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The Main-Side · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Hoping and we talk back where we encourage you to
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  Speaker 1: hustle hard, laugh, ladder, and always keep it cute. So
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  Speaker 1: grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to
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  Speaker 1: go down.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 3: Back, big nasty throat nigga. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, AJ.
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  Speaker 2: Holiday, y'all is stair Bama. I love y'all the season
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  Speaker 2: changing my ship cut off?
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  Speaker 3: You know it's dry and wet.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I love you to AJ. How you doing how?
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  Speaker 3: And I love your back?
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  Speaker 2: How's your weekend? Well?
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  Speaker 3: My weekend was, uh, I did go outside this weekend? Okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 3: If y'all want to tell dinners and stuff I do eat.
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  Speaker 2: She wants to be like, I ain't do nothing. Oh wait,
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  Speaker 2: I did do something.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's not like super eventful. You know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying. I'm going to Miami this weekend, so I'll
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  Speaker 3: have maybe for next week. I have some things to
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  Speaker 3: tell you guys Miami. I'm one of my friends from well,
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  Speaker 3: she's a friend of a friend, like my first home
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  Speaker 3: girl I met when I moved to Saint Louis. This
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  Speaker 3: is her friend I met through her. She executive produced
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  Speaker 3: this movie called July seven. It's about the assassination of
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  Speaker 3: the Haitian president in twenty one or twenty two. I
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  Speaker 3: know the United States did does shit, but anyway, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so it's gonna be a lot of Haitians out there.
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  Speaker 3: I presume it's a black tie event. Oh yeah, and
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  Speaker 3: sit and my dress doesn't fit. Bitch, been trying to
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  Speaker 3: starve herself for a day, just only got one day.
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  Speaker 2: Well bring me back in Haitian girl, You do not.
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  Speaker 3: Want one of them niggas men. First of all, his
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  Speaker 3: mama gonna do some centrea on you something.
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  Speaker 2: I want one of them niggas with a side of
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  Speaker 2: black rice. They're black rice.
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  Speaker 3: Is good, black rice. It is good. I had black
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  Speaker 3: rice for the first time last year. I have used
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  Speaker 3: black rice to do my hair. You know, you do
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  Speaker 3: like the rice wash. I bought black rice to do
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  Speaker 3: that because it has like a lot of antioxidants and
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  Speaker 3: shit like that.
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  Speaker 2: Mh.
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  Speaker 3: But that fucking black rice is good, so good. It's good, nigga.
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  Speaker 2: His mama made it for me one time many years ago,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I think I could be Haitian.
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  Speaker 2: He could, Mary Haitian.
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  Speaker 3: What you had going on?
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  Speaker 2: Y'all? Oh? What did I do this weekend?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: I went to see the Hot Boys Tour. Lil Wayne
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  Speaker 2: and the Hot.
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  Speaker 3: Boys back that ass up.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gud, y'all, if this show is coming to
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  Speaker 2: your city, please go see it. I had so much fun.
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  Speaker 2: I was going from sweet to sweet, drinking up Nigga's.
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  Speaker 3: Sounds about right.
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  Speaker 2: It was a good old negro, y'all. But I paid
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  Speaker 2: for it the next day because I had to fly
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  Speaker 2: back to New York in the morning. And I'm just
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  Speaker 2: not built like I used to, Like I used to
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  Speaker 2: be able to drink and then get up and function
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  Speaker 2: the next day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that shit been over for me. I really
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  Speaker 3: have to plan them type of nights because I already
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  Speaker 3: know I'm gonna be in the house down bad the
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  Speaker 3: next day.
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  Speaker 2: The next day, all day. That's how you know liquor
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  Speaker 2: is poison.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, your body literally be like did stop?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? It feels so good while you're doing it, though, because.
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  Speaker 3: You'd be feeling stupid while everybody else drunk and you
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  Speaker 3: just sitting there looking at them being stupid and drunk,
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  Speaker 3: Like you gotta join them or else, like you might
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  Speaker 3: hit somebody, like get your drunk ass away from me.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about going to have some drinks tonight. But
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  Speaker 2: I was like, nah, you ain't never over it. Relax,
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  Speaker 2: you drinks Sunday. You didn't drink Monday because you was
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  Speaker 2: hurting from Sunday. Did you drink on too day? Relaxed,
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  Speaker 2: it's Wednesday. Just be sober. But it's like wine night
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  Speaker 2: at this spot and everybody's going and I kind of
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  Speaker 2: want to go, but I'm not going to go.
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  Speaker 3: Not the wine night. Wine makes me feel depressed. And
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  Speaker 3: I don't even be depressed. It just makes me feel
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  Speaker 3: extremely mellow. I don't like it. Oh just down, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. It's not you need up, you know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like a little little man. I might have to mix
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  Speaker 3: it right with little little whoa got it. Let's get
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  Speaker 3: in the stupid internet news man, all right?
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  Speaker 2: I love this one. Glorilla calls Duke Dennis medium ugly.
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  Speaker 2: So it was a video and he was like he
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  Speaker 2: heard the song and he heard his name and he
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  Speaker 2: was like, wait, is she talk about me? In that
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  Speaker 2: first part where she says she like niggas medium ugly,
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  Speaker 2: she wouldn't talk about me in that part, but she was.
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  Speaker 3: He definitely was, so hold on, what's the legs?
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  Speaker 2: It?
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  Speaker 3: Says Gloria Raps that she likes her partners tall and
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  Speaker 3: grimy and mixed with a little bit of ugly, before
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  Speaker 3: seconds later calling out the popular streamer with the line,
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  Speaker 3: Duke Dennis, what's up with you? Is a lot of
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  Speaker 3: Tonni's fine. He's a nice looking boy. Is he not
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  Speaker 3: a nice looking man?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's good looking. He's medium ugly, he's handsome.
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  Speaker 3: Is he medium ugly?
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  Speaker 2: Though?
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  Speaker 3: Is that what medium ugly is?
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  Speaker 2: When I think of medium ugly, I don't think of
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  Speaker 2: like ugly for real. I think like kind of right,
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  Speaker 2: it's just a little bit like not too manicured.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I think of who do I think of?
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  Speaker 3: Like it? Just Alba is like medium ugly? Like it
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  Speaker 3: just Alba is not Like I can't even say he's
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  Speaker 3: not super aesthetically pleasing, because he is. You know, I
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  Speaker 3: think it's just all in cumbersing of all the things.
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  Speaker 2: The aura word.
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  Speaker 3: For your encumbensing. Encumbersing, y'all tell me what it is. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I know what I'm trying to say anyway, But like
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  Speaker 3: the whole his aura like energy everything, you know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying, makes them this fine ass medium ugly, And
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  Speaker 3: I think just medium ugly means.
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  Speaker 2: Man, yeah to me too, because I feel like Aaron
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  Speaker 2: Pierre is not medium ugly. He's just beautiful. He's just
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  Speaker 2: like pretty. You know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even think he's cute at all. See, that's
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  Speaker 3: the thing. So it's.
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  Speaker 2: I think he's like pretty either. No, he got that
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  Speaker 2: was pretty as he got all these beautiful like.
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  Speaker 3: All encompassing there you go, Google.
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  Speaker 2: I like words, man, uh so, but Skepta is just
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  Speaker 2: fine as hell. He's not.
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  Speaker 3: Girl the google him too right now.
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  Speaker 2: I am I adore him?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So is he a medium ugly? A hood fine?
• 7:14
  Speaker 3: Is hood fine a thing? I think? I think hood
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  Speaker 3: fine is also a thing?
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  Speaker 2: Hood fine?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like niggas in Miami and.
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  Speaker 2: Me them ugly and hood fire and be kind of
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  Speaker 2: similar though, because it's just kind of like a little rough, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, a little rugged.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Oh. They got a picture of them together, how about that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, train, This is.
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  Speaker 3: A picture of Skeptic and Aaron here together, and both
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  Speaker 3: of these niggas was in the club. I am definitely
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  Speaker 3: picking Skeptic I think men behaved a little bit more
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  Speaker 3: when light skin niggas was in. These dark skinned niggas,
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  Speaker 3: you thinking they bad bitches many more than the light
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  Speaker 3: skinned niggas did.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you when that shit started, Wesley Snipes
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  Speaker 2: kicked that ship off. Wesley Snipes kid the dark niggas
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  Speaker 2: thinking bitches down hill.
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  Speaker 3: Ever since then, Wesley Snipes.
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  Speaker 2: Wesley Snipes then came motherfucking Moore's chestnut and it was over.
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  Speaker 3: Diggs ass, Yeah, what's that movie? I just seen a
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  Speaker 3: clip of it with Wesley Snipes and Along changing places, right,
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  Speaker 3: not changing places?
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  Speaker 2: It was uh ah, God, damn Wesley Snipes and Nia alone.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, not Along, excuse me, not you along to violate
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  Speaker 3: them dis ap paary acts. Oh yeah, okay, I saw
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  Speaker 3: a clip like from a part of that movie the
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  Speaker 3: other day and that ship was so fucking triggering how
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  Speaker 3: he was gassedlighting the fuck out of her. Did you
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  Speaker 3: do you remember seeing that?
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  Speaker 2: You remember that movie that?
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  Speaker 4: Well?
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  Speaker 2: I have to see it again.
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  Speaker 3: Let's watch that movie this week. Can come back talk
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  Speaker 3: about it next week.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let's do it. Everybody watched Disaperiodics. We're going I'll
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  Speaker 2: talk about it on the shu.
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  Speaker 3: You know Terry McMillan had that's in a chokehold as
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  Speaker 3: fucking kids, Yeah she did.
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  Speaker 2: There's no reason that we should have been reading that
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  Speaker 2: type of literure.
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  Speaker 3: And I think we probably have a better perspective of it,
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  Speaker 3: or different perspective now as adults too. We'll have a
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  Speaker 3: different lens.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, like just watching like waiting to exhale as a
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  Speaker 2: grown woman versus when I watched it as a Child's
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  Speaker 2: just such change lens. Yeah, oh, and nothing has changed
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  Speaker 2: in thirty years. We're going through the same exact shit.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't nothing changed. So y'all like fine hood fine or
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  Speaker 3: medium ugly niggas? I think we all like medium ugly anyway.
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  Speaker 3: I prefer speaking of medium ugly. What happened?
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  Speaker 2: I said, I don't want to know nigga who thinks
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  Speaker 2: he better than me?
• 9:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, be in the bathroom and the mari longer than you.
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like doing it. I hate listen as much as
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: I love Drake. I hate how he do that little
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  Speaker 2: potty lip thing. Stop doing that?
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  Speaker 3: You know, Drake thinking a bad bitch all day.
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  Speaker 2: He just posted a new PITCHU, and I'm like, damn
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  Speaker 2: motherfucking fine, And I don't even you know, red Bones
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  Speaker 2: ain't really my type, but him and that ty Lepley,
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  Speaker 2: Oh my.
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  Speaker 3: Now, ty Lepley is like ty Lepley has a different
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  Speaker 3: His look is different though, like he is fine and
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  Speaker 3: he has a grunge look at the same time. And
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  Speaker 3: he's not pretty though he's just fucking gorgeous. He's not pretty,
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  Speaker 3: you know, Like he's not a pretty light skin nigga.
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  Speaker 3: He might be light skin, but still a dark nigga.
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  Speaker 3: Drake is just light skin.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, here we go, brothers.
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  Speaker 3: No no. But speaking of medium ugly and ship, which
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  Speaker 3: y'all think about Neil, Neil is technically medium ugly. He
• 10:51
  Speaker 3: take the hat off right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's I feel like his personality might be
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  Speaker 2: a little medium ugly too, because he's just been some
• 11:00
  Speaker 2: bad stuff coming out about him. I mean, I don't listen.
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  Speaker 2: If you're in the parly lifestyle and you can afford,
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  Speaker 2: you can have as many bitch as you can afford,
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  Speaker 2: as far as I'm concerned, as long as everybody is
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  Speaker 2: in the know. But I just hate that. I just
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  Speaker 2: always associated Neo with a gentleman, you know, like the
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  Speaker 2: dun correct.
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  Speaker 4: Bad stuff, those hats and suits and the year of
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  Speaker 4: the Gentleman album, and I thought he was a family man.
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  Speaker 2: And it's just all that's how you just never you
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  Speaker 2: think you know a person.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so he actually speaks on telling his kids about
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  Speaker 3: his poly relationship. He continues to double down against any
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  Speaker 3: anyone criticizing criticizing his embrace of polyamory, it says, following
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  Speaker 3: his divorce in twenty twenty two, when his ex wife
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  Speaker 3: Crystal Renee accused Neo of infidelity, the forty five year
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  Speaker 3: old singer had and spotted out in public with multiple
• 12:02
  Speaker 3: partners and spoken about his perspective on dating. So he
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  Speaker 3: has multiple girlfriends. Now, everybody know each other, everybody on
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  Speaker 3: vacation together. Everybody looking like they be having a great
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  Speaker 3: time with him.
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  Speaker 2: They look pretty happy. But well, remember what was that rapper?
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: He had, like a couple girls and his harem rapper.
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  Speaker 2: He was like kind of fat, he had a big
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  Speaker 2: old but.
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  Speaker 3: Oh then they got to Texas what's the name? Two times?
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  Speaker 3: Two times?
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  Speaker 2: A couple of times that didn't work out though you
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  Speaker 2: saw high that ended sadly like that, Just like you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's hard, first of all, getting three bitches to get
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  Speaker 2: along with each other for over years.
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  Speaker 3: Just impressive they were getting along them niggas. Be Those
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  Speaker 3: are the men that have high tolerance for like headaches
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  Speaker 3: and bullshit. They it's like that, like they just are
• 13:02
  Speaker 3: able to function in that type of toxicity. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 3: I am actually happy he's finally living in his truth
• 13:10
  Speaker 3: quote unquote unless y'all human's favorite shit to say, living
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  Speaker 3: in the truth, which is some bullshit. But yeah, now
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  Speaker 3: he's not lying to women at least, like he has
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  Speaker 3: all these women that knows know what they're getting into
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  Speaker 3: and they are signing up for it, right, so they
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  Speaker 3: have all full control and all consent for the bullshit.
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  Speaker 3: Unlike his ex wives. He had the first wife have
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  Speaker 3: a damn tie her tubes, telling her he didn't want
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  Speaker 3: any more children. That he left her, then married Crystal Renee,
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  Speaker 3: had two kids with her, cheated on her with a stripper,
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  Speaker 3: and got that bitch pregnant too. Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Just not the year of the Gentleman.
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  Speaker 2: I guess that was.
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  Speaker 3: I was doing all this while making their songs. Well,
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: I'm so sick of love songs.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, should listened.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they ain't never lie.
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  Speaker 2: It's scary out here, that's like why Sometimes I be thinking,
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  Speaker 2: like should we all pick one person? I think as
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  Speaker 2: a woman, it seems like you're be getting the short
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  Speaker 2: end of the sticks sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: You know, men created marriage so they can all somebody,
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  Speaker 3: so everybody would have a chance at getting pussy. That's
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  Speaker 3: what I believe. Okay, just lock lock in a female
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  Speaker 3: whoever you can lock in, lock her in. You know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, like before that, they would be
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: clubbing bitches over the head to get their pussy.
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  Speaker 3: You know, like, man, I don't think that's happening. Not
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  Speaker 3: the most black people.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: How do you have humanity came about? You know, like
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  Speaker 2: continue to speak humanity.
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  Speaker 3: We've been humans, this human for a very long time.
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  Speaker 3: There's another group of people who are kind of young
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  Speaker 3: on the planet now. They might have been in kieves
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  Speaker 3: and knocking bitches over the fucking end. We have we
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: have cultures where women were like real life metriarchs, Like
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  Speaker 3: we was running shit and men did what we told
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  Speaker 3: him to do. So all thezulus, Yeah, a lot of
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  Speaker 3: different tries, a lot of different cultures. Yeah, we're getting
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  Speaker 3: back there too, were getting back there right now. That's
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: why the niggas be fighting us so hard because they
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: know it's coming. The moa arc is coming back. Furthermore,
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  Speaker 3: of speaking on medium ugly, what you think about Uh,
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  Speaker 3: it's a medium ugly day. What did you think about
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  Speaker 3: Cruci possibly dating Dionne Sanders.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm here for it. I'm a fan of dion Sanders.
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  Speaker 2: I like his energy is very strong masculine energy. And
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  Speaker 2: I know if it's true, he is kneeling Kruci little
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  Speaker 2: self to the bed.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I like that for her because I know he
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: probably like real healthy, he gets up and joll every morning.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: Nigga got good heart health. That ship wrong, bitch. I
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: know it's strong. It looked like it gets strong.
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  Speaker 2: And he's probably like very like like uh, very like
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  Speaker 2: not bossy, but like that's a grown man, Like you're
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: not playing with Leon Sanders. Like she probably had to
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: be a little baby that Listen. I don't see them together,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm here for it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like that.
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  Speaker 2: You don't seem like she was like a man that
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  Speaker 2: much more sure than her.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm probably tired.
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  Speaker 2: I'm probably wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah that's what happened. You just listen, get somebody who
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: ain't playing no more games? Ship they tired. They don't
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  Speaker 3: want to do much. They won't lay the fuck down
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: to Yeah, aplication, take some yacht trips.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I got invited to Barbados next week, and
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to decide to do. I don't want to go.
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  Speaker 3: Go. I'm so jealous. I'm going to Barbados this year.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: I'm jealous. If you go, you ever been? I know
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  Speaker 3: I want to.
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  Speaker 2: Live there Wednesday to Sunday.
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  Speaker 3: That's not long enough. I need nine days. I ain't
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  Speaker 3: got expensive.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: I gotta go to school. That's where I have to
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: be after it, like they're going to be gone. But
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: I can't. I can't go. I already paid those classes,
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  Speaker 2: so I got to cook.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Barbado's expensive as hell too.
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  Speaker 2: Man, But yeah, I don't know. We'll see, We'll see
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  Speaker 2: if I go.
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  Speaker 3: Go, man, go for me. I'm going this year for sure,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm gonna take a long trip if I got
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: to go by my fucking self.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Do we have a baddie. It's the last week of it, there.
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  Speaker 3: Is, y'all. But you know, Black history is all year.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: Black history is American history. And you know, I was
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: having a little back and forth with a friend of mine,
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: a very close friend of mine about this the other
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: day when I saw the headline, because man, I swear
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: all I get is negative hairline and negative political headlines
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: all the time. Remember how to tell you Tammy. But
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: it wasn't just you. I mean in that day, I mean,
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: motherfuckers was slamming me. And it's like, I feel like
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: people be trying to get you on it. Ah got
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: you look at this hat. This is your voto for
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: type shit. No it's not internal. No, I don't think.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: I really don't think it's internal because I don't think
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: that people were critiquing any other president as much as
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: the current president. People were not the Shade Room and
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: nigga when the Shade Room have did the Shade Room
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: post about Biden Son Smith of coke and shit instead
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: of coke off a stripper butt and have an underage
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: girls and a and a uh yeah, none of that
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: shit ever happened. I don't know about done embezzling all
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: type of money in Ukraine. Whedon saw none of those headlines,
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: the things that are now coming out in the news,
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: which is why he pardoned his entire family. But those
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: were never headlines on black media. So what I would
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: like to see is some of the positive things, especially
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: when it's pertaining to black people.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Listen, I hear anything positive black.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So Alice Marie Johnson, I don't know if y'all
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: have ever heard of her, but just recently Trump appointed
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: her to be pardons are So this is a newly
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: creative position in one of his kind, you know, in
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: American history. So, she's an American justice reform advocate and
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: former federal prisoner. She was convicted in nineteen ninety six
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: for her involvement in Memphis cocaine trafficking organization and sentenced
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: to life in prisonment. Now they're saying she was aheaded organization,
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: but she had never been in jail a day in
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: her life, pride to being convicted and sentenced to life
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: in prison. So she in twenty eighteen, June twenty eighteen,
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: after serving twenty one years in prison, she was released
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: by the She was released from the Federal Correctional Institution Aliceville,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: wherever that is. And then she did get clemency from
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Trump as well, And I think Kim Kardashian helped with data.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: And so since then, since she's been out, she's been
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: you know, working on prison reform. She's helped other people
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: gain their freedom as well. So last week February twentieth,
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: twenty twenty five, Trump named her as his administration's pardons
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: are And I think that's great news as much black
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: people as we.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Have more parts are exactly so.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: She would be she'd be working, you know, with the
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: Department of Justice, and it is exactly what it is,
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: just like you have the borders are the person who's
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: who was in charge.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: So she's pretty much taken Kim Kardashian job because that's what.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: Well, Kim Kardashian was just the face because she's a
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: big name, right. There's people who Kim Kardashian was working with,
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: like different organizations that do this shit like they you
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, they help people get pardons all
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: the time. But Kim Kardashian, you know, she's been helping
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: because of who she is.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Why not definitely was the prior.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: She was the face of a partner. Yeah. Yeah, So
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: I mean, whoever we got put in place to help.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: This black woman. I always support black women, black women
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: doing great things. What's her name?
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Her name is Alice Marie Johnson, and she is a
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: baddie and a Jeminiah.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: We salute you. You're a baddie who talks back.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: All right, y'all, So I know we were talking about
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: who the hell was we talking about anyway, y'all? Oh
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: when we were talking about neo ass side bitches, name bitches,
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: new bitches, Baby Mama is all ship?
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Oh is red blue bitches?
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: This week we want to know, you know, because the
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: side bitches be be thinking that they be women. Let's come, okay,
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: side women, the side women, the extracurricular activity women. You know,
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: my one I The the thing I hate to see
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: them say is don't ask me, actual man, bitch, who
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: are you talking to? And then the main you know,
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: the main who thinks she's entitled to all the things
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: like who's really winning? Who's the main chick versus the
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: side chick for this this week's episode.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Who's winning that fight?
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: Like who's you ever't been a side chick? All right, y'all, were.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Gonna get into that conversation when well, give it.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: What's up?
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Y'all?
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Welcome, and we talk about podcasts, and today we're delving
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: in a controversial topic with relationships. Okay, main chick versus
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: side chick? Who winning does anybody win.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: Nobody wins when the family fuse. Okay, you ain't family
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: if you're the sidebitch.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: Now according to who that's true? Now, side bitch be
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: turned into the main fast.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. We saw
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: that movie The Family that Praise God, you these movies,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I think it was, but don't give me the Lion.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: So it had Alfree Woodard in it. I can't think
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: of that white lady's name, but she's in it. She
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: was amazing and Sonata Lathan okay, and she played the
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: side chick to.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: L Oh what happened? That was a rumor.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know anything about that. So, yeah, she played
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: the side chick to the Kiff Cart that was his name,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: the white guy who was Yeah, and she had the car,
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: she had all the money. She had like three hundred
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: thousand in her savings. But it did not end well
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: for her.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Didn't she get pregnant?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: She said, my son is a Kiff Card. But I
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: don't know how true that was because they never really
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: went back into that.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, I definitely remember the movie now, see.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: But yeah, she was like side bitch extraordinary, you know.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: So let's let's define the roles, right, what are the
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: roles of the main chick?
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: You would say everything everything important, Like all right, she
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: gives the kids, she's with the family, she nurtures, like
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: she feeds the family. She is his one and only
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: when it comes to it, like it'll be like him
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: and her when it's all over. That's the main chick.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: That's the one that everybody knows about. That's the one
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: who takes the family portraits. That's his main. Yeah, that's
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: the main So that's the wife. Well, not necessarily because
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: it could be a girlfriend too.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: Okay, we'll talk about it from both both aspects, like
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: a married man would a side or married woman would
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: a side. And then like the boyfriend girlfriend okay, because
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: I feel like with boyfriend girlfriends, like if you ain't married,
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: like you like fair game.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you like you can't post somebody for you're a homewrecker.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: You fucking my boyfriend. No, he's out here choosing right
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: if that's your husband. Now, now you got to let
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: the stand on my boyfriend.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Really don't suit in the state of North Carolina.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I mean sometimes like we will look at a girl
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: crazy if she messing with somebody man and maybe they
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: not married though.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: The celebrity world, I look at all the people crazy,
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: like if you fucking we all know that's that lady husband.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Are her boyfriend there? Yeah?
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: Why are you on him? And then you talking crazy that.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Ship with Jello Jello ball and Nikki Baby. That hurt
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: my feeling.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: We know that. That's so why you why you on him?
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: That's why I like, I love Sweetie. I like Sweetie
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: a lot man what she do, but I just did
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: not like seeing Sweety on little baby lap, like you
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: know that's Jada way the old man. Yeah, it's just
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: why are you doing that? Chicken headish anyway? And it
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: was so what's the world is?
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: But they wasn't married though, so it's not married, but
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: they are publicly that if his laugh is open, do
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: he does she know his lap open?
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: But see, this is why I say women also have
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: to take accountability. The owners does not just fall on
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: the man. Like, yes, the home record is the motherfucker
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: that's in the home. But if you intentionally and knowingly
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: engage with a man knowing.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: That you reationship, you're just as culpable.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You can now I've definitely
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: been on some ask him, don't asks me type ship.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. With a boyfriend situation at work,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Ain't that the same shit? Huh?
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Ain't that the same ship? Though?
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: You know how I find out like because most men,
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: like you don't know, they're not going to tell you
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: that in a relationship. Now, all of a sudden, somebody
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: randomly calling your cell phone. So when a person does that,
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: I'm never gonna let you feel like you got to live. Sorry,
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: I might cuss him out, but you don't got no
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: love when you call him, Okay, because you're coming to
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: me as a woman, and I'm coming as a sniper
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: every time period. Okay, So saidebitches. So side bitches don't
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: have like pictures with family, and they don't be on
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: vacation with the Sometimes, yes, a lot with the sidebitch.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I mean sometimes the family like the sidekick better than
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: they like the man.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: And they waiting for her to get the hell up
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: out of there.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a slippery slopes, it really is. It's it's
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: real nasty.
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: I feel like when women cheat, like we actually have
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: side men like because only because men play the side
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: better than women. Yeah, when women play the side y'all
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: calling this man's wife, y'all, popping up places, y'all getting
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: pregnant y'all in the video, Like Diddy, it's a woman
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: with a man, is like he really playing his role.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Right because he don't want the responsibility of being mad
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: all the time? You know what? That mad?
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah? He I think side chicks don't want the man
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: all the time either, like do acquire him? The relationship
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: oftentimes soils typically.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: You know what, when it's a younger woman and an
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: older man, I think that dynamic is like I don't
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: want him for real. I just want the bag right
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: he doing, he takes me out, I have fun. I
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: don't want her responsibility. But when they're peers, when they're
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: about the same age, that woman might want that man
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: for real, you know, like he's gonna leave her for
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: me energy. Yeah, And that's just the biggest mistake as
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: far as I'm concerned. Don't ever want to take a
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: man from out of a home.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because side pitches be cooking for niggas like you tripping?
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Why are you cooking for are? Like? Because trying to
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: do all the things that the wife isn't, you know,
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: or the main chick isn't. That's what they're trying to
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: fill that space.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: And I just feel like if he's gonna be a
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: side girl, it's like a fun position, right, business trips,
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: you know, you with him, things like that, like and
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: you just always shut the fuck up and quiet, don't talk. Girl,
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: Cholston got some drama going on. It's a girl and
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: there she They put it all on you on Facebook.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: How they went and beat up the husband's girlfriend who
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: apparently they used to have threesomes with, but he chose
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: the other person.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened with Stevie j and Mimi and Joscelyn
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: her name.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: They used to these three sons together.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: That's what I That's what I thought, like they had
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: like an intimate fum relationship. And then he kind of
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: went another direction.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: No, these are real life ratchets, Like I'm gonna sing
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: you this Facebook video because the bitch got her stucking
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: still hanging off. It was her her daughter, which is
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: a young adult. His mama, His mama was there because
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: it happened at her house. And he likes the wife better.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: I mean, she likes the wife better. But they all
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: jumped the girlfriend.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Oh that's that's fucked up. He chose yeah, instead of jumping.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: But the girlfriend was talking shit online, well maybe rebuttal
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: online to the girls talking She like, I'm not about
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: to just shut the fuck up all the time while
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: you talking shit to me just because you supposedly the
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: wife like he obviously is out the door.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Was it a real wife, like were they legal years?
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: I don't think. I mean, I don't think the sor shit.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: I think she should be quiet. I don't think she
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: should be arguing. But you don't really have a lyric
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: to stand on. This woman has a valid reason to
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: be angry with you, but.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: She came in as a unicorn, so you invited that
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: shit into your relationship. And then maybe y'all cucies ain't matchup,
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: and he chose the unicorn.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Is it always just about Cucci? I don't think it's
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: always just about Cucci.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: So I heard that he's making and I don't even
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: know these people. Girl, This is just what I heard
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: to the grapevine, Like he he's actually even trying to
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: change his life for this girl. She's a little younger
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: than the one he's married to. The wife obviously is
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: super ratchet, right, But I think they all kind of remedial. Also,
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it sounds like a.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Very remedial situation. But there are times where men will
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: have a wife and been with her for a long
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: time and then trade her in for a new model.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: That happens. It'll start as like just an affair and
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: then becomes the the side becomes the main because she's
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: more youthful, makes him feel younger, makes him feel more alive.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: Well, my mom is a prototype, because that's swear of God.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: All my daddy girlfriends and current wife, they're younger than
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: my mama, but they look like my mama.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: Like, that's really like a younger version of you. That's
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: so hurtful.
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: They didn't really win the winner. Okay, I'm not paying
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: on bills with Nigga. That's the way to work. Why
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: you got this, old man?
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: Is there perks of being a side chick? Though? Are there,
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: like really perks?
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: They're suppose it's supposed to be about perks. You're not
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: supposed to be falling in love and all this shit,
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: but people do it.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: So how do you how do you stop from like
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: you don't be delusional? I'm like such a hopeless romantic.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I don't think I could like survive in that type
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: of relationship me because I'm a fall in love.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fall in love because I match energy.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: So if I don't feel you falling in love with me,
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: I'm not just going.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: I can't you think the niggas don't love their side
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: nigga be acted up at home being mean to his
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: wife because him and his side bitch having a bad day.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Remember that. I was like, you'll be surprised how me,
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: but just have relationship issues with your nigga right?
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: Why you so sad?
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: Baby? I gotta nobody like that man got you.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: Getting your nigga tad because his side bitch hurting his head.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: Dog. I used to be like, listen, don't like my
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: space is zenned out. My whole life. Wherever I'm at
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: is zen It's quiet, it's smell good, it's clean, it's
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: fun over here. Don't bring that bullshit that you got
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: going on at the house, your baby mama and the
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: kids and all that shit. And now you're coming over
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: here mad, disturbing my piece. I ain't do nothing to you, yeah,
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: but obviously you need an outlet right quick. And now
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: you're coming to my house with the bullshit. So I've
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: in my twenties. I definitely spent some years in a
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: situation like that, and I did not know about the
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: other person initially, but you already fall in love. Yeah,
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So it's hard to get
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: out of there. But you got too, bitch. I had
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: to move, Yeah, I don't know, like relocate.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I think, all right, so I'm single, and i've
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: been single for a minute now, but I'll be feeling
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: like if I had because I'm kind of stuck in
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: my waist a little bit, if I had a man
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: in the home all the time. I already told you
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: I might want him to have a side, bitch, so
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: he could just like get on my face a little bit.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: Not right away, but after ten years, after ten years
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: looking at this nigga day in and day out, like damn,
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: ain't nobody check it for you? God Dad, Well, like
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I'm the import person who like you, I get me
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: a break, nigga go to her house at the while,
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: Really care no more, but I just better not I'll
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: find out about it. You be, just just don't let
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: me find out if you're out here outside, because the
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: minute I find out like I don't have patience for
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: finding out no more. Yeah, but if you're doing it
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: and I don't know more, part to you, bro, and
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: if she okay with the amount of time that you
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: give her, Hey, man, y'all do y'all think, just don't
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: bring me nothing.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: After two years, I'm feeling like I might be feeling
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: like that. I might just be saying that I might
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: be heartbroken if I found out my man was doing that.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: But the way, how is my life right now? I
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: know that that space would make me happy, but like
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: you know, time away, So maybe I probably need like
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: an open situation, but not at first, just maybe like
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: later seeing the same person day after day after day
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: for a year after year after year.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: That don't sound crazy, It is crazy. I'm living it
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: right now.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Too much pressure when I'm home alone.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he don't even get on my nerve and
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: none of that shit. Like I really really be chilling,
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: like we have a little I can count how many
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: times we like had a little back of forth. You
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying that Nigga told me, Hey, he
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: told me to shut the fuck up the other day. Now,
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I was pissed about that.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: You probably needed to.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: Like, because he was really shuffling trying to get the
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: fuck out of the house, and I just was still
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: going at him, sounding like my mom heard my mama voice.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Come up my body, bitch.
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: Because you know, I was mad about the equipment. If
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: I let you hold something dog like, take care of it,
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: you know. So it's not about the things. It is
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: what is your value system?
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Our value systems don't it was it was an accident.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: It looked like he was changing oil with my fucking
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: cable and that nigga, don't fix that car, okay, So yeah, like,
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: take care of my things, treat your ship, how to
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: fuck you ever you want to. But when it comes
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: to my things, don't touch him. And then he gets mad.
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: When I asked him how to touch my things, he
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: told you to because he was shuffling at the door.
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: I said, yeah, you' trying to hurry up to get
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: out the house in it. He shut the fuck up.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: That's the rude.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Hell.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: Know, well I should have not It's okay to shut
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: up something, No, because I be shutting up a lot.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: So when I do yell and I get mad, it's
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: because I have already shut the fuck up twenty times over. Yeah, okay,
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: so now you're gonna get this.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: But once you get to a space where nigga is
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: verbally telling you to shut the fuck up, maybe just shut.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: Up, or maybe take accountability and say, you know what,
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: you're right, my bad. I do care about more shit
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: than sneakers. I do. I do care about you know,
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: your cables and things.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: I think probably by that point you had already driven
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: it home and now you was just like because I.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: Didn't get a response from him, that was the first
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: response with shut the fuck up anywhere?
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Going to work, don't nobody, No, we might have just
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: got off though.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: No, for real, the nigga had just just got off, right.
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: I had a long day at work. Whatever, talk about
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: a motherfucker.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: I don't be on it. I don't be on nobody
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: hit that bad. So if I get on your ass,
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: you deserve it, okay. And I was already fucking aggravated
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: at your ass too. So it's one thirty PM and
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: I'm tidy. Humans.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: I was like, she wants to be on her period
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: day might have been, Yeah, it was given. It was
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: given period energy.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Okay, so a period.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: She was like, I don't have the bandwidth for any
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: more of this today. I'm done.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: I still did the work though I did Okay, yeah,
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: that's all that matter. I would not have been able
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: to do that if we kept going to circles and
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: then I just calculate time different because I know my bullshit.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: Some people don't know they bullshit. I know our bullshit
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: as a team, so I know how long it takes
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: us to do things. So I'm calculating that in my mind.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: But I feel like you did it this time. I
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: absolutely did.
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: I absolutely knew he wasn't going to have time for
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: some next shit. Now we happened to because of our bullshit.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I knew it would play out just like.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: How shut up by?
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: Like we're gonna have a break. I was like, yeah, okay.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: So supposedly the main chick is public. Okay, they have
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: the official title, the social Recognition Emotional Investment. But I
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: feel like the man loves the side it's been on.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: How long she've been around. I feel like you sleep
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: in anybody long enough, you be around anyone long enough,
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: you are going to develop feelings for them, right, you
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. You may not be about to
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: discard your entire family for this person, and some people have.
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: Kevin Hart, for example, he didn't discard his family, but
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: he you know his wife.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: Well, I think they had already broken up before.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: This is why, this is why Tory Hart always be
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: like because remember his current wife, what's her name? Yeah,
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: that's somebody else. Even anyway, Kevin hart current wife, I
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: remember her putting like up online like how long they
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: had been together, and the ex wife commented, oh, okay,
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: that's interesting, So y'all been together eight years, so it
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: overlapped their marriage. M Yeah. Absolutely. She was a side
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: chick and he married her so.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: And had made a family.
• 39:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I mean, if he didn't want to have
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: the hard conversation.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: I will always tell women not to play that role.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: I don't think like nine times out of ten is
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: not gonna end well unless you're just in it for
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: the perse. But if you're looking for the man to
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: leave his family and be with you nine times out
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: of ten, that's not gonna happen.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: And then you also keep him how you get him right?
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: You know? So now you you don't expect that to
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: happen to you when he's ready to swap it out right.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: I just saw this post, and I don't know if
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: this was real. I thought I believe it was real.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: But it was a woman and she was saying how
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: it was a white woman. She was saying how she
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: fell in love with this man and he had a wife,
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: and basically he told the wife, I'm in love with
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: somebody else. I'm no less in love with you, though,
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: and I want y'all to meet.
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: And then how did that go?
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: He brought them in to the table together. They both
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: they had conversations and they I guess neither one of
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: them wanted to leave, so they now they're just yes,
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: but like still separate though, Like he has a girlfriend
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: and a wife and he eventually left both of them
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: for somebody else.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: And I you see, you can't listen. You can't please them.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: You cannot.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: That's why I say it's important to set boundaries and
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: not do things just to please your man.
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: You can't just just be doing things to please your man,
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: because you will find yourself in the bottom of a poll.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: Up YOA says, may get cheated on but gets social recognition. Yes, duh, yeah,
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: of course. So the one of the UH pro cons
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: to being a main chick is that you may get
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: cheated on, right, You can't get cheated on as the.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Side right because you already the cheat right and the cheat.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: So the side check is the second option may get
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: treated better than the main, but without commitment.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: You got me sitting up in the house with these
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: kids all day and you out gallivan with some bitch
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: and a casino.
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no stress over there. Over here, you gotta be
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: a husband, you gotta be a daddy, all the things.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: So now this is your like fun time outlet over here.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: I can understand why a man would want that.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and some say, you know, I think a lot
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: of wives they may not admit it. They may not
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: admit that maybe the side made their.
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: Their relationships better better.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I just can't be there because I'm
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: gonna want somebody else too, Like you're not gonna want
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: me to be your sivage because your sivage got a nigga.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: Well, no, that's not true. Some people, like two married
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: people will cheat together, like they'll be each other's side,
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: and it makes it easier because the side doesn't need
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: you for the other things. Like so sometimes women want
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: that man to be their man, and he can't be
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: their man because he's already somebody else's. But they already
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: got a man at home. They don't need him for
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: all of that shit, you see what I'm saying.
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: So that makes it that's why it's easy for women
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: to have a side than men. Yeah, women be over
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: there waiting on the man. So that's why she got
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: too much time to think, go get you a man,
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: right while being the side. Maybe you tell him, maybe
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: you don't.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: So when I was in Europe, I had this client
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: and her she had like got her a side nigga,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: a younger like she was in her fifties. She looked
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: really really good though. She took me really good care
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: of herself, and she had like a thirty something year
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: old side guy. And she was expressing that she didn't
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: really want to ever cheat on her husband, but her
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: husband had let herself go so badly. She had been
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: on him about, you know, taking care of himself, and
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: he just was getting fat and now his dick wouldn't work.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: And she said they had not had sex in three years,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: and she like took making him go to the doctor,
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: the doctor.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: And she's healthy.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's very in the gym and everything, and she
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: was like, the doctor would tell him what to do
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: to help, like, you know, promote better penal function, and
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: he just wouldn't do none of the stuff. So she's like,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: I waited three years for him to try to get
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: it together, and he just won't do it. He's just
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: not motivated to take care of himself, and I can't
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: do it for him. So I would and got somebody
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: who could fuck me.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, or maybe he needed enough, maybe they I think
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: sometimes I just saw this and said it, either you
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: want to cross mountains with your partner, or there'll be
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: the mountain you gotta cross. Right, So sometimes people be
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: in uh, this state of depression whatever it could be
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: this other person, maybe she's no longer for him obviously, right,
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: she really should have just left.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I say.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, but leave and then he probably would get
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: somebody that would motivate him in a different way, you
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Right, It was just complacent in something.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: But I also think like they had so much together
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: at that point.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: That staying together because of responsibility, and they.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: Got kids, you know that aren't out of high school yet,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: so it wasn't as easy to just be like, oh,
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: let's just separate, you know, and they got all that
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: financial you know, endeavors together, so it's cheaper the keeper
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: or killing the keeper. What No, don't kill but listen,
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: we like when we're talking about a woman doing it,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, now I understand that. As soon
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: as we talk about a man doing it, I'm like
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: that bastard that fucking right.
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: So who really has the power in these relationships? Because
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: the side bitch got the power to piss you off, right, Like,
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: who's really getting like good treatment the man?
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: The man is getting the best of everything. Yeah, he
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: gets to go have his fun and have fourn a
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: kid with this girl who is fun time. He don't
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: have to worry about responsibilities with hers, just his outlet.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: And then he gets to go have a family with
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: this other person and build generational wealth and have a family.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: You know, like you just winning on both sides.
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so basically then nobody's winning between the main.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: And Yeah, they don't win at all, you know, I don't.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: Know, I feel like I know the main isn't. Well,
• 45:45
  Speaker 3: she could win if she divorces and takes all the
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: things that may be a way of winning she doesn't
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: win the relationship and then the side. I mean, if
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: she can actually play the role as a side and
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: get all the things, you know what I'm saying, people
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: be getting intuition, paid, all types of shit if you
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: could be a proper side bitch.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: But I guess it depends on how you define winning,
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: you know, like, because why isn't the main winning, Especially
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: if like this man takes care of her, She don't
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: have to want for nothing, don't have to worry about
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: like responsibilities outside of like nurturing the family and taking
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: care of the kids. I'm making it seem like.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: That that is a lot of shit responsibility while you
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: round here gallivanting. Absolutely not.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: I would love to sit home, go to pilates in
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: the morning with my hot yoga and then cook a
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: meal and then take care of the kids, and that
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: would be my only responsibility. Women are doing that and
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: maintaining full time jobs and having it, you know, wear
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: all these different hats at the same time. So I mean,
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: if you're gonna have a side bitch, you need to
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: be able to take care of me. Ain't nothing worse
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: than a nigga having a side bitch who ain't got
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: no money. You know.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: That now those who got it's not even for those men,
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: but they doing it, I know the most. No, but
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: who is allowing that though?
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: Because he don't even got enough money already for the
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: woman he has. And now you gotta lie to your ass.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: And go to their house to pick him up.
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: Not you really gotta cook for this nigga because he
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: can't eat otherwise, right.
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: You the side bitch and you picking them up for
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: the house?
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: Man may be having options. Man, So when these niggas be,
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: these in cels be on these podcasts, dog, they don't
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: have nothing to do with women. Why you ain't getting pussy,
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: get some charisma, get some smell good, get a haircut,
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: get a hairline. Get It's because somebody want to give
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: you some kucci. Okay, it just may not be the
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: kuchie you think you're supposed to have access to. And
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: I think that's that's why they be fucking mad, because yeah,
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: you you you might can't get the ten you know
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: they like the number uh rate women. It's this post
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to find. And I don't know if I
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: uh if we talked about this on the show or not.
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: Where the girl basically the husband was saying how he
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: had been cheating on his wife for a while, and
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: then he stopped cheating, and then three years later she
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: basically gave him some divorce papers, like I'm leaving, I'm
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: in love with somebody else, and I'm marrying that person.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: Did we talk about that? No, we did not. Girl,
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: what's good for the goose is good for the game. Yeah.
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: So he he had been with his wife for a
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: while and he admitted that he had cheated on her.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: She knew, yeah, uh huh. He said he kept getting
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: caught cheating.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, life around.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: Yes, And he said that his child, which is not
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: her child, and then their child together was basically happy
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: for the mom. So it's here. It's so. It says
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: my wife and I have been married for twenty years.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: I will admit that I have cheated on her. Throughout
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: the years. She caught me each and every time. I
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: got tired of being caught, so I stopped. Two years ago.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: At dinner with our family Saturday night, my wife comes out,
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: gives me divorce papers and tells me she's leaving. Why
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: would she want to leave me? I changed for her,
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: I changed for her. Good boy. I had a nigga
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: tell me that shit.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: I give all my bitches up for you.
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: I didn't tell you to do that.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: I just told you you.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: Couldn't do this and that nigga, you could have chose
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: that anyway. So he was like, I changed for her
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: exclamation point. We raised children together, we have a home together,
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: and I was planning on surprising her with a new car.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: Apparently my son, who was not her son, knew about it.
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: Our daughter knew about it, and they had the nerve
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: to fucking congratulate her. She told me that she was
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: She has been in a relationship for the last three years,
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: and she decided to marry this guy. At first, I
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: thought it was a joke because her routine has never changed. See,
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: women know how to do the ship and that's love,
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: he said. Dinner is on the table at the same
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: time every night. She ain't miss a beat. Okay, men,
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: y'all not coming home.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: Like like scared right now, Like.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: You better beat me.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: You can have a signed nigga, especially if you know
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: you ain't treating her right.
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: We are cats.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: You can't cheat over and over and over again. I
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: think there'll be no karma.
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: Exact, he said. I don't know how. Excuse me, he said,
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: I don't know when and how she had time and
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: cheat on me, and I did not know. I will
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: not leave her. I would not let her leave this
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: marriage easily. He says. She would have to leave with
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: absolutely nothing. My question is how does she do all this?
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: And I didn't know.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: Because while you was out doing you, she was doing
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: her too. We was making love to you.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: You can making love like what you thought. You know
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Oh.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: What about that show Pee Valley, which I can't wait
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: for it to come back on. Don't do that and
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: that's a good show. We miss you, Uncle Clifford. But
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: where the wife? She was the doctor, and she was
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: married to Andre. Andre was the politician. And he went
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: back to Chuck Lisa and he was trying to like
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: revitalize Chuck Lisa and things like that. And he started
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: messing with the stripper Autumn Autumn Night and oh yeah, yeah,
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: and he had affair with Autumn Night. And he came
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: home and his wife was in there fucking another doctor
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: in they house.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: Wasn't she a unicorn in a relationship?
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: No? Okay, No, he was in Chuck a Lisa. His
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: wife was in Atlanta, I believe, okay, And he went
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: to Chuck Lisa and he met autumn night, and then
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: they started having an affair. And I think they only
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: ended up really having sex one time, you know, but
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: they were like, you know, it was a build up.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: But then he came home to his wife. He had
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: been gone for a long time, and when he came home,
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: his wife had another doctor in the house having sex
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: with him. And my friend was like, oh, she fucked
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: up for that.
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: Well in the house.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, in the house that the like, don't bring no
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: you can fuck around get killed for that. Yeah, don't
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: in your house. That's crazy, Like you just don't give
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: you got you give zero fucks. But what's good for
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: the goose is good for the gain. They're like, if
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: he was home instead of out in Chuck A. Lisa
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: having sex for the strip girl, his wife probably would
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: have been involved with him and not with this other person.
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: You left space for that exactly.
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh when you got too much time and think
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: all type of shit happened.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah right now that house. Now, don't do that, anybody.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: Do not. If you decide that you want to have
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: a side relationship, do not bring them in your home.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: Whether you.
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: Probably still now, I got shit, missed it bags.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: You did that video like I'll bet my side big house,
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: and I got his wife shoes off. She had shoes
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: that looked like Monica.
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: Be fun li you on my life.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: That's dangerous.
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So this nigga, he want to know how she
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: did it. She did it because she she The reason
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: how she was able to do is because she actually
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: cared about your fucking feelings until she didn't anymore. Because
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: obviously you was fucking cartwheeling doing the douggie and the
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: fucking trip out on her heart for years and kept
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: getting caught. So you were being sloppy and a lot
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: of times you don't even gott to look for shit
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: like men. Really, Just like the other day, I was
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: hiding behind the island at the house, hiding from Dasha
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: and she and she like crept up. I'm waiting for
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: her to come in front of me. I look behind me.
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: This is how sneaky women are. Okay, we're gonna we're
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: gonna bury all ship buried, the ship ticket to the grave,
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: and men will literally leave the ship on the table
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: for to see. I remember this nigga had condoms and
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: movie tickets in his trash can. I didn't I didn't
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: go through his trash can look for these things. They
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: were at the top and I just was throwing something
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: in the trash can. So this weekend you was fucking
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: and taking a bitch to the.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: Movies, right. I remember I found a condom in the
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: bed and he was like, he let his homeboy come
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: over there.
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: It's always the homeboy.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: You got a five bedroom house. Why did they fucking
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: your bedroom? Why wouldn't they? Yeah, just just telling me
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: like you lying in my now you're playing in my
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: face because the lies are stupid. It don't make no sense.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: This wasn't my man, right, this is my whole nigga.
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: We was having we had sex and now we about
• 54:47
  Speaker 3: to go to sleeping ship. Hide as hell. Something wrapping
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: around my fucking toes underneath to cover fannies. What a
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: low mucus in it too? I still want to sleep.
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: This ain't my nigga. I mean, what you expect you
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: he fucking somebody else, but goddamn sheet.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: That's the thing. You're laying in the sheet like the
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: disrespect of putting me. But you never know how many
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: business have been because I don't even know if niggas
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: watch they don't.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: They don't, So you be.
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: Laying in a woman's sweat spot off.
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: Remember we did Poor Minds, and I was like, I
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: buy men's sheets. It's not because I'm worrying about hooping
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: fucking on the sheets. I like nice linens. I want
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: to feel comfortable in your.
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: Ship, right, So I'm gonna do all the things right
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: because you might buy him. He still might somebody.
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: Now you fucking on my sheet. Oh he has good
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: tasting linen, exactly, these thousand count cotton organic cotton. Nobody's winning.
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: I agree with you when you say the man man
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: is winning. It's just about perspective. It's subjective who the
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: actual winner is. You start throwing kids in there, sh'it
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: get fucking messy, because we do know that men get side.
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: Bitch is pregnant all the time because you're not using
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: the condom with her, you know, well you should be, yeah,
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: but oftentimes they're not looking with somebody for a whole year.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: You're still using the condom. Girl, If it's somebody on
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: the side of your relationship, you should not be having
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: unprotected yea.
• 56:23
  Speaker 3: And that's why your wife trying to figure out, why
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: the hell exactly? Yeah, we be knowing. Even if you
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: don't say nothing, we ain't caught you. Our body tell
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: us you're cheating. Fuck nigga anyway, Damn fuck nigga anyway. Yeah.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: So, by social standards, the main is always gonna be
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: the one that women champion, Like, we're always gonna be
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: on her side. And now we're gonna be like, this
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: is the one he chose. The other woman is, you know,
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: conspiring with this man, and people can get hurt, you know.
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: The one who's in the dark is the one who
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: can ultimately be hurt.
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: So I identify with that more and I side with
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: that more. However, when we talk of terms of winning,
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: nobody wins when the family fuse, the man wins. He's
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: the winner. Yeah, and that's it.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: Stay off these people, husband, man, that's not gonna stop
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: because you don't want nobody on yours. This is what
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: that That's why I don't fuck with people husbands, because
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: I might. I might beat your ass up about mine.
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: I listen, might beat your ass up about my husband.
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: I might pull up to your house.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: Prior to ten years of my marriage. Don't fuck with.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: I'm the ten years. Call me first, let me see
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: if I like you girl? What you're doing it on Saturday?
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Can you can? I can go? Thank you girl. I
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: would see y'all some money now that aspiring.
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: The man conspiring with the side right.
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: Got it about the house?
• 57:58
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