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Dirty Little Secret: I Built a Future… But Left Him Out! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secrets mixed one O two point
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  Speaker 1: nine A chance of this Disney World vacation coming up
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  Speaker 1: next to it to be able to kid Cant of
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  Speaker 1: Slow Petz producer Pooh is here. I'm laughing because I
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  Speaker 1: just took my skates off. God, I just took my
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  Speaker 1: roller skates off. Poo and I race, And I keep
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  Speaker 1: watching the video because, oh my Pooh falling, just Poo
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  Speaker 1: on skates. It just cracks me up, because Poop can
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  Speaker 1: do anything that makes me laugh. But the way he
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  Speaker 1: fell down the hallway and rolled a couple of times.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta go see it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I watched it ten times.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's had mixed one O two nine FM mixed
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  Speaker 1: one O two nine FM. I won in the race,
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  Speaker 1: just to let you know. And I'm not trying to
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  Speaker 1: brag or boath. I want Poo to beat me in
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  Speaker 1: one of these bets. Dude, I would have won today.
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  Speaker 1: I keep telling them, I'm like, just pick a support
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  Speaker 1: or some kind of event or activity where you're really
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  Speaker 1: good at it. Yeah, it wasn't skating. He started off good,
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  Speaker 1: did I'm telling you this right? Skate gave me problems?
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  Speaker 1: That was it to tape again, look at the right skate. Noah,
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  Speaker 1: what about the right skates or something? You got a
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  Speaker 1: time mine? We're lose to I haven't. I cannot roller
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  Speaker 1: skate that well. I can roll a blade. I can
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  Speaker 1: ice skate. Roller skating's tough because there's four wheels. It's
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  Speaker 1: just weird to me. It's perfect. No, it's too many wheels,
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  Speaker 1: too many wheels. All right, if you've got a secret
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  Speaker 1: eight three three seven, eight seven one or two nine,
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  Speaker 1: whatever that secret may be, just go ahead and confess.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's that you want a couple skate with pooh,
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  Speaker 1: whatever it is, Now you got one. What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, I just honestly want to know
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  Speaker 2: if this makes me a terrible person or not. But basically,
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  Speaker 2: the father of my children is not in my will
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  Speaker 2: at all, not your will.
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  Speaker 1: So this is not is this your husband or not?
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  Speaker 1: You said father your children? Husband or no? Husband?
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  Speaker 2: Not my husband. We've been together for years and we
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  Speaker 2: have two very young kids together, but but no, we're
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  Speaker 2: not married, and lately our relationship just sort of has
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  Speaker 2: well like a business agreement, you know, then an actual
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  Speaker 2: like love story, and we just kind of go through
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  Speaker 2: the motions every day we co parent, pay bills, just
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  Speaker 2: sort of get through life. But honestly, the romance and
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  Speaker 2: the excitement, it's just not there anymore. He's a good dad.
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  Speaker 2: I will say he works hard, he has a good job.
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  Speaker 2: If I'm really being honest, he's been a pretty crappy partner. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I mean we met and everything kind of just moved
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  Speaker 2: really fast, like our heads were sort of spinning, and
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  Speaker 2: before we knew it, we had kids in a house
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  Speaker 2: and responsibilities, and suddenly it was just like whoa.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, it's hard with two young kids, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to keep their romance alive and all that stuff. I'm
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  Speaker 1: assuming so, but it feels like everything's it sounds like
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  Speaker 1: it's just kind of been blah for a while now.
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  Speaker 2: I hate to say it, but yeah, we're just sort
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  Speaker 2: of going through the motions and getting by. And that
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  Speaker 2: brings me so Recently, my father passed away. He left
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  Speaker 2: me a pretty large inheritance and there's a lot to it.
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  Speaker 2: It's not it's money, it's property, it's investments. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's a lot. It was enough that I had to
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  Speaker 2: actually sit down and seriously, you know, plan legally too.
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  Speaker 2: So I made a will and this is you know.
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  Speaker 2: My confession. My boyfriend doesn't know it. But I didn't
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  Speaker 2: leave him anything. So basically everything would go through my sisters.
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  Speaker 2: She would essentially, like, should something happen, you know, to me,
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  Speaker 2: she would essentially control the finances and make sure that
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  Speaker 2: my children are taken care of of course, and my
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  Speaker 2: kids would be obviously provided for no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: But him, I.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't leave anything like directly.
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  Speaker 1: So we're talking about a large amount of money and
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  Speaker 1: stuff that so, and he has no idea that he's
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  Speaker 1: not even he's it's not fun. I don't mean a
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  Speaker 1: l but he's just not in it at all. He
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  Speaker 1: just don't get nothing.
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean, here's my reasoning. It's pretty simple. Basically,
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  Speaker 2: he used to talk about marriage all the time, and
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  Speaker 2: he used to bring up rings and proposals in our future,
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  Speaker 2: and then over time it just stopped. And now years
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  Speaker 2: have passed and we have two kids and nothing, you know,
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  Speaker 2: And at some point I just sort of started feeling like,
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  Speaker 2: if I'm not even good enough for that level of
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  Speaker 2: commitment while I'm alive, then why in the world would
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  Speaker 2: I trust you with everything I have after I'm gone,
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  Speaker 2: you know? And I know that that.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't think it sounds cold at all. No,
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  Speaker 1: I think that's safe. I think it is too if
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  Speaker 1: you're not if you're not married, and I get you
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  Speaker 1: have kids together, you're going to make sure the kids
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  Speaker 1: are taking care of. But if he has not asked
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  Speaker 1: you to marry him after two kids, right, and he
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  Speaker 1: can't show you that kind of commitment, why does he
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  Speaker 1: deserve to be in the will? I mean, has he's
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  Speaker 1: been living there? I mean, he's not just some wrong
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  Speaker 1: guy who's mooching off her. He's I mean, He'm not
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  Speaker 1: saying he's mouching, but if the kids are taken care of,
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  Speaker 1: he takes care of himself exactly right. It sounds like
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  Speaker 1: you two are not destined to be together. I hate
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  Speaker 1: to say that, but it just sounds like it is
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  Speaker 1: what it is. Doesn't sound like you're in love with
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  Speaker 1: this man, like, oh my god, I love him. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what I do without him. He's a crappy partner.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I hate saying that, but yeah, and at
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  Speaker 2: this point we have our kids and I think we're
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  Speaker 2: just sort of both of us just going through it
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  Speaker 2: for the kids and their best interest. Yeah, But I mean,
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  Speaker 2: do you think I should bring this up to him,
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  Speaker 2: or just not even say anything.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, well, I hope nothing happens to you for sure,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't think you bring it up. If you
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  Speaker 1: bring it up, it never comes up, right. Yeah, if
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  Speaker 1: you bring it up though, Yeah, guess what he's going
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  Speaker 1: to be like, Well, I will marror you, babe. If
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  Speaker 1: he knows you can't a bunch of.
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  Speaker 2: Money, that can't be the motivation for him to finally
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  Speaker 2: he can post.
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  Speaker 1: He can find a ring real quick for sure.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Damn feels different now? Yeah, I'm feel enriched with love
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  Speaker 1: as you in a whole new life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying he's that kind of guy,
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  Speaker 1: but there's definitely some motivation there to money.
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  Speaker 2: Money does crazy things to you, does it does?
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  Speaker 1: So if he doesn't know this, I wouldn't even say anything.
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  Speaker 1: If he doesn't know the details about your inheritance, why
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't that's your decision. It's your business and I'm
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  Speaker 1: not telling you to get away from him. But at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, man, life is too short.
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  Speaker 1: If you're not happy with this guy, I'm not advocating
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  Speaker 1: if this were you were married, let's work it out.
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  Speaker 1: This guy doesn't want to make a commitment to you
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  Speaker 1: have to first of all, two kids is a commitment. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's it, But I mean, put a ring on it, bro,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing?
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  Speaker 2: Seriously?
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  Speaker 1: Who had our producer who had eight kids and no ring?
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  Speaker 1: He had three kids? Yeah, never got married. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying you're wrong, but it just didn't pan out.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we we had different views. That's the only
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  Speaker 1: reason just kept having kids. Do you miss her? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much, ma'am. Good luck with everything, and
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  Speaker 1: I hope, I hope it works out. Well, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: work out for you either way you get it up,
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  Speaker 1: of course. Can you imagine though, not knowing that your
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  Speaker 1: partner came to a bunch of money. I mean we're
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  Speaker 1: talking like I know how much because I've heard off
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  Speaker 1: the air. Do i mean houses, investments, whatever else? Multiple properties? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: multiple millions and you have no idea and guess what
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  Speaker 1: you're not in the will? Well, sorry, sorry about your luck.