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Season 2 - Episode 184 - Wish list vs goal · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the Chicken Coop.
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  So today we're going to talk about question.
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  My son asked me which is what's the difference between a wish
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  and a goal? And I thought this was so
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  fascinating coming from someone who's 14 years old and just got
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  his first job, saving money, got a checking account savings
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  account and he hears me talking to everybody.
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  He's very aware of self-development having parents
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  involved in this world and his most important.
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  Thing right now is his job, he's loving his job.
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  He's got something working at a friend's place and he is just
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  loving it. So he's asking all kinds of
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  interesting questions in general, but this one was a big
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  one. What's the difference between a
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  wish and a goal? And I thought, well, this is
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  kind of curious. I'm going to answer it for
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  everybody at. I did answer it for him, but let
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  me answer it for everybody because I think it's kind of
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  cool. So, for me, again, these are all
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  very personalized. Things coming here and listening
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  to me. Me in.
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  These are my points of view so you might have differing points
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  of view, or you might have heard it differently, but for me, if I
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  have something on a wish list it means.
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  Oh, that would be so cool. But for some reason, I haven't
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  put that on my goal list one because I'm not sure how and
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  we've talked about how how can squash things, you know, and put
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  it out there and just be like, okay, it's a squash because I
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  don't know how to do it, or it could be that it would be nice
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  but it's like, oh, It's not like my dream to have it.
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  It would be a cool thing. I wish is something that's like
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  oh I wish and but you feel for some reason you've kind of
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  resigned yourself to the fact that's not going to happen.
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  A goal is something that you really have an intention on
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  making happen. You've really put yourself in a
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  place of saying. This is something I'm going to
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  make happen and you're working on the manifestation of it at
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  the same time you're working on the Tickle pieces of it and
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  putting it together and there is a distinct difference.
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  If you have something on that wish list, you think about it
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  and you just say, wow, it's a wish.
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  It doesn't seem real. And so often, I rarely use that
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  word when someone says, you know, I have a wish.
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  I'm like, okay, wait, let's stop.
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  And I actually pull back from that and I pull back from the
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  word dream, too, because sometimes, We all don't realize
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  we do these things, but when we're children will hear the
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  word dream will say, oh, you know, we had bad dream and go
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  into our parents. I had a bad dream and then
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  they're like, oh, it's not real, don't worry about it.
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  And they send us back to our room.
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  And we start to create beliefs around the fact that dreams are
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  not real. Now, it might seem like a very
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  simple thing but it's actually very, very true.
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  And that's what takes place. So we kind of never believed in
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  the word. We never let it sink, and we
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  just kind of Let It Go. And I think it's really
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  important distinction to recognize that the the
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  difference between having the dream, the difference between
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  having the goal. The difference between having
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  the wish the difference between having the goal is, you actually
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  are focused on bringing that into your world, you are
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  actually focused on it, you don't have to know the how in
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  any of the cases but your focus is where it goes and We know
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  where focus goes, energy flows. So if we put our focus on
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  something, we start pouring energy into that direction.
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  And then all of a sudden things start to shift and things start
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  to change. But when you don't have your
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  focus in the right place, it's not going to happen.
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  No matter how hard you try, it's not going to happen and that's
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  the tricky. Part of all of this is like
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  getting very clear on the fact that you can use any word you
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  want, but it's all about Association and it's all about
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  me. So, if you are not clear on what
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  the word dream means to you, or what, the word intention means
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  to you, or what the word goal means to you, or what the word
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  wish list means to you or the words, wish list mean to you,
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  then you need to stop and think about that.
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  What words are you using in? Are you using him words that are
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  empowering you to make these outcomes happen?
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  Because if you're not and you've been programmed, I used to have
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  really wild dreams when I was a kid and they woke me up and I
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  was always scared and I Often slept on my parents, fluoride
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  sneak in and the same thing I would hear all the time dreams
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  stop. It wasn't real.
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  Go back to bed. It was just a dream.
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  It was just a dream. And when you minimalize
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  something like that, you can't use that word, moving forward,
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  thinking that it's going to serve you and give you
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  everything you're looking for. So I really sincerely encourage
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  you to look at this and say okay what words am I using and am I
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  talking about? You know that big thing even
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  using The words bucket list that can be a trap sometimes because
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  you think oh, it's so far away. So, think about the language and
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  see where you come back to and pick something that serves you.
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  All right, my friends. I hope you have a blessed day
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  and I will see you tomorrow. Bye.