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Sex Unlocked: Salley Did What On A Plane??? · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about sex baby. Hello, my little sex pots,
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  Speaker 1: and welcome to Sex Unlocked with myself, La La Kent
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  Speaker 1: and Hello Sally Carson.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, happy to be here, my co host. It's so exciting.
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  Speaker 1: It's so exciting, and it's my most favorite topic, which
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  Speaker 1: is sex. By the way, the way I cackled when
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  Speaker 1: you texted me over the weekend with a picture of
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  Speaker 1: the guy, he's so hot.
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  Speaker 2: He's so fucking hot. You met him where I met
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  Speaker 2: him in Charleston, and then randomly like I met him
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  Speaker 2: through Crag and then randomly ran into each other outside
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  Speaker 2: of Surfladge and I was like struggling to get into
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  Speaker 2: Surflage and Kyle was like standing there like just looking
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  Speaker 2: at me, struggling, and I was like, hello, wait Kylen
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  Speaker 2: cook cook.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is just the weirdest. You're life is so
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  Speaker 1: no great hold on, Is it like a known thing
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  Speaker 1: that you've hooked up with him?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: What is that like when you hang out with him
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  Speaker 1: and then you see some fucking hot football player that
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  Speaker 1: you want to sleep with?
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  Speaker 2: I know, Well it was easy because I like hung
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  Speaker 2: out with Kyle all Thursday and then Friday was when
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  Speaker 2: I ran into him at surf, but he was with
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  Speaker 2: like these other girls that he's been like rumored to
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  Speaker 2: have things with which he's like cleared up. For me,
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  Speaker 2: He's like, it's not like that. But I couldn't get in,
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  Speaker 2: and then I saw the other guy walk in and
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  Speaker 2: he helped me. And then suddenly I was like behind
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  Speaker 2: the DJ booth and Kyle was like, how did you
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  Speaker 2: get up there?
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  Speaker 1: And then you took this guy home.
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  Speaker 2: I did not take him home. We went to a
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  Speaker 2: party and things happened at the.
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  Speaker 1: Party, Sally fucking Carson, if you don't tell me right now,
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  Speaker 1: like what like a little finger banging under the table, no.
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  Speaker 2: Bathroom, no, Like I just heard him yell my name,
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  Speaker 2: like from in the house, and I like went in
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  Speaker 2: the house and he took me downstairs and he was like.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, okay, we're doing this. It was great.
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  Speaker 1: This is so fun.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: It was so much fun. But and then like I
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  Speaker 2: of course, I had like Kyle texting me and he
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  Speaker 2: was like, you know, where are you? But I'm like, dude,
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  Speaker 2: you're doing your thing. Two days later he was like
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  Speaker 2: pictured walking from surflage.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's just like a known thing at
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  Speaker 1: this stage of the game, like he's fresh out of
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  Speaker 1: a full on marriage. You're exactly, you're having fun like
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  Speaker 1: it's but here's the thing, it's I feel like things
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  Speaker 1: do get sticky when you start putting intimacy into the mix.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my thousand percent. And now me and Kyle hung
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  Speaker 2: out like what four times now, and like he tells me,
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  Speaker 2: like I get a little confused because you know, things
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  Speaker 2: will go out online and he'll be like, it wasn't
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  Speaker 2: like that, and I'm like, dude, you'll have to explain
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  Speaker 2: anything to me, Like we're not together, we're single. You're
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  Speaker 2: freshly single and like doing your thing and having fun,
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  Speaker 2: like you don't have to apologize me. I'm doing my
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  Speaker 2: thing too. But I mean, like I am, like I
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  Speaker 2: like Kyle, like I like hanging out with him. I
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  Speaker 2: enjoy hanging out with him. We're very compatible.
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  Speaker 1: So do you feel like it's a timing thing?
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  Speaker 2: Maybe? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Timing is everything I know. So can I tell you
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  Speaker 1: the craziest shit ever?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Please.
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  Speaker 1: So me and my friend Amber, I'm pretty sure we're
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  Speaker 1: both dating men who were either bisexual or gay at
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  Speaker 1: the same time, the two of us, both of us
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  Speaker 1: because I was I like a different person but like
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  Speaker 1: I went, I was in. I went to her house
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, this is the guy's doc
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  Speaker 1: kit that I was seeing during the same time that
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  Speaker 1: you were seeing your guy. And I had told her
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  Speaker 1: like I fell into this like situationship. I don't even
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  Speaker 1: know what to call it, because it was very brief,
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  Speaker 1: but I fell hard, so fucking hard that it like.
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  Speaker 2: I hate those. I hate those.
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  Speaker 1: And that doesn't happen to me. Like I'm pretty good
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  Speaker 1: at keeping the mental block up. But because it was
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  Speaker 1: long distance, I feel like we built like an emotional
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  Speaker 1: connection before we actually saw each other. But the guy
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  Speaker 1: that I was seeing, I just I had just had
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  Speaker 1: my boobs done and I was told by the doctor
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  Speaker 1: and I like relaid this to him. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I they want me to be careful with sex for
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  Speaker 1: six weeks. So I saw him two weeks after my
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  Speaker 1: boobs got done, and we were like I was like
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  Speaker 1: giving him a blow job and he was like doing
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  Speaker 1: stuff with his fingers, you know, finger banging or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, just put it in, and he
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  Speaker 1: fucking wouldn't do it. I've never had to beg a
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  Speaker 1: man to like put it in. And now cut to
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  Speaker 1: like where I am now with some cle already. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: was he maybe he was either asexual or maybe maybe
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  Speaker 1: he hadn't No, this was the first time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we literally just soaked. That's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm telling Amber this and she was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, I had like the same type of situation
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  Speaker 1: and her guy would come out all the time and
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  Speaker 1: he left his dock kit. So we went through it
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  Speaker 1: and he had.
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  Speaker 2: I'm intrigued.
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  Speaker 1: He had uber lube. He had it in his dock kit,
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  Speaker 1: which is like fine, whatever. It was the rest of
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  Speaker 1: the shitty. He had all of these like travel sized
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  Speaker 1: skin care products that you literally have to get online
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  Speaker 1: and it's tailored to your like you have to take
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  Speaker 1: a skin assessment and then they make it according to
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  Speaker 1: your skin.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: And it was like a US gradual self tanner, like
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  Speaker 1: I Vitamin C serum for normal to dry skin.
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  Speaker 2: Weird things in their travel okay, like Craig could travels
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  Speaker 2: with medicine for girls.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean, Like, like, mit, all, what are
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  Speaker 1: we talking about here?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like he when we were we just went to
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  Speaker 2: Maui and I could not go to the bathroom for
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  Speaker 2: like I have a really hard time going to the
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  Speaker 2: bathroom when I'm not at home, okay, And so I
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  Speaker 2: was constipated and Craig was like, oh, like I always
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  Speaker 2: travel with medicine in case, like you know, the girl
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  Speaker 2: needs something. I these like, I'm like, first of all,
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  Speaker 2: what girls are you traveling with right now? But he's not.
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  Speaker 2: And then he was like, I have a laxid it
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  Speaker 2: like for for you. This goes into the story of
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  Speaker 2: like what I wanted to tell you when I texted you,
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  Speaker 2: and I said that I had the craziest story.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I can't wait tell me.
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  Speaker 2: So he gives me this laxative and I've never taken
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  Speaker 2: a laxa over it in my life. And I was like,
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  Speaker 2: still not going to the bathroom. Like three days later,
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  Speaker 2: I'm still not going to the bathroom. And I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: whatever the worst. So I'm flying home and I get
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  Speaker 2: on like first class. It's like a lay down seat.
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking to the man beside me. He's like this
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  Speaker 2: older lawyer guy and he's asking me all about the show.
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  Speaker 2: And then this other guy comes on to sit next
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  Speaker 2: to me. It was like in the middle, so there
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  Speaker 2: was like four seats and the guy goes, oh, are
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  Speaker 2: you on the show too? Because he was so attractive
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  Speaker 2: and he goes, I was like, oh no, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know him. And the guy goes, I would love to
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  Speaker 2: get to know you, and I was like, well, we
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  Speaker 2: have six hours on this plane. So he sits down
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  Speaker 2: beside me. We're talking. I'm like three glasses of wine
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  Speaker 2: deep at this point, and me and this guy he's
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  Speaker 2: twenty five years old.
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  Speaker 1: He like, old, are you thirty one?
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  Speaker 2: Thirty one?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's not that bad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, so we started making out on the plane. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I've never done this before. It gets fast, It's like
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  Speaker 2: it gets worse. So we're making out on the plane.
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  Speaker 2: The guy beside me that I was talking to originally
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  Speaker 2: is like, I just wanted to invite to the wedding
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  Speaker 2: because we were really hitting it off. Okay, so I
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  Speaker 2: fall asleep. He like figures out how to put the
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  Speaker 2: middle thing down and like laying on his chest, He's
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  Speaker 2: like rubbing my head to bad. Got like super into it,
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  Speaker 2: super fast. Then I'm like waking up as the plane
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  Speaker 2: is landing. So I fell asleep the entire plane ride.
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  Speaker 1: Like five hours on this random man on this like yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like leaning on this guy, I woke up and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: something's not right. Well, I shit myself.
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  Speaker 1: You shit yourself.
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  Speaker 2: I shit myself on the plane. I have never done.
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  Speaker 2: I've never shipped myself before in my life, so I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: something is wrong. I didn't say it to anyone, and
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  Speaker 2: the two guys I was like, I like thought I
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  Speaker 2: started my period or something. And I was like, y'all
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  Speaker 2: go off the plane, like I'm gonna wait for my
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  Speaker 2: cast members in the back of the plane, and I
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  Speaker 2: like tied my sweatshirt around my waist just.
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  Speaker 1: In case there's no way you didn't stink, babe.
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  Speaker 2: They knew.
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  Speaker 1: But was it like a shart? Was it like a shart?
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  Speaker 2: No? Like I mean, yes, but like a pretty decent one.
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  Speaker 2: And it was because of the God Girl. I texted
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  Speaker 2: Craig immediately and I was like, I fucking hate you,
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  Speaker 2: and he said what did I do? And I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you gave me a laxative. And then two days later,
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  Speaker 2: like I told everyone, like I told my whole cast,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I just hit myself on this plane
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  Speaker 2: because of the laxip. Craig calls me. He's like, I
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  Speaker 2: just looked up what I gave you, and I gave
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  Speaker 2: you a dull colax, which is like really really strong laxative.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, it makes total sense now, But
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  Speaker 2: clearly the guy doesn't know because he's trying to fly
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  Speaker 2: to Miami. Like, there's no way this guy knows that
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  Speaker 2: I ship myself beside him.
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  Speaker 1: He's gonna know now, he's gonna know. Now, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: what were you wearing? Sweatpants? Gray sweatpants song or like
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  Speaker 1: grandma underwear.
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  Speaker 2: No underwear.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an yeah, what gray sweatpants? Stained throw away? You
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  Speaker 1: pull on shit yourself on a plane.
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  Speaker 2: Next to a twenty five year old guy after I
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  Speaker 2: made out with him. Like, my whole friend group is
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  Speaker 2: like this.
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  Speaker 1: This is only story I've ever heard in my entire life.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's like, you should not talk about this on the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I have to, you have to.
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  Speaker 1: This is so good. I've only shit myself once and
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  Speaker 1: I can't even call it a shit because it was
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  Speaker 1: like the tiniest of tiny and it happened in my
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  Speaker 1: bed in a bathrobe because I drank something from creation.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do, Sally, you didn't stink,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't smell it.
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  Speaker 2: I did not smell it until like I got to
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  Speaker 2: the bathroom and off, but I'm like, none of the things,
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  Speaker 2: Like it's so early. It was like five am, so
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  Speaker 2: no stores are open. So see, God, you had a sweatshirt,
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  Speaker 2: like Taylor Green had to give me her clothes. I had, Like, literally,
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  Speaker 2: is that the one we used to not get along?
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  Speaker 1: Well? How do you feel about her now? I mean
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  Speaker 1: saving grace?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, saved. I'm like, do you know how humbling
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  Speaker 2: it was to have to go up to Taylor Green,
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  Speaker 2: the girl that like hated me for years? And I
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  Speaker 2: was like, hey, like, I shit myself. Do you have
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  Speaker 2: any hands? Oh? Horrible?
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  Speaker 1: Was it on the seat because it had to have
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  Speaker 1: been a little wet, right, Yeah, I didn't look.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I have a picture, but I'm not sharing that.
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  Speaker 2: I'll show you up so bad.
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  Speaker 1: But the story blows every single story that I'm ever
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  Speaker 1: gonna have for this podcast. It blows it out of
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  Speaker 1: the water.
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  Speaker 2: Holy shit. I mean like he's literally like begging me
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  Speaker 2: to come to Miami.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have a picture of him? He's kinky, he
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  Speaker 1: could be kinky.
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  Speaker 2: Like his family is like very wealthy too, they like
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  Speaker 2: own the Fountain Blues Miami. Oh Sham Vegas. So he's
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  Speaker 2: like texting me. He's like, if you feel comfortable, can
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  Speaker 2: I come? Yeah? Come on? Does he have yes? Friends? Yes? Friends.
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  Speaker 2: You know I've been out in these streets for this podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Have you? Oh yeah, hear about this. I want to
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  Speaker 2: hear about this.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you can't beat the ship story. That's like wild.
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  Speaker 2: I know it is. It is crazy. There's a crazy story.
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  Speaker 1: It's the craziest. And the fact that like he still
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  Speaker 1: wants to see you, Like.
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  Speaker 2: I really don't think he knows, Like there's no way
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  Speaker 2: if someone full on ship themselves beside him on the plane,
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  Speaker 2: I would never talk to them again, ever, ever, ever,
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  Speaker 2: So he he can't.
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  Speaker 1: Know, never share what you kissed him with a pile
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  Speaker 1: of ship in your pants. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: I had to act natural.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, while we're talking about it, I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I just got a whiff no stop.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I was. I was so embarrassed, honestly, but I
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  Speaker 2: was so like delusional that like I've been up when
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  Speaker 2: I like and.
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  Speaker 1: Think about this, the laxative mixed with the wine. You
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  Speaker 1: had no hope and I.
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  Speaker 2: Took like a sleeping like a half his annex for
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  Speaker 2: the plane ride. So you were feeling all sorts of
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  Speaker 2: bubble guts. Yeah, yeah, my god. Yeah, we're never gonna
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  Speaker 2: We're just you know. I was scared the next the
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  Speaker 2: next plane ride from Denver, I was terrified to go
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  Speaker 2: back to I was so tired. I was so scared
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  Speaker 2: to fall asleep in first class get because I was
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  Speaker 2: scared I was gonna shit myself again. I don't blame you.
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  Speaker 1: That's traumatizing and like you said, very humbling, very humbling.
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  Speaker 1: How do you feel about anal? Did we talk about this?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? We did.
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  Speaker 1: I've never done anal before.
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  Speaker 2: It's the guy's into it. I'm into it.
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  Speaker 1: Have you pooped during anal?
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  Speaker 2: No? Never, But I'm not. I'm like, not the one
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  Speaker 2: that's like, hey, let's do this, you know. But if
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  Speaker 2: this guy wants.
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  Speaker 1: To be the one, Yeah, but don't you feel like
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  Speaker 1: there needs to be preparation before it so that you
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  Speaker 1: don't poop on his peepee?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if I'm having like a bad stomach day,
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  Speaker 2: I won't I won't do it.
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  Speaker 1: Will you have sex during a bad stomach day?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, vaginal?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? See.
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  Speaker 1: I get nervous. I get so nervous because what if
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  Speaker 1: because during like if I'm not fully relaxed. I can't
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  Speaker 1: get off like I have to be so mentally connected.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know when that happened, but I have to be.
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  Speaker 1: And when I say mentally connected, I don't mean that
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  Speaker 1: my guard is down. But I have to like be
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  Speaker 1: relaxed and like, no, it's a safe space for me
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  Speaker 1: to like do my thing. So if I relax my
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  Speaker 1: whole body and it's a bad stomach day, I could
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  Speaker 1: shit myself like you did on a plane.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that, Yeah, don't don't do that. That's crazy. Wait
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  Speaker 2: so you can't, So can you get off? In like
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: one night stands?
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  Speaker 1: It kind of depends. There was a guy that I
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  Speaker 1: fully intended on having a one night stand with. But
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  Speaker 1: my one night stands, like I don't really have those
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  Speaker 1: since I've given up drinking.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I'm not a one night stand person.
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  Speaker 2: I'd like my first one was literally in the Hamden
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  Speaker 2: with that guy last weekend.
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  Speaker 1: With athletic man. Yes, you haven't spoken.
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  Speaker 2: To him since? Yeah I have. Yeah, we communicate.
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  Speaker 1: Then that's not a one night stand, babe.
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  Speaker 2: See Anna met him and we FaceTime.
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  Speaker 1: So that a stranger a one night stand. You meet
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  Speaker 1: them that night, sleep with them and They're never to
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  Speaker 1: be seen or heard from again.
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  Speaker 2: See I've never done that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I could only do that when I was drinking,
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  Speaker 1: Like I would take Dorman home, the security guard at
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  Speaker 1: the club. Like there was one guy. There was one
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  Speaker 1: guy I brought home. He was the security guard at
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  Speaker 1: the club for like our little table, and he wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: fucking leave. I had to like order him Indian food
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  Speaker 1: that same day. I'm like, it's four o'clock. You have
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  Speaker 1: to get the fuck out. Then I felt bad. Never
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  Speaker 1: saw him again after that. But it was like the
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  Speaker 1: longest one night stand I've ever had in my life.
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  Speaker 2: I hate that. I think that's why I don't do
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  Speaker 2: one night stands, because I get uncomfortable, Like I just
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  Speaker 2: like I don't want to wake up next to a
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  Speaker 2: random person.
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  Speaker 1: No, And that's it's like the double edged sword of
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  Speaker 1: like I want to be at my like my safe space.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I have.
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  Speaker 1: No control over when you go home and leave. So
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  Speaker 1: then sometimes it's like, Okay, well maybe I'll go to
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  Speaker 1: their place. But now I'm a little bit bougie, you know,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: and I like a nice bed, but I can control
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: when I leave. But also if I come to your
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: house and you've got like a sink full of dishes.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: You're already killing my vibe. Yeah, it was very particular.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: As I get older, I don't go to anyone else's place.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: I don't, so then you lose control of when they leave. Yeah, exactly,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: which is why you're going back to the people who
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: you enjoy.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Well. When I hooked up with Chap about four or
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: five years ago now, who he wouldn't leave, and I
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: literally ordered him an Uber and I was like forcefully,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you were getting out of my house and
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: I like ordered him a seventy five dollars Uber home,
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: and he said he was laughing because when he got
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: home and said, drop off Sally on the right, and
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I had to force you out of my house.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: But I like situations like that where you're so comfortable
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: with the person where you're like, you need to get
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: the fuck out of my space. Yeah, and that's why
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I keep going back. Like my roster right now, there's
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: like a couple newbies my Amber introduced me because I
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: was trying to get over the guy who we don't
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: even know what his situation is, the guy who's I
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: soaked with for five minutes oh yea. She was like,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: you have to get over this guy. This guy is
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: unhealthy for your mental state, and like he cannot offer
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: you what do you want? Like he's proving himself in
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: the South.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Oh okay.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: And so she takes me to this guy's house and
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like vibing with him, connecting anyway. We've been hanging
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: out and finally I went to see him, and I
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: don't think he thought like I was gonna be down
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: for the cause, right, Like he's very sweet, and I
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna need to like fuck at some point. Yeah,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I said, I am ready to go home though, So like,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: what's the deal? We do it in the bathroom. We
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: like walked towards the bathroom. He was like, the lighting's
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: really bad in here. I was like, that is so
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: sweet that you would even take that into consideration because
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: the lighting. The lighting was bad. It was like one
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: overhead fluorescent. Oh hate, there's no coming back if I
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: see you the first time we fuck and there's bad lighting.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: There was a guy I fucked in his apartment and
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: it was bad fluorescence and he looked really old under
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: the lights. So I can only imagine what I looked like.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: And I was like, I can never see you again.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I cannot unsee what I just saw. Yeah, and so
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: we like go to like the men's bathroom and he
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm not making you come in here. Anyway.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: We ended up going back to his house. It was
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: fucking amazing and awesome, but like I didn't feel like
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I was my best self because I could feel a
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: cold coming on. So I'm gonna need to fuck him
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: again because I just feel like I let him do most.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: It was great. I got off twice, which like never
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: happens to me.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, when you're like him again.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: We're definitely going to But I'm like, I feel like
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: I could have shown up more. You did most of
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: the heavy lifting, which is fine.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I like that I do.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Too, But when you're talking about people who are in
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: that industry who are being like bounced on, like you
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: better fucking bring it. Unless I'm just the chick where
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: he knows he puts in the work.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Which is not always a bad thing. I feel like
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: some guys like that.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of sick of putting in work. You know,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: you're like a single bad bitch where it's like I
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: have to bring big dick energy everywhere I go, Like
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: in the bedroom, I'm gonna need to just like be
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: feminine and cute and you like throw me around.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Tell hell yeah, like I mean, Kyle does. All the word.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: You said, Kyle's the best you've ever had, is that's
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: still true after fucking the guy you showed me. Ah,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: because I'm not going to say what you said, but
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: you were like, Okay, it makes sense why you sleep
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: with certain people.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Yes, it does. And I think that one was just
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: more like thrilling.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Oh the thrill, Like yeah, were you in an actual bedroom?
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, yeah, Like I don't know who's that's disgusting,
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah for the person? Very pretty? Yeah, yeah, I'm sure
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: it wasn't. When we left.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: I miss the days though, of being at like a restaurant.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Here's my thing. If I don't want to grab your
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: pp under the table, we're done here, Like I have
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: to have it constantly on my mind. I want to
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: be around someone like a man m hm, where the
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: only thing I'm thinking about is like touching you and
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: being naked with you.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: That's how I felt with this athletic man, because I
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: like every time I saw him I was like, I
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: just want to freaking pounds on you. I just think
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: he's so hot.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: How do you feel about blowjobs with men that are
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: like pretty random in the moment?
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: Mmm, I don't. I can't. So I have like some
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: friends that will literally give a blowjob and not have sex.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I feel opposite, Like I'm like, if I'm sucking your dick,
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have sex with you, you know, Like I don't.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I don't want just like a random like some of
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: my friends are like, Yeah, I mean I'll suck your
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: deck and I want sex with you.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: What I feel like, sucking dick is way more intimate
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: than having I do too.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I do too, Like I'm not doing that unless I'm
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: getting stuff something.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna think I'm weird since having kids, I
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: will not give you a blowjob unless I know you
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: pretty well like where you've been at. Yeah, or I'm
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: in a relationship with you because I kiss my babies,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: like I cannot it is.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: I don't do that.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I do not.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I'd rather have sex than give a blowjob to someone
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: that I don't know, and I don't usually do it. Yeah,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: I don't even think I've I don't even I don't
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: think I've sucks Kyle's deck. Really, I don't think so,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: unless I was drunk.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: And then what about protection? Because I've been naughty the
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: past couple of weeks, like really naughty, where like you know,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: you're so caught up and then you get up and
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you're like, why the fuck did I just do that?
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: This?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I have this man's DNA inside of me now mm hmm, yeah.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: No, I hate. I hate. They like make my vagina reacts.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, like you have a latex like a weird.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: And anytime I use econdom, I feel like I get
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: an east infection.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, you may have like an allergic reaction to the latexx.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't enjoy.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: Condom, No, it doesn't. But also I'm like, I don't
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: know where your pep has been, and like, if you're
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: so quick to like put it in me without protection,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: that means you're pretty comfortable doing it elsewhere.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I know that's the thing. And I have a friend
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: here in Charleston it's like kind of in the spotlight,
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: and she loves to have sex with random men. She
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: wraps it up every time every time. Educated ho, yeah,
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: so she is. I'm like, how do you have all
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: these little sneaky links and she's like, I just wrap
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: it up.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: So then does she bring the condoms?
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Yes, everywhere she goes.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm very proud of myself because when I
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: was a drinker, I always had condoms in my purse
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: if they came to my house, I had a designated
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: schword that was filled to the brim with all sizes.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: And then the past two weeks, I'm out in these
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: streets acting like a damn fool, like what.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I need you to tell me about that. Well,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: have you met anyone that's.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: You're like worthy?
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I see them all again. I like could not wait.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I've been in Montana. I could not wait to get
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: back to LA because I feel like the roster I've
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: built is like solid, insistent. I enjoy their company. I'm
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: and I am really good at keeping the mental block up,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: like when I mess around with anybody in the like
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: the public eye, right, I kind of there's no version
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: of me falling for them because I have trained my
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: brain to put up. Even if we're vibing and connecting,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: like you're not going to get past a certain point
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: where I catch feelings like I could catch you in
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: the streets with another chick, and I'm going to be
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: totally fine with it. So the roster that I have
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: is actually I'm very, very proud of it. And this
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: the one guy who like re entered. I've known him
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: since he played football and he was like nineteen when
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: I met him.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know the age difference.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I think I think I was like twenty twenty one
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: when I met him, like two or three years, so
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you've known him for a long time. I've known him
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: for the longest time. And so when I went out
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: to the nder Pump Hotel opening, I was like, I'm
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: just gonna hit him up. I hadn't talked to him forever,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Like the last time I spoke to him, I was
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: like six weeks pregnant with Sosa, So this is going
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: to be two. So I hit him up. I was like, Hey,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: I'm going to be out there, like if you're around, let's,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: you know, do something. Yeah, we hang out, and it
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: was like so comfortable because I've known him for so long, right, Yeah, I.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Love that, Right, but I'm sitting is like the best thing.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: It's the best. But even when he and I were
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: together together in a partnership. We always wrapped it up.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Why did we not wrap it up? Out there?
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Weird? I know?
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: And then rapper man.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah nothing nothing, No, I mean he's not even athletic man.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not even a pullout method. Pull out method with
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: athletic man, Nope. Do they just like trust that will're
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: gonna handle shit if like something goes wrong.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: So I'm scared people might like find out who this is.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: But mine was snipped, so he can't have kids.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Oh so he's not even tripping.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's fine. But that's also when I'm thinking that.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: He tells me right after and I'm like, wait, so
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: are you doing this so much that you think you're
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: gonna get a girl pregnant? So you got snipped?
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Does he have anything?
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: How much these?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Does he have children?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Two? No?
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I think he's probably just done. He's like, I have
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: my kids, I don't want anymore, so why would I
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: not just like yeah?
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: But then that makes me think I'm like, damn, I
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: want kids, Yeah, but not with him?
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: Probably not with him?
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: No there, But then by the way I thought that
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: by you man, it was just like a normal fucking
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: guy was gonna be the end all be all, I'm like,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I found like a normy who I'm
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: like attracted to, and I feel like he did more
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: damage to me mentally than the dudes who are like
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: have cool jobs. Not that he doesn't have a cool job,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: but you get what I mean, who are like in
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: the public. Guy, I'm like, I like knowing how someone's moving, Like,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: don't come in and portray something that is the complete
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: opposite of like what you want embody believe in. Yeah,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: but I love a good love bomb, Sally, I need
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: to like look into that. I love a love bomb.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: I do too, and then they always end up being
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: narcissistic or.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Something every time. I know better than that.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do love love bombing. Kid, I'll all
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: hard and fast hard. I'm getting love bombed right now.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: And weirdly is like if I care about you, this
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: is this is weird. I mean, like I care about Kyle,
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: and I care about Athletic Man to an extent whatever,
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: But I know what comes with them, if that makes sense, Like,
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I know Kyle's gonna be out in the streets. I
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: know Athletic Man's going to be out in the streets.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Right This guy I met in the Hampton's and he's
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: like so nice, and I refuse to go home with him, okay,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Like I actually like thought that there could be something there, okay,
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: and he was like upset about it. So now I mean,
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go see him in Miami next week. The
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: other guy lives in Miami too, so I'm just gonna
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: kill two birds with onesdone.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I think that's smart though, because what happened with the
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: guy in the South is I got rid of my roster.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, I like you enough to see where
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: this goes. That was my biggest mistake, and I believed
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: what he was saying, which when we facetimed like a
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: week or two ago, I told him I was like,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I'm I know better than to allow someone to do this,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: and he's like, but I still feel the same way,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: and I knew in my head. I'm like, you're still
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: trying to love bomb, like you like the idea of
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: keeping me close but giving me the thing for sure.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: So this don't super recent.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: I mean it lasted for three months and my recovery
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: period was pretty much the same amount of time. It
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: fucked me up, Sally, like, to the point.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Were you like down bad like anyone.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I was making my kids breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I was a zombie. The whole household was in a
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: deep depression because of me. Like I had friends who
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: were like, what did this person do to you? Like
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I had never seen you this way? I've I have
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: never experienced anything like that in my life.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: And it's why I wonder why.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know. There was some there was some something
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: about him that reeled me in. And the way that
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: it ended, it was like so abrupt and like for
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: me going forward, when I do start to look for
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: my person, it's not gonna be about the good times.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be about when we have bad times, what's
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: our recovery? Like yeah, because I think that that is
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: who said this to me. It was like a therapist
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: or someone. They said, it's not about like how you
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: guys get along, it's all about how you argue. Like
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: that's yeah, those are the telling moments.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't tell you someone so fast because
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: like the guy that fucked me up like we would,
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: I mean, it was like toxic war when we've all
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, I can't this is not that's not healthy.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: It's not healthy, at all, And could you imagine like
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: living in a household together any time, like real shit happens.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: No, not at all, because this is all over dumb
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: stuff and like, yeah, puppy, I just got a puppy.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: My puppy would be like scared. No, we were fighting,
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, what if that was a child?
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Like well, and it will be it's like literally a
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: window into like what your future is going to be, Like, yeah,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: this guy did more of like the ice out. He
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: would like ice me out and then guilt tripped and
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: shame me. It would be like not respond, and then
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: when he would respond, it was like constant shame and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: guilt tripping. And it just started to feel people throw
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: this word around a lot. So I don't want to
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: label him as this because I do think he's a
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: good guy. I just don't think he's my guy. But
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: it started to feel like I was being emotionally abused,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: and I also on our FaceTime, I was like, I'm
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: angry at myself that I allowed you to treat me
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: that way, and he wasn't understanding. He's like, I didn't
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: disrespect you. I'm like, you did it, and the fact
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: that I didn't react I was very proud of myself
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: because I usually go in on people and tear that asset.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: And I continued to tell you that you were seen
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: and heard and take accountability for my part, and you
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: just would not ever let up. And even on that
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: phone call, it's like we're still not getting anywhere. Yeah,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: So finally it's the worst, but it feels so good
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: that I finally let it go, Like I don't give
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: one fuck now after.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: Fucking three months, Jesus, that's like torture, though, And I
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: think that the reason that you're so down bad is
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: because like it's like a mental fuck and like your
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: brain it's like addicted to it. I'm literally dealing with
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: it right. I had therapy this morning. I'm trying the
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: guy that yells all the time, like he's still always
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: in the background. He'll show up to my house and stuff,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: and that's been going on for two years own and
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: every time I like officially cut him off, I have
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: this wave of like I can't leave my bed, I'm crying.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like don't want to hang out with anyone, I
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: want to don't want to do anything. I'm super depressed.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: So then he just like continues to linger in my
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: life and it's like not healthy at all. That's why
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I signed back up for therapy because I need to
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: get out of it.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Right, You're like addicted to the high highs and the
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: low lows where it's almost like an emotional relapse. It's
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: like a drug.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel you on that that it's like
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: the worst.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: It is the absolute worst. And when I think about,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: like when he and I first started talking, I felt
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: like I was on a high, like no one, nothing
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: could rock me. Someone could say some crazy shit online
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: and my friend would be like, did you see what
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: this person wrote about you? And I was like, I
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: don't even care. I'm just so happy. And the way
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: that I got knocked off my rocker. And what's so
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: crazy is I'm like.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: How did I allow you to make me feel this
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: way when all we did was no, literally, yeah, that's insane.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: But I mean I get it like a bin there,
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: I mean, not with the soaking, but in other ways.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: Oh well, I'm glad you're out of it. What totally
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: like what changed? Like what like officially made you break
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: from it?
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Our last interaction, he tried, I said something, and then
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: he tried to like pick a fight with me, and
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm so fucking done with this because
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: you're not even trying to pick a fight for any
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: other reason. Then I'm asking for something that you claimed
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: you could give, and the easiest way to not give
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: it is to pick a fight so that you can
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: be like, well, we're in an argument. Yeah, we're done.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: It's like now I like, I don't want to see you.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear from you.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: Get the fuck out of my life.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: And you're not gonna hear from me either. And the
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: worst part is I don't even think he's gonna give
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: a fuck.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that has he tried to reach out.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: The last time we spoke was like right before I
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: went to Montana, so over a week ago.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, keep it that way.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: I have to, because then you end up where you
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: are the cycle where it's like been two years and
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: you go over again, over and over again, and then
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: it just gets more complicated the more time that you
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: allow the person to like kind of get you into
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: that it's like a drug, the high high and the
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: low low, like coming off of it, knowing that if
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: you cut it fully where it's like we're no longer
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: going to talk, you start feeling like someone's choking you.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: You cannot breathe, you can't. It's it's the worst thing ever.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Well, you can't sleep with him anymore and you can't soak.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: No, maibe.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: The way to end it is to ship yourself in
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: front of him.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: No.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: And the thing is, he loves me so much he
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: wouldn't care.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you though? Hm, there was a point
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: in time where with this guy, my friend was like,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: you're so into him, Like what is it? I was like,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but like I would let him shit
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: on my chest.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: No. Literally, that's like that's this guy and it sucks
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: because he's so good in bad So I'm like, that's
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: another like short King.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Oh do you like the short King? Is that like
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: you're saying right up there with Kyle, Like, by the way,
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: though Kyle was hitting right in that reunion.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I liked a self Tanner that he looks so good.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: He's very attractive. I don't know him. And the whole
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: this whole thing with summer houses, like I keep getting
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: pulled into it.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Did you see what's happening with it?
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: The preview for in the city, and like I keep
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: getting emails where they need like my signature for releases,
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, why are y'all talking about me? And
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: I saw that a man has said something like maybe me, you,
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: West and Sally can get dinner to Kyle.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Well, you guys should do that and then we should
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: talk about it on the podcast.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: No, we really should do that. That would be the
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: most awkward dinner ever.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Is she is she like canceled Amanda.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I think I think so, at least right now she is.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I think, you know, because I've hung out with West.
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: He came to South Carolina for Carolina football game. He
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: like was working with Captain Morgan or something. Okay, and
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: I go to all the games, so I was like, Oh,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: do you need a ticket? Do you want to come
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: to our tailgate?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: You know I want to do that with you.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Come. I have tickets to every game. And we did
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: start RV down there, so.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm coming, I'm coming, I'm coming.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: You have to come. It'll be fun. And he was like,
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: I mean I fell for the spell that West puts
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: over girls for sure. I like had the best weekend
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: with him, Like I we had a great time and
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: he showed me all this attention he's very attentive, like
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: he's with you or like if you're showing him a
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: good time, like he's he's not like wondering off and
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: hitting on like other girls and stuff, which makes you
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: think he's not a fuck boy, right, so yeah, like
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: and clearly he is, like.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Right, but then like when you get around him, he
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: like even what you see on TV, like if you
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: were to meet him, meet him in person, it would
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: feel what you're describing is like, oh, I'm different than
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: the rest of the girls.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but now it's like when you take a
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: step back and you look at everything, or like that
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: is the biggest fuck boy of all funk.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Boys, Like, well, I can't believe how many hot girls
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: he pulls.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: And I think that's like he really did, Like does
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: make you feel like important, He's very he's just charming.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: Is he still I look at him and I kind
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: of get grossed out. Well yeah, yeah, yeah, Like it's
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: just apparently there's like a thing online about how he's
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: already cheated on her.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: With the girl with that, with the girl who made
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: him the horse hair, I.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: No a different person. And then Amanda was like said
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: that y'all are not allowed to see each other anymore.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: But I don't know how true this is.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Well, of course he's creeping around. He doesn't know how
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: to keep it in his pants.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: And of course a man is like, oh it's okay.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: I mean she's just like, don't don't see her again,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: and that's it.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I think there's also the pressure of, like we kind
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: of blew up our lives, so like if we don't
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: get up together. Well, when you watched her with Kyle,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: like she just seemed like she had a good head
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: on her shoulders and like he was kind of the
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: dead weight for her. Oh yeah, I just don't even know.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's alcohol. I'm not saying that she
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: like needs to go get sober. I'm not saying that
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: any but alcohol just makes things a little bit easier
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: to do it. Like you saw her.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: As like that big of a drinker like I always
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: saw Kyle. And Kyle's still getting wasted saying crazy things.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: But well now he's like there's no one that's holding
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: him back from like being who he is. Even when
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: he was with her, there was no one holding him back.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he just had so much answer to Yeah, and
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: she doesn't, like I feel like She's someone that doesn't
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: really stand like tintos down on you know, like she
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: didn't really hold Kyle like cool in there.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Now until she decided to divorce him. But like that
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: could have been her move where she could have elevated.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I just these people. It's kind of like Tom Sandoval,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: not that he ever was going to be on like
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: the uphill swing of things, but I feel like when
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: you go through something like that where you're at the
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: you're like in the gutter, you should make major life
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: changes to like right and elevate where it's like, oh
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: my gosh, this character arc is wild. And instead Tom
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Sandoval's doing the same shit where we're watching him like
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: get into it with his girlfriend and the dad. Yeah,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: like what are we doing? Like we got to like
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: take a step back and do some self reflection.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: Thousand percent one thousand percent, and I think that, you know,
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, have you ever hooked up with a friend's eggs? No?
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: When I was in high school, my friend had this
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: like boyfriend that she had dated before she and I
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: knew each other. I was in junior high. She was
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: in high school when that happened. But I gave him
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: a ride home and he kissed me, and then I
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: felt really guilty and called her and was like, he
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: kissed me and I didn't stop it, and she was like,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: I don't give one fuck. I've had like twelve boyfriends
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: since him, Like great, yeah, that's yeah.
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: No I haven't either. I mean that's just like you
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: don't do that, no, Like I don't know.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: That's why.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: It's like you're in a situation where you know, you
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: have feelings for a guy that your friend used to
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: have like something with, and then you talk to your
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: friend before.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: It has to be the open communication, and even then
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: it's just like there's just an unspoken bond between two
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: women where it's like if I have been around him,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: had feelings for him at one point, like just steer clear.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: There's so many other.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: Dudes, so many other dudes, And I bet they both
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: regret it now.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: They have. Yes, well, he looks miserable.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: He she does too, They both do. They're like, fuck,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: we're stuck in this together now, and I don't want
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: to be with you.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: No, Like I don't get it.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: I don't either. I'm like yeah, and now they're both
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: not going on summer house.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Oh they're not coming back, So what are they gonna
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: do how are they going to pay their bills?
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: Don't know.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: She's still going to be in the Is she still
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: gonna be on in the city?
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe, or maybe that's why they're doing that, because maybe
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: they she brings West into in the city because they're together.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: That would make sense, that would make Who's going back
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: to summer house? Is Kyle?
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: Kyle is? Yeah?
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: And then what about Lind's Lindsay hubs.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I would assume she'd make like some
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: like weekend appearances, but I feel like they're all like
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: in the city.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Now, you know, Kyle like that show.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: I even watched it.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: It's actually really good.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I need to watch it because I mean I open
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: my phone and I'm all over it.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, I think they'll probably ask you
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: to make an appearance. Don't you think you should? By
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: the way, Yeah, I.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: Mean Kyle texted me actually last night and he was
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: sending me voice notes. Are you a big voice notoer?
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: I'm not a voicemoter.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: No, I'm not a voice noter.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Like he was like talking talking to.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: Me, like end up just reading it and then it
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I had to listen to him talk
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: about how he was sorry that we didn't see each
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: other more over the weekend. I'm like, literally, don't give
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: a fuck. But he was like, come to back to
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: the Hampton's and a couple of weeks, like here's going
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: to do it? Yeah, because are they filming Summerhouse right now? Yeah? Yeah,
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I'll go to that house that
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: kind of that sounds a little intimidating.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: No, You're a fucking bad bitch.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: I just get you know, I don't know. I really
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: like Lindsay, really like Kyle. I've met Sierra like in passing.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: But my friend Vinita is really good friends with her,
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: so I feel like i'd be good friends with her.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: But is Siara the oh Siarra the hot one?
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Is? She?
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Is? She back?
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: She's killing it?
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: So I know, I'm like, how do I sign up
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: for that? I'm gonna I'm gonna find a boyfriend and
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: then they need to cheat on me with another cast member.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: That's how you elevate.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: I was telling I was telling Austin this. I was like, Austin,
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: you really dropped the ball on this, Like we could
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: have just dated and then like I could have done
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: something crazy and then you would have like skyrocketed in
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: your ear, would have taken off in your life and
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: have taken off.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the four. And then you get the and
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: there's like the perfect formula too, like they've got it conquered.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: It's like you find your guy, he cheats on you
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: with a front or a cast member, and then you
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: get to be a host on Love Island.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Yeah. She's like she's good at it too.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: She's like and she's always had I mean she's been
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: modeling forever as well, so her booking. She's booking a
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: lot of brand deals. Right. I told you, I'm in
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: the dark with everything. I don't know what anyone's doing,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: what's happening. My entire algorithm now is how to fix
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: the hump on my back?
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Well, huh.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: I bent over the other day Sally and I have
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: like in between my dimples like this bump okay, and
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck is that? So cut to
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: I just recorded with Amber and she's like, what do
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: you think it's from? And I'm like, I don't know,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Like it's got to be like a spinal issue, like
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: lifting my kids. There's like inflammation happening, Well.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: Well, you know that's what I do for a living.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Then I'm going to send you a picture because I
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: get a text literally when I got home from Montana
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: from this guy that I had fucked, and he was like,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: is your back okay? And I was like I never
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: told him about my back?
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: No, he was like that you said that when we
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: were doing whatever, Remember you said ah, And I was like,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: oh my god, I do like something popped it when
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: we were fucking. I think weird, I know, so I
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: think it is like right in like I'm gonna show
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: you right why.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: God, I do see it. It's like your tailbone.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: It must be from like lifting kids. But I remember
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I was like bent over like the back of his couch. Yeah,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: and we were doing whatever, and I was like, ah,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: this is hurt, Like that hurt my back. And so
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: we moved and then he checked in and I was like,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: I wonder if.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: That's what it was. Maybe that sucked it up. Yeah,
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: you need to get like your name ri r c
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: T scared.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I should do that before I go to a chiropractor. Huh.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: Yes, to make sure that it's nothing serious or at
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: least don't get one for your neck because that scares me.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Wait really, yeah, then what should I do for my neck?
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: When do you have neck problems?
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Like chronic?
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: What's wrong with that?
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: It just constantly hurts and feels like it needs to
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: be like pulled and stretched and cracked.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Have you gone to get imaging done?
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I did a full body MRI back in September, and
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: the guy was like, everything looks amazing. However, your your
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: posture is so bad, like your spine that if you
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: were to take this MRI to a physical therapist, it
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: would qualify you for twelve sessions of PETE covered by.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: Insuranceee, that's what I would do over a chirebinder.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: Is like a physical Yeah, okay, it's just now I'm insecure.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like, finally I have like a good roster and
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I'm like I can't bend, like I can't do it
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: from behind. I'm gonna have to be on my back,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: Like I can't have a fucking hump.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: The bump is crazy. I've never seen that. You need
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: to get that checked out.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: No, shit, don't you feel bad now? I'm like embarrassed.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: You're fine, You're fine, You're you know what.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not embarrassed. You shit yourself on a plane.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: So I literally shit myself on a plane. You're you're
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: doing way better than I am.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: All right, my little sex pots. I had the best
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: time talking at you, had the best time listening to
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: all your stories. Sally.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: I'm so dead.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: I can't wait for the next recording.
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: Oh god, I mean there's no telling what would happen.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: I'm going to Miami, So what's gonna happen.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: There, Well, we're gonna find out, and I can't wait
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: for you to talk about it on this pod. Remember you, guys,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: if you want to dm us, ask us questions, tell
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: us stories. Our Instagram handle is Sex Unlocked Podcast. And
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: remember a new episode of Sex Unlocked airs every Tuesday
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: at nine pm. We will catch you guys next week.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Bye bye,