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This Went Off The Rails · I Do, Part 2

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  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, it's I Do Part two. I'm one of
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  Speaker 1: your celebrity mentors, Jen Pestlor, once again, joined by fellow
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  Speaker 1: celebrity mentor on the Pod and Housewives along Kelly Ben Simon,
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  Speaker 1: and we are here at Live in the Vineyard in Napa,
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  Speaker 1: our new favorite place, love it here Beyond, and we've
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  Speaker 1: got Kelly's date, Pascal from the Golden Baccelorette here with us.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, making first dates come true?
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  Speaker 2: Baby.
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  Speaker 1: All right, you guys, Well, now that I have you
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  Speaker 1: both here, I have spoken to both of you separately,
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  Speaker 1: and I want to tell you what I think of
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  Speaker 1: this connection and it's actually bringing me back. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I've shared this with either one of you. Well, Pescal,
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  Speaker 1: we just met, so probably not. And Kelly, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I have. I was once a matchmaker, you were
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  Speaker 1: I in New York City. You told me this, it's
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  Speaker 1: just lunch, yes, And then I ended up doing it
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  Speaker 1: in New Jersey as well. It was the director there,
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  Speaker 1: and we used to set up people on lunch dates.
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  Speaker 1: Correct have one in Chicago started in Chicago.
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  Speaker 4: Chicago and you and you and you defoned of Juice
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  Speaker 4: Lynch which one Andrea and Daniel blow blownness.
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  Speaker 5: Isn't there an ad in like the Delta, like the
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  Speaker 5: Delta magazine?
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  Speaker 3: I'm always like, that's fun.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, listeners, I'm sorry, we digress. Get let's get back
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  Speaker 1: to it, the Kelly and the Pescal of it all. Okay, guys, first,
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  Speaker 1: did either one of you, let's be honest, watch the
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  Speaker 1: other on TV before coming to NAPA. Did you do
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  Speaker 1: any googling? No? No, that was easy.
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  Speaker 2: All right, that was great, Pascal.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get any intel on Kelly from Gary who
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  Speaker 1: went on the date with her?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 6: Actually, Gary speak very very highly about Kelly. He had
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  Speaker 6: a wonderful time. He was an incredible experience. He actually
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  Speaker 6: had a good feeling for you.
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  Speaker 2: You wish to see you more, That's what he says.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the matchmaker has the only nice time to say
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  Speaker 2: about you.
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  Speaker 6: You had a wonderful, wonderful experience, and you were a
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  Speaker 6: great host. And I think you still text messaging with
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  Speaker 6: your shadow time to time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm wi Yeah, he's so nice. Yeah, he's a great girl.
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  Speaker 3: By my Instagram, he's very sweet, sweet guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay, but well Gary's not here, so now
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  Speaker 1: that okay, sorry, okay, Now I'm moving.
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  Speaker 2: To Kelly question.
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  Speaker 3: Love Gary, But now we're moving on.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So I have all these questions for you guys,
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  Speaker 1: but I feel like now that I've spoken to you
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  Speaker 1: each individually, I understand a little bit better about you
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  Speaker 1: know what's this? Very in this very small amount of time,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like we've all we're all sort of on
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  Speaker 1: the same page. And here's why. I'll say what I think,
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  Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna ask you both what you think.
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  Speaker 1: It seems to me that you guys met, you both
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  Speaker 1: had very similar things to say. Both of you felt
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  Speaker 1: like the other was attractive, very attractive. As a matter
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  Speaker 1: of fact, you both were very complimentary of each other
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  Speaker 1: in terms of your physicality. No surprise there. You both
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  Speaker 1: happened to be gorgeous, okay, and you both have had
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  Speaker 1: only lovely things to say about the other. You know
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  Speaker 1: that that incredible person, so nice, all of the most
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  Speaker 1: fabulous adjectives. Kelly said first that she didn't get from
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  Speaker 1: you the feeling that you were so interested committed to
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  Speaker 1: the date you got up and left. You guys were
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  Speaker 1: sitting together and you were not there for a lot
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  Speaker 1: of that time period, and Pascal, you said to me
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  Speaker 1: that Kelly was so pretty and so charismatic, but you
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  Speaker 1: could just tell that there wasn't necessarily that spark, right, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: And so I feel like you guys were kind of Kelly.
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  Speaker 1: Kelly did say that she would have been more open
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  Speaker 1: because what she's been through in life, even though maybe
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  Speaker 1: she didn't feel doesn't feel always an initial spark. She
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  Speaker 1: likes to give it a little bit more of a chance.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty correct me if I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: anything here that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are true, true, true.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you both said lovely things about each other,
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  Speaker 1: but Kelly might have been a little more open because
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  Speaker 1: of what she's been through and she wants to be
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  Speaker 1: more open like that. Pascal. For you, it's either you
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  Speaker 1: feel it or you don't. You said that you would
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  Speaker 1: love to be friends with Kelly, keep it touch with
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  Speaker 1: Kelly because she's an amazing person. You just didn't feel
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  Speaker 1: that initial spark.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes.
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  Speaker 5: One thing I thought that was really interesting is when
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  Speaker 5: you were sitting in the printer van and we were
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  Speaker 5: all talking about you and being on the Golden Bachelorette,
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  Speaker 5: and what you said about the like unraveling of the
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  Speaker 5: relationship between you and you're and the bachelorette that you
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  Speaker 5: instead of just like going into the fantasy in suites
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  Speaker 5: and having this moment that you wanted to like talk
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  Speaker 5: to her one on one and you know, have that moment.
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  Speaker 5: And I thought, I really like that just was like
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  Speaker 5: very I thought that was amazing.
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  Speaker 2: I thought that was really amazing. Thank you, thank you.
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  Speaker 6: But I want I want to say one tent because
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  Speaker 6: I thank you. You know I was sitting with you.
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  Speaker 6: I want you to understand that I'm a very hyper
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  Speaker 6: kind of guy. I can't I can't sit still for
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  Speaker 6: a long period of time. I need to move.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're so nice to get me if you want
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  Speaker 2: because I.
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  Speaker 6: Needed to move, If you want someone because I needed
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  Speaker 6: to move, I cannot see it.
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  Speaker 2: It's very hard for me to see.
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  Speaker 6: So right, I don't think that was trying to have
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  Speaker 6: boy the convexation with you because.
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  Speaker 2: I'm enjoying the conversation.
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  Speaker 6: She's trying to she's move my ears. I'm even sitting
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  Speaker 6: here away night. It's kind of hard for me alect you.
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  Speaker 1: Guys.
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  Speaker 2: This is what I have a question.
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  Speaker 3: What's signing virgo Virgo?
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  Speaker 2: I'm a Taurus.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what that means men.
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  Speaker 3: For high my name is gentleman le.
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  Speaker 5: I don't I don't actually know. I I know about
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  Speaker 5: like friendship relationships. I don't know about for male male
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  Speaker 5: and female relationships.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what I'm thinking right now. I think that we
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  Speaker 1: are so evolved. I feel like this is the perfect
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  Speaker 1: I wish for our listeners to have this type of
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  Speaker 1: attitude and specifically what I'm commenting on Pescal You've been
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  Speaker 1: nothing but lovely, but you didn't feel the spark, and Kelly,
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  Speaker 1: You're like you're You're like, listen, you were so nice,
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  Speaker 1: you are lovely. This is the idea, guys, I think again,
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  Speaker 1: who am I idea? What I'm talking about?
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  Speaker 3: But you're a matchmaker.
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  Speaker 1: I was a matchmaker.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, no, no, was a matchmaker, always a matchmaker.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like this is how dating should be approached, right,
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  Speaker 1: like respectful kind and also like not it's not the
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  Speaker 1: end of the world, like Kelly. A million guys are
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  Speaker 1: gonna line up for Kelly, Ben Simone. We know this, right,
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  Speaker 1: She's not just because she's beautiful, because Piscal's you said.
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  Speaker 1: Not everything is about beautiful, right, It's about Kelly being
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  Speaker 1: Kelly and the experience it comes with that Pascal. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think either one of you are going to
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  Speaker 1: have a hard time finding a date. But what a
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  Speaker 1: great opportunity to sit down in this way, get to
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  Speaker 1: know each other, you know, share some things about each other,
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  Speaker 1: become friends. Who knows. I hope that you'll keep in touch.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you're going to meet someone or Kelly, because you
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  Speaker 1: said that happens to you a lot where you're like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, he's not for me, but he might
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  Speaker 1: be for my friend, Pascal, I don't know. One of
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  Speaker 1: your friends might say, you know what I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just looking for this woman with honey tawny honey,
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  Speaker 1: blonde hair, kind of tall and tan, model who also
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  Speaker 1: speaks French. That's my team. And you'll say, yes, he's
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  Speaker 1: and you'll know that. But like, what a lovely thing
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  Speaker 1: to have now been able to like have this experience
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  Speaker 1: and be friends. I'm looking down here at all the
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  Speaker 1: questions that I had. I mean, you guys ask each
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  Speaker 1: other things. Is there anything that you want to know
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  Speaker 1: from this experience, anything that you're wondering or you know,
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  Speaker 1: do you just.
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  Speaker 3: Want to I want to ask?
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  Speaker 5: So you know, there's just so many ways to like
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  Speaker 5: meet people, and how did you feel when you were
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  Speaker 5: when you met me over zoom? How did how did
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  Speaker 5: how did you feel? Did you like like being able
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  Speaker 5: to like see me and talk to me? I mean
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  Speaker 5: obviously like Bob was there and we were having fun
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  Speaker 5: with Bob, but like I'm just curious just in general,
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  Speaker 5: you know, do you like like being on a zoom
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  Speaker 5: and or being on a FaceTime and actually seeing the person?
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  Speaker 2: Definitely? I think to me, it's very important to see
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  Speaker 2: the person. Okay.
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  Speaker 6: You know the problem of those dating website where it's
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  Speaker 6: texting after texting, after texting after texting, and sometimes you
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  Speaker 6: mass translate the text by the mood you are at
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  Speaker 6: the moment. Okay, So I like to see the person.
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  Speaker 6: And I think it was a pleasure to see you.
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  Speaker 6: And you are a very attractive looking woman.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it was the pleasure seeing you talking to you.
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  Speaker 2: We asked a pole question.
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  Speaker 6: I was I was like a little bit of like
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  Speaker 6: a confused about your choice. Okay, like when you said, well,
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  Speaker 6: which you take me on the first date?
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  Speaker 2: And you said, when you take this guy?
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  Speaker 1: You don't know?
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  Speaker 2: Is that?
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  Speaker 1: She said? When I spoke to before you came in,
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  Speaker 1: she said, I hate that one answer that I gave
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  Speaker 1: us Gar, Yeah, and.
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  Speaker 6: I think that was actually actually let me let me
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  Speaker 6: just say when when you said that, and you were
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  Speaker 6: going to take me to the via Gar Triangle and
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  Speaker 6: we're gonna have a burger and beer and you're gonna
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  Speaker 6: see my picture on the wall.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, not my sure, my Playboy.
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  Speaker 6: Play my Playboy cover, my Playboy cover on the excuse me,
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  Speaker 6: my Playboy cover on the wall.
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  Speaker 2: I was kind of a little bit, honestly.
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  Speaker 6: I was a little bit tun off for me, okay,
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  Speaker 6: because I think to me, I would have preferred and
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  Speaker 6: I said that to you, I would prefer take you
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  Speaker 6: to a half flow on restaurant, which.
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  Speaker 2: Is a beautiful show on beautiful.
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  Speaker 6: Well, we could have a nice conversation with that, to
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  Speaker 6: be screaming shadow because Gibson, Gibson, Gibson, the you know
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  Speaker 6: it's it's it's like you said, Viago trainingle bench of
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  Speaker 6: old guy would pick up some prostitute at the bars.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I was, I was just I was.
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  Speaker 5: I said that I felt I was being a total
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  Speaker 5: deck and I was. I said it because it's something
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  Speaker 5: very like obviously there's many beautiful places, and I really,
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  Speaker 5: I really appreciate.
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  Speaker 3: I love the poll of reminds me.
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  Speaker 5: I went there so many times, my parents and I
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  Speaker 5: have the most beautiful memories there, and I really appreciate that.
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  Speaker 5: I was just trying to like push a little because
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  Speaker 5: in my journey, which you don't know about, but in
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  Speaker 5: my personal journey on this podcast, I have been going
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  Speaker 5: through therapy and then having these whether they're dates or
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  Speaker 5: you know, just talking on the pod with you know,
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  Speaker 5: my a lot of my new friends, like whether it's Dana,
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  Speaker 5: Sharon Burke, Janda.
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  Speaker 3: Kramer, and I've been learning a lot. And I am.
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  Speaker 5: Not the kind of person that ever says that. And
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  Speaker 5: I don't say that. That's kind of like my Housewives personality.
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  Speaker 5: And I regret saying that, and I apologize.
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  Speaker 2: No, I mean, you don't have to apologize that, Tank, No,
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 3: I I don't have to, I am.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, so I accept you a potaty portage you
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  Speaker 2: needed as you staying then.
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  Speaker 6: You know, I like the fact that you know, you
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  Speaker 6: talk on the podcast and you want you've been working
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  Speaker 6: hard on yourself by going to trap and learn more
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  Speaker 6: and more and more. You know, we never we never
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  Speaker 6: stop learning. I mean, I'm much older than you, and
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  Speaker 6: I'm still learning, so I thank you.
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  Speaker 2: You know, there is certain sense.
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  Speaker 6: I'm looking for, okay, and sometimes it's hard to you know.
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  Speaker 6: I want authenticity. I want the person with herself. Some
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  Speaker 6: persons I don't need to be empressed. Mean, if I
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  Speaker 6: if I tell you I've been in the cover of
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  Speaker 6: hundreds of magazines, it's not it's not sometime I talk
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  Speaker 6: about I just want to know you, who you are, what,
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  Speaker 6: what makes you?
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  Speaker 2: What met Kelly? Kelly? Okay, and it was it was,
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  Speaker 2: you know, it was a little bit. I was a
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  Speaker 2: little bit off on that.
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  Speaker 6: Actually I called the producer and I said, I don't
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  Speaker 6: know if I don't know if it's a good match.
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  Speaker 6: And then she said, give it a chance. I said, okay,
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  Speaker 6: I got to give it a chance. And then that's
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  Speaker 6: what I'm here. I got to meet you. I enjoy
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  Speaker 6: meeting you, somebody. You're wonderful woman. You know, we had
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  Speaker 6: the chance to get to know you a little bit
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  Speaker 6: more personally by talking during the time, mean and not
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  Speaker 6: picking up a.
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  Speaker 2: Glass of water and wine.
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  Speaker 4: I have even active evening.
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  Speaker 3: You did popcorn water and wine.
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  Speaker 1: All I just I'm sorry to jump in, but I
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  Speaker 1: am so impressed with you. First of all, the way
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  Speaker 1: that you just you were so honest, because you complimented
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  Speaker 1: me earlier today about being like open and vulnerable, and
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  Speaker 1: the way you were like, you know, I said that
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why you would say that you were
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  Speaker 1: a dick. I don't know what that was dicky, but
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  Speaker 1: like you own it and you're like, and I apologize.
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  Speaker 1: I am falling in love with you, and I would
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  Speaker 1: like for us to go on a date. And I
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  Speaker 1: am married, so it'll be salacious. But I have to
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  Speaker 1: be honest with you. The way you just handled that
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  Speaker 1: whole thing was so high class.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, here's my friend.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: You know what.
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  Speaker 2: To be honest with you, there was no need that protagy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that was a she think that was
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  Speaker 2: a she's a conversation.
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  Speaker 3: And I was just having fun.
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  Speaker 2: I knew you were having fun, and I was said, it's.
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  Speaker 5: Also in my defense that is, you know, I'm from Rockford.
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  Speaker 5: I spent so much time in that area, and in
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  Speaker 5: all transparency when they asked for the cover and put
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  Speaker 5: it in Gibson's, which is which is is there's a
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  Speaker 5: lot of you know, there's there's mixed emotions, it's the
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  Speaker 5: best burger, it's the best bar. Like people love to
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  Speaker 5: go there, but it's also there's a lot of you know,
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  Speaker 5: it's it's it's.
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  Speaker 3: A hot spot for people that want to go on dates.
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  Speaker 5: And so when they asked me to sign the cover
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  Speaker 5: and to have it in Gibson's, I was hands down.
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  Speaker 5: That was like a very proud moment for definitely. So
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  Speaker 5: I I just it was I was just having fun
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  Speaker 5: with it. But it but you don't know me at all.
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  Speaker 5: You don't know anything about that. You don't know that,
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  Speaker 5: like you know, you're French from Paris. I'm from Rockford, Illinois,
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  Speaker 5: ninety miles northwest of Chicago. I'm not from Chicago.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not from.
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  Speaker 3: From very small town.
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  Speaker 5: And so that was just it was, I was just,
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  Speaker 5: I was just I was I was just having fun.
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  Speaker 6: But that's sometimes, Kenny, that's sometimes you should be part
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  Speaker 6: of Okay, I mean, have you still making the cover
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  Speaker 6: of Playboy. It's an accomplishment. I think that sometime we
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  Speaker 6: could have bought in the after we get to know
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  Speaker 6: his shadow in more details, that sometime you could have
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  Speaker 6: bought into the conversation later on in in in getting
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  Speaker 6: to know each shadow as you think for me that
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  Speaker 6: was I felt like you didn't need to do that.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, Kelly, there are men as you know,
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  Speaker 1: as Pascal, you know who would have thought that was
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  Speaker 1: the most adorable. No, I mean it like if you
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  Speaker 1: would said that to Jeff Essler, I don't know why,
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of gross. No, I just know him.
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  Speaker 2: I know them.
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  Speaker 1: Like you said we should go get a burger and
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  Speaker 1: go with my Playboy cover, he would have been like,
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  Speaker 1: let's go, where's it. I don't know if this is
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  Speaker 1: getting weird, I'm sorry you guys. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I think that it just depends who you say it to.
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  Speaker 2: You that to that, to that, to that.
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  Speaker 5: And by the way, Jen's got a really good point
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  Speaker 5: the minute that I said that, and I was like
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  Speaker 5: smiling when I said it, and then I saw the
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  Speaker 5: look on your face and I was like that, did
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  Speaker 5: you know what you were like? Like, it's like we've
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  Speaker 5: been talking about like just a little like a lot
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  Speaker 5: of things, like how people present themselves, like what they're
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  Speaker 5: what they optically want people to see. And then if
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  Speaker 5: you say something you think it's like funny or charming,
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  Speaker 5: but then it just drops her.
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  Speaker 4: Don't don't And so like that's what happened.
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  Speaker 5: Is I said that to you because it was like
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  Speaker 5: I was having fun.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I will say this like also Kelly, at the
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: end of the day, even if you, guys, let's say,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: word to have gone out again. The truth is, Pascal,
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: she's been married to a Frenchman. She's not necessarily what
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: she's looking for. Not nothing wrong with she loves Frenchmen.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: But there's probably some of that. I mean, you know,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: could have been come from either one of you. So
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: the best news here is like we went through it.
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: We Pascal, I mean for all to the purpose is
• 17:10
  Speaker 5: basically dating you is like going on with my ex husband.
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: You know what, let me let me tell you what
• 17:18
  Speaker 5: my god, let me tell you something, let me tell
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: you something and teresting.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Actually you said that, Okay.
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: When I was in the last day with John and
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: we were in the that before the fantasy, sweet I
• 17:31
  Speaker 6: asked you a simple question and I said, twenty three guys,
• 17:36
  Speaker 6: why me, Why did you choose me? And I was
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: expecting her to say, I like your personality, I like
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: you Carrissima, I like you so fashion, I like your accomplishment,
• 17:47
  Speaker 6: I like that you funny. The answer was from her
• 17:52
  Speaker 6: you remind me my husband. And I said to myself,
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: I said, I don't want to live in the shadow
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: of you.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: That has been right, Okay, So she was that was
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: that was.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: It was a compliment from me and from her. I
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: totally totally understand that.
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: I totally and as you as you feel like you
• 18:11
  Speaker 6: know me and I think I want her to like
• 18:13
  Speaker 6: me for who I am.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, now, but.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: Here's something that's interesting. So you're a Frenchman.
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: So most people think when they think of a Frenchman,
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: they think like, oh, he's so debonnair. He was raised
• 18:25
  Speaker 5: in Paris. He spends all these times at the cafe
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: watching those beautiful women in the world. He's touched the
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: head upon head upon head, taken photos, worked with the
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: best of the best.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: Are this business, that business.
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: He's married, all these beautiful women, has all these amazing children.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Da YadA, YadA.
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: One thing that is very interesting about Frenchmen is that
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: you guys are and this is a generalization, clearly, but
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: there's one thing about Frenchmen that people do not understand,
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: and that that you guys are wildly sensitive in a
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: good way, and you're also extremely thought provoking. You like
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: to talk about things interest you're not you don't like
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: to talk about like my I'm not going to say
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: what I was just going to say, but a lot
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: of french Men who I've met outside of my past
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: are like you, and so that's a compliment to you
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: and to like to.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: I think that people.
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: I think that people aren't expecting you to be so thoughtful,
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: and I don't think I don't think people were. Probably
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: I think that probably the viewers were taken aback that
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: you asked her something that was really like heartfelt versus
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: something that was like topical. I mean, I mean, I
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: think it was probably like people were like, whoa.
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: You know, I was you know, actually today I was
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: going into the social media and I saw you posting
• 19:51
  Speaker 6: sometimes white frenchmen like fog legs.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, what did they call frenchmen FuG Yes?
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Yes, Because we were asking these questions.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I was supposed to ask you.
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: On my day so so so I'm gonna and you
• 20:07
  Speaker 6: never asked me that, So I'm gonna so.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna say, I'm gonna saw you.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: You Why do you frenchmen? Why are Frenchmen called frogs?
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Okay, in the twelfth century.
• 20:19
  Speaker 6: Okay, here was the monaster Okay, had a period of
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: time where they were not allowed to eat meat. So
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: they were eating fish, yes, and frogs are in.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: The water, so they considered as a fish. Okay.
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: So they were eating frog legs and the British thought
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: that was.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Gross and ridicule.
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: Actually calling a Frenchman a frog is an assault, Okay,
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: there is.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Do we call the Italian pizza? Do we call the
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: the the how you call?
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: My god? Do we call the Japanese sushi? Okay?
• 20:57
  Speaker 6: But we do call the Germans fought for the sausage okay, yes,
• 21:05
  Speaker 6: and actually yeah brushed, yeah, the Germans.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 21:10
  Speaker 6: So in the fifteenth century the British called as soul
• 21:14
  Speaker 6: to the French the frogsmen.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I didn't know that.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: So that's that's that's that's.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I never heard of any of this. I only know
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: that I heard of frog legs.
• 21:27
  Speaker 6: Actually, we should call us, we should call a snail,
• 21:30
  Speaker 6: because we eat way more escago than we froglets, and
• 21:35
  Speaker 6: frog legs become apodlicates. And actually, if you ever eat
• 21:39
  Speaker 6: frog legs, it will taste like chicken.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, on that note, my beautiful friends. Neither one of
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you look like a frog or a chicken. I think
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: that this when I'm sorry, I don't know. Maybe you'll agree,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: maybe you won. I think this was a ten ten.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I think this worked out beautiful. I think we got
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: some insight. We're all gonna ends up friends, nobody. This
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: is how it should be. This is dating.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I do part two.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: This is how the part two should go in my
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: humble opinion, maybe because I'm facilitating it.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: On that note, you're dating, Yeah, yeah, we have to.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: We have to. We have to. We have to work
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: on that.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Well, we are going to work on I actually am.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: My head is always spinning. I like to fix people up.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: So I've got some ideas. That's for next episode. I
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: love you both, well.
• 22:30
  Speaker 6: You.
• 22:31
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• 22:34
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