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BONUS: The Truth about VPR Seasons 11 and 12 · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hey, babe if Lalla, Welcome to the bonus episode at
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: Begive Them Lalla Podcast. Hi T T. How do you feel?
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: Honestly?
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  Speaker 1: You were great on the regular episode. Oh yeah, you
• 0:18
  Speaker 1: carried that.
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  Speaker 2: No, well, thank you, I will say. When you hunkered
• 0:23
  Speaker 2: down in a house for three days, yeah, and don't leave.
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  Speaker 2: You're excited to do stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, while I'm struggling to put a thought together, you're
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: making me laugh so hard. I always know when you
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  Speaker 1: feel comfortable because your thoughts are pretty effortless and you're
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  Speaker 1: really freaking funny. So I appreciate that. So we recorded
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: the normal episode and then I look at my phone
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  Speaker 1: and Dody posted us following each other. I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: it was that funny.
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  Speaker 2: It's just funny from the previous episode about we were like,
• 1:07
  Speaker 2: let's it's Instagram. Yeah that it doesn't mean him.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's how we all feel, by the way, like
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  Speaker 1: the beef is real when I click unfollowed, and the
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: love is real when I click refollow a follow back.
• 1:21
  Speaker 1: I'm a follow back girl. But I also wanted to
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  Speaker 1: add before we jump into the Q and A because
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  Speaker 1: I completely forgot again that it was recording day. So
• 1:31
  Speaker 1: I just did a Q and A for the bonus,
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  Speaker 1: But she and I were talking Dody and I and
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  Speaker 1: I just and Courtney Berman was here as well, who
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  Speaker 1: I was so excited to see. I hadn't seen her
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: in so long. She's been in the friend group for
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  Speaker 1: many a year. You guys will probably remember her from
• 1:47
  Speaker 1: shooting Brittany's boudoir shoot. So she's really cool. She's fun,
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: she's normal, she's a go getter, born and raised in
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  Speaker 1: Los Angeles. But we were talking about what Trump's beef,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, when someone gets sick, even if you're beefing,
• 2:02
  Speaker 1: you put it aside. Baby's coming into the mix. Beef
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  Speaker 1: gets put to bed, and I would say, obviously death
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  Speaker 1: right beef gets trumped. Anyway, I'm just so thrilled because
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  Speaker 1: once I found out Doty was pregnant, I just have
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  Speaker 1: such a soft spot in my heart for pregnancy, and
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  Speaker 1: there's so many things. As I get older, I learned
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  Speaker 1: that when time passes, you can never get moments back.
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  Speaker 1: So for me, it's like, I'm really bummed. And I
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  Speaker 1: said this to Dody. I was like, I it makes
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  Speaker 1: me really sad that you and I could not be
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  Speaker 1: part of each other's pregnancy journeys. So I really hope
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  Speaker 1: that you'll be at Meredith's shower because it'll never happen again. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and with that, I respect whatever decision you make, but
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  Speaker 1: you're welcome.
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  Speaker 2: To come and it will never happen again. No, even
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  Speaker 2: if you have another baby, that shower it's done, right,
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  Speaker 2: done and done.
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  Speaker 1: And no one does a second baby shower, Like maybe
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  Speaker 1: you do a baby's sprinkle, but still like you don't
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  Speaker 1: do the whole gift thing. It's just like the excitement
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  Speaker 1: in this sounds so rude. I was so excited about Sosa,
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  Speaker 1: but the feeling of the first time becoming a mom,
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  Speaker 1: it's like nothing else. Yeah, Dodi has a very warm heart,
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  Speaker 1: and I will always say that.
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  Speaker 2: I can tell you that even because you guys beefing,
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  Speaker 2: Like even when we would see each other, Me and
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  Speaker 2: she would even make it a point and be like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: how are you Yes, so.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm very happy anyway. The el Green asks thoughts
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  Speaker 1: on the new cast for VPR at sir, Lol, So
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  Speaker 1: I've seen pictures and I don't want anyone to get
• 3:40
  Speaker 1: hung up on the photos because if you remember correctly,
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  Speaker 1: there I think it was season ten. They released the
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  Speaker 1: cast photos of us, you guys, and we all looked
• 3:51
  Speaker 1: so they made Katie's eyes either closer together or something.
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  Speaker 1: They made us all look.
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  Speaker 2: Not like ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: We looked like, yes, I looks like wax figures.
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  Speaker 2: So I know one of the girls that is going
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  Speaker 2: to be on the new season. Okay, and I met
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  Speaker 2: her like a year ago. We've been in touch, we've
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  Speaker 2: seen each other and we call each other on Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: Don't but she is beautiful. Yeah, And I even saw
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  Speaker 2: like the photo of her still looks beautiful, but I
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  Speaker 2: was like, that's not her.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So someone said it all the photo almost looks
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: like someone went into that like AI type thing and
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  Speaker 1: described the old cast and it just shot out images
• 4:37
  Speaker 1: of like what this robot thinks that like James Kennedy
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  Speaker 1: looks like if I were to explain him, or who
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  Speaker 1: uh Arianna or Shina looks like. And then it just
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  Speaker 1: like shot out images and they're like, all right, here's
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  Speaker 1: the cast and like maybe they're missing I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: and eyebrow because I think Shena was missing an eyebrow
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  Speaker 1: in one of the photos. Sounds the cast photos so well,
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  Speaker 1: I have here's the thing I don't want to give
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  Speaker 1: them a hard time. They've got large shoes to fill
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to stepping into a season twelve of
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  Speaker 1: a show that's existed for eleven years, a cast that
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  Speaker 1: people have rocked with.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Easton hot take, Okay, I have a feeling that
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  Speaker 2: they're trying to revamp vander Pump because she wants people
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  Speaker 2: in her restaurant again. Because I've never seen Sir more
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  Speaker 2: dead ever I attend to class near Okay, it's always.
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  Speaker 1: Dead, all right, I'm gonna I'm going to I feel
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  Speaker 1: like back that up with since the pandemic, La is dead.
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  Speaker 1: Praying to God that having so many big events like
• 5:48
  Speaker 1: the Olympics. I think it's the World Cup. I'm praying
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  Speaker 1: that the city gets cleaned up, revived the night like
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  Speaker 1: nightlife is dead.
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  Speaker 2: But let me tell you, but is it dead because.
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  Speaker 1: The pandemic change it?
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  Speaker 2: There is a pandemic, but not even me, Like that's
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  Speaker 2: the thing I just told you in the regular episode
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  Speaker 2: about Miami. Don't I love Miami just for like, I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't think Miami is affected at all.
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  Speaker 2: I like just the geographical area that it is in.
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  Speaker 2: I love that area. I don't like going out. Is
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  Speaker 2: it a new thing with kids not drinking. People just
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  Speaker 2: not go out at night like that is My other thing,
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  Speaker 2: is the night life just dead because of the new
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  Speaker 2: generation not drinking, wanting to go to bed early, like
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  Speaker 2: they take care of their body, they're eating curst.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, The coffee shops are popping.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like mornings, if you really want
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  Speaker 2: to party and go out, it's eight am and grabbing
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  Speaker 2: coffee with your friends. That is right up as right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But that's where I'm saying, like, will a night life
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  Speaker 2: ever be revived if people don't want to go out
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  Speaker 2: at night? Because I'm that person. If you started a club,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going no, no, no no. See. So that's where
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, does LA need to restructure into somehow having
• 7:07
  Speaker 2: an early bird special?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, four thirty to give me the fuck, I will
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  Speaker 1: be there. And by the way, I go to dinner
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  Speaker 1: at four thirty often and it is.
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  Speaker 2: Poppin' right, That's what I'm saying. So I don't think
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  Speaker 2: them it will ever be revived for a night life
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  Speaker 2: in a sense.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think it has anything to do with
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  Speaker 1: the restaurant. I think the Vanner Pump rules is iconic.
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  Speaker 1: They're not ready to give it up. That's give it
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  Speaker 1: a new wave. And I hope that people are kind
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  Speaker 1: and respectful and give Vanner Pump Rules two point zero
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  Speaker 1: a chance.
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  Speaker 2: And well they should. The cast. I mean, like I said,
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  Speaker 2: I know the girl.
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  Speaker 1: New cast did nothing to you.
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  Speaker 2: No, and the new cast will be good. All you
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  Speaker 2: have to do is separate the shows. Yes they're the
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  Speaker 2: same name, but you can't compare the two. They're very different.
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  Speaker 2: Yes that's the number one thing that they have to do.
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  Speaker 2: But even see you next Tuesdays, they're like when it
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  Speaker 2: is packed her so fun the vibe. So I'm excited
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  Speaker 2: for that to hopefully be revived with people going in
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  Speaker 2: to see the cast and things like that, because I'll
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  Speaker 2: be there. I will do fucking vip table though.
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  Speaker 1: All right, I hope I'm saying this right. COLEI Gray.
• 8:14
  Speaker 1: She said, how do you feel motherhood has changed you?
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  Speaker 1: I and you probably wouldn't know this, or maybe you
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  Speaker 1: you have noticed since Uh I've had children. But I
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  Speaker 1: tend to kind of think through things that I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to say or do before I actually say or do them.
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  Speaker 2: Your intentions are very different now.
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  Speaker 1: I do things with intent curiousious. I tend to look
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  Speaker 1: at the repercussions. Not always. I'm still like, I'm still
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  Speaker 1: a person as we all are, but I just think
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: that before I put on an outfit or I do anything,
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  Speaker 1: that's me trying to get my law law back. I
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: feel a little self conscious, which I normally don't feel
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  Speaker 1: that way. And I don't know if that has to
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  Speaker 1: do with kids, but it's like I want to set
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  Speaker 1: a good example. I want to make them proud, but
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  Speaker 1: I also want to be myself still.
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  Speaker 2: And being yourself is going to make them proud. That's
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  Speaker 2: the other thing. Rock on a hard spot. How are
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  Speaker 2: my kids gonna view me? Well, doesn't matter. Be you
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  Speaker 2: and authentically you and your kids will love it.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. When Ocean's giving me a
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  Speaker 1: really hard time and it's like an all day thing
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  Speaker 1: and I have to like really put my foot down,
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: bring down the hammer, and at the end we have
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: our like nightly talk and we say, you know, we're
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: going to do better tomorrow. Mommy loves you. The other night,
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  Speaker 1: she goes, Mom, it's okay. You just have to be
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  Speaker 1: okay with the fact that you weren't a great mom today.
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  Speaker 1: Oh and I'm like, what that is so rude? Well,
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: then you need to be okay with the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you weren't a great kid today.
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  Speaker 2: Do you got that? I got that she's smart enough.
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  Speaker 2: Then I would argue with her.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys, I didn't tell you this
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  Speaker 1: in the regular episode. So with the baby shower, there
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: were a lot of kids here and the playroom is
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  Speaker 1: a mess. All good, that's what a playroom is for.
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  Speaker 1: But I mom made a joke and was like, and
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  Speaker 1: I bet you cleaned up the whole playroom, and she goes, no,
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  Speaker 1: I did not, because, if you think about it, jeej,
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  Speaker 1: I had so many friends up there and we were
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: all making a mess, and so I didn't clean anything
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  Speaker 1: up because what I'm going to do is have another
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  Speaker 1: playdate and make them clean up.
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  Speaker 2: The mess to make it Wow.
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, that is so smart. I thought she was
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: gonna say, we're gonna make it dirty again, But she's
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: gonna bring kids over to delegate and put them to
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: work to clean up her mess. LEFA, that is funny,
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. Lola dot Sarda said, how do I
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: get my crazy ex to stop calling my phone? He
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: won't leave me alone? That's a tough one because I
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: want to say block him, but god forbid, he's crazy
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  Speaker 1: and does something. You need documentation of him calling you
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: a ton of time?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, what is the because she gave me no
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  Speaker 2: harassment three calls after x amount of time? Or what
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: is the it to be out an harassment? Like how
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  Speaker 2: many calls in X amount of time?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a lawyer, so I don't know. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I think what I would say is, if you want
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  Speaker 1: him to stop calling you, you need to send a
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  Speaker 1: text message that says I will not be answering your
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  Speaker 1: phone calls, please leave me alone if he continues to call,
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't trust.
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  Speaker 2: That needs to be good place.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Like I come from back in the day before
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: I experienced a lot of life. It's like my ex
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  Speaker 1: is calling me a ton Like I'm over it. He's annoying,
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  Speaker 1: but like I wasn't in fear. Right now that I've
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: seen some shit, I'm like, I need documentation. I need
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: to put in writing that I want him to stop
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  Speaker 1: calling me. I need to uh let him know that
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  Speaker 1: if he continues, this is what will happen, and then
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: follow through with it. So the only I mean if
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: you're in fear, I would definitely like stay on your toes.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how long he has been or this
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: has been going on, but if it's I mean, if
• 12:09
  Speaker 2: she's been dealing with this for over a month, in
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  Speaker 2: my opinion, I would probably reach out and try to
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: get a restraining order. Yeah, because now you I mean,
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: if you, you probably have enough text calls to be
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: like I am I'm in danger or but then on the.
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  Speaker 1: Flip side and he gets Lodge doesn't freaking protect you
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  Speaker 1: at all. It's like when you watch enough, it's like
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  Speaker 1: a restraining order. So what's that a little piece of
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: paper that says he can't come around? And when he
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: comes around? What do I do? If she has called
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: us she needs like, there's nothing that anyone can do.
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  Speaker 1: You just hope that they're afraid of the law.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, which the only thing that I would say to
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: her is if there's no kids involved in there needs
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: to be known communication and he's just doing it. Change
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: your number.
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: I agree with that. I go back to don't change
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  Speaker 1: your number because you need documentation.
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  Speaker 2: But the document I mean, yes, but he'll get your number,
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  Speaker 2: your new number and you'll get new documentation. Is how
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  Speaker 2: I feel. And if you get a new number and
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: you had your old phone with like the text from
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: the old number, and you get a new one and
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: then you have that, you could be like he see
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  Speaker 2: me twice?
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: Help heap everything. Well, that's what I'm saying exactly, Like,
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: don't turn the phone in because you changed your number
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  Speaker 1: and you kept all your old texts. Oh I certainly did.
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  Speaker 1: I have like three phones with a bunch of on them.
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  Speaker 2: And like you could. Yeah, so that's what I would do.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: Change your number. If he gets the secondary number, that's
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: when you would, in my opinion, reach out for help.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: Right, I agree with you a nik dot gov says
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: Easton what are you looking for in a life partner?
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  Speaker 1: You deserve to find your person.
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  Speaker 2: That is the sweetest thing. And thank you. I really
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: do have to say how many people are sweet to
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: me on this podcast.
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: Oh I love that for you.
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: So thank you to everyone who has been very nice
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: and supportive. Even through the loss of my father, I
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: got a lot of good ride in.
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  Speaker 1: So and even through the dreadlocks.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I forgot I had him.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what you're looking for in a person?
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  Speaker 2: No, I think I'm in. I think I'm in Britain spot.
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  Speaker 1: Doing trying to find yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I need to find my forever me, to
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: find somebody else. And like right now I'm still like
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: trying to figure out what do I actually love, right,
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: and like even like I want to have a career,
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: you know, not that I'm not working my way into one,
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: but like I am in love with fashion, so like
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking I would love to get myself into fashion.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: And I would love somebody world artsy world, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: very yeah, just like somebody like I don't know, it
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: sounds weird, just an imaginary or an imagine imaginative companion
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  Speaker 2: that can be and dream together. I love that and
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: make things happen. But like I look like you want.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: To live in the song A Million Dreams. Yeah, and
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: the Greatest Showman.
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  Speaker 2: But like I want her to have her own things,
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  Speaker 2: so like it's not even like me saying like I
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: don't want to support, It's like I want her to
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  Speaker 2: have her own things so that her confidence is there,
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: she is or her she is her own person.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: Right, You guys don't like your identities don't lie within
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: each other.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not dating you because I'm needing identity and you're
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: not dating me for an identity.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Right again my very first boyfriend. The mom said, you don't.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: It should never be a fifty to fifty thing. It
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: should be two people coming in at one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: to equal two hundred.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think that's just somebody who's you know,
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: can just fit me and just we can just dream together.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you can sit on the couch and watch
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: all the movies in the world.
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  Speaker 2: And I've said it before and I don't know how
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: to it'll come off this time. Either. I want to
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: be with somebody who I can be with but sit
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: silently with. Oh God, like there is nothing better. And
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: that was my ex.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: You know, like me and her would just not our
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: ip like she died, but like the relationship, the relationship.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: Is like me and her could just sit We would
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: watch a show for like three hours and I look
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: at her and just like call her, and she just
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: and call me. Went back and then we got let's eat.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: That's so cute.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: It was just so easy.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but she kind of took your heart through the wringers.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: So she's not the greatest fan, not the biggest fan.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: I will say this before we move on. I get it.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: You are new into sobriety. You have not reached a
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: year and in the program they advise you to stay single.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Stay single a year, yes, and I even so, and
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: it was crazy. I was there's just this girl who
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: I've been talking to who we just go to meetings too,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: like yeah. And I told my sponsor and he was like, well,
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: what is going on? And I was like nothing, I'm
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: just going to meetings and he was like, all right,
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: please let me know if something does, because I'll have
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: things to say. And I was like, okay, but him
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: just to say that, I was like, I'm keeping distance.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to everyone good, but yeah.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: It's what do I have now? Nine months?
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'm bad at math almost you'll hit a
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: year in August. Oh, we got another one from Lola
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Lola dot Sareda also says, how's my hour, girl, Lil Whoa.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: I just took her to Palm Springs.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: She's thriving.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: She's thriving.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Not if you can't walk for shit, but it's fine.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: No, But I was giving her all the love. She
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: didn't need help up getting wet herself. Great, she had
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: two nuggets in the house. But let me tell you,
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: let me tell you I pick her up to go outside.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: She is on her way to the door, and she
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: dropped one right by the door, right out of the door,
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: and then one on her way, and then just dropped
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: one on the grass. So the effort was there.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: You know what. That's all you can ask for, if
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: you think about it. And again, I'm bad at math,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: but I've had her.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: She's twelve thirteen, how old is she forty?
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: She's running the love with her?
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't even tell you, not that ever. Not
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: very handy. You know, her feet are everywhere. She pooped
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: in the corner, okay, and she can't get out of
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: the corner, and so I'm like going over to like
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I'm sprinting.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she almost felt fell in her own ship. Oh no,
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: she saved herself. I didn't even have to do anything.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: You know what, though, I appreciate how much everyone has
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: rallied to take care of her, because she took care
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: of me in like my deepest, darkest moment. She's done
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: with me, though, Yes, she has been riding like a
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: real one from the jump. And then I feel like
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I abandoned her once I had two children. She fell
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: to the back burner. I need to give her love.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: But you and Mom have really stepped up, and I
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: appreciate it.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: But she's great, and she is eating well good well
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: well so lillo.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: She a big old underscore, just Ashley Marie underscore. How
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: do you manage to stay so confident even after becoming
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: a mom? Asking as a mom of two.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Great almost ever?
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I look at them and I'm like, you, guys
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: could pay me a compliment, that'd be cool. I'd like that.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: I feel like all of our family is like that,
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Like Mom wants us to We all need work, and
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: none of us do it because we're like, fuck you,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: you're not giving them to me.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I know it's a give and take. Honestly, Ashley Marie,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I fake it. I truly fake it.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Fake it till you make it, and once you make it,
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: keep faking it.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: No, Like when People's I came onto the screen season
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: four and everyone's like, she's so confident. I'm like, coming,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know who you're talking about. I literally could
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: not be more insecure. I want to hide in a corner.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: But if I show my weakness. These people pray on.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: The Week Vulture Vulture, right, yes, they just waws out.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Circle waiting for me to fall down and look like
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I'm dying. It ain't gonna happen on my watch. It
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: is not gonna happen on my watch. Honestly, take a
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: hot photo, even if you have to edit it and
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: look at it. Sometimes I do that. No, no, I'm
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: not post it, Okay, just like look at it and
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: be like, you know what.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: I saw this editing thing like that you could get
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: and was on Instagram and like this girl takes a
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: picture and like torture whole body. I was like, oh
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: my god, well yeah, not even by women, Like I
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: could get in there and give myself some muscles, and
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: then when you see me, you're like, what is this
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: pit bull that I thought I was meeting? He's a chihuahuah.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: But everyone loves though the El Green says, which of
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: your former Slash current castmates hate when people ask for pictures?
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Slash spot them out. My number one I think would
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: be Jax Taylor. I think he pretends to be annoyed,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: but he also loves like at the same time loves
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: the attention. Stacy she it depends on the day. I
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: think for the most part she would be cool. But
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I think there are times where she's like, I just
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: want to like be left alone, don't come up to me.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just like kicking it with my kids. Totally understandable.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: And then the James can become kind of a dick.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I think he's Katie sometimes gets annoyed as well.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: I think James and zah Er Jacks are in like
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: the same boat of life. Yeah, they love it, but
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: like I'm too big for it.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Right, They're like so fucking annoying. I'm like, well, these
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: people are literally the reason why you're where you are.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: It's almost like I think, like, I'm too big for
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: you to come up to me, but where's my security
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: to protect me. Well, you're in the middle of it,
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: so get ready, buddy, you're going to be coming up
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: on you got security, right, I don't.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Know it's it's a hit or miss, which I'm just
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: gonna say. It could be the addiction. It could be
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: completely different. Now if you've got two people who are
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: sober and they're not coming down coming off.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Well, seeing you know, an ex that you know you had,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: and then like seeing Jack's and like actually him trying
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: to better himself and things like that, Like you can
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: tell that that addiction makes you irritable as fuck. Yeah,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: I've seen it. Yes, firsthand, we didn't know what was
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: going on, but yeah, but now to see it, it's
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: like move, move, move, irritable, irritable, irritable. If you're irritable,
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: we have to do something else.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Because I went to the bathroom and now you're in
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: a great mood. That's kind of weird. But I think
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: you just have a lot of energy. This is strange. Wow,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I just need to make.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Much older than so much.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: I was energy. God, he's just smelling money and he's
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: just got energy. It's crazy money.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: It was so naive.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Wow. Right coming from Utah, I wasn't like just kicking
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: it with coke heads. I was smoking pot and then
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: I meet this guy and he's got energy. I was like,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: fucking la the money, the money get you going? Like,
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: how could you not like waking up getting in your
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: rolls Royce, It's like, how could you not just wake
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: up high? But come to find out he was waking
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: up high than high, then high, but irritable back to
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: the point irritable and that could change for photos.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Yes, I would say the most gracious people for sure,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Well thank you.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I really am saying that like you Sheena for sure,
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: I think Shina is Sheena loves it, Sena loves it.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: But I also will say, even being with Sena and
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: even being with you, if I didn't even know you,
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: it's because I am the same way. We don't have
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: inviting personalities or auras. Like when you look at us,
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: you're not like they're inviting. Let me go say hello.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Sheena is like very easy to come up to, and
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I think that's why, But you don't like it's just
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: the way you are. I think more people would come
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: up to you. When we were in what's it called,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Palm Springs and that girl came up
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: to us at frieda woman and Frida's and she was like, hey,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: I don't want to bother you, but I love you,
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: and she just walked away. Yeah, you know like I
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: feel like that to her was going to be crazy
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: because the area you put off and everybody see this bitch,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: come and say hello, Come and come and say hello,
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: get a photo. She's all about it.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Orals underscore, Oh says how to say spicy and be
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: a mom first baby, feel pressure to be more reserved,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: but I'm a spicy bitch with a chili. I say,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: be spicy.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: No, that's what you want to be. A mom and spicy,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: you can be both.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Don't deny yourself who you are just because you become
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: a mom does not mean, like I think, if you
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: became a mom and you suddenly got like, became reserved,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: be reserved. Don't deny yourself that there's gonna be a
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: day where like the hormones level out. I don't know
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: how long that freaking takes, but I don't think you
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: should deny yourself who you are.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: Who you are in that moment. Yeah.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: And by the way, I don't intentionally think about, uh,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: like should I wear this? Should I not? It's just
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: something that happened to me. I don't particularly enjoy it.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I would like my spice back. I would like to
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: be unfiltered like I used to be.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Be grateful you're in the position to have kids and
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: still still be spicy.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and still, I say rocket, don't feel pressure to
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: be more reserved exactly.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: And if you feel bad about it, all you got
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: to do is look them and go, I'm sorry, I'm spicy.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know why. And now be spicy. You you've
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: cleared the air.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I like spice. What's your favorite and least favorite vacation
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: slash trips you went on for vander pump Roules. This
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: is the easiest. Uh. San Francisco. Hated it, hated it,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: hated it hated all of season eleven. Cried every single day,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: didn't want to film, didn't want to be there, didn't
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: want to do anything. It was torture. So now I
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: can finally say it hated it.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: Well, it's crazy to see like all of these other
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: reality TV shows going to like.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: But by the way, why it was fun? We know,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: but we we had like really nice.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: Lot Emmy, sorry up for an Emmy, and you guys
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: you go to San Francisco.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I think they just knew that the show was probably
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: there was nothing to work with. There was truly nothing
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: to work with. We're gonna take a bunch of people,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: We're gonna drop mad money on a fantastic trip when
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: these people don't even want to be here, Get on
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: a freaking puddle jumper, go to San Francisco, and let's
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: call it if you're making it.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: Go.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like I that day that we wrapped,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so happy. I cried that night,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: pure joy. I was like, it's over the day that
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: we started. I kept telling myself it'll be I just
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: wanted over. I just want it over. And I'd look
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: at how many days we had left. I'm like, oh
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: my god, we still have a fucking month. I can't
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: do it. I would sob them on and being like
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I cannot do this. I cannot do this. When I
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: would get days off, when they'd be like, we don't
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: need you tomorrow, just the best day of it, I'm like,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: you have made my fucking day. Normally, when they're like
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: you have a day off, I'm like, oh, that's a bummer.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I love filming, not season eleven. Nope, give me all that.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Do you want to just cut me now? Like, I'm
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: totally fine with that. You can take the check, don't care,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: have it, bye, don't care, good check.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I don't even need my last page, just have it.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Take it. I'll give one shit. I'm not coming into
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: the office to pick up that check.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: The other one that was really rough was uh, season
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: seven when Dad died and I hadn't been favor and
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I went to Mexico and got wasted and everyone thought
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: I had done molly or ecstasy or whatever the drug
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: is that makes you want people to touch you.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: No, that just called your dad dying.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: No, this is called the Sunday Scaries. And I'm having
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: such bad anxiety that I need someone to punch me
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: in the face to make me think about you punching
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: me in the face and not how I want to
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: crawl out of my.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: Own skin, make me feel something real.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Well, because I I hadn't been drinking. My dad died,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and then I deep dive into the bottle drinking morning
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: until night. It was absolutely horrible. Yeah, it was horrible. Yeah,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: the worst time of my life.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: And that's the thing like back in the day, I
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: really will say, like, I think I've always had a
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: drinking problem. I think it's always been there, Yes, okay,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: but I really like when Dad was alive, I never drank.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I'm literally thinking about it. And the only times I
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: would get absolutely obliterated. Yeah is that your hard rock
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: event or other events where we would do that. Other
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: than that, I would he have to glass of wine
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: with Dad. And after that, boy, oh boy, after I
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: found him, it was seagrims with a twist of lime.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, damn Nike headache. You guys. I hope you enjoyed
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: the episode of the bonus. Thank you for writing in
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: your questions. I hope I gave you impeccable answers. We'll
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: catch you on Wednesday for the regular episode and next
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: week for the bonus.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Bye.