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Why Not Today? Season 1 - Episode 15 with Jennifer Cook, who worked side by side with Mary Kay Ash and author of the book "Pass it On", which shares stories of Mary Kay Ash. · Why Not Today? with Leslie Kane

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  Hello, this is Leslie Kane. I am the host of the Why Not Today podcast. This is a podcast
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  to celebrate people who have been courageous and said, why not today? I started this podcast
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  to honor my father, Patrick Kane, who often said, why not today? I am based in Reston,
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  Virginia, a Planned community right outside of Washington, C.C., and thanks for joining
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  us today. And I'm super excited. I'm always excited about my guests, but I'm really excited
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  about my guests today and the day that we're doing it. And as many of you know that I am
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  a sales director at Mary Kay. This podcast is not about Mary Kay. And although I've had
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  a couple of Mary Kay people, we really haven't focused on Mary Kay. But today we are going
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  to focus on Mary Kay. And I'm super excited. My guest is Jennifer Cook, who was Mary Kay's
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  personal assistant secretary. I don't know your exact title. I don't even know for how
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  many years Jennifer will talk about that in a minute. And she is here to share about her
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  courage to write a book called Pass It On, but then also Mary Kay's courage. And I'm
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  excited about the date we're doing this. So we're recording this on Tuesday, September
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  13th, which happens to be Mary Kay Corporation's 59th anniversary. So how appropriate to have
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  Jennifer sharing her story today and some courage from Mary Kay. But before we hear
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  from Jennifer, I always like to say, you know, talk about connections and how you meet people
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  and how you get to know people. So I am part of a Mary Kay directors group. And a couple
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  weeks ago, we had a guest speaker come on who was Jennifer. And it actually was rescheduled
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  for another date. And so I was glad to be able to hear you and your stories. I thought
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  you would be a perfect person to talk to about Mary Kay's courage stories. And it was funny,
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  I friended you on Facebook and I sat there and like, okay, should I ask, should I not?
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  I went back and I'm like, my dad always said, what's the worst thing somebody could say
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  is no. And so I asked, and of course you were gracious and excited to share. So and then
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  of course it worked out for September 13th, which couldn't be a better date. So Jennifer,
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  thank you for being on and joining us today. So why don't you share a little about you
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  and fun fact about you. And then we'll go into the why not today and courageous stories.
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  Well, I was born in Dallas, Texas. I'm one of the very few people in the Dallas area
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  that was born in Dallas. And I have three sisters and one brother and my, we lived here
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  all my life and within this area. When, so it's kind of natural that I would find my
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  way at Mary Kay being a Dallas based company. I took secretarial school in high school,
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  but I was always intending to go to college and I worked my way through college at Mary
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  Kay and I was going to become a teacher, but I loved Mary Kay so much. I loved the company.
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  I loved the people. And when I got my degree, I thought, Oh, I hope I don't get a teaching
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  job, but I had actually got a scholarship from the Irving public school system. So I
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  thought, well, I need to apply to them at least because they gave me this scholarship
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  and I applied to them and there were no job openings. And I think I'm probably one of
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  the few people that was really excited that there was no job for me because I got to stay
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  with Mary Kay and I worked there for 45 years, 25 of those. I was with Mary Kay and I became
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  her assistant when I was just after I graduated, when I was just 23 years old. And I look back
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  right now and I think, you know, what was she thinking? I was so inexperienced and so
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  naive, but I have to look back and see that I learned so much from Mary Kay and she influenced
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  me so greatly. She was a fantastic mentor and just watching with her and being with
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  her was an inspiration. And the fact is that, like I said, I took secretarial courses, but
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  my parents always encouraged their kids to have two careers, you know, just a career
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  in something that, you know, anybody could do. But what we did was not what anybody could
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  do, but you know, and then a professional career. So mine was in the secretary world
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  and my fun fact is that I lettered in shorthand in high school. And, you know, everybody else
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  had their football letters, but I had actually have a letter from my high school that, you
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  know, to put on my jacket that says shorthand. That's funny. I did not know that was such
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  a thing. That was one of the things that really helped me. It helped me in college to take
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  down the notes in college. It helped me when I worked for Mary Kay because when she would
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  just start spouting things off, I could get it all down. And it is something that I never
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  regretted having done. And I still use it today when I interview people.
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  That's awesome. My mom actually took shorthand in high school and she knows it too. I'm like
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  totally don't understand it. So wow, you started working, you worked for Mary Kay or with Mary
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  Kay for 25 years. That's awesome. And so were you her only personal assistant from when
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  you were in high school? No, actually Mary Kay had a special assistant. And that was
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  the person who really worked with Mary Kay on more of her personal items. Like, you know,
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  she did a lot of the appointments, but she helped Mary Kay with her gowns and just a
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  lot of personal things. She worked with the nationals a lot. Whereas I worked more on
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  the administrative end, I was the administrative assistant. And so as we grew and Mary Kay
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  started hiring staff, I was the one who supervised the staff and just kept everything running
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  within the office. And at one time there was like 10 of us, you know, keeping up with Mary
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  Kay because she could really generate the work because she had a lot of ideas and a
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  lot of people. We have some great stories about her, which
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  I can't wait to hear. So before we start, what does courage mean to you? What would
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  be your definition of courage? Well, when most people think about courage, you think
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  about peril and, you know, coming to the rescue and showing great courage in the time of trauma.
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  But to me, courage is really stepping out of your comfort zone. There are so many people
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  with dreams and aspirations and they never make them come true because they don't have
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  the courage to take that first step to following their dream. It just seems too big for them
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  and they can't see that they really could make their dreams come true. And that's what
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  I loved about Mary Kay is that she showed women that they had unlimited potential and
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  that if they would just set a goal and put a plan of action together, that before they
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  knew it, you know, they could be climbing the ladder of success. They could be one step
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  closer to their dream if they would just set a small goal, make that happen, set another
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  goal, make that happen. And eventually the big goals would come true.
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  Right. And I'm sure working with Mary Kay, not only did you have Mary Kay courageous
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  stories, but so many people in the sales force and corporate. I mean, I admire Mary Kay,
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  the corporate side, so much that there's so much longevity that people have been there
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  for so many years. So I started my business, it'll be 28 years in November. So my very
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  first seminar, which was 1995, Mary Kay was there. And then I guess the next year is when
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  she had her stroke. And the only other year she came back to seminar was the only year
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  I messed up until the last couple of years because of COVID, unfortunately. But so I
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  never got to know Mary Kay. So I heard stories and my mentors knew Mary Kay, but I've never,
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  I've, you know, I've heard stories of Mary Kay, but never got to meet her personally,
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  experience it. So you worked with her every day for 25 years. And I know even after she
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  had her stroke, you were still very close to her. So I would love to hear, you know,
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  courageous stories of Mary Kay and maybe what you saw her, you know, starting the company,
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  first of all. So when did you start working for Mary Kay?
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  In 1971.
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  Okay.
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  When I first came to Mary Kay.
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  Company wasn't even 10 years old yet.
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  Right. It was, it was eight years old. And actually I started in what I think was the
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  year that the company was about to really take off because the company had just opened
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  its first distribution center out in California. And we also had just debuted the first two
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  national sales directors, Helen McVoy and Dailene White and opened the first international
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  subsidiary in Australia.
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  Oh, wow.
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  So there were all, all signs were there that this company was going somewhere and this
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  company was about to grow and take off, which it, which it truly did. It really was an exciting
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  time to join Mary Kay and be a part of something that went from 12,000 beauty consultants to,
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  you know, over 3 million beauty consultants. It was an exciting time to be a part of Mary
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  Kay.
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  And were they at that point public or private?
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  They were what was called the over the counter market. In 1968, they needed to raise capital.
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  For inventory and for the manufacturing. And so to raise that capital, they began to sell
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  the stock and it was on the over the counter market. It became so successful though that
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  in 1976 they went on the New York Stock Exchange.
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  Okay. And then they ended up buying the company back.
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  Right. And that was in 1984.
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  Okay. All right. So I know you wrote a book called Pass It On, sharing Mary Kay's stories
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  and lots of her stories, other people's stories. So share some of your favorite, maybe Mary
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  Kay courage stories or people, maybe start with Mary Kay. And then if you know of other
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  ones that inspired you, I mean, she's got so many Mary Kay stories, I'm sure.
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  Well, I think the first courage story that I want to share is about Mary Kay and having
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  brain surgery back in the 1950s. Mary Kay had a hemifacial spasm. Her right eye would
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  tick. Her right. And she was a motivational speaker. She would give a really great speech.
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  And instead of people come up and saying to her, oh, I loved your speech or I loved what
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  you said, they said, oh, your tick isn't as noticeable this time. And she realized that
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  people were watching her face and not really listening to what she had to say. So she went
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  to a neurologist here in the Dallas area who identified her problem as a hemifacial spasm
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  and told her that if something weren't done about it, after a while, this side of her
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  face would be paralyzed and she could lose the left side of her body. And so it was a
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  serious condition. And he referred her to the Cleveland Clinic, which was the only one,
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  I think, doing this type of surgery back in the 1950s. Now, this was very dangerous surgery
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  back then. And of course, I think that Mary Kay, you know, had to have had fears of what
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  was going to happen during this brain surgery. But she, you know, she took that step. She
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  had the courage to go ahead and have that brain surgery. And it truly was a serious
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  operation. You know, Mary Kay, ever the optimist felt that she'd have the surgery and be back
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  at work in two weeks. Well, it was four months later. Oh, wow. She was able to because she
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  of course, she almost died during that. And just the rehabilitation from this was a four
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  month procedure. But she always said that if she hadn't done that, she wouldn't have
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  been able to found the company. Because, you know, without the tick, then people started
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  listening to what she had to say again. And that made her the great motivational speaker
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  that she became.
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  I had never heard that story until you shared it the other day.
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  Yeah. And I think most people don't realize how serious that was. And yeah, was she a
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  single mom at that point? Or she married? I think she was a single mom. Yes. It's even
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  scarier. Yeah. Because it was back in the in the 50s. Yeah. The second courageous thing
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  that I think she did was when she quit her job. She had worked her way up to the director
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  of training for a direct sales company. And she she you know, she loves sales, she loved
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  motivating people. But they promoted a gentleman over her that you know, she kept hiring assistants,
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  she would train them and then they would promote these gentlemen over her. And she would always
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  say ask, you know, why didn't I get that promotion? And the answer was, well, they have a family
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  to support. And Mary Kay always thought that's not fair, because I'm a single mom, and I
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  have a family to support. And, you know, there came a time when she just had enough. And
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  so she quit her job. And you know, as she says later, when she went home, she got to
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  thinking about it. And she said, if they'd called me and asked me to come back, I probably
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  would have gone back. But that wasn't God's plan for her. God's plan for her was that
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  she start this company that would give women opportunity that she had been denied. You
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  know, she said it took her a long time to get into the boardroom of a company. And when
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  she got in the boardroom, her ideas were totally discounted. And they would just tell her,
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  Oh, Mary Kay, you're thinking like a woman. And of course, the sales force, they were
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  women. And so it was just kind of like that male mentality that it has to be the male
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  way and or no way. They wouldn't listen to her. So she wanted a company that valued women,
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  she knew women could do great things. And she wanted to show people what people could
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  do. But she wanted to show women themselves what they could do if they believed in themselves.
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  Her second motivation was to found a company based on the golden rule, which she did. And
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  just this combination of a company based on the golden rule, with an opportunity for women
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  to succeed financially and professionally was appealing to women back in the 1960s.
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  And the mission for Mary Kay, which what started with and is still today the Mary Kay mission
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  is to enrich women's lives. And that's not domestic. You know, I often say, you know,
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  we do so much more than the company itself than just products. And she came up with the
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  business plan before she came up the product line, which was great. And then the third
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  courageous thing that she did was, of course, founding the company. And, you know, she retired
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  from that other direct sales company in May. And in September, the doors of Mary Kay cosmetics
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  opened, which was called Beauty by Mary Kay. That was the first name of the company. Well,
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  if you think about it, that was four short months that she put this all together. And
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  I had no idea it was that and and launched her company. And she, she and her husband
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  were going to do this together. Well, he died of a heart attack at the kitchen table a couple
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  of months before they launched. And she and her children sat down and thought, you know,
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  well, should I go on? And her children were very supportive of her. They said, Mother,
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  we know that you can do anything that you set your mind to do. And Richard said, I'll
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  come and join you in the business. Her son, Ben, had saved $5,000 and he gave it to Mary
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  Kay to help finance the company. And then her daughter took a showcase down to Houston
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  and became the first sales director in Mary Kay. So they were very supportive of her.
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  Now, they were the only ones because her accountant told her that she could not have the commissions
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  that she had and stay in business. And her attorney sent away to Washington for a pamphlet
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  on how many cosmetic companies go broke every year. Wow. And then she met another gentleman
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  who was a businessman. And he told her that, you know, you might as well just tell me the
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  formulations right now, because you're not going to be a success. But she believed in
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  her dream. And she had was able to convince nine other people to believe in that dream
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  with her. And she always said they were just friends of mine who felt sorry for me, that
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  I had joined her when they had the grand opening, which was the beginning of Mary Kay. But,
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  you know, to go ahead and follow a dream when your husband's just died. And, you know, it
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  was with all of her life saving. That was a big step that I think took a lot of courage.
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  Absolutely. That took major courage. Yeah. And that one step of courage for that one
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  person, how many gazillion lives that has touched. Right. And it truly has. You don't
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  know how many lives and, you know, not only just the Salesforce, but then the family of
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  the Salesforce and community of the Salesforce and customers and so many ways we've touched
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  so many lives. I often wear and I do have it on net today, a starfish necklace. And
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  because of the story of the starfish. Do you know the story of the starfish? Yes, I do.
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  But why don't you tell it? Because I'm sure other people will want to hear. So the story
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  of the starfish is this man was walking down the beach and there were millions of starfish
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  on the beach. And this young kid was picking them up and throwing them in the water. And
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  the man's like, what are you doing? You can never make a difference. There's millions.
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  And he picked one up and threw it in the water. And he said, I made a difference in that one
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  person's life. And I think that's what Mary Kay really does. You just never know the lives
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  that it can touch and where it can go. And who would, I mean, my life is completely different
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  when I started really just to get my products at a discount. Who would have ever thought
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  the life I would be created. And then fast forward to I'm on a call with you who worked
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  for Mary Kay and was day to day with Mary Kay. I never got to meet her. So like how
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  many lives have been touched and yeah, just, you just never know. And just being courageous
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  to do those things and get out of your comfort zone because it's not just your life, but
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  so many lives you can change. And you know, it's not only the comfort zone with Mary Kay
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  that she inspired. I've met women who were beauty consultants who had dreams of something
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  that they wanted to do for a lifetime. And because of Mary Kay and the skills that they
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  got, you know, they were able to step into those dreams. I'll give you an example. There's
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  a chocolate here here in Dallas and she makes a chocolate high heels and chocolate Texas's
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  and she's, she's got the cutest line of stuff, chocolate lipsticks. It was a Mary Kay beauty
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  consultant and she had, she was a single mom. She had three, three daughters. She raised
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  her daughter doing, doing Mary Kay because you know, she needed the income. But then
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  after she got her daughters raised, she thought, you know, I've always wanted to do this and
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  I'm going to step out in faith and do it. But she said, because of her Mary Kay training,
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  because Mary Kay had taught her to believe in her dream, she was able to do this. And
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  now she's like around the world with her chocolate. She's in the Neiman Marcus catalog. Oh wow.
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  Mary Kay has influenced so many women. We always think about the women that are in Mary
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  Kay who were influenced by this company, but there are women who were part of Mary Kay
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  for just a short time who realized the power of vision and dreams and God had put a vision
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  in them about something else. And they, this is a great place to start, to get a foundation,
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  to build a business. Absolutely. I always tell people that, you know, you can learn
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  things. It's Mary Kay is an amazing personal growth program and things to do so many other
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  things. So there's a lot of other things I do in this world that aren't just Mary Kay
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  and most of them because of what I learned from Mary Kay and the skills and the talents
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  and the people and the tribe and the connections we've built because of Mary Kay. You just,
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  you can't even imagine how big it goes. So one of the things that I know Mary Kay was
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  courageous about, which coming from a corporate background is not prevalent in corporate America,
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  we talked about Mary Kay's philosophy of the golden rule, but also is faith first, family
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  second and career third is one of the principles of Mary Kay. And to have a company, a corporate
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  corporation that you can even talk about your faith, but live it out loud is, was very courageous.
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  So you don't talk about that, Jennifer and how she-
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  Well, yes. From the very beginning, you know, Mary Kay said God first, family second and
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  career third. And she really did live this. And I always say that Mary Kay was genuine
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  and she was humble. And there was one of the major reasons for this was that she realized
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  that God was using her, that it wasn't her that had started the company and made it successful,
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  but that it was because God wanted her to help women. She took that leap of faith. She
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  always acknowledged him. And because of that, he blessed what she was doing. And she was
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  also a great proponent of giving other people credit and recognizing people. And she would
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  say that one person, she herself could have not built this company to the great company
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  that it has become, but she always acknowledged that every staff member had an important role
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  and every beauty consultant had an important role and that together this company had been
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  built. And because she talked about our faith, that is one of the things that when you talk
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  to people about Mary Kay who knew her, they will always talk about the spiritual growth
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  that they experienced in Mary Kay because of her courage to talk about it. They never
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  felt that they had to be compromised about their faith. Mary Kay's faith was just a part
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  of her everyday life and they made it a part of their everyday lives. But Mary Kay never
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  preached. She never preached. What she did was she lived her faith. And she would talk
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  about her belief in God and how God had moved in this. She would give her testimony, but
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  she never preached or made people feel uncomfortable about what she believed. And that was just
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  a great gift to her. And because of that, she was able to influence a lot of people
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  to have that spiritual growth that many look back and just say what a blessing that was
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  to do that. And I can absolutely say one of the things we always say we got out of our
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  start a kid from starting this business is my spiritual growth. And right before we came
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  on this call, I was on a Mary Kay director Bible study and there's like 250 of us on
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  this Bible study that from all over the country don't even know each other. But one director
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  stepped on our faith and started this and it's touching so many lives and you just never
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  know. And I love that part about Mary Kay that the God first, family second went off.
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  Not just Mary Kay stories, but her faith part of it. You want to share that a little bit?
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  You went off for me for a minute. What was the last question, please?
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  Just that you had shared the other day when you were talking about writing your book that
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  you want to share Mary Kay's the faith side of Mary Kay.
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  Right. Right. And that is something that I think that most people don't realize was that
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  Mary Kay had a deep and abiding faith with her and herself. And I wanted to let other
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  people know that she was a great leader, but not only was she a great leader, but she was
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  a great Christian leader. And people kept asking me to write my book, write down my
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  stories and I really didn't feel like I was qualified to do that. What, you know, what
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  qualified me to write a book about Mary Kay? But one night I was woken, I was awakened
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  with this thought that I think came from God, that I was to write a book about Mary Kay
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  and that it was a book about what her faith was and that that was the most important thing
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  to her. That's what she would want to be remembered for. Of course, she wants to be remembered
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  that she was a great businesswoman, but I think more important, she wanted to be remembered
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  for the fact that she was a great Christian businesswoman. And before that, it was like,
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  I would always say, no, I'm not going to write a book. No, I'm not going to write a book.
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  But after that, it was like I would, I was being awakened every morning and just the
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  words would just come off of my pen onto the paper. It was like I was being inspired to
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  write this book. And I interviewed so many women who had fantastic stories about how,
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  you know, Mary Kay had given them success and given them self-confidence, but also about
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  the spiritual growth that they had experienced as a part of Mary Kay. And just listening
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  to these women and hearing their inspiration reinforced how special Mary Kay was and what
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  a great company this has been that has touched so many lives in so many ways and made dreams
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  come true.
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  Yeah, we could go on and on and on and on and on about stories and faith.
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  I wanted to say something about, you know, once you decide that you're going to do it,
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  why not do it? It's like, you know, God called me to do something that was totally out of
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  my comfort zones, totally something that I didn't know how to do. But I just didn't sit,
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  you know, I sit down and wrote what the Lord told me. But I realized that there's more
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  to making a dream come true. There is preparation and work. And so, you know, the first thing
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  I did is I took courses on writing proposals. I took courses on writing a book. I knew that
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  this was going to be a memoir for six months. I read other people's memoirs to see how they
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  had done it and just to get some ideas of how people had written memoirs themselves.
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  And I talked to other authors. I put a lot of foundation into this book. I just didn't
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  say, okay, I'm going to write a book and just flippantly do it. I mean, when God tells us
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  to do something, lots of times there has to be preparation. That there's a foundation.
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  The foundation has to be built for a big dream to happen.
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  Right. But, you know, and you write in the book, it was that prompting of God and saying
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  why not today? But yeah, and then you got to put the work behind it and be smart about
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  it. So yeah, with why not today, it's making that decision, but then being smart. This
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  Bible study I'm doing is called, the book is basically saying yes to God, which is,
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  you know, why not today and what you did. And then it said you have to have insane obedience
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  or something like that and then be obedient to the steps into getting it done. Yeah. And
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  it's not easy. And I'm sure you've had days that you're like, why that?
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  Yes.
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  People you've been around or why don't you tell us a fun Mary Kay story since you've
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  got, since we're with the Mary Kay storyteller.
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  Oh, okay. A fun Mary Kay story. Well, this is one that happened to me and it's one of
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  my funniest ones because Mary Kay was always on a diet like most women. And she was very
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  interested in nutrition because of her work in cancer awareness. And she would take these
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  cancer newsletters and of course they always had articles about nutrition and they had
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  these recipes, which I tried one one time and I thought, oh, this is the most horrible
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  recipe I've ever tried. But a group of us, there were four of us at lunch one day and
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  they, Mary Kay started the nutrition talk before we had our lunch. Well, the waitress
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  came up and she said, I'll take your order now. And Mary Kay said, well, you'll go first.
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  So we all ordered turkey sandwiches, diet cokes and salads, because after all we'd had
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  the lecture. Then Mary Kay turned to the waitress and she said, I'll have a cheeseburger, french
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  fries and a chocolate malt. And she had a twinkle in her eye and you know, just that
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  I gotcha look in her eye. And to make matters worse, she slurped her malt to prolong her,
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  you know, enjoyment of fooling us.
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  Yeah, she definitely had a sense of humor from one of her and lots of fun stories. We
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  could go on and on. So what would you say to somebody to empower somebody to be courageous,
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  to start that business, to write a book, to say why not today? What would be your encouragement
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  for somebody?
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  The promptings, you know, if you get a prompting and we argue with ourselves, we think, oh
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  no, I didn't really hear from God or oh no, that's not really what I was meant to do.
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  We're trying to talk ourselves out of it. Well, why not? I mean, why not try? What's
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  the worst thing that could happen to you? As Mary Kay, she had this little saying, she
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  would say, become a member of the Din Din Club. Well, Din Din stands for do it now,
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  do it now. So when you get those promptings, if you just take that first step, it would
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  be amazing the doors that will open for you. If it is meant to be, those doors are going
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  to open. Just take the first step.
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  Absolutely. Totally agree. So, oh my gosh, so many great stories and so much great information
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  about Mary Kay. So I always try to tie back my guests to a connection with my father because
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  this podcast was kind of started in his honor. Now, obviously, I've never met my father and
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  he did pass away. But I was trying to kind of think of different things. And with you
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  and with Mary Kay, one, his faith was very strong and he was definitely part of the Din
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  Din Club. And he often said, as we always talk about, why not today? But also, two,
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  what's the worst thing that can happen if you try and you say yes or ask that question
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  or just start? He did own his own business and worked for himself for years. So I kind
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  of saw that modeled in my life, which was then gave me the courage to do what I've done.
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  And I know for Mary Kay, family was very important. And same with my father. I mean, he worked
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  for himself so he could be there for us. There were six of us kids. And I remember like it
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  was yesterday when I started Mary Kay, my dad was a little leery because I'd just finished
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  my master's degree. What are you doing? But when I qualified for my first car, I'll never
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  forget, he talked to my senior director and said, complimented her and Mary Kay and how
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  it had changed me. And so it wasn't about the car, but the person I was becoming with
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  qualifying for the car and the personal growth in the business. And he was very leery. But
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  one of his one of my biggest cheerleaders and because of Mary Kay, when he was sick,
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  I was able to be there when he passed away and I was sad, I was able to be sad and, you
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  know, not take time off. For me to be where I am doing the things I am right now. Oh,
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  I think my internet's being a little unstable so we can hear us. So anything else you want
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  to add before we say goodbye, Jennifer?
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  Well, you know, it's so obvious that your dad was a great influence in your life. And
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  you know, his philosophy has been passed on through you. Mary Kay always told us, pass
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  it on. And so I commend you because you are passing on the philosophy that your dad taught
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  to you and the philosophy that Mary Kay taught to you. And it is a great thing when we have
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  positive mentors. And if you don't have a positive mentor in your life, I can recommend
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  one and that is Mary Kay Ash. And I did write the book to show what a great leader she was
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  and my book is on Amazon.
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  Where can we find your book and how can we connect with you?
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  And you can connect through Facebook. I have a Facebook page that's jennifercook-author.
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  And I had so much fun interviewing national sales directors that I'm continuing to do
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  that. And I post I continually post stories about Mary Kay that their experiences with
• 35:38
  Mary Kay and it's just a lot of fun to talk to them. But it's a lot of fun, I think, to
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  read the articles to see how Mary Kay interacted with people and to know that she was just
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  a down to earth person who was truly an inspiration to everyone who met her.
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  Yep, absolutely. Well, I will share in the show notes or on Facebook and everything how
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  people can find you on Facebook and find your book and I have not I admit I have not got
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  the book yet. I'm going to order it today. But thank you again. Gosh, what a special
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  day. Spotify, iTunes, I think I added to Google pretty much anywhere you can find a podcast.
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  We do have some fun Why Not Today gear. We've got t shirts and cups and vinyl. So if you
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  want to start the movement with us and say why not today, let me know. We are working
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  on the website. We will have that ready hopefully soon. So again, Jennifer, thank you for joining
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  us and happy 59th anniversary to Mary Kay. That's right. So much luck with your book
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  and I can't wait to get my hands on it. So thank you. And don't forget everybody say
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  why not today. Thank you. You're welcome. Thank you.