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- 0:01Speaker 1: Wake you up, Wake up?
- 0:02Speaker 2: Wait that ass up the program, your alarm, the power
- 0:05Speaker 2: one oh five point one on iHeartRadio.
- 0:08Speaker 3: This is your time to get it off your chest,
- 0:10Speaker 3: whether you're mad or bless.
- 0:12Speaker 4: I hate the way that you walk, the way that
- 0:13Speaker 4: you talk. I hate the way that you shuttle.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Everything when he is best tall up now eight hundred
- 0:19Speaker 1: five eighty five one O five one, not ship. I'm
- 0:22Speaker 1: with the Coach of Philly.
- 0:23Speaker 3: Hello, who's that?
- 0:25Speaker 1: Gario Garrio?
- 0:26Speaker 5: What up?
- 0:26Speaker 1: Where you're going from? Jackson Ville?
- 0:28Speaker 6: What's up?
- 0:29Speaker 7: What's up? Guess what's up?
- 0:30Speaker 8: Chulan fish Ken?
- 0:32Speaker 5: How are you?
- 0:32Speaker 8: My brother?
- 0:33Speaker 9: I'm doing good this morning?
- 0:34Speaker 10: Man is I got something to get off my chest?
- 0:37Speaker 4: And ship for about two and a half months.
- 0:39Speaker 5: Okay in charling Man, got your head that.
- 0:43Speaker 7: Interview with the leader.
- 0:44Speaker 8: They're like to say, fu, yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't
- 0:47Speaker 8: remember her name.
- 0:48Speaker 6: Was her name Nicole?
- 0:49Speaker 8: My name is Cole Kurtis.
- 0:50Speaker 7: Okay, you check this up right? She said word and
- 0:55Speaker 7: and Charleman, you say.
- 0:57Speaker 8: Chris, I don't that the same? Well I said? I said.
- 1:01Speaker 11: Whenever I hear one of them reference the N word,
- 1:03Speaker 11: I just feel like I'm a tit for tat type
- 1:05Speaker 11: of person a match energy, okay.
- 1:07Speaker 12: And reason.
- 1:07Speaker 9: Know what was called?
- 1:09Speaker 5: I think somewhere at the end of the interview you talk.
- 1:12Speaker 7: About apology to the leader.
- 1:14Speaker 5: You want to apologize to people some right, Yes, okay,
- 1:19Speaker 5: you need to pologize to them for something.
- 1:21Speaker 11: No, I didn't offend nobody. I'm a tit for tat
- 1:24Speaker 11: type of person. I only use cracker when somebody uses
- 1:26Speaker 11: the N word, or if you display some like extremely
- 1:30Speaker 11: crackerl like cracker behavior like I mean, you know, white
- 1:32Speaker 11: supremacist racist behavior.
- 1:35Speaker 8: That's who I call cracker.
- 1:36Speaker 11: I just don't call regular everyday white folks crackers.
- 1:39Speaker 8: Oh okay, okay, Dea you see for about two and
- 1:41Speaker 8: a half months, bro, But I appreciate it.
- 1:44Speaker 5: Okay, all right, man, I get congratulations on these books,
- 1:47Speaker 5: baby girl.
- 1:48Speaker 6: Thank you so much. I appreciate that.
- 1:50Speaker 11: Go pick up a copy, man, Get download the audio.
- 1:53Speaker 11: You sound like an audiobook type of person.
- 1:55Speaker 1: Damn, Hello, man, Yo like an audio type of person.
- 2:01Speaker 6: I didn't even know what I had a sound so enjoy.
- 2:04Speaker 8: I enjoyed a good audio.
- 2:05Speaker 11: So he sounds like he like to listen to just
- 2:07Speaker 11: tell our story.
- 2:09Speaker 1: Hello, who's this Hi?
- 2:11Speaker 10: This is Jennifer.
- 2:12Speaker 1: Hey, Jennifer.
- 2:13Speaker 6: Good morning, morning, morning.
- 2:15Speaker 10: I wish it was a good morning. All I can
- 2:17Speaker 10: say this morning?
- 2:18Speaker 1: What happens from so after?
- 2:21Speaker 10: You know, a woman's intuition never failed, but you know,
- 2:23Speaker 10: men have their ways of trying to convince you of otherwise.
- 2:26Speaker 10: And this morning I had a feeling and I went searching,
- 2:29Speaker 10: and I found exactly what was disturbing this feeling. And
- 2:31Speaker 10: it turns out he's a stumbag and he's been doing
- 2:34Speaker 10: him after been trying to make me feel like it
- 2:36Speaker 10: was always me and I was moving crazy, but it
- 2:39Speaker 10: was always him, and I caught him on it.
- 2:41Speaker 1: His name is.
- 2:44Speaker 10: His name, His name is Keith like DJ, and he's crash.
- 2:50Speaker 8: Where you calling from?
- 2:51Speaker 10: Well, I was calling from Brooklyn. I'm leaving Brooklyn Island.
- 2:54Speaker 10: I don't step Brooklyn. I've been coming out of Brooklyn
- 2:57Speaker 10: just for his ass, to show him that I actually care.
- 3:00Speaker 10: But I should have never been coming out this week
- 3:02Speaker 10: because I hay brook.
- 3:06Speaker 8: With a man for wow, shut was he sleeping with
- 3:10Speaker 8: another man?
- 3:11Speaker 10: Or if he was plitting with another man, I'd probably
- 3:13Speaker 10: take it a little easier.
- 3:16Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, I'm just me. I watching more Tyler Perry movies.
- 3:18Speaker 11: I just had to make sure you were taking it
- 3:20Speaker 11: a little bit easier.
- 3:21Speaker 8: So, so what you're.
- 3:22Speaker 10: Gonna I take it a little bit easier because I
- 3:25Speaker 10: know it ain't me.
- 3:25Speaker 1: It's okay.
- 3:27Speaker 13: You can't compete with a man, so yeah, yeah, I
- 3:30Speaker 13: definitely understand.
- 3:31Speaker 6: But damn, so what.
- 3:32Speaker 8: Are you going to do?
- 3:33Speaker 11: I know you're calling the radio station venting right now,
- 3:35Speaker 11: so you're feeling a way, But what are.
- 3:36Speaker 8: You planning to do?
- 3:37Speaker 10: I don't least I'm I got all my in my car.
- 3:41Speaker 10: I made sure I went back to the apartment to
- 3:44Speaker 10: wake his ass up, let him see his phone, because
- 3:46Speaker 10: I got in his phone. All the messages, all the
- 3:50Speaker 10: nasty ass videos and nasty as text messages and all
- 3:53Speaker 10: the nasty as shots. I got them and I showed him.
- 3:56Speaker 4: And I lift was she was?
- 3:58Speaker 14: She?
- 3:58Speaker 8: Pretty?
- 3:59Speaker 3: Stop it?
- 3:59Speaker 4: Then?
- 4:00Speaker 15: Yo?
- 4:00Speaker 7: She?
- 4:01Speaker 10: No?
- 4:02Speaker 4: Nope?
- 4:02Speaker 10: Nope?
- 4:03Speaker 8: Do you know who she is?
- 4:05Speaker 10: Nope?
- 4:06Speaker 1: I sure don't.
- 4:08Speaker 2: What are you doing?
- 4:08Speaker 6: The right thing?
- 4:09Speaker 13: You the best, said, loving life man, take your ass
- 4:12Speaker 13: back to Long Island.
- 4:13Speaker 4: Good.
- 4:14Speaker 10: Thank you. I send you, guys, nothing but love and
- 4:17Speaker 10: positive and blessed days to say and more to come.
- 4:20Speaker 10: And thank you so much for letting me.
- 4:22Speaker 8: We're going to do anything stupid.
- 4:24Speaker 13: Yes, okay, but did you you didn't do any work
- 4:27Speaker 13: doing anything now, clearly didn't welcome up show?
- 4:31Speaker 1: Good all right, last, yes, all right, Well, enjoy your day.
- 4:35Speaker 1: Try to have a blessed, y y descriptive you. I
- 4:37Speaker 1: love your story, thank you.
- 4:40Speaker 10: Take care guys, enjoy your day you too.
- 4:42Speaker 8: I love her storytelling ability, the fact that she included yeah,
- 4:45Speaker 8: it means a lot.
- 4:46Speaker 1: You can't say that on air, but wow me get
- 4:50Speaker 1: it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one
- 4:53Speaker 1: oh five one. If you need to vent, hit us
- 4:54Speaker 1: up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, right right right, y.
- 5:00Speaker 9: Up? We lost.
- 5:01Speaker 3: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 5:02Speaker 1: I got an indoor pool.
- 5:05Speaker 3: We want to hear from you on the breakfast Club.
- 5:07Speaker 6: Get on the phone right now.
- 5:08Speaker 14: He'll tell you what it is.
- 5:09Speaker 8: We lit Hello.
- 5:11Speaker 16: Who's this Woody from the acis Sol's so?
- 5:13Speaker 6: Just what Woodie?
- 5:14Speaker 8: How you doing upstate South Carolina? What's happening with it?
- 5:17Speaker 16: What's up?
- 5:18Speaker 7: I called for you, Charlotte.
- 5:19Speaker 8: What's happening?
- 5:20Speaker 16: Man? You be claiming that one Carolina's bro and I
- 5:23Speaker 16: think we just two different people. And I live thirty
- 5:25Speaker 16: minutes away from North Carolina, Bro.
- 5:27Speaker 8: I'm not from North Carolina. What they gotta do this
- 5:29Speaker 8: South Carolina.
- 5:30Speaker 16: You be claiming, I know where he from. You claimed
- 5:32Speaker 16: it one Carolina, and we're not Carolina. We north and
- 5:35Speaker 16: south for a reason you didn't.
- 5:37Speaker 11: I don't know what you're talking about one Carolina. I'm
- 5:39Speaker 11: from Monks Corner, South Carolina, born in Charleston. Salute to
- 5:42Speaker 11: the eight oh three Columbia, helu to the eighty six four.
- 5:45Speaker 8: Yes, sir, you ain't never.
- 5:47Speaker 16: You ain't never said one Carolina.
- 5:49Speaker 8: I don't know what that is. No, what is one Carolina?
- 5:53Speaker 16: Carolina? It's just we South Carolina.
- 5:55Speaker 4: Bro.
- 5:55Speaker 16: I'm just saying we're separate from the north, all right.
- 5:58Speaker 8: So you listen. Listen, listen, I saying Carolina.
- 6:00Speaker 13: When you say so. You don't like when people say
- 6:02Speaker 13: that Carolina's meaning?
- 6:05Speaker 16: I don't. Don't you say to Carolina.
- 6:07Speaker 8: I say so.
- 6:08Speaker 11: I'm from Monks Corner, South Carolina, Metro eight o three, Columbia, Charlton,
- 6:12Speaker 11: South Carolina.
- 6:13Speaker 16: Last last Charlotte.
- 6:15Speaker 7: Man.
- 6:15Speaker 16: I know that saying we ain't the Carolina.
- 6:19Speaker 8: I don't say that. I ain't never say I don't
- 6:22Speaker 8: say no Carolina. Now how far are you?
- 6:25Speaker 13: How far are you from Raleigh, it's like four hours
- 6:28Speaker 13: all right, Well, if you're available to come to my show,
- 6:32Speaker 13: I got shows there July tenth and July eleventh. So
- 6:35Speaker 13: I'm gonna be in North Carolina. Carry North Carolina, the rally.
- 6:38Speaker 16: In Problem the Greve, South Carolina.
- 6:40Speaker 13: When you get a chance, come to wear Greenville, South
- 6:42Speaker 13: Carolina's okay, just this shows in greens Oh no, no, no,
- 6:46Speaker 13: I was in Greensboro, North Carolina. I'm sorry Greenville. I
- 6:48Speaker 13: gotta come through Greenville, Columbia, Charleston. I gotta go through
- 6:51Speaker 13: all those spaces.
- 6:52Speaker 14: Yo.
- 6:52Speaker 6: Do y'all got any venues down there?
- 6:54Speaker 1: That's the problem.
- 6:55Speaker 16: I wasn't trying to be funny, bro. I just I'll
- 6:57Speaker 16: be hearing you staying Carolina.
- 6:58Speaker 11: Did you do not hear me that you did me
- 7:00Speaker 11: saying eight four three eight o three eight six four
- 7:02Speaker 11: You not hear me?
- 7:03Speaker 8: Say no, Carolina, sir, I'm not I will not accept.
- 7:06Speaker 16: That you tall for a living.
- 7:07Speaker 7: You cold get what you say?
- 7:08Speaker 8: No, I don't know. I don't thank you very much, sir.
- 7:12Speaker 8: We don't have no comedy clubs though, that's the problem.
- 7:14Speaker 13: Yeah, that's yeah, okay, So what about any venue spaces
- 7:17Speaker 13: that y'all could because.
- 7:19Speaker 8: Everybody people that. There's definitely people that want to book
- 7:21Speaker 8: you down.
- 7:21Speaker 6: Now, yeah, I would like to.
- 7:23Speaker 13: I haven't been there since like the pandemic Columbia or
- 7:26Speaker 13: I've never been to Charleston, Columbia or Greenville.
- 7:29Speaker 11: I was thinking about him investing in the comedy club.
- 7:32Speaker 11: You should there's a comedy club in Columbia.
- 7:34Speaker 6: It was it's not there anymore, like.
- 7:36Speaker 8: The building is still there. Oh okay, somebody had hit me.
- 7:39Speaker 6: Up about that used to be called comedy house or
- 7:41Speaker 6: something like that.
- 7:41Speaker 8: Yep, yeah, what did the comedy.
- 7:43Speaker 13: Comedy house in Columbia? And then I thought they said
- 7:46Speaker 13: that they knocked it down or that went out of business.
- 7:48Speaker 6: Something like that.
- 7:48Speaker 8: But I definitely went out of business. Okay, definitely not
- 7:51Speaker 8: a business.
- 7:51Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eighty five
- 7:54Speaker 1: one oh five one. If you need to ben hit
- 7:55Speaker 1: us up now. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 7:56Speaker 3: Good morning, it's topic time.
- 8:03Speaker 2: Eight hundred five five five one to join into the discussion.
- 8:06Speaker 8: With the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Everybody is the DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne, the guy.
- 8:13Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. If he's just joining us,
- 8:16Speaker 1: we're talking about something Daniel Sees said earlier when he
- 8:19Speaker 1: was on a breakfast club Let's listen.
- 8:20Speaker 17: Sometimes I look at like Mary Coubbles and stuff like that,
- 8:24Speaker 17: if it almost feels like a like a big conspiracy
- 8:29Speaker 17: where it's just like we're married, so of course we're
- 8:33Speaker 17: happy because we're married, and everyone should want married. My
- 8:36Speaker 17: parents are still together, mind you, and they love each
- 8:38Speaker 17: other and they respect each other. But I just sometimes
- 8:41Speaker 17: I think I'm just like I know, and I'm the
- 8:44Speaker 17: same as my dad. Sometimes it's like he's he's bound
- 8:47Speaker 17: by honor. He's a man of his word, you know
- 8:48Speaker 17: what I mean. And so it's like you are my kids.
- 8:51Speaker 17: I'm not going to run out on you, but you
- 8:53Speaker 17: can't lie about what's going on in your head. Like
- 8:57Speaker 17: when you come home and you're like, bro this and
- 9:00Speaker 17: you know what I mean. It's like I'm doing the
- 9:03Speaker 17: job because I'm bound by honor to do the job. Well,
- 9:07Speaker 17: I would rather be out being a person, being free
- 9:09Speaker 17: right around.
- 9:10Speaker 11: I get what you're saying. I mean, marriages all work,
- 9:12Speaker 11: you know what I mean. You're gonna have your good days,
- 9:14Speaker 11: your day.
- 9:15Speaker 6: But you have to want to do it.
- 9:16Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five A five one O
- 9:19Speaker 1: five one. What are your thoughts? What do you think?
- 9:21Speaker 13: Just I agree, I mean, I get what he's saying.
- 9:25Speaker 13: You know, I feel like it. It is a lot
- 9:27Speaker 13: of marriages where the man or the woman could be
- 9:31Speaker 13: mentally could you know, be mentally over it, but you're
- 9:34Speaker 13: you're just in it because you're you're bound by honor,
- 9:38Speaker 13: like you you said, your vows, you know, and it's
- 9:41Speaker 13: it's a number of reasons that somebody could be unhappy
- 9:43Speaker 13: in their marriage. But at the same time, you gotta
- 9:46Speaker 13: want to do it, like you know, how many times
- 9:49Speaker 13: have You're not gonna always have that. It's not gonna
- 9:54Speaker 13: always be sunshine and rain and all that. Like it's
- 9:57Speaker 13: it's gonna always be hard. But if you're willing to
- 10:00Speaker 13: do the work and to be there, that's that's how
- 10:03Speaker 13: you last. But you got to be happy.
- 10:05Speaker 1: You have to be happy, right and something Charlane said,
- 10:08Speaker 1: it's not always you got to find the right person
- 10:11Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, in marriage, you might not always be happy,
- 10:14Speaker 1: but the majority of times you should be happy. And regardless,
- 10:18Speaker 1: your wife or your husband should make you happy. It's
- 10:20Speaker 1: times where I have a hard day, whatever it is,
- 10:22Speaker 1: but when I step into that house, and I see
- 10:24Speaker 1: my wife, my day brightens up immediately. When I see
- 10:26Speaker 1: my kids, my day brightens up immediately. Marriage is not easy.
- 10:29Speaker 1: But for people in a marriage that say, oh, I'm
- 10:32Speaker 1: in there because I need to honor, that's not going
- 10:34Speaker 1: to last long. And and for people that say, oh,
- 10:36Speaker 1: I'm there because of my kids. Your kids can see
- 10:39Speaker 1: when you're happy, when you're not, your kids can see
- 10:41Speaker 1: right through the bs. So I wouldn't say being that
- 10:43Speaker 1: marriage just because you want to honor somebody. If you
- 10:46Speaker 1: not in love and you're not there for the right reasons,
- 10:49Speaker 1: you shouldn't be there.
- 10:50Speaker 11: Yeah, I get with Daniels saying, but you can't generalize
- 10:54Speaker 11: every marriage the way that he did. Like, you know,
- 10:56Speaker 11: there are some people who are not happily married, right,
- 10:58Speaker 11: There's some people just going through motions in a marriage.
- 11:01Speaker 11: But that's not everyone's ministry. And I know plenty of
- 11:03Speaker 11: people who are happily married. Okay, I'm one of them.
- 11:06Speaker 11: And whoever told you that every day in a marriage.
- 11:10Speaker 8: Is gonna be peaches and cream, that's just a damn line.
- 11:12Speaker 11: Okay, you're gonna argue with your wife, You're gonna get
- 11:14Speaker 11: mad at your wife, you know, but that's still your
- 11:17Speaker 11: person at the end of the day, right, And.
- 11:19Speaker 1: It's also how you handle those arguments, right. Me and
- 11:22Speaker 1: my wife will argue and then at the end of
- 11:23Speaker 1: it we start laughing because we just know how stupid
- 11:25Speaker 1: the argument is. Like she is my person, I am
- 11:28Speaker 1: her person. Like we just know everything about each other.
- 11:30Speaker 1: It's to the point where I tell everybody all the time,
- 11:33Speaker 1: I'd rather stay home every day all day and watch
- 11:35Speaker 1: a movie with my wife than to do anything else.
- 11:39Speaker 1: I have fun and I enjoy doing it, you know
- 11:40Speaker 1: what I mean.
- 11:41Speaker 8: And I think that's the biggest thing.
- 11:43Speaker 11: Right, Some of y'all just truly haven't found your person. Yeah,
- 11:46Speaker 11: that's just the reality of the situation, you know what
- 11:48Speaker 11: I mean. Are you know, maybe you did find your person,
- 11:51Speaker 11: and you know that person was in your life for
- 11:53Speaker 11: a long, long, long, long time, and maybe y'all did
- 11:56Speaker 11: grow apart, grow apart, Yeah, you know. And I don't
- 11:58Speaker 11: know if that means y'all get divorce, so y'all try to,
- 12:01Speaker 11: you know, work things out.
- 12:02Speaker 8: I don't know what that means.
- 12:03Speaker 11: But you know, when you do find your person, you
- 12:06Speaker 11: know that's your person and you want to do right
- 12:08Speaker 11: by that person because doing right.
- 12:10Speaker 8: Is the right thing, not because society tells you you
- 12:12Speaker 8: have to right.
- 12:13Speaker 13: But that's another part of it too, Like you can
- 12:15Speaker 13: find your person, but you got to be able to
- 12:17Speaker 13: find yourself. You gotta know who you are, you know,
- 12:19Speaker 13: because how Daniel is his way of thinking, that may change.
- 12:23Speaker 6: He only thirty, that may change at thirty.
- 12:24Speaker 1: Five, and he's looking at something else. Like you said,
- 12:27Speaker 1: he was a young man that didn't get respected. He
- 12:31Speaker 1: didn't get the kick the girls.
- 12:32Speaker 11: You know they say, girls thought he was cosmetically challenged,
- 12:34Speaker 11: you know what I'm saying. So he probably he probably
- 12:36Speaker 11: didn't really start to get back challenge. Oh so probably
- 12:40Speaker 11: started probably start getting a lot of you know, girls
- 12:42Speaker 11: even coming his way. Correct and until you came.
- 12:45Speaker 8: So of course his thoughts were gonna be jaded on it.
- 12:47Speaker 1: But let me ask a question. If your your husband,
- 12:50Speaker 1: you know, something happened and he gained four hundred pounds,
- 12:52Speaker 1: would you still be there?
- 12:53Speaker 6: Yeah, we're gonna lose that.
- 12:55Speaker 8: You ain't never seen a fourny pound Mexican in your life.
- 12:56Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you're right, but he's still too.
- 13:00Speaker 13: But we would be Jim and that like ain't no way,
- 13:03Speaker 13: like I'm not gonna leave you, but you're not about
- 13:04Speaker 13: to stay for a hundred pounds.
- 13:10Speaker 8: Word I didn't know you said?
- 13:16Speaker 9: Hello?
- 13:17Speaker 5: Is this than Morning Lewis daughter, Louis Lewis, Good morning,
- 13:21Speaker 5: Happy New Year. I'm going to start by saying, my
- 13:24Speaker 5: story is almost similar to the dude that I got
- 13:27Speaker 5: forced and the fact that I was a vision, but
- 13:30Speaker 5: I was started to do with one woman. So I
- 13:32Speaker 5: think the question about my happy married Uh, most of
- 13:37Speaker 5: the time, you know, and I do have desires to
- 13:40Speaker 5: experience others. But when we make the commitment and marriage
- 13:44Speaker 5: to guy, like Charlemane was saying.
- 13:46Speaker 7: That you got to go through, it's hard work. So
- 13:48Speaker 7: a lot of times people give up too easily. But
- 13:50Speaker 7: that commitment that you made yet her work otherwise would
- 13:54Speaker 7: just be too easy. I says everything in life. I
- 13:56Speaker 7: don't want to heat vegetables. I don't want to you know,
- 13:59Speaker 7: go to work, put in hard work. Believe y'all we
- 14:03Speaker 7: open up in the Harvard mind of things we are now,
- 14:05Speaker 7: so I saying everything like, that's our work and give
- 14:08Speaker 7: the benefits of it.
- 14:09Speaker 8: I get what you're saying.
- 14:10Speaker 9: Thank Hello, who's this?
- 14:12Speaker 6: Hello?
- 14:13Speaker 4: Hey?
- 14:13Speaker 1: What's your name?
- 14:13Speaker 4: Brother?
- 14:14Speaker 14: Hey?
- 14:14Speaker 7: How you doing this? Is Naim from Detroit.
- 14:16Speaker 1: Naim, What up, Dell?
- 14:17Speaker 3: Talk to us?
- 14:17Speaker 1: What's your thoughts?
- 14:18Speaker 5: Yeah, A lot of this is something that that's dear
- 14:21Speaker 5: to me because I am a married man. But a
- 14:23Speaker 5: lot of times the younger people they haven't loved someone enough,
- 14:29Speaker 5: and so what they do is they view older people
- 14:31Speaker 5: kind of at the middle, at the end and kind
- 14:33Speaker 5: of you know, cast their opinions based on what they
- 14:36Speaker 5: see from older You have to love enough first before
- 14:39Speaker 5: you make these kind of you know, thoughts and put
- 14:42Speaker 5: these out in the air, because it's kind of hurting
- 14:44Speaker 5: other people who who love marriage, you know, they haven't
- 14:47Speaker 5: experienced enough. He sounds like he haven't found a woman
- 14:51Speaker 5: that he loves enough. So he's saying, ah, you know it,
- 14:53Speaker 5: because the probably women he deal with the short term
- 14:56Speaker 5: shouldn't really do that. It's irresponsible.
- 14:58Speaker 8: Okay, you know what I'm saying.
- 15:00Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one five one. If you're
- 15:03Speaker 1: just joining us, we're talking about Daniel Caesar.
- 15:05Speaker 16: Uh.
- 15:06Speaker 1: We had him on the show an hour ago, and
- 15:07Speaker 1: this is what he said about how he looks at marriage.
- 15:10Speaker 17: Sometimes I look at like Mary couples and stuff like that.
- 15:14Speaker 17: If it almost feels like a like a big conspiracy
- 15:19Speaker 17: where it's just like we're married, so of course we're
- 15:23Speaker 17: happy because we're married, and everyone should want married. My
- 15:25Speaker 17: parents are still together, mind you, and they love each
- 15:28Speaker 17: other and they respect each other. But I just sometimes
- 15:31Speaker 17: I think and I'm just like I know, and I'm
- 15:33Speaker 17: the same as my dad. Sometimes it's like he's he's
- 15:36Speaker 17: bound by honor. He's a man of his word, you
- 15:38Speaker 17: know what I mean. And so it's like you are
- 15:40Speaker 17: my kids. I'm not gonna run out on you, but
- 15:42Speaker 17: you can't lie about what's going on in your head,
- 15:47Speaker 17: Like when you come home and you're like, bro, this again,
- 15:50Speaker 17: you know what I mean. It's like I'm doing the
- 15:53Speaker 17: job because I'm bound by honor to do the job. Well,
- 15:57Speaker 17: I would rather be out being a person, being free, right.
- 16:00Speaker 8: I get what you're saying. I mean, marriage is all work,
- 16:02Speaker 8: you know what I mean. You're gonna have your good days,
- 16:04Speaker 8: you have your bad day.
- 16:05Speaker 6: But you have to want to do it.
- 16:06Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
- 16:08Speaker 1: five one, what are your thoughts? Is the breakfast club
- 16:10Speaker 1: good morning?
- 16:18Speaker 2: If you're all talking about it, you know we talking
- 16:20Speaker 2: about it. It's topic times called eight hundred five eight
- 16:24Speaker 2: five one five one to join into the discussion with
- 16:26Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club morning.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne, Na God. We
- 16:32Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club now if you're just joining us.
- 16:35Speaker 1: Daniel Caesar R and B. Singer was on The Breakfast
- 16:37Speaker 1: Club a little earlier, and this is what he said
- 16:39Speaker 1: about marriage.
- 16:40Speaker 17: Sometimes I look at like Mary Coubles and stuff like that,
- 16:44Speaker 17: if it almost feels like a like a big conspiracy
- 16:49Speaker 17: where it's just like we're married, so of course we're
- 16:53Speaker 17: happy because we're married, and everyone should want married. My
- 16:56Speaker 17: parents are still together, mind you, and they love each
- 16:58Speaker 17: other and they respect each other. But I just sometimes
- 17:01Speaker 17: I think I'm just like I know, and I'm the
- 17:04Speaker 17: same as my dad. Sometimes it's like he's he's bound
- 17:07Speaker 17: by honor. He's a man of his word, you know
- 17:09Speaker 17: what I mean, And so it's like you are my kids.
- 17:11Speaker 17: I'm not gonna run out on you, but you can't
- 17:14Speaker 17: lie about what's going on in your head, Like when
- 17:18Speaker 17: you come home and you're like, bro, this again, you
- 17:21Speaker 17: know what I mean. It's like I'm doing the job
- 17:24Speaker 17: because I'm bound by honor to do the job, but
- 17:27Speaker 17: I would rather be out being a person, being free,
- 17:30Speaker 17: running around.
- 17:30Speaker 11: I get what you're saying. I mean, marriage is all work,
- 17:32Speaker 11: you know what I mean. You're gonna have your good
- 17:33Speaker 11: days and you have your bad days.
- 17:35Speaker 6: But you have to want to do it.
- 17:37Speaker 1: So we're asking eight on drink five eight five one
- 17:39Speaker 1: oh five one, what are your thoughts now? You feel
- 17:42Speaker 1: just the same way?
- 17:43Speaker 13: Yeah, different, yeah, yeah, I like I get what he's saying,
- 17:47Speaker 13: but like he can't generalize it, like Charla said, like
- 17:50Speaker 13: you can't just.
- 17:51Speaker 6: That just be your outlook on marriage period.
- 17:54Speaker 13: And then I agree with the last brother they called up,
- 17:56Speaker 13: Daniel hasn't had enough experience, enough enough experience is with
- 18:00Speaker 13: love to come to this conclusion right now and just
- 18:03Speaker 13: be setting it Like you have to have you have
- 18:06Speaker 13: to you have to have your person, but you also,
- 18:08Speaker 13: I feel like you also have to know who you
- 18:11Speaker 13: are too.
- 18:11Speaker 7: All right.
- 18:12Speaker 13: We know he don't like systems, but like I feel
- 18:14Speaker 13: like he's not gonna feel the same way.
- 18:16Speaker 8: Yeah, because because true love isn't a system.
- 18:19Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm saying, true love is two spirits connecting right,
- 18:22Speaker 11: Like like love and love, love has nothing to do
- 18:25Speaker 11: with any system. There's no societal system that can create love.
- 18:28Speaker 11: Like that's what Coming to America was about. Coming to America,
- 18:31Speaker 11: they had a whole tradition, and he was like, I
- 18:33Speaker 11: don't want to do that.
- 18:34Speaker 8: I want to go out there and find my person.
- 18:36Speaker 1: Yes, and I always take it to the extent, right
- 18:39Speaker 1: to the full extent. So if your your spouse was
- 18:41Speaker 1: a paraplegic, would you still love him?
- 18:43Speaker 3: Right?
- 18:43Speaker 1: If your if your spouse got into an accident and
- 18:45Speaker 1: lost limbs, would you still love him the same way?
- 18:48Speaker 1: If your spouse couldn't have sex, would you still be
- 18:50Speaker 1: there and love him to say? That's wait? Wait wait
- 18:53Speaker 1: wait if your spouse could not have sex anymore? Right,
- 18:58Speaker 1: would you stay in that marriage?
- 19:00Speaker 6: Well, I just got married, you know what I mean?
- 19:02Speaker 13: Like, I'm just you know, I'm fresh in it, you know,
- 19:05Speaker 13: And you're just throwing all this at me too early.
- 19:07Speaker 8: That's crazy, Like this's like, now, who wants a Mexican?
- 19:10Speaker 8: That can't work?
- 19:14Speaker 1: Like the hold on your story the video of the
- 19:19Speaker 1: the human with no arms and no legs, and you
- 19:21Speaker 1: see how that person's spouse was throwing them in the
- 19:24Speaker 1: water beat a relationship like.
- 19:26Speaker 6: That, But I think they was in a relationship for
- 19:28Speaker 6: a long time. You know what I mean.
- 19:30Speaker 13: I wouldn't want to be the one that has to
- 19:32Speaker 13: carry around you know, the sty all mannequin that's like
- 19:34Speaker 13: a CPR mannequin for real, Like you gotta you know
- 19:37Speaker 13: what I mean.
- 19:38Speaker 11: You know it's so crazy. I know men who have
- 19:40Speaker 11: had women. Damn, what was it? It's not all times,
- 19:44Speaker 11: I guess. I guess dementia. Like I got know wo
- 19:46Speaker 11: men who have had been with women, and there were
- 19:48Speaker 11: younger women, not younger younger, but like you know, upetting,
- 19:52Speaker 11: like some type of dementia, some type of neurological disorder,
- 19:56Speaker 11: and they were basically vegetables. Those guys stayed with those women,
- 20:01Speaker 11: absolutely women, because that was his person and he loved
- 20:06Speaker 11: it up until the day she died. So I mean, yeah,
- 20:08Speaker 11: if you really do have unconditional love with a person,
- 20:11Speaker 11: you gonna hold that down absolutely.
- 20:13Speaker 1: Hello, who's this good morning?
- 20:15Speaker 2: I want?
- 20:15Speaker 12: I want, I want to I would say my name
- 20:18Speaker 12: because but my husband don't listen to breakfast club.
- 20:22Speaker 7: He used to be Caucasian, but I.
- 20:25Speaker 14: Was so I know that you're looking for the mails Allen,
- 20:33Speaker 14: but I got my own opinions.
- 20:34Speaker 7: My husband I have.
- 20:35Speaker 10: Been married for seventeen years.
- 20:39Speaker 5: He's been taking away.
- 20:42Speaker 10: Back in the early two thousands. But you know when
- 20:45Speaker 10: he got out, he came home, he locked it down.
- 20:48Speaker 10: And it's just I'm I'm too old to start over
- 20:52Speaker 10: convenience correct, And the operator took.
- 20:55Speaker 7: It the word that had of my mouth.
- 20:56Speaker 5: Aren't sunning to grown down his own And it's just
- 20:59Speaker 5: I don't know, it's just it's and you said he's white.
- 21:04Speaker 7: He is of the palm side.
- 21:07Speaker 8: So you tied of that pink penis.
- 21:09Speaker 9: You have had enough.
- 21:13Speaker 10: It's hitting it right, it's hitting that good spot.
- 21:16Speaker 13: But I'm not complaining.
- 21:18Speaker 8: But I know it's tough.
- 21:19Speaker 11: I know it's tough getting on your knees and you know,
- 21:22Speaker 11: you know doing you know, doing that during the Black
- 21:24Speaker 11: Lives Matter movement, Like I mean, that's kind of crazy,
- 21:26Speaker 11: Like you know what I'm saying, Like.
- 21:30Speaker 7: The topic of the day was not about.
- 21:36Speaker 1: Let me ask a question.
- 21:37Speaker 4: I can be married if you're not if you're.
- 21:39Speaker 1: Not happy, right, why wouldn't you say that?
- 21:42Speaker 8: She sounds happy to me?
- 21:44Speaker 1: She said she's there for convenience. But you said you
- 21:48Speaker 1: were there for convenience. That's less.
- 21:52Speaker 10: Because the operator took those words out of my mouth.
- 21:54Speaker 16: He put some words in my mouth.
- 21:56Speaker 8: So I mean it is convenience, So why are you
- 21:59Speaker 8: calling no? I think I don't think convenience is the
- 22:01Speaker 8: right word.
- 22:02Speaker 11: I think that you have found your person and you're
- 22:05Speaker 11: happy with your person, Like.
- 22:06Speaker 8: You're not just there because you have to be there.
- 22:09Speaker 6: But she correct But okay, but you said I.
- 22:12Speaker 7: I'm too old to start over. I don't know.
- 22:15Speaker 1: I don't want to put that say that I don't
- 22:17Speaker 1: want to start over.
- 22:17Speaker 13: You don't want to, yeah, but that's and it's like
- 22:21Speaker 13: that kind of tells you I don't want.
- 22:22Speaker 1: To start over, but that like.
- 22:24Speaker 6: You like you comfortable in your situation.
- 22:27Speaker 13: But if you if it was if it wasn't now
- 22:29Speaker 13: the day or tomorrow, you'll be all right.
- 22:30Speaker 6: But you don't want to start over.
- 22:31Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 22:32Speaker 8: She was all over the place.
- 22:33Speaker 11: I do wonder about that, though, because when you're ready
- 22:36Speaker 11: to move, you gonna move, you know what I'm saying, Like,
- 22:39Speaker 11: if you choose to stay in a position, you're there
- 22:42Speaker 11: because there's a part of you that actually wants to
- 22:44Speaker 11: be there. Like when that design is really calling you to.
- 22:47Speaker 9: Move, you're gonna move.
- 22:48Speaker 1: But the problem is is a lot of people don't
- 22:50Speaker 1: want to move because it's starting over a lot of
- 22:51Speaker 1: people like, but where do I go to date?
- 22:53Speaker 10: Right?
- 22:53Speaker 1: Where do I go to find.
- 22:54Speaker 13: Some certain age, a certain amount of kids? It's like,
- 22:57Speaker 13: who's gonna want me?
- 22:57Speaker 1: I want to start over? Like I don't even like
- 23:00Speaker 1: when people come up with it, Like I don't even
- 23:01Speaker 1: know how to date, you know what I mean?
- 23:02Speaker 11: Yeah, that one brother who called earlier, who said that
- 23:05Speaker 11: you know, he'd be having desires. That was interesting to
- 23:07Speaker 11: me too, because I just feel like lust is a
- 23:10Speaker 11: fleeting pleasure that always leaves you empty, and it's like
- 23:14Speaker 11: eating junk food, like you may desire it, but you
- 23:17Speaker 11: know it's not good for you, and you know after
- 23:19Speaker 11: you eat it you're gonna be mad.
- 23:21Speaker 8: So just why do it?
- 23:23Speaker 11: You know, like, like you don't you don't throw away
- 23:26Speaker 11: something good just for lust. Like if you've been eating
- 23:29Speaker 11: clean and not on alcohol and working out for three
- 23:33Speaker 11: months straight and like you locked in on that, you
- 23:36Speaker 11: don't just say effort, I'm gonna go wild out.
- 23:38Speaker 13: But discipline though, Like you gotta be disciplined because people
- 23:44Speaker 13: do chase them a little temporary highs.
- 23:46Speaker 6: Like that's true, definitely, that's true.
- 23:48Speaker 11: All right, Well, the story, I mean, the moral of
- 23:50Speaker 11: the story is man, fine, find what works for you.
- 23:53Speaker 8: That's that's what I would say. But you know, I
- 23:55Speaker 8: just just not.
- 23:56Speaker 11: Just generalize all marriages and say, oh, people you know
- 23:59Speaker 11: aren't happy, like you're all fronting like.
- 24:01Speaker 6: No, find yourself, find your person.
- 24:03Speaker 1: That's right, all right. Well, when we come back we
- 24:05Speaker 1: got past the aucs, Nolin will be joining us. It's
- 24:07Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Goo morning, lady Jess hilarious, Charlamagne the
- 24:12Speaker 1: god we are the Breakfast Club. Laura Ros is here
- 24:15Speaker 1: with us as well. Now we got a special guest,
- 24:17Speaker 1: a legend icon og, a legend in this game. Ladies
- 24:22Speaker 1: and gentlemen, a city hall.
- 24:24Speaker 9: Yes, how are you feeling?
- 24:31Speaker 1: I'm feeling great.
- 24:32Speaker 8: I'm thanking God.
- 24:33Speaker 14: For the day that Charlemagne called me, because I wouldn't
- 24:36Speaker 14: have done this without the voice of respect on the
- 24:39Speaker 14: other end of the phone. I mean, I'm seventy years old,
- 24:41Speaker 14: could have written a book many times, but that's adult work.
- 24:45Speaker 1: It's a really hard.
- 24:47Speaker 14: Thing to do, and he talked me into it, and
- 24:50Speaker 14: I'm so glad I did for my son and for
- 24:54Speaker 14: my legacy.
- 24:55Speaker 11: Man, I'm so glad you did too, because I want
- 24:57Speaker 11: to talk about your legacy today. Man, you know a
- 25:00Speaker 11: they say that I got four entertainment icons, right, Jay Z,
- 25:04Speaker 11: Clarence Avon, P. D. Green, and Arcine o'hall. And I
- 25:08Speaker 11: feel like people don't truly understand the risk you took
- 25:12Speaker 11: to put black culture at the forefront at a time
- 25:15Speaker 11: when nobody was putting black culture at the forefront.
- 25:18Speaker 6: Yeah, it was hard.
- 25:20Speaker 14: I was coming along at a time when you go
- 25:23Speaker 14: to Paramount and say, let's book Bobby Brown the first
- 25:27Speaker 14: Friday night because people won't have to work on Saturday,
- 25:30Speaker 14: and really showing what show this is. He has this song,
- 25:32Speaker 14: don't be cruel and my prerogative, let's let him break
- 25:35Speaker 14: one at the top and one at the bottle. Oh,
- 25:37Speaker 14: Johnny Carson only does three minutes of a song at
- 25:40Speaker 14: the end of the show. And I'm like, but I'm
- 25:42Speaker 14: not Johnny Johnny Carson, so let's try this. But what
- 25:47Speaker 14: was crazier is one of the ladies in the room said,
- 25:50Speaker 14: and why would we give a model that much time?
- 25:53Speaker 14: And I didn't realize that there was a Bobby Brown
- 25:56Speaker 14: in the modeling world. Yeah, so I didn't know her,
- 26:02Speaker 14: and I realized My battle is that they have no
- 26:06Speaker 14: idea what I'm about to do. You know, you say,
- 26:09Speaker 14: Michael Bivens called me and he got these four dudes
- 26:13Speaker 14: they're called boys to men, and or doctor Drake called
- 26:17Speaker 14: and this kid Calvin, he wants him to come on
- 26:20Speaker 14: and do this thing. And this is how you know,
- 26:22Speaker 14: I was not him do it, but he wants to freestyle.
- 26:27Speaker 14: You'll just give him a beat and he'll just come
- 26:30Speaker 14: out of his head with whatever is in the environment.
- 26:33Speaker 14: And when his album is ready, then you can have
- 26:36Speaker 14: him on to do one, two, three and with Dre
- 26:39Speaker 14: you know. And I'm like, okay, we call Snoop and
- 26:42Speaker 14: he doesn't want to do the show, and like why
- 26:46Speaker 14: he says, you know, he's talking about the streets.
- 26:49Speaker 1: Of Long Beach.
- 26:49Speaker 14: I have respect and I want to you know, I
- 26:52Speaker 14: don't want to lose the respect of the streets to
- 26:56Speaker 14: do this late night television type stuff.
- 26:59Speaker 8: You know.
- 27:00Speaker 14: I had to go to the studio and uh talk
- 27:03Speaker 14: him into it. This is a guy who Snoop Dogg
- 27:07Speaker 14: is more popular than last see now, you know, and
- 27:13Speaker 14: did not want to.
- 27:14Speaker 8: Be on television. But I'll never forget.
- 27:17Speaker 14: He walked in the door with a blue hockey jersey, remember,
- 27:21Speaker 14: and we gave him a beat, and I don't think
- 27:24Speaker 14: we'd ever seen freestyle on television, you know, but those
- 27:29Speaker 14: kinds of things I wanted to. I saw a little
- 27:32Speaker 14: kid on a tape do an Elvis impression, and I
- 27:36Speaker 14: tell Paramount, I want to put this kid on. They say, well,
- 27:39Speaker 14: you need tune in numbers names. If you put Prince,
- 27:43Speaker 14: you get a tune in number. You can put it
- 27:44Speaker 14: in TV Guide two weeks ahead of time. That was
- 27:46Speaker 14: a game back then. And if you put some unknown
- 27:49Speaker 14: you know, this is not Star search. Can't put an
- 27:51Speaker 14: unknown kid on until you maybe in the fifth year.
- 27:56Speaker 14: And uh so I would put people on in a monologue,
- 27:58Speaker 14: and I created the little spot where I put people on,
- 28:01Speaker 14: but the kid was Bruno Monomore and.
- 28:05Speaker 9: Stuff like that.
- 28:06Speaker 8: They didn't want Eddie Griffin because he's too edgy.
- 28:09Speaker 14: So during the monologue, I said, oh, Eddie Griffin, because
- 28:12Speaker 14: it's Sullivan used to point in the audience when I
- 28:14Speaker 14: was a kid, there's Diana Ross then of us Rash,
- 28:18Speaker 14: you know, and so I'm like, Eddie Griffin, what's up? Man, Hey,
- 28:21Speaker 14: come here for a minute. And it's not on the
- 28:24Speaker 14: booking sheet. Paramount don't know what's gonna happen now. That
- 28:27Speaker 14: one backfired on me because Eddie Griffin did Michael Jackson's
- 28:31Speaker 14: snorton cocaine. He does, and you know, because he used
- 28:35Speaker 14: to be a dancer, so he does that. You know,
- 28:37Speaker 14: he does all this little step and the lawyers had
- 28:41Speaker 14: a hard time that next day at Paramount because basically
- 28:44Speaker 14: he had done a routine on television about Michael Jackson
- 28:46Speaker 14: snorting cocaine and then dancing.
- 28:47Speaker 11: Really, you know, we'll never have that kind of mono
- 28:53Speaker 11: culture again when everybody is tuned in watching one thing
- 28:56Speaker 11: at once, because I remember all old moments we had
- 28:58Speaker 11: no DV.
- 29:01Speaker 8: Man, you couldn't go back and watch it on YouTube.
- 29:03Speaker 1: You had you had, you had to. You had to
- 29:04Speaker 1: turn it on before we go back to cause I
- 29:07Speaker 1: like to go back to the beginning so people understand
- 29:09Speaker 1: the story.
- 29:09Speaker 8: That's why you bo but that's why you're in this business.
- 29:12Speaker 1: But you know what, one thing I've noticed, I've watched
- 29:14Speaker 1: a lot of your interviews in the last week or
- 29:16Speaker 1: so to mine, when I look at your face, I
- 29:20Speaker 1: see a light that comes on like it's almost either
- 29:22Speaker 1: a surprise light, like I'm surprised they really with me,
- 29:25Speaker 1: like you like you look amazed when when these guys
- 29:28Speaker 1: like like I'm thinking myself, I see no, don't know,
- 29:30Speaker 1: he's the you know. And then another thing that popped
- 29:33Speaker 1: in my head is, I know you were retired. Maybe
- 29:35Speaker 1: he's ready for that comeback. Because it's just the feeling
- 29:37Speaker 1: that energy. When I watch you come out and just
- 29:40Speaker 1: the light and you're pointing at people and you're pointing
- 29:41Speaker 1: at the bed, I'm like, God, damn it, bring on
- 29:43Speaker 1: senior back. So what So what is going through your
- 29:46Speaker 1: mind when you are doing these press runs and you're
- 29:48Speaker 1: doing TV. What's going through a senior's mind?
- 29:51Speaker 14: The light you saw, I mean that was the light
- 29:55Speaker 14: of a fan, the light of a kid from Cleveland
- 29:59Speaker 14: who did a talk show in his basement and I
- 30:01Speaker 14: had a little record player. Put the record player on.
- 30:04Speaker 14: There was a Temptation's Greatest Hits album. I'd play get Ready,
- 30:08Speaker 14: I'd come out of do a magic trick. I'd do
- 30:09Speaker 14: a joke after taking the needle off the record, and
- 30:13Speaker 14: I would entertain the kids in my neighborhood with this
- 30:17Speaker 14: talk show.
- 30:17Speaker 8: So you see a.
- 30:18Speaker 14: Guy who's dreamed it all his life and can't believe
- 30:21Speaker 14: that I've dreamed it into existence. My mother used to say,
- 30:25Speaker 14: if you get good grades, you can go to Detroit
- 30:27Speaker 14: and watch the Motown review with your cousins.
- 30:30Speaker 8: For five dollars, you can see Stevie Wonder.
- 30:33Speaker 14: You could see the Temptations and they give you two pips,
- 30:36Speaker 14: well sometimes for five hours what you want and that
- 30:41Speaker 14: kind of stuff, and you grow up and then you
- 30:44Speaker 14: tour with the Temptations. When they had to stand in
- 30:47Speaker 14: on the top tour, Rick James wrote them that track.
- 30:51Speaker 14: Then one day Michael Bivens calls you and says, hey,
- 30:54Speaker 14: I got four guys that idolized the Temptations that from
- 30:57Speaker 14: Philly called Boys the Men, and but their album's not
- 31:00Speaker 14: ready yet. When it's ready, I want to come. I say, Oh,
- 31:02Speaker 14: I got an idea. They love the Temptations. I got
- 31:04Speaker 14: the Temptations on Thursday. Let them come and blend in
- 31:08Speaker 14: with the Temptations and you can imagine a paramount every night.
- 31:13Speaker 14: It was a nightmare because they wanted less black. Now
- 31:17Speaker 14: I got fifteen. But my thing was like, I'd rather
- 31:23Speaker 14: do six years my way than twenty years Johnny's way,
- 31:26Speaker 14: and Johnny dug the show because I wasn't trying to
- 31:29Speaker 14: be him. There was never a competition. I was looking
- 31:33Speaker 14: for friends of the show. I remember Alan King, a
- 31:37Speaker 14: legendary old comic, called me and he says, your show
- 31:41Speaker 14: put out an offer to me, and I just want
- 31:43Speaker 14: you to know I love what you're doing, but I'm
- 31:44Speaker 14: a Johnny guy.
- 31:45Speaker 1: And that's when it hit me, you got to get
- 31:47Speaker 1: your guys.
- 31:48Speaker 14: And so that's when I started trying to go for
- 31:52Speaker 14: the audience that didn't have a talk show. And that
- 31:55Speaker 14: made it work, you know, cause I'd been the Ed
- 31:57Speaker 14: McMahon figure on a thing called Thick of the Night,
- 32:00Speaker 14: you know where I was, oh fick, And so I
- 32:04Speaker 14: got to watch it go on and I got to
- 32:07Speaker 14: learn from Alan's experience. Don't try to be Johnny. Try
- 32:11Speaker 14: to come up with an alternative. By the way, when
- 32:14Speaker 14: I was working for Alan, Think there was a Little Boy.
- 32:17Speaker 14: I brought Johnny Gill on alaan Thick show. I met
- 32:20Speaker 14: Johnny Gill in Cleveland with Gerald LeVert. I bring Johnny
- 32:23Speaker 14: Gill on the show, and he gets numbers, and that
- 32:26Speaker 14: let me know, Hey, it's not that black people don't
- 32:30Speaker 14: get numbers, it's that we ain't trying it. He came
- 32:32Speaker 14: on with Stacy Lattisaw and they did perfect combination. On
- 32:36Speaker 14: the side, there's a little white boy with a cub's
- 32:38Speaker 14: cap on. It's Alan Thick's son who always surfaced when
- 32:42Speaker 14: there was R and B on the show.
- 32:44Speaker 9: That was Robin.
- 32:45Speaker 14: Think that's another example of how we know who we are,
- 32:48Speaker 14: we know who we want to be, and that kid
- 32:52Speaker 14: then knew he was the white Marvin Gay.
- 32:57Speaker 8: Is this book is your memoir closure for you?
- 32:59Speaker 1: Or is it a lot of correction?
- 33:02Speaker 14: I don't know if I yeah, a little closure too,
- 33:05Speaker 14: because I loved putting that letter of resignation. A lot
- 33:09Speaker 14: of people barbershop journalists would say, well, you know, one
- 33:12Speaker 14: night he snuck fair Con in there. Thereamount didn't know
- 33:15Speaker 14: about it, you know, and interview fair Con and you know,
- 33:19Speaker 14: when the fact is, paramount has to green like that,
- 33:23Speaker 14: they have to approve that. And it's all the barbershop
- 33:26Speaker 14: journalism you get because basically studios. People think studios are
- 33:30Speaker 14: above the fray, and what they don't understand is that
- 33:38Speaker 14: studios just like a relationship. You have a breakup with
- 33:40Speaker 14: somebody and then you hear that he said I left
- 33:44Speaker 14: her because I was sick of her.
- 33:46Speaker 9: No, no, no.
- 33:48Speaker 4: Lying.
- 33:50Speaker 8: And unfortunately business is like that too.
- 33:53Speaker 14: They want to position it sexy their way, and they say, well,
- 33:57Speaker 14: we'll come over Tuesday and we'll talk about crafting a
- 34:01Speaker 14: release to the press of.
- 34:03Speaker 8: What we're going to do from here on.
- 34:04Speaker 14: And then Monday some she come out and you're like,
- 34:07Speaker 14: you must you know, but I get to correct those
- 34:11Speaker 14: kinds of things, and yeah, and have closure too, because.
- 34:15Speaker 11: I said, you actually quit the show, and I remember
- 34:17Speaker 11: when you first told me that.
- 34:18Speaker 8: In my mind, I'm like, yeah, really.
- 34:22Speaker 18: When I heard when I heard that that that little thing,
- 34:25Speaker 18: that that dental tongular thing, I had my woman go
- 34:31Speaker 18: in the garage and I said, you got to find
- 34:33Speaker 18: that let letter and she found.
- 34:35Speaker 15: It because there were so many people that believed that
- 34:37Speaker 15: though that that you didn't quit the show. If you
- 34:40Speaker 15: had never written this book, how would you have ever
- 34:42Speaker 15: like try to clear it up any other place?
- 34:44Speaker 19: Like was that something that was sitting with you for
- 34:45Speaker 19: a while.
- 34:47Speaker 1: Yeah, And I had a lawyer say, why do you care?
- 34:49Speaker 8: Look at your bank account? Why do you care?
- 34:51Speaker 14: And I'm like, because truth matters, And I mean, forget television.
- 34:57Speaker 9: We as a people, uh Rican gentlemen.
- 35:00Speaker 8: Also, we.
- 35:07Speaker 14: As a people have to be careful not to let
- 35:10Speaker 14: truth be buried. Mine is insignificant. How about the history
- 35:14Speaker 14: of our people in the way it's being changed, buried
- 35:16Speaker 14: and hidden from future children.
- 35:20Speaker 1: Truth is important.
- 35:21Speaker 14: It's important when it's on y'all side, so let it
- 35:24Speaker 14: be important for us too.
- 35:25Speaker 11: By the way, either way, you left his gangster walking
- 35:29Speaker 11: away because hey man, I want to do my black stuff.
- 35:31Speaker 8: If it ain't working for y'all, it ain't gonna work
- 35:33Speaker 8: for me, I'm out. Or yeah I bought Ferracon. One
- 35:37Speaker 8: way it works.
- 35:38Speaker 14: Oh yeah, yeah, you get a free bean path for
- 35:40Speaker 14: that second. Brothers very very supportive of it. But you know,
- 35:46Speaker 14: here's the deal, here's how you can understand it. At
- 35:49Speaker 14: the end of the day. Entertainment is cool. But Quincy
- 35:52Speaker 14: used to tell me the word business is larger than
- 35:54Speaker 14: the word show. And my ratings and my income were attached.
- 36:00Speaker 14: The higher the number, the more money I get. When
- 36:03Speaker 14: Letterman gets CBS, because I'm in syndication now, I'm on
- 36:06Speaker 14: stations most places, but my CBS stations helped me succeed.
- 36:10Speaker 14: When Letterman comes into the game and all my CBS
- 36:13Speaker 14: stations leave at the end of their term, I'm like,
- 36:17Speaker 14: what am I gonna do now? And so basically, and
- 36:21Speaker 14: the money goes down, and now you're like, well, I
- 36:24Speaker 14: have to look at a movie every night and read
- 36:26Speaker 14: a Jackie Collins book. I'm like, I don't know if
- 36:28Speaker 14: it's worth it for a million a year, you know.
- 36:31Speaker 14: And the bottom line is I dashed when the money. Also,
- 36:36Speaker 14: I'm from Cleveland. I grew up down the street from
- 36:39Speaker 14: Jim Brown, and I watched him leave on Top. I
- 36:42Speaker 14: watched him start doing movies when they were still calling
- 36:45Speaker 14: him to the locker room.
- 36:46Speaker 8: I always wanted to leave on Top.
- 36:48Speaker 14: So the bottom line when the money changed a little
- 36:50Speaker 14: bit and the numbers change a little bit, and I
- 36:51Speaker 14: didn't see a future for syndication because I'm like, they're
- 36:55Speaker 14: gonna put somebody at ABC, I'm gonna lose those affiliates too.
- 36:58Speaker 14: So eventually there's a Kimmel as a letterman. And the
- 37:00Speaker 14: bottom line is the money changed, Let's do something else.
- 37:04Speaker 14: I've gotten six years out of this. I've been on
- 37:06Speaker 14: the cover of Time magazine. I spent two years knowing
- 37:09Speaker 14: I was leaving and building a house on the beach.
- 37:13Speaker 14: And bottom line is I'm cool with how.
- 37:15Speaker 9: It all went down.
- 37:16Speaker 8: I was always shot that Foxes didn't get into the
- 37:19Speaker 8: late night game. It's funny.
- 37:21Speaker 14: I just sat with Conan O'Brien and he told me
- 37:23Speaker 14: a cool story. He says he was in a lunch
- 37:27Speaker 14: room a cafeteria at Fox, and he says, you were
- 37:30Speaker 14: very nice to me. You won't remember me, but I
- 37:33Speaker 14: was getting coffee and you showed me where other stuff was.
- 37:36Speaker 14: What I didn't realize is while I was taking over
- 37:39Speaker 14: for Jones Rivers and doing the late show because she
- 37:42Speaker 14: eventually got fired, her husband killed himself. You remember all
- 37:45Speaker 14: that stuff. I'm doing the late show. I'm doing the
- 37:47Speaker 14: last eleven weeks of her contract before I go to
- 37:50Speaker 14: do Coming to America. Conan had been hired to create
- 37:53Speaker 14: a show to replace me, So while I was there,
- 37:56Speaker 14: they had decided that I wasn't the guy wow, and
- 37:59Speaker 14: they created thing called The Wilton North Report. I went
- 38:02Speaker 14: and did come into America in paramount. Was like, when
- 38:05Speaker 14: we finished this, if you want a talk show, let's
- 38:08Speaker 14: try it in syndication. Now, something in syndication will never
- 38:11Speaker 14: work again other than Byron All and no one's gonna
- 38:13Speaker 14: ever be able to make syndication money because the network's
- 38:18Speaker 14: got it, you know it. When I came into it,
- 38:20Speaker 14: CBS and ABC didn't.
- 38:21Speaker 1: Want to be in the late night game, so they
- 38:23Speaker 1: bought my show.
- 38:24Speaker 14: You know, it was a perfect time. Life is all
- 38:26Speaker 14: about timing and effort.
- 38:28Speaker 1: Now you mentioned Coming to America, my favorite movie of all. Yeah,
- 38:32Speaker 1: let's talk about that movie and how it came together
- 38:35Speaker 1: and what was the decision to play so many different
- 38:38Speaker 1: characters for both you and Eddie.
- 38:40Speaker 14: The decision for me to play characters was Eddie saying, yeah,
- 38:43Speaker 14: him too, that's cool, you know, because he's the king,
- 38:47Speaker 14: you know.
- 38:48Speaker 9: But the movie, the movie was all hinged on.
- 38:52Speaker 14: The fact that America missed Eddie doing characters. They wanted
- 38:57Speaker 14: that again. And yeah, and I remember his manager saying
- 39:02Speaker 14: to me, they want Eddie to do characters. So when
- 39:04Speaker 14: you guys go to America, he'll be some of the
- 39:08Speaker 14: people that you meet. And I'm like, that's really cool. Now,
- 39:11Speaker 14: I'm just a straight out stand up. I'm not an
- 39:13Speaker 14: impressionist and I'm not an actor. I was honored when
- 39:17Speaker 14: he asked me to also do some characters. But that
- 39:20Speaker 14: movie was supposed to be me as you know, like
- 39:24Speaker 14: a personal assistant or an undersized bodyguard coming to America
- 39:28Speaker 14: from Zamunda with Eddie. He saw me do stand up
- 39:32Speaker 14: and I did this bit about going to church in
- 39:34Speaker 14: Chicago and going to the South Side. So I do
- 39:39Speaker 14: this preacher character, and he's like, that's all.
- 39:41Speaker 8: It is, man.
- 39:42Speaker 14: You know, we do the prosthetics and you do that,
- 39:45Speaker 14: and you're a preacher, you know. And of course my
- 39:48Speaker 14: dad was a Baptist preacher, and so at any moment,
- 39:52Speaker 14: I'm ready to preach.
- 39:53Speaker 11: I was laughing another niggas I saw all you posted video.
- 39:55Speaker 11: He was like, I'm walking like the preaching and coming
- 39:57Speaker 11: to America. But not because I'm pretending.
- 40:02Speaker 14: Life is crazy, Because you know, at one point you're
- 40:06Speaker 14: in your twenties and you're standing in front of a mirror. Jess,
- 40:10Speaker 14: you've been through they stand in front of a mirror,
- 40:11Speaker 14: you're practicing a character. You're looking at how Red Fox walks,
- 40:15Speaker 14: and you're breaking it down. And then one day you
- 40:17Speaker 14: turned seventy and you realize, now that's my walk. But
- 40:23Speaker 14: if loving you is wrong, I don't want you.
- 40:30Speaker 15: I was going to coming to America. I've read somewhere.
- 40:33Speaker 15: I think it was one of the interviews you did something.
- 40:34Speaker 15: It almost didn't happen though a couple of times, at
- 40:36Speaker 15: first because of the pitch, and then there was an
- 40:38Speaker 15: issue with Eddie Murphy and somebody on set.
- 40:40Speaker 14: Yeah, well, you know, they wanted him to do characters
- 40:43Speaker 14: and that made the treatment perfection, and he decided different
- 40:51Speaker 14: things I can do when we come to America.
- 40:54Speaker 8: And the other thing you reference is he had a.
- 40:56Speaker 14: Conflict with Landis, and Landis is a brilliant director, and
- 41:00Speaker 14: they work that out.
- 41:02Speaker 8: Thank God, Thank God, my business.
- 41:04Speaker 9: Manager, Thanks God every day for me.
- 41:08Speaker 11: Just keep coming in insiduous world, not as crazy as
- 41:13Speaker 11: one might think.
- 41:14Speaker 14: Okay, you know, but because you see it all the
- 41:18Speaker 14: time on v H one and on things owned by
- 41:21Speaker 14: sky Dance, I guess it is now. By the way,
- 41:25Speaker 14: the checks that he get are probably what you just described,
- 41:28Speaker 14: you know. But the bottom line is, I was a
- 41:31Speaker 14: lucky actor to be involved, and mine sometimes will be
- 41:34Speaker 14: thirteen cents.
- 41:36Speaker 6: In your show. Right.
- 41:37Speaker 13: Has there ever been anybody that would talk about you
- 41:40Speaker 13: but then won't come on your show and you let
- 41:42Speaker 13: it happen.
- 41:44Speaker 9: Yeah?
- 41:44Speaker 14: Once, yeah, at one time. But for the most part,
- 41:49Speaker 14: you know what, Oh.
- 41:52Speaker 8: I forgot her name.
- 41:53Speaker 14: It was somebody who you know now that I think
- 41:56Speaker 14: maybe there are jokes there was too much, but I
- 42:02Speaker 14: forgot it.
- 42:03Speaker 6: But she was a comic, another comedian.
- 42:05Speaker 9: Yeah, it was. It was a young.
- 42:06Speaker 14: Comic, and I was like, no, not now, keep that
- 42:10Speaker 14: same energy when you was calling me the F word.
- 42:13Speaker 9: On stage, you know, but.
- 42:17Speaker 14: Yes, yeah, yeah, which is rough on a black man,
- 42:21Speaker 14: because you know, you know that whole history. I was
- 42:26Speaker 14: one of those guys that would put the business before
- 42:28Speaker 14: my personal feelings. I've had Spike Lee call me and
- 42:32Speaker 14: Uncle Tom. But when it's time for Spike Lee to
- 42:36Speaker 14: promote ith, I'm like, dude, I'm here, come on. You know,
- 42:41Speaker 14: as a matter of fact, Spike was mad at me
- 42:43Speaker 14: because I probably didn't give him the date.
- 42:45Speaker 8: I think he wanted a certain date and.
- 42:48Speaker 14: It sweeps and all that date has taken, that Friday
- 42:50Speaker 14: night date, and he got mad at me and you know,
- 42:54Speaker 14: call me and Uncle Tom and it's like you would
- 42:56Speaker 14: think that we would never speak.
- 42:57Speaker 9: But I walked up to him at.
- 42:59Speaker 14: A Laker game, a Laker Knicks game, Grab them, dude,
- 43:03Speaker 14: come on through sometimes my next price.
- 43:05Speaker 8: I never understood that though, Like, how could Spike we
- 43:07Speaker 8: called call off? Send your hall of Uncle Tom, Like
- 43:10Speaker 8: like like you were doing do the right thing every
- 43:12Speaker 8: night the way you was fiking.
- 43:14Speaker 14: Yeah yeah, And you know he was, like I said,
- 43:16Speaker 14: he people, you make mistakes. You say stuff a lot
- 43:19Speaker 14: of times. By the fact that when I hugged them,
- 43:23Speaker 14: we talked and it was over.
- 43:24Speaker 9: You realize in the moment.
- 43:26Speaker 14: He said that because he didn't get the date, he
- 43:28Speaker 14: wanted to promote, you know, whatever the uncle Thomas wrong,
- 43:34Speaker 14: especially when.
- 43:35Speaker 15: You already had people that were feeling like that about you.
- 43:37Speaker 15: So for him to echo it, it made it, you know, bigger.
- 43:40Speaker 14: Yeah, and that's probably why he went for that Achilles
- 43:44Speaker 14: heel or that spot.
- 43:46Speaker 9: But h but.
- 43:47Speaker 14: I think sometimes to hold a grudge, you have to
- 43:50Speaker 14: keep that ugly thing with you. Yeah, sometimes it's it's
- 43:54Speaker 14: easier for you to let it go.
- 43:58Speaker 8: Guys.
- 43:58Speaker 15: Okay, wait, I was trying. I been trying to get
- 44:00Speaker 15: this in. You got really personal just about like a
- 44:02Speaker 15: dating life as well too. In this book, you talk
- 44:05Speaker 15: about Pamela Anderson and Paula Abdul and what.
- 44:08Speaker 14: By the way, one of the reasons I wanted to
- 44:10Speaker 14: tell the Pamela Anderson story is because I don't know
- 44:13Speaker 14: if it's changed, but the older comics that wasn't. That
- 44:17Speaker 14: was the kind of advice. It's like, Yo, Johnny Witherspoon
- 44:20Speaker 14: in this book, he stay away from white.
- 44:22Speaker 8: Women, you know, and you're a young kind.
- 44:24Speaker 14: You're like, okay, you know, because there were no white
- 44:27Speaker 14: women in my neighborhood and I didn't know why. And
- 44:31Speaker 14: of course the night I walked into the comedy store
- 44:33Speaker 14: with Pamela Anderson, Johnny Witherspoon looked at me and did
- 44:36Speaker 14: that tungular thing that you do what I tell you,
- 44:40Speaker 14: you know, And just I wanted to take people through
- 44:44Speaker 14: that growth process of what the OG's told.
- 44:47Speaker 15: You and you're.
- 44:49Speaker 6: Talking about like.
- 44:53Speaker 14: Me and Tupac had an argument because Tupac in an
- 44:55Speaker 14: article said, uh something about Quincy and our Sineo and
- 44:59Speaker 14: some of these brother this in these white women you
- 45:01Speaker 14: see with white you know, it's like back then. That
- 45:04Speaker 14: was a no no to the older brothers who were
- 45:07Speaker 14: talking to you, and they were trying to tell you
- 45:09Speaker 14: that's a problem you know that you know, and it
- 45:13Speaker 14: was some people in your demo will not like you
- 45:16Speaker 14: if they see you in Jet magazine with a playmate,
- 45:20Speaker 14: you know.
- 45:21Speaker 11: So he was trying to protect me. It's definitely the
- 45:24Speaker 11: real story of Arsenio Hall. It's not just about it,
- 45:26Speaker 11: you know, a guy with a late night show man.
- 45:28Speaker 8: Go get our Senio.
- 45:29Speaker 11: A memoir available everywhere you buy books, now and just
- 45:33Speaker 11: salute to you, my brother.
- 45:36Speaker 14: I don't even know how you got my number. Thank
- 45:38Speaker 14: you for the call, because you gave me something to
- 45:40Speaker 14: do for a couple of years, man, and it was
- 45:43Speaker 14: a lot of fun, and I think I did it well.
- 45:47Speaker 8: I'm glad you did.
- 45:48Speaker 20: Know.
- 45:48Speaker 11: This is one of the best entertainment memoirs I've ever
- 45:50Speaker 11: read in my life. That it said with no bias,
- 45:52Speaker 11: not just biased for publishing it, not biased because I
- 45:55Speaker 11: look at you as an inspiration. But this is actually
- 45:57Speaker 11: one of the best entertainment memoirs I ever read in
- 45:59Speaker 11: my life.
- 46:00Speaker 8: He could I just add one more thing.
- 46:01Speaker 14: When you talk about dreaming and teaching and what the
- 46:04Speaker 14: book does and all that kind of stuff, what you
- 46:06Speaker 14: just said is important. A black man saying to me
- 46:10Speaker 14: on the phone, I want to do this because I
- 46:12Speaker 14: want more black office. I want more books in the
- 46:16Speaker 14: hands of Nubian people.
- 46:18Speaker 1: What you did.
- 46:20Speaker 14: Calling me was so important and to do it with you,
- 46:23Speaker 14: and that's what I told my publicist. I gotta do
- 46:25Speaker 14: it because he's trying to do something and I believe
- 46:28Speaker 14: in what he's trying to do.
- 46:29Speaker 9: And I knew your history and.
- 46:31Speaker 14: Your parents being educators, and it was so it's so
- 46:35Speaker 14: important for us.
- 46:36Speaker 9: Sometimes we don't.
- 46:37Speaker 1: Work together, we will, We will work with.
- 46:39Speaker 6: Anybody but our own I don't know why.
- 46:42Speaker 8: And then you know.
- 46:47Speaker 14: And there's a lot of that in us, even when
- 46:49Speaker 14: we don't say it. But I with this, and we.
- 46:53Speaker 11: Got a book and you'll read me a long time ago,
- 46:56Speaker 11: because you know, I used to want to do late
- 46:57Speaker 11: night television because of us in your hall. You know,
- 46:59Speaker 11: you do rat and you get a talk show and
- 47:01Speaker 11: you think, like, I gotta make it at the late
- 47:02Speaker 11: night host. Got to make it at the late night host.
- 47:04Speaker 11: And when you was on press for coming to America Too,
- 47:06Speaker 11: somebody asked you. They said, you know, who do you
- 47:08Speaker 11: think is like the closest to you in this generation?
- 47:11Speaker 11: And you said, I would say somebody like Charlamagne, But
- 47:13Speaker 11: he does radio and you watch it on YouTube, and
- 47:16Speaker 11: you know that's like where people go to get I
- 47:18Speaker 11: guess that's so called late night fixed.
- 47:20Speaker 8: I remember you said that. I was like, yo, hey.
- 47:22Speaker 9: That song.
- 47:23Speaker 14: Everything must change. The business is that way too, that
- 47:27Speaker 14: late night format that Johnny created. He was the king,
- 47:30Speaker 14: but for budget reasons and for the advancement of technology,
- 47:35Speaker 14: this has to change. And what you're doing now when
- 47:40Speaker 14: Tupac would call me on the landline and say, I
- 47:44Speaker 14: need to come on the show Man because they trying
- 47:47Speaker 14: to make me take an age test before I do
- 47:49Speaker 14: poetic justice.
- 47:50Speaker 8: And I ain't gonna really Janet.
- 47:52Speaker 14: Right, okay, So why should I have to take an
- 47:55Speaker 14: age test? And back then, we didn't have the word twitter,
- 47:59Speaker 14: we didn't have that. It wasn't a bluebird, it was
- 48:02Speaker 14: a blackbird. I was the guy you called and came
- 48:06Speaker 14: and talked about your problems, of the business of what
- 48:09Speaker 14: you were going through, iced tea coming on and explaining
- 48:12Speaker 14: cop killer, explaining, you know, I'm not really killing cops,
- 48:16Speaker 14: Arnold Schwartzen, they gain't really determinator.
- 48:18Speaker 8: This is a piece of art trying to give a message.
- 48:21Speaker 14: And so what I was doing when I watch you,
- 48:24Speaker 14: when I listened to you, I'm like, he's doing it.
- 48:26Speaker 14: And the medium has come to a different place. You know,
- 48:29Speaker 14: there's no curtain, there's no a McMann, there's no Doc Severnson.
- 48:32Speaker 14: But what Charlemagne is doing is what I did for
- 48:36Speaker 14: this time, for this culture. And look how it's evolved,
- 48:41Speaker 14: you know, I mean, it got the two ladies now
- 48:43Speaker 14: and of course envy.
- 48:44Speaker 11: It was just free for me because it just teaches
- 48:46Speaker 11: you don't always have to be chasing something, and it
- 48:48Speaker 11: goes back to gratitude.
- 48:49Speaker 8: Gratitude turns what we have into enough.
- 48:53Speaker 1: Hello, there you having our city hall, ladies and gentlemen.
- 48:55Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. The memoir is
- 48:57Speaker 1: out right now, and make sure you pick it up
- 49:00Speaker 1: and we appreciate you. O G so much.
- 49:02Speaker 9: Thank you man.
- 49:03Speaker 14: I appreciate y'all, and I'm glad to finally meet the
- 49:07Speaker 14: other three of the foursome in person and the port
- 49:10Speaker 14: we can do with the.
- 49:11Speaker 1: Boss Breakfast Clumber's on Senior Hall.
- 49:18Speaker 6: Don't be out here acting like a donkey, bitch.
- 49:22Speaker 9: It's time for.
- 49:22Speaker 3: Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy.
- 49:24Speaker 1: I could take it if he feel I deserve It
- 49:26Speaker 1: ain't no big deal.
- 49:27Speaker 9: I know.
- 49:27Speaker 1: Charlotte magea god gonna his mouth.
- 49:30Speaker 8: Got to say something you may not agree with. It
- 49:31Speaker 8: doesn't mean I'm mean, who's getting that donkey?
- 49:33Speaker 11: Donkey that don't don't don't YUN'TU donkey other day right there.
- 49:38Speaker 8: The breakfast club.
- 49:39Speaker 6: Bitches, you can call me the donkey of the day,
- 49:41Speaker 6: But like I mean, no harm.
- 49:44Speaker 11: Donkey today go to a young woman who has been
- 49:46Speaker 11: identified as Veil Bayer b A y h A. I
- 49:50Speaker 11: don't know her last name, but I want it because
- 49:53Speaker 11: we need this woman in jail, all right, Why do
- 49:55Speaker 11: we need this woman in jail? Well over the weekend,
- 49:59Speaker 11: Actually it was early morning last Wednesday. They said she
- 50:02Speaker 11: decided she wanted to slap the artists known as Ice
- 50:05Speaker 11: Spice in the face, okay, in an unprovoked attack at
- 50:09Speaker 11: McDonald's in La Yes, Ice Spipes was enjoying a late
- 50:11Speaker 11: night McDonald's meal, which proves you can take a young
- 50:14Speaker 11: lady out of the Bronx, but she can't take the
- 50:16Speaker 11: Bronx out of the young lady. Okay, Ladies from the
- 50:18Speaker 11: Bronx love McDonald's. I'm old enough to remember when Cardi
- 50:22Speaker 11: b used to come to Breakfast Club way way way
- 50:24Speaker 11: back in the day, and after the interview, she used
- 50:26Speaker 11: to be wanting to go to McDonald's. Okay, So it's
- 50:29Speaker 11: something about Bronx women at McDonald's.
- 50:31Speaker 8: Not to mention.
- 50:31Speaker 11: I tell you all the time, the craziest people in
- 50:33Speaker 11: America come from the Bronx and all of Florida and
- 50:35Speaker 11: eating in McDonald's late at night when you are a
- 50:38Speaker 11: popular rapper like Ice Spice with no security. It's absolutely crazy.
- 50:42Speaker 11: And this woman Baya in are Veyan are Ya Byja,
- 50:45Speaker 11: that's her name, proved why see Ice Spies was minding
- 50:48Speaker 11: her business, eating her four piece nugget, fries and drink,
- 50:51Speaker 11: and this woman walked up to her and asked, where
- 50:53Speaker 11: are you from? Those are three words you do not
- 50:56Speaker 11: want to hear when you are on the West coast,
- 50:58Speaker 11: especially LA.
- 50:59Speaker 8: And then things escalated quickly.
- 51:01Speaker 19: The woman in the video, she's telling the.
- 51:03Speaker 20: Story, I think that's Ice Spice over there. But I
- 51:05Speaker 20: go up to them and I'm giving her and the
- 51:08Speaker 20: other girl she was with a compliment. Ice Spice was
- 51:10Speaker 20: just being rude. She was like, why are you over here?
- 51:12Speaker 20: You could leave bye. He can't be out here disrespecting people.
- 51:14Speaker 20: She calls me. A bit after she calls me, I
- 51:17Speaker 20: hit her and I hear Ice Spice in the middle
- 51:19Speaker 20: of the street talking about some where is that. I
- 51:22Speaker 20: do want to fight her. That's what me and her
- 51:24Speaker 20: fought again. She was being disrespectful and rude, which is.
- 51:26Speaker 4: Why we fought.
- 51:28Speaker 8: You do realize we saw the video, right, You do
- 51:31Speaker 8: realize we can hear the video?
- 51:32Speaker 11: Okay, all right, nothing you said Ice Spice said in
- 51:36Speaker 11: that video we heard. What I saw was you approached
- 51:38Speaker 11: Ice Spice's table looking like you.
- 51:40Speaker 8: Was on to bs. Okay, I didn't like the way
- 51:42Speaker 8: you approached the table, all right.
- 51:43Speaker 11: Just because you are a fan of someone doesn't mean
- 51:46Speaker 11: you can disrespect their boundaries or you're entitled to anything
- 51:50Speaker 11: from that person.
- 51:51Speaker 8: Okay. None of what you said justifies slapping Ice Spice.
- 51:54Speaker 11: All right, this is why I want people like Ice
- 51:57Speaker 11: Spice to always have security.
- 51:58Speaker 8: Okay.
- 51:59Speaker 11: Well, number one, don't eating at McDonald's late at night
- 52:01Speaker 11: when you Ice Spice. Okay, that's number one. Get your
- 52:05Speaker 11: number three to go, all right, But if you're going
- 52:06Speaker 11: to be out, have your security, because security slows a
- 52:10Speaker 11: lot of that down.
- 52:11Speaker 8: Okay, security is for defense, right. The Great E forty
- 52:14Speaker 8: told me years.
- 52:15Speaker 11: Ago, right here on Breakfast Club, said Charlamagne, you gotta
- 52:18Speaker 11: make it difficult for people. When you're worth something, you
- 52:20Speaker 11: gotta act like it, and you gotta protect it. Okay,
- 52:22Speaker 11: that situation could have been a whole lot worse. Okay,
- 52:26Speaker 11: it could have been a whole lot worse for Ice Spice.
- 52:28Speaker 11: Thank god it wasn't, but it could have been. And
- 52:30Speaker 11: that's what security slows down, not to mention. Sometimes security
- 52:34Speaker 11: have to make an example a lot of people, and
- 52:36Speaker 11: that's what I wish would have happened.
- 52:38Speaker 8: Okay.
- 52:38Speaker 11: Yes, what I see videos like Yah Veyl what's whatever
- 52:41Speaker 11: her name is, I want to see them get beat up.
- 52:44Speaker 8: Okay, I really do, because.
- 52:45Speaker 11: The only reason things like this keep happening because we
- 52:48Speaker 11: don't see the consequences of these stupid ass actions. We
- 52:52Speaker 11: need to see people like her get beat up. We
- 52:55Speaker 11: need to see them getting shot sometime, okay, not killed,
- 52:58Speaker 11: but but a little flesh wound okay, and then we
- 53:00Speaker 11: need to see them going to jail.
- 53:03Speaker 8: Okay.
- 53:03Speaker 11: This sense of entitlement that some people have just because
- 53:06Speaker 11: we share in the same space is ridiculous, all right,
- 53:09Speaker 11: People like Ice Spies are not extras in your reality show.
- 53:12Speaker 8: That's a human that.
- 53:13Speaker 11: Deserves respect, just like you deserve respect, and disrespect should
- 53:17Speaker 11: not be tolerated on any level. Look, I don't know
- 53:20Speaker 11: if Ice Spice was rude to her not. That's not
- 53:23Speaker 11: what I saw on the video. I don't care. I
- 53:25Speaker 11: watched the video and I didn't like the way or
- 53:28Speaker 11: approached the table.
- 53:29Speaker 8: Just because you are a.
- 53:29Speaker 11: Fan of someone doesn't mean you get to disrespect their boundaries.
- 53:34Speaker 11: You came in on bs and that's why we need
- 53:36Speaker 11: her in jail. We need her prosecuted to the highest
- 53:39Speaker 11: extent of the law. We don't need people like Baia
- 53:41Speaker 11: just roaming the street. We have to do what we
- 53:44Speaker 11: have to do to get her off the street because
- 53:46Speaker 11: she's clearly not right in the head. Okay, you walk
- 53:48Speaker 11: up on a person in McDonald's, then you make a
- 53:50Speaker 11: video about it and lie on her to justify your foolishness.
- 53:54Speaker 8: Call to lapd.
- 53:56Speaker 11: Okay, I want her locked up by this afternoon if
- 53:59Speaker 11: they haven't got already.
- 54:00Speaker 8: Okay, what's her last name?
- 54:01Speaker 11: I don't know. Plaster it all over social media. Tell
- 54:04Speaker 11: the proper authorities where she can be found. This isn't
- 54:07Speaker 11: snitching because none of us are criminals. Okay, it's crime prevention.
- 54:10Speaker 11: If you want to see how someone is gonna treat you,
- 54:12Speaker 11: watch how they treat other people. Well, if you think
- 54:15Speaker 11: this woman wouldn't do you like she did, ice, spice
- 54:17Speaker 11: you bugging. But you also have to make an example
- 54:20Speaker 11: out of people like her, all right, And there's not
- 54:22Speaker 11: enough consequences for situations like that, you know, and the
- 54:27Speaker 11: fact that she just goes online it's like it's like
- 54:29Speaker 11: they want the attention.
- 54:31Speaker 8: Yeah, you know what I mean that you assaulted somebody.
- 54:33Speaker 1: I'm gonna go the line and I'm gonna tell you
- 54:35Speaker 1: how I assaulted you.
- 54:36Speaker 8: And then you get locked up, and then you get
- 54:37Speaker 8: mad when people tell on you.
- 54:38Speaker 13: You're like, yo, you yourself, cameras, I'm gonna ask kids,
- 54:44Speaker 13: But let me ask you a question though, viol whatever.
- 54:47Speaker 1: The lady's name was completely wrong, right, But Ice Spies
- 54:51Speaker 1: did have a friend there. She did, and the friend
- 54:53Speaker 1: didn't do anything.
- 54:54Speaker 13: Man, the girl would have been clawing to get out
- 54:56Speaker 13: of the restaurant, veo whatever would have been clawing to
- 54:59Speaker 13: get out the restaurant.
- 54:59Speaker 4: Becau.
- 55:00Speaker 13: My friend would have been on that ass. What are
- 55:01Speaker 13: you talking about? We're gonna bank you as soon as.
- 55:03Speaker 1: You come over with the bs. It's two on one.
- 55:05Speaker 1: Oh we jumping?
- 55:06Speaker 6: What are French your exactly?
- 55:08Speaker 4: Now?
- 55:09Speaker 13: The girl that she was with probably not a fighter,
- 55:11Speaker 13: probably not none of that, but it's like she was
- 55:13Speaker 13: the only one.
- 55:14Speaker 1: She's the only one.
- 55:15Speaker 13: As soon as you see you know what I'm saying,
- 55:17Speaker 13: fish swinging, you get up.
- 55:19Speaker 6: Hop over the table.
- 55:20Speaker 11: The friend she was listening to told her not to
- 55:21Speaker 11: go to McDonald's in the first list. Hey, you know
- 55:27Speaker 11: we can get this to go right. We don't have
- 55:28Speaker 11: to eat, you don't have your security with you, you
- 55:31Speaker 11: don't have to be here.
- 55:32Speaker 13: Exactly curious Burger, even if you can't fight Burger getting
- 55:35Speaker 13: stuffed down your everybody's.
- 55:37Speaker 1: DJ Envy just hilarious. Charlamagne the God we are the
- 55:41Speaker 1: breakfast club. Lorla Ros is here as well. We got
- 55:43Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, the legend Wonder Sikes.
- 55:46Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, welcome.
- 55:48Speaker 12: Thank you, great my energy. I got good energy right now,
- 55:56Speaker 12: you know, right now, right now. Yeah, I'm sure I'm
- 55:59Speaker 12: gonna crashing about an hour.
- 56:01Speaker 9: You've been up all night, all night.
- 56:04Speaker 12: But you know I had a little thing last night
- 56:07Speaker 12: screening of the movie.
- 56:11Speaker 1: Right now.
- 56:12Speaker 4: Yes, I may have had a few drinks to last night.
- 56:20Speaker 11: Yeah, but she had a part where she gives out
- 56:22Speaker 11: five thousand dollars to the person who can shake their
- 56:24Speaker 11: ass the best, and so you won.
- 56:27Speaker 8: I didn't try. Try.
- 56:29Speaker 11: He tried, you know, in these you know, in these
- 56:31Speaker 11: trying financial times, they was out there shaking that ass,
- 56:34Speaker 11: that money.
- 56:34Speaker 4: For five thousand year. But I was upset because I
- 56:37Speaker 4: slip the disc.
- 56:41Speaker 8: I got upset because it was all women.
- 56:42Speaker 11: And then this guy came out there popping ass better
- 56:44Speaker 11: than all of them and he won. And I'm like
- 56:48Speaker 11: like that on him all night.
- 56:50Speaker 8: You're taking money off the women's pockets. Have to do that?
- 56:53Speaker 4: Yeah, ass is ass.
- 56:57Speaker 1: Well this is one of this first time on the show.
- 56:59Speaker 1: Well it is wow.
- 57:02Speaker 4: Oh man. Yeah, I don't I don't think I've never
- 57:04Speaker 4: I've never been in time zoom. Yeah, I think doing
- 57:08Speaker 4: the COVID, Yes, yes I did. I did a zoom.
- 57:11Speaker 1: Before we get into Undercard, I want to start from
- 57:13Speaker 1: the beginning, if you don't mind. For people that don't
- 57:15Speaker 1: know Wanda from the seven five seven? Okay, how did
- 57:18Speaker 1: you get into the arts? What made you want to
- 57:19Speaker 1: get into the arts and comedy and acting and all
- 57:22Speaker 1: of that.
- 57:23Speaker 12: You know, I grew up in that time where it
- 57:26Speaker 12: was all variety shows was on, you know, like you know, Phlip, Wilson,
- 57:30Speaker 12: even the Sullivan all back then. So and my family,
- 57:35Speaker 12: you know, we watched all that, you know, watched all
- 57:37Speaker 12: the all those shows and and I just remember sitting
- 57:41Speaker 12: together and laughing and so that always stayed with me.
- 57:45Speaker 12: But you know, my dad was in a military and
- 57:47Speaker 12: also I grew up where you go to school, you
- 57:50Speaker 12: get a good education, you did a good job. And
- 57:53Speaker 12: that's what I was doing working for the government. I
- 57:55Speaker 12: worked at SAY when I when I came out of
- 57:58Speaker 12: our beloved hand to university, I ended up at UH
- 58:02Speaker 12: an essay and and I and I just got to
- 58:06Speaker 12: a point where I was like, this is not where
- 58:08Speaker 12: I'm supposed to be. I'm like, you know, the job
- 58:12Speaker 12: is great, security.
- 58:14Speaker 4: At all, but I know something else I was supposed
- 58:17Speaker 4: to be doing.
- 58:17Speaker 12: I was like looking at my high school yearbook and
- 58:20Speaker 12: everybody had written things like You're so funny.
- 58:22Speaker 4: Even if teachers were like you should be on stage.
- 58:25Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, I'm gonna write some jokes.
- 58:27Speaker 12: And I just wrote jokes and and UH went to
- 58:31Speaker 12: to UH radio station was having a a talent competition
- 58:39Speaker 12: and comedy was a category.
- 58:40Speaker 4: So I was like, I.
- 58:42Speaker 12: Audition and they said okay, yeah, and I got on
- 58:45Speaker 12: stage and did it and and just like the lights
- 58:48Speaker 12: came on from me right away.
- 58:52Speaker 4: You in.
- 58:52Speaker 12: But I just knew, like I felt like I was
- 58:55Speaker 12: in my skin, like this is this where I'm supposed
- 58:57Speaker 12: to be.
- 58:57Speaker 8: Wow, what was the Chris Rock Show? What are your
- 58:59Speaker 8: first big break.
- 59:00Speaker 12: Absolutely, absolutely, yes, absolutely Righting on Chris rock show was
- 59:05Speaker 12: my my huge break.
- 59:07Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 59:07Speaker 12: Chris, uh, you know, he was doing Bring the Pain
- 59:12Speaker 12: and I opened for him at Caroline's while he was
- 59:15Speaker 12: working on that, and uh and he said, you know what,
- 59:20Speaker 12: he just remembered me. So when he got his show,
- 59:22Speaker 12: I got a somebody calls like, hey, can you submit
- 59:25Speaker 12: some writing materials?
- 59:26Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, yeah, so.
- 59:28Speaker 8: Y'all had a dream team. It was Lewis d Chris.
- 59:33Speaker 12: Lance Browser. Yeah yeah, still said, oh man, I was
- 59:37Speaker 12: the only woman in there. But it was it was great.
- 59:40Speaker 12: Those guys were Those guys were funny and Chris. What
- 59:43Speaker 12: I love about Chris is he's a great gentleman man manager,
- 59:47Speaker 12: you know what I'm saying. He put together a team
- 59:49Speaker 12: and just let everybody be themselves like it's it's quirky
- 59:54Speaker 12: and out there, you know, and.
- 59:58Speaker 4: We were able to produce our own fits. You know.
- 1:00:01Speaker 12: He he would look at something, put his thing on it,
- 1:00:04Speaker 12: and hey, all right, you know, do this, do this,
- 1:00:06Speaker 12: but just let us just let us going woman.
- 1:00:13Speaker 4: A little bit, you know a little bit.
- 1:00:15Speaker 12: I just I felt like, okay, I can't I can't
- 1:00:18Speaker 12: mess this up because they we ain't gonna hire another woman,
- 1:00:22Speaker 12: you know what I'm saying. That's that's how it works
- 1:00:24Speaker 12: with us. Like you're getting the door, you got to
- 1:00:27Speaker 12: make sure you leave it open or open a wier
- 1:00:30Speaker 12: for somebody else to come through, like leave your mark.
- 1:00:33Speaker 4: So a little bit.
- 1:00:34Speaker 12: But they were very supportive. All the guys were real
- 1:00:37Speaker 12: support especially Louis. Louis was real cool with me. I mean,
- 1:00:40Speaker 12: he's offering from it.
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: I guess I ain't shake that ass, you know what.
- 1:00:51Speaker 12: I was like, God, right down there, it was Ali
- 1:01:00Speaker 12: Lands and then Lewis right there.
- 1:01:02Speaker 11: Not used to be on the phone, so you yeah,
- 1:01:05Speaker 11: sometimes he got quiet on the phone. But the thing
- 1:01:11Speaker 11: I used to love about the Chris Rock Show it
- 1:01:12Speaker 11: was it was just full of uncomfortable truths.
- 1:01:15Speaker 8: Even now, that whole era was full.
- 1:01:16Speaker 11: Of uncomfortable truths, right right, do you think comedy is
- 1:01:19Speaker 11: still allowed to be that honest? I will wear in
- 1:01:22Speaker 11: an air now where everybody wants jokes but they don't
- 1:01:23Speaker 11: want the truth that comes.
- 1:01:25Speaker 12: No, you know what, I think you're allowed to do it,
- 1:01:28Speaker 12: but it's just who wants to do it, you know
- 1:01:31Speaker 12: what I'm saying. It's like I think it's there, but
- 1:01:35Speaker 12: I think people are. You know, if I'm trying to
- 1:01:40Speaker 12: fill an arena, you can't you know.
- 1:01:42Speaker 4: What I'm saying. You can't be that common.
- 1:01:47Speaker 12: You gotta be you gotta appeal to the masses, and sometimes.
- 1:01:51Speaker 4: Right now with the masses want to hear.
- 1:01:54Speaker 12: It's just it's ugly, you know, you know it so yeah, so,
- 1:02:00Speaker 12: but I think you can't do it though you still
- 1:02:02Speaker 12: can do it good.
- 1:02:04Speaker 6: I'm alad you said that I'm gonna do it.
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: Do it, do it.
- 1:02:08Speaker 12: Let me just do it, Just do it exactly. I mean,
- 1:02:13Speaker 12: you're funny, so just just do it.
- 1:02:15Speaker 6: Yeah. But when I do, mean, when I do funny,
- 1:02:17Speaker 6: people be getting mad.
- 1:02:18Speaker 4: Who you can't do it for them. You gotta do
- 1:02:21Speaker 4: it for you.
- 1:02:22Speaker 12: You gotta say what you want and hey, if what
- 1:02:26Speaker 12: I want to say and what makes me feel you know,
- 1:02:29Speaker 12: good about my my gift that I have. If I'm
- 1:02:32Speaker 12: only gonna get maybe maybe six hundred people, then that's
- 1:02:36Speaker 12: those are the six hundred people that that you know
- 1:02:39Speaker 12: you're supposed to be speaking to.
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: But do people get offended too fast?
- 1:02:43Speaker 4: I'm saying, but if you want, oh I want to
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: you know, then then you got you gotta rise.
- 1:02:48Speaker 1: But do people get offended too fast. Where it's like,
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: you know, back then, jokes just flew. It didn't matter.
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: You made fun of everybody. It could be the cripple person,
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: that could be to this person, didn't matter. People laugh.
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: Now it doesn't seem like they laughed. They look for
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: a reason to say, you know what, we're gonna boycott
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: your next show.
- 1:03:03Speaker 12: Oh yeah, everybody wants to you know, I even hate
- 1:03:07Speaker 12: using you know, like everybody, but a lot of people
- 1:03:10Speaker 12: like to uh be the be the critic.
- 1:03:13Speaker 4: They want to be the police. And you know.
- 1:03:17Speaker 12: So it's like if you say something and it might
- 1:03:20Speaker 12: offend you, but but you got to look at.
- 1:03:22Speaker 4: Where that person is coming from.
- 1:03:25Speaker 12: Maybe you know, maybe their life, their perspective is different
- 1:03:27Speaker 12: from from what you know. Yeah, you're offended, but you're
- 1:03:31Speaker 12: not staying in my shoes. You don't see it from
- 1:03:33Speaker 12: from my perspective. So I think that's what that's what
- 1:03:36Speaker 12: we we've gotten away from, is seeing it from I
- 1:03:41Speaker 12: got it, you know, see where you're coming from.
- 1:03:44Speaker 4: I got it?
- 1:03:45Speaker 12: Uh yeah, And I think the whole it's empathy. Really,
- 1:03:49Speaker 12: it's empathy we've we've gotten away from that. People don't
- 1:03:53Speaker 12: don't don't get that.
- 1:03:54Speaker 13: Yeah, and there's more than one perspective one.
- 1:03:58Speaker 15: Do you think there's a when you talk about like
- 1:04:01Speaker 15: empathy and people you know, having an opinion about jokes.
- 1:04:04Speaker 15: I feel like the punching up punching down conversation gets
- 1:04:06Speaker 15: brought up a lot in that, right. Do you feel
- 1:04:08Speaker 15: like there's a fine line between that, Like, do you
- 1:04:10Speaker 15: think somebody can punch down people still respect what they're saying,
- 1:04:13Speaker 15: have empathy and they have actual take or do you
- 1:04:15Speaker 15: feel like that's always going to end in somebody being
- 1:04:17Speaker 15: upset and you've been trying to be trying to cancel you.
- 1:04:20Speaker 4: I have no problem like me.
- 1:04:22Speaker 12: I always try to try to I always try to
- 1:04:25Speaker 12: punch up because I feel like but but that's me.
- 1:04:29Speaker 12: I know the and I always call it the gift,
- 1:04:32Speaker 12: the gift that I have, and uh so I try
- 1:04:36Speaker 12: to use that for not just myself before uh I
- 1:04:39Speaker 12: mean naturally, I'm I'm in a position where I'm a
- 1:04:44Speaker 12: black woman and queer, so I'm always coming coming from yeah,
- 1:04:50Speaker 12: you know, going up.
- 1:04:51Speaker 4: I gotta go up, you know, lie.
- 1:05:03Speaker 6: Like how she was looking like how.
- 1:05:07Speaker 4: Always beautiful skin?
- 1:05:12Speaker 12: I know you it's quick, yeah, but yeah, I think
- 1:05:23Speaker 12: but but if you if you punch down. If it's funny,
- 1:05:26Speaker 12: I'm gonna I'm gonna laugh. But it's a different it's
- 1:05:30Speaker 12: a difference to punching down and coming from a a
- 1:05:34Speaker 12: perspective of perspective.
- 1:05:36Speaker 14: Of I.
- 1:05:38Speaker 4: Hate you or you it will be mean.
- 1:05:40Speaker 12: You can punch down and be funny, but if it's
- 1:05:44Speaker 12: coming from a place of love, you know, like one
- 1:05:47Speaker 12: of one of Chris's uh.
- 1:05:51Speaker 4: Good jokes, one of one of my favorite jokes is
- 1:05:53Speaker 4: punching down.
- 1:05:54Speaker 12: But what he says, uh uh uh about uh.
- 1:06:00Speaker 4: I had my money in books? You know?
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: True?
- 1:06:10Speaker 8: You want to hide something from a black brother put.
- 1:06:11Speaker 4: In the book?
- 1:06:12Speaker 12: Yeah, exactly, But it's it's a funny joke. And it's
- 1:06:15Speaker 12: also like a.
- 1:06:17Speaker 6: Little start reading.
- 1:06:23Speaker 8: Have you ever held back a joke in today's climate today?
- 1:06:26Speaker 4: Now? I know I did.
- 1:06:30Speaker 12: I wrote a joke on Chris on Chris Rock Show,
- 1:06:34Speaker 12: and it's like, oh God, what was that?
- 1:06:36Speaker 4: It was bad?
- 1:06:38Speaker 8: And it was.
- 1:06:42Speaker 4: Bad. It was bad.
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: It was bad.
- 1:06:45Speaker 4: Remember Ray Crews.
- 1:06:47Speaker 12: Yeah, and he shot his uh girlfriend who was pregnant
- 1:06:54Speaker 12: and he had the baby and they was and I
- 1:06:56Speaker 12: was like, yeah, you know it was raised.
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: Jesus, Damn, Damn's right. Dad might have been a little
- 1:07:10Speaker 1: too far.
- 1:07:12Speaker 8: Joke, did the room laugh.
- 1:07:15Speaker 12: Killed a rehearsal and Chris was like, uh, you know,
- 1:07:19Speaker 12: I ain't gonna do that joke.
- 1:07:23Speaker 4: And you should. He's like, damn joke. You know I
- 1:07:27Speaker 4: ain't gonna do it. And I was like, and you shouldn't.
- 1:07:31Speaker 11: Now you got the new movie undercard, right, yeah, and
- 1:07:34Speaker 11: it's a it's a it's a drama. You know, you've
- 1:07:37Speaker 11: been making people laugh your whole career. What made you
- 1:07:39Speaker 11: say let me stop joking and give you some pain.
- 1:07:42Speaker 11: Let me step into this pain real quick.
- 1:07:44Speaker 4: You know.
- 1:07:44Speaker 12: I was not looking for the role at all. But
- 1:07:48Speaker 12: the director uh and co writer to Mika Miller. She
- 1:07:52Speaker 12: came to me and she was like, look, I got
- 1:07:54Speaker 12: this project. I want y'all to well. I want you
- 1:07:56Speaker 12: to check it out.
- 1:07:57Speaker 4: I want you to do this role.
- 1:07:59Speaker 12: And I was I read the script. I was like,
- 1:08:02Speaker 12: it's a drama and I was like, so it was good.
- 1:08:06Speaker 12: And I just called out, said so what Queen Lytiefa
- 1:08:09Speaker 12: said no, and she's like, no, I really want you
- 1:08:24Speaker 12: to play this part. So I didn't believe it at first,
- 1:08:29Speaker 12: like can I pull this off?
- 1:08:32Speaker 4: And yeah?
- 1:08:33Speaker 12: She just talked me through it and how she wanted
- 1:08:35Speaker 12: to shoot it and uh and cast that she you know,
- 1:08:40Speaker 12: was gonna build around me, and I felt like she
- 1:08:43Speaker 12: made me believe.
- 1:08:44Speaker 4: I could do. I'm the worst at audition.
- 1:08:49Speaker 12: I can't really, yeah, I can't. Like my my agent
- 1:08:52Speaker 12: I was like, hey, they want you to for this part.
- 1:08:54Speaker 12: I was like, okay, they say so the audition. I
- 1:08:56Speaker 12: was like, oh no, it's a past man.
- 1:08:58Speaker 6: What what what about auditions.
- 1:08:59Speaker 4: That you I suck at auditions.
- 1:09:02Speaker 12: I have actually been in a situation casting people and
- 1:09:07Speaker 12: and you know, hold the strip in auditioning and they've
- 1:09:10Speaker 12: they've actually taken the pages out of my hand and
- 1:09:13Speaker 12: say thank you really really yeah. Well, I'm like like, now,
- 1:09:18Speaker 12: what was that that?
- 1:09:19Speaker 19: That's recent?
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: That's like audition is not for me?
- 1:09:26Speaker 6: Is the memorizing lines of getting nervous in front of
- 1:09:28Speaker 6: the people. Is I'm like, no.
- 1:09:30Speaker 4: I just I'm just horrible at it.
- 1:09:32Speaker 12: But if you give me the part, it's a real job.
- 1:09:36Speaker 12: I gotta I'm gonna show up.
- 1:09:37Speaker 4: I'm gonna bring it because I'm like, you know, I gotta,
- 1:09:41Speaker 4: I gotta deliver. But if it's like I'm not good
- 1:09:45Speaker 4: at trying out.
- 1:09:49Speaker 8: Because I feel like that's kind of the same thing
- 1:09:51Speaker 8: a little bit.
- 1:09:53Speaker 4: No, not really because yeah, I don't know. I mean
- 1:09:57Speaker 4: I get a little butterflies before I go out. But
- 1:09:59Speaker 4: that's good. That's that's good. Yeah, yeah, it made something. Yeah,
- 1:10:02Speaker 4: but I don't know. You give me a script and
- 1:10:05Speaker 4: I got audition.
- 1:10:06Speaker 13: M in this movie under car where you fighting the
- 1:10:09Speaker 13: natural urges to be funny or was it?
- 1:10:12Speaker 4: Uh yeah, a little bit.
- 1:10:14Speaker 12: I mean there was like some moments where I was like,
- 1:10:17Speaker 12: oh man, this would be real funny if I said
- 1:10:19Speaker 12: this right now. Like there's a scene of beach scene
- 1:10:22Speaker 12: where the little girl she runs out, you know, to
- 1:10:25Speaker 12: the to the to the water, and I was like, hey,
- 1:10:28Speaker 12: you know, it's like make away and I won't.
- 1:10:31Speaker 4: Say, you know, I can't swim like you.
- 1:10:34Speaker 12: Want to, you know, but but noah, And also you
- 1:10:39Speaker 12: know it's really you know, on tight budget and yeah
- 1:10:43Speaker 12: type you know, on time.
- 1:10:44Speaker 4: So it was like there was no.
- 1:10:46Speaker 6: Room to you.
- 1:10:50Speaker 15: Was there anything that he took from this character and
- 1:10:52Speaker 15: like portraying this character that you're taking back to the stage, Betie,
- 1:10:54Speaker 15: even though it was a drama.
- 1:10:56Speaker 4: Oh that's a good question. Yeah, I think it's it's
- 1:11:00Speaker 4: it's her where you have to like, uh, you like
- 1:11:06Speaker 4: forgive yourself.
- 1:11:07Speaker 12: You know, her character, she had to get to a
- 1:11:09Speaker 12: point to where she had to really like forgive herself
- 1:11:14Speaker 12: and and and to be accountable.
- 1:11:17Speaker 4: You know.
- 1:11:18Speaker 12: And so there's this's so there's moments on on stage
- 1:11:23Speaker 12: with my comedy where you know, I find ways to
- 1:11:28Speaker 12: to use that.
- 1:11:28Speaker 15: I think we're you forgiving yourself about for right now,
- 1:11:32Speaker 15: like currently on stage, Like what what what are those thoughts?
- 1:11:37Speaker 4: I don't. I think it's more about.
- 1:11:42Speaker 12: You know, like like you want to do better or
- 1:11:46Speaker 12: or you know, be a better person, you know, a
- 1:11:49Speaker 12: better wife, better mother.
- 1:11:54Speaker 4: That too.
- 1:11:54Speaker 12: Yeah, absolutely, yeah that I can't believe. I can't even
- 1:11:57Speaker 12: believe I said that.
- 1:11:59Speaker 4: Repeat that. But yeah, it's just it's just those those moments.
- 1:12:03Speaker 12: But hey, that's why we keep going though, because there's
- 1:12:06Speaker 12: always opportunity to do.
- 1:12:08Speaker 4: Better the next day or the next with the next minute.
- 1:12:11Speaker 11: I would ask you about identity too, right, because you
- 1:12:13Speaker 11: know you talk about we were talking about what people
- 1:12:15Speaker 11: think and what people feel. Even when I look at
- 1:12:17Speaker 11: the characters Cheryl and the undercard. Did she have to
- 1:12:20Speaker 11: be called a butcher? He says? A butcher, retired boxing
- 1:12:23Speaker 11: champion and recovering alcoholics. Couldn't it just be retired boxing
- 1:12:26Speaker 11: champion and recovering.
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: Alcoholic plays a jack butch, Jack Jack butch.
- 1:12:40Speaker 12: Come on, I mean, that doesn't bother me.
- 1:12:48Speaker 4: I guess that doesn't bother me. Her character, you know,
- 1:12:52Speaker 4: she was she was a former boxer.
- 1:12:54Speaker 12: So I guess it's the you know, if that's how
- 1:12:58Speaker 12: the writer saw character, I'm like, okay, so yeah, I'm here.
- 1:13:03Speaker 4: She was in shape. Yeah, I said to that, thank you.
- 1:13:10Speaker 15: So I have to ask you what happened to the
- 1:13:12Speaker 15: upshaws because we had Mike EPs up here and this is.
- 1:13:14Speaker 19: What he said.
- 1:13:15Speaker 21: Wanda Sykes and the other lady Regina Hicks, they just
- 1:13:19Speaker 21: couldn't see how to eye really, you know, the lady
- 1:13:22Speaker 21: Regina Hicks, they both did a great job. First of all,
- 1:13:25Speaker 21: before I go any further, they did such a great
- 1:13:29Speaker 21: job writing. We had the best writing team. I mean, man,
- 1:13:33Speaker 21: the writing team was incredible. But I think the Lady
- 1:13:36Speaker 21: Regina she had she had an agenda that she wanted
- 1:13:39Speaker 21: to push with the show, you know, and everybody didn't
- 1:13:44Speaker 21: agree with it all the time. You know, they wanted
- 1:13:46Speaker 21: the show to go this way. Show started off this way,
- 1:13:49Speaker 21: and then it starts slanting, and then it went over
- 1:13:52Speaker 21: there and then it went over there. We should have
- 1:13:54Speaker 21: just kept it right there in the middle, might have
- 1:13:56Speaker 21: did ten ten seasons. But I think it was about writing.
- 1:14:03Speaker 4: You know, I love Mike.
- 1:14:03Speaker 12: I love Mike dearly, and I think the show just
- 1:14:07Speaker 12: kind of like ran its course the kids got older.
- 1:14:11Speaker 4: We you know, Mike is the show was his idea.
- 1:14:17Speaker 12: He he came to me and was like, Hey, I
- 1:14:19Speaker 12: want to do the show about a working class family
- 1:14:21Speaker 12: in the Midwest.
- 1:14:22Speaker 4: And that's what we That's what we delivered.
- 1:14:26Speaker 12: I think the writers and the show running Regina.
- 1:14:32Speaker 4: We yeah, every it was all. It was all love.
- 1:14:35Speaker 12: But everybody's gonna have a difference of opinions and sometimes
- 1:14:39Speaker 12: you know, voices get get you know, we raise our
- 1:14:42Speaker 12: voices when you're.
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: Passionate about what you're doing.
- 1:14:44Speaker 12: So I think overall, we we all wanted to make
- 1:14:47Speaker 12: the best show possible. We just wanted to but with
- 1:14:52Speaker 12: just a difference of opinions, that's all. But I think
- 1:14:56Speaker 12: what we delivered everybody was was was happy with.
- 1:15:00Speaker 19: They live and breathed by that show. Yeah.
- 1:15:03Speaker 12: I love that show and I love everybody worked on
- 1:15:07Speaker 12: that show. I love what we did and I hated
- 1:15:11Speaker 12: to see it in but really, I mean it was.
- 1:15:13Speaker 12: I thought we did a good job and uh, and
- 1:15:16Speaker 12: I'm happy with the way, you know, we finished it.
- 1:15:19Speaker 8: So you wanted to keep it going.
- 1:15:21Speaker 4: If if we could have done another season, I would have. Yeah,
- 1:15:24Speaker 4: I would have signed up for another season.
- 1:15:27Speaker 16: Damn.
- 1:15:28Speaker 6: I don't think nobody said that.
- 1:15:35Speaker 4: Absolutely that.
- 1:15:39Speaker 12: You know, but but no, yeah, yeah, but no, I
- 1:15:43Speaker 12: think that Netflix they were a great.
- 1:15:45Speaker 4: Partner, and uh, and I think it was.
- 1:15:48Speaker 12: And we knew, we knew going into that last season
- 1:15:50Speaker 12: that was the last season, so we got to we
- 1:15:52Speaker 12: got to end it the way we wanted to end it.
- 1:15:55Speaker 8: How do you make a special special material wise?
- 1:15:59Speaker 4: Push it, push, push the limits, don't don't go up
- 1:16:01Speaker 4: and just do it.
- 1:16:02Speaker 12: Chris Rock always told me that from the jump, like
- 1:16:05Speaker 12: from my first special, which was a half hour, He's like,
- 1:16:08Speaker 12: don't go up there and do a set that make
- 1:16:10Speaker 12: it special. So you got to push yourself, polish it,
- 1:16:14Speaker 12: you know, just go go go to a place where
- 1:16:19Speaker 12: you know.
- 1:16:20Speaker 4: Challenge yourself. Go go go to areas where.
- 1:16:23Speaker 12: People are gonna be a little bit on this on
- 1:16:26Speaker 12: their seats or or like, oh damn, she said that.
- 1:16:29Speaker 4: I've been wanting to say that, you know, so.
- 1:16:31Speaker 11: Yeah, that's I don't think people realize how close you
- 1:16:34Speaker 11: and Chris A because I remember that night of the
- 1:16:37Speaker 11: Oscars you were hosting, and I remember you saying you
- 1:16:38Speaker 11: were physically sick, and everybody's like, why she physically sitting
- 1:16:41Speaker 11: And I'm like.
- 1:16:41Speaker 8: But y'all don't realize how close one then, yeah, Chris
- 1:16:44Speaker 8: right right?
- 1:16:45Speaker 4: Ye, people, people don't.
- 1:16:48Speaker 12: I caught a lot of flat from that, like because
- 1:16:50Speaker 12: I said, you know about how I felt, but I'm like,
- 1:16:55Speaker 12: y'all got realized. I was working that night, Yeah, and
- 1:17:01Speaker 12: I watched my co worker get popped, you know, at work.
- 1:17:07Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. So it's it's, yeah, you're
- 1:17:11Speaker 4: not that's not.
- 1:17:11Speaker 12: Supposed to happen, and uh so yeah, so I I
- 1:17:15Speaker 12: really I was upset, like physically upset by that. And
- 1:17:19Speaker 12: then and then it just even sicking me more watching
- 1:17:22Speaker 12: everybody just sit out there and you know, and and
- 1:17:27Speaker 12: not react, and then to give that man an award afterwards,
- 1:17:32Speaker 12: I was like, I'm done with y'all.
- 1:17:34Speaker 4: Really what I was like, done with all this?
- 1:17:37Speaker 15: I know, Will Smith retout to apologize to you too
- 1:17:39Speaker 15: for overshadowing that night?
- 1:17:41Speaker 12: Yeah, he did, he called, He called, but you know what.
- 1:17:44Speaker 12: I was actually physically sick. I had a nasty like
- 1:17:48Speaker 12: sign of effect, so I didn't even pick up. But
- 1:17:50Speaker 12: he left a message and yeah, have.
- 1:17:52Speaker 19: You ever had antive conversation after.
- 1:17:57Speaker 4: You know what? I was like, I received it, I accepted,
- 1:18:01Speaker 4: I'm good. Yeah.
- 1:18:02Speaker 11: What does your mama say about seeing the black people
- 1:18:05Speaker 11: act up in front.
- 1:18:05Speaker 4: Of exactly exactly Lord Jesus.
- 1:18:12Speaker 13: Why why why why they do that?
- 1:18:16Speaker 4: Wander?
- 1:18:16Speaker 12: I was like, I know, Ma, I know all the
- 1:18:19Speaker 12: white people just looking at them.
- 1:18:24Speaker 4: They ain't never gonna give us nothing else.
- 1:18:29Speaker 15: Did you see what those paper reports were circulating that
- 1:18:32Speaker 15: Will Smith and Chris Chris Rock were supposed to sit
- 1:18:34Speaker 15: down together and do like one one.
- 1:18:36Speaker 19: It was fake though. It was fake, and I cleared
- 1:18:38Speaker 19: it up and reported.
- 1:18:39Speaker 15: But I was wondering if you saw and if you
- 1:18:40Speaker 15: were like, dang know, whay hell that's gonna happen.
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah.
- 1:18:44Speaker 12: I was like nah, nah no that yeah, I knew that.
- 1:18:48Speaker 12: I mean, I know Chris, and I'm like, that's not
- 1:18:49Speaker 12: gonna happen.
- 1:18:51Speaker 8: M So you you would never really host the Oscars again.
- 1:18:55Speaker 12: I'm not gonna say I would never host again, but
- 1:18:59Speaker 12: I probably will a host again.
- 1:19:07Speaker 6: Traumatized in real life.
- 1:19:09Speaker 12: I'm not gonna say I'm traumatized in real life, but
- 1:19:11Speaker 12: it's it's it's a thankless job nobody. Yeah, and don't
- 1:19:17Speaker 12: seem like it's did a great job exactly. There's there's
- 1:19:20Speaker 12: no yeah. M hmm, there's there's no uh yeah.
- 1:19:26Speaker 4: I mean it would have to be something like maybe
- 1:19:28Speaker 4: you know what, maybe if.
- 1:19:29Speaker 12: If somebody uh you know did uh uh you know
- 1:19:34Speaker 12: uptown Saturday Night did a remake and that's you know,
- 1:19:38Speaker 12: and that's up.
- 1:19:38Speaker 13: Maybe that makes it when it's all said and done.
- 1:19:44Speaker 8: What do you want one of the Sikes to mean
- 1:19:45Speaker 8: to to comedy?
- 1:19:47Speaker 12: Mm hmm, I want one of the Sikes to mean
- 1:19:54Speaker 12: uh that you know, she she was a voice for
- 1:20:00Speaker 12: uh for those who didn't have a voice. That she
- 1:20:04Speaker 12: was you know, common sense and she gave it her all. Yeah,
- 1:20:09Speaker 12: and funny that her funny.
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: Well, definitely check out Undercard is out right now.
- 1:20:16Speaker 8: We appreciate you.
- 1:20:17Speaker 4: Yeah, it'll be on what's that video on demand?
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: Definitely check out.
- 1:20:27Speaker 4: I know my flashlight is always.
- 1:20:37Speaker 12: I didn't need touch nothing. My kids always taking my phone.
- 1:20:43Speaker 12: The flash light is all.
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: It's more the sex, it's the breakfast club, good morning,
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: Good morning everybody.
- 1:20:52Speaker 4: It's d j V.
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: Just hilarious. Charlamagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemane.
- 1:20:58Speaker 1: You got a positive note.
- 1:20:59Speaker 11: The positive note, it's simply this. It comes from Grand Brown.
- 1:21:02Speaker 11: Grand Brown said life is about choices. Some we regret,
- 1:21:06Speaker 11: some we're proud of. Some will haunt us forever. But
- 1:21:09Speaker 11: the message is we are what we chose to be.
- 1:21:13Speaker 11: Have a great day, Breakfast Club.
- 1:21:15Speaker 8: Bitches, you don't finish or y'all done.