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384 El laegado de la masculinidad parte 1 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number three hundred and eighty- four. This podcast, along with the
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  three hundred and eighty- five, will be talking to you about masculinity,
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  the wrong way, as society sometimes tends to understand the term masculinity, as
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  parents understand it and then communicate it to their children, because from childhood we
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  are given the order to behave like true men. Be strong, not cry
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  fit for tough sports, finish school, get a girlfriend to prove to others
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  that we are men, take out our first credits for, according to experts,
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  have credit life, buy the first bike or car, finish a career,
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  perform military service, commit to marry, pay the expenses of a house,
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  have children as soon as possible so they see you as a father know
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  what to do every time that family needs decisions. Be faithful to the wife,
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  pay taxes, buy a home for the family, be the best counselor
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  for your teens, finish paying them a career to age in the best way
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  possible, take care of your wife, comfort her when the children leave,
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  be good grandfather, pension, achieve ecorobic stability at any price and die leaving
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  a legacy, but what is a good legacy. A legacy is not the
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  same as an inheritance. Whatever you leave your children' s inheritance. After
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  an average of sixty years of hard work, he will probably end up dilapidating
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  in just sixty days, because most likely those who will enjoy what you work
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  sometimes without meriting it. It' s the daughters- in- law,
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  it' s the sons- in- law. Instead, a legacy is
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  what is left when we are in use of good retreat or have departed for
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  the presence of the Lord. The cemeteries are full of tombstones in which epitaphs
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  are written that show if there was a legacy. No one writes a tombstone
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  for an inheritance, that is, you don' t read my father'
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  s gravestone with affection for leaving us the drugstore. You date new hours of
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  attention to the public from Monday to Friday, from eight in the morning to
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  eight in the evening. No one puts on a tombstone of your children with
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  less carlos affection, which didn' t put anything. Or here lies my
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  dad product of an ulcer and attention in a ps you have started to think
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  of the phrase that they will put in your epitaph, your family or the
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  ashtray of the bear where they will put you. I' m going a
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  little further, what kind of phrase your kids will say about you when they
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  ' re in the wake. Imagine this image. A few months after your
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  departure, your son walks with his son through the park. Your grandson,
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  for some reason, decided to remember you and asked his father what you really
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  were like. Dad told you what my grandfather really was, what memories you
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  have of your childhood next to him to see what your son would answer.
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  Well, that' s your son' s answer. That' s the
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  legacy. Another example. They take a red one your widow and her friends
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  have departed for the presence of the lord and the one who was alive.
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  Your wife talks to her sisters. Even one of your daughters sneaks into the
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  conversation. She gets her eyes wet reminding you and decides to count marital infidences,
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  the way you treated her the times you were special to her, the
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  unforgettable moments. Maybe in the end I' ll say ay that man was
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  amazing. Life next to your dad was wonderful. It was a great experience.
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  That' s what your widow says, that' s the legacy.
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  But imagine in the fourth generation forward, no one will remember you anymore.
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  If you don' t believe me, give me your grandfather' s dad
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  ' s name and tell me what he really was like, so your grandson
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  ' s son probably doesn' t remember or even know who you were,
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  but he' ll be affected in a good or bad way by the legacy
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  you left to your generations. You understand the importance of leaving a true legacy,
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  for example, the legacy of masculinity. Like I said, in this
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  podcast and next time we' ll be talking about masculinity. For now this
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  one I will finish here, but tomorrow, in podcast three hundred eighty-
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  five, we will be talking about the legacy of masculinity, of false masculinity,
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  that masculinity is not hardness, that masculinity is sensitivity, that masculinity is
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  not superiority. Masculinity is not promiscuity either. Masculinity is recognizing mistakes and asking
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  forgiveness. We will also discuss that masculinity must be learned correctly. So don
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  ' t miss tomorrow' s podcast. For now I wish you dear man
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  that you are listening to this podcast, because you are subscribed to this playlist
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  or because suddenly another man shared it with you, or suddenly it was your
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  wife who, trying to deliver you a message, decided to send you this
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  audio in podcast format. For now I want you to have a nice day,
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  but also never lose sight that God does teach us a true masculinity and
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  that you must leave the good legacy to your next generations of what is a
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  true and masculine man. Podcast. Number three hundred and eighty- four.
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  There are three hundred and eighty- three more waiting for you in Christian Joseph
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  Ordonez. There you find the Christian community. Courses on how to educate and
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  discipline children, the school for parents, the workshop for marriages, studies about
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  pornography, masturbation, sexuality classes, the course we gave Jasmidi and I about
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  infidelity, how to get it healed, how to heal the wounds in a
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  marriage that has been exposed to this cancer that is destroying families today. So
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  have a nice day and please give society the best version of a male man
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  God bless you