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- 0:00Do you feel things more deeply and you feel different than
- 0:03other people and people are drawn to you when they're
- 0:06struggling? Then you, my friend, could be a
- 0:09healer. You might think that you're just
- 0:11sensitive and it's this curse, but it could be that you are
- 0:15actually a healer. So today I wanted to share with
- 0:18you so you actually know if this is you or not. 3 clear signs
- 0:23that you are a powerful spiritual or that you are meant
- 0:26to step that path, the healer's path and what that even means.
- 0:32Because here's the thing, most people don't identify themselves
- 0:35as a healer. They don't make up one day and
- 0:37oh, I'm a healer me for example, I'd never identify myself like
- 0:40that. It was more like why do I feel
- 0:43so drained at work? Why do I feel so emotional?
- 0:47Why do I overthink things all the time?
- 0:49Well, everybody else is just vibing and I saw these things as
- 0:53weaknesses. But looking back, I realized
- 0:55these were just signals. And the first sign that you're a
- 0:58healer is that people open up to you.
- 1:02It could be, let's say you're at a party or it's somebody's
- 1:05birthday. You're meeting new people,
- 1:07you're getting to know them. And very quickly it goes deep
- 1:10and people say, oh, I haven't told anybody that.
- 1:14Or they start sharing more than just the weather, keeping IT
- 1:16service level. But they quickly go deep,
- 1:19sharing their life story, their struggle.
- 1:22They ask you for advice and you might have just met or you might
- 1:25be the friend in the friend group where people go to for
- 1:28advice. That's how I feel like I'm the
- 1:30counselor amongst my friends, and I love doing it as well.
- 1:33Healers usually do. And The funny thing is, it's not
- 1:36something you're trying to do. You're not trying to volunteer
- 1:39as this therapist. It's just what you do.
- 1:42It's just your energy. You're good at holding space,
- 1:44making people feel seen and hurt.
- 1:47And that is rare in today's society where it's a lot about
- 1:50individualism. Me, me, me.
- 1:52Look at my likes, look at my life.
- 1:54But there is a shadow side to this, and that is when you're
- 1:57not aware of it, you can then end up absorbing everybody
- 2:00else's energy. And I'm guilty of this.
- 2:03And yes, there are energetic things you can do, like putting
- 2:06up an energy protection bubble. But what really helped me is
- 2:10just healing my people pleasing, not feeling like everybody has
- 2:15to like me or understand me, that it's OK if they judge me,
- 2:20it's OK if I don't sound super excited because I used to with
- 2:24every new person I meet, just bring all my energy to them and
- 2:28people would love it. But by the end of the
- 2:30interaction I would feel so drained.
- 2:33And is that worth it? I would say no, unless this is
- 2:36your partner or your best friend or a family member, your kids.
- 2:41But then it is not going to feel draining because you're not
- 2:43putting up this act. You get energized by being in
- 2:47their presence. So don't feel like you have to
- 2:49give your energy 100% to all people.
- 2:52And that is something I went through very recently.
- 2:54So I met this new friend and she said, you know, I'm realized I'm
- 2:57seeing that you are people pleasing.
- 2:59Like when the waitress came over and she asked us to switch table
- 3:03you were in that people placing and giving your energy.
- 3:06And she said that she used to struggle with that.
- 3:08And she got so drained that she stopped socializing completely.
- 3:12And once she let go of the people pleasingness, she
- 3:14realized, hang on, I can socialize without getting as
- 3:18strained as before. Like a huge difference.
- 3:21And after that, I realized, hang on, OK, I got to do this too.
- 3:24So this is something I've been doing just this year, and it's
- 3:27made such a big difference in my life as an empath, as a healer.
- 3:31Sign #2 that you're a healer is that have gone through deep
- 3:34healing yourself. Perhaps you had a tough
- 3:36childhood or you were bullied in school, or you were the black
- 3:40sheep never really fitting in. You've had periods where you
- 3:43felt lost and disconnected. And the reason why this happens
- 3:47is because healers are usually initiated through these
- 3:50experiences. Because if you were just living
- 3:52a simple, easy life, no drama, nothing to grow from, you will
- 3:57never really get onto this path. Usually it's a spiritual
- 4:01awakening that triggers this, and it's usually not very
- 4:04comfortable. The ego needs to be shaken up a
- 4:06bit. And this challenge that you've
- 4:08gone through, you can help other people overcome.
- 4:10Let's say, for example, that you've always been very anxious.
- 4:14You turn to meditation to heal that anxiousness.
- 4:18You can become a meditation teacher, teaching other people
- 4:20how to let go of their anxiety. And if you're not sure what your
- 4:23healer gift is, then I have a free guide on how to find your
- 4:26purpose in five simple steps. I've linked it in the
- 4:28description sign #3 and this is subtle but so powerful.
- 4:33And that is that you've always had this feeling that you've
- 4:36been called to more. You've lived a normal life, you
- 4:40studied, you got your nine to five, you've done what society
- 4:44expects of you, but you still feel empty and unfulfilled.
- 4:48That is what happened to me. And even though you see
- 4:50everybody around you doing the same, there is this quiet voice
- 4:53in your head that says I meant to do something different.
- 4:57This doesn't feel right. And this quiet voice was there
- 4:59in my head for a long time, ever since I started my first job.
- 5:04I was in my bed with a tub of ice cream.
- 5:07And I was just reflecting on my job, how much I hated it, how
- 5:11restricted I felt, where I just thought, I can't do this
- 5:15anymore. I got to quit my job and I
- 5:17booked a one way ticket to Southeast Asia.
- 5:20And I went to a digital nomad summit.
- 5:23And there I met hundreds of people who are digital nomads
- 5:28who don't have a boss, they don't have a job, They're
- 5:31following their own dreams, starting their own businesses.
- 5:36And I was thought, wow, if they can do it, I can do it.
- 5:39And that was eight years ago, and that was the last time I
- 5:43ever had a job. And as a sensitive soul, I can't
- 5:47tell you what a difference it makes in your life quality to
- 5:50not have to work, to not have to commute to a work and please
- 5:55your boss. You can decide today I'm going
- 5:57to work or today I'm going to take the day off because your
- 6:00old content brings in money. Passive income.
- 6:04You're not trading time for money.
- 6:06My controversial belief is that 99% of healers and empaths would
- 6:11be happier not having a job, but being business owners instead if
- 6:16they have a simple business model where you're not trading
- 6:18time for money. And this is exactly what I'm
- 6:20teaching in Nomad Freedom Academy.
- 6:22My program how healers can turn their gift into an income that
- 6:27makes way more than their nine to five job and in a short
- 6:31amount of time. It's a 10 week boot camp.
- 6:34And if you want to learn more and also how to narrow down what
- 6:36your specific niche would be, then definitely book a free
- 6:39business card to call link in the description.
- 6:42We have a few more calls this week and I would love, love to
- 6:45coach you now if you're still here, I guess this is resonating
- 6:48with you, which shows that, come on, you are a healer.
- 6:51But this is where a lot of people can feel resistance.
- 6:53And this is because this path requires being seen, taking full
- 6:57responsibility for your life, being a trailblazer, going a
- 7:00path most people don't trust in yourself.
- 7:03And that's when the fear comes in.
- 7:04What if I'm not good enough? There are already so many other
- 7:07healers in the world, why would people want to hire me?
- 7:10What if people judge me? I'm tired of being judged.
- 7:13I've been judged my whole life. And I get you.
- 7:15But what I want you to know that's being a healer is not
- 7:18about being perfect. It's just willingness to show up
- 7:21to keep healing, keep growing and share your voice along the
- 7:25way saying, hey, I'm not perfect, I'm not a guru.
- 7:28I'm just sharing what's worked for me.
- 7:29And people love that authenticity today.
- 7:31People can smell bullshit from so far away nowadays because
- 7:36we're entering an era of New Earth celebrities.
- 7:39I have a whole video about new Earth celebrities and how you
- 7:42know you are one. But basically the power and the
- 7:44money is shifting from greedy politicians and alien
- 7:49celebrities and the elite 2 new Earth leaders.
- 7:53And they're stepping into their power now.
- 7:55Now when files and scandals are being leaked and coming up to
- 7:59the surface, the old system is crumbling down.
- 8:02And if you're here, chances are you are one of those people.
- 8:05So know that this is confirmation and it's time to
- 8:07step into your light. So I want you to write below.
- 8:10I am a powerful healer and claim that because it's the truth.
- 8:15And if you want to deep dive into what I believe is the best
- 8:19business models for healers, then check out my next video
- 8:23Best Business Models for Spiritual People.
- 8:25Let me know if you had any of these three signs.
- 8:28Do you think you are a healer? Love you so much and see you in
- 8:31the next video.