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EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: Kandi Burruss Breaks Silence on Divorce Settlement · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
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  Speaker 1: and everybody.
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  Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that? Right, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: y'all with up.
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  Speaker 1: It's Laura Rosa and this is another episode of the
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  Speaker 1: Latest with Lauren Rosa. This is your daily digg on
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  Speaker 1: all things pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the
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  Speaker 1: conversations that shake the room. Baby now today joining us
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  Speaker 1: here for the Latest is you know, honestly, I would
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  Speaker 1: say she is the latest news, but I mean you
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Candy Burns has been.
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  Speaker 2: You've literally been the topic.
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  Speaker 3: Of discussion in so many different ways my like full life.
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  Speaker 1: I was thinking about this as I was preparing, like
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  Speaker 1: I've never I've never not known since I've been working
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  Speaker 1: in entertainment, I've never had a year where I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Pitching news stories. I'm comfort news or breaking exclusives.
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  Speaker 1: And Candy was not one of the artists that the
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  Speaker 1: outlet or the newsroom care for, Like I literally never,
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  Speaker 1: You've always been in the cycle.
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  Speaker 3: How does that feel?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes it's a good thing, sometimes it's a
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  Speaker 4: bad thing.
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  Speaker 2: So I guess, you know, I guess it's good. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I got what they say.
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  Speaker 4: I ain't nobody talking about you, then you ain't doing
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  Speaker 4: nothing so exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess we could get right on
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  Speaker 3: into it. Today.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, there was news that broke that your divorce from
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  Speaker 1: Todd was finalized.
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  Speaker 3: So how are you today?
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  Speaker 1: I've seen interviews where you said some days you're up,
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  Speaker 1: some days you're down. How are you feeling today with
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  Speaker 1: you know, the find the news hitting today.
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  Speaker 2: I'm okay.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it was a little weird for me, you know,
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  Speaker 4: when my lawyer hit me and said it was final
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  Speaker 4: I was like, it feels awkward, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: It's kind of strange because it's like, you know, we've
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  Speaker 4: been married for over ten years now and we're still
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  Speaker 4: you know, communicating.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: So it just feels weird that, you know, like we're
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  Speaker 4: really not together, I guess, and that I'm not like
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  Speaker 4: planning for the future no more.
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  Speaker 2: It's like crazy, what.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to back up a bit before we
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  Speaker 1: get into the settlement that has you know, been discussed
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  Speaker 1: in the news, because that has also been a very
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  Speaker 1: big part of what we know about Candy for a
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  Speaker 1: lot of the time, right from Real Housewives to you know,
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  Speaker 1: candy coded nights, to your businesses, to your beautiful family.
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  Speaker 1: Todd has always been a part of that conversation with you,
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  Speaker 1: how did we get here?
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  Speaker 2: Like I haven't seen you say.
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  Speaker 1: I saw you say, like there was an event that happened,
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  Speaker 1: but like I to this day, I'm still like, what
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  Speaker 1: the hell happened?
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  Speaker 2: Brands?
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  Speaker 4: You know what I will say is I'll discuss more
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  Speaker 4: about it and the one woman show that I'm doing
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  Speaker 4: and that I do, I did, I don't. I'm definitely
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  Speaker 4: gonna address it there, Like I don't want to give
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  Speaker 4: away too much now as far as like the details
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  Speaker 4: of that, you know what I mean. Obviously there are
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  Speaker 4: certain things that came of our divorce I guess in
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  Speaker 4: the day or yesterday that was more public. But like
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  Speaker 4: my personal feelings and why how I got to this point,
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna share that in that moment because I kind
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  Speaker 4: of feel like me I'm always doing, like the way
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  Speaker 4: I vent, I always vent creatively, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 4: whether it's through some of.
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  Speaker 2: The songs I wrote, you know that I've used.
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  Speaker 4: The event passed frustrations or relationships or you know, maybe
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  Speaker 4: some of the times well even like when I did
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  Speaker 4: a Mother's Love play, you know, that was what was
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  Speaker 4: going on at time, or the Dungeon tour that was
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  Speaker 4: you know, the event team from a situation that happened.
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  Speaker 4: So I always vent creatively, So I want to say
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  Speaker 4: that for that experience I'm putting together.
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  Speaker 1: So when it comes to like the settlement itself, I
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  Speaker 1: know you said that you were fighting to keep all
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  Speaker 1: of the seals, so y'all don't have to end answer
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  Speaker 1: to media or not even that you've got an answer to,
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  Speaker 1: but just so.
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  Speaker 2: We wouldn't know everything right.
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  Speaker 3: Like why would the other side, why would tie side
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  Speaker 3: not want it to be sealed?
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't understand it for a minute, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean?
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  Speaker 4: But I think you know the way he explained it
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  Speaker 4: to me was that he wanted it to be clear,
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  Speaker 4: like he wasn't trying to take me for everything I
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  Speaker 4: had or something like that, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know what I mean, because I think you know, obviously
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  Speaker 2: that is the narrative.
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  Speaker 4: You know, always, you know, people always want to like
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  Speaker 4: as far as even when our relationship the whole time
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  Speaker 4: we've been together is like.
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  Speaker 2: That's the narrative, you know what I mean? And although
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  Speaker 2: you know there were things you.
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  Speaker 4: Know that were I guess said as I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to say threats, but as you know,
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  Speaker 4: possibilities of things that could happen when they were first
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  Speaker 4: violent things.
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  Speaker 2: That was never him fighting a prenup.
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  Speaker 4: Was never a conversation they had with me, or never
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  Speaker 4: a conversation that was had with my attorney. So I
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  Speaker 4: think overall, I guess at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 4: when it was all said and done, I wanted I
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  Speaker 4: guess he just felt like he wanted it to be clear,
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  Speaker 4: like you know, he didn't try.
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  Speaker 1: To make anything financially for what I mean, there is
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  Speaker 1: there So in this settlement, there's a lump sum.
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  Speaker 3: It's a little bit over four hundred thousand dollars, and
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  Speaker 3: then there's like you guys split up cards and real estate.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't mention anything about your businesses.
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  Speaker 2: But so.
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  Speaker 1: How do you guys then get to that? So we
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  Speaker 1: saw this was this was hard, right. It was like
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  Speaker 1: in real life. I'm watching you guys, and I saw
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  Speaker 1: he came over, not came over. I mean, it's your
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  Speaker 1: child's father, your children's father. I saw you guys were
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  Speaker 1: together for the holidays. I saw when you posted your
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  Speaker 1: one woman show he jokingly supported that and said, you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I saint done laugh all out support my girl, right like,
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  Speaker 1: But then when the docs are filed, it seems like
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  Speaker 1: there's an argument about, you know, custody and how that
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  Speaker 1: works in the settlement. It seems like you guys are
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  Speaker 1: fifty to fifty down the middle, but there's an argument
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  Speaker 1: about custody. It seems like there was an argument about
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  Speaker 1: you know what about there.
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  Speaker 2: Well, at the end of the day, I mean.
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  Speaker 4: As far as our custody is gonna we are joint custody.
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  Speaker 4: You know, everybody said they tried to report something else
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  Speaker 4: last week, which was not true. Okay, like we would
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  Speaker 4: still be in court that was if it was anything else.
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  Speaker 2: Let me just say that.
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  Speaker 4: That's it was confusing because people were reporting lies last week, gotcha, okay,
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  Speaker 4: And so that was I think that was That's also
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  Speaker 4: a thing for me that was so frustrating through this
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  Speaker 4: whole process. It's like whenever anything is open, it leads
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  Speaker 4: it to people's interpretation. And you got bloggers who really
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  Speaker 4: want to just be the first to report a story,
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  Speaker 4: so they'll just say anything.
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  Speaker 2: Without without any type of real information.
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  Speaker 4: They'll make up stuff and go to the public, and
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  Speaker 4: people be so quick to want to be first to
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  Speaker 4: post that they'll just run with whatever they heard. Now,
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  Speaker 4: what was actually reporting in the filing at the end
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  Speaker 4: of the day, the final thing that is what is real.
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  Speaker 2: Like all that other stuff, it's fake news.
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  Speaker 4: As they say, we are joint you know, everything is
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  Speaker 4: split evenly, even when it comes to the financial part
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  Speaker 4: of it. We had properties together that we had to
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  Speaker 4: split equally, and you know, you know, basically it's just
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  Speaker 4: so we just have to end up with equal equity.
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  Speaker 4: And so you know, as far as like I mean,
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  Speaker 4: I guess it said who got we properties? You know,
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  Speaker 4: if I ended up with one more, I just had
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  Speaker 4: to pay the difference up.
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  Speaker 2: So we are still equal in what we got.
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  Speaker 4: It's just because I ended up with more on the
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  Speaker 4: property side, then I just pay the different stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So it's not like I had to pay him. You
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  Speaker 2: get know what I'm saying, I got you what was
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  Speaker 2: that but that?
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, but in the settlement, from what T
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  Speaker 1: I'm going off for what T and D is reporting,
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  Speaker 1: and from what they're reporting, they're reporting a number. I
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  Speaker 1: believe it's like four hundred, four hundred twenty six thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is, if you read the whole thing,
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  Speaker 4: which I guess it's open to the public, we we
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  Speaker 4: have to be equal in the equity that we have
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  Speaker 4: in the properties that we own together.
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  Speaker 3: Got you okay, So that's separate.
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  Speaker 4: We have to be equal and what we both take
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  Speaker 4: out of the properties. So if I if we didn't
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  Speaker 4: sell the properties and we just did it based off well,
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna take these two, you take whatever, but my
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  Speaker 4: properties may be worth more than I have to pay
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  Speaker 4: the difference so that we're both still equal.
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  Speaker 2: Got to do.
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  Speaker 1: And then when you talk about like you talk about
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  Speaker 1: like people reporting things right.
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  Speaker 3: I noticed that adventure at first because I was watching
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  Speaker 3: you You're.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna Get your Amazon Live show that you do, and
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  Speaker 1: you you were very much like you just didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to talk about it at the time, but the fans
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  Speaker 1: were there, they were asking questions in the comments, and
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  Speaker 1: you didn't get into it. But then you kind of
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  Speaker 1: started to, you know, talk a bit more, and I
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  Speaker 1: know you said it was because things were being reported wrong.
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  Speaker 3: What was like the craziest thing that.
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  Speaker 1: You saw throughout this whole time where you were like,
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  Speaker 1: this is the dumb shit like this is why I.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't want to end up here in the first place.
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  Speaker 3: Like what was the craziest thing you saw?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 2: It was so much crazy stuff.
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  Speaker 4: Like I said, you know, overall, I'm gonna I will
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  Speaker 4: even address some of them bloggers in that one woman.
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  Speaker 2: Show that I'm dying.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, yes, but I, like I said, I'm really
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  Speaker 4: gonna put it all into that show. So you know,
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  Speaker 4: we're gonna take it to multiple cities and people will
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  Speaker 4: be able to see for themselves. But I mean, just still,
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  Speaker 4: you know, just in fairness to speak on what is
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  Speaker 4: factual that you just saw, Yeah, I mean, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, and the difference of this week and last week.
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  Speaker 2: You know, last week they saying that they were saying
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  Speaker 2: I was paying two million dollars. You know, you commented
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  Speaker 2: on that.
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  Speaker 1: I saw you commented on that one, right, was that
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  Speaker 1: the one you commented on You commented on something and
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  Speaker 1: was like this is not true, or you came out
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  Speaker 1: and mentioned like maybe that was I saw your interview.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I did. Maybe I did it on one. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know who's there's so many people reported it. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I was so annoyed, and in fairness, he was annoyed too,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't like I was the only one annoyed. We
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  Speaker 2: both were annoyed that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, that's what people were running with because it
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  Speaker 4: was just like totally made up, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: But throughout the situation, you know, people, it was one time,
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  Speaker 4: like I had said something about it was like an
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  Speaker 4: AI video, an AI of my voice talking like if
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  Speaker 4: it was a statement I was making, and they was
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  Speaker 4: like flashing pictures of us together and.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, whoa, Like it really sounded like me,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: So I had think I posted like I think I
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  Speaker 4: said something about how like I was so frustrated with this.
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  Speaker 2: Whole AI thing.
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  Speaker 4: And it's so crazy to me how people will be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: well you the one that's talking about and I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's such a catch twenty two situation because if you don't.
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  Speaker 2: Say anything, then like if one blot reports it, then
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  Speaker 2: all of them pick it up and it's everywhere. You know, my.
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  Speaker 3: Mama and I have to answer to my mama, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: My Mama's like why these people saying and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, soney, she you have to answer to her.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, right, but I'm just saying it's like she's been
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  Speaker 4: supportive thro this situation. Say that, but it's just kind
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  Speaker 4: of like it's a catch twenty two. So if you
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  Speaker 4: don't really reply, then you know, people are spreading.
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  Speaker 2: The wrong narrative. And then if you do, then it's just.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of like then people like, oh, why she always
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  Speaker 4: gotta feel like she gotta respond, And then it's just like,
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  Speaker 4: you know what, I can't win.
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  Speaker 2: For losing in the situation.
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  Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, we're you know,
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  Speaker 4: we're gonna try to still come away from this situation
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  Speaker 4: and be the best co parents that we could be,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: It's like we had our personal.
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  Speaker 4: Drama, which you know, obviously that wasn't as public because
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  Speaker 4: neither one of us really spoke on the details of that.
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  Speaker 3: But.
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  Speaker 4: Just publicly, you know, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 4: we're still going to try to be cool, still do things,
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  Speaker 4: you know, with our kids together, you know, because we
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  Speaker 4: want our kids to be happy, you know, we still
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  Speaker 4: want them to feel connected on both sides.
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  Speaker 2: You know, what is that for you?
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  Speaker 1: For both of you guys, emotionally, don't because like you said,
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  Speaker 1: you you were talking about as recent as I mean
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  Speaker 1: as soon as spring break.
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  Speaker 3: That's in a couple of weeks, right on our anniversary. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: So how does Todd and Candy, who have been this
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  Speaker 3: unit through.
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  Speaker 1: Good, bad, up, down, left right for all of these years,
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  Speaker 1: just casually get together and do spring break with the
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  Speaker 1: kids and then not being in a emotional rollercoaster, even
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  Speaker 1: if behind the closed doors away.
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  Speaker 2: From the kids.
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  Speaker 4: Realistically, we're still figuring it out. Like that's all I
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  Speaker 4: can say because I don't really have an answer on that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so how does it work now with like cause
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  Speaker 1: you know, there was a whole guest house living in
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  Speaker 1: the guest house conversation. He needed to leave the guest house,
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  Speaker 1: and they said Candy was up there evicted people. That's
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  Speaker 1: how they were reporting the documents and seeing out.
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  Speaker 2: Once again.
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  Speaker 4: I'm definitely gonna have to a dress. I will address
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  Speaker 4: all of that in my one woman show.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, it's just kind of like it is
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  Speaker 2: what it is, you know.
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  Speaker 4: I think for me, it was like, Okay, it's a
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  Speaker 4: gradual separation, okay, meaning't like you know you mad. So
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  Speaker 4: you know it's like you as a woman. You know
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  Speaker 4: a lot of women just first off, like get out,
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  Speaker 4: da da, da take out, you know all that stuff, right,
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  Speaker 4: But then on the other side of that coin is like,
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  Speaker 4: I got kids, So how do we do this in
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  Speaker 4: a way to where it's not a drastic change for them? So,
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  Speaker 4: you know, figuring all that stuff out is you know,
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  Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to say that. You know,
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  Speaker 4: we know all the right things to do, just like
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  Speaker 4: anybody that's going through a divorce. Well, now our divorce
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  Speaker 4: is final, but like anybody that's going through a divorce,
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  Speaker 4: that was something that we were trying to figure out
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  Speaker 4: what's the best way to go about it, and that
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  Speaker 4: was just the way we went about it.
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  Speaker 1: Have you had conversations with I know your kids are young,
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  Speaker 1: Ace Blades, you know, another young, but like, have you
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  Speaker 1: had conversations with them yet or you guys have started
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  Speaker 1: to at all about kind of what that would look like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because it will be so different for them.
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  Speaker 4: Todd and I are gonna be discussing that. How we're
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  Speaker 4: gonna do the talk, like you know, how to navigate
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  Speaker 4: next steps basically.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: Like I said, we don't really we don't know the
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  Speaker 4: perfect way to go about it. We're in the process
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  Speaker 4: of figuring out, like even this conversation right now would be.
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  Speaker 2: You as way too, SOILK you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: At any time, if you feel like this is triggering
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  Speaker 1: for you, we can definitely stop down. You know, it's
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  Speaker 1: no pressure, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I don't you know, I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 2: not like that, but yeah it is.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I guess, yeah, it would be kind of
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  Speaker 4: triggering that points, you know what I'm saying. So yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I mean I don't want to keep going deep into it.
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  Speaker 4: I think I said pretty much what I needed to
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  Speaker 4: say about the situation is like at the end of
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  Speaker 4: the day, and I are definitely trying to figure this
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  Speaker 4: out overall. You know, I personally wouldn't have wanted every
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  Speaker 4: single thing to play out in front of the public
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  Speaker 4: the way it did.
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  Speaker 2: But it is what it is. I mean, I don't
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  Speaker 2: really know how. I don't know how we could have
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  Speaker 2: done it differently.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you can't harp on that though at
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  Speaker 1: this one, you know, y'all here you just gotta like
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  Speaker 1: keep yourself together. I just feel for you because I
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: started the interview with talking about you know, how much
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: of a topic and a conversation you your life, your businesses,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: your marriage, your family has been for all of these
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: decades to kind of, you know, get back here at
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: the end of it, to say, I think a lot
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: of us feel for you.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: I feel for both of y'all because we watched both
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: of you guys together. Because it is so public and
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: everyone's so attached to.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Your life, and this is something that if you could choose,
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you would want people to disattach and you
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: can kind of just go through it. But we've everyone's
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: been so attached for so long, so there's like there's
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: probably a whole nother layer of like, oh my god,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: you know, like you gotta get up, like everybody just
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: it's just it's a lot. It's a lot of noise,
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: a lot of people.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: So you know, I understand it.
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: I mean, that's what somebody said to me, and they
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: were like, Candy, you know, everybody's been watching your journey
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: the whole time. So yes, you know, you can't feel
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: away because everybody you know, want to is invested.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm like true. So with that being said,
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm not you know, I'm not overly.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: You know, upset or anything. It's just like it is
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: upsetting when you're going through something and then you know
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: people like taking information and making up.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Stuff, and like I said, for me, I'll just be
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: feeling like, well, what was the point in making that up?
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: Like it's just to me, it's not like it was
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: so they could be the first to report something because
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: clearly at the time they were seeing that stuff last week.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Just to use that part as an example, because it's
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: been stuff seid the whole time. This was the twenty
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: dollars thing, yeah, that and the child support.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: All that, like we don't even we're not even doing
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: child support. But it's just like our stuff haven't hadn't
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: even been filed. The final thing hadn't even filed with
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: the court, and they was reporting that the day before.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: So it's just like, huh, where you getting this wrong?
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: What you're reading off of?
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: When I saw the final settlement, I was like, this
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: is so different than what I thought. Because I'm like
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: everybody else, you know, and I'm trying to like talk
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: directly to you, but you know, I respect if y'all
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: are like not right now. I respect that, but try
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: and do as much as I can to kind of
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: see through the noise.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I was so confused.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, the settlement seems like very amlicable
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: and like fair in fifty to fifty, But everything leading
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: up to this point, it was like is it not?
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Like are they like we were? It was being reported
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: all over the place, so I was very confused. Like,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: but I did see the fields too, because when I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: saw I saw no stous of support, no child support.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: It was a fifty fifty split on the custody. I'm like,
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: that sounds like.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: They both came together and were adults and y'all, y'all good,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: y'all are good enough at least to understand what needs
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: to be done.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think overall, you know, out of respect to
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: the marriage, I would say that, you know, he and
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: I we did some great things together, you know what
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: I'm saying. We had some great success together.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: So with that being said, like for us, we need
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: to just split that, you know what I mean? And
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: I know, and I feel.
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: Like some people just wanted it, Like some people just
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: wanted him to go for everything I had in life.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Some people wanted all of that to happen.
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean, realistically it was that was never
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: a conversation, you know what I mean, And yeah, that's
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: all I mean, that's all I'll say about that for now.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: I mean, do we have disagreements about certain things? Well,
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: probably one thing that was like really going back and
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: forth about.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: But I mean overall, I can't tell us that that's
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: gonna be in the One Woman Show too.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Yup, it's gonna be. I'm sorry to do it like that,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: but like overall, like you know, I didn't really even like.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: Plan to even talk about it more prior to them.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: But obviously, to be.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: Fair, you didn't plan the divorce either. I saw you
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: say you you were planning for the rest of your life.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: This case you did not.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: This wasn't It's not like there were things that just
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: got here. You were not planning for this at all
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: this time last year.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: So now this time last year that that was the
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: last thing on my mind, Like this time last year,
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: we was living our best life, planning our future. Like yeah,
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: so that's when you ask me, how do I feel
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: about it? I think about, dang, in one year, how
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: my life has changed, you know.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's triggering.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: So with that, I don't want to talk about it
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: all right, Well, I appreciate you for joining me.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I do hope you guys take it to other cities
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: because I know.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: You're doing it and you're doing your one woman showing
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Atlanta at the City Winery.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: It's yeah already though, right are you adding more night?
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: It already saw that, but we are adding more dates,
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: so I would say everybody be on the lookout.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I am having more.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Dates for that right now. I'm super excited. It's it's
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: gonna be so good, a y'all. I can't wait for
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: you to see it. But adding more dates to I do?
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: I did, I'm don't Monday. The production that I'm producing
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: on August Wilson's in August Wilson's Joe Turners, to Come
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: and Gone starring Taraji p Henson, Centrity.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: And to Turn In direct Dubai Debbie Allen, and that
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: starts on Monday. So that's going on?
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Is that Broadway?
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, because she can't start.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: Showman was telling us about the new show that she
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: was doing.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: She remember that. Yeah, okay, I got a couple less
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: to have her as the director. I'm a producer on that,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: So are you gonna be at the shows in New
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: York too? While it's happening, or do you kind of
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: produce it.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, as a producer, I don't have to be at
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: every show.
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: So I'll come to some of them, but yeah, I
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: don't have to be at all of them.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: They ain't the same as being in it. Shout out
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: to Saraji and Sidric. I'm I'm gonna be there. But yeah,
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: so that and then also the Next Move meet up
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: is what I'm doing with.
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: It's like people who about their business, you don't want
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: to talk about more about opportunities and and and how
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: to just take things on their next move.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Shoot, hell, I'm one of those. When you were here
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: in New York, didn't you the Next Move met up? No?
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: Well I did it virtually.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw something.
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: We are We may possibly do that in other cities,
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: but virtually we're gonna be meet up every month. I
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: was like, realistically, all this stuff talking about divorce, we
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: might have to have a meetup on how to.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: Protect yourself and all those different things too. You know
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: what I mean?
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: The girls, Okay, this is this is it's it's very
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: unfortunate to have to watch you guys go through this.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: But I think a lot of people are also watching
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: you too, because we've always known you to be a
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: woman about her business, like you know, like that's you've
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: been that way for so long, So watching you kind
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: of navigate the space, not even just like protecting your money,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: but of course that are protecting yourself, not to make
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: him the enemy, but more so just like how you've
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: been carrying it, Like even when you have conversations about it,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: it's still very much like it's you, it's your truth,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: but it's very respectful the situation. And you know, I
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: think that's definitely something that people that are going through
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: the situation is going to watch and be like, you know,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: this is why we love candy so well.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: Overall, what I will say, what I can say that
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: you ain't got to worry about waiting to say, is
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: that you.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Know, realistically, I would love.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: For us all to be mature about how we handle breakups,
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: At the end of the day, it's like, obviously.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: As business women, as businessmen, you gotta protect yourself.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: That's straight up, right off the top.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell anybody that protect yourself right off
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: the rip because that kind of limits the conversation of
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: what we got a debate about you get what I'm saying.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: And then also it's like try to be even if
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: you have personal fallouts, especially if you have kids, like
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: we got grown kids, a little kids, you know what
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: I mean, So we gotta be we gotta be respectful
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: of how we handle it because all our kids, we
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: want to they're all sisters and brothers that we want
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: them to still feel like connected, still like feel like family,
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: and we don't want our drama to spill over into
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: how they're feeling.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: You know, that's true.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: So you know, I just I would say to anybody
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: that's going through a breakup or divorce, whatever it may be,
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: try to be very mature on how you move you
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, because at the end of the day, that's.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: Affecting your kids. So yeah, I might be mad, right,
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: I might be active.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: Full of at times, but they don't ever need to
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: see They never need to see that, you know, or
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: and it shouldn't affect them. So that's how I'm move
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: in and I hope you know, if anybody takes something
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: from the situation looking out from the outside looking in,
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: I would say take that.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: One more, one more question, because I didn't even think
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: about Kayla and am I saying Kayla's name right? Yea,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Kayla and Riley? Right, because yeah, like the older not
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: being babies, your older daughters. They're out in the world.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: You know, Riley has her show, they're on social media,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: they're doing press for certain things.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: On the carpet.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, like that's a whole different other side of
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: it because they're you can't even hide anything at that
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: point because they're in the world themselves. So when these
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: reports and those things are happening, like, I mean, I'll
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: take it all the way back to the very beginning
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: when things are being reported. There was the report of infidelity, right,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: and you have your two older women, not women, but
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess do you consider them women yet?
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Like are you considered them? They're women to the world.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: They still out there, but you know how that goes.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But okay, so you have your two girls who
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: that's a different conversation for them with dad and for
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: them with mom and like whether it's true or.
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Not, how that has to be like even.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: More challenging than trying to figure out the conversation with
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: the babies because you don't have a choice.
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: It kind of is like out there for them. Yeah,
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: I don't really know.
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: What Todd's conversation was with our older daughters really realistically,
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: but I know overall, I just try to just say, hey, y'all,
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: you know, we don't want y'all to feel effective about
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: what's going on with us. You know, let's you know,
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: let's try to move forward, and we got to still,
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: you know, be respectful of each other, and it's gonna
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: be fine.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Let us deal with it, you know what I mean. Yeah, so.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, look, keep me posted on the dates I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: want to come to the show so I can be
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: I want you to come.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we tried to put one together in New York too,
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: so the dates will be coming very soon. I did.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: And I know you mentioned when you add more dates
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: for the people to look out. Where do they look at?
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, of course they're following they're following you on
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: on socials, but there's their website for THEE one Woman Show.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Where do do you have a personal site?
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: I do have a personal site. It's candy dot com
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: ka n d I dot com. But also, you know,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: follow me on all.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: Socials and I'll be telling people to text me on
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: my phone number because I always text my text family first,
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: and that is easy. You could just text me at
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: four zero four or four five eight nine four six
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: four four zero four four five eight nine four six
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: four and I always send them the text witness come
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: in to let them know. Like I told my text group,
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: like I would say my text family. Ill, I told
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: them like two days before the tickets went on sale
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: that it was gonna be a one woman show coming.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: So maybe that's why the tickets went so quick.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, cause I'm like, dang, we ain't even have a
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: shy well.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: I didn't even post it.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: I just sent it to my text family first and
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: then Facebook, and I didn't even post it like on Instagram.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: And oh but I mean, I think the budget, you know,
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: the people are locked in. It's just that.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Too, y'all. Y'all got understand.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: I feel like I appreciate the love, but you gotta
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: understand sometimes when you're really going through something, it'd.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: Be a lot of negativity and a lot of hate
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: to be online, and you know, and and then you see.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: Like when something's negative posted, it seemed like some people
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: get excited about that. Like some people really was like
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: out here acting like they was excited that they thought that,
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: oh he gonna.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Do this, he gonna do that. It is said you
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: what where to who? Yeah? But anyway, let me say
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: much love to side.
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm so glad that this little part
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: is done because I feel like he and I are
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: really gonna be the.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Best of co parents and we were gonna be cool.
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: Like I I'm really a chill person and he is too,
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: So I feel like we're gonna be cool, especially now
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: that everything.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Is you know, is what it is, you.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Know what I mean, And it's like no emotion, we
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: never so we're not gonna see y'all, like, there's no
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: doubling back.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: It's just it's done, just co parenting.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Like I'm such guitarist, gotcha hurt.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know what that means,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: that means when you're locked in, you're locked in and
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: when you are done, baby, that person has never existed,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: well besides.
• 30:31
  Speaker 4: Hearing normally it's like that, yeah, they never existed, But
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: in this situation, you know, because you know, we're still
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: going to be connected life, so you know, we're always
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: going to be friends, We're always gonna be communicating, We're
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: always going to be good right, you know on that,
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: but no spending the block, y'all.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's not going to happen. Well, I thank you
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: for joining me.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: I know you got a lot going on right now,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: and I'm probably last person you wanted to, you know,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: hear from right now.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Like what are we doing?
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: I appreciate it, And look, this is just me trying
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: to make sure we have.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: All correct information.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: And I appreciate the record club on the podcast, like
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I try my hardest, yo, people will.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Be like you always No, I'm just trying to make
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: sure I got it right.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: I appreciate for.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: The people who really was really trying not to just
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: report anything about our situation. I appreciate y'all, and I'm
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: thankful for that because I thought it probably was hard
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: because I'm like some people just doing it just to
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: get clicks and you know, they.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Don't care what they say about us.
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: But the people who really kind of like you know what,
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: I'm not really finna say anything until we have real information.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Well, We've always hold you down and you gotta come.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: When you add the more dates, make sure you gotta
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: come to the show. They want you to come in
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: the studio, so.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: You know, yeah, we will talk to you soon.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Appreciate you, y'all.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: This has been another episode of the Latest with One
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: and the Girls.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I tell you, guys, every single episode, y'all could be
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: anywhere with any old body talking about over the things,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: but y'all choose to be right here with me. And
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you, guys, My low Riders. Candy, you know
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I always appreciate you, and you're joining the conversation and
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: just you just being so nice to me.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: You don't know me from a campaign, but you've always
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: been so nice to me. Appreciate that as well.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: So thanks for joining and I'll see you next time.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: So thanks.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: So this has been another episode of the Latest with
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: Laura Rosa. I am your host, Laura Rosa.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: I tell you, guys, every episode, y'all could be anywhere
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: with anybody.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Talking about all of these things, that y'all choose to
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: be right here with me, my low Riders.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all.