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Kyle has friendship drama · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: There's a debate going on with Kyle and her friends,
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  Speaker 1: but this is a perfect segue. Jess, who is the
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  Speaker 1: executive director of Love Pop and Love Up, and she's
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  Speaker 1: also a marathon runner and Olympic person.
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  Speaker 2: Superstar.
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  Speaker 1: And going to be in the world trials and represent us.
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  Speaker 2: She's amazing, right?
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  Speaker 3: One of our best humans.
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  Speaker 1: She just texted me something, and I said, you've got
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  Speaker 1: to jump on there with us. She just texted me
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  Speaker 1: because we were talking. Well, Jess, good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Jess.
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  Speaker 4: Hello. Hi. How are you guys?
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  Speaker 2: Great.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, can you just explain to Peyton, Rich, and Kyle
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  Speaker 1: what you just texted me, please?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So my high school friends were a good time. We're
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  Speaker 4: all super fun, but had the great idea of, because
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  Speaker 4: we realized like none of us knew what each other
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  Speaker 4: did for work. We'd all be like, oh yeah, like Haley. Actually,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what Haley does. And Lauren's a physical therapist,
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  Speaker 4: I think. So we all got together. It was like
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  Speaker 4: probably 15 of us and we put like five to
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  Speaker 4: eight power slips like PowerPoint slides together each and presented
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  Speaker 4: our jobs to each other. It was like a happy hour.
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  Speaker 4: So it was super fun.
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  Speaker 3: Here's what I do. That's what, that's what your PowerPoint was.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 5: That's so funny.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Because there are three of my friends and I don't
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  Speaker 6: know what they do.
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  Speaker 3: Right. Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Like three of my friends are like, Had just like crazy,
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  Speaker 4: you know, I won't say badass on air, but like
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  Speaker 4: crazy awesome jobs. And we were like, oh my God,
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  Speaker 4: I had no idea you worked for like the Department
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  Speaker 4: of Agriculture. It was super fun. So you're talking.
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  Speaker 1: About because I was talking about this person didn't know
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  Speaker 1: what their friend did for a living and she got
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  Speaker 1: all upset. And so I was like, yeah. is this
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  Speaker 1: relatable and absolutely 15 friends and you know what they do.
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  Speaker 2: How would we do that? Here's what we do for
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  Speaker 2: a living. Do a radio show. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Host a morning radio show. It's like morning announcements.
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  Speaker 5: In high school.
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  Speaker 2: Explain to us what you do for a living. What?
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  Speaker 2: Explain to us what you do for a living.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess I'm two things.
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  Speaker 4: I'm, the executive director of a few nonprofits. And I
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  Speaker 4: also am a professional runner, but sometimes a professional running
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  Speaker 4: is a little weirder to explain. So, um, but yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you fun. Am I on air right now?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 3: That's what we do for a living. Jess, we do
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  Speaker 3: a radio show, which you are, you are intimately familiar with.
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  Speaker 2: I would think.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: But yes, I, so I.
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  Speaker 4: Help with both the love up and love putt foundations,
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  Speaker 4: which is the best job ever. We have family fast
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  Speaker 4: coming up. So I get to wear like multiple hats with,
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  Speaker 4: you know, event planning and business development and sponsorship relations and, um,
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  Speaker 4: just the best job ever. And then, yeah, when I'm
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  Speaker 4: not doing that, I'm running in circles all over town professionally.
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  Speaker 3: We have not done yet. And I've pitched this so
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  Speaker 3: many times. Like I think because Jess is a professional
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  Speaker 3: runner and, And she also represents Love Pup. We should
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  Speaker 3: have a race like a schnauzer.
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  Speaker 2: See who wins. She would beat the schnauzer.
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  Speaker 3: She would win. No way could she beat a schnauzer.
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  Speaker 1: So Jess just brought up Love Pup Family Fest. We'll
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  Speaker 1: give the details. Family Fest is November 7th. Vitrucio Farms
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  Speaker 1: in Mesa starts at 4 p.m. A free show with
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  Speaker 1: Gavin DeGraw live in concert. Also, Gino Plager from America's
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  Speaker 1: Got Talent, ASU student magician, is going to be performing.
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  Speaker 1: The Rich Bear Band, the biggest dog rescue adoption event
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  Speaker 1: in the Valley with over 20-plus dog rescues on site.
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  Speaker 1: bring your furry friend, find a new one to take home.
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  Speaker 1: Admission is free with, with a dog donation, with a donation,
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  Speaker 1: like leashes, puppy pads, whatever. So it's a, it's coming
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  Speaker 1: up November 7th.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks, Jess.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks guys.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I was actually live, but one more thing.
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  Speaker 2: Have you already run this morning?
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  Speaker 4: I just got done with 14 miles. So now I'm
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  Speaker 4: responding to some emails. Got to blow up John Jay's
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  Speaker 4: computer here in a minute.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Jess, have a great day. Thanks for jumping
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  Speaker 2: on the air with us.
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  Speaker 5: Bye, you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of friends. Yeah, I feel like I'm in the
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  Speaker 2: middle of a.
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  Speaker 6: a debate and you guys know me, like when it
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  Speaker 6: comes to arguments, I like to see like devil's advocate.
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  Speaker 6: I like to see both sides of the coin. And
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  Speaker 6: now I'm like literally in the middle. So a couple
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  Speaker 6: of my girlfriends went to dinner. It was like a
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  Speaker 6: $ 65 dinner and they, I wasn't there, but one, one
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  Speaker 6: of them paid for dinner and was told the other friend, Hey,
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  Speaker 6: don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: So Here's where things get sticky. So the other friend
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  Speaker 6: didn't worry about it. And then the original friend who
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  Speaker 6: paid is now going, how rude. I'm actually really mad
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  Speaker 6: at them for not even offering to pay me back.
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  Speaker 2: It was like at the time, don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 6: I got it, but you should still pay me back.
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  Speaker 7: Well, for me, I'm kind of siding with the other
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  Speaker 7: friend because if you're telling me, like, Kyle, if you
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  Speaker 7: and I went to dinner and you were like, oh,
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  Speaker 7: I got it.
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  Speaker 3: I'd be like, all right, cool. She's got it.
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  Speaker 7: I got it next time. Right.
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  Speaker 3: And then I would leave it at that.
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  Speaker 6: And here's where I can see both sides in it. Like,
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  Speaker 6: I definitely understand that point of view. But then also,
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  Speaker 6: if it were me and you paid for my dinner,
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  Speaker 6: I would feel like, okay, well, then I have to
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  Speaker 6: pay her back in some way. Like, maybe next time
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  Speaker 6: I'll get it or something like that. But apparently that
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  Speaker 6: hasn't happened.
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  Speaker 2: I think for me. What was the exact phrase? She said,
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  Speaker 2: don't worry about it. I got it. Okay. So you say,
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  Speaker 2: don't worry about it. I got it. I think the
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  Speaker 2: person's got it. I'm good. But maybe they need a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. Don't worry. If you expect to get paid back,
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  Speaker 2: don't worry. I got it. Get me later. Something like that.
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  Speaker 2: She needed that.
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  Speaker 3: You get the next one or I'll get the next one.
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  Speaker 3: What about you? So it almost sounds like to me,
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  Speaker 3: if I'm trying to see both sides, the only reason
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  Speaker 3: the other friend would be mad is if maybe there
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  Speaker 3: was some discussion about, The other one asked them to
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  Speaker 3: dinner and maybe they didn't have their money handy. So
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  Speaker 3: it's like, don't worry about it. So that means don't
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  Speaker 3: stress about it, but pay me back when you can,
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  Speaker 3: is what that means. So I would assume there was
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  Speaker 3: a little further conversation.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think we know everything.
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  Speaker 7: Like we're not getting the full story.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think we are. Don't worry about it. They say,
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  Speaker 2: don't worry about it. I think that means don't worry
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  Speaker 2: about it. I asked you out to dinner.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I forgot. Like, don't worry about
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  Speaker 3: it kind of means like, don't stress about it. But
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  Speaker 3: if you're going to pay me back, pay me back.
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  Speaker 6: So I feel like advice wise, I have to be like-
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  Speaker 6: You said don't worry about it. If you wanted to
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  Speaker 6: get paid back, you should have said like what you said,
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  Speaker 6: John Jay. Maybe just get me next time or get
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  Speaker 6: me later or whenever you have the cash.
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  Speaker 3: Isn't that kind of the dude rules? Like, I got it.
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  Speaker 3: You can get the next one. Isn't that kind of
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  Speaker 3: like what we do?
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  Speaker 7: I feel like a lot of friends kind of move
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  Speaker 7: and operate like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's easier to put one card. down and then get
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  Speaker 3: your girl later.
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  Speaker 6: The problem is, is this one friend is like, like
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  Speaker 6: she's like a penny pincher.
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  Speaker 2: So it.
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  Speaker 6: Might've been a risk to accept the don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 7: Also, I feel like if you know that about your
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  Speaker 7: friends and you should know your friend's a penny pincher
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  Speaker 7: and you should probably just Venmo her hat anyways.
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  Speaker 3: When you get home.
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  Speaker 2: Like we've got more friends. Let's take one step ahead.
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  Speaker 1: You say don't worry about it. Then you're making the
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  Speaker 1: person worry about it because you're expecting to get paid back.
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  Speaker 3: It's almost like you go, I got it. It's my treat.
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  Speaker 3: And then everything's handled.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 2: I got you. It's my treat.
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  Speaker 3: Then you don't need to expect to be paid back.
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  Speaker 3: But don't worry about it means like I'm covering for
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  Speaker 3: you because you don't have your cash. Pay me later.
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  Speaker 2: But you're saying to you, you pay them back.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds like that's what she's saying when she's saying,
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  Speaker 3: don't worry about it. That means for right this moment,
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  Speaker 3: but pay me back when you can.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry about it to me means don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: Right for this moment. You're saying, don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 2: I say, Hey, don't worry about it for this moment.
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  Speaker 2: There should have been an asterisk. Otherwise she's a liar.
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  Speaker 2: You are supposed to worry about it. Anyway. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think if you're your friend's snug with a buck,
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  Speaker 3: she's looking to get, get paid back. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Remember the other day, speaking of friends, And neighbors, I
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  Speaker 1: was talking about, and we did this all in the air,
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  Speaker 1: the phone number neighbor. Yeah. Right, where you call a
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  Speaker 1: number off of your phone number, and that's your phone
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  Speaker 1: number neighbor. It was really fun, and my wife, she heard,
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  Speaker 1: she listened to the whole thing, and she thought it
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  Speaker 1: was the greatest thing we've ever done.
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  Speaker 6: It was really fun because it was really exciting to see,
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  Speaker 6: were they going to be good neighbors or not?
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  Speaker 2: Amy, you have a number neighbor story?
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  Speaker 5: Hi, yes, I do, from years ago.
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  Speaker 2: What happened?
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  Speaker 5: OK, so I wanted to remember something. So I text
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  Speaker 5: myself so that I would remember to go back to it.
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  Speaker 5: I can't remember exactly what it was, but it it
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  Speaker 5: didn't really make sense because it was just kind of
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  Speaker 5: a quick reminder for me. And I was in the
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  Speaker 5: middle of doing something. And then I got a text back,
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  Speaker 5: which I didn't see right away. And it was like,
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  Speaker 5: who is this? So now maybe it's an hour or
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  Speaker 5: so later, I respond, and I'm like, oh, I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 5: I was texting myself something to remind myself, and I
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  Speaker 5: must have just pushed one number wrong. And the person
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  Speaker 5: texts back and was like, oh, well, I know you're so-and-so.
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  Speaker 5: Your address is so-and-so, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, is this.
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  Speaker 5: And then, like, texts one other thing, and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: my God. And it was right. It was my name.
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  Speaker 5: It was my address. And I was like, oh, my God,
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  Speaker 5: who is this? And he said, I'm a private investigator.
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  Speaker 5: And when you text me and it was kind of weird,
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  Speaker 5: like I'm really funny about, you know, who calls my
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  Speaker 5: phone because of my job. And so I looked you
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  Speaker 5: up and you really need to do better about making
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  Speaker 5: yourself private.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like that at all. I mean, if that
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  Speaker 3: was a decent person, they would be like, hey, you
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  Speaker 3: missed text. I'm one number off. But explaining all that,
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  Speaker 3: I do not like that at all.
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  Speaker 7: Like, he kind of, like, got you scared for a
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  Speaker 7: little bit.
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  Speaker 3: It was a little threatening. Don't you feel like that's
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  Speaker 3: what it turned out?
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  Speaker 2: Is there more?
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 5: So, basically, I was like, oh, my God. So, apparently,
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  Speaker 5: he gets pretty weird about people texting his phone because.
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  Speaker 4: Of his job. So.
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  Speaker 5: When I didn't respond right away, he looked me up.
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  Speaker 5: But I was like, oh my God, what can I do?
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  Speaker 5: And so he did give me tips on, I think
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  Speaker 5: I just had Facebook at the time, but about making
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  Speaker 5: myself private and removing certain things. So I did all
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  Speaker 5: of that so that I wouldn't be so, I don't know,
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  Speaker 5: open online. But after that, he was nice. I did
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  Speaker 5: save his number just in case I needed a private investigator,
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  Speaker 5: which I never did. And then I got a new
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  Speaker 5: phone and I don't know which number neighbor he was.
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  Speaker 5: So I don't know now, but... yeah, he freaked me out.
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  Speaker 2: Do you wish you had his number still? Do you
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  Speaker 2: wish that you could, you just had him on the
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  Speaker 2: back burner? Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: I had it for years. Just like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: He just seems so knowledgeable. So I'm like, maybe I
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  Speaker 5: can just be like, Hey, remember me? I have this question,
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  Speaker 5: but I never ended up meeting him. So I wish
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  Speaker 5: I had it though.
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  Speaker 2: Very cool.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad you called, Amy. That's a cool number in
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  Speaker 1: every story. Thank you so much. Have a great day.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for listening.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks for taking my call. Bye, guys.
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  Speaker 3: Bye.