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She Drunkenly Confessed WHAT?! | Reddit Relationship Disasters · The Treehouse Show Podcast

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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, yeah, definitely don't have this one up
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  Speaker 2: with HR walking by no all right, Well, we didn't
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  Speaker 2: get a chance to get to it yesterday, so we're
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  Speaker 2: going to start the show with it today. Trey simply
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  Speaker 2: titled the email to me, girlfriend is a whore, and
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  Speaker 2: I didn't open it because I was like, I just
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  Speaker 2: I already know we're going to talk about it I
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  Speaker 2: don't need to know much more about it at this point. Uh,
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  Speaker 2: but we all do need to know some context here
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  Speaker 2: with this story. I mean, just on that, just on
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  Speaker 2: the subject line, I knew we would do it. It's
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  Speaker 2: just a matter of, you know, sharing the full story here.
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  Speaker 2: I belie I leave my boyfriend thirty seven year old male.
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  Speaker 2: This is a thirty year old female who is sharing this.
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  Speaker 2: She says, I believe my boyfriend who's thirty seven might
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  Speaker 2: dump me after a comment I made about how I
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  Speaker 2: got pregnant. Last Saturday, me and people from work had
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  Speaker 2: a dinner and a party afterwards to say goodbye to
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  Speaker 2: a coworker that's moving to a different branch.
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  Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 2: After the restaurant, many of us brought her boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands,
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  Speaker 2: and wives and agreed and we would keep on partying.
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  Speaker 3: With time.
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  Speaker 2: I got a bit drunk and At one point, I
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  Speaker 2: was outside with a few coworkers smoking. We were talking
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  Speaker 2: about bad decisions while being drunk, and at one point
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  Speaker 2: I said something along the lines of I got one
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  Speaker 2: of my daughters made on a nightclub bathroom floor and
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  Speaker 2: the other one on the beach one night. Huh, She says,
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  Speaker 2: it sounds kind of ugly and irresponsible.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't just sound.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry. But if we're splitting hairs here her legs. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she says. My daughters are from two different men, and
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  Speaker 3: they both fled after they knew I was pregnant. He
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  Speaker 3: didn't hear it.
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  Speaker 2: The current boyfriend did not hear this story because he
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  Speaker 2: was inside with the guys. But one of my coworkers
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  Speaker 2: told him. One of my female coworkers told him this story,
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  Speaker 2: and I believe she did it because she wants him
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  Speaker 2: and this way, she knew this would hurt our relationship. Look,
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  Speaker 2: we're only like three paragraphs in and there's already a
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  Speaker 2: lot to unpack here, she goes on to say, because
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  Speaker 2: the story can't get more complicated, you think, but it does.
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  Speaker 2: He is a widower and has a five year old daughter.
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  Speaker 2: Of he is the opposite of what I used to
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  Speaker 2: be calm reliable, trustworthy, cheerful, and a great father to
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  Speaker 2: his child. I can't believe I may lose him over
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  Speaker 2: something like this. We've been dating six months. I'm in
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  Speaker 2: love with him, but alcohol took the.
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  Speaker 3: Best of me.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like many many times.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think. I don't think this is a
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  Speaker 2: one off fleeting. Yeah, this is not a one off
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  Speaker 2: of alcohol getting the best of you.
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  Speaker 1: This is one of those things when you know in
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  Speaker 1: AA and you look at somebody and it's the very
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  Speaker 1: polite way of telling someone they're an alcoholic. You go,
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  Speaker 1: I've got a chair saved for you.
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  Speaker 2: That's a nice way of soft selling it, because my
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  Speaker 2: way would be a little more condescending. I'd be there,
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  Speaker 2: like just over the top, condescending, face in hand, just
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  Speaker 2: like listening to the story and then at the end
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  Speaker 2: of it just being like, hmm, you.
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  Speaker 3: Think there's a pattern here.
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  Speaker 2: You're noticing something that seems to be happening with you
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  Speaker 2: in life here to Karen, Mmmm, I think you got
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  Speaker 2: a little problem there.
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  Speaker 1: So thirty years old, So this is gen z. This
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  Speaker 1: is right on the customer millennial gen Z. But you're oversharing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oversharing especially I mean Look, this started out as
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  Speaker 2: a work function. It turned into social, but you've still
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  Speaker 2: got work people there, so it's really important. And maybe
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  Speaker 2: some gen z don't fully grasp this hip because they
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  Speaker 2: haven't learned it. Don't share too much at work. Work
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  Speaker 2: is work, personal is personal. Keep those things separate for
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  Speaker 2: a while until you really understand, as a more mature adult,
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  Speaker 2: how to navigate those two worlds and.
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  Speaker 3: Whether or not you want them to blend at all.
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  Speaker 2: This is something I definitely would not tell people I
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  Speaker 2: work with, or their wives or girlfriends and husbands.
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  Speaker 1: This is something probably only the father and your priest
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  Speaker 1: or counselor should.
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  Speaker 3: Know, right, I will say the boyfriend does deserve to
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  Speaker 3: know this. She should.
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  Speaker 2: She should have told him this before she told the
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  Speaker 2: wags at work.
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  Speaker 4: Okay that yes, if you're going to if you're gonna
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  Speaker 4: have a hierarchy of.
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  Speaker 3: Telling people things that you shouldn't, then I guess I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe the boyfriend needs to know this.
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  Speaker 3: He doesn't need to know it, no, but he has
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  Speaker 3: every right to be pissed off when he hears it
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  Speaker 3: from her coworker.
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  Speaker 1: Once you tell the story, then yeah, he had every
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  Speaker 1: right to know because otherwise he looks like a jackass too.
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  Speaker 1: But if she kept her mouth shut that I don't
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  Speaker 1: think this is one of those things. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: he needed to know. He would have been just fine,
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  Speaker 1: probably the rest of his life if he really liked her,
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  Speaker 1: loved her, staying with her never knowing this story.
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  Speaker 2: This is where we dig into one of my favorite
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  Speaker 2: layers of this story, which is your current past. Right,
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  Speaker 2: you're in a current relationship, whether it's.
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  Speaker 3: Married, committed.
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  Speaker 2: If you're dating, then that's really a different story. But
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  Speaker 2: if you're in a committed relationship, there are certain things
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  Speaker 2: about your partner's past that you don't need to know.
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  Speaker 2: You might occasionally wonder, but ultimately you're better off staying ignorant.
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  Speaker 2: You're better off staying in the dark. This is one
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  Speaker 2: of those times. Right, she's got two kids, and I
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  Speaker 2: don't even know if he knew already that those two
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  Speaker 2: kids had two different fathers.
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  Speaker 3: And look, stuff happened. Probably right, stuff happened.
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  Speaker 2: He might have, But you don't necessarily need to know
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  Speaker 2: the conception story.
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  Speaker 3: Well, especially you're the guy.
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  Speaker 1: If they fled, so I am guessing that they don't
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  Speaker 1: have a father figure, so he should know that they're
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  Speaker 1: two different dads, and but yeah, this is not you
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  Speaker 1: don't need the origin story on this one.
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  Speaker 2: Right, No, no, And look, I mean, if we're being honest,
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  Speaker 2: occasionally you might think about someone you dated years ago,
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  Speaker 2: and maybe you see them on social media or something.
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  Speaker 2: You see that they're like this very respectable person in
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  Speaker 2: the marriage and they're a mom, or they're a dad,
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  Speaker 2: and they're very buttoned up and professional looking. But you're
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  Speaker 2: looking at them knowing, I know what you did, I
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  Speaker 2: knew you.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know what else that mouth do, or
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  Speaker 3: I know I know certain things that you did with
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  Speaker 3: my roommate.
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  Speaker 2: That i'd really know that your husband would not want
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  Speaker 2: to know, which is just kind of a funny little secret.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of like it's an inside joke that you
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  Speaker 2: get to laugh at and nobody else because you don't
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  Speaker 2: share those things in polite society. Right, it's an understood
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  Speaker 2: it happened way back when you don't share the thing
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  Speaker 2: when we've all grown up and become parents or respectable
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  Speaker 2: members of society or the or a member of the
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  Speaker 2: Chamber of commerce.
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  Speaker 3: I had this same thought yesterday randomly.
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  Speaker 2: We were in an uber going over a bridge and
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  Speaker 2: I saw a police car and I randomly thought, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, I wonder if cops ever feel weird about
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  Speaker 2: telling people that they shouldn't do things, especially if they
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  Speaker 2: did them themselves when they were younger, Like, is there
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  Speaker 2: ever that sort of like brief feeling of hypocrisy. There
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  Speaker 2: was a security guard talking to a kid skateboarding outside
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  Speaker 2: of a business building. And to the kid's credit, he
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  Speaker 2: was outside, which was great. And the second thing was
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  Speaker 2: I recognized it was a good area to skateboard, but
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  Speaker 2: you at the security officer. I could tell he was
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  Speaker 2: pleading with him, trying to reason with him. It's like,
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  Speaker 2: I can't have you doing this, blah blah blah. And
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  Speaker 2: I briefly thought, I wonder if he ever skateboarded these
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  Speaker 2: lands and felt weird about having a telekid he now
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  Speaker 2: can't do it anyway, I've kind of got off the
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  Speaker 2: deep end here, But.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that that that really.
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  Speaker 3: Basically what I'm saying is your passion, stay to your
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  Speaker 3: inner voice. Yeah, your past should stay in the past.
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  Speaker 2: Your work should stay work, stuff in your personal stuff
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  Speaker 2: should say personally, I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Well, now, there's nothing hypocritical about going. Yeah, I was
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  Speaker 1: a stupid kid once too. But you know, chances are
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  Speaker 1: this boyfriend didn't get knocked up by two different dudes
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  Speaker 1: on bathroom floors and beaches. He didn't get used like
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  Speaker 1: a wow, a.
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  Speaker 3: Dump all right. Time to time to quiet your inner voice,
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  Speaker 3: trade to me. It all comes back to you if
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  Speaker 3: you knew you shouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: Even the next day, she knows she shouldn't have told
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  Speaker 2: these work type people how she got two kids, especially
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  Speaker 2: not before you know, the guy that she's currently with.
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  Speaker 3: I feel bad for this dude.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and and the coworker that had the unmitigated gall
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  Speaker 4: to take that to the boyfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Holy cramp man.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that's unmitigated gall at all.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think do you think she's do you think
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  Speaker 2: she's actually after him or was she just so flabbergasted
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  Speaker 2: by the hortedom or what she thinks is the hordom
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  Speaker 2: of this woman that she's like night God, he needs
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  Speaker 2: to add.
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  Speaker 1: I think I think, once it's out there, she was
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  Speaker 1: doing the boyfriend of service. Because here's the thing. If
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  Speaker 1: she told her coworkers this on some you know, drunken night,
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  Speaker 1: she's gonna tell this story again, and sooner or later,
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  Speaker 1: that boyfriend is gonna find out, and and he's gonna
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  Speaker 1: look like a jackass, or at least he deserves the
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  Speaker 1: opportunity on on to decide how he wants to handle this.
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  Speaker 2: That's true as and and and now he's got to
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  Speaker 2: deal with it semi publicly. And for those that don't know,
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  Speaker 2: we are actually doing our first weekly live stream for
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  Speaker 2: our Ultimate Treehouse subscribers. Oh yeah, Jerry, heads up, we're live,
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  Speaker 2: uh for our Ultimate tree House subscribers on Patreon. They
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  Speaker 2: are watching us live and in the chat they are alive.
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  Speaker 2: They are awake this morning. So thank you for that.
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  Speaker 2: You got Lindy, you got Marshall, you got MACKI and
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of others. Haley's in there, Hey, Haley. William Marshall,
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  Speaker 2: who ironically has what looks to be his like LinkedIn
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  Speaker 2: profile photo in the chat room, sir, Yeah, he looks
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  Speaker 2: really good. I am lucky. I have my own office,
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  Speaker 2: so I just shut my door. I need to heddle
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  Speaker 2: anything personal makes sense. Mackie even says, I think you
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  Speaker 2: guys know more about me than my coworkers. And going
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  Speaker 2: back up, Marshall even says, even eight years at my
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  Speaker 2: current company, I still don't share personal stuff, and that's
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  Speaker 2: the way it should be.
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  Speaker 3: And you're right, Trey.
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  Speaker 2: I mean the lady that wrote this, she's thirty years old,
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  Speaker 2: so she's on that cusp of you know, young millennial
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  Speaker 2: older gen z. Some things you just have to learn
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  Speaker 2: the hard way, right, which is certain things you don't
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  Speaker 2: do at work, certain things you don't tell, certain people.
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  Speaker 1: Don't fuck on a nightclub bathroom floor.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Look, Judgie mcjudgerson, Sometimes sometimes the passion just
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  Speaker 2: takes a hold, right, Jerry.
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely, have we all been there, but usually we're not
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  Speaker 3: the ones on our backs.
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  Speaker 2: I will say this, Uh, that is not a place
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  Speaker 2: that you want to get it on, you know, from experience, yes,
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  Speaker 2: And I don't mean I don't mean from a sexual experience.
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  Speaker 2: I just mean from being in many bathrooms of bars
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  Speaker 2: and nightclubs. That is a place that is your No, that's.
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  Speaker 1: On someone who has worked many, many, many nights and
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  Speaker 1: bars that you could not find a more disgusting place
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  Speaker 1: to have sex, to lay down screw sex to lay
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  Speaker 1: down on. I mean that is you're in fcs, cocaine, spit.
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  Speaker 3: Other bodily fluids.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And by the way, if you're in there in
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  Speaker 2: that bathroom get it on. You really think you're the
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  Speaker 2: first person with that bold idea.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, one thing and this is she specifically says like
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  Speaker 1: on the bathroom floor, right, that's at least have the
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  Speaker 1: decency to get you know, bent over the commode.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, that is just really really disgusting.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, if I in this case, if you're the guy, right,
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  Speaker 5: if you're the guy and she's like, I want you
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  Speaker 5: so bad, and then she drags you into the bathroom
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  Speaker 5: and then she starts hiking stuff up and pulling things off,
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  Speaker 5: and then she lies down on the floor.
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  Speaker 3: Wouldn't you the guy be like, what you're doing down there? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Like want me to get down there?
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  Speaker 3: My knees down there?
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  Speaker 1: Oh you had to come out with stains and no.
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  Speaker 1: God that I It's one thing to say you got
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  Speaker 1: knocked up by some random hookup a club, but on
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  Speaker 1: the bathroom floor that just means you're a dirty, dirty, dirty.
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  Speaker 3: Slut and the floor knows.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, just come on.
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  Speaker 2: I have just realized one of the downsides to doing
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  Speaker 2: the live stream versus our normal recording, as it appears
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  Speaker 2: we can't pause right take our normal commercial break, So
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  Speaker 2: we're just gonna wing it here, boys, I just wanted
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  Speaker 2: it said so that way Trey can make a note. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: around the seventeen minute mark, that's a good spot for
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  Speaker 2: a commercial break.
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  Speaker 3: That we'll have to now do and post.
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  Speaker 2: I will say this, and I don't know if this
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  Speaker 2: part's true, because I don't know if you can trust
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  Speaker 2: this lady or not. It sounds like it sounds like
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  Speaker 2: the guys that impregnated her. It sounds like she was
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  Speaker 2: in relationship with them.
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  Speaker 1: I does it. It just says they fled.
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  Speaker 3: They fled.
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  Speaker 2: That means she at least had some type of contact
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  Speaker 2: in for to let them know she was.
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  Speaker 1: She got their number, They fought numbers.
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  Speaker 3: You're right, Dan, my bad mere minimum achieved. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: It's like I'm trying to find some way where it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't make her sound really awful, Like if it's if
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  Speaker 2: it was truly a hook up on the bathroom floor
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  Speaker 2: of the nightclub, as opposed to someone she was in
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  Speaker 2: a relationship with at least, like if you're in a
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  Speaker 2: relationship with the person and you're hooking up in that way,
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't seem as bad. But if it really is,
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  Speaker 2: like you met them five minutes before at the bar,
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  Speaker 2: and now you're on the floor of the bathroom in
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  Speaker 2: the bar with this person, Das grows.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, in every way.
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  Speaker 1: The beach you could say, Okay, you know they were
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  Speaker 1: having a romantic night or whatever. But the way she
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  Speaker 1: writes this, it's the beach was a random hookup too.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it was like, you know, I can't keep
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  Speaker 1: my panties up when I drink.
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  Speaker 2: The solution is to that is just rip them to
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  Speaker 2: the side or duct tape.
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  Speaker 1: If she has any that's true that yeah, they just
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  Speaker 1: may just be a nuisance, an impediment at this point.
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  Speaker 3: A nuisance.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of like a kind of like an unattended pool
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  Speaker 2: in a backyard. It's a it's an attractive nuisance. If
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  Speaker 2: she's just naked, spread eagle on the beach, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, well, okay, people are going to dive in.
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  Speaker 3: I love what Haley says here.
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  Speaker 2: She says it's like Clerks with Dante finding out how
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  Speaker 2: many bjs' girlfriend.
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  Speaker 3: Had given thirty seven in a row.
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  Speaker 2: Texas area.
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  Speaker 6: going into the super al Nino. The reason why is
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  Speaker 6: because it's warmer than a regular al Nino, and it
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  Speaker 6: does prelude that we will have a wetter, higher rain
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  Speaker 6: percentage than a normal year, or shall we say, on
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  Speaker 6: El Nina. So there are some differences, speculations. Nothing is
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, all right, let's switch gears. It is Thursday.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: For those that are listening in the normal way, it
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: is Thursday, August thirteenth to twenty twenty six. Let's celebrate
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: today with some birthdays. This is a pretty decent day,
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: just based on two of them. One of my favorite actors.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I didn't really realize it until the last few years.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: John Slattery is sixty four. This is one of those
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: guys you may not recognize his name, but when you
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: see his face, you're like, yeah, that guy. We had
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: one of those yesterday. It was Bruce Greenwood. John Slattery
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: is the white haired actor that was in Mad Men.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: He was Tony Stark's dad at one point in the MCU.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: I mean he was like the more notable Stark in
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: the movies. He was also in Spotlight. He is sixty
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: four today. John Slattery sixty four, been in tons of
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: shows and films, really really, really good actor. I'm just
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: a big fan of his, So happy birthday to John Slattery.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: He is sixty four today. And since he is in
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: the MCU as Tony Stark's dad in the films, it
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: we might as well throw in the fact that today
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: is Sebastian Stands birthday. He is the Winter Soldier slash
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Bucky Marts in the MCU. He's forty four today, so
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: that means in the MCU, somewhere on set they had
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: to have a dual birthday party at Craft Services for
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: John Slattery and Sebastian stand I would imagine Robert Downey
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Junior probably threw them a hell of a birthday party,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: because as much money as he is making on those films,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: he is really good to his cast mates. I've seen
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: photos and stuff like he'll like. I think there was
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: one he did like a women's luncheon or something on
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: the in game set. It's like all the all the
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: like he did. I don't know if it was like
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: International Women's Day or something. He catered in like this
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: fancy lunch for everybody, for all the females on set.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, i'd hope so I iron Man was quite good
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: to him.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, which, by anyway, Yeah, which, by the way I
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: saw the I think it was an account. I followed
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: the what is it, Trey, how do you say? Is
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: it Pubbety Puberty, Jubidy Juby Puberty.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: I don't know. That's all them too. Yeah. Uh, it's
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: a great follow up.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: They got like sixty something million followers, but they have
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: interesting stuff that they post on occasion, which is why
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: I follow him. And the other day they posted one
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: about the salary progression of Tom holland Spider Man. Right,
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: so there's Robert Downey Junior, who I think got like
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: five hundred grand or something like that for the very
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: first iron Man and now he's making like fifty million
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: dollars for Avengers End Game.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I think he took points on the back even on
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: on iron Man, didn't he.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: He may have, but he was not paid a massive
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: massive amount for it.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: He was still he you know, now, I think about it.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: When it comes to Iron Man, he was still in
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: that no man's land. Uh, it was kind of unhirable
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: due to his past.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: He had been he'd been working on that, doing smaller projects,
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: you know, building his reputation back up. And he agreed, yeah,
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: to take points on the back end so they didn't
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: have to pay so much upfront, so they'd be less
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: averse to taking that risk.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: And man, it worked out for everybody. And it's been
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: similar for Tom Holland what is it trip?
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: And at that point, Marvel was unproven.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: Right if I remember this right?
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: So the like Tom Holland's salary progression in films, I
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: think for his debut in Captain America Civil War as
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Spider Man, I think he got paid like it was
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: either one hundred.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Or two fifty, like one fifty grand. Yeah, I think
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: it was two hundred and fifty grand. That's a great payday,
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, especially for a little role in
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: that film. And you're Spider Man, and you and your
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: freaking Spider Man.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: So he only gets two fifty for that first one
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: and then now he's making like thirty million for Spider
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Man brand new day, and similar to uh, Robert Downey Jr.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: He's I think getting points on the box office as well,
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: and he's got a lot of creative control on that role.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: So pretty good progression for Tom Holland.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's going to be in Doomsday, and there's
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: gonna be another Spider Man movie and he'll probably be
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: in at least one other movie in between now and then.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: So oh yeah, yeah, yeah. And he's banging z India. Yeah,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: good for him.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: I think they're married.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: I think that still means he's banging her though.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: Depends on the marriage in fact. Okay, that's true. Uh.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: And by the way, just as a quick aside before
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: I get a chance to ask Jerry if he's seen
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: The New Spider Man yet, is there a better power
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: couple in Hollywood right now than Tom holland And and Deya.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: I mean, Jesus Christ.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: The run they are on is an iconic run just
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: for any individual in Hollywood period ever. But the fact
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: that they're doing it as a married couple. The movies
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: that they've got this year, first of all, they're both
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: in the Odyssey, which is already probably made a billion dollars.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: She's got Doune three coming out this year, they're both
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: gonna be involved in Avengers Doomsday. So, I mean, Zindaya
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: is gonna have like a box office battle, and.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: She's got a what's the HBO show?
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: Oh Yeahyphori Euphoria.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: And I don't know if they're doing another season of
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: that after this one or not. But I mean, I mean, Jesus,
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: I mean you talk, that's a hell of a run
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: for a couple. That's a hell of a run. That's
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: it's it's almost unfair. But they also seem like kind
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: of down to earth, genuine people, So good on them.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Jerry. I'm assuming you've seen Spider Man Brand New Day?
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Have you seen Spider Man Brand New Day? I have
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: not gotten to see it yet. How can you withstand?
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: It's not easy, dude. You got to go.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: Have you been able to avoid any spoilers or do
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: you know stuff? So far, I've been able to avoid them.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: It's it's not easy. It's cut off about half of
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: my feed, I would imagine. So, I mean, Trey and
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: I both seen it. You need to go see it.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: It's wonderful, Jerry. I will be shocked.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: As as big of a Marvel fan as you are.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: I will be shocked if you don't think this is
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: the best Spider Man movie that they've ever done. Trey
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: really liked it too.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know best Spider Man movie ever got that's
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: an interesting one.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: Mm Is it the one from the seventies.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Which I watched, because I mean, I think it's maybe
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: the best of the Tom Hollins, that's an interesting statement.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, and I don't necessarily disagree with you. I
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: just hadn't really thought about it in those terms. Yeah,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I mean, I will give you one spoiler though, if
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: you need to go when the credits start, you have
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: time to go to the bathroom and come back before
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: the little teaser.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: And see yeah, yeah, the post credit scene.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: Go to the bathroom then come back, Okay, or or honestly,
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: you can just wait and watch it on YouTube.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: It's it's it is. It's the most disappointing of of
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: all the.
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: Post credit scene. Okay, noted, it's an important one, like
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: it's it's got. It's it's got a lot of meaning
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: and stuff, you know, for things to come, But I mean, yeah,
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: it's not it. Yeah. Which, by the way, since we
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: are covering this, we'll get back to birthdays in a moment.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I have done it.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: I've watched every single MCU movie up to Avengers in Game,
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: so I can go to the theater and about a
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: month to see Avengers in Game. I am all caught up.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: I finished the movie every like twenty two or whatever
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: movies it is. I started all the way back at
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: the beginning, worked my way all the way through in
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: order of cinematic release. Okay, I prefer chronologically, but yes.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: I get that, but I like doing it the way
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: they released it. So I am all caught up.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: Yesterday I finished Captain Marvel, which is the movie right
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: before Avengers Endgame, so I am caught up, ready to
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: rock and roll.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: I'm excited I did it.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: It's now the second time I've gone all the way
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: back through and rewatched.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: Have you seen the Marvels?
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Is it as disappointing as everyone says? Yes?
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, it ain't good, ma'am.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: And I don't know if this is I don't know
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: real quick if this is an unpopular opinion or not.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: It's just something that I kind of felt the first
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: time I saw Captain Marvel, which, by the way, I
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: like the Captain Marvel movie.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: I think it's really good.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: It's also got to kill her soundtrack, as I mean,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: it's like she lands on a blockbuster that's hysterical to me.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: I don't think Brie Larson's a good actress. Mmm, you
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: don't much.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: No, I mean like she she's like when the first
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: I had never really seen her in anything before Captain Marvel.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: I knew who she was, but I don't think i'd
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: really seen her anything, and I think she's kind of terrible,
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Like she's real stiff, like she doesn't seem good.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I read that she got into it after was it
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: with Captain Marvel and then endgame, that she got real demandy,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: uh demanding about the stuff, and like that was part
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: of the problem with Captain Marvel, is she wanted some
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: creative control over it.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know, I agree with you. I feel
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: like I had heard some similar things.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Don't know details on it, don't even know how much
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: of it's true or whatever, but uh yeah, like even
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: going back and watching Captain Marvel now that that.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: Like she's she's not good.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can kind of see that.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: It's kind of like I have a difficult time with
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: Mark Wahlberg. There's some things that he's in that.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: I think he's phenomenal as an actor, and there's some
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: things that I've seen him in where I was like,
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: so to me, he's kind of hit or miss sometimes
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: as an actor. With her, maybe I need to watch
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: something else that she's been in, But I'm actually kind
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: of wondering how it is she got the job as
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: Captain Marvel. As Captain Marvel.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: That's the funny thing, is I like Captain Marvel. I thought,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: and now that I think about, I thought her performance
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: in Endgame was a little stiff, and then.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Right it was like she was just kind of shoehorned
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: in there because oh wait, we got to put her weight.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: We forgot well, and let's be honest and say this
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: now we're far enough away from it. The whole you know,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I Am woman, hear me were part of Endgame was
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: just a capitulation to the me too movement at that time.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: It was completely frivolous as far as the story goes.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, story wise, you didn't need that, but
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's a bad thing to show little
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: girls that they can be badasses.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: But it was again, if you go back and really
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: watch the movie, it was very much shoehorned in there.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: It did not flow with the script. Yeah, it's like,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: oh hey, we're all fighting, you know, life and death.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Oh hey, but the girls are gathered over here and there.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: We're gonna, you know, get together.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Squat up, ladies. We're gonna eat, pray, love all over thanos.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: It's faith.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: Other birthdays today. Oh wait, no, Jerry, I asked you,
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: you have not seen it. Debbie mazar Is sixty two.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: She's known for Goodfellas, Entourage, and Younger. She also had
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: a cooking show. At one point she was on the
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: front end of some of those celebrities with cooking shows.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Out of Nowhere sixty two.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Years old, underrated, hot for in nineties, and she's been
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: one of my all time favorite movies. Empire Records.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: Also a phenomenal movie.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Former Partridge Family child star and radio guy. Danny Bonaducci
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: sixty seven years old today. Somehow I feel like he
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: should be older than that. No kidding, Like if I
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: said eighty seven, I would have been less surprised than
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: sixty seven.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: Drugs takes it out of you, boy, you said it.
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: And this last one is is a kind of a
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: deep pull unless you know who he is Kevin tight.
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: I think it's how you say it is eighty two
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: t I g h E.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: He is best known as the firefighter paramedic Roy DeSoto
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: on Emergency. So he's he was the firefighter paramedic opposite
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: of Randolph Mantooth.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: No, oh man, what a great name for a character.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Roy Desoto's something special he was in he was in Roadhouse. Sorry,
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: he was also in Roadhouse. That is correct, eighty two
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: years old. But Roy DeSoto on Emergency firefighter paramedic.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: So was that rampart that? There you go? Was? Did
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: that show start in the sixties or was it all seventies?
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Sevent got it? Okay?
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: So I know it was color. It's all time. What
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: a heyday for television between between Emergency and Chips. Oh man,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: that was good TV watching back in the day.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: You were.
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: Reruns, Bud reruns. I saw some I watched.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: I also watched raw Hide with my pappa. I think
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I was not alive for raw Hide.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I don't think I have ever seen an episode of Emergency.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Don't wow, it does it does not hold up. I
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: rewatched one when we were when we were I remember
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: one time we were camping, We're in one of our
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: like our like tiny RV camping trips.
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: We would get over the air television because it's camping
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: and so over the air television means you're getting a lot.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: Of old ass TV shows. And Emergency came on one
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: night and I was like, oh my god, this is amazing.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: I'm better watch Emergency. I watch this as a kid
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: all the time.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: It's got Randolf men too, and this guy Kevin Tight
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I'm watching like five minutes of him, Like Jesus Christ,
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: this is terrible.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: The only thing I really know about Emergency is it
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: was one of the things basically they spoofed in the
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Naked Gun.
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: Mh yeah.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess for the time, it was a
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: great show. It was very popular. But man, it's kind
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: of like going back and watching The Dukes of Hazzard.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Emergency does not hold up at all.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: I saw you something and I'll give Dukes a hazard credit.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I saw a deal. I think it was on Prime.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you can buy the series for thirty
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: nine to ninety nine. I'm like, who theuck is buying
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Dukes of Hazzard Because you're right, that was not a
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: good show. I mean, it was great when we were
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: kids that you were basically waiting for Daisy Duke and
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: then jump the car.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: That's it, That's all I needed. It's probably Cooter who's
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: buying it all up. Yeah.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Cooter just died, didn't he. I guess, I mean
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: literally like yesterday?
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: Really? Yeah?
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: How did I not see that? I'm going to type
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: in something into my search bar that I have not ever? Yep,
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: I am too. I never thought I would type this
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: into Google. Is Cooter dead? Yep.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Ben Jones, the actor best known for playing Cooter Davenport
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: on The Dukes of Hazzard, died on Sunday, August night,
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: twenty six at the age of eighty four, suffering a
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: massive heart attack at his home.
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: I'll be goddamned rip Cooter, rip.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: And former congressman.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: That's right.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: The good news is Cooter will never truly die, and
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: in some places like nightclub bathroom floors, he's alive.
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: And well, that.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Seems like a good time to transition into sister effing
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  Speaker 2: what do you say? Yeah, I gotta pull this up
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  Speaker 2: here because this is one of those that threw me
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  Speaker 2: for a loop. I just this is another one of
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: those where I just saw the headline that Tray sent
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I need to read any much more on this one
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  Speaker 2: for now. Subject line from Tray this morning, sleeping with sister. Okay,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: my wife keeps saying what I did. This is not
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: me saying this. I am reading this this someone else.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: Don't you edit this, Tray?
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for that all clean cuts. I know.
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to think how I can screw this up
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: for you on your clean cuts. My wife keeps saying
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: what I did with my sister was extremely inappropriate.
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  Speaker 1: What do I do?
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: I know there's more to this story, but honest to God,
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  Speaker 2: if you even have to type that sentence, if you
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: ever say that sentence, you've done something wrong.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Actually, no, really, I've on this one. The wife is
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: kind of out on this one.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: My wife and I have been married for four years,
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  Speaker 2: together for eight. I've always been a pretty outdoorsy person.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: For the record, if you say i've I'm a pretty
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: outdoorsy person. I don't think you're as outdoorsy as you
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: think you are. I love camping, hiking, backpacking, and that
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: sort of thing. My wife wasn't really into it when
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: we first started dating. But over the years she's really
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: gotten into it, which has been awesome. I'm also very
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: close with my sister. We grew up camping together, and
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: even in college we'd go on camping trips fairly often,
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: so being outdoors together is always just felt normal to us.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: A couple of weekends ago, the three of us, me,
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: my sister, and my wife decided to go camping together.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: We each brought our own one person tent and sleeping
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: bag because my wife likes having her own sleeping space
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: when we camp's mmm. We've done separate tents before and
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: it's never been an issue. The first night was great.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: We hiked, cooked over the fire, stayed up talking, and
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: everything completely normal. Second night, though, around midnight, my sister
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: knocked on my tent. She said she was absolutely freezing
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: and asked if she could come inside to warm up.
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  Speaker 3: I told her sure.
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  Speaker 2: She climbed into my sleeping bag because it was warmer,
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: and we basically cuddled so she could use my body heat.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: We talked for the next hour or so, and then
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: she fell asleep. The next morning, my wife unzipped the
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: tent and completely lost it. She screamed at us, told
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: my sister to get out. She said, there's no excuse for.
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: A grown man sharing a sleeping bag and cuddling with
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: his sister.
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  Speaker 2: I immediately apologized because I genuinely hadn't thought about how
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: it looked or how she'd feel. But she stayed angry
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: the rest of the trip, surprising to go for an
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: alpine divorce. At this point, it's now been more than
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: a week, and she's still sort of upset. She says
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: she can't stop picturing it, and that I've permanently changed
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: the way she views my relationship with my sister. She
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: says she's always known my sister had weird feelings for me.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: It's only been a week, so I'm allowing my wife
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: to vent, But to be honest, it hurts to see
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: her talk like this. I don't understand how my wife
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: can make an insinuation like that.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: I can't. I talked to my sister afterwards.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: She told me my wife is insane and said that
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: if she had a spouse who got upset over something
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: like this, she would leave them immediately.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Who side are you guys on in this one side? Yeah?
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: Oh damn, I thought you guys are opposite.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: You're on You're on the husband's side on this one, Tray,
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: and Jerry, you're on the husband's side on this one.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if it was if it was not
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: a sister, i'd understand the wife being upset. If they
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: if they were naked, I would understand the wife being upset.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: They were cousins, maybe especially removed or whatever.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Brother and sister like they grew up together. In the fact,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: and listen, if you've ever been camping, and some nights,
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, it gets you don't think it's that cold,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: but it gets a butt ass cold. You know, you'll
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: warm up next to just about anything, uh, at some point.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: And so now, I mean, especially if she's carrying it
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: on a week later and she thinks, you know, now
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: is saying that the sister has, you know, weird feelings
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: and implying something untowards I'm I'm with the sister. I'd
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: tell if I was a husband, I'd be like, you know,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: kick rocks.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: I'm not on the wife's side necessarily, but I understand
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: how this would look to someone.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: To me, what happened when you and your sister got caught, But.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: There was nothing to mm hm. We didn't go camping, Tray,
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: we were not a camping family. First.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Honestly, if we were kids, I don't think anyone would
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: have thought anything of it. My sister's almost seven years
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: older than me, so if we had gone camping, she'd
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: have been like thirteen, I'd have been like six and
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: been like, yeah, no one carries. But I can understand
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: how getting in the same sleeping bag with someone could
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: be odd to some people when they first see it.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: But I definitely wouldn't flip out like the wife did.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: It's on the cusp for me as far as like
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: it might be inappropriate.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: It's not technically inappropriate, but I feel like you're getting
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: in the same sleeping bag together is more so than
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: being in the same ballpark together.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, Jerry, do you have a sister?
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, clearly Dan has Have you had inappropriate thoughts about
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: your sister?
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: No?
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Okay, So it wouldn't be that abnormal, Like you wouldn't
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: you know, think anything of it if you're your sister
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: gott in a sleeping bag with you? No, Dan, No,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: you're I mean, I don't. I don't have any siblings.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's your sister. You're not trying to
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: bang your sister but maybe I'm wrong on that premise.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: Dan, all right, look.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: Shut up. Do you know who else? You just shut up?
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Shut up, Marshall In the chat, I was going to
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: ask if this is actually dan story under a fig D.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, actually, you know you are the only person
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: if you look at the comments, you are the only
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: person to take the wife's side. So, I mean, I
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: do feel like there's some there's a lot to unpack here, Dan.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe it's because I'm harboring some ill will towards my
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: own wife because one time we went camp it was
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: so cold. Instead of her climbing into my sleeping bag,
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: she went to the car and turned on the heater.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: So you're just longing for companionship. And even if it
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: was your sister, No.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: No, definitely not. Get out of my sleeping bag, exist,
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: get your own.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: So next week we'll have to discuss family reunions in
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: the household.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: Oh we don't do those, I wonder why?
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Oh God, see, I told you this is going to
• 45:40
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• 46:05
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• 46:09
  Speaker 2: the last handful of minutes. Thank you to tray In
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  Speaker 2: Jerry for treating here. And if you love what you
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• 46:24
  Speaker 1: And Dan, thank you for all your kinks and fetishes.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not even that kinky.
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: Jerry's the weird one. I'll take that. Let's see