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- 0:02Speaker 1: You can't solve a problem with the same mind that
- 0:08Speaker 1: created it. In order to work at solving these things
- 0:14Speaker 1: called problems in your life, you have to change your mind.
- 0:18Speaker 1: It is your mind where they live, It is your
- 0:20Speaker 1: mind that created them. They there is where you experience them.
- 0:24Speaker 1: They're all illusions. You must change your mind, literally, rewrite
- 0:28Speaker 1: your agreement with reality.
- 0:32Speaker 2: So if you think sixty to seventy thousand thoughts in
- 0:34Speaker 2: one day, and we do, and ninety percent of those
- 0:37Speaker 2: thoughts are the same thoughts as the day before, and
- 0:39Speaker 2: you believe that your thoughts have something to do with
- 0:40Speaker 2: your destiny, your life's not going to change very much
- 0:43Speaker 2: because the same thought leads to the same choice, The
- 0:45Speaker 2: same choice leads to the same behavior, the same behavior
- 0:48Speaker 2: creates the same experience, and the same experience produces the
- 0:51Speaker 2: same emotion. And so then the act of becoming conscious
- 0:55Speaker 2: of this process, to begin to become more aware of
- 1:01Speaker 2: how you think, how you act, and how you feel.
- 1:03Speaker 2: It's called metacognition. And so then why is that important?
- 1:07Speaker 2: Because the more conscious you become of those unconscious states
- 1:12Speaker 2: of mind and body, the less likely you're going to
- 1:15Speaker 2: go unconscious during the day.
- 1:16Speaker 3: How do you alter your mindset. The only path is
- 1:21Speaker 3: through new awareness. You can receive advice all day long.
- 1:25Speaker 3: Many people do. They love being told what to do.
- 1:28Speaker 3: They're hooked on new books, new ideas, new lists. They
- 1:32Speaker 3: learn and learn and learn in all directions except the
- 1:35Speaker 3: one that matters most learn about themselves. There is no
- 1:40Speaker 3: getting around this. It's hard to sustain new happiness without
- 1:45Speaker 3: new awareness.
- 1:46Speaker 4: What do they say? According to cognitive neuroscientists, we are
- 1:50Speaker 4: conscious of only about five percent of our cognitive activity.
- 1:56Speaker 4: Most people, one percent of their day is in the
- 2:00Speaker 4: conscious minds. So every day you create only from your
- 2:05Speaker 4: creation mind. Your conscious mind only about one percent of
- 2:10Speaker 4: what is going on in your life, and therefore ninety
- 2:13Speaker 4: five to ninety nine percent of your life comes from
- 2:17Speaker 4: your programming and your subconscious mind.
- 2:20Speaker 5: Old ways won't open new doors. How do you think
- 2:25Speaker 5: you can change by doing the same thing, continuing on
- 2:28Speaker 5: the same path, taking no risks, no twists, no turns.
- 2:34Speaker 5: Nothing's going to change if you're not willing to change.
- 2:37Speaker 5: Get up and become something, something more than the familiar
- 2:41Speaker 5: route you've been walking for years.
- 2:43Speaker 6: No more.
- 2:44Speaker 7: I'll never get out of this problem. The obstacles are
- 2:47Speaker 7: too big. I'll never get ahead, Never break this addiction,
- 2:51Speaker 7: Never meet the right person. Don't let a limited mindset
- 2:54Speaker 7: keep you from the abundant line that belongs to you.
- 3:03Speaker 8: Only man has the god black power to make his
- 3:06Speaker 8: surroundings change to fit him, because his environment will change
- 3:12Speaker 8: as he changes. A man's environment is a merciless mirror
- 3:17Speaker 8: of him as a human being, and if he thinks
- 3:19Speaker 8: his environment can stand alone improvement, all he has to
- 3:22Speaker 8: do is improve, and his environment will improve to reflect
- 3:24Speaker 8: the changing man.
- 3:26Speaker 6: There's this mysterious subconscious mind of yours, and it runs
- 3:30Speaker 6: below the awareness of your conscious awareness, so you're not
- 3:34Speaker 6: usually even aware of what's going on in there, like
- 3:37Speaker 6: what it believes or how it limits your life. The
- 3:42Speaker 6: reason it is so powerful is because it stores all
- 3:46Speaker 6: of your memories, all of your feelings and emotions, and
- 3:50Speaker 6: most importantly, all the limiting beliefs you've acquired since you
- 3:55Speaker 6: were born.
- 3:57Speaker 7: Need to understand the subconscious mind of yours. Your subconscious
- 4:01Speaker 7: mind rules your life. Ninety six to ninety seven percent
- 4:07Speaker 7: of everything that you do is done as a result
- 4:11Speaker 7: of your subconscious mind.
- 4:14Speaker 8: And when your.
- 4:15Speaker 7: Subconscious mind gets programmed, it goes ahead and responds to
- 4:21Speaker 7: whatever it is Your conscious mind has placed into it.
- 4:26Speaker 7: The subconscious mind of yours is most impacted by your feelings.
- 4:32Speaker 7: A change of feeling is a change of destiny.
- 4:37Speaker 9: I think that we define reality with our senses, and
- 4:42Speaker 9: I think that is one of the biggest delusions of
- 4:44Speaker 9: The fundamental question is can you believe in a future
- 4:48Speaker 9: that you can't see or experience with your senses yet,
- 4:51Speaker 9: but you've thought about enough times in your mind that
- 4:54Speaker 9: your brain has literally changed to look like the event
- 4:57Speaker 9: has already occurred. Now, the latest research in plasticity says
- 5:00Speaker 9: that's absolutely possible. And can you select a new possibility
- 5:04Speaker 9: in the quantum field and begin to emotionally embrace that
- 5:07Speaker 9: future every single day to such a degree that your body,
- 5:12Speaker 9: as the unconscious mind, the objective mind, does not know
- 5:15Speaker 9: the difference between the experience in your life that's creating
- 5:18Speaker 9: the emotion and the emotion that you're fabricating by thought alone,
- 5:22Speaker 9: to the degree that you begin to signal new genes
- 5:25Speaker 9: and new ways to change your body to look like
- 5:29Speaker 9: the experience has already happened.
- 5:31Speaker 10: Here begin to act as would the person you most
- 5:34Speaker 10: want to become now, that is, if you were already
- 5:38Speaker 10: in possession of the goal you're shooting for, how would
- 5:40Speaker 10: you conduct yourself in all of your affairs? Or do
- 5:42Speaker 10: it now and tomorrow and the next day. Begin now
- 5:45Speaker 10: to act the part of the person you most want
- 5:47Speaker 10: to become, and you'll end by becoming that person subtly
- 5:51Speaker 10: in little ways, in the way you dress and the
- 5:53Speaker 10: way you talk, in the unfailing courtesy you show to
- 5:56Speaker 10: every person with him you come in contact. Begin to
- 5:58Speaker 10: act the part of the person who has already achieved
- 6:01Speaker 10: that which you're shooting for. The German velosopher Gerte gave
- 6:05Speaker 10: us the secret when he said, before you can do something,
- 6:08Speaker 10: you must first be something. When you behave like the
- 6:11Speaker 10: person you most want to become, the things that person
- 6:14Speaker 10: would have will tend to come to you. It's simply
- 6:16Speaker 10: cause and effect. Don't be in too big a harry.
- 6:19Speaker 10: It takes longer to build a skyscraper than a chicken coop.
- 6:22Speaker 10: Build slowly, steadily, and well, then when you make it,
- 6:25Speaker 10: you'll keep it. You'll stay on top.
- 6:29Speaker 11: Our beliefs aren't always as conscious as we think they are.
- 6:32Speaker 11: We may very well accept an idea on the surface,
- 6:35Speaker 11: but if deep down we don't really believe it's possible,
- 6:39Speaker 11: then our acceptance is just an intellectual process, because calling
- 6:44Speaker 11: upon the placebo effect requires us to truly change our
- 6:48Speaker 11: beliefs about ourselves and what's possible for our bodies and
- 6:51Speaker 11: our health. We need to understand what beliefs are and
- 6:54Speaker 11: where they come from. Let's suppose a person goes to
- 6:57Speaker 11: the doctor with certain symptoms and is diagnosed with a
- 7:01Speaker 11: condition based on the physician's objective findings. The doctor gives
- 7:05Speaker 11: the patient a diagnosis, prognosis, and treatment options based on
- 7:08Speaker 11: the average outcome. The moment the person hears the doctor
- 7:12Speaker 11: say diabetes, cancer, hypothyroidism, or chronic fatigue syndrome, a series
- 7:18Speaker 11: of thoughts, images and emotions is conjured up based on
- 7:22Speaker 11: his or her past experience. That experience could be that
- 7:27Speaker 11: the patient's parents had the condition, that he or she
- 7:30Speaker 11: saw a show on TV in which one of the
- 7:32Speaker 11: characters died of that disease, or even that something the
- 7:36Speaker 11: person read on the internet scared him or her about
- 7:39Speaker 11: the diagnosis. Once the patient sees the doctor and hears
- 7:42Speaker 11: a professional opinion, the patient automatically accepts the condition, then
- 7:47Speaker 11: believes what the confident doctor has said, and finally surrenders
- 7:51Speaker 11: to the treatment and possible outcomes, and this is done
- 7:54Speaker 11: without any real analysis. The patient is suggestible and susceptible
- 7:59Speaker 11: to what the doctor says. If the person then embraces
- 8:03Speaker 11: the emotions of fear, worry, and anxiety along with sadness,
- 8:08Speaker 11: then the only possible thoughts or autosuggestions are those that
- 8:12Speaker 11: are equal to how he or she feels. The patient
- 8:16Speaker 11: can try to have positive thoughts about beating the disease,
- 8:19Speaker 11: but his or her body still feels bad because the
- 8:22Speaker 11: wrong placebo has been given, resulting in the wrong state
- 8:25Speaker 11: of being, the signaling of the same genes, and the
- 8:28Speaker 11: inability to see or perceive any new possibilities. The patient
- 8:32Speaker 11: is pretty much at the mercy of his or her
- 8:34Speaker 11: beliefs and the beliefs of the doctor about the diagnosis.
- 8:39Speaker 11: So when healed themselves using the placebo effect, what did
- 8:42Speaker 11: they do differently? First, they didn't accept the finality of
- 8:46Speaker 11: their diagnosis, prognosis, or treatment, nor did they believe in
- 8:50Speaker 11: the most probable outcome or future destiny that their doctors
- 8:53Speaker 11: had authoritatively outlined. Finally, they didn't surrender to the diagnosis,
- 8:58Speaker 11: prognosis or suggested treatment because they had a different attitude
- 9:04Speaker 11: from those who did accept believe, and surrender. They were
- 9:08Speaker 11: in a different state of being. They weren't suggestible to
- 9:11Speaker 11: the doctor's advice and opinions because they didn't feel fearful, victimized,
- 9:15Speaker 11: or sad. Instead, they were optimistic and enthusiastic, and those
- 9:20Speaker 11: emotions drove a new set of thoughts which enabled them
- 9:23Speaker 11: to see new possibilities. Because they had different ideas and
- 9:27Speaker 11: beliefs about what was possible, they didn't condition their bodies
- 9:30Speaker 11: to the worst case scenario. They didn't expect the same
- 9:33Speaker 11: predictable outcome as others who'd received the same diagnosis, and
- 9:37Speaker 11: they didn't assign the same meaning to the diagnosis with
- 9:39Speaker 11: the same condition. They assigned a different meaning to their future,
- 9:42Speaker 11: so they had a different intention. They understood epigenetics and
- 9:47Speaker 11: neural plasticity, so instead of passively seeing themselves as victims
- 9:52Speaker 11: of the disease, they used that knowledge to become proactive,
- 9:56Speaker 11: fueled by what they'd learned in MY workshops and events.
- 10:00Speaker 11: As a result, these folks also got different in better
- 10:02Speaker 11: results than other people who'd receive the same diagnosis. Now,
- 10:05Speaker 11: think about the average person who receives a diagnosis and
- 10:08Speaker 11: promptly announces I'm going to beat this, someone may not
- 10:12Speaker 11: accept the condition and the outcome the doctor outlines. But
- 10:15Speaker 11: the difference is that most people haven't truly changed their
- 10:17Speaker 11: beliefs about not being sick. Changing a belief requires changing
- 10:21Speaker 11: a subconscious program, since a belief is a subconscious state
- 10:26Speaker 11: of being. Folks who use only their conscious minds to
- 10:29Speaker 11: change never come out of the resting state to reprogram
- 10:32Speaker 11: their genes because they don't know how to do that.
- 10:35Speaker 11: This is where their healing stops. They're unable to surrender
- 10:39Speaker 11: to possibility because they're not truly able to become suggestible
- 10:43Speaker 11: to anything different from what the doctor tells them. Is
- 10:46Speaker 11: it possible that whenever people don't respond to treatment, or
- 10:50Speaker 11: when their health stays the same, they're living by the
- 10:53Speaker 11: same emotional state every day, accepting, believing, and surrendering to
- 10:57Speaker 11: the medical model Without too much analysis based on on
- 11:00Speaker 11: the social consciousness of millions of other people who've done
- 11:04Speaker 11: exactly the same thing, does a doctor's diagnosis become the
- 11:09Speaker 11: modern day equivalent of a voodoo curse? When you string
- 11:13Speaker 11: a succession of thoughts and feelings together so that they
- 11:18Speaker 11: ultimately become habituated or automatic, they form an attitude, and
- 11:22Speaker 11: since how you think and feel creates a state of being.
- 11:25Speaker 11: Attitudes are really just shortened states of being. They can
- 11:28Speaker 11: fluctuate from moment to moment as you alter how you
- 11:31Speaker 11: think and feel. Any particular attitude can last for minutes, hours, days,
- 11:35Speaker 11: or even a week or two. For example, if you
- 11:38Speaker 11: have a series of good thoughts that are aligned with
- 11:41Speaker 11: a series of good feelings, you might say, I have
- 11:44Speaker 11: a good attitude today. And if you have a sequence
- 11:47Speaker 11: of negative thoughts that's connected to a sequence of negative feelings,
- 11:51Speaker 11: then you might say, I have a bad attitude today.
- 11:55Speaker 11: If you revisit the same attitude enough times, then it
- 11:58Speaker 11: becomes automatic. If you repeat or maintain certain attitudes long enough,
- 12:03Speaker 11: and you string those attitudes together, that's how.
- 12:06Speaker 6: You create a belief.
- 12:07Speaker 11: A belief is just an extended state of being. Essentially,
- 12:11Speaker 11: beliefs are thoughts and feelings attitudes that you keep thinking
- 12:16Speaker 11: and feeling over and over again until you hardwire them
- 12:18Speaker 11: in your brain and emotionally condition them into your body.
- 12:22Speaker 11: You could say that you become addicted to them, which
- 12:25Speaker 11: is why it's so hard to change them and why
- 12:27Speaker 11: it doesn't feel good on a gut level when they're challenged.
- 12:30Speaker 11: Because experiences are neurologically etched into your brain causing you
- 12:36Speaker 11: to think, and chemically embodied as emotions causing you to feel.
- 12:42Speaker 11: Most of your beliefs are based on past memories, so
- 12:46Speaker 11: when you revisit the same thoughts over and over by
- 12:49Speaker 11: thinking about and analyzing what you remember from your past,
- 12:53Speaker 11: these thoughts will fire and wire into an automatic, unconscious program.
- 12:58Speaker 11: And if you cultivate the same feelings based on past
- 13:01Speaker 11: experiences and you feel the same as you did when
- 13:04Speaker 11: the event originally occurred, you'll condition your body to subconsciously
- 13:08Speaker 11: be the mind of that emotion, and your body will
- 13:11Speaker 11: unconsciously be living in the past. And if the redundancy
- 13:15Speaker 11: of how you think and feel over time conditions your
- 13:18Speaker 11: body to become the mind and it becomes programmed subconsciously,
- 13:22Speaker 11: then beliefs are subconscious and also unconscious states of being
- 13:26Speaker 11: derived from the past. Beliefs are also more permanent than attitudes.
- 13:31Speaker 11: They can last for months or even years, and because
- 13:34Speaker 11: they last longer, they become more programmed within you. If
- 13:38Speaker 11: you string a group of related beliefs together, they form
- 13:42Speaker 11: your perception. So your perception of reality is a sustained
- 13:47Speaker 11: state of being that's based on your long standing beliefs, attitudes, thoughts,
- 13:52Speaker 11: and feelings, and since your beliefs become subconscious and also
- 13:56Speaker 11: unconscious states of being. That is, you don't even know
- 13:59Speaker 11: why you believe certain things, or you aren't really conscious
- 14:02Speaker 11: of your beliefs until they're tested. Your perceptions how you
- 14:05Speaker 11: subjectively see things, for the most part, become your subconscious
- 14:11Speaker 11: and unconscious view of your reality from the past. In fact,
- 14:16Speaker 11: scientific experiments have shown that you don't see reality as
- 14:20Speaker 11: it truly is. Instead, you unconsciously fill in your reality
- 14:24Speaker 11: based on your memories of the past, which is what's
- 14:27Speaker 11: neurochemically maintained in your brain. When perceptions become implicit or
- 14:31Speaker 11: non declarative, they become automatic or subconscious, so that you
- 14:35Speaker 11: automatically edit reality subjectively. For example, you know your car
- 14:39Speaker 11: is your car because you've driven it so many times.
- 14:42Speaker 11: You have the same experience of your car daily because
- 14:44Speaker 11: nothing much changes about it, You think and feel the
- 14:48Speaker 11: same way about it most every day. Your attitude about
- 14:51Speaker 11: your car has created a belief about it, which has
- 14:53Speaker 11: formed a particular perception about your vehicle that it's a
- 14:57Speaker 11: good car, say, because it rarely breaks down. Although you
- 15:02Speaker 11: automatically accept that perception it's actually a subjective perception, because
- 15:06Speaker 11: someone else may have the same make and model of
- 15:08Speaker 11: cars you do, and that person's car may break down
- 15:11Speaker 11: all the time, causing him or her to have a
- 15:13Speaker 11: different belief in different perceptions about the same vehicle based
- 15:18Speaker 11: on personal experience. In fact, if you're like most people,
- 15:22Speaker 11: you probably don't pay attention to several aspects of your car.
- 15:26Speaker 11: Unless something goes wrong. You expect it to run as
- 15:30Speaker 11: it did the day before. You naturally expect your future
- 15:34Speaker 11: experience of driving your car to be like your past
- 15:37Speaker 11: experience yesterday and the day before. That's your perception, But
- 15:42Speaker 11: when it malfunctions, you have to pay more attention to it,
- 15:46Speaker 11: like listening to the sound of the motor more closely,
- 15:49Speaker 11: and become conscious of your unconscious perception of your car.
- 15:53Speaker 11: Once your perception of your car is altered because something
- 15:56Speaker 11: has changed about the way it drives, you'll now perceive
- 15:59Speaker 11: your car differently. The same is true of relationships with
- 16:02Speaker 11: your spouse and your coworkers, your culture and your race,
- 16:05Speaker 11: and even your body and your pain. Actually, this is
- 16:09Speaker 11: the way most perceptions about reality function. Now, if you
- 16:14Speaker 11: want to change an implicit or subconscious perception, you must
- 16:17Speaker 11: become more conscious and less unconscious. In truth, you'd have
- 16:21Speaker 11: to increase your level of attention to all of the
- 16:23Speaker 11: aspects of yourself and your life that you've previously stopped
- 16:26Speaker 11: paying much attention to. Better yet, you'd have to wake up,
- 16:29Speaker 11: change your level of awareness, and become conscious of what
- 16:32Speaker 11: you were once unconscious about.