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Teddi Gets Real about her Return to Real Housewives of Beverly Hills · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: This is Teddy Tea Pod with Teddy Mill and Cabin. Hey, guys,
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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's Teddy Tea Pod. I had to
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Speaker 1: bring Kyle Rochard's back on because you guys, I mean
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Speaker 1: not a shocker. She was your favorite guest so far
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Speaker 1: this year and our most tuned in episode, so y'all
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Speaker 1: don't even understand the levels I'm going to to talk
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Speaker 1: to her right now. She's in hair and makeup, getting
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Speaker 1: ready to do a confessional, and yet I have got her.
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Speaker 1: I've got you, guys, So we're excited to answer all
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Speaker 1: of your questions. Kyle. Welcome and thank you. Hello, Good
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Speaker 1: morning everybody, or what is it morning? Yeah, it's morning.
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Speaker 1: It's morning. Our morning is already like Kyle's in her
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Speaker 1: glam room. I wish I could lay out the situation
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Speaker 1: to you, guys. There's dogs on the floor, there's people
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Speaker 1: on the floor. My house today is seriously starting at
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Speaker 1: six thirty in the morning, dogs barking, ars, ringing. I's
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Speaker 1: it's such chaos here. It's Grand Central Station. It's crazy.
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Speaker 1: But I definitely have learned my lesson. I just park
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Speaker 1: on the street on days like today because I don't
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Speaker 1: want to get stuck in here between behind sixty seven cars.
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Speaker 1: It's like a brutal to get out. But because that's
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Speaker 1: because I try to kidnap you, and that way I
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Speaker 1: do that, I can't leave. You know what, I've got
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Speaker 1: something to tell you. I'm actually going to be doing
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Speaker 1: your interview today for Housewives, So it would actually be
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Speaker 1: really good at that. You know that I love to
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Speaker 1: get all the crumbs out of everybody. We love the crumbs.
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Speaker 1: But you would be very good at this. I feel like,
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Speaker 1: can you imagine, like if I started producing you guys,
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Speaker 1: you're doing my interview with the hilarious Kyle. That's not
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Speaker 1: actually what you told me via text message. Let's get
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Speaker 1: down and dirty. Um, you better believe. We would better
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Speaker 1: believe at ships Starbucks. Um. All right, So I guess
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Speaker 1: the first thing everybody wants us to talk about is
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Speaker 1: this past week's episode. UM. I had to create a
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Speaker 1: met because Garcell called me as annoying as a gnat
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Speaker 1: your meme I can't have funny enough. Do you know
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Speaker 1: how hard it was to photoshop my face onto that thing?
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Speaker 1: How did you even come up with that? My kids helped,
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Speaker 1: Mary that works with me helped. It was a whole thing,
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Speaker 1: but then all these people created better memes. I was like, bummer,
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Speaker 1: but what you guys didn't see, which really is what
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Speaker 1: revved me up and was like turned into the whole thing.
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Speaker 1: At the table is right after I said that thing
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Speaker 1: about Erica where I kind of just said, like, you guys,
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Speaker 1: you know you've never you've never asked Erica these things before.
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Speaker 1: Let's just see and see how it plays out. Garcel yelled.
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Speaker 1: What was it exactly that she yelled out? I don't know,
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Speaker 1: maybe you called I'm looking like you're trying to trick me,
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Speaker 1: Barbara Walter. I am just call me Babs. No, she
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Speaker 1: said what she said to you. She goes, why is
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Speaker 1: she even here? And why does she get to have
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Speaker 1: an opinion? And she says it to production and and
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Speaker 1: of course she knows they can't use that. But then
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Speaker 1: I hear her say it, and I'm like, well, do
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Speaker 1: I need to ask you when I can speak? Garcel?
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Speaker 1: I know that was I don't. I mean, that was
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Speaker 1: not cool, but say the least. I mean, I think
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Speaker 1: the part that's that most people can understand, in which
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Speaker 1: I was talking to you know, Kyle about is like
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Speaker 1: it's already hard enough when you are no longer a
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Speaker 1: part of a show, but you agree to go back
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Speaker 1: in a small portion and then for somebody to kind
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Speaker 1: of dog you out and say that to you, it
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Speaker 1: wasn't nice. It was not nice. I mean, you were
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Speaker 1: on the show for three years. You brought so much
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Speaker 1: the show, and that comment just like, I mean, everybody
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Speaker 1: was kind of like shocked by that. Yeah, I mean,
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Speaker 1: but that's how it all started. It's fine. I sent
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Speaker 1: her a text. I sent the text to Kyle too,
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Speaker 1: but um, she still hasn't texted me back. Oh I
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Speaker 1: didn't know that. Yeah, still no text back. But commented
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Speaker 1: on my Instagram a laughy emoji about the gnat. About
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Speaker 1: the gnat. But that's something I have noticed with Garcela.
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Speaker 1: Her thing is she'll say something kind of mean or
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Speaker 1: nasty and then laugh afterwards like it's a joke. Flash
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Speaker 1: is that pretty small ships And you're like, oh, so
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Speaker 1: you're like, oh, that was funny. I get it. Um,
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Speaker 1: all right, Well last week's episode was hard because, um,
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Speaker 1: you know, we know so much stuff now, more than
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Speaker 1: we did then, but you know, the audience forgets it.
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Speaker 1: You know what we know and already now in the
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Speaker 1: press is different from what we were hearing then, you know,
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Speaker 1: because it's a shot seven months ago and everything was
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Speaker 1: just unfolding, like that article coming out. We didn't know
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Speaker 1: we we knew nothing. It was just unfolding. It was
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Speaker 1: unfolding in real time, and we're going back in time now,
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Speaker 1: so it just kind of it's it's difficult to differentiate
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Speaker 1: between A big question that I was getting, you know,
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Speaker 1: for this for today, was why did everybody seem so
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Speaker 1: has to talk to Erica? Like is everybody afraid of her?
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Speaker 1: What's the question? You know, I don't know why people
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Speaker 1: would think someone's afraid of another housewife. What do they
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Speaker 1: think that they're going to do? I see that all
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Speaker 1: the time. Oh Sutton's afraid of Erica? Or this one different?
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Speaker 1: No one's afraid of anybody. Um, sorry, I'm having a
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Speaker 1: She's putting her eyelash on at the moment. It's we're
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Speaker 1: really we're really doing this raw. He thinks afraid you
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Speaker 1: know of anybody that I mean, you know, here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: You know, Sutton called this meeting. She was worried, she
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Speaker 1: had concerned. She's like they saically saying, you know, I
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Speaker 1: have a stellar reputation and I don't want it marked
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Speaker 1: by this, and you know, she reached out to a
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Speaker 1: lawyer to ask what his opinion was and she didn't
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Speaker 1: want to get dragged into it, which seemed silly and
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Speaker 1: crazy at the time, although you know who knows, I
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Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, we're on the reality show together.
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Speaker 1: But for me, it was of course I had questions,
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Speaker 1: and to me it was more about I want to
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Speaker 1: ask Erika the questions to give her a chance to
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Speaker 1: be open and share with us, because she's not an
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Speaker 1: open person, so it would just kind of force her
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Speaker 1: to have to talk to us. But you know, the
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Speaker 1: Erica that I know would never be a part of
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Speaker 1: any of these things that Tom is accused of. And
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Speaker 1: I think the people that are thinking that Erica is
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Speaker 1: you know, has a handedness or it's a sham or
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Speaker 1: this and that are the people that have never met
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Speaker 1: her or don't know her at all. So it's it's
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Speaker 1: hard and she's in a really bad position. But when
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Speaker 1: she came in that night, she looked so down. I
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Speaker 1: don't know if you can tell an episode, but no,
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Speaker 1: you could feel it when she walked in that when
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Speaker 1: in the room that night, I just remember feeling like
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Speaker 1: my heart felt heavy, Like there's definitely no way that
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Speaker 1: you could you could come at her that night like
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Speaker 1: she you could, you could feel the sadness you wanted
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Speaker 1: to come in her. I think that this one answers anyway.
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Speaker 1: But yes, when someone comes in they look beaten down.
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Speaker 1: Then what does she say? I'm thanks for including in
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Speaker 1: a little radio active these days. And that's that made
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Speaker 1: me feel so sad that she even thought that people
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Speaker 1: think like that about her. I mean, I think what's
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Speaker 1: hard for people to grasp is you know, how did
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Speaker 1: you not know these things? Not you in particular, but anybody,
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Speaker 1: any of us, and and be such good friends with her?
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Speaker 1: And I think the hard thing is is, you know,
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Speaker 1: when it comes to you and I, Kyle, we have
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Speaker 1: very open conversations about our husbands, our relationships. I know Mo,
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Speaker 1: you know Edwin, So we're very immersed in each other's lives,
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Speaker 1: you know, as friends. When it comes to Erica, I've
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Speaker 1: really only met um. Why am I Tom two times?
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Speaker 1: We never saw him? Yeah, you met him three times
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Speaker 1: in five years, so and I think the tricky part
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Speaker 1: is we never really knew much about him anyway. And
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Speaker 1: you know what, I kind of always took from it
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Speaker 1: is Erica, you know, grew up without a father, came
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Speaker 1: out here, married a man who took care of her,
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Speaker 1: and that's that's really what the situation wasn't It wasn't
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Speaker 1: until I hung out with him last year. We all
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Speaker 1: sat around and essentially listened to him brag about all
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Speaker 1: his accompliments his life and never once asked us one question,
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Speaker 1: never once let Erica talk in front of us. Well,
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Speaker 1: we've seen in the past episodes where she goes to
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Speaker 1: talk and he schools her like a child and says,
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Speaker 1: excuse me, Erica, I'm talking. One time even said something
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Speaker 1: like I want to say, like go to your room
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Speaker 1: or something. Was something weird. I forget I'm paraphrasing right
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Speaker 1: now because I wasn't in the scene, but I remember
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Speaker 1: seeing some scenes and I was like, god, it it's
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Speaker 1: crazy to see their dynamic in their relationship. And you know,
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Speaker 1: this was not your typical marriage obviously. I mean, they both,
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Speaker 1: in my opinion, had um an understanding, like you know,
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Speaker 1: they know there were some sort of Yeah, I don't
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Speaker 1: think they had a typical marriage in the way that
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Speaker 1: maybe they did at one point, but it broke my
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Speaker 1: heart last year when we were sitting at the reunion
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Speaker 1: and Erica opened up that Tom never even went to
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Speaker 1: her show on Broadway. Yeah, I couldn't believe that either.
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Speaker 1: Like that said everything to me. To me, that answers
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Speaker 1: all the questions that I need to know right now,
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Speaker 1: you know, Like well, also you know Tom, I mean,
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Speaker 1: he was so much older than Erica and here he
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Speaker 1: when she met him, she was a waitress and he
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Speaker 1: was her client customer. And um, so when you go
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Speaker 1: into a relationship like that and here was this high
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Speaker 1: powered attorney, He's not coming home at the end of
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Speaker 1: the day and you know, discussing you know, legal situations
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Speaker 1: with her. First of all, he's not allowed to. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and I mean not that that would necessarily stop him,
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Speaker 1: but you know, you're not you're not allowed to share
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Speaker 1: legal information. But he wasn't try to discussing you know,
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Speaker 1: lawsuits with Erica and going through all that with her.
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Speaker 1: That was not the dynamic of their relationship. And I
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Speaker 1: think everybody's financial relationship is different. Like I am one
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Speaker 1: of those people that I am extremely type A with
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Speaker 1: my money. Don't don't be shocked, shocker, but I know
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Speaker 1: every cent coming in, every cent going out, that being said,
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Speaker 1: Edwin and I don't share a bank account. I have
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Speaker 1: no idea what he has versus what I have, you know,
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Speaker 1: but I know everything I have. But he's not depositing
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Speaker 1: money into any account for me. I wouldn't know. I
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Speaker 1: would know if he was. But there are a lot
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Speaker 1: of marriages that most people have zero idea what's going on.
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Speaker 1: I can tell you with us, but are both our
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Speaker 1: names are on everything together? But I don't look at
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Speaker 1: those things until this season because it started coming up
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Speaker 1: so often that actually my husband said you should know
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Speaker 1: all this and you don't pay attention. And he made
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Speaker 1: me sit down and said, here's this da da da
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Speaker 1: da dah, and we like went through everything and I
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Speaker 1: was like, okay, I don't I didn't pay attentions like
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Speaker 1: he he handles that stuff. In the episode, Dreke confided
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Speaker 1: um that she spoke to p K about the drama,
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Speaker 1: but then she also said she spoke to a lawyer,
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Speaker 1: and everybody's laughing, going is the lawyer p K? And
11:19
Speaker 1: boy George Or said I consulted with someone and then
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Speaker 1: she said, IK, so that was so funny, But did
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Speaker 1: you talk to MO about it? And what was his advice?
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Speaker 1: On how to handle he doesn't think that you know that. Well,
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Speaker 1: I didn't talk to him about advice like that, but
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Speaker 1: he just said, I don't think that she's aware of anything.
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Speaker 1: I really don't. I mean, he sees me who he
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Speaker 1: tries to tell things to, and I can't. I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I can't be bothered even here this, I'm too a
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Speaker 1: d D and I'm gonna I've got stuff to do.
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Speaker 1: I've got other people to research, excuse me. So he's like,
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Speaker 1: you know, I really don't think she knew paid attention
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Speaker 1: to any of these things, and you know makes sense.
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Speaker 1: I mean, so um, but no, I I was only
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Speaker 1: spoken to um a close friend who's a lawyer, and
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Speaker 1: asked just to break down because the article, the l
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Speaker 1: A Times article was due. I wasn't dying whether you're like,
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Speaker 1: it's just so long. I'm like, she couldn't be bothered
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Speaker 1: to read it, and my son was going to be
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Speaker 1: reading it for her. It's not happening. Well, I was,
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Speaker 1: because it gets confusing. I mean, you know there's a
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Speaker 1: lot of stuff. Well I had issues reading it because
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Speaker 1: I so bad. But I don't get the LA Times.
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Speaker 1: So then you have to like log in create account,
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Speaker 1: like I got to read the cliff notes. Well, by
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Speaker 1: the way, No, once I got home to l A,
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Speaker 1: I actually do get the l A times and I
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Speaker 1: did read it, but it's still confusing, and it was very, very,
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Speaker 1: very long and detailed. So I was like, you know, basically,
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Speaker 1: what break it down for me here? I basically wanted
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Speaker 1: to know what could end up happening with Erica in
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Speaker 1: the long run, and um, you know, this was was
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Speaker 1: really basically I don't know. I only want to speak out.
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Speaker 1: I get scared talk too, because I'm like, I don't
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Speaker 1: want to say something wrong and have my quoted and
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Speaker 1: be making a mistake. There's there's spear either way, I mean,
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Speaker 1: And what are your thoughts on the way how Sun
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Speaker 1: handled it and how she was so aggressive about it
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Speaker 1: and your guys private conversation not private conversation, but the
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Speaker 1: one without Erica. And then once Erica was there, it
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Speaker 1: was like she end up saying to me later, Okay,
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Speaker 1: maybe I overreacted, which I mean, I don't know if
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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to say that, but that's what she said.
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Speaker 1: She's okay, maybe I will reacted. I got scared. Um,
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Speaker 1: But you know, first of all, it's she's new to
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Speaker 1: reality television, so I think she got nervous about legal
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Speaker 1: stuff and being on cameras and this and that, and um,
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Speaker 1: she thinks she overreacted I think a bit. But also,
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Speaker 1: you know, her bark is worse than her bite, and
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Speaker 1: she was very dramatic and very like, I'm gonna say
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Speaker 1: you know this as soon as I see and then
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Speaker 1: you see Erica and you can't help but like her.
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Speaker 1: And she looked sad and down and then she kind
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Speaker 1: of just like back down. But meanwhile, as we know
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Speaker 1: as cast members, what she said on camera, Erica is
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Speaker 1: going to see, so you need to just and we
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Speaker 1: don't acknowledge that on camera. We don't say, hey, by
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Speaker 1: the way, Sutton, you said on camera, she's gonna hear this. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you're either way, you're going to be screwed. So so
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Speaker 1: we just worded like this, We say, you know, Sutton,
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Speaker 1: why don't you be honest about what you said? She's
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Speaker 1: going to hear about it, meaning it's on camera. I mean,
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Speaker 1: I think I here's the only part that I didn't
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Speaker 1: really understand. You know that Sutton saying like she's so
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Speaker 1: worried about her reputation and those types of things, and
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Speaker 1: I like, Sutton, we've come a long way. But you
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Speaker 1: don't sign up for a reality television show if you're
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Speaker 1: worried about your reputation. Well that's that. I think you
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Speaker 1: just don't like whether you have skeletons in your closet,
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Speaker 1: whether you're but like, it's not like I mean, I
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Speaker 1: can't even get into the Solo house because I was
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Speaker 1: one time of housewife like people are banging down your
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Speaker 1: doors to dress you because you're a house like people aren't.
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Speaker 1: Your reputation isn't going up from becoming a housewife. Thank god. Um,
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Speaker 1: that really helps us a little little different. No one's like,
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Speaker 1: you know, physically hurting each other, repeating each other's uh
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Speaker 1: wigs or whatever. But um, we're running around stark naked.
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Speaker 1: But still yes, I agree, and she she like, Um,
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Speaker 1: Erica kind of says it was like, well, I don't
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Speaker 1: know if that's the week's episode or next I better
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Speaker 1: watch what I say. There's stuff coming up that you'll
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Speaker 1: you'll see. Because they end up confronting each other about that.
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Speaker 1: Then conversation, well, you guys better tune in Wednesday on that,
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Speaker 1: and then what's your relationship like with Erica right now.
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Speaker 1: It's good. I mean, you know, she's going through a
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Speaker 1: hard time. And UM, what I always say is, you know,
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Speaker 1: obviously I want to be my Erica has been nothing
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Speaker 1: but a good friend to me and supportive me and
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Speaker 1: everything when I've gone through hard times and um in
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Speaker 1: this country or in a sent until proven guilty, and
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Speaker 1: I just I, you know, I don't know. I want
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Speaker 1: to be there and support her. You know, this is
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Speaker 1: not something you can blindly support somebody because of you know,
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Speaker 1: what the accusations are. So I'm educating myself and trying
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Speaker 1: to you know, figure it all out and support my
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Speaker 1: friend in the meantime. And she says, you know, she
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Speaker 1: she did not know any of this, and I have
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Speaker 1: to believe the person that I know. And that's kind
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Speaker 1: of how I'm Yeah, And I people asking me in
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Speaker 1: regards to how, you know, Eric and I still talk,
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Speaker 1: and I this is something that's been true to Erica
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Speaker 1: ever since we had our issues. Ericas has always been
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Speaker 1: such a good friend, Like she's the first person to
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Speaker 1: reach out if she knows you're not feeling well, if
16:46
Speaker 1: something's going on, um, and she you know, it's such
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Speaker 1: a good listener and she gives great advice and all
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Speaker 1: of those things, but when it comes to her, she's
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Speaker 1: just not that open. So there's only like you know,
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Speaker 1: and I don't think it's just this specific thing. It's
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Speaker 1: it's just her in general, and so we want to
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Speaker 1: be there to support her a million percent. But it's
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Speaker 1: also I can imagine how scary this is for her
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Speaker 1: right now. I mean, every day she's has another story
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Speaker 1: coming out and stuff she has to deal with. But
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Speaker 1: you know, something that really stuck with me um filming
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Speaker 1: this season was when I said to Erica, I don't
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Speaker 1: how did you stay after hearing about these affairs and
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Speaker 1: all of this, and she, you know, she looked at
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Speaker 1: me and she said, where was I going to go?
17:33
Speaker 1: Where am I going? Kyle? And it was so interesting
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Speaker 1: to me because we look at her as a stronge woman, independent, successful,
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Speaker 1: beautiful you see her up on stage, but at the
17:44
Speaker 1: end of the day, she was afraid and she she
17:46
Speaker 1: really felt she had nowhere to go, and she had
17:48
Speaker 1: no control of her life, even though she was living
17:51
Speaker 1: this big lifestyle. And I think he controlled everything and
17:54
Speaker 1: he made her feel like she had no choice. On
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Speaker 1: that note, let's take a little break and we come
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Speaker 1: right back, we'll discuss more housewife stuff, get into tequila,
18:03
Speaker 1: terry and all the things. Okay, we're back here with Kyle.
18:15
Speaker 1: She's you know, now onto her under eye concealer. So
18:18
Speaker 1: we're really moving one along here. Um, people are asking
18:23
Speaker 1: me how was for me to come back? Uh, I
18:27
Speaker 1: would say what they didn't show. Also, is Kyle and
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Speaker 1: I filmed the day before? Maybe it was the same
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Speaker 1: day and Kyle inviting me? And Kyle, can you explain
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Speaker 1: the level of how much you pressured me to come
18:40
Speaker 1: to the dinner? Well, first of all, Hello, First of all,
18:45
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you know this is not the most
18:49
Speaker 1: exciting thing for you to do, but I wanted you there,
18:52
Speaker 1: and producers wanted so I had to go to your
18:55
Speaker 1: home to basically convince you. And yeah, and I I
19:00
Speaker 1: appreciate it you showing up because first all, it makes
19:02
Speaker 1: it more fun for me too, selfishly, And people want
19:06
Speaker 1: to know if I miss it, And here's here's the thing, Like,
19:09
Speaker 1: of course I miss you know the good parts. I
19:13
Speaker 1: miss all the amazing places we traveled to. I I'll
19:17
Speaker 1: miss the experience we had in Provence. I'll miss how
19:20
Speaker 1: much Kyle and I were able to laugh I'll miss
19:22
Speaker 1: you know, But that being said, all of those things
19:25
Speaker 1: are still possible because we're you know, I'm still friends
19:28
Speaker 1: with the majority of the woman on the show. Um.
19:32
Speaker 1: And to answer people's question if I will come back
19:34
Speaker 1: or not, you know, you never say never about anything.
19:38
Speaker 1: But like, at this point in time, I think everything
19:41
Speaker 1: happens for a reason, and I'm glad that my relationships
19:45
Speaker 1: are still intact. I'm glad that I still have a healthy,
19:47
Speaker 1: happy marriage. I'm glad that my kids are semi functioning children.
19:51
Speaker 1: Like at this point, I just had to be um,
19:54
Speaker 1: you know, happy about that. Oh people, it's coming in coming.
19:59
Speaker 1: In questions Kyle, who was the biggest pain to stay
20:03
Speaker 1: in your house and palm springs? Well, obviously my sister
20:09
Speaker 1: and I say that out of luck. No, she was
20:11
Speaker 1: just very um. Of course other people are gonna say that.
20:15
Speaker 1: She's like, how come with you know your place? Mats
20:19
Speaker 1: match the napkins and where's this and where's the bread clanking?
20:23
Speaker 1: Oh my god? What was so funny? Because I mean
20:27
Speaker 1: that that that bread and Benderson I had COVID and
20:30
Speaker 1: my husband had escaped to Lakda with our kids to
20:33
Speaker 1: keep them away from me and I got there when
20:36
Speaker 1: everyone else and the cameras got there, so I didn't
20:38
Speaker 1: get to like throw things out. So Kathy thought it
20:40
Speaker 1: was so funny that I had the stale bread laying around,
20:43
Speaker 1: putting it in an ugly bowl with an ugly dish
20:45
Speaker 1: towel and make it look like that's how I was
20:47
Speaker 1: serving my food. The things that she finds funny and entertaining,
20:51
Speaker 1: which I do too, obviously because I was crying laughing.
20:55
Speaker 1: Do you think that the show has brought you guys
20:57
Speaker 1: closer together? Oh? Yeah, for sure. I mean we were
21:00
Speaker 1: always close until are falling out, of course, but this
21:03
Speaker 1: has just helped to um. This is definitely helped to
21:08
Speaker 1: ease back into having fun in life together, you know,
21:12
Speaker 1: and just laughing. Well, the part I loved is that
21:14
Speaker 1: like not even one person was thinking, like I was
21:17
Speaker 1: seeing you having to cook set everything up, and no
21:19
Speaker 1: one's like, let me help you clean up, like they
21:21
Speaker 1: know you want. It's there's a certain amount of like
21:25
Speaker 1: timing when you're filming also, but like the fact that
21:27
Speaker 1: you're having to do all of that, I was dead.
21:30
Speaker 1: Do you want to know something, one of my least
21:33
Speaker 1: favorite things to do on camera and all of these
21:37
Speaker 1: years is cooking. I can't explain it because you know,
21:41
Speaker 1: you're having to think and measure and listen, and like
21:44
Speaker 1: the cameras are watching you and they're analyzing every little thing,
21:47
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to get dressed because you know, I've
21:50
Speaker 1: got people coming. It's so distracting to me. It bothers
21:53
Speaker 1: me so much. And when we were in table, I
21:56
Speaker 1: said to the chef that they had there, who was
21:59
Speaker 1: one of the best we've ever ever had, that I've
22:02
Speaker 1: ever met. Amazing. I said her, could you keep an
22:04
Speaker 1: eye on the salmon, because I have to go talk
22:06
Speaker 1: with the women. I mean, at the end of the day,
22:08
Speaker 1: you're not on a cooking show. Yeah, And so she
22:11
Speaker 1: was doing her old thing even at burn and I
22:13
Speaker 1: was like, okay, so now it looks like I don't
22:15
Speaker 1: know how to cook. And then last week's episode they
22:18
Speaker 1: showed you know, Martha and Jesse, who's who have worked
22:21
Speaker 1: with me forever. You know, I say, I'm cooking to
22:24
Speaker 1: me all these stirring this and I'm like, that's because
22:26
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make a TV show too, And you know,
22:29
Speaker 1: I'm not having even like talk to the women in
22:31
Speaker 1: the other room. So I have them helped stir and
22:33
Speaker 1: this and that. So I was like they showed me,
22:35
Speaker 1: saying to the producers, don't make it look like they cooked.
22:38
Speaker 1: I did all myself and they showed them. And I'm
22:41
Speaker 1: not gonna have any shady business. I'm very proud of
22:43
Speaker 1: my holiday dinners. Well, I was also crying laughing at
22:46
Speaker 1: you walking into the where we were all eating to
22:49
Speaker 1: the tents conversation and there's honestly gravy dripping from your plate,
22:54
Speaker 1: like I am not on a diet holidays, okay, And
22:58
Speaker 1: then they paned to like Erica's point and there's like
23:01
Speaker 1: one bite of mash potato. And what I've learned watching
23:04
Speaker 1: the season now the Kathy's on the show, and you
23:07
Speaker 1: know we show our plates, Cathy that I look like
23:10
Speaker 1: we are needing a family of five on our plates,
23:12
Speaker 1: and everybody else has got like little tiny chromes on
23:15
Speaker 1: their plate. But I can't. When you're filming Housewives, you
23:18
Speaker 1: never know when your next meal is going to come,
23:20
Speaker 1: Like you really don't know, like sometimes you don't have
23:23
Speaker 1: a chance, especially when you're traveling, so like you need
23:25
Speaker 1: to like stock up, like we're like chip months, like
23:28
Speaker 1: storing for the next time of having drinks at dinner
23:31
Speaker 1: and you don't want to drink on an empty stomach.
23:33
Speaker 1: That's all there. There's my excuse. I'm sticking with it.
23:36
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, all right, what else can we talk about?
23:40
Speaker 1: Should we talk about? Um? Well, I never did the
23:44
Speaker 1: podcast because I wasn't feeling so hot, but um, tequila Terry.
23:50
Speaker 1: Oh my god? What was your favorite part about the
23:53
Speaker 1: Tequila Terry rage Fest? Well? I think one of my
23:56
Speaker 1: favorite parts is that for months we had to deal
23:59
Speaker 1: with text message backfroth. But all your beautiful forties birthday
24:03
Speaker 1: looked and then you got there and never took one picture.
24:06
Speaker 1: Your hair was gonna look like a bird was living
24:09
Speaker 1: in at the entire time, a rat's nest in the back.
24:13
Speaker 1: Took two hours to get the tangles out of your
24:16
Speaker 1: hair from your one teculitary night there was. My hair
24:21
Speaker 1: looked good for maybe forty five minutes, and then you
24:23
Speaker 1: cut chunks out of you. You You had you cut chunks.
24:26
Speaker 1: It was in a dradlock. One night, Kyle, honestly like
24:30
Speaker 1: grabbed me by the hand, was like, I need you
24:32
Speaker 1: to wash and properly brush through your hair. This is
24:34
Speaker 1: the biggest night where the beautiful white dress that you
24:37
Speaker 1: like now, I couldn't do it, could only put your
24:39
Speaker 1: already tipsy. And I love that you say tipsy because
24:42
Speaker 1: I'm scared to say where your video were baled already. Okay,
24:47
Speaker 1: so first of all, I mean I wish I could
24:50
Speaker 1: do a video demonstration when I said you need to
24:52
Speaker 1: put some makeup on and get some pictures and how
24:54
Speaker 1: you did your mess Carat. I actually did the invitation
24:58
Speaker 1: of you for some people when I was and Utah
25:00
Speaker 1: filming the movie. I said, this is how my friend
25:03
Speaker 1: um Teddy when she's drinking puts her my scar on.
25:06
Speaker 1: And you all you do is flap the thing up
25:08
Speaker 1: up and down like this, up and down, up and
25:10
Speaker 1: down your eye Like, I don't even know what I
25:12
Speaker 1: love that you think that's only happening when I'm drinking.
25:15
Speaker 1: That is the only way I know how to put
25:17
Speaker 1: this dy? Who how do they put my scar on?
25:19
Speaker 1: That's how I was taught. I used to put a
25:21
Speaker 1: paper towel Underneathan paper this woman, I can't with you,
25:28
Speaker 1: So I mean they thought I was gonna be like
25:29
Speaker 1: putting lashes. I'm like, guys, we're just lucky that I'm
25:32
Speaker 1: making it to dinner at this point, I wasn't doing
25:35
Speaker 1: all that stuff, but it was your forty birthday, not mine.
25:38
Speaker 1: But my favorite part of the entire trip was like
25:42
Speaker 1: the worst job that you could potentially have on the
25:45
Speaker 1: on the trip was being one of the husbands that
25:47
Speaker 1: was going to play DJ for a little bit. Oh
25:50
Speaker 1: my god, my husband. He really thinks he's but like,
25:53
Speaker 1: people have so many big opinions when it comes to music,
25:56
Speaker 1: so any time anybody made a mistake, you got a
26:00
Speaker 1: music choice, we would all be like, what's going on?
26:03
Speaker 1: Get it together? Jested or MAURICEO or whoever was pretending
26:07
Speaker 1: DJ at the moment. We were so annoying. We were
26:10
Speaker 1: the most annoying. But it was let's talk about Harry Hamlin.
26:13
Speaker 1: I want to talk about that, okay, that he serenaded
26:15
Speaker 1: us every morning on the guitar. It's just so funny
26:18
Speaker 1: because Harry always seems so quiet, you know. And when
26:23
Speaker 1: Harry Lisa arrived, Lisa said, well, you know who's going
26:26
Speaker 1: to be the last one to sleep every night and
26:28
Speaker 1: have the most fun of everyone is Harry Hamlin. Of
26:31
Speaker 1: course he knows, she has to say, Harry, Harry Hamlin,
26:34
Speaker 1: Harry Hamlin, Harry Hamlin, Harry so um, and I was thinking, really,
26:39
Speaker 1: I was not expecting that. So Harry and his acrylic
26:43
Speaker 1: nails every single morning to come out in the morning.
26:46
Speaker 1: He was the first one up whenever, was getting her coffee,
26:49
Speaker 1: playing the guitar, setting the tone. It was so amazing.
26:54
Speaker 1: He would go out in the ocean with mo for
26:57
Speaker 1: hours talking. He even got up on you ampoline thing
27:00
Speaker 1: with me in the ocean and did flips. He was
27:03
Speaker 1: having so much fun. He was loving it so much.
27:06
Speaker 1: And who do we think? Do we think Harry was
27:08
Speaker 1: the m v P. I think Ul the m v P.
27:11
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Harry was pretty great. He I mean.
27:13
Speaker 1: And then I honestly was channeling Lisa Arena because I
27:17
Speaker 1: kept making everybody play these games, like if you had
27:20
Speaker 1: to throw one person overboard, who would it be? I'm obsessed,
27:24
Speaker 1: but I'm drinking. I love you. Also love the shag
27:28
Speaker 1: Mary kill game? Right? Oh yeah, no, if you had
27:30
Speaker 1: to pick somebody's husband in this group, oh, I hate
27:33
Speaker 1: that so much. And I wouldn't pick anybody's by the way, No,
27:36
Speaker 1: I know you didn't pick anybody's, but everybody else picked.
27:39
Speaker 1: When I picked the best one, I know, well, really
27:46
Speaker 1: she's like not kidding, You're probably not, but we we should. Right.
27:51
Speaker 1: Here's the other thing. I still remember everybody's answers. I
27:53
Speaker 1: don't even know at my level how I could even
27:55
Speaker 1: plan a game or remember everybody's answers. But I did answer. Huh,
27:59
Speaker 1: I for sure you did not give it. You will
28:01
Speaker 1: never play these games. You wouldn't play who you throw
28:03
Speaker 1: over the edge either, which I found. You know, I
28:05
Speaker 1: was so upset, but maybe it was me. I mean,
28:08
Speaker 1: I haven't enough stressed during the Hell's Lives where I
28:10
Speaker 1: need off camera trip on tequilitary time. Yes, all right,
28:16
Speaker 1: now we got to talk about the b incident. Oh
28:19
Speaker 1: my god, the b incident. Okay, so the b incident.
28:23
Speaker 1: I and then I was five weeks the film, mean
28:26
Speaker 1: this Christmas movie in Utah. I came home for one
28:29
Speaker 1: weekend finally for some peace and relaxed. And it's very
28:35
Speaker 1: rare for my house to be quiet, because there's a
28:38
Speaker 1: lot of people that live in my house and there's
28:40
Speaker 1: always a lot of stuff going on. This was a
28:43
Speaker 1: weekend and for some reason, there was like nobody here.
28:48
Speaker 1: One person was here, but you couldn't hear me. Jesse,
28:49
Speaker 1: who lives here full time. Um, but my husband was gone,
28:53
Speaker 1: my kids were gone. Martin warked me she wasn't here,
28:56
Speaker 1: so I had I don't know what happened. I walked outside.
28:58
Speaker 1: The dogs were barking. I'm trying to get my dogs
29:02
Speaker 1: away from the neighbors side of the wall. And I
29:05
Speaker 1: walked behind these trees and there was a bee hide
29:09
Speaker 1: that I was not aware had set up shop over there.
29:14
Speaker 1: And I literally when I talked about I just get
29:17
Speaker 1: the hebebs, I I walked through it and I felt
29:20
Speaker 1: all the buzzing and I immediately started screaming, oh my god,
29:23
Speaker 1: oh my god. But the more I would like walk
29:25
Speaker 1: away and trying to get them off me, the more
29:27
Speaker 1: came after me. They were piste off. So I literally
29:33
Speaker 1: get freaked out talking about this. But they they were
29:37
Speaker 1: literally chasing me and coming after me. So I was screaming,
29:41
Speaker 1: help somebody, help me, and they were all over me.
29:44
Speaker 1: And as I was running around, I could feel them
29:46
Speaker 1: on my face and in my hair. Your itch in
29:48
Speaker 1: your heads were talking because now all of a sudden
29:50
Speaker 1: getting stung by bees. Was like, I'm sorry, my hair
29:54
Speaker 1: is a bees nest. So um I was. I went
29:59
Speaker 1: in to go call my one. I was screaming and
30:01
Speaker 1: Jesse couldn't hear me, and I went to call him
30:04
Speaker 1: that alone. But then I felt more in my face
30:05
Speaker 1: and I just jumped in the pool, and every time
30:07
Speaker 1: I came up from the water, I could feel more
30:09
Speaker 1: on me. So I kept going under and going under,
30:12
Speaker 1: and I could feel my throat getting tighter because it
30:16
Speaker 1: was I had multiple stings and even one could kill
30:18
Speaker 1: me without you know, having an EpiPen. So I got
30:22
Speaker 1: on the phone on one. Finally Jesse came in. She
30:26
Speaker 1: had heard me. I was screaming on the microphone and
30:28
Speaker 1: the intercom of the house. Somebody helped me help me,
30:31
Speaker 1: so then nine one one operator. What happened was he
30:35
Speaker 1: was giving me a direction for a different kind of EpiPen,
30:38
Speaker 1: which I didn't realize there were two different kinds. So
30:41
Speaker 1: I had two issues happening. He was giving me the
30:43
Speaker 1: incorrect directions and um mine was malfunctioning. It was working,
30:50
Speaker 1: So luckily, our amazing fire department came quickly, and I
30:54
Speaker 1: know our fire menu know good thing we had that
30:57
Speaker 1: you had that event for them like now you're on
30:59
Speaker 1: the first name basis, I had. I had that fundraiser
31:03
Speaker 1: here for their station, and so they came and I
31:07
Speaker 1: knew them all, which made me immediately feel safer, and uh,
31:10
Speaker 1: all was good, but it was actually terrifying. And I
31:13
Speaker 1: have like PTSD, thinking I have these around me all
31:16
Speaker 1: the time. Now, well, you already had it before, so
31:18
Speaker 1: I can only imagine. Now, do you have proper functioning
31:20
Speaker 1: EPI pens? I do, And then I googled later and
31:24
Speaker 1: found out that my EpiPen um they've had issues with
31:28
Speaker 1: it malfunctioning. So I wasn't crazy. Yeah, well, we're so
31:34
Speaker 1: glad that you're safe and good. Let me just tell
31:37
Speaker 1: you one more thing, which I put this on my Instagram,
31:39
Speaker 1: But I um, when I went back to Utah and
31:44
Speaker 1: we were wrapping like so late, like three in the morning,
31:47
Speaker 1: and I was in my rent a car and rolled
31:49
Speaker 1: the winter down to asked one of the assistant directors
31:53
Speaker 1: what time my call would be be in my car?
31:57
Speaker 1: When you sent that to me, I was like, you've
31:59
Speaker 1: got to be kidding me. So, I mean, seriously, I mean,
32:02
Speaker 1: nobody could believe it's I had two guys trying to
32:05
Speaker 1: help me get to be out of my car, and
32:07
Speaker 1: I thought to myself, this is crazy, Like, honestly, if
32:10
Speaker 1: you were to try to find a beat three in
32:11
Speaker 1: the morning. You couldn't, absolutely not. So then someone sending
32:15
Speaker 1: me on Instagram you have evil eye on you. You
32:18
Speaker 1: need to take Why do people have to do that? Well,
32:21
Speaker 1: I'm telling you I don't know, but I wasn't taking
32:23
Speaker 1: any chances. I was told I had to take a
32:25
Speaker 1: bath in sea salt, and so I went and bought.
32:30
Speaker 1: So I bought sea salt, sea scrub, sage, everything you
32:33
Speaker 1: could think of, and I did bath scrub every single day.
32:37
Speaker 1: I did the stage, all around me, whatever, and so far,
32:40
Speaker 1: so good. So I don't know. Well, you brought up
32:42
Speaker 1: social media, so Erica. The other day. I was talking
32:45
Speaker 1: about getting death threats, and then Lisa Renna posted something,
32:50
Speaker 1: so have you ever got I know I have gotten them.
32:53
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten any? No? I have not. I've
32:55
Speaker 1: had someone say I hope that you and all of
32:57
Speaker 1: your daughters die of breast cancer like your mom did,
33:00
Speaker 1: which it sent me over the edge. It wasn't a
33:03
Speaker 1: death threat, but it was. It was so vile, and
33:05
Speaker 1: it made me feel so sick that there are people
33:09
Speaker 1: like that. I just was like in tears, and my
33:11
Speaker 1: husband came in. I couldn't stop crying and he was like,
33:14
Speaker 1: you can't let that stuff affect you, Like, how can
33:16
Speaker 1: you not that someone says something like that. But I
33:19
Speaker 1: was talking to Lisa, Marenna and Derek the other day
33:22
Speaker 1: and they were both telling me that they have and
33:25
Speaker 1: and about their children too, and I know that when
33:29
Speaker 1: they went through a hard time that on the show,
33:32
Speaker 1: she had someone sent her some weird letter too. So,
33:36
Speaker 1: I mean, were the reality show guys, you know, and
33:40
Speaker 1: the fact that you know, we're opening up our lives
33:42
Speaker 1: and you know, these things are unfolding, like what's what's
33:45
Speaker 1: going on with Erica? Like just I mean, come on,
33:48
Speaker 1: and that is way too yeah, wishing to I mean
33:51
Speaker 1: even when I did my swipe up on Instagram that
33:54
Speaker 1: I was doing this like to ask questions somebody, I
33:57
Speaker 1: had to send it to the I Heart producers and
33:59
Speaker 1: I'm like, don't mind the one person that says, I
34:01
Speaker 1: hope you die on here. No big deal. Yeah, I
34:04
Speaker 1: mean I get it all the time. And then you know,
34:06
Speaker 1: but in that same turn, you get so many positive
34:09
Speaker 1: people and like, thank you for being so open and
34:11
Speaker 1: vulnerable with your life. You've helped change mine. And how
34:14
Speaker 1: do you deal with some of like the negative comments
34:17
Speaker 1: and you know, people will all the time they like,
34:19
Speaker 1: well the haters blah blah blah. But like, truthfully, sometimes
34:23
Speaker 1: it's hard, Like sometimes I'm like, no, I have to
34:26
Speaker 1: block this person, like I don't want to see any more,
34:28
Speaker 1: because once they start messaging you, it's it's relentless at
34:32
Speaker 1: some point. So like I have, you know, all either
34:34
Speaker 1: block or if somebody says something about my kids, I
34:37
Speaker 1: will sometimes like clap back and like be like my god, stop,
34:41
Speaker 1: what do you do? I'm well, first of all, I
34:45
Speaker 1: don't find Instagram to be as toxic, so I just
34:48
Speaker 1: don't go on Twitter unless you know, the show's arena
34:51
Speaker 1: will send some tweets out. Um, but Twitter, I hope
34:55
Speaker 1: you become so toxic that I just I just can't
34:58
Speaker 1: have that in my life. So I avoid that at
35:01
Speaker 1: all cost. And you know, I'll get the random you know,
35:04
Speaker 1: it depends on what's going on in the season and
35:06
Speaker 1: in my life. But um, I will just you know
35:09
Speaker 1: pretty much either block them with their mean or you know,
35:13
Speaker 1: just I don't know. Right now, I haven't had much
35:16
Speaker 1: of that, so it's been a while I've had to
35:19
Speaker 1: deal with it. But it hurts no matter what. I
35:21
Speaker 1: don't care how old you are, you know, what you
35:24
Speaker 1: do for a living. It's it's not just that it
35:27
Speaker 1: hurts you, but it's it's just sad that that's what
35:31
Speaker 1: the world has come to, that that's what we've gotten
35:33
Speaker 1: to that right, And it makes me sad because as
35:35
Speaker 1: a mom, I'm like, gosh, this is what my kids
35:38
Speaker 1: are growing up with. My kids are growing up with
35:42
Speaker 1: this mentality this and you know, and and don't even
35:45
Speaker 1: get me started about all the you know, filters and
35:48
Speaker 1: everybody having to look so flawless and perfect, and then
35:50
Speaker 1: your kids have this idea. So and you know, obviously,
35:54
Speaker 1: you know, we post pictures and they come from babbo
35:57
Speaker 1: and people are like, oh my god, it's so filled.
35:59
Speaker 1: Like I don't even I'm just posted what they gave
36:02
Speaker 1: me and sent me please like, let me let me be.
36:05
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just it's there's smoke in
36:09
Speaker 1: mirrors in every situation. But I think that when it
36:11
Speaker 1: comes to social media, follow people you like, follow people
36:15
Speaker 1: that make you laugh, that you enjoy that you think,
36:18
Speaker 1: but sometimes they're not even they're even follow you. They
36:21
Speaker 1: well they don't even follow you. But I'll selling you
36:22
Speaker 1: to write something. Yeah, But also a lot of the time,
36:25
Speaker 1: which is weird when I go and look. Sometimes if
36:27
Speaker 1: someone's really brutal, I'll go to their profiles, I'm like,
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Speaker 1: what is wrong with you? And they won't have any pictures.
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Speaker 1: It'll say zero followers, zero, and I'm like, so you've
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Speaker 1: just created this account to troll you. Like. What's more
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Speaker 1: shocking is when it's like loving grandmother. But yeah, I
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Speaker 1: love God, my children and animals. But I took the
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Speaker 1: time out of my day to say, Kylie, you're ugly
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Speaker 1: and disgusting. You know, it's it's you know, Elizabeth and
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Speaker 1: her loving family. Now it's always it's always that fun times.
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Speaker 1: All right, we have one last question because then Kyle
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Speaker 1: has to go really be drilled for housewives. Uh. They
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Speaker 1: want to know what's the next trip we're going to
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Speaker 1: go on together and what are we gonna do? Well,
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Speaker 1: I just asked you today if we could do a
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Speaker 1: girl's trip to Askpen. I know has a horse has
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Speaker 1: a horse show, so I can't go, but can we
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Speaker 1: please go next month? Can we go to Aspen? Yes?
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Speaker 1: I ask? One is our favorite. The last time we went,
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Speaker 1: we left the sunroof open in the car and the
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Speaker 1: entire car filled with snow so car. But don't worry.
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Speaker 1: We were covered nastally didn't notice a thing, but we
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Speaker 1: promised to keep you guys apprised on all of our
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Speaker 1: future travels. You know, I can't help myself for an
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Speaker 1: instant story on all Right, Well we're not going this weekend,
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Speaker 1: but yeah, we'll do it. Check in you know how
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Speaker 1: we do. But thanks you guys for tuning in, and
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Speaker 1: thank you so much Kyle for being here today. I
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Speaker 1: really appreciate it. Thank you, Bay guys. I'll tell out
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Speaker 1: to you next week. If you have any questions, please
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