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Yoreh De’ah 241:7-242:4. Honoring Parents and Rabbis: Cursing, Hitting, Disgracing; Coverts, Non-Jewish Parents, Posek, and Opening a Yeshiva · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning, Hilkos. We're concluding bizarre Hashem.
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  Hilkos Ki bravaem resh. Mem.
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  Alef. We are on Sif.
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  Zion. Shi Tuki Paris Shatuk.
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  Mulikro at Aviv. Bashem, bashem.
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  So it's a. He's silenced if.
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  Shatuki comes from the Russian. He is silenced.
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  Shatuk from. Calling out his.
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  Father because he. Doesn't know who he is.
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  Here let's. Keep reading from the Gemara and
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  Kedushin. Aizu Shituki Kol.
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  Shamakir ET emo, the Eno Makir ET Aviv.
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  Ahmana, AL. Aslan, you have a child who
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  doesn't know who. His father.
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  Is only knows who his mother is OK so and so he can now he.
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  He he, he was. He grew up as a child.
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  Who doesn't know who his? Father is.
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  It wasn't known when he gave birth and however.
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  So Kayev the Kayla. Emo.
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  So he is Kayev if he violates that the ister.
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  Of hitting or cursing his mother, the anal.
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  Kayev al Aviv. But he can't be.
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  Kayev on his father simply. And only because he doesn't know
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  who his. Father is really.
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  He has a father, really. He.
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  Would be Kayev. For hitting or cursing his
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  father, but he doesn't know who he is.
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  So if he points to any one person, calls him his father and
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  does it Well, we don't assume or we don't know that.
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  That's his real father. Alpha peshinidu kaimo, even if
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  they question the mother. Afterwards, right he was, he
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  was, he was established as. Being a shiituki.
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  But then they question her. Or she finally one day opens up
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  and admits the Amra Benploni Who?
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  This is his. Father.
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  He points to the father of this child and says, I know I was
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  with the. Husband.
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  But the man and this is it. So then Enonet Anash Alpiha.
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  So he's already he already. Has been established as a
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  Shizuki and he. And.
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  So at this point, we cannot follow.
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  We don't listen to her and he doesn't get punished.
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  Obviously if it is the real. Father and one curses that
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  person or has that person. He's obviously Kayev Shamayan.
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  We'll have to deal. With it but.
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  We as a basin cannot do anything about it.
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  So whenever, as we're going to see.
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  Whenever there is. The Ramamiz.
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  For example, clarifies. If the only time you have.
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  The Esser of. Hitting and cursing a parent.
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  Is if you're. Higher than both parents,
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  they're they're tickets in the same class.
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  Like a hackish together. If one of them is pater, then
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  the other one is pater. Yeah, the Koloa Viva emo and
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  it's. Together.
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  But so here you re. Technically are Hayev on the
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  father, but you're you don't know who he is.
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  So therefore you are still. Hayev on the mother.
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  There's no couture, there's no heckish or alima to be put
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  there. One from the other.
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  The No Mehas Shivka Omaha Nokrit, Ino Hayev.
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  Lo Al Aviv. The lo al emo.
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  So let's say you have it. Could be a Jewish father,
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  whatever. It is, and you know who he is.
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  And the child doesn't come from a Jewish mother, it's either
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  from a shivka. Right, that's the source.
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  It's a Shivka is a goyish. Woman who converts.
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  As a slave. Like a Shivka Kanani that we're
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  talking about. Or the mother is a complete non
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  Jew and never did any form of conversion.
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  Not as a Shivka, not as. As as as as a Jew.
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  And so the son is. So it's if.
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  It's a If it's a Naukrit, Allah has the son, it's clearly not
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  Jewish. If the mother is not Jewish, the
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  son is not Jewish. We'll keep reading.
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  But OK, well. Even if the.
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  Father is Jewish. But I hear what you're saying.
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  It's a whether you have a hava hava, mean or otherwise or not,
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  or whether there could be Kiwada veim or not, I hear you.
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  OK. Anyways, so banua Shivka Shivka,
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  the son of a. Shivka.
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  So he has a. Din oven Evid Evan Evid Kanani
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  and he's 100% high of in many mitzvahs, 100% is higher than
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  all the loving and he's higher than doing all the.
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  Like Anisha Exactly at least. For the most part.
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  OK, the low al E so Enoch Hayev low.
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  Al IMO and neither one of them is not high of either.
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  It's not his father, it's not his anyways, it's not
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  considered. His.
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  Father or mother, the halacha anyway.
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  Or at least if it's the non Jew, it's not at all.
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  But either case, the father. Is not considered your father in
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  halacha. Such As for Yerusha for.
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  For for Cuba the aim for Akka for Klala me.
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  Shahita Harassa Shalobi Kadusha. Alphabi, Shalita, Tobi Kadusha.
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  Now he also points out what happens if the mother, let's
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  say. Starts out.
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  As a non. Jew while she's.
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  Right, she gets pregnant as a non Jew and then.
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  That's Shiloh Bikdusha. And then she converts and she is
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  now in Bikdusha, she's a convert.
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  And then she gives birth after she converts.
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  So that person also. Has is also.
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  Putter from both and. These are all technical Turing
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  on the right footed, the simple definition or.
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  Exact. Talaqa framework of Qibodava aim
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  on a Derisa level. We're going to see that there
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  still can be. There are still.
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  Some khyubim we will. Let's keep reading.
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  Tet. Let's just go to Tet here.
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  A convert. The son is a convert and both
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  parents are non Jewish. Asur la Khalil Aviva goy
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  ulhakoto it's usur for a gear. For a convert.
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  Garcetic to curse? His parents or to hit them
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  right, either parents, they're both non Jews, right?
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  The parents are regular non Jews.
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  And this this child on his own decided to convert.
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  It's still usur. For him to do it to his parents
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  who are non Jewish but. Lawyer was a when it's usur.
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  To disgrace them, insult them Shiloh yomeru so that nobody
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  should say Banu mikidusha Kamura Mikidusha.
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  Kala. I mean, there's also like Derek
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  Heritz and other issues. But also because it's would also
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  be a Hilo Hashem that people would say look he used to be
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  from. When?
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  It comes to. Ki without the aim he used to
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  have. Respect for his.
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  Parents every. Boy has respect.
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  For his parents hopefully and and if you would have if you
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  would have stayed non Jewish, he would have had more respect.
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  Now that he became Jewish you're telling him he can do less.
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  It's not considered your parents.
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  So it's lack of cover. You know.
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  Akaras the toe. For wasting rate raising him and
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  it's a Hilo Hashem so people don't say that.
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  It's a it's a huge coal Hashem. People say, look, what's worse,
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  to be Jewish avau? Evich Anish Dakhrer in law ichus
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  and it and but in Evan who have. Is who's freed.
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  And he has no right, no Yochos, no lineage to his, not to his.
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  To his father. So when harehu Kamisha Eno
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  Aviva. Cordova, so it has.
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  No. So that's like one who has no no
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  father. There's no Hashem.
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  There's no people don't associate.
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  Like that? And there's no, there's no
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  connection to his. Father.
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  But there's no problem with Roshen.
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  Is it because he didn't choose it?
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  I think it's because he was never considered his son.
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  He was always considered a slave and he was never.
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  So there's no Yeah, he was never considered a son.
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  He was always considered a slave in the eyes of the people, I
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  mean in the eyes of, you know, society.
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  In his own eyes, the. Way he was treated probably as
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  he was probably treated as a. Slave and not but it depends.
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  But that's right, we're talking about a father, let's say.
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  Who has a Shifka? Or and has a child.
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  A random slave, of course, is an is a nobody.
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  There's no connection. A slave to a man, to an owner.
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  That's what we're talking about. When he's.
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  So then enlo Yukos and he's not 5 cubit out there, right?
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  Certainly before. But.
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  Even though he's your biological parent, there's no there's no
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  Hilch's cube without the aim. Maybe there'll be some for
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  Karasetov. Depends how he was.
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  Raised. But but a random owner who buys
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  a slave? That's not what we're talking
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  about for sure. There's no cube without the aim.
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  OK. By a convert the rhombum does
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  right, though the nohegebo makes.
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  Us covered because. Again at the.
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  Obvious it comes. Even though there's no insert
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  there. Right, so you.
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  Get you know, lashes or misa by koala and haka from a from a
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  convert to his non Jewish parents.
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  But still the rhombum writes for noidboom makes.
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  US covered. And we also we touched upon it's
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  similar. Idea to adoptive.
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  Parents where you have to have tremendous.
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  Akara Satov especially. From adopted parents.
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  Who raised you well? And right, But in general we see
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  Hazal never. Gave us clear.
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  Definition or. Halacha by adopted.
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  Parents. But as we mentioned, you know
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  before certain on some level of the rice of the rabana, there's
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  certainly something there that must be kept.
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  The question mark is what's what's the best?
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  Like fravelis Shiva, what's best practices because it's.
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  Complicated. It's community, family,
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  mignanium and all that. Kind of.
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  Stuff. But OK, let's start with that
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  was cubed. Bravo, Vitalmid.
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  Khakham, Simon. Reshmem.
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  Beth Shulalaris with name Harav Vidinshan Harav Shamaka.
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  Al Kovodo, OK. Interesting, we just had.
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  Parshas. Shmini and we're learning about
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  this, Ananda Venavilos, one of the.
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  A slew of history, whether it's previous issues or.
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  What happened that they died? With the Zara so.
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  One of the explanations is the Remora halakha Mifni Rabo.
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  Moshe was there, Aran was there. They didn't take any aids and
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  they they made a new halakha. They did something and they're
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  based on Migdash, or the Mishkan rather.
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  Kodesh Kardashian. Whatever it was and fine.
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  OK, Olive, Hayev, Adam the Kavod, Rabov, Vieira.
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  So some person is Hayev in the Kavod and the Era.
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  Of his rabbi Yatir NI Bishal. Aviv even more than his.
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  Father. So obviously it has to be Super
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  Rabbi who? Who basically taught him?
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  We'll probably get to this more later, but taught him much or
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  most? Of his.
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  Learning and right, not just the Rebbe for a year and later, OK.
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  So anyway, so. A Rebbe brings you to Hayaola
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  Mahaba as opposed to a parent if the parent doesn't also.
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  Teach you, Tara. He only brings you into Hayola
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  Mahaza and a parent could be both.
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  Haggah, Avi. Shahu rabo muvhak now.
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  A child who his father is also. His rebbi muvak so then correo
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  so the dabro so when he calls him, when he speaks to him.
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  She referred to. Him as.
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  Rebbi Now you have a choice to call your father ABBA or Rebbi,
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  which is better So if. It's your rebbi Muvak.
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  OK, so then I can, but so then according to the Rama it is.
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  Better to choose Rebbi. It's a higher.
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  Level. Of of coven.
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  Right, it's more. Prestigious of Alberabo.
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  She ain't no Muvak but most of our rebellion.
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  It's if his father is. Not as Rebbe Muvak, I I meant
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  just to compare it to. Most.
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  Of our ebbeam or not Rebbe muvaks.
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  But anyways even your father is not your Ebbe muvak.
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  Then how you define that question mark?
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  Korioso ABBA. You call him ABBA.
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  That's that's preferable. Yeah.
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  So I don't know the generally the minnon is how you defined
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  Ravi and Mufak. Especially for a.
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  Parent. Who pays for hater?
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  And in some places, it's tremendous tuition every year.
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  But anyways. And then he still teaches.
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  Them a lot. But generally as far as I.
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  Know most. People or everyone?
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  Goes by. Calling him ABBA or Dad, father,
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  whatever it is. And that's the General Minog.
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  And it could be. You know what's preferable?
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  To the father, and the father could be Mocho and part of his
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  covert. Of the of the Rabo.
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  But anyway, whatever is better. For, for the, for.
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  The father and for the relationship is OK, let's go on.
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  Baze. Kole, Kole.
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  Ko rabo kole. Kalashrina anyone who argues.
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  They sense. Whatever from his.
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  Rebbe, he's like. Being arguing on his Anashkina,
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  Nikola OSA, Mariva, Imrab, whoever.
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  Fights. With his rebbe Kaosa Imashkina,
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  it's just like he's fighting with the Ashkina Mikhola Mitra M
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  Allah. Kilo Mitra.
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  M Alashkina disagrees, argues this.
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  They sense. OK, fine Mitraim.
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  So one who insults or is Mazalza in is Rebbe or he complaints to
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  him rather. That's the more little
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  translation. You're complaining, you know.
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  Why did you do? This why did you?
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  Do that and because of you I'm suffering with.
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  This so that's. Like you're complaining with the
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  with the Shrina, the Koh Ha Mehar, Akhar Rabo, Kamahar,
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  Akhar, Hashrina and anyone who is thinking.
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  Bad thoughts about his Rebbe. Is like thinking bad.
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  Thoughts about the? Shrinath no like he's a lazy bum
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  or that's one negative. Thoughts.
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  That's or. He's doing things out of Gaeva
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  and this and that. Azu Kolek al Rabbo.
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  So what's an example of? Kolek al Rabbo, What is this?
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  Koshikovayalo midrash Vyoshi Vidorish O mala made.
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  Shiloh, Irshut, Rabbo. OK.
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  So if a. If a Talmud opens up a new
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  Kohler, a new yeshiva? And he does it without.
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  Permission. So it's again it's it's it's a
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  mahogas if this is referring. To any Ishiva.
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  Or only if it's a Makkam. Of Hora.
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  They're teaching halakha and again, yeah, you're teaching how
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  to. Give Sakala.
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  Many kolos nowadays, even when they learn halakha, they're not
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  necessarily teaching you how to do.
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  Sakalakha, but that's. Another story, but.
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  That's if you're teaching to give.
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  Halacha and basin come out whatever the basin.
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  So that's one definition. Another one could be just
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  learning Gemara and because that in itself can be considered like
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  taking away. Leadership or serara?
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  From one you just, you know, you open up your new.
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  Place across the. Street or even not here the the
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  Rabo Qayam and if you're Rebbe. Is still.
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  Oh, it's still alive. That's when it's a problem.
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  Alpha Pisha Hooba Medina Akheres, even if it's in a
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  different country, but I'm going to see what's called chicane
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  across the street, but it's still even if you are somewhere
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  else, unless of course you have permission.
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  The shock points out again, it's even a problem to check knives
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  to be a bodek of knives. That was it's also considered a
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  big position to right because you kind of have the right.
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  To Apostle. The the local shock team OK and
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  so we we weren't before we have Kabbalah nowadays and you get.
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  Ricious. But.
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  OK, Haga abal. Motorola Lokalabe.
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  Is absaq O hara in Yeshua rioto alhhatlid varab?
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  Shahdin e-mail but. You are allowed to.
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  Discuss with him or disagree with him in Upsakalaka.
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  If you're able to. Give you know.
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  Proper proof all. Right, if you have a.
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  To support yourself here, let's keep.
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  Reading Let's. Close with Dalid.
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  Let's read Dalid. What is this?
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  Just keeps going. OK, let's start it.
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  Asul, Adel. Maharliff Neraba.
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  The Olam. A person can never be more
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  halacha in front of his. Rabble and a.
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  Person comes to you, asks you Shiloh, what's going to be the
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  halacha complication in this situation?
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  And that's that's. That's us, Sir.
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  I'm a call. I'm more of a fan of Hayev Misa
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  and if you do it in front of him, you're Hayev Misa.
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  Let's keep reading the Afilu Nitiwat Rashut LO Mahani talk.
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  Shalosh Parsaat. Imrul Rabbo Muvak.
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  If it's your. Main rabbi and right you got
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  most of your Torah learning from him and then even within 3.
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  Parts to. Out there are my rights.
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  Even if you have permission, you're not allowed to.
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  But that's the shock, points out.
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  That's the mahokat it brings on Rashoni and we say.
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  It's OK. I guess it depends if you.
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  If you have Rashut. Stomach's OK, according to the.
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  Shock. OK, the.
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  Emu rahok mirabo shneem azamil but.
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  If you're 12 meal away which is 3 parcel Vishalo.
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  Adam, I don't know. We usually.
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  Refer to that as. Three hours, No 3 * 72, Like 3
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  1/2 hours of travelling time. That's usually what.
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  We consider that. I don't know Vishal Allah Adam
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  Devar. Halakha.
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  Bedera, Mikre. Yahoo.
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  Lahashi. Now if you.
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  He writes. But if you are.
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  Far farther than than 12 mil and someone asks.
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  You What's the halakha you know? What would be the halakha in
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  such and such? A case.
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  Then you're allowed to give it to him even for even for this
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  person. Because you're 12.
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  Meal away and he's and it's. He's not.
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  Always asking you in this place, in this time you're not, you're
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  not liking, you're based in. It's just.
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  You know you're Rev is 3 minutes to three, 3 1/2 hours away and
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  you're here and I have a halach. Shaila.
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  So then you're allowed to ask him.
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  And then nowadays it's phone calls, I don't know, telephones,
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  everyone's nearby Yahoo. So then Yahoo Lahashiv Aval.
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  The kuboa aximo ulhura a lay. Shape ulhurot but.
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  Set up shopper and based in and this is your mukum for doing for
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  forgiving. Psalaka afiluhuba sofa olam asul
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  ulhurot achiyamut rabo O achi. Iten lo.
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  Rashid So then. Even it's on the other side of
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  the planet, which nowadays is actually quite shy.
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  So then it's. Usser unless.
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  He dies or you get. Permission, right?
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  Which is generally what's what Samik has.
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  OK, Haga. The close of.
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  Baraba Muvak, now everything we send now that you need all this
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  permission and to be so. Far away.
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  That's Baraba Muvak about. The Talmid.
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  Khaber but. But the normal?
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  Probably most. Cases of rebi.
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  Talmud relationship. Afilu talk shlosha parse out
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  although. OK.
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  What's it called? We'll review this point.
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  Later. But Tommy hover.
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  Afilu talk shlosha. Parse out even within a three.
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  Parse out Shari. Then it's mutter.
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  To give up sock. The yesh omim The coma comisni
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  rabble mamesh. Asar but if.
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  It's right in front of your Rav, then it's us, even if he's not
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  your Rebbe. Moufak, which is.
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  Right, most. Of our relationships to the the
• 21:29
  rob of the Shoal you're rob that you ask sheilas from the world
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  that you go to ashir but feel a little.
• 21:34
  Bit fond of Mamish, even if you're not Mamish right in front
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  of them. OK, we'll stop.
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  We'll continue tomorrow.