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JiDion, Caleb Hammer, The Black Friend Paradox & Spicy White Boy Papa Gut · Papa Gut

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All right, party peoples, this video looks interesting, so
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we're going to react to it. I don't even know how much it is
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about Jitty and I scrolled through it.
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Caleb hammers in here. I had no intention of talking
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about him again, especially since we just made a video about
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it the other day, you know, for the slap.
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But hey, you know what looks interesting is from a smaller
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crater named Ayo's Ideas. So you know, it looks pretty
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good. I'm curious about it.
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You know, somebody came in here and said that I'm obsessed with
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Gideon. I think I made a couple videos
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this month, but I wouldn't say obsessed.
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Also, I have people yelled at me about my Turkey Tom video
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because I was too nice to Gideon.
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So you know what guys, shut up. You all stink.
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I don't care. So anyway, interested in taking
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a look at this? I think it'll be fun.
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So let's get this farty sharded, OK?
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Start the video. I was just accused by a man that
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I am probably the most racist man out there and Robert will
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always call me the fuck out. Robert in my racist.
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I'm seeing that right now is. Robert is right.
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Robert. Is that a white guy?
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I don't know. It's.
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Tough for white folks. They can't really say too many
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things. Or did I just do a racism?
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Is that like a racism that I did?
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They're being oppressed. Friendly speech is being taken
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away. No white lives matter because I
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rocked my white friends I've got no problem with.
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Them white lives matter. Yeah, sure.
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I take accountability. I was naive.
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I thought me too. Him hanging out with me would
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change his mind. That's I told him time and time
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again, man, you aren't like this when you're with me.
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So he said I could say whatever I want on this website intro.
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Sally, you can say whatever. Thank you.
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What's up? Well, I guess he is with like
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that when he's with you there, brother.
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Incredible. That's wild, man.
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That's wild. That's 4K.
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That's 4K. So the past few weeks have been
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a very interesting time for Jidion.
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Jidion is someone who has received a lot of.
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I do feel a little bit bad, you know, I know he's acting a
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little bit of a fool, but it's never nice when people are when
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people are talking about you in a very negative way.
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I still think Janine's like a decent guy just like that.
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He's fucking I think that his brain has been monitored by the
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Internet. You know, he's like he got, he
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got popular young and I think he's just pretty much like
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mentally and kind of like stuck in a bit of an immature phase.
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You know, You know, when you getting when you're getting
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positive feedback for being immature and you're making money
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and stuff, it's, you know, makes you make it reinforces some bad
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things. Backlash not only from online
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communities but from actual institutions haven't been banned
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from stadiums and platforms for his pranks and misogynistic
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behavior. Online based misogynistic
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behavior, am I right? Wow, I just slurred through
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that. But in terms of his behavior as
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it pertains to race, absolute crickets, at least up until
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recently. Well, if you clicked on this
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video. Firstly, hello, welcome to my
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channel if you want to watch video essays about pod.
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Alex Rosen is a Papa Gun from the darkest timeline.
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What's funny is the other day I was getting pizza and this was
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like maybe a couple months ago. And some dudes like, dude, are
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you from YouTube? And I'm like, which happens
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sometimes, you know, people locally usually usually though,
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they'll see me from like TikTok or something, you know what I
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mean? But he's like, if you're from
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YouTube, I'm like, oh, yeah, I am.
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He's like, oh, you catch those predators, right?
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I'm like, Nope, I see Alex Rosen.
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See how you guys look to say I'm like, well, that's I guess.
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I guess we look similar. So that's something, huh?
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Politics, media, and other things that annoy me, then
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please subscribe. But more importantly, if you
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clicked on this video, you're probably already aware of the
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controversy surrounding Jillion, and I saw one who has been
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criticized video for over a year for two of the most.
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Whoa, I'll get censor that on ironically.
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Take me massive videos I've ever seen on YouTube.
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I was surprised to see that at the time no one had
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substantially criticized him for how irresponsible he was and how
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little racial self esteem he's shown in those videos.
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Damn. Well, I guess maybe an example
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of that would be when he went to like talk to the racist people.
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But you know, I think for white people it's like a little
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different if you look at it, you know, I hate to be that guy.
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I'm just super self aware for white people, you know, when you
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see a black guy willing to kind of deal with some racism and
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stuff and see, you know what I mean?
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It's like, wow, he you know what a nice young man.
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I don't know, Maybe part of it's that, but I don't know.
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I don't, I don't know, you know, do the black fire thing and I'll
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do the white fire Paper beef rock.
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Nice look. He got the black, he got the
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white guy to touch him. That's getting beautiful.
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That's we're really spanning racial divides.
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Thomas Hilarious Jews is not the chosen people that the White
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race is. Tom is hilarious.
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What do you have to say to my audience?
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White pride worldwide, Yo, you know, I will say I feel like
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back then, I feel like back then when this was, this was under
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Biden, right? I, I hate to be mega woke, but I
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feel like back under Biden, things were kind of chill and we
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were all like, you know what, like racism is dying.
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You know what I mean? Trump's not in office anymore
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and maybe he was just taking it and he's like, you know what, I
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can, I can read, you know, create a bridge.
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I don't know. But I, I do know that there's
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like a bunch of other content creators that went over there
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and talked to this like super racist guy because they thought
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it was funny and they clip formed it for money.
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So. I don't know if you've been
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watching the comments section, but like, even though you be.
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With Brett Cooper. And some of the most out of
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pocket stuff. Everybody loves you.
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Tom is hilarious. I go more in depth in my idiot
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with. Everybody loves these.
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Fucking preposterous then. Holy shit.
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The platform industrial complex video so I'm not going to dwell
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on these videos for too long, but to me the way that he
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engaged with arguably the most notorious hate group in America
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was the first crack in my perception of jillion
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specifically as one of the most prominent black creators on
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YouTube. But you.
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I guess I mean because I, I like, you know, I'm a white guy.
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I know everything, the white explained.
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His take is probably something like, you know, he's basically
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whitewashing the KKK. He's making them go from like a
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dangerous, like a historically dangerous group that would kill
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black people for breathing the wrong way to just kind of like a
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silly fun little meme online. It's almost whitewashing like
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white supremacy. I think that's probably what his
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take would be. I get it, you know, I get it.
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I think that for Jidian, there's, you know, Jidian's a
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person and I think even every content creator, I would hope
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wants to have like some value in their content.
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And Jidian at the time, it was especially more of a prankster
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back then. And so for him, I, I think he
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drew inspiration for like, what was it Darryl Davis or Darryl
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Dixon, right, The guy from The Walking Dead?
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No, it was Darryl Davis, right, where he would go and talk to
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KKK members and like de radicalize them.
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And I think Jidian probably thought that he can maybe do
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something like that in a way, but like with his own flair,
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which would be, you know, a YouTube prankery.
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And maybe it kind of backfired and just made, you know, white
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supremacy a little more cool or funny, like a funny little silly
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meme. Although there's probably a lot
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of other things that you could blame for the popularization of
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that, like other like online prominent figures who like use
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humor as a justifier to be racist, like Nick Fuentes or
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something, for instance, you know, but I, I don't know, and,
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or, or you could just think that he doesn't care and all he cares
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about his money and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
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blah, blah. But it seems like, I don't think
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that's true because it seems like he tried to make changes.
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Even if he ends up going back to what he was doing, I think that
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he's, you know what I mean? So I wouldn't necessarily jump
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on that personally, but you know, I could be wrong.
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I don't know. You know, not everyone is as
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online as me so most people missed it even though his
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audience of predominantly white kids definitely didn't.
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So he was able to skate onto the more noble and completely
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criticism proof genre of child predator catching through this
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transition he befriended. What the hell is that, Jitian?
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And, some would say, physically transformed into racist, inbred
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troglodyte Alex Rosen. That's crazy transformed as he
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was wild. Dude, you can't say fucking.
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We're going to get offended and report us.
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Fucking oh shit I said that for 216 people.
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Female can prioritize, you know, said Ugly status and hard work.
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I love how Myron brought him on just to do that.
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It's crazy. That's like, that's some fucking
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like next level fucking loser shit there.
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When this mouth Beaver openly supported local Pagan enthusiast
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Chad the Builder with 10,000. That's true.
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He gave a he gave a thigh job to a trans woman, which by the way,
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I think is beautiful, but like the trans woman and she's very
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nice. I I talked to her.
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The trans woman fucked his thighs and that's gayer to take
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it in the ass. That's a fucking hot Dick.
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It's not a hot Dick though. It's a true take.
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It's called a fact. OK, it's a fact, bro.
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So just keep that in mind fellas, you know, just keep that
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in mind. Super interesting though.
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Something to keep in mind. Dollars towards his legal fees.
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It forced Judeon to finally address Rosen's well documented
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racist behavior and finally cut ties with him.
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All right, what I'm talking about, how this question about
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it think about me too. I think he did something.
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He went and donated $10,000 to chat about.
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His mind and he donated it publicly and he pledged another
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100K to each other builder. Just so you guys know, like he
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went to court for each other. Builder pledged another 100K
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Crazy. Not only did this fallout
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suspiciously open the floodgates for a wave of criticism towards
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Jidon, but it illuminated an age-old concept that I will be
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unpacking in this video, concept I like to call the Black Friend
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Paradox. Whoa.
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Black Friend paradox refers to a phenomenon with two distinct
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sites. The 1st is most commonly known,
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referring to white people using their friendship or proximity to
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black people as a defense when accused.
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I'm not racist. I got black friends baby.
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I'm not racist. I got black friends bro come on.
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Of racial insensitivity. And recently I can think of no
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better example of this than Caleb Hammer and Adam 60.
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I mean Adam. Caleb Hammer, I'm. 22 Sorry.
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Who's that? Now, both of these guys have a
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lot in common. Both of them have huge.
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Both of them are white and both of them have seen other men have
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sex with somebody in the room because Adam's watched his wife
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get fucked and Caleb has had sex with men.
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All right, guys, this is a fact. He's, well, I don't know if he
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had sex with men. I know that he's done sexual
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things with it. I don't know if you give him a
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hand job, but he's done it on multiple occasions.
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He's had multiple sexual experiences, which by the way, I
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think is great. I think it's a beautiful thing.
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I think it's excellent. I think it's wonderful.
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I think it's an incredible thing.
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I think everyone should have sexual experiences with men.
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If you're questioning if you're a gay because you know you
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should, everyone deserves to be happy so.
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Platforms with. How many black friends do I
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have? I don't really have any friends
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except for my wife. So I don't know, man.
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Not enough, man, not enough, not enough.
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You know, Jidian probably doesn't want to be too friendly
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with me anymore because I've criticized him and stuff and you
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know, But it is what it is, man. It is what it is.
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Got a thick white wife though so does that count for anything?
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Millions of subscribers. They both exploit the
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socioeconomic circumstances of marginalized individuals for
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content, and the two of them allegedly.
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Have give me my name. Have a thing for minors?
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18 girls that was the same age to me when I was 16.
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Like what's wrong with you bro? Among Yeah, I think that part's.
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True, many things mentioned. The worst by far were the group
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text messages of Caleb saying he found a 16 year old boy hot.
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I think he was 17 or maybe he's just 16.
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OK, I thought. I don't know why I thought I saw
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the clarification the other day, but.
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And wanting to know if he was gay so he could hook up with
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him. But for the pet, yeah, it's not
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really helpful. It's a little edgy.
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I'm using college and, you know, I, I like to think it was a
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joke, but, you know, maybe he was just being like super edgy
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in a group chat, which I think is what it was.
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Or maybe he really did want to do that.
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I don't know, man. Either way, not a great look,
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especially when you're a big old, especially for
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conservatives right now, They're struggling.
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You know, conservatives are struggling with not really
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knowing what the age of consent is.
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And so Caleb kind of gets bandwagered on there.
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It's a guilt by association, dude.
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Association with the joke you made, you know.
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This video we will be focusing on their shared tactic of hiding
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behind their proximity to black people while ultimately behaving
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in racially malicious ways. So that's something Caleb does
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like often. I feel like that's not really
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true. I mean, I know, I know there was
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like a viral clip going around with some black person thing
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where he had like a like a black employee of his get called the N
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word for content. I do remember seeing that.
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So I mean, I guess that's what they're referring to.
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But was this like a prominent thing Caleb's doing?
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So let's get into it, shall we? Caleb Hammer is the host of
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Financial Audit, a show where he takes advantage of the financial
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situations of poor people to make his equally poor audience
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feel better about their financial decisions.
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Maybe, you know, I I think it's I don't know if I agree with
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that. I mean, I guess I mean he pays
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them. I think it's more of like it
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used to be like a fun time where he'd give like basic financial
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advice and help them and give them tools and stuff, which I
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think he still does with a little bit of flair.
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And now it's like all flair And like it's obvious that the
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people that are on that show nowaday, like the show has been
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flandered eyes like the people that he mostly focuses more on
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being like kind of like a rude, obnoxious Dick with some basic
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advice as like a secondary. Now it's all about clip farming,
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the people who want to watch it, like, you know, hateful behavior
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is really what it boils down to. And I think that the people
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left, I think he's increased the pay to $1500 up from like 1000
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'cause I think it's harder and harder to find.
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It's like Impractical Jokers, you know, everybody knows what
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the show's about now, you know, so they know what they're
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getting into, but then they know they're going to have to play it
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up if they want Caleb to pick them.
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So, you know, 'cause I know he's, I know they also reduced
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down to two days a week instead of three.
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I think that's the truth. I think that's the case unless
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he changed it back again. So that's kind of the the meta.
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So I think it's more about that the show has unfortunately kind
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of like hit a conclusion where it's like very inauthentic and
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it's like it's very inauthentic because everybody knows what the
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show is. But then also, you know, he
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focuses on, he's more interested in the analytics of getting
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views rather than having like a productive show, which is
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whatever man, like he's making money, I guess.
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Do your thing, whatever makes you feel better.
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But I, you know, I think that's more accurate to his situation
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than anything else. All while leading heavily on
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racial stereotypes to satiate the growing demand for anti
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black content online. I mean all you have.
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Growing demand. When did it ever shrink?
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Sorry I. Have to do is a bit of thumbnail
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analysis a couple years ago. The black guests on his channel
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will get the same rage baity titles as everyone else.
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Crazy. Do you remember when I was
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having a podcast with Caleb I, we didn't really like, we talked
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about it a little bit. It wasn't something crazy.
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It was funny. I was suppose to have a podcast
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like he was sorry something years ago.
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It's fucking wild. Fast forward to the current
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political climate in America brought about by the present
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administration and the oligarchy put them there.
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We see a sudden shift. Although he did dabble in
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racialized thumbnails before. I listen, you're never going to
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I don't mean to be that guy. This racialized thumbnail is
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inappropriate, but I I swear to God, Caleb is Asian right?
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Like I'm not like trying to do like a funny racism.
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Like the guy, he looks Asian, right?
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He's like Asian guys. There's nothing wrong with that.
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You know, I know he's from Michigan, but like, he's Asian,
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right? So isn't this like appropriate?
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That's like me making fun of white people.
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You know what I mean? Or.
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I'm being forced to stay with him.
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Wow, incredible. Outside of one or two outliers,
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there has not been a single black guest where he has not
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called them ghetto, referenced the IQ, called them professional
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victims, or gone as far as to call them EBT final boss.
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Damn that's fucking crazy. Is that true?
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What the hell, Kayla's not Asian?
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You guys are lying. The most ghetto financial audit
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ever. Who lists ditz doesn't know what
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a minimum payment is? Well that one doesn't seem like
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it's ghetto or something. Professional victim is pathetic.
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That one could be a dog whistle. I've heard people call black
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people professional victims. The most ghetto financial audit.
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Financial audit's dumbest guess ever.
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That one's not really. Oh, wait.
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In the the, the flavour Texas weapon grade.
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Oh, it just says the Arsler. That's not, he's not calling him
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ghetto professional. But yeah, so I maybe there is
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like that sounds a little dog whistly to me.
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That sounds a little dog whistly to me.
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Yeah. Well, you know that again,
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that's the analytics. I mean, that's the analytics,
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dude. That's where you know what I
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mean? I guess, you know, it's not
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good. Obviously he shouldn't do that.
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I mean, the fact that he's like selling his soul for just for
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money is kind of pathetic to me, which is like, you know, but
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hey, what are you gonna do? Victims or gone as far as to
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call them EBT final boss well. That looks like fucking Walter.
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You know, like from fresh and fit.
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That looks kind of like Walter, you know what I'm saying?
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Although I don't know Caleb personally, I do believe that
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you can learn a lot about someone through their creative
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output. And in the same way his hatred
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for women and closeted homosexuality comes out in his
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content, so does his views on race.
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That's the that's the thing. It's kind of like, I don't know,
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it's funny, but it is kind of the thing.
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I mean, like, yeah, Caleb like this a bit.
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You know, he's when you get to know he's not, he's not a
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terrible guy, you know, but like that's the problem with Caleb,
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right, Is like he's a he's a good to you in person, but then
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like his expression for money. I think it is.
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And even his politics. I mean, he does have these true
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politics is like shit, you know? So kind of the unfortunate
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reality there, at least in my opinion.
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And I'm not the only one who noticed this.
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Earlier this year, YouTube D Angelo Wallace pulled him out
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for his stereotyping and racist How?
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Many Asian friends do. I have just Caleb Hammer.
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Impression of a Vietnamese person.
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This was his reaction. I'm doing a reaction to someone
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talking shit about me. I'm going to do how I want you
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little fuck. You've never positively impacted
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someone's life other than entertainment once.
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Fuck you. You have no moral ground to
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stand on. None.
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When I'm saying things like, oh hey, you're doing something
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racist on your show and your response is to call a black
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person on the phone? I was just accused by a man that
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I am probably the most racist man out there.
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If anyone is willing to call me on my shit because because he
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knows like it's like nothing bad will ever happen.
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Robert will always call me the fuck out.
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Robert, am I racist? No, not racist.
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OK. Thank you, Rob.
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This was funny to me because like if it was a joke bed it'd
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be good. Caleb would swear it's a joke
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bed but like obviously he wasn't joking.
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I know because I'm super sarcastic.
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So he's like seriously calling a black guy?
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And this is the thing about Caleb is like people will bring
19:13
up the power dynamic and there is a power dynamic there.
19:15
He's asking his Co worker, somebody he pays, if he's
19:20
racist. Like, of course they're not
19:22
going to say yes, Especially since from my understanding,
19:24
Caleb pays well. Like this is the parrot.
19:27
It's like the fucking paradox of Caleb Hammer.
19:29
Like I on an individual level, he's a, he's not a bad guy.
19:33
Like I don't even know how to explain it.
19:34
Like Caleb's the kind of guy who would cross the street when he
19:36
saw a black person 'cause he would be afraid.
19:38
But like when he got to know a black guy, he'd be like, oh,
19:40
this is like my best friend, you know, like he's, he's just
19:43
fucking like he's just as emotionally inept as the people
19:48
he brings on his podcast are financially inept.
19:51
Like that's who Caleb is as a person.
19:53
And so I think that he has no problem.
19:55
Like he probably does have like a little bit of prejudice
19:57
against other groups because he sees it on Twitter and he's got
19:59
that Coco melon white boy behaviour where he sees
20:02
something on Twitter. So it becomes like real to him.
20:04
He's like, Oh my God. But then when he gets to know
20:06
you, it like all goes away. And so like, that's the thing.
20:08
So like, yes, they're power dynamic.
20:10
He pays well. I would lie too.
20:12
You know, or, you know, they might just be the kind of person
20:14
that focuses more on what they know about Caleb individually
20:16
rather than the show. They might be the type of people
20:18
who are analytically driven, just like Caleb, but they're
20:20
like, well, it's just a performance piece for the show.
20:22
I don't really care. It's not a big deal, you know,
20:25
but I mean, the way that you express yourself through your
20:27
content is going to matter to some degree.
20:29
You know what I mean? Like I, I think that Caleb would
20:31
agree that if there was some rage baiting fucking woman
20:33
online, even if she was really nice in person, but her whole
20:36
content was out about how much, you know, she she doesn't like
20:38
men and it was making her money. He would say that's bad,
20:41
especially if she had a septum piercing.
20:42
So like you're doing the same thing, you know, you're
20:44
basically a septum piercing woman online, but.
20:49
Another person that Caleb is calling is his lifelong friend
20:52
and 2nd in demand at financial audit, Robert Callietti and just
20:56
by that phone call. Callietti.
20:57
That's like an Italian name. You can tell that he's quite
21:00
clearly uncomfortable with being called up to whitewash his.
21:04
French racist especially. Because in this instance, Caleb
21:07
is being accused of being racist towards an Asian person.
21:09
Like Can you imagine calling? Yeah, he is Asian, not a.
21:12
Christian because you're being accused of Islamophobia.
21:14
What? It's the same thing but Robert.
21:18
Why? That's the same thing.
21:19
Isn't he black? It validates him anyway, and
21:21
this is the perfect example of the black friend paradox in.
21:24
Oh, that's his friend Robert. I thought Robert worked for him.
21:28
Am I wrong about that? Oh, yeah, it was.
21:30
It was clarified that it's his worker.
21:31
Yeah, of course. In practice, a white person is
21:34
accused of racism. Also racism.
21:38
So the boyfriend in question is Vietnamese, and upon seeing a
21:42
picture of him, for some reason Caleb immediately reacts this
21:47
way. Look at that.
21:48
Look how different. Oh, he's such a little gay boy.
21:51
Whoa, true. Based.
21:53
Just kidding. Since you have an idea and is
21:55
though OK. No, Why?
21:57
Why does he have that accent? I've commonly seen that
21:59
emasculation. It also doesn't like because
22:04
Caleb's like that funny, you know what I mean?
22:06
Like not to be a Dick, like Caleb's like if Caleb was a
22:08
woman, everybody would cringe, you know what I mean?
22:11
Like he's not really that funny. He's just like obnoxious.
22:14
The funny thing about him is that he talks like a beaker from
22:16
The Muppets when he gets like really hyped up, but he doesn't
22:19
really make jokes. He's just like kind of rude to
22:20
people. That's his whole shtick and it
22:22
works for him. Like whatever.
22:23
But like, he's not, he doesn't have like humor.
22:25
He doesn't have like humor. He has Twitter humor, which is
22:27
just racism. It's like, oh, let me do it.
22:29
Asian accent, you know what I mean?
22:30
It's like, OK, cool. Like that's again, he can do it
22:32
'cause I think he is Asian, but it's just like it like that says
22:39
idea of humor is just like a slur or just like mocking
22:41
somebody. He doesn't have like fun jokes
22:43
like Papa got of course. Funniest guy on YouTube on this
22:46
YouTube channel. Funniest YouTube on this channel
22:48
specifically. Of Asian men is a problem and
22:51
you. Know his mind, dude.
22:52
I'm not drunk. I'm not drunk, dude.
22:54
All right, stop, bro. Stop it.
22:57
Maybe, yeah, maybe BBQ MP are coming to my my baby shower.
23:01
So maybe if I get drunk enough, maybe they'll hear, maybe
23:04
they'll hear my, you know, my, my, I'll call my ethnic respect.
23:09
But here's the thing about like an Asian accent, and this is
23:12
just a hot take, is if you kind of think about it like it is
23:16
fucked up to mock Asian people. True, That is true.
23:20
It's a fact. But OK, just hear me out.
23:24
Shut up. But OK, if you think about it,
23:28
Asian people are white plus. So you know what I mean?
23:32
Like it's like they're white plus.
23:34
So it's like it's kind of, you know what I mean?
23:35
Like they're, you know what I mean?
23:37
It's like this is like, it's all right.
23:39
You know what I mean? It's not right.
23:41
I'm just. Kidding is rooted in racist
23:43
stereotypes and misunderstanding of what masculine looks like in
23:46
other places. They contact a black person in
23:48
their life, completely removing all the context of the
23:51
allegation. I was just accused by a man that
23:55
I am probably the most racist man out there.
23:58
The black friend has no interest or ability to substantially
24:01
unpack the allegation, so they. True.
24:05
Well, we saw what Robert looked like too.
24:06
He looked a little nerdy, you know what I mean?
24:08
This is the guy. And by the way, there's nothing
24:09
wrong with looking like that at all.
24:10
It doesn't make you less black or anything, but you know what I
24:13
mean. If I was going to ask a black
24:14
guy if I'm racist, I'm going to ask like a I'm going to ask like
24:17
a like a maybe like an old head. You know what I'm saying?
24:20
Like you know what I mean? You guys understand what I'm
24:22
saying. You know what I'm saying dude,
24:23
Like, you know, an old head or something.
24:25
It's like I don't have to. I'm not even going to explain.
24:29
There's nothing to explain. I'm just, it's all right.
24:31
I was going to move on. Instead, validate the white
24:35
friend's racial worldview. Robert, am I racist?
24:38
No. No, not.
24:40
Racist. OK, well, thank.
24:42
You, Rob and the white friend, feels vindicated and encouraged
24:45
to perpetuate that behavior. Nice, that might be true though.
24:48
So basically what I'm hearing is it's not Caleb's fault that he's
24:50
racist, it's his black friend's fault.
24:51
Shit, you can't catch a break if you're fucking black, dude, you
24:55
know what I mean? I get what he's saying though.
24:57
It kind of makes sense if like you're if like all the
24:58
minorities. What a what a fucking sentence.
25:01
If the people around you that are like, you know, whatever
25:04
ethnicity are are willing to affirm that your behavior isn't
25:06
racist because like you don't really mean it, which like,
25:09
maybe that's what it is. I don't know.
25:11
Or lol, they're just jokes. I mean, it's going to make you
25:13
feel like it actually is just jokes.
25:15
But again, Caleb pays this guy doesn't exactly help.
25:20
And you know, if I was going to ask a black guy like, hey, is
25:25
this racist, I would I would probably ask Eddie Winslow
25:28
instead of Steve Urkel. So that's just me personally.
25:30
But that has nothing to do with this video, of course.
25:32
So just like making a generalized statement, I'm light
25:36
skinned. Thanks man.
25:36
I appreciate that. That's a compliment.
25:38
Thank you so much. It's making the world just a
25:40
little bit more racist in the process.
25:42
Now this of course is nothing new, but if Caleb Hammer, his
25:45
reaction and subsequent pivot is a lot more interesting.
25:48
After this call out by D Angelo, he got absolutely cooked by the
25:51
Internet. And he did, Yeah.
25:53
A. Huge light was shone on his
25:55
recent There's. Any of my videos in there?
25:57
Let's see. Absolutely no.
25:59
He cooked by the Internet and. Yeah, damn, cruel type of mind
26:03
fucking owned them too. It's so funny because cruel
26:06
happy mind actually follows me on Instagram.
26:08
God bless. You know, despite the Ethan
26:10
Klein arc. Yeah, I got a little cooked too.
26:12
I defended Caleb there, you know what I mean?
26:14
Like, you know, because I knew him, I thought he was a good
26:15
guy. But you know, then thing I just
26:19
could, you know, things ended because I love dude, you know
26:22
what it is? It's like the biggest thing that
26:24
I reason, like the stuff with Caleb ended.
26:26
I mean, like I've lost myself. But the real, the biggest thing
26:28
that I reason that Caleb and myself ended, it's not all the
26:30
racism and stuff. It's, you know, it's, it's so
26:33
much more selfish than that. It's 'cause I'm having a
26:35
daughter, dude. And I got so fucking
26:37
radicalized, isn't it? That isn't it a shame?
26:40
And the only way that some people can like truly change and
26:43
see the light is, is if you know, is out of some kind of
26:45
selfishness, 'cause I'm selfish as hell, dude, you know what I
26:49
mean? I've been tipping 20% instead of
26:55
like 30% because I'm like, oh, I'm having a daughter and stuff
26:58
and kind of radicalized me. I hate to say it over, actually
27:00
I do. I don't hate to say it over and
27:01
over again. I don't give a fuck, dude.
27:02
I'm not even ashamed of that much to talk about my wife or my
27:04
daughter. I don't give a shit.
27:05
I don't give a fuck, dude. I'm a fucking cringe family man.
27:08
I don't care. OK?
27:09
But for me that was radicalizing as fuck dude.
27:17
So it's like, damn, man, like seeing the way that like the
27:18
nasty way he talks about women and and fat people too, man.
27:20
I'm fat and my wife is and my wife is, is a thick white girl.
27:25
Although the Jamaican dream and my daughter's going to probably
27:29
be, you know, a big girl and you know, she's going to be healthy.
27:33
She's going to be, I'm going to get her into like softball or
27:34
something, you know, she's going to have like a softball, you
27:36
know what I'm saying? So for me, it's like, you know,
27:39
you know, I'm not going to be personal friends with a guy that
27:42
kind of like, even if it's just for the content, but how am I
27:44
going to be friends with a guy who talks like that?
27:46
You know what I'm saying? That's like fucked up.
27:48
That's really what did it for me.
27:50
So I don't know what else to say.
27:52
It's just kind of my it's my reality.
27:56
But you know, it is what it is, is what like how like
28:00
realistically speaking, you know, like, you know, if you're,
28:03
if you're kind of selling your soul for content and you're like
28:05
dialing up the racism and the sexism and the homophobia and
28:08
like the transphobia and everything that you can for
28:10
content, even if you're a nice guy, what that means is you're a
28:12
weak man or weak person. But in this case, you're a weak
28:15
man, specifically a weak gay man.
28:18
And it's like, what kind of a weak man would I be if I kept
28:20
the personal connection with that kind of a person?
28:22
You know what I'm saying that I wouldn't be very, I wouldn't be
28:28
a very good guy. I wouldn't be a very good
28:31
person, you know, and I wouldn't be setting a good example for my
28:34
daughter either. I mean, that's kind of, you know
28:35
what I mean. I want to you know what's.
28:40
That and a huge light was shone on his recent racist pivot
28:45
towards right wing viewers. So he came up with a new
28:48
strategy. Instead of letting his gross
28:50
bigoted framing of the world come directly out of his mouth,
28:53
why not let other bigots say it for him?
28:55
But he will still use these proximity to Black people to not
28:58
only make himself look better, but to use their pain and
29:01
embarrassment for monetary gain. And this is where we see the
29:04
Black friend shift to the Black employee.
29:06
Caleb Hammer has begun regularly subjecting one of his few Black
29:09
employees to racial abuse. Damn, what the fuck, dude?
29:14
Come on Caleb, What the fuck? I was rolling down and saw
29:16
somebody rubbing an iron on his face.
29:18
OK, what the hell? While he acts shocked and
29:21
appalled. Whoa.
29:27
Even though you know. I saw the video the other day,
29:29
Caleb was talking on podcast about how he kind of liked that
29:31
guy that said the N word to his black employee like crazy.
29:36
It's fucking crazy. If you're if you're a girl with
29:38
a septum piercing and you like Starbuck, guess what you're
29:41
going to fucking cry on Caleb Hammer show.
29:43
But if you're a fucking racist guy, he's going to love you.
29:47
He's going to love you, dude. Only designs and executes these
29:50
situations himself, but actively exacerbates the racial tension
29:54
within them. And I know you avoid carnival
29:56
like the. Oh, of course, you don't even be
29:59
around those. Whoa.
30:03
I would also. That's crazy, really.
30:04
Come on, you could have cut that.
30:05
You could have been like, I can't have you on the show
30:07
anymore if you had a backbone. Not go on Carnival Cruise
30:08
because I'm just like I avoid dry trashy behavior Yes but out
30:13
black people. But that's what you were
30:17
insinuated. No, I insinuated that yes, you
30:19
likely do not want to. She, she talked about, she was
30:23
saying some things before we started filming too.
30:24
They were a little racist. So I, that's kind of why I knew
30:26
it. You know, I was kind of
30:27
impressed. You were impressed?
30:30
What? Was impressed by.
30:34
You talked about. She was saying some things
30:36
before we started filming too. They were a little racist.
30:38
So I, that's kind of why I knew it.
30:40
You know, I was kind of impressed.
30:42
Impressed with the racism? That's crazy.
30:45
That's crazy, man. You know what it is?
30:46
It's like from what I've seen about Carnival cruises, they
30:48
could be a little bit rambunctious and frankly, I use
30:51
the word ghetto for stuff. But I think the difference is
30:53
I'm not, I'm not like a legitimately racist.
30:55
I'm only like for fun racist, you know what I'm saying?
30:57
Also, I'm I think I'm fucking trashy and ghetto.
31:00
Like I'm fucking white trash ghetto upper middle class.
31:04
My wife and I are middle class, like white trash ghetto people,
31:09
you know what I mean? But that's The thing is like for
31:14
for him, it just feels like a dog whistle, you know?
31:17
And I'm just all feelings over facts, baby.
31:18
I don't give a fuck. And if I ever get something
31:21
wrong, I look up on MapQuest. OK, so, but there's a little bit
31:24
of a difference in behavior. And honestly, I think that like
31:26
black people enjoy, I think black, we should check this out.
31:28
Hot take. Black people are normal.
31:29
They're fucking people shit. And I think that when they see
31:32
stuff like somebody like Caleb doing shit like this, they
31:34
probably are like, OK, this guy's like a red flag, you know
31:36
what I mean? Like, come on, come on, bro.
31:38
He's trying to insinuate something, which is the, you
31:42
know, I think that that's generally the goal.
31:43
But but for me though, all thing, everything aside, all
31:46
jokes aside, the reason that I wouldn't go on a Carnival Cruise
31:48
is because like, black women love me, dude.
31:50
And I wouldn't be able to handle being around all those fucking,
31:53
you know, Nubian goddesses, you know what I'm saying?
31:58
I just couldn't, I wouldn't be able to handle it.
32:01
So it's incredible. My wife either.
32:03
She likes black girls too. Incredible.
32:05
You were impressed. What?
32:08
Hell yeah. Not started it.
32:10
Sorry. Huh.
32:10
You started it. You did.
32:12
You're calling us all white, and then it's good to be white.
32:14
Whoa. What?
32:15
What so after? She says.
32:18
Why is it good to be white? Dude, what the fuck?
32:20
Fuck Blues. One of the craziest things
32:23
happens. One of the producers off screen
32:25
suggests that Caleb should summon a black employee.
32:29
Because the fucking Word Summit is so funny in this fucking
32:32
context. They likely know that there is a
32:34
huge market for content of white people racially abused black
32:38
people in Canada, the setting where they really can't do
32:41
anything about it. And you can't waste that sweet,
32:43
sweet racism on a person who ostensibly shares very similar
32:46
views. Two guys are racist.
32:48
You guys live in the deep white suburbia Dows you guys are
32:50
racist. That white though?
32:51
I mean, it's, it's fine. I'm allowing it.
32:53
It's just. Nice.
32:55
Incredible. Like yeah, fuck those black
32:57
unprompted. What the what the Sigma?
32:59
Did nothing. What the Sigma?
33:02
Yeah, nothing. And what's crazy is I actually
33:04
kind of. See, that's the thing.
33:05
I doubt it's not unprompted. Like you listen, you know that
33:08
if you want that $1500 from Caleb, you got to make an
33:10
entertaining show. So if you're a fucking, you
33:13
know, some kind of marginalized group or something piercing
33:15
person or whatever, you know, you got to, you got to like
33:17
really just like tone up the SJW.
33:20
But if you're racist, you got to tone up the racism.
33:23
He's going to yell at you if you SJW it up, but he's not going to
33:25
say anything if you're going to, you know, if you're going to be
33:27
racist. But I think that's because, and
33:32
I maintain this and like Caleb and a lot of conservatives are
33:34
very emotional and like for him, if somebody says he and really
33:39
he broke him up, stop. That's considered gay cringe on
33:42
the Internet. Like like not allowing racism is
33:45
seeing like gay. Like imagine that you're on
33:47
Twitter. Somebody's like hey, N word and
33:49
then someone's like, come on, man, that's not right.
33:51
It's like, oh, you're fucking gay, You're cringe.
33:53
And then like every slur in the book and that's it.
33:57
And I think for Caleb, like that's a lot of it.
33:59
I think it's he's very worried about what people think about
34:01
him. And you could see that.
34:03
And like I watched his conversation with asthma.
34:05
I always quote this one because I found it fascinating that like
34:08
in the conversation, they were talking about how asthma gold is
34:10
like really unhealthy. And like you could see him like
34:14
his bones look like they're going to crumble.
34:15
He literally must have osteoporosis.
34:17
They were talking about how his like, blood pressure was like
34:19
super high, like 180 or some shit.
34:21
And he's just like fucking obviously unhealthy.
34:24
You can see it in his face that he's unwell.
34:26
Like, you can see it and I'm not trying to be that guy, but you
34:28
can see it. But at some point in this
34:29
podcast, after they go through, you know, asthma gold's like
34:32
list of health issues, Caleb like compliments asthma gold for
34:36
being skinny and healthier than him.
34:40
And it's like, what the fuck? Like he's so self-conscious.
34:44
So there's obviously something going on with Caleb and his
34:46
like, you know, him being in insecure about himself and his
34:49
body and like, and honestly about the fact that he is like
34:52
bisexual. I'm not even making a meme.
34:53
I'm just saying like that is, I guarantee you one of the things
34:56
too, I think there's something that's like deeply, deeply
35:00
insecure about him. And it's like a lot of the
35:02
obnoxiousness that he puts on is a little bit of like a bravado.
35:05
It's like, hey, guys, people bully me, so I'm going to bully
35:07
them kind of thing. I want to be, I want to, I want,
35:09
I want to bully people to think I'm a cool guy.
35:12
Hey, bullies, I'm a cool guy. Do Edward, you know what I mean?
35:16
Like that's, that's a little bit of the vibe I get there.
35:20
So you know something, there's a lot going on with that.
35:23
I kind of liked her by the end of the episode.
35:25
So we get. What?
35:27
The token black employee on set Afro pic locked and loaded.
35:30
Damn. He he dialed up the dial dude,
35:33
what the Sigma and. All three of these assholes
35:35
begin to pelt him with racialized abuse and all he can
35:39
do is laugh, POG champ and sanitize the racism.
35:42
Alfie's boss in front of what I can only assume is a
35:45
predominantly white audience. You said.
35:48
I did. You should see what she says at
35:50
home and. Whoa, you should see what he
35:52
says at what she says at home when a black guy's fucking her
35:55
while I watch because I'm a fucking gay white cock.
35:59
Private. What did she say at home?
36:00
I can't say that on camera. Actually, we're giving you
36:03
permission. What the She's scared right now.
36:05
I'm not scared. Tyler's cool.
36:07
Well, thank you. I appreciate that.
36:09
But. Are you saying he's one of the
36:11
good ones? Yeah.
36:12
Isn't it easier to be white? That's true.
36:14
OK. I mean, there is.
36:15
There's some DEI stuff that was helping you guys for a few
36:17
years, but we kind of rolled that back.
36:18
Oh, OK, I guess so. Yeah, now we have White DEI.
36:21
If you're a fucking rapist, you could be the president.
36:23
But if you're if you're, if you're a fucking Muslim guy and
36:26
you're lowering crime and helping everybody, guess what,
36:30
dude? You're a terrorist.
36:31
Apparently. That's the logic of that's the
36:34
conservative logic. At least they're chill with
36:36
rapists, racists, pedophiles, white supremacists, bad economic
36:41
policy, bad for every policy. But it's all right man 'cause
36:47
you're white, you're white, but don't worry about it.
36:52
But if you're a brown guy trying his best and you're doing a good
36:55
job, well, sorry guys that's bad are.
37:00
You on my side or their side? It's a good question.
37:02
Saying the Edward around the house is not.
37:04
Per say. You've never let it RIP once,
37:06
no. Come on, I don't believe.
37:07
You Robert's. Well, I've been friends with
37:08
Robert since, like, elementary school.
37:10
He backs me up. He knows I've never said it.
37:12
God, he's calling Robert. And he knows you've never said
37:15
it. What the hell?
37:15
What are you, gay? Come on dude, you ever play a
37:17
league game? He's popped his old.
37:19
Have I dreamed? It true, I kind of like this
37:21
guy. I like this guy.
37:22
Was his name Soulja Boy IO's ideas?
37:25
I like this guy. He's using some meme references
37:27
popping his old shit. I like him.
37:29
He's a little, he's a little terminally online.
37:30
It's fun. Of course, who doesn't what
37:32
what? I've never said.
37:34
It, he said he's thought it is that what he said, Have I?
37:37
Dreamed it, of course. Who doesn't What what?
37:39
I've never. Said you dreamed it.
37:41
He said he dreamed it. You dreamed it.
37:45
You've had dreams of saying yeah, that's fucking crazy,
37:49
dude. I mean, listen, I fucking, I
37:51
mean, I've thought it and I've said it like I'm not, I'm not
37:54
proud of it. I'm not like, Oh my God.
37:55
But dude, I used to be a part of like very online toxic gaming
37:58
culture and I was probably one of the ones making it really
38:01
super toxic. And I would just say everything.
38:03
I was just a wild shit because you know, back then I was just
38:06
like fucking, you know, we were all edgy.
38:07
We didn't give a fuck, you know, I was, I'm not really, I'm not
38:09
justifying it. I'm just saying so you know.
38:14
But you dreamt it as fucking crazy dude.
38:18
That it. You're good.
38:20
OK, Nah, guys, just completely fine, yeah, Tyler said.
38:22
It's cool. You need the valid.
38:24
Thanks Tyler. Appreciate that man.
38:25
I just want. Your failures.
38:27
You had to give how come, how come none of his real question,
38:29
this is a real question and it's going to sound a little
38:31
insensitive, but how come none of his black employees have like
38:35
black names? I'm, I'm not trying to be an
38:37
asshole, you know, I'm not saying it makes him any less
38:39
black, but like, do you think he's passing on those ones?
38:42
You know, like you think he's passing on like Khadij or
38:46
something? Is that a name?
38:47
I'm sorry if it's not a name. I don't know man.
38:52
That's part of the systemic racism.
38:54
If you have a black sounding name, people are kind of like
38:56
fucking assault to you. Give.
38:57
Them the validation. Oh.
39:02
Who do you watch? Who do I watch?
39:04
What do you mean? What content you guys are
39:07
watching? You guys are you think?
39:08
They're going to do a Nick Fuente shout out.
39:09
Pick it up. Watch you.
39:11
Who taught you how to do this stuff?
39:13
You are right. I learned it by watching you.
39:17
OK, but I don't go around doing that.
39:19
This isn't a racist show. You you say this on the day his
39:24
mother visits the office. Your mom's Riddle.
39:27
Yeah, and you won't see her. You're going to lunch her?
39:31
Wow, that the the jokes of Caleb Hammer.
39:34
What? Is this?
39:35
Yeah, Man, this is some really devastating shit, my boy.
39:38
And this. The Jokes of Caleb Hammer by
39:40
Caleb Hammer. Paradigm that we're seeing the
39:43
Black employee paradox or black friend paradox or whatever the
39:46
fuck. So what happens when you when
39:48
you do DEI for fucking comedians, you get like some
39:50
fucking just, you just trash ass racism, you know?
39:52
I don't even know where we're at in this video anymore, but it's
39:54
something that we've constantly seen in America, dating all the
39:56
way back to slavery. The idea that providing the roof
39:59
over your head and means. For a group of black people to
40:01
survive somehow observes you of the racist and oppressive power
40:06
dynamic that you're in. This.
40:09
Maybe. I feel like that flavor is never
40:10
going to like resonate with people.
40:11
I get what you're saying though. I understand it.
40:13
I do. I think he pays these people and
40:14
he probably pays them well. And like, he just has like a
40:16
like a mental block on like the dumb shit he's saying.
40:19
And he doesn't like think it's that harmful or bad, but he
40:21
doesn't realize that he's like influencing the entire
40:23
atmosphere. And I don't think that he
40:25
necessarily cares. It's it's going to be full of
40:26
constant justifications. You know, I was like, no, it's
40:28
not that big of a deal. Like I did the same thing.
40:29
Like I made like a bunch of ton of like edgy jokes on like
40:31
Instagram and shit. I would get so many millions of
40:33
views a fucking a month, like forty, 50 million views a month
40:35
making jokes and shit. And I was like, yeah, it's just
40:37
jokes. Like I'm fucking dark woke dude,
40:39
which I am, I will say, but it's just like, yeah, it's just
40:41
jokes, not a big deal. But then once Trump won again, I
40:43
was like, holy fuck, the people in here actually hate black
40:45
people. And I was like, I'm going to
40:46
have to make a shift. So I still make edgy jokes, but
40:49
I like to think I'm a little more clever about it.
40:52
Just a little, Just a slightly clever about it.
40:54
OK, maybe not super clever, but just a little bit of clutter
40:58
clever, clutter clutter clever. What words am I saying?
41:00
This is known as the Benevolent Slave Owner fallacy in media.
41:04
You don't need to look any further than William Ford in 12
41:07
Years a Slave. In the Sports world, I'll direct
41:10
you to Donald Sterling. Sterling telling his friend
41:12
there's no way race clouds his judgement.
41:15
How can you be in this business and be a racist?
41:18
True man. Do you think I tell the coach to
41:20
get white players? Meanwhile, OK.
41:23
Yeah, it bothers me a lot that you want from broadcast that
41:27
you're associating with black people.
41:30
And in the. What the hell?
41:31
What the fuck content? Space.
41:33
Well, you. Thought it was black when you.
41:35
No, well, yeah, not too also well, because I already said
41:37
Adam does hip hop, so I didn't know you were just the.
41:39
Slave owner, but not the. That's funny.
41:44
Item 22 is the host of No Jumper a hip.
41:47
Hop, I feel like we did not talk about Jidian very much in this
41:50
video. I was kind of like thinking we
41:51
were talking about Jidian more. I haven't had a really good
41:53
title for this video. I was sitting there.
41:55
I saw the this video on the discord.
41:58
Somebody to recommend? I think P did actually.
42:00
I'm like, oh, this looks like a good react.
42:01
This will be fun because I like the title.
42:03
It's like it's snazzy. It's like Jidian and the black
42:05
friend paradox. So I'm like, oh, here's a great
42:06
title, Jidian, the black friend Paradox and like the real estate
42:12
white boy alive, Papa Gut. That's a great fucking title.
42:15
But I feel like we barely got into Jitty in here, you know,
42:18
What the hell are we doing here? Come on.
42:19
US turned West LA gang hideout slash self snitching hub.
42:24
Look for we as killing the house, for I don't give no fuck,
42:27
we as killing a. Having grown up in New Hampshire
42:29
with little proximity to black people, Adam, 22, really only
42:33
started to show an interest in hip hop and the wider black
42:35
culture as a means of making money.
42:38
Based. It was funny.
42:40
I grew up with the school I went to.
42:41
It was like 30% white. So take with that what you will.
42:45
I think I I think I crafted that sentence correctly.
42:47
And despite what he says when confronted about his racism
42:49
because I heard. This Adam, 22, is a racist.
42:53
Oh, man, are you? It's hard.
42:55
It's hard not to be as a white guy.
42:57
You know what I mean? Like, what am I supposed to
42:58
like? You guys don't understand the,
42:59
the, the difficulty of being a white person and not being
43:01
racist. You know, when you go, when you
43:04
go, when you're hanging out with your your family, you know, your
43:07
white family, you know that all of them are saying some racist
43:10
ass shit. So you got to keep up with the
43:11
jokes, you know, and it's all fun and games when you guys are
43:14
just being a little bit silly, you know, until somebody, until
43:18
somebody gets a little too drunk and then they start talking
43:21
about, you know, how much they hate Black Lives Matter.
43:24
So then you have to get drunk and you have to talk about, you
43:27
literally have to talk about Israel constantly.
43:30
That's what you do, you know, give me a couple of fucking,
43:38
give me a couple of beers. Give me a couple of cult 40s
43:40
deep man. And I'm all about fucking.
43:42
I'm all about Israel and white rape.
43:45
Well, OK, I not me, OK. I met about how the president's
43:49
a rapist. I would talk about Israel and
43:51
the president being a pedophile rapist when I get drunk.
43:56
That was a rough one. That was a not intentional.
43:59
That was not that was not an intentional joke I made there.
44:01
OK, But I know that you guys are high class.
44:04
Inflect all of you in here regardless of race, of course.
44:10
And so you'll understand the joke and you will know that what
44:12
I meant and you'll know what I meant.
44:17
Don't clip that. Stop it.
44:19
No, not at all. Just like Caleb Hammer and many
44:24
other races. Stop, stop, stop, stop.
44:26
Adam, 22, just really can't help himself his.
44:29
What did I say? Did I say Colt 40?
44:31
What the fuck did I say Colt Ford?
44:32
What is a Colt 40? I meant Colt 45 man thank you, I
44:35
appreciate that. It's been a while since I saw
44:37
the Lando Calrissian commercial for Colt 45.
44:40
Racial worldview constantly seeps out whether he's openly
44:43
saying the N word. All my *** pops.
44:46
Oh censor the hat. Holy shit that's crazy man.
44:49
Man's unemployed. Or platforming white
44:51
supremacists. And today me and Flaca are going
44:54
to be having a conversation with Nick Fuentes.
44:57
How you doing? We got Richard Spencer in the
44:59
building. It's probably a little bit
45:00
Destiny's fault in that one. I feel like you're Larping as a
45:04
beer drinker, Dude. I don't drink beer.
45:05
I'm not fucking. I'm not.
45:07
I'm not a loser. Oh, you're corping as a fucking
45:09
beer drinker? I'm not.
45:11
What, like a loser? Beer drinkers are fucking
45:14
losers, dude. I drink like I drink girl
45:18
drinks. Who want?
45:19
Oh, let me have an IPA. Yuck.
45:21
No, thank you. Instead, let me get all fucked
45:24
up. Let me get fucked up with
45:25
something else, man. Let me get fucked up with like,
45:27
I don't know, like a, a cranberry, a cranberry vodka or
45:30
like a Margarita or a sangria. Guys who like beer are just
45:34
fucking disgusting. It's nasty.
45:37
You're fucking you're, you're and also you obviously you're
45:39
pissed. Probably tastes like shit.
45:41
Your fucking cum probably tastes like dog shit.
45:43
Dude. What kind of a fucking animal
45:44
are you, man? Beer is disgusting.
45:47
There's some OK beers. Like a Blue Moon is like the
45:48
only beer at this point in my life that I can tolerate.
45:51
It's it's a decent beer, but I'm not trying to drink any fucking
45:55
difficult beers. I'm not trying to choke it back.
45:57
What the hell is that about, man?
45:59
Give me some real shit. Ain't fucking around.
46:02
I'm a fruity drinker. Yeah, I'm a fruity.
46:04
I'm a fruity guy. I'm a fruity guy.
46:06
Exactly my. Ancestor is slaves of pieces of.
46:14
What the hell? World going to win rule.
46:18
The world those pieces get ruled by people like.
46:22
Me or even more. What the hell?
46:23
More recently, and I can't believe this is the second time
46:26
I'm mentioning him, but using the term chimping out,
46:30
popularized by Chod the builder to describe himself smoking and
46:34
drinking alcohol. We were acting crazy, drinking,
46:39
taking shots and I used Chud the builder inspired language about
46:44
myself to say that we were chimping out.
46:48
I don't think that that is racist and I don't think that
46:50
there's anything offensive about reappropriating the language of
46:57
our president should be relatable.
46:59
You as a proud N word Sayer you're wow.
47:03
This guy's just not a fucking roll dude.
47:05
At least he didn't have sex with a 16 year old that doesn't watch
47:08
his fucking wife that is now divorced with get cocked.
47:11
Appropriating the language of your oppressor because it's
47:14
emboldening. And when I say that I'd be
47:16
chimping out, that's exactly what I'm saying.
47:19
Here's here, let me let me there's a couple.
47:20
There's a lot to unpack here, but here's what I want to say.
47:22
I will say people are chimping out too when I'm talking about
47:24
white people because like it's obviously some dumb ass racist
47:28
bitch that goes around trying to fucking justify, you know,
47:31
shooting black people says it because he's racist and he's
47:33
fucking low IQ. And that's the problem with this
47:35
country are low IQ racists. Are there any more high IQ
47:38
racists? Like pop a gun?
47:40
So I'll say that, but like that, that even is that to me.
47:42
That's not even like the biggest problem with this sentence.
47:44
This motherfucker's talking about how he's like act like
47:46
he's trying to fight against racial oppression.
47:48
Like how how fucking gay of you and how gay and white of you.
47:52
Sorry, I shouldn't be homophobic, but you know, it's
47:56
just like how gay, Sorry how like how that's just white
48:00
behaviour. Like you, you know, not to be
48:02
fucking mega cringe, but like you don't really decide what
48:05
even it means to be like, oh, I'm fighting against like racial
48:08
oppression. You know what I'm saying?
48:08
Like I don't go around and say stuff and be like, I'm fighting
48:11
racial oppression though. I'm just, I'm just talking if,
48:14
if marginalized groups think I'm fighting oppression, that's
48:16
fine. That's really not my goal.
48:17
I just hate fucking pathetic low IQ behaviour, pathetic low IQ on
48:21
American behaviour. If you're like, wow, this what
48:23
Pop a guy, he's super cool. That's just a bonus, man.
48:27
You know what I mean? Telling me something, I don't
48:29
know, you know what I'm saying? But it's just like it's so
48:33
cringe to go around and be like, oh, I'm fighting for that.
48:35
It doesn't matter. Like even like legitimate, like
48:37
left-leaning people saying that shit's so fucking cringe.
48:39
Like when you guys see somebody that's like, I'm fighting
48:41
against racial oppression, it's like, shut up, dude, come on.
48:43
Like you're being a fucking you're being cringe.
48:45
Like you're you're in the territory of telling people that
48:47
you're an ally. And I feel like you don't really
48:48
get to say that you're an ally. Oh, I'm awake, I'm awake, I'm an
48:51
ally. I say black people are equal.
48:53
Like wow, fucking bare minimum dude, you know?
48:57
So just shut the fuck up and say that dumb ass shit.
49:00
Girl, shut the fuck up you thought you ate.
49:03
And just like Caleb in one of his black employees against a
49:06
self admitted racist for content, even though he not only
49:10
designs and executes these situations himself, but actively
49:14
exacerbates the racial tension within them.
49:16
When I was describing this debate, like essentially
49:20
referred to you as being sort of outwardly openly racist.
49:25
Does that seem like a true statement or would you like to
49:30
have caveats? No.
49:32
I say that I'm racist. Is this what the hell Rise and
49:36
white consciousness of their own race where there's white
49:40
consciousness of their own race? Even that is fucking insane.
49:45
What, what What the fuck is white consciousness of your own
49:48
race? So many things throughout our,
49:51
you know, the last, you know, throughout my life that I've
49:54
observed where it's like there's tribalism allowed by everybody
49:58
except for white people. They're just what an ugly, ugly,
50:02
fucking unintelligent bitch. See, this is what pisses me off
50:05
is I have no problem with tribalism, but like white
50:07
tribalism, like I Italian tribalism is fine.
50:11
Polish fucking black. Well, I mean, it's black
50:14
tribalism is fine because in America we as a society
50:18
historically like made black people.
50:20
You know what I mean? We pull black people from all
50:22
different parts of fucking Africa and I'm sure other places
50:25
and we like we, we, we so told them that they were less than
50:29
because they're black, right. But like the white identity has
50:32
not been like oppressed. So like, that's why the white
50:34
identity has been oppressive. But like this fucking white
50:37
consciousness, like what the fuck?
50:38
Like I'm not like why, why as a, as me, as a top tier white
50:42
person, why the fuck do you get to go, Oh, white consciousness,
50:46
a good white person. Shut the fuck up.
50:49
This guy's best known for fucking watching his wife have
50:52
sex with men and sleeping with fucking 16 year olds.
50:56
Like what the what is that? You know, like, why?
50:59
Like I, you know, I'm a, I'm a I'm German dude.
51:01
We were known for a lot of things, insane amounts of
51:05
engineering, especially in ovens.
51:09
But that's the bad part of the history.
51:13
And now like some fucking low IQ Coco melon white that just eats
51:16
up a bunch of racism on Twitter gets to say, well, white, your
51:19
accomplishments are mine. That sounds like a participation
51:21
trophy, dude. That's what it sounds like.
51:24
Like what the fuck is that about?
51:27
What is what? What the it's fucking.
51:29
I'm mid tier white dude, you're done.
51:31
You're banned from this. I'm fucking top tier white, bro.
51:33
I'm literal top tier bro. I'm top tier all right.
51:36
I'm a high class white. I'm tired of these low class
51:38
whites talking about how like amazing white people are.
51:42
You're not, you're not one of the good ones, dude.
51:45
You're one of the low IQ rate. If you're racist, you're a low
51:47
tier white and you shouldn't be talking about white shit.
51:51
That's a fact. It's always just a fucking
51:54
triggers the hell out of me when these dumb ass motherfuckers
51:56
talk about that shit. Just not allowed to express any
51:58
kind of solidarity or pride in being white, right?
52:01
Loser are. You on my side or their side?
52:03
The British Empire, the Spanish Empire, the French Empire, they
52:07
didn't benefit in any significant way from all those
52:10
sugar plantations in. Yeah, dude, German like all the
52:12
Nordic whites are like top tier, like Germans fucking, you know,
52:17
all the other, all the ones that all the whites that were like
52:19
Vikings are the top tier ones. Every other like white is, you
52:24
know, and as they're amazing, but like, you know what I mean?
52:27
Like don't, don't bring me into your racism because you got a
52:30
lot of these people. They're like, oh man, my people
52:31
are known for fucking potatoes and being colonized by bean
52:34
eaters. And it's like we're we're really
52:36
and I'm not, you know, it's like, wow, incredible.
52:43
That's lots to be proud of. There.
52:45
Are you guys still oppressed? Yeah.
52:47
Oh, So what you're what's so what's so special about your
52:51
white? You know what I mean?
52:53
Dude, shut the fuck up. Vikings.
52:54
You mean rapist colonizers? No, of course not.
52:56
Listen, here's the unfortunate reality.
52:57
It's a terrible time in the world that never should have
52:59
happened. But I mean it, it, it's
53:03
terrible. But if you if you, you're
53:09
fucking crazy. So English people are bean
53:11
eaters. OK, Anyway, it's terrible.
53:14
But that's the fucking problem is you got all these Vikings,
53:16
they went to different countries and they like took the hottest
53:18
girls and then they're, you know.
53:20
Germans. Are never Viking.
53:24
So what are you talking about the Germanic people?
53:25
Dude, get out of here. I'm I'm banning everybody.
53:27
I'm banning all the trolls today, OK, anyway, it's just a
53:32
sad part of reality, you know, it's just sad.
53:36
It's what's what happened, man. This is a sad thing that
53:38
happened. Caribbean, all those freaking
53:40
banana plantations in South America, they didn't benefit
53:43
from that. Well, no, of course they
53:44
benefited from the plantation. In a major.
53:46
Way, yes, but The thing is, those wouldn't exist without the
53:50
white people who went and made them.
53:52
But this isn't that an ingenious plot hatch chat.
53:55
I have no accomplishments of my own.
53:57
I'm about to tell you why white people are amazing even though
54:00
I've done literally nothing of value in my life by these evil
54:04
white people, to be fair. But what I'm the point of?
54:07
That you're arguing that white people are capable of A a a
54:11
degree of cultural control and manipulation that a seems kind
54:17
of unrealistic and B if true, is indicative of such masterful
54:22
control over society that like, shit, I guess they deserve
54:26
whatever they end. Up getting here.
54:28
And yet, I mean, I didn't say it, man.
54:31
I don't know, I, I kind of, I mean, like, listen, I don't mean
54:34
to be that guy. I like the way things are.
54:36
I I wish they were a little less racist.
54:38
But I like to reap the benefits of historical systemic
54:40
oppression, put me on top while also not reaping the negative
54:44
aspects of marginalized groups getting angry at me.
54:47
It's called wanting the best of both worlds.
54:49
And we were like really close in 2010 and earlier.
54:52
But like, yeah, you know, it is, it is an interesting thing to
54:55
talk about. I mean, realistically speaking,
54:59
you know, when it comes down to it, we constantly look at like
55:02
violence from marginalized groups, like black people, and
55:05
we're always like, oh, look at this 1352 statistic, blah, blah,
55:08
blah, blah. We ignore the systemic aspect of
55:10
it, the systemic oppression. We've always focused on that.
55:12
But when it comes to white violence, fucking like all,
55:15
everybody's fucking crickets, dude.
55:18
I mean, we colonize the fucking world.
55:21
That's violent. It was a violent thing white
55:23
people did. It was crazy.
55:25
Some would say it might be a little impressive.
55:27
It's pretty fucked up, but it's time to move on and not be
55:30
racist anymore. OK, but we've done some pretty
55:33
violent shit and we get away with it constantly.
55:34
I mean, Netanyahu's a literal war criminal and he has not been
55:37
arrested, but the pedophile rape is president that's destroying
55:39
the country. He's huge friends with him and
55:41
will go to war with Iran for that guy.
55:43
So it's like, you know, it seems like white violence gets fucking
55:46
praised. You know, it's, well, it's not
55:49
illegal technically. You know, I'd consider the
55:52
billionaire both hoarding white violence too.
55:54
It's always these white motherfuckers doing it, dodging
55:57
their taxes, you know, fucking stealing from the rest of us,
56:01
making laws that paying, politicians that make laws that
56:03
favor them. It's pretty fucked.
56:05
Due to the inherent contradictions of the black
56:07
friend paradox when you ask the black people around him whether
56:10
he's racist or not. Bro, the English weren't the
56:12
Germans. Bro, the English got dominated
56:14
by the Germans. Stop it, OK.
56:16
This is what you get. I don't think Adam's racist.
56:18
Do you guys think he's racist? No, he's pretty racist.
56:21
Me person, right? Damn, that's crazy.
56:24
Yeah, I don't. No, I don't think he's racist.
56:26
You know, I always respected the fact that you gave black people
56:30
a shot. Adam employs us.
56:33
He opens his door. He picks up his phone.
56:36
I don't think a racist will want to be surrounded by all these
56:39
*** for this many years. I'll tell you, I'll do you one
56:41
better. I'm literally never not on my
56:43
phone. It's always picked up.
56:45
Do I have a problem? No, of course not.
56:46
This is normal. It's not an addiction.
56:48
If everybody does it stop. And this brings us back to the
56:50
beginning of the video. If you remember, I said that the
56:52
Black Friend Paradox has two distinct sites with Caleb and
56:56
Adam. We've addressed the white
56:57
friend, but. Now we're going to do the black
56:59
side shit, dude. The 2nd and less talked about
57:02
aspect of this phenomena focuses on the black friend themselves.
57:05
You see, there are a lot of black people who believe that
57:07
just by merely being black, they are able to magically undo
57:11
whatever racist upbringing their white friends might have.
57:14
You know, I am the person to where I naively believe that
57:17
people can be better. I take accountability.
57:19
I mean, I can respect that though.
57:21
He's trying just because he's failing.
57:23
I think he's being authentic. Even if he didn't do it, he
57:26
wasn't successful. I don't think that he's my my
57:29
issue isn't like, oh, let's say this, I think this is true.
57:31
I think he believes this, but my issue isn't that like he tried
57:33
to do it and maybe failed. I think my issue would be if he
57:36
was grifting and I don't think that he's grifting.
57:38
You know, I think there's a money focus there, but I don't
57:40
think Judy knows. Like grifting.
57:42
I was naive. I thought him hanging out with
57:44
me would change his mind. And, and you cannot tell me as
57:49
somebody who knew Charlie that he was a racist.
57:51
He wasn't. Yeah, Charlie, dude, I don't
57:53
know why people say Charlie Kurtz is a racist.
57:54
He just said that we never should have done the Civil
57:57
Rights Act. That's not racist.
57:59
And guys, see this is the problem is that people they
58:01
always take it out of context because what he meant is it went
58:03
too far because he said that he's like, you know, we don't
58:06
want to do. I wish we never did.
58:08
We never should have done civil rights because it went too far.
58:12
That's like that's fair. Because of course you couldn't
58:14
just like stop before it went too far or roll back to before
58:16
it went too far. You have to say, I wish we never
58:19
did it. That's the only possible.
58:23
That's the only possible, like solution, right?
58:25
Like there's no, there's no middle ground there, of course.
58:28
So like there's no way that Charlie would be dog whistling.
58:31
He wished black people were less than because he wants more white
58:34
DEI. No, he was just, he's just like,
58:39
hey, I think it went a little too far, you know?
58:42
Now of course, being black in the West, it makes it very
58:44
likely that you are going to have white friends.
58:46
And for your own comfort and political growth, it is
58:49
incredibly important to at least attempt to unpack and de
58:53
radicalize any racist framing of the world they may have absorbed
58:57
by growing up in a white supremacist country.
59:00
But in order to do that effectively, you must first ask
59:02
yourself what kind of black person are you?
59:05
Are you you? Know, I think about that a lot.
59:08
I think I'm, I think I'm one of the good ones.
59:10
The kind of black person who likely voted for Trump.
59:12
I'm a Trump supporter. Yeah, that's it, brother.
59:15
You're out. Take him out.
59:18
Take someone else in. I enjoy and love Trump right but
59:22
watch how Trump stood in the fire and answered all the
59:25
questions, not even shaking that man hand the right way but it's
59:28
like you don't even want contact with him.
59:30
Who the fuck is this guy? Snatch your black ass off that
59:33
nag down here. Are you the kind of black person
59:36
who's willing to laugh at racist jokes made at your expense?
59:39
We said I could say what whatever I want on this website
59:41
intro. Sally, you can say whatever.
59:43
Thank you. What's up bitch ass?
59:46
Whoa, definitely said to that. What the fuck?
59:48
That was crazy. You the kind of.
59:54
That's crazy. I mean, it depends on the type
59:56
of joke. I feel like that one was crazy.
59:58
But if you're, if you're, if your friends are ribbing each
1:00:01
other and you guys are going back and forth, I think it's all
1:00:03
right. Black person who speaks about
1:00:05
but that was crazy. Black people like this.
1:00:07
But if I emphasize this musty or just musty?
1:00:11
What the I censor that too. August, Jesus Christ.
1:00:14
By. August, guess what you're going
1:00:16
to do on that one if you know already all.
1:00:19
He. Knows all of them all.
1:00:21
I'm not getting all of these. This is fucking preposterous.
1:00:24
Support crime Some blue, purple, wide nose pink.
1:00:28
Lips was was us. Guess what?
1:00:30
August. You know.
1:00:36
What's that? Are you the kind of black person
1:00:38
who plays into respectability politics so hard that you
1:00:41
suggest that you are only willing to analyze other black
1:00:43
people when white people aren't around?
1:00:46
Bitch, the only reason I didn't come outside kill one of you ***
1:00:49
because because I was in front of these white *** Are you the
1:00:51
type of black person to be the CEO of a company that uses race
1:00:54
bait and harmful stereotypes not only of your own racial group,
1:00:58
but of others and. Wait, hold on.
1:01:00
Hold on. Be and harmful stereotypes not
1:01:03
only of your own own racial group, but of others.
1:01:07
What do you mean by own racial group?
1:01:10
Oh, I guess you meant the white, the black guy.
1:01:12
I thought he was calling Calabasian.
1:01:13
I was like, see, even he knows it, you know?
1:01:15
And most importantly, are you the type of black person who has
1:01:19
no fucking idea about racial politics and how to communicate
1:01:23
them to white people? That's me.
1:01:25
That's me. Because if you are, not only do
1:01:27
you stand no chance in actively de radicalizing your white
1:01:30
friends, but due to the black friend paradox, you are likely
1:01:33
to increase it and compound it because you give them plausible
1:01:37
deniability by allowing them to reject the racist label.
1:01:40
Because they have a black friend, they will perpetuate
1:01:43
their racism, not only because of racist socialization, but
1:01:46
because they know what kind of black people their black friends
1:01:50
are. Dude it's like yin and Yang 11
1:01:53
racist guy, one non racist guy were coming together and ending
1:01:55
racism. That's so beautiful, I love
1:01:57
that. But if it's just saying, yo,
1:02:00
white lives matter, yo listen, I have white friends, you know?
1:02:03
What? That's crazy.
1:02:06
I'm seeing that right now. It's tough on white folks.
1:02:08
They can't really say too many things.
1:02:09
They're being. We can't say anything, man.
1:02:11
Press freedom of speech is a bitch.
1:02:13
You can't say anything unless it's on Twitter or in person or
1:02:17
on Instagram. You can't say anything.
1:02:20
What's tough for us white guys? You just, you're not allowed to
1:02:22
say anything, dude. You literally can't.
1:02:25
And you know what? I've been saying it for years
1:02:27
all over Twitter. You can't say anything.
1:02:29
And I explicitly say everything I want to say on Twitter, by the
1:02:32
way, but you can't say anything. You can't literally you just
1:02:35
ever, if you're white, you just can't say anything racist.
1:02:41
I don't know, but you can all over Twitter.
1:02:43
What the fuck is he talking about?
1:02:45
What's up with this fucking white victim complex?
1:02:47
It's insane. Our presents are fucking rapist,
1:02:50
dude. You can do whatever the fuck you
1:02:51
want if you're white. What are you talking about,
1:02:53
dude? This is where we're we're at.
1:02:55
Like the this is like our fucking this is like a
1:02:56
renaissance for racist white people.
1:03:00
You do whoever the fuck you want, man.
1:03:02
Fuck are you talking about, dude?
1:03:03
It's like top tier time. This is the time to fucking
1:03:06
reroll white dude. This is it.
1:03:08
You know what? Take it away yo.
1:03:11
White lives matter because I rocked my white friends.
1:03:13
I got no pass dude. There shouldn't even.
1:03:15
Be you got some fucking loser ass white friends.
1:03:17
If they say white lives matter, that's fucking Grinch as hell.
1:03:20
Some loser shit dude. How?
1:03:21
To show off that white face. Yeah, that good white skin, that
1:03:25
beautiful, you know, white skin. White man, just enjoy to be a
1:03:28
ride. It smell like lemon juice and
1:03:31
pledge furniture cleaner. And of course, well, the joke's
1:03:34
on you. Pledge is lemon juice.
1:03:35
That's lemon, so it's kind of redundant to say that.
1:03:37
Plus, I understand that even though every single black person
1:03:40
should care about racism, not every single black person does.
1:03:44
But if that's the case, why do you think that having a black
1:03:47
friend who does not care about racism somehow absorbs you of
1:03:50
potentially being racist? It literally makes no sense if
1:03:53
all of the women in my life. That's what I was saying.
1:03:55
It's like, if you're going to be racist, just be racist.
1:03:57
You know what I mean? Don't make excuses.
1:03:59
If you're going to be racist, just be like, yeah, I have a
1:04:01
black friend and I'm fucking racist.
1:04:04
Based. Not really based, but at least
1:04:05
you'll be honest, you know, like that's the, that's the one thing
1:04:08
that I guess Alex Rosen has over Caleb Hammer is Caleb thinks
1:04:10
he's not racist. He is.
1:04:12
At least Alex knows he's racist, you know?
1:04:15
Still, hyper traditional gender rolls onto me.
1:04:17
We're constantly hating on women and voting against their bodily
1:04:19
autonomy. Can I say I'm not a sexist
1:04:21
simply because I have those kinds of women in my life?
1:04:24
This contradiction is at the root of the Black Friend
1:04:27
paradox, which is just a small cog in the much larger Pick Me
1:04:31
industrial complex. A much longer video that I've
1:04:33
been working on for the past few months, so make sure you
1:04:35
subscribe so you don't miss it. Both the white friend and the
1:04:38
Maybe I Will black friend have a responsibility to at least
1:04:41
attempt to address any underlying racial misconception
1:04:45
or biases that either of them may have in order for that
1:04:48
friendship to not create a more harm.
1:04:50
Well, I don't know if you necessarily have to do all that.
1:04:52
I mean, it depends. You know, I think that like,
1:04:55
see, that's The thing is like when it comes to public content,
1:04:57
I think you should be more careful about what you're
1:04:58
saying. And at least at the very least,
1:05:00
like if you're going to be fucking say dumb ass racist
1:05:02
shit, like don't try to like hide and be like, I'm not racist
1:05:04
like you are, you know what I mean?
1:05:05
But if you're like, you know, hanging out at one-on-one, I
1:05:07
don't know how much racial like social justice shit, I would be
1:05:10
like you should all be like, yes, you don't be, you know what
1:05:12
I mean? Like, I'm not I wouldn't say
1:05:14
that. Like if you're a content
1:05:15
creator, you know, you're having a bigger impact on the world.
1:05:18
You wouldn't want to be negative by like being totally chill with
1:05:20
a bunch of like active racism. That's not even like funny.
1:05:23
You know, a funny racism is OK, OK, I'm not even kidding.
1:05:26
Like you could be funny. Like funny racism is like when
1:05:28
it's a joke that you make it like an expensive like a racial
1:05:30
group, but it's like fun. You know, that racial group
1:05:33
would laugh at it, you know, not just be like, well, fried
1:05:36
chicken. You know, that's not funny.
1:05:37
Like everybody likes fried chicken.
1:05:38
Also, you sound like fucking stupid, you know, but again,
1:05:41
like, oh, you know, like again, like, I mean, I got the I I keep
1:05:45
railing off the same fucking black joke here.
1:05:48
I got to get a new one. But like, I like fucking black
1:05:51
guys. Like every black guy I know
1:05:52
likes fucking anime. That's a fun, that's fun.
1:05:54
That's like she's like, Oh yeah, ha ha.
1:05:55
Go with any hot topic. Ask any of them their favorite
1:05:58
Dragon Ball Z Carter, you know what I mean?
1:05:59
Like that's, that's I think that you'd all be able to have a fun
1:06:01
with that one. But just like saying slurs, it's
1:06:04
not funny, it's not a joke, It's just trying to be like hateful
1:06:06
and harmful. Like that's, that's not fun
1:06:08
racism, dude. You know, give me some more fun
1:06:10
racism in the world. Give me some super based fun
1:06:12
racism. For racial zeitgeist, whether
1:06:15
it's intentional or not. So to end this video, I would
1:06:18
like to extend some grace to both sides of this paradox.
1:06:22
Firstly, to the white friends. Believe it or not, I've been in
1:06:25
a very similar situation, although I'm black.
1:06:27
You're white. You're.
1:06:28
What? John, how come you didn't tell
1:06:30
me you were black? Yeah, I know.
1:06:31
That's crazy. Huge shock.
1:06:33
I'm also a man and that comes with its own oppressive
1:06:36
socialization due to the patriarchy.
1:06:38
The process of one learning potentially negative frameworks
1:06:42
that could. Be maybe true though.
1:06:43
Core to your identity is very arduous and kind of scary.
1:06:47
I definitely have a long way to go, but the only reason I have
1:06:49
gotten as far as I have is through humility and
1:06:52
understanding that the way I was raised.
1:06:54
My understanding of masculinity and what it means to be a man is
1:06:58
very likely flawed, but still malleable.
1:07:01
And the only way I was able to come to this conclusion is
1:07:03
because of the women around me. Yeah, I hear.
1:07:06
That's how I am. Like a lot of what you said, it
1:07:08
was kind of cringe and gay, but I kind of agree.
1:07:11
Like for me, you know, when it comes to me checking, I guess
1:07:15
some of the more toxic parts of my masculinity, like, you know,
1:07:19
racism, which is by the way, it's a masculine trait.
1:07:22
That's why if a guy is racist, I have more charity to them
1:07:24
because if a girl's racist, like, that's weird, right?
1:07:26
Like, if a guy's a racist, I was like, OK, like loser default
1:07:29
settings on that one, but I just, like, pass it off to my
1:07:32
wife. And if she says like, dude,
1:07:34
you're being fucking dumb as hell right now.
1:07:35
I'd be like, really? All right.
1:07:36
And I'll take her word for it because I respect her and I
1:07:38
trust her as much as I I respect and trust myself more.
1:07:41
Really. So that's one of the great parts
1:07:43
of being a relationship. I only really have to do half
1:07:45
the work and I still get paid more.
1:07:51
But yeah, man, that's, that's a cool part.
1:07:52
It's one of the good things about finding a partner that you
1:07:54
can, like, trust, even if you don't really understand what the
1:07:56
fuck they're talking about. You'd be like, all right, I
1:07:58
don't know what you mean, but I respect what you said.
1:08:00
I'm going to trust you, and maybe one day I'll come to
1:08:02
realize it. This brings us to the other side
1:08:04
of the Black friend paradox, and unfortunately but.
1:08:07
The dark side. Kind of.
1:08:08
Obviously this is a lot more complicated and difficult to
1:08:12
overcome. The first step in not just being
1:08:14
the black friend is realizing that your blackness is not
1:08:17
enough to automatically absorb all of your friends of not being
1:08:20
racist. All right, I'm writing this down
1:08:22
for this is good advice for me. The second step is to actually
1:08:24
educate yourself on racial politics.
1:08:26
If you're an audio visual learner, I would recommend
1:08:28
Khadija, Foreign Fridays, FD, Signal Fire, Illuminati Well
1:08:33
might put a couple of I've. I've heard of like all these
1:08:35
white people dude, I'm I'm pretty cultured the.
1:08:38
Content creators down in the description if you like books
1:08:41
that are amazing philosophy. No, thank you.
1:08:43
Suppose like WEB the boys. Boys.
1:08:46
OK, all right. I like the boys in the hood.
1:08:48
And oya room care oya warmi amazing authors.
1:08:51
I'll put a lot of their books down in the description as well.
1:08:53
But ultimately educating yourself is super important
1:08:55
because you want a lot of your argumentation to be based on
1:08:58
actual theory. The third step is where we add
1:09:00
nuance, and this is honestly something that leftist tend to
1:09:03
really struggle with. But ultimately.
1:09:06
That mean maybe I don't know about that.
1:09:08
I would say in general society struggles with nuance, but I
1:09:10
wouldn't really put that on. You know, usually there's like a
1:09:14
comparative thing like leftists tend to struggle with nuance
1:09:17
more. I would say that leftists
1:09:18
struggle with it less than rightists.
1:09:22
But I mean, I think everybody maybe struggles with it a little
1:09:25
bit nowadays especially. So I mean, I guess I could agree
1:09:27
with that. You need to understand that
1:09:29
within the context of de radicalizing your white peers.
1:09:32
Having all peers. All of the knowledge in the
1:09:33
world is not enough if you are not able to effectively
1:09:36
communicate it. As I mentioned, I've gone
1:09:39
through my own deradicalization process and it can be very
1:09:42
comfortable. Were you like a manosphere guy
1:09:43
or something? Fronting and oftentimes my ego
1:09:46
will try to protect itself whenever my worldview was
1:09:49
actually challenged and as I mentioned.
1:09:51
Me, I'm perfect. If it wasn't for the lovely and
1:09:53
patient women around me who put in the emotional labour to
1:09:57
actually try and educate me and walk me through these topics, I
1:10:00
likely would have just crashed out and maintained my world for
1:10:03
you in order to preserve whatever identity I really
1:10:06
thought that I had at the time. Does that sound like someone we
1:10:08
know? You've never possibly impacted
1:10:09
someone's life other than entertainment.
1:10:11
Once Oh, sounds like a girl. What the hell you?
1:10:12
You have no moral ground to stand on.
1:10:14
Of course it's Greek. You dudes.
1:10:15
Jesus Christ. Goes without saying, but I'm
1:10:17
going to just say. It, I find it really interesting
1:10:19
that people will bring up Caleb Hammer and they'll talk about
1:10:21
this moment specifically when he did like this crash out on the
1:10:23
Angelo pause. But nobody brings up that he
1:10:25
deleted his live channel for like 6 months after that.
1:10:30
You know what I mean? Everybody's like, everybody will
1:10:32
be like, yeah, he did this whole thing and he crashed out.
1:10:34
But it's like, yeah, he, he threatened to sue the guy and
1:10:36
then he deleted his fucking live channel for like see all of his
1:10:38
videos for like 6 months. He's, I think he came back now,
1:10:41
but he does only offline stuff. Nobody brings that up.
1:10:43
I find that very interesting. Anyway, you do not owe this kind
1:10:47
of Labor to anyone, but if they are your friend and you do
1:10:51
actually want to preserve that friendship, then I think it's
1:10:54
just a good way to practice communicate in your political
1:10:57
worldview to someone. I kind of see it like
1:10:59
conversation or sparring in a way.
1:11:01
And the last step is discernment.
1:11:03
If you feel like you've adequately attempted to
1:11:05
deconstruct their racism or any subconscious biases they may
1:11:08
have, and they don't seem to be budgeting or show the same
1:11:11
unwillingness to learn as as we've seen in this video, you
1:11:14
ultimately have a decision to make.
1:11:16
Do you want to maintain this relationship and be the black
1:11:19
friend who observes them of their racism whenever their
1:11:22
racial worldview is challenged? Or do you want to be something
1:11:25
more, to be something more than the black friend it's.
1:11:27
Yeah, I mean, it's really, it's like, do you want to be like a
1:11:29
tool? I had to say it, but that's kind
1:11:31
of how you're being looked at. Like kind of just like a
1:11:33
convenient little charm. That's unfortunate.
1:11:35
I don't say that to be like, but it's like kind of the
1:11:39
unfortunate reality. Because I have no tolerance for
1:11:41
intolerance, and because of this, you're very likely to lose
1:11:45
a friend or two on the way. And I say, so be it.
1:11:49
Let me know what you think about the Black Friend Paradox down in
1:11:51
the comments below. I read all of them and I will be
1:11:54
scrapping you if you get too. Lyrics subscribe to the Channel.
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It's I don't think about that. I feel like being black is in
1:12:01
America is probably like a different than being black and
1:12:05
the bean place, you know, it's got to be different struggles.
1:12:08
There's a bit more racism out here.
1:12:09
I think there's more racism out here only because I live out
1:12:11
here. IO not AO signing out.
1:12:15
Oh, IO, sorry, all right. Bye.
1:12:19
Should have led with that brother.
1:12:22
Bye. He was doing, he was doing like
1:12:24
karate moves, drag wall. ZI told you.
1:12:26
Come on, don't even fuck with me on that one dude.
1:12:29
Anyways, it's good video, entertaining watch.
1:12:30
I liked it. Cool stuff, Harry Poker.