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T-Minus 1 DAY until Payton's PARTY (Part 1) · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Wake, John and Rich what crack I like?
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  Speaker 2: And this is the big bulls dove snoopy diegle double
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  Speaker 2: gigsel bang boom.
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  Speaker 3: What you don't do.
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  Speaker 4: We're not talking about Rich ten ten, We're not talking
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  Speaker 4: about last.
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  Speaker 1: It's the one and only dog yall the glasses.
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  Speaker 3: Lastly, big smooth beagle, double gizzle in your face to
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  Speaker 3: me and in the place to be.
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  Speaker 5: And you're listening to John Jay and Rich Wakes.
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  Speaker 2: It's John Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 6: Our phone number is eight seven seven nine three seven
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  Speaker 6: one oh four seven. The text line you text j
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  Speaker 6: g RD whatever you want to say. The ninety six
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  Speaker 6: eight ninth three LEXI, good morning, good morning.
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  Speaker 5: I was listening to the podcast from yesterday when I
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  Speaker 5: heard you guys were talking about what did you.
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  Speaker 3: Throw in the stead of rage?
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  Speaker 5: So I feel pretty bad about it. I threw a cat.
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  Speaker 6: I mean they you know, they say if you drop
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  Speaker 6: a cat at a land on its feet or something
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  Speaker 6: like that all the time, like but a kit and
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  Speaker 6: I don't know, and you threw it, Like what do
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  Speaker 6: you mean threw it like a baseball?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 5: I threw it.
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  Speaker 3: Well yeah, but it was not my proudest moment.
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  Speaker 5: I was little Okay.
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  Speaker 3: In my defense, I was probably like a little like,
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  Speaker 3: what I got a new kitten? Well, I just got
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  Speaker 3: a new kit and my aunt she's like my favorite auntie,
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  Speaker 3: and I wanted her to hold it, and I was
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  Speaker 3: like so excited, and she wouldn't, like, she wouldn't take
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  Speaker 3: it from me, and I just threw it at her,
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  Speaker 3: like I was so mad at her because she wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: like take it from me. And then, well, now that
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  Speaker 3: I'm older, I found out she wouldn't hold it because
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  Speaker 3: she's like severely allergic to cats. You found out I
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  Speaker 3: didn't when I was little.
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  Speaker 1: Su Yep, that's my Did she catch the cat?
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, she's she got pretty messed up from that cat.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so the cat hit her? You threw out and
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  Speaker 2: a hit her.
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  Speaker 3: She like caught it, but it was like like all
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  Speaker 3: trying to get away, so like scratched her.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, so the cat was safe.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no animals hurt.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Oh and how long did that kit live? Is it's
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  Speaker 6: still around because Caskin lived for like twenty years.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, that was actually I used to live in Farmington.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, that was a really long time ago.
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  Speaker 7: I'm twenty eight now.
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  Speaker 2: Low, expensive, expectant life expected. See in Farmington. We know
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  Speaker 2: the one. Oh when she had Farmington, we were like, WHOA,
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  Speaker 2: all right, good thing. I moved back here then I
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  Speaker 2: know well, LEXI thank you for listening. Great follow. We
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  Speaker 2: do not condone throwing animals. We know any of that.
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  Speaker 2: Suff we're catching animals.
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  Speaker 6: So all right, shoot us a text text JJR whatever
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  Speaker 6: you want to say to nine six eight nine three,
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  Speaker 6: or just call it at eight seven seven ninety three
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  Speaker 6: seven one oh four seven. Here's a text. Surprise surprise.
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  Speaker 6: It's about minute to win it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, this was coming.
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  Speaker 2: Kyle needs to read the thousand dollars questions. She speaks fast.
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  Speaker 4: Uh no, I can't take the heat that rich gets faster.
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  Speaker 2: He's so annoying.
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  Speaker 7: Skin.
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  Speaker 2: You have to have to second.
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  Speaker 7: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: People a gonna come after. You just have to say, hey, listen,
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  Speaker 1: it is what it is, because I listen. I talk fast.
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  Speaker 1: But for the questions, if you go too fast, nobody
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  Speaker 1: hears you, and you got to repeat him anyway.
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  Speaker 4: You just have to find the right speed because if
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  Speaker 4: you do it too slow. People get angry if you
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  Speaker 4: go too fast and they can't understand. It's like you
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  Speaker 4: have to find that.
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  Speaker 7: That happy media and rich. Maybe you do try to
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  Speaker 7: go a little bit faster and just see what happens.
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  Speaker 1: Like, well, we've done it all. It's fine. She paused
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  Speaker 1: too long, She ran out of time. Mammal, what is
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  Speaker 1: the only mammal capable of truth? Like, yeah, well that's
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  Speaker 1: that's no big deal. It took an eighth of a
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  Speaker 1: second she could could have gotten.
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  Speaker 2: I got a bridge. I think you did a judging
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  Speaker 2: us part of the game. The way you asked questions.
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  Speaker 2: We're so close, it was exciting.
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  Speaker 6: Listen, listen tomorrow. I'm just gonna say it this way, Payton.
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  Speaker 6: It's easy for me to say tomorrow's Payon's wedding.
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  Speaker 2: So reception right.
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  Speaker 6: So so either way, what is going anything new going
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  Speaker 6: on with that stuff? How you have everybody coming? Is
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  Speaker 6: there a thousand people coming with your Can we give away.
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  Speaker 7: Cal looking out about I need to bring a guest anyway,
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  Speaker 7: and that would be really fun and crazy, But no,
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  Speaker 7: we're looking at about one hundred and one hundred and
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  Speaker 7: fifteen people realistically coming in and out throughout the whole night,
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  Speaker 7: and nothing really has changed aside from the fact that,
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  Speaker 7: like I'm low key kind of breaking out, which is
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  Speaker 7: super frustrating. But then also like this the last three
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  Speaker 7: months from being married and having all these parties and
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  Speaker 7: these things going on, it has just really made me
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  Speaker 7: reflect and look at myself on who I am as
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  Speaker 7: a friend. And I really pride myself in trying to
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  Speaker 7: be a good friend. I feel like I try to
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  Speaker 7: at least be a little bit of a glue to
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  Speaker 7: try to reach out and maintain all these friendships. But
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  Speaker 7: I was telling you guys earlier, like a couple of
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  Speaker 7: weeks ago, that I've lost more friends in the last
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  Speaker 7: three months that I probably have in the last ten years.
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  Speaker 7: And that's been really really hard for me because I
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  Speaker 7: don't like it when people are upset with me. That
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  Speaker 7: kind of stuff eats me up at night, truly, truly does.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 7: My husband, Kadem he is very much like middle fingers up,
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  Speaker 7: who cares what they think, They're gonna put the effort
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  Speaker 7: into the relationship if they want to. And unfortunately I
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  Speaker 7: think he is rubbing off on me because I am
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  Speaker 7: no longer that bitch that is gonna be chasing down friendships.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not doing it.
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  Speaker 2: I really do believe it. I've heard you say well,
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  Speaker 2: that's just come on, let's be real frustrated.
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  Speaker 4: We're hearing the frustration.
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  Speaker 1: I think you care too much about the people that
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  Speaker 1: you care about to just go middle figures up.
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  Speaker 7: I think so too. But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 7: so here's here's a breakdown of situation that I have
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  Speaker 7: right now. One of my very best friends we met
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  Speaker 7: in college and she actually has a relationship with Kadim's family,
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  Speaker 7: knows them, knew them before I knew her, So we
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  Speaker 7: relate on that. We connect with that, and she basically
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  Speaker 7: has been talking to my father in law about if
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  Speaker 7: she's coming to this party, because she texted me saying
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  Speaker 7: it feels like a petty invite, like she feels like
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  Speaker 7: everything's so rush, and I said, everything is rushed, but
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  Speaker 7: I'm also letting you know. And I had to text
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  Speaker 7: her and let her know, like, girl, you don't get
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  Speaker 7: to text my father in law and think that I'm
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  Speaker 7: not gonna find out about it period, because she was
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  Speaker 7: talking mess like she was low key talking.
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  Speaker 2: Mess about he told you what she said?
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  Speaker 7: She well, no, he told me, Hey, what's going on
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  Speaker 7: with you?
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  Speaker 6: Guys?
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  Speaker 7: I feel like this is a friendship that you've had
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  Speaker 7: for a long time, you should try to rekindle. So
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  Speaker 7: of course I reach out, and she sends me this long,
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  Speaker 7: massive text about how I'm like giving her these petty invites.
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  Speaker 7: I'm like, girl, you were supposed to be in my wedding.
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  Speaker 7: This is not a petty invite.
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  Speaker 2: It was set out to save the date. Yeah a
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  Speaker 2: while ago. Yeah, this is good for you.
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  Speaker 6: This is the evolution I think of getting rid of
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  Speaker 6: the negative energy in your life so you don't need
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  Speaker 6: friends like that.
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  Speaker 2: I was.
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  Speaker 6: I I had asked a guy to be in my
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  Speaker 6: wedding back in the day, and he bothered me, and
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  Speaker 6: I never talked to him.
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  Speaker 2: Aout it again, and I don't talk to him anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I just stopped talking to him. How he still wait?
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  Speaker 6: Probably don't want to know, because you got to tux
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  Speaker 6: and everything, right, Yeah, Like, I mean, you just got
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  Speaker 6: the guy was talking smack or something. I said, hey,
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  Speaker 6: you said whatever, I don't want eat my wednymore done,
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  Speaker 6: and I don't talk anymore. You just got to get
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  Speaker 6: rid of and then you have a You make your
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  Speaker 6: circle smaller, and it makes me How often do I
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  Speaker 6: talk about the small circle?
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  Speaker 2: I know small? I think best circles when I talked.
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  Speaker 7: To about it too. He's like, just so you know,
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  Speaker 7: like the friends that are leaving your life right now
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  Speaker 7: are the friends that quite honestly never really added any
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  Speaker 7: value to your your relationship anyways. You were the one
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  Speaker 7: that was always reaching out. You're the one that was
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  Speaker 7: always beend in your back over they make new friends, Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I mean that's fine, but I don't know new friends
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  Speaker 7: are better than old friends new friends.
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  Speaker 4: When you're someone like that and who really does care
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  Speaker 4: a lot about the people in her life, when she
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  Speaker 4: doesn't receive that same energy in return, it is it's
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  Speaker 4: like disappointing, and it is kind of, I think, like
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  Speaker 4: a hard pill to swallow in life when you learn
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  Speaker 4: like some friends are really only supposed to be in
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  Speaker 4: your life for a season.
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  Speaker 2: They're not lifelong friends.
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  Speaker 4: Like for me, that was like a tough thing, like
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  Speaker 4: why not, why can't we just be friends forever?
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  Speaker 6: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: But some people are just there for a specific season
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  Speaker 4: of your life and that that was meant to be
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  Speaker 4: And maybe.
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  Speaker 6: It's notine, especially friends with benefits exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly exactly what I'm talking about. Well we'll find out.
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  Speaker 2: So she's gonna be there tomorrow I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: I sent her the address. I said, hey, pull up
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  Speaker 7: if you want to, because we're supposed to hop on
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  Speaker 7: the phone and hash this out. But obviously she hasn't
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  Speaker 7: gotten back to me. And I'm not gonna keep chasing
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  Speaker 7: you down to have this conversation with you. But if
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  Speaker 7: she doesn't show up tomorrow, quite honestly, I don't think
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  Speaker 7: our friendship's gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Be I can't wait to go and be like, who's
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  Speaker 2: the person who about it? Nobody? Everybody that would be okay,
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  Speaker 2: Obviously Payton's talked about you to us. I'm gon talked
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  Speaker 2: about us to you? Whatever, So who are you? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we'll go to the next person high the shower.
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  Speaker 4: Everything's coming to life.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're the one. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, So since you don't know if your food worked out,
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  Speaker 1: you want me to bring a covered dish? You want
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  Speaker 1: to do an account?
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  Speaker 7: Okay, I got my food worked out, thank you?
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  Speaker 6: And who is rich bringing collar nine eight seven seven
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  Speaker 6: ninety three seven one to four seven rich?
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  Speaker 2: You can be Riches plus one at Peyton's wedding to
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  Speaker 2: come pick you up.
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  Speaker 1: And we're going to be there about five fifteen years.
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  Speaker 2: So all right, hot doodcast role. Good luck, it's John
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  Speaker 2: Jay and Rich