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- 0:00S1: Broadcasting from Chicago, across North America and beyond. It's Carl
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- 0:26S3: Our own way never ever works. Because it's apart from
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- 0:32S4: For me, growing up, love was always conditional and can
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- 0:44S1: Now from the call of Hope Studios, this is Carl
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- 0:49S5: Oh my goodness. Almost forgot about it. And I don't
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- 1:02S5: That is amazing. Let me set it up this way. Uh,
- 1:05S5: I'm pastor of a church here in Chicagoland called 180 Chicago,
- 1:10S5: and we opened a new campus in an area called
- 1:12S5: Rolling Meadows. And we had our first evening of prayer.
- 1:17S5: And it's a beautiful thing when you've got a third
- 1:20S5: of your church that shows up for prayer. That is
- 1:23S5: a beautiful thing. We had the most amazing time. It was,
- 1:29S5: I sensed the presence of God in a very significant way.
- 1:35S5: We sense protection and there's been some downstream impact already
- 1:40S5: from that night that too much to get into right now.
- 1:43S5: But just I'll just tell you this prayer gets your
- 1:46S5: life aligned with God and prayer moves the hand of God. Now,
- 1:51S5: with that as a backdrop, I have learned something and
- 1:54S5: I have to relearn it because it's easy to think
- 1:57S5: we got this? No we don't. We've got this thing
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- 3:13S5: Prayer is both talking with God and we're going to
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- 6:11S5: so I got asked one time, how do you really feel, Carl?
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- 6:16S5: in a few minutes, I found out how I really felt,
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- 8:15S5: All right, so I got a question for you. We're
- 8:17S5: talking emotions all week long. Here's the question. What emotion
- 8:20S5: were you really good at hiding from everybody else? Just
- 8:23S5: think about that a second. What emotion were you really
- 8:27S5: good at hiding from everyone. So I went through a
- 8:35S5: difficult season in my life, my bride and I did.
- 8:39S5: It's been a number of years ago now, but, you know,
- 8:42S5: some things are so indelibly etched in your heart and
- 8:45S5: mind that you'll never forget about them. We found ourselves
- 8:48S5: at a phenomenal location with some great people that were
- 8:52S5: providing some dynamite, biblical counsel for a betrayal and a
- 8:57S5: season of life that we were going through that just
- 9:00S5: rocked our world, rocked us. And guys, when I say
- 9:03S5: rocked us, I mean rocked us. So a guy invited
- 9:08S5: me to an evening session with a group of other men.
- 9:12S5: He says, I want you to come to this thing.
- 9:15S5: I said, all right, what's it all about? Just a
- 9:17S5: bunch of guys that have gone through it. And what
- 9:20S5: what we're assembled here at this place were missionaries that
- 9:23S5: were coming off the field who were just either burned out,
- 9:26S5: wiped out, gone through something tough, pastors in the same situation, spouses.
- 9:32S5: So I'm like, all right, well, what's this going to be? Because,
- 9:34S5: you know, I'm that personality. I'd like to know what
- 9:36S5: in the world I'm walking into. He says, you know,
- 9:40S5: just a group of guys. We're going to be talking
- 9:42S5: about different emotions that we have and what God can
- 9:45S5: do about it. I'm like, oh boy, talking about different emotions.
- 9:48S5: I don't know, that's that's not my spiritual gift to
- 9:52S5: talk about different emotions. So he said, no, I really
- 9:55S5: like to have you come. Well, I get there and
- 9:58S5: the room has a circle of chairs around this kind
- 10:03S5: of leather mat in the center of it, and the
- 10:08S5: chairs are real tight together, and everybody's starting to get
- 10:11S5: into these chairs and on this mat are it's a,
- 10:14S5: it's a feeling wheel. And I'm like, oh, no.
- 10:19S4: He wanted to tap out, didn't you?
- 10:20S5: Yeah. And I'm like, you know, get out of here.
- 10:22S5: So they hand everybody a rock, little rock. And they
- 10:30S5: start going around. And this is one of these kind
- 10:35S5: of interactions where they go around the circle and then
- 10:39S5: the next person, the next person. And so it's coming
- 10:42S5: to me and I'm like, oh, boy. And these guys
- 10:48S5: were so honest and vulnerable. It started spurring me on
- 10:51S5: a little bit, but I hadn't really felt what I
- 10:54S5: needed to feel yet, but came to me and leader
- 10:59S5: Paul said, Carl, how about you, man? Where are you
- 11:01S5: at on this thing? And by this time, it's not
- 11:03S5: just been these guys sharing where their rock was landing
- 11:07S5: on this feeling whale, but it was also sharing the backstory.
- 11:10S5: And I'm like, oh God, I don't want to give
- 11:12S5: the backstory on this thing. So I reach out and
- 11:16S5: by faith, I put my rock on the word called sad.
- 11:21S5: And the minute I put the rock on the word
- 11:23S5: called sad, I started to cry. And I couldn't stop crying.
- 11:29S5: And I'm like, oh, this is the worst possible thing.
- 11:31S5: I don't even know these guys. And they didn't know
- 11:34S5: each other as well. We were all, they're kind of
- 11:36S5: new to one another. And I gotta tell you, it
- 11:39S5: was one of the best things going. It was awesome.
- 11:46S5: Not because I stayed there, but because I had someone
- 11:49S5: to share it with and a bunch of men who
- 11:52S5: are going. That's okay, man. That's all right. And I'm like, uh, yeah.
- 11:56S5: And I'm saying things like, I'm really sorry, guys. And
- 11:59S5: they're going, oh, don't you worry about that, man. We
- 12:03S5: had guys that put rocks on anger, rage, sadness, grief.
- 12:10S5: So I get a question for you and I'm looking
- 12:14S5: for phone calls on this one today. What emotion were
- 12:18S5: you really good at? Hiding from everybody else? But then
- 12:21S5: God changed that. And it's not that you go around saying,
- 12:26S5: I'm mad, I'm sad, but it was an emotion that
- 12:32S5: you hid from people and you found the benefit of
- 12:35S5: sharing even emotions that aren't great and it's been good
- 12:40S5: for you. I want you to give me a call.
- 12:44S5: You used to be really good at hiding this emotion
- 12:47S5: from everybody else, but now you're sharing it when it happens.
- 12:51S5: Maybe with the small group, not with a large group
- 12:54S5: of people. You don't stand up in an auditorium going, hey, I'm.
- 12:57S5: I'm mad, but you're getting a breakthrough and God is
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- 13:33S1: Take your next step with Jesus Today you're listening to
- 13:38S1: Carl and crew.
- 13:39S5: Yeah, we're talking emotions all week long. And here's the reality.
- 13:44S5: This and this is. This is very important to understand.
- 13:52S5: I think getting in touch with what's really inside you,
- 13:56S5: the emotions that you have. And I know this could
- 13:58S5: sound crazy coming from a guy who's run the Iditarod
- 14:01S5: in Alaska, born in Alaska, you know, outdoorsman, all that
- 14:04S5: kind of stuff. I get that, but I think there
- 14:07S5: is massive value in coming to grips with emotions and
- 14:11S5: not hiding it from everybody so that we can bear
- 14:14S5: one another's burdens. I got a question for you. What
- 14:17S5: emotion were you were past tense, really good at hiding
- 14:20S5: from everybody else, and God showed you the power of
- 14:23S5: sharing it with people. Roger. First time caller in Cleveland, Ohio.
- 14:28S5: What do you say, Roger? Morning. Good morning. You're on air, buddy.
- 14:36S6: Okay. I had fear for the longest time.
- 14:42S5: What was it like when you were able to share
- 14:45S5: that with someone else? My man.
- 14:48S6: It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Exposing
- 14:53S6: myself to loved ones and friends that I was just
- 14:57S6: afraid the whole time.
- 14:59S5: Yeah. You know.
- 14:59S6: That's. I didn't have to pretend to be the, uh,
- 15:04S6: the big, secure, tough guy that I wanted everyone to
- 15:08S6: think I was. We got a two. Was vulnerable and
- 15:12S6: had feelings.
- 15:14S5: Sorry to walk on you there, Roger. We got a
- 15:16S5: tough guy. Uh, kind of thing that we learned in
- 15:19S5: the locker room and in the halls of high school
- 15:22S5: and even growing up. Real men don't cry. Tough guy.
- 15:26S5: Real men don't have fear. But, Roger, that's really cool, man.
- 15:30S5: I appreciate you calling in today. First time caller from Cleveland, Ohio.
- 15:34S5: That's why we call you the boom crew. Some of
- 15:37S5: you men feel like. Yeah, I can't let anyone see
- 15:39S5: my emotions. But when someone can shoulder it with you,
- 15:42S5: look out. Let's go to Lou Cleveland, Ohio. What do
- 15:45S5: you say, Lou?
- 15:47S7: I say fear and sadness. I was raised in a
- 15:51S7: very rough environment. I'll put it that way. Um, and
- 15:55S7: was taught that you don't cry over anything ever. And, um, my, uh,
- 16:01S7: salvation was. I'm sorry not to cry for everything. Um,
- 16:07S7: my salvation was a miracle. It was like a Saul
- 16:10S7: Paul conversion. And even then, I still had a lot
- 16:14S7: of things to work through. And then one day I
- 16:17S7: was in church and the message just hit me. And
- 16:21S7: I started to cry. And I cried for three years.
- 16:26S7: And in that three years, I was healed. And a
- 16:29S7: lot of people around me were healed because I was
- 16:31S7: able to share what the Lord was doing in my
- 16:34S7: heart and how he was healing me and how he
- 16:37S7: could heal them too.
- 16:38S8: That's beautiful. Lou.
- 16:40S5: That is beautiful, Lou. Way to go. Cleveland, Ohio. That's
- 16:43S5: why we call you the boom crew. Right there, guys. Alfredo.
- 16:47S5: First time caller at Task Illinois. What do you say, Alfredo?
- 16:51S9: Hey, pastor Carl, thanks for taking my call. Um, yeah,
- 16:56S9: so I would say my feeling that I've been wrestling
- 16:58S9: with probably my whole life is, uh, a sense of worthlessness.
- 17:03S9: And I grew up in a home with great parents,
- 17:06S9: but we were taught to perform and, you know, to
- 17:10S9: mask that feeling of worthlessness. I just learned to perform.
- 17:14S9: And it's led to success in my career, but just
- 17:16S9: an underlying feeling of, um, I've got to look a
- 17:20S9: certain way in order to project, you know, success and
- 17:23S9: having everything put together, right? So that's, that's the emotion
- 17:27S9: that I wrestled with my whole life. And I still
- 17:30S9: wrestle with daily. But now, through honesty and a group
- 17:33S9: of men that I connect with every Monday night and
- 17:36S9: I share where I'm at personally and, and, you know,
- 17:39S9: with my recovery and addiction. Um, I've, I've made great
- 17:43S9: strides in that area.
- 17:44S5: What do you say to a man, especially a man
- 17:47S5: listening right now who grew up with a sense of worthlessness?
- 17:50S5: What did it mean to you to get those words
- 17:53S5: off your lips to some brothers?
- 17:57S10: Uh, it means the world.
- 17:58S9: And and I do share some of that with my group,
- 18:03S9: but I think I share more of it in, in prayer. And,
- 18:07S9: you know, I hear those whispers as I'm praying about,
- 18:10S9: you know, these feelings. Um, I, I hear the Lord whisper,
- 18:14S9: you are enough and you are loved. And he loves
- 18:17S9: me for who I am right now. Right.
- 18:19S5: Amen. Alfredo, I want you to do something, man. Thank
- 18:22S5: you for calling in. Boom, brother. I want you to
- 18:24S5: go tell those brothers what you told me on air today.
- 18:27S5: And I think you're going to find them to rally
- 18:29S5: around you in a big way. Keep it up, Alfredo.
- 18:31S5: I love you taking your calls here. Good response. Blown
- 18:37S5: away by this. What's that emotion that you used to
- 18:39S5: hide from others? And now it's like, nah, man, I'm
- 18:42S5: going to get it out there. Mark in Wayne, new Jersey. Uh,
- 18:47S5: is that right? Good to have you with us here, Mark.
- 18:50S5: That is.
- 18:51S11: That is correct. Yeah. Uh, the emotion that I was, um,
- 18:55S11: hiding was emotion of shame. Um, I was abused as
- 19:00S11: a boy, and I had a lot of shame from that.
- 19:04S11: A lot of guilt. And that did not belong to me.
- 19:08S5: No it didn't.
- 19:09S11: There's no reason for me. And once I started sharing it,
- 19:14S11: once I came out and told somebody, it lifted the burden.
- 19:18S11: The truth came out that I was innocent. Yeah. That
- 19:23S11: the shame didn't belong to me.
- 19:24S8: Yeah.
- 19:25S11: And it And set me free. It changed my life.
- 19:27S11: I went through life being ashamed of everything I did
- 19:30S11: and everything I thought. And once it was confessed and
- 19:34S11: out there I was set free from it.
- 19:37S8: Yeah.
- 19:38S5: Mark, I gotta tell you, man, that is powerful. And here's,
- 19:43S5: here's the thing that you need to know. Satan will
- 19:47S5: do a tap dance on your mind by taking the
- 19:52S5: junk from the past that happened to you and assign
- 19:56S5: attribution on you that is not yours to carry. Right.
- 20:03S5: Super day. My goodness.
- 20:05S4: I'm almost in tears hearing some of this because I
- 20:08S4: could feel it and I understand it. And you're right.
- 20:11S4: I wish you almost say that statement one more time.
- 20:13S5: Well, I mean, Satan will attempt to, through accusation and deception,
- 20:18S5: attribute to you something that is not yours to carry
- 20:25S5: And that is critical to know. Great response here guys.
- 20:30S5: I don't know what emotion you're carrying. Some of you
- 20:33S5: are tough guys. And it's like yeah. Life's been disappointing.
- 20:40S5: Tell somebody man, you know if you keep that thing
- 20:45S5: bottled up, I'm convinced of this. The incarnational reality of
- 20:52S5: Christ in other people is that Jesus works through the
- 20:58S5: lives of regenerate men and women around us who can
- 21:02S5: help us see what we can't see. That's the hope
- 21:07S5: and that's the reality. So we're going to be talking
- 21:11S5: emotions all week long. Are we going to be talking joy? Elation? Yeah,
- 21:16S5: we're going to be talking giddy. But we're also going
- 21:20S5: to be talking shame and pain And anguish and sadness
- 21:25S5: and anger. And what God can do about it. And
- 21:30S5: it is powerhouse. Till God and maybe one other right now.
- 21:34S5: What you're really feeling. And watch what God can do.
- 21:38S1: Your spiritual pit stop to keep you going in the race.
- 21:42S1: You're listening to Carl and crew.
- 21:45S5: Jim Coakley, professor here at Moody Bible Institute. Let's we've
- 21:50S5: got a couple of things to talk about. First is,
- 21:52S5: what are some emotions that we find in the scriptures,
- 21:55S5: my man, that are very real. A downcast soul for sure.
- 21:59S12: Oh, sure. I mean, we think about the I mean,
- 22:01S12: that's what we love about the Psalms. It really gets
- 22:04S12: the full range of emotions, the joy. Hallelujah. But then
- 22:08S12: we also get why are you in the pits? You know,
- 22:10S12: and so where are you, God? So that's why I
- 22:13S12: think the Psalms are great because they give voice to
- 22:15S12: our emotions. But I also think too, of the relational
- 22:19S12: aspect of emotions. the fruit of the spirit. You know,
- 22:22S12: if we're in right relationship with the Spirit of God,
- 22:25S12: we get certain emotions that get produced. And I like
- 22:28S12: to think of those fruit of the spirit as triads.
- 22:30S12: The first three love, joy, peace are when you're in
- 22:33S12: right relationship with God. Those things all just kind of
- 22:36S12: kind of ooze out. And then the next three when
- 22:39S12: you're in right relationship with others, and then when your
- 22:42S12: right relationship with yourself, the last three. And so it's
- 22:45S12: all about relational. And because we experience emotions in relationship
- 22:49S12: or because of relationships, and it's great to have the
- 22:52S12: Spirit of God energize those.
- 22:54S5: My goodness, I had not seen those triads before. That's fascinating.
- 23:00S12: Yeah. I mean, because, you know, fruit, it's got to
- 23:02S12: be attached, as you know very well. It's got to
- 23:05S12: be attached to the vine. And so if we're in
- 23:07S12: right relationship to the vine, here's the fruit that comes
- 23:10S12: as a result of that. We're in right relationship vertically.
- 23:13S12: We're in right relationship horizontally. And when right relationship internally.
- 23:16S8: Yeah.
- 23:17S5: That's really good. Yeah, emotions are real. And, you know,
- 23:21S5: I think one thing I want to say is a
- 23:23S5: lot of Christians try to spiritualize some emotions if you're sad.
- 23:27S5: I think you need to be sad and own it
- 23:30S5: rather than ignoring it because you want to invite God
- 23:33S5: into that moment, don't you? Jim?
- 23:35S12: Yeah. I mean, to me, that's why the Book of
- 23:37S12: job is such a wonderful because, you know, job goes
- 23:39S12: through the full gamut of emotions, including kind of shaking
- 23:42S12: his fist at God. How come you're not answering me, God.
- 23:45S12: And I love it that God can handle our questions.
- 23:49S12: And so even our deepest despair questions, he can handle that. Now,
- 23:52S12: he's not only going to answer them to our to
- 23:54S12: our liking, or not even at all. He's just going
- 23:57S12: to say simply trust. Were you there when I did this?
- 24:00S12: And all of a sudden you realize, okay, there is that, that,
- 24:03S12: that kind of thing of surrender. Yes, to the perfect
- 24:07S12: will and peace of God even in the midst of
- 24:09S12: the storm. So the picture of peace is not, you know,
- 24:12S12: kind of a tranquil scene. It's a, a dove and
- 24:15S12: a cliff of, of a storm in Iraq. And then
- 24:18S12: you see all the storms rage around you. If you
- 24:21S12: can have peace in those moments, you are really, really,
- 24:23S12: really blessed.
- 24:25S5: It's a beautiful thing. Nothing like the presence of God
- 24:28S5: in rehearsing that. Jim.
- 24:30S12: Yes. Yeah. The presence of God is really what again,
- 24:33S12: forms those those emotions, both positive ones. And then the
- 24:37S12: lack of God seemingly answering our questions results in a
- 24:41S12: lot of negative ones. But we can you know, I
- 24:45S12: like that phrase. Never doubt in the dark what you
- 24:48S12: learned in the light a man. And so, you know,
- 24:51S12: it's hard. We go through those dark times when we wonder, okay,
- 24:54S12: what's going on? But then when we realize, hey, you know,
- 24:57S12: you walk me through so many things before, why can't
- 24:59S12: I can't, why can't I trust you right now, in
- 25:01S12: the moment?
- 25:02S5: Yeah. It's really true. Okay. Coming up here, doctor Jim Coakley,
- 25:06S5: my guest right now, we've got a pop up opportunity
- 25:10S5: for you that's really cool. Won't apply to everyone, but
- 25:13S5: it will get all of us thinking about wow. Maybe
- 25:16S5: my perception of a certain place was wrong. Details coming up.
- 25:21S1: Your shot of hope to get you through the day.
- 25:24S4: You are so, so loved. God does not want you
- 25:27S4: to stay in your past, and I want you to
- 25:29S4: know and believe that today.
- 25:31S1: You're listening to Carl and crew.
- 25:33S5: When you think about Israel, there's a lot of emotions
- 25:36S5: that come our way. One is fear. The thought that,
- 25:39S5: oh my goodness, it's proximity in the Middle East and
- 25:43S5: the ire that it has of so many nations around it.
- 25:46S5: The amazing reality is that it could be one of
- 25:52S5: the safest places on earth, not just because of the
- 25:55S5: Iron Dome, but for a lot of reasons. Doctor Jim Coakley,
- 25:58S5: right now, professor of Bible at Moody Bible Institute and
- 26:02S5: by the way, awarded faculty citation in 2025 at Founder's Week.
- 26:07S5: Very respected man of God and a great tour guide
- 26:10S5: to Israel. Okay, what's going on? The perception of Israel
- 26:14S5: can be a bit flawed here, can't it? My friend?
- 26:16S12: Yeah, it sure is. I mean, certainly there is lots
- 26:18S12: of issues going on in the Middle East, a lot
- 26:20S12: going on there. But when you think about Israel, nearly
- 26:23S12: 10 million people live there. And so this is their home.
- 26:25S12: And so life is going on just like it's going
- 26:28S12: on here for us. And so yeah, are there challenges?
- 26:31S12: Are there concerns? But it's just kind of the same
- 26:33S12: thing for us here. It's just a matter of, you know,
- 26:35S12: where do you put your trust? Now again, we're not
- 26:38S12: to be foolish. We're not to be unwise. But at
- 26:41S12: the same time, I think there's opportunities that we can
- 26:44S12: avail ourselves to. I was just talking to a student
- 26:46S12: just last week. He's from Israel. He just was. He
- 26:49S12: lives in Israel. He said it was perfect over the summer.
- 26:52S12: And then I just talked to Omer recently, and he
- 26:55S12: also just came back from leading a tour in Israel. So,
- 26:58S12: you know, he says it was fine. So, you know,
- 27:01S12: it's not a lot of tour groups are going there
- 27:03S12: right now for. I think we all can understand why.
- 27:06S12: But there are some opportunities to go.
- 27:08S5: And we've got one for you boom crew. Now this
- 27:11S5: is kind of last minute because we're topping off a
- 27:14S5: small team of folks that are going, but this is
- 27:16S5: gonna be a study tour. Some of you have the
- 27:20S5: means and the ability to jump on today with this.
- 27:24S5: What are the details and what's got you so excited
- 27:26S5: about this? Israel is basically wide open right now, isn't it,
- 27:29S5: for travelers?
- 27:30S12: The airport is open. The sites that we go visit
- 27:33S12: are going to be open. In fact, we'll have run
- 27:35S12: of the land. I mean, that's the thing. A lot
- 27:36S12: of people are for different reasons not going. And so
- 27:40S12: there's again, we'll have a small group, we'll be nimble.
- 27:44S12: We'll be able to go around, we'll be able to
- 27:45S12: visit more sites in a day because of the size
- 27:48S12: of the group and just be be there. So our
- 27:50S12: trip dates are November 15th through the 24th. So it's
- 27:54S12: coming up really, really soon. Uh, so we'll get you
- 27:56S12: back in time for Thanksgiving with your family and friends. Uh,
- 28:00S12: but this is a ten day tour to Israel. Uh,
- 28:03S12: we have a few spots opened because of some people,
- 28:06S12: for whatever reason, backed out. So there's an opportunity for
- 28:09S12: some of our listeners, but you would have to jump
- 28:11S12: on board right away and pay for the whole trip.
- 28:14S12: This next couple of days, because we need to kind
- 28:17S12: of finalize the count.
- 28:18S5: Yeah. So it's good to know the information on Israel
- 28:21S5: for sure. And we want to make sure we got
- 28:24S5: this out there for you. Boom crew. Because going with
- 28:27S5: Jim Coakley, here's the truth. You're going to come back
- 28:31S5: from this trip. You're going to read your Bible with
- 28:34S5: fresh eyes like you can't imagine. It'll supercharge you. Some
- 28:39S5: of you have been before, but you've not been on
- 28:42S5: a trip where you've got a smaller group and it's like,
- 28:45S5: let's go. We'd love to have you be a part
- 28:47S5: of this. November 15th through 24th. Always want to make
- 28:51S5: these opportunities available to you. And we've got one right now.
- 28:56S5: Text the word trip to 805 557898, trip to 800 555, 78, 98.
- 29:08S5: Get the details, get signed up. You got to get
- 29:11S5: in quickly. And I think we've got room for maybe
- 29:15S5: 8 to 10 people to jump in. You can come
- 29:17S5: as an individual. Come as a couple, come as a
- 29:20S5: small group. Cap it off this morning. Text trip to
- 29:23S5: 855 57898. What are you most excited about seeing on
- 29:28S5: this trip?
- 29:28S12: Oh, there's so many things that have been done even
- 29:31S12: since the last time I was there, which is just
- 29:32S12: a couple of years ago. So a number of things
- 29:34S12: have been opened up at Caesarea Maritima. There's things in
- 29:37S12: Jerusalem that have been opened up. Uh, and so I'm
- 29:40S12: really excited about going back myself, but also I just
- 29:43S12: love taking people there and let the, let the lights
- 29:45S12: go on in their eyes when they all of a
- 29:47S12: sudden see the scriptures that they have read for many,
- 29:50S12: many years now just really come to life. And there's
- 29:53S12: just nothing like for me as a teacher to stand
- 29:55S12: and open the Word of God right at the spot
- 29:57S12: where these things happened. And also you get to know
- 29:59S12: a really small group of fellow believers. And it's just
- 30:02S12: a really tight bonding experience. So it's got something for everybody.
- 30:06S12: If you love history, if you love food, if you
- 30:08S12: love geography, if you love the Bible, it's got something
- 30:11S12: for you.
- 30:11S5: I would say that the Israel Guide, all these trips
- 30:14S5: have to have someone from Israel who's the guy? I
- 30:17S5: would say Omer Eshel has to be in the top
- 30:20S5: 2 or 3 guides in the whole nation, wouldn't you say?
- 30:23S12: Yes. I mean, he's trained a number of other guides.
- 30:25S12: And what's nice about Omer is that he also is
- 30:28S12: very connected. And so he can get us into places. Yes.
- 30:33S12: And it's truly amazing. So this really is a very
- 30:37S12: great opportunity. And again, it's not for everybody. Uh, if you, uh,
- 30:41S12: you know, have that space, you have the, the time,
- 30:44S12: you have the funds to be able to quickly get
- 30:45S12: on board. Maybe the Lord is prompting you to consider
- 30:48S12: this trip.
- 30:49S5: Yeah, it could well be. So trip to 805, five, five, 78, 98.
- 30:54S5: And there's so many links going out. I think we
- 30:57S5: got people hungry to go, what in the world? Let's
- 30:59S5: jump on board. If we're back by Turkey Day, we're
- 31:02S5: in good shape is what they're saying.
- 31:03S13: That's right.
- 31:04S5: All right. Tex trip to 805 557898. Jim, thanks for
- 31:09S5: ducking in here this morning, man.
- 31:11S13: You are so welcome, my friend.
- 31:13S1: Your shot of hope to help you through the day.
- 31:16S1: This is Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 31:20S5: So when you're in the middle of pain, any notion
- 31:24S5: that there might be purpose in this seems far off.
- 31:27S5: So we got to spend some time and walk through
- 31:30S5: this a bit, don't we?
- 31:31S2: Yeah. We have a special guest who's going to help us.
- 31:33S2: His name is Christopher Reynolds. He ministers and churches, conference
- 31:36S2: camps and retreats. He has a book called Bare Through
- 31:40S2: It Turning Pain into Purpose.
- 31:43S5: All right, Chris, let's get after this. I want to
- 31:46S5: begin with your story, my man. Tell us.
- 31:48S14: Well, ten years ago, my wife and I got married.
- 31:51S14: Great celebration. The cool story behind that. It was the
- 31:55S14: season at my church that I was working at that
- 31:57S14: it was it was sabbatical year for me. So it
- 32:00S14: worked out timing wise that literally when I got married,
- 32:04S14: I took a one month sabbatical right after we got married.
- 32:08S14: So its honeymoon for a month. Well, we come back
- 32:11S14: from our honeymoon for a month and literally I'm riding
- 32:16S14: my motorcycle on the way to work as I'm riding
- 32:19S14: to work. There's this intersection, like right, right before the
- 32:23S14: church where it's kind of on a hill. The light.
- 32:26S14: And as I'm going through this, I'm accelerating, probably going 40, 50mph.
- 32:32S14: There's a truck coming towards me that honestly had a
- 32:36S14: like a yielded turn signal into that neighborhood did not
- 32:41S14: see me at all. And so as I was accelerating
- 32:43S14: through the light, this Ford F-150 just turned right into me. Literally,
- 32:48S14: I met pain head on. To this day, like if
- 32:51S14: I close my eyes and just visualize it, I can
- 32:53S14: still see the front of the truck just hitting me.
- 32:57S14: And the next thing I know, I'm on my back
- 33:00S14: and the world is spinning. And when I say spinning
- 33:04S14: and I saw the sky literally spinning, my body was numb.
- 33:08S14: And quite honestly, one of my friends who's an EMT,
- 33:12S14: he showed up. He told me later that when he
- 33:14S14: saw the accident, he said, okay, this guy's dead. Yeah.
- 33:17S14: Another person said, hey, do you have family? I said, yes,
- 33:20S14: I do call my wife, you know? And what I
- 33:23S14: didn't share to you guys yet was five days prior
- 33:26S14: to this accident, we found out we were pregnant with
- 33:29S14: our first child. And so they rushed me off to
- 33:31S14: the to the hospital and all I keep thinking about
- 33:34S14: all these different emotions of, is my wife going to
- 33:37S14: be a widow now with my son? Be fatherless like
- 33:40S14: these were the emotions that hit. But as soon as
- 33:43S14: they found out I was okay, the silence was deafening.
- 33:47S14: Like everyone left the room and it's just me in
- 33:50S14: that room. My wife was there and that's when the
- 33:53S14: emotions hit me. That's when the the emotional pain hit
- 33:57S14: me and I just started weeping. I say all that
- 33:59S14: to say. After a few surgeries, I ended up, you know,
- 34:02S14: obviously getting to go home, but I'm casted up both
- 34:06S14: arms and my leg all the way down to my ankle.
- 34:10S14: I could barely walk. Someone donated a recliner. So for
- 34:13S14: the next two months I just got married. For the
- 34:16S14: next two months I slept on a recliner and my
- 34:19S14: wife jokes. Now she was like, man, we just got married.
- 34:22S14: But this was like, what marriage was supposed to be
- 34:24S14: like at the end of her, you know, you know,
- 34:27S14: she said, I was already in geriatric care and, and
- 34:30S14: the honeymoon phase ended quickly. I remember being frustrated with
- 34:35S14: God because here I am. I thought as a husband,
- 34:38S14: your provider protector, but no longer can I provide and protect.
- 34:42S14: I'm thinking, okay, my future kid, will I ever be
- 34:45S14: able to run and play, you know, play catch with them?
- 34:49S14: And then for me, ministry, I was at like a,
- 34:52S14: I want to say a peak, but a really pivotal
- 34:55S14: time in ministry for me as a youth pastor. Now
- 34:58S14: I'm sidelined. I can't even do that. And if I'm honest,
- 35:00S14: I think I think I built my identity around being
- 35:03S14: a youth pastor, and now I couldn't even do that. Yeah.
- 35:06S14: And so I remember sitting in my living room on
- 35:08S14: this recliner spending time with Jesus. And I, I'm, I'm frustrated.
- 35:11S14: I said, God, what do I do now? Who am
- 35:13S14: I now? What do I do? And I really felt like,
- 35:17S14: you know, God spoke to me and said, hey, why
- 35:20S14: don't you write down the lessons that you're learning in
- 35:23S14: this pain? And so every day I would write down
- 35:25S14: a new lesson that I was learning, whether that be
- 35:28S14: surround yourself with community, whether it be healing as a process.
- 35:32S14: I started writing these lessons down. I don't post them
- 35:35S14: on social media and they got some traction. And through that,
- 35:39S14: you know, after ten years and God brought it up
- 35:41S14: again to me this past, you know, in 2025, it's like, hey,
- 35:45S14: you should write that into a book. And so that's
- 35:48S14: why I'm here, right? Yeah. Yeah.
- 35:50S5: Awesome.
- 35:50S2: Christopher Reynolds with us. He has the book called Bare
- 35:53S2: Through It Turning Pain into Purpose. You know, as you're
- 35:56S2: writing down these lessons. I mean, obviously there's the physical pain,
- 36:01S2: there's the emotional pain. Was this your first time that
- 36:04S2: you experienced this kind of pain in your life, or
- 36:08S2: was this a reminder of maybe things that you had
- 36:10S2: had to deal with earlier in life?
- 36:12S14: I think this is the first type of pain that
- 36:14S14: really shook my identity. I think I've gone through emotional
- 36:18S14: things in the past, had the the cliche like, I'm
- 36:22S14: a stand on the firm foundation of Jesus. And don't
- 36:25S14: get me wrong, I did. But this is the first
- 36:27S14: time where I believe I lost a sense of who
- 36:32S14: I was or who I wanted to be again prior
- 36:35S14: to this. There's the dream of what a husband is
- 36:38S14: supposed to be, of what a father is supposed to be.
- 36:41S14: And I felt like that was stripped away. Now, most
- 36:45S14: people in that moment will probably dig themselves a little
- 36:49S14: bit deeper and allow the mind games to, to mess
- 36:53S14: with them. Again, I'm so glad that God was just like,
- 36:55S14: why don't you? Why don't you find purpose in it?
- 36:58S14: The highlight for me was not so much, okay, let's
- 37:01S14: look at the light at the end of the tunnel,
- 37:03S14: but more so. Okay, why don't we focus on who
- 37:05S14: you're going to become in this tunnel?
- 37:07S5: We talk a lot. CB, CB Reynolds is our guest
- 37:10S5: right now. We talk a lot about the need to
- 37:14S5: lay down idols for even radically transform followers of Jesus.
- 37:20S5: It's easy to go along the path and grab things up.
- 37:22S5: You alluded to turning ministry essentially into an idol. You
- 37:27S5: were finding your identity in that, you know, apart from pain,
- 37:30S5: I don't know if you would have discovered that. So
- 37:33S5: that's almost a grace of God. CB what do you think?
- 37:37S14: I fully agree. I think, you know, people sometimes ask
- 37:40S14: me like, what's what is the purpose behind the pain?
- 37:45S14: And what I've come to realize is I believe pain
- 37:49S14: obviously is, is an opportunity for us to not just
- 37:52S14: grow and learn. But to be humbled. Yeah, to have
- 37:55S14: a dependency on God. But this is what I learned
- 37:58S14: through that season. I was able to see some characteristics
- 38:03S14: of God that I probably wouldn't have seen unless I've
- 38:06S14: gone through that pain. Yeah. And so in the same manner, yes, I,
- 38:10S14: I don't know if I would have discovered the title
- 38:13S14: or the ministry role would have been such a, I
- 38:19S14: don't want to say stronghold as if it's sin, but
- 38:22S14: an idol.
- 38:23S5: Um, that is sin.
- 38:24S14: That's where it was hard to let go. Yes.
- 38:26S5: That's honest man.
- 38:27S2: How did ministry change for you once you recovered and
- 38:31S2: were able to, you know, return to I don't know
- 38:34S2: if you return to youth pastoring, but whatever role you
- 38:36S2: return to. How was ministry different?
- 38:39S14: Oh, it was completely different. I continued in youth ministry,
- 38:42S14: then eventually became executive pastor over our church. And it's
- 38:46S14: just different whenever your life has flashed by, like when
- 38:50S14: I have purpose Now, when you go into ministry, it's like,
- 38:53S14: it's the fun. It's like, yeah, you're going to do
- 38:55S14: the things. But now it's like, okay, I don't want
- 38:58S14: to play any games. Yeah, I got every moment counted
- 39:02S14: for me from that moment on, every moment counted, I
- 39:06S14: became a little bit more efficient and effective. I started asking, hey,
- 39:10S14: why are we doing these things and who are we
- 39:12S14: doing them for? I started changing my motives of, okay,
- 39:17S14: I understand that we've always done this, but what's my
- 39:20S14: motive behind that? And if it didn't match with where
- 39:22S14: I felt like God was leading us, like we just
- 39:24S14: stripped it away. And so it changed. It just changed
- 39:28S14: how I looked at life. And it also changed how
- 39:31S14: I see people. And honestly, when you're in ministry, especially
- 39:35S14: if you're in a, you know, constantly around people, you
- 39:38S14: can become numb to the fact that this is real eternity.
- 39:43S14: And so after this pain, I became a little bit more,
- 39:46S14: you know, sympathetic and empathetic to people's pain. I became
- 39:49S14: to listen a little bit more.
- 39:51S5: That's beautiful. CB Reynolds is our guest right now. So
- 39:54S5: executive pastor of not a small group of people. CB because.
- 40:00S14: No.
- 40:01S5: This was Gateway Fellowship Church. You're a young man, bro.
- 40:05S5: How many people were you responsible for pastoring? And I
- 40:09S5: think God used your pain to promote you sooner than
- 40:14S5: you otherwise would have been. I'm saying this as a
- 40:17S5: pastor now for for decades. How many people were you
- 40:21S5: responsible for their their care and nurturing and direction?
- 40:25S14: Our church started off as a church plant in a
- 40:28S14: movie theater. And then the Lord continued to add, there
- 40:31S14: was a point in this church plant season when we
- 40:34S14: got a building. But as we started to grow, we
- 40:36S14: just wanted to we didn't want to grow a bigger church.
- 40:39S14: We wanted to multiply. And so from there, we planted about,
- 40:43S14: I think, 9 or 10 other churches locally in the
- 40:47S14: in Texas. And so I oversaw all those. Now the
- 40:50S14: full number, a few thousand I, I don't know the
- 40:54S14: exact number, but yeah, I got promoted as executive at 31,
- 40:59S14: which was quite honoring and, and terrifying at the same time,
- 41:03S14: if I can be honest, because, because like you said,
- 41:05S14: it's like, man, there's a decision that I make impacts
- 41:09S14: way more than just you. But at the same time,
- 41:12S14: I also want to stay level headed. I don't want
- 41:15S14: to be too, too fearful. But at the same time,
- 41:17S14: I don't want to be so prideful that, hey, look
- 41:19S14: at me. This is this is who I am. I have,
- 41:23S14: you know, now the position. And so I remember talking
- 41:26S14: to Jesus said, Lord, help guide me in wisdom and
- 41:30S14: at the same time keep me humble.
- 41:32S5: Beautiful man. There is someone listening today and you wonder
- 41:37S5: how in the world can your pain be turned into
- 41:41S5: greater purpose? We got a great man here that's done
- 41:45S5: a great work. The name of the book is called
- 41:48S5: Bear Through It. Turning pain into purpose. And I believe
- 41:52S5: Ali from the bottom of my heart. CB Reynolds is
- 41:55S5: one of these unique young men that had to learn
- 41:58S5: some tough lessons early. And I think that's the gift
- 42:03S5: of God to us today.
- 42:04S2: We want you to get the resource, get connected. Just
- 42:06S2: text bear to 800 555 7898. Just text that word bear.
- 42:13S2: 805 557898.
- 42:17S1: You're listening to Curl and Crew on Moody Radio.
- 42:20S15: What a promise. What a vision. All you got to
- 42:22S15: do is look at John 15 and you see some
- 42:25S15: of the very final words of Jesus as he's making
- 42:29S15: his way to be the ultimate sacrifice for our sins.
- 42:32S15: And he tells his disciples, look, guys, it's to my
- 42:36S15: father's glory that you bear much fruit. And there's a
- 42:40S15: lot of ways to look at that fruit, but it's
- 42:43S15: a joy Completed, according to Jesus Himself in John 15,
- 42:47S15: that we would have this abiding relationship, close connection with
- 42:51S15: with Christ our Savior. And then the fruit of that,
- 42:54S15: all you got to do is go to Galatians five
- 42:56S15: and you see love and joy and multiple other attributes
- 43:00S15: of those that have this abiding relationship with Christ. We
- 43:04S15: got a man with us right now that knows and
- 43:07S15: wants for you to experience this in a big way. Chip. Joy.
- 43:11S15: I mean, come on. Talk about an attribute of being
- 43:15S15: filled with the power of God. That's got to be
- 43:18S15: one of the hallmarks, right?
- 43:19S16: Yeah. I think after love, I mean, all these are
- 43:22S16: an expression of the spirit working inside of our heart
- 43:25S16: as we're connected to Jesus by the power of the
- 43:27S16: Holy Spirit. But I love CS Lewis quote that joy
- 43:30S16: is the serious business of heaven. It's really a byproduct
- 43:35S16: of that abiding that gives us incredible strength in the
- 43:38S16: midst of very challenging times.
- 43:40S2: Chip Ingram, our guest right now. pastor, author, teacher for
- 43:44S2: more than three decades. You know the title of this book,
- 43:47S2: I choose Joy. Many people would get behind that. I
- 43:51S2: spend some time on social media, and I often see
- 43:54S2: language around things like choosing joy, choosing happiness, choosing to
- 43:59S2: see your circumstances with a certain set of eyes. And
- 44:02S2: it's not all biblical. This is something I think most
- 44:05S2: people would embrace, even if they don't know what the
- 44:07S2: root is. But what do we miss in that messaging
- 44:10S2: of simply choosing to be joyful or choosing to be
- 44:13S2: happy in spite of sometimes what we're going through?
- 44:16S16: Well, I think the focus often there is that we
- 44:19S16: have this power and we can choose this and we
- 44:21S16: can choose that. And I think that part of the
- 44:24S16: choosing is important. We have a decision. But the fact
- 44:28S16: of the matter is, is that it is a supernatural,
- 44:31S16: abiding presence of Jesus in us. The Apostle Paul is
- 44:35S16: literally waiting possible execution. And as you study Philippians chapter one.
- 44:41S16: He teaches us how to have God's perspective and to
- 44:45S16: be connected in the midst of the worst of circumstances.
- 44:48S16: And so it's something that God does. We participate. We choose. Uh,
- 44:52S16: we're not victims. But at the same time, that perspective
- 44:55S16: only comes when you see life circumstance and challenges through
- 45:00S16: the lens of an eternal perspective and what the spirit provides.
- 45:03S15: Now, Chip Joy has some meat to it. It's got
- 45:06S15: some substance that actually sets itself apart from happiness. Help
- 45:12S15: us delineate between those two.
- 45:14S16: Well, happiness by and large. And by the way, I
- 45:17S16: think it's a wonderful thing to be happy. Sure. But
- 45:19S16: even the word it's based on happenings, good happenings, you're happy,
- 45:24S16: bad happenings or circumstances, you're not very happy. Joy supersedes
- 45:29S16: that joy in the midst of the most challenging times
- 45:33S16: allows us not necessarily always to be, oh, life is
- 45:36S16: wonderful and great and happy, but there's this sustaining presence
- 45:41S16: of God that gives you a perspective as you look
- 45:44S16: at Philippians one, which is the the whole book is
- 45:47S16: based on that. You know, Paul's focus is upward on
- 45:51S16: God and outward on people while his circumstances are. I mean,
- 45:55S16: he's in prison. He's chained. It's that perspective that produces
- 45:59S16: the byproduct of joy.
- 46:00S2: Chip, was there something going on in your life that
- 46:03S2: prompted you to explore the topic of joy?
- 46:07S16: Yeah, it's, I guess, part embarrassing and part just real life.
- 46:11S16: The quick story is, over a period of the last
- 46:13S16: 7 or 8 years, I had excruciating back problems, multiple surgeries,
- 46:19S16: hardware in my back, problems. After that, laying on my
- 46:22S16: side during Covid for 21 days, could not get in
- 46:25S16: the hospital and being in pain all the time. Ice
- 46:29S16: packs everything you can imagine almost 24 over seven. And
- 46:33S16: you know, it was a long journey and still have
- 46:36S16: considerable pain, but nothing like it used to be. And
- 46:39S16: my wife, one day I was doing one more rehab,
- 46:42S16: learning to walk again in the backyard and shuffling around.
- 46:45S16: And I sat down and she said, can I share something?
- 46:48S16: Just honestly? Oh, yeah. Sure, honey. Go ahead. And she goes,
- 46:52S16: do you realize how negative you've become?
- 46:54S15: Oh boy, that hurts.
- 46:56S16: And I said, what? She said, honey, I love you.
- 46:59S16: But I married a positive, upbeat, future oriented, filled with
- 47:03S16: kind of faith. And these years you've been through a lot,
- 47:07S16: I understand, but when you get up, you grown and
- 47:10S16: people ask a couple questions and we're always talking about
- 47:13S16: your back. And, you know, there's this internal, you know,
- 47:16S16: publicly you're doing better. But around me, I see it
- 47:19S16: more than others. And I remember, of course, my first
- 47:22S16: reaction because I'm so in tune with the Lord was no, no, no,
- 47:26S16: no no.
- 47:28S17: Oh, man.
- 47:30S16: And as those words were coming out of my mouth,
- 47:32S16: I was like, oh, you're so right. And I literally
- 47:35S16: it was probably three months later I was to speak
- 47:37S16: at the Billy Graham Conference Center, and I was going
- 47:40S16: to teach on Philippians one. And as I studied through that,
- 47:43S16: what I recognized was I needed to choose joy. And
- 47:48S16: this book is about going into training. This is not
- 47:50S16: thinking positive thoughts, declaring, you'll be joyful, not looking at reality.
- 47:55S16: This is a journey and a process and a practice.
- 47:59S16: And I went into training that came out of that
- 48:01S16: passage to learn how to look at life through God's purpose,
- 48:06S16: God's focus, my ultimate hope, and readjust expectations. Where Jesus
- 48:11S16: met me by the power of the Holy Spirit to
- 48:14S16: allow me, despite the circumstances, to really experience joy. That's powerful.
- 48:19S16: And that is what it grew out of. And so
- 48:22S16: a lot of the very practical sides of it are
- 48:24S16: things that I've been doing for a number of years now.
- 48:26S16: I still have a card right in the front of
- 48:29S16: my desk that has a passage about rejoicing always. And
- 48:34S16: then be thankful. Be positive. Choose. Don't complain. And then
- 48:38S16: I have these four questions that flow out of that
- 48:41S16: passage that have transformed my thinking and therefore my life.
- 48:45S15: You know, Chip, I think your wife and I went
- 48:48S15: to the Great wife clinic together on how to have
- 48:52S15: tough questions for their husbands.
- 48:54S2: You mentioned those four questions. Can you give us a
- 48:56S2: quick rundown on what they are?
- 48:58S16: Sure. The first one is where's your focus when our
- 49:01S16: focus is upward? You don't have to feel like it,
- 49:03S16: but you choose to worship and outward you. You care
- 49:06S16: and pray for other people versus your focus on yourself.
- 49:10S16: Things change. When the question is, what's my purpose? What's
- 49:14S16: God's agenda in this challenging situation versus why me? This
- 49:18S16: isn't fair, I hate this. I can't believe God will
- 49:20S16: let this happen. And the third question is, where's my hope?
- 49:23S16: Is it in circumstances? Is it in this person? Is it,
- 49:27S16: you know, things are going to turn out right? Is
- 49:29S16: it that my marriage is going to completely get better?
- 49:31S16: Is it that, you know, until God gives me a
- 49:33S16: husband or a wife or until my finances, we play
- 49:36S16: a game where we put our hope in places. And
- 49:38S16: so when you ask, where's my hope? And you realize
- 49:42S16: the only anchor of your hope can be the person
- 49:44S16: of Christ and what he's promised. And then the last
- 49:46S16: question has probably the most helpful is, what are my
- 49:49S16: expectations toward the end of that passage in Philippians one,
- 49:52S16: he says, while he's awaiting execution, he says to these Philippians,
- 49:57S16: it has been granted. The word is grace. It has
- 49:59S16: been granted to you not only to believe, but to
- 50:02S16: suffer for his sake. And sometimes we get disillusioned because
- 50:06S16: we're in difficult times. We think, God, I obey you,
- 50:09S16: I love you, I'm following you. We unconsciously think if
- 50:13S16: we do X, Y, and Z that somehow God is
- 50:16S16: obligated to make our life wonderful and no problems and healthy.
- 50:20S16: And the fact of the matter in a fallen world,
- 50:23S16: part of the gift. And this is hard for Americans
- 50:26S16: to hear, especially part of the gift of God is
- 50:28S16: the gift to believe, to be connected, to be forgiven,
- 50:32S16: to have his spirit taken up residence in us and
- 50:35S16: we go through suffering with us. That process in a
- 50:39S16: fallen world is actually one of the key elements that
- 50:43S16: allow us to become more and more like Jesus. It
- 50:45S16: creates a dependency that can't happen any other way. He
- 50:49S16: allows it to happen. God isn't angry. He's not punishing people.
- 50:53S16: But suffering is a part of the journey. And if
- 50:56S16: you expect it to be great all the time because
- 50:58S16: you've done X, Y, and Z, your expectations, you set
- 51:02S16: yourself up to be very disillusioned with God, with life,
- 51:05S16: and with other people.
- 51:06S5: Yeah. And that's a performance metric rather than a proximity
- 51:09S5: to Jesus metric. And it always fails us on that.
- 51:12S5: I have this new conviction, having been a pastor and
- 51:15S5: a leader for a lot of years. And sometimes I
- 51:18S5: look back and go, Carl, why didn't you learn this
- 51:20S5: stuff sooner? But the Lord's been gracious to me, and
- 51:23S5: I feel like the church has put before people a
- 51:29S5: bit of a hamster wheel of performance. And they're all
- 51:32S5: good things. So it's. Read your Bible and pray and
- 51:35S5: and give and find your gifts and use them. And
- 51:37S5: those are all great. But I feel like we've neglected
- 51:41S5: those abiding disciplines of silence, solitude, aloneness with God. Uh,
- 51:48S5: where we can cry out, search me, know me, try
- 51:51S5: me in the darkness of the morning. And I've been
- 51:53S5: doing this, for goodness sakes, probably six months now, really regularly.
- 52:00S5: And I'm finding that that's the fuel for this fruit
- 52:05S5: producing life. It's it's him. It's his presence. It's not
- 52:09S5: even activity. Speak to that chip.
- 52:12S16: Well, I would have to say that I agree with you. And, um,
- 52:15S16: I think we have a transactional perspective. I'm going to
- 52:19S16: do these things. So so that it's the so that
- 52:23S16: that kills us so that my life will be better,
- 52:26S16: my work will be better. My kids will turn out right,
- 52:28S16: my finances will go up, my marriage if I have one.
- 52:31S16: And so that is what kills us. Because God refuses
- 52:34S16: to be a means to an end. And we don't
- 52:37S16: have to wait till we get to heaven to be
- 52:38S16: with him. The same spirit that raised Jesus from the
- 52:42S16: dead dwells in us. And it's intimacy with him that
- 52:46S16: sustains you. It's intimacy that brings joy. And it's not.
- 52:50S16: I've read my two chapters. I've prayed through these three things. Okay, God,
- 52:54S16: here we go now. Make my life work. Yeah. It's
- 52:58S16: the byproduct, the blessings. Every good and perfect gift, in fact,
- 53:02S16: comes from him. But when the gifts get more important
- 53:05S16: than the giver, that's where we get in trouble. You know,
- 53:09S16: I've done a lot of counseling in my many, many
- 53:11S16: years as a pastor. And people come with all kind
- 53:13S16: of problems and struggles, and I try to listen and
- 53:16S16: lean in and ask questions and be very, very concerned.
- 53:19S16: But I always get around to tell me a little
- 53:21S16: bit about your own private worship. Tell me about your
- 53:24S16: time unhurriedly in God's Word and hearing from God and
- 53:28S16: being connected to him. And how do you practice his
- 53:31S16: presence throughout the day? And the correlation I've seen after
- 53:34S16: these many decades was this little time with God really,
- 53:40S16: really big problems. I mean, that's.
- 53:42S5: A.
- 53:43S16: Follower of Jesus, doesn't spend any time with Jesus. And
- 53:47S16: as a result of that, they can't figure out why
- 53:49S16: all the promises of Jesus they're not experiencing in their life.
- 53:53S5: And joy is there.
- 53:54S2: If you want more from our guest, Chip Ingram, he's
- 53:57S2: a pastor, author, teacher, teaching pastor for living on the edge.
- 54:01S2: Just text the word joy to 805 557898, text joy
- 54:07S2: to 805 557898. You'll get to his website. You can
- 54:12S2: see where to get the book text joy to 800 555, 7898.
- 54:17S1: He's a sports fanatic with a stat for anything you
- 54:20S1: can think of. Young Thunder is in the crew. It's
- 54:25S1: Carl and crew on Moody Radio.
- 54:28S5: Now we're talking emotions this whole week, and I got
- 54:30S5: some good news for you, boom crew. Really good news.
- 54:33S5: I've got the emotion of relief. It is great joy.
- 54:37S5: So here's the deal. That character, Blaise, he's my husky
- 54:41S5: pup that I grabbed at eight weeks old from a
- 54:43S5: friend of mine's kennel in Alaska. His mom and dad
- 54:46S5: are like, I did her on champions. They're amazing dogs.
- 54:49S4: He's beautiful.
- 54:50S5: He's a good looking.
- 54:51S17: Dog, isn't he? He is beautiful.
- 54:53S5: He scares people half to death because he looks a
- 54:56S5: little bit coyote, to be honest with you.
- 54:58S4: Yes. His body.
- 54:59S17: Structure. Yes.
- 55:00S5: He looks his body more than his face. Because coyotes
- 55:03S5: don't have that stripe. And that.
- 55:05S17: Heart knows.
- 55:07S5: He's got a heart schnoz and all that stuff. But yeah,
- 55:11S5: he can freak people out and he freak me out
- 55:13S5: a couple days ago. Bring him upstairs. And I'm always
- 55:17S5: making sure get the cat toys out of there because
- 55:19S5: the cats are trying to take over his domain or
- 55:22S5: they're trying to. I got one female cat. She's trying
- 55:25S5: to go alpha male on the whole routine around here.
- 55:27S17: Well, sure.
- 55:28S4: Leave her scent. Of course. Yeah.
- 55:30S5: And yeah, she's not, and she's not marking or anything,
- 55:33S5: but she's leaving her toys on his mat, letting him
- 55:37S5: know we were here while you weren't. I know that's
- 55:40S5: what's going on. She's cantankerous, man. She's cantankerous.
- 55:45S17: Ornery.
- 55:46S5: So she leaves this pretty good size imitation rat. And I,
- 55:54S5: he got around the corner in front of me, and
- 55:57S5: next thing I know, all I'm seeing is he's got
- 56:00S5: his mouth on something, and I go open up, and
- 56:02S5: I grab his. I grab his mouth and I pry
- 56:06S5: open his jaws and I reach in with two fingers,
- 56:09S5: and sure enough, that bad boy is halfway down his
- 56:12S5: throat and I'm like, no blaze. No. And he goes, gulp, gulp.
- 56:15S5: And it was gone.
- 56:17S17: Oh, oh, oh. And it got.
- 56:20S5: Stuck a little bit. So I'm like, you need, do
- 56:22S5: you need a shake to, you know, wash this down?
- 56:25S5: Would you like a protein shake, Heimlich something? So I'm like,
- 56:29S5: oh my goodness, I got a dog. That's just frustrating.
- 56:35S5: So I go and use artificial intelligence. And I ask ChatGPT,
- 56:40S5: all right, what's the skinny here? And having owned dogs,
- 56:44S5: many of them back in the day, I thought there's
- 56:47S5: a good chance he could pass this thing. And then
- 56:49S5: they tell me, you know, the problem isn't the stomach.
- 56:54S5: It'll drop right in there. That's where it's at now.
- 56:56S5: It's making it into that intestinal passage. And the question is,
- 57:00S5: will it get shrunk down enough?
- 57:02S17: What you needed to know this morning. Boom crew.
- 57:05S5: Well, no, it's got to make it into the intestine.
- 57:07S5: Intestinal passage. I'm just cheering this is real life stuff here.
- 57:11S17: Super. Yes it is.
- 57:13S5: So I'm I'm like okay. Is there any value in
- 57:17S5: getting him to puke it up. No, probably no value
- 57:20S5: in that. And so I'm like, here we go. We
- 57:23S5: got a riding the storm out. So here we go.
- 57:26S5: We're so we're I'm marking time. And this morning really early,
- 57:30S5: I got up and I went downstairs and looked in
- 57:32S5: his kennel and I'm like, oh no, because he's curled
- 57:35S5: up in a fetal position like I hadn't seen him.
- 57:37S5: He's usually stretched out like soup, just like, yeah, I'm
- 57:42S5: in my man cave, but he's now he was in
- 57:45S5: a fetal position. I'm like, oh no. Well, turns out
- 57:47S5: it was nothing. He was just huddled up. So I
- 57:51S5: get him up, I go, how are you feeling, buddy?
- 57:53S5: He goes, give me a neck rub and I'll tell
- 57:54S5: you all about it. So I'm giving him a neck
- 57:56S5: rub and he's telling me all about it. This guy,
- 58:00S5: he's going to be a piece of work when he's
- 58:02S5: five years old because he's not even a year yet.
- 58:04S5: And he's like, could you scratch right there a little lower?
- 58:08S5: I mean, I kid.
- 58:09S17: He's got you trained.
- 58:10S5: Oh, he's got me so trained. Like he, he does
- 58:13S5: sit in, he does sit in protests like, no, I
- 58:16S5: ain't going outside. I'm not even going outside to do
- 58:19S5: my chores until you give me some more.
- 58:21S17: Of that cute. Oh man, I love you.
- 58:24S5: Sit down and I'll have to argue with him. I'll go. No, no,
- 58:27S5: we're going out. I've got a life to live. You're
- 58:30S5: going potty.
- 58:31S17: Now. He's not moving.
- 58:33S5: Oh, and he's doing a sit in protest. So anyway,
- 58:36S5: I got him outside this morning and I'm like praying. Oh,
- 58:39S5: dear God, please. And it's so it's it's dark. It's
- 58:43S5: the middle of the night. And I'm walking him down
- 58:46S5: the street and I'm walking him to where I get
- 58:48S5: under a light street light. And all of a sudden
- 58:52S5: he's got the urge. So he does his thing, and
- 58:55S5: then I have to analyze it. So I'm analyzing it
- 58:58S5: and I realize, man, that sucker, that artificial rat got
- 59:03S5: squeezed down to intestinal size and he got it out.
- 59:08S17: That was quick. Now, I'm.
- 59:10S4: Not trying to be graphic either, but that is 30.
- 59:12S5: 36 hours.
- 59:13S4: That was quick.
- 59:14S5: Yeah. It was.
- 59:14S4: Good. Good. Yeah. Very good.
- 59:16S5: So I'm not recommending he bites more of those things.
- 59:19S4: No, no.
- 59:20S5: And then I asked a question this morning. What did
- 59:22S5: your dog swallow? Guys, we had plaster and I know
- 59:26S5: about that because my daughter and son in law have
- 59:29S5: these two dogs that for some reason they love sheetrock.
- 59:32S5: And so I was having to constantly repair sheetrock. They
- 59:35S5: would take bites out of sheet. What is a.
- 59:38S18: Dog doing eating sheetrock? Okay.
- 59:40S5: And then somebody else texted in and said, yeah, my
- 59:43S5: dog swallowed my remote control.
- 59:46S4: That was yeah, that was the one that got me.
- 59:48S5: Hopefully that's not a, you know, one of those 80%
- 59:52S5: LCA jobs. It's got to be a little one.
- 59:55S4: Hopefully.
- 59:56S5: So then somebody else said, my dog swallowed a $100 bill.
- 1:00:00S5: This put a new definition to laundering money. I love that.
- 1:00:07S18: One.
- 1:00:08S4: You have to laugh, right?
- 1:00:10S5: Hey, listen, if my dog chews, if he swallows $100 bill.
- 1:00:14S5: I am like sifting that stuff for a week. There
- 1:00:20S5: is no way somebody else had a dog swallowed a
- 1:00:24S5: golf ball. They said.
- 1:00:25S4: Oh.
- 1:00:26S5: $4,000 later, he's alive.
- 1:00:31S4: What kind of. Leave that one there for?
- 1:00:32S5: Leave that one there. Yeah. Pardon the pun. Yeah. Oh, boy. Anyway,
- 1:00:37S5: so somebody just texted in socks. Two exclamation points.
- 1:00:41S4: That's a big one. That's a big one. Socks for sure.
- 1:00:44S4: For sure.
- 1:00:45S19: What are these dogs thinking?
- 1:00:47S4: I.
- 1:00:48S5: You know, you can't get them to eat breakfast or dinner,
- 1:00:51S5: but they'll eat an artificial rat. What is that all about?
- 1:00:58S4: No. Maybe he thought it was real and he was
- 1:01:01S4: protecting you.
- 1:01:02S20: I don't know.
- 1:01:03S4: I don't know either.
- 1:01:04S5: No, no, he is not protecting me. Just let's give
- 1:01:08S5: blaze some credit. He loves me, but he ain't protecting me.
- 1:01:12S4: Oh, wow.
- 1:01:13S5: He's just he's just doing his puppy thing, that's for sure.
- 1:01:16S4: Very good, very good.
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- 1:02:12S4: in the chair. You could be taking a walk wherever
- 1:02:14S4: your 30 minutes are there. Your 30 minutes promise to
- 1:02:18S4: keep you updated during the week, send you prayer prompts
- 1:02:20S4: and a few extra prizes or surprises. Not prizes, excuse me,
- 1:02:24S4: surprises as well. As far as messages are concerned, text
- 1:02:28S4: the word cru. The word is cru to 805 557898,
- 1:02:34S4: 805 557898.
- 1:02:38S5: Oh my goodness. I'm getting text responses here and solicited people.
- 1:02:42S5: They've got dogs that are crazy. My sister's dog eats batteries.
- 1:02:46S5: Oh somebody else. I had $250 bills for a Christmas
- 1:02:50S5: gift for my daughter. And in the spring I found out.
- 1:02:53S5: Sure enough, she did eat them because when the snow melted,
- 1:02:55S5: there they were out in the yard. I'm sorry, but
- 1:03:01S5: that's hilarious. That is hilarious.
- 1:03:05S4: Surprise!
- 1:03:05S5: Oh my goodness. Micah. Tyler.
- 1:03:07S21: Oh!