Latest / The Breakfast Club / INTERVIEW: DeVon Franklin, Serayah & Tyler Lepley Talk Preserving Biblical Stories In "Ruth & Boaz" Film
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Every day a week ago up the Breakfast Club, y'all
- 0:06Speaker 1: done morning.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Everybody is d j Envy just hilarious. Charlamagne the gud
- 0:11Speaker 2: we are the breakfast Club.
- 0:12Speaker 3: He got some special guests.
- 0:13Speaker 4: In the building this morning.
- 0:14Speaker 2: Indeed, Von Franklin, Soria and Tyler Lepley welcome.
- 0:19Speaker 3: If you call.
- 0:20Speaker 5: Her Soriat.
- 0:25Speaker 4: Soarriety something like something.
- 0:26Speaker 6: I gotta go to CV.
- 0:29Speaker 4: To get something for the sorit.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Can you just.
- 0:35Speaker 4: About because I got a lot better. Don't do film
- 0:46Speaker 4: to the family.
- 0:48Speaker 1: They have a movie on Netflix called Ruth and bow As, right,
- 0:52Speaker 1: and you know, if you know anything about Ruth and bos.
- 0:53Speaker 7: A biblical story.
- 0:55Speaker 1: So so what elements of the original biblical story of
- 0:57Speaker 1: Ruth and bow As did y'all preserve for this film?
- 1:00Speaker 8: Man, We preserve the a lot of the elements. When
- 1:02Speaker 8: you go and you read the Book of Ruth and
- 1:04Speaker 8: then you look at the movie. You know, everything that
- 1:06Speaker 8: we did in the film was basically rooted in the word.
- 1:09Speaker 8: You know, her journey, you know with Naomi, her how
- 1:12Speaker 8: she finds Boaz, And we really wanted to say, okay,
- 1:15Speaker 8: this is what the scripture says, but then how do
- 1:17Speaker 8: we make it modern and so everything you see in
- 1:19Speaker 8: the film, it's I think we did a pretty good job,
- 1:21Speaker 8: you know, of making sure that anything that you see
- 1:23Speaker 8: in that film you can go back to a verse
- 1:25Speaker 8: and say this is where we got it from.
- 1:27Speaker 5: Was it difficult modernizing the story though, I.
- 1:30Speaker 8: Mean, there's no rule book on how to modernize a
- 1:32Speaker 8: Bible story, so it was challenging. But then there were
- 1:35Speaker 8: certain things that were pretty easy because the story itself
- 1:38Speaker 8: lays out like a movie, you know, And that's one
- 1:40Speaker 8: of the reasons why I wanted to produce it. This
- 1:41Speaker 8: is why I wanted to make it is because when
- 1:43Speaker 8: you see how Ruth and Boas come together, they're not
- 1:46Speaker 8: looking for love.
- 1:48Speaker 3: They're actually looking to be.
- 1:49Speaker 8: Of service, and as part of that commitment, they find
- 1:52Speaker 8: each other. And so when you see it, it was like, okay,
- 1:54Speaker 8: you know, well, what would Moab look like? Well, maybe
- 1:56Speaker 8: that's like the Atlanta music scene. And what would you know,
- 1:58Speaker 8: Bethlehem look like. Okay, well maybe that's like Pegrim, Tennessee.
- 2:01Speaker 8: So it was difficult, but ultimately we just had to
- 2:04Speaker 8: kind of take those creative license and hopefully the audience
- 2:07Speaker 8: will enjoy it.
- 2:07Speaker 2: Now you have a deal with Tyler Perry how did
- 2:09Speaker 2: that come about?
- 2:10Speaker 4: Man?
- 2:10Speaker 3: So listen.
- 2:11Speaker 8: So about a couple of years ago, after I did
- 2:13Speaker 8: my film Flaming Hot, I'm sitting at home and I
- 2:15Speaker 8: didn't have a production deal. So if you know anything
- 2:17Speaker 8: about Hollywood, in order to have a production company, you
- 2:20Speaker 8: have to have a production deal with the studio because
- 2:21Speaker 8: that's how you have employees and that's how you make
- 2:23Speaker 8: your films. So even though Flaming Hot did very well,
- 2:26Speaker 8: I did not have a deal. And so I was
- 2:28Speaker 8: sitting at home and I was like, Okay, God, what
- 2:31Speaker 8: do you want me to do? And out of the blue,
- 2:33Speaker 8: my phone rings and it's Tyler Perry and he said, hey, man,
- 2:36Speaker 8: I hear you're making a deal with Netflix.
- 2:37Speaker 3: Now.
- 2:37Speaker 8: I had a meeting at Netflix a few months before,
- 2:40Speaker 8: but I didn't know. There wasn't really a whole lot
- 2:42Speaker 8: of follow ups, so I wasn't sure what was going on.
- 2:44Speaker 8: But he called me and said, yo, I hear you
- 2:46Speaker 8: you're making a deal with Netflix. Let's partner up and
- 2:48Speaker 8: do it together. And I was like, Yes, let's do it.
- 2:53Speaker 8: And so we negotiated a three picture deal with Netflix.
- 2:55Speaker 8: This is the first of its kind. You've never seen,
- 2:57Speaker 8: you know, two black men of faith coming to together
- 3:00Speaker 8: to make content and faith, you know, with the biggest
- 3:02Speaker 8: streamer in the world. And that to me, like when
- 3:04Speaker 8: you look at Tyler like, I don't know why God
- 3:07Speaker 8: put that on his mind, but here I am trying
- 3:09Speaker 8: to figure it out. Boom, and there was the answer.
- 3:11Speaker 8: And to be able to make Ruth and Boaz, I mean,
- 3:13Speaker 8: to be able to make it the way we wanted
- 3:14Speaker 8: to make it, to have the creative, creative autonomy and
- 3:17Speaker 8: the authority, and to be able to put it together,
- 3:19Speaker 8: you know, with such an incredible cast. It all came
- 3:21Speaker 8: from the partnership.
- 3:23Speaker 9: How did it feel Because when the screen opens for
- 3:25Speaker 9: the movie, it's your name, It's.
- 3:28Speaker 10: Tyler Perry Studios. And I was like, that is so cool.
- 3:30Speaker 9: How did it feel for you the first time you
- 3:31Speaker 9: saw that?
- 3:32Speaker 3: Listen, this is what faith works. That's how it felt.
- 3:35Speaker 3: It felt gratified. You know.
- 3:36Speaker 8: As a kid, I always had the dream of making
- 3:39Speaker 8: my own films. That's why I came to Hollywood. I
- 3:42Speaker 8: wanted to have my own production company. And to see
- 3:44Speaker 8: that on screen Devon Franklin Entertainment, Tyler Perry Studios and
- 3:48Speaker 8: Ruth and Boaz, It's like, Wow, dreams do come true
- 3:51Speaker 8: and faith works.
- 3:52Speaker 3: So it felt good.
- 3:53Speaker 1: So sayan Tyler, did y'all know the story of Ruth
- 3:55Speaker 1: and Boy?
- 4:01Speaker 4: I do that.
- 4:05Speaker 7: And Tyler, did y'all know the story of Ruth and Boys?
- 4:08Speaker 10: I did, like roughly, you know, just growing up in church,
- 4:10Speaker 10: you here of Ruth and Boaz. But I never really
- 4:14Speaker 10: explicitly read the book of Ruth and until doing this
- 4:19Speaker 10: this story getting more information on it.
- 4:22Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, not to sound like a heathen, but
- 4:24Speaker 11: I didn't grow up in the church or nothing like that.
- 4:25Speaker 11: But I have heard about you know, I have heard
- 4:28Speaker 11: about the story of Ruth and Bois a little bit.
- 4:30Speaker 11: So when it was time to actually dive into it once,
- 4:32Speaker 11: I you know, once I had booked it, you know,
- 4:34Speaker 11: I read up on it a little bit to to
- 4:36Speaker 11: you know, just at least have to have some type
- 4:38Speaker 11: of foundation in terms of, you know, find the truth
- 4:40Speaker 11: and how we're gonna figure it out.
- 4:41Speaker 7: But after you read aster, how much of Ruth's story could.
- 4:44Speaker 10: You relate to personally? I mean, she went through so much.
- 4:50Speaker 10: She has a lot of a lot of baggage and
- 4:53Speaker 10: trauma there, deep deep traumas. But I do resonate with
- 4:57Speaker 10: her on having like an instinct to reroute and change
- 5:02Speaker 10: things in my life and maybe stepping out on faith
- 5:06Speaker 10: on things that I'm not necessarily sure is going to
- 5:08Speaker 10: work out. But hey, I want to be an actress.
- 5:12Speaker 10: That sounds pretty far fetched to a lot of the world.
- 5:15Speaker 10: So I can. I can get where her fire and
- 5:18Speaker 10: her passion is coming from us.
- 5:20Speaker 7: Oh go ahead, how are you? How are you?
- 5:23Speaker 10: Baby? Well? Thank you? Thank you as well.
- 5:28Speaker 5: Thank you as your mental everything is good. I mean
- 5:30Speaker 5: because you're working, you had that baby working out, you know,
- 5:33Speaker 5: your mommy, but now you're you're still actress, singer, mommy.
- 5:38Speaker 5: How does that all fit?
- 5:39Speaker 10: It's it's actually one day at a time.
- 5:42Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.
- 5:43Speaker 10: And just having that grace for myself that I don't
- 5:46Speaker 10: have to have all together has been the biggest I
- 5:50Speaker 10: guess lesson for me throughout all of this. But it's
- 5:53Speaker 10: been great, Thank god. I mean, you know after that
- 5:56Speaker 10: first month where I was like, yeah, you know, now
- 6:01Speaker 10: it's just like I could use some sleep. But that's
- 6:03Speaker 10: about it. I'm good. I'm good.
- 6:05Speaker 2: I want to ask, you know, when doing a faith
- 6:07Speaker 2: based movie, right, growing up as a kid, when you
- 6:09Speaker 2: hear anything faith based, you thinking it's gonna be nothing
- 6:11Speaker 2: but Christian singing. It's not it's gonna be that type
- 6:14Speaker 2: of thing. Did you have Did you ever think about, well,
- 6:16Speaker 2: maybe I don't want to do it because it's faith based,
- 6:17Speaker 2: or did you just dive right in.
- 6:21Speaker 10: Personally?
- 6:22Speaker 4: No?
- 6:22Speaker 10: I mean I feel like God has always been very
- 6:25Speaker 10: much a part of my life, and I do. I
- 6:30Speaker 10: do think that, yeah, because Devon Actually we worked on
- 6:35Speaker 10: Kingdom Business together at B and C Plus, which was
- 6:37Speaker 10: also a faith faith based and I really feel like
- 6:43Speaker 10: sometimes God is funny in the way of presenting me
- 6:46Speaker 10: with characters that I kind of like in life for
- 6:50Speaker 10: a little bit, mirroring as far as like their relationship
- 6:53Speaker 10: with God. So it's kind of funny for me to
- 6:55Speaker 10: to have played Rebel and Kingdom Business and now Ruth
- 6:58Speaker 10: and Ruth and Boaz. Right, So that's why I left.
- 7:01Speaker 10: But no, it really did not deter me at all.
- 7:04Speaker 10: If anything determined me was the music, because I played
- 7:08Speaker 10: so many music characters, so that that was the part.
- 7:11Speaker 4: She took a little convincing.
- 7:13Speaker 3: I was like, come on, she said no at first, Well, she.
- 7:16Speaker 8: Didn't want to come in to audition because it was
- 7:18Speaker 8: a little music driven, so I had to hit her up.
- 7:19Speaker 3: I was like, Yo, trust me, you're gonna want to
- 7:21Speaker 3: do this, come on in and so thankfully.
- 7:24Speaker 7: So what was it mirroring in your life? Surreal?
- 7:26Speaker 1: Because you know this this is like this story is
- 7:28Speaker 1: about God's timing and divine orchestration. So what was what
- 7:31Speaker 1: was going on in your life when you got to
- 7:33Speaker 1: call for this?
- 7:34Speaker 4: Oh?
- 7:34Speaker 10: My goodness so much. But I could say that love
- 7:41Speaker 10: was also on the brink for me, Like I was
- 7:43Speaker 10: in a new relationship with this role. I found out
- 7:47Speaker 10: I was pregnant. Like during while filming, there was a
- 7:53Speaker 10: lot of things kind of with Ruth that I was
- 7:55Speaker 10: in the in the script and some of the things
- 7:57Speaker 10: she says kind of just rang true for me.
- 8:02Speaker 5: What about you?
- 8:03Speaker 7: What you.
- 8:05Speaker 4: Did you? Yeah?
- 8:07Speaker 11: I think I think for me, you know when I
- 8:11Speaker 11: when I got the call, I was just in a
- 8:13Speaker 11: space last year, I mean even before last year. Uh,
- 8:16Speaker 11: you know, like I said, I never grew up in
- 8:18Speaker 11: the church, but it was something that I was always seeking.
- 8:20Speaker 11: What I'm saying, it was sought after for me, and
- 8:22Speaker 11: you know it started spiritually. But then I you know,
- 8:25Speaker 11: then I kind of wanted to go to church more
- 8:26Speaker 11: and you know, just just show up in.
- 8:29Speaker 6: The place of worship, not just to kind of feel
- 8:31Speaker 6: it on the inside.
- 8:32Speaker 11: So I think for me outside of the artistry and
- 8:35Speaker 11: me wanting to be able to tackle roll like this,
- 8:37Speaker 11: I've never done a uh, you know, a love story before.
- 8:41Speaker 11: You know, the aspect of it being a faith based
- 8:43Speaker 11: film is actually something that was kind of right on
- 8:45Speaker 11: time for me. You know, I just I just proposed
- 8:48Speaker 11: to at the time, you know, my girlfriend, we were
- 8:52Speaker 11: obviously my fiance now so even just thank you, I
- 8:55Speaker 11: appreciate that, but but even miracle, but even you know,
- 9:03Speaker 11: make making a choice to go ahead and and and
- 9:06Speaker 11: honor our union under God, and you know, making that
- 9:08Speaker 11: choice and walking forward in it or uh, you know,
- 9:10Speaker 11: I've just I've had I've had some issues in life
- 9:14Speaker 11: where you know, choosing to handle it with with with
- 9:17Speaker 11: grace is something that's continuing to be on the forefront
- 9:21Speaker 11: of my mind and whatnot.
- 9:21Speaker 6: So it was just it was just perfect time.
- 9:23Speaker 11: And so I actually actually love diving into the to
- 9:26Speaker 11: the faith based aspect of it.
- 9:28Speaker 9: In the movie, both of you guys spent the Soria
- 9:31Speaker 9: and tyler y'all spent a lot of time learning to
- 9:34Speaker 9: trust each other's love so that you guys can depend
- 9:36Speaker 9: on each other. What from your real aspects of your
- 9:39Speaker 9: relationship did you bring into that to be able to
- 9:41Speaker 9: like show it on screen.
- 9:44Speaker 11: I think for me, just you know, without without getting
- 9:48Speaker 11: you know, too specific in terms of what's going on
- 9:50Speaker 11: day to day. I think just I think just the
- 9:52Speaker 11: idea of pouring into my relationship as opposed to you know,
- 9:56Speaker 11: showing up the table figuring out what I'm gonna eat.
- 9:58Speaker 6: You know, let's let's let's pour into it and be
- 10:01Speaker 6: of service.
- 10:02Speaker 11: And I feel like that's the best way that to,
- 10:05Speaker 11: you know, to bear the fruits of any of any flower,
- 10:08Speaker 11: you know. So that's that's probably what I, uh, you know,
- 10:11Speaker 11: what I connected with in terms of me and boas
- 10:13Speaker 11: being intentional, being intentional with what it is that we're
- 10:16Speaker 11: doing here. We're not just you know, we're not just
- 10:18Speaker 11: walking down this path aimlessly.
- 10:22Speaker 10: I definitely resonated with her having a guard up. I
- 10:29Speaker 10: was in a past relationship, public relationship. I have gone
- 10:33Speaker 10: through different things in my life that just presented me
- 10:37Speaker 10: to like, well, it resulted me to being a little
- 10:41Speaker 10: more guarded. So I really understood her being guarded because
- 10:46Speaker 10: it wasn't that she wasn't trying to accept or excuse me.
- 10:49Speaker 10: She was trying to be difficult. I think she just
- 10:51Speaker 10: was tired of being let down. So her guard is like,
- 10:54Speaker 10: let me just keep everyone out there so that I
- 10:57Speaker 10: don't have to be hurt over here anymore.
- 11:00Speaker 2: I was working with the icon the legend, Miss Felicia.
- 11:03Speaker 10: My gosh, talk about it. She said something really cool.
- 11:07Speaker 10: I mean, it was amazing for me. I think we
- 11:09Speaker 10: all have really cool stories about her. She she brings
- 11:12Speaker 10: this or in this presence and this groundedness, and she's
- 11:16Speaker 10: also very humble, like to be the icon and the
- 11:19Speaker 10: person we're speaking about. She's like, oh, thank you, like
- 11:22Speaker 10: you know, you know, let's let's talk about you now.
- 11:24Speaker 10: And I think that's really cool aspect to her. We
- 11:28Speaker 10: many times in our cast shairs we're just talking about
- 11:30Speaker 10: like relationships and just different things like she's she's a
- 11:35Speaker 10: really really dope human being.
- 11:37Speaker 7: Y'all did use a stunt double when she got pushed down.
- 11:43Speaker 6: Just making about her.
- 11:45Speaker 4: She was cool with being on the ground.
- 11:49Speaker 8: Yes, the thing about her, she was like, y'all stop stopping,
- 11:54Speaker 8: like I got it.
- 11:55Speaker 3: So she did do.
- 11:56Speaker 8: She didn't get the hit part, but she definitely felt
- 11:58Speaker 8: on the wanted to.
- 11:59Speaker 3: She wanted to.
- 12:00Speaker 4: I'm yeah, enough to make in my heart.
- 12:07Speaker 7: I was like, oh my god, why would you do that?
- 12:11Speaker 10: Like you cannot just put her on the ground.
- 12:13Speaker 8: She the reason why she is that way is because
- 12:15Speaker 8: she takes her craft serious. And not only that. I
- 12:18Speaker 8: mean to what Sorea was saying. You know, every day
- 12:20Speaker 8: that she was on set, her aura. You know, she brought,
- 12:22Speaker 8: you know, excellen, she brought grace, she brought a sense
- 12:26Speaker 8: of calm in peace, and I'll never forget.
- 12:28Speaker 3: You know.
- 12:28Speaker 8: One day we were shooting at the location for her
- 12:30Speaker 8: house and it overlooks a lake, and so in between setups,
- 12:33Speaker 8: you know, I hear this voice saying, you know, divine,
- 12:35Speaker 8: come here. And I turned around and it's Miss Felicia.
- 12:38Speaker 8: She's sitting on a bench. She says, come here, and
- 12:40Speaker 8: she pats on the bench. She says, sit down, and
- 12:42Speaker 8: I said yeah. She said, you know, you're working really hard,
- 12:44Speaker 8: this is your movie, but you got to breathe. You
- 12:47Speaker 8: got to take all this in. Don't just you know,
- 12:50Speaker 8: rush through the fruits of your labor.
- 12:52Speaker 3: Take it in. And I said, wow.
- 12:54Speaker 8: I took a moment to breathe, and then we started
- 12:55Speaker 8: talking about, you know, our histories and you know, sharing stories,
- 12:58Speaker 8: and I said, Wow, this is what it's like to
- 13:00Speaker 8: have an elder in your presence. They see the potential
- 13:03Speaker 8: and they see it, but they also want you to know, Hey,
- 13:05Speaker 8: life is a is a marathon, not a sprint, relaxed,
- 13:09Speaker 8: enjoy and so that that's a moment that just speaks
- 13:11Speaker 8: to who she is.
- 13:12Speaker 1: Do you ever get impostera syndrome in those moments, like
- 13:14Speaker 1: when you're doing a film and you have to think
- 13:16Speaker 1: to yourself like, oh man, I'm doing a film for Netflix.
- 13:18Speaker 7: I got foolice arch, I got I got Tyler lovely.
- 13:22Speaker 3: No, I don't.
- 13:23Speaker 8: I don't get imposter syndrome. I mean because you know,
- 13:24Speaker 8: I've been working in entertainment since i was eighteen years old,
- 13:27Speaker 8: and I've been working specifically, you know, in film ever
- 13:31Speaker 8: since then. And so when I'm making a movie, you know,
- 13:33Speaker 8: I'm making a movie like from a place of experience
- 13:35Speaker 8: and expertise, and nobody knows how to make a movie
- 13:39Speaker 8: a faith that's commercial better than me. Yeah, and so
- 13:41Speaker 8: I and that's not based upon arrogance. That's just based
- 13:44Speaker 8: upon confidence and experience and having done it time and
- 13:47Speaker 8: time and time again. And so when I'm on set.
- 13:50Speaker 8: You know, if anything I'm like, Okay, what am I
- 13:53Speaker 8: not thinking about?
- 13:54Speaker 3: You know, is there? And then also you know, wanting
- 13:56Speaker 3: to make sure that they're good.
- 13:58Speaker 8: You know, at the end of the day, I can
- 13:59Speaker 8: do all things I can do, But at the end
- 14:01Speaker 8: of the day, if the talent doesn't feel if I'm saying, hey,
- 14:03Speaker 8: I want to make movies of inspiration and faith, and
- 14:05Speaker 8: the experience behind the scene isn't inspirational or positive, then
- 14:10Speaker 8: I think it kind of undermines what I'm trying to do.
- 14:12Speaker 3: And I make sure that they're good.
- 14:13Speaker 1: Now, I'm glad you said that, because the film portrays
- 14:15Speaker 1: these ideas of worthiness and acceptance, especially in regard to
- 14:19Speaker 1: Boaz is like evolution and translations.
- 14:22Speaker 3: Yeah, it was important.
- 14:23Speaker 8: That was really important because I really wanted, you know,
- 14:26Speaker 8: you know, any man watching this movie, any woman as well,
- 14:29Speaker 8: but you know, specifically, you know, any man watching this
- 14:31Speaker 8: movie to see themselves in Boaz. And I think one
- 14:33Speaker 8: of the things that's so you know, noble and powerful.
- 14:36Speaker 8: And also the way that Tyler plays Boaz is you know,
- 14:39Speaker 8: with the care and the tenderness, and he's not looking
- 14:41Speaker 8: to get from Ruth, He's looking to give to Ruth,
- 14:43Speaker 8: you know, and I think that that is that is
- 14:45Speaker 8: that's a different dynamic, and I really wanted to make
- 14:48Speaker 8: sure that that was articulated and portrayed because that, to
- 14:52Speaker 8: me is where love is. You know, love comes out
- 14:54Speaker 8: of sacrifice. Like and I'm not trying to get from you.
- 14:57Speaker 8: He didn't need anything from her all, he really.
- 14:59Speaker 3: I mean, what was cool about Ruth.
- 15:00Speaker 8: All she provided him was was a safe space to
- 15:03Speaker 8: be able to talk, to be able to communicate, to
- 15:04Speaker 8: be heard, and that is how she expressed her love,
- 15:07Speaker 8: and he expressed his love through giving to make sure
- 15:10Speaker 8: she knew she was okay.
- 15:11Speaker 3: So that was important to me as far.
- 15:12Speaker 5: As casting went right, Like did you say because I
- 15:17Speaker 5: feel like every role that Tyler plays and every role
- 15:19Speaker 5: that Sarria plays, it seems like it's specifically for them.
- 15:23Speaker 7: They just do a great job with it.
- 15:24Speaker 5: Did you know who you had in mind when you
- 15:27Speaker 5: were when you said, okay, I want to do Ruth
- 15:28Speaker 5: and BoA's story.
- 15:29Speaker 8: When I started the process, I didn't. I just was
- 15:32Speaker 8: working on getting the script right. Mike Elliott and Corey
- 15:35Speaker 8: Tynan wrote the script, and our amazing director Lana Brown,
- 15:38Speaker 8: you know, directed the movie. And so once we got
- 15:41Speaker 8: into the casting process, That's when I said, oh, this
- 15:44Speaker 8: is Sorea, and so I kept hitting up her team
- 15:46Speaker 8: like hey, when she coming in, when she coming in audition,
- 15:49Speaker 8: and then that's when I finally ultimately called her and
- 15:51Speaker 8: said hey, come in. And then when she auditioned, it
- 15:53Speaker 8: was like, oh, well there's Ruthy. But with Boaz, I
- 15:56Speaker 8: didn't know that Tyler Lepley was going to come in.
- 15:59Speaker 8: I knew, like I wanted a guy who you know,
- 16:01Speaker 8: had the the grab TOAs had the sex appeal but
- 16:04Speaker 8: also had the heart. But I didn't know that he
- 16:06Speaker 8: was you know, I didn't. I didn't even it wasn't
- 16:08Speaker 8: even the thought. And then we had a couple of
- 16:10Speaker 8: guys we were chemistry reading with Sorea and at the
- 16:12Speaker 8: eleventh hour, Tyler Lepley sends in a self tape and
- 16:16Speaker 8: I watched the self tape and I'm like, well, there's
- 16:18Speaker 8: Boaz Ye. I mean, without any direction, he just dropped
- 16:21Speaker 8: into the essence of the character. And we were like, okay,
- 16:25Speaker 8: we did it, and we brought him in, did a
- 16:26Speaker 8: chemistry read, and it was evident that they were the
- 16:28Speaker 8: ones destined to play these parts.
- 16:30Speaker 7: That's right.
- 16:32Speaker 5: I had to finish real quick's plan because Tyler said
- 16:35Speaker 5: that it was right on time him because he was
- 16:37Speaker 5: already talking to the Lord.
- 16:43Speaker 2: I was gonna say, you, how did you know this
- 16:44Speaker 2: one was for you? Because you sent in that tape immediately?
- 16:46Speaker 2: So how did you know that? Like this this part
- 16:48Speaker 2: for me?
- 16:50Speaker 11: I think, I think it really dawned on me after
- 16:53Speaker 11: I after I had uh sent the tape in, we
- 16:55Speaker 11: did the chemistry read, which is funny too because we
- 16:57Speaker 11: were actually on a different set shooting something else together.
- 17:01Speaker 11: So you know, that was that was a unique experience.
- 17:04Speaker 11: But after I had after I had booked it, we
- 17:09Speaker 11: had a scheduling conflict with with this in p Valley,
- 17:13Speaker 11: we're shooting at the same time, and you know, there
- 17:16Speaker 11: was a period of time where, you know, per the
- 17:19Speaker 11: line producers, these are the ones who deal with the schedule.
- 17:22Speaker 6: This this wasn't gonna work.
- 17:23Speaker 11: So there was a few days like even me and
- 17:25Speaker 11: Devin were, you know, kind of chatting back and forth
- 17:27Speaker 11: on the text, and like, you know, the energy was
- 17:29Speaker 11: kind of like all right, well, you know, i'll see
- 17:30Speaker 11: i'll see you, I'll catch you next time, And it.
- 17:32Speaker 6: Was like, damn, that's what I was.
- 17:34Speaker 11: That's kind of I said, Man, I said, there was
- 17:37Speaker 11: something about this that just it just felt special because
- 17:41Speaker 11: kind of what I was talking about earlier, you know,
- 17:43Speaker 11: trying to get in touch with the Lord and then
- 17:46Speaker 11: you know it just it just felt like this was
- 17:48Speaker 11: going to be special.
- 17:48Speaker 6: And and I was like, man, I ain't going down
- 17:51Speaker 6: without a fight.
- 17:52Speaker 11: I played baseball for one year and I was always
- 17:55Speaker 11: I was always striking out, but I was always going down.
- 17:57Speaker 11: Looking my mom told me like, man, you at least
- 18:00Speaker 11: you're going down. You got to swing. So I was like,
- 18:02Speaker 11: all right, well, let me pick the phone up, let
- 18:03Speaker 11: me call, let me call Devine, and let me call
- 18:05Speaker 11: Katoi because you know, everybody, everybody at the studio saying
- 18:09Speaker 11: they can't figure this out. And uh, you know, really
- 18:11Speaker 11: really it was it was because of you and Katuri
- 18:15Speaker 11: the reason that I was. I was blessed enough to
- 18:17Speaker 11: be able to step into this role, you know what
- 18:19Speaker 11: I'm saying. So as I look back on it, you know,
- 18:20Speaker 11: hindsight is always twenty twenty. When I look at how
- 18:22Speaker 11: you know, God orchestrated it, it was like, man, it
- 18:25Speaker 11: was I was, I was right on point. This is
- 18:27Speaker 11: something that I felt like I was destined to do so, man,
- 18:29Speaker 11: I appreciate you.
- 18:30Speaker 8: No absolutely, I would just interject on that you know,
- 18:32Speaker 8: what God has for you is for you. And so
- 18:34Speaker 8: you know, Katori and I you know, got on the
- 18:36Speaker 8: phone and went through that schedule and said, okay, you
- 18:40Speaker 8: need him here, I need him here. Okay, I can't
- 18:42Speaker 8: give you that date, but can you give me that date?
- 18:44Speaker 8: And then we went to the line producers and then
- 18:46Speaker 8: the studios and say this is what it is. And
- 18:48Speaker 8: a lot of times they're like, well, you got to
- 18:49Speaker 8: have insurance and said no, me and Katori a brother
- 18:52Speaker 8: and a sister, we worked it out as he needs
- 18:54Speaker 8: to be able to do bowl. So whatever is for you,
- 18:57Speaker 8: just stay in it and keep fighting for it because
- 19:00Speaker 8: when it's meant to be, it'll.
- 19:01Speaker 6: Be No that.
- 19:07Speaker 9: It's important to be working with people that understand you
- 19:10Speaker 9: look like you two because y'all advocated that's so big.
- 19:13Speaker 9: Having a person that will advocate.
- 19:14Speaker 3: For you one thousand person.
- 19:16Speaker 1: It's critical, you know, the secular ambitions that that roof
- 19:19Speaker 1: has right with the spiritual calling she's dealing with. To
- 19:23Speaker 1: have any of y'all ever had the deal with that
- 19:26Speaker 1: in the industry, and if so.
- 19:28Speaker 7: How did you resolve?
- 19:30Speaker 6: I'm sorry, what was it again?
- 19:31Speaker 1: Secular ambitions that roof has also the spiritual calling she's
- 19:35Speaker 1: dealing with. Have you any have y'all ever had that
- 19:37Speaker 1: battle with y'all personal experiences in the industry.
- 19:40Speaker 11: It's been a long week breaking down a seculars what's that?
- 19:44Speaker 7: Secular?
- 19:44Speaker 4: Worldly not non religious?
- 19:57Speaker 7: No, I don't I want you to be over here?
- 19:58Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, for sure, I would say. I would say
- 20:00Speaker 6: for me.
- 20:03Speaker 11: When I was coming out of uh now, I'm from
- 20:05Speaker 11: right outside of Philly, and I was, uh, you know,
- 20:08Speaker 11: on my own levels.
- 20:08Speaker 6: You know, I was making a little bit of money.
- 20:10Speaker 11: I was, I was kind of doing my thing, you know,
- 20:11Speaker 11: at least so I thought. But nothing made sense for
- 20:15Speaker 11: me to go out to l A. You know, but
- 20:18Speaker 11: something was, something was calling me. I felt like God was,
- 20:20Speaker 11: you know, God was pushed me in that direction, and
- 20:22Speaker 11: it was you know, it was a battle too, to
- 20:26Speaker 11: leave everything that I've ever known, you know, to chase
- 20:29Speaker 11: something that I've never seen, you know, I feel it,
- 20:31Speaker 11: and so so I do feel like I can connect
- 20:34Speaker 11: with Ruth on that because I forget what the actual
- 20:36Speaker 11: line is, but like it's it's one of those lines
- 20:39Speaker 11: one of those memorable lines where she talks about, you know,
- 20:42Speaker 11: God is leading me somewhere else, and it's nothing that
- 20:44Speaker 11: anybody else around me can may really be able to understand,
- 20:48Speaker 11: but it's something that I feel, and it's something that
- 20:49Speaker 11: I'm gonna honor, you know. So I really connected with
- 20:51Speaker 11: with Ruth on on that aspect for sure.
- 20:53Speaker 7: What about you, Sarah, I.
- 20:57Speaker 10: Don't know if I've ever felt like I was being
- 21:02Speaker 10: pulled away from what God wanted for me or what
- 21:09Speaker 10: I felt like innately inside of me, but I could
- 21:13Speaker 10: say that it is hard to navigate when you do
- 21:16Speaker 10: have that voice inside of you because there is a
- 21:19Speaker 10: lot to there's a lot to be involved with when
- 21:23Speaker 10: it comes to our industry. So when thinking about it
- 21:27Speaker 10: from that aspect, I can say I said no to
- 21:30Speaker 10: a lot of hangouts and dealings with people, and thank
- 21:33Speaker 10: god I did, because I didn't really know why I
- 21:37Speaker 10: was saying no, but I just knew I didn't feel
- 21:39Speaker 10: necessarily comfortable or I felt like a weird vibe. So
- 21:44Speaker 10: I just decided not to be out and about and
- 21:47Speaker 10: doing different things. And now looking back on that, I
- 21:50Speaker 10: am grateful that I kind of followed that voice because
- 21:54Speaker 10: there are a lot of situations I realized that, oh yeah,
- 21:57Speaker 10: that person was definitely up to no good asking me
- 21:59Speaker 10: to do it, you know what I mean. So I
- 22:02Speaker 10: think that there's there's definitely a lot of that while
- 22:04Speaker 10: navigating this industry.
- 22:06Speaker 6: For sure.
- 22:07Speaker 1: What about you, because you have answered your calling spiritual calling, Yeah,
- 22:10Speaker 1: but you still have you still want to be successful
- 22:12Speaker 1: in this business?
- 22:13Speaker 3: Sure?
- 22:14Speaker 8: Sure, I mean for me, it was like the ambition
- 22:17Speaker 8: always has been to go to a secular environment. Right
- 22:20Speaker 8: when you look at Hollywood and you know, some may
- 22:22Speaker 8: argue it's one of the most secular environments on the planet.
- 22:25Speaker 8: But for me, you know, when I first started, I
- 22:27Speaker 8: didn't know I was going to be making content that
- 22:29Speaker 8: would be inspirational or faith based at all. But I
- 22:32Speaker 8: did have a sense of I don't want to compromise
- 22:35Speaker 8: my soul to open the.
- 22:38Speaker 3: Door of this business.
- 22:39Speaker 8: So like at eighteen years old, you know, first internship interview,
- 22:43Speaker 8: they asked me, you know, this is what it was
- 22:44Speaker 8: for the company that managed will Smith, and they said,
- 22:47Speaker 8: is there anything else you want us to know? And
- 22:48Speaker 8: I said, well, you know, I observe sabbath. So if
- 22:51Speaker 8: taking this internship would require me to work on the Sabbath.
- 22:53Speaker 3: I won't take it.
- 22:54Speaker 8: So at that point in time, I wasn't really doing
- 22:56Speaker 8: it consciously. I was just saying, this is my conviction,
- 22:58Speaker 8: you know, like I don't want to compromise who I
- 23:01Speaker 8: am in my identity for this business. And then what
- 23:04Speaker 8: happened was they said, sure, no problem, and I got
- 23:06Speaker 8: the internship and every job that I've ever had goes
- 23:09Speaker 8: back to that internship. And so what that showed me
- 23:11Speaker 8: is that you can be in a secular environment and
- 23:14Speaker 8: still maintain your spirituality because I don't believe that God
- 23:17Speaker 8: would ordain success for any of us that requires us
- 23:20Speaker 8: to compromise who we are. Because if it's like wait,
- 23:23Speaker 8: if it's God, no honor who you He always created
- 23:25Speaker 8: you to be.
- 23:26Speaker 3: And if that door opens, walk through it.
- 23:28Speaker 8: But if it doesn't, do not conform yourself to get that,
- 23:32Speaker 8: because what's on the other side of that door is
- 23:34Speaker 8: you're going to need the faith that you left in
- 23:36Speaker 8: the identity you left outside the door to be successful.
- 23:38Speaker 10: Yeah, so that's the part, yeah.
- 23:42Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, So for me, it was it was just
- 23:44Speaker 8: about incorporating the essence of who I am and the
- 23:46Speaker 8: identity and in the spirituality and being a Christian and
- 23:50Speaker 8: allowing God to navigate my path in this you know,
- 23:52Speaker 8: secular environment.
- 23:54Speaker 9: Earlier, Siria, when you guys are talking about you almost
- 23:57Speaker 9: not answering a call to do the role, did you
- 23:58Speaker 9: say it was because music will involved, So you don't
- 24:02Speaker 9: that was something you didn't want to do anymore? Well, yes,
- 24:05Speaker 9: and no, I think that there are Like I think
- 24:09Speaker 9: because of the last few roles that I have done
- 24:11Speaker 9: or been a part of, had that female who was
- 24:16Speaker 9: you know, navigating but also had a music element, and
- 24:20Speaker 9: I am also like putting out music, and so.
- 24:23Speaker 10: I wanted to just be mindful of gotcha just where
- 24:26Speaker 10: that was placing me. But honestly, like Devon said, this,
- 24:30Speaker 10: this film is a lot more than the music. It's
- 24:34Speaker 10: not just the music. And I hadn't I didn't know
- 24:37Speaker 10: it at the time, but I got to work with Babyface,
- 24:39Speaker 10: so so that was amazing. So but yeah, that was
- 24:44Speaker 10: kind of like my reasoning behind behind it. Just wanting
- 24:46Speaker 10: to you know.
- 24:48Speaker 7: Play different characters.
- 24:49Speaker 10: That's that's really all it is, and expanding my creativity
- 24:52Speaker 10: and things like that.
- 24:53Speaker 9: There's such a connection in the film between you mentioned
- 24:55Speaker 9: Atlanta and Tennessee. But like I feel like the way
- 24:58Speaker 9: that we watch you go from being in the group
- 25:00Speaker 9: that you were into, then getting into country music to
- 25:03Speaker 9: then go in the gospel. It tells a story about
- 25:05Speaker 9: like how all the music genres are intertwined. Can y'all
- 25:08Speaker 9: talk about like, you know, displaying that but also putting
- 25:10Speaker 9: that in the film and why that was important?
- 25:12Speaker 10: Was it always country music?
- 25:13Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 25:14Speaker 4: Oh it was?
- 25:14Speaker 10: Okay.
- 25:15Speaker 4: I was so sure.
- 25:16Speaker 10: Well because when I got the records to sing and
- 25:20Speaker 10: and you know, here here are the records of file
- 25:23Speaker 10: of records, I'm listening to him, like, Okay, they are
- 25:25Speaker 10: like very country, and I've never seen country. Although I
- 25:28Speaker 10: love country, I've just never recorded a country record. So
- 25:33Speaker 10: when I started to record them, and then when I
- 25:34Speaker 10: got in with Babyface, I was like, why I really
- 25:37Speaker 10: love this on my voice because you're able to really
- 25:39Speaker 10: like show a certain level of emotion in those records
- 25:44Speaker 10: that I really enjoyed.
- 25:45Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 25:45Speaker 8: I mean it was our writer Mike Elliott, who was
- 25:48Speaker 8: inspired by Cowboy Cark and you know the renaissance you
- 25:53Speaker 8: know of black music and country, and he was the
- 25:57Speaker 8: one that said, you know, let's put her on a
- 25:59Speaker 8: journey where even though she's going back to tennessee what
- 26:02Speaker 8: she's discovering is her voice and this kind of you
- 26:04Speaker 8: know country music, you know, really becomes the vehicle.
- 26:07Speaker 3: So that was that was his idea, and I was like, oh,
- 26:09Speaker 3: that's brilliant.
- 26:10Speaker 8: And then when you see you know, Soria sing these
- 26:12Speaker 8: different records in the film, it feels very authentic. And
- 26:15Speaker 8: then when you talk about Babyface, you know coming in
- 26:17Speaker 8: and not only playing himself, but he actually produced the
- 26:21Speaker 8: song at the piano, his version of it, the Goodness
- 26:24Speaker 8: of God. And then the song that Ruth sings to
- 26:26Speaker 8: express her love to bo As is an original baby
- 26:28Speaker 8: Face song and he wrote and produced for the film,
- 26:30Speaker 8: which is pretty amazing.
- 26:31Speaker 5: Wow, has somebody crying and one of us uh produces
- 26:36Speaker 5: sim She was crying that you were singing one of
- 26:38Speaker 5: the songs. It was like one of so it always
- 26:41Speaker 5: makes our cry. But she was like, her voice is
- 26:43Speaker 5: so beautiful, So she was actually crying. She was watching
- 26:45Speaker 5: a movie.
- 26:46Speaker 4: You were singing that.
- 26:47Speaker 3: Wow, I wonder if that was the Goodness of God's song.
- 26:52Speaker 5: And not coming there and talking about something about sexy
- 26:54Speaker 5: ring and she turned around crying. I was like, oh, wow,
- 27:00Speaker 5: time I didn't know what's secular.
- 27:01Speaker 3: Many of them.
- 27:04Speaker 7: Don't go to church and don't know what secular meaning.
- 27:08Speaker 5: That he didn't grow up the church I did, and
- 27:12Speaker 5: ain none of my old folks, I would say, the
- 27:13Speaker 5: secular stuff, No, they did it.
- 27:18Speaker 1: What does it mean for you to retell a Bible
- 27:20Speaker 1: story because I know the church full did you get
- 27:23Speaker 1: it wrong?
- 27:24Speaker 8: I know, I know, and they might, you know, but
- 27:27Speaker 8: you know, for me, it's like when I think about,
- 27:30Speaker 8: you know, Tyler and I, Tyler Perry and I having
- 27:32Speaker 8: this deal. You know, the the genesis of this story
- 27:35Speaker 8: was very organic. I had been doing a sermon series
- 27:39Speaker 8: on you know, what it means to being what it
- 27:41Speaker 8: meant to be single? As I was navigating you know,
- 27:44Speaker 8: my single my serious season of singleness, and and in
- 27:47Speaker 8: the sermon series, I started studying the Book of Ruth.
- 27:49Speaker 8: And in the Book of Ruth, you know, as we
- 27:51Speaker 8: were talking about earlier, it's very interesting, you know, neither
- 27:54Speaker 8: of them are looking for love at all. You know,
- 27:57Speaker 8: as a matter of fact, when Ruth makes a commitment
- 27:59Speaker 8: to go serve now, Naomi says.
- 28:01Speaker 3: Go back. You're not going to find love where I'm going.
- 28:06Speaker 8: And Ruth says, it ain't about love, It's about you
- 28:09Speaker 8: and where you go. I go and that idea of
- 28:11Speaker 8: committing to something greater than ourselves, our purpose, our calling,
- 28:16Speaker 8: and then as a reward of that, as part of
- 28:19Speaker 8: the journey, then we receive love. That really spoke to me. So,
- 28:22Speaker 8: you know, I was like, I think we need to
- 28:24Speaker 8: make this a movie. I said, this has never been
- 28:26Speaker 8: done before, and then I did my research and there
- 28:27Speaker 8: had never been a modern version of this story that
- 28:30Speaker 8: had ever been told, and definitely not a modern version
- 28:32Speaker 8: you know, with people of colors. So I think this
- 28:33Speaker 8: is the first Bible, you know, inspired movie that has ever.
- 28:37Speaker 3: Been done this way.
- 28:38Speaker 8: And so what it meant to me was like being
- 28:40Speaker 8: able to start our deal rooted in the word was
- 28:44Speaker 8: really you know, strong and very significant. And again there
- 28:49Speaker 8: is no rule book on how to do it. So
- 28:51Speaker 8: everything that we did in this film and the creative
- 28:53Speaker 8: license that we took to interpret scripture for a modern time,
- 28:57Speaker 8: other filmakers would do something different, you know, but everything.
- 29:00Speaker 8: I feel very confident. When people see this film and
- 29:02Speaker 8: they read the word, they'll they'll say, oh, okay, you
- 29:05Speaker 8: know this is cool. And then there will be some
- 29:07Speaker 8: be like, well you left this part.
- 29:08Speaker 3: Well, you're right. We had to make a ninety minute
- 29:10Speaker 3: film you know, so.
- 29:11Speaker 6: It's found on that.
- 29:12Speaker 7: What does it mean to tell this story thro a
- 29:13Speaker 7: black lens?
- 29:14Speaker 6: Then?
- 29:14Speaker 8: Oh, my goodness, it's everything because I feel like, especially
- 29:18Speaker 8: when you look at faith based content, faith based content,
- 29:21Speaker 8: the majority of it tends to be white evangelical content,
- 29:25Speaker 8: and there have rarely been you know, movies of faith
- 29:29Speaker 8: that feature you know, diversity that are made by you know, producers, directors,
- 29:34Speaker 8: writers of color like that.
- 29:36Speaker 3: This is almost like a brand new thing.
- 29:37Speaker 8: I mean, the last movie that I was involved with
- 29:40Speaker 8: that did that was Jumping the Broom and that was
- 29:42Speaker 8: when I was an executive at Sony and oversaw that
- 29:44Speaker 8: film and that was.
- 29:45Speaker 3: You know what, twenty eleven.
- 29:46Speaker 8: Yeah, so, you know, it's very significant to show that,
- 29:50Speaker 8: you know, people of color are people of faith and
- 29:54Speaker 8: not just that we want great content too, you know,
- 29:57Speaker 8: and that this segment you know, of the faith based
- 29:59Speaker 8: audience and the general market who you know, want content
- 30:02Speaker 8: that is diverse and that does celebrate that. This is
- 30:06Speaker 8: a type of movie to let people know like, we're
- 30:08Speaker 8: here and we want more. And so that was very
- 30:11Speaker 8: very important for me to make sure that that was represented.
- 30:13Speaker 4: Now, the.
- 30:16Speaker 5: It's a three picture deal, your picture deal, so the
- 30:18Speaker 5: other two are going to be rooted in the world
- 30:20Speaker 5: as well. Are you gonna do other biblical stories?
- 30:22Speaker 8: No, you know, well I don't know what the third
- 30:24Speaker 8: one's gonna be. But the second one is actually going
- 30:26Speaker 8: to be a true story. I can't speak about it
- 30:28Speaker 8: yet because they go.
- 30:29Speaker 3: If I speak about they gonna get me. But you're
- 30:31Speaker 3: gonna hear about it very soon. It's a true story.
- 30:33Speaker 8: It's an amazing, uplifting story. We have one of Hollywood's
- 30:36Speaker 8: biggest stars that's gonna star in the film, and I'm.
- 30:39Speaker 3: Really excited about it.
- 30:40Speaker 8: So for me, like I'm excited to see what stories
- 30:44Speaker 8: come together, you know, and what story So I don't
- 30:47Speaker 8: go into it saying, okay, I want one, two, and
- 30:48Speaker 8: three to be this. You know, I pray, I stay
- 30:51Speaker 8: open to God and he just you know, aligns me
- 30:54Speaker 8: with the right stories to tell at the right time.
- 30:56Speaker 5: And you know, the craziest thing is right because I've
- 30:58Speaker 5: been dealing with a lot, so I wasn't even gonna
- 31:00Speaker 5: come in to work today, but God and told me, like,
- 31:03Speaker 5: you know what, I gotta roll for you.
- 31:05Speaker 7: So just so I was like, you know, I'm just coming.
- 31:12Speaker 4: I got you, And you know, if you I got you.
- 31:18Speaker 3: For real.
- 31:19Speaker 8: In the new movie, there is a very significant part
- 31:22Speaker 8: that you would be like, you're like the prototype.
- 31:24Speaker 7: Thank you, And I grew up in the church. It
- 31:28Speaker 7: would be easier for me.
- 31:31Speaker 4: Saving and.
- 31:43Speaker 7: Exactly take me away.
- 31:47Speaker 6: I got a very pacific role.
- 31:50Speaker 4: Ain't no crack, I know that, shut up.
- 31:54Speaker 7: But you know one of the themes I love it.
- 31:56Speaker 1: One of the themes about Rufe and Bow as his
- 31:58Speaker 1: faith in providence. Right y'all know what providence means, okay,
- 32:03Speaker 1: but but it talks about how God works through ordinary
- 32:06Speaker 1: people the shape history. And I wanted to ask you.
- 32:08Speaker 1: As a minister, we always hear about the Bible. In
- 32:10Speaker 1: the Bible talks about God working through ordinary people. What's
- 32:13Speaker 1: considered an extraordinary person?
- 32:15Speaker 3: You know?
- 32:15Speaker 8: I think that when you think of extraordinary, you think
- 32:19Speaker 8: of someone you don't feel you can become, right, you know,
- 32:23Speaker 8: so you look at the greatest of the greats and
- 32:25Speaker 8: you say, oh, well, I could never be that. And
- 32:28Speaker 8: when you look at the word God's like no, look
- 32:30Speaker 8: at David, look at Joseph. You know, these were people
- 32:34Speaker 8: that that nobody thought would be anything, but I use them.
- 32:37Speaker 3: So I think that's what it means.
- 32:38Speaker 8: I think when people think like, oh, someone who's extraordinary
- 32:41Speaker 8: is someone that I can't touch.
- 32:42Speaker 1: Well, so are the examples of that in the Bible?
- 32:45Speaker 1: And the Bible is it's all full of just all
- 32:47Speaker 1: of us are just ordinary people?
- 32:49Speaker 7: Well, this is true, this is very no.
- 32:53Speaker 3: I agree with that. I mean, when you look at
- 32:55Speaker 3: the Bible, the.
- 32:55Speaker 8: Bible is, and I think people highlight that as a
- 32:59Speaker 8: way to make sure that anyone reading the Bible reads
- 33:02Speaker 8: it from a lens of relatability, because sometimes you know,
- 33:06Speaker 8: when you're looking at these biblical stories and the amazing
- 33:09Speaker 8: things that happen, you can say, well, God, I don't
- 33:11Speaker 8: see you doing that in my life. So I think
- 33:14Speaker 8: it's more about relatability to understand that, you know, the
- 33:17Speaker 8: book is not about extraordinary people. It's about ordinary people
- 33:20Speaker 8: serving an extraordinary God. And if you can then relate
- 33:23Speaker 8: to that, then you can believe that that extraordinary God
- 33:26Speaker 8: can do something extraordinary and what you may perceive is
- 33:29Speaker 8: your ordinary life.
- 33:30Speaker 2: You don't just want to know with all three of
- 33:32Speaker 2: you guys, all yeah, your relationships are all public, right,
- 33:36Speaker 2: how do you turn it off to say? You know, what?
- 33:38Speaker 2: F what's going on on social media? I got to
- 33:40Speaker 2: dive into a character. I gotta make sure I'm present
- 33:42Speaker 2: every time. I got to make sure that I'm the
- 33:44Speaker 2: best me. So Tyler is the best tile and that.
- 33:47Speaker 2: You know, how do y'all do that?
- 33:53Speaker 3: Or do you maybe you don't?
- 33:54Speaker 11: I mean, yeah, you know, I got a unique way
- 33:58Speaker 11: of thinking about it. I feel like it's a bit
- 34:00Speaker 11: it's a bit harsh, but it just, you know, it's
- 34:01Speaker 11: just my reality. It just is what it is. And
- 34:04Speaker 11: I've been like this since before I was in a relationship,
- 34:06Speaker 11: before I had kids. You know, it's kind of just
- 34:08Speaker 11: who I am.
- 34:09Speaker 6: You know.
- 34:09Speaker 11: I feel like I came from a life of excuse me,
- 34:12Speaker 11: of like mediocrity. I feel like I've done that. I
- 34:15Speaker 11: feel like I've settled, you know. It's what made me
- 34:18Speaker 11: kind of leave being from right outside of Philly. And
- 34:21Speaker 11: I think for me, the way I look at it
- 34:23Speaker 11: is like either either I'm gonna either I'm gonna be
- 34:27Speaker 11: that what I see when I close my eyes and
- 34:28Speaker 11: I think about like everything that I'm trying to be,
- 34:30Speaker 11: I'm be on the top of that mountain or or
- 34:33Speaker 11: I'm going to be you know, in a box. So
- 34:35Speaker 11: there is no in between really for me. So if
- 34:38Speaker 11: I'm really gonna go ahead and take that shot. You know,
- 34:41Speaker 11: what is it that you have to do in order
- 34:44Speaker 11: to get that? You're gonna have to really lock in
- 34:46Speaker 11: and be focused and really have like a you know,
- 34:48Speaker 11: an unwavering sense of it.
- 34:50Speaker 6: So when it comes down to.
- 34:51Speaker 11: That and I gotta you know, honest, they may be
- 34:53Speaker 11: calm me about this, so my parents may be calling
- 34:55Speaker 11: me about that, and you know, we're all humans outside
- 34:57Speaker 11: of our professional life. And when that feel was like
- 35:00Speaker 11: it's really starting to weigh on me, that's when I
- 35:02Speaker 11: know I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Even though
- 35:04Speaker 11: it's tough and it kind of sounds like it's a
- 35:05Speaker 11: little harsh to think about it like that. You know,
- 35:08Speaker 11: you you you uh, you know, no no one, no
- 35:11Speaker 11: one that leaves the storm. Uh, you know, the one
- 35:14Speaker 11: that leaves the storm isn't the one that walks into it.
- 35:16Speaker 11: That's what the storm is really about. No one likes
- 35:17Speaker 11: to get rained on. But you know, when you're in
- 35:20Speaker 11: those things, when you're in those storms, you got to
- 35:22Speaker 11: understand that God is really just sharpening your source that
- 35:24Speaker 11: you so that you can get to the top of
- 35:26Speaker 11: that mountain.
- 35:28Speaker 7: What you said when you said, when you feel it
- 35:30Speaker 7: weighing on you.
- 35:30Speaker 6: Yeah, you know you. I feel like that's that's the
- 35:32Speaker 6: fight now we're in it.
- 35:34Speaker 7: Yeah, I can.
- 35:35Speaker 10: I can definitely relate to that. I feel like for me, Yeah,
- 35:40Speaker 10: I just I've always had this kind of like work ethic,
- 35:43Speaker 10: that kind of just it's just it's in every fiber
- 35:47Speaker 10: of me. I think that that's something that the people
- 35:51Speaker 10: around me know and they accept and they appreciate and respect,
- 35:56Speaker 10: even my best friends, Like I've had to miss so
- 35:59Speaker 10: many things over the past ten years. You've known with
- 36:02Speaker 10: my best friends, with my family and just different things.
- 36:04Speaker 10: So I think that also choosing a partner that I
- 36:09Speaker 10: have understand he understands right because he has a similar
- 36:13Speaker 10: licensy right, also it helps a lot. But when, like
- 36:18Speaker 10: you said, when things do get overwhelming, I think that
- 36:21Speaker 10: for me it became very important this in this past
- 36:26Speaker 10: year to advocate for myself and to express that, hey,
- 36:30Speaker 10: this is excuse me, this is what's going on for me,
- 36:33Speaker 10: and today looks like this for me, and can we
- 36:37Speaker 10: talk about this you know later, Because sometimes everyone makes
- 36:42Speaker 10: their emergency like their emergency like your urgency, do you
- 36:47Speaker 10: know what I mean? And I'm such a person that
- 36:50Speaker 10: wants to satisfy everyone that I love so much, where
- 36:55Speaker 10: it can be to a fault sometimes. So I've really
- 36:58Speaker 10: had to learn how to just communicate what it is
- 37:00Speaker 10: I actually need and that, and it tends to work
- 37:03Speaker 10: because oh, you're right, my bad, I forgot. You may
- 37:07Speaker 10: be been at work since four thirty this morning, you know,
- 37:11Speaker 10: just different things. Sometimes you just have to kind of
- 37:13Speaker 10: like throw that out there so that they can be like,
- 37:15Speaker 10: all right, cool, we're gonna talk about this later, whatever
- 37:18Speaker 10: the case may be.
- 37:19Speaker 9: Did you learn that? Did you learn that from new
- 37:22Speaker 9: motherhood or prepareing for other hood or did you I
- 37:24Speaker 9: know you said you took a lot away from leaving
- 37:26Speaker 9: the last relationship and having a transition into your happy place.
- 37:28Speaker 9: Now what did you learn that from?
- 37:30Speaker 10: Yeah, you know what. To be honest, I give credit
- 37:32Speaker 10: to my partner, to Joey. He's an amazing communicator. Yeah,
- 37:37Speaker 10: and he also does the work on himself. He does,
- 37:41Speaker 10: and he really does. I'm there every day, he really does.
- 37:44Speaker 10: He's really reading all the books, he's doing, he's doing
- 37:47Speaker 10: it all. So I've really have learned how to communicate
- 37:52Speaker 10: better just from him kind of like just showing that
- 37:55Speaker 10: because sometimes I would feel before that community. Some people
- 37:59Speaker 10: can make you feel like communication is too much, so
- 38:03Speaker 10: you kind of learn how to hold you back what
- 38:06Speaker 10: you need to express so that you make them comfortable.
- 38:10Speaker 10: And I feel like in this relationship, I've really learned
- 38:12Speaker 10: to open up that communication and be like, hey, I'm
- 38:14Speaker 10: feeling like this today, just so you know. You know,
- 38:18Speaker 10: it's a lot, I'm tired, right, and then we can
- 38:22Speaker 10: go from there because everyone's not it's not always going
- 38:24Speaker 10: to be one hundred. Sometimes you only have thirty percent,
- 38:27Speaker 10: you know, But let me tell you today is my
- 38:30Speaker 10: thirty percent, So that you can have empathy and understand
- 38:33Speaker 10: where I'm coming from. And I think that that's just
- 38:35Speaker 10: how I navigate now, and I can't. I have to
- 38:38Speaker 10: express that for myself.
- 38:40Speaker 1: And when you have that level of communication and you're
- 38:42Speaker 1: able to express those feelings, you enable each other to
- 38:45Speaker 1: not take things personal.
- 38:46Speaker 10: Correct correct, Yeah.
- 38:48Speaker 3: Guys, they have to go. Oh I can so much longer.
- 38:53Speaker 7: There's one more question I want to ask.
- 38:56Speaker 12: You.
- 38:56Speaker 1: Ever try to help a person and then you realize
- 38:58Speaker 1: they are the reason they have problems, nothing it them.
- 39:02Speaker 7: How do you convey that?
- 39:05Speaker 6: Well? It's funny.
- 39:06Speaker 3: Charlotte made is.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Hilarious I'm to say you haven't tried to help a
- 39:12Speaker 1: person and then to realize they are the reason they
- 39:14Speaker 1: have problems.
- 39:15Speaker 7: Ain't nothing external, Yes, it's you.
- 39:17Speaker 8: Yes, Yes, I have been in that situation. And the
- 39:21Speaker 8: thing is to be compassionate, you know, compassion because a
- 39:26Speaker 8: lot of times it's very easy to well, let me
- 39:29Speaker 8: put it this way, it's very hard for all of
- 39:32Speaker 8: us to look in the mirror and actually hold and
- 39:37Speaker 8: look at what we see because we don't like to
- 39:41Speaker 8: look at the parts of ourselves that we want to change,
- 39:43Speaker 8: that we're not happy with. And so in those situations
- 39:47Speaker 8: it's like, Okay, before I'm just like trying to call
- 39:49Speaker 8: the person out or anything, I say, Okay, let's just
- 39:50Speaker 8: have compassion, you know, and like, hey, the problem you're
- 39:53Speaker 8: trying to solve, it may be because of the perspective
- 39:56Speaker 8: that you have.
- 39:57Speaker 3: Okay, well, well why do you have that perspective? Well,
- 39:59Speaker 3: let's talk about it.
- 40:00Speaker 8: Because I think just creating an environment where there's no
- 40:02Speaker 8: judgment and there's acceptance and that there can be communication
- 40:06Speaker 8: because trying to unpack something, whether it's trauma or tragedy
- 40:10Speaker 8: or disappointments or things that you may have gone through
- 40:12Speaker 8: years ago. Trying to unpack that takes time, and I
- 40:15Speaker 8: think sometimes we get so mad at people for not
- 40:18Speaker 8: being where we want them to be. And we're all
- 40:21Speaker 8: on a journey in this thing called life, and we're
- 40:23Speaker 8: at different stages. So I just try to approach it
- 40:25Speaker 8: with compassion and still clarity. You know, if someone comes
- 40:28Speaker 8: to me for help and they're asking my opinion, then
- 40:30Speaker 8: I will give it. I will say, hey, you know,
- 40:32Speaker 8: I think the reason why you know you may have
- 40:34Speaker 8: been going through different relationships is because you know, you
- 40:38Speaker 8: keep bringing that mentality to each relationship instead of being
- 40:42Speaker 8: the love you want to receive. You're looking for this
- 40:44Speaker 8: person to provide you with what you're not doing for yourself.
- 40:47Speaker 8: So you know, I'm still going to be honest, but
- 40:51Speaker 8: I'm going to do it hopefully in a compassionate and
- 40:53Speaker 8: loving way, so that then that they can actually take
- 40:56Speaker 8: it in. Because if I come with a sledgehammer, you know,
- 40:59Speaker 8: and I come with why aren't you doing this? Then
- 41:01Speaker 8: the help that I could have provided them I missed
- 41:03Speaker 8: the opportunity because I'm trying to impose my process on
- 41:07Speaker 8: them instead of being compassionate, loving.
- 41:10Speaker 3: Hey, here's some things you could look.
- 41:11Speaker 8: At and then everyone then has to make a committee
- 41:14Speaker 8: of one to make the decision. You know what, Okay,
- 41:16Speaker 8: I'm going to make some changes and I'm going to
- 41:17Speaker 8: do the work because I want the reflection of my
- 41:19Speaker 8: life to change.
- 41:20Speaker 7: So be compassionate. Boldie, you say, you know what, you
- 41:25Speaker 7: got to figure this out on your own.
- 41:27Speaker 8: Well, you know, again, I think every situation is different.
- 41:30Speaker 8: I mean, I think everyone always has to figure out
- 41:32Speaker 8: on their own, so you know, it's never that. But
- 41:35Speaker 8: if someone is coming to me, like specifically wanting me
- 41:38Speaker 8: to fix their problem, you know, at a certain point
- 41:42Speaker 8: I would be like, hey, you know, it's not my
- 41:43Speaker 8: responsibility to fix the problem, but I can give you information.
- 41:46Speaker 8: I can give you strategy, I can give you a
- 41:48Speaker 8: point of view that if you use it, given my experience,
- 41:52Speaker 8: I believe it'll work. But ultimately, if you're relying on
- 41:55Speaker 8: me to do your work, then you want me to
- 41:58Speaker 8: provide a subsidy to the work that you're not willing
- 42:01Speaker 8: to do. And if I do that for you, it's
- 42:03Speaker 8: not going to help you, and it's certainly not going
- 42:04Speaker 8: to help me. So it really it's a it's a process,
- 42:08Speaker 8: you know, but it's not I try not to like
- 42:09Speaker 8: cut people off, you know, even if they want me
- 42:12Speaker 8: to do something. Okay, I get that, but that's not
- 42:14Speaker 8: my responsibility. My responsibility is to be a support system,
- 42:17Speaker 8: and it's your responsibility to take on the charge to
- 42:20Speaker 8: do the work.
- 42:21Speaker 12: Baptisms actually checking out, manmpathy, don't cut me, I said you.
- 42:35Speaker 3: Well, we appreciate you guys for this.
- 42:37Speaker 6: Thank you so much.
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