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Episode #187: Seeing Through a Different Lens to Gain Clarity · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hi, Welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev. Good day, Good
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day, good day. How are you? So? I was prepared this
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morning for that question. So today I have contacts in so with my vision,
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I see up close very easily. I can read super small print,
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but seeing at a distance, it's blurry, like I I could see you,
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I could, you know, I see your face like all the stuff,
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but it's just not detailed. So I can't operate without glasses, you
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know, just can't read the street signs type of thing or a license plate.
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So we're gonna go out and play in the desert. And I wanted
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to wear sunglasses a little bit more protection from my eyes than my regular glasses
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as they kind of wrap around, and so now I can see at a
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distance very well. But now I have to wear the readers so I can
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see up close. So it's an interesting So my thing right now, you
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know this morning is just seeing through a different lens, right, yeah,
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go ahead, And how I was to say, and how adapting. So
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I've had to adapt. I've had to get a tool, right, a
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tool, so I have something in my eyes to see you at the distance.
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But now I need a tool to see up clothes, so go ahead
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and show what you're going to say. I was gonna say that we just
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watched a show, a documentary here at the house. It's called Superhuman.
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It was actually really good because Alex Frari had done an interview with this gal.
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I cannot remember what her name is right now, but she's also the
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person that created the movie Superhuman. She has a lot of information that he
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had brought up. But anyway, she's a creator that she's in the movie
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as well, and it talks about, you know, learning how to see
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with all of our senses, with with our celves, not even not even
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focusing on the eyes. We put so much emphasis on the eyes. Here's
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an example. I am also using readers recently. But when I have when
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I'm coming through in these these experiences that I have now, I will say
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that I don't know if you want to call it in meditation or it's in
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between place, right, especially when I'm coming back into this body or whatever
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from the night. It's just it's a weird sensation. But I'll see things.
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It's such a fine close detail, like that every single fiber of a
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carpet, pieces of sand that I can't see here and it talks about people
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doing this stuff, and we've kind of touched on this a little bit in
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the past. They even had shown the kids again with the masks on their
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eyes, reading books going in to the grocery store, but not just kids.
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It's not something that's limited to children. And I had done some research
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on this and they were saying, well, you need to be this age
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in order to be able to pick this up. And that's not true.
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I don't that. To me, that's a limiting thought. That means that
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they're they're amy, You're just gonna have to stay with how you are.
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You're fucked because you didn't do this between now and seven years old, right
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or beginning into seven. It's like, I don't believe that. I don't
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believe that's all. I don't believe limiting beliefs. I actually will push against
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it, and maybe that's my way of finding solutions to it. But it's
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like they were reading and doing these things, and there was a woman that
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she's like using magnifying glass that she has a hold up to everything to read
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it, and she's learned how to read this way and see things this way
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without doing anything. They're showing kids playing. There's a lot of things,
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but there's a lot of things in that show, that documentary that's really it's
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eye opening for a lot of people. A lot of people will be familiar
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with a lot of stuff, but I think some of the stuff would probably
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still surprise them. So that was awesome, and then taking that into it
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because I've just been kind of drawn to certain things. I'd watched The Shack
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a long time ago, and I know you've seen it as well, such
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a good movie, but I watched things again because we've changed. We're not
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the same. We're like speaking of seeing through a lens, we're seeing things
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through a different lens now because our perspectives, our perceptions have changed. It
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happens. It's a phenomenal place to be in. And just recognizing and watching
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that and really picking up the messages, and it had messages throughout the whole
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thing, but even hearing them differently this time because I would have been in
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a different space when I had seen it before. So I find it fascinating.
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But it's funny that we're talking about the vision, but it went right
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to that show because to me, that with that woman having that amount of
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problem, and that's where some of my struggle has been but like I said,
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to be able to see so crystal clear details when I'm in that in
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between place or if I'm in meta tation and something comes up, you can
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see such fine details. So to me, it's like that's something. I
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don't think that my suit's broken down. From my perspective, I feel like
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I've picked up information. Maybe I watched the commercial, do you know what
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I mean that said, hey, if you do this, you're gonna have
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this with your vision. Or I read the back of a bottle and it
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said, well, if you take this, it's going to affect your who
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knows, Or because I saw my mom, and I saw my grandma and
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I saw my grandpa, you know what I mean. If we see all
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those things, we almost feel like that's part of the process. And now
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for me it's you know, it's it's looking into it and seeing looking into
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it and see how things can change, how our perspectives can change, how
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we can see from a different way instead of trying to focus on this.
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And it's like for me, with our eyes, it's like when am I
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not wanting to see? So for mine, it's it's been up close stuff,
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so seeing things up close, and now I'm noticing a distance issue.
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Well, that to me is because I'm of these right here that I don't
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feel are necessary, but right now they're necessary tool, as you said,
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for me to use right now until I can get my mind or find out
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what are my blocks? How did I create this? Or how can I
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uncreate this? How can I create what I want to create? So it's
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like this whole journey is part of this whole process that you're even talking about.
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And then you know realizing it's not a punishment, it's a tool.
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It's a tool right now and now I'm getting new information so I can do
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something with it. I don't know what to do with that yet, but
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I haven't made me ask questions within, so I know the answers will come.
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But one thing I want to say is that I changed something for me
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in me right I made a change, and now I need a tool to
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help me do something different, Yes, something different than what I'm used to
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doing. And so this is what we do when we're on a healing journey,
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is we're used to doing something so certain way, and when we step
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on that path of healing, whether it's the physical body mental state, emotional
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state, spiritual connection, whatever that is. When you decide to make a
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change, you need the tools, you need other information, other guidance to
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help you move in the direction to uh make the shift in the in the
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in the direction that you're going or want to go right. So just bringing
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that around to this is my tool today for me to see up close.
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So because I made a change. The other thing, you know, you're
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talking about limiting beliefs. Yeah, it doesn't matter what age you are.
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I am absolutely fascinated with doctor Joe Dispense in his work. I love it
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and I just I've listened this past week three times to view that he did
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with ed Milette and just listening to it over and over and over again because
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of his absolute belief and proof, scientific proof, like report proof on paper,
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seeing the graphs, seeing the images of people healing themselves at any age,
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children, middle older, like any age range, just healing uh deep,
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like a woman who's been blind since she was a child, and then
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she does she follows his process and now you know, she sees images.
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What he talks about is on the stage there's two giant floral arrangements and because
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of her vision she thought he had bodyguards on the stage, on the stage
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the whole time, and then over the time of them being together and this
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you know, huge group of people following the direction of doctor Joe Despender's process,
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she was able to see that they were actually floral arrangements. And this
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was only in like within a week timeframe of being in there. So we
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are I just am. It just fascinates me so much of how incredible we
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are. And then along with that is you know when we talk about limiting
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beliefs. This last time I went to the eye doctor. I go every
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year get my eyes checked, and this time when I went, his comment
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to me was you have the perfect vision for glasses. And I had to
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think about that for a while. I'm thinking, Wow, isn't that a
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ginormous seed you just planted in my if I if I take it on right,
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if I believe that. But it's saying you're gonna wear glasses for like
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forever type of thing like this, keep this vision because it's perfect to wear
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glasses, which means, you know, I gotta pay for these things every
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year, so be mindful. It's having like a super I know, Bev
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and I we we listen to our conversations with people, and we really listen
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to what's being said to us, and then I mean, we use our
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bodies. I'm speaking for you, Bev. So if I'm out of if
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I'm I'm not speaking correctly, then let me know. But you feel those
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words, when those words like penetrate your aura and they're coming at you,
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you can feel like, ooh, this is your belief. This is not
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my belief. Your belief is I have perfect, perfect vision because that's your
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training, that's your programming, that's your way of speaking to your clients.
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That doesn't set well with me because that is a limiting belief. That is
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that is telling me that I'm perfect. I am perfect the way I am
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and it's probably not gonna get any better type of thing. So it's up
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to me to take that on, to take those words on and own it
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and say, oh, I got the perfect vision for glasses. Isn't that
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great? And own it? Or like Bev's talking about, you know,
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and doctor Joe despends like, why do you need glasses? You don't need
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them. You do your process, you do your healing, you do your
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your reprogramming, you follow you know, doctor Joe despends his process or somebody
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else who might resonate with you. I'm not saying he's the one, but
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that's who I follow, and so I will talk highly of that. Find
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the process that feels good to you, to utilize to make changes, and
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along the way, utilize the tools that's going to help you to move in
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the direction you want to go. And I feel like it gives me a
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different perspective. I remember giving my mom a hard time about picking on her,
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but I learned that. I learned that from my stepdad. He was
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always picking. He was like the big brother, always picking. So we
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all learned to pick on each other all the time, which was ridiculous.
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But I have a different perspective on things. It's like even to have like
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readers on to bend down to work on something, it's very it can be
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very frustrating. And you talk about using the words and using the words,
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Oh, I can't look at that. I need my glasses. So I
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keep myself in that constant state of that need for the glasses at this point.
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But again it's am I stuck in this place? No? But I'm
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exploring this place where I'm at because once I've become neutral. I no longer
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have anything to learn from it, but I've had stuff to learn from it.
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I really have, and I understand that I have a different perspective.
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It's no different than going through child abuse or any of that other stuff.
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I am who I am because of my experiences, but those experiences gave me
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a different perspective, and now I'm on the other side of them, so
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it doesn't feel so heavy dark, and it's just I'm more neutral about all
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that stuff. So it's the same. Nothing different right now for me with
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glasses. It's learning to be in that space. Maybe it is learning to
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see what the eyes closed, you know, and that puts us into quietness
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and stuff like that. It's a fascinating thing our bodies do that. I
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was going to say it fascinating things. So Thanksgiving great, hung out with
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the family, it was great. The next day we were supposed to have
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another Thanksgiving with my at my niece's house. I woke up that morning and
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my low back was kind of bothering me. Well, it didn't. It
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didn't get any better, and I can isolate what it came from, but
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I'm not so sure. I'm ready to talk about that, but the low
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back was bothering me. And I wake up that next morning and as the
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day progresses, it's getting so bad I can't even get like I can't for
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me to walk around. It was miserable. It was a miserable space to
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be in, and I kept thinking, oh no. I tried everything I
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could to go to go be able to go to my niece's house for this
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for Thanksgiving so we could all be together, and it just wasn't working.
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And three months, like, you're just gonna have to stay home, You're
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just gonna I'm like, nope, I'm still gonna try this, this and
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this Night's tried everything. I tried muscle relaxers and anti inflammatories. I didn't
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get into a deep space of meditation, but I had gone there a couple
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of times, but not really putting any much effort into it. So I
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know the space that I was in, and I just wasn't in that space.
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Could it have made it better faster? Possibly? Quite possibly. I
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could probably go with a yes on that, But it's like so as the
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day went by, so I just knew that it was. At that point
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I was frustrated and we were sitting outside talking, and he was like pointing
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out the positives. I'm like, ah, you know, you're right,
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You're right. Who knows what this kept us from or whatever? It just
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wasn't meant to be. And it's all right. It's not to push against,
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you know, not to swim upstream. I don't have to do that.
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So I just kind of let go and let it flow. Well.
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By yesterday, I was feeling better, which was great because I went to
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see that Matt Frasier in Laughlin, so that was awesome. But and then
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I ended up not doing work in the morning because there was things that happened
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that let me know that I wasn't to work. And I also know that
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the way that I was feeling, I needed to honor myself. And it's
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like, how often do we take the time to do this stuff. I
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never would have in the past. Ever, even if I was as miserable
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as I was that on Friday, I would have still gone to try to
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go to work because I know that that's you know, eventually it would have
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gotten better. I would have forgotten about it. Maybe energy would have flowed
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through me. Who knows, who knows my thought process on that, But
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it's just being aware of those things, and it's like our body is not
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here to punish us, it's here to slow us down. And I could
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have stayed in that state of frustration and victim and anger and all these other
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things, which was all emotional, and then it's I didn't have to be
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and it's like I through stuff in my mind that helps helped me deal with
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this, the low back stuff, the issues that I was having. Of
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course, we're right around the full moon, so recognizing that things are coming
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to a surface but also for us to release. But also I'm noticing I'm
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just changing so much. I don't know, it's hard to put a finger
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on. I feel happier more often than not. I'm smiling a lot more.
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I'm just enjoying doing the things that I'm doing, and then recognizing when
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I don't feel feel like I'm really in my passionate place when I'm doing something,
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then automatically to shift to what feels good, and that may be nothing
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more than my thoughts. I'm gonna go I'm gonna go back to the glass
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of things, because when you start talking, something popped in. So I'm
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gonna go there first. That the belief of needing the glasses right, how
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often? I mean it's it's all the time. When a child, now,
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remember our programming from zero to seven. So when a little child has
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been in that moment, does need glasses to see. But then the parents
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keeps telling that story over and over and over, and so the child is
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taking on that information. Oh they need glasses, they need glass right.
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They just keep hearing that over and so the child's like, oh, I
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do need glasses. I do need glasses. I do And so they just
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grow up. That's a belief system. That's how belief systems get programmed into
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our subconscious and so then as they get older, they'll always need glasses and
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less. Again bringing up Joe Despenda, they find some kind of work and
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thinking, you know, the idea of oh can I can change this?
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We don't know what we don't know. I didn't know this stuff until I
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started learning it. So just being open to that information and the possibilities,
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I mean, possibilities are endless in this lifetime and all the things we can
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do. And and they're finding, you know, more and more things that
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how powerful we really are with our with our mind and our mental awareness and
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our emotions and so just being open to that and when you were talking about,
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well, there was probably a reason why I wasn't supposed to go to
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that gathering, and there was a reason why I wasn't supposed to go to
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work or whatever that might be. And you may never know, right,
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you may never know what that was what made me in an accident you avoided
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or something. And I say that because on Saturday, so yesterday, I
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was I had to go to a fund, I had to go to a
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function for my job, and then afterwards, Now, mind you, in
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the back of my head, I'm thinking, Okay, I'm going to this
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and I need to get home because I have all this other stuff to do.
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And my boss says, well, because the shop small Saturday, She's
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like, I'm gonna go walk the businesses, So do you wanna go with
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me? Now, my my ego is saying, you got stuff to do,
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you need to get home, But something in me was saying, no,
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you need to go do this, you need to walk with her.
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Okay, So you know, I was just having that internal battle because you
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know that ego stuff, and when you have things to do, you just
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need to get go do them. So I was like, Okay, I'll
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walk with you. So we walked. I saw in a store a store
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owner who I have not seen for years, and I saw her. I
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was just so excited and gave her a hug. And had I not gone
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on that walk, I wouldn't have seen her, because who knows if I
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would have ever went into that store. I'm just being honest in doing this
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with walking. And then I we we had walked long enough, like I
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got I was getting hungry, and then it ended up like I left.
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I went back to my vehicle and left. And then I'm trying to think,
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well, I'm kind of hungry, so what I want to pick up
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something on my way home? What am I going to have? So then
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the place I decided to go, I go in a place my order,
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I'm waiting for it. A person comes in, oh I have not seen
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for years, and got a hug from them and reconnected and exchanged numbers and
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stuff. When I left, I took a route home, and right where
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I would be pulling out of the parking lot, there was an accident and
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I everything along during that front. You know, of course, I always
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I when things like this happened. Man, I re rewind I'm like,
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man if I wouldn't have done this and did and I wouldn't have seen this
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person. It's not that I would have maybe been in this accident, who
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knows, but just the way everything lined up was just a fascinating day,
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and I was so thankful for it, for all of it. It was
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so cool. And that's what we can be thankful, not knowing, even
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not knowing that there was an accident, right, it's just being thankful.
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And it was being thankful one hundred percent that I understand what you're saying.
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I'm going to go back to the glasses now, and what popped into my
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head when you were talking about the glasses, about the glasses from these glasses,
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damn it. Sometimes we see somebody that wears glasses that a lot of
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people idolize or like or whatever. So it's like as a child, because
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that's what popped into my head. And I don't know who that would have
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been for me, but it popped in my head for a reason, But
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it was we might have seen someone that wore glasses and thought, oh,
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I want to wear glasses, and it's like our manifestation. Yes, our
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manifestation would have been a lot slower in that process, in that creation.
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But we created it. And that's what I probably would say. No matter
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how you created it, it was created. It doesn't have to stay that
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way. So it's it's just like I said before, it's exploring it and
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then recognizing there's reasons that this stuff comes up. Whether that was for you,
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me, both of us probably you know what I mean, or whoever
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else is listening. But I do feel like that has a lot to do
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with it because we would have looked up to those persons. Now that's the
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same thing that's going to happen to somebody else. Yep. I can recognize
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what to stand in your own power to be happy with who you are,
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not to want to be somebody else. We're perfect just the way we are.
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Yep. I idolize somebody in my family. They wore glasses. I
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thought they were amazing and I wanted to be just like them. And in
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third grade I got glasses. I had to wear glasses. There you go,
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and been wearing them ever since. So I'm a testimony to that.
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Thank you for bringing one. It's true. That's that's cool. So I
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mean, well, but we have our we have our instance is right if
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somebody's doing good and everybody's idolizing them and looking up to them. It's like
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you kind of find yourself in that same space, but it's like it's like
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looking up to our own self, like looking up to that and looking at
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how far we've come and not judging anybody and not judging self, and then
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even recognizing when we're judging whether it's good or bad, because judging is like,
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oh, you look really nice tonight. That's still a judgment, right,
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that's still you're still noticing something, but it's but it's just the feeling.
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And it's like in our minds or in our creating when we're looking at
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something that we appreciate, like maybe I might appreciate the clothing, I might
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appreciate the body style, or I might appreciate the smile or the face or
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the skin or the hair. So we're creating all the time. So if
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we can train ourselves to constantly find things that we like, now we're creating
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everything we want to visually in a way that we want to instead of noticing
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all the things that we don't like, Oh gosh, that person had a
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what ever on their face? Or you know, we could go through a
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whole process which I won't go through, but it's like, i'll give you
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the opposite of it. It's like seeing the nice, tight, firm,
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young skin, long lashes, beautiful clear eyes, thick hair, you know
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what I mean, there's a shine to it. There's all these things,
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like I notice all these things, and that's kind of where I've kind of
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transition from in a lot of ways. And then now that we've had this
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conversation, realizing, well, now I have more a focus back to eyes
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to want to explore this even more so that I'm not passing it on to
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the kids. And if I do pass it on, that's on them.
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That's on them to figure out how to go get past this, because I
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do know they do look up to me. So I just see it as
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in those ways, so recognizing it's not necessary. And then and I noticed
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my grandson because he has his glasses on and maybe who knows. I mean,
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this was something that started, we noticed it when you as a baby.
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So yeah, so looking back to see one, I wasn't stronger.
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But it's like there's such we there's so much information there all the time,
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all the time. It's just it's amazing to me, and it's not something
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for us to go fix, not necessarily, but if when we fix things
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within ourselves or we look at stuff within ourselves, it does resolve a lot
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of issues for us. I say issues, but I say that loosely because
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it's just self created. It's not good or bad. It's like I said,
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explore it. It's an opportunity for exploration. It's an opportunity for understanding
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what someone else might be going through and then recognizing we don't have to be
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in that struggle. But a lot of times I think that we feel like
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we do, so we might get past things that we put ourselves into struggle,
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and then there's little pieces that need to be kind of cleaned up.
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Still need is not really the right right word, and cleaned up is really
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not probably the right word either, because it's part of our evolution. But
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there's things that we've been holding on to that I probably we don't recognize that
25:55
we are and I think too well. In this lifetime healing mentally, emotionally,
26:03
physically, and spiritually, it has been huge for my life, my
26:07
life journey. And so who's to say that, I mean, it's how
26:14
many people right now are saying at such a time as this. It is
26:17
a fascinating and an incredible time to be on this planet in the physical body.
26:22
And who's to say that my eyesight is part of my healing journey and
26:29
so learning, you know, Joe to Spenda comes before me, and I
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get the information from him, and then should I choose to utilize that information
26:40
and I change my eyesight and don't need glasses at all. Now I'm a
26:45
walking testimony of that we can do this. So maybe that's part of my
26:51
journey too. I don't know right now, It's okay where I'm at.
26:55
I just knowing that, like you were saying, like I'm happier now in
26:59
this with with my life compared to and only comparing to my past, not
27:07
comparing to other people, so just compared to my other my past, like
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it's it's a huge difference. And so just knowing that that the healing process
27:18
has created that now, if I want to go deeper and further with my
27:22
healing as far as my body goes, then maybe my eyesight's the next thing.
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I don't know, And it's okay, it's okay, it doesn't matter.
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It's not something we have to have control over. It's just something.
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It's just exploring the journey, I don't know, and then finding yourself in
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a space of okay, yeah it doesn't matter. Yeah, but I was
27:45
able to get your contacts. You're able to go to your you know what
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I mean. You're able to do all these things. And even if you're
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not got shows different ways, you know, taking a call under and looking
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at out through it and looking at through the holes and then looking back to
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call, you know, processing distance and far look up stuff. I haven't
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done a lot of us, so this is I can already hear my souls
28:06
like talking to me. Look up stuff, it says, go on YouTube
28:08
and has all kinds of stuff like you can go on YouTube and you can
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find eye strengthening exercises, just like when you can do face yoga. I
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did it a couple of times and I noticed a huge difference. And I
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haven't taken the time to do it anymore since I just haven't had I just
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haven't taken the time for it. Yeah, So it's like it's I find
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it fascinating this where we put ourselves at I do. I find it fascinating.
28:33
And we've been talking about eyesight and glasses specifically. But listen, Bev,
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you know just said just a little bit ago and I affirmed it that
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you know, we look at other people and we might idolize them or look
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up to them, and then we take on those physical traits. Well,
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that also happens with a generational disease, right, which is not the seeds
29:07
have been planted. That that's a thing. But not all diseases are generational.
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Not all diseases are are are for us to experience. So to speak,
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we have lived with somebody with a certain type of disease, and because
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we're related to them or we've just been in their energy for so long,
29:30
we take that on in our own body. So we're manifesting it in our
29:34
own body when really we didn't have to do that, we didn't need to
29:37
do it. But also the belief system, right subconscious mind again is well,
29:45
my grandfather had it, my dad had it, so I'm going to
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have it type of thing. My mom, my grandmother had it, my
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mom had it. Now I'm it's and how do they say it's inevitable you're
29:56
going to get it? I mean that's been handed down with breast cancer and
30:02
diabetes and Parkinson's and all kinds of stuff, and that really the truth is
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you don't have to take it on at all. I just saw not too
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long, it's been a little bit, maybe about a year or so.
30:21
I know of a gentleman who he was older, had Parkinson's and has since
30:29
passed. But then I saw his son, and his son was taking pretty
30:33
much taking care of him. When I saw the sun, I could see
30:36
those same traits and I'm like, yeah, he's taking that on, when
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really it probably wasn't even his to take on type of thing. It's that
30:48
belief system. Those limiting beliefs are so strong, and this is why it's
30:53
so important to have that awareness. Have self awareness, have you know,
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mental awareness, have emotional awareness, just really being aware of what you're thinking,
31:06
what you're believing, how you're talking, how you're feeling emotionally, and
31:11
the conversations you're having. Just like the doctor, we look up to the
31:15
doctors. The doctors say, well, this is a I like three months.
31:22
Well, if I choose to believe that and hang on to that and
31:26
live out those days feeling like that's the truth, that will be my truth.
31:33
But how many people are like, Okay, well I'm gonna go live
31:34
my best life. I only have three minds, and then ten years later,
31:37
they're still here. Happens all the time because they've surrendered to joy,
31:45
they've surrendered to love, they surrendered to raising their vibration. Well, in
31:51
a higher vibrational frequency, our body heels or is more apt to heal.
31:57
So there's that. Yeah, it's interesting that you brought up how you were
32:02
watching the sun, how he's picked up some of the traits, and it's
32:07
I remember watching my mom when she was with my grandma, when she was
32:12
basically on her deathbed, and I remember thinking, or I remember the thoughts
32:16
that this is going to be what takes my mom down, Like she like
32:21
she's she's matching her energy to this energy. Now, she didn't end up
32:25
with the same situation that my grandmother had, but she ended up transitioning not
32:30
long after. I mean, it was probably within a couple of years afterwards
32:34
after my grandma, but I knew, I knew at that time, well,
32:37
probably within a Actually it wasn't a couple of years. I think,
32:39
well maybe it would have been, but anyways, neither here nor there.
32:43
But I recognize, like in that instant I saw something and then not having
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an understanding of it. We always want these big woohoo yahoo moments you know
32:52
what I mean, all the time. But we have them all the time.
32:53
Yeah, all the time we do. Because even that was a moment,
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even you're talking about that, right, Regnizing those things was a moment
33:00
because it's not just it's just something else. But then again I go back
33:04
to the whole same thing again, what are we giving our attention to?
33:07
You know what I mean? What are we watching? Because we don't want
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to There's things that we want to create in our life, and we're creating
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with every single thing that we do. Our thoughts, our foods are are
33:15
what we watch, what we listen to, what we are thinking, what
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we're what we put our attention onto, probably repeating some things, but it's
33:24
like we do. We're creating all the time. And it's like, really,
33:28
sit and look at beautiful pictures, find people that you find that are
33:30
beautiful, look at them, find the body type that you like, and
33:35
explore that on a regular basis. It's not it doesn't even have to be
33:37
a vision board, but it's like, what are you putting your time into?
33:40
Are you sitting there? Are you sitting there worried sometimes that you're aging.
33:45
I have, yes, but I also came from that for my mom.
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My mom was just absolutely beautiful. You know, I'm at this place
33:51
last night, and I was thankful because I thought, you know, I
33:53
don't I don't need him to call on me and give me any information that
33:58
Matt Frasier. I don't need him to give any medium ship right now because
34:01
I'm gaining information all along the way. I'm watching how he's handling the audience.
34:07
And he was awesome. He really was. I really never put that
34:09
much attention into watching him on anything on YouTube or anything. He's very much
34:15
a showman and he's like from the same area I think about where Long Island
34:20
medium comes from, same energy, but even high you know, he's got
34:22
to be moving around and stuff like that. But it was just phenomenal.
34:27
But I can tell you, right at one particular point, before he was
34:30
doing anything, I saw my mom so crystal clear with their blonde, beautiful
34:34
hair, like young, like maybe the timeframe from my wedding, so it
34:37
have been like thirty years ago, but she always looked good in her hair.
34:40
She just always reminded me she did an until she transitioned but she reminds
34:45
me of an angel honestly, because she had this nice, beautiful blonde hair.
34:49
It just like illuminated her, it really did. And so she showed
34:52
up last night and I'm like so thankful because there was no missing it,
34:57
there was no denying it. She was perfectly the with me right then,
35:00
and it was it was pretty awesome. And then like going through the processes.
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But it's just recognizing those are the things to pay attention to. It's
35:07
not the the illness or the accidents, or the the body that you don't
35:13
want, or the things about yourself that you don't like. It's looking what
35:15
do you like? You know what I mean? So if you're going to
35:17
create yourself and you're going to close your eyes and create it, you've got
35:21
to kind of have a visual in your mind. If you don't, I
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say, you don't have to, but a visual in your mind of what
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you do like, because you're creating, you're looking at a space of something
35:30
that's not even it's not even true. It's like it reminds me of looking
35:32
back at pictures, right we look back at pictures and like, what was
35:36
my problem? I thought I was so ugly back then? And heavy and
35:38
all these things, and it's like you don't see that anymore. And it's
35:43
because we were looking through these glasses or these lenses or these you know,
35:47
perceptions, perspectives of ourselves that we weren't good enough and we weren't perfect because
35:52
we were idolizing somebody else. And I'm sure that person probably didn't think they
35:54
were perfect and found all kinds of flaws within themselves, right, I mean,
35:59
so it's just process. But I'm just saying all this stuff to recognize
36:02
that we create. We're creating all the time, and we create things that
36:07
we whether we wanted or not, we created. So it's like, what
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what are you want to spend devoting your time to? I changed my body
36:15
a lot. If you wanted to go by genetics, I would have been
36:17
I would have been skinny forever. I was always skinny. I was like
36:21
one hundred and twenty five pounds. Genetics. My uncles and everybody else genetics
36:25
on my mother's side. You know, they were all tall. They could
36:30
get lean and lanky, but not really. I mean they might look muscular
36:34
because they were so freaking lean, But it's like you weren't seeing a whole
36:37
lot of stuff, and it was stuff that I went and did because I
36:38
kept visually looking at these bodies all day long, these different workouts, and
36:43
I'd be like, Okay, that's what I want. Okay, but I'm
36:45
taller, you know, all the stuff, because we're creating all the time.
36:49
And that's how I helped create myself. But then I created my own
36:52
issues within that. So I would see, oh, well, I got
36:55
water and it's smoking, my legs smooth, and muscles aren't showing up,
36:59
you know, And then I would stay in that space of us worry and
37:00
concern and like, there's a problem. There's nothing wrong with us. There's
37:06
nothing wrong with us. It's just like, what do you want to create?
37:08
Now? Okay, so I created that body? What else can I
37:12
do? Yeah? What else can I do with this machine? A hundred
37:16
percent? That's malleable, right, a freaking microscope at whatever density they have
37:22
to go, how many times they have to zoom into you, you're nothing.
37:25
I mean, there's particles, there's there's space in between your particles.
37:29
There's so it's not even a solid object. We're not even solid. So
37:32
we're so malleable. I feel like, yeah, well I had I know
37:37
I had it planned in my subconscious as a belief that that when I got
37:42
about a certain age that I was going to gain weight because I watched my
37:47
grandmother do it, and I watched my mother do it, and I watched
37:51
my aunt do it, and it goes back too well. They did it
37:55
so inevitable that's going to happen to me too. So Dad, I got
38:00
to wait. Like I'd been the biggest I'd ever been, heaviest I'd ever
38:04
been, and I'm like, this is miserable. I was miserable physically,
38:08
just not feeling good in my body. And then I was the one that
38:13
had to change that. So I had to get the tools. So I'm
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gonna go back to what I was saying earlier. I had to get the
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tools that were gonna help me do that. And I also have to focus,
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and I say have to for these changes. Is like BEV was talking,
38:30
is focus on what you want. I want a smaller body. I
38:36
want to feel lighter. I want to wear nice fitting clothing. I want
38:43
to feel comfortable in my clothes. I want right. So, as I
38:46
started that journey and changing my eating habits, moving my body more, also
38:53
the mental focus the emotion, How am I feeling about myself? It's all
39:00
a package deal. Like we think we got to do one thing and that's
39:04
going to fix everything. No, you're going to implement one thing and then
39:07
you're gonna start stacking the next thing, and you're gonna start stacking the next
39:09
thing. It's called habit stacking. And it's like once one thing becomes a
39:15
habit. So the eating, Okay, I'm good at I'm better at my
39:19
eating habits. I eat, you know, more nutrition meals. I you
39:22
know, have more protein shakes throughout the day instead of garbage, you know,
39:27
junk food. So okay, now that's a habit. Now what am
39:30
I going to do? Net Well, now I'm gonna implement moving my body
39:32
more. So I'm gonna do those two things incongruency right through as much as
39:37
I can. When that becomes a habit, now I start something else.
39:40
So it doesn't mean you have to do it all at once, but it
39:45
is a package deal, and you're going to implement different things at different times
39:51
as you can do them. And you know, we know everybody has busy
39:54
lives right now, we know that. So you do what you can do
40:00
for now and then get good at that, and then do the next step.
40:07
I love it. Yeah, as I used to when I stepped on
40:12
this healing journey, there was other things going on in my life that I
40:20
took it on as I need to learn all of this stuff right now.
40:22
When well, when I took that on, the universe definitely delivered and I
40:28
had so much information coming at me. Then I got overwhelmed and I shut
40:31
down. That's my mo o. Man. If I get overwhelmed, I
40:35
shut down, and then I'm not making any progress. So don't do that.
40:40
Trust me on my experience, and then I'm sharing with you that.
40:45
Take what resonates for now, implement and then add the next step, and
40:51
just do what you can do. If it's if it's just you know,
40:55
talking about like moving your body. It suggested you do it thirty minutes every
41:00
day. Well, you don't have thirty minutes consecutively to ten minutes in the
41:04
morning, ten minutes in the afternoon, ten minutes in the evening, or
41:07
ten minutes in the morning, twenty minutes in the evening. Like, just
41:10
implement and maybe right now it's only three days a week. Great, it's
41:15
better than what you were doing before. Most likely we'ren't doing anything. Now
41:19
you're doing something different. Now we got to get the mind and the body
41:22
in congruency of making this change. So it's like, okay, set a
41:27
timer, it's time to move your body. That is, using a tool
41:30
to get you to move your body, to help you remember to move your
41:34
body because your subconscious mind is going to say, I'll do it later.
41:37
Ah, we need to relax a little longer. Oh well, you know,
41:43
I got too much to do. We talk ourselves out of it.
41:45
So utilize the tools that you have to help you be on track to move
41:52
in the direction you want to move in. I love it. And then
41:57
yesterday I've been practicing, Well, I do it. Then I stopped,
42:00
but I started up again. Yesterday was just writing my story, writing down
42:06
everything you want. Oh, thank you for this, my new beautiful vehicle
42:08
that I drive, thank you for my home that I live in. Thank
42:13
you for you know, having all this time to go travel with my family,
42:15
all my family and go to like all kinds of places in the world.
42:19
And thank you. It's going through that and then not just doing it
42:22
one time, it's doing it over and over and over again. It's like,
42:24
how are we utilizing the time that we have. And I use time
42:30
because that's what we use here we're in the three D or we're in on
42:34
the planet, and we use time currently. So it's like just recognizing what
42:38
are you doing, what are you creating? What are you looking at?
42:44
Or what have you created that you don't like so you can change it?
42:47
I mean even that, it's like, like you said, it's just looking
42:52
at well, if you don't like your eyes looking at someone else's eyes,
42:54
you know, the eyes that you like, what are the what do clear
42:57
eyes look like? And what color do you want them to be? You
43:00
know? Because I think we can do a lot of that stuff. I
43:02
don't think. I don't. I'm a non believer in genetics. What do
43:07
they say? I think they say one percent of its actual genetics, and
43:10
I think they're only saying one percent just to be nice, because I don't
43:13
believe that it is. I feel like everything is. We can create it
43:17
from what we've seen, her, experienced whatever. That's how we're taking it
43:22
on. And if you want to get you, if you want to learn
43:24
more about genetics and DNA and epigenetics and all that, then follow the person
43:30
I follow. I'm not saying this is the person, but the person I
43:32
follow for that is Bruce Lipton. He has some fantastic information as well as
43:38
far as you know how we can change our DNA. I mean even Joe
43:42
Despinza talks about that, But you know, if you want another doctor scientist,
43:45
then look up Bruce Lipton's information. And I'm telling you are so We
43:53
are so freaking fascinating. And when you take interest in you and your container,
44:00
in your in your human self, then it helps you actually helps you
44:08
have more compassion and understanding of how other people are showing up in the world.
44:16
It does. Yeah, so, and it's all a choice. It's
44:23
all a choice. So yeah, anything else, No, I think we
44:34
cover a lot in this small amount of time. Yeah, it's been good.
44:37
It's good conversation. I love talking about the human body and the our
44:43
abilities because it's endless, and I just love it so much. It's it
44:47
is endless. It's never ending. I mean for sure, it's all right.
44:54
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