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- 0:17Find yourself in.
- 0:23Thank you for joining the Hope and Possibilities podcast.
- 0:26I'm Nola Simon, and today I actually wanna talk about podcasting
- 0:31itself and why I am actually not doing guest episodes this year.
- 0:35Podcasting is actually.
- 0:40A real responsibility.
- 0:42It's actually interesting how it's developed.
- 0:45My understanding of it has developed since I started.
- 0:48Podcasting is not really just a marketing tool.
- 0:51Tool, it's a form of leadership.
- 0:52It's cultural stewardship.
- 0:55It's an act of discern discernment.
- 0:58Podcasting is powerful because it creates culture and.
- 1:03That is an interesting thing.
- 1:05I've learned a lot since 2021 about podcasting.
- 1:13It's got an ethical responsibility that we really don't talk about an
- 1:16awful lot, and you can actually see that because a lot of podcasts have
- 1:20really become enmeshed in politics.
- 1:27Right.
- 1:27So that's, that's kind of an interesting development.
- 1:29Journalism is changing an awful lot.
- 1:32You know, it's, it's really not just TV interviews and magazine
- 1:36articles and newspaper interviews.
- 1:39It's the podcasting that gets a lot of times the longest interviews
- 1:47with some of these politicians.
- 1:49And that has been something that's, an interesting trend to follow.
- 1:53So I'm not necessarily interested in politics, but I am interested in how
- 1:57we choose our guests and the messages we choose to amplify and how we
- 2:03decide whose voice gets a platform.
- 2:09Podcasting is often framed as casual.
- 2:11It's, it's a vibe, right?
- 2:13And I actually like conversational podcasts.
- 2:16I don't like to script, I don't necessarily provide
- 2:20questions ahead of time.
- 2:22I tend to focus on a topic and ask the guests if they're comfortable about
- 2:27talking in general, a about a topic that, you know, pertains to their expertise.
- 2:32But I, I don't like to necessarily script everything out, right.
- 2:36I have done episodes where, you know, we've done practice sessions
- 2:41beforehand for people who haven't necessarily interviewed an awful lot.
- 2:45I have done edits.
- 2:47I've asked I've worked with guests who've actually wanted to approve edits
- 2:52to make sure that they're comfortable because it is representing them
- 2:55professionally and I understand that.
- 2:57So especially if you are new to being interviewed it's really about
- 3:01developing that comfort level now.
- 3:04I also have learned over the years that I wanna limit the number of
- 3:08times that I do that for people because it's an awful lot of work.
- 3:12And I found a, a cheat code basically in terms of how much editing you have to do.
- 3:19If you interview professional speakers and authors who have a very specific
- 3:23message, you have to do less editing.
- 3:26So that's.
- 3:27In itself a, a learning curve that I've, I've discovered
- 3:32there've been learnings that I've had.
- 3:33You know, those, those authors, those professional speakers,
- 3:37they come sometimes with.
- 3:39Things that make them comfortable but aren't necessarily great
- 3:42for audience engagement.
- 3:44I had somebody on the podcast, he was a keynote speaker, he is a professor.
- 3:50He came with slides and it was an entire lecture.
- 3:54I. And essentially he was doing a podcast tour and that's what made
- 3:58him comfortable to be able to do so.
- 4:00Essentially, he was delivering that same type of lecture to every
- 4:03podcast that he was on, which was not what I was expecting.
- 4:07The whole presentation basically felt like I was just an audience member
- 4:12rather than an engaged host who is actually having a conversation.
- 4:18That I didn't love.
- 4:20I had another guest who started checking his phone in the
- 4:22middle of the podcast interview.
- 4:25We were on video and he still felt comfortable enough
- 4:28to present as distracted.
- 4:32I debated whether to edit it out, but on the whole, I decided I'm gonna leave
- 4:38that in because that represents you.
- 4:41And if you are comfortable doing that publicly.
- 4:47I mean, I felt disrespected, but again that represents who you are and who you
- 4:54feel you want to represent yourself to.
- 4:57My audience.
- 4:58So those are kind of
- 5:05explanations of, of what I've learned is sometimes you want to.
- 5:14You always wanna present your, your guest in a positive light and make
- 5:18sure that you know that the whole experience is comfortable for them.
- 5:23But if they make specific choices, you as a host have the discernment
- 5:30to be able to decide whether what they're communicating actually.
- 5:37It needs to remain in the episode or not, right?
- 5:43I watch a lot of people I don't know that people understand that
- 5:47the way that I choose my guests is more it, it develops over years.
- 5:51Like I follow people.
- 5:53I have a really huge number of people that I follow on LinkedIn
- 5:58and I followed them for years and.
- 6:02It's about developing trust in their messages, making sure that the way
- 6:07that they show up is not performative.
- 6:10That there there's consistency in the work that they do, making sure that
- 6:14they really believe what their writing and how that actually is valuable.
- 6:23And that's not to say that, you know, people haven't evolved over time, right?
- 6:26Like I've invest, I've invited guests.
- 6:29Where, you know, now that they're, some of them are retiring, some of them
- 6:34changed business models completely.
- 6:37The, the original podcast episode doesn't speak to who they are right now.
- 6:40I had one guy who actually changed corporations since similar job,
- 6:44but different corporation I think.
- 6:47And like I've gone back to, to people to say hi, like.
- 6:51Do you wanna delete your original episode like it served its purpose?
- 6:54You don't owe me anything if this is not something that you wanna
- 6:57represent professionally anymore.
- 6:59Do you want to delete that?
- 7:01And
- 7:11I'm sorry
- 7:14people have said no because it captures the moment in time.
- 7:19And it's not necessarily something that they want to advertise, but
- 7:23they're comfortable with having it represent them professionally,
- 7:26which I feel is beneficial.
- 7:30So I vet podcast guests a lot.
- 7:32I almost never accept cold pitches.
- 7:35I have, I have done interviews with people I don't necessarily know well,
- 7:39but usually they've been a referral from somebody else who's been a guest.
- 7:43So.
- 7:44The friend or the friend, the people that you respect will grab my attention
- 7:49because you as a podcast guest, you've already, I've already vetted you.
- 7:53Now I don't almost get it right.
- 7:55There was somebody that I had known, I'd actually worked in
- 7:58the same company with them.
- 7:59I'd followed their, their journey that kind of started as like their
- 8:03own independent entrepreneurial journey at the same time I did and.
- 8:09The episode itself went fine.
- 8:12Everything up until the episode was great.
- 8:13And then after the episode was published, she didn't share it.
- 8:18She didn't comment, she didn't respond to any emails.
- 8:22It, she basically just ghost to me.
- 8:24Now we're still connected.
- 8:26She hasn't blocked me on anything.
- 8:27She just doesn't engage and it's strange.
- 8:31I don't really actually understand it, but, you know, I had a guest, she just
- 8:37didn't wanna have an ongoing relationship.
- 8:40Right.
- 8:42And that's really something that I, as a, like a relationship manager have
- 8:45always leaned into is like, I, my podcast guests, anybody who's I've worked with,
- 8:51you've been assigned to me, have had an ongoing relationship with, you know,
- 8:56you're, you're, you're mine, right?
- 8:58I've committed to a relationship with you, so you respect me, I respect you.
- 9:02And you know, at any point you can engage with that
- 9:09relationship that we have.
- 9:10Like honestly, there's still people that I work with 10, 15 years ago
- 9:14who sometimes come back to me.
- 9:15Right.
- 9:16And that's great.
- 9:19I love that.
- 9:20Right?
- 9:20I, I love people who will have the ongoing conversations and, and who understand
- 9:25the, the value of, of engaging with me.
- 9:32Not everybody's gonna want to do that, right?
- 9:34So that's where
- 9:38if I've got you know, the majority of people I've interviewed who, who
- 9:41are willing to do that, I can really kind of write off the, the ones who,
- 9:46who don't, which would be one really and, and call that a win, right?
- 9:54So sometimes I don't get it right either.
- 9:56I, I wanted to mention a woman that I, I read her book.
- 10:00I followed her online significantly for a fair amount of time.
- 10:05She has a fantastic history.
- 10:06She's really well in.
- 10:09She's got an incredible network.
- 10:11Like your network is so incredibly deep and you know, she seems to be
- 10:15really respected and really valued.
- 10:18I invited her to come on the podcast and while I was actually waiting for
- 10:21her to actually decide whether she wanted to do that, I checked her Twitter
- 10:25'cause I, I followed her on LinkedIn mostly and, and engaged with her there.
- 10:30And then I realized that she was openly supporting JK Rowlings
- 10:34opinions and visions on trans people.
- 10:41And it stopped my quilt.
- 10:44Now she declined because she has her own podcast in the way that she
- 10:47chooses to present herself and to build that network and leverage it.
- 10:51She doesn't need to appear on other people's podcasts, so she
- 10:54doesn't actually do guest spots, which, you know, fair play.
- 10:59I mean, you've got a deep enough network then you should own that.
- 11:02I think that's, that's fabulous that you're at that point.
- 11:05I, I, I.
- 11:09It aspire to really have that type of deep network.
- 11:13And so she declined and I felt like I dodged a bullet because I
- 11:17didn't do enough due diligence.
- 11:18And even though I'd followed her for probably 18 months, I'd never
- 11:23looked at her Twitter because, well, I stay off Twitter as much as I can.
- 11:28I haven't closed the account because sometimes it's useful for stuff like this.
- 11:32But, that's really important.
- 11:33So you know, are you showing up on every platform as you are, you as a host, when
- 11:39you're doing all that research, are you checking all of the public places that
- 11:44these people show up and looking to make sure that the way they present themselves
- 11:50the values, even though they seem aligned on one platform, when they start looking
- 11:54at other topics that are adjacent or even unrelated to the way that they.
- 12:01They work professionally.
- 12:03Are those all in line with the values that you as a host
- 12:07want to present to the world?
- 12:09What are you giving a platform to?
- 12:10And so, as I said, she declined for her own reasons, but I felt I
- 12:15dodged a bullet and I really kind of,
- 12:20you start to wonder if you've done enough due diligence and that puts me back.
- 12:27And also.
- 12:28I myself have come across a couple of different topics where the guests have
- 12:33actually asked me to delete things within the podcast and I deleted
- 12:37them, but I wanted to discuss them and the reasons why I've done that.
- 12:40So there was one time that I told a guest a story.
- 12:44It is a true story of my own work experience.
- 12:47I worked with somebody who.
- 12:50He was very much an in-person person.
- 12:52He was the type of person who wanted to be in the office five days a week.
- 12:55He was very visible.
- 12:57He was the type of person who had the standup desk, and
- 12:59he stood all day, every day.
- 13:03And he was extremely tall, very I mean, he, he, he was attention getting.
- 13:10And so people noticed when he was in the office and that form of visibility.
- 13:16I think he perceived that to be very key to his professional success,
- 13:20and I, of course was very different.
- 13:22I was campaigning hard for work from home, flexibility, all
- 13:28of the things that I do now.
- 13:29And so I was coming into the office and I would sit near him on the days that I was
- 13:34in the office and the entire time that I was in the office, he would glare at me.
- 13:38For eight hours a day, I would catch him just glaring at me during the day.
- 13:43It was very uncomfortable.
- 13:44It actually made, going into the office unpleasant.
- 13:48It's what people would call a microaggression.
- 13:50He never did anything violent.
- 13:51He never did.
- 13:52He just made the experience of being in his presence incredibly uncomfortable.
- 13:59There was one time I was invited to go to a high performers lunch and, and.
- 14:05He attended as well and he glared at me the entire time because he
- 14:10even presented the fact that I was invited to the high performance lunch.
- 14:13He didn't think I deserved to be there.
- 14:16And the way that it ended up you know, the lunch wrapped up,
- 14:19people went to the bathroom.
- 14:20I ended up being alone with like the, the A VP and the, the vp, and we
- 14:25walked back to the office together.
- 14:27Again, it wasn't planned, it was just.
- 14:30Serendipity, that whole magical water cooler moment.
- 14:34And I walked back into the office with them and he was livid.
- 14:39You could tell.
- 14:42So anyways, I was telling this guest about this, this story, and the way the the
- 14:47story ends up is well, COVID happened.
- 14:50And obviously work from home became mandatory and nobody was in the office.
- 14:56And during that period of time, and I dunno, the full story, he
- 15:01killed himself and I told the guests the story and she was shocked
- 15:06because, is that my story to tell?
- 15:11Well, it is my story to tell because it happened, it
- 15:14impacted my experience at work.
- 15:17It.
- 15:17Really underlined my awareness that the stories that people tell
- 15:24themselves about the way that work happens and can happen really is really
- 15:29deeply embedded in identity and how
- 15:37that informs the way that their understanding of the
- 15:40future of work will develop.
- 15:43And honestly.
- 15:46Within that context, it's not just thought leadership, it's not just
- 15:53interesting, it's not just academic.
- 15:55It's actually affecting people's lives.
- 15:58And in his case, and again, I don't know his full story because
- 16:02I left the company and I, I wasn't actually in contact with him at all.
- 16:08It was life or death.
- 16:10So.
- 16:13These things matter right now.
- 16:16Her reaction was actually really interesting because it
- 16:23made me pull back and assess how you tell those stories and who owns those
- 16:28stories and what type of permission do you need to be able to tell those stories.
- 16:32So I deleted it, but I, I still think that that story deserves
- 16:38to be told because it has.
- 16:43Some deep issues connected to it that are worth exploring.
- 16:49So how do you tell it in a way that's not performative in a way that's
- 16:55emotionally resonant, that conveys respect
- 17:02and, and fosters trust?
- 17:04Right?
- 17:05But doesn't.
- 17:06Sensationalized doesn't put him
- 17:11in a negative light.
- 17:16It's a challenging, challenging, searching story for me to, to talk about.
- 17:20And even still, you can hear my hesitation as I'm, as I'm telling it.
- 17:24Right.
- 17:24Another episode where I was talking to somebody who, as an expert on
- 17:30neurodivergence and belonging at work.
- 17:33And so we were talking about AI and how ai is really trained on the
- 17:38dominant messaging that's happened.
- 17:42Like how LLMs are trained is it's, you know, what's been published,
- 17:45what's been published, what's, so the majority of times if you've got
- 17:50a male dominated field, what's being published, what's being made public,
- 17:54what's being recorded has all been.
- 17:58Predominantly white, cis male.
- 18:02And so that messaging that's happening in a lot of different AI and how the
- 18:08LLMs are trained is, is really kind of biased and not capturing, you know,
- 18:13the experiences of people who are suppressed and have never been published.
- 18:20Right.
- 18:20So it's, it's women, it's people of color, it's marginalized communities.
- 18:24It's, you know, anybody that industry and media has not felt
- 18:30deserved a platform before.
- 18:32So what does that mean?
- 18:34So I was telling her that in my opinion, that what that means is
- 18:37AI will become, AI that's trained on that will become ubiquitous.
- 18:44And so anybody who has that sort of perception, you're going to sort of blend
- 18:48into what AI is because that's how the LLM has really been trained is on that world.
- 18:55Experience that, that point of view.
- 18:58So anybody who hasn't been published, so like that, marginalized community,
- 19:02women whatever community has not been dominantly documented, and therefore
- 19:10that documentation is not available to train an LLM, you'll have the ability
- 19:15to stand out because you'll be unique.
- 19:18You are not gonna blend into the, the messaging that's coming from AI
- 19:22because your experience has never been available to be stripped and trained.
- 19:31Used to train.
- 19:33And she told me that she thought that that was a thing that we should actually
- 19:37not talk about at that moment because.
- 19:43When a dominant community becomes threatened and they feel threatened,
- 19:46violence normally ensues.
- 19:48So what does violence mean?
- 19:50It's dangerous, right?
- 19:52So they, and they could mean like.
- 19:56A very generalized, they could retaliate to what does retaliation
- 20:01at work look like and what does retaliation in society look like?
- 20:07So again, these are unintended consequences.
- 20:10So the, the AI has been trained on the voices of the dominance, which means that
- 20:17the people who weren't never dominant, those voices are gonna be unique.
- 20:20So that retaliation.
- 20:22To suppress those unique voices could become more extreme.
- 20:26So I, I think it, I think she's right.
- 20:30I think that is a risk, but literally, I don't know that not
- 20:34talking about it is the way to go.
- 20:37Right.
- 20:38I think you just have to be very cautious and, and look at the ethics
- 20:44and how we want to use ai knowing the.
- 20:51The risks.
- 20:52Again, it's not academic.
- 20:54It's not just nice to have, it's not just thought leadership.
- 20:58It's not just a thought exercise.
- 21:01It's how this then shapes culture and influences how people treat
- 21:08each other and how we pay attention and who we are ignore, who we pay
- 21:12attention to, who we erase and who.
- 21:17Benefits from the way AI is used and embedded into workflows and society.
- 21:25Right?
- 21:27Those are all really important things to talk about.
- 21:34So podcasting is pr, people do book tours.
- 21:38That's, that's really the way that I found an awful lot of my guests.
- 21:41They wanna amplify a book that they've, they've produced.
- 21:45So it's a PR tour, but it's not just a PR tour, it's part journalism.
- 21:50It's part pr, but it's.
- 21:54It's really a hybrid of storytelling, publicity, responsibility, and it carries
- 21:58real stakes because podcasting gets picked up by media, especially if you
- 22:06are somebody who has an elevated profile.
- 22:09Look at the Liam Payne podcast that he did with Logan Paul.
- 22:14Look at the Malcolm Gladwell podcast that he did with Steven Bartlett,
- 22:18where after like an hour and a half, he gets tired and he starts talking
- 22:21about work from home and the importance of actually working in person.
- 22:24And do you really want to spend your life working in your bedroom, in your pajamas?
- 22:29And what kind of life does that give you?
- 22:30And that went viral, hopefully worldwide.
- 22:33Liam, that podcast, he was, I I, I, I've refused to watch the entire thing.
- 22:40So I've seen clips, he, he, he seemed to be intoxicated.
- 22:45He,
- 22:49he seemed incredibly vulnerable during it.
- 22:52And as a host, I would never have published that podcast
- 22:56because I don't think that.
- 23:02The way that he showed up that particular day, he was making good decisions.
- 23:08I don't think that he was thinking long term about the impact of what he said, how
- 23:15that would ha affect his relationships, how that would affect his public persona,
- 23:20how that would affect his mental health.
- 23:24I don't think he understood.
- 23:29The repercussions that that podcast would actually have and the fact
- 23:35that that podcast is still live.
- 23:39I don't respect that.
- 23:42He was obviously in a lot of pain from the clips that I've seen.
- 23:49And I don't think that's censorship.
- 23:50I think that's care.
- 23:51So podcasting requires a duty of care, a willingness to slow down,
- 23:56to reflect, to hold complexity.
- 23:59You know, the, the microphone is powerful, interviews are powerful.
- 24:03But that ability to edit that ability to, to look at something and say,
- 24:12if I care for you as a person, I can't allow you to go on the record.
- 24:17Saying what you just said.
- 24:21I think that that's powerful, right?
- 24:24So thought leadership is not academic.
- 24:26It's not just branding.
- 24:27It really has an impact, and I think it should be treated seriously.
- 24:31It's not just a let's dash this off and get to the next episode.
- 24:36You have to consider that what we norm normalize.
- 24:40What we amplify, what we ignore has a real consequence.
- 24:44When it's recorded, it gets repeated.
- 24:47It gets spun into something else.
- 24:49It gets clipped, it gets reshared and it builds a narrative.
- 24:54And especially when you add in something like AI where you can't necessarily
- 24:58control that narrative or hallucinations actually happen and you know that's
- 25:03going to become something different.
- 25:07You know, I, I think that's, that's something that we have to really look at.
- 25:17So, and there's another story I wanted to mention as well.
- 25:19I was scoping at somebody somebody actually who.
- 25:23Has had a long-term relationship with two women who've appeared on my podcast
- 25:26that I deeply respect, and I really liked a lot of what he was saying.
- 25:31He, again, was an author, he was a speaker, he's a trainer.
- 25:36You know, I liked an awful lot of what he was was saying.
- 25:39And so he actually reviewed one of my episodes.
- 25:44He actually gave me really glowing reviews.
- 25:46Really enjoyed that.
- 25:48You know, I gave him some reviews on his, it was just kind of like
- 25:51basic relationship building, right?
- 25:54And then he started writing about a topic that I recognized was very
- 25:59related to one of my guests, actually the guest that he wrote the review for.
- 26:05And I saw one post that he did and, and.
- 26:11I tagged her, and again, I was just like, hi, I don't think you've
- 26:14actually been formally introduced.
- 26:15I just think you have a lot in common that it might be beneficial
- 26:19for you to know each other.
- 26:22And I, I tagged her on the post.
- 26:25And so the intention was to, to really connect somebody who, you know, I thought
- 26:30they had things in common that they might spark you know, mutual recognition.
- 26:35It felt generous, natural, I was.
- 26:37The intention, and again, attention always doesn't meet.
- 26:41The outcome was to
- 26:46network in a positive way, right?
- 26:49So he did not respond that way.
- 26:51He did not think that I had positive intent.
- 26:56He privately messaged me and.
- 26:59It was the most passive aggressive email or DM that I've received.
- 27:04He wasn't thanking me.
- 27:05He wasn't clarifying.
- 27:06He was scolding me.
- 27:07He accused me of playing LinkedIn police and said that I should
- 27:12have asked him privately first.
- 27:14I. For one, you've already commented publicly on that podcast, you know who she
- 27:19is because I have the review to prove it.
- 27:22And his message was framed to putting me into place, giving me the benefit of
- 27:26the doubt that I didn't necessarily mean to shame him, which of course I didn't.
- 27:30I really felt condescending and controlling, and he
- 27:34wanted to put me in my place.
- 27:37Now.
- 27:39Personally, what I felt after that was that he was planning to write
- 27:50something similar and he felt that my connecting him to her.
- 28:01He, he said I was a tattletale.
- 28:04The thing is like nothing is new, like you don't own these concepts.
- 28:08And I mean, however he came to that, even if it happened to be a
- 28:11similar idea concept, I mean, her, her message honestly is, is not
- 28:19really completely brand new either.
- 28:20Like it's how you combine your expertise with those concepts,
- 28:26the stories that you tell.
- 28:28How it all can be unique, right?
- 28:30So like what's unique, what's, what's creative is how you present your own
- 28:36personal view of these concepts, right?
- 28:38So it might not be a completely brand new concept, but your perception
- 28:44of it and your, your explanation of it could be completely unique
- 28:47in, in different messaging, right?
- 28:49He really reacted badly and I basically said, you know, I'm sorry
- 28:55I. I obviously intended to connect people that I felt had similar things
- 29:01in common, and I didn't mean to offend, I'm sorry you were offended.
- 29:09But for me, it wasn't just about that message, it was the fact that there
- 29:14was a gap between who I imagined him to be and who he turned out to be.
- 29:18I felt like I'd misjudged him like I missed something that was very obvious.
- 29:22In hindsight, I started paying Costa attention to the word of
- 29:25mouth effect and how any tight net network, regardless of gender, can
- 29:30really create reputational shields.
- 29:33So had I overlooked behavior as his, that was uncomfortable just
- 29:39because of who he was connected to.
- 29:42And and how does that word of mouth effect mask bias?
- 29:48So that's, that's another story, obviously.
- 29:52I mean, I, I still connected to him.
- 29:54I don't engage on anything he writes.
- 29:56He doesn't really engage with me anymore.
- 29:58I haven't blocked him.
- 29:58He hasn't blocked me.
- 30:01It was completely professional the way we left it, but it, it made me think that I
- 30:06need to do more due diligence and I need to be more discerning about how I invite.
- 30:15So
- 30:18every guest, every question, every edit, every silence,
- 30:21it all builds culture, right?
- 30:23So podcasting is leadership.
- 30:26It's not just the kind of leadership with applause or status though.
- 30:29It's the kind of with ethics and accountability and an understanding
- 30:34that whatever we publish and make public has an impact and it.
- 30:41It could be a temporary impact, but it could also be a long standing impact.
- 30:46I mean, that Logan Paul interview that Liam Paint did that was
- 30:50what, 2018 and he's dead and people are still talking about it.
- 30:55So
- 31:00it has a way of taking on a life of its own that you can't necessarily control and
- 31:06you have to be really cautious with it.
- 31:08Right?
- 31:09So who are you trusting?
- 31:12I came across a podcast host the other day who had 200 episodes that he'd
- 31:17fed the transcripts into a you know, a custom GPT and is making that custom.
- 31:23GPT.
- 31:23He's selling access to it so that you can ask his guests anything.
- 31:28I'm sorry.
- 31:29Do you own that expertise now?
- 31:30Like what kind of consent did you get?
- 31:33That floored me.
- 31:34I mean, I like transcripts.
- 31:36They're great for SEO.
- 31:38They're great for pulling quotes.
- 31:40They're great for learning what worked in an interview.
- 31:42It didn't, you know, what questions did you ask?
- 31:45That seemed to really open it up there.
- 31:47I used, honestly, I listen back to episodes and I use transcripts to analyze
- 31:51my own performance, how I can prove as a host, but how do you respect that?
- 32:00Intellectual property, right?
- 32:02And who are you giving the mic to and why?
- 32:04What norms are you reinforcing?
- 32:06Even passively?
- 32:08Are you protecting your audience or just your reputation, right?
- 32:12So you have to consider what's going out to your audience as well, right?
- 32:20And who gets the benefit of your discernment.
- 32:24So my goal is always to.
- 32:27Be trustworthy.
- 32:28How do I foster more trust?
- 32:31It's not about going viral.
- 32:34You know, so far I have not gone viral with my podcast.
- 32:38It's not really the goal though.
- 32:39The goal is really to support conversation and talk about from all
- 32:44kinds of different perspectives what the future of work is going to be.
- 32:47And I call it a love letter because.
- 32:51I am optimistic that we can craft work that's better and we are going to
- 32:57make choices that's going to be make work healthier and more sustainable,
- 33:03and we can co-create that, right?
- 33:06So what does that discussion look like, right?
- 33:10I'm not always gonna get it right, but if I'm being very self-aware and I'm
- 33:15very much paying attention to the nuance.
- 33:20And how I'm inviting people and how I'm interviewing them and how those
- 33:24interviews live on and, and how they interact and they tell a, a larger story.
- 33:30That's really where the responsibility is, and that's real leadership.
- 33:36Right.
- 33:37I wanna talk a little bit about sponsorship.
- 33:38So I'm my own sponsor.
- 33:41I would love to have a sponsor, but finding a company or a brand
- 33:45that can match the level of care, concern, ethical alignment I
- 33:47hold is incredibly challenging.
- 33:50Agendas very wildly.
- 33:52There's one guy that I know who has a sponsorship with an oil company and
- 34:03he he, it's about heart leadership and how to lead from, from people.
- 34:10And his sponsor is an oil company.
- 34:14He's got some interesting concepts of how
- 34:20values and ethics work is all I'm gonna say.
- 34:24So you have to make sure that the values align and my vision for the future.
- 34:30Is often controversial.
- 34:32It's pushing boundaries that many are not necessarily ready to embrace.
- 34:36I'd love to have a sponsor who shares the commitment to integrating
- 34:40courage, but I have no interest in being governed, filtered, or having
- 34:43my opinion throttle to fit a marketing narrative or corporate comfort zone.
- 34:48I'm choosing to sustain the work independently so I can hold the mic with
- 34:52full freedom and full responsibility.
- 34:54So that doesn't mean that I'm not ready to talk.
- 34:58If somebody is listening to this and you're considering what that future
- 35:02of work looks like, and you think that we could have a partnership,
- 35:05then talk to me if you believe your brand can meet the hard bar.
- 35:10If you're ready to support courageous, honest leadership without compromising
- 35:13or controlling the message, pitch me.
- 35:16DM me, email me nola@nolasimon.com.
- 35:21You can find it, anything on the website as well.
- 35:23I'm interested in a company like that.
- 35:28What does that look like?
- 35:29I have no idea.
- 35:30We'd have to co-create it together, right?
- 35:37I think that sponsorship can be an amazing thing, and podcasting
- 35:42can be an amazing thing, but
- 35:46you have to be incredibly careful with the influence you're wielding.
- 35:53And that's my commitment to you is how do you, how do you lead in a way that.
- 36:02It has integrity.
- 36:04And that's my, my commitment to my guests, to me, my company, you know,
- 36:10any client that I work with, my family.
- 36:18That's, that's who I wanna be.
- 36:22So anyways, thank you for listening and again, I'm always
- 36:25interested in people's response to.
- 36:29My ramblings and you know, if you feel like talking or giving me feedback or
- 36:34even a review or rating, hey, you know, the, those are, are hard to come by.
- 36:39That would be great.
- 36:40Thank you so much.
- 37:13Find yourself in.