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Ben’s Baby Shower with Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: It's almost Famous podcasts. We're sitting here at a beautiful
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  Speaker 2: resort together with probably two of the biggest stars in
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  Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation. Absolutely, I'm with Bob Guinny all night tonight.
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  Speaker 2: So here's what's happening. It is I guess my baby shower.
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  Speaker 2: It is, but really it's just his baby shower from
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  Speaker 2: a distance. So Jessica is in Nashville having her baby
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  Speaker 2: shower with friends and family, and I Heeart was kind
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  Speaker 2: enough to say, hey, if Jessica is celebrating, we want
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  Speaker 2: to celebrate you because you had a very small and
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  Speaker 2: pleasurable part of this experience.
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  Speaker 3: And too much information theower. It's not that you, guys.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I wasn't talking about anybody else here. And
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  Speaker 2: so we're having a great night with a bunch of
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  Speaker 2: guests that will be interviewing out the evening, and we're
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  Speaker 2: going to introduce them as we go. You'll see episodes
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  Speaker 2: drop and you'll know who was here and who wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: We have great food outside, we have great drinks. But
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  Speaker 2: tonight at the start, we have to talk to this couple.
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  Speaker 3: Yes we do. I think so.
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  Speaker 4: I've said this a bunch and I said it to
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  Speaker 4: Joan when we were doing.
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  Speaker 3: Before I knew that Chuck was the guy right.
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  Speaker 4: First of all, the thing I love about the Golden
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  Speaker 4: franchise is let's not kid ourselves. The Bachelor can go
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  Speaker 4: on and off the rails at different times with crazy
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  Speaker 4: casting choices and different things of that nature. What I've
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  Speaker 4: loved and when I said to Joan when she was
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  Speaker 4: first on Gary season, was I love that they took
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  Speaker 4: the casting and they made it not just age appropriate souse.
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  Speaker 4: I only think that's the right word. They made it
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  Speaker 4: like just it was. It was perfect right. And then
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  Speaker 4: they come to Joan's season, who was the perfect choice
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  Speaker 4: ps and we all know that absolutely, And the guys
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  Speaker 4: on this show have blown me away, like every single
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  Speaker 4: one of these guys are And I will say this,
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  Speaker 4: and I said this to Joan. It reminds me of
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  Speaker 4: when Trista's season she was the first bachelor at Tris
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  Speaker 4: and I was on that season and every one of
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  Speaker 4: us got along so well. We were buddies. We weren't
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  Speaker 4: pulling against anybody. We were like, man, let's just be
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  Speaker 4: friends and let's make this about all of us and
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  Speaker 4: whoever in the end that she chooses, that's.
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  Speaker 3: Where her love is, that's where heart is. It's going
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  Speaker 3: to be amazing, real popular.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's.
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  Speaker 4: Amazing what we do back in those days people.
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  Speaker 3: But you're right, it was.
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  Speaker 4: It was a long time ago, twenty some years ago,
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  Speaker 4: and here it comes full circle. And I feel like
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  Speaker 4: we had talked about this earlier, asking like, can the
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  Speaker 4: show reboot itself? How can you go back just to
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  Speaker 4: reboot itself? I think with a Golden franchise, it has
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  Speaker 4: rebooted itself. I mean now, granted, they might go back
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  Speaker 4: to their old tricks with the new season, which I'm
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  Speaker 4: sure they probably have. But I loved watching this season
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  Speaker 4: and I love the guys, like I related to the
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  Speaker 4: guys where I mean, we're not that far apart in age.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I'm the oldest real life bachelor for like,
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  Speaker 4: all these guys are very younger than still living and
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  Speaker 4: you know we're too bad yeah yeah, back in the day.
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  Speaker 4: But like, watching you guys on the show was reminiscent
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  Speaker 4: to me of watching trist this season and how the
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  Speaker 4: guys got along and rooted for each other, and it
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  Speaker 4: was never like I mean, you always had that wild
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  Speaker 4: card here and there, right, But it was never watching
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  Speaker 4: the show and watching a bunch of cattiness amongst the guys.
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  Speaker 4: It was like the other genuine French No, it was
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  Speaker 4: I loved you guys, the way you reacted to each other,
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  Speaker 4: the way you supported each other, when you supported Joan,
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  Speaker 4: there's so much.
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  Speaker 6: So I remember the first night when they all the
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  Speaker 6: limos come in and you meet each guy, and I
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  Speaker 6: walked when everybody else was all were here, they were
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  Speaker 6: all partying. I went back to an interview room and
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  Speaker 6: I said, this season is not about me anymore. I
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  Speaker 6: was like, these guys are so amazing, They're so interesting,
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  Speaker 6: they have such great backstories, and this is this is
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  Speaker 6: going to be about them. It's not going to be
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  Speaker 6: about me anymore. And I did actually feel that way
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  Speaker 6: kind of throughout the season. Every time I got to
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  Speaker 6: sit down with a guy and they told more about
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  Speaker 6: their stories, that like statement became more real because they
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  Speaker 6: became so relatable and people. I said, America is going
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  Speaker 6: to fall in love with these guys, and they really did.
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  Speaker 6: But the thing is, I think that there is a
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  Speaker 6: difference between a golden season and a regular season that's
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  Speaker 6: going on for years, and I'm not sure if it's fixable,
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  Speaker 6: because I think that we have backstories that give us
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  Speaker 6: some kind of confidence and a little bit maybe a
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  Speaker 6: little bit of swagger, that we feel like we are
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  Speaker 6: interesting enough that we don't have to have drama. And
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  Speaker 6: I don't know if you can fix that with the
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  Speaker 6: younger guys. You have history, you have your experiences.
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  Speaker 5: Every one of the guys had a story. Yeah, created
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  Speaker 5: group health therapy, group therapy with every one of the
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  Speaker 5: guys because a lot of us have been through some
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  Speaker 5: turmoil and you go, this happened to me, and the
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  Speaker 5: next guy had a story that just blew your mind. Absolutely, yeah, exactly, gosh, yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But and that you're right that confidence does come with age.
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  Speaker 6: And you have story, so you have other you have
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  Speaker 6: other things to talk about. You don't have to talk
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  Speaker 6: about like your most recent breakup or why you are
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  Speaker 6: better for the Bachelor or the Bachelor than I am,
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  Speaker 6: or why I my date was better like that doesn't
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  Speaker 6: like you don't have those conversations. Honestly, nobody cares. But
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  Speaker 6: also we have the like we have the I guess
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  Speaker 6: the experience to see that you don't want somebody picking
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  Speaker 6: you just because you eliminated everybody else. You want them
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  Speaker 6: to pick you because they actually had a relationship with you,
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  Speaker 6: and they actually had feelings for you, and they had
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  Speaker 6: a connection and that they saw that it could grow
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  Speaker 6: over the years, or that you could end up being
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  Speaker 6: something more than just another person on your show. So
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  Speaker 6: backstabbing somebody else and pushing them out isn't the right
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  Speaker 6: way to get to the right place.
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  Speaker 4: To the end.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, And I think you know, Joan, you and
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  Speaker 2: I are messaging. I've wanted to talk to the two
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  Speaker 2: of you together since you got off the show, just
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  Speaker 2: because you know, like my wife doesn't watch the Bachelor
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  Speaker 2: or the Bachelorette, but she does watch the Golden Show.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's Canyon too.
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  Speaker 2: She loves it and she cries and she celebrates and
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  Speaker 2: she invests into it. And I wanted to talk to
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  Speaker 2: you because I had gotten to meet you way before
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  Speaker 2: you were ever announced, way before you probably even knew
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  Speaker 2: that it was in consideration for you to be a
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  Speaker 2: Golden Bachelorette.
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  Speaker 5: And.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're at that. She was at the end, and
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  Speaker 2: my wife celebrated you, and so we celebrated you too
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  Speaker 2: as a couple because it's really exciting to see. And
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  Speaker 2: that leads me to my first question. I am going
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  Speaker 2: to call you out a little bit, which I don't
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  Speaker 2: love to do on private conversations. But when I saw
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  Speaker 2: you tonight, one of the first words you said to
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  Speaker 2: me when I gave you a hug was the show
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  Speaker 2: can work. Yeah, that's what you said, And I want
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  Speaker 2: you to expand on that, because now we're a few
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  Speaker 2: months removed from the show airing, or a few of
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  Speaker 2: many months removed from the show filming, and now you
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  Speaker 2: sit in this place as a couple, and when you
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  Speaker 2: say that to me, what do you mean by that?
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  Speaker 6: So, like two things come to mind. First one is
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  Speaker 6: that everybody really became invested in Gary season and we
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  Speaker 6: all thought it was super genuine and that it really worked,
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  Speaker 6: And still sitting here today, I think it did work
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  Speaker 6: at the time, but sometimes it falls apart later on.
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  Speaker 3: You guys get you.
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  Speaker 6: When you leave the bubble and you are out in
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  Speaker 6: the real world. So like that's my first thought on it.
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  Speaker 6: My second thought is was my own skepticism that can
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  Speaker 6: you really fall in love that quickly? Because I only
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  Speaker 6: made it for three episodes of The Golden Boucher so
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  Speaker 6: I didn't experience getting into any like real feelings honestly,
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  Speaker 6: so I wasn't super confident that that was going to happen.
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  Speaker 6: So all along, every time I was interviewed, I always said,
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  Speaker 6: you know, I don't necessarily need to leave this engaged.
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  Speaker 6: I need to leave this what my desire really is
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  Speaker 6: is to leave this with a person that I am
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  Speaker 6: interested in, like figuring out if it's going to work
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  Speaker 6: outside of bachelination. So there was no engagement on my mind.
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  Speaker 6: And then she met me, and that is kind of true.
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  Speaker 6: So I met him and I was like, God, this
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  Speaker 6: is like this could work. I immediately had an attraction.
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  Speaker 6: We immediately had a connection. And the thing about this
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  Speaker 6: journey is you do kind of have to have that
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  Speaker 6: a little on the early side because it is fast, right,
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  Speaker 6: And I selected him as my first date because I
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  Speaker 6: kind of knew that in my mind that you need
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  Speaker 6: to start developing this early on, especially because sometimes people
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  Speaker 6: they're early like people that people that contestants that MAINZ
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  Speaker 6: pick end up not being the person they thought they
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  Speaker 6: were and then they're really behind. So you need to
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  Speaker 6: figure out that really really early. So your favorite person
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  Speaker 6: you kind of have to get the first date to
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  Speaker 6: or a really early date. Otherwise you're you might not
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  Speaker 6: have enough time to recover from that if they're not
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  Speaker 6: and they don't end up being the right person. He
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  Speaker 6: ended up having to be the right person. So I
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  Speaker 6: had a really good amount of time. And the fact
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  Speaker 6: that I didn't think I was going to fall in
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  Speaker 6: love that quickly, like that wasn't true. I did, and
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  Speaker 6: it happened so that when I said it works, it
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  Speaker 6: really can work. I think there was a lot of
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  Speaker 6: doubt left over from Gary season that people doubted that
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  Speaker 6: it could work, and you know, I felt a little
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  Speaker 6: responsible to like shatter that feeling. But it happened like
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  Speaker 6: in a really unexpected way from me. Actually, I wanted
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  Speaker 6: to leave with a relationship and didn't necessarily mean need
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  Speaker 6: to be an engagement. But I am exactly where I
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  Speaker 6: need to be. I am exactly right now.
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  Speaker 2: You're right now, at this second, you're still feeling you're.
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  Speaker 6: Exactly absolutely and way more and way more you can.
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  Speaker 3: See it with you too.
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  Speaker 5: It's like it's like we've been married for five years in.
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  Speaker 6: A good way, like not in like oh we're more
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  Speaker 6: you know old. Yeah, that's right exactly.
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  Speaker 4: I like that I like that.
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  Speaker 6: And you know, we were really fortunate because Baucher allowed
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  Speaker 6: us to have five happy couples and that's a lot,
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  Speaker 6: and you know, that's a lot. I don't remember how
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  Speaker 6: many you had, but we had five, and so we
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  Speaker 6: had we got to know each other outside of Bacher,
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  Speaker 6: like kind of in our own little bubble still a
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  Speaker 6: little bit of a bubble though, but we had our phone,
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  Speaker 6: so I could hear his interactions with his kids and
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  Speaker 6: with his work and you know, with his family, and
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  Speaker 6: he could do the same thing with mine. And we
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  Speaker 6: saw how that we got along. You know, on a
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  Speaker 6: boring night, we binge watched The Secret Lives of Mormon
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  Speaker 6: Wives and like.
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  Speaker 4: We just speak, a great show and I have not
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  Speaker 4: seen it.
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  Speaker 6: It's really really good. And we cooked together and we
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  Speaker 6: we kind of lived like an old married couple would
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  Speaker 6: live in a house kind of secluded. So yeah, we
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  Speaker 6: had some of the producers over so people know about us.
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  Speaker 6: We're allowed to come over and invited and we so
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  Speaker 6: we like had little dinner parties. So we lived like
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  Speaker 6: a real couple. So when we came out of that
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  Speaker 6: and we were actually finally announced and could like be
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  Speaker 6: out in public, we are very comfortable with it.
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  Speaker 4: See, we didn't have that on my season only because
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  Speaker 4: I think it was just a different expectation of that time,
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  Speaker 4: and I was pulled in so many different directions to
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  Speaker 4: do things for the franchise and for the show.
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  Speaker 3: At that time, we didn't we had like I think.
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  Speaker 6: Two, no, that's impossible.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And then it was like there wo'd be times
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  Speaker 4: when I'd be in l A and they wouldn't even Gosh,
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  Speaker 4: I even hate that I'm saying this on the area now,
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  Speaker 4: but they wouldn't even let her know I was there
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  Speaker 4: because they had me so scared, and it would be
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  Speaker 4: like I'd be in and out, you know. And and
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  Speaker 4: I'm kind of I'd do that a lot anyway with
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  Speaker 4: my travel.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was.
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  Speaker 4: Like I remember thinking like I should see her, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and like this time, Well, we'll have it next time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I did, of course you want to.
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  Speaker 4: But it was like then you grow distant, right, you can't.
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  Speaker 5: That never happened with us. Every other week we saw
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  Speaker 5: each other and I talked to every day.
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  Speaker 6: I had five weeks of press, I had tons of press,
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  Speaker 6: and we figured out like how together.
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  Speaker 4: I loved by the way this is and and I
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  Speaker 4: knew this because when I when they asked me to
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  Speaker 4: be the bachelor, I called trist and I were talking
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  Speaker 4: and love Ryan and it was one of those things
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  Speaker 4: where I was like, you know, tell me, like what
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  Speaker 4: did you do to make this different? Like what did
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  Speaker 4: you And She's like, honestly, the second I was done
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  Speaker 4: with my press, I was done. And for trist had
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  Speaker 4: to say that who you know, she thought of as
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  Speaker 4: the fairy godmother, the Frandi right. She did Dancing with
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  Speaker 4: the Stars, she did a whole bunch of things right
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  Speaker 4: after after a season, but she really spent time investing
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  Speaker 4: with Ryan because Ryan was averse to that stuff. He
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  Speaker 4: wasn't wanting to do red Car like my wife, you know,
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  Speaker 4: it's crazy Kenyon doesn't have any interest in and of
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  Speaker 4: the things I do. And Ryan was was like, that's
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  Speaker 4: not my thing. And so Trista invested in Ryan and.
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  Speaker 6: I thought that was a big She's so smart, and
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  Speaker 6: you know, I heard Charity say the same thing. So
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  Speaker 6: when she came off of her season, she had to
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  Speaker 6: go right to Dancing with the Stars, and she said
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  Speaker 6: she really worried about her relationship with Dalton because she
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  Speaker 6: didn't feel like it was solid enough to be able
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  Speaker 6: to just take all this time off. But he es
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  Speaker 6: actually show every.
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  Speaker 4: Single dancing Intimately with some dude, we talked about this.
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  Speaker 2: You're I think that the point here is you're not
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  Speaker 2: the lead because it's I mean, Chalky, You're a confident guy.
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  Speaker 2: You've got a good career, You're a good looking guy.
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  Speaker 2: Like these things. You know, it might be a little different,
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  Speaker 2: very good looking, very good, I.
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  Speaker 3: Would say, incredibly.
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  Speaker 4: Insanely. He's got Midwestern values. Come on, let's not let's
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  Speaker 4: not get herself brother. I know you know that. I'm
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  Speaker 4: saying the three guys here.
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  Speaker 2: The reason it might be a little different with the
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  Speaker 2: golden this this might not be a barrier. However, you
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  Speaker 2: come off the Bachelor, Bachelorette and you're chosen, there's still
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  Speaker 2: insecurities that exist. You're you maybe were proposed to on
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  Speaker 2: the same day you broke up with somebody else. It's
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  Speaker 2: a big deal.
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  Speaker 3: Way it's edited. You think this guy was conflicted these.
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  Speaker 5: Things and I don't even want to talk about that,
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  Speaker 5: I know, but.
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  Speaker 2: That brings me to to you. I mean, my point was,
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  Speaker 2: you're still the lead a little bit after the show
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  Speaker 2: because there is that, like I think on the Bachelor Bachelrette.
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  Speaker 2: There is still that need to say, hey, let me
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  Speaker 2: reassure you that you were chosen because I care about you,
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  Speaker 2: I love you, you were the one, and you were
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  Speaker 2: the one. Maybe for weeks this just won't look that way.
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  Speaker 6: And yeah, maybe we've definitely had that conversation.
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  Speaker 4: There was probably some times in there where you were like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my god, is he going to be here for
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  Speaker 4: this whole thing?
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  Speaker 3: Is what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, But that's where my point was going to
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  Speaker 2: is chalk you and I take, and I mean, this
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  Speaker 2: is the biggest compliment to you. You don't seem to
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  Speaker 2: desire anything more than Joan. The show was great. The
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  Speaker 2: show was great. Everything posts that is fun. I'm so
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  Speaker 2: glad you came to night. I'm so glad to be
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  Speaker 2: able to meet you. I'm so glad to be able
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  Speaker 2: to share a drink with you. You don't seem like
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  Speaker 2: a guy that's out here going what's next?
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  Speaker 5: Not at all.
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  Speaker 2: And so when you ended up on one knee with
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  Speaker 2: Joan there the show ends. What has life looked like
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  Speaker 2: for you and what does this feel like for you personally?
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  Speaker 2: Since all this has happened.
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  Speaker 5: Well, Joan and I talked about it, and there was
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  Speaker 5: some times it was they didn't show this, but we
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  Speaker 5: were talking about our future from the happy couples to
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  Speaker 5: everything else. And I've got a business, I've got friends
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  Speaker 5: in Witchdall. The good thing is my kids, my family
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  Speaker 5: doesn't live there anymore, so we're going to figure that
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  Speaker 5: out over the next year or two. What we're gonna do.
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  Speaker 5: We're gonna do a lot of traveling. But the thing is,
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  Speaker 5: if you love each other, you're gonna make it work. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 5: And the good thing is we don't we're not in
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  Speaker 5: a kid bearing age, so we don't have to worry
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  Speaker 5: about that. Our kids are out of the house kind
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  Speaker 5: of kind of. But we're just gonna have fun and
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: get it all worked out. And Joan is actually coming
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: back to Witchda on the eighteenth. I am been going
• 15:31
  Speaker 5: to spend five days back.
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: I've been there a bus.
• 15:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: I love throwing parties.
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: We're gonna have another party. So it's it's a lot
• 15:40
  Speaker 5: of fun. But it was interesting in New York City.
• 15:42
  Speaker 5: We'd run into people. Everybody recognizes Joe. I'm known as
• 15:46
  Speaker 5: that guy. They'll go Jojo, oh, and there's that guys.
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: I love what you're saying, we all know that that's
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: not true. But everyone does recognize Joe, but everyone recognizes
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: you as well. But I think it's so nice you
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: and are talking about that. It's like you take the
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: you understand. Hey man, I get it. This is the
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: queen and I'm gonna be.
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: I'm the reluctant d lister. I didn't want to sell that.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: I've got a good career, you know, And it's it's fun.
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: It's stepping outside of your box, your comfort zone, and
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: to meet a lot of good people and to have fun.
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: And I'm at the point in my life where i
• 16:22
  Speaker 5: can have a little bit of fun and we can
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: enjoy things. And Joan's incredible at this. She is she
• 16:27
  Speaker 5: loves people, and you have to love people to do
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: this and to embrace them. I've never seen one person
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: that came up sid can I get a picture? And
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: she's turned them down. And from New York to d
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: C to LA and it's been a lot of fun.
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: And I'll just throw this out on the way out here.
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: We flew differently because we live in different towns, and
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: I said, how many people recognize and she was I
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: probably took fifty pictures at the airport, not one person
• 16:49
  Speaker 5: recognized me, and I was okay with that. I was,
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: but I did get recognized today at Norstroms.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: Well, you got recognized today by that lady in the
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: parking lot who was just going easy.
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: I think they recognized Joan. Then they go, oh, that's
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: that guy. I'm a good point in my career where
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: I've done all this. You know, I've been the alpha.
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: I've done all this and this is the reality. I
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: want people to know this, Like before we come out
• 17:13
  Speaker 5: of go Joan, what do I need to wear?
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Right? It does?
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: So you guys do look stunny, you know, tell me
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: what I.
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: Need to wear.
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: He's easy to dress stylish of course.
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: But Ben, I do want to talk about one thing,
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: and it's pretty personal. Is don't take her cell phone charger.
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: We've already had that because it was dominance of going
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: don't take my cell phone charge to know that, because
• 17:38
  Speaker 5: that's part of a real conversation, a real relationship. And
• 17:41
  Speaker 5: it was interesting because we had talked about it before
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: and I took it and oh my gosh, she was like,
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: you don't take myself.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Where is my No?
• 17:51
  Speaker 5: She goes, you don't. We're a real couple, I can
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: tell you.
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: At that point, all of a sudden stuff is being
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: said that you're like, wait, we've made it past a
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: nice zone's we don't know anything about that doing that's
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: all I know, And.
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: I know this is your guys show, but I do
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: want to tell you it's just an incredible experience. Because
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: I wouldn't looking for this. My daughter signed me up
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: for it. I had no idea and it was kind
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: of a little bit of an interpersonal challenge, going why
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: not go do this? And then I wouldn't expected to
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: fall into love with Joan. But I will tell you,
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: and this is one honest as I told the producers,
• 18:37
  Speaker 5: I go, if it's not Joan, I'm not going on.
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: And we've talked about it tight and I go, that's
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: who I want to meet. And I was so lucky.
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: From Disneyland.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: It was over.
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: It was absolutely over, at least in my eyes. She
• 18:50
  Speaker 5: had a couple of guys.
• 18:52
  Speaker 4: When you get into Club three three, that's next level.
• 18:53
  Speaker 6: That's Walt Disney's home and it's where when they were
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: in Disneyland.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: It was incredible.
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: Did you get to see the bedrooms, the kids bedrooms?
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, so yeah, there was a button on the wall,
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: and so Walt.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: Disney wanted the bedrooms to be really special, like there
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: are night time rouching, to be really special. So there's
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: a button on the wall and you press the button,
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: and there's a girls and a boy's bedroom, and like
• 19:15
  Speaker 6: the boy's bedroom has a train track running all along
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: the ceiling, and you press the button and all of
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: a sudden there are stars all over the ceiling and
• 19:23
  Speaker 6: a huge tall ceiling.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: The girls room is like a jungle.
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: It's the coolest thing ever.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: And so it like all these stars laid up and
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: the lights slowly dim and then the train starts going
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: around the rooms doing like It's a Small World or
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: some Disney song. It's incredible. And the girls is a
• 19:40
  Speaker 6: jungle theme and she has wallpaper that's like big leaves
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: and stuff. And the lights go down and you start
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: hearing like like chimpanzees making their sounds like all the
• 19:51
  Speaker 6: jungle sounds, and then the moon comes up in the sky.
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: It's absolutely it's magical. I mean, it's like like Walt
• 19:59
  Speaker 6: Disney real quick.
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: If I may reference to bedrooms fantasy sweeps, I never
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: saw one fantasy yeah, fantasy sweeps, I never saw it right.
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: She locked me out. So we had this great evening
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: and it was probably about eleven thirty and we're kind
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: of getting along real well and she goes time for
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: you to go.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she met it it.
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, It's a beautiful thing. And to close out here,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: if you I mean, and this is the last question
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: I want to ask you guys on a limit of time, Joan,
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: you mentioned that people fell in love with the franchise,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: and I think Gary Season did a lot to give
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: people hope, but it ended in a way that was
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: unfortunate and uh not uncommon maybe for this franchise. But
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: if we were to put odds on this, I'm a
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: betting man. I love the sports bet. If we were
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: putting odds on the on just the chances at this
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: moment in time, that the two of you will be
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: together years to come, what would the odds be in
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: your guys mind, I'm gonna hundred percent, let's go.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: I'm done. I'm done.
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: This is my man, and a lot of it too
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: is I'm not going to say maturity, but experience and
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: everything we've been through in life, and we've talked about it.
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: No one's perfect, No one's perfect. And you just we've
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: made a commitment. And commitment keeps marriages and relationships together.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: It does.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: And I was talking to when both people it was
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: the other the other ye have three kids. It's tough.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: It is so tough at that age, and uh, you
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: know what challenges you. You don't sleep, you've got kids,
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: you make financial decisions, and for us it's been pretty easy.
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: But I'd say one hundred percent. Absolutely.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I can't wait. I mean, this is the best thing
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: to see.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: I love you, guys.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so.
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: Really well, excuse me if I will say, as long
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: as I don't take her cell phone truge o.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: In the words of Billy Bob Thornton on the show
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: land Man.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Guys, which I'm very excited about.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, and a Bachelor Uh Nation star Cassie Randolph's sister
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: is also in the show as a main character. Was great. Yeah,
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: he said this, and I'm gonna give it to you.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: I don't have any advice to give to you in life.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: You could teach me a thousand things, and I understand that.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: But he said this in the last episode that I
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: want to show to share with you, based on the
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: charger that you stole and John. The daughter asks him, Dad,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: how are you always right? And he goes, because I've
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: always been wrong and I just learned from my mistakes.
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: If if we could have just a couple of more seconds,
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: I gotta tell your story. So we were we were
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: going through an interview and one of the guys that podcast,
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: he said, what's Joan's middle name? We had talked about
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: it and I forgot it and it's Yvonne. And afterwards
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: and it made the press, it really made the press.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: Middle name.
• 23:12
  Speaker 5: THEBC guy goes, you're lucky, went in front page. But
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: he goes, you know what, the good thing about this is,
• 23:19
  Speaker 5: you'll never forget it, never Yvonne. I will never forget
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: her name.
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: Forget jury and I knew it.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: And what's his real first name?
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, don't answer that. I know he
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: doesn't want anyone to know that. I'm not telling.
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, guys, guys and Joan and all
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: the fans, I've been very lucky on this, very lucky.
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: And I know there's been you know, it's just I've
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: just been blessed and we were very lucky that this
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: happened to both of us. And the connection is real.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: I genuinely do. I always loved Joan and now I
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: love you too. Love people. I'm a hugger, buddy, I've been.
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: Learning to hug. Can we talk about the next thing.
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: We got a little bit of time. So in the
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: Midwest we hold hands.
• 24:05
  Speaker 6: Okay, he's calling me out on all my faults on
• 24:09
  Speaker 6: National podcast. Everybody in the world's gonna know a handhold?
• 24:15
  Speaker 6: Is it a Midwest thing?
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Is it me?
• 24:17
  Speaker 6: Do I have an issue?
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: But I don't need to intertwine. I just need to
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: at least be hand touch. It's the touch. I'm a
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: big hand guy.
• 24:25
  Speaker 6: He's a toucher. We're very cold people on the East Coast.
• 24:28
  Speaker 6: Very to take his hand now, sometimes I'm like I
• 24:33
  Speaker 6: should hold his hand because he likes that and he's
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: a touch person. So I do, like make an effort
• 24:37
  Speaker 6: now because I know it's like important him. But like,
• 24:39
  Speaker 6: we don't walk around holding hands. We don't walk through
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: them all holding hands.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I will that's weird. Hand every we walk not even
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: thinking about it because.
• 24:48
  Speaker 6: It's just automatic what we do.
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: I love it absolutely, And I got some some negative
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: feedback being cringeing because I touched her like a Disneyland.
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: I have my hand on her leg, and.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: It wasn't sexual negative feedback for that.
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: Absolutely lose your girl and I love the It was naturals.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: I am a very affectionate person, and I was told
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: once and it was the best advice I ever got
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: from a very reputable person by the way, who said,
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: get used to people commenting on your life while you
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: live here.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: Right, You're not sitting behind a computer keyboard tapping away
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: at somebody else's life.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: You're living your own. So embrace that.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: Do what you do.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: Don't let other people get in the way of that. Right,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: we said it.
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: He said it to my kid, and so he's like, like,
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: do you like said to my daughter or Alley? He said,
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: does Noah hold your hand? She goes, Oh, I punch him.
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: It's a crazy It's just I told Joy. Was at
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: a friend of mine we called smoke signals. We get
• 25:41
  Speaker 5: up the pool's house, we're gonna have drinks, cigars, and
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: that type of his wife comes out and kisses him
• 25:45
  Speaker 5: and hugsy and it's just a different deal.
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: It might be a coastal thing because my wife and
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: she literally looks at me, She's like, oh my god,
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: you know have to kiss me.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Every time you leave the room.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I'm like, here's the truth to it. He cares about
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: you so much that he wants to be as close
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: to you as possible. And how sweet is that?
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: I feel really guilty. I feel like he is so
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: like kind and wants to like be like reinforce us
• 26:14
  Speaker 6: all the time. And I am like this cold, awful
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: East Coast. But it's not because I don't feel it
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: for I truly do. I just like I I probably
• 26:23
  Speaker 6: it's probably not my love language.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: It might not be.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't ever read that stuff.
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: But I know you guys have other people to talk to.
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: But next time have us on your podcast, I'm gonna
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: talk about Jones driving.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Oh this could be absolutely second places to go and busy.
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: Absolutely.
• 26:43
  Speaker 6: I'm like, you know, I let everybody changing in front
• 26:47
  Speaker 6: of me, but when I'm in.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: My line, I go, Okay, Joan, this is obviously the
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: baby shower. And I know you have advice for me
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: that you want to share. I was supposed to say
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: that it's all right, I got it.
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: He knows he needs it, he knows he needs it. Okay,
• 27:03
  Speaker 6: So okay, there's so much advice. So like first one
• 27:05
  Speaker 6: like call the grandparents every minute you get because they'll
• 27:08
  Speaker 6: come runny. But I remember a really distinct thing that
• 27:12
  Speaker 6: all fathers need to know because it's a particularly big
• 27:15
  Speaker 6: one with fathers. So you know, you're having a girl,
• 27:19
  Speaker 6: so it's not quite as prevalent, but there are a
• 27:21
  Speaker 6: lot of body fluids when you have a baby. You
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: know this, A lot of stuff ends up on you,
• 27:28
  Speaker 6: and like, don't be cringe about it, because it's going
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: to happen. Not as much with the girl. Boys are
• 27:33
  Speaker 6: the issue. But there's a thing that dads love to do,
• 27:37
  Speaker 6: and it's the airplane thing. So they lay on their
• 27:39
  Speaker 6: back and they put you do this right, You put
• 27:42
  Speaker 6: your feet in the air, and you put the baby
• 27:44
  Speaker 6: like on your feet, like not until like ten months
• 27:46
  Speaker 6: or so, maybe a year maybe, and you hold their
• 27:48
  Speaker 6: hands and you do the airplane thing. And this is
• 27:52
  Speaker 6: not an uncommon thing that happens. For some reason, fathers
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: love to do this after the baby has had a
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: big bottle or a big meal and you're pushing on there,
• 28:02
  Speaker 6: you're pushing on their little tummies and they vomit and
• 28:06
  Speaker 6: the dads all seem to all have their mouth open.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: I've always done it, did it happen to you multiple absolutely, yeah,
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: like ten times.
• 28:16
  Speaker 6: So it's the airplane. Baby's gonna vomit in your mouth
• 28:20
  Speaker 6: if you don't close your mouth.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: Honestly, you know people are gonna be like, you know,
• 28:24
  Speaker 6: get sleep when you can. I'm telling you're gonna vomit
• 28:27
  Speaker 6: in your mouth unless you watch out, disclose on the.
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: Belly more love based. I mentioned this earlier. It's especially
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: when you have multiple kids. It's probably the toughest time
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: in your life. I've been through almost everything, and it
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: is tough. And love your partner and understand them and
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: sit there and it's tough because you might go, hey,
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: can you get up and change the baby? Can you
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: feed the baby? Be there for them because it will pass.
• 28:56
  Speaker 5: It's just it's just so important to support the other person.
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: And frankly, from a man's perspective, you've got to support
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: them because we have no idea what they're going through.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: For God's sake, Yeah, I love the better things.
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: Don't forget to laugh, yeah, because you'll be stressed and
• 29:13
  Speaker 6: sometimes you'll get the giggles and let it happen like
• 29:16
  Speaker 6: the baby, like vomiting all over you and your mouth.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: Laugh because you need to have laughter because you're gonna
• 29:22
  Speaker 6: be tired, aggravated.
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: But also, and that's the you've got to do that.
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: But be supportive and help that person, help your spouse,
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: help your loved one, take terms, giving them bass and
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: the the and just be there. And it's tough. It
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: was the toughest part in my life raising kids. It
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: was just it's different from zero to three to four
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: years old. But I say you, I excelled when they
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: got older. I loved it when they were mobile.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: Where the dad that is where the dad takes time.
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to be a big part of this zero
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: to six phase because I'm old, you know. So it's
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: like I'm trying to be like, you know, a little
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: more hands on and that in that regard and give
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: Canyon a break because she's got it all. Yeah, I
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: was gonna say I about the kind of well both
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: you said. The laughing thing I think is the greatest
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: advice is so fun, right because I know you know
• 30:10
  Speaker 4: this story about me. But when we moved from Seattle
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: back to Detroit.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: We flew back. My dog was a children's hospital dog
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: sat at.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: Our feet, babies in arms with Canyon and she's momming
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: it up like a million percent, like she always does.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: And our dog.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: Stayed the night at our friend's place the night before
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: and had an accident on the plane, not just one,
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: but two explosive diarrhea. It was tragic, guys, tragic. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: went through every bottle of water they had. I went
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: through all the first class napuns because I got up grade,
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: because I fly a lot.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: It was insane. I come back.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Canyon hadn't seen a movie in so long because she'd
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: been up every night with a baby. She's watching wrestling
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: with my family, starting Daine the Rock Johnson, not a plug,
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: just the truth, tears.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: She's eating my ravioli. I'm like, our dog's the plane,
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: and she's like, well so did your son.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: Both. So I'm in the knots in the bathroom changing
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: a diaper and he's wiping things on me, and I'm
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: losing my mind. I looked at the mir and I'll
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: never forget as long as I live.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, I used to be kind of cool.
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  Speaker 3: What happened in my life?
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  Speaker 5: We've all we've all looked at the what the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: I come out of the bathroom.
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  Speaker 4: King is looking at me.
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  Speaker 3: She got tears watching wrestling with my family. So the
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: bock it's not his best work, and I go, hey, ps,
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: why you spit my eye?
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: And the whole family a full shop and it was
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: like the worst slash best day ever because we laughed
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: our asses off and we land and it's like people
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: are making fun of me on the radio about it.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: I started hearing about it.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: It was. It was horrible slash funny, and it was
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: one of those things that it made us closer as
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: a family because you go through these moments and it's
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: only moments you can share in these moments. It's like,
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: no one can invent this stuff.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: This doesn't happen.
• 31:55
  Speaker 6: We had one of them petertrition office, so Nick was
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: like four days old. We bring the pew dedition and
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: he's like, take out the diaper. I'm gonna weiagh the baby.
• 32:02
  Speaker 6: He walks out of the room, We take the diaper off,
• 32:04
  Speaker 6: and he immediately peeces right in John's face and then
• 32:07
  Speaker 6: all over the wallpaper.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah he had probably.
• 32:11
  Speaker 6: Yeah, there was everywhere. We laughed and laughed. That few
• 32:15
  Speaker 6: shop came in and he's like, something's wrong with these people.
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: I know, you guys gotta wrap up. My other question
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: is service dogs. How big was your dog?
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: Well, she was a forty five pound yellow lab, very small,
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: very small, young children's hospital dog.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: I flew with her so much.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: She never had a problem until that one time with
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: our baby on the plane, his first flight, and it
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: was tragic.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: People walked off that plane hating me.
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: And I'm standing there because dads are packed mules, get
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: ready to be a pack meal. You're no longer You're
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: no longer the bachelor guy in first.
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: Oh no, you're not cool.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: No, you are not cool.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: You know what you're like this point or not all
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: this point forward goes way downhill. You're gonna be standing there.
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: You're gonna be a pack mule walking off with a stroller,
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: and she's gonna be glamorous because she's gorgeous.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Just gonna be gorgeous walking off with.
• 32:56
  Speaker 6: The with the beautiful baby, and you're gonna be the guy.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: Behind her with like eighteen on your shoulders.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Guys, I have expectation that I will not be cool.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: This has been the best time. I'm so happy for
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: the two of you. We want to celebrate two of you,
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: and just you know, I wanted to talk to the
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: two of you for a long time because I think
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: you guys are great and this makes me so happy
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: to see. Can't wait to celebrate you uh and celebrate
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: everything going on tonight as we get outside. But we
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: do have to wrap this has.
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: I want to say, good luck, appreciate that it's a
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: new chapter of your life. You're gonna love it.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: You have three or four of them.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Hey man, he's a good guy. He's a good guy.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: With that, I've been Ben will be out.
• 33:38
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