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Best Motivational Compilation – Focus on You and Unlock Limitless Success · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: We become what we think about.
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  Speaker 2: Focus on what you want rather than focusing on what
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  Speaker 2: you don't want or who do you want to be?
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  Speaker 1: You know, did why are you here on this planet?
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  Speaker 2: You live according to the principles of love, compassion, you know,
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  Speaker 2: appreciative joy, you know, celebrating other people's successes. But how
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  Speaker 2: do you overcome hatred and confusion and just having a
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  Speaker 2: good heart? Then I think that's what happened to me.
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  Speaker 2: Then I start to get clear about what what I
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  Speaker 2: like to do and how I could be a service,
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  Speaker 2: how can.
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  Speaker 1: I help other people? That we were wired for success.
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  Speaker 1: But it's how we relate.
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  Speaker 2: To our experience that determines whether we're we're chipping away
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  Speaker 2: or we're you know, kind of burying that sense of
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  Speaker 2: wholeness that we that we're born with. It's just that
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  Speaker 2: we we we forget it. We don't look inside, we're
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  Speaker 2: looking outside. And so unless we're still and we think
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  Speaker 2: about it and we understand that I was born with
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  Speaker 2: this masterpiece and no one can give it to me
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  Speaker 2: or take it away.
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  Speaker 1: It's an inside job.
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  Speaker 2: And so if I look at what's right, it makes
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  Speaker 2: makes a lot of sense. So it's whether you're coming
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  Speaker 2: from a place of scarcity or I would say survival
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  Speaker 2: mode or coming from growth.
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  Speaker 1: Mode, which has to do with it.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I can yes to life, and I have the
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  Speaker 2: capacity and the responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: To make it different or to make it make it better.
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  Speaker 2: Having that faith, that vulnerability to just see things that
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  Speaker 2: are hard to see. Got to get comfortable being uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 2: So can you handle the truth? There's a question. And
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  Speaker 2: if you can't, then you If you see that, then
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  Speaker 2: you can say, well, if I'm going to change, I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna have to figure out how to deal with that
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  Speaker 2: discomfort until the point.
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  Speaker 1: That I can see what I need to see, then
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  Speaker 1: I can change.
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  Speaker 2: It is the persistence of continuing to do something until
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  Speaker 2: you can do it is most of the work is
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  Speaker 2: just continuing to make mistakes, learn from mistakes. But the
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  Speaker 2: mistakes are you as feedback, not as I'm a failure.
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  Speaker 2: It's just an event now who we are, So that
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  Speaker 2: error correction is really important. And when you can see it,
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  Speaker 2: when you attribute it to something you can learn or change,
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  Speaker 2: now you've got faith and confidence to do it, versus
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  Speaker 2: if you're seeing it like oh I'm just not strong enough,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not tall enough, and.
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  Speaker 1: All of that that's just.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I call a negative communitee telling you you
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  Speaker 2: can't do anything, rather than saying, well, let me see
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  Speaker 2: what I can do.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like a child learned how to walk right,
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  Speaker 1: same thing.
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  Speaker 3: Your life can change. Your life can be more than
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  Speaker 3: just a police It can be your future, your success.
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  Speaker 3: This change, this change takes courage. It takes courage to
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  Speaker 3: stand up and break down the aspects of your life
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  Speaker 3: that you know is holding you back. Let your progress
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  Speaker 3: be idolized, let it speak for itself.
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  Speaker 4: Average becomes sort of like this slow asphyxiation. It's almost
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  Speaker 4: like an anesthetic, and that over time we become kind
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  Speaker 4: of immune, indulled to the average that we're becoming.
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  Speaker 5: I know this is true at least for me. You
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  Speaker 5: probably experience it yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Too, and so over time we sort of minimize where
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  Speaker 4: we're at. In other words, I'm a little pudgy instead
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  Speaker 4: of being no, you're fat ass right. You don't magnify
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  Speaker 4: the degree to which the pain ought to be affecting you.
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  Speaker 4: And so really, what he means in that is, listen,
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  Speaker 4: you're going to get out of your life what you'll accept.
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  Speaker 4: That's really difficult for people to think to understand is, look,
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  Speaker 4: what you think you're worth and what you're going to
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  Speaker 4: tolerate is absolutely what you're going to bring into your
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  Speaker 4: life and what the outward part of your life is
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  Speaker 4: going to look like. And so I live by that,
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  Speaker 4: like I let myself sort of feel the pain and
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  Speaker 4: the difficulty of being not where I want to be
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  Speaker 4: and whatever that areas with it to be like spirit, ruality,
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  Speaker 4: my relationships, my money. I let myself feel that pain because,
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  Speaker 4: as you know, there's two motivators, right, there's the gaining
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  Speaker 4: of pleasure, right, wanting to go get something, chasing the dream.
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  Speaker 4: But then there's the avoidance of pain. And for a
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  Speaker 4: lot of champions, that's a pretty big driving force for them.
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  Speaker 4: And so at least for me, I leverage both of
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  Speaker 4: those things on me to get myself to take action.
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  Speaker 4: One of the reasons I'm relatively fit is not just
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  Speaker 4: peak state.
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  Speaker 1: I have an uncle in my.
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  Speaker 4: Family that died at fifty years old of a heart attacks,
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  Speaker 4: my godfather, my dad's only brother. I kind of resembled him,
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  Speaker 4: and I looked like I'm a lot so on the
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  Speaker 4: way back from his funeral. My reticular activators on heart
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  Speaker 4: attacks on the TV screen on the airplane. I'm listening
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  Speaker 4: to music. Is the Oprah Winfrey show. She's going through
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  Speaker 4: a new heart scan. I unplugged my headphones, plug it
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  Speaker 4: into the airplane. One I scheduled it. I went in.
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  Speaker 4: I had a world class doctor who understood reasons and
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  Speaker 4: leverage instead of just prescribing. Because when we coach, well,
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  Speaker 4: you need to do this, you need to says that
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  Speaker 4: the doctors do it. Take this pill, take this. He
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  Speaker 4: understood leverage and reasons. What you do is you take
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  Speaker 4: the scan, then you go to lunch, you come back.
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  Speaker 4: I took the scan, I went to I had a burrito.
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  Speaker 4: I came back and I'm in the law. When I
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  Speaker 4: walk in, I sit down. The doctor comes out and
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  Speaker 4: he says, oh my, I can't believe these arteries are in.
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  Speaker 4: That young body got my attention. We walk back in,
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  Speaker 4: We sit down. He could still go, you need cresstoor,
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  Speaker 4: eat clean, get out of here. Is that what an
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  Speaker 4: average doctor does, right? No, wired me with huge reasons.
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  Speaker 4: He goes, let me ask you a question. I heard
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  Speaker 4: your wife's pregnant. You I said, I have a son,
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  Speaker 4: and he says, do you want to be there? When
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  Speaker 4: he graduates from high school to be there for that day.
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  Speaker 4: I said, yes, sir, yeah. He goes, your wife's pregnant.
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  Speaker 4: What do you have? And I said, a daughter. This
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  Speaker 4: is where you get a dad. He goes, she was
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  Speaker 4: six months pregnant. He goes, do you would you like
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  Speaker 4: to walk her down the aisle on her wedding day?
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  Speaker 4: Or are you okay that it's some other man? I went,
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  Speaker 4: what the was on this scan?
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  Speaker 1: Right like?
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  Speaker 4: And he goes, I want to be very clear with you.
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  Speaker 4: If you keep going down the ro you're going there'll
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  Speaker 4: be some other man with your son at graduation high
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  Speaker 4: school and a stranger's walking your daughter down the out
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  Speaker 4: it's not even born yet on her wedding day. And
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  Speaker 4: I went to boom and he goes, but if you
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  Speaker 4: do exactly what I tell you to do, you'll be there.
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  Speaker 4: And so to this day, brother, there are mornings when
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  Speaker 4: I wake up, not every morning I don't want to
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  Speaker 4: go to the gym. I go Bell's wedding, Belle's wedding,
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  Speaker 4: Belle's wedding. So my standards are high because of my
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  Speaker 4: big old reasons. Other dudes may miss the gym that
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  Speaker 4: day because they're not going to miss their daughter's wedding
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  Speaker 4: if they don't go. But I've convinced myself again emotional,
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  Speaker 4: I've convinced myself I'll miss my daughter's wedding. So I
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  Speaker 4: will get my ass out of bed at four o'clock
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  Speaker 4: in the morning and I will get to that gym.
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  Speaker 4: Because my reasons are bigger, so my standards are higher.
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  Speaker 4: So that's what I think causes us to have great
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  Speaker 4: standards is huge reasons.
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  Speaker 6: When you're inspired by something or someone in your life,
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  Speaker 6: you feel the magic. Now's the time to be the magic.
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  Speaker 6: What are you going to do. Are you going to
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  Speaker 6: let the masters inspire you to feel it or are
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  Speaker 6: you going to strive to be a master. It's your choice.
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  Speaker 6: The magic is waiting not only for you just to
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  Speaker 6: feel it, but to be it. Nobody can take this away.
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  Speaker 7: I mean life, and can't escape anything that goes on
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  Speaker 7: with life.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we all are not immunity of.
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  Speaker 7: Problems or drama or trauma, a tragedy.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we're all.
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  Speaker 7: Here as human beings. So you know, when you're going
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  Speaker 7: through some sort of difficulties, you know, first find out
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  Speaker 7: whatever that difficulty they be. You know, you know we
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  Speaker 7: do with within your power in terms of how to
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  Speaker 7: start slowly, you know, get yourself out of that situation
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  Speaker 7: and you believe you be optimistic about it. You know,
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  Speaker 7: being negative about a situation and staying in that place
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  Speaker 7: it never helps. You know, it's nothing wrong with understanding
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  Speaker 7: that place, feeling bad about it, looking at it for
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  Speaker 7: what it is, but.
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  Speaker 1: Don't stay there.
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  Speaker 7: Gotta get back on that other side and start looking
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  Speaker 7: at the resolved resolution of it, or how can I
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  Speaker 7: get back to feeling good and feeling prosperous again to
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  Speaker 7: where I'm not dealing with this obstacle. Words are very powerful,
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  Speaker 7: very powerful. So the thing is about getting within yourself
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  Speaker 7: and understanding who you are to kind of you know,
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  Speaker 7: ward off those negative comments that's coming towards adversually always
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  Speaker 7: prepare you. You know, you have to go through those
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  Speaker 7: things in order to see the light of the t
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  Speaker 7: the end of the the light at the end of
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  Speaker 7: the tunnel. You know, I don't think anything is gonna
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  Speaker 7: just be like this throughout your life.
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  Speaker 8: You know, you have to go through that difficult.
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  Speaker 7: Overcome obstacle, you know, because it's it. It's a testament
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  Speaker 7: of your character or who you are and how you
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  Speaker 7: have to deal with things, you know, to get yourself
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  Speaker 7: back on that playing field. Everything happened for a reason.
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  Speaker 7: No regrets. All the negative things that happen. I'm thankful
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  Speaker 7: for it because I learned. Hopefully I learned from those
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  Speaker 7: situations and all the positive things. I'm humbly grateful that
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  Speaker 7: those able to take place, and still striving to be
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  Speaker 7: the best I can be, and you know, going forward,
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  Speaker 7: hopefully I can then carry some kid to be the
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  Speaker 7: best they can be. You know, anything is possible. Positive
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  Speaker 7: thinking is also translated to them, you know. So you know,
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  Speaker 7: when you have something that's positive about that, you can be,
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  Speaker 7: you know, the best you can be. You know, when
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  Speaker 7: you're negative out there, I mean you can bring down
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  Speaker 7: the worst person.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Misery loves company.
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  Speaker 7: You know, misery loves company. So we were not Debbie
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  Speaker 7: down as we more uplifters. You know, we always no
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  Speaker 7: matter what the situation, with the situation, then we're gonna
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  Speaker 7: try to look for the outcome the better of that situation.
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  Speaker 7: You know, if we can't find a resolution to get
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  Speaker 7: out of it, you know, we're gonna keep on searching
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  Speaker 7: to continue to try to find a resolution to get
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  Speaker 7: out of it, because that's what you do. You know,
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  Speaker 7: that's how you get to the bottom of That's how
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  Speaker 7: you get to the facts and the ass Are.
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  Speaker 9: You willing to fight? Are you willing to graft? Are
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  Speaker 9: you willing to be the warrior? Bring your shield, bring
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  Speaker 9: your swords, stand up and fight. Today will be the
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  Speaker 9: day where you can take control. Take control of your power.
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  Speaker 9: Become this power, because now is the time to fight.
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  Speaker 1: You're a warrior.
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  Speaker 3: Warriors don't give up and they don't back down. Become
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  Speaker 3: the warrior. Transform your life, transform yourself. Head out into battle,
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  Speaker 3: Step onto the battlefield. Use your weapons to fight through
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  Speaker 3: this pain, fight through the rejection. Learn from the bruise,
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  Speaker 3: is the blood scars, because this time you can rise
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  Speaker 3: to become the victor. Step onto the playing field because now.
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  Speaker 10: Is the time to change.
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  Speaker 3: Now is the time to rise with the crown.
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  Speaker 10: On your head.
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  Speaker 11: You know you want to be a little bit better
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  Speaker 11: in some way tomorrow than you are today. But it's
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  Speaker 11: not going to be in a linear path. Again, these
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  Speaker 11: go through cycles of stress and recovery, so it's just
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  Speaker 11: kind of being able to surf the flow of that
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  Speaker 11: and know again it's it's really comes down to balance.
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  Speaker 11: So it's the practices that you need to know what
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  Speaker 11: to do for sure, and then you need to know
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  Speaker 11: how to apply those things in the right way, so
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  Speaker 11: when to push and when to take the pressure off
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  Speaker 11: the gas as well.
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  Speaker 8: And I think that's really understanding that.
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  Speaker 11: So part of it is the knowledge, and then part
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  Speaker 11: of it is the follow through, and then part of
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  Speaker 11: it is the discipline to know not only when you
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  Speaker 11: need to go, but when you need to rest. I
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  Speaker 11: think it's important to really trust that what you're doing
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  Speaker 11: is going to work.
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  Speaker 8: What's a day that makes life awesome.
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  Speaker 11: And it makes you again a little bit better tomorrow
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  Speaker 11: from having done it today. You have to really do
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  Speaker 11: the work, like you have to back it with hard work,
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  Speaker 11: you know. And if you ask Connor McGregor, like, what's
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  Speaker 11: the secret to his success? Hard work, hard work, hard work.
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  Speaker 11: I don't know if he actually worked harder than anybody,
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  Speaker 11: but he believes he does. You know, he has no
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  Speaker 11: doubts in his mind that he's actually working harder. And
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  Speaker 11: that's I think important. So really making sure that you
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  Speaker 11: really do your best to get the goods, you know,
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  Speaker 11: and to practice that and to go out there and
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  Speaker 11: put yourself out there. And then on the other side.
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  Speaker 11: What is the thing? What is the antagonist of belief? Well,
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  Speaker 11: the antagonist of belief is fear.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 11: Fear is a belief that something negative is going to
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  Speaker 11: happen rather than something positive is going to happen. So
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  Speaker 11: it's like that's on the other side, you're almost believing
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  Speaker 11: in your failure, right, rather than believing in your success.
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  Speaker 11: So you have to go attack and collapse these different fears.
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  Speaker 11: And part of that is going to be sucking out
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  Speaker 11: the penalty if you fail, right, because like a lot
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  Speaker 11: of the fear comes because we're afraid that we're going
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  Speaker 11: to judge ourselves harshly or whatever.
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  Speaker 8: So you got to realize, like.
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  Speaker 11: There is no such thing as failure, there's just learning, right,
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  Speaker 11: So you collapse the penalty for failure, so that collapses
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  Speaker 11: the fear, which.
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  Speaker 1: Allows you to believe even more.
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  Speaker 11: So that's one way to do it, and the other
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  Speaker 11: way is to just look at fear itself and play
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  Speaker 11: out the different scenarios.
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  Speaker 8: Know that you're going to be fine again, forgive.
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  Speaker 11: Yourself always, and really also just attack fear wherever you
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  Speaker 11: see it, even when it's trivial, even when it's some
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  Speaker 11: kind of we were just before the before we got
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  Speaker 11: on here, we talked about the fear of the number thirteen, trigatricophobia,
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  Speaker 11: Like if you're afraid of thirteen, you know what you
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  Speaker 11: need to do. You need to put thirteen's all of
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  Speaker 11: your house. You know, you need to like sit in thirteens,
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  Speaker 11: you need to go to the thirteenth, demand to be
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  Speaker 11: on the thirteenth floor of every hotel, in every airplane,
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  Speaker 11: because you got to get over that shit, because that
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  Speaker 11: is telling yourself that there's something irrational that should control you.
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  Speaker 11: And if you believe there's something that's irrational that should
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  Speaker 11: control you, that will apply universally. So wherever you find
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  Speaker 11: fear specifically that's out of balance with actual danger, Like
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  Speaker 11: I'm not saying touch a hot stove or put your
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  Speaker 11: hand in a rattle snake cage, like there's danger there
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  Speaker 11: that's not fear, But thirteen no danger.
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  Speaker 8: You know that's not real. So go collapse that.
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  Speaker 11: If the fear of crickets like I have, or fear
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  Speaker 11: of like whatever it is, collapse fear wherever you see it,
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  Speaker 11: and that specific collapse will help with the universal collapse
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  Speaker 11: of fear in general. You just got to understand them.
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  Speaker 11: The only thing that you're responsible for is your best. Like,
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  Speaker 11: you can't do better than your best. You just do
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  Speaker 11: your best. And if you try to obsess too much,
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  Speaker 11: you're not doing your best.
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  Speaker 8: You're going to be paralyzed.
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  Speaker 11: Right, So you have to get as much information as
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  Speaker 11: you can make the most educated choice. Make sure that
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  Speaker 11: you're not choosing based on ego or emotion or you know,
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  Speaker 11: greed or these other forces. Is that delude you and
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  Speaker 11: prevent you from thinking clearly. But if you do your
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  Speaker 11: best and you fail, like, what are you going to do?
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  Speaker 11: Beat yourself up for that? Like that doesn't make any sense.
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  Speaker 11: If you're doing your best, if you're really laying it
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  Speaker 11: out there, there's nothing nothing more you can do. And
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  Speaker 11: that's I think that that's really the key is just
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  Speaker 11: to constantly rest and rely on that fact that I'm
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  Speaker 11: doing my best.
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  Speaker 8: Then there's nothing more than that.
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  Speaker 11: You know, you have to really appreciate where you are
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  Speaker 11: in the journey and say, yeah, where you are is awesome,
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  Speaker 11: but you could be better, because that's the process is
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  Speaker 11: becoming better, right, So it's not judging it externally by
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  Speaker 11: any other criteria, because every step is good, but the
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  Speaker 11: process of striving for more to process, to really unveiling
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  Speaker 11: who you are to an even greater degree, to getting
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  Speaker 11: cleaner and clearer and more full and more robust and
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  Speaker 11: the best version of yourself. Like that process is a
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  Speaker 11: beautiful process. I think it's one of the reasons why
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  Speaker 11: we're here. It feels the best, feels the best to
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  Speaker 11: be continuing on the path. But that doesn't mean that
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  Speaker 11: you look forward to a point in the path, say
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  Speaker 11: when I get there, I'll love myself. When I get there,
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  Speaker 11: I'll I've made it. Like love yourself where you are,
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  Speaker 11: wherever you are. That's awesome, But still strive for more,
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  Speaker 11: because the striving is the journey. It's always the striving.
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  Speaker 11: If we were able to do like even a fraction
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  Speaker 11: of the things we know we should, we would all
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  Speaker 11: be badasses, you know. But there's so many things you
• 16:28
  Speaker 11: talk to people, Yeah I should be doing that, Yeah
• 16:30
  Speaker 11: I should be doing that. I know I should be
• 16:31
  Speaker 11: I should be meditating. Yeah I know I should be
• 16:33
  Speaker 11: doing this. I should be eating better, I should be
• 16:35
  Speaker 11: doing this. We all know what we want to do
• 16:39
  Speaker 11: to be the best version of ourselves, but for whatever reason,
• 16:41
  Speaker 11: we don't do it, you know. And there's a lot
• 16:43
  Speaker 11: of reasons why, but we're not doing it. And so
• 16:46
  Speaker 11: the ability to choose and actually decide what you're going
• 16:50
  Speaker 11: to do, to be the nog well, to be the
• 16:51
  Speaker 11: art and say, oh, well, if I believe I should meditate,
• 16:54
  Speaker 11: then I'll meditate, and just collapsing that I know I
• 16:58
  Speaker 11: should with actually doing it, that is a superpower. That's
• 17:02
  Speaker 11: what defines the greatest performers from the people who haven't
• 17:07
  Speaker 11: quite made it yet.
• 17:08
  Speaker 8: It's really their ability to say, oh, if.
• 17:10
  Speaker 11: I should train now, I will. Oh if I should
• 17:11
  Speaker 11: eat like this, I will. Oh if I should do this, okay,
• 17:13
  Speaker 11: then I will. It's collapsing that knowing what you should
• 17:17
  Speaker 11: do and actually doing it and making that one. And
• 17:20
  Speaker 11: that's ultimately the choice. We have way more power than
• 17:27
  Speaker 11: we recognize and what people will tell us that we have,
• 17:29
  Speaker 11: so stepping into that power and deciding for ourselves what
• 17:33
  Speaker 11: we want.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: To do with it.
• 17:38
  Speaker 10: What's on is it right now?
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: Look at it?
• 17:41
  Speaker 10: Face it, stand up to it. What do you see?
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: What did that number say to you? How much of
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: this number have you wasted wasted on waiting waiting for? What?
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: What is it that you're waiting for? How much do
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: you want it? Ask yourself. What's more valuable waiting or
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: your time? Your power and your action. This is where
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: your journey starts. This is where you grow, grow, adapt,
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: improve to become the person you admire. This is you,
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: This can be you. Stop failing to respond, to react.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: This is how you shape your life, how you construct
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: your future. Make this what it is, your success. All
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: this work. Now are the steps before you break the
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: ribbon at the finished line. This is your opportunity to change,
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: change towards a better life, towards a life where you
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: are the director, where you are the power, the power
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: that drives you forward to success, the power that defines
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: your life now, that defines your legacy, your future. This
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: is the time to become something more than ordinary, something
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: outside realm of expected, because you're more than you always
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: have been.
• 19:05
  Speaker 10: But in order for you to become this, you need
• 19:07
  Speaker 10: to work.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: You need to want it so much it pushes you,
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: pushes you outside your comfort zone.
• 19:14
  Speaker 10: This is where it starts.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: This is where you become something, something better than now,
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Where you build a life for yourself, one where you
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: hold the reins, where you make the final cut, where
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: you have that power. You deserve this, you deserve to
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: feel fulfilled, proud and excited for this newfound success. You
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: will and can embody your future, your legacy. Your life
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: can transform into the paradise you've always imagined it could be.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Your life can change. Your life can be more than
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: just a place. It can be your future, your success.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: This change, This change takes courage. It takes courage to
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: stand up and break down the aspects of your life
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: that you know is holding you back. Let your progress
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: be idolized, Let it speak for itself. Let it leave
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: a mark so deep it can never be erased. This
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: den can have such a positive influence on your life
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: that it can transform your future. Transform your life using
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: the potential you know you've always had. Make your life
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: worth remembering, Make it worth the pain it took, the
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: hours it used, the effort put in. Know to take
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: pride in your work. Know that your life can break
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: all possibilities, break all boundaries, and become something beyond any expectations.
• 20:50
  Speaker 9: You've been let down, You face rejection, and you failed. Fortunately,
• 20:56
  Speaker 9: when you hit that point, the only place to go
• 20:59
  Speaker 9: is up. I want you to imagine that your life
• 21:02
  Speaker 9: is a tree. The failure that you've just faced is
• 21:05
  Speaker 9: actually a seed. And it's a seed that's gonna grow
• 21:08
  Speaker 9: your potential. The light you need is your mindset, and
• 21:12
  Speaker 9: the water is your strength. Because the rejection you feel
• 21:16
  Speaker 9: right now is sprouting your success. And in order for
• 21:20
  Speaker 9: you to grow, you need to feel the pain. The
• 21:23
  Speaker 9: pain of the struggle is more than just some dark
• 21:26
  Speaker 9: place you go to. It's actually a starting place, a
• 21:29
  Speaker 9: place to begin trying, and a place that you start
• 21:31
  Speaker 9: to improve. And that improvement can be the start of
• 21:35
  Speaker 9: the making of your success. Look at me, You're not
• 21:37
  Speaker 9: five feet under, You're five feet higher than any position
• 21:40
  Speaker 9: you've ever been in. Man, stop bringing yourself down. Start
• 21:45
  Speaker 9: learning that you are more than just your mistakes. In fact,
• 21:48
  Speaker 9: they make you, They make you grow, and they make
• 21:51
  Speaker 9: you branch out into a stronger and more courageous person.
• 21:55
  Speaker 9: Give yourself the space to grow, Give yourself the space
• 21:58
  Speaker 9: to grow into a better and a more successful pers
• 22:00
  Speaker 9: because see, your potential is sprouting. You got a better
• 22:03
  Speaker 9: foundation now because those roots are dug deep into the ground.
• 22:06
  Speaker 9: And if something breaks you down, know that you can
• 22:09
  Speaker 9: grow further past the point you were at before, because
• 22:12
  Speaker 9: this streak can only grow taller, bigger, and stronger because
• 22:15
  Speaker 9: you are stronger now so you've got to know that
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: this isn't a setback. This is just another ingredient that
• 22:21
  Speaker 9: you need for the success that's coming your way.
• 22:25
  Speaker 12: It really is stop making excuses, take control of your situation,
• 22:30
  Speaker 12: and rise to your potential. Man, I don't think that
• 22:33
  Speaker 12: we would be here if we didn't have a purpose.
• 22:35
  Speaker 12: I can tell you that.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: It's our job to develop that purpose.
• 22:39
  Speaker 12: It's our job to find and hone in and craft
• 22:42
  Speaker 12: that purpose. And the purpose is usually crafted through some
• 22:45
  Speaker 12: level of suffering. It's the hero's journey, right like in film.
• 22:49
  Speaker 12: You know the hero, he's down and out and he
• 22:52
  Speaker 12: loses the girl in the house and he goes on
• 22:55
  Speaker 12: this journey and he finds strength and wisdom and knowledge
• 22:57
  Speaker 12: and comes back and is now the hero. We have
• 23:00
  Speaker 12: to go through that level of suffering. There's this hunger
• 23:06
  Speaker 12: that everyone has, and it's always neutered by family, by teachers,
• 23:18
  Speaker 12: by culture. And I believe you wouldn't be put on
• 23:21
  Speaker 12: this planet if you didn't have this hunger and if
• 23:24
  Speaker 12: you explore this hunger. And for me, it was then
• 23:28
  Speaker 12: being a fat kid, being a foreigner, and then a
• 23:30
  Speaker 12: fat kid, and then fixing my problems and then realizing
• 23:32
  Speaker 12: I have the solution to other people's weight loss problems.
• 23:35
  Speaker 12: For someone else, it might be a financial thing. They
• 23:39
  Speaker 12: fix their financial problems and they realize they can help
• 23:42
  Speaker 12: everyone else's financial problems. But you have to go through
• 23:44
  Speaker 12: the suffering. You have to be hungry enough to deal
• 23:48
  Speaker 12: with the pain and come out the other side with
• 23:51
  Speaker 12: some scars because scar tissue is infinitely more resilient than
• 23:56
  Speaker 12: regular tissue. But again it goes back to most people
• 23:59
  Speaker 12: feel like, Yeah, I think there's something great in me,
• 24:01
  Speaker 12: but I don't want to explore it.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: I want to play it safe.
• 24:04
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna stay bubble wrapped.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I don't want to risk it.
• 24:07
  Speaker 12: But we wouldn't be put on this planet if we
• 24:08
  Speaker 12: didn't have this greater thing to accomplish. Now, some of
• 24:11
  Speaker 12: us are gonna be elon Musk and we're gonna shoot
• 24:13
  Speaker 12: a Pesla to the Mars, right, and that's okay. And
• 24:16
  Speaker 12: others are going to create a fitness franchise or a
• 24:19
  Speaker 12: supplement company that actually delivers great nutrients that help people
• 24:23
  Speaker 12: to optimize their performance. Whatever your purpose is, you've got
• 24:29
  Speaker 12: to develop it. You've got to develop it. But you
• 24:32
  Speaker 12: wouldn't be put on this planet if you didn't have it.
• 24:34
  Speaker 12: I'm convinced of that. Not enough people are willing to
• 24:39
  Speaker 12: build that mental emotional toughness, and the moment they do,
• 24:43
  Speaker 12: they'll persevere. Nothing happens until you get done. Everyone's got
• 24:50
  Speaker 12: a great idea. It'll make me this many millions, and
• 24:51
  Speaker 12: it'll help this many people. Nothing happens til you get
• 24:54
  Speaker 12: that done. Put yourself in a position where you're gonna thrive,
• 24:58
  Speaker 12: not where it's gonna be comfortable. Right, get done. I
• 25:04
  Speaker 12: believe we all are raised as fighter jets. Just we
• 25:07
  Speaker 12: get neutered by parents, by grandparents because of the filters
• 25:11
  Speaker 12: they had and viewed life through the experiences they had.
• 25:15
  Speaker 12: Teachers who go you don't want to disappoint yourself, just
• 25:17
  Speaker 12: go to college, Go get a good job, go to college.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Don't go to college today. Don't go to college.
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  Speaker 12: It's the worst thing you can do unless you're gonna
• 25:24
  Speaker 12: be a doctor or an attorney in an accountant or
• 25:27
  Speaker 12: you know, some kind of an architect. Don't go to college.
• 25:29
  Speaker 12: You can do a lot more in life without going
• 25:31
  Speaker 12: to college. And so again, teachers, professors will end up
• 25:34
  Speaker 12: neutering us. And when they take they take that fighter jet,
• 25:37
  Speaker 12: that hunger, the clause and things they defand us.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: All right, so now we're crop dusters. Why don't want
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: to take too many risks?
• 25:43
  Speaker 12: I just want to live a good life, and they
• 25:45
  Speaker 12: want to be average and mediocre. That's the crop duster.
• 25:48
  Speaker 12: Yet everyone inside has this hunger. See the fighter jet
• 25:51
  Speaker 12: didn't go away, it's just been suppressed.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: You've been neutered.
• 25:55
  Speaker 12: And that was me, like, hey, don't take big grides,
• 25:57
  Speaker 12: just go get a good job, go be a smock technician.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Like that was the I saw.
• 26:00
  Speaker 12: I was going to go be a smock technician. Society, parents, whoever,
• 26:03
  Speaker 12: have set the standard for you to not play it safe,
• 26:05
  Speaker 12: hick risks.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: What if you lose? What if you lose? Who cares?
• 26:09
  Speaker 12: As long as you don't die, you can come right back.
• 26:11
  Speaker 12: And so the fighter jet mentality is that someone who
• 26:14
  Speaker 12: is just determined, relentlessly obsessed and achieving an outcome in
• 26:19
  Speaker 12: the face of all adversity.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: The crop duster.
• 26:23
  Speaker 12: Is someone who's always looking for the easiest path, the.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Loophole, which what I used to be a severe crop duster.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: The crop duster hits.
• 26:29
  Speaker 12: The snooze button every day because they'd rather take ten
• 26:31
  Speaker 12: more minutes of mediocre sleep than getting up and dominating
• 26:34
  Speaker 12: their path. Every morning, on my nightstand, there's two stacks
• 26:37
  Speaker 12: of dominoes lined up, and at the top of this
• 26:39
  Speaker 12: stack says you're a loser. To the top of this
• 26:42
  Speaker 12: one says you're a winner. If I hit the snooze button,
• 26:45
  Speaker 12: I've hit that first domino and the loser stack. The
• 26:47
  Speaker 12: rest of my day is going to suck. Now with
• 26:48
  Speaker 12: that mentality, am I going to ever hit snooze again?
• 26:50
  Speaker 12: Absolutely not, because I've sold myself on the idea that
• 26:54
  Speaker 12: when I hit the snooze button, I'm an absolute loser.
• 26:57
  Speaker 12: I'm scum of the earth. I am the day is
• 27:00
  Speaker 12: destined to be shitty. Now some people are you're being
• 27:02
  Speaker 12: off and herd on yourself. More people should be hard
• 27:05
  Speaker 12: on themselves. We go around bubble wrapping ourselves.
• 27:07
  Speaker 13: Right.
• 27:07
  Speaker 12: We leave the training bills on for too long, like
• 27:10
  Speaker 12: be hard on yourself, take the bubble wrap off, take
• 27:12
  Speaker 12: your training wheels off. No one did that for me. Now,
• 27:15
  Speaker 12: be a fighter jet. Be a fighter jet, go to
• 27:17
  Speaker 12: battle every day, take risks. That's what a fighter jet does.
• 27:20
  Speaker 12: A crop deester has a routine life and it's boring.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Every day is a new opportunity to change your life.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: Every day is a new opportunity to make your life
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: a better place to live in. Your life is at stake.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: Think right now, what you've done differently from the things
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: you did yesterday. Perhaps you got up an hour earlier,
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: maybe you meditated.
• 27:49
  Speaker 10: Or you went to the gym.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: If you know that you haven't made any change today,
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: then make this your day.
• 27:56
  Speaker 10: Take this opportunity.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Change. You're better than you were yesterday because you know
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: that today and the day after that you will make progress.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: You will know that you put in the work that
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: you earn the improvement.
• 28:13
  Speaker 14: You need to.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: Push yourself so you feel the satisfaction that you've made
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: further and further past your original routine, further and further
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: past your failure. There is nothing else you can do
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: but work to work harder and harder. The struggle is
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: the only way you know you're going to succeed. Take
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: this new opportunity and make this change.
• 28:37
  Speaker 10: In your life.
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: You will be better.
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: Take this risk, take this opening. This is the time
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: to make your life a better place. To make your
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: future a place where you can see yourself achieving a
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: future where your life is somewhere where you can create
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: your own empire. Know that not all of your self
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: successes has to be exposed or flaunted. Be humble. That's
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: even more important than the progress you've made. Use your
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: success for you and only you. Use your success to
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: boost your life into the next level. Use your success
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: to make you grow into a more courageous and stronger person.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: You are you for one reason, to be yourself. To
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: use the potential you have as a person and make
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: this your future.
• 29:33
  Speaker 10: Use this as.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: Your first step into success. Change the way you view life.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Switch your perspective of success and use it in the
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: right place. Confident to stand up and take responsibility for
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: your mistakes, and courageous enough to make mistakes in the
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: first place. Educate yourself, be this person, become the person
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: you've always wanted to be. You need to make this
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: transition for your future to make your life better and bigger.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: You will be who you need to be. Motivate yourself
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: with that vision, the vision of your future, the future
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: of a successful life.
• 30:20
  Speaker 9: What's the favorite lesson you've ever learned? What is your
• 30:23
  Speaker 9: biggest achievement you've ever accomplished? And then what is your
• 30:26
  Speaker 9: greatest success? I want you to think about it. Think
• 30:30
  Speaker 9: about how you got there, where you needed to be
• 30:33
  Speaker 9: in order to get there. In order for you to
• 30:35
  Speaker 9: make that kind of progress, what challenges did you have
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: to pass?
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: What limits did you have to crush? What hurdles did
• 30:42
  Speaker 5: you have to overcome?
• 30:44
  Speaker 9: Now, I want you to think about that satisfaction that
• 30:46
  Speaker 9: overcame you when you accomplish these things. How did you
• 30:50
  Speaker 9: feel and how do you need to feel right now?
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: Feel like you have the opportunity to repeat those actions
• 30:57
  Speaker 9: that you once did, because let me tell you right now,
• 30:59
  Speaker 9: you do make the progress. Now, make your progress for
• 31:04
  Speaker 9: the better. For you to make more progress. You have
• 31:07
  Speaker 9: that potential. Now go ahead and spark your success and
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: spark your inspiration. That inspiration it uls the progress that
• 31:14
  Speaker 9: you need to make. Use the tools you have. Use
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: your tools because no one can do it like you can.
• 31:21
  Speaker 9: All right, use this inspiration while you have the opening.
• 31:25
  Speaker 9: Stop living in the past. Start thinking about.
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: Your future, the future where you can succeed.
• 31:33
  Speaker 9: That future is actually happening around you right now. So
• 31:37
  Speaker 9: take control of your future now by living in the present,
• 31:42
  Speaker 9: living for now, because that, at the end of the day,
• 31:45
  Speaker 9: is the only thing that mattered. Boost your life, make
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: your life, and live your life.
• 31:53
  Speaker 15: It's this time and history that most people are wasting
• 31:57
  Speaker 15: on the wrong stuff. They're spending it on Netflix or
• 31:59
  Speaker 15: fort or going out with their friends or drinking. And
• 32:01
  Speaker 15: if you want to do that, that's fine, you know,
• 32:03
  Speaker 15: enjoy your mediocre shit life. But like there's so much
• 32:06
  Speaker 15: more that you can do with knowledge and studying. You
• 32:12
  Speaker 15: make a mistake, it's a part of life, it's part
• 32:13
  Speaker 15: of the journey.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 32:14
  Speaker 15: You have to appreciate the lows. You have to respect
• 32:17
  Speaker 15: the lows. Celebrate the highs, but respect the lows, don't
• 32:20
  Speaker 15: block them out, don't ignore them. In order to be successful,
• 32:22
  Speaker 15: I think this is the biggest thing. You have to
• 32:24
  Speaker 15: be so dedicated to your craft and so passionate about
• 32:27
  Speaker 15: it and so single minded focus on that you know task,
• 32:32
  Speaker 15: And most people just don't take it that seriously. They're like, yeah,
• 32:34
  Speaker 15: I want to be a millionaire.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:36
  Speaker 15: Like I meet people and they're like, oh, you're that millionaire,
• 32:39
  Speaker 15: and like a smile comes on their face, like, oh,
• 32:42
  Speaker 15: how do I become a millionaire?
• 32:43
  Speaker 8: But they don't really believe it.
• 32:44
  Speaker 14: They're not asking seriously.
• 32:45
  Speaker 15: They don't they're not willing to put in the thousands
• 32:49
  Speaker 15: of hours requires Like there's no magic formula.
• 32:51
  Speaker 8: This isn't like get rich quick.
• 32:53
  Speaker 15: And those people who do get rich, like the A
• 32:54
  Speaker 15: lotto winners, like they're thugh because.
• 32:56
  Speaker 8: They didn't earn it.
• 32:57
  Speaker 15: They don't they don't appreciate it, they don't understand it.
• 33:00
  Speaker 15: I think that going through the ups and the downs
• 33:04
  Speaker 15: is what makes you appreciate everything.
• 33:09
  Speaker 14: You have to find meaning.
• 33:10
  Speaker 15: And for me and a lot of people, like you know,
• 33:13
  Speaker 15: you're on this journey like I want to be successful.
• 33:15
  Speaker 15: I want to be rich, That's what I want. But
• 33:17
  Speaker 15: what about when you get there? You don't have a
• 33:19
  Speaker 15: plan for that. So now I'm trying to teach you know,
• 33:21
  Speaker 15: all about charity and giving back and the lessons that
• 33:24
  Speaker 15: I've learned now from being rich for several years.
• 33:26
  Speaker 8: And it's not what you might think.
• 33:27
  Speaker 15: There's a lot of stuff that comes with being rich
• 33:30
  Speaker 15: and you don't realize it.
• 33:31
  Speaker 8: And you know, that's.
• 33:32
  Speaker 16: Life because the world and even school teaches us in
• 33:39
  Speaker 16: so many ways to to, you know, work on our
• 33:43
  Speaker 16: weaknesses to get stronger, and I think that's a huge flaw.
• 33:46
  Speaker 14: I think we just get great at what we're good at.
• 33:48
  Speaker 16: We only need to be good at one or two
• 33:49
  Speaker 16: things and we can make an impact on the world.
• 33:55
  Speaker 8: Everybody's in a.
• 33:56
  Speaker 16: Vehicle like your your wealth creation vehicle, whether that's a
• 33:59
  Speaker 16: job you don't like or a job you do like,
• 34:01
  Speaker 16: or a business you started, or a business it's crushing,
• 34:04
  Speaker 16: or business it's.
• 34:04
  Speaker 17: Not doing great.
• 34:05
  Speaker 16: You have this vehicle, and when this vehicle's not working,
• 34:09
  Speaker 16: we're looking on the road of all the other shiny
• 34:11
  Speaker 16: cars and it's like, oh man, I tried selling stuff
• 34:14
  Speaker 16: on Amazon that's not working. I'm going to go in
• 34:16
  Speaker 16: the car business, the real estate business. I'm going to
• 34:18
  Speaker 16: go in the speaking business, the nutrition business, the supple
• 34:21
  Speaker 16: And you're looking for another car to jump in. And
• 34:24
  Speaker 16: I realize people jump from car to car to car
• 34:26
  Speaker 16: their whole life, looking for satiation, looking for satisfaction, looking
• 34:29
  Speaker 16: to make more money. If you can stop jumping from
• 34:32
  Speaker 16: vehicle to vehicle, the vehicle you're in might be the
• 34:35
  Speaker 16: right vehicle. But you don't have the right habits or
• 34:37
  Speaker 16: the right beliefs, or the right rules, whatever you want
• 34:39
  Speaker 16: to call it. My book's habits, so I call them habits,
• 34:41
  Speaker 16: but it's really the foundation for success, so you can
• 34:44
  Speaker 16: overcome the obstacles. You don't let negative people in your
• 34:47
  Speaker 16: life steer you in different directions.
• 34:49
  Speaker 14: It doesn't.
• 34:49
  Speaker 16: You know, even people will ask me about productivity. People say,
• 34:54
  Speaker 16: how do you get so much done? How do you
• 34:55
  Speaker 16: run a business and still coach Little league in baseball
• 34:57
  Speaker 16: and soft How do you do all those things because
• 35:00
  Speaker 16: of just simple success habits. Like I just wrote something
• 35:05
  Speaker 16: on this recently. I said, you have to treat your
• 35:07
  Speaker 16: decisions for productivity like binary thinking, which is x's and
• 35:11
  Speaker 16: o's black, black or white?
• 35:12
  Speaker 14: Yes or no?
• 35:13
  Speaker 16: Is this moving me toward a better version of myself,
• 35:15
  Speaker 16: a wealthier version, a happier version, or is it not.
• 35:21
  Speaker 16: We never give ourselves credit. We'd never treat a friend
• 35:24
  Speaker 16: the way we treat ourselves. It's like, I know, I've
• 35:26
  Speaker 16: had days, I've gone till ten o'clock at night. Go man,
• 35:28
  Speaker 16: I got nothing done today. It's the biggest lie, Like
• 35:30
  Speaker 16: we beat ourselves up. We just were like these racehorses.
• 35:33
  Speaker 16: We wouldn't even treat a racehorse that we owned as
• 35:35
  Speaker 16: bad as we treat ourselves. Right, So I wake up
• 35:38
  Speaker 16: and I'll do a quick little gratitude and they'll say,
• 35:40
  Speaker 16: what was one win yesterday that I accomplished? And I'm like, wow,
• 35:43
  Speaker 16: you didn't do that, yes, And then I'll think of
• 35:45
  Speaker 16: one win I want to do that day, Like what
• 35:47
  Speaker 16: I'm gonna need a million things done today, But what's
• 35:49
  Speaker 16: a must today that would be a great win. I
• 35:55
  Speaker 16: don't think we should drive for money. I think we
• 35:58
  Speaker 16: should drive to be a better version of our When
• 36:00
  Speaker 16: money was no longer a worry for me, I dove
• 36:03
  Speaker 16: into me and I had been ignoring and tucking down
• 36:06
  Speaker 16: a lot of crap for a lot of years, and
• 36:09
  Speaker 16: I was surface level.
• 36:10
  Speaker 14: I look like the guy that had it all going on.
• 36:12
  Speaker 16: My businesses are doing good, I'm amazing, children, company thriving,
• 36:15
  Speaker 16: I live in the right neighborhood, drive the right have
• 36:18
  Speaker 16: the right friends. Everything looked great, but it was all masked.
• 36:23
  Speaker 16: And when money got out of the way, I was
• 36:26
  Speaker 16: able to find dig into me and do my own
• 36:28
  Speaker 16: personal development and my own personal growth and really find
• 36:32
  Speaker 16: the things that I wanted to fix so I could
• 36:34
  Speaker 16: become a better version. There might be something that makes
• 36:39
  Speaker 16: you a lot of money, but it robs your soul.
• 36:41
  Speaker 16: So there's that balance, and I think that doesn't happen. Oh,
• 36:44
  Speaker 16: that doesn't happen in your twenties, and maybe not in
• 36:46
  Speaker 16: your thirties, at least didn't for me. I was just
• 36:48
  Speaker 16: fighting to be successful in my twenties and thirties. But
• 36:50
  Speaker 16: at this phase, I wish someone would have grabbed me
• 36:52
  Speaker 16: at twenty five and said, you're gonna make all the
• 36:54
  Speaker 16: money you want.
• 36:55
  Speaker 14: You'll have all the success you want. Make sure your
• 36:57
  Speaker 14: soul is aligned with that money.
• 37:00
  Speaker 16: And every time, I don't know about you, every time
• 37:01
  Speaker 16: I align my values, my soul, my purpose, whatever it
• 37:04
  Speaker 16: is you want to call it. With my businesses and
• 37:07
  Speaker 16: my profits, they always soar without having to obsess on
• 37:10
  Speaker 16: the numbers.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: Great people don't have anything magic. They worked relentlessly for
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: years and years. They decided that they were going to
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: be great. They decided that they didn't want to sit
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: back and hide. They decided that they wanted to shine.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: They decided that their name would be in lights and
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: people would admire what they do. If not for you,
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: decide to be great for the world.
• 37:41
  Speaker 9: Success never stops, never stops to breathe, never takes a
• 37:46
  Speaker 9: day off, never looks to take a break.
• 37:48
  Speaker 10: We already have enough problems on this planet. Be different.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Be a person who makes a difference, Be a person
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: who makes a change for good, Be a person who
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: has an impact on the world.
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: You need to become someone, and you need to become
• 38:04
  Speaker 5: your future. You need to handle your power and feel
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: your potential. You gotta feel this pain.
• 38:10
  Speaker 9: To progress, to change, to feel fulfilled, to feel satisfaction.
• 38:15
  Speaker 5: This is where.
• 38:15
  Speaker 9: Everything can and trust me, it all will fall into place.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: Stop denying the world of your greatness. You need to
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: see every single day as a bank account. Nobody is poor,
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: nobody is rich. Everyone has twenty four hours each and
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: how you spend your balance each day will decide who
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: you become.
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: Now, pay attention to every detail.
• 38:44
  Speaker 9: Take every day like it's a brand new spanking opportunity.
• 38:48
  Speaker 9: Take every risk as if it's a stepping stone into
• 38:52
  Speaker 9: the future you're carving out for yourself. Because you have control,
• 38:56
  Speaker 9: you have the control to change and the control to
• 38:58
  Speaker 9: improve the action and improvement.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Spend your time wisely. Do not waste it on things
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: out of your control. If the weather is bad, do
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: not waste time feeling down about it. If it is
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: out of your control, move past it. Look for the
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: things that you can control.
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: It all takes resilience.
• 39:22
  Speaker 9: Resilience to push past any boundary and push through every risk,
• 39:26
  Speaker 9: every hardship, every wrong turn. Right now, right here is
• 39:32
  Speaker 9: an open door. The door that puts you on the
• 39:34
  Speaker 9: path towards success.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Losing twenty four hours because of a bad ten minutes
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: is like throwing ten thousand dollars away because you dropped
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: a few pennies.
• 39:48
  Speaker 5: You have control.
• 39:49
  Speaker 9: You have control over your future, a future fueled by
• 39:51
  Speaker 9: your success, constructed by your progress. It all begins right here,
• 39:54
  Speaker 9: and it all starts right now. Don't waste one more
• 39:57
  Speaker 9: minute sitting and thinking. I want you to spend your
• 39:59
  Speaker 9: next minute it acting. Take your own direction and write
• 40:03
  Speaker 9: your own roof. You need to write the next chapter,
• 40:06
  Speaker 9: the next chapter that pushs it you through towards a story,
• 40:08
  Speaker 9: and a story that you can finally be proud of.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: Now is the time to become someone you believe in,
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: someone with purpose. Don't stop now. Don't stop until you
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: know you can make it. Stand up to your success,
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: stand up to your power. This is your opportunity.
• 40:38
  Speaker 5: Take it.
• 40:40
  Speaker 10: Take it like you own it.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: Because you do. Be sure, know your purpose, your worth,
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: your intention, your drive to strive towards success. Life is
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: in your hands. It has always been in your hands.
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: This is the time, This is the time to make
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: it past your fears, your boundaries. This is the time
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: you break them, shatter them, make them a part of you.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: Build your future from the remains. This is where it starts.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: Now is the time to succeed. The power is in
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: your hands, the power to be something more, something that
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: has potential.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: You know that.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: You've always had it. Take the opportunity, take the risk.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: Take the risk now before it's too late. It's never
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: too late. Never stop. This is where you can begin.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: Work hard work, become the person you admire. You know
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: that you can be the best. All it takes is power,
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: drive and work. Work until it hurts. This is where
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: you succeed. This is how you succeed.
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: You can be you can be so much more.
• 42:10
  Speaker 18: Start thinking about what you're actually doing, Like you're gonna
• 42:15
  Speaker 18: only be so pretty, You're only gonna be so smart,
• 42:18
  Speaker 18: Like you like, there's things that are gonna be natural,
• 42:20
  Speaker 18: and there's things that you can actually control.
• 42:23
  Speaker 14: I do believe, and I don't know if I'm right
• 42:25
  Speaker 14: or wrong.
• 42:25
  Speaker 19: I don't, but I do believe that work ethic is
• 42:29
  Speaker 19: a taught behavior. It's something you do have more control over.
• 42:34
  Speaker 19: I feel like there's a shift that can make people
• 42:36
  Speaker 19: work harder.
• 42:38
  Speaker 18: The big one that I push is you're gonna die
• 42:41
  Speaker 18: like like, if you're complain like to me, life is
• 42:43
  Speaker 18: broken down into complaining and not so if you're not complaining,
• 42:47
  Speaker 18: well then I have no advice for you, but I'm
• 42:50
  Speaker 18: pumped like you did it.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: Great.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: People don't have anything magic. They worked relentlessly for years
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: and years. They decided that they were going to be great.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: They decided that they didn't want to sit back and hide.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: They decided that they wanted to shine. They decided that
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: their name would be in lights and people would admire
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: what they do. If not for you decide to be
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: great for the world.
• 43:20
  Speaker 18: I think so many people are keyboard activists, right. Everybody's
• 43:24
  Speaker 18: good at setting a tweet about how the world should
• 43:27
  Speaker 18: be and nobody's doing anything about it. And that is
• 43:30
  Speaker 18: just very much human nature. But let's not be naive.
• 43:35
  Speaker 18: I mean, people literally complain when somebody gives them the
• 43:38
  Speaker 18: wrong amount of like extra cream in a Starbucks six
• 43:42
  Speaker 18: dollars coffee. My lack of interest in complaining is so high,
• 43:48
  Speaker 18: and when I watch what people complain about, it breaks
• 43:51
  Speaker 18: my heart because they completely lack perspective.
• 43:53
  Speaker 14: And I genuinely believe my.
• 43:54
  Speaker 18: Happiness and optimism comes from my perspective. Even in political
• 43:59
  Speaker 18: unrest times like right now, a lot of people very
• 44:01
  Speaker 18: bent out of shape. But the reality is that it's
• 44:03
  Speaker 18: just never been better to be a human beings. That's
• 44:07
  Speaker 18: just the truth, that's just data, that's reality. And yeah,
• 44:11
  Speaker 18: I mean it's just a very fun time to be alive,
• 44:14
  Speaker 18: so much going on.
• 44:17
  Speaker 20: Be prepared in life for a lot of rejection, because
• 44:20
  Speaker 20: if you're prepared for a lot of rejection it comes,
• 44:23
  Speaker 20: you don't get turned off, you don't get disappointed, like, well,
• 44:25
  Speaker 20: I'm not going to do this anymore.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: No one thinks it's a good idea.
• 44:28
  Speaker 20: It's like I say, selling Encyclopedia's knock on one hundred dollars,
• 44:32
  Speaker 20: they slap them.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: In your face.
• 44:33
  Speaker 20: You must be just as enthusiastic on dur number one
• 44:36
  Speaker 20: oh one as Dark number one.
• 44:44
  Speaker 9: We're all worth far more than anyone can imagine. Our power,
• 44:48
  Speaker 9: honestly is endless, and our potential has the power to
• 44:51
  Speaker 9: make something real out of the life you live. That's crazy,
• 44:56
  Speaker 9: like your life is now you can alter or future.
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: This is where you begin too, and this is where.
• 45:03
  Speaker 8: You start to succeed.
• 45:06
  Speaker 9: Now, this moment around you, right now, that's the secret
• 45:11
  Speaker 9: power that you have.
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: Time is your power.
• 45:14
  Speaker 9: This time, you have the potential to succeed, to be
• 45:18
  Speaker 9: something with purpose, someone with power.
• 45:22
  Speaker 18: There's so many people that are talking about how big
• 45:25
  Speaker 18: of an entrepreneur they're gonna be and how much they're
• 45:27
  Speaker 18: gonna achieve, and they don't work on weekends. You know,
• 45:32
  Speaker 18: I worked every Saturday of my twenties, like, and I
• 45:35
  Speaker 18: talk to twenty year old entrepreneurs every single day. Lately,
• 45:38
  Speaker 18: I've been saying to them, this Saturday, you're gonna have
• 45:40
  Speaker 18: more time off than I've had in my entire twenties
• 45:43
  Speaker 18: on a Saturday. So like, before you tell me how
• 45:46
  Speaker 18: you're gonna be bigger than me, start thinking.
• 45:48
  Speaker 14: About what you're actually doing.
• 45:54
  Speaker 18: We're beating ourselves up, like everybody sucks at something, Like
• 46:00
  Speaker 18: we all have shortcomings and we all have strengths.
• 46:03
  Speaker 14: And for me, it's like, why don't we just audit that?
• 46:06
  Speaker 18: Like why don't we just look at it that way
• 46:07
  Speaker 18: and be like, all right, well, I'm good at this,
• 46:09
  Speaker 18: but I'm not good at that, like and then and
• 46:11
  Speaker 18: then and then I only focus what I'm good at right,
• 46:13
  Speaker 18: Like I don't dwell that I can't fix it around
• 46:16
  Speaker 18: the house, I call somebody to fix it, Like I'm
• 46:19
  Speaker 18: not like I'm not a man.
• 46:19
  Speaker 14: I don't give a like you know, like like you know,
• 46:22
  Speaker 14: like I don't.
• 46:23
  Speaker 19: I don't get it, like we all Like I also
• 46:25
  Speaker 19: think it's awesome that I'm so emotionally stable and I'm
• 46:28
  Speaker 19: the emotional.
• 46:28
  Speaker 14: Backbone of everybody. Is that what a dude's supposed to do?
• 46:31
  Speaker 18: Like like these cliches, these stereotypes, they're so silly.
• 46:34
  Speaker 14: You're exactly right, man, I don't judge myself.
• 46:37
  Speaker 18: I'm fully in love with myself, but I'm also fully
• 46:40
  Speaker 18: in love with everybody else too, right, It's not like
• 46:42
  Speaker 18: like it goes both ways.
• 46:44
  Speaker 14: Like I tell people to buy into me.
• 46:46
  Speaker 19: That work for me, it's because I buy into them first,
• 46:50
  Speaker 19: Like I don't need anybody to gain trust with me.
• 46:53
  Speaker 19: I it's there, Like I believe the human race is
• 47:02
  Speaker 19: so grossly underrated.
• 47:04
  Speaker 14: We are good, of course we have.
• 47:07
  Speaker 18: Some bad there's seven billion of us, but like when
• 47:10
  Speaker 18: you look at our net score, it's bonkers, Like do
• 47:13
  Speaker 18: you know what damage we can be doing to each
• 47:15
  Speaker 18: other on an hourly basis? And we don't Like we're
• 47:18
  Speaker 18: still here like we won, We're the alpha being and
• 47:22
  Speaker 18: we've figured out how to stay together. This is insane
• 47:25
  Speaker 18: when you think about it, and yet everybody wants to
• 47:28
  Speaker 18: dwell on.
• 47:28
  Speaker 14: Like somebody said something mean.
• 47:35
  Speaker 10: We already have enough problems on this planet. Be different.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: Be a person who makes a difference, Be a person
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: who makes a change for good. Be a person who
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: has an impact on the world. Stop denying the world
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: of your greatness. You need to see every single day
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: as a bank account. Nobody is poor, nobody is rich.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Everyone has twenty four hours each and how you spend
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: your balance each day, well, decide who you become. Spend
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: your time wisely, do not waste it on things out
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: of your control.
• 48:16
  Speaker 20: Be prepared for a lot of rejection, whether it's in
• 48:19
  Speaker 20: their personal life that someone says you're too old, you're
• 48:21
  Speaker 20: too fat, you're too young, You're not gonna do anything
• 48:24
  Speaker 20: other than yes, you've got holes in your nose, you
• 48:26
  Speaker 20: got things coming at your ears, whatever is other than yes,
• 48:29
  Speaker 20: this is wonderful. Realize that's gonna happen in life as
• 48:32
  Speaker 20: soon as people know that. When something goes wrong, they
• 48:35
  Speaker 20: look at a piece of paper. Oh yeah, that reminds me.
• 48:41
  Speaker 14: But the best thing that happened to me.
• 48:43
  Speaker 17: No one helped me, no one felt sorry for me,
• 48:46
  Speaker 17: no one looked at me and said, like this day
• 48:48
  Speaker 17: and age, they'll they'll take you in and they'll tell
• 48:51
  Speaker 17: everybody I stopped picking on this person back then any care.
• 48:55
  Speaker 17: The only person that's gonna turn this person around is me.
• 48:59
  Speaker 17: You know way I can turn around is putting myself
• 49:01
  Speaker 17: through the worst things possible a human being could ever
• 49:05
  Speaker 17: endure and not be the only way that I can
• 49:08
  Speaker 17: build this brain to handle anything that comes in front
• 49:11
  Speaker 17: of him.
• 49:12
  Speaker 14: Callousing my mind through pain and suffering.
• 49:16
  Speaker 9: Don't be afraid to step up to your fears. Don't
• 49:19
  Speaker 9: be afraid to even become your fears. Take this opportunity
• 49:22
  Speaker 9: now to be worthy of the success you want.
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: To be the.
• 49:24
  Speaker 9: Person that you admire, someone who takes extra steps to
• 49:28
  Speaker 9: be more than they could ever imagine those extra steps,
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: putting in those extra hours.
• 49:35
  Speaker 17: As humans, we want to find out how to be
• 49:39
  Speaker 17: someone else.
• 49:40
  Speaker 8: What we don't do is we.
• 49:41
  Speaker 17: Don't go inside. So literally turn yourself inside out.
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: Read the book.
• 49:46
  Speaker 17: That's like, we're writing a book every day.
• 49:48
  Speaker 14: For loves, but we never read that book.
• 49:51
  Speaker 17: So what I would challenge this young man or young
• 49:53
  Speaker 17: woman to do is you have to look inside of
• 49:56
  Speaker 17: yourself and see what you really want what are you
• 49:58
  Speaker 17: passionate about? We use these word and these little phrases
• 50:01
  Speaker 17: of only the strong survive and also the crap, they're
• 50:04
  Speaker 17: all just freaking words.
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: Take this as your opportunity to change your life for
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: the better, to enjoy the life you deserve, to have
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: the future you've worked for, the future you know you
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: can have. Use this as a tool, a tool to
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: motivate your life through your success. This is where it
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: all starts. Kick off your life in the direction that
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: pushes you towards a life, a life where you can
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: take control. Make sure you know which direction you're headed in.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: Organize your world in your favor, your favor, for your purpose,
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: for your future. This is the opening to take you
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: towards a life full of success. You have this control,
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: you have always had this power. Unleash the animal.
• 51:03
  Speaker 14: The only way you're.
• 51:03
  Speaker 17: Ever going to get to the other side of this
• 51:06
  Speaker 17: journey is you have got to suffer to grow.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: To grow, you must suffer.
• 51:13
  Speaker 17: And some people will get it. Some of them won't,
• 51:17
  Speaker 17: but they have to see what their journey is to
• 51:19
  Speaker 17: start their journey. Several people live to be one hundred
• 51:21
  Speaker 17: years old, and they have great lives and they have
• 51:23
  Speaker 17: great kids, the kids go to college and all sort
• 51:25
  Speaker 17: of stuff, But somewhere in their life there was a
• 51:29
  Speaker 17: point where they had the decision to make they can
• 51:32
  Speaker 17: go left or right on this path.
• 51:36
  Speaker 14: Left was the easy route.
• 51:38
  Speaker 17: Right was a hard route. A lot of people take
• 51:46
  Speaker 17: the easy route and they had a good life that way,
• 51:49
  Speaker 17: But the better life was going to the right side.
• 51:53
  Speaker 17: And you may have twenty years of pain and suffering
• 51:55
  Speaker 17: to get past it. But a lot of us died
• 51:58
  Speaker 17: never truly starting our journey. And I would tell these
• 52:02
  Speaker 17: still persons, you got to start your journey. It may suck,
• 52:05
  Speaker 17: but it will come out the other side.
• 52:07
  Speaker 14: When your coach just keep doing the right thing and
• 52:10
  Speaker 14: the good thing, it will happen.
• 52:13
  Speaker 13: The reason people change is because of pain.
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  Speaker 21: My relationship with pain runs deep, and it's complicated.
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  Speaker 22: On the one hand, I love pain. I love trying.
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  Speaker 21: To push the outer edges of the envelope of what
• 52:37
  Speaker 21: the pain experience is in a physical sense, and it's
• 52:42
  Speaker 21: also been my greatest teacher in terms of things that
• 52:46
  Speaker 21: I've accomplished, but also my.
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  Speaker 22: Errents ways as well.
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  Speaker 21: Pain is truly the only thing that's ever gotten me
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  Speaker 21: to change, So it's been my growth accelerator as well
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  Speaker 21: as my reminder of when I've gone straight.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, so there's a difference between pain and suffering. There's
• 53:07
  Speaker 13: a difference between there. We're all suffering. We all have suffering.
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  Speaker 13: We all have an emptiness or a dark place or
• 53:15
  Speaker 13: corners inside of our spirit in our mind that are
• 53:18
  Speaker 13: not fulfilled and watered and full.
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  Speaker 8: Like we all can relate to that.
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  Speaker 13: And when I'm talking about pain, I'm not necessarily talking
• 53:26
  Speaker 13: about suffering, but acknowledging our suffering, being in touch with
• 53:30
  Speaker 13: the pain. That's enough to say, when you're really honest,
• 53:34
  Speaker 13: that's enough to say, I can't do that. I don't
• 53:36
  Speaker 13: want to do this anymore, Like this is not the
• 53:39
  Speaker 13: person I want to become and be on a regular basis.
• 53:42
  Speaker 13: If that's the case, if that assumption is right, then
• 53:45
  Speaker 13: as a loved one, my job is to help you
• 53:47
  Speaker 13: get real and experience those places as often as you
• 53:51
  Speaker 13: can so that you make the declaration to say no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 13: no no, that's not okay for me to feel and
• 53:58
  Speaker 13: be this way on a regular basis.
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  Speaker 21: You know, we're so conditioned to avoid pain. Every message
• 54:07
  Speaker 21: that we see, every billboard we see, every advertisement that
• 54:11
  Speaker 21: we're exposed to is telling us that happiness can be
• 54:15
  Speaker 21: purchased through comfort, through luxury, through ease, and that's sort
• 54:21
  Speaker 21: of implicit in that, is.
• 54:22
  Speaker 22: That that's how we find happiness.
• 54:24
  Speaker 21: And I can tell you that I'm happiest and most
• 54:27
  Speaker 21: alive when I'm butting up against the outer edges of
• 54:30
  Speaker 21: my pain threshold and I'm not afraid of it. And
• 54:34
  Speaker 21: so when I start to feel that sensation, rather than
• 54:37
  Speaker 21: shirk away from it, I realize that's an opportunity to
• 54:42
  Speaker 21: experience a heightened sense of myself and my environment, to
• 54:48
  Speaker 21: really be in a position where everything else falls away
• 54:53
  Speaker 21: and it's just you and your ability to take one
• 54:56
  Speaker 21: step forward. There's a purity to that that, again is
• 55:01
  Speaker 21: another great teacher. And so in terms of techniques, I've
• 55:05
  Speaker 21: just learned through experience that, just like David Goggin says,
• 55:09
  Speaker 21: when the signals that you're receiving are telling you to stop,
• 55:14
  Speaker 21: that you don't necessarily.
• 55:15
  Speaker 22: Have to pay attention to that.
• 55:16
  Speaker 21: That you are capable of so much more if you
• 55:21
  Speaker 21: can develop the acuity, the presence of mind, and the
• 55:25
  Speaker 21: wherewithal to then take that next step, and when you're
• 55:29
  Speaker 21: on the other side of it, to realize you're still okay,
• 55:32
  Speaker 21: and you can take another step.
• 55:34
  Speaker 22: And a whole your horizon extends, and you.
• 55:37
  Speaker 21: Realize that there's a whole world of potential and possibility
• 55:40
  Speaker 21: available to you that you weren't previously aware of.
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: Never should never exist in your world. If you want
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: to improve, if you can see yoursel being better, never
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: should even be in the picture. You have the power
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: to do anything possible, the power to transform into somebody
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: capable of anything.
• 56:10
  Speaker 10: You can imagine.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: This, This is the power you deserve. Let your success,
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: Let your mindset be the beginning. The journey doesn't end here.
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: This journey doesn't end when the sun goes up, when
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: the sun goes down. It doesn't end when you close
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: your eyes. Doesn't end for one second, because hard work
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: waits for nobody. Let yourself be heard, Let your power
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: speak for itself. Let your beginning be the potential to
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: take you further and further along your path to success.
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: You are the only inspiration you need. You are the
• 56:51
  Speaker 3: only force it takes to be someone more, to have
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: so much more. Remember your worth as a person, Remember
• 56:59
  Speaker 3: the possibilities of your power, the fruitful future that lingers
• 57:03
  Speaker 3: over your shoulders. This is where you never say never.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: Never say never to any possibility, to any opportunity, to
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: any mistakes, to any fear, you say yes this, this
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: is the only way to grow.
• 57:21
  Speaker 21: I think that most people set the wrong goals for themselves,
• 57:24
  Speaker 21: and it's because they're disconnected from who they are. They
• 57:27
  Speaker 21: are living someone else's life, or they're living a life
• 57:29
  Speaker 21: that's so disconnected from who they are, it becomes very
• 57:33
  Speaker 21: difficult to set the right goal. So I think in
• 57:36
  Speaker 21: order to reconcile that you have to look inward, and
• 57:41
  Speaker 21: that can be different for everybody.
• 57:42
  Speaker 22: That can mean consistent meditation practice.
• 57:45
  Speaker 21: That can mean therapy, That can mean, you know, starting
• 57:49
  Speaker 21: to do yoga.
• 57:50
  Speaker 22: It can mean many many things. But I think there's no.
• 57:57
  Speaker 21: Andron around the very difficult, long process of really trying
• 58:03
  Speaker 21: to be honest with yourself about who you are, what's
• 58:06
  Speaker 21: important to you, what you care about, and then beginning
• 58:11
  Speaker 21: to breathe life into those things, as frivolous as they
• 58:15
  Speaker 21: may seem. To bring expression to the things that you
• 58:20
  Speaker 21: do care about that get you excited in the morning,
• 58:23
  Speaker 21: and that doesn't mean you quit your job tomorrow, but
• 58:26
  Speaker 21: the more you can foster something that has personal importance
• 58:32
  Speaker 21: to you, I think that's the first step in trying
• 58:36
  Speaker 21: to move past whatever it is that's holding you back,
• 58:41
  Speaker 21: whether it's professionally or personally, to being a more integrated,
• 58:46
  Speaker 21: authentic version of yourself.
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: Let this be the moment you remember show yourself as
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: the rocket in your own life. This is the journey
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: you're on. You control the progress you make. You strengthen
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: the path that transforms you into the person you've been
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: waiting to become, the person that allows you to become
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: someone new. You have the skills to be more, the
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: strengths to grow faster, the power to be stronger. The
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: journey you've waited for is here, here for you to
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: be something better. This is the opportunity in front of you.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: This is your future, staring at you face to face,
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: waiting for the power to.
• 59:28
  Speaker 10: Be granted to you.
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: Your power is welcome, welcome by your progress, your progress
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: that guides you towards your future. Be someone you can
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: take pride in. Become someone you know that you can become.
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: This is the journey you have, the journey you're on.
• 59:48
  Speaker 3: Take the first step towards success. Take the first leap
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: of faith into the risks of your life. Push past
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: the limits, move toward a future. You can imagine a
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: future you've designed. This is your power.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 21: Self reliance is everything. Don't expect anybody to do anything
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 21: for you. I'm the only one who can get it done.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 21: And if you just buckle down and go the extra mile,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 21: you will solve the problem and you will make your
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 21: way in the world. You know, we all have a
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 21: unique song, and I think most people, to echo the
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 21: words of Henry David Dureaux, are leading lives of quiet
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 21: desperation and go to the grave with the song still
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 21: in them. And I find that tragic. And so if
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 21: there's anything that my work is about, it's about helping
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 21: people become cognizant of that and to take action so
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 21: that they don't become that person leading a life of
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 21: quiet desperation, which I think.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 22: I don't know. I wouldn't want to say most people.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 21: But a lot of people are, and I find out heartbreaking.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 21: You know, what's your major malfunction right now? What's the
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 21: thing that keeps you up at night? Who do you
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 21: resent the most?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 22: What are you afraid of? What do you want to achieve?
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 21: What's in what do you think is in your way?
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 21: You know, I think just by asking people questions, and
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 21: and and and then holding a vision.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 22: For that better life for them to say, I believe
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 22: in you.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 21: I'm not here to tell you what to do or
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 21: how to live your life, but I believe in your
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 21: greatest expression. And I'm going to hold space for you,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 21: to give people permission to be honest, to be vulnerable.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 21: We're so afraid of being vulnerable. We're terrified of being honest.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 21: We're so used to being judged and being held to
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 21: a standard that society sets for us, that we don't
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 21: give ourselves permission to even ask these questions, let alone
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 21: answer them.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 9: What have you done today to be different? What have
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 9: you done the step outside the conventions that you set
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 9: for yourself, the conventions and the rules set by your past.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 9: Today you have the power to move on. Today, you
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 9: have the power to move away from your past and
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 9: move towards a successful future. This is your decision, your
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 9: call to make in your future. This is how your
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 9: life can gain its own direction. And this is where
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 9: your life can be so much more.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 5: So much better. You can make it better.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 9: You have always had the potential to take one more step,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 9: the potential to take the risks others are too scared
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 9: to take because you are more, and you are stronger,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 9: and you have the determination and the courage to be
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 9: so much more