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- 0:00We got a question for American mama. Dear Mama, is it now racist
- 0:03if you actually try to help people who are a different skin color than you
- 0:05are. Well, let's ask our American mama. Mama, Mama and Jodius.
- 0:21Now we're American MoMA. Terry Nettaville. I think this question is basically
- 0:25dealing with the Michael or in the Twey family the blind Side story, if
- 0:30you will. So the blind Side was a book and a movie. The
- 0:34Twey family out of Mississippi very rich. They had a lot of franchisees and
- 0:40so they're very wealthy family. But they saw this kid. He was completely
- 0:44neglected by his family. So they say, we're going to bring him into
- 0:47our family. Are gonna get him a good education, to private school child,
- 0:51and he eventually became good at football, got into scholarships through college and
- 0:56then got into the NFL when the super and a movie was made after him,
- 1:00Strength Senader Bullock, and he now says this family took everything from him.
- 1:10And the common phrase you're seeing online is white Savior complex. Yep,
- 1:17that's their new tagline. The media has done such an amazing job and it
- 1:22works way of making this a political and racial game constantly on social media.
- 1:27Well, Michael Orr's making it a political and racial game. You're right about
- 1:33that. And the problem is when he came out with this story, I
- 1:36think it broke a lot of hearts because we all love that movie. Right.
- 1:40What's happening is instead of seeing both sides of everything, the left wing
- 1:44media has taken this narrative to a place where it is so destructive, so
- 1:49divisive. They're actually labeling it, like you just said, the white complex.
- 1:55And then they bring about they're like, not only are they saying that
- 1:59this is you know, this one story proves that point, but then they
- 2:04start tackling other stories like the movie Dangerous, Dangerous Minds and to Kill a
- 2:10mocking Bird, Right, you know, Gregory Peck's character who helped save our
- 2:15tribe is best to save this man again going back to kill a monkey.
- 2:21That that timeframe, that was that was really an act of courage for the
- 2:25character, the character in the in the book and in the movie just stand
- 2:30up for a black man in the South. Well, not only that,
- 2:34but then to make a movie about it and have audiences receive it during that
- 2:38time because this is a black and white film it's one of those things that
- 2:40you want it to move you to where you see that side of it and
- 2:44you see the empathy and you go, you know what, this is wrong,
- 2:46what's happening, and so we need to do better. But apparently now
- 2:50if you think that you should or could help a black person, that makes
- 2:55you have white guilt and a white savior complex. Yep, the well listen
- 3:01to MSNBC. They were saying that not only The blind Side isn't the only
- 3:05film that gets it wrong, and they started naming all these other songs,
- 3:07and then they said the ore storage or story isn't just an indictment on the
- 3:13twoies, but also on movie audiences that lap up stories about white people saving
- 3:17some downtrodden black person or downtrodden black people. And so the media is the
- 3:22one that's making this about the color of someone's skin. When Leah, when
- 3:25Lean Twee has said before, like years ago, when they've interviewed and he
- 3:30was still part of the family, she said, it's not about it wasn't
- 3:32about his color. For me, I saw a child, I saw a
- 3:36child in need, a child that had been neglected, and I wanted to
- 3:39make things right for him. I wanted to take him in, So they
- 3:43took him in. They hired a tutor to not only help his grades in
- 3:46the private school he went to, but in college. This Miss Sue,
- 3:51she went to oh Miss for those four years to help him get through college,
- 3:55and there was a really fashionating You shared this interview with Megan Kelly and
- 4:00Jason Whitlock Love Him Yes, and Jason Whitlock was talking about how Michael Or's
- 4:06own story has now changed. When you read Michael Or's own book, he
- 4:12admits the things that were in the Blindside movie and in the Blindside book,
- 4:16and he says, yeah, I knew about the conservatorship. I knew I
- 4:19wasn't fully adopted, but it's just because of my age. They treated me
- 4:24like family. He wrote that in his book, but the media is not
- 4:27touching on that. Jason will you know he's a conservative. Jason's coming out
- 4:30and he's saying, you know, look, he's being frank. There would
- 4:35be no movie without Sean Twey because it was Sean Twey's childhood best friend that
- 4:43wrote the story the blind Side, wrote the book right, and then there
- 4:46would be no movie without Sean Twey's neighbor who financed the movie because Fox wouldn't
- 4:50do it. It would be this again comes up with Look if white person
- 4:57walking down the street and you see a minority minority asking for money, Now,
- 5:01what do you do. Do you give the money because you've got white
- 5:05white savior complex? Or you do you not give the money because you're a
- 5:10racist? Well that's one. That's what Matt Walsh tweeted about. He said,
- 5:14after eight years of Barack Obama, BLM riots and George Floyd funerals,
- 5:17we've a ride at this moral guidance. Let the black teenager on the side
- 5:20of the road freeze to death, don't help him, or you're a racist.
- 5:24And he was making that point like, so what do you want us
- 5:27to do. Do we look at skin color and go up? He's black,
- 5:29so I'm not going to save him. I'm not going to help him
- 5:31because I don't want it to come back on me. Or do we want
- 5:33to look at each other as human beings and just help somebody in need?
- 5:38Like Leanne said, my heart does break through the twoies because they truly genuinely
- 5:41love this kid. He's thirty seven, so he's not a kid anymore.
- 5:44My heart breaks for him, and my heart breaks for him. Yes,
- 5:46there's something not right, something has and it makes me because he's got eleven
- 5:50siblings and he has a mom that's recovering. I don't even know she's she
- 5:55was a crack addict who's never told him she loved him. I know it's
- 5:58the saddest story. I wish the media just give both sides and stop making
- 6:00about race. If you'd like to ask our American Mama question, good to
- 6:03our website American ground Radio dot com, slash Mama and click on the ask
- 6:06the Mama button. Terry Nettaville, thank you so much, Thank you,