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How Can You Know God's Plan For Your Life? · Sermon Podcast at Cartersville1st

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Thank you, John and worship team.
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Well, good morning. My name is Drew and for those of
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you that don't know me and many of you in here that I do not
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know, but it's an honor and privilege to be here with you
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today. As Pastor Kyle said, I'm
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currently the discipleship pastor at a church in Kennesaw
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North Star Church. And but right here at CFBC is
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where my ministry roots began right here.
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And it started in 2007 as my wife Lauren and I were praying
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that would give us friends in our stage of life.
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We were much younger then, only had one Gray hair, and we'd only
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been married for three years at that time.
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But I remember our first Sunday at CFBC, we visited Shep Hilton
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Study School class and through that class God provided us with
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some of our best friends, some who and many of of whom are
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still at CFBC today. But at that time in my life, I
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was teaching math, I was coaching baseball, and I was
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helping with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes at
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Cartersville High School. But that was my mission field
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and God was doing some pretty amazing things with those
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students spiritually. But it was it in that time that
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the plans that Lauren and I had made for ourselves but kind of
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began to unravel in a sense, or should I say, go in a different
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direction than what we had planned.
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You see, our friends began having kids and we were trying
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but unsuccessful. And then our friends began to
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have more kids and yet we still had none.
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So Lauren and I wondered why us? We've been obedient up to that
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point at what God had asked us to do.
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So why was he withholding something that Lauren and I
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desire to be so deeply, which was to be parents?
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So raise your hand if you've ever asked God the question why
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before anybody? OK, good.
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I'm not alone. OK, good.
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Just making sure. But we all have, right?
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It's a natural question to ask. But here's something we all need
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to know today is that God has a plan.
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And it just might not be the plan that you have for your
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life. But something that I've learned
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in my 44 years of living is that God's plan is always better than
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I could have imagined, even if it means going through difficult
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times. You see, God always works it out
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ultimately for our good, whether on this side of heaven or that
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side of heaven, and for His glory, even if we don't
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understand the why. So today I want to answer this
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question for you. How can you know God's plan for
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your life? How many of you, by show of
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hands, would like to know God's plan for your life?
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Anybody. Oh, good.
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OK, all right, great. That is good.
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If not, then I'll just shut my Bible and we would just move on
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with our day. But that's good.
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So here's what I want you to do is if you will go ahead and grab
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your Bible. And we're going to be in
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Proverbs chapter 3 today. And what we're going to do is
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I'm going to take two very familiar verses, and we're going
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to use those two verses to simply answer the question, how
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can you know God's plan for your life?
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So if you're able to do so, will you please stand in honor of
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reading God's Word? And we're going to be looking at
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Proverbs chapter 3, verses 5 and 6.
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And I'm going to be using the New Living Translation only
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because I'm not that smart and I understand it better.
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Here's what it says. Trust in the Lord with all your
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heart. Do not depend on your own
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understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and
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He will show you which path to take.
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Will you pray with me? Heavenly Father, thank you for
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your word and Holy Spirit, we ask that you would speak clearly
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to us this morning through your word.
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And Lord, may your word be a lamp to our feet and a light to
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our path as we discover what Your plan is for our life in
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Jesus name, Amen. Thank you.
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You may be seated. As I look around today I see
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several kids have joined us. So adults, teenagers, would
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y'all give it up for the kids that are in the room this
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morning? Thank them for being here with
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us. So here's what I want us to do
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OK, I know some of you are are note takers, but today I want to
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encourage the kids to draw. OK, I'm not a good artist.
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I draw stick people. My kids are very good artist.
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But adults, if instead of taking notes, if you just want to draw
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today, that's cool too. But I'm going to be giving some
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things for the kids to draw to help them understand what we're
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talking about. But here's the first thing that
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I want everybody to write down. God has a plan.
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Write that down. God has a plan.
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You see, when God created the heavens and the earth, God had a
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plan. When God sent Moses to rescue
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the Israelites out of slavery from the Egyptians, God had a
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plan. When God sent his Son Jesus to
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earth to save us from our sins, God had a plan.
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And when Jesus returns to defeat Satan and bring an end to this
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world, God has a plan. God has a what?
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He's got a plan. And here's what I need you to
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know today. God has a plan specifically
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designed for each one of you. So how can you know God's plan
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for your life? So on this map, kids or adults,
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we're going to have four different points.
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And on that first point, I want you to write these words, Trust
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God. We're going to keep it simple
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today. OK, keep it simple.
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Trust God. Verse 5 says this.
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Trust in the Lord with all your heart.
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And this word trust means to rely on someone or something
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with complete confidence. I remember back in my teenage
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years when I would go to church, youth camp, we would sometimes
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do these things called trust falls.
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OK Anybody do trust falls before youth camp?
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Yeah. OK.
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And you live to tell about it. That's amazing.
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So the first step that you do, there's about four different
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levels that you do. The first one is you would
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interlock your fingers in a really weird way, and you put
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them against your chest. And there'd be a person behind
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you who's kind of leaned back with their hands up and there'd
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be called the spotter. And so you would be the person
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you'd go spotter ready and they would go redder and you say
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falling and they would say fall on.
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They kind of gently put, you know, catch you and push you
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back off step one. Then you go to the next one and
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and you get in a circle and they pass you around, which is really
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weird, OK? Because like you're rolling
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around and you got your eyes goes like, who is that?
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Did somebody just stick their finger in my ear?
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So you're getting passed around. That was level 2.
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Level 3 was you would graduate to a chair, right?
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And then your youth group would kind of interlock arms and they
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would you would fall onto them. But then only the bravest, only
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the bravest of souls would get up on the platform, right, the
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four foot tall platform and fall off into the arms of your youth
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group. But there was always that one
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person that I knew would probably have the just the, I
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don't know, we'll probably remove their arms.
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Tyler Heath, I think you would be one that one of those people
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would remove their arms and just let that person maybe fall
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through. It never happened.
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But if you were that person's shame on you.
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But in order to do any of the trust falls, you had to rely on
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that person who is spotting you or that group of people.
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You had to have complete confidence that they would catch
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you. And this is the picture the
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author is trying to paint for you about trusting God.
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So I want you to write this down.
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OK, here's what trust in God means for a Christian.
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It means to have confidence that God is in complete control in
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every situation. To have confidence that God is
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in complete control in every situation.
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So kids, if you're drawing or adults, what should you draw?
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A person with some muscles. OK, all right, we can do that
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muscle arm emoji. One day I'll have one of those
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when I get to heaven, but not today.
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So muscle is what I want you to draw.
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But King Solomon, the author of these verses, says that we must
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trust God with our whole heart, which it means it's full trust,
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not trusting God in some situations but not in others.
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It's all or nothing in this situation, in this trust.
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So after a couple of years of trying to have kids with no
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success, I will never forget the night that our hearts took a
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turn. I was sitting next to Lauren on
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our couch in our starter home on Country Meadow Way and we were
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watching something called live TV.
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It's before the days when you choose when and what you watch.
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Kids. That's these things called
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commercials, not ads. And then all of a sudden I heard
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my wife start to cry and I think we were watching the Braves
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maybe, which can make you cry sometimes.
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But after a waiting a minute I asked her what was wrong and she
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told me that one of our friends had just text her to let her
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know that they were having their second child.
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So she got up, went into our bedroom while I sat there and
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stood an anger at God. It was the first time in a
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couple of years that I've been mad at God about this situation
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because I tend to be a glass half full type of guy.
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So I went into the bedroom ready to be on Lauren's side to be mad
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at God. But before I could say a word,
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she said this. She said I have to be OK.
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It was great confusion. I replied, you have to be OK
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with what? And she said these words that I
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will never forget because she said them with confidence.
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She said I have to be OK with whether God wants me to be a mom
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or not. And I was speechless.
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But then all of the sudden, God brought to my mind the prayer
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that I've been praying for Lauren for a couple of years.
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And I would pray this almost daily.
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I would say, God help Lauren to be OK with the situation of, of
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us not being able to have kids, help her to be OK, help her to
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be at peace. And God had answered my prayer
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two years later in his time and in his way.
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And instantly in that moment, we both felt a peace that God was
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in control of our situation and we knew in our hearts that He
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had a plan for us. We had seen Him work many times
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in our lives up to that point and we had complete confidence
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that God was in control and He was at work in this situation as
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well. He had brought us to this point
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where we trusted Him and His plan for us.
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Isaiah 26 verse 3 says this. You talking about the Lord will
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keep at will, keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all
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whose thoughts are fixed on you. So my question for you is this,
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do you trust God with your current situation, whatever it
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might be? It might be you have a kid going
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off to college, you might have some marriage issues right now,
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you may have some health problems.
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But do you trust God with your current situation?
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Do you have perfect peace that He is in control?
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So step one to knowing God's plan for your life is to trust
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God. As to what?
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I can't hear you as to what? Trust God.
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That's exactly right. And here's step #2 OK, here's
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point #2 on your map. And it's this surrender control,
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Surrender control. I told you, I said keep it
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simple today. Surrender control.
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The second part of verse 5 says this.
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Do not depend on your own understanding.
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I've watched my fair share of cop shows, usually comedies
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where the police always catch the bad guy or bad girl when
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they when they finally get to him and there's no way out, they
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always go freeze. Put your hands what?
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Put your hands up. That's exactly right.
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And then the bad guy or bad girl, there's two options they
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have. They can either try to run,
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which never turns out well, right?
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They always get caught and something bad happens, or they
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can put their hands up. So we're going to focus on that
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part for the sake of this next illustration.
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OK, so why do why does the bad guy or bad girl put their hands
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up? Why?
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That's exactly right. Because they are giving up or
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surrendering control of the situation.
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So I want you to write this down for a Christian to surrender
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control means this giving up control and trusting God.
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Giving up control and trusting God.
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So kids or adults, if you're drawing, I want you to draw a
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picture of somebody with their hands up.
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OK, somebody with their hands up right there.
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But surrender also requires this word called humility.
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And here's what humility says. Humility says this, I don't know
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everything, but surrender says this, I will trust God anyway.
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Humility says I don't know everything, but surrender says I
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will trust God anyway. As most people do, Lauren and I
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tried to figure out what God was doing in our situation, but we
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were unsuccessful. But as we surrendered control of
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our situation of not being have being able to have children, we
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began to see God use us to work in the lives of impacting
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teenagers. At Cartersville High School, I
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began discipling some of my baseball guys.
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My wife Lauren was substituting there at the time and some of
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their girlfriends came to her and said, hey, would you mind
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discipling us? And then in the summertime,
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Lauren and I would take a group of FCA leaders to FCA camp.
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But Lauren and I got this front row seat to watch God bring
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teenagers to Christ and watch them grow spiritually right
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before our very eyes. And it was something that we had
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never imagined. But of course, we hadn't
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imagined it. It wasn't our plan.
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It was God's plan. See, we had tried to depend on
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our own understanding for so long.
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And when we finally gave up trying to figure out God's plan,
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he began to do some pretty crazy stuff that brought glory to
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Himself, which is the purpose we were created for, to bring glory
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to God. Proverbs 28 verse 26 says this.
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Those who trust their own insight are foolish, but anyone
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who walks in God's wisdom is safe.
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Anyone who trusts what they think is foolish, but anybody
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who walks in God's wisdom, the Bible says it's safe.
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So here's a question for you. Is there a situation in your
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life right now, right now, that you are hesitant to fully
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surrender control to God? I want you to think about that
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situation. We all have got something right.
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We all got our fingers most of the way open, our hands most of
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the way open, but it's still holding on to something.
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But here's what I want you to. If you got something in your
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hands, I want you to put it down just for a second.
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And I want you to hold out both fists in front of you. close
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your fists if you can hold them out in front of you.
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And I want you to do this with me, OK?
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This is something that I do every morning during my prayer
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time. And I want you to imagine that
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inside your fists is that situation that you are
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struggling to surrender to God. And on the count of three,
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here's what I want you to do. On the count of three, I want
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you to slowly open your hands and say this, Lord, I surrender
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this to you. So on the count of three, we're
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going to go. We're going to open our hands
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and say, Lord, I surrender this to you.
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Say it out loud with me. OK, All right, Ready. 123 Lord,
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I surrender this to you. And I'm telling you every
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morning that I do this, you can put your hands down.
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Every morning that I do this, God gives me this peace that I
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can't explain because what I know is that I when I put those
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situations in God's hands, they're in the best hands they
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can be in order to have control of that situation.
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So Step 2 in knowing God's plan for your life is to surrender.
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Control is to surrender what? That's exactly right.
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And here's Step 3 on your map. Step 3 on the map is this Pursue
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God's best. Pursue God's best.
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Verse 6 says this. Seek His will in all that you
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do. Seek His will in all that you
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do. Back in the day, I went to
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Shorter College and I remember seeing this pretty blind girl in
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several of my classes and I didn't know who she was, but I
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was determined to find out. I remember before fall break my
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freshman year asking this girl if I could help her with her
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computer assignments. You see, I'd kept an eye on her
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in computer class and I noticed that she never did her work
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because she was too busy messaging people on AOL Instant
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Messenger. So to my surprise, she agreed to
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meet me. So when we got back on campus
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after fall break, I met her in the computer lab to help her
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with her work. And for the next 4 hours, I see
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a lot of students over here for the next 4 hours.
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Do you know how much work we did?
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None. But it was the best 4 hours I'd
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spent a long, long time. It really, really was because I
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learned so much about this girl. She was good looking, which I
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already knew, OK, but she came from a strong Christian family.
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She was a strong believer. And she liked baseball, which is
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what I played at Shorter. So for the next four years, I
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continue to pursue her, which led us to getting married in
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2004. And 21 years later, I'm still
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pursuing her. But there were some other pretty
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girls out there. But Lauren was God's best for
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me. So I want to take just a time
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out, just real quick and just a quick commercial for people that
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are in the dating scene. OK, can I, can I give some of
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you teenagers and young people some dating advice?
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Good. You're going to have to listen
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anyways. Don't just settle for anyone.
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Don't just settle for anyone. Pursue God's best for you.
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And it might take time, but I promise you this, the waiting
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for God's best is worth it. It's worth it.
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Commercial over. But the word pursue means this.
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It means to actively and intentionally go after something
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with focus and effort. And for me, oh man, I was
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actively and intentionally finding ways to go after Lauren
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with extreme focus and effort. Probably more than my studies,
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sometimes even more than baseball.
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But this is what King Solomon means when he tells us to seek
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God's will for your life. You see, when you were a kid and
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you played hide and seek, or maybe some adults played it
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during Christmas, I don't know. But when you played hide and
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seek? You didn't just stand there
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waiting for the people that you were looking for to come to you,
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right? What did you do?
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You actively and intentionally went out to find those people,
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right? So I want you to write this down
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for a Christian. Here's what it means to pursue
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God's best. It means to actively and
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intentionally seek God's plan for your life, to actively and
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intentionally seek God's plan for your life.
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And if you're drawing, I want you to draw.
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A running person, OK? Person running OK, because
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you're being active. So in 2011, I was approached by
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a friend after an FCA event, and my friend asked me this.
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He said, Drew, have you ever thought about doing something
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besides teaching and coaching? And I literally lol like I
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laughed out loud. I laughed in his face as I
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confidently told him heck no man, I got all my education and
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teaching and Cartersville High School, that's my mission field.
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So no. But then he said these words
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that sent me on a journey that I never saw coming.
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And he said this. He said, Drew, I want to
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encourage you to ask God to open and close doors as he sees fit.
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So I went home and told Laura what my friend had said.
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And we began praying that simple prayer for God to open and close
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doors as he saw fit, not knowing what God was getting ready to
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do. And within a period of eight
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months from that conversation with my friend, God had called
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me out of teaching and coaching, which I thought I would do my
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whole career, and he redirected my path to full time church
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ministry, which I've been doing for the last 13 years.
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I didn't have a seminary degree. I had no experience working at a
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church. But I clearly remember the peace
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that I felt when I said yes to God's best for me.
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Did I see it coming? No, I didn't see it coming, but
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God taught me through all those years and all those
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circumstances that I could trust Him.
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But I must surrender control, and I must pursue His best for
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my life. See Isaiah 55, verses 8 and 9
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says this, and you may be very familiar with it.
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It says my thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, says the
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Lord, and my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
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For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my
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ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your
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thoughts. So Step 3 to knowing God's plan
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for your life is to pursue God's best is to pursue God's what his
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best for you. And then here's the result.
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The result is this, when you draw, draw close to God, He will
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show you the next step. When you draw close to God, he
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will show you the next step. So kids, draw an arrow or maybe
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on that last dot, maybe a couple different arrows just signifying
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the next step that you need to take.
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But the end of verse 6 simply says this.
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He talking about God will show you which path to take.
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Not your Mama, not your grandpa, not your auntie or your uncle,
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but God will show you which path to take.
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But here's what we've got to understand.
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When we read in the Bible and story after story, we see that
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God never reveals His whole plan for anybody, Not at one time.
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He only lets you see one piece at a time.
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Why? Why does He do that?
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Because He wants you to keep pursuing Him.
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That's why He wants a relationship with you.
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He doesn't want a transaction. It kind of reminds me of the
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Waze app. OK, if you're looking on your
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Waze app while you're driving in the car, at the very top, the
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banner simply gives you the next instruction, right and 1.5
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miles, turn left, blah, blah, blah, road right.
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OK, it's probably, you probably have a much better person saying
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that than I do, probably the British person or whatever it
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might be, But it only gives you the next step.
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It never gives you all the steps, but you never see the
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final destination until you have completed each next step that
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you're supposed to take. God doesn't promise to show you
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the entire map of your life, but He does promise to show you
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which path to take as you trust Him, as you surrender control,
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and as you pursue His best for your life.
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And sometimes God's best will surprise you as it did me.
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So James 48 says this. It says draw close to God and he
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will draw close to you. If you heard that one before,
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draw close to God and he will draw close to you.
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So can I give you 3 quick practical ways that you can draw
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close to God so you can know what the next step is for you?
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All good with that. Just real quick.
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OK? They're very simple.
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Not hard, very simple. But here's #1 read the Bible.
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So if you're drawing, draw a book.
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OK Draw a book right there. Read the Bible.
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The best way to get to know God is to read the letter that He
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wrote to you that tells you all about Himself and His plan for
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you. It's the best way for me.
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Here's what I do. I get up early in the morning, a
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little bit earlier than I would really like.
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I get a cup of coffee. I sit down in my chair with my
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Bible and my journal, and I read and I take notes.
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That's what I do. And there are more people that
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are, that are probably far along in their relationship with God
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that still struggle with this and they just, I get asked this
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question all the time. Hey, what do you do?
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How do, where do I start? Well, here's what I would say a
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simple place to start is by reading the proverb a day.
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There's 31 chapters in Proverbs. So just read 1 proverb a day.
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Or maybe you can pick two or three Psalms and read some of
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those and write down some notes that you that you learned.
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Or maybe you can start in the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke,
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and John and learn about the story of Jesus, but, but find
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some of those simple places to start.
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But can I tell you this? The best way that you can learn
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to dive deeper into scripture is by being a part of a Sunday
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school class. It's the best way because here's
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what Lauren and I found is that as we were in that stage of
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life, we were looking for people to do life with and in Shep
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Hilton Sunday School class and then eventually, eventually Adam
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Baker's Sunday school class and and so on, we found friends to
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do life with. Friends that would challenge us,
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friends that would help us know God better, friends that would
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pray for us, friends that would help us in difficult times and
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friends that held us accountable.
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But if you're not in a Sunday school class, I'm just telling
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you this, you're missing out. And I would encourage you today
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to find someone as you get into the new year.
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Make it your goal to go. I'm just going to try to find a
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class that fits us. But listen, life was not meant
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to do alone. Read the Bible.
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Jesus wasn't alone. He was with people.
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The disciples were alone. They were with with others, life
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was meant to be done in community.
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But join us study school class and get that's the best way to
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get started and diving deep into the Bible.
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And then through that, you can help yourself on your own.
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So that's number one, Number two, Number two is talk to God.
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OK, talk to God. So if you're drawing, draw a
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picture of a phone, OK, draw a picture of a phone, talk to God.
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So after I read my Bible, I always take a few minutes to
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talk to God. And the cool thing is, is that
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you can talk to God about anything, anything.
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And here's what prayer is. Prayer is simply having a
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reverent and real conversation with God.
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You have to understand who your authority is and he's the
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authority of you, right? So therefore, it's having a real
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and reverent conversation with God.
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So if you go, man, is there a way that you can kind of help me
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learn how to pray? Well, I am so glad you asked
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because I asked ChatGPT and it gave me a couple of great, a
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great answers for you. OK, I did ask, but I didn't know
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these. By the way, here's an acronym
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for you Ready, Pray, pray, PRAY. Here's what the P stands for.
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The P stands for praise, praise. And what you want to do is just
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take time to thank God for who he is and what he's done for
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you. Write down some some things that
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God's done for you and make sure you go back and you tell him
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thank you for those things, but praise him for his character,
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for loving you, for not treating you as your sins deserve.
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Praise God for who he is and what he's done.
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The R stands for repent and repent is just a fancy word that
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means to to ask God to forgive you where you've messed up and
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to help you do what's right to ask God to forgive you where you
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messed up and help you do what's right.
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The A means ask and this is where you get to bring your
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request to God for yourself, for your family and for your others.
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So you get to talk to him about God.
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This is I just want to pray for this friend.
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I want to pray for this family member.
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God, this is something I need to ask you to help me with, but
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ask. And then the why means yield.
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This is what we kind of been talking about a little bit this
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morning with surrender, right? And this is where you surrender
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all of your plans, all of your worries, and all of your
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situations to God. You yield.
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So pray, praise, repent, ask and yield.
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And then the last one is this. Listen and obey.
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Listen and obey. So if you're drawing, draw a
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picture of a person with some really big ears, OK, Listen and
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obey. So as you spend time reading the
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Bible and talking to God, He will begin to speak to your
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heart. I had somebody in between
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service ask a great question. How do you know when He's
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speaking? Well, here's what I've
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experienced. The more time I spend with God,
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the easier it is for me to recognize His voice.
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I'll give you an example. When I was in preschool, OK, all
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the parents at the end of the day would come and get their
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kids, and I couldn't wait for my mom to show up at the door.
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But there was a crowd of parents, and so sometimes I'd
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get nervous and scared my mom coming for me.
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But every single day I could hear my mom whistling a song
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coming down the hallway, and I knew that it was her coming to
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get me. That's what she'd whistle every
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day. And I knew that was my mom.
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But how did I know? I heard it every day.
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And the more time you spend with God, the more you'll be able to
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recognize His voice when He speaks to you.
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It may not be an audible voice, but you will know it when you
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hear it. And God speaks to us in
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different ways. He speaks to us through His
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Word, right through the Bible. He speaks to us through prayer.
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He speaks to us through other believers, And He also speaks to
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us through our circumstances. So when God prompts your heart
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to do something, you will have a choice to make.
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And here are your two choices. Are you ready?
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It's pretty rocket sciency right here.
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OK, obey or don't obey, right? Two choices that that's all.
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That's all you got. And when we read the Bible, we
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read story after story after story.
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Here's what we find out. When you obey, that produces
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blessings. When you disobey, that produces
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consequences every single time. So the choice is yours, but I
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highly recommend that you choose to obey.
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So in closing, want to take us back to the very first thing
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that we talked about. God has a what?
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He has a plan and he has a plan specifically designed for you.
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And by the way, God eventually allowed my wife Lauren to get
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pregnant and she had Price in 2010, then followed by Henley in
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2013, and then followed by Ellenie Kate in 2015.
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And then we had one more surprise in 2017 with Beckett.
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But here's the deal. If God would have allowed us to
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have kids when we wanted to have kids, I just don't believe that
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we would have had the opportunity to have such an
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impact in the lives of the countless teenagers that he
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brought our way. I just don't.
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And what's cool is, is that right outside after the service,
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I got to see several of those, a couple of guys that I coached
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baseball in in in high school years ago come out there.
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They're dads, they're here in church, they've grown up,
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they're serving the Lord. We just hired one at North Star
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Church, helping with our college ministry, and she's doing a
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phenomenal job. But just to see the fruit of
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what God allowed us to experience by just trusting in
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his plan. But in hindsight, Lauren and I
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are beyond grateful for the waiting and even for the
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difficult circumstances because God taught us that we can trust
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Him. But here's what I want to just
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make sure you hear before I finish today, OK?
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Listen to me. God loves you and God is
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faithful, and God has a plan for your life.
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But you must trust Him. You must surrender control and
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you have to pursue His best as you draw close to Him.
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Will you bow your heads with me? I have a couple of questions for
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you as we come to this time of response.
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And question number one, is this, What action do you need to
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take today after hearing this message?
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Immediate action. What is it that you need to do?
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The Bible says that we're not just to be hearers of the Word,
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but we're to be doers. So what is God telling you to do
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after hearing his message today? Is there a situation in your
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life that you're struggling to to surrender to God?
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Man, as we sing in just a minute, take that time to sit in
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your seat or come to the altar and surrender that to God.
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Or just ask a friend, will you pray for me about this?
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Or maybe you're, you're going man, Drew, I really need to
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start reading and, and talking to reading the Bible and talking
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to God more and listening to him and so I can obey and know what
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he's saying. Oh, man, I'd encourage you to,
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to ask God to help you with that as well.
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Or come talk to a pastor, or even if you're not in a Sunday
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school class, ask them how you can get connected to, to one at
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the beginning of the year. But maybe, just maybe, God's
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speaking to your heart about surrendering your life to Jesus,
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which is where a relationship with God truly begins.
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And it's the most important decision that you'll ever make
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in your life because it will determine where you will spend
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eternity. And there are pastors down front
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that can help you know how you can start a relationship with
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Jesus. But whatever God is asking you
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to do right now, I encourage you to be obedient.
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Heavenly Father, thank you so much for your word.
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Thank you for the power that comes through it.
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And Lord, you tell us to trust in you with all of our heart.
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Don't depend on our own understanding.
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Seek your will in all that we do and you will show us which path
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to take. Thank you for not leaving us
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alone. Thank you God, that you're a
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Father who loves us and who wants what's best for us and
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who's willing to show us what our next step is.
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So as we trust you, or as we surrender to you, as we pursue
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you God, show us what that next step is in Jesus name.