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In-Law Dynamics & Marriage Pressure · The Road Doc Podcast

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Have you ever noticed the moment you reach a certain age,
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everyone suddenly becomes very much interested in your marriage
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plans? Relatives asks, friends asks,
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families asks, even strangers asks you that when are you
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getting married? But what people rarely talk
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about is the pressure that actually comes after marriage,
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especially when in law dynamics enter the picture, isn't it
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let's unpack that today in this episode.
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Hello everyone, I am Doctor Mukun, the road doc welcome back
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to the road doc podcast. This is the space where I openly
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talk about life, pressure, expectations and realities of
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many of us that face in real life and rarely most people talk
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about that. So in today's episode, something
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a lot of people experience but do not always speak about
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openly, like Inla dynamics and the pressure around the
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marriage. Especially in our culture,
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marriage isn't about to people. It almost becomes about
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families, expectations, traditions, opinions and
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sometimes even control. So basically there is a lot and
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depending from where you are listening or watching this video
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from, it can and it may not reciprocate with you but mostly
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men and women at certain age go go through this thing and let's
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unpack. If it resonates with you then
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wonderful, if it doesn't, sure. If everything goes well in life
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then why we have problems in life?
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Isn't it right? So we do have problems which
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means something doesn't go as we planned or so on and so forth.
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So anyways, let's just get into it.
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I am going to segment or divide this into few chapters like
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let's just say, let's just say like marriage expectations
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because recent times, you know one thing I have been
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experienced very, very recent times people, once you reach at
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certain age, especially after 20, if you are a woman then
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early 20s and if you are a man somewhere around late 20 fives
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or late 20s I should say hypothetically.
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But in some cultures they even the marriage pressure is even a
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little bit further or a little bit back.
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It depends completely. But if it resonates with you,
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then take it as a solution. But on the recent times, I have
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very much recently observed a fact that once you reach certain
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age, the pressure is becoming a great lot from parental
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generations and other people more than the person who wants
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to get married itself. And the reason being very silly
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these days, you know, like if you are already happy being
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single, other people don't want to be happy.
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Kind of kind of a situation, right?
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So it's like foreignly funny and sometimes, you know, parents and
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other people there, the pressure is there, like people try to
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understand, let's understand this in a little bit broader
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aspect. According to me, I have to tell
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that otherwise people might take it wrong.
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First things first, marriage is basically optional if you want,
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if you are ready for the marriage, if you are ready for
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the challenges and the complications and also there
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will be good things as well with that too.
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Sure, but you are also ready for the bad things that comes or
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disadvantage that comes with the marriage.
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Then only you have to think deeper and clearly before
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getting good. Otherwise what will happen, Your
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life will be completely ruined. You will be completely
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devastated for sure. So that's why I suggest like,
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like I have talked with many people, those who recently got
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married and so on and so forth. Now don't ask me, did you also
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talk about marriage with your patients?
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Did they tell this all this? There is been a significant
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amount of people saying that but their age group is mentally
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different. But I will tell you real case
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scenarios. Few of my known colleagues are
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in the same age group people they got married and this is
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what they told me. Marriage is all good for certain
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point of time. After that, you will have to
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face the real consequences after certain point of attack.
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I'm not saying I'm not believing marriage is bad or marriage is
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good. It's an individual decision that
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you have to take at certain point whether you wanted to get
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married or not. It's up to you completely.
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But all I'm going to tell is very simple that don't get
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married from external pressures and our parental pressures or
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your close relative pressures to get married and so on and so
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forth. Don't get married for wrong
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reasons. That's all I am trying to say.
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If you really want to get settled down in life and you
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want a stable thing or you want to, you are at a place where
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mentally, physically I am OK, where I am right now.
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Now I have time to get settled or now it's time to get married
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etcetera etcetera. Then fine, go with it.
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But never ever ever choose marriage as a escape from XYZ
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problems or this and that. If you do that, you will ruin
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your own life. So first part of the life
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anyways, your parents or your relatives or other people or
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whatever, it got ruined let's just say hypothetically.
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And the next phase of your life you are going to ruin it in the
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name of marriage. You are so screwed because why?
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You will only be with your parents maybe for 20 or 30 years
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Max. Rest of the whole life you have
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to be with that person traditionally.
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So if you screw that up now, 1 can help you now.
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So I mean you can get out of the situations, that's not the
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problem. But psychologically, physically,
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mentally, you invest so much amount of time etcetera,
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etcetera, that hits a nerve and you will understand when you are
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there in that boat. So yeah, especially for guys.
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I'm going to tell because I know my audiences are if you want to
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get married and for whatever reason you did not achieve your
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dreams, you did not achieve your goals yet in your life, then
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don't, don't even think about marriage.
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Because if you are in your early 20s, late 20s, fine.
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For men it's like a wild card we have like we can get married
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whenever we want kind of a thing.
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If once you are at a mental state where you are fine like I
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am good now I am, it's time for me to step out into next thing
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and so on and so forth fine. But for women it's different
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thing because purely stopping from biological aspects.
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Nothing. I am not trying to discriminate
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anyone here, but just saying men attains full youth by 30,
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approximately 28 to 30. Let's just say women attains
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that by 15 years or 13 years beginning and then it might
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reach to the peak by 3035. That's just pure science.
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I am not saying, I am not saying that even in there, there are
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still cases that women got conceived for pregnancies around
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35, age 39. I have even seen in Obigaini
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while I was working there as an intern, back while I was
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studying my medicine course. So during that time I even saw
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people are conceiving around 3839, even 4041 too.
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So it is very rare but there is still a chance.
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But we cannot say that so purely from biological perspective.
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So yeah, I mean different cultures, different people,
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different things has different different outcomes.
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Of course, I do not know whether it exists in India.
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I am not sure because I did not see any evidence here.
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But in abroad, I did not see the evidence that people are still
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getting conceived at higher age groups especially in females.
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So that is a whole different dynamics right there.
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So it all depends but it is very subjective.
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But the same for men particularly we have like
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financial clock kind of a thing. So if you are not ready with
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that financial clock or you are just knowing yourself better and
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you are not ready for whatever reason can be, it doesn't need
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to make sense to anyone. If you feel like you are not
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ready, then you are not ready. Case closed.
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Do not put yourself pressures, both men and women.
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When you feel like you are ready, then you are ready.
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If you are not, you are not Case closed.
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Alright, have a great life, now let's move on to the next one.
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The reality of Inlet Dynamics marriage doesn't only just build
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a relationship with that person, it also comes with whole
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package. Now you are also entering into
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whole different family system as well.
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So that family systems can also have different values, different
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expectations, personalities. And sometimes that can be very,
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very healthy, supportive, beautiful.
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And sometimes it can also become very complicated.
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Like we have to talk about both, both sides here.
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You cannot take one side. So if, if everything, like I
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said in the beginning of this episode, if everything goes
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good, then where is the problem? There is no problem.
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If everything that does not go good or as expected or healthy
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or beautiful, that is when the problem comes.
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The moment the problem comes, your energy will be wasted, your
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time will be wasted, your efforts will be wasted, you will
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be introduced into new traumas. That's a whole lots of things
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you are going to unpack. So it's not that easy as we
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think. So think before you make the
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decision, Think through, think through, think through.
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I am here to give you the power, good side, bad side of
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everything, but I am not going to make a choice.
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You need to think, analysis what's best for you and then
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make a choice. So that's what I am doing here.
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I hope you get it. Let's move on to the next
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segment, personal autonomy. One thing I strongly believe is
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that marriage should never cost your individuality.
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That's what I believe personally and also I think that's how
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marriage should be like 2 individual personalities come
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together, not like half half personalities like complete good
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bad words, great, whatever and also complete good bad words,
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great whatever. So both the things combined and
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then you form a beautiful bond. If you are very much proactively
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fixing your marriage is a work guys, by the way, I am telling
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you marriage is a work like everything needs to work.
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It's a work. It's a work, work, work.
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Marriage is not just like OK, you got married everything.
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No, no, no, no, no, absolutely not.
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It's a lot of work. You will have to do both the
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patterns above the individuals that who gets married has to
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consistently work on it. That's when it will work.
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Otherwise it won't. Yeah, it's a lot of work.
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But that's why those two individual patterns supports.
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They needs to know their love language and they needs to focus
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on each other's well-being and so on and so forth.
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Like for example, the complicated things can be like
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careers, jobs, passions, those things should be there apart
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from what you like in that person.
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Like you know most people, what they will do these days, this is
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what I'm doing. Apart from liking your partner,
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you also need to have other things like hobbies, etcetera,
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etcetera to keep you occupied, to keep you going in life.
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Because anything is great in the beginning and after that one or
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two, three years of that phase passes by, That's when
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everything becomes not so great because now you need to do the
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real work. That's called marriage or any
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relationship. It's the same thing.
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But the point is, even though you do all those things, there
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is no guarantee that the desired outcome can come there or not.
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We have no idea. No one knows.
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You have to try it yourself. But before that, you need to
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have that confidence that you want to figure it out.
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If you don't want, for example, for medical professionals like
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me, my life is going to be very complicated.
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I am just giving an example reference very complicated
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because normally medical professional life is a
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complicated one. You take my life personally,
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this is going to be even even like 10 times complicated
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because I do like 10 to 100 things at once and the amount of
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time energy I am going to invest in certain certain things is
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crazy out of charts. That's why if you go through my
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channel and if you find where I one side, I am doing this
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podcast, the other side, whenever I get time, I do also
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travelling and you might think like, how are both things
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happening? No, no, both are not happening
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at the same time. I am just scheduling everything
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ahead of time and I follow certain format so that
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everything comes at certain certain point.
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Especially now I took break from my job delicately because I am I
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dedicated my time almost a decade to the medical field and
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I deserved like I need some time off from the field for myself
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finally. So that's why I am travelling.
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And if you want to check those videos out, you can also check
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my recent Malaysia videos at the time of Justice recording
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Malaysia playlist so you can find if you enjoy it, great.
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Just giving an output like for average human being, what will
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be the life they will be like, OK, we will go to age of nine to
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five or five to 9, whatever the time.
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And then we will have marriage time and this and that, so on
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and so forth and so on and so forth.
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Like we will have that. For people like us, like in
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medical professionals, we have no idea.
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It can be empty. One day we will be in home.
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One day we will be not. One day we will be in hospital.
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One day we will be in no idea, don't know, no guarantee.
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And also even the worst part, doctors and medical
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professionals, whoever working. Our sleep cycles are messed up,
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our emotional states are messed up, our food cycles are messed
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up. We are highly volatile, very
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much stressed with everything and so on and so forth.
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So basically for me or for any medical professionals or that
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can be not just doctors that can be nurses, anyone like whoever
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in the medical professional space, life is going to be
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crazy, crazy hard. That's why you see this
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frequent. People are getting married in
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the same profession is because of that.
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Yeah, regular people, normal people, they, they can't
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understand that. I know that very well because I
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used to have like couple of friends back in 2025.
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Now I don't have that kind of friendship anymore because I
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like to speak truth no matter what.
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So the more you speak truth, people don't like to hear truth,
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they just like to hear something sweet.
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But anyways, the more your you say something from your medical
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experiences, they get traumatized just hearing this
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stuff. Then imagine people like us
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going through there every single day and then coming back home
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and again. We are repeating the same cycle
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again and again again again and again.
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Like just a regular some. I will give an example someone
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dead just right now. Hypothetically, when you are in
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duty, it is just a regular normal day for medical
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professionals, but same thing for normal human beings.
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Someone dared. People will go like what?
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Someone then? So I am sorry, I am laughing,
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but that is the brutal reality of it.
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You know, something that becomes very normal to us because we
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spent a lot. That's why doctors, nurses, we
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are kind of crazy because we spent a lot of time seeing crazy
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stuff. So obviously we are used to
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that. And for normal people, if this
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is like very craziest things, unfortunately, unfortunately
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that's the truth. So anyways, I hope you get the
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point here. OK, let's move on, moving on to
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societal pressure kind of a thing in many societies,
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especially in Southeast Asia or South Asia in general.
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Mostly parents see this marriage thing as a milestone that they
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must happen within. Like parents have like this, OK,
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this certain timeline, this marriage has to happen otherwise
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we will marry my daughter or we will marry my son blah, blah,
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blah, blah, blah, blah. But the reality is everyone
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lives moves differently. I know this pressure exists and
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we cannot blame parents for that as well.
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Now you might think in previous episodes you are ramping up and
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saying parents are doing this and that.
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Now you are saying you cannot blame yeah because the topics
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are different. I am not against everyone or
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anyone and I am not supporting anyone, either parent or
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children. I am just trying to navigate.
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The whole purpose of this podcast is basically trying to
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navigate looking in a 360 view as much as possible and knowing
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here there might need a corruption or communication,
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here there was a old tactic, it might not work Oregon habit may
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not work in the new generation. It is a more about understanding
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only. That is the whole purpose of
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this the road of podcast not for blaming or not for taking one
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side or another. Its is more of a deeper
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understanding through segments. That's why I give you case
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scenarios, that's why I give you real life based stories and all
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those things is because to change a little bit of
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perspective or tell you that there are different ways to as
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much as I understand in my life, I purely talk from my
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experiences, what I understand through my medical profession so
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far and my personal experiences and other people experiences
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that they share with me and other encounters that I had and
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so on and so forth. I will also give you one good
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example. You know, when I was going to in
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Malaysia, when I went to Malaysia trip in 2026, January,
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when I had going in Grab from Kuala Lumpur International
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Airport to Robertson Suites, which is in Kuala Lumpur Central
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Kuala Lumpur kind of a thing, I was going in the Grab.
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So the Grab, who is driving the Grab SAR was very, very humble.
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Like he is like very gentleman kind.
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He is like he loves his kids, his wife and so on and so forth.
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Because every time I ask a question he always mention his
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kids names and he always talks about his kids like I want my
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kids to be happy. I want my kids to grow up good,
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great. Like the positive narration, he
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always comes up with that positive kind of narration again
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and again and again, no matter what.
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And about wife as well and all those things.
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And to a random stranger, because I am a random stranger,
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right? To a random stranger, nobody is
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going to tell that many times until they have very, very good
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intentions in their heart. Which means he has had a very
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positive, grateful experience with the family dynamics, with
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the marriage, with the children and everything.
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That doesn't mean he doesn't have hardships, but there is
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support during that hardships. There is a people standing for
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it. That matters a lot.
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And if you can get that kind of a thing, that's what I'm trying
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to do. You can get that kind of a
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family, that kind of a dynamic or that kind of a partner.
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If you can choose wisely, then your life can be and will be so
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much better in so many ways that I can tell.
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But if it goes other ways around, you are screwed.
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That is why when we talk about societal pressure, you should
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never marry because there is a something called like, Oh no,
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your grandfather is dying so you get married.
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So you will see your marriage before he dies.
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Then tell them if you are not ready, you die.
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Just because you are dying, that does not mean that I need to get
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married now, right? You die peacefully.
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That will be a best, best, wonderful answer.
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So yeah, generally the society puts a pressure I invisible
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pressure like when you are going to get married and when you are
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trying to get friend it these pressures will never end.
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People you need to understand because once you get married
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then they will ask about when you are going to have child,
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when you get child, when what they are going to become.
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And then this cycle continues at every phase of life, especially
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when society is nothing but group of people.
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You know, you talk in a daily sense, nothing much.
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So I suggest not to take it so seriously.
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If people asks you are all those things.
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It doesn't matter end of the day, if you are ready, if you
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are ready, if you are not, if you are not.
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Let's move on to the most important factor here, emotional
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balance. This is the real challenge,
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learning how to balance your own emotions and your own families
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emotions, your partner emotions and their families emotions too.
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And also while you have to do that by protecting your
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boundaries too. Wow, that is not an easy task I
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am telling you. So you need to ask certain
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questions to yourself emotionally how you prepared for
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it at least. Even though no matter what you
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have prepared, some things in life definitely go out of your
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control that we can't do anything but that's fine.
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But at least ask yourself a question that Are you ready for
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what you are asking for? Are you willing to go through
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what you are willing through? Because once you get married and
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if you start blaming, Oh my marriage did not work because I
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am not emotionally ready, especially women says this a
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lot. Women regrets getting married
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with a wrong person because they think at that point of which I
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was emotionally high, that's why I was emotionally happy.
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That is the reason why you should not make a decision
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because this is the bigger decision in life.
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Should not make a decision based on purely emotions because all
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sorts of emotions will go high and then low and then high and
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then low like a wave. It will just go.
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And when you make a decision when you are high, happy or
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anything and when you go low, then you will be like why did I
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make any these things? So I suggest should be on a
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neutral ground when you are making a decision and the moment
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you make your decision, you have to try to stick by it until
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before you make that decision. Step into marriage, you can
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think a lot however you want to think how much time you want to
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take. But once you did take that
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decision and did stay at that point, then try to stick by it
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because the hardest part is not just getting married.
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The hardest part is actually staying in that marriage for a
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long periods of time. That is the actual hardest part.
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Not just get married. Because whether you believe it
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or not, people are getting married and they are getting
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divorced in like 1 to two years. And I don't need to even tell
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even from the celebrities. Whatever you know or whoever you
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see on your favorite platforms to normal people, everyone is
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maintaining external affairs. So these days marriage is
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becoming a bigger scam than ever because most people are
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complaining like oh there is an underlying thing for the
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marriage failures as well that nobody talks.
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But I have a doctor, I will talk it openly anyway.
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I don't care. Sexual pleasures and the absence
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of sex in a marriage is the number one Causeway for the
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divorce and for the people international audience.
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If you don't understand what is divorce, I know in some
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countries the word divorce itself doesn't exist.
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I have been those two countries. I have seen that.
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So for them I am going to explain what is divorce.
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Divorce is basically legally two partners who got married getting
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separated legally stating that we are separating only legal
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procedure process is called divorce.
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Now coming back to the absence of sexual pleasures, yes, that
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is the number one driving Causeway for most wrecked
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marriages and mostly for infidelity and so on.
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External affairs and almost 90% of marriage failures are
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happening in this because you have to talk this because if a
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man or a woman are not sexually active in marriage or they do
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not want that sex thing to happen or so on and so forth.
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And all these things enters in chart once we get marriage and
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one, at least one person is not satisfied here.
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Whatever things you did not communicate properly before
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marriage, so on and so forth and so on and so forth.
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All these things will add up. And then one day it will become
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like a small problem to over compounding and then it becomes
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a bigger, larger problem where you cannot talk or solve with
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communication anymore. The moment that becomes, that's
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when it leads to the marriage. And keep in mind, I mean, sorry,
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divorce. And keep in mind, if a divorce
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happen in your early 20s and you don't have a kid, that's a whole
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different story. If divorces happen when you are
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in your 50s or 60s and your kids are grown up, imagine that.
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Crazy isn't it? Things are happening in real
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life. I am seeing this pattern a lot
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since 20/15/2016. This has increased a lot overall
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because while I was in my Med school right in their culture,
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we had like fun game like you need to find who is the father
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from teenage girls to women or 303 five.
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If anyone comes to the hospital saying stomach pain this and
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that, no matter what, no matter what first thing they is gonna
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do is go get the pregnancy test. For women especially, it
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brutally happens because most of the times most patients will
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lie. Now you can say 15 years even
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less. Yes it might be very, very
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shocking but I have seen those things.
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Even 13 year old, 15 year old got pregnant and they gave birth
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to the child as well. Yes, these things happened.
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I saw that with my own eyes and I am telling you its yeah it is
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true. So what would they do is simply
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ask all the women in reproductive age group.
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No matter what your problem is, first you need to get a
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pregnancy test. Once you are proved you are not
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pregnant then they will do ultrasound.
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Yes it might sound crazy but true because sometimes it might
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miss in pregnancy test. We never know.
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There is a 1% chance of anything that can go and then they will
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do ultrasound after that confirming there are no fetus or
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nodule pregnancy anything. Then they will do any other
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thing until then they will not do.
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Specially this happens for women and the fun part is for us as an
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interns to find out fam father. That was like a miraculous thing
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because her teen girls comes there mother or father doesn't
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know this teen girl has a boyfriend or a partner to start
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with. And then their parents would be
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so shocked that their kid is pregnant.
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Let's just say their teenage girl is pregnant and they will
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be like they will start arguing with us other doctors there and
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like we did not expect this, we didn't blah blah blah.
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So what we do is we completely separate parents from that point
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and then ask the teenage 1 the whole history of her dating
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pool. And when we get the whole
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history of the dating pool, we get lots of names, not just one
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or two. And I am not judging anyone here
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by the way. And now we will be sitting there
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knowing we don't know who is the father and when parents comes
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and asks us Doc, who is the father now who did this?
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And we had no idea because now we have to call all the multiple
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partners and then make sure who was the last one, who was the
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first one? We have no idea.
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So these things do exist in some parts of the places in the
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world. That's why I have crazy, crazy
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experiences in while I was studying medicine and so on.
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Because I am not blaming anyone, but you know, this is, this
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happens because of lack of education, lack of awareness,
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what you can expect from teenage nothing.
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So these things are part of life.
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We cannot blame anyone or any person.
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It happens. But yeah, these things do
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happen. These two exist in real life.
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Most people may may not know this.
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Like I said, that's why I like to interact with people more
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because you can hear crazy amount of stories that you think
37:39
you know everything about life, but that will make you humble In
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oh point 3 seconds. Literally I am telling you in oh
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point 3 to 5 seconds, you will be humbled.
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Like what is this even a possibility?
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Yeah, so that's why I like to talk about all these topics in
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general is because I would like to hear from you in the
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comments. The Internet is a wonderful
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space where you can share your stories openly and I would like
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to hear from you that gives me a little bit more insights about
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how your culture works or your thing works.
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That's why I like to do this. I love doing this podcasts and
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my videos and so on and so forth is because once you start
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commenting your own stories or crazy things, it becomes crazy,
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crazy awesome to know that this exists and we can take at least
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you know, precautionary measures or we can start awareness
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ultimate. At least that's just how I think
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probably. I don't know, I might sound
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crazy to lot of people. I do understand that, but that's
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OK. Anyways, so I would like to
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conclude this episode. If ever you are feeling
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pressured about marriage right now, just remember 1 simple
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thing. Your life timeline belongs to
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you. Not to everyone else around you
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but you. The relationship should bring
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peace to you, your growth. And it should be like not 5057%
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partnerships, it should be like 100 percent, 100%, not from the
39:52
pressure or loss of your identity.
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So yeah, take your time, build your life, and when the right
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movement comes, it will make sense to you.
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Then you get married. That's what I want to say.
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Nothing else. It doesn't doesn't.
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If you don't want to get married at all, fine, 100% fine.
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What is wrong with that? You can dedicate your whole
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life. To something great, you can
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become someone great and so on and so forth.
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Just me. Marriage is not an end goal.
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It's just a part of life. If you want to skip it, you can
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skip it no problem. It's all about you and what you
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want in your life. That's all.
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So I think that's all for now. So thank you so much for
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listening to this podcast. If this episode resonated with
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you, how you feel, share it with someone who might need to hear
40:58
it and share your thoughts in the comment section as well.
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Until next time, take care of your mind, your path and your
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journey more than other factors, social pressure and stuff.
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So take care. I am Doctor Mukund, thorough doc
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feels like I'm tired. But anyways, signing off bye
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bye. See you in the next episode.