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- 0:01Speaker 1: Taking a Walk Nashville.
- 0:02Speaker 2: Hi, this is Sarah Harrelson, your host of Taking a
- 0:05Speaker 2: Walk Nashville, and I want to give a special shout
- 0:09Speaker 2: out to Sennheiser today. I am using their profile USB
- 0:15Speaker 2: podcast Mike, and I'm loving how versatile it is, how
- 0:20Speaker 2: it's sounding, and how it is on the go. So
- 0:22Speaker 2: thank you Senheiser. Today with me, I have a very
- 0:26Speaker 2: special guest, Mary go Shay. She is a Grammy nominated
- 0:32Speaker 2: American folk singer, songwriter and author. Her songs have been
- 0:37Speaker 2: covered by performers such as Tim McGraw, Blake Shelton, Kathy
- 0:42Speaker 2: Mattea Boy, George, Jimmy Buffett, Betty Levette, Candy Stayton, and
- 0:47Speaker 2: Amy Helm to name a few. Her Grammy nominated twenty
- 0:52Speaker 2: eighteen album Rifles and Rosary Beats was co written with
- 0:56Speaker 2: military veterans in their families. Join me as we dive
- 1:01Speaker 2: into her story today.
- 1:08Speaker 1: Welcome to Taking a Walk Nashville with your hosts singer
- 1:11Speaker 1: songwriter Sarah Harrelson.
- 1:13Speaker 2: Mary, thank you so much for being on Taking a
- 1:16Speaker 2: Walk Nashville today. So your roots run from Louisiana to Boston,
- 1:23Speaker 2: and you attended culinary school in Boston. Were you already
- 1:28Speaker 2: writing music at this time when you were in culinary
- 1:31Speaker 2: school or was Dixie Kitchen the name of the restaurant,
- 1:36Speaker 2: and also your first album, Was that kind of the
- 1:38Speaker 2: turning point for you to start your career in music.
- 1:42Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. I have a really unusual story in
- 1:47Speaker 3: terms of music business. Anyway, I was in the restaurant
- 1:51Speaker 3: business in Boston. I'm from Louisiana, and I made a
- 1:55Speaker 3: decision to go to chef school in the Boston area
- 1:58Speaker 3: to to get trained. I'd always worked in restaurants, but
- 2:02Speaker 3: I didn't have the culinary expertise I needed to be
- 2:05Speaker 3: a chef. I was more of a manager. So I
- 2:08Speaker 3: went to chef school and the lead chef and the
- 2:11Speaker 3: chef school told me that what I had to do
- 2:15Speaker 3: was follow my heart. And what I had in my heart,
- 2:18Speaker 3: he said, was Louisiana. So we found investors and ended
- 2:23Speaker 3: up with a Cajun style restaurant in Boston. And that
- 2:26Speaker 3: was nineteen ninety and so the Cajun style restaurant we
- 2:32Speaker 3: called Dixie Kitchen after the Little Feet song Dixie Chicken.
- 2:37Speaker 3: Loel George was a hero of mine and I loved
- 2:40Speaker 3: the Little Feet and that song came on when I
- 2:42Speaker 3: was trying to name the restaurant, and it's like, oh,
- 2:44Speaker 3: Dixie Chicken, Dixie Kitchen, And so we had a ten
- 2:49Speaker 3: year run with the Dixie Kitchen. After I graduated chef school,
- 2:54Speaker 3: well somewhere in there, I got sober. And after I
- 2:57Speaker 3: got sober, I started writing songs, and so I had
- 3:01Speaker 3: the restaurant before I ever became a songwriter. Uh. And
- 3:04Speaker 3: in the process of running and cooking at the restaurant,
- 3:09Speaker 3: I started going to open mics. I had a lot
- 3:10Speaker 3: of time on my hands having gotten sober, and I
- 3:14Speaker 3: fell passionately in love with music and songwriting. And I
- 3:18Speaker 3: mean I already was, but until I got sober, I
- 3:20Speaker 3: wasn't capable of writing songs. Writing songs for me takes
- 3:25Speaker 3: a quite a bit of focus, attention, and commitment, and
- 3:31Speaker 3: I was just a I could run a restaurant, but
- 3:33Speaker 3: I couldn't write a song. It's a if you ever
- 3:37Speaker 3: watched Anthony Bourdain, you could see how drunks and addicts
- 3:40Speaker 3: can run restaurants, but men, look, it's harder to focus
- 3:44Speaker 3: for long periods of time on on on mental work
- 3:48Speaker 3: like restaurants become physical work pretty quickly. Anyway, long story, short,
- 3:53Speaker 3: I became more in love with music and song than
- 3:56Speaker 3: then Jambalai and gumbo U. And so in two thousand
- 4:00Speaker 3: and one, I came to Nashville and I decided to
- 4:05Speaker 3: take a leap. I was forty years old, and that's
- 4:08Speaker 3: what makes my story unusual. Who starts at forty in music? Well,
- 4:12Speaker 3: I did, and you know what, I'm sixty four now.
- 4:15Speaker 3: I've been in Nashville since two thousand and one. I've
- 4:18Speaker 3: made a living making music since the day I got here.
- 4:22Speaker 3: I continue to and it's just been a real good
- 4:25Speaker 3: decision for me to commit full time, full on to
- 4:28Speaker 3: being a songwriter.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Well, and it takes so much time to run a
- 4:33Speaker 2: restaurant that it would be hard to focus on music
- 4:35Speaker 2: at the same time. I do still do a lot
- 4:39Speaker 2: of cooking today, or is it just something you do
- 4:42Speaker 2: for fun?
- 4:43Speaker 3: Nope, I don't really mess with it. I sort of
- 4:47Speaker 3: put it down and left it down. I mean, I
- 4:50Speaker 3: can do a dinner party, I can do basic stuff
- 4:53Speaker 3: around that kitchen, but I don't really have the passion
- 4:58Speaker 3: for it like I once did. And so I'm a
- 5:02Speaker 3: competent cook. I'm able to pull something together successfully, but
- 5:08Speaker 3: I don't really love it. And so I have my
- 5:11Speaker 3: favorite places I go to around town. We go out
- 5:13Speaker 3: to eat all the time, like we're spoiled in that way.
- 5:16Speaker 2: What are your favorite restaurants in Nashville?
- 5:19Speaker 3: Well, I, first of all like not to have to
- 5:21Speaker 3: fight parking, So let's start with Nashville has become a
- 5:25Speaker 3: major metropolitan area, and parking has become a major headache
- 5:30Speaker 3: like every other major metropolitan area. If the parking costs
- 5:33Speaker 3: more than the dinner, what are we doing? So I
- 5:37Speaker 3: like places that it's on the outskirts able to park
- 5:41Speaker 3: that tend to be I fancy restaurants that are owner operated,
- 5:46Speaker 3: where there's someone in the kitchen or in the dining
- 5:48Speaker 3: room that has their eyes on all things that owns
- 5:51Speaker 3: the place, and that those places tend to obviously not
- 5:55Speaker 3: be corporate, and they have something that I am drawn
- 5:59Speaker 3: to as a a former restaurant tour which is someone
- 6:03Speaker 3: who really loves their attachment to what they their hands
- 6:07Speaker 3: and their heart and the work is reflected in the restaurant.
- 6:11Speaker 3: So the places I tend to go to are like that.
- 6:15Speaker 3: My favorite of favorites is Margo's on the East Side.
- 6:19Speaker 3: There's a Gilly wasn't Dave Rowlins on a studio right
- 6:22Speaker 3: next to Margo's, a woodland studio, and in the studio
- 6:27Speaker 3: parking lot you spend like eight ten bucks and you
- 6:30Speaker 3: can get a parking spot easily. Just walk to Margos,
- 6:34Speaker 3: have a long, full meal. And she's always been an
- 6:38Speaker 3: extraordinary chef, and she's announced her retirement this summer. I
- 6:42Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know what's Nashville about Margo's for me,
- 6:44Speaker 3: I'm not sure.
- 6:46Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so many good restaurants and Nashtau including that one.
- 6:49Speaker 2: A lot of good casiun style restaurants here too. There's
- 6:52Speaker 2: voodoo gumbo I love over here in Belleville. But going
- 6:57Speaker 2: back to music, you know, you've received many awards for
- 7:00Speaker 2: your own music, have had many other artists cut your songs.
- 7:04Speaker 2: But did you ever think your music would take you
- 7:08Speaker 2: down this path or was music for you merely saving
- 7:13Speaker 2: you on your journey with sobriety.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Well it's interesting because I started later. I had no
- 7:22Speaker 3: idea if I could pull this off, when this would
- 7:25Speaker 3: be one one hell of a hat trick, If I
- 7:27Speaker 3: could start at forty, come to Nashville openly gay back
- 7:31Speaker 3: then was not exactly a career move in Nashville. When
- 7:36Speaker 3: I came here, they called this town the buckle of
- 7:38Speaker 3: the Bible Belt, and so I knew I had some
- 7:42Speaker 3: obstacles age and and and also being openly gay my
- 7:47Speaker 3: whole life. There was no closet big enough for this,
- 7:50Speaker 3: So I had to I had to overcome what I
- 7:53Speaker 3: think were obstacles, which which which turned out to not
- 7:58Speaker 3: be such a big deal. What I learned quickly about Nashville. Nashville,
- 8:02Speaker 3: if you have the songs, they let you in. So unfortunately,
- 8:06Speaker 3: I had some songs that opened doors and that allowed
- 8:10Speaker 3: me an opportunity to be invited in. And once I
- 8:15Speaker 3: got in, I was able to make the most of
- 8:17Speaker 3: the connections I made. And I think that's because of
- 8:20Speaker 3: my age and business experience that worked to my advant
- 8:24Speaker 3: My age worked to my advantage. And I think my
- 8:27Speaker 3: sexuality has very little or nothing to do with my music.
- 8:33Speaker 3: You know, I don't make music about sex. I make
- 8:35Speaker 3: music about the human heart, and it jumps over all
- 8:39Speaker 3: those things that we think divide us, they actually are
- 8:43Speaker 3: false constructs. Nobody has ever, I think, blocked me because
- 8:48Speaker 3: of who I am in Nashville. I think I've been
- 8:51Speaker 3: given opportunities based on my work and that that feels
- 8:54Speaker 3: fair to me. And so yeah, I came here with
- 8:57Speaker 3: some songs that that that helped me get in.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure it's been so healing too, just being
- 9:06Speaker 2: able to write about your experiences with getting sober, being
- 9:11Speaker 2: openly gay, even just being maybe a female in the
- 9:15Speaker 2: music industry.
- 9:17Speaker 3: I always tell people that if I were pressed to
- 9:22Speaker 3: ask the real mountain to climb, it's not being gay,
- 9:28Speaker 3: it's being a woman. It's a very male oriented business,
- 9:32Speaker 3: and it's a very male dominated business, especially in Nashville.
- 9:37Speaker 3: But for me, music and song, as you have referenced
- 9:39Speaker 3: a couple of times now, have been more about healing,
- 9:43Speaker 3: about truth and beauty, about creating art over hits and commerce.
- 9:48Speaker 3: And because I'm focused on the art of song, I
- 9:52Speaker 3: have a different career than what you would think of
- 9:54Speaker 3: as a Nashville type career. I'm a troubadour. I traveled
- 9:58Speaker 3: the world with a guitar, a spotlight, and a bottle
- 10:01Speaker 3: of water, and I have stories and I tell them
- 10:04Speaker 3: and people connect to those stories, not in large numbers,
- 10:07Speaker 3: but in numbers large enough for me to not have
- 10:09Speaker 3: to do anything but that I've I've found music and
- 10:15Speaker 3: song to be very healing from me personally. But then
- 10:18Speaker 3: when you put it in the world with that as
- 10:20Speaker 3: your mission statement, it does things that other people appreciate
- 10:24Speaker 3: other than just entertainment. And so that's been my mission
- 10:29Speaker 3: and it's I think it's been a great source of
- 10:32Speaker 3: my success is that I'm not aiming for a marketplace
- 10:36Speaker 3: that's hit strict, that's hit driven. I'm a storyteller, and
- 10:40Speaker 3: if you can write and tell a good story, people
- 10:42Speaker 3: love stories. You know. We're just in the desert in
- 10:46Speaker 3: West Texas, in a old silver mining town and it's
- 10:49Speaker 3: just a bunch of cowboys and you know, mice and
- 10:52Speaker 3: rattlesnakes and we saw it tarantula and a lot of dust,
- 10:56Speaker 3: and you know, this is a remote, remote place to Linguo, Texas.
- 11:02Speaker 3: And I'm in this old theater that used to not
- 11:05Speaker 3: have a roof, called the Starlight Theater. It's half restaurant,
- 11:09Speaker 3: half bar. We're playing in the bar, and I watch
- 11:12Speaker 3: these cowboys like tough guys, these guys living out in
- 11:15Speaker 3: the elements. Once the stories I start telling the stories,
- 11:19Speaker 3: you can just see people almost become children listening to stories.
- 11:23Speaker 3: Stories captivate people. A story well, toad acrosses all boundaries
- 11:29Speaker 3: and I just know and believe in the magic of
- 11:31Speaker 3: good stories.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely agree with that, and I think that's
- 11:35Speaker 2: the key is to write songs that are not only
- 11:40Speaker 2: about your own experiences, but ones that other people can
- 11:44Speaker 2: relate to. And you definitely do that with blending genres
- 11:47Speaker 2: like country, Americana and folk.
- 11:51Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more of the Taking a
- 11:53Speaker 1: Walk Nashville Podcast. Welcome back to Take in a Walk Nashville.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Your twenty eighteen Grammy nominated album Rifles and Rosary Beads
- 12:07Speaker 2: that was co written with US veterans and their families,
- 12:11Speaker 2: arising out of your involvement with the organization Songwriting with Soldiers,
- 12:16Speaker 2: And you noted that every day, on average, twenty two
- 12:19Speaker 2: veterans commits suicide and a portion from this album benefits
- 12:24Speaker 2: this wonderful organization and how to be healing for the
- 12:28Speaker 2: veterans to be able to put their experiences and their
- 12:32Speaker 2: trauma into music. So how did you get involved with
- 12:36Speaker 2: Songwriting with Soldiers.
- 12:38Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's a nonprofit that was started by
- 12:42Speaker 3: a dear friend of mine named Darden Smith. He stumbled
- 12:45Speaker 3: on this opportunity to co write a song with someone
- 12:49Speaker 3: who was in the military, and he realized, Wow, there's
- 12:53Speaker 3: something here that feels powerful, these things that we find
- 12:59Speaker 3: each other connecting on. He thought he had nothing in
- 13:02Speaker 3: common with the soldier, with someone in the military, and
- 13:07Speaker 3: he found he had everything in common. And so that
- 13:10Speaker 3: was an illuminating moment for the songwriter. And so the
- 13:15Speaker 3: songs that we write with the veterans help us as
- 13:19Speaker 3: much as them. Really, we just find each other there.
- 13:22Speaker 3: And yeah, the the process is one of really truly
- 13:28Speaker 3: listening and connecting. And I would like to just sort
- 13:31Speaker 3: of put a fine point on the word healing. It
- 13:34Speaker 3: gets tossed around a lot, to the point of almost meaninglessness.
- 13:39Speaker 3: So I try not to say healing because it sounds slippery,
- 13:45Speaker 3: and I think of the process more as alchemy. A
- 13:50Speaker 3: song can take your darkest moment, the hardest thing you've
- 13:54Speaker 3: ever gone through, and turn it into something beautiful and
- 13:59Speaker 3: useful in the world. And that type of transformation is magic.
- 14:05Speaker 3: I mean, everybody knows that when you listen to the blues,
- 14:08Speaker 3: you feel better. That is a paradox. Why listening into sad,
- 14:13Speaker 3: slow songs about misery, why would that make me feel better? Well,
- 14:17Speaker 3: let's start with one. You know you're not alone. Two,
- 14:22Speaker 3: there is something about being seen, heard, and known in
- 14:25Speaker 3: a song that is a relief. So alchemy is a
- 14:31Speaker 3: magic that the arts can bring to people who are
- 14:35Speaker 3: dealing with heavy loads and trauma. And I love the
- 14:40Speaker 3: alchemy of songwriting. I teach a lot of songwriting now,
- 14:45Speaker 3: and what I find is that if we write about
- 14:49Speaker 3: personal stuff, we're only gonna have so far over reach.
- 14:54Speaker 3: If we write about deeply personal stuff, we hit what
- 14:58Speaker 3: is I think of the human experience that transcends the personal,
- 15:04Speaker 3: and this is where we find each other in the
- 15:06Speaker 3: stuff that's deeply personal that we tend to keep a
- 15:11Speaker 3: lid on because we don't know if it's something we
- 15:16Speaker 3: should even talk about. It's awkward, it's not something you
- 15:20Speaker 3: bring up at a dinner party or a barroom conversation.
- 15:25Speaker 3: But in a song, this is the appropriate place to
- 15:28Speaker 3: do it. And it transcends the self. It hits the
- 15:31Speaker 3: human condition, and that's where we meet and find each other,
- 15:34Speaker 3: and that's where we start to alchemize things and transformation
- 15:38Speaker 3: is possible.
- 15:39Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I love that you bring that up. And
- 15:42Speaker 2: you know, when you're co writing with professional songwriters, you
- 15:45Speaker 2: get into a habit of opening up to each other.
- 15:48Speaker 2: But when you're co writing with veterans who maybe have
- 15:51Speaker 2: never written a song before, maybe it's hard with their
- 15:55Speaker 2: past experience to deeply open up. So did you find
- 16:00Speaker 2: that maybe it was hard to dig deep with them?
- 16:03Speaker 2: And what was your experience like putting their story into
- 16:08Speaker 2: lyrics and music.
- 16:10Speaker 3: It wasn't hard at all. And here's here's why the
- 16:13Speaker 3: songwriter in that scenario shows up as a midwife. We're
- 16:19Speaker 3: there to bear witness and and to patiently sit and listen.
- 16:25Speaker 3: And if you've ever really been listened to, I mean
- 16:29Speaker 3: people pay therapist two hundred dollars an hour to listen intensely,
- 16:34Speaker 3: if you've ever really truly deeply been listened to by
- 16:38Speaker 3: someone who's in non judgment of whatever they say is okay.
- 16:43Speaker 3: There there is no morality clause in songwriting. We're there
- 16:47Speaker 3: to listen, bear witness, and take what we hear and
- 16:51Speaker 3: turn it into melody and poetry and song. So so
- 16:57Speaker 3: they open up because the song opens them up. We
- 17:03Speaker 3: play start to play back what we hear them saying.
- 17:06Speaker 3: It's a mirror and the songwriter's job is to not
- 17:09Speaker 3: insert self. We know nothing, absolutely nothing about them or
- 17:15Speaker 3: about military service. So We're not gonna apply our own
- 17:18Speaker 3: experience to that. We're gonna take their experience and just
- 17:22Speaker 3: ask gentle questions so that we can better understand them
- 17:26Speaker 3: and write a better song. When you're truly witnessed and
- 17:29Speaker 3: heard and you know you're not judged, you'll talk maybe
- 17:32Speaker 3: not about feelings, but about experience, and the feelings will
- 17:36Speaker 3: come from the story of the experience. We don't need
- 17:38Speaker 3: to talk about feelings. We need to show and tell
- 17:42Speaker 3: the story. The feelings are a result of this story.
- 17:47Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure so beautiful being for them to be
- 17:50Speaker 2: able to hear their story come into life and something
- 17:54Speaker 2: they can listen to and have forever.
- 17:57Speaker 3: And it absolutely and it is a universal experience. That's
- 18:03Speaker 3: where the alchemy comes when they realize that their story
- 18:07Speaker 3: is not just theirs, it is a universal experience of
- 18:12Speaker 3: human beings who have been through what they've been through.
- 18:14Speaker 3: This is what happens, and this is how people feel
- 18:17Speaker 3: in that situation. That it de personalizes it, it universalizes it.
- 18:23Speaker 3: And they realize really quickly that telling their story in
- 18:26Speaker 3: their song helps other veterans, which is huge for them,
- 18:31Speaker 3: because our veterans here in this country are volunteers, they're
- 18:35Speaker 3: not drafted, and these people are fundamentally and intrinsically built
- 18:39Speaker 3: to serve. They want to serve, and if telling their
- 18:42Speaker 3: story is serving other veterans, they become much more willing
- 18:45Speaker 3: to do so. And it is serving other veterans. They
- 18:49Speaker 3: see themselves in these songs, and they know they're not alone.
- 18:51Speaker 3: This is the power of music and song.
- 18:54Speaker 2: Absolutely, that's so beautiful and such an important cause. In
- 18:59Speaker 2: addition to being an artist and songwriter, you are also
- 19:02Speaker 2: an author publishing your book Saved by a Song the
- 19:06Speaker 2: art and healing power of songwriting. I think this book
- 19:10Speaker 2: is for anyone who loves music or maybe they're going
- 19:13Speaker 2: through recovery themselves. So was it cathartic for you to
- 19:17Speaker 2: write about your story and book form and share it
- 19:20Speaker 2: with the world.
- 19:22Speaker 3: Maybe? I think more it was an organizing principle. After
- 19:28Speaker 3: teaching for decades and working with veterans for for ten
- 19:32Speaker 3: twelve years, I had a lot of experiences that taught
- 19:40Speaker 3: me things. So I learned a lot and maintaining sobriety
- 19:46Speaker 3: and recovery now for many, many decades, I've learned a lot.
- 19:51Speaker 3: And so the book is an organ you organize your
- 19:55Speaker 3: your understandings when you write a book, and so it
- 19:59Speaker 3: allowed me to to sort of go, oh, I see
- 20:02Speaker 3: this happened, led to this, led to this, which is
- 20:05Speaker 3: how I ended up here, which is where I wanted
- 20:07Speaker 3: to be all along. But I wouldn't have gotten here
- 20:09Speaker 3: without this and this. Writing your story helps you understand
- 20:13Speaker 3: your story, and I think it helps you to make
- 20:15Speaker 3: sense of who you are. So Catharsis is not exactly
- 20:22Speaker 3: the experience. Catharsis is more more from songs. I think
- 20:25Speaker 3: a book is an organizing principle in him, and I
- 20:28Speaker 3: think it's also an ambassador. My book is an ambassador
- 20:32Speaker 3: for me. It comes in before me, introduces me to people,
- 20:35Speaker 3: so they feel they already know me if they've read
- 20:37Speaker 3: the book, because they know what I know about me,
- 20:41Speaker 3: and also my understanding. The book is really about my
- 20:43Speaker 3: understanding of art ands and particularly song is a transformative
- 20:48Speaker 3: medium that's wonderful.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Where can people find this book?
- 20:52Speaker 3: Everywhere? You can get it anywhere you just Google saved
- 20:57Speaker 3: by a song. I have them on my way site
- 21:01Speaker 3: there Amazon, It's on Audible. Uh. The the book I
- 21:05Speaker 3: think is included if you have a Spotify account, you
- 21:08Speaker 3: can listen to it through Audible. These uh, you know
- 21:13Speaker 3: there there is a hundred ways to get the book,
- 21:18Speaker 3: or there are one hundred ways to get the book
- 21:19Speaker 3: if you just google it. It's everywhere.
- 21:21Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hope people will go check it out.
- 21:23Speaker 2: And this year you have a busy tour schedule with
- 21:27Speaker 2: your partner Jamie Harris, who is also going to be
- 21:30Speaker 2: on Taking a Walk Nashville. Are you excited to keep
- 21:34Speaker 2: performing together this year?
- 21:35Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I can't wait to get it going again.
- 21:39Speaker 3: We've taken about five weeks off over the holidays. I'm
- 21:41Speaker 3: ready to. I'm ready to. We played in the Desert,
- 21:45Speaker 3: but that was one of I'm ready to be on
- 21:47Speaker 3: the road again. I like. I like my job a lot.
- 21:50Speaker 3: I like having Jamie with me. We we play and
- 21:54Speaker 3: sing together, and she'd also starts the shows with with
- 21:57Speaker 3: her own songs. It's it's a real privilege and blessing
- 22:01Speaker 3: to have a partner to travel with. UH. And we
- 22:05Speaker 3: do great out there, and we have a lot of fun.
- 22:08Speaker 3: We meet a lot of people and we see the world.
- 22:10Speaker 3: It's it's a it's such a I don't know, it's
- 22:15Speaker 3: a it's a dream come true. And and I couldn't
- 22:18Speaker 3: have imagined how good. Uh, this this would be. You know,
- 22:23Speaker 3: when I started all those years ago, I was just
- 22:25Speaker 3: hoping against hope that I could could pull this off
- 22:29Speaker 3: in a way that I didn't have to get another job.
- 22:31Speaker 3: I didn't I didn't have big, huge, massive dreams of
- 22:38Speaker 3: of of giant you know, success, and and and it's
- 22:43Speaker 3: gotten much bigger than I ever imagined it could. And
- 22:45Speaker 3: and I'm just deeply grateful that we get to keep going.
- 22:49Speaker 2: That's wonderful. Yeah, people can find all of your upcoming
- 22:52Speaker 2: show and tour dates on your website to see if
- 22:55Speaker 2: they're if you're playing in their area. Mary. My last
- 23:00Speaker 2: question I always love to ask my guests this, since
- 23:03Speaker 2: we're on taking a walk Nashville, do you have a
- 23:06Speaker 2: favorite place that you love to take a walk in Nashville.
- 23:11Speaker 3: Well, I tend to go to Warner Park. That is
- 23:17Speaker 3: a series of parks that were donated to the city
- 23:21Speaker 3: a century ago, I guess. And there's a Red Trail
- 23:25Speaker 3: which is four and a half miles deep into the woods,
- 23:28Speaker 3: quite hilly, always hard, and never an easy hike, but wow,
- 23:32Speaker 3: after you do it, you've done some aerobic hiking in
- 23:37Speaker 3: the deep woods. And it's twenty minutes from my house.
- 23:40Speaker 3: Maybe less with traffic, maybe fifteen with no traffic, I mean.
- 23:44Speaker 3: And then there's the White Trail at Warner Park that
- 23:47Speaker 3: you can get at the end of Bellemead Boulevard. You
- 23:49Speaker 3: just go on down. You see a flag pole of
- 23:51Speaker 3: American Flag Park and that's the White Trail. And the
- 23:54Speaker 3: White Trail is two and a half miles much less challenging,
- 23:58Speaker 3: but it's also hilly and uh, you know, might even
- 24:01Speaker 3: go there today. Uh, it's a beautiful walk in the
- 24:05Speaker 3: woods and it's very removed from development. So there's owls
- 24:10Speaker 3: and I'm stepping over snakes and there's just beautiful. Every
- 24:15Speaker 3: single day the forest changes and so there's there's a
- 24:19Speaker 3: nature that is untouched very close to the city. We're
- 24:23Speaker 3: very lucky to have Warner part that's my favorite hikes.
- 24:26Speaker 2: Yeah, those are absolutely two of my favorite trails. And
- 24:29Speaker 2: like you said, when the seasons changed, the trail even
- 24:32Speaker 2: looks different even if you've done it a few times.
- 24:35Speaker 2: But yeah, that that Red Trail. Once you get to
- 24:38Speaker 2: the end, you're tired of the hill. So it's great exercise, it's.
- 24:42Speaker 3: A real hike, and and it's got it it's got
- 24:47Speaker 3: such changing scenery as you go it's anything but boring.
- 24:51Speaker 3: I love it, but you do have to watch out,
- 24:53Speaker 3: especially in the spring. There are timber rattlesnakes out there.
- 24:56Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 24:56Speaker 3: I've come up on one once, what that was rattling.
- 25:00Speaker 3: And I've come up on one that was on the
- 25:03Speaker 3: trail as well, So you've got to keep it's smart
- 25:07Speaker 3: not to wear earbuds because the snake's when they rattle,
- 25:10Speaker 3: say hey, I don't want to hurt you, right the
- 25:14Speaker 3: hell away from me. You've got to be able to
- 25:16Speaker 3: hear them, especially in the spring as they're coming out
- 25:18Speaker 3: of their sleep. But you know, if you're aware, it's
- 25:22Speaker 3: a beautiful, beautiful place.
- 25:24Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. You always one of my favorites and
- 25:27Speaker 2: the popular answer here on the podcast. Well, Mary, thank
- 25:30Speaker 2: you so much for being on Taking a Walk Nashville today.
- 25:34Speaker 2: I hope everyone will check out your music and books,
- 25:37Speaker 2: and I've appreciated having you on today.
- 25:40Speaker 3: It's nice speaking with you, Sarah, but thanks for having me.
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