Latest / Untraditionally Lala / The One With Heather McDonald
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hello, gold, just welcome back and give them all a podcast.
- 0:08Speaker 1: As you know, I never in all my lives have guests,
- 0:11Speaker 1: but of course I had to have Heather McDonald's on
- 0:16Speaker 1: one of my one of my nearest and dearest friends.
- 0:19Speaker 2: And no one makes me laugh harder than you do.
- 0:22Speaker 3: Well, thank you.
- 0:22Speaker 4: I'm very thrilled to be here, so professional love you
- 0:26Speaker 4: all excited.
- 0:28Speaker 2: You came to Ocean's birthday party.
- 0:30Speaker 3: Of course I did. It's my third time coming.
- 0:33Speaker 4: I found all three birthday parties, so I'm like a
- 0:36Speaker 4: og vip. We had the o G merch, I had
- 0:41Speaker 4: the Ocean give them Ocean from the first party, which
- 0:44Speaker 4: was an ocean theme mermaid yep theme.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to be at all of them, and
- 0:48Speaker 1: now you're gonna have to add another one.
- 0:50Speaker 3: Which I'm totally excited.
- 0:51Speaker 5: I love.
- 0:52Speaker 3: I love a kid party.
- 0:54Speaker 4: It was so cute and it was so fun good
- 0:57Speaker 4: and I love love the new house and everything.
- 0:59Speaker 2: I feel like there's it was just good energy.
- 1:02Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very happy. I'm excited to bring a new
- 1:05Speaker 1: baby home to that space. I love watching all my
- 1:08Speaker 1: reality TV shows in that space, feeling.
- 1:12Speaker 3: Like a queen.
- 1:12Speaker 4: Have you thought about, like how you're going to do
- 1:15Speaker 4: like I. Okay, you know when you like like something
- 1:18Speaker 4: that the algorithm knows what you love.
- 1:20Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:21Speaker 4: So one of the things I love is like soldiers
- 1:24Speaker 4: surprising their kids and wives coming home and their moms.
- 1:27Speaker 4: The other one is toddler meets the new baby for
- 1:31Speaker 4: the first time videos.
- 1:32Speaker 3: Have you seen those?
- 1:34Speaker 4: No, Oh my god, melt my heart where they're like
- 1:39Speaker 4: the little kid comes in and baby like, oh yeah, wait,
- 1:43Speaker 4: well you definitely have to do that. I do a
- 1:46Speaker 4: lot of stuff, so I'll start sending even that.
- 1:48Speaker 2: Okay, start sending me those.
- 1:50Speaker 1: And because my I haven't been on Instagram, as I
- 1:54Speaker 1: was just telling you, Like I this pregnancy is different
- 1:58Speaker 1: in the sense like I have energy. I'm having to
- 2:00Speaker 1: go out and still work and do all those things,
- 2:02Speaker 1: which is very different from when I was pregnant with Ocean.
- 2:05Speaker 1: But I'm I'm very sensitive, so I don't I don't
- 2:08Speaker 1: get emotionally sensitive, and I don't want to see what
- 2:12Speaker 1: people are saying about me, So I have steered clear
- 2:16Speaker 1: of the Internet. I get on to Instagram to post
- 2:20Speaker 1: what I need to post, and then I kind of
- 2:22Speaker 1: like delete the app, and then if I need to
- 2:24Speaker 1: post something again, I redownload the.
- 2:26Speaker 2: App, post it, and then delete it again. So I
- 2:29Speaker 2: don't go in.
- 2:30Speaker 1: You know, because you become robotic just going in and
- 2:33Speaker 1: you're scrolling and you don't even know how it happened.
- 2:36Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you were at a.
- 2:37Speaker 4: Level where if you were just on Instagram, you know,
- 2:40Speaker 4: you could see an article or you follow a blog
- 2:42Speaker 4: that might say something about you. There were times like
- 2:46Speaker 4: there were these hate groups that I'd had to actually
- 2:48Speaker 4: go to read the hate about me, and I feel
- 2:52Speaker 4: like you sober, I'm March twenty third, No, December twenty
- 2:56Speaker 4: third was the last time I looked.
- 2:57Speaker 3: Yeah, on the hate groups, good about myself. But it
- 3:01Speaker 3: was so addictive.
- 3:03Speaker 1: And what do you mean hate groups like like dedicated
- 3:08Speaker 1: hate groups.
- 3:09Speaker 6: Oh on like Reddit, not Instagram. There's not like page
- 3:12Speaker 6: to Facebook, geez Louise, Okay, keep going.
- 3:15Speaker 3: There's some stuff like that.
- 3:17Speaker 4: And I never experienced it until the last six months,
- 3:21Speaker 4: and so I I was just like shocked to like
- 3:26Speaker 4: read it, and like I kind of couldn't get enough.
- 3:28Speaker 4: Like I'd be out and then I'd come home and
- 3:30Speaker 4: it'd be like I was like, you know, getting up
- 3:33Speaker 4: a pipe together something.
- 3:34Speaker 3: I just couldn't stop reading it.
- 3:37Speaker 4: And then when I finally I was like, I'm I
- 3:39Speaker 4: don't ever want to see this again. I don't want
- 3:41Speaker 4: anyone sending anything from it again. I'm never looking at
- 3:43Speaker 4: it again. I literally treat it like like a you know,
- 3:48Speaker 4: a step, or like I'm going to get a chip.
- 3:50Speaker 4: And I almost feel like the feeling of it is
- 3:54Speaker 4: and I've never experienced, so I don't know. But someone
- 3:56Speaker 4: just said, is this this Maybe this is what it's
- 3:59Speaker 4: like when some it's like a cutter or something.
- 4:01Speaker 3: I don't know, were.
- 4:02Speaker 2: They like an emotional cut you want.
- 4:04Speaker 4: To feel something, they want to see it, and it's
- 4:06Speaker 4: like yeah, and so I think it's great. There's no
- 4:09Speaker 4: reason why you need to see it. I did see
- 4:12Speaker 4: one comment about you, and it was tell Lala, ask
- 4:15Speaker 4: Lala why her skin looks so beautiful pregnant?
- 4:20Speaker 3: Well, no, but in the show you're not pregnant yet.
- 4:22Speaker 2: Oh in the show.
- 4:23Speaker 4: In the show you look I mean, you look beautiful
- 4:26Speaker 4: in person, but in the show you your makeup and
- 4:28Speaker 4: skin and stuff does look particularly good. In these last
- 4:31Speaker 4: few episodes.
- 4:32Speaker 5: You guys really ash you did.
- 4:34Speaker 6: I did notice versus the seasons before, you were way
- 4:37Speaker 6: lighter on the makeup or no makeup at all.
- 4:39Speaker 3: Oh yeah, maybe you're not way more simple.
- 4:42Speaker 2: That was the whole thing.
- 4:43Speaker 4: I feel like they're not doing all like the beat
- 4:45Speaker 4: faces and stuff.
- 4:47Speaker 2: I'm not well this season. I'm not like this season.
- 4:50Speaker 2: I went into it.
- 4:51Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to do my clippings
- 4:53Speaker 1: for every scene. I don't want to bleach my hair.
- 4:56Speaker 1: I'm done with the lashes. I'm done with it all.
- 4:59Speaker 1: I want dewey skin, some mascara. It's in a highlighter.
- 5:02Speaker 3: It's working. All your looks have been great.
- 5:04Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 5:05Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Yeah, I think when you I think
- 5:08Speaker 1: it's one thing to like. We were talking about this earlier,
- 5:11Speaker 1: Like I have my my DM setup where only check
- 5:15Speaker 1: marks can get in, but there's a few that sometimes
- 5:18Speaker 1: slip in, and those I'm like, if I if I
- 5:20Speaker 1: happen to click on those and they're not very nice.
- 5:23Speaker 2: I can sit there and.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Be like, I really don't give a fuck about what
- 5:25Speaker 1: you say, right, But when you start seeing that a
- 5:28Speaker 1: page has posted about you and opened the public forum
- 5:32Speaker 1: for people to slide into the chat, it immediately makes
- 5:35Speaker 1: me feel exposed and vulnerable and I have to run away.
- 5:38Speaker 3: Yeah, it's bad. It's you know, yeah, it's hard.
- 5:41Speaker 6: Wait, Heather, can I ask really quick with those pages,
- 5:44Speaker 6: just because I'm curious when you would read you said
- 5:47Speaker 6: it like almost like an addiction. When you would read
- 5:50Speaker 6: the comments the mean shit, would you get like some
- 5:53Speaker 6: sort of high after and then the next day get
- 5:56Speaker 6: really sad thinking about it and miserable or what was it?
- 6:00Speaker 4: Well, one of the things is that, you know, the
- 6:03Speaker 4: things would be so ridiculous and wrong and wrong information
- 6:07Speaker 4: and wrong things about me that I would inadvertently like
- 6:11Speaker 4: correct it.
- 6:12Speaker 3: Like on my show the next day.
- 6:14Speaker 4: Yeah, and then they love that, you know, like why
- 6:18Speaker 4: am I even addressing this stupid thing that's not true?
- 6:21Speaker 4: And I'd be like, oh, some of you guys seem
- 6:23Speaker 4: to think that, and that's not the case. The case
- 6:25Speaker 4: is I happened to be there for another event and
- 6:27Speaker 4: done it because they'd be like that thirsty bit showed
- 6:29Speaker 4: up to whatever.
- 6:31Speaker 3: I was like, no, I.
- 6:32Speaker 4: Was invited for weeks, but prior it was like why
- 6:34Speaker 4: am I explaining my fucking life?
- 6:36Speaker 5: Right?
- 6:36Speaker 4: And then and then what was bad is when my
- 6:40Speaker 4: teenage son found it and I was like literally like,
- 6:45Speaker 4: don't read it. You're gonna get like indoctorated, like you're
- 6:47Speaker 4: gonna start and then and then at one point we
- 6:52Speaker 4: got to the place where we found it funny because
- 6:55Speaker 4: we literally every Instagram post they'd pick apart my out
- 7:01Speaker 4: they'd take the post and think about my auff or whatever.
- 7:03Speaker 3: So I had this like really fun yellow.
- 7:07Speaker 4: Trina Turk, like very nineteen sixties outfit, and I wore it,
- 7:12Speaker 4: and we celebrated my niece's birthday at NOBU in Palm Desert, Okay,
- 7:17Speaker 4: and we had this great time whatever. And then one
- 7:20Speaker 4: of the posts was imagine if this thing was your aunt.
- 7:25Speaker 1: Now.
- 7:27Speaker 4: Yesterday for Easter, I wore it to brunch at our
- 7:31Speaker 4: little club in our community there and my niece came sixteen.
- 7:34Speaker 3: It is adorable.
- 7:35Speaker 4: And I walked up and I go, imagine if this
- 7:38Speaker 4: thing was taking you to Eastern Breadth, and like we
- 7:40Speaker 4: laugh about it now.
- 7:42Speaker 3: So there's like nothing like you get to a place
- 7:44Speaker 3: where you're like, these people are losers, right, But it
- 7:48Speaker 3: was the pain and everything real, which are now.
- 7:51Speaker 2: Of course because you overexposed yourself to it.
- 7:54Speaker 1: Yeah, and so you're being like waterboarded with really mean
- 8:00Speaker 1: it's like one thing to see like one comment about
- 8:02Speaker 1: like imagine if this thing where you're am like, yeah,
- 8:04Speaker 1: I can laugh about that too. I can laugh about
- 8:06Speaker 1: one comment about my eyebrows and my hairline if I
- 8:08Speaker 1: see it five hundred times, though, I'm gonna be like,
- 8:10Speaker 1: how do I get them? Yeah?
- 8:13Speaker 4: I mean you know you're saying things physically that these
- 8:16Speaker 4: trolls go after. And I thought it with your cast
- 8:19Speaker 4: members too, and I'm like, there's nothing someone can do
- 8:24Speaker 4: about that.
- 8:25Speaker 3: No, it's not even like okay, it's not even.
- 8:27Speaker 4: Something like oh I could get a nose job or
- 8:29Speaker 4: oh I could fix my teeth. There's sometimes there's physical
- 8:32Speaker 4: stuff that's like that is just how god like there's
- 8:34Speaker 4: no fixing that.
- 8:35Speaker 3: Like it's like saying that someone's short, Okay, what do
- 8:38Speaker 3: you want me to do? Cut my legs and have
- 8:40Speaker 3: them put a pin in there?
- 8:41Speaker 4: Like, I mean there's a certain things or you're old. Yeah,
- 8:44Speaker 4: well the age thing to me like worn on the
- 8:50Speaker 4: euro is born, like take it up with my dead hairs.
- 8:52Speaker 2: Like what do you want me to do?
- 8:54Speaker 3: Like?
- 8:54Speaker 1: But as if we were all born just a certain
- 8:56Speaker 1: age forever, we're.
- 8:58Speaker 2: All going to get there.
- 8:59Speaker 1: The age thing I will never ever understand. Shut the
- 9:02Speaker 1: fuck up.
- 9:03Speaker 4: Well, then the other thing I saw that someone said
- 9:05Speaker 4: was like, why are you getting into a conversation with
- 9:10Speaker 4: someone like they're at your level when they really are
- 9:12Speaker 4: literally a troll in a basement. I mean, there's trolls
- 9:16Speaker 4: that you can go back and forth with those are
- 9:18Speaker 4: not bots. And then there's just the mean comments that
- 9:20Speaker 4: are the bots or whatever. There's a combo, but like
- 9:23Speaker 4: why are you even trying to talk to this person?
- 9:26Speaker 3: And then there's sometimes.
- 9:27Speaker 4: Fans that were a fan and for whatever reason, they
- 9:31Speaker 4: turned on you, and there's that too, and then you're like, goodbye,
- 9:34Speaker 4: find another person to enjoy. Like it's not obviously you're
- 9:37Speaker 4: not into me anymore. I'm not going to try to
- 9:39Speaker 4: convince you. I don't know what happened or where you
- 9:42Speaker 4: stopped liking me, but like it's not my problem anymore.
- 9:45Speaker 1: No, And I find that those people turn into the
- 9:47Speaker 1: people who I worry about them coming in my house,
- 9:49Speaker 1: skinning me and then wearing my.
- 9:52Speaker 4: They're obviously like they're obviously obsessed, you know, if they're
- 9:57Speaker 4: taking this time and so, yeah, you know, it is
- 10:01Speaker 4: kind of weird, but yeah, I get it.
- 10:04Speaker 1: It's such a fun job that we've all placed ourselves in.
- 10:09Speaker 2: Have you been watching vander Pumper. Wells, of course I have.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. Yeah, we had an episode. What
- 10:15Speaker 1: was it last night?
- 10:16Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 10:16Speaker 1: Yeah, how'd you feel about it? How are you feeling
- 10:18Speaker 1: about the season? Mention it all?
- 10:19Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I'm really liking it, you do, like in
- 10:23Speaker 4: many reasons?
- 10:24Speaker 5: All right.
- 10:25Speaker 4: First of all, every single person on the cast is
- 10:29Speaker 4: witty and naturally funny, and I love their personalities.
- 10:33Speaker 2: I love that.
- 10:34Speaker 4: I mean, I love that Tom Sandoval and the editors
- 10:37Speaker 4: and the way he said it's like I'm Scott Peterson
- 10:40Speaker 4: and sports being like didn't he kill his wife?
- 10:42Speaker 3: And he's like illegibly serious, Like it's so authentic. It's
- 10:48Speaker 3: so authentic. Nobody is acting on that show.
- 10:51Speaker 4: There was a time when you guys, when they were
- 10:54Speaker 4: you know, casting certain people hoping that, you know, and
- 10:57Speaker 4: it just didn't work. So the fact that like every
- 11:00Speaker 4: every single person has a history and has their sense
- 11:04Speaker 4: of humor, it's it's great. I mean, Katie and Schwartz
- 11:07Speaker 4: with Katie dating.
- 11:10Speaker 3: Having sex with the Max.
- 11:11Speaker 4: Okay, so let me remind me Max is the one
- 11:14Speaker 4: that is still wearing the Apple watch from Shina.
- 11:17Speaker 2: Yes, okay, was it an Apple watch that he got?
- 11:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:21Speaker 1: The one before him got a penguin from Shina. Max
- 11:25Speaker 1: got an apple, I.
- 11:26Speaker 3: Was a gay penguin.
- 11:29Speaker 2: I don't think he had decided yet.
- 11:30Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know there's a lot of gay pegs.
- 11:33Speaker 2: I love that. It's so many gay pains.
- 11:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:35Speaker 4: And then they get they find a great girlfriend who
- 11:37Speaker 4: got knocked up and doesn't want to raise the kid.
- 11:39Speaker 3: And then the two gay penguins literally take the egg.
- 11:41Speaker 1: We should find out about this. I wonder if he
- 11:43Speaker 1: is gay the penguin. I'll find out, okay, and then
- 11:46Speaker 1: we'll report back to you. Yeah. And then Max was
- 11:49Speaker 1: the one who dated Dana and she put his necklace
- 11:52Speaker 1: in her cat's litter box. And Dana is best friends
- 11:56Speaker 1: with Katie and Max Boyan's's best friends.
- 11:59Speaker 3: Wish Wait when did when did Sheena date Max?
- 12:02Speaker 1: Sena dated Max before season eight and they gave him
- 12:06Speaker 1: the and they had sex and she gave him the watch.
- 12:08Speaker 2: They slept together, they were he was.
- 12:11Speaker 4: Between hanging the hang the thing in seven minutes and
- 12:15Speaker 4: brock yes, okay, got it. Okay, so that is all amazing.
- 12:22Speaker 4: And the location thing, which I don't even know. Do
- 12:25Speaker 4: you have to give someone permission for that?
- 12:28Speaker 2: Yes? And that's why because I was literally.
- 12:30Speaker 4: At one point like I was going to text her
- 12:31Speaker 4: and I'm like, we're texting friends.
- 12:33Speaker 3: Do you happen to have my location?
- 12:34Speaker 1: No?
- 12:34Speaker 3: No, no, no, there's no you.
- 12:37Speaker 2: That's why when when.
- 12:40Speaker 1: Katie said something about her following locations was an invasion
- 12:45Speaker 1: of privacy.
- 12:46Speaker 2: Number one, she's not following Katie.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Number two, Max gave her permission to follow him and
- 12:51Speaker 1: any three years time, at any points ago to.
- 12:55Speaker 3: You to go in to remember.
- 12:57Speaker 4: To change it.
- 12:58Speaker 1: I shared my location, like I remember I was linking
- 13:01Speaker 1: up with Arianna to go get a coffee. In that
- 13:04Speaker 1: scene where I'm like, you should defend Sena, she shared
- 13:06Speaker 1: her location with me, so and I shared mine with
- 13:09Speaker 1: her so that we could let production.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Know where Okay, the two of us were at what
- 13:14Speaker 2: point in time?
- 13:15Speaker 4: Well, and all is also like single girlfriends, you should
- 13:18Speaker 4: do that or with your parent.
- 13:19Speaker 1: At the moment that scene was over, I clicked unshare.
- 13:22Speaker 1: Oh okay, you will not be knowing where I am.
- 13:25Speaker 1: And I think she did the same. Okay, so it's
- 13:27Speaker 1: not an invasion of privacy. You are being asked, can
- 13:30Speaker 1: so and so fallow your location?
- 13:32Speaker 2: And you agree?
- 13:33Speaker 4: So probably fifty out of the fifty six people at
- 13:35Speaker 4: one time gave it to her and then completely forgot.
- 13:38Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 13:38Speaker 1: But I think during that episode people went into their phones.
- 13:42Speaker 1: If they were alive, I would like to know what
- 13:44Speaker 1: the number is now, Yeah, just what She's sitting.
- 13:46Speaker 4: At that seat and she's like, I wanted to know
- 13:48Speaker 4: where my friends were, like location.
- 13:50Speaker 2: And then I looked again, and then again and then again.
- 13:54Speaker 2: The next morning, I'm like, okay, she should stop talking.
- 13:58Speaker 4: Yeah, So that was to me so fun. And I
- 14:00Speaker 4: love Katie and Schwartz post divorce. You do, Yes, I
- 14:05Speaker 4: think they have a nice little funny vibe going, like
- 14:08Speaker 4: would she when they're sitting at your water tasting thing? Yeah,
- 14:12Speaker 4: and he's like, I mean he did like a friend.
- 14:15Speaker 4: She's like, whatever, he's done a lot worse to me
- 14:17Speaker 4: over the airs and she's like, why do you just
- 14:19Speaker 4: start with like better clothes?
- 14:21Speaker 3: He goes, better clothes? What the fuck are you wearing?
- 14:25Speaker 3: He goes back and he goes, you're right, it's cool.
- 14:28Speaker 5: I know she.
- 14:29Speaker 1: Has best his zingers, but then he feels bad about them.
- 14:32Speaker 1: It's like when he told her season nine, you got
- 14:34Speaker 1: kind of a Karen.
- 14:36Speaker 2: And then he and then he goes and it's really sexy.
- 14:40Speaker 2: I love it.
- 14:41Speaker 4: Yeah, like he That's what I'm saying, Like, it's just
- 14:44Speaker 4: very He's so like earnest and so I think that's
- 14:48Speaker 4: really funny. Okay, I gotta talk about the side players.
- 14:52Speaker 1: Okay, side players, name them, name them, name.
- 14:56Speaker 3: Name the assistant.
- 14:58Speaker 4: And got ultimately back again and then we what was
- 15:04Speaker 4: that tragic pool party? Though?
- 15:06Speaker 3: I'm sorry? Was that were those extras? What the fuck
- 15:10Speaker 3: was that?
- 15:10Speaker 5: This was not on last night's episode. Yeah, before the
- 15:14Speaker 5: week before the pool.
- 15:16Speaker 4: I'm like, how does Tom know these people? Like I'm
- 15:20Speaker 4: literally like, it's okay, because I get it you lost
- 15:23Speaker 4: a lot of friends and you're trying to have a
- 15:24Speaker 4: pool party, but like.
- 15:25Speaker 3: Who are these people?
- 15:27Speaker 2: Let me tell you there it was.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Like a fifty year old mom and I'm one of
- 15:30Speaker 3: those longs.
- 15:30Speaker 4: I think she wasn't hollering me, like in the corner,
- 15:32Speaker 4: and I literally thought they.
- 15:34Speaker 3: Just got the street. They literally were like at Ralph's
- 15:38Speaker 3: and like, what do you was doing?
- 15:40Speaker 1: By the way, Tom Standerval could have no, No, we
- 15:43Speaker 1: don't hire extras, we not at all.
- 15:46Speaker 3: He met.
- 15:50Speaker 1: No, the three girls that were in the pool with
- 15:52Speaker 1: him came later. Yeah, the girls that came later, he
- 15:57Speaker 1: met those at the Sir Brunch, met those he did.
- 16:03Speaker 4: It's like anybody that comes by like is a super
- 16:06Speaker 4: fan and knows the whole school.
- 16:08Speaker 3: Everyone knows the whole.
- 16:08Speaker 2: No one's wand let's try this restaurant.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Yeah no, it'd be like wandering past Disneyland and be.
- 16:16Speaker 2: Like, I've never heard exactly, wonder if they do serve
- 16:19Speaker 2: good pretzels?
- 16:20Speaker 3: Yeah? Crazy?
- 16:22Speaker 4: So that pool party, but like, okay, so first only,
- 16:26Speaker 4: and then of course I got to talk about Joe.
- 16:29Speaker 3: Joe, Joe. Okay, let's just talk about Shoe.
- 16:33Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk.
- 16:34Speaker 4: You look at the reel that I sent you of
- 16:37Speaker 4: the two people imitating Schwartz and Joe.
- 16:41Speaker 2: You sent it via Instagram.
- 16:42Speaker 3: Oh so you can't go there, Okay, have to re
- 16:45Speaker 3: download the app and get on Okay, they never buy. Okay.
- 16:48Speaker 3: So there's these two they lay do in, these two.
- 16:52Speaker 4: Buddy people that I follow. They would imitate succession and everything.
- 16:56Speaker 4: They're like good communic actors.
- 16:58Speaker 7: So they do a se of Schwartz and Joe, and
- 17:03Speaker 7: Joe was just like like doing all these things and
- 17:06Speaker 7: then and then he's like ok and then she like
- 17:09Speaker 7: I'm like, what are you what is going odd?
- 17:13Speaker 3: And then she's like, oh hi, all righty.
- 17:16Speaker 4: Oh my, and then he and then she's like, oh yeah,
- 17:19Speaker 4: I mean are we dating or we're not?
- 17:21Speaker 3: And it just is very odd.
- 17:24Speaker 4: So I get why everyone's like yeah, and it is weird,
- 17:28Speaker 4: and it would be annoying if you were Christen's really
- 17:32Speaker 4: good friend. Yes, and then you acted sympathetic to the
- 17:35Speaker 4: breakup of Katie and Schwartz and then you waizled your
- 17:39Speaker 4: fucking vagina in there, and now you're on the show
- 17:42Speaker 4: with a mic pack.
- 17:43Speaker 3: But I don't blame the producers for putting a.
- 17:45Speaker 4: Mic pack on her, but you have to because she
- 17:48Speaker 4: actually is in the group, and like that's all fine,
- 17:50Speaker 4: but like, how annoying.
- 17:52Speaker 3: That Like you're like, really, bitch, you know.
- 17:55Speaker 2: I think that's the word annoying.
- 17:58Speaker 1: Yeah, I find her and I could be up in
- 18:00Speaker 1: the night, but I just look at her and their
- 18:03Speaker 1: interactions and I go, this is a human that is harmless.
- 18:06Speaker 1: She's too quirky. I mean I think she yeah, and
- 18:12Speaker 1: I think I think. I say in one of the episodes,
- 18:14Speaker 1: I always talk about how how vaginas don't just fall
- 18:18Speaker 1: on Dix, and I say, in this case, I think
- 18:20Speaker 1: of Vagina made.
- 18:21Speaker 5: Just to fall on.
- 18:23Speaker 2: It just doesn't seem like there's much thought.
- 18:26Speaker 1: It's like we just do, which can be dangerous people
- 18:29Speaker 1: who don't think things through.
- 18:31Speaker 2: That's it gets a little scary.
- 18:33Speaker 1: But like I look at her, and I've spoken to
- 18:36Speaker 1: her briefly and watched their interaction, I'm like, this is
- 18:38Speaker 1: not someone.
- 18:39Speaker 5: Well, it's not malicious intent.
- 18:41Speaker 4: I don't see that now listen, obviously things are edited,
- 18:43Speaker 4: but when I was watching, I think the previous episode
- 18:46Speaker 4: where they.
- 18:47Speaker 3: Go on the swans in the water.
- 18:49Speaker 4: Yeah, and I just felt like, you think she's okay,
- 18:53Speaker 4: maybe she's not out to ruin someone's life, but she's
- 18:57Speaker 4: a thirst bucket. I'm sorry, she's dying to be on
- 18:59Speaker 4: the show. Just okay, who doesn't want to be on
- 19:01Speaker 4: the Hanah Show on TV?
- 19:02Speaker 3: That's okay.
- 19:03Speaker 4: But the fact that she comes and there she's like,
- 19:07Speaker 4: didn't even tell you my turtle story. So I'm like, okay,
- 19:10Speaker 4: so now you're coming with like bits like you like
- 19:14Speaker 4: writing out, Like so I had a turtle and I
- 19:17Speaker 4: walked it on a lee.
- 19:19Speaker 3: And then and then it fell down a trade?
- 19:23Speaker 2: Did that really happen?
- 19:25Speaker 3: A story that came out of nowhere.
- 19:26Speaker 5: Now.
- 19:26Speaker 4: Granted could have been editing. Maybe he mentioned something about it,
- 19:29Speaker 4: but they're on Swans. It's not like they were writing turtles.
- 19:32Speaker 2: She was like a turtle.
- 19:34Speaker 4: Yes, I was like, I think I saw it for
- 19:37Speaker 4: the second time and that sort of clicked into me.
- 19:39Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, she's just trying to come with bits
- 19:41Speaker 4: so that she's like, let me secure my spot.
- 19:44Speaker 6: You know, I Savandr Pump is not, in my opinion,
- 19:48Speaker 6: this show to do that.
- 19:49Speaker 5: It's just too real. There's way too there's some celebrity.
- 19:53Speaker 2: That's who she is.
- 19:54Speaker 3: Guys.
- 19:54Speaker 2: She's quirky and a little strange.
- 19:56Speaker 5: She's quirky.
- 19:57Speaker 6: Remember at your Oh you were there at the live show?
- 20:01Speaker 5: Remember that?
- 20:01Speaker 2: Why was she at the live show?
- 20:03Speaker 5: Don't know?
- 20:04Speaker 3: Was Lala's live show? You mean Sheena's life show?
- 20:07Speaker 1: No?
- 20:07Speaker 5: This was a ran improv.
- 20:09Speaker 1: I do not remember when.
- 20:11Speaker 3: Lala was a guest of mine.
- 20:13Speaker 5: No, this was I thought you were there together.
- 20:15Speaker 2: Maybe not.
- 20:15Speaker 5: It was the first give them Lala live show? You ever?
- 20:19Speaker 3: Did?
- 20:19Speaker 2: Ever? Did ever?
- 20:20Speaker 5: Chris and Doty was there, Joe was there.
- 20:22Speaker 2: Oh, well that's why she was there. She was with Dody.
- 20:24Speaker 6: Okay, but she was like running back and forth helping
- 20:27Speaker 6: the waiters.
- 20:28Speaker 1: She's just a strange person and and there's nothing wrong
- 20:32Speaker 1: with that, maybe.
- 20:33Speaker 4: Like a little too earnest, like just how they were saying, like,
- 20:37Speaker 4: you know, Tom Senemo is doing is doing too much
- 20:40Speaker 4: to be nice, doing the most like let me run,
- 20:43Speaker 4: let me chase the pizza guy down and see if
- 20:45Speaker 4: he has a packet of ranch in there, you know,
- 20:48Speaker 4: like and they're like, oh my god.
- 20:49Speaker 3: He's doing too much. He's trying too hard.
- 20:51Speaker 2: But you guys, he did that ship even before.
- 20:53Speaker 3: That's what I thought. I remember like saying that.
- 20:55Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's so interesting to me because the only
- 20:59Speaker 1: the only people that are trying to rewrite history are
- 21:02Speaker 1: the fans.
- 21:04Speaker 2: Literally, the only people that are rewriting history right now
- 21:08Speaker 2: are fanned.
- 21:09Speaker 5: What do you mean by.
- 21:12Speaker 3: But the cast said he's doing too much?
- 21:13Speaker 1: Now? Well, by the way, I have a feeling about
- 21:15Speaker 1: my cast too. I feel like I'm after the reunion.
- 21:18Speaker 1: I look at them very differently. I very much do.
- 21:22Speaker 2: But why can't talk about that?
- 21:23Speaker 3: Right? You can't talk about that?
- 21:25Speaker 2: But this is who he's always been.
- 21:28Speaker 1: He's always been the guy paying for true for people's
- 21:32Speaker 1: engagement parties. He's been the guy to chase down the
- 21:35Speaker 1: man for the ranch. He's doing the same shit he's
- 21:38Speaker 1: always done. It's just now he's fucked you over.
- 21:41Speaker 2: So it's annoying to you.
- 21:43Speaker 6: Right on this podcast, Heather, what is your viewpoint on
- 21:47Speaker 6: Sandoval and how people are how he's been this season, Arianna?
- 21:52Speaker 5: Is she too hard on him? What is your thoughts
- 21:54Speaker 5: on that?
- 21:55Speaker 3: Well?
- 21:55Speaker 4: As someone watching it, I find it very intriguing.
- 22:00Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So.
- 22:02Speaker 4: I kind of see it all, and of course you
- 22:06Speaker 4: relate things, like the reason reality TV is so good,
- 22:09Speaker 4: especially Branda Pump is there.
- 22:10Speaker 3: Usually somebody can relate something to their own.
- 22:12Speaker 4: Life, right, So I get you know that she's like,
- 22:19Speaker 4: now she bought a house, but at this time she
- 22:21Speaker 4: didn't want to leave, or maybe she didn't want to
- 22:23Speaker 4: make him suffer a little. So so what how many
- 22:25Speaker 4: divorces have been like dragged out because one person is like,
- 22:29Speaker 4: I'm gonna you're gonna fucking pay for what you did
- 22:32Speaker 4: in this marriage, whether it was cheat or leave or whatever,
- 22:36Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna be amicable.
- 22:37Speaker 3: I'm not gonna make it easy for you and that's
- 22:40Speaker 3: my choice.
- 22:41Speaker 4: So like, if that's it, or also that she's just
- 22:43Speaker 4: a disorganized person in the thought of moving is a
- 22:46Speaker 4: lot which I get, Like, I get all that I love.
- 22:51Speaker 4: I personally love seeing her telling them off. I feel
- 22:54Speaker 4: like we never see a woman assert herself like in
- 22:57Speaker 4: a fight like that.
- 22:58Speaker 3: I feel like it's really real.
- 23:00Speaker 4: And he also then can use that and be like,
- 23:03Speaker 4: see you, guys, this is why I fucked another person.
- 23:06Speaker 3: She's a Meani.
- 23:07Speaker 4: She's a Meani cat like so, And then everyone has
- 23:11Speaker 4: to sit around and watch them, and you're doing that
- 23:13Speaker 4: because you guys really are friends and you're really watching
- 23:15Speaker 4: a show, and he definitely has to be part of it.
- 23:18Speaker 4: And I give her props for not being like I'm
- 23:21Speaker 4: not going to show up.
- 23:22Speaker 3: She's showing up to the stuff.
- 23:24Speaker 4: But then the real part of her is like, like
- 23:27Speaker 4: I hate you and I want you guys all to know.
- 23:30Speaker 4: Like he wasn't good with the dog. I'm fucking pissed.
- 23:33Speaker 3: It costs me six thousand dollars, right.
- 23:35Speaker 1: But the dog was also eating shit when they were
- 23:38Speaker 1: still together. And That's where I'm having a hard time,
- 23:40Speaker 1: as I'm like, this is not new stuff, right, So
- 23:43Speaker 1: the dog ate five hundred laxative pills hair dye.
- 23:48Speaker 5: Like then he then I hear you.
- 23:51Speaker 6: The one thing that bugs me about that, don't lock
- 23:53Speaker 6: your dog in a room for four Don't lock a
- 23:55Speaker 6: dog in a room for four hours.
- 23:56Speaker 4: To me, that's what I think what happened is when
- 23:59Speaker 4: she was trying to get a crosses. I don't think
- 24:01Speaker 4: that Tom purposely was like, I'm knock the dog in
- 24:05Speaker 4: it so that the dog who's a little off runs
- 24:08Speaker 4: havoc in the room. I think it was sort of like,
- 24:11Speaker 4: oh shit, I didn't realize I shut the door in
- 24:13Speaker 4: the dog, right.
- 24:17Speaker 3: But then in her defense.
- 24:18Speaker 1: Again, and he could have left the door sure, I
- 24:21Speaker 1: mean we all could have left the door open, and
- 24:23Speaker 1: Anne could have walked by and realized, oh, this is open,
- 24:25Speaker 1: and the dog could have been with the takeout container
- 24:27Speaker 1: on the ground and no one even knows, right, why.
- 24:30Speaker 2: Is the takeout container sitting garbage?
- 24:33Speaker 4: Well, she she doesn't want to go downstairs when he's
- 24:35Speaker 4: down there.
- 24:36Speaker 3: Like, I get it all, and I get why.
- 24:40Speaker 4: The cast is like the friends and everybody are like,
- 24:44Speaker 4: but you're doing fine, Like you've made all this money,
- 24:47Speaker 4: You've got the lemonade is like flowing. But at the
- 24:50Speaker 4: same time, yeah, she got all these opportunities and she
- 24:53Speaker 4: took them and that's great, but that doesn't mean that
- 24:57Speaker 4: she should get over this any quicker, and that if
- 25:01Speaker 4: I'm just paying Devil's advocate because I see what you're
- 25:04Speaker 4: saying on the show, and I get it. But at
- 25:06Speaker 4: the same time, it's like when I've had stuff like
- 25:09Speaker 4: that happen with me, people are like, why are you
- 25:12Speaker 4: still harping on this thing that this person did to
- 25:14Speaker 4: you that was so awful? You are doing great. You
- 25:18Speaker 4: know your show didn't suffer. You are gone every weekend
- 25:21Speaker 4: killing it, Like why do you why can't you just
- 25:24Speaker 4: let it go?
- 25:25Speaker 1: And I don't think anyone's wanting her to let it go.
- 25:29Speaker 1: You're allowed, I get it. You're allowed to not let
- 25:32Speaker 1: it go and go insane on him.
- 25:35Speaker 2: Got it.
- 25:37Speaker 1: The problem I'm having here is you're using all of
- 25:40Speaker 1: these words that I very much feel. I can literally
- 25:45Speaker 1: sit here and have empathy because I've felt those same things.
- 25:50Speaker 1: The difference here is you choose to stay in the house,
- 25:53Speaker 1: and everyone can say he should have left. I agree,
- 25:56Speaker 1: But we now know who Tom Sandival is. Tom Sandevil's
- 26:00Speaker 1: a guy that has sex with your best friend in
- 26:03Speaker 1: your home while you're, you know, mourning the death of
- 26:06Speaker 1: your grandmother. He's shown, so let's not say here and
- 26:08Speaker 1: be like, I can't believe you wouldn't move out. He's
- 26:10Speaker 1: shown who he is, so now we have to take
- 26:12Speaker 1: control of the things we can control, which are ourselves.
- 26:15Speaker 1: If he's making you feel this way and you're staying
- 26:18Speaker 1: in the house, I got questions. If he makes you
- 26:21Speaker 1: lose your mind like this and you are traumatized by
- 26:24Speaker 1: what he has done, I want to know how you
- 26:27Speaker 1: can move on to a new boyfriend in ten days.
- 26:29Speaker 1: I'm genuinely wondering this because when someone's using the same
- 26:33Speaker 1: words that I'm using, and I feel for you, I
- 26:35Speaker 1: want you to shed knowledge on how you can stay
- 26:39Speaker 1: in the same house and get a boyfriend in ten days.
- 26:42Speaker 1: How do you compartmentalize? I don't understand it.
- 26:46Speaker 4: Okay, well those are all good points, but I think
- 26:50Speaker 4: the same argument goes when people are like, why didn't
- 26:55Speaker 4: you tell about your abuser?
- 26:57Speaker 3: Like why didn't you go? Why did you stay married?
- 27:00Speaker 4: Why did you It's like, I don't really think we
- 27:03Speaker 4: can ever figure out why someone does or doesn't do
- 27:08Speaker 4: what they did. She found the other boyfriend in ten
- 27:10Speaker 4: days because it felt great and she liked having that.
- 27:13Speaker 4: She didn't want to move on in the house because
- 27:15Speaker 4: she's like, fuck it, why should I be inconvenience? Let
- 27:17Speaker 4: him fucking suffer. Maybe she's not even bothered by him.
- 27:20Speaker 4: Maybe she's like, I'm glad that he's bothered by me.
- 27:23Speaker 4: You know, we don't really like it was a pretty
- 27:26Speaker 4: big deal. And the other thing is being that it's public.
- 27:28Speaker 4: Even if she's having a great day and she just
- 27:31Speaker 4: got a deal with the battery company and you know,
- 27:34Speaker 4: she's happy, it's like she could still open something on
- 27:38Speaker 4: her phone and be reminded of the humiliation. Of course,
- 27:43Speaker 4: how did you not know? And you're dumb, and how
- 27:46Speaker 4: did you not see it? And you deserve it because
- 27:48Speaker 4: you didn't have sex.
- 27:49Speaker 3: With him and all of that.
- 27:50Speaker 4: So then then that can set her back, Like maybe
- 27:53Speaker 4: she's doing great, and then that sets her back, and
- 27:55Speaker 4: then the cameras are up the next day, and that's
- 27:57Speaker 4: when she snaps at the beach, you know, like.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Right, and I understand, I fully understand, But we're talking
- 28:04Speaker 1: about a man Tom Sandaval who season nine was screaming
- 28:09Speaker 1: or season whatever season we brought on these random people
- 28:12Speaker 1: season eight losing his goddamn mind on everybody.
- 28:17Speaker 2: And Arian is sitting across from me saying the thing.
- 28:20Speaker 1: I love about that's what I love about Tom Sandaval
- 28:22Speaker 1: And I said that he yells at.
- 28:23Speaker 3: Women, and when was he what women was yelling at me?
- 28:27Speaker 1: Has consistently been unkind to me, He's consistently been unkind.
- 28:32Speaker 1: Yeah to Katie and who has never come to anyone's defense,
- 28:37Speaker 1: Ariano Maddox, not once she falls back, lets it happen.
- 28:42Speaker 1: And now suddenly, because you're on the receiving end of
- 28:45Speaker 1: his misogynistic ways, you're looking for backup. I again, there's
- 28:52Speaker 1: only one way to look at it.
- 28:53Speaker 4: No, but I can totally relate to that too, because
- 28:56Speaker 4: you know, you know a personal thing I went through
- 28:59Speaker 4: with a friend and I saw him do this to
- 29:02Speaker 4: other women, and I was like, well, there's two sides
- 29:07Speaker 4: of the story.
- 29:08Speaker 3: He's not doing to me.
- 29:08Speaker 4: He's a delight to me. He can't And once it
- 29:11Speaker 4: happened to me and other people in my life were like,
- 29:16Speaker 4: la la, la, la la. I don't think it happened.
- 29:17Speaker 4: I don't know the story. I don't care.
- 29:19Speaker 3: I'm gonna just go on because he's pleasant to me.
- 29:22Speaker 4: And then now now like exponentialize that by like sex
- 29:27Speaker 4: and merit or you know relationship, so all your points
- 29:32Speaker 4: are right. But at the same time, like she was
- 29:35Speaker 4: the girlfriend she she looks she did the bad stuff too.
- 29:38Speaker 4: She cheated on with him when he was with Kristin Doty.
- 29:42Speaker 4: She liked it very much being in that passenger.
- 29:44Speaker 1: Sit So what can't happen here is when my life
- 29:48Speaker 1: went to shit. I was grilled by Lisa vander pomp
- 29:50Speaker 1: I was grilled by my cast members. Now, one person said,
- 29:53Speaker 1: you know what, let's ease up on law. She probably
- 29:56Speaker 1: should have known, but she didn't, and there's a baby involved.
- 29:59Speaker 1: I'm asking the qu questions that I think a lot
- 30:01Speaker 1: of the audience would want to know.
- 30:02Speaker 2: Right.
- 30:03Speaker 1: Bottom line, we're filming a television show. It's an ensemble cast,
- 30:06Speaker 1: and I understand that it can be uncomfortable. But if
- 30:09Speaker 1: my ex were a part of vander Pump rules, I
- 30:11Speaker 1: would have to have uncomfortable conversations with him.
- 30:14Speaker 2: It's just the name of the game.
- 30:16Speaker 1: I actually had prepared myself season ten for them to
- 30:19Speaker 1: bring my ex into the mix while you're still together,
- 30:23Speaker 1: while we when we had broken up. I was fully prepared.
- 30:26Speaker 3: You're just thinking worst case scenario, they're going.
- 30:28Speaker 2: To bring him on.
- 30:29Speaker 1: I had a conversation with production, I said, two things
- 30:31Speaker 1: are going to happen. You bring him back I walk,
- 30:34Speaker 1: or you bring him back and you cut. Not a
- 30:35Speaker 1: word that I say because I'm mentioning it all. Well,
- 30:38Speaker 1: they can't do that. Yeah, So there was a lot
- 30:43Speaker 1: of stuff happening, and I'm so happy for the opportunities
- 30:46Speaker 1: that Arianna has gotten.
- 30:48Speaker 2: She deserves them all.
- 30:49Speaker 1: I always say, when someone opens the door, they can't
- 30:53Speaker 1: take credit for you taking down the whole house. Right,
- 30:56Speaker 1: Arianna took over the whole house, and she deserves that.
- 31:00Speaker 1: She has proven to be a talented actress, a talented dancer.
- 31:04Speaker 1: One has nothing to do with the other. I went
- 31:06Speaker 1: onto this season and when things didn't make sense, I
- 31:10Speaker 1: asked questions and was essentially looked at like someone who
- 31:16Speaker 1: doesn't support women anymore, someone who's jealous.
- 31:19Speaker 4: I now, you've seen the whole season, but for me,
- 31:21Speaker 4: who's watched this many, I don't think you're appearing that way.
- 31:25Speaker 4: As someone who's watching it, I don't think it's appearing
- 31:27Speaker 4: that way.
- 31:28Speaker 5: I think I think it's yeah, yeah.
- 31:29Speaker 4: I think you're I don't think you're coming off bad.
- 31:31Speaker 4: And I'm not just saying that because you're my friend
- 31:32Speaker 4: and you're sitting across from me. I don't think what
- 31:34Speaker 4: you're saying.
- 31:35Speaker 3: Comes off that at all.
- 31:36Speaker 4: I think when you had the conversation with her on
- 31:39Speaker 4: the street corner, I thought that was a really good
- 31:41Speaker 4: conversation and she was receptive. And I also saw her
- 31:45Speaker 4: side of like, am I supposed to do some big
- 31:48Speaker 4: posts like stand down Ariana? Fans don't write Sena And
- 31:53Speaker 4: she was like, I'm just not saying anything, hope, because
- 31:55Speaker 4: there's such it's such a at that time, everybody would
- 31:58Speaker 4: write an article about everything with a headline on page six.
- 32:00Speaker 4: You know, Arianna says, you know, she didn't mean it,
- 32:04Speaker 4: so I get why she didn't do it, But then
- 32:05Speaker 4: she did like reach out, so your words were taken
- 32:10Speaker 4: in right.
- 32:11Speaker 3: She did see it, But I also saw her her being.
- 32:15Speaker 4: Like, you guys are you know, because you guys are
- 32:19Speaker 4: going to start to accept Tom and he's going to
- 32:21Speaker 4: be a good friend to you, and he's going to
- 32:23Speaker 4: be sweet and charming, and he's gonna run after the
- 32:24Speaker 4: car for the ranch and eventually you're gonna have stuff,
- 32:28Speaker 4: and then it's going to be like, well, I think
- 32:31Speaker 4: we just you know, let's not even put Ariana through this,
- 32:34Speaker 4: we won't invite her, and then before she knows that
- 32:37Speaker 4: she is the one on the outs and when she
- 32:39Speaker 4: said that on the street corner, I'm like, that is
- 32:41Speaker 4: very possible, and it's not yours and Sheena's fault for
- 32:46Speaker 4: allowing him back in or James for allowing him back in.
- 32:49Speaker 4: It's not your fault, but it might be she might
- 32:52Speaker 4: be the casualty in the end.
- 32:54Speaker 6: I have to say with last night's episode, that's the
- 32:56Speaker 6: first time I saw you and thought, oh, this is
- 32:59Speaker 6: going in direction and not because of Look, I'm an outsider,
- 33:03Speaker 6: so I can say this. I'm not blaming editing, but
- 33:06Speaker 6: there are certain things that you know, Ariana would say
- 33:11Speaker 6: something and then the editors would flash back to certain to.
- 33:14Speaker 5: Like uh uh, look like her what she was saying.
- 33:19Speaker 6: She'd say like, oh, well I did this, and then
- 33:21Speaker 6: they'd flash back to all the times that she did
- 33:23Speaker 6: that to support what she was saying, and then like,
- 33:25Speaker 6: you know, they've got moments of you, like saying the
- 33:28Speaker 6: trash bag thing, or like keeping certain cuts in the beach.
- 33:32Speaker 6: And again it's not the editors, I get it, but
- 33:34Speaker 6: I am wondering. Now this feels like a turning point
- 33:37Speaker 6: for me, I want to know, Okay, next week, what is.
- 33:39Speaker 5: The episode going to look like?
- 33:41Speaker 6: Like, what what direction is it going?
- 33:45Speaker 5: It's it's just it.
- 33:46Speaker 4: And I also like that you were like, look, I'm
- 33:48Speaker 4: coming from this place because I and this is wow
- 33:52Speaker 4: I interpreted as someone watching it, I think you're like,
- 33:56Speaker 4: I wasted too much time being so bitter and angry,
- 33:59Speaker 4: and I'm never going.
- 34:00Speaker 3: To get that time back.
- 34:01Speaker 4: So I think in you counseling her, you were like,
- 34:05Speaker 4: no one's saying that you shouldn't be hurt, but if
- 34:07Speaker 4: there's a way to redirect your energy, you know, so
- 34:11Speaker 4: that you don't lose days and you don't lose hours,
- 34:13Speaker 4: and you don't you know, Like, I think that was
- 34:16Speaker 4: a I think that was like a girlfriend kind of
- 34:19Speaker 4: thing to say.
- 34:21Speaker 3: I don't think that was making about you.
- 34:22Speaker 4: I think that was like, look, I'll never get that
- 34:25Speaker 4: year back that I was just like wanting to fucking
- 34:27Speaker 4: kill somebody.
- 34:29Speaker 1: Well, I remember being really appreciative of when my dad
- 34:32Speaker 1: died and I was acting out and she had sat
- 34:35Speaker 1: me down and said, like, when my dad died, this
- 34:40Speaker 1: is what happened and how the group treated me, and
- 34:42Speaker 1: it was almost like she's she's showing me a window
- 34:46Speaker 1: into what this looks like with this group. And so
- 34:49Speaker 1: when I when I bring things up that I've experienced,
- 34:53Speaker 1: I'm hoping that I can show her a window.
- 34:55Speaker 2: And there are nuances right.
- 34:56Speaker 1: Like she she may have not as been as with
- 35:00Speaker 1: her dad is I was with my dad. There's so
- 35:02Speaker 1: many nuances. No one situation is the same. But like
- 35:07Speaker 1: with the dog thing, and she doesn't want to talk
- 35:09Speaker 1: to him and have a productive conversation, the only thing
- 35:12Speaker 1: I can relate to that is her dog is her baby.
- 35:14Speaker 2: Ocean is my baby. There are times where in.
- 35:18Speaker 1: My situation, I said I'm never talking to this human again,
- 35:22Speaker 1: and then something happens where we have to have a
- 35:24Speaker 1: productive conversation where I have to let every.
- 35:27Speaker 2: Single thing go for the well being.
- 35:30Speaker 1: Of my daughter. In this situation, the dog almost died.
- 35:35Speaker 1: You have to now, while you're in the house, put
- 35:38Speaker 1: everything he's done to you aside and have a productive conversation,
- 35:43Speaker 1: as hard as that fucking is.
- 35:45Speaker 3: Yeah, and I thought you came off great in that.
- 35:47Speaker 3: I don't think that was wow.
- 35:49Speaker 4: She was just really still like heated, and I think
- 35:52Speaker 4: she wants It's like when you are fighting with someone
- 35:56Speaker 4: and sadly people do this with their children, Yeah, where
- 35:59Speaker 4: they're like, see see what.
- 36:00Speaker 3: Your dad did? Fucking unbelievable and the kid's like a nine.
- 36:03Speaker 4: What Like, I feel like she she at that moment
- 36:07Speaker 4: at the water thing at the house when she was like,
- 36:10Speaker 4: don't talk to me and she's yelling at him and everything.
- 36:13Speaker 4: She just wanted she wanted to be performative. She wanted
- 36:17Speaker 4: you guys to see that, and it of course made
- 36:21Speaker 4: everybody uncomfortable, but it was a real, real moment.
- 36:25Speaker 3: And it's like why in when you're not on.
- 36:27Speaker 4: A reality show, most people lose friends or pick sides
- 36:31Speaker 4: or whatever because it really doesn't work. I mean, it
- 36:34Speaker 4: really doesn't work except that you guys are on a show.
- 36:37Speaker 3: I mean it.
- 36:38Speaker 1: Well, that's what was very hard about filming this season.
- 36:42Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love that.
- 36:43Speaker 1: You're here because you're a reality head just like I am,
- 36:45Speaker 1: and you know what goes into it, right, And there's
- 36:49Speaker 1: the thing I love about vander Pomper Rules is it's
- 36:51Speaker 1: so authentic and all of us have a connection from
- 36:56Speaker 1: years ago, and it's this this web that like you
- 36:58Speaker 1: cannot make up, right, and then something happens where not
- 37:02Speaker 1: only does it affect the friend group. But we've been
- 37:06Speaker 1: filming a television show with each other, most of them
- 37:10Speaker 1: for eleven years. Okay, so how are we going to
- 37:15Speaker 1: keep our sanity in our inner piece while also doing
- 37:20Speaker 1: what we love to do, which is film a show
- 37:23Speaker 1: it's also responsible for paying our bills? How are we
- 37:27Speaker 1: supposed to do that? And so when I came into
- 37:30Speaker 1: this season, I think it was hard for everybody. I
- 37:33Speaker 1: think a lot of people were living in the comments section.
- 37:36Speaker 1: They knew that Arianna had a lot of fans, and
- 37:38Speaker 1: they were not about to go against her and get
- 37:40Speaker 1: the smoke.
- 37:42Speaker 2: I think that's where I get glad.
- 37:45Speaker 1: That I don't look at comments because I'm so terrified
- 37:48Speaker 1: of them that I kind of just get to say
- 37:50Speaker 1: whatever I want, And had maybe I looked in the
- 37:53Speaker 1: comment section, I'd be.
- 37:54Speaker 2: Doing the same thing that they're doing.
- 37:56Speaker 1: Yeah, and then knowing like I support my friend so much,
- 38:01Speaker 1: like I've been here, rip his fucking head off, then
- 38:04Speaker 1: all the nuances of living with him still and having
- 38:06Speaker 1: questions about how you can get a new boyfriend. But
- 38:09Speaker 1: then how the fuck do we make a show that
- 38:13Speaker 1: I love so much and it's single handedly responsible for
- 38:17Speaker 1: the opportunities that have come my way for the last
- 38:20Speaker 1: ten years of my life. Yeah, you know where I'm
- 38:23Speaker 1: looking around at everybody and I'm like, we're an ensemble cast.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Y'all better not but you guys better not fuck this
- 38:29Speaker 1: up because there's more at stake than just yourselves.
- 38:33Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think that you guys are doing a
- 38:36Speaker 4: really good job.
- 38:37Speaker 3: I think it's so good.
- 38:38Speaker 4: Well, I think it's so real and like funny and
- 38:42Speaker 4: good and interesting. Like I think it's better than last season.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Really watch you Yeah Okay, I wait.
- 38:51Speaker 4: Last season was just the See we didn't know they
- 38:53Speaker 4: were fucking right, and we have we have have three
- 38:57Speaker 4: extra episodes, right and one the demise. Yeah, but like
- 39:01Speaker 4: that was only fun once we knew and then you
- 39:04Speaker 4: could go.
- 39:04Speaker 2: Back back and watch it.
- 39:05Speaker 4: Yeah, but when it was happening and they were just
- 39:07Speaker 4: going glamping and the fake Schwartz try to kiss Raquel,
- 39:12Speaker 4: that like wasn't interesting to me.
- 39:14Speaker 1: And yeah, you know what, maybe it would have been
- 39:16Speaker 1: a completely different thing. I mean, I thought before we
- 39:18Speaker 1: found this out, we had a pretty interesting season ten happening,
- 39:22Speaker 1: just like as I lived it, I'm like, okay, this
- 39:24Speaker 1: is interesting.
- 39:25Speaker 2: This season.
- 39:26Speaker 1: Season eleven, the finale is where Fourth Wall is broken.
- 39:31Speaker 2: And I lose my goddamn mind. And I think there's
- 39:34Speaker 2: going to be a shift with my cast.
- 39:37Speaker 1: I actually know there is because I've already lived it,
- 39:39Speaker 1: and there's gonna be a huge shift I think with
- 39:41Speaker 1: the audience, and I will be staying off of socials
- 39:44Speaker 1: and telling my team I don't want to know shit
- 39:46Speaker 1: because I lose my goddamn mind.
- 39:49Speaker 3: Okay, well look.
- 39:52Speaker 4: I think you know, yeah, I think of as I
- 39:57Speaker 4: think it's very intriguing, like very real, and that's why
- 40:03Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, I know where Lawa is coming from,
- 40:05Speaker 4: but I also know where Ariana is coming from, and
- 40:08Speaker 4: which is why after I was watching last night and
- 40:10Speaker 4: knowing I was going to see you today, I was like,
- 40:14Speaker 4: you know, okay, I'm gonna tell her what I really think.
- 40:16Speaker 3: And I mean, I'm glad that you're like.
- 40:18Speaker 4: I'm glad that we're like having a real conversation. I'm
- 40:20Speaker 4: not just like come on your show and be like, yeah,
- 40:23Speaker 4: the best. And I think everything you're saying is right.
- 40:27Speaker 4: I'm just kind of.
- 40:28Speaker 3: Seeing to where she's coming from.
- 40:30Speaker 4: And I bet like she's watching last night and probably
- 40:34Speaker 4: like it's like that scene where she goes and I've
- 40:37Speaker 4: been this girl too, or she's had a couple drinks
- 40:41Speaker 4: and she's still angry about what's happening. It doesn't matter
- 40:45Speaker 4: if she's made a million dollars what's fun.
- 40:46Speaker 2: No, it doesn't.
- 40:47Speaker 3: Money doesn't happen.
- 40:48Speaker 4: Like I've had things happen to me, and I'm like,
- 40:50Speaker 4: did it turn out in the end be okay? Because
- 40:54Speaker 4: of like maybe there was some you know, good thing
- 40:56Speaker 4: financially out of it.
- 40:57Speaker 3: Yeah, But if I could go back.
- 40:58Speaker 4: Six months to take away the trauma, I would have
- 41:00Speaker 4: taken away the trauma, like you.
- 41:02Speaker 3: Re light for her.
- 41:03Speaker 4: Maybe it was life changing money, but like still like
- 41:06Speaker 4: she's still living in the same house, still in the
- 41:08Speaker 4: same show.
- 41:09Speaker 3: Wasn't one all of a sudden. She had three private jets, you.
- 41:11Speaker 2: Know, and it's not like the new house is someone straw.
- 41:14Speaker 3: I guess to like right, get on her feet.
- 41:18Speaker 4: So I think when she sees that he brings a girl,
- 41:22Speaker 4: a twenty five real girl, and she's just like I
- 41:25Speaker 4: thought that was so real and being like, oh, hi, yeah,
- 41:28Speaker 4: you're twenty five.
- 41:29Speaker 3: That makes sense.
- 41:31Speaker 5: Being a friend.
- 41:32Speaker 4: Maybe don't get with a forty one year old narcissist.
- 41:34Speaker 4: I mean, now she's gonna watch.
- 41:36Speaker 3: That and she's gonna be a little bit mortified.
- 41:38Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not she's not watching this season.
- 41:41Speaker 3: Okay, well if she did, if it was me, I
- 41:45Speaker 3: would be like Heather, But I can see I could.
- 41:48Speaker 4: I could in the moment and a couple of drinks
- 41:50Speaker 4: and the cameras and he's there and he's bringing this girl,
- 41:54Speaker 4: and you're like, oh, you think you're gonna have a
- 41:56Speaker 4: mic pack on next month, you fucking loser. Let me
- 41:59Speaker 4: tell you something, girl, you're twenty five. You're being you know,
- 42:01Speaker 4: da da da, Like whatever.
- 42:03Speaker 3: I don't even think. I don't even know if you dated.
- 42:05Speaker 4: That girl at all, but like whatever, I kind of
- 42:08Speaker 4: loved it just because I was like, yeah, that's.
- 42:11Speaker 3: You know, you want to act like you're cool and
- 42:13Speaker 3: you don't care, but.
- 42:14Speaker 1: To release release one sentence it is like a purge
- 42:18Speaker 1: and an intoxicating high to jenn I personally.
- 42:22Speaker 4: Listen, I've watched the show forever, Ariana. I can't even
- 42:26Speaker 4: tell you if she's ever had a storyline until now.
- 42:30Speaker 1: But that's the other thing people are forgetting.
- 42:32Speaker 4: But that's why I feel like, that's why it's kind
- 42:36Speaker 4: of popping for her this season, because she I haven't
- 42:39Speaker 4: really seen her fight or personality or anything like. There
- 42:45Speaker 4: was a I believe strongly in sketch comedy, and then
- 42:49Speaker 4: there was the I bisexual at the parade. I don't
- 42:53Speaker 4: remember anything else like other than her just looking really
- 42:57Speaker 4: cute and being a delight the show. Like I don't
- 43:00Speaker 4: remember her driving anything, which is not her fault, like
- 43:04Speaker 4: whatever if her deal was to sit in the back
- 43:06Speaker 4: seat to Tom Santoval and have her life and now
- 43:11Speaker 4: you know, so that's why I think it's interesting.
- 43:16Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's good. And then what do you think? Okay,
- 43:18Speaker 3: so then Anne, let's talk about Anne.
- 43:21Speaker 6: I mean, I love Anne by the way I love Ann.
- 43:24Speaker 6: She dms relief, she DMed what she say. First off,
- 43:29Speaker 6: we lived across the street from each other when I
- 43:31Speaker 6: lived in Las Felis. She was like, she gave me
- 43:33Speaker 6: her address, and I was like, girl, I lived right
- 43:36Speaker 6: across the street from you.
- 43:37Speaker 5: But she gave me some tea. I'm going to coffee
- 43:39Speaker 5: with her. I'm not going to share any of it.
- 43:40Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up. You're getting coffee with Anne.
- 43:42Speaker 5: Yes.
- 43:43Speaker 6: But she was like, I love by the way she
- 43:45Speaker 6: DMed and was like, I love the show.
- 43:47Speaker 5: I thank you guys for mentioning.
- 43:50Speaker 6: Yes, she said, but she gave me tea on some
- 43:54Speaker 6: stuff we talked about. I'm gonna go to coffee and
- 43:56Speaker 6: then I'll spill what I can.
- 43:57Speaker 5: But she is, she's.
- 43:59Speaker 2: Even if you just spill it, not on air, tell
- 44:02Speaker 2: I'll tell you.
- 44:02Speaker 5: I'll tell you. She knows, she knows. But what do
- 44:04Speaker 5: you think of Anne? Heather?
- 44:06Speaker 4: And is why it's very hard to hire an assistant
- 44:09Speaker 4: in this town?
- 44:10Speaker 3: Why?
- 44:11Speaker 2: Why?
- 44:11Speaker 3: Hello?
- 44:13Speaker 4: She's doing podcasts, She's talking shit about her boss on
- 44:16Speaker 4: camera to someone else that'd say I want to work for.
- 44:19Speaker 3: You, she's doing professionals. She's like, I mean, Mike, are
- 44:23Speaker 3: you kidding me? Like no, oh my god?
- 44:26Speaker 2: Can I tell you?
- 44:26Speaker 8: Hey?
- 44:27Speaker 3: I exist? Because like, I'm fucking.
- 44:29Speaker 1: Terrified people that not just Tom but also Arion is
- 44:34Speaker 1: surround themselves with I mean Arion is uh Arion His
- 44:38Speaker 1: friends do podcasts like Brad by Brad or Logan like
- 44:43Speaker 1: posts things about not going to Heaven. I'm like, if
- 44:47Speaker 1: if Logan and Leo ever fucking showed up on a
- 44:51Speaker 1: podcast or posted about vander Pump.
- 44:53Speaker 2: Rules, I would have their heads on a platter.
- 44:55Speaker 1: If Jessica wait and starting to talk like what well.
- 44:59Speaker 5: The people the.
- 45:02Speaker 4: Slogan and Leo, who I love, like, you know whatever.
- 45:07Speaker 4: Let's say they're gonna come do Juicy scoop. First of all,
- 45:10Speaker 4: I would let you know it. They should let you
- 45:12Speaker 4: know it. We would only talk about probably not vander
- 45:16Speaker 4: pump Roles.
- 45:17Speaker 3: And you know, like I think if someone's gonna go.
- 45:18Speaker 4: Do that and they're so close to someone, like they
- 45:20Speaker 4: got to give them a heads up, like, hey, I
- 45:23Speaker 4: got to ask you this podcast it's about fitness. I'm
- 45:26Speaker 4: going in right away and saying, even though law is
- 45:28Speaker 4: my best friend, don't fucking ask me about her. And
- 45:31Speaker 4: so if you don't want me to only talk about fitness,
- 45:34Speaker 4: then don't book me. And sometimes they'll be like oh yeah, okay,
- 45:37Speaker 4: and then they might not book them. But anybody going
- 45:39Speaker 4: after the thirty two lead in, you know, and the assistant,
- 45:45Speaker 4: it's not to find out where Anne went to college
- 45:48Speaker 4: and hear about her favorite you know, pasta dish. You know,
- 45:53Speaker 4: it's to like talk about which is like, hey girl,
- 45:56Speaker 4: I don't blame you.
- 45:57Speaker 3: You got a job. They put you on camera, make
- 46:00Speaker 3: it pop.
- 46:00Speaker 2: But she was like this close in the FaceTime. Oh
- 46:03Speaker 2: my god.
- 46:05Speaker 6: When I saw Anne in a confessional. By the way,
- 46:07Speaker 6: I have two viewpoints. Number one like, legally it's funny.
- 46:11Speaker 6: She's funny.
- 46:11Speaker 5: Yeah, she's almost like when the.
- 46:14Speaker 6: Person character, Like when they hired her, she knew she
- 46:17Speaker 6: was in sketch comedy. It's a different thing when you
- 46:19Speaker 6: hire an assistant. In my opinion, who moves to Hollywood
- 46:22Speaker 6: to be an actor. There's only one way it can go.
- 46:24Speaker 6: I mean, so yes, does she have the pod cast
- 46:27Speaker 6: called We Signed an Nda? Like she's gonna make it
- 46:30Speaker 6: a thing when she can make it a thing. That
- 46:32Speaker 6: being said, when I saw her in the confession, I
- 46:34Speaker 6: was like, fuck yeah and laughing.
- 46:36Speaker 1: And.
- 46:39Speaker 4: She was like, I'm in this pink Catholic because I'm
- 46:41Speaker 4: going to Barbie She's.
- 46:43Speaker 5: She's like, I'm sweating, and I was like, and you were.
- 46:46Speaker 3: She walked up three steps She's like, oh hi, I
- 46:50Speaker 3: don't look.
- 46:51Speaker 5: I just think she's fucking fantastic.
- 46:56Speaker 4: They're all like, oh my god, you have to pick
- 46:58Speaker 4: up from the pool party. I'm like, listen, some people
- 47:03Speaker 4: need to do housework, whether you're a professional housekeeper or
- 47:07Speaker 4: you're a jack of all trade.
- 47:11Speaker 5: He's not how long has Anne van Rum?
- 47:13Speaker 2: That's why it's like, and I don't think Anne knew about.
- 47:20Speaker 4: Raquel the other people. A lot of things are saying,
- 47:22Speaker 4: did Sheina know that? If she had, she must have
- 47:24Speaker 4: not had Santaval's or Roquel's. Someone wrote, no, Raquel.
- 47:28Speaker 2: No, that's what it's done.
- 47:30Speaker 1: Of the one, the big tell was that Raquel stopped
- 47:34Speaker 1: sharing her location with Sheena, and that's when she went
- 47:38Speaker 1: to Big Bear.
- 47:40Speaker 2: Yes, and that's when she.
- 47:42Speaker 4: And that's why Joe, that's when Joe can't really be
- 47:45Speaker 4: trusted because she was part of that.
- 47:48Speaker 3: And I get it, so was Schwartz. He knew too.
- 47:51Speaker 3: I get it. I get it.
- 47:52Speaker 4: But like I think people can be skeptical of her,
- 47:56Speaker 4: they don't. I mean, come on, like you're you're gonna
- 47:57Speaker 4: turn Katie into liking Joe. It's never gonna have happened.
- 48:01Speaker 4: I mean, Katie barely likes anybody. She's certainly not gonna.
- 48:04Speaker 5: You're not gonna start looking Joe.
- 48:06Speaker 3: I mean, I love Katie.
- 48:07Speaker 4: I think she likes me, but like she's certainly like
- 48:09Speaker 4: that is what is great about Katie is like she
- 48:12Speaker 4: just fucking tells it like it is and then or
- 48:14Speaker 4: it doesn't work out.
- 48:16Speaker 6: Scene when she was like this and Jenna was like
- 48:18Speaker 6: do you do you love it or something?
- 48:20Speaker 5: And Katie was like no. I was like, I feel no.
- 48:24Speaker 2: I would follow he dead.
- 48:25Speaker 1: If there was something that Katy was like I really
- 48:26Speaker 1: enjoy this, I'd be like enjoy Oh my gosh.
- 48:32Speaker 5: Okay, so would you?
- 48:33Speaker 3: Okay, who would you rather be stuck on an island with?
- 48:36Speaker 6: And this has to be your last answer before before
- 48:39Speaker 6: aig and relief?
- 48:39Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay?
- 48:40Speaker 2: Who are my names?
- 48:41Speaker 3: We and there's just we don't know what be rescued?
- 48:45Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Billy Lee okay, Joe okay or Andy.
- 48:52Speaker 1: Am Honestly I think Billy Lee that was second. Yeah,
- 48:57Speaker 1: because we could have productive conversations. She's a back bitch.
- 49:00Speaker 1: She could like really do damage with, Like we got.
- 49:03Speaker 3: A hunt, yea coconut, she.
- 49:05Speaker 1: Can crack a coconut, Like, I just feel like she
- 49:08Speaker 1: would be someone who's like a well rounded person, right.
- 49:12Speaker 3: Like, we're gonna get the ship done, and what the.
- 49:15Speaker 2: Fuck we are?
- 49:17Speaker 3: I can't believe.
- 49:20Speaker 5: I never want this to head.
- 49:21Speaker 3: There's a ship goes by, they don't see us.
- 49:28Speaker 5: That is so much.
- 49:29Speaker 3: Yeah, Billy Lee really good?
- 49:31Speaker 1: Okay an relief, Heather. We do this every episode Easton.
- 49:36Speaker 1: You start us off you'll go last, so they can
- 49:37Speaker 1: kind of know.
- 49:38Speaker 8: All right, I can go. Mine's gonna be really stupid
- 49:41Speaker 8: in a sense. But my n C double a bracket.
- 49:44Speaker 8: My ache is that it's trash. So that's done, and
- 49:47Speaker 8: that was a real ache.
- 49:48Speaker 2: And my relief is that I don't have to care
- 49:50Speaker 2: about it anymore. And we got March Madness still coming.
- 49:53Speaker 5: Final four.
- 49:54Speaker 2: That's I love it, Okay. What is yours?
- 49:59Speaker 5: Mine?
- 49:59Speaker 1: Is?
- 50:00Speaker 6: I am thirty two and I have hormonal acne all
- 50:04Speaker 6: of a sudden. I think it's because I got off
- 50:05Speaker 6: the birth control pill like six months ago.
- 50:07Speaker 5: Get pregnant. Absolutely not. I'm trying to not take artificial hormones.
- 50:13Speaker 5: Good for you, very happy, but now I'm getting hormonal acne.
- 50:16Speaker 6: You can't see it right now, but that's my ache,
- 50:19Speaker 6: and my relief is I don't have one, so let
- 50:22Speaker 6: me know, like, do I start getting crazy facials, derma planing?
- 50:26Speaker 1: You know what, We're really really lucky that I'm about
- 50:29Speaker 1: to give birth soon because if it keeps up, I'm
- 50:31Speaker 1: going to give you a little bit of breast milk
- 50:32Speaker 1: in like a little peatree and I.
- 50:34Speaker 2: Put it on and then you just put it on your.
- 50:35Speaker 6: Face, Okay, so breast milk and then if that works,
- 50:38Speaker 6: I'm buying it off the black market.
- 50:39Speaker 2: From vitamin A. You should be taking a vitamin A
- 50:42Speaker 2: something really Yes.
- 50:43Speaker 5: Oh I'm adding this. Thank you.
- 50:44Speaker 4: You're also I want to say, have you tried those
- 50:47Speaker 4: little acne stickers?
- 50:49Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 50:51Speaker 4: Those are the best, Like literally it brings the pus
- 50:54Speaker 4: up for the next morning.
- 50:55Speaker 2: I swear by them as well. They're the best.
- 50:58Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay.
- 50:59Speaker 1: My ache of the week, to be honest, I don't
- 51:02Speaker 1: really have one. I'm thriving this week. My daughter is healthy,
- 51:06Speaker 1: her bounce back has happened like that, I will say.
- 51:11Speaker 1: My relief of the week was that I got a
- 51:13Speaker 1: facial and I was under the impression that the only
- 51:17Speaker 1: facials to get involved lasers and injecting things into your face.
- 51:22Speaker 1: And come to find out, you can get a facial
- 51:27Speaker 1: that is pregnancy friendly, and there's a lot of them
- 51:29Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, I'm like, wait a minute, and where.
- 51:33Speaker 2: You don't inject anything into my face. What kind of
- 51:38Speaker 2: facial is.
- 51:40Speaker 3: I can't know if you don't get normal facials the best.
- 51:42Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna start. I did like a derma planing
- 51:44Speaker 1: one that was fabulous.
- 51:47Speaker 4: Shave in the face can you believe that, Like, we
- 51:49Speaker 4: only started shaving our faces after Kelly Dodd screamed at
- 51:53Speaker 4: Shannon Badoor and.
- 51:54Speaker 3: Said, shave your faces. And now everyone.
- 51:59Speaker 4: Shaves face like we were always told, like you just
- 52:02Speaker 4: had to live with your fucking peaches.
- 52:05Speaker 3: Since I saw that episode.
- 52:06Speaker 4: I started doing it and I love it, And I
- 52:09Speaker 4: can't believe it's like a huge industry now that really
- 52:12Speaker 4: didn't exist like seven years ago.
- 52:14Speaker 2: No, you're right.
- 52:15Speaker 1: Usually, like I'm pretty consistent with taking a Gillette men's
- 52:18Speaker 1: razor to the face, but dermal planing is like so
- 52:22Speaker 1: close to the skin.
- 52:23Speaker 2: I highly recommend it.
- 52:24Speaker 4: I also think a new thing that no one's going
- 52:26Speaker 4: to care about is nipple covers anymore.
- 52:29Speaker 3: It's all about having heard.
- 52:31Speaker 4: At a boutique and I saw the silicon nipple covers.
- 52:34Speaker 4: I go, have those dropped a lot in sales?
- 52:36Speaker 3: And she said yeah, yeah.
- 52:38Speaker 4: And I said, I can imagine why. I mean, people
- 52:39Speaker 4: are buying bras with nips out. Yeah, but in my
- 52:42Speaker 4: day you had to cover them well or you don't
- 52:46Speaker 4: want one heart and want to sleep.
- 52:48Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. The puffy nip, you'ld puff nip.
- 52:52Speaker 1: But the only time I wear a nipple cover is
- 52:54Speaker 1: if like you can see that, it's like there's a
- 52:57Speaker 1: nipple there, like the coller the color of it. Right,
- 53:01Speaker 1: what's your age and relief?
- 53:02Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, my ache. I don't know.
- 53:05Speaker 4: I had such a great week like Kinita and Easter
- 53:10Speaker 4: and oh I got okay. So maybe the ache is
- 53:13Speaker 4: kids getting older. But the relief was we had the
- 53:17Speaker 4: best Easter egg hunt we've ever had with twenty one.
- 53:20Speaker 3: Nineteen, eighteen, and sixteen year olds.
- 53:23Speaker 2: And I put money in the eggs.
- 53:24Speaker 4: We put money in the eggs, candy and the eggs,
- 53:27Speaker 4: and then I made challenges that they had to do.
- 53:31Speaker 4: So once they got all their eggs, they opened them
- 53:33Speaker 4: and so and they were things to like entertain us
- 53:36Speaker 4: and make us feel good.
- 53:37Speaker 3: So it was my sister's family.
- 53:38Speaker 4: So it would be like what makes your mom better
- 53:41Speaker 4: than all the other moms? So then we got like
- 53:43Speaker 4: a nice compliment. And then it would be like imitate
- 53:45Speaker 4: your dad in the morning, so that would be funny.
- 53:47Speaker 4: I made like Brandon do a rap.
- 53:49Speaker 3: That's so like, and they had to do it. They
- 53:51Speaker 3: had to do it, like one nephew had to turn
- 53:53Speaker 3: into why are we drinking dance?
- 54:01Speaker 4: So it was really fun and I don't think any
- 54:03Speaker 4: of that stuff you have to stop doing.
- 54:05Speaker 3: And then we did. Peter got this little like gingerbread house.
- 54:08Speaker 4: But it was for Easter at Costco, okay, and so
- 54:11Speaker 4: then the kids like put it together and then Brandon
- 54:14Speaker 4: was like, oh, let's film it like selling Sunset. So
- 54:17Speaker 4: I got into a slutty outfit with a blazer and
- 54:19Speaker 4: I and I sold the house for eighteen million and
- 54:23Speaker 4: we had a little video and he did the whole
- 54:25Speaker 4: thing and we found the music like I'm a bad
- 54:28Speaker 4: that you gotta do to you know those songs something
- 54:30Speaker 4: do like selling Sunset, like zoom man and like do
- 54:33Speaker 4: like he did like a zoom overhaul of the candy
- 54:36Speaker 4: and I, yeah, so I did posted yeah, but I
- 54:41Speaker 4: guess you can't go to it.
- 54:42Speaker 2: I can read down yeah, And then wow, this was
- 54:49Speaker 2: a fact.
- 54:49Speaker 3: Can I tell me where I'm going to be for
- 54:51Speaker 3: my stand up on.
- 54:52Speaker 2: Your plug plung? I was just gonna ask you to plug.
- 54:55Speaker 3: This is this are is Wednesday? Right, yep? Okay?
- 54:57Speaker 4: So this Friday and Saturday, I will be Palm Beach
- 55:00Speaker 4: at the Cravit Center, two shows a night. Everything at
- 55:03Speaker 4: heathermcdonald dot net. Lots of other cities. But Changum doing
- 55:08Speaker 4: Pachangam'm doing Denver, I'm doing Scottsdale.
- 55:11Speaker 3: All so many good things coming out.
- 55:13Speaker 1: And where can people follow you to like see schedules
- 55:15Speaker 1: and watch you be fucking hilarious all the time.
- 55:18Speaker 4: Heatherydill dot net is where you go to get the schedule,
- 55:20Speaker 4: and that's the only place you should buy the tickets.
- 55:22Speaker 4: Do not google Heather and Scottsdale because you'll end up
- 55:24Speaker 4: paying more. Okay, go to Heather McDonald dot net, and
- 55:27Speaker 4: then of course at Heather McDonald on Instagram, TikTok all
- 55:30Speaker 4: the things.
- 55:31Speaker 1: And then obviously Juicy and Juicy Scooped podcast every Tuesday Thursday.
- 55:36Speaker 3: Love it. It's so good.
- 55:37Speaker 1: It's the only podcast I listened to besides Dateline and
- 55:41Speaker 1: then you too.
- 55:43Speaker 4: Thank you Heather, and I love I love, I get
- 55:46Speaker 4: the I listen to yours, and I also do the
- 55:48Speaker 4: Dateline and I really love it. Driving out to the desert, yes.
- 55:54Speaker 1: What I do.
- 55:55Speaker 4: Otherwise you get kind of tired and you're like, wait,
- 55:57Speaker 4: what's going on? Like it keeps you thinking and then
- 55:59Speaker 4: and then like you're imagining it as like you're as
- 56:01Speaker 4: you're driving, You're like.
- 56:02Speaker 3: I wonder if that's what the house looks like.
- 56:05Speaker 1: I do the exact same thing, and now every time
- 56:07Speaker 1: I drive, I'm like, I wonder if there's a body.
- 56:11Speaker 1: It's like a car is pulled over and I'm like,
- 56:12Speaker 1: they murdered something and they're dumping the body.
- 56:14Speaker 3: You almost feel like you're in it. Yeah right, I
- 56:17Speaker 3: love it.
- 56:18Speaker 1: You guys, thank you so much for listening to another
- 56:20Speaker 1: episode of the Give Them Lalla podcast.
- 56:21Speaker 2: I love y'all, and I'll catch you nixt week