to get on the float, you know, get in the pool, whatever.
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  Next thing I know I'm like bouncy ball boy is fucking that
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  float. You're like, whatever we did.
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  That was honestly the first time I ever done that.
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  That was awesome. I was like, we're done this
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  before but hey, first time for everything so.
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  So you want to hear something really funny?
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  So my British friend comes over and she's out back and I said,
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  hey, I saved your float. I said I had this rubberized
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  over the other day. She says, Oh my God, did he fuck
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  my float? No, he fucked my float.
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  He raped that float, that rope didn't.
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  That float didn't ask for it. He raped.
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  So it was great. So anyway, so you you started
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  off as a kid, you were doing this and then it just kind of
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  evolved and here you're an adult.
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  You found this site and now you still go to the rubber bouncy
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  balls and now they have an adult sizes.
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  And when we saw him the first time, we're like, holy shit.
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  It really was. Because I remember as a kid, you
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  know, it was like the old fashioned rubber balls and it
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  had the handle, you know, I was like, oh, this is cool, you
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  know? But now for adults?
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  Fuck. I mean, like I still you do you
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  use it for fun? Like like, hey, I I use it like
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  as a chair when I'm gaming thing.
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  Like one time I was like hanging out with a friend and we were at
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  a park or something and we were we just like raising each other
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  on on them and it was like not sexual at all at all.
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  It was just us playing on them. I'm just having fun.
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  Here. We are you and bikini and me
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  like just with a shirt on on with my Dick out out on them.
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  So like it can be like versatile for.
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  For me, it's kind of like when we use back massagers for an
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  actual back massager and not putting it on our pussy.
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  I never think that's a ball time.
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  All right, so, so tell us what's what else is on the site.
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  You got to post the site too by the way.
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  You guys send it to me. There are plenty things there
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  are. Their main thing are like beach
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  balls with also basically like flashlights inside them.
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  They call them like strategically place holes or H
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  SPHS. They have like ride rolls, which
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  are just kind of like inflatable, like tube tubes.
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  And then I could have like a bunch of like random stuff that
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  that personally I'm not interested in.
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  But hey, to each their own. Yeah, most of the stuff that I
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  owe my bounty balls, most of them just come.
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  Off Amazon like. I can get like 20-30 bucks a
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  beat. Same here.
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  Same here. Wow.
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  OK, Yeah, it is 100%. So this is something we've
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  talked about before. We've talked about going from
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  talk to other people in the kink lifestyle.
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  It's so hard to date when you have a kink fetish.
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  So this is where you're at in your life where you're you're
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  almost 30 and you want to date. Is this going to be something
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  right off the RIP? You're going to say, hey, by the
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  way, I'm going to bouncy balls. That's something I want to talk
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  about because it was like curse from someone who is mostly in
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  the vanilla world and like rarely goes in a kink world.
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  I mostly just use that life as like kinky Facebook and I just
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  sometimes scroll on it. Personally I think like kink is
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  more just become like mainstream and people think they're just
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  too afraid to say yeah have y'all seen book talk?
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  Most of the books people are reading nowadays are just porn.
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  Yeah, they're kink. Yeah, for sure.
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  Yeah, it's kind of like cross dressed.
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  People don't realize how many men are really into cross
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  dressing. BDSM and just kink in general
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  has to become like, wait, like more mean chain.
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  And so I think like if I was to ever like if we ever sat me and
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  a partner ever sat down, like we talked about like, oh, what
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  we're into be like sexually, it would be like a lot less
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  uncomfortable than it would say like 20-30 years ago.
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  So what else is something that you'd like to talk about with
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  your boss fetish? Yeah, and.
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  I think I don't know, I kind of want like you're, you know, like
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  because you were the main person and when we were doing our
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  session is like soft on. I know we were talking about it
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  when we first met because I know like for a lot of people, like
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  when they think of I think like a dominate tricks, they think of
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  leather whips. That's I'm going to beat the
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  shit out of you if you forget to call.
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  But like some people, people like that too much to handle.
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  And for me personally, that that was too much.
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  And like, I'll be honest, like when I first met you and you
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  like when you first came in, like with your full gear and I
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  was thinking like, could I really bring this up to someone
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  like her? When we first met, there was
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  like, oh, there, and could I really bring this up?
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  You like when I saw your pictures I was thinking okay she
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  looks like stereotypical Dom. She would literally.
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  Beat the shit out of you. Yeah, if I, and then I kind of
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  like explain like what a soft Dom was kind of like kind of the
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  same thing, but more of like like nurturing kind of more like
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  a big sister kind of vibes. Not incestuously, of course, you
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  know. And for people who are new to
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  king, people who can't for like trauma survivors or people who
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  dealt with sexual assault or, or on autism spectrum, which I
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  checked several of those boxes for better or for worse.
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  I guess the best way to sum it up is like, instead of the dawn
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  to subscribe is like, oh, instead of like do what I say or
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  else I'm going to whip you. It's more like, oh, do this for
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  me. Come on.
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  I know he got this. Oh, so yes, I remember you like
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  you when you, I'm not trying to interrupt you, but you remember
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  when you came in, you wrote down a list and that was really
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  helpful for us. You wrote it on your phone.
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  You wrote just to let the audience know.
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  You wrote us this long list of, hey, you want us to be
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  encouraging, You want words of encouragement, and was that
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  something that we accommodated you with?
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  OK. That was kind of like it because
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  like it's like that was like my very first session with a
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  dominatrix ever again, just like look from your photos.
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  I was like super nervous, like could someone like this well as
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  hurt me? Because like, like I said, this
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  kind of dominant nearing is all thing is a lot for people who
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  have been through like trauma and like more or sexual assault.
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  And like I have said, I have like I just said, I kind of
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  checked a lot of those boxes. I sadly have dealt with sexual
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  assault in my past and one of the things I'm learning is to
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  like build trust. In fact, I'm going to be blunt
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  and say like even during our session, even though you made me
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  feel like super safe and seeing I was afraid, afraid, Oh well,
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  this will she hurt me. But that's more of a me thing
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  than a well. I wouldn't say punishments.
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  I would say like humiliation, like with soft arms.
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  It's more like like teasing kind of stuff like that.
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  It was fun. And it's also about like making
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  sure like the Dom is and it's OK as well.
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  Well, not just to like I wanted to check in on you and make sure
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  that you were OK, so. Where do you see yourself in the
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  next 6 months? What would you like to do?
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  I think what I would like to do really in the next 6 months is
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  like before we started recording, we were talking about
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  me getting a relationship and just about self worth.
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  It's something that seems like I'm really just lacking on like
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  we talked about. It's just like, hey, being in
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  your late 20s, you, you thought that by now you would be in a
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  relationship. And like not even just in a BDSM
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  relationship, just relationship in general when like many of
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  your friends are married or in long lasting relationships.
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  And by now you thought you would be there too.
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  And well, the only thing you have is an actually actually
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  dumped you over tax and probably he's forgotten about you.
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  So I say like one of the things I would want to work on like the
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  next six months, main thing is trying to build up that
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  confidence and say, Hey, I want to do you want to get in a
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  relationship? But in order to do that, I would
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  need to like, like build up my comments because like I now know
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  what I want and what would make me happy.
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  And now I just need to make myself more appealing.
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  I wouldn't say it that way. I would say more like don't got
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  a better word. And you know, with each woman
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  that you meet and you go out, just have coffee.
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  Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself.
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  But you know, you know, when you meet that person, if it doesn't
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  click, it doesn't click and you move on to the next one.
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  And then after you've gone through several, you can say,
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  Hey, I found the right person. And I'm so glad it didn't work
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  out with all the other bitches from the past.
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  You know, you were talking about that one girl.
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  You're like, oh, she's passionate.
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  You know, she, she goes on social media every day.
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  Honestly, you don't want a woman who goes on social media every
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  day and you don't. And you don't want a woman who
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  takes a ton of fucking pictures of herself in selfies.
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  And here's a picture of my coffee.
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  Oh my God, you know you don't want it because those are called
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  cunts. That's why people do come to see
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  us. Because there's something about
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  doing a session where, you know, we want you to have self
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  reflection. We want you to document your
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  progress and you know, that's something that you that you
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  should go and think about, you know, each day, you know, if you
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  need to journal, treat yourself for something like that.
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  And ultimately you're going to get some headway.
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  You're going to build confidence.
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  And you know, I know it is stereo.
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  It's so stereotypical. When people reach out to me,
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  they're like, oh, you're dominatrix, are you going to
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  beat me? No, fucker, I don't want to beat
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  all of them. I only want to beat the ones who
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  really want to get beaten up. You know, it's kind of like when
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  different people come in and say, you're not going to film
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  me, are you? And I'm like, no, And that's how
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  real Doms should be. You know, there's so many Doms
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  that are wannabe Doms, mainly men Doms.
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  It is when when they get in the lifestyle, they're like, oh, I'm
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  22, I'm a Dom. It's like, bitch, they could be
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  a hole in the ground. They wouldn't know the
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  difference. But the point of it is being a
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  Dom, you are guiding someone, you're mentoring them, you're
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  helping them. That's what we do.
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  We want you to see your full potential.
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  We want you to be the best person you can be to help you in
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  your life. Because if you're built up here,
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  well, you're going to find somebody in a partner built up
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  to that point. You don't need some broke
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  asshole with no job and no car. You need someone that matches
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  your full potential. Don't sell yourself short.
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  Every day, three positive affirmations of your yourself in
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  the mirror. I'm the fucking shit.
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  Because it's one thing that you've done today that you know
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  you've done, you've accomplished anyway.
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  You just need to value yourself and you need to see your
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  yourself worth. That's my point in all of this.
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  OK, now today you're going to do a session.
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  And did you bring your bouncy balls?
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  During the dungeon. See.
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  Boom. And there's some clear floor
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  space there as well, if you didn't want to go outside.
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  Yeah. Because I know it's probably
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  cold outside. You came in from outside.
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  Was it chilly? OK, well, I can turn on the
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  outside lights if you want to go outside too.
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  You do whatever makes you happy, OK?
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  There's no more pool floats to fuck.
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  Just say I'm just tease. I just tease.
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  I put them away for the party. All right, so you can find Mr.
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  Bouncy Ball on Fat Life as what's your your full name on
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  there? Bouncy ball Batty.
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  Bouncy ball Batty and like I said, you're under 30, you're
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  single, you're straight, and you're looking for a cute little
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  white girl. So you never know, your white
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  girl might be out there. Wow.
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  OK, anyway, we that there could be a funny spin off to the and
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  find your matching ball with matching bouncy ball bitch.
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  You need to find your matching bouncy ball bitch.
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  Fuck yeah. You know, you should start a
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  Groupon fat and call it like mobile rubberist bouncy ball
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  fetishes or enthusiasts. All right, so you're going to
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  send me the link to the Amsterdam fetish and I'm going
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  to order the bouncy ball website and I'm going to send you the
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  link to the Sheen shine stuff for your balls.
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  All right, So thank you for joining us.
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  It's been fun, it's been special, it's been unique.
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  Thank you so much for having me. Always, always.
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  Yeah, a little squishy, too, like a bouncy ball.
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  Yeah. So until then, this has been the
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  latest episode of Call Me Mistress.