Latest / The Bechdel Cast / Pride and Prejudice (2005)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the bechdodcast, the questions asked if movies have women
- 0:04Speaker 1: and them, are all their discussions just boyfriends and husbands,
- 0:08Speaker 1: or do they have individualism? The patriarchy Zephyn Beast start
- 0:13Speaker 1: changing with the Bechdelcast.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Hello listeners, here we are, here we are, and what
- 0:20Speaker 2: are we doing?
- 0:21Speaker 3: Well?
- 0:21Speaker 2: We are unlocking a Matreon episode. Ever heard of it?
- 0:26Speaker 3: I think? So?
- 0:27Speaker 2: Okay, great on the movie Pride and Prejudice two thousand
- 0:31Speaker 2: and five.
- 0:33Speaker 3: I'm so excited we're doing this. We don't unlock Matreon
- 0:37Speaker 3: episodes very often. If you're new to the show, we
- 0:40Speaker 3: have a Patreon aka Matreon where we do two bonus
- 0:42Speaker 3: episodes every month. Feel free to join if you enjoy
- 0:45Speaker 3: this episode. But the reason we're unlocking this specific episode
- 0:49Speaker 3: from a couple of years ago now is it's the
- 0:51Speaker 3: two thousand and five Pride and Prejudice. It is one
- 0:53Speaker 3: of the only even though we are a famously book
- 0:56Speaker 3: hating podcast, we read the damn book oh this time,
- 1:01Speaker 3: which I mean, you know, really, the return on investment
- 1:04Speaker 3: is extraordinary in this one. But the reason we decided
- 1:07Speaker 3: to release it now is because it is a very
- 1:09Speaker 3: popular request on the main feed and it is being
- 1:12Speaker 3: re released into theaters to celebrate the twentieth anniversary of
- 1:17Speaker 3: the film. So we thought, you know, why not now
- 1:21Speaker 3: and it is. You know, it is a movie near
- 1:24Speaker 3: and dear to my heart, and we really hope you
- 1:26Speaker 3: enjoy the episode.
- 1:28Speaker 2: Indeed, we released this originally as a part of a
- 1:31Speaker 2: Matreon theme called Jane Arykay a austin August, in which
- 1:37Speaker 2: we covered two movie adaptations of Jane Austen books, this
- 1:41Speaker 2: one Pride and Prejudice, as well as Emma Period from
- 1:46Speaker 2: twenty twenty yep. So yeah, we're unlocking this one. One
- 1:51Speaker 2: last thing I'd like to plug is I am doing
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- 2:26Speaker 3: For sure.
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- 3:17Speaker 2: Oh damn hopefully.
- 3:18Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 3:19Speaker 2: Also jumping in here separately recording a voice memo because
- 3:22Speaker 2: I just confirmed another show on April fifteenth. I'm going
- 3:27Speaker 2: to be in New York City doing a show called
- 3:30Speaker 2: A Night to Remember with Caitlin Dorante. Because April fifteenth,
- 3:34Speaker 2: in addition to being the date of this show, is
- 3:37Speaker 2: also the date Titanic sank so of course, I'm doing
- 3:40Speaker 2: a Titanic themed stand up show about it at Union
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- 3:47Speaker 2: a lot of past Bechdel Cast guests, and I'm donating
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- 4:08Speaker 2: best time, Come say hi after the show's and without
- 4:12Speaker 2: much further ado, here is our unlocked episode on Pride
- 4:17Speaker 2: and Prejudice.
- 4:18Speaker 3: And now Tom wamscans as mister Darcy the Bedel Cast.
- 4:24Speaker 4: Jamie, you have bewitched me body and soul. Oh I
- 4:29Speaker 4: love I love you.
- 4:33Speaker 3: I like, I was getting so emotional. It's really beautiful.
- 4:38Speaker 3: It's really beautiful. Yeah, sorry, I know, I know, but
- 4:43Speaker 3: also like I kind of don't know.
- 4:46Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, I don't know either.
- 4:49Speaker 3: I truly like it's not there's no perfect love story,
- 4:53Speaker 3: but this is like, oh my god. Okay, welcome to
- 4:56Speaker 3: the Pride and Prejudice episode. First of all, I think
- 4:58Speaker 3: we should just acknowledge at the top we were wrong
- 5:00Speaker 3: to avoid this for so long, yeah, because we're like,
- 5:04Speaker 3: I mean, it was a lot of prep. We'll get there.
- 5:06Speaker 3: But I think that like as far as like effectively
- 5:09Speaker 3: told love stories about the complexities of love and getting
- 5:13Speaker 3: to know each other and like learning one another over
- 5:16Speaker 3: time and having empathy and compassion. And I was just like,
- 5:21Speaker 3: it's so good. I kept crying, like Darcy's ultimately he's
- 5:25Speaker 3: an act like that. I still wouldn't have ultimately gone
- 5:28Speaker 3: for Darcy. No, but I'm lying, well, okay, that's the thing.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Full of shit. Can watch this movie and be like, wow,
- 5:38Speaker 2: this tugs at my heart strings, and especially as someone
- 5:43Speaker 2: who is deeply cynical and is just much like Lizzie
- 5:48Speaker 2: thinks she's going to be an old maid, I think
- 5:50Speaker 2: that about myself. So I'm just like love. But then
- 5:55Speaker 2: I watched this movie and I'm like, maybe love Israel.
- 5:57Speaker 2: I don't know. But then also there's a lot of
- 5:59Speaker 2: things about the romance in this movie where I'm like,
- 6:02Speaker 2: I don't know about this.
- 6:05Speaker 3: But then then it's like also in the historical context,
- 6:07Speaker 3: you're like.
- 6:08Speaker 2: Right, the like well, but then the other half of
- 6:11Speaker 2: my briend is like I don't care because love nobody.
- 6:15Speaker 3: I know I got being, like nobody's perfect. After all,
- 6:19Speaker 3: all you can hope for is growth, and they both
- 6:23Speaker 3: grew so much it makes me cry. And also, I
- 6:27Speaker 3: know you still don't watch Succession, But to all of
- 6:29Speaker 3: the matrons who do watch Succession, this is just a
- 6:33Speaker 3: little chat but tween me and you, because what a
- 6:35Speaker 3: fun rewatch this is after you've seen I know I've
- 6:39Speaker 3: like described this to a million times Kitlin, But mister
- 6:42Speaker 3: Darcy on Succession plays the most cowardly man from the
- 6:48Speaker 3: Midwest that you've ever seen in your life. Like he's
- 6:52Speaker 3: just like a total Like it's hard to but he
- 6:55Speaker 3: plays a character named like Tom womscans and Okay, you
- 7:00Speaker 3: just have to see how different he is to fully
- 7:04Speaker 3: and this is a feminist podcast, and I'm like, Matthew
- 7:06Speaker 3: mcfattyan is the most talented actor in the world, but
- 7:09Speaker 3: like he's pretty amazing.
- 7:11Speaker 2: Is that how you say his name McFadyen.
- 7:14Speaker 3: Yes, okay, which I only know because I watch all
- 7:17Speaker 3: his Succession interviews because I'm a dork. He's so good
- 7:22Speaker 3: and looks so different and it's also like whatever, fifteen
- 7:25Speaker 3: years later, as Tom womscans that I didn't realize, for
- 7:28Speaker 3: like the first season of Succession, that he was mister Darcy.
- 7:32Speaker 2: Whoa.
- 7:33Speaker 3: Okay, I'm done praising men. But I love Matthew mcfaddyan,
- 7:37Speaker 3: so pride and prejudice. Okay. We finally did it, and
- 7:41Speaker 3: and we read the book. Read we read the book book,
- 7:45Speaker 3: and we liked. Did you like? Did you I like?
- 7:48Speaker 2: I don't like the book, which I'm sure is like heresy,
- 7:51Speaker 2: it's blasphemy. I find it.
- 7:54Speaker 3: Books are boring.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Books are boring.
- 7:57Speaker 3: No, I don't even think that's a controversial take point
- 8:00Speaker 3: in society. Its books are famously boring.
- 8:04Speaker 2: It is written in language that is old enough that
- 8:08Speaker 2: I don't fucking understand a single word of it. There
- 8:12Speaker 2: are too many characters, there's a lot of just like
- 8:14Speaker 2: meandery story that doesn't really serve much of a function.
- 8:18Speaker 3: We're not literary critics, okay.
- 8:23Speaker 2: But I think the movie is a great example of
- 8:27Speaker 2: like an adaptation that very effectively takes a book that
- 8:31Speaker 2: I know is beloved, and I know it's great. I
- 8:34Speaker 2: just didn't understand. I didn't enjoy myself when I was
- 8:37Speaker 2: reading it. I found it confusing, and I don't know
- 8:40Speaker 2: who any of the characters are. But I think the
- 8:42Speaker 2: movie does a really good job of streamlining the story
- 8:46Speaker 2: and like condensing things and like really focusing the narrative
- 8:50Speaker 2: into a movie that wonder I've watched four times now.
- 8:56Speaker 2: Weak it's so like, we'll get there.
- 8:59Speaker 3: I will say that the reason a lot of the
- 9:02Speaker 3: reason that the book is kind of feels like it's
- 9:06Speaker 3: repeating itself constantly and like introducing random people is because
- 9:08Speaker 3: it was released in three volumes. Oh yeah, that was
- 9:12Speaker 3: like a regency novel thing where you would get the
- 9:14Speaker 3: book in three chunks. So that's why I feel like
- 9:18Speaker 3: at some points it's either repeating yourself or like characters
- 9:20Speaker 3: that are in one section kind of disappear because you're like, well,
- 9:23Speaker 3: it's kind of like the second volume of Pride and Prejudice,
- 9:25Speaker 3: So these characters are here for now and then they're gone.
- 9:28Speaker 3: I did enjoy listen. I mean we both listened to
- 9:31Speaker 3: the Rosamond Pike Rosamond Pike, Rosamund Pike. I don't know
- 9:35Speaker 3: Rosamond Pike audio book, which is a delight. It was
- 9:40Speaker 3: really I was if matrons. If I'm sounding loopy today,
- 9:44Speaker 3: it's because I am. I was just in Florida for
- 9:46Speaker 3: a week.
- 9:47Speaker 2: You're doing great.
- 9:47Speaker 3: But I was in as in a hotel room in
- 9:50Speaker 3: Tallahassee last weekend, listening to listening to the Pride and
- 9:55Speaker 3: Prejudice audio book on like my portable speaker, and someone
- 9:59Speaker 3: like banged on the wall and was like, turn it
- 10:02Speaker 3: down because Rosmund Pike was just wailing. She was wailing
- 10:07Speaker 3: about you know, I didn't realize that the walls were
- 10:09Speaker 3: that thin, but it was a super it. So what
- 10:11Speaker 3: can you do?
- 10:12Speaker 2: I mean, and she's doing different voices. She's so versatile
- 10:15Speaker 2: in her performance.
- 10:17Speaker 3: I love that she loved being in Pride and Prejudice
- 10:21Speaker 3: so much that she was like, yeah, one hundred percent,
- 10:23Speaker 3: Like hmm, what a fun way to be, just like
- 10:26Speaker 3: Jane Austen Cannon. Yeah, anyways, as you were saying, I
- 10:30Speaker 3: think that this, yeah, this book, this movie. Sorry, because
- 10:33Speaker 3: it was also adapted as a British mini series that
- 10:35Speaker 3: I know people love. Uh that I was like, I
- 10:38Speaker 3: thought I considered watching him, Like I already read a book.
- 10:41Speaker 3: This is so damn long.
- 10:42Speaker 2: I did watch the first half of the first episode
- 10:47Speaker 2: and I do intend to finish it, but it is
- 10:51Speaker 2: it is very long. Yeah, and I didn't have the
- 10:53Speaker 2: patience for it, and then time ran out.
- 10:56Speaker 3: We know what happens in the movie. Okay, like we
- 10:58Speaker 3: know what happens in the story. But this is the
- 11:01Speaker 3: Joe Wright two thousand and five adaptation starring I would
- 11:06Speaker 3: say this is the millennial Pride in Prejudice. The mini
- 11:09Speaker 3: series is the gen X Pride and Prejudice. Sure, sure,
- 11:12Speaker 3: this is the millennial Pride and Prejudice. It's Kieran Knightley,
- 11:15Speaker 3: it's Tom from Succession, It's Donald Sutherland, it's I kind
- 11:20Speaker 3: of and it was kind of fun. I hadn't seen
- 11:22Speaker 3: this movie, and well, okay, what's your history with it?
- 11:27Speaker 3: I loved Pride and Prejudice in middle school. I loved
- 11:31Speaker 3: Jane Austen in middle school. This was early into my
- 11:34Speaker 3: you know, look, I'm not like other girls. And I
- 11:38Speaker 3: was really, do you like books? Because I like book
- 11:41Speaker 3: and reading, and so I was kind of cultivating. I
- 11:45Speaker 3: was hacking away at that persona while. I was wearing
- 11:48Speaker 3: a back brace because I really needed something else to
- 11:50Speaker 3: be my thing. So, and I will say, if there's
- 11:54Speaker 3: any twelve year olds looking for something to be their
- 11:57Speaker 3: thing when they're wearing a back brace, I wouldn't recommen
- 12:00Speaker 3: and books. It's not much cooler. Books in the opo
- 12:05Speaker 3: are not going to make you more popular at school.
- 12:08Speaker 3: I don't know what I was thinking, you know, but
- 12:12Speaker 3: but I was really into trying to I mean it's
- 12:16Speaker 3: I was really into it. That's like why Lolita podcast exists.
- 12:19Speaker 3: I was really into like trying to read books that
- 12:21Speaker 3: were a little out of my depth, but I just
- 12:24Speaker 3: wanted to feel like I could read a big old book. Sure,
- 12:26Speaker 3: so I read Jane Austen novels and I sort of
- 12:30Speaker 3: understood them. And there are also so many this like
- 12:33Speaker 3: this Pride and Prejudice came out right around the time
- 12:35Speaker 3: I would have been trying to read it by myself,
- 12:38Speaker 3: to the point that I have a really nice memory
- 12:41Speaker 3: with my dad around this movie because this movie came
- 12:45Speaker 3: out when I was in like sixth or seventh grade,
- 12:48Speaker 3: and it was not how fun it was. Oh, I
- 12:52Speaker 3: guess it was very financially successful. It made one hundred
- 12:54Speaker 3: and twenty one million dollars, well.
- 12:55Speaker 2: Off of a twenty eight million dollar budget. Yeah, that's
- 12:58Speaker 2: really good.
- 12:58Speaker 3: But uh, it wasn't playing in my area at like
- 13:01Speaker 3: the big amc Like, it wasn't playing at the big theaters.
- 13:05Speaker 3: You had to like drive forty five minutes to like
- 13:07Speaker 3: an independent movie theater to go see it. And I
- 13:11Speaker 3: really wanted to see it, and I thought my dad
- 13:14Speaker 3: was like, oh, I'll take you to like the local
- 13:16Speaker 3: movie theater and we'll go. And then we looked it
- 13:17Speaker 3: up and it wasn't playing, and originally he was like, sorry,
- 13:21Speaker 3: I guess you'll just have to wait for it to
- 13:22Speaker 3: come out on DVD. And I was like okay, And
- 13:26Speaker 3: then the next day he like woke me up and
- 13:29Speaker 3: he was like, I've changed my mind. We're gonna drive
- 13:32Speaker 3: forty five minutes to see the movie, and so he like,
- 13:35Speaker 3: I know, it was really nice. We went to this
- 13:37Speaker 3: I need to remember what the name of it was
- 13:39Speaker 3: in case any of the matrons live in Hangham, Massachusetts.
- 13:43Speaker 3: But it was like this old. I'd never been to
- 13:45Speaker 3: a movie theater like it before. It was like this.
- 13:47Speaker 3: It wasn't like a multiplex cinema. It had like a
- 13:51Speaker 3: balcony and I remember like, I'd never seen a movie
- 13:53Speaker 3: theater with a balcony. And it was old and it
- 13:56Speaker 3: was Pride and Prejudice, and Pride and Prejudice is old,
- 13:59Speaker 3: and it it was like one of my favorite memory.
- 14:02Speaker 3: I've like wrote about it in my journal. Its like
- 14:04Speaker 3: top moments of two thousand and five, going to Fride
- 14:08Speaker 3: and Prejudice with Dad sat in balcony like it was.
- 14:14Speaker 3: It's just such a lovely memory. And I loved the movie.
- 14:17Speaker 3: I used to own it on DVD when I was
- 14:19Speaker 3: a kid, but I haven't seen it in a long time,
- 14:23Speaker 3: like paying attention, and I was so relieved because nothing
- 14:27Speaker 3: that you saw when you were twelve holds up. And
- 14:32Speaker 3: I really loved watching this movie and I feel like
- 14:35Speaker 3: I appreciated it even more because now I know a
- 14:37Speaker 3: lot more about the filmmakers and the actors, and I
- 14:40Speaker 3: can appreciate like the economy of storyteller, Like that's what
- 14:44Speaker 3: I say, Yeah, this like but on all fronts, like
- 14:47Speaker 3: the screenplay trims out characters that you don't like Miss
- 14:51Speaker 3: like I kind of, and I really like the characters
- 14:53Speaker 3: that they choose to scale back to, Like Miss Bingley
- 14:56Speaker 3: is scaled way back from in the book where you
- 14:59Speaker 3: get the idea where yeah, she's a snob, that's kind
- 15:01Speaker 3: of all you need to know. She's a snob and
- 15:03Speaker 3: she's and she's finagling and bageling the couples, right, and
- 15:07Speaker 3: that's all you need to know. Yeah, the aunt and
- 15:09Speaker 3: uncle they're nice, that's all you need to know. Really, Wickham,
- 15:13Speaker 3: he's a snake. That's all you need to know. You
- 15:15Speaker 3: don't need to spend all this time with Wickham. And
- 15:18Speaker 3: then on top of that, I kind of forgot how
- 15:20Speaker 3: much I really loved Joe Wright movies when I was
- 15:26Speaker 3: like a teenager, because like Kia Knightley was his muse.
- 15:29Speaker 3: She was in Anna Karanaa, which was okay, but like
- 15:32Speaker 3: a teammate atonement. This movie confirmed to me that I'm
- 15:36Speaker 3: gonna go see Sierra.
- 15:38Speaker 2: I'm going to it.
- 15:39Speaker 3: I'm gonna I was gonna see it before, but now
- 15:41Speaker 3: I'm super gonna see it because he like he in
- 15:44Speaker 3: the in the DP, like they tell so much about
- 15:47Speaker 3: the characters in just like one shot, like all the
- 15:51Speaker 3: shots of the house where you get to know the
- 15:53Speaker 3: characters in like one line of dialect, or like the
- 15:56Speaker 3: shots of the parties where you like see these incredibly
- 15:59Speaker 3: choreographed shots where it's like you learn about ten characters
- 16:03Speaker 3: in the course of one shot, and it's just like beautiful.
- 16:06Speaker 2: And that's cinema. As per Richard gear In, Chicago, and
- 16:10Speaker 2: that's Chicago, and that's cinema.
- 16:13Speaker 3: It's genuinely so good. And then the fact that it's
- 16:17Speaker 3: like they cut out like I feel like every time
- 16:19Speaker 3: and we talk about adaptations, it's about oh, and then
- 16:24Speaker 3: they really inflated this random guy character from the book
- 16:28Speaker 3: and now he's like a main character. But this movie
- 16:30Speaker 3: does the opposite. It scales back random guys and gives
- 16:33Speaker 3: you more sisters. It's still I would say.
- 16:36Speaker 5: Gives you too much dad, But and I think that
- 16:41Speaker 5: that is like I think my only major criticism of
- 16:44Speaker 5: the movie is I feel like, based on what I
- 16:48Speaker 5: was picking up from the book and then I like
- 16:50Speaker 5: kind of verified this in a couple of essays, the
- 16:54Speaker 5: Bennett parents are well intentioned, they love their children.
- 16:59Speaker 3: But they're not amazing parents. They're very flawed parents, sure,
- 17:03Speaker 3: and I feel like this movie makes that clear. But
- 17:07Speaker 3: it gives Donald Sutherland Daddy a redemption arc at the end,
- 17:13Speaker 3: and you're still supposed to think that the mom is
- 17:16Speaker 3: like pretty silly and pretty like yeah, And I feel
- 17:19Speaker 3: like in the book that arc, that arc didn't happen
- 17:21Speaker 3: because you get that whole Donald Sutherland speech where he
- 17:24Speaker 3: were and I mean, I was crying because it was
- 17:26Speaker 3: really nice. But you know that doesn't happen in the book.
- 17:29Speaker 3: He doesn't go like, I love my daughter so much
- 17:33Speaker 3: and whatever you want is the right thing.
- 17:36Speaker 6: Go off, queen, Like there's that a whole scene, right,
- 17:40Speaker 6: which I wouldn't have minded if Missus Bennett got a
- 17:43Speaker 6: similar kind of two thousand and five treatment. But I
- 17:45Speaker 6: felt like Donald Sutherland daddy got this, like got this
- 17:49Speaker 6: little this little flourish at.
- 17:51Speaker 3: The end that he doesn't get in the book. And
- 17:54Speaker 3: it's like, well, do both or do none?
- 17:56Speaker 2: Right? I definitely have some thoughts about the parents and
- 18:00Speaker 2: their relationship to each other and their relationship to their daughters. Yeah,
- 18:03Speaker 2: so we can we'll get into.
- 18:06Speaker 3: But Jenna Malone is in this movie Sprinkling of Americans
- 18:13Speaker 3: Sprinkling because I was like, jennam alone, Donald's otherland, Canadian,
- 18:18Speaker 3: Jenna alone American?
- 18:20Speaker 2: Right, Well that thing happened where I was like, wait,
- 18:22Speaker 2: has Jenna Malone secretly been English this whole time? And
- 18:25Speaker 2: we just didn't know? But she just does a convincing
- 18:28Speaker 2: English accent, So good for her.
- 18:31Speaker 3: I think the first time I watched this movie, I
- 18:33Speaker 3: did not know who Carrie Mulligan or Rosamund Pike were.
- 18:39Speaker 3: I think I knew who Jennam Malone was because she
- 18:41Speaker 3: was a child star who was in this movie called
- 18:44Speaker 3: Stepmom starring Susan Sara.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, yeah, I've seen it. I think I think
- 18:48Speaker 2: early I know about it. Who knows. My brain is
- 18:51Speaker 2: full of too many movies. I don't know what I've
- 18:53Speaker 2: seen and what I haven't.
- 18:56Speaker 3: So I like knew who she but like most of
- 18:58Speaker 3: the everyone in this movie is famous, like.
- 19:02Speaker 2: Everyone except for Mary, although maybe I'll bite my tongue.
- 19:06Speaker 3: She was on West World. Oh she was on West World.
- 19:09Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, she's not as famous. I have a whole
- 19:13Speaker 2: like justice for Mary Bennett segment of my notes.
- 19:16Speaker 3: But I see I liked because I felt like and
- 19:20Speaker 3: maybe and again, books are long, and I will be
- 19:25Speaker 3: the first to admit that between Mary, Kitty and Lydia
- 19:27Speaker 3: like basically the sisters who aren't Jane and Elizabeth, sometimes
- 19:31Speaker 3: I'd be like, wait, which one is which personality? Like
- 19:35Speaker 3: it's kind of easy to lose track. But I felt
- 19:37Speaker 3: like Mary was very visually distinct in the movie. I
- 19:41Speaker 3: wish that she had more Yes, I wish we just
- 19:43Speaker 3: knew what happened to her. But that's also kind of like,
- 19:46Speaker 3: does Jane Austen tell us what happens to Mary? No?
- 19:49Speaker 2: And I think that the book cares less about the
- 19:53Speaker 2: Mary character than the movie does.
- 19:55Speaker 3: What I loved about movie Mary is they kind of
- 19:59Speaker 3: like style it Stickley speaking in two thousand and five terms.
- 20:02Speaker 3: They kind of like hot topiced her. They were like,
- 20:05Speaker 3: she's gone with our goth she's literally because she's kind
- 20:08Speaker 3: of she reminds me of Lydia from Beetlejuice.
- 20:12Speaker 2: Well, there's a scene where they're all at the Bingley
- 20:16Speaker 2: estate and it's Missus Bennett and then the three youngest
- 20:20Speaker 2: daughters all on a couch together, and the and Missus
- 20:23Speaker 2: Bennett and Kitty and Lydia are all wearing pastels, you know,
- 20:27Speaker 2: a lavender of pink, a light green. And then Mary's God,
- 20:31Speaker 2: she's like in black and dark browns.
- 20:34Speaker 3: I love her.
- 20:35Speaker 2: She's the goth sister.
- 20:36Speaker 3: And I also loved that, Like I don't know, like
- 20:39Speaker 3: I just all of the characters in the book, but
- 20:43Speaker 3: like especially in them. I've just been like triply impressed
- 20:46Speaker 3: with how it's done in the movie because it's like
- 20:48Speaker 3: less time and less baggage, but you still get I
- 20:51Speaker 3: feel like an even clearer idea of who the characters are.
- 20:54Speaker 3: I like that. It's like, even though Mary like comes
- 20:56Speaker 3: off as very like standoffish and solemn and like alone
- 21:00Speaker 3: her and she literally is like playing the piano all
- 21:02Speaker 3: the time. I'm like, oh my god, hot topic, sister,
- 21:05Speaker 3: but she also like you get to see her express emotion.
- 21:09Speaker 3: Like she there's that moment in one of those amazing
- 21:12Speaker 3: shots where she like starts crying and Donald Sutherland, because
- 21:18Speaker 3: he's like not an emotionally intelligent dad, It's like, oh no,
- 21:22Speaker 3: I made my daughter cry And this all happens in
- 21:26Speaker 3: the background of a shot. It's like so amazing. I
- 21:29Speaker 3: love this movie.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Yeah, we check in on her, and yeah, to certain people,
- 21:34Speaker 2: she might seem you know, standoffish or aloof or whatever.
- 21:38Speaker 2: But it's just because like she's socially awkward. She's misunderstood,
- 21:42Speaker 2: much like mister Darcy, I guess, except that he's also
- 21:46Speaker 2: an asshole.
- 21:48Speaker 3: Mister I mean, mister Darcy. Does he display growth? Yes?
- 21:52Speaker 3: Does he display enough growth that I would have married him?
- 21:55Speaker 3: In that moment, I want to say no. I want
- 21:59Speaker 3: to say no, right, but also I want Elizabeth to
- 22:03Speaker 3: be so happy it makes me cry. Like I love
- 22:07Speaker 3: It's it's I feel like Elizabeth Bennett and like Joe March,
- 22:12Speaker 3: like they're just like just characters that you're just like, Okay,
- 22:16Speaker 3: I don't necessarily agree. I mean, I I like mister
- 22:19Speaker 3: Darcy better than random guy that Joe Joe March ends
- 22:23Speaker 3: up with random professor.
- 22:25Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 22:26Speaker 3: Yeah, but but you know you're like, Okay, maybe I
- 22:28Speaker 3: wouldn't have done the same thing, but you seem happy,
- 22:31Speaker 3: and you've been through so much, and I want you
- 22:33Speaker 3: to be happy. I just want Elizabeth Bennett to be happy, busy.
- 22:39Speaker 3: Oh my god, she loves she loves her tall, awkward bangs. Husband.
- 22:45Speaker 3: The bangs are a lot. The bangs are a lot.
- 22:48Speaker 2: Wait on mister Darcy.
- 22:50Speaker 3: On mister Darcy. Yeah, his hair, his hair.
- 22:53Speaker 2: His head, his head.
- 22:55Speaker 3: It's it makes me laugh because it is like there
- 22:57Speaker 3: are I feel like for the most part, I mean, Joe,
- 23:00Speaker 3: that's kind of like Joe Wright's thing. He creates these
- 23:02Speaker 3: very engrossing, visually appealing period pieces. But you can still
- 23:07Speaker 3: I feel like the one tell that it's two thousand
- 23:09Speaker 3: and five or the two tells is that Kuran Nightley
- 23:12Speaker 3: is the lead and mister Darcy's hair is flat ironed
- 23:16Speaker 3: the whole movie. What is that? Why is his hair
- 23:20Speaker 3: is straightened into bangs the way that a hot topic
- 23:23Speaker 3: sister would do. I mean maybe that was also happening
- 23:26Speaker 3: during the regency era, but I was like, this is
- 23:29Speaker 3: what scene boys were doing at my middle school. Why
- 23:32Speaker 3: is why' is sister Darcy doing it?
- 23:34Speaker 2: I mean, some people's hair just lays like that.
- 23:37Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. We'll have to take
- 23:39Speaker 3: it up with mcfaddyen. But okay, what's your history with
- 23:43Speaker 3: Pride and Prejudice?
- 23:44Speaker 2: I had seen it right around when it came out,
- 23:48Speaker 2: just that one time, didn't ever read the book, did
- 23:52Speaker 2: watch Bridget Jones's diary, and I had forgotten that it
- 23:56Speaker 2: is a very loose adaptation of Pride Prejudice. So when
- 23:58Speaker 2: I started reading the book, I was like, And then
- 24:02Speaker 2: to clarify that I have a copy of the book,
- 24:07Speaker 2: I listened to the Rosamund Pike. Basically I let her
- 24:11Speaker 2: read it to me as I read along in the book,
- 24:14Speaker 2: which is how I'm gonna read books from now on.
- 24:16Speaker 2: Like I never I like, don't know why, I never thought,
- 24:18Speaker 2: oh my God, to do that before?
- 24:21Speaker 3: Please?
- 24:21Speaker 2: And then like, but it's so much easier.
- 24:23Speaker 3: You use the library a lot, get audiobooks from the library.
- 24:26Speaker 3: That's literally how I do. Like, I wouldn't be able
- 24:29Speaker 3: to do any research if I couldn't listen to audiobooks. Period.
- 24:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what I was thinking before. So
- 24:36Speaker 2: that's how I'm gonna I'm just gonna like read along
- 24:39Speaker 2: as some person reads at me. Also, So anyway, that's
- 24:44Speaker 2: how I consumed the book. And then as I as
- 24:47Speaker 2: I was consuming it, I was like, oh, wait a minute,
- 24:49Speaker 2: this sounds this seems very familiar and sort of like
- 24:51Speaker 2: what happens in Bridget Jones's diary. And then I was like, right,
- 24:54Speaker 2: that is an adaptation of that. Okay, So I had
- 24:57Speaker 2: seen the movie only once. I remembered two scenes from
- 25:01Speaker 2: it and nothing else. I remember the scene where Darcy
- 25:05Speaker 2: and Bingley are approaching the house for the first time.
- 25:11Speaker 2: A frenzy ensues because they're like, oh my god, we
- 25:13Speaker 2: have to make ourselves look presentable, and then they like
- 25:16Speaker 2: pinch their cheeks a little bit to like, yeah, basically
- 25:19Speaker 2: like give themselves some rouge. I distinctly remember that. And
- 25:22Speaker 2: then the other scene I remember, which is one of
- 25:24Speaker 2: my favorite scenes in the movie, and this also happens
- 25:27Speaker 2: in the book where mister Collins has proposed to Elizabeth.
- 25:32Speaker 2: She has said no, Missus Bennett is like, Lizzie, what
- 25:36Speaker 2: the hell are you doing? You gotta say yes to
- 25:38Speaker 2: this guy. I will never speak to you again if
- 25:40Speaker 2: you don't marry him. And then mister Bennett is like, well,
- 25:44Speaker 2: that's what your mom says. She'll never see you again
- 25:46Speaker 2: if you don't marry him, and I'll never see you
- 25:48Speaker 2: again if you do. And I was like, Bam, I.
- 25:51Speaker 3: Mean cool, it's a good moment. And it's like that's
- 25:54Speaker 3: straight from the book baby, Like mm hmm, that's a
- 25:57Speaker 3: really effectively done scene. And yeah, I love Lizzie God.
- 26:04Speaker 3: I just like and then, especially like with the historical
- 26:07Speaker 3: context of like just how I don't know whatever, we'll
- 26:11Speaker 3: talk about like women in general, I mean, and I
- 26:14Speaker 3: love that this movie focuses on relationships between women quite
- 26:19Speaker 3: a bit. Yeah, quite a bit. I mean, the book
- 26:22Speaker 3: obviously does as well, but it also kind of goes
- 26:24Speaker 3: off on these tangents. I feel like there's like I
- 26:26Speaker 3: was getting so sick of Wickham because it's like you
- 26:29Speaker 3: find out he's a snake and then he's just still
- 26:31Speaker 3: around and you're like, who cares, We're done with him,
- 26:34Speaker 3: he's a scammer. But the fact that it's like it's
- 26:39Speaker 3: hard to reject anybody, but also like it wasn't just
- 26:43Speaker 3: a rejection she was doing. It was like there were
- 26:46Speaker 3: ties to her future, and there's ties to her like
- 26:51Speaker 3: security physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially, financially, her family is
- 26:58Speaker 3: all tied up in it as well, Like the stakes
- 27:00Speaker 3: were so high, but she acted to her values. She's like,
- 27:06Speaker 3: I'm not gonna marry this fucking asshole who I Also,
- 27:10Speaker 3: I think that they added and I thought this was
- 27:12Speaker 3: like a smart choice. I'm pretty sure in the book,
- 27:15Speaker 3: does mister Collins say like, oh, I want to marry
- 27:18Speaker 3: Jane and then they're like, oh, you can't, but you
- 27:21Speaker 3: can marry Lizy. And then he's like, oh, okay, does
- 27:23Speaker 3: he say that? I mean, I feel like he definitely
- 27:25Speaker 3: like proposes to her. She says no, but I didn't
- 27:28Speaker 3: think that there was a moment where he was like,
- 27:29Speaker 3: Jane's my pick and they're like, sorry.
- 27:33Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing about books is that I don't
- 27:35Speaker 2: remember them, even though I read this one a week ago,
- 27:37Speaker 2: So I have no fucking idea.
- 27:39Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure, I mean, and feel free and briden
- 27:41Speaker 3: prejudice had feel free to sound off in the comments,
- 27:45Speaker 3: but I'm pretty sure that that doesn't happen. But again,
- 27:48Speaker 3: it's like it's that's a really effective story point for
- 27:51Speaker 3: the movie to make it clear that it's like, yeah,
- 27:54Speaker 3: she should not marry this fucking guy.
- 27:58Speaker 2: Yeah he sucks. Mm hmm. Should I do the recap?
- 28:12Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, I love this story me too.
- 28:17Speaker 2: Okay. We are in the late eighteenth century, which is
- 28:22Speaker 2: a slight deviation from the book because the book takes
- 28:25Speaker 2: place I think in like eighteen twelve.
- 28:28Speaker 3: Yeah, like at the time it was like the book
- 28:30Speaker 3: was released or like, right, this is a modern book.
- 28:33Speaker 2: Eighteen thirteen something when it came out is when it
- 28:36Speaker 2: was published. Yeah, the movie, and this is like based
- 28:39Speaker 2: on some choices from Joe Wright, the director. He said
- 28:44Speaker 2: it back, I want to say, like maybe twenty or
- 28:47Speaker 2: thirty years so it's like late seventeen hundred's rural England.
- 28:51Speaker 2: We meet Elizabeth Bennett that's Karen Knightley of course, and
- 28:56Speaker 2: her family, her elder sister Jane that's Rosamond, and her
- 29:01Speaker 2: younger sister's kitty, Carrie. Mulligan, Lydia is Jennam alone and
- 29:07Speaker 2: Mary who I didn't write down that actor because I'm
- 29:11Speaker 2: a rude bit.
- 29:12Speaker 3: Wow, I love her. You're like, she's the only one
- 29:14Speaker 3: who's not famous.
- 29:15Speaker 2: Justice for Mary.
- 29:16Speaker 3: I don't know what her name is.
- 29:17Speaker 2: I don't recognize her.
- 29:19Speaker 3: Riley, thank you so much. She was in West World. Okay.
- 29:23Speaker 2: Anyways, so they are all eves dropping on their mother,
- 29:27Speaker 2: Missus Bennett played by Brenda Blethin, telling their father, mister
- 29:34Speaker 2: Bennett played by Donald Sutherland.
- 29:36Speaker 3: Mister Bennett, she's the most British person that's ever lived.
- 29:42Speaker 2: Yes, so she's telling her husband, her husband that a
- 29:48Speaker 2: rich young man and mister Bingley, mister Bingley has bought
- 29:53Speaker 2: a nearby estate and also he's single, and they're all
- 29:58Speaker 2: anticipating that one of the Bennett girls will marry mister Bingley,
- 30:02Speaker 2: who will be coming to a ball that's being thrown.
- 30:06Speaker 2: I don't know the following evening or sometime soon.
- 30:09Speaker 3: I will say, of all the men in the story,
- 30:12Speaker 3: if I had to get married to one of them,
- 30:14Speaker 3: one hundred percent, mister Bingley, what a sweetie, so sweetye,
- 30:18Speaker 3: a pushover, not the maybe not the brightest crayon in
- 30:22Speaker 3: the box, but like, but what a sweetie. The way
- 30:26Speaker 3: he looks at Jane, He's like, I love her so much.
- 30:30Speaker 3: But then mister Darcy's like, don't marry her, and he's
- 30:32Speaker 3: like okay, Like you're like, okay, come on.
- 30:35Speaker 2: The part where he's like, I'm not a very good reader.
- 30:38Speaker 2: I can read, and I'm not suggesting you can't read.
- 30:41Speaker 2: Outside He's so cute.
- 30:45Speaker 3: I loved mister Bingley. Also, he kind of disappeared too.
- 30:48Speaker 3: I don't know what happened to him. Oh my gosh, wait,
- 30:51Speaker 3: this is weat Sorry, I'm just on his Wikipedia page.
- 30:53Speaker 3: The actor Simon Woods. Hmm. So he's a writer now,
- 30:57Speaker 3: but he he dated Rosamond Pike for two thousand to
- 31:00Speaker 3: two thousand and two, so not when this came out.
- 31:03Speaker 3: Oh yes. And then now he's married to a man
- 31:06Speaker 3: named Christopher Bailey who is like a fashion ceo. Okay,
- 31:12Speaker 3: and he has two daughters and now he writes plays.
- 31:15Speaker 3: But I was like, that's so bizarre that, like he
- 31:17Speaker 3: dated Rosamund Pike and then they played lovers like three
- 31:21Speaker 3: years after they broke up.
- 31:23Speaker 2: Love that they're.
- 31:24Speaker 3: Still cute together. I love mister Bingley. Yeah, he's so
- 31:30Speaker 3: I would have such a crush on mister Bingley. You're like,
- 31:32Speaker 3: it's okay, I believe you can read.
- 31:34Speaker 2: Right, Okay. So at the ball, everyone is dancing, they're
- 31:39Speaker 2: having a merry time. Then this mister Bingley shows up
- 31:44Speaker 2: along with his sister Caroline and his friend mister Darcy.
- 31:50Speaker 2: That's Matthew mcfadian. Is that how you say it? Fadien
- 31:53Speaker 2: Fati mcfadian, who is very rich, even richer than Bingley,
- 31:59Speaker 2: and who Elizabeth thinks looks miserable and unpleasant, and he does,
- 32:05Speaker 2: and he does. He is thought to be too proud
- 32:08Speaker 2: and prejudiced.
- 32:11Speaker 3: He's so emo. He's like everyone's like hi, mister Jarcy.
- 32:15Speaker 3: He's like l no, No, I'm like, dude, you're twenty eight,
- 32:19Speaker 3: Like he can you just say hello?
- 32:22Speaker 6: Right?
- 32:23Speaker 2: But then I'm like, maybe he's got social anxiety. Maybe
- 32:26Speaker 2: he's got.
- 32:27Speaker 3: Well he says he has social anxiety, right, yeah, yeah,
- 32:30Speaker 3: I mean obviously not a discussion back then, but like
- 32:32Speaker 3: he but I feel like it's implied that it's like
- 32:36Speaker 3: he has social anxiety and then deals with it by
- 32:40Speaker 3: acting like he's too good for everyone, and that's like
- 32:43Speaker 3: his cope. Because there's that scene where it's like he
- 32:46Speaker 3: basically tells Elizabeth like I have a hard time talking
- 32:50Speaker 3: to new people, right, and then she's kind of like, fuck,
- 32:53Speaker 3: you leave me alone, And I'm like, well, given the
- 32:56Speaker 3: fat how he's treated her, I get it. But also
- 32:59Speaker 3: he is yeah, he like totally cops to being socially
- 33:02Speaker 3: anxious for sure.
- 33:03Speaker 2: Yeah, But then I'm like, is he neurodivergent? Possibly? We
- 33:09Speaker 2: don't know. They didn't understand these things back then, right,
- 33:12Speaker 2: maybe something's going on as someone who especially like earlier
- 33:16Speaker 2: in my life, people would make snap judgments about me
- 33:20Speaker 2: because I was like socially anxious or uncomfortable, and I
- 33:23Speaker 2: was like, sure, no, I'm actually nice. So I just
- 33:25Speaker 2: found all that relatable. But then also like he insults
- 33:28Speaker 2: her as he's proposing to her, So I'm like, actually,
- 33:30Speaker 2: maybe he's an asshole.
- 33:31Speaker 3: But also like many things, and I feel like that's
- 33:33Speaker 3: a lot of the take like we can't say obviously,
- 33:37Speaker 3: but like in this story, I feel like the fact
- 33:39Speaker 3: that we can even have that conversation about a two
- 33:42Speaker 3: hundred year old story is really cool because this is
- 33:46Speaker 3: a story where two things can be true all the time,
- 33:50Speaker 3: where it's like, yes, mister Darcy obviously has a level
- 33:54Speaker 3: of social anxiety that he admits to in the book
- 33:57Speaker 3: and the movie, but he also acts behind people's backs
- 34:02Speaker 3: and is a total jerk in ways that is completely
- 34:05Speaker 3: unrelated to his social anxiety and has everything to do
- 34:08Speaker 3: with his like class bullshit. So this is just like,
- 34:13Speaker 3: I don't know, I just think it's really cool that
- 34:15Speaker 3: it's like we can have that discussion and then also
- 34:17Speaker 3: be like but there were also moments in this story
- 34:21Speaker 3: where he was straight up being an elitist jerk, which
- 34:25Speaker 3: he later admitted and was like, and now I have
- 34:28Speaker 3: to make things right because growth. Oh, mister Darcy, Yes, okay.
- 34:35Speaker 2: So he shows up at the ball and he and
- 34:37Speaker 2: Elizabeth share a look, but then Elizabeth overhears mister Darcy
- 34:42Speaker 2: say about her that she's tolerable but not pretty enough
- 34:46Speaker 2: to tempt him, which then she uses as ammunition in
- 34:50Speaker 2: a little like mic drop comment to him later on.
- 34:54Speaker 2: This is the beginning of the like will they won't
- 34:57Speaker 2: they romantic tension between them.
- 35:00Speaker 3: I love that shot, where like after Lizzie, which is
- 35:03Speaker 3: this is like most of her mic dropped moments, not all,
- 35:06Speaker 3: but like a lot of them are added in for
- 35:08Speaker 3: the movie, and so she kind of Mic drops him,
- 35:10Speaker 3: she repeats back the thing that she overheard him saying
- 35:13Speaker 3: about her, and then there's like this long shot of
- 35:15Speaker 3: her walking away and you almost like I just almost
- 35:18Speaker 3: wanted like a music cue there of like ahh may moment,
- 35:24Speaker 3: like she's like strutting away, like there's music playing, but
- 35:28Speaker 3: it's like it's still a fucking harpist chord.
- 35:32Speaker 2: Right right. I did find those moments very cathartic.
- 35:36Speaker 3: They're fun, yeah, And I feel like it didn't like
- 35:39Speaker 3: in the way that some when some older stories have
- 35:42Speaker 3: like those like modern flourishes added, they really stick out
- 35:45Speaker 3: because you're like, this doesn't feel consistent. But like with Lizzie,
- 35:49Speaker 3: that's so who she is in the book, that like
- 35:52Speaker 3: adding those moments feels very consistent with who.
- 35:55Speaker 2: She is, right, yes, Okay. So then meanwhile, Elizabeth's sister
- 35:59Speaker 2: j and mister Bingley seemed to be taking a liking
- 36:03Speaker 2: to each other. Then Jane is invited to dine at
- 36:07Speaker 2: mister Bingley's estate, where she has to stay for a
- 36:11Speaker 2: few days after developing a cold on the way there,
- 36:14Speaker 2: which missus Bennett basically orchestrates.
- 36:18Speaker 3: I was like, that's evil, genius. She's like, no, you
- 36:21Speaker 3: have to ride a horse, so you get sick, so
- 36:23Speaker 3: you fall in love. You're like, mom, that's evil.
- 36:28Speaker 2: Which mister Bennett, He's like, your skills for matchmaking are
- 36:33Speaker 2: a cult.
- 36:33Speaker 3: Missus Bennett. I mean, there's a lot to be said
- 36:35Speaker 3: about her. I know, we'll get to it, but there
- 36:37Speaker 3: are very few moments in the story where you get
- 36:40Speaker 3: to be like, all right, I guess she pulled that
- 36:42Speaker 3: one off, and like that was one of the few
- 36:44Speaker 3: moments where it's unconventional what she does. But does it
- 36:49Speaker 3: not work out for the best, you know? And then
- 36:52Speaker 3: she's like, no one dies of a cult. That's fine.
- 36:54Speaker 3: You're like Jesus.
- 36:58Speaker 2: Right, right. So Elizabeth also goes to the estate to
- 37:02Speaker 2: look after Jane while she's ill, and there she and
- 37:07Speaker 2: mister Darcy interact. They are mostly nagging each other and
- 37:13Speaker 2: they seem to hate each other, but also they seem
- 37:15Speaker 2: to secretly love each other.
- 37:17Speaker 3: Maybe mister Darcy keeps smirking and you're just like, he
- 37:20Speaker 3: just keeps looking at her, like he ha ha ha.
- 37:24Speaker 3: I'm like, do you know you love her yet?
- 37:25Speaker 1: Do you?
- 37:26Speaker 3: He does? He does, He totally does.
- 37:29Speaker 2: Because like when she leaves, he like helps her into
- 37:32Speaker 2: the carriage and like there's you know, just a spark
- 37:35Speaker 2: when they touch hands. It's a whole thing.
- 37:37Speaker 3: Oh.
- 37:38Speaker 2: So then Elizabeth and Jane return home, and when they do,
- 37:42Speaker 2: the Bennetts get news of a cousin, mister Collins, coming
- 37:46Speaker 2: to visit. He is to inherit their estate after mister
- 37:50Speaker 2: Bennett dies, since they only had daughters and women can't
- 37:55Speaker 2: own property during this time, or there are certain circumstances
- 38:00Speaker 2: in which you can, maybe, but it doesn't apply to
- 38:03Speaker 2: them them. I don't really understand.
- 38:05Speaker 3: I honestly, we didn't do. I mean, we already read
- 38:08Speaker 3: a book, so don't yell at us like I appreciate
- 38:11Speaker 3: how like Jane Austen, she doesn't like Russian novel style layout,
- 38:16Speaker 3: like and here are the rules for forty pages of
- 38:18Speaker 3: like what this actually meant? Because it seems like there
- 38:21Speaker 3: are circumstances in which women can own property, but this
- 38:25Speaker 3: isn't one of them, right for whatever reason. All you
- 38:27Speaker 3: need to know is, like this is not one of
- 38:29Speaker 3: Like mister Collins is getting it right for reason.
- 38:32Speaker 2: For reasons because Lady Catherine de Bergh owns her estate,
- 38:35Speaker 2: I think, but she's girl boss.
- 38:37Speaker 3: But maybe that's because all the men died like it's possible, Yeah,
- 38:41Speaker 3: because she's rich. It could because like all the guys
- 38:43Speaker 3: who used to own it died Like we just don't know,
- 38:45Speaker 3: simply don't know. But either way, the Bennett's sisters are
- 38:49Speaker 3: shit out of luck and they have to give it
- 38:51Speaker 3: to their rude cousin.
- 38:53Speaker 2: Yes, and mister Collins intends on marrying one of the
- 38:57Speaker 2: Bennett daughters because cousins be marrying each other in the
- 39:02Speaker 2: olden dates, not in this case, thank goodness. Elizabeth seems
- 39:08Speaker 2: like the best option for him. Meanwhile, the military is
- 39:12Speaker 2: stationed in town and a lieutenant or a lieutenant Wickham
- 39:17Speaker 2: also takes a liking to Elizabeth. They have some fun
- 39:20Speaker 2: banter about ribbons.
- 39:22Speaker 3: Oh my god.
- 39:23Speaker 2: We learn that Wickham has an unpleasant history with mister Darcy,
- 39:28Speaker 2: where Wickham tells Elizabeth that he and mister Darcy grew
- 39:31Speaker 2: up together, that Darcy denied an inheritance that was promised
- 39:36Speaker 2: to him because Darcy was jealous that his father loved
- 39:39Speaker 2: Wickham more than his own son.
- 39:41Speaker 3: Two things. This is such a I think, like on
- 39:45Speaker 3: Jane Austen's part, such a like insightful dynamic that I
- 39:49Speaker 3: feel like you don't see very often of like but
- 39:52Speaker 3: something that like I've definitely experienced. They feel like it's
- 39:54Speaker 3: a pretty common experience of like being so taken in
- 39:58Speaker 3: by a very charismatic person who's talking shit that it
- 40:02Speaker 3: isn't until you are like forced to take a step
- 40:05Speaker 3: out of their like charisma to be like, wait a second,
- 40:09Speaker 3: this person's full of shit, Like right, it's so and
- 40:13Speaker 3: like Wickham is such a classic example of that. Also,
- 40:16Speaker 3: my dad when we saw that movie, I got mad
- 40:20Speaker 3: at him in the theater because he made fun of
- 40:25Speaker 3: that ribbon scene in the theater and I got really
- 40:28Speaker 3: embarrassed because he was like joking about how they were,
- 40:32Speaker 3: like there's that shot where like Karen Knightley is like
- 40:34Speaker 3: peeking from behind the ribbons and he's like, oh, come hither,
- 40:39Speaker 3: but don't, but come hither but don't.
- 40:42Speaker 2: And I was like, Dad, stop, Mike, don't make fun.
- 40:49Speaker 2: Karen Knightley's awesome, Okay. So Wickham tells Elizabeth this, So
- 40:55Speaker 2: now Elizabeth thinks that mister Darcy is even more awful
- 40:59Speaker 2: than she thought he was before. Then the Bennett Ladies
- 41:02Speaker 2: go to another ball at mister Bingley's estate, where Elizabeth
- 41:06Speaker 2: hopes to see mister Wickham, but he is nowhere to
- 41:09Speaker 2: be found. Who is there is the dreadful mister Collins,
- 41:14Speaker 2: who wants to dance with Elizabeth, and so does mister Darcy.
- 41:21Speaker 2: So they dance and she confronts him about being awful
- 41:24Speaker 2: and he's like, you don't even know me.
- 41:27Speaker 3: I love them.
- 41:31Speaker 2: A short time later, mister Collins proposes to Elizabeth, which
- 41:35Speaker 2: she force fully declines, and this is the scene where
- 41:39Speaker 2: her mother is like, I'll never talk to you again
- 41:41Speaker 2: if you don't accept his proposal, and her father is like,
- 41:44Speaker 2: I'll never talk to you again if you do.
- 41:46Speaker 3: Another great Across the boyd Lizzie scene where and I
- 41:49Speaker 3: feel like this is like a feminist hero moment that's
- 41:53Speaker 3: built into the book where you know, like there's this
- 41:57Speaker 3: dynamic at this time where some times you would get
- 42:00Speaker 3: denied once and it just meant, oh, I have to
- 42:02Speaker 3: try hard, or I have to keep pushing, pushing, pushing
- 42:05Speaker 3: no means yes, but also like this is a game,
- 42:08Speaker 3: this is a dance and Lizzie in the book, and
- 42:12Speaker 3: then also I thought Curinate is so good in that scene.
- 42:15Speaker 3: She's like I'm not fucking around, Like yeah, no, I
- 42:19Speaker 3: don't want to marry you. I would be miserable. You
- 42:22Speaker 3: would be miserable, Like I'm not doing it, and don't
- 42:26Speaker 3: tell me that no means yes, and don't not take
- 42:28Speaker 3: me seriously. I just I love that scene.
- 42:32Speaker 2: There are some things that I'm realizing upon like reading
- 42:36Speaker 2: the book that like, and I mean, who knows when
- 42:39Speaker 2: the mentality started of I think no actually means yes
- 42:44Speaker 2: and if you say no, you're just being coy and
- 42:47Speaker 2: flirty and playing hard to get. But I was surprised
- 42:51Speaker 2: that something that I perceive as a modern bit of
- 42:54Speaker 2: misogyny is not just a modern thing and it was
- 42:59Speaker 2: happening for two.
- 43:00Speaker 3: Hundred years ago, right right, and like Lizzie, and it's
- 43:04Speaker 3: like it's I CA have to keep reminding myself as
- 43:06Speaker 3: I'm like listening to the book of like that's an
- 43:09Speaker 3: impressive thing to do right now. And the fact that
- 43:13Speaker 3: Lizzy was doing it in eighteen twelve when it was like,
- 43:16Speaker 3: I mean, just like the decision is like fifty times
- 43:19Speaker 3: as big and she still stands her ground and is like, no,
- 43:23Speaker 3: I said I don't want to marry you. I don't
- 43:25Speaker 3: want to marry you, right, and then she has to
- 43:28Speaker 3: do that a second time. Did mister Darcy I was like,
- 43:32Speaker 3: oh god, I just love Lizzie so much. I love her.
- 43:36Speaker 2: She's an icon.
- 43:37Speaker 3: That scene in the Rain, We'll get there, but that
- 43:39Speaker 3: scene in the rain, oh the music, Oh yeah, that
- 43:45Speaker 3: scene is though. That's what stuck with me. The first
- 43:47Speaker 3: time I saw the movie was like, the first rejection
- 43:49Speaker 3: scene is so good.
- 43:51Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. So mister Bingley and mister Darcy
- 43:56Speaker 2: then leave I think mister Bingley's estate without mister Bingley
- 44:02Speaker 2: proposing to Jane, which comes as a surprise to everyone,
- 44:06Speaker 2: and Elizabeth thinks that mister Bingley's sister, Caroline is trying
- 44:10Speaker 2: to persuade him to not marry her and to I
- 44:16Speaker 2: think marry mister Darcy's sister instead. Is that the thing?
- 44:20Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Like they're this this whole like the Bingley
- 44:23Speaker 3: Darcy thing. It seems like, oh, we're gonna marry each
- 44:26Speaker 3: other's sisters. Is this quote unquote smartest thing to do
- 44:29Speaker 3: to keep rich people with rich people? Because miss miss
- 44:32Speaker 3: Bingley is you know, I mean, this feels like an
- 44:36Speaker 3: aggressive statement, but she's throwing herself at mister Darcy and clearly,
- 44:42Speaker 3: I mean at the beginning of the movie and the book,
- 44:44Speaker 3: you're like, oh, they kind of deserve each other. They're
- 44:46Speaker 3: both fucking miserable people who have all these prejudice, who
- 44:50Speaker 3: have all these like rude, evil class.
- 44:53Speaker 2: All these prides and prejudices.
- 44:55Speaker 3: I was gonna, yeah, like they have all these I'm like,
- 44:58Speaker 3: you know what, fine, get married, miserable and rich, see
- 45:01Speaker 3: if I care, right, But then mister Darcy grows and
- 45:04Speaker 3: then the book Miss Bingley, it's like implied in the
- 45:07Speaker 3: space of two sentences, eventually grows a little bit at
- 45:11Speaker 3: the end.
- 45:12Speaker 2: I forgot about that part too.
- 45:13Speaker 3: Anyway, Yeah, they're like and eventually she kind of grew
- 45:16Speaker 3: up and that was nice. You're like, all right, good
- 45:18Speaker 3: for her.
- 45:19Speaker 2: So yeah, Elizabeth's friend Charlotte, who we've seen in the
- 45:23Speaker 2: movie before, but she is just not showing up in
- 45:26Speaker 2: my recap.
- 45:27Speaker 3: I love her.
- 45:28Speaker 2: Charlotte ends up marrying mister Collins and Elizabeth goes to
- 45:31Speaker 2: visit them, where Elizabeth meets Lady Catherine de Bergh aka
- 45:37Speaker 2: Dame Judy.
- 45:38Speaker 3: Dench oh and she is making a meal of her
- 45:41Speaker 3: three scenes.
- 45:43Speaker 2: So the director Joe Wright convinced Judy Dench to play
- 45:48Speaker 2: this character by writing her a letter that said, quote,
- 45:53Speaker 2: I love it when you play a bitch, please come
- 45:56Speaker 2: and be a bitch for me. End of letter, and
- 46:00Speaker 2: Judi Dench was like, sold, I'm there.
- 46:03Speaker 3: I love that. That makes me so happy. Oh yeah,
- 46:08Speaker 3: I'm smiling. I'm smiling.
- 46:09Speaker 2: That rocks. So Elizabeth meets Lady Catherine de Bergh as
- 46:14Speaker 2: well as her daughter and her nephew who is guess who,
- 46:18Speaker 2: mister Darcy. Oh, and we get to know Lady Catherine
- 46:22Speaker 2: a little bit. She is very emphasis on the prejudice
- 46:27Speaker 2: part of pride and prejudice because she's extremely rich and
- 46:31Speaker 2: elitist and classist.
- 46:33Speaker 3: Yeah, they wanted her to play a bit Caitlyn, and
- 46:36Speaker 3: she did, and.
- 46:37Speaker 2: She did it. So then mister Darcy and Elizabeth have
- 46:41Speaker 2: a few awkward encounters. Again, it's clear that he loves her,
- 46:47Speaker 2: and he seems to want to tell her something or
- 46:49Speaker 2: maybe ask her something. But then she finds out that
- 46:52Speaker 2: he quote unquote saved his friend mister Bingley from getting
- 46:55Speaker 2: married to the wrong person because she came from an
- 46:58Speaker 2: unsuitable family. And he is talking about mister Bingley not
- 47:04Speaker 2: proposing to Jane and the Bennett family being unsuitable. So
- 47:07Speaker 2: now Elizabeth hates mister Darcy even more. But then Darcy
- 47:13Speaker 2: professes his love for Elizabeth, despite his better judgment, despite
- 47:18Speaker 2: his family's expectations, and rain the rain. It's happening in
- 47:25Speaker 2: the rain.
- 47:25Speaker 3: It's a big deal, and it's happening despite his family's expectations,
- 47:30Speaker 3: despite the inferiority of her birth, despite his rank and circumstance.
- 47:34Speaker 2: He asks her to marry him, and she's like, what
- 47:39Speaker 2: the hell? What about how you separated my sister from
- 47:42Speaker 2: the man she loves. What about how you think I'm
- 47:45Speaker 2: gross and poor and that my family is rude and improper?
- 47:48Speaker 2: What about how you ruin mister Wickham's life. I love Lizzie.
- 47:56Speaker 2: And he's like, well, yes, some of that is true,
- 47:59Speaker 2: except some of it isn't and you don't know what
- 48:01Speaker 2: you're talking about. Bye, and then he leaves.
- 48:04Speaker 3: He literally is like Facebook two thousand and eight. It's complicated,
- 48:08Speaker 3: like he's it's uh, Lizzy is doing things that I
- 48:13Speaker 3: can't do in relationships right now, like she is. Just
- 48:18Speaker 3: that scene is so satisfied, like and it's so well
- 48:21Speaker 3: acted between both of them because you can you can
- 48:25Speaker 3: see mister Darcy go in with his pride and pride,
- 48:28Speaker 3: I mean he goes in vulnerable to begin with, but
- 48:31Speaker 3: then when he's shot down like McFadyen, I mean, he's
- 48:35Speaker 3: killing it, like he's so he's like surprised, and then
- 48:39Speaker 3: he's like so hurt because he really loves her, but
- 48:43Speaker 3: she's right, and like, how dare he come at her? Like, hey,
- 48:48Speaker 3: I've it, you know, against all odds, I want to
- 48:52Speaker 3: marry you. And she's like, well fuck you, Like I'm
- 48:55Speaker 3: I'm awesome, Like I just.
- 48:58Speaker 2: I love her, she's great.
- 48:59Speaker 3: That scene fucked me up, Oh my god. And the
- 49:02Speaker 3: fact that like I feel like that's just Joe Wright
- 49:06Speaker 3: magic where he's like, and we're gonna just gonna put
- 49:08Speaker 3: it in the rain just for because I don't I mean,
- 49:11Speaker 3: I don't remember if that's I think that scene was
- 49:12Speaker 3: inside Yeah, yeah, you're sure, Oh put it in the
- 49:16Speaker 3: fucking rain. And then at the end of that scene,
- 49:19Speaker 3: you're like, are they gonna kiss? Right?
- 49:22Speaker 2: They like kind of move there, they like move toward
- 49:25Speaker 2: each other as if to be like, well, I know
- 49:28Speaker 2: we just screamed at each other, but should we kiss?
- 49:32Speaker 3: But then they don't. They don't know, and they, i mean,
- 49:35Speaker 3: they really make you wait for the kiss. The way
- 49:36Speaker 3: that this movie ends is not how the book ends, right.
- 49:39Speaker 3: The way that this movie ends. You know, this movie
- 49:42Speaker 3: came out almost seventeen years ago, and I think about it,
- 49:46Speaker 3: m miss Dascy. Oh anyways, sorry. Continue.
- 49:51Speaker 2: So he leaves after getting his proposal rejected, and shortly
- 49:56Speaker 2: thereafter he gives Elizabeth a letter in which Darcy he
- 50:00Speaker 2: explains that Wickham is actually a degenerate gambler, and Darcy
- 50:05Speaker 2: only did what he did with Bingley and Jane because
- 50:08Speaker 2: he thought he was looking out for a friend, because
- 50:10Speaker 2: he perceived Jane to be indifferent towards Bingley, because no
- 50:15Speaker 2: one understands who anyone actually is, because people just make
- 50:19Speaker 2: snack judgments in this movie, in this book.
- 50:22Speaker 3: No, And he was so like and again you can
- 50:25Speaker 3: see it on his face. When Elizabeth's like she's shy.
- 50:29Speaker 3: Yeah that it cuts back to Darcy and he's like
- 50:31Speaker 3: like oh, because you can see him register like, oh
- 50:33Speaker 3: I'm shy. Oh I shouldn't.
- 50:36Speaker 2: I should have seen this, I should have understood.
- 50:38Speaker 3: Oh I intimately understand what she was doing, and yet
- 50:42Speaker 3: I judged her anyways, like oh this it's a great story.
- 50:46Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So now Elizabeth has all these second thoughts,
- 50:51Speaker 2: maybe Darcy is not that bad of a guy. After all,
- 50:54Speaker 2: and then her sister Jane comes back home from London.
- 50:58Speaker 2: Her sister Lydia goes to Brighton with the Forster family,
- 51:03Speaker 2: who I guess are people that we're supposed to know
- 51:06Speaker 2: who they are.
- 51:07Speaker 3: I don't think we need I think I think that
- 51:09Speaker 3: this movie is just like they're like, she's away, Yeah, yeah,
- 51:11Speaker 3: she's away.
- 51:12Speaker 2: So then Elizabeth goes with her aunt and uncle to
- 51:14Speaker 2: Darcy's estate because it's open to visitors, which is wild
- 51:18Speaker 2: to me.
- 51:18Speaker 3: I know, it's like rich people houses are literally just museums.
- 51:24Speaker 2: But I get.
- 51:24Speaker 3: I mean, I guess that's true if some places still,
- 51:27Speaker 3: but I feel like the rich people don't actually live
- 51:29Speaker 3: there anymore, Like they wouldn't just be like, oh, whoops,
- 51:31Speaker 3: I didn't realize you were hanging today.
- 51:33Speaker 2: They must be so rich in their house, so big
- 51:36Speaker 2: that they can just have an entirely separate part of
- 51:39Speaker 2: their house where they actually live in, and then another
- 51:42Speaker 2: part where it's like, yeah, you can come and look
- 51:44Speaker 2: at my fancy couch and statues. Fine.
- 51:49Speaker 3: That was one of my favorite shots in the whole movie, though,
- 51:52Speaker 3: when when Elizabeth, I mean spoiler, you're about to hit
- 51:56Speaker 3: it in the recap where she's like walking around, walking around,
- 51:59Speaker 3: and then it turns out Darcy is there, and then
- 52:02Speaker 3: there's like this Hitchcock zoom on her where she's like ooh,
- 52:06Speaker 3: and it like zooms in on her, and then she
- 52:08Speaker 3: runs away. And I just love how many different sides
- 52:13Speaker 3: of Lizzy's personality you see, because I feel like so
- 52:15Speaker 3: often with these like feminist hero characters, which Lizzy Bennett
- 52:19Speaker 3: is like in the fucking Mount Rushmore of feminist hero characters,
- 52:25Speaker 3: but you also get to see these like moments where
- 52:28Speaker 3: she's like vulnerable and she's kind of like that whole
- 52:31Speaker 3: sequence in the book. And then also I feel like
- 52:34Speaker 3: it kind of telegraphs clearly in the movie, like yes,
- 52:38Speaker 3: she's like gonna stick to her guns no matter what.
- 52:40Speaker 3: Her values are very clear and very strong. But also
- 52:44Speaker 3: she's like, I don't know. I like that she like
- 52:47Speaker 3: still has like an imagination and is like, but what
- 52:49Speaker 3: if what would it what would it be like if
- 52:51Speaker 3: I like lived here? And right entertains the thought and
- 52:55Speaker 3: you get like that intimate moment of someone alone that
- 53:00Speaker 3: I feel like with most like feminist characters and most heroes,
- 53:03Speaker 3: you only see the side of them that is like
- 53:06Speaker 3: very like, these are my values and I don't.
- 53:09Speaker 2: I don't need no love and support in my life.
- 53:14Speaker 3: Right right, that's like I'm literally a superhero. And it's
- 53:17Speaker 3: like Lizzy Bennett could be by herself and sustain and
- 53:22Speaker 3: be fine, and we know that, but it's also it's
- 53:25Speaker 3: also I don't know, just like it's so cool and
- 53:28Speaker 3: refreshing to see I mean, fucking two hundred year old story,
- 53:32Speaker 3: but like to see her have those like moments alone
- 53:36Speaker 3: of like, well, what would it be Like It's not
- 53:38Speaker 3: like she's saying I'm going to do this, but just
- 53:41Speaker 3: to see her kind of like process and consider what
- 53:44Speaker 3: that life would be like for her and then to
- 53:46Speaker 3: be taken off guard by him and then be like
- 53:49Speaker 3: ool and like just have a moment of like, oh shit,
- 53:52Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't I thought your house was a museum.
- 53:55Speaker 3: And so like I love that scene where she's she
- 54:00Speaker 3: is just like fully panicking and it's like I just
- 54:02Speaker 3: didn't think you would be at your house and he's like,
- 54:05Speaker 3: well house, So like it's I just love it.
- 54:11Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great scene. They're both so awkward. Okay,
- 54:14Speaker 2: So yeah, we're about to get there where Elizabeth goes
- 54:16Speaker 2: to Darcy's estate and Darcy doesn't appear to be there,
- 54:20Speaker 2: or she doesn't think he's there, but he's returned a
- 54:22Speaker 2: day early from where he was and she runs into
- 54:25Speaker 2: him and it's really awkward, but they seem to be
- 54:28Speaker 2: getting along a little bit better than usual, or at
- 54:30Speaker 2: least they're just like, you know, propriety is getting the
- 54:33Speaker 2: better of them.
- 54:34Speaker 3: He's so happy to see her, Yes, he's so happy
- 54:38Speaker 3: to see her. He's like, wait a second, you're at
- 54:40Speaker 3: my freaking house.
- 54:42Speaker 2: And he's being like, so are you staying nearby? And
- 54:46Speaker 2: she's like, yes, I'm at this exact tavern or whatever,
- 54:50Speaker 2: and he's like cool, cool, cool, good to know. And
- 54:52Speaker 2: then he does show up there later, but just to
- 54:55Speaker 2: invite Elizabeth and her aunt uncle to dinner the next day.
- 55:00Speaker 3: I didn't feel like of I mean, there are things
- 55:03Speaker 3: to talk about with the relationship, but I didn't ever
- 55:05Speaker 3: feel like he was like stockery creepy, right he was.
- 55:09Speaker 3: I feel like he was very respectful and when she
- 55:11Speaker 3: set boundaries, he would like really take the note to
- 55:16Speaker 3: the point where it's like at the end he's like,
- 55:17Speaker 3: if you say no, I'll walk away right, Oh you'll
- 55:20Speaker 3: never see me again. Yeah, no worries like, of all
- 55:24Speaker 3: the men in the story, I feel like Darcy has
- 55:26Speaker 3: the best understanding of boundaries because Collins is like, yeah, sure, no, right,
- 55:32Speaker 3: of course you would have married me.
- 55:33Speaker 2: Yeah no means yes actually yeah.
- 55:36Speaker 3: Right, And Darcy's like, he's like almost extreme. He's like,
- 55:41Speaker 3: I can't be your friend. There's no in between. You
- 55:44Speaker 3: will never see me again and it will.
- 55:46Speaker 2: Be like I died, you know, right, right right, yeah, okay,
- 55:50Speaker 2: So he introduces Elizabeth to his sister Georgiana, but then
- 55:55Speaker 2: Elizabeth receives a letter from Jane saying that their sister
- 55:58Speaker 2: Lydia has run off with mister Wickham, that son of
- 56:03Speaker 2: a gun.
- 56:04Speaker 3: Lydia. Yeah, Lydia drives me up a wall, but also
- 56:11Speaker 3: she's young. I feel, Okay, this is something that every
- 56:15Speaker 3: time there is like a parenting issue brought up with
- 56:19Speaker 3: the Bennetts. And I don't mean to like it's hard.
- 56:22Speaker 3: I mean and it speaks to the strength of the
- 56:24Speaker 3: story that this is hard, because everyone in this story
- 56:28Speaker 3: is very complicated and has like multiple things going on.
- 56:31Speaker 3: But I do feel like, you know, missus Bennett is
- 56:34Speaker 3: so made to look so silly by the story, and
- 56:37Speaker 3: she is like not kind to her children, I don't
- 56:41Speaker 3: mean to say that she's a perfect mother in disguise,
- 56:43Speaker 3: like she's not. But I feel like a lot of
- 56:45Speaker 3: where her anxiety comes from, or where some of her
- 56:48Speaker 3: anxiety comes from, is anytime people talk about like, oh,
- 56:52Speaker 3: the Bennett sisters are being reared so poorly, the onus
- 56:55Speaker 3: is put very much on her versus mister Bennett, and
- 57:00Speaker 3: so like when Lydia runs off, I feel like missus
- 57:04Speaker 3: Bennett always has an outsized reaction to when one of
- 57:07Speaker 3: the daughters is being harshly judged. But I do feel
- 57:10Speaker 3: like that's also connected to when whenever you hear like
- 57:13Speaker 3: one of the richer characters, especially like Lady Catherine is
- 57:17Speaker 3: the person who does that the most in that really
- 57:20Speaker 3: aggressive dinner conversation. Mister Bennett doesn't even come up in
- 57:23Speaker 3: those conversations. It's like, oh, your mother fucked up, like
- 57:28Speaker 3: your mother failed, and like that's where it's not like
- 57:32Speaker 3: it's not conceivable in this class at this time that
- 57:36Speaker 3: it's like, if you have five daughters, they're all going
- 57:38Speaker 3: to be very different, which clearly Jane Austen knows because
- 57:43Speaker 3: she had wrote five daughters, and she wrote them to
- 57:45Speaker 3: all have very different personalities. But like in the eyes
- 57:49Speaker 3: of this like class and this story, it's like, oh,
- 57:52Speaker 3: if any daughter does anything wrong, it's like a failure
- 57:57Speaker 3: of the mother. And so it's like missus Bennett very
- 58:01Speaker 3: much has a victim complex, and I feel like she
- 58:03Speaker 3: doesn't take accountability for when she does fuck up. But
- 58:06Speaker 3: also I was trying to like stay cognizant of the
- 58:09Speaker 3: fact that like mister Bennett is so dismissive of stuff
- 58:13Speaker 3: in a lot of cases. But it's also like because
- 58:15Speaker 3: he doesn't carry the blame for most of it like
- 58:18Speaker 3: his wife does.
- 58:19Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I have complicated feelings about missus Bennett in particular. Well,
- 58:23Speaker 2: I guess both parents, but like, sure, she is such
- 58:27Speaker 2: a product of her environment. Yeah, totally, and again which
- 58:31Speaker 2: is a like such a rigid patriarchal structure, and which
- 58:37Speaker 2: gets commented on here and there in the movie, Like
- 58:39Speaker 2: there's a scene where she's you know, talking about one
- 58:42Speaker 2: of I forget which one, but it's like one of
- 58:44Speaker 2: the daughters getting married, and Elizabeth is like, is that
- 58:47Speaker 2: all you think about or is that all you talk about,
- 58:49Speaker 2: like us getting married? And she's like, well, when you
- 58:51Speaker 2: have five daughters, like come back to me. And then
- 58:54Speaker 2: you'll understand, like you'll you'll understand because of the circumstances
- 58:58Speaker 2: of like back in this time, women needed, like literally
- 59:03Speaker 2: needed a marriage in most cases to secure any stability
- 59:07Speaker 2: in their life financially or else because because again, women
- 59:10Speaker 2: were considered property. They couldn't own anything, like, they had
- 59:16Speaker 2: no opportunities for making their own way in the world
- 59:21Speaker 2: because of how few rights women had back then. So
- 59:24Speaker 2: that's like where her concern comes from.
- 59:27Speaker 3: But then it's also like at the expense of her
- 59:30Speaker 3: daughter's personalities and desires and wants, and so it's like, yeah,
- 59:35Speaker 3: it's it's so uh, like the story is so good.
- 59:38Speaker 3: It's so complicated because you can like put yourself in
- 59:40Speaker 3: her head and be like, I understand why she's doing
- 59:42Speaker 3: what she's doing, but like, obviously this is not the
- 59:45Speaker 3: way to do it. But then also I don't think
- 59:48Speaker 3: that she I have like more issues with mister Bennett
- 59:51Speaker 3: than I was expecting to, because I also don't think
- 59:53Speaker 3: that like mister Bennett is so disinterested in how his
- 59:58Speaker 3: wife is processing things where he kind of like he
- 1:00:01Speaker 3: loves her, but he like tolerates her like a joke, right,
- 1:00:06Speaker 3: Like he's he's like, oh, you do this, this is you,
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: and it's like, but do you ever think of like
- 1:00:12Speaker 3: like like you were saying, she's such a product of
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: her environment, and I feel like she like if they
- 1:00:17Speaker 3: were working more as a team, then she may not
- 1:00:21Speaker 3: be so you know, inclined to be pushy with her
- 1:00:26Speaker 3: kids because it's like, well, if they were working as
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: a as a team, then you know, like unfortunately, because
- 1:00:32Speaker 3: of the gender dynamics at this time, mister Bennett could
- 1:00:35Speaker 3: act in his daughter's best interest. And like they just
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: act like it's a rough marriage. I mean, I just
- 1:00:41Speaker 3: get the feeling that that's a rough marriage. And it's
- 1:00:43Speaker 3: like it's not. It's not loveless. Marriage is complicated. Relationships
- 1:00:47Speaker 3: are complicated. Like it's not like I do believe that
- 1:00:50Speaker 3: they love each other, they care about each other, but
- 1:00:53Speaker 3: their dynamic is like not beneficial to their kids at all.
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: And I think that mister Bennett is like like I
- 1:01:00Speaker 3: feel like negligent is maybe an overstatement, but like he's
- 1:01:04Speaker 3: just just dismissed a lot. He's checked out. Yeah, like
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: he's like, oh I'm I'm reading, so I can't I
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: can't think about anyone's feelings. And it's like, well, that
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: puts a lot on your wife. And also that means
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: that like that not only puts a lot on your wife,
- 1:01:21Speaker 3: it also you know, because of how the society is structured,
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: if things don't work out, he's not going to bear
- 1:01:28Speaker 3: the brunt of the criticism like she will. And so
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: I feel like it's inconsiderate of him to his spouse
- 1:01:35Speaker 3: to be so checked out because it's like she's gonna
- 1:01:38Speaker 3: have to take the shit. And then he's also like, oh,
- 1:01:41Speaker 3: you're so silly, You're so like and she is, but
- 1:01:45Speaker 3: like I feel like she's like it's it's a combination.
- 1:01:49Speaker 3: But like I feel like part of the reason why
- 1:01:51Speaker 3: she acts so silly, quote unquote is because she's acting alone,
- 1:01:58Speaker 3: Like she's acting basically like a single parent right to
- 1:02:02Speaker 3: help her kids out, and like it's coming from this
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: place of anxiety and in partially a selfish way for
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: sure of like, what's going to happen to our family
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: if this fucking random guy who is obsessed with Judy
- 1:02:15Speaker 3: Dench can just take our property at any time? And
- 1:02:19Speaker 3: I feel like that is like referenced in the movie
- 1:02:22Speaker 3: and the book, but like it's implied that Collins can
- 1:02:25Speaker 3: just take the house whenever he wants, and so I
- 1:02:29Speaker 3: understand through the time why missus Bennett would be like,
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: we have to secure something better than mister Collins in
- 1:02:38Speaker 3: this family at some point. Otherwise mister Collins can just
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: like displace us from our home and we would be
- 1:02:45Speaker 3: without a home, which mister Bennett seems I would say
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: weirdly indifferent about. Yeah. I was like, well, you would
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: also be displaced.
- 1:02:56Speaker 2: Well, no, because he would be dead. Oh, it's my understanding.
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: And again I don't understand all of the nuances of
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: this era in terms of like who inherits what and
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: when and who can and cannot own property, blah blah blah.
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: But I think the movie pretty clearly lays out that
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: when mister Bennett dies, that's when mister Collins will inherit. Okay, Okay,
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: so they have to secure marriages for the daughters prior
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: to mister Bennett dying.
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: Wait I didn't even ca yeah, because they keep referencing
- 1:03:25Speaker 3: oh my god. Okay, so that makes.
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: Him even worse. Like I don't know, right, I am.
- 1:03:31Speaker 3: Not like, I don't think either of them are amazing parents,
- 1:03:34Speaker 3: but I do think that mister Bennett is worse because
- 1:03:38Speaker 3: I'm like, if I'm mister Bennett, and I have five
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: children and a spouse who, by the rules of the time,
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: will be displaced if I die. Before I die, I'm
- 1:03:52Speaker 3: gonna want to make sure they're good, right, I know,
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: But he's the opposite. And then and so I that's
- 1:03:59Speaker 3: part of the reason why I know we're still in
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: the recap, but also we're kind of doing we're kind
- 1:04:04Speaker 3: of doing the whole episode right now. Yeah, but like
- 1:04:06Speaker 3: that's part of the reason why I got kind of
- 1:04:09Speaker 3: annoyed that the movie and this felt kind of studio notes, ye,
- 1:04:14Speaker 3: and it kind of felt like my guess is, like, well,
- 1:04:18Speaker 3: Donald Sutherland took the role, don't make him look mean.
- 1:04:21Speaker 3: And the reason I guess that was because Donald Sutherland
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: was in a stage adaptation of Lolita in which he
- 1:04:30Speaker 3: played Humbert Humbert, and he demanded that Humbert Humbard be
- 1:04:34Speaker 3: more sympathetic because he didn't want to appear unsympathetic in public.
- 1:04:40Speaker 3: So this is a thing for like Donald Sutherland specifically
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: where he will accept a role of I mean, obviously,
- 1:04:48Speaker 3: like mister Bennett isn't Humbert Humbert, but like not the
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: most sympathetic character in the world, sure, and then demand
- 1:04:55Speaker 3: that the character be retrofitted to be more sympathetic. I
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: just like, I know that this is a thing with
- 1:05:02Speaker 3: Donald Sutherland, so I wouldn't be surprised if this is
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: a studio it's thing, but I feel like it's it's
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: actually like pretty fucking selfish of mister Bennett too, Yeah,
- 1:05:12Speaker 3: to be so checked out and then then but then
- 1:05:15Speaker 3: to get that like little flourish of like and I
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: love my daughter so much, like at the end, it's like, well,
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: that's interesting because two months ago you were willing to
- 1:05:27Speaker 3: have your entire family be possibly displaced if one fucking
- 1:05:32Speaker 3: random guy gets in a bad mood one day and
- 1:05:35Speaker 3: you're not accountable for that, Like, fuck you. Sorry, I'm
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: anti mister Bennett.
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: My thought is, and I completely agree with you, and
- 1:05:46Speaker 2: we are able to like see these things about him
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: and his choices and behavior and identify them as awful. However,
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: I think that this type of thing was so normalized
- 1:06:01Speaker 2: in this era that no one even sure batted an
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: eyelash about it. Everyone's just like, well, yeah, this is
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: a woman's role in society to be a mother and
- 1:06:10Speaker 2: to be the primary caregiver for her children, especially in
- 1:06:14Speaker 2: terms of emotional support and worrying about their future and
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: teaching daughters how to be quote unquote proper women and
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: how to find husbands. That's what women and mothers do,
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: and because of rigid gender roles, men weren't expected to
- 1:06:32Speaker 2: have to deal with anything like that. Yeah, and then
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: just the way society was structured, the way that the
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: patriarchy was such a crushing presence. No one thought to
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: criticize that or question it or think it was weird
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: or to expect anything else. Yeah, well not no one,
- 1:06:53Speaker 2: but like most people, I would say, it was just
- 1:06:56Speaker 2: like such the norm. So again, like we're looking at
- 1:06:58Speaker 2: this stuff with our like twenty two and I'm not
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: like this is not in defense of like mister Bennett
- 1:07:04Speaker 2: or anything like that, but like, no, I think that
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: the movie portrays it this way because like that was
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: realistic for the time, and that was just like the
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: norm and expectation of the time.
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: I totally agree with you, you know, I God, I'm
- 1:07:18Speaker 3: so glad. God I love pride and prejudice. Like, I'm
- 1:07:21Speaker 3: so happy we're like having these discussions because I totally
- 1:07:25Speaker 3: agree with you. And then I feel like it does
- 1:07:28Speaker 3: in a way that Jane Austen seemed uniquely aware of
- 1:07:33Speaker 3: right in a way that like possibly Joe Wright and
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: Deborah Mogok or possibly studio knows, you don't know whatever
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: Donald Sutherland's agents, possibly, but in a way that even
- 1:07:49Speaker 3: in two thousand and five wasn't totally clear, where they
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: like turn up the sympathy knob for mister Bennett in
- 1:07:56Speaker 3: a way that I mean, at least for me as
- 1:07:59Speaker 3: a as a twelve year old viewer, I was like, oh,
- 1:08:03Speaker 3: dads are like and this is something that we talk
- 1:08:05Speaker 3: about on the show all the time, and it's it's
- 1:08:07Speaker 3: complicated by the fact that it's such an old story,
- 1:08:09Speaker 3: but like, the dads are more sympathetic than mom's trope
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: that comes up all the time, you know, without any
- 1:08:17Speaker 3: context of like why a father's role may be considered
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: considerably easier and less complicated than a mother's role because
- 1:08:28Speaker 3: of the systemic forces being pushed against a mother. Right,
- 1:08:31Speaker 3: And I feel like this du like it almost felt
- 1:08:34Speaker 3: like Jane Austen for me in the way that the
- 1:08:37Speaker 3: final draft of the movie, however that happened. I felt
- 1:08:41Speaker 3: like Jane Austen had it more right than the movie
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: and that in a way that I think the movie
- 1:08:50Speaker 3: mostly gets everything and like kind of trims the fat
- 1:08:54Speaker 3: and like really just makes it a good two hour
- 1:08:57Speaker 3: experience right right, And this movie didn't feel too long. Weirdly,
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: I know, it was like, oh, two hours and that
- 1:09:05Speaker 3: was all I.
- 1:09:06Speaker 2: Needed, unlike every movie in theaters right now, because they're
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: all two and a half hours and I'm just sitting
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: there being like, you could have cut this, you could
- 1:09:12Speaker 2: have cut that. Why is this shot so long? But
- 1:09:15Speaker 2: like this, I have no patience these days.
- 1:09:18Speaker 3: This movie is like kind of perfect. But like one
- 1:09:20Speaker 3: of the ways that I didn't I the addition of
- 1:09:24Speaker 3: the sympathetic dad. I felt like Jane Austen was more
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: on the nose where she didn't offer that kind of
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: absolution to either parent. But what I thought was interesting
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: was like in the movie there is like this element
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: of Lizzy specifically. And this also feels like just because
- 1:09:43Speaker 3: we're doing an Emma episode next and I've been listening
- 1:09:46Speaker 3: to the Emma audiobook and Emma's my favorite Jane Austen
- 1:09:49Speaker 3: novel and it's also clueless, So like all I have
- 1:09:55Speaker 3: to say, like Jane Austen heroins will often, you know,
- 1:10:00Speaker 3: take on other people's problems to avoid dealing with their own,
- 1:10:04Speaker 3: a problem that you know persists for people to this day,
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: but I did think it was like a recognizable thing
- 1:10:12Speaker 3: that like in the movie and in the book, Elizabeth
- 1:10:15Speaker 3: is very often taking on the problems of her relatives
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: for like very urgent reasons, but also to avoid confronting
- 1:10:27Speaker 3: her own feelings. She's like, well, I'm busy because Jane
- 1:10:31Speaker 3: and Bangley, or like I'm busy because my mom is
- 1:10:34Speaker 3: embarrassing us, or I'm busy because my dad is completely
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: checked out, and we do at least like you do
- 1:10:41Speaker 3: get to see that scene where Lizzie goes to her
- 1:10:44Speaker 3: dad and is like, are you looking out for Lydia
- 1:10:47Speaker 3: at all? Like, and I think that, like there's us
- 1:10:52Speaker 3: five years ago maybe wouldn't have understood this completely, but like,
- 1:10:57Speaker 3: you know, she goes to her dad and she's like,
- 1:10:59Speaker 3: Lydia is like ruining the reputation of the family by
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: just like kind of running wild, which is an inherently
- 1:11:06Speaker 3: sexist statement, but in the context of the time, Lizzie
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: is trying to look out for Lydia and her sisters
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: and the entire family and is like, I felt like,
- 1:11:19Speaker 3: at her core like criticizing her father for being like,
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: why are you doing nothing? Why are you so indifferent
- 1:11:26Speaker 3: every day of your life? Right? And it literally is
- 1:11:30Speaker 3: just because it's like you're saying, like he's like, well,
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: when I die, who gives a shit? And it's like, well, okay,
- 1:11:36Speaker 3: so you just like keep telegraphing to the whole family
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: that you don't give a shit about them because your
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: whole family is women, and because of the time and
- 1:11:47Speaker 3: place that you live, they will be endangered and displaced
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: if you spend this time doing nothing. And I feel
- 1:11:54Speaker 3: like that's what Lizzie is trying to say, and she
- 1:11:58Speaker 3: can't quite get through to him, and it's like so,
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: but but like, yeah, I don't know whatever she's parenting
- 1:12:03Speaker 3: her parents and then which.
- 1:12:05Speaker 2: We all end up doing at some point as adults, I.
- 1:12:08Speaker 3: Know, but Lizzie's twenty. I'm like, oh my god, could
- 1:12:12Speaker 3: she like live for two seconds.
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: She's middle aged by eighteenth or nineteenth century standards.
- 1:12:19Speaker 3: She's forty five basically Okay, sorry, we haven't finished the recap,
- 1:12:25Speaker 3: but I feel like we've had a lot of parent discussions.
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: So that's good, that's true. Yes, indeed, so Elizabeth receives
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: the letter from Jane saying that their sister has run
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: off with mister Wickham. Elizabeth is devastated. Elizabeth returns home,
- 1:12:40Speaker 2: where her mother is crying about their family being ruined
- 1:12:44Speaker 2: because a young woman running away with a man that
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: she's not married to is very improper and could ruin
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: the reputation of the entire family. But then the family
- 1:12:53Speaker 2: gets news that Lydia has been found and that she
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: and mister Wickham are married, and it seems that their
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: uncle found them and squared everything away. But Elizabeth learns
- 1:13:04Speaker 2: that it was actually mister Darcy who paid for the
- 1:13:08Speaker 2: wedding and fixed the whole situation, and then he.
- 1:13:11Speaker 3: Goes, I hope you know it's all for you, And
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: then I wrote it down to my notes that mister
- 1:13:17Speaker 3: Darcy's love language is acts of service. It literally, I mean,
- 1:13:21Speaker 3: which is I mean? Honestly, I wouldn't even hand it
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: to him on that one, because every rich guy's love
- 1:13:28Speaker 3: language is acts of service. That's the least effort love language, right,
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: give me a fucking break.
- 1:13:34Speaker 2: Sorry, No, it's true anyways, Okay, yeah.
- 1:13:37Speaker 3: Guys are awesome.
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: Then the family learns that mister Bingley is returning to
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: town he and Darcy pay a visit to the Bennetts.
- 1:13:48Speaker 2: Bingley is clearly working up the nerve to propose to Jane,
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: but he can't go it through with it, and then
- 1:13:53Speaker 2: he leaves, but then he comes back and finally follows
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: through on the proposal. Jane says, he.
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: Goes yes, yes, a thousand times, a thousand times, and
- 1:14:05Speaker 3: she's so happy.
- 1:14:06Speaker 2: And this is yet another thing that Darcy seems to
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: have fixed, which he fucked up before and which Elizabeth
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: confronted him about. Then Lady Catherine de Bergh pays Elizabeth
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: a visit. She seems to think that Elizabeth and Darcy
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: are engaged, and she will not hear of it because
- 1:14:26Speaker 2: she thinks that Elizabeth sucks and is undeserving of Darcy.
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: And Elizabeth is like, actually, you're the one who sucks.
- 1:14:33Speaker 2: Now get out what very ball or move love?
- 1:14:37Speaker 3: It very exciting.
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: Then Darcy shows up and he's like.
- 1:14:41Speaker 4: You have bewitched me body and soul, and I still
- 1:14:44Speaker 4: love you?
- 1:14:45Speaker 2: Is there any chance that really like me?
- 1:14:48Speaker 3: You're sorry, you're just like really doing a great job.
- 1:14:52Speaker 2: His I mean his delivery.
- 1:14:54Speaker 4: You have bewitched me body and soul, and you're like.
- 1:14:57Speaker 3: Oh, maaty and you're like, oh, oh my god, give
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: me a just give me one kiss. See what happens
- 1:15:06Speaker 3: if you give me just one.
- 1:15:08Speaker 2: So he's like, I understand if you still hate me,
- 1:15:09Speaker 2: but is there any chance that now you might like me?
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: And she's like, actually, yes, I love you. Let's nuzzle
- 1:15:17Speaker 2: each other.
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: They do nosies. It's they do noses and like a
- 1:15:22Speaker 3: perfectly choreographed shot in the sunlight, and you're just like,
- 1:15:26Speaker 3: I am gonna die. It's so sweet, and it's like
- 1:15:32Speaker 3: it's so rare that like an enemy is to lover's
- 1:15:35Speaker 3: story feels I feel like, I mean, I feel like,
- 1:15:39Speaker 3: you know, with any enemy as a lover story, there's
- 1:15:41Speaker 3: always gonna be a few hitches, sure, but this is
- 1:15:45Speaker 3: in the upper percentile. It is like as close to
- 1:15:48Speaker 3: earned as you can get, because it's like it's time,
- 1:15:53Speaker 3: it's growth. I still think that like Darcy doesn't fully
- 1:15:58Speaker 3: deserve her. I like to think that he's spends the
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: rest of his life working towards deserving her more.
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: Yes, but which I think it ends on a note
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: that that seems very likely.
- 1:16:09Speaker 3: Yeah, oh damn, I'm gonna cry.
- 1:16:12Speaker 2: I just okay. So they're nuzzling each other, and then
- 1:16:15Speaker 2: they get their blessing to marry each other from mister Bennett,
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: and then Elizabeth and Darcy get married off screen, and
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: the movie ends with them enjoying a romantic evening together
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: and like deciding which pet names they should have, and.
- 1:16:29Speaker 3: Then he gives her a little kiss. Oh they love
- 1:16:32Speaker 3: little tiny faith kisses. Missus Darcy's missus, Darsy's dosy Like,
- 1:16:39Speaker 3: it's just oh my god, that I mean, twelve years
- 1:16:42Speaker 3: old Backbraize, never been kissed in my life. I was like,
- 1:16:46Speaker 3: I'm looking forward to this. I guess what, it doesn't happen.
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: It didn't happen. Yeah, well, no, that's life. Okay, that's
- 1:17:06Speaker 2: so what have we not already covered?
- 1:17:09Speaker 3: Oh? Boy? I feel like we kind of covered the
- 1:17:11Speaker 3: parents at this point.
- 1:17:12Speaker 2: Yeah, and we've talked.
- 1:17:13Speaker 3: A lot about Lizzie and Dark, but I guess, let's like,
- 1:17:16Speaker 3: put a bow on Lizzia and Darcy. Is there other
- 1:17:19Speaker 3: stuff that you wanted to talk about with Lizzie and Darcy.
- 1:17:22Speaker 3: I just felt like we're so accustomed to seeing stories
- 1:17:27Speaker 3: where men never apologize, never acknowledged that they were wrong
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: to do something, and this dynamic because of who Lizzie
- 1:17:38Speaker 3: is demands like she will not engage with him until
- 1:17:43Speaker 3: he acknowledges like I disrespected you, I disrespected your family,
- 1:17:49Speaker 3: And I genuinely was like I have to take notes
- 1:17:52Speaker 3: from her, Like she disconnects from him for long periods
- 1:17:56Speaker 3: of time because she's like, well, you know, like it's
- 1:17:58Speaker 3: clear that she there's something going on there. But she's
- 1:18:02Speaker 3: just like, but if you're not being respectful to the
- 1:18:04Speaker 3: most important people in my life, my sister, specifically her
- 1:18:08Speaker 3: relationship with Jane, and like judging my family and being
- 1:18:12Speaker 3: a classiest asshole, and it's like, it doesn't matter if
- 1:18:15Speaker 3: there's like an attraction between us, it's never gonna happen.
- 1:18:18Speaker 3: Like they're are just like her boundaries are so firm
- 1:18:21Speaker 3: with the people that she loves, and I just I
- 1:18:25Speaker 3: just love that, Like I just that's amazing in any
- 1:18:28Speaker 3: era and I and I and I love that, Darcy,
- 1:18:32Speaker 3: does you know her? Her being so firm and who
- 1:18:36Speaker 3: she is in some ways kind of pushes him to
- 1:18:40Speaker 3: have to grow because he's like, oh, well, I really
- 1:18:43Speaker 3: want to be in this woman's life, but she's not
- 1:18:45Speaker 3: going to interact with me unless I like look at
- 1:18:48Speaker 3: the darkest parts of myself basically, but then he does,
- 1:18:54Speaker 3: I mean, and it's like it's he's not one hundred
- 1:18:56Speaker 3: percent by the end of the story. But I just
- 1:18:59Speaker 3: feel like that's a rare dynamic to see portrayed in
- 1:19:02Speaker 3: any story of like a woman really holding her own
- 1:19:07Speaker 3: in what her values are and a man and this
- 1:19:10Speaker 3: is you know, obviously this is a very heterosexual story
- 1:19:13Speaker 3: in heterosexual time in terms of popular storytelling, right, But
- 1:19:19Speaker 3: like he is forced to look at himself and improve
- 1:19:25Speaker 3: and do better and like and then actually like is
- 1:19:29Speaker 3: on the way to that by the end of the story. Like,
- 1:19:32Speaker 3: I just it's, yeah, it's shocking for twenty twenty two.
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: I know most men won't do that, you know, And
- 1:19:41Speaker 2: he was true. This is another thing I have complicated
- 1:19:44Speaker 2: feelings about because on one hand, I mean, I love
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: Elizabeth Bennett. She's smart, she's funny, she's got a quick wit,
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: she isn't afraid to speak her mind. In a time
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: period and in a culture where these things were not
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: really valued of women.
- 1:20:01Speaker 3: Dangerous to speak your mind in this time if you're well,
- 1:20:03Speaker 3: you could be fucked for life.
- 1:20:05Speaker 2: Right, And despite those things, like she still has strong
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: convictions and strong opinions, and she voices them, and she's
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: so good at comebacks to a point where I'm like,
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: I gotta take notes about that, because her comeback game
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: is amazing. She's like not really sold on the idea
- 1:20:25Speaker 2: of not necessarily romantic love, because she says at one
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: point like only the deepest, strongest love would drive me
- 1:20:32Speaker 2: to matrimony, and therefore I think I'll end up an
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: old maid because men are humorless poppy cocks slash men
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: are either eaten up with arrogance or stupidity. If they
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: are amiable, they are so easily led they have no
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: minds of their own whatsoever. So she does not have
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: a very high opinion of men in general. Mister Darcy
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: comes along. He seems like just like all the other boys,
- 1:21:01Speaker 2: like too proud, and you know he's prejudiced to prejudice.
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: He seems miserable. She notices it right away, or at
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: least that's her perception of him, that's her first impression.
- 1:21:14Speaker 2: Then then there's a scene where he talks about how
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: he hardly knows any accomplished women because by his standards,
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: a woman has to have a thorough knowledge of you know,
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: music and drawing and dancing in languages and she has
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: to improve her mind by extensive reading, which Elizabeth does do.
- 1:21:33Speaker 2: She loves books, and I wonder if Jane Austen was
- 1:21:36Speaker 2: kind of the first sort of perpetrators of the trope.
- 1:21:39Speaker 2: Girl is not like the other girls because she likes
- 1:21:42Speaker 2: books anyway, So he's like kind of carrying on about
- 1:21:47Speaker 2: you know, I would only consider a woman who has
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: all these qualities, and she's like, how do you even
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: know any women like that? And he's like, okay, I
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: guess you hate women. And then she's like, no, you
- 1:21:59Speaker 2: just have ridiculous high standards, which she doesn't actually really say,
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: but I feel like that's what's implied in that conversation.
- 1:22:06Speaker 2: So like we learn about his just kind of I
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: guess prejudice against women, his like standards that are too high.
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: But meanwhile he's like falling in love with her, so
- 1:22:16Speaker 2: you know, he's confused.
- 1:22:17Speaker 3: But also I feel like he's doing the thing that like,
- 1:22:21Speaker 3: I mean, and again it's like I feel like it's
- 1:22:23Speaker 3: rewarded in the context that he's doing it, where it's like, oh,
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: his standards are very high, but he's doing the thing
- 1:22:28Speaker 3: that people do of all genders, where they set standards
- 1:22:32Speaker 3: so high that they're unattainable and they never need to
- 1:22:34Speaker 3: emotionally engage with someone because they're like, well, no one's
- 1:22:38Speaker 3: going to be good enough for me, so I guess
- 1:22:40Speaker 3: I'm just going to be alone forever. And it's like, well, no,
- 1:22:42Speaker 3: you're actually just scared.
- 1:22:44Speaker 2: Wow, it's true.
- 1:22:46Speaker 3: He's he's scared. He's scared, but it's like because of
- 1:22:49Speaker 3: his class and his gender, he's rewarded as like, oh,
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: you're being but if you put that attitude into so
- 1:22:56Speaker 3: many other people of that era, it would be received
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: so didly.
- 1:23:00Speaker 7: Right.
- 1:23:01Speaker 2: Yes, So there's that conversation, and then after she calls
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: him out several times for being unpleasant and too proud
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: and all of this and too prejudice, he like seems
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: to start to see the error of his ways, and
- 1:23:18Speaker 2: she is like maybe not intentionally on her part, but
- 1:23:22Speaker 2: like he does seem to be displaying growth and he's
- 1:23:27Speaker 2: doing some self reflecting and being like wow, maybe.
- 1:23:30Speaker 3: And it's like active, it's not accidental.
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: But then the like the midpoint rolls around of the
- 1:23:36Speaker 2: movie where he proposes, and in his proposal he's like, wow,
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: everything's telling me that I shouldn't be in love with you.
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: Because I am so proud and prejudiced, but I love
- 1:23:47Speaker 2: you anyway. And she's like, Okay, well that was the
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: worst proposal I've ever heard. You were so mean to
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: me and my family just then, and you also ruined
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: my sister's life and you're mean. And he's like, well,
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: I guess I have more growing to do. So then
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: he goes and grows some more.
- 1:24:08Speaker 3: I just I really like, I love it. I love it.
- 1:24:13Speaker 3: Elizabeth is amazing.
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: Yes, what I admire about this is her behavior. I'm
- 1:24:20Speaker 2: still not very sold on, like and I don't think
- 1:24:23Speaker 2: you are either, but like Darcy being completely deserving of
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: kind of the redemption that he gets in Elizabeth's eyes, No,
- 1:24:33Speaker 2: I agree, but also like a redemption by like whatever,
- 1:24:37Speaker 2: like eighteen hundreds or late seventeen hundred's standards probably didn't
- 1:24:42Speaker 2: have to be that significant because the bar for men's
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: behavior was low.
- 1:24:49Speaker 3: And I also think it's like a lesson in I
- 1:24:52Speaker 3: don't know, I mean, I felt like, let me know
- 1:24:56Speaker 3: how you feel about this. I felt like, I don't
- 1:24:58Speaker 3: even think Elizabeth was saying at the end of the story, like,
- 1:25:03Speaker 3: I think Darcy is exactly where he needs to be.
- 1:25:07Speaker 3: He's a fully formed person. I think that her conditions
- 1:25:11Speaker 3: for being to marry him was like that she believed
- 1:25:16Speaker 3: that he could get there and was like, like he
- 1:25:19Speaker 3: had displayed that, like I am willing to do the
- 1:25:23Speaker 3: work and the self introspection and the like questioning my
- 1:25:26Speaker 3: prides and prejudices to be a better person, which I
- 1:25:31Speaker 3: think is like, you know, and obviously this isn't like
- 1:25:34Speaker 3: a blanket statement, but in a serious relationship, I think
- 1:25:37Speaker 3: that that's the thing is like, very often it's like,
- 1:25:41Speaker 3: you know, if you're waiting for someone to arrive at
- 1:25:44Speaker 3: you fully formed, you could be waiting for a very
- 1:25:47Speaker 3: long time, and that's fine. But I think for a
- 1:25:50Speaker 3: lot of people it is often enough for it to
- 1:25:54Speaker 3: be like, Okay, no, you're not fully formed, but you
- 1:25:58Speaker 3: know that, and you're willing to continue working, and it's
- 1:26:02Speaker 3: not like my burden to get you to where you
- 1:26:06Speaker 3: need to be. You're a work in progress and you're
- 1:26:08Speaker 3: getting to where you need to. And it seems like
- 1:26:10Speaker 3: that's sort of where they both are, and like part
- 1:26:13Speaker 3: of the reason why they connect is because like, and
- 1:26:17Speaker 3: I feel like it's made more explicit in the in
- 1:26:19Speaker 3: the movie, in that scene that makes me cry, even
- 1:26:22Speaker 3: though I have issues with mister Bennett. But the way
- 1:26:25Speaker 3: that Lizzie talks in that scene where she's just like,
- 1:26:28Speaker 3: we're so similar, like we which I feel like is
- 1:26:32Speaker 3: her way of acknowledging like we're both works in progress.
- 1:26:34Speaker 3: I do think that the way that they're they are similar.
- 1:26:38Speaker 3: The context is different because like Darcy's prides and prejudices
- 1:26:43Speaker 3: are more impactful because of the time they're living in
- 1:26:47Speaker 3: and less sympathetic than Lizzie's because Lizzie's prides and prejudices
- 1:26:52Speaker 3: are against the rich, so it's kind of easier to
- 1:26:55Speaker 3: get on her side totally. Darcy's prides and prejudices are
- 1:26:59Speaker 3: against the poorest. So they're similar impulses, but they're you know,
- 1:27:02Speaker 3: weaponized very differently with very different results. So yeah, I
- 1:27:07Speaker 3: feel like, maybe, you know, that's not fully examined, But
- 1:27:10Speaker 3: I do believe that Lizzie thinks, and I want to
- 1:27:15Speaker 3: believe it based on his behavior that it's like he's
- 1:27:19Speaker 3: not perfect, but he's demonstrated a lot of growth, and
- 1:27:23Speaker 3: I think that he's willing to continue working to deserve
- 1:27:27Speaker 3: being with me, and I think that that is like
- 1:27:29Speaker 3: a very beautiful, empathetic thing. I don't know, I agree,
- 1:27:35Speaker 3: that's just how I feel today.
- 1:27:37Speaker 2: Sure right, ask me again tomorrow. Elizabeth being prejudice in
- 1:27:44Speaker 2: a cool way where she's like, fuck the rich, eat
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: the rich, right, I do find and again this might
- 1:27:50Speaker 2: just be demonstrative of my lack of understanding of culture
- 1:27:55Speaker 2: at the time. I'm not a history scholar, believe it
- 1:27:59Speaker 2: or not. Listener of the Bechdel cast.
- 1:28:01Speaker 3: Brave of you to admit, thank you so much.
- 1:28:05Speaker 2: So they're always talking about how poor they are, the
- 1:28:07Speaker 2: Bennett family, but then they live in a huge mansion
- 1:28:11Speaker 2: and have a bunch of servants.
- 1:28:13Speaker 3: So that was a So that's something that comes up
- 1:28:16Speaker 3: a lot because I was also like, explain this to me,
- 1:28:21Speaker 3: uh yeah, like I don't fully have an understanding of that.
- 1:28:25Speaker 3: I do know that, it's like that also seemed to
- 1:28:27Speaker 3: be based on my slight research because I didn't I mean,
- 1:28:32Speaker 3: and we're I fully intend to do more Jane Austen
- 1:28:35Speaker 3: research before I am a episode, but I just did
- 1:28:37Speaker 3: not have time before this episode.
- 1:28:39Speaker 2: That's okay.
- 1:28:40Speaker 3: But my understanding, just have a brief Jane Austen overview,
- 1:28:43Speaker 3: is that Jane Austen very much presented herself as like
- 1:28:47Speaker 3: an underdog, like I'm poor, but like, and I feel
- 1:28:50Speaker 3: like people people still do this all the time today.
- 1:28:52Speaker 3: They're like, I'm poor, and then you're like, you're like
- 1:28:56Speaker 3: a really famous person's daughter, Like what are you talking about?
- 1:29:00Speaker 3: You know, like they're like, I'm so relatable, like and
- 1:29:03Speaker 3: I'm thinking of five people. But I you know, I
- 1:29:06Speaker 3: respect women, so I'm not gonna say that. But like,
- 1:29:09Speaker 3: you know, my understanding is that the class difference that's
- 1:29:13Speaker 3: being examined here that isn't like fully made clear in
- 1:29:17Speaker 3: either the book or the movie, partially because of where
- 1:29:20Speaker 3: Jane Austen was coming from, being like I'm poor, which
- 1:29:23Speaker 3: was her way of saying I'm upper middle class and
- 1:29:26Speaker 3: everyone else around me is fabulously wealthy.
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: That is what.
- 1:29:30Speaker 3: There's a class difference, but it's like not because it's
- 1:29:34Speaker 3: like in the whole book, you meet one working class
- 1:29:39Speaker 3: character and it's Darcy's head servant, and she all she
- 1:29:44Speaker 3: can talk about is how much she loves Darcy. Like
- 1:29:46Speaker 3: this is not a working class story at all. And
- 1:29:48Speaker 3: I feel like the Bennetts, You're totally like, I agree,
- 1:29:51Speaker 3: Like the Bennetts are presented as like we're so poor,
- 1:29:54Speaker 3: but this is a story between like the middle to
- 1:29:57Speaker 3: upper middle class versus fucking.
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: Elon the welse, you know, right, yeah, yeah, So the
- 1:30:04Speaker 2: information I've gathered is that Darcy earns ten thousand dollars
- 1:30:09Speaker 2: a year or ten thousand pounds, sorry, ten thousand pounds
- 1:30:13Speaker 2: a year, which is the equivalent of somewhere million between. Well,
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: it's between. It's between six hundred and seven hundred thousand
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: pounds per year, which is a significant income.
- 1:30:25Speaker 3: That's a lot of money, for.
- 1:30:27Speaker 2: Sure, But I don't think they're like billionaire status, or
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: if anyone even was back then.
- 1:30:32Speaker 3: Yeah, actually fuck him.
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: The Bennett family according to my research, and maybe this
- 1:30:39Speaker 2: was mentioned in the book, but I think they bring
- 1:30:42Speaker 2: in an income of two thousand pounds a year, which
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: is slightly less than half of what Bingley brings in,
- 1:30:49Speaker 2: which is five thousand pounds a year. So yeah, based
- 1:30:51Speaker 2: on that, they seem middle class, I would say the Bennetts.
- 1:30:56Speaker 3: Which like fine, I yeah, I feel like that's almost
- 1:30:59Speaker 3: like a Jane Austin an issue too, because like.
- 1:31:02Speaker 2: But then, but again, according to my research, Jane Austen
- 1:31:06Speaker 2: was fairly poor her entire life and didn't become famous
- 1:31:10Speaker 2: until after her death, which was at like age forty
- 1:31:13Speaker 2: one or something like that. She died quite young and
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: wasn't famous or wealthy, and I think was like I
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: think again, according to some some of the resources I consulted,
- 1:31:24Speaker 2: was living below the poverty line her entire life.
- 1:31:28Speaker 3: I totally, I mean I didn't do the Jane Austen
- 1:31:31Speaker 3: life prep, so I totally, yeah, you're right, thank.
- 1:31:35Speaker 2: You so much. That's so I am a scholar after all.
- 1:31:37Speaker 3: Wow, that's so interesting because it's like most of her
- 1:31:41Speaker 3: stories are so of the upper class, and it's like
- 1:31:45Speaker 3: not even really a criticism of her, because it's also like,
- 1:31:49Speaker 3: I mean, it's funny, like we were talking about Succession
- 1:31:52Speaker 3: at the beginning of this episode, where like forever and
- 1:31:57Speaker 3: there's a lot of criticism on it, and like there
- 1:31:59Speaker 3: are I still believe there's not enough like stories about
- 1:32:02Speaker 3: the working class, and particularly like fun and engaging stories
- 1:32:06Speaker 3: about the working class, where it's so often you get
- 1:32:08Speaker 3: working class stories that are just trauma porn and everyone's like, well,
- 1:32:11Speaker 3: we're bummed out, and it's like, well, yeah, no shit,
- 1:32:14Speaker 3: Like rich people are having all the fun in movies too,
- 1:32:17Speaker 3: like fuck you.
- 1:32:18Speaker 2: You know, but except for that scene in Titanic when
- 1:32:21Speaker 2: they're the poor people are having fun dancing below deck
- 1:32:23Speaker 2: and the rich people are hopping.
- 1:32:24Speaker 3: They all died two days later. They're all like we
- 1:32:28Speaker 3: all we like, you can't have that scene without having
- 1:32:30Speaker 3: to watch all of those characters individually drowned. So like
- 1:32:33Speaker 3: it's it, it cancels out.
- 1:32:36Speaker 2: Fair point.
- 1:32:37Speaker 8: Yeah, But but but I'll have to say, like Succession,
- 1:32:41Speaker 8: that's the current show about like rich people fucking around
- 1:32:45Speaker 8: and having complicated interpersonal relationships that.
- 1:32:48Speaker 3: Matthew mcfatdy and is also in that, like people across
- 1:32:52Speaker 3: class lines really enjoy because that has been so much
- 1:32:57Speaker 3: of how the history of storytelling has been. It's like,
- 1:33:00Speaker 3: you know, kings and queens and rich people like that's
- 1:33:02Speaker 3: been so many of the famous story and that's like
- 1:33:05Speaker 3: something that I think is like up for examination of,
- 1:33:09Speaker 3: like why can't we have more working class heroes without
- 1:33:12Speaker 3: it being tragedy poor? And I think that's like something
- 1:33:16Speaker 3: that I hope is you know, there there are stories
- 1:33:19Speaker 3: where that's the case, but it's still a lot of
- 1:33:22Speaker 3: rich people, you know.
- 1:33:23Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:33:24Speaker 3: I just wish it was like maybe made a little
- 1:33:26Speaker 3: clearer in the book as well, because they they're always
- 1:33:29Speaker 3: because I do like get how upper middle class people
- 1:33:32Speaker 3: are often saying I'm poor when they're around rich people
- 1:33:36Speaker 3: all the time. But it's also like you're an author
- 1:33:39Speaker 3: or you're a filmmaker, you can contextualize that and not
- 1:33:42Speaker 3: just have the only working class person in the entire
- 1:33:45Speaker 3: movie talk about how much you love rich people. And
- 1:33:48Speaker 3: I've never I've never.
- 1:33:50Speaker 2: Seen oh Downton Abby.
- 1:33:54Speaker 3: Yes, but that that's something that does that well, right,
- 1:33:58Speaker 3: like that that is.
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: Really well, it's been a few years since I've seen it,
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: but yeah, it basically pays equal attention and equal screen
- 1:34:06Speaker 2: time and characterization and all of that stuff to the
- 1:34:09Speaker 2: upper class you know, aristocracy people and the working class
- 1:34:15Speaker 2: servants who work for the rich people.
- 1:34:18Speaker 3: Hell yeah, so okay.
- 1:34:19Speaker 2: Whereas in this movie and like you know, this this story,
- 1:34:24Speaker 2: it is really only concerned about the lives and affairs
- 1:34:27Speaker 2: of people of like, you know, these higher economic classes
- 1:34:31Speaker 2: and anyone of significantly lower class, like the servants who
- 1:34:35Speaker 2: we see like working in the Bennett house. Uh, they're
- 1:34:40Speaker 2: given no characterization.
- 1:34:41Speaker 3: Like who are they? Yeah, yeah, they're I mean, they're
- 1:34:44Speaker 3: basically viewed as like status and property, which is like
- 1:34:48Speaker 3: again complicated when you consider the fact that like a
- 1:34:52Speaker 3: lot of what the Bennetts are the Bennett's sisters in particular,
- 1:34:57Speaker 3: are pushing up against is like I don't want to
- 1:34:58Speaker 3: be viewed as property. But then there's also you're in
- 1:35:02Speaker 3: the middle class, so you do view other people as property,
- 1:35:06Speaker 3: but you resent being considered as property by people above you,
- 1:35:10Speaker 3: Like where's your empathy for the people below you? And
- 1:35:13Speaker 3: I don't have have like read I think like how
- 1:35:18Speaker 3: many Jane Okay, wait, let me pull up Okay, I've
- 1:35:21Speaker 3: read one, two, three, four out of like seven Jane
- 1:35:25Speaker 3: Austen novels, I don't really remember, Like if there is
- 1:35:29Speaker 3: one particular Jane Austen book that tackles this particularly, that's
- 1:35:33Speaker 3: really interesting that she she would have had an intimate
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: understanding of the poorer classes. But I also think that
- 1:35:40Speaker 3: there's something to be said for like in this time,
- 1:35:44Speaker 3: especially because she had to write under pseudonyms. Right, did
- 1:35:47Speaker 3: stories about poor people sell in the eighteen hundreds?
- 1:35:51Speaker 7: Maybe not Oliver Twist Oliver Twist Poor, but that was
- 1:35:56Speaker 7: written by a man, So you know, it's like it's
- 1:35:59Speaker 7: we clearly don't have enough knowledge to make any definiteness statement.
- 1:36:04Speaker 2: I guess where the more effective class discussion comes in
- 1:36:07Speaker 2: for this story is the recognition on Jane Austen's part
- 1:36:14Speaker 2: that in this society, women had so few options and
- 1:36:19Speaker 2: so few rights and opportunities that one of the only
- 1:36:23Speaker 2: ways that they could secure any hope for survival was
- 1:36:27Speaker 2: to marry a man, and therefore the goal for many
- 1:36:32Speaker 2: women becomes find the man with the highest income. Because
- 1:36:37Speaker 2: part of me is like, wow, this is a movie
- 1:36:39Speaker 2: almost entirely about women talking about who should I marry,
- 1:36:43Speaker 2: who can I marry? Who was the richest guy? Did?
- 1:36:45Speaker 2: Like so much of that where like just coming at
- 1:36:48Speaker 2: it from like a very surface level, like Bechdel test
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: point of view, is like, oh, that doesn't feel great,
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: but considering the historical context and you know, just the
- 1:36:58Speaker 2: nuances of well, yeah, but women were considered lesser than
- 1:37:03Speaker 2: men and living in this very oppressive structure and had
- 1:37:09Speaker 2: very few options, and the most realistic one and the
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: most feasible one for most women was to try to marry. Well,
- 1:37:20Speaker 2: so you can't fault them for that because that's literally
- 1:37:24Speaker 2: just survival.
- 1:37:26Speaker 3: And yeah, that's that's sort of like that's something that
- 1:37:28Speaker 3: I feel like is growth moment in terms of how
- 1:37:35Speaker 3: we have taken the approach to this show over the years,
- 1:37:41Speaker 3: Like I feel like there was a time in the
- 1:37:43Speaker 3: show where we'd be like, they're talking about marriage the
- 1:37:45Speaker 3: whole time, but it's like in this time and in
- 1:37:48Speaker 3: this story, when they're talking about marriage, the subtext is
- 1:37:51Speaker 3: they're talking about survival, right, and they're talking about like
- 1:37:55Speaker 3: there are no you know, Like it's very I don't know,
- 1:37:58Speaker 3: I don't know why. I'm just like twenty seventeen, Like
- 1:38:01Speaker 3: it's very twenty seventeen to be like, well, why didn't
- 1:38:04Speaker 3: they start a small business?
- 1:38:06Speaker 9: It's like, yeah, they should have become girl bosses, right, right,
- 1:38:10Speaker 9: like in extraordinary circumstances, like obviously, like there there are
- 1:38:14Speaker 9: always women in every time Jane Austen.
- 1:38:17Speaker 3: Included, who were able to have careers independently, but that
- 1:38:21Speaker 3: came at such significant cost. It was not the norm.
- 1:38:24Speaker 3: It's an unreasonable expectation for women of this time to
- 1:38:27Speaker 3: not be thinking of marriage as inherently connected to survival,
- 1:38:31Speaker 3: especially if your family is all women and the one
- 1:38:35Speaker 3: man in the family they've a shit, massive and shitty,
- 1:38:39Speaker 3: like I get it.
- 1:38:42Speaker 2: So that comes through in like, yeah, a lot of
- 1:38:44Speaker 2: missus Bennett's behavior, right, And there's a there's a scene
- 1:38:49Speaker 2: with Lizzie's friend Charlotte where she comes to tell Lizzie
- 1:38:53Speaker 2: that she's married mister Collins because it offered her a
- 1:38:57Speaker 2: secure future and like Lizzie's like, but he's ridiculou and
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: she's like, look, I'm twenty seven years old, which like,
- 1:39:03Speaker 2: for the time was sixteen years old. I was considered
- 1:39:06Speaker 2: like an old maid. Basically, she's like, I have no
- 1:39:08Speaker 2: money and no prospects. I'm a burden to my parents.
- 1:39:12Speaker 2: I'm frightened, So don't you dare judge me? And it's like,
- 1:39:15Speaker 2: oh shit, like I see where you're coming from.
- 1:39:18Speaker 3: Charlotte such an effectively written scene that was like condensed
- 1:39:23Speaker 3: for the movie, but I just thought it was so
- 1:39:25Speaker 3: well done. Yeah, yeah, that whole I mean that whole friendship,
- 1:39:28Speaker 3: and I really I think that's like a cool and
- 1:39:31Speaker 3: it does come through clearly in the book as well,
- 1:39:34Speaker 3: where that's like I think that her storyline was Charlotte
- 1:39:38Speaker 3: might be like one of the first prides and prejudices
- 1:39:40Speaker 3: that Lizzie works through in the story where obviously everyone
- 1:39:46Speaker 3: knows that mister Collins is not great and Lizzie rejects
- 1:39:51Speaker 3: him and it's amazing and it's very exciting. And then
- 1:39:55Speaker 3: when Charlotte contextualizes her situation where she's like, Okay, you're
- 1:39:58Speaker 3: twenty and you're from a your family than I am.
- 1:40:02Speaker 3: And and because women were so this is something we
- 1:40:06Speaker 3: haven't really talked about yet, like women were so aggressively
- 1:40:10Speaker 3: judged for how they looked and beauty standards. I feel
- 1:40:14Speaker 3: like it's kind of interesting because two thousand and five
- 1:40:16Speaker 3: beauty standards are being pumped in, whereas like the beauty
- 1:40:19Speaker 3: standards of the eighteen hundreds would have been different. I
- 1:40:22Speaker 3: think that if this was a true period piece, the
- 1:40:24Speaker 3: women in the story would look different. But all that
- 1:40:28Speaker 3: to say, like even with the two thousand and five
- 1:40:32Speaker 3: beauty standards put in to this story, it's like, you
- 1:40:36Speaker 3: are the beauty, so you are our ticket into financial security.
- 1:40:41Speaker 3: You are not quote unquote the beauty in the traditional
- 1:40:45Speaker 3: Western beauty standards sense, and therefore you will be neglected.
- 1:40:51Speaker 3: And like it's mentioned, I mean it's said, and this
- 1:40:54Speaker 3: is like one of the places where you're like, fuck
- 1:40:57Speaker 3: Missus Bennett, where Missus Bennett just like mascot, Like I
- 1:41:00Speaker 3: don't think she's hot, and so I'm not interested in
- 1:41:03Speaker 3: talking about her. And Lizzie like never does that, never
- 1:41:07Speaker 3: judges anyone based on how they look because she like
- 1:41:10Speaker 3: knows it's bullshit because she's Lizzie Bennett. And yeah, I
- 1:41:15Speaker 3: mean there's that scene at the beginning where like missus
- 1:41:17Speaker 3: Bennett is criticizing how Charlotte looks, and like, this is
- 1:41:21Speaker 3: clearly feedback that Charlotte has been getting for a long time.
- 1:41:25Speaker 3: It's clearly feedback that Mary has been getting. It's clearly
- 1:41:28Speaker 3: feedback that Lady Catherine's daughter whose name escapes me at
- 1:41:32Speaker 3: this moment, has been getting. And it's like there are
- 1:41:35Speaker 3: multiple and I think that's like really strong writing on
- 1:41:38Speaker 3: Jane Austen's part and ooh, screenwriter Deborah Mogoq's part. Mogok
- 1:41:44Speaker 3: don't know, sorry, mogotch could be anything, but I think
- 1:41:49Speaker 3: that's really strong on their part, that it's like this
- 1:41:51Speaker 3: is this is something that has been thrown in their
- 1:41:53Speaker 3: face their entire lives, and they've been made to feel
- 1:41:56Speaker 3: small by it, and it's clearly affected them and that's
- 1:42:00Speaker 3: to be expected. And it's like, I think given the
- 1:42:03Speaker 3: circumstance that Charlotte has been in where she's been called
- 1:42:06Speaker 3: unattractive her whole life, which is not even true, and
- 1:42:10Speaker 3: the fact that she's twenty seven years old. Oh no,
- 1:42:14Speaker 3: we're both literally dead in this situation. But like, you know,
- 1:42:17Speaker 3: the time whatever, right, And I still think that, Like
- 1:42:21Speaker 3: she ends up, she stands up to Lizzie and is like, look,
- 1:42:24Speaker 3: what would you fucking do in my situation? And then
- 1:42:27Speaker 3: on top of that is like, I'm not sentimental like you.
- 1:42:30Speaker 3: I want to survive, right, So like what do you
- 1:42:33Speaker 3: want from me? And Lucy has to like it's still
- 1:42:36Speaker 3: not how she's going to live her life. And part
- 1:42:38Speaker 3: of that is because of her own privilege, both physically
- 1:42:42Speaker 3: and financially, right, And so she is privileged to be
- 1:42:46Speaker 3: able to take the stands that she does and not
- 1:42:48Speaker 3: have her whole life fall apart as a result, even
- 1:42:50Speaker 3: though it still could, but like less likely, you know.
- 1:42:53Speaker 2: Yeah, she's got you know, like youth privilege, youth privilege,
- 1:42:57Speaker 2: cure Knightley hot privilege where she can down mister Collins,
- 1:43:01Speaker 2: she can turn down mister Darcy has for his first proposal. Yeah,
- 1:43:06Speaker 2: she she's turning down people, even though mister Collins is like, yeah,
- 1:43:10Speaker 2: there's no guarantee that you'll ever get another marriage proposal,
- 1:43:13Speaker 2: and it's like sir, Okay, do you know who you're
- 1:43:16Speaker 2: talking to you're talking to Kiera Knightly like, which also
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: makes the scene at the beginning when mister Darcy's like, yeah,
- 1:43:25Speaker 2: she's tolerable but not handsome enough to tempt me, and
- 1:43:28Speaker 2: it's like, you're talking about Kia Nightly.
- 1:43:31Speaker 3: Well great, we're all fun because you just called Kiara
- 1:43:35Speaker 3: Knightly ugly, Like what are you talking about? Anyways? I agree,
- 1:43:43Speaker 3: but I think that, like in the text, Lizzy is
- 1:43:46Speaker 3: forced to examine that and like is able to get
- 1:43:50Speaker 3: past it and continues, like because it's said in the book.
- 1:43:53Speaker 3: I think at the like Lizzy's like, oh, now we're
- 1:43:56Speaker 3: never gonna see each other again, We're not gonna be friends.
- 1:43:59Speaker 3: This so blah blah blah. But then they do remain friends,
- 1:44:03Speaker 3: and Lizzie gets past her prides and prejudices Charlotte I still,
- 1:44:10Speaker 3: I mean, it's like I want better for Charlotte, I
- 1:44:12Speaker 3: want better for Mary. I want them to, you know,
- 1:44:15Speaker 3: live in a society that doesn't make them feel like
- 1:44:19Speaker 3: shit against stuff that isn't even true. But then it's
- 1:44:23Speaker 3: also like I just really thought that it was a
- 1:44:26Speaker 3: nice thing in this story and in this time that
- 1:44:30Speaker 3: like these two women prioritize their friendship and their love
- 1:44:34Speaker 3: for each other, and because this is how things had
- 1:44:38Speaker 3: to play out for Charlotte to survive in a way
- 1:44:41Speaker 3: that she was comfortable with that Lizzie's like, Okay, I
- 1:44:45Speaker 3: hear you, and we can still be friends. I just
- 1:44:48Speaker 3: think it's really it's not. Nothing is ideal in the
- 1:44:52Speaker 3: way that stories work out between women and the story
- 1:44:55Speaker 3: for the most part. But I do think that it's
- 1:44:57Speaker 3: nice that they like Lizzie prioritizes how Charlotte's feeling, and
- 1:45:01Speaker 3: that's why she's able to remain friends. And Charlotte is
- 1:45:05Speaker 3: also very sensitive to like whatever. Charlotte's like empathetic to like, yeah,
- 1:45:10Speaker 3: I get why you didn't want to marry mister Collins,
- 1:45:13Speaker 3: but I'm doing it so to like be friends.
- 1:45:17Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've got this room that I can escape
- 1:45:20Speaker 2: to where he won't bother me.
- 1:45:21Speaker 3: And isn't that she has her She has her like
- 1:45:25Speaker 3: woman cave where she's like no Collins is allowed.
- 1:45:33Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 1:45:34Speaker 2: I think one of the big strengths of this adaptation
- 1:45:37Speaker 2: is that even though many many characters were eliminated or
- 1:45:43Speaker 2: scaled back in the movie, but the movie chooses to
- 1:45:47Speaker 2: keep a lot of the relationships between women, notably Elizabeth
- 1:45:51Speaker 2: and her sisters and mother, and Elizabeth and her friend Charlotte.
- 1:45:56Speaker 2: Those are still present in the movie, and they're given
- 1:46:01Speaker 2: I thought, a good amount of focus because even though
- 1:46:03Speaker 2: the driving vehicle for this story is the romance between
- 1:46:09Speaker 2: Elizabeth and Darcy, screen time dedicated to her relationships with women,
- 1:46:15Speaker 2: they don't like dwindle those down at the expense of
- 1:46:19Speaker 2: this relationship, this romantic relationship.
- 1:46:21Speaker 3: I agree, I agree, Yeah, and I like that you
- 1:46:25Speaker 3: still get the relationship between Lizzie and Jane. I would
- 1:46:29Speaker 3: have liked. And again, this is and we have to
- 1:46:31Speaker 3: I mean, we've been recording for.
- 1:46:32Speaker 2: A while, so hours, it's.
- 1:46:35Speaker 3: Almost been two hours, so we do need to wrap up.
- 1:46:37Speaker 3: But like I do like that Lizzie and Jane like
- 1:46:41Speaker 3: they're again. It was like giving like a little bit
- 1:46:43Speaker 3: of little women of like the eldest has is a
- 1:46:47Speaker 3: little more shy, a little more reserved. It was giving
- 1:46:49Speaker 3: me some meg March energy of like, sure, I want
- 1:46:53Speaker 3: a more traditional life and Lizzie is that's not who
- 1:46:58Speaker 3: she is at all. But they have such a strong
- 1:47:01Speaker 3: love for each other. They would do anything for each other,
- 1:47:04Speaker 3: and they are able to like navigate each other's personalities
- 1:47:07Speaker 3: and the way that like true friendships and love does
- 1:47:13Speaker 3: I love their relationship same? I love and I have
- 1:47:17Speaker 3: like such a soft spot for Jane, even though sometimes
- 1:47:19Speaker 3: I'm like, Jane, speak up for yourself. But like I
- 1:47:21Speaker 3: like Jane is like more of.
- 1:47:23Speaker 2: She's shy and modice shine.
- 1:47:26Speaker 3: Yeah, like she's a sweetie. And Lydia, I mean I
- 1:47:30Speaker 3: also think that like with with Lydia and and Kid Kiddy,
- 1:47:34Speaker 3: it's they're so young that it's like you can't really
- 1:47:38Speaker 3: justdge Like I understand that sixteen is thirty in this world,
- 1:47:43Speaker 3: but like they're so young and that like you can't
- 1:47:47Speaker 3: really judge them on anything like where I know, like
- 1:47:50Speaker 3: and the.
- 1:47:51Speaker 2: Story and the story.
- 1:47:52Speaker 3: Acknowledges that, like they're very very young, and it's like, yeah,
- 1:47:57Speaker 3: there are two teenage girls that are really excited that
- 1:47:59Speaker 3: there's a lot of cute boys around, Like right, they're fifteen,
- 1:48:04Speaker 3: like they're seventeen, Like yeah, give them a break. And
- 1:48:08Speaker 3: I do feel like maybe that both stories could have
- 1:48:10Speaker 3: given them more empathy and reminders that it's like these
- 1:48:14Speaker 3: are kids right to like chill out, you know.
- 1:48:17Speaker 2: And even though adult men married fifteen year olds during
- 1:48:22Speaker 2: this time, yikes.
- 1:48:24Speaker 3: They're still kids.
- 1:48:25Speaker 2: They're teen girls doing teen girl shit, and everyone's just
- 1:48:29Speaker 2: like you were so silly and ridiculous, and it's like, no.
- 1:48:31Speaker 3: You're brilliating the family. It's like, oh god, I'm glad
- 1:48:35Speaker 3: the steaks weren't like that when I was a teenager,
- 1:48:38Speaker 3: because I was, I mean I was. I was like
- 1:48:40Speaker 3: every teenage girl is like, if that's the steaks for
- 1:48:42Speaker 3: every teenager in general, your family's fucked. Like teenagers are embarrassing,
- 1:48:47Speaker 3: Like that's what you're supposed to be embarrassing. It's literally
- 1:48:51Speaker 3: your one job is to do the most embarrassing thing
- 1:48:54Speaker 3: you can think of.
- 1:48:55Speaker 2: Truly. Yeah, okay, So just a couple last till things.
- 1:49:01Speaker 2: Fun fact, I learned from our favorite scholarly journal Wikipedia
- 1:49:05Speaker 2: that apparently a person from Chili watched this movie two
- 1:49:10Speaker 2: hundred and seventy eight times during a single year. So
- 1:49:14Speaker 2: oh yeah, an icon. Good for her.
- 1:49:17Speaker 3: Oh that's the end of the story.
- 1:49:19Speaker 2: What did I learned?
- 1:49:19Speaker 3: They're like, nope, I just watched it.
- 1:49:21Speaker 2: It was a fifty one year old woman who declared
- 1:49:24Speaker 2: herself as obsessed with the film and she saw Elizabeth
- 1:49:28Speaker 2: Bennett as a feminist icon.
- 1:49:32Speaker 3: Okay, she's right, and that's literally gonna be me somedays,
- 1:49:35Speaker 3: so I can't even criticize. I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna
- 1:49:37Speaker 3: do something two hundred and seventy eight times.
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: I mean I watched Titanic basically two hundred and seventy
- 1:49:43Speaker 2: times a year. So yes, just a couple things I
- 1:49:47Speaker 2: really enjoyed about the movie. I loved the scene where
- 1:49:49Speaker 2: Elizabeth is dancing at the ball at Bingley's estate and
- 1:49:53Speaker 2: she's carrying on several different conversations, one with mister Collins
- 1:49:58Speaker 2: and then I think one with Jane. And because of
- 1:50:00Speaker 2: like how dancing was back then, you could only talk
- 1:50:03Speaker 2: to someone for like three seconds before you then like
- 1:50:05Speaker 2: stepped away from them.
- 1:50:07Speaker 3: Yeah, I just like.
- 1:50:08Speaker 2: Loved the choreography and like loved the dialogue in that scene.
- 1:50:11Speaker 3: The choreography of this movie is amazing, the camera choreography,
- 1:50:14Speaker 3: the physical court Like it's also I'm gonna see Sarah
- 1:50:18Speaker 3: noh god damn it. I'm excited.
- 1:50:21Speaker 7: Uh.
- 1:50:22Speaker 2: Kiera Knightley is doing really good face acting. Her facial
- 1:50:26Speaker 2: expressions are doing so much work in the movie. I
- 1:50:29Speaker 2: love it. I love the scene where the women are
- 1:50:32Speaker 2: all like lounging around the house very just like leisurely
- 1:50:35Speaker 2: kind of sloppy missus Bennett has like a half eaten
- 1:50:38Speaker 2: plate of food on her lap, and then they see
- 1:50:40Speaker 2: Bingley and Darcy walking up, so they have this like
- 1:50:42Speaker 2: mad scramble and then cut to them like very poised
- 1:50:46Speaker 2: and proper to receive guests. But I just like love
- 1:50:50Speaker 2: that because it's like, wow, women back then were just
- 1:50:53Speaker 2: like us.
- 1:50:55Speaker 3: And I also love that, like this is a rare
- 1:50:58Speaker 3: I mean, this is maybe like a weird thing to
- 1:51:00Speaker 3: make notice, But like Kiera Knightley is the age of
- 1:51:02Speaker 3: the character in this week, Oh yeah, she like Lizzie.
- 1:51:05Speaker 3: I feel like that's a very rare dig good movies.
- 1:51:08Speaker 3: And I always use the example of like CW teenagers,
- 1:51:11Speaker 3: where like I could play a CW teenager and I
- 1:51:14Speaker 3: am almost thirty so and that's been like the case forever.
- 1:51:19Speaker 3: But like Kiera Knightley is, like I think most people
- 1:51:22Speaker 3: are like cast pretty age appropriate in this uh in
- 1:51:25Speaker 3: this movie. And so you do feel like, especially when
- 1:51:28Speaker 3: it's like Jenna Alone, you're like, yeah, genial alone. I
- 1:51:32Speaker 3: mean actually jenaal Alone is older than Kiera Knightley. Believe
- 1:51:35Speaker 3: it or not, what I think, let me double check.
- 1:51:38Speaker 3: I think that Kura Nightley may be the youngest and
- 1:51:40Speaker 3: the cast question.
- 1:51:42Speaker 2: Mark, well even younger than Kerrie Mulligan.
- 1:51:44Speaker 3: She and Kerry Mulligan are the exact same age. Whoa
- 1:51:48Speaker 3: and then Rasamund Pike. How old is Rasmund Pike? Yeah,
- 1:51:50Speaker 3: Rasamund Pike is older than them, it doesn't matter. Sorry,
- 1:51:54Speaker 3: continue it, but yeah, like I just thought it was Yeah,
- 1:51:56Speaker 3: she married like Kiera Knightley to Lulailey and Harry Mulligan.
- 1:52:00Speaker 3: We're all the same age even though they're different ages.
- 1:52:03Speaker 2: Well, speaking of Mary and my Justice for Mary Bennett section, again,
- 1:52:08Speaker 2: the book mostly ignores her to the point where as
- 1:52:11Speaker 2: I was reading it, I was like, who's Mary? And
- 1:52:14Speaker 2: then I thought that there were only four Bennett sisters
- 1:52:17Speaker 2: for a large chunk of it. But I feel like
- 1:52:19Speaker 2: in the movie she's like given a little bit more
- 1:52:23Speaker 2: time and attention. I love the scene where she's like,
- 1:52:27Speaker 2: bells are silly. If we're gonna get acquainted to each other,
- 1:52:31Speaker 2: how would anyone do that by dancing? Shouldn't you talk
- 1:52:34Speaker 2: to a person to get to know them? And everyone's
- 1:52:36Speaker 2: just like, shut up, Mary, But she's right. I just
- 1:52:41Speaker 2: like her a lot, and I wish her all the best.
- 1:52:44Speaker 3: I think she's great, and I feel like the movie,
- 1:52:47Speaker 3: even more so than the book, knows that she's great
- 1:52:50Speaker 3: and her character is like fleshed out a little more.
- 1:52:53Speaker 3: I like to think down the line that like Mary
- 1:52:55Speaker 3: really found someone, whether it was in marriage or friendship,
- 1:52:58Speaker 3: who like got her. Yeah, I hope she did, because
- 1:53:01Speaker 3: it seemed like there wasn't anyone in her family who
- 1:53:03Speaker 3: like in the way that like Lizzie and Jane really
- 1:53:06Speaker 3: got each other, and the way that like Lydia and
- 1:53:08Speaker 3: Kitty for a lot of their relationship really got each other.
- 1:53:11Speaker 3: I feel like Mary was the album out. I hope
- 1:53:13Speaker 3: she found someone that really understood her. She deserved that.
- 1:53:17Speaker 2: Yeah, but uh yeah, that's really all I had. Did
- 1:53:19Speaker 2: you have anything else?
- 1:53:21Speaker 3: No, that's basically all I had. I just I truly,
- 1:53:24Speaker 3: I mean I without getting personal. I feel like this
- 1:53:27Speaker 3: this story. I rediscovered this story at a very nice time,
- 1:53:32Speaker 3: and that, like Lizzie, no matter when you're coming back
- 1:53:36Speaker 3: to her, there's lessons to be learned from the Gospel
- 1:53:40Speaker 3: of Lizzie Bennett. She is incredible and I really like
- 1:53:45Speaker 3: that she and Jane and the story very happy like
- 1:53:50Speaker 3: and with you know, and it is in the conventional way,
- 1:53:54Speaker 3: but I feel like the way that Jane Austen writes,
- 1:53:56Speaker 3: in the way that this story in the adaptation plays out,
- 1:54:00Speaker 3: it feels earned and you want these characters to find
- 1:54:03Speaker 3: their bliss in the way that they could in this time,
- 1:54:06Speaker 3: and it seems like they do and that.
- 1:54:08Speaker 2: Makes me happy in a way that again that like
- 1:54:11Speaker 2: enemies to lovers trope never really works for me. And
- 1:54:15Speaker 2: as yeah, you know Nora Efron or no was it
- 1:54:19Speaker 2: her sister pointed out, like that never happens in real life,
- 1:54:22Speaker 2: where people start out hating each other and then they
- 1:54:25Speaker 2: fall in love, but that is a big movie thing.
- 1:54:28Speaker 2: I feel like this is maybe the one narrative where
- 1:54:32Speaker 2: I can get behind that because it certainly didn't work
- 1:54:35Speaker 2: for me. And You've Got Mail or I mean a similar.
- 1:54:40Speaker 3: Thing for most of the time, right because yeah, like
- 1:54:42Speaker 3: we were saying, it's unrealistic, but like in this one,
- 1:54:45Speaker 3: it's so it starts with the broad trope, but it
- 1:54:49Speaker 3: attacks the broad trope with such subtlety. And also just
- 1:54:53Speaker 3: like time, like, I feel like a part of the
- 1:54:55Speaker 3: reason that You've Got Male doesn't work. There's a lot
- 1:54:59Speaker 3: of reasons, but like one of the reasons it doesn't
- 1:55:01Speaker 3: work is because it all happened so quickly, and like
- 1:55:05Speaker 3: pride and prejudice, It's like Darcy and Elizabeth don't talk
- 1:55:08Speaker 3: for months at a time as they continue to work
- 1:55:12Speaker 3: on themselves, which I feel like is honestly like kind
- 1:55:15Speaker 3: of harder for modern stories where it's so easy to
- 1:55:18Speaker 3: keep tabs on each other, and like the idea of
- 1:55:21Speaker 3: like truly not knowing what someone else is up to
- 1:55:24Speaker 3: for months is kind of inconceivable if you're remotely interested
- 1:55:27Speaker 3: in who they are or what they do. But like
- 1:55:30Speaker 3: this was a time where it's like, yeah, Lizzie didn't
- 1:55:33Speaker 3: know what Darcy was up to while she continued to
- 1:55:35Speaker 3: experience life and like overcome her pride, prides and prejudices
- 1:55:41Speaker 3: independent of him, and vice versa. And then it would
- 1:55:44Speaker 3: be like they would reconnect every several months and be like, oh,
- 1:55:48Speaker 3: I'm growing, but it's still not time. And then they
- 1:55:51Speaker 3: would reconnect. I'd be like, oh, you've improved, I've improved. Interesting,
- 1:55:56Speaker 3: and like, I don't know, I feel like that's for me.
- 1:55:59Speaker 3: That's why it works. It's because it is like gradual,
- 1:56:03Speaker 3: and the issues that they have outside of their lives
- 1:56:06Speaker 3: is interconnected because of the circles they run in but
- 1:56:08Speaker 3: it's like they're both on their own sort of stories.
- 1:56:12Speaker 3: They're both dealing with their own shit, and it's when
- 1:56:15Speaker 3: they reconnect and kind of regroup and they're like, Okay,
- 1:56:18Speaker 3: I've improved in this way, but I still suck in
- 1:56:21Speaker 3: this way. And then the other person's like, okay, well
- 1:56:23Speaker 3: I still have this pride in this prejudice, but I
- 1:56:26Speaker 3: got rid of this pride and this prejudice. And they're like, okay,
- 1:56:28Speaker 3: let's regroup in September or like whatever, you know. I
- 1:56:32Speaker 3: just it feels very true to like, I just okay.
- 1:56:36Speaker 2: Uh.
- 1:56:37Speaker 3: Does this pass the Bectel test? Yes?
- 1:56:39Speaker 2: Yes. Although so much of the movie is women, Actually,
- 1:56:43Speaker 2: when are there conversations that past? Because so many of
- 1:56:47Speaker 2: the conversations between women where women do interact a lot
- 1:56:51Speaker 2: in the movie, but it seems like they're always talking
- 1:56:54Speaker 2: about men, if not directly, like that's the subtext of
- 1:56:58Speaker 2: the conversation.
- 1:56:59Speaker 3: I was getting exchanges, not full conversations, but exchanges do pass.
- 1:57:04Speaker 2: Okay, As far as our nipple scales, your to five nipples.
- 1:57:08Speaker 2: Based on how the movie affairs from an intersectional feminist lens,
- 1:57:15Speaker 2: I'll give this four nipples. It's a nice story. I
- 1:57:20Speaker 2: really liked this movie. I was not expecting to like
- 1:57:22Speaker 2: this movie as much as I did, especially because.
- 1:57:25Speaker 3: Like so happy when I found out you liked it,
- 1:57:27Speaker 3: because I was like, there's hope. If Caitlin likes it,
- 1:57:29Speaker 3: I'm gonna love rewatching it.
- 1:57:32Speaker 2: I think it's a really well made movie. I get
- 1:57:35Speaker 2: why people love it so much. It does make me
- 1:57:37Speaker 2: want to see Sarah No. Yeah, Yeah, let's do it.
- 1:57:41Speaker 3: Let's see Sarah No together. Oh. I would be so
- 1:57:44Speaker 3: excited to see Sarah No with you. Let's do it,
- 1:57:47Speaker 3: Dane Glitch dang.
- 1:57:49Speaker 2: And it makes me want to watch the BBC mini
- 1:57:53Speaker 2: series anyway for Nipples, because even though I think mister
- 1:57:58Speaker 2: Darcy still has a lot of work to do on
- 1:58:00Speaker 2: himself with all of his prides and prejudices. I love
- 1:58:05Speaker 2: Elizabeth Bennett as a character. I do think she's a
- 1:58:08Speaker 2: feminist icon. I think it's cool that you can call
- 1:58:11Speaker 2: a character from a book that's over two hundred years
- 1:58:13Speaker 2: old a feminist icon. And I think this adaptation leans
- 1:58:18Speaker 2: into that aspect of her character in really satisfying ways.
- 1:58:23Speaker 2: And yes, it is a very nineteenth century version of
- 1:58:27Speaker 2: feminism that's very white and very hetero and very middle
- 1:58:32Speaker 2: class and maybe four nipples is too high, but damn it,
- 1:58:38Speaker 2: it's just a really good movie, so it gets some
- 1:58:43Speaker 2: extra love.
- 1:58:45Speaker 3: Who are you giving your nipples too?
- 1:58:46Speaker 2: Oh? One nipple to Lizzie Bennett. I'm gonna give one
- 1:58:51Speaker 2: to Mary Bennett. One to the servant woman who I
- 1:58:58Speaker 2: think is given a name, but I for I to
- 1:59:00Speaker 2: write it down, and she does have a name, Betsy
- 1:59:03Speaker 2: or something like that, And I'm going to give my
- 1:59:05Speaker 2: final nipple to Around the nineteen minute mark, there is
- 1:59:09Speaker 2: a very weird shot of a pig's testicles.
- 1:59:15Speaker 3: Yes, I was wondering if that was going to come back,
- 1:59:17Speaker 3: but it's just missus Bennett looking at the pigs testicle
- 1:59:19Speaker 3: and then she kind of smiles, and they were like, what.
- 1:59:22Speaker 2: Why is this in the movie?
- 1:59:24Speaker 3: Is that symbolism? And like, is my brain not making
- 1:59:27Speaker 3: the connection that I'm like, fertility. I'm like, what is it?
- 1:59:31Speaker 3: What are you trying to tell me? I don't know.
- 1:59:34Speaker 2: Anyway, So I love the very gratuitous random shot of
- 1:59:38Speaker 2: a pig's giant ballsack.
- 1:59:41Speaker 3: Femina's icon pigs ballsack, got it.
- 1:59:44Speaker 2: And that's what gets my fourth and final nipple. Jamie's
- 1:59:48Speaker 2: how about.
- 1:59:48Speaker 3: You, I'll meet you at four For many of the
- 1:59:52Speaker 3: same reasons. I think that this movie is so well done.
- 1:59:56Speaker 3: I love like I feel like it's so rare that
- 1:59:58Speaker 3: you're like, this adaptation makes the story both faithful to
- 2:00:04Speaker 3: the source material and more accessible in a way that
- 2:00:08Speaker 3: certainly hit for me when I was twelve, where I
- 2:00:11Speaker 3: had tried to read the book and I was like,
- 2:00:12Speaker 3: I totally get it. And then I remember going to
- 2:00:14Speaker 3: see the movie and being like, oh, now I actually
- 2:00:16Speaker 3: get it because it's laid out so clearly and it
- 2:00:19Speaker 3: but also in a way that doesn't sacrifice the themes
- 2:00:22Speaker 3: or the characters. It just like pulls it into focus.
- 2:00:25Speaker 3: It makes it more streamlined and beautiful, Like Joe wright
- 2:00:29Speaker 3: movies are so beautiful. And I also just want to
- 2:00:34Speaker 3: acknowledge the behind the scenes stuff here, you know, huge
- 2:00:38Speaker 3: ups to screenwriter Deborah Mogok who started as a novelist.
- 2:00:42Speaker 3: This was her first screenplay. It was nominated for a
- 2:00:45Speaker 3: bath to huge stuff. I mean, there's still it is
- 2:00:48Speaker 3: still mostly white guys behind the scenes. We've got Joe
- 2:00:50Speaker 3: Wright directing, all male producers, male cinematographer. So I do
- 2:00:55Speaker 3: want to like specifically focus on the screenwriter who was
- 2:00:59Speaker 3: a first time Green writer.
- 2:01:00Speaker 2: Also, Emma Thompson helped with some of the story development
- 2:01:04Speaker 2: and dialogue, but is uncredited.
- 2:01:07Speaker 3: Emma Thompson is not given enough credit for the fact
- 2:01:10Speaker 3: that she's also a very accomplished writer. I know enough
- 2:01:13Speaker 3: she is. And also in terms of the writer Deborah Mogux,
- 2:01:19Speaker 3: she's also I mean, she just like has a cool
- 2:01:21Speaker 3: life in general. She's been a huge advocate for changing
- 2:01:26Speaker 3: the law in dignity and death and assisted suicide and
- 2:01:29Speaker 3: just like all of this really complicated, like cool advocacy work.
- 2:01:34Speaker 3: Like she's just a really cool person. So I wanted
- 2:01:36Speaker 3: to shout her out. And Lizzie Bennett, I mean, I
- 2:01:40Speaker 3: truly like, there are few there's so I mean, thankfully,
- 2:01:44Speaker 3: in the interceding two hundred years, there's been a lot
- 2:01:46Speaker 3: of great feminist characters who's been writing, but like Lizzie
- 2:01:49Speaker 3: Bennett endures for a reason. She's fucking awesome. There's, like
- 2:01:53Speaker 3: we were talking about, there's still things that Lizzie Bennett's
- 2:01:55Speaker 3: able to do and advocating for herself and her family
- 2:01:58Speaker 3: and her loved ones that like it's hard for me
- 2:02:00Speaker 3: to do in the day to day and it's a
- 2:02:03Speaker 3: struggle out there. It's really like life affirming to be like,
- 2:02:08Speaker 3: well it worked off for a Lizzie right like. Anyways,
- 2:02:12Speaker 3: I love this story, I love this movie. I was
- 2:02:14Speaker 3: so refreshed and relieved to revisit it and find it
- 2:02:18Speaker 3: to have just as many moments that really stuck with
- 2:02:21Speaker 3: me as it did when I saw it when I
- 2:02:23Speaker 3: was twelve. So I'll give it four nipples. I'm gonna
- 2:02:27Speaker 3: give one to Lizzie. I'll give one to Deborah Mogok,
- 2:02:30Speaker 3: i will give one two Charlotte. I love Charlotte, and
- 2:02:36Speaker 3: I'll give one to Mary and those will be my
- 2:02:37Speaker 3: four nipples. Ooo.
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