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Read it on Reddit #4 · WDYM What Do You Mean?

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  SPEAKER_00: Hope everything is well.
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  SPEAKER_00: Again, I'm going the same with the same intro.
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_00: This is the third the third episode I've done trying to get to 40 out of the six I need to do within the next couple days.
• 1:42
  SPEAKER_00: Uh we're going to fall back on a Reddit with Reddit.
• 1:46
  SPEAKER_00: Now, before we start, before we start, before we start, I want to let you know some of the sentence structure with some of these people and uh autocorrect or whatever is going on.
• 1:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not the greatest reader.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna say that, but I can read, okay?
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_00: Some of these people don't put them one, they don't correct themselves, autocorrect.
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  SPEAKER_00: Two, they don't reread what they put.
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  SPEAKER_00: But without further ado, we're doing a Reddit with Reddit.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_00: Topic number one by Full Pow.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_00: 40-year-old male, 38 year old, 38-year-old female.
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_00: We are two people in a dead bedroom situation, close to divorce.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: I'm a 40-year-old man, HLM with LLF wife and a five-year-old kid.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_00: Stop right there.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: What is a HLM with a LLF wife?
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm literally clueless.
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what that means.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_00: Whatever.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: Uh getting close to a divorce, lack of respect, cheese, and appreciation.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now remember, people, this is a G show.
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_00: You gotta put two and two together what cheese is.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_00: Told her I can't take anymore like this.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_00: Had a big fight.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_00: She said, divorce, instead of trying to repair whatever 10%, it is chance.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: Their words, not mine.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_00: I accepted her decision and we'll start the procedure in January, which will take about six months.
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_00: I asked her what's the number one reason for her frustration and gave her my reason as example, feeling disrespected.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: She said, I don't help with anything.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_00: Now bear in mind the real situation.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_00: I am only providing financially.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_00: She is just tapping, their words not mine, with the phone, with this fine for me.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: I want to say that's helping.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_00: I am paying and taking care of all the bills, rent, gas, electric, etc.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_00: I'm washing my own clothes, put them in the washing machine, dry them, and back to wardrobe.
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_00: I sleep in a separate bedroom, clean up my own room, make my own bed, etc.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I clean after my kid, like toys.
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_00: I spend time with my kid, just me and him.
• 3:55
  SPEAKER_00: Take the garbage out.
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_00: I always initiate the food ordering process, online account.
• 4:00
  SPEAKER_00: I organize things, reminders, and take notes for what is missing, needs to be done, bought, etc.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_00: I don't do dishes.
• 4:07
  SPEAKER_00: We have a dishwasher, but I always wash my own dishes after finish eating.
• 4:11
  SPEAKER_00: I don't cook.
• 4:13
  SPEAKER_00: But for my part, I order online and she's all and she's old and when she already cooked in that day.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 4:21
  SPEAKER_00: I don't clean the rest of the house, I meant, but we don't live in a castle.
• 4:24
  SPEAKER_00: A kid is going to school Monday through Friday, 9 to 3.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, what is the conversation rate optimum for a wife for her to able to say my husband helps me around the house?
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_00: Please, advice.
• 4:38
  SPEAKER_00: I am curious.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_00: Is this he's questions?
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_00: Is the lack of dishes such a turn-off for a wife?
• 4:44
  SPEAKER_00: You cannot see the rest of the other good stuff.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_00: From my point of view, I do more than enough.
• 4:48
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks.
• 4:50
  SPEAKER_00: So, Mr.
• 4:51
  SPEAKER_00: Fool Pow 40 old man.
• 4:54
  SPEAKER_00: First, I need to know what H H L M and L L F wife means.
• 4:59
  SPEAKER_00: What are we doing here?
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_00: Just put just spell it out.
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so the things are you guys are not connected, in my opinion, right?
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: You guys sleep in your own rooms, you clean your own room, you make your own bed.
• 5:14
  SPEAKER_00: Why you guys ain't doing this together?
• 5:16
  SPEAKER_00: What's what why y'all that's that's that's part of marriage, man?
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all supposed to be doing things together.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_00: At least in my book.
• 5:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's supposed to be the part of the marriage.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_00: And and the whole thing, I don't maybe just cause me, I'm a culinarian, but cooking for your your significant other, that's a big deal for me.
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't hey, I prepared this chicken for you.
• 5:35
  SPEAKER_00: You gonna eat it.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_00: Why y'all door dashing all the time?
• 5:39
  SPEAKER_00: Put the effort into making that woman feel special.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, baby, I cooked this chicken for you.
• 5:44
  SPEAKER_00: You gonna eat it?
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_00: You ain't?
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna kill you.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_00: Like, look, those these things are missing.
• 5:50
  SPEAKER_00: You're not sleeping in the same room.
• 5:52
  SPEAKER_00: You've referred to your kid.
• 5:54
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I mean, I don't call my kids kids.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_00: That's my children, that's my child.
• 5:58
  SPEAKER_00: Verbiage.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_00: It just doesn't sound right.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 6:02
  SPEAKER_00: It just feels like you guys are not connected as you would, but I still need to figure out what this HLM and LLF wife needs.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_00: What is what is the def what are those?
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all can y'all help me out on that?
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_00: What is those?
• 6:14
  SPEAKER_00: What are what are those?
• 6:16
  SPEAKER_00: Connect, bro.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_00: Cook for her, sleep in the same room.
• 6:21
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe get you some cheese.
• 6:23
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 6:25
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I think you guys need to do.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_00: Next one.
• 6:30
  SPEAKER_00: This one's from Phoenix Fire 883.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_00: My boyfriend, 31-year-old male, and I, 31-year-old female, have known each other for about 10 years.
• 6:39
  SPEAKER_00: We finally decided to start dating and have been for a year and a half.
• 6:43
  SPEAKER_00: Moved in together, been living with each other for about six months of that time.
• 6:48
  SPEAKER_00: Once we started dating, things were great.
• 6:50
  SPEAKER_00: Things were pretty good.
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_00: That's what they say.
• 6:52
  SPEAKER_00: I just had to add lived.
• 6:53
  SPEAKER_00: I love him with all my heart.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_00: We was certain he was the one, quote unquote, wanted to be with for the rest of my life.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_00: He felt the same.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_00: It was wonderful.
• 7:01
  SPEAKER_00: But I noticed we never quite had the honeymoon phase.
• 7:05
  SPEAKER_00: It lasted maybe two to three months, and the rest of the time, I progressively felt more and more taken for granted.
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_00: It would be like pulling teeth to ask him to be more affectionate, more intimate in the beginning.
• 7:17
  SPEAKER_00: We both agreed that we were very physical people and love having cheese.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_00: But it feels but it feels as soon as he got me in the relationship, he became complacent.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_00: After the first few months, I'd be lucky to get cheese or an attention every four to six weeks.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_00: Up until recently, he would rarely cook, excuse me, or clean.
• 7:40
  SPEAKER_00: We frequently use depression and stress as an excuse.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_00: The only reason he started doing it recently is because we got into a big enough argument about it that I felt the house I left the house and stayed with my dad for a few days.
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_00: He could tell he's losing me.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_00: After having multiple different discussions with no compromise or feedback, I'm no longer no longer interested in cheese, cuddles, or kisses.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: I just feel like his best friend.
• 8:08
  SPEAKER_00: I don't like making out with him.
• 8:11
  SPEAKER_00: I can't bring myself to want cheese.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_00: Now he's trying to bring that back.
• 8:17
  SPEAKER_00: He says he doesn't want anyone else, but he loves me.
• 8:19
  SPEAKER_00: But I feel like I've already checked out other relationships mentally, and he's struggling with the fact that I have no desire left.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_00: No, not for the lack of trying.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't help that he don't feel seen or heard with him.
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_00: He really opens opens up to me, tell me how he feels, what he wants.
• 8:36
  SPEAKER_00: Any small amount of stress makes him close, it makes him close himself off.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_00: I want to be with someone that feels natural, naturally and organically come together because we love each other.
• 8:47
  SPEAKER_00: Things with him just seem forced, negotiated.
• 8:50
  SPEAKER_00: What do I do?
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_00: I want to end things because I hate feeling like I'm leading him on, and I only see him as a friend right now.
• 8:58
  SPEAKER_00: I was I have no romantic desire towards him, and it sucks.
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_00: He wants to marry me and feel the exact and I'm feeling the exact opposite.
• 9:06
  SPEAKER_00: Just in time for the holidays too.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_00: Don't want to spend time with his family for the new year, but how crappy it would be for the conversation now.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_00: I'm conflicted.
• 9:16
  SPEAKER_00: We live together too, and neither of us can afford to place on our own.
• 9:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm panicking.
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to hurt him, but I want to do what makes him happy.
• 9:24
  SPEAKER_00: Can anyone help make sense of this?
• 9:26
  SPEAKER_00: And how should I handle the situation?
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_00: I'm in my head in my am in my own head too much, and I feel jumbled.
• 9:33
  SPEAKER_00: You, friend, Mr.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_00: Phoenix Fire883, are not jumble.
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_00: You've already said what you need to do.
• 9:42
  SPEAKER_00: You don't feel connected, right?
• 9:44
  SPEAKER_00: You feel like he's complacent.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_00: Haven't had cheese in four to six weeks.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_00: What is what what what what what you are 31.
• 9:56
  SPEAKER_00: Make the decision you need to make.
• 9:57
  SPEAKER_00: You already feel like you're friends.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_00: You were friends, you had this little fling, the fling didn't work.
• 10:03
  SPEAKER_00: What's the problem here?
• 10:05
  SPEAKER_00: You already have these feelings.
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_00: If you gotta do this at 31, is it worth another another year or two to keep this thing going?
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_00: I understand that you are panicking and you can't afford a place.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_00: This is why you have a dad.
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_00: You already went to him before.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, dad, this stuff ain't working.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_00: I need to move back in for six months.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_00: Set a time limit.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_00: Don't stay there forever because you know, dad's gonna, you know, I used to walk around naked, but now your ass here, I can't walk around naked no more.
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_00: That's gonna be that's a selling point.
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna don't come back here.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna be rolling around naked.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: But what I you already said the things that you need to do.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_00: You're 31, you tried this thing with your friend, it didn't work out.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_00: Time to move on.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_00: So while you're still young, you should do it.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_00: You're not conflicted, you know what you're doing.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_00: Next.
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_00: Here we go.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_00: I am my ex's only friend, but fearing how this could impact future relationships.
• 11:11
  SPEAKER_00: This one's already titled Where?
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_00: This one's by Throw Raw 7392991.
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, this one's really weird.
• 11:21
  SPEAKER_00: Throw away because my main because my main is too identical, identifiable.
• 11:28
  SPEAKER_00: I am 27 and I casually dated for a year and have not been in a serious relationship for about three years.
• 11:33
  SPEAKER_00: I recently met a 27-year-old male on a dating app.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_00: We've only been on two dates, but we really hit it off.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_00: Whether things work out with him or not, though, I'm going to need to make a decision on this.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_00: I dated my ex, who's 28 met 28-year-old male freshman year of college when he was a junior.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: We dated for a year and a half, but ultimately we're just two different people.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_00: We both mutually decided to break up.
• 11:54
  SPEAKER_00: Although it was emotional for both of us, we broke up about six years ago and have both had casual relationships with and one serious relationship since.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_00: During that time, we have sent a few texts to each other, nothing more than happy birthday.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_00: His ex broke up with him after I was already single.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_00: At the time she broke up with him, my father was battling stage-ending cancer.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: Sorry to hear that.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: Uh he was he was a he has very few friends and clearly needed a friend at that time.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_00: We started to text more frequently but never actually saw one another.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_00: The whole time, I was never mentally interested in him, although I suspect that he was slightly interested in me.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_00: I really, I really think it was more that he needed a companion than anything else.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_00: His father sadly passed away about seven months ago.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_00: Since then, I've been the only non-family to be there for him.
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_00: He has struggled with depression before and during this experience.
• 12:50
  SPEAKER_00: And I know this has been very hard for him.
• 12:52
  SPEAKER_00: We began to hang out more often.
• 12:54
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna say after his father passed away.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_00: It's always been very uh plutonic.
• 13:02
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on, I lost my spot.
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, here we go.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_00: I have made it clear that since we started hanging out, we we have both stated that we are friends and haven't and have both been on dating apps the entire time.
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_00: I would never want to make whoever I dated uncomfortable with my situation.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_00: My roommate, 26-year-old female, think I should go to NC with my ex.
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_00: I feel conflicted given the circumstances and potential that I am leaving him with nobody else to talk to.
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_00: I think he would respect the NC, but it would definitely make an already horrible situation worse for himself.
• 13:43
  SPEAKER_00: I feel that I was naive to think the situation would not impact future relationships and should have never made myself available for him to begin with.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know about that.
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: I needed to be honest, incredibly transparent with him and future partners, but I'm not sure how to go about it with this entire party.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: So to make a long story short, I've reconnected with the ex after his dad passed away in order to give him someone to talk to.
• 14:09
  SPEAKER_00: Now I feel our friendship will interfere with any future relationship.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_00: What do you do?
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_00: Again, you've already said this situation.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_00: You are in a spot where this guy has I'm gonna say the fish lines out there for you.
• 14:27
  SPEAKER_00: Like he's always got that hook out trying to get it.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_00: You I mean, look, you can always be friends.
• 14:33
  SPEAKER_00: You go back to that say stage where you're barely texting another, text each other happy birthday.
• 14:37
  SPEAKER_00: But this is on him.
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, again, this man lost his father during cancer, and that's really sad.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_00: But at one point, you gotta let this grown-ass man grow up.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, not sorry.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, yes, you can be there for him emotionally, but you gotta understand that you have something else going on, or you got something in the future going on.
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_00: So you gotta set those guidelines, set those ropes, set that friend zone up so therefore he doesn't trip out and all that stuff.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_00: Moving on, the next one.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_00: This one's called This one's by Throw Raw 8675-309-237.
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_00: Titled 29 Male, 28 Female.
• 15:21
  SPEAKER_00: My wife has had a drunken one night stand.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: I, 29-year-old male, found out my wife, 28 female, had a one-night stand on a vacation visiting her parents.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: Some background.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_00: I remember my wife in a different part of the country from where I grew up.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_00: We have we have been married for eight years and a total of four children under eight.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: You freaky nasty person.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: I am the sole provider for the family.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_00: My wife and I both made the decision that we would rather she raise our children, and when they got older, she would finish school and start working again.
• 15:55
  SPEAKER_00: She just started going back to school this year.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_00: The marriage hasn't been perfect by any means.
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_00: Both are stubborn, but they're always love, and we both always work on being a better couple.
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_00: We don't have enough money for all of us to visit her home state more than once a year.
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_00: To make off for this, make up for this.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: My wife has flown by herself to the newest when it with the newest baby once or twice a year.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_00: This year was the first year I told her to go alone, enjoy your time with your parents.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_00: She had a 10-year reunion.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_00: She had a 10-year reunion the first night, she was back and ended up getting drunk.
• 16:31
  SPEAKER_00: Normally she doesn't drink at all.
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_00: She told me she had a margarita, five size tequila during the night, ended up going back to her friend's house with her ex-boyfriend, and she had cheese with him.
• 16:43
  SPEAKER_00: She claims he started it and she just went along with it.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: She was very distracted, she was very she was very distant from me the whole trip.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: And when she got home, she finally broke down and told me the day before Christmas.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: I was crushed.
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_00: She was supposed to be my person, my best friend, my everything.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what to do.
• 17:05
  SPEAKER_00: If we divorce, she will go back home to her home state, and I'll lose my children, and they will lose their entire lives and all the friends that they made.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if I can forgive her for what she did.
• 17:16
  SPEAKER_00: She's very apologetic, remorseful, and acting like the perfect wife for me now.
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_00: What should I do?
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_00: What should you do?
• 17:26
  SPEAKER_00: What should you do?
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: That's a good question.
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_00: That's a rough one because she don't have nothing.
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_00: She don't have a like she just started going back to school, so she's gonna be struggling for the next two or three years.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_00: And you guys got four kids all under eight.
• 17:45
  SPEAKER_00: And she slipped up and had cheese with this ex.
• 17:52
  SPEAKER_00: And she was she's using the alcohol as an excuse.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_00: And this is the thing that I don't like about when people do that.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, alcohol does lower ambition, but doesn't lower decisions, right?
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like you know not to cross the road with a green light going.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't care how drunk you are, that green light means go.
• 18:11
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm not going because a car can smash my face in.
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_00: I think you're gonna have to forgive her for this, man.
• 18:21
  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna have to just say, you know what?
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_00: You jerk.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: Call her a jerk every time you see her.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: But these kids are small, bro.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: And you know, you just sometimes you gotta bite the bullet for this one, and I think you gotta bite the bullet for this one.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, what's the what no?
• 18:38
  SPEAKER_00: You know what?
• 18:39
  SPEAKER_00: Get the details.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you just tell me everything you did that night.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_00: And I want it all.
• 18:45
  SPEAKER_00: Everything.
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: I don't care how drunk you are.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_00: You remember something because you want to tell me right before Christmas.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_00: How cold-hearted is that?
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: Before Christmas, you can't wait till New Year's.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_00: Like, three, two, one, happy.
• 18:59
  SPEAKER_01: I slept with my ex outer room, you know, don't kill me.
• 19:03
  SPEAKER_00: Why before Christmas of all things?
• 19:05
  SPEAKER_00: Christmas, I can't open a gift.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_00: You don't mess this up.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_00: You don't mess.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_00: See, this is the thing.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: Don't do that.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_00: Don't do that on Christmas.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because you're gonna ruin every every Christmas and go, yeah, you remember that one year that my ex or my current wife, whatever the situation may be, yeah.
• 19:21
  SPEAKER_00: She told me she did this, she had cheese on her whopper.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_00: How messed up is that?
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, you might have to forgive her for that, but she's wrong for doing that at Christmas.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_00: Uh next one.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_00: No, I did.
• 19:42
  SPEAKER_01: Did I do this one?
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: No, I didn't.
• 19:45
  SPEAKER_00: Alright, here we go.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, this one's by Throw Raw.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_00: I swear I didn't say this.
• 19:50
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• 19:53
  SPEAKER_01: Is this not the same dude?
• 19:55
  SPEAKER_01: He's making stuff up.
• 19:57
  SPEAKER_00: Nope, not the same dude.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_00: Weird.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_00: Alright.
• 20:01
  SPEAKER_00: Titled, I want to leave my husband as as I'm so unhappy with him, but I can't financially afford to do so.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_00: Is there it has it is it has see this?
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_00: This ain't me.
• 20:13
  SPEAKER_00: I can read.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_00: It it is it has anyone been in the same position?
• 20:18
  SPEAKER_00: See, when you start the sentence off with the bad, it just makes me not want to read this, but I chose him anyway.
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_00: Basically, the title says, I'm 33 female, been with my husband for 18 years.
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: Got together when I was 14, and have two daughters, 12 and 16.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_00: Wait a minute.
• 20:37
  SPEAKER_01: Who he's nasty?
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_00: Uh, we have grown apart and have have been happy for about five years now.
• 20:43
  SPEAKER_00: It got to a point where we just ask each other how our day was, and that's it.
• 20:47
  SPEAKER_00: Literally, nothing more in a two-minute conversation.
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_00: Over Christmas, he was barely said more than four words to me.
• 20:53
  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't even speak to our daughters or spend time with them.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: Anything regarding them is left to me and doesn't even inquire what's going on in their lives.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_00: When I ask him to make an effort, he says, Don't start with me.
• 21:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, that's not funny.
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_00: And he continues not to talk anymore.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: We don't even argue because it involves some form of it involves some form of communication.
• 21:13
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_00: I am so unhappy with him, and when I'm with him, I feel so alone.
• 21:17
  SPEAKER_00: I would prefer to just be alone.
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_00: The problem is I only earn 12k a year.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_00: He pays for the mortgage, bills, girls to tutor, everything.
• 21:25
  SPEAKER_00: My money earned is for extras like clothes, days out, holidays.
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_00: I can't afford to leave, get a house in myself, get a house by myself.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: I feel my daughters' lives would be so much worse off if I wouldn't be able to provide the lifestyle they have now.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_00: Has anyone ever been in a decision?
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_00: I don't see any way out.
• 21:43
  SPEAKER_00: I'm so deeply unhappy with him.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what to do.
• 21:46
  SPEAKER_00: Guess what?
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: I know what you should do.
• 21:49
  SPEAKER_00: Get you an OnlyFans, God bless it.
• 21:52
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, what's going on?
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_00: You have to What is wrong with you guys?
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_00: He look look look it's a problem.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: Literally nothing more than a two-minute conversation.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: Two minutes says no more than four words to me, doesn't even speak to his own children.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: The question is, you 33-year-old female, why are you with this dude?
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_00: Listen, there's ways to make income.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: Get you a job.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, life changes for people, but this situation is trash.
• 22:26
  SPEAKER_00: This is terrible.
• 22:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, get your OnlyFans.
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: I guarantee you well, I don't know what you look like.
• 22:35
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• 22:39
  SPEAKER_00: You might be an ugly mug.
• 22:41
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• 22:42
  SPEAKER_00: People love toes.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'm telling you, go get your only fans.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_00: And that's it.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_00: Reddit with wait, what is this?
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_00: My fourth one?
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_00: Reddit with Reddit number Reddit on Reddit.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_00: Let's see.
• 22:58
  SPEAKER_00: I shouldn't do these at night because I get slap happy tired.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_00: I think this is number four.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_00: Anyway.
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_00: Let me check.
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, this is the fourth Reddit with Reddit.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_00: With that being said, we're gonna cut the episode.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_00: I have done three today.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know the best quality, but we're gonna roll with it.
• 23:19
  SPEAKER_00: We are getting to 40, ladies and gentlemen.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Michael Gillespie.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_00: I am going to bed now.
• 23:27
  SPEAKER_00: I got three more to go.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_00: Peace out, Girl Scout.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_00: Peace!